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AVG Technologies Digital Diaries: Safety and Limits forChildren Ages 14-17
 
By Jason Brand, LCSW and Rona Renner, RN
 
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Introduction
One way to get clear on limits and rules is to install Internet safety software that helps you to keep an eye onthe computers, smart phones, tablets, and game consoles in your home. Internet safety software can helpyour family to clarify what is in bounds and what is out of bounds when it comes to screen time, places to goon the Internet, and digital social interactions. When used as part of a larger conversation about why limitsand rules are necessary, Internet safety software can be a good reminder for teens that parents are present
and engaged in their “digital coming of age.”
Here are some tips on using Internet safety software effectively with your 14-17 year old.
 
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Take the time needed to do the research.
Many parents feel concerned about online dangers but have not taken the time to understand if Internet
safety software can be of help to their family. If you have concerns about your teen’s online life, be proactive.
Internet safety software can help you define your limits and think through the kinds of content and
communication that are in line with your family’s unique set of values. Once you have done your homework,you’ll be ready to work with your teen to come to an agreement about the contr
ols you think are necessary.
Make personal responsibility and trust the heart of the matter.
Personal responsibility and trust are at the core of any plan to keep teens safe online. Without these values inmind, teens may feel that parents are mainly interested in controlling them and being intrusive. You can workout a plan that encourages teens to act responsibly, letting them know that your trust will grow over time.Keep in mind that teens are more likely to appreciate and accept limits when they feel that their parents arefocused on helping them to be become responsible and trustworthy adults.
Update software as the needs of your family change.
Internet safety software needs to be adjusted as your teen gets older. For example, filtering for foul languagemight be less necessary as your teen becomes more mature. Ideally as your teen gets older there is greater
trust that has been built over time. It’s not unusual for teens to test the limits
and break the rules. When thisoccurs go back to basics, set agreements and consequences, and communicate clearly what your teen needs todo to regain your trust. As teens get closer to leaving home, implementing fewer restrictions will help youassess skills that still need reinforcing.
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