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Drowning!
39 Lessons From A Child
Experiencing Divorce
By E. R. Reid
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STOP My Childhood From
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39 Lessons From A Child
Experiencing Divorce
By E. R. Reid
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Contents
Acknowledgements xiii
Foreword xv
Introduction xvii
3. I Feel Angry
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13. My Disobedience Is Sometimes Just My
Frustration
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Conclusion 101
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Acknowledgements
To Eric and Kennedy,
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Foreword
E. R. Reid has gained great insight into the world of
children as a committed mother, community leader,
business executive, and volunteer. She has
established a reputation as one who understands
issues affecting people and potential ways to
improve the quality of their lives. I have come to
respect her as a dedicated board member for
Communities In Schools of Wake County, and have
seen her apply this insight when working with the
children who benefit from our program. She makes
sacrifices daily on behalf of these under-served or
at-risk children who are sometimes victims of
divorce.
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Introduction
No one wants to be a statistic, at least not one that
society equates with failure. Unfortunately, far too
many of us end up as part of the divorce statistic,
and it has become so commonplace that it has
almost lost its stigma. Most discussion about it
today is centered on its causes, attempts to repair
the breach and the after-effects to the adults
involved. Even though the traumatic effects on
children are recognized, the impact of divorce on
them is primarily discussed as an aside.
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that I observed going through divorce. I then offer
my perspectives as a parent who knows what a
challenge it is to find healing for oneself, help
dependents heal, and still carry out with excellence
the responsibilities of childrearing.
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Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a
reward from Him.
Psalm 127:31
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“I Feel Angry”
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I look to you all the time. But with this new change,
I look at you a lot more than I used to. I especially
look at the way you look at me. What does it mean
when you give me that blank stare? What does it
mean when I try to catch your eye with a smile and
you look right past me? What does it mean when
you stare at me with great sadness in your eyes?
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“I Need To Be Reassured,
Constantly”
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Conclusion
Children of any age are precious and innocent.
The 18 years we have to guide and teach them go
by far too quickly, and at the end we hope we have
imparted enough value for them to achieve life
success that far exceeds our own.
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