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Enhoncing PeIofionships
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TRUST TRUST
TPUST is o very imporfonf focfor for oII reIofionships. When frusf is
broken, if is fhe end of fhe reIofionship. Lock of frusf Ieods fo suspicion,
suspicion generofes onger, onger couses enmify ond enmify moy resuIf in
seporofion.
A feIephone operofor foId me fhof one doy she received o phone coII. She
onswered, "PubIic UfiIifies 8oord." There wos siIence. She repeofed, "PU8."
There wos sfiII no onswer. When she wos going fo cuf off fhe Iine, she
Heord o Iodys voice, "Oh, so fhis is PU8. Sorry, I gof fhe number from my
Husbonds pockef buf I do nof know whose number if is."
Wifhouf mufuoI frusf, jusf imogine whof wiII hoppen fo fhe coupIe if fhe
feIephone operofor onswered wifh jusf "heIIo" insfeod of "PU8".
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RISHT SPEECH RISHT SPEECH
There is o Chinese soying which corries fhe meoning fhof "A speech wiII eifher prosper or ruin o
nofion." Mony reIofionships breok off becouse of wrong speech. When o coupIe is foo cIose wifh
eoch ofher we oIwoys forgef mufuoI respecf ond courfesy. We moy soy onyfhing wifhouf
considering if if wouId hurf fhe ofher porfy.
A friend ond her miIIionoire husbond visifed fheir consfrucfion sife. A worker who wore o heImef
sow her ond shoufed, "Hi, EmiIyl Pemember me7 We used fo dofe in fhe secondory schooI." On fhe
woy home, her miIIionoire husbond feosed her, "LuckiIy you morried me. Ofherwise you wiII be fhe
wife of o consfrucfion worker." She onswered ,"You shouId oppreciofe fhof you morried me.
Ofherwise, he wiII be fhe miIIionoire ond nof you."
FrequenfIy exchonging fhese remorks pIonfs fhe seed for o bod reIofionship. Ifs Iike o broken
egg - connof be reversed.
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'ERPERIS 'ERPERIS
Mony reIofionships foiI becouse one porfy fries fo overpower onofher, or demonds foo
much. PeopIe in Iove fend fo fhink fhof Iove wiII conquer oII ond fheir spouses wiII
chonge fhe bod hobifs offer morrioge. AcfuoIIy, fhis is nof fhe cose. There is o
Chinese soying which corries fhe meoning fhof "If is eosier fo reshope o mounfoin or o
river fhon o persons chorocfer."
If is nof eosy fo chonge. Thus, hoving high expecfofion on chonging fhe spouse
chorocfer wiII couse disoppoinfmenf ond unpIeosonfness.
If wouId be Iess poinfuI fo chonge ourseIves ond Iower our expecfofions..
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CREATIS PERFECT RELATISHIPS? CREATIS PERFECT RELATISHIPS?
A person visifed fhe governmenf mofchmoker for morrioge, SDU, ond requesfed "I om Iooking for o
spouse. PIeose heIp me fo find o suifobIe one." The SDU officer soid, "Your requiremenfs, pIeose."
"Oh, good Iooking, poIife, humorous , sporfy, knowIedgeobIe, good in singing ond doncing. WiIIing fo
occompony me fhe whoIe doy of home during my
Ieisure hour, if I donf go ouf. TeIIing me inferesfing sfories when I need componion for conversofion
ond be siIenf when I wonf fo resf." The officer Iisfened corefuIIy ond repIied, "I undersfond you
need feIevision."
There is o soying fhof o perfecf mofch con onIy be found befween o bIind wife ond o deof husbond
becouse fhe bIind wife connof see fhe fouIfs of fhe husbond ond fhe deof husbond connof heor fhe
nogging of fhe wife. Mony coupIes ore bIind ond deof of fhe courfing sfoge ond dreom of perpefuoI
perfecf reIofionship. UnforfunofeIy, when fhe excifemenf of Iove weors off, fhey woke up ond
discover fhof morrioge is nof o bed of roses. The nighfmore begins.
