Soon,wehavecomplexunderstandingofaparticularsequenceofevents.Anynumberofothereventsandrelationshipscontributedtotheparticularsequencethatbeganourinquiry.Itisthetaskofserviceproviderstodevelopthisdeeperunderstanding.Ecomapsandgenogramscanhelpascanmanyothersourcesofinformationthattypicallygointounderstandingotherpersonsinsocialservices.Often,aNEATSassessmentcanbehelpful,whereserviceprovidersseektounderstandtheneurobiology,executivefunction,attachment,trauma,andself-regulationissuesinthefamilyinbothdevelopmentalandecologicalperspectives.TheNEATSisbothsimpleandcomplex,asisassessmentingeneral.Whatisimportantisanyassessmentisdisciplinedinquirythatcoverseachareaofclientfunctioningwell,whileserviceproviderskeepananalyticstancethatinvolveshearingclientsandholdingbackontheirowninterpretationsuntiltheyhavebroughttogetheragreatdealofinformation.
Meanings
Whiledevelopingunderstandingsofbehaviorsandsequencesofevents,wealsogetasenseofthemeaningseventshavetoindividualsinvolved.Eachpersonwhoispartofafamilyandpartofsystemsthatinteractwithfamilieshashisorherownparticularsenseofthemeaningsofvariousevents.ForJackie,whatisbehindherputtingcrackercrumbsinherparents’bed?Whatdoesdoingthatmeantoher?ServiceprovidersgetatthesemeaningsbyaskingwhathappenedrightbeforeJackieputthecrumbsinthebed.Suchanactioncouldhavearevengemotive.Jackiemayhavebeengettingbackatherparentsbecausesheexperiencedthemasdoingsomethinghurtfultoher.AnotherpossibleexplanationisthatJackiemayhavebeenfeelingleftout.Maybesheexperiencesherparentsasintoeachotherandnotenoughintoher.Ifsheputscrumbsintheirbed,theywouldnotice,andtheymightevennoticeher.ForJackie,negativeattentionmightbebetterthannoattentionatall.Serviceproviderscanaskquestionsthatstickcloselytoserviceusers’accountsofevents.Whateverthemeaningsare,itisJackiewhosayswhattheyare.Serviceprovidersdisciplinethemselvestolistenandtoholdbackontheirownpettheoriesortheirownunexaminedassumptions.Theirjobistounderstandserviceusermeanings.Soitgoes,bitbybit,serviceprovidersdiscoverthemeaningsofbehaviorsforeachpersoninvolved.Theykeeptheirownmeaningsseparatefromthemeaningsthatserviceusersattributetotheirownbehaviors.
ResilienceProcesses
Resilienceprocessesareindicatorsthatserviceusershavecapacitiestocopewith,adaptto,orovercomeadverselifeevents.ServiceproviderspayattentiontoindicatorsthatserviceusershavecapacitiesforresilienceSometimesserviceuserlifecircumstancesaresodifficultthattheonlyevidenceofeffectivecopingisthatserviceusersarestillalive.InthecaseofJackie,ifherparents’behaviorshadhurther,andshewasseekingrevenge,then