P (Lesser self) Painful Stimulus Q Response - lesser Self Painful StimulusFor example, P opens his lesser self (blaming Q for his mistakes)
a painful stimulus thatgive Q pain (hurt and depressed). The pain Q experienced brings
out Q‟s lesser self
yelling and calling P a bastard). Q‟s lesser self give P pain (P feeli
ngs get hurt).P in turn response with his lesser self (punching Q on the nose) and the destructive cycleperpetuates.
P opens his goodself Pleasurable Stimulus
- Goodself Pleasurable Stimulus
goodself (shows care and concern for Q‟s well
-being) gives a pleasurable stimulus toQ.
Q‟s response with his goodself (helping P to repair his house) which in turn give
a pleasurable stimulus to P and the constructive cycle perpetuates.From here, we can summarize that:
People are different. Behavior comes from the world of experiences. People comefrom different backgrounds and see things differently.
People are imperfect. People have been molded by so many experiences by otherswho are themselves imperfect or by the environment which is not in perfect harmony.Because people are imperfect and because of the differing backgrounds, people arealso different in responding or reacting to what they see, hear, touch, taste or smell.
Systems created by human beings are imperfect. All political, social and economicsystems can be manipulated by human beings for survival and to satisfy dominantneeds.