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Why Won’t He Commit? Is Being Pushy The Only Way To Make Him Want To Commit?

Why Won’t He Commit? Is Being Pushy The Only Way To Make Him Want To Commit?

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Published by Coleta Stewart
Are you struggling to understand why won’t he commit? Is being pushy and issuing a bunch of uncomfortable ultimatums the right way to move him closer to a lasting commitment?
Are you struggling to understand why won’t he commit? Is being pushy and issuing a bunch of uncomfortable ultimatums the right way to move him closer to a lasting commitment?

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Published by: Coleta Stewart on May 07, 2012
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 Why Won’t HeCommit? Is Being  Pushy The Only  Way To Make Him  Want To Commit?
 
Why Won’t He Commit? Is Being Pushy The Only Way To Make Him Want To Commit?
Why Being Pushy is a Huge Mistake
Women don’t begin relationships with the intention of becoming pushy and issuing a bunchof uncomfortable ultimatums (many of which end up backfiring anyway). Instead, ladieswant the perfect relationship…one that is truly romantic and inspiring.After all, if someone really loves you, it really should not be necessary to make them dowhat you want them to do; however, sometimes, certain circumstances, such as the desireto marry or to have children before it is too late, trigger pushiness that damagesrelationship.
Learn how to Avoid Pushiness
In a nutshell, being pushy is a huge mistake, so you need to know how to avoid pushinessthat doesn’t help your cause one little bit. Usually, pushiness begins because a woman feelsa man becoming more distant or otherwise pulling away. Since she doesn’t know quite howto handle this painful and confusing situation, she begins to act out, asking for explanations, pleasing her case, and otherwise pushing the entire relationship towards a confrontation thatleaves her alone, disillusioned, and heartbroken.If you’ve experienced negative consequences from being too pushy, or if you’re mullingover giving him an ultimatum because you really want him…and the ring…it’s time tochange your thinking and behavior. While he may not be worth the effort and worry thatyou give him, there is the possibility that he is your one true love.If this is the case and you know that you want to spend your life with him in matrimonial bliss, it’s time to learn how to get what you want without pushing. You don’t need tomanipulate, yell or plead to move him towards a love commitment that lasts forever. Thereis a better way....
For a free report that shows you the right way tomove him closer to a lasting commitment, grab a copyof Coleta’s “
ebook. It’s yours free and will save youplenty of heartbreak and other relationship problemsdown the line.
©Copyright 2012
C Stewart
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Why Won’t He Commit? Is Being Pushy The Only Way To Make Him Want To Commit?
Learn the Right Way to Move Him Closer to a Lasting Commitment
First, consider the potential consequences of pushing him too hard, too fast. One possibleoutcome is that he may capitulate to your desire, but not out of love. He does it to pacifyyou. Is that what you really want? If you grew up dreaming of a beautiful wedding andhappily ever after, do you really want to drag him to the altar like a caveman carrying hislatest kill back to his lair? No, of course you don’t!You deserve better…so much better than that. Not to mention that capitulation sets thestage for a lot of other relationship problems down the line. If he feels trapped intocapitulating, it’s not a good thing, and resentment will fester inside of him. He’ll take it outon you later, and it will hurt you very badly, whether he gives you a ring or not.
Pushiness May Lead to Heartbreak 
The other consequence is that the relationship will die. In some cases, it may be the bestoutcome, but, in other situations, it’s just a terrible waste of love. You should understandthat he can love you without wanting a commitment. Men feel things in their guts andhearts, but they ultimately “go with their gut”. When you start pushing, even if he reallyloves you, his gut will tell him to run away, because there is a new problem and he doesn’tknow how to handle it.Think of traffic lights in red, yellow and green; when a man loves you, he’s
glowing green
and he’ll probably do what it takes to move towards a commitment. His gut is sending him positive signals. However, when his light is
yellow
, he wonders if there might be troubleahead, despite the warm feelings that he has in his heart for you. When he’s “
red
”, hesenses danger or relationship problems that make him shut down emotionally.
Understand the Way That he Thinks and Feels
Sometimes, men set up traps for themselves and make their own problems with women.When you download and read the “
,you'll learn of a system that will help you understand how men process emotions and howyou can understand your guy and his “gut” reactions. You’ll learn how to soothe his fearsand turn his heart light from yellow or red to bright,
glowing green
. And you won’t need to push or manipulate to do it.
©Copyright 2012
C Stewart
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