New Zealand Sociology Volume 26 Issue 1 2011
in that other person. This is what happens in Facebook. Very rarely do userscreate a profile and not add any friends. The purpose of our existence on the siteis to exist for these others. In Facebook this intersubjectivity is staged from thevery beginning via the mutually recognising pact of inviting/accepting a friendrequest. Becoming a friend always requires the mutual recognition of eachother, by another. This begins the process wherein our Facebook profile, or ego,can be further recognised through profile details, photos and the shared area of the profile called “The Wall”.For dialectical recognition, the existential question at the heart of subjectivity is not “Who am I?” but “Who am I to others? What do yousee/want in me?” or “Che vuoi?” (Žižek, 1989, p.95). This is very much thequestion of the decentred subject; that what constitutes my being is locatedoutside of me. By bringing the self into contact with the other, Facebook isembodying this fundamental psychoanalytical insight introduced by Freud andmuch elaborated since. This is not a self that is a closed system, but a self thatincorporates elements of the world, including others, in its internalrepresentations of itself. This is highly visible in a literal way in Facebook,where the other can interject elements directly into your profile by, for example,posting photos and tagging (identifying) you in them, and writing on your Wall.More subtly it is present in the way in which Facebook profiles are orientatedtowards the gaze of others, in ways that seek to capture the recognition anddesire of the other. Imaginary identification, as Žižek says, is alwaysidentification on behalf of a certain gaze of the other (1989, p.117).An examination of Zhao et. al’s (2008) empirical study of the content of 63 Facebook accounts that follows reveals how profiles on the Facebook sitefail to represent conscious and unconscious subjects in all their complexity but,like the ego ideal, are objects from and outside of ourselves. These ego idealsare who, and what, users identify with. Zhao et al talk in the socialconstructivist vernacular about these ego ideals as socially desirable “hoped-forpossible” selves and identify three broadly used Facebook profile types (2008,p.1821).The first Facebook ego ideal is the “popular with friends” profile whichexplicitly reveals its recognition by the other through the display of photos,particularly the predominant profile picture, which show the self together withothers (Zhao, Grasmuck, & Martin, 2008, p.1827). Generally these photos willshow how the user is having fun, as if the superego is commanding them with
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