were devastated by parents who would be proud of their children during times of good but not times of bad, would love them less. How they were loved or showedlove on sunny days, metaphorically but were abandoned on the rainy troublesomedays. To give something should be directed by and governed by love.3.
Show your love to your friends and loved oneseveryday,
as much as you can or are able to. Daily, be kind to them, do stuff for them and be a blessing to their life.4.
Do a little something extra nice for them not becausethey deserve it or that they are entitled to but becauseyou care for them as a whole person
if they are to earn it, that’swhat monetary allowance is for, not a gift.5.
You can’t earn a gift. If you could, just by thedefinition alone it is not a gift, but a wage and reward.
A gift is correctly exchanged when it is something of meaning to a person whomeans a lot to you.6.
Purposely, do not do anything special for anyone, indirect connection to a holiday, or a birthday date
, becauseof the commercial demands forced upon you.7.
Things are more affordable
way before holidays or directly after amajor holiday.8.
It teaches the person not expect to get something
becauseeveryone else is pressuring you to act and get them something, it lacks thegenuine and sincerity as you are standing in line trying to buy a present forsomeone who is forcing you to.9.
It gives you ample opportunity to be creative
and to keepthat special someone from expecting something, and to be completely surprisedwhen then do get something.
This forced propaganda of trying to get us to buyinstead of being the producers and initiators of ourown romance and ongoing affections.
Keep them guessing, is my best bet
and don’t do it because themarket says so, this goes for any holiday where you are forced to fund theeconomy because it is imposed because of external pressure.12.
Teach them how to give by not expecting but give others.
It’s your choice
. Either it’s a gift when you determine to give it or you must do itbecause society pressures and external expectants forces you to so.