PORN, THE MALE PSYCHE, AND OTHER KINKY STUFFHello curious reader… What you will find inside this text, which Iwrote for my sake as much as anything else, includes the following:Sex and Porn Structure
When engaged in the act of real time sexual activity with a real female partner,the male human’s psyche reacts to at least three broad dimensions of stimulus:additional fantasies; fundamental significance of the act; and direct sensory input.A.
Additional fantasiesAdditional fantasies are the conscious mental activities of the male engaged in the sexualact, which allow for a higher enjoyment of the act, higher state of arousal, or indeed the‘potency’ of the ‘manhood’ itself. These fantasies are used when the current sexualactivity is for some reason or other not sufficient in itself to arouse the male, and anadditional, parallel stimulus is maintained by a mental effort – for example the malelooking at the face of the partner, but seeing a different face, or expression, or actconcerning the face, or perhaps imagining a wholly alternative situation altogether.B.
Fundamental significance of the actUnlike the additional fantasies, the significance of performed sexual activity is theimpact of that activity itself upon the mind and emotions of the male, the impact of the
of what takes place. ‘Bondage’ provides many clear examples – for instancewhen the intensity of the sexual act, of the arousal, is achieved by the tying of let’s saythe hands of the passive participant. When the hands are tied this does not add anystimulus to the body of the active participator, indeed it does not add any recognizablesensory pleasure to the passive one neither – it is the
of the fact that thehands are tied, of the restrictions onto the capacity of movement and reaction - thatinfluences the cognitive and emotional processes of the participants, that inflates thearousal. The position of the female, the sounds, the facial expressions, the tools used, thedialogues, all these are generators of significance which helps maintain arousal. Belowthe layer of fantasies is the layer of the significance of what is being done, and it is below