The Best of Change Your Thoughts - Volume 2 | Steven Aitchison
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Introduction
Dear friendThank you for downloading this eBook, I hope you will gain some usefulinsights from the many articles and the guest authors we have for you.As you know my name is Steven Aitchison and I am the author of ChangeYour Thoughts blog, the biggest Personal Development blog in the UK.This is the 2nd volume of the best of CYT. The blog has now beenrunning for over 3 years and has built up a fantastic group of readers anda loyal group of writers.I would like to thank all the bloggers who are doing it for the readers anddoing it for themselves, this is only the draft copy so will thank specificpeople in the final version.Would you like to hire Steven Aitchison for your blog or magazine?
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If you wish to be part of an event for the beginning of 2010 which will see me give up my day job, once andfor all, and bring in some big publicity for people whohire me, limited to 100 spaces, then please contact meenquiries@stevenaitchison.co.uk The project is called:
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You Are a Failure – A Letter To You
When you read the heading, how did it make you feel? did it make you feelanything? did you get angry? upset?Believe it or not that’s how a lot of people feel, no matter what theyachieve in life, they feel as if it’s never enough. They feel everything theyhave done ends in failure; their relationships, academia, work, fatherhood,motherhood etc they take it all and see it as a failure. I have dealt withclients so many times who have been able to rhyme off all their failures,and it seems to give them a sense of satisfaction at being able to list somany, that’s because they have gone over it so much in their heads.I can empathize with the person who is suffering this, I have been there,we’ve all been there at some point, it might not have been as prolongedbut we’ve still been there. The problem is when the person puts the blameon someone else, usually a failed marriage, a bad childhood, events thathave happened in the past etc.If you are one of these people, I really do know where you are comingfrom, but:
Now Is The Time To Take Responsibility
The time to start is now. It’s time to say, yes shitty things have happenedto me, yes I had a shit childhood, yes I was bullied as a child. It’s great toown that, and say it happened to you, but it’s also time to let go.Give yourself a break from analyzing the past, stop living there. Comeback to the present and show everybody who you are today, not who youwere yesterday. You are so much more than what happened to you. Thevery fact that you are with us today and reading this, whether you feel
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