Is It A Crime I'm A Fool To Want You?

by

Pamela Olson

Is it a crime I'm a fool to want you?

by Pamela Olson
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Copyright 2010 2011 by Pamela Olson All rights reserved. All wrongs revenged. Its a story. Semblance to anyone is not intended nor should be inferred. Savvy mate?

Doc Severinsen's There Is A Girl http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjG0S6dc-sY

A graduate of College of Marin then Sonoma State University, in the middle of The American Wine Country, California USA, Planet Earth, Milky Way, Pamela Olson is A Marin County Volunteer of the Year, founding board member North Bay Multimedia Association,

Home Designer, Raconteur, Gardener,

Time Traveler, Swimmer, Veteran, Mama,

Friend, Real Estate Authority, Ballroom Dancer, Wife,

Color Junkie, Bon vivant,

Landlord Extraordinaire

aka opinionated.

May all your storms be weathered, and all that is good get better.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0z26panRGOI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIP7HPYSr-0 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs9P-pfqF6Y

Is it a crime I'm a fool to want you?

I'M A FOOL TO WANT YOU
Our culture in movies, songs, romance novels, soap operas, and romance comedies teaches us that "falling in love" is the norm the implication being, that if it doesn't happen, or if that feeling goes away, something is wrong with you, your lover or your relationship.

I'M A FOOL TO WANT YOU

Researchers at University College London discovered that people in love have lower levels of serotonin and also, that neural circuits associated with the way we assess others are suppressed. These lower serotonin levels are the same as those found in people with obsessive-compulsive disorders. That explains why those in love obsess about their lover.

TO WANT A LOVE THAT CAN'T BE TRUE

When two people have sex, oxytocin is released, which helps bond their relationship. When it is released during orgasm, it creates an emotional bond -- the more sex, the stronger the bond.

A LOVE THAT'S THERE FOR OTHERS TOO

Studies have repeatedly shown that passionate love fades quickly and is nearly gone starting as soon as two years and virtually gone in three years. The reason is that the chemicals responsible for "that lovin' feeling," the adrenaline, dopamine, norepinephrine, phenylethylamine, etc., dwindle.

I'M A FOOL TO HOLD YOU

According to Helen Fisher, Rutgers University anthropologist, together dopamine and norepinephrine produce elation, intense energy, sleeplessness, craving, loss of appetite and focused attention. She says, "The human body releases the cocktail of love rapture only when certain conditions are met and ... men more readily produce it than women, Is it a crime I'm a fool to want you?
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because of their more visual nature."

SUCH A FOOL TO HOLD YOU

Your partner doesn't change at all in your relationship. With time, it's just that you're now able to see them rationally, rather than through the blinding hormones of infatuation and passionate love. At this stage, the relationship is either strong enough to endure, or the relationship ends.

TO SEEK A KISS NOT MINE ALONE

Infidelity is common."I can see through all of your lies but still I miss you."

TO SHARE A KISS THAT DEVIL HAS KNOWN

It's natural to sometimes wonder if the person you are romantically involved with is having sex with someone else. The problem becomes compounded when your lover has violated your trust in the past.

TIME AND TIME AGAIN I SAID I'D LEAVE YOU

The first time someone violates your trust, they have the most to lose because they don't know what your reaction will be. But, once they've weathered the initial storm, they know precisely how you'll react. By the time they've violated your trust on you twice, three times, thirty-eight times, they know exactly what to expect.

TIME AND TIME AGAIN I WENT AWAY

To be sure, nobody wants to be emotionally violated. This is because feelings and emotions are fragile things.

BUT THEN WOULD COME THE TIME

Everyone craves to love and be loved in return. This need is a basic essential of life.

WHEN I WOULD NEED YOU

Our capacity to emotionally bond with another is mediated through a phenomenon known to physiologists and behaviorists as "limbic resonance.""Is it a crime, Is it a crime that I still want you, and I want you to want me too."

AND ONCE AGAIN THESE WORDS I HAD TO SAY

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Human physiology does not direct all of its own functions; it is interdependent. It must be steadied by the physical presence of another. This is necessary for both physical and emotional health. In many ways, humans cannot be stable on their ownthey require another to survive. I'm A Fool to Want You

TAKE ME BACK, I LOVE YOU

Health and happiness mean finding people who regulate you well, and staying near them. It is the basis of communal living. "Surely you want me back."...

I NEED YOU
Ostracism from social contact is the cruelest of punishments. According to Elaine Aron, Ph.D., a psychotherapist in San Francisco and author of The Highly Sensitive Person, "our sensitivity to the negative opinions of others is so strong," she says, "that we record these emotional wounds in the same part of the brain as actual physical pain."

I KNOW IT'S WRONG, IT MUST BE WRONG

it's just your brain's chemistry at work. Scientists have found that phenylethylamine, or PEA, is a neurotransmitter chemical in the brain that causes you to fall madly in love with someone. It is a natural form of amphetamine that floods the regions of the brain involved in sexual excitement. Is It A Crime?

BUT RIGHT OR WRONG I CAN'T GET ALONG

I'm A Fool to Want You

WITHOUT YOU
Tell me, is it a crime?

http://www.hisnhershandbook.com/the-science-behind-love-chemicals/

Is it a crime I'm a fool to want you?

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