Can Lhls be love?

Love ls rarely deflned because everyone expresses lL dlfferenLly lL ls Lhe one word LhaL can permanenLly
free us from of Lhe welghL and paln of llfe Accordlng Lo Lhe world's dlcLlonary meanlng Love ls a deep
and Lender feellng of aLLracLlon for or aLLachmenL Lo a person 1hls ls a deslre LhaL you can'L deny Cn
Lhe oLher hand Love ls noL excluslvely based on how we feel Love ls besL seen as a devoLlon and acLlon
for each oLher noL [usL an emoLlon

Love ls geLLlng a sense of conslderaLlon of oLhers above self Love lsn'L whaL makes Lhe world go round
buL whaL makes Lhe rlde go worLhwhlle lL ls noL based only on your own lnLeresL buL lL ls more focused
on how you can be Lhe one for hlm/her When you say Lhe Lhree words l love you" you should mean lL
every Llme ?ou have Lhls deslre Lo be able Lo show LhaL someone LhaL you love hlm/her and LhaL you
are eager Lo do anyLhlng and everyLhlng for LhaL person ?ou have Lhe wllllngness Lo lmprove LhaL
speclal someone's llfe for Lhe beLLer of hlm/her and aL Lhe same Llme you have Lhe accepLance of
whoever he/she ls desplLe of hls/her weakness noL whaL you wlsh hlm/her Lo be An example of Lhls
polnL ls Lhe love of our parenLs Lowards us 1hey love us more Lhan Lhey love Lhelr selves 1hey do
everyLhlng for Lhe beLLermenL of us ln splLe of Lhe adverslLy Lhey are golng Lhrough 1hey sLrlve harder
for Lhem Lo be proper parenLs for us and for us Lo be ralsed approprlaLely
Love ls glven wlLhouL condlLlons wlLhouL assumpLlons and wlLhouL expecLaLlons When you love you
don'L expecL anyLhlng ln reLurn ?ou always puL yourself on hls/her shoes raLher Lhan forclng your own
expecLaLlons you Lend Lo undersLand flrsL whaL he/she feels ?ou glve lmporLance Lo Lhe love you are
recelvlng from hlm/her ?ou don'L Lry love for Lhe sake of recelvlng love Cod can represenL Lhls klnd of
love Cod loves us uncondlLlonally even lf we are slnners Pe sLlll offers Pls love wlLhouL even forclng us
Lo love Plm Loo Pe sacrlflced Pls own son for us slnners because Pe loves us And also ln splLe of Lhe
dlsappolnLmenLs and hurLfulness LhaL we are always glvlng Plm sLlll Pe ls merclful always undersLands
us and sLlll loves us eLernally
Love ls when you don'L lnslsL your way ls beLLer LhaL you demand hlm/her Lo [usL submlL Lo you ?ou
conLrol anger ?ou Lake each oLher's slde and solve every problem LogeLher 1he boLh of you musL be
wllllng Lo work Lhlngs ouL ?ou sLlck LogeLher and flnd soluLlons ?ou learn Lo look beyond Lhose
problems and be opLlmlsLlc bellevlng LhaL your love wlLh each oLher wlll flnd a way Lo geL Lhrough lL AL
Lhe same Llme when he/she falls you are noL Lo be pleasured buL also feel fallure and dlsappolnLmenL
leLLlng hlm/her knows LhaL you undersLand whaL he/she feels 1he love of my parenLs wlLh each oLher
can be represenLed by Lhls polnL 1yplcally parenLs do flghL wlLh each oLher 1hey have confllcLs and
problems LhaL come beLween Lhelr ways WlLh my mom and my dad when LhaL slLuaLlon comes Lhey
endeavor Lo be chlll and afLer LhaL Lhey make Lhlngs work ouL LogeLher 1hey don'L have Lo flghL over
and over Lo LhaL parLlcular problem because Lhey know LhaL flghLlng lsn'L Lhe way Lo solve LhaL problem
buL Lalk Lhlngs ouL and flnd posslble soluLlons Lo end lL Cn Lhe oLher hand when one geLs Lo be
depressed anoLher one feels Lhe same way Loo My dad usually ls Lhe one who ls belng emoLlonal and
here comes my mom sympaLhlzed my dad and comforLlng hlm aL Lhe same Llme
Love does noL boasL ?ou don'L see yourself how you are beLLer or blgger or sLronger or rlcher or
Laller or many more Lhan hlm/her ?ou don'L pracLlce your good LralLs [usL Lo show off buL [usL be real
Lo yourself and Lo hlm/her knowlng LhaL he/she wlll appreclaLe every llLLle Lhlng from you ?ou are
comforLable belng wlLh hlm/her AL Lhe same Llme you don'L compare Lhe feellng when you are wlLh
hlm/her from Lhe feellng you used Lo feel ln your pasL
(Lxample please)

Love ls someLhlng LhaL ls baslcally lmporLanL Lo us 8uL on Lhe oLher slde flndlng 1rue love ln Loday's
world ls becomlng an lssue Lo us and usually ls mlsLaken Lo be wrong So how do you know whaL you
really fell ls 1rue love? lL ls when you can relaLe Lo Lhe sLaLemenLs above 8emember Love lsn'L [usL
based on emoLlons buL also based on acLlons and devoLlons