How to Put an Idea in Someone’sHead
(and make them want to do it)
The Rules for Implanting an Idea
1.remember that your state transmits, you must be in control of your state2.you must build rapport and trust3.it's your job to make them want to listen4.remember that people are in a trance most of the time, so use that fact5.use embedded commands6.just tell them to do it7.make the person laugh and talk about doing it -anchor humour (appeal to inner child)8.frame the thing as good and positive and helpful to them (appeal to selfishness)9.to be evil you must make not doing seem wrong or damaging (appeal toscarcity/fear)10.don't rush and use fractination effect
A META RULE
A point about karma, social intelligence and positive intent.Thou shalt not...use these techniques for anything sleazy and/or malicious.Thou shall...have and use “Social Intelligence “ at all times.You know how we say that with “Violent Intent” in fighting you can make up for poor techniques and attributes, but that without “Violent Intent” even great techniques andattributes will fail?To put that into something more tangible: the house wife who defends herself and her kidsagainst hardened criminals by picking up anything to hand and going berserk attacking theattackers (there are stories of untrained women killing, maiming, removing the importantparts of attackers).
Versus the gym junky dojo ninja “all the gear and no idea” man who looks awesome and isgreat in the gym but is scared shitless in the street and goes to pieces when a gang of teenagers steal his lunch.House wife has no training but bags of violent intent is more dangerous thana Gym ninja has loads of training but zero violent intent.Got it? :)Same in Psychology :WITH “social intelligence” all these good techniques are workable, even half understoodtechniques are workable and certainly zero technique but just “making it up as you goalong” is definitely workable (to some degree). That is as long as you have “socialintelligence”.BUT WITHOUT “social intelligence” NO psychological “techniques” will work. Ever. Noteven a little bit.from wikipedia“
Social intelligence
describes the exclusively human capacity to use very large brains toeffectively navigate and negotiate complex social relationships and environments.”There are some people who frequently upset other people without meaning to, or findthemselves being bewilderingly excluded socially... its most likely this is because they lack“social intelligence”. These techniques won't work for people like that.Having a “positive intention” actually is not enough, you need to develop an ability to knowwhen it is appropriate to speak, how to speak and what to say. This is an intuitive skill thatcan only be built over time with a lot of mindful exposure to social interaction and awillingness to learn.Ahem... NOT by reading books alone in your room. This is the gap between theory andpractise and by this I mean you MUST take this dry academic theory and put it into“practise” by practising until you get good at it.
This is a very quick overview
of how to do a “real world inception” and influence apersons thoughts, feelings and behaviours to get them to do something that they wouldn’tnormally do... and make them WANT to do it.If you want a more in depth guide of doing this, write to me and I will do one, but willprobably charge something for it. THIS GUIDE IS FREE... if someone charged you for itwrite to merichie@streetfightsecrets.com
HOW TO CREATE AN INCEPTION OF AN IDEA
remember that your state transmits, you must be in control of your state
No martial artist, self protection practitioner, security professional, LEO, therapist, publicspeaker, actor, performer or PUA worth their salt will lack an exquisite ability to control their state – controlling your state starts with AWARENESS of your state : your state is your emotional and psychological condition in the here and now – you can control it by alteringyour physiology, your internal dialogue, your internal representations and beliefs – theseare just 4 of the most powerful immediate ways that don’t require anything external... whatare other ways you or others use to control their state? If you want more info on this just letme know. There are multiple ways of controlling your state, you must become adept atthem.If you want to influence someone you MUST be in control of your state. Your statetransmits. If you want someone to feel something YOU must feel it FIRST.It's also the fastest and most natural way of elicting that state. Try this: go into any stateand start talking to someone, notice that their state automatically and unconsciously altersto match yours? Google “contact high” if you are interested in learning more about thiseffect
you MUST build rapport and trust
In the same way that you MUST have social intelligence to make a psychological influencetechnique work for you, you MUST already have a good degree of rapport and trust withthe person for the influence to work. No exceptions. If you don’t know how to do this I canshow you, just ask (remember this is just a freebie book to introduce you to the concept).y
ou MUST make them WANT to listen
This is not the semi or un conscious communication style we normally robotically spew outdaily, this is a performance; whilst you don't need to measure every word, gesture andinflection neurotically, you DO need to be mindful.Being over-controlled will make you seem stilted and unnatural and you will activate the“Target”s defense mechanism meaning you will have to go back and rebuild the trust.Be natural, but be mindful. Practise makes perfect.
People are already in a trance
Some people, even so called “qualified hypnotherapists” get quite uptight about thisassertion, some find the even find the notion outright offensive that their knickers get allbunched up about it. They go so deeply into a trance of “righteous indignation” that witheach huff and puff of frustrated rage they go deeper and prove my point ever moreadequately in fact.I’m only joking.Or am I?I'm not going to argue the point, accept it or let it go. People do not need to be put into
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