4. Appear fussy while interacting with servers...If you're actually doing a 'dinner date' (not recommended), just order the first thing on the menu thatyou find appealing. Close your menu when you see it as well. It shows that you can make a decisionwithout asking her “what are you having?” Jump to our forum and get some better ideas for “firstdates” if it is a first date you're on. Save dinner dates for once you're more involved. You'll savemoney and get better results if you skip dinner dates as first date options.5. Bragging about accomplishments...If a woman likes you, she likes you for who you are. Talk about what you enjoy doing, what you'vedone recently that's slightly out of the ordinary (river rafting, a travel story, wine country tours, etc.).Carefully craft your stories as responses to things she says to you – it builds an aura of mystery aboutyou and leaves her wondering “what else has he done”. Flat out bragging is repulsive.6. Forgetting to ask questions...Have her do most of the talking, but make sure you are actually listening to what she is saying and stopthinking about what to say next. Conversations are chaotic and “tornado-like”. What you say next is based on what she is saying right now. You can get her to elaborate on something she just said, or draw parallels into something similar. Your questions should probe her for more information about what sheis saying – avoid “interview” questions!7. Speaking bad about past dates, girlfriends, or wives...You want to project a strong, confident image and talking bad about anyone is not the ideal thing to bedoing. Keep the conversation away from here, or at least come up with positives about your pastsituation(s) and find positive reasons for “past” relationships. NEVER say anything bad about pastdates and girlfriends – you'll have her either in panic mode – hoping she doesn't remind you aboutsomething an ex has done – or just think you're a big wet flapping douche bag.8. Ogle other women or watch TV...You'd think this would go without saying, but it doesn't. Your eyes speak volumesabout who you are and project confidence,masculinity, sensuality, sexuality and more.Use your eyes to examine hers. You should be able to describe her eyes – and not justthe color of them either! In addition, a quick look over of her is acceptable. It shows thatyou are a man, confident in what you want.Just don't stare at her, or her breasts.