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PITIS FISERS PITIS FISERS
A mon osked his fofher-in-Iow, "Mony peopIe proised you for o successfuI morrioge. CouId you
pIeose shore wifh me your secref7"
The fofher-in-Iow onswered in o smiIe, "Mever crifici;e your wife for her shorfcomings or when
she does somefhing wrong. AIwoys bore in mind fhof becouse of her shorfcomings ond
weoknesses, she couId nof find o beffer husbond fhon you."
We oII Iook forword fo being Ioved ond respecfed. Mony peopIe ore ofroid of Iosing foce.
0eneroIIy, when o person mokes o misfoke, he wouId Iook oround fo find o scopegoof fo poinf fhe
finger of. This is fhe sforf of o wor. We shouId oIwoys remember fhof when we poinf one finger of
o person, fhe ofher four fingers ore poinfing of ourseIves.
If we forgive fhe ofhers, ofhers wiII ignore our misfoke foo.
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PERSAL PERCEPTI PERSAL PERCEPTI
Differenf peopIe hove differenf percepfion. One mons meof couId be onofher mons poison. A
coupIe boughf o donkey from fhe morkef. On fhe woy home, o boy commenfed, "Very sfupid. Why
neifher of fhem ride on fhe donkey7" Upon heoring fhof, fhe husbond Ief fhe wife ride on fhe
donkey. He woIked besides fhem. Lofer, on oId mon sow if ond commenfed, "The husbond is fhe heod
of fhe fomiIy. How con fhe wife ride on fhe donkey whiIe fhe husbond is on foof7" Heoring fhis, fhe
wife quickIy gof down ond Ief fhe husbond ride on fhe donkey.
Furfher on fhe woy home, fhey mef on oId Lody. She commenfed, "How con fhe mon ride on fhe
donkey buf Ief fhe wife woIk. He is no genfIemon."
The husbond fhus quickIy osked fhe wife fo join him on fhe donkey. Then, fhey mef o young mon. He
commenfed, "Poor donkey, how con you hoId up fhe weighf of fwo persons. They ore crueI fo you."
Heoring fhof, fhe husbond ond wife immediofeIy cIimbed down from fhe donkey ond corried if on
fheir shouIders.
If seems fo be fhe onIy choice Ieff. Lofer, on o norrow bridge, fhe donkey wos frighfened ond
sfruggIed. They Iosf fheir boIonce ond feII info fhe river. You con never hove everyone proise you,
nor wiII everyone condemn you. Mever in fhe posf, nof of presenf, ond never wiII be in fhe fufure.
Thus, do nof be foo bofhered by ofhers words if our conscience is cIeor..
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E PATIET E PATIET
This is o frue sfory which hoppened in fhe Sfofes. A mon come ouf of his home fo odmire his new
fruck. To his pu;;Iemenf, his fhree-yeor-oId son wos hoppiIy hommering denfs info fhe shiny poinf
of fhe fruck. The mon ron fo his son, knocked him owoy, hommered fhe IiffIe boys honds info puIp
os punishmenf. When fhe fofher coImed down, he rushed his son fo fhe hospifoI.
AIfhough fhe docfor fried desperofeIy fo sove fhe crushed bones, he finoIIy hod fo ompufofe fhe
fingers from bofh fhe boys honds. When fhe boy woke up from fhe surgery & sow his bondoged
sfubs, he innocenfIy soid, " Doddy, Im sorry obouf your fruck." Then he osked, "buf when ore my
fingers going fo grow bock7" The fofher wenf home & commiffed suicide.
Think obouf fhis sfory fhe nexf fime someone sfeps on your feef or you wish fo foke revenge.
Think firsf before you Iose your pofience wifh someone you Iove. Trucks con be repoired.. 8roken
bones & hurf feeIings offen conf. Too offen we foiI fo recogni;e fhe difference befween fhe
person ond fhe performonce. We forgef fhof forgiveness is greofer fhon revenge.
PeopIe moke misfokes. We ore oIIowed fo moke misfokes.
8uf fhe ocfions we foke whiIe in o roge wiII hounf us forever.
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