60 Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love, Guaranteed

1- Make her feel secure- dont joke about divorcing her, this will put a hole in your marriage. 2- Always greet her whenever you arrive 3- Your wife is a fragile vessel so take care of her- In