Writer worried for sister-in-law

Dear Annie: My sister- is not just the porn. It is the in-law asked me to wipe lying, hiding, withholding of her PCs hard drive so she affection, withdrawal from could donate it. In the pro- me and his daily pot smoking cess, I discovered an old sui- that led up to my leaving. cide note she had written. It Annie, I am a pretty, dates back five years, which petite, youthful woman with was a time when I know a great job. I provide John she felt overwhelmed caring with a comfortable lifestyle, for a disabled friend. In the but I refuse to keep enabling note, it says she felt terribly him. Should I stay with him burdened by this unwanted even though I will never responsibility. trust or respect him again? My sister-in-law recently -- Suicidal and Angry moved back home to take Dear Angry: Trust and care of her father, who is respect are two rather imporaging but is otherwise in good tant aspects of a healthy marhealth. Im afraid she may riage. If counseling does not get overwhelmed help you regain again. What should those elements, we I do? -- Help for My dont see a happy Brothers Wife future for you. Dear Wife: Any And it sounds as if caregiver can feel excessive pornograoverwhelmed, and phy isnt your only you would not be problem with John. breaking any conA man who spefidences to offer cializes in homoassistance and superotic porn has other port. Ask whether things on his mind: you could shop for men, for instance. groceries or pick Annies Mailbox Dear Annie: up a prescription. A Disappointed If Dad is healthy enough 15-Year-Old Girl was to be left alone, take your offended by your comment sister-in-law out for coffee to Upstate New York Dad and conversation. If not, tell that its not unusual for teenher youll sit with Dad for agers to show poor judgment. an hour so she can have a She interpreted that as a slap break. Talk to her often. And in the face to all responsible make sure she has the con- teenagers. tact information for resources I could be equally offendsuch as the Eldercare Locator ed by her statement that the (eldercare.gov) at 1-800-677- irresponsible babysitter was 1116 and the National Family raised by a parent who has Caregivers Association (nfca- no dignity or honesty. I could cares.org). choose to interpret that as a Dear Annie: Next month slap in the face to all parents would have been my fourth who raised their children with anniversary had I not moved dignity and honesty, only to out of the house I shared with see those same children make my husband, who is 12 years bad decisions. So, honey, be my junior. careful with your criticism, John and I have been and dont be so anxious to in a relationship for almost take offense. -- Realistic 10 years, and I thought I Michigan Mom knew him. The problem startAnnies Mailbox is written ed soon after our wedding, by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy when I returned from an out- Sugar, longtime editors of the of-state trip and found pic- Ann Landers column. Please tures he had taken of himself email your questions to annies-- naked, graphic and pos- mailbox@comcast.net, or write ing suggestively with photos to: Annies Mailbox, c/o Creators of other men. John said he Syndicate, 737 3rd Street, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254. was just curious about taking them and denies ever posting the pictures online. I thought we worked through it after many heartfelt discussions, but then six months ago, I caught him surfing gay porn on my computer, as well as watching it on TV. He promised he would go to counseling, and I gave him one last chance, saying I would leave him if he lied to me about it again. In February, I ran a profile of the top five websites that he visits -- and they were all porn. I also discovered that he has charged porn to his credit card. That was the last straw. I rented a house, and he finally realized that I was serious. But he doesnt understand why I want out of the relationship. He says its just porn and refuses counseling. I cannot make him see that it

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WEDNESDAY, MAY 9, 2012 Its likely that youll have ample opportunities in the year ahead to further multiply some excellent situations in which youre already involved. However, it will be up to you to make sure that this happens. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Over the years, youve acquired much valuable information that you use in bits and pieces from time to time. It behooves you to market what you know in greater measure. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Dont hesitate to go along with changing conditions, even if they appear to have no practical purpose. They could carry you into greener pastures, where new things are happening. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Carefully consider all decisions that would affect others as well as yourself. A misjudgment on your part could have far-reaching, negative consequences. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -Carefully examine all the facets when considering a job change. Be sure any move you make will be a step up the ladder and not an ignominious descent. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- If your social life has been a bit hollow lately, dont wait for the mountain to come to you. Take the initiative to get out, be friendly and mingle with as many new people as possible. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -Before surging ahead on a brandnew idea, activity or project, bring to a satisfactory conclusion what you already have on your plate. Overlapping activities could tangle up your life. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- A good idea youve been mulling over that you havent been able to get off the ground can be transformed into something that would fulfill a pressing need. Try it and see. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- There is some kind of channel available to you that you havent utilized yet, but which could possibly contribute to your material security. Stop dawdling and do something about it. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- You have excellent chances for success if you take personal control over your life and make things happen without being subject to committee approval. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Because youre innately endowed with keen intuition and good powers of perception, you have betterthan-average chances of arriving at accurate conclusions. Dont hesitate to use this gift. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Whether you realize it or not, youre endowed with sound instincts and excellent powers of perception. The trick to using them well is to make sure your attitude remains positive at all times. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Something to do with your career and/or finances that would have farreaching, beneficial results can be achieved by applying a little extra effort. Make it your primary task.
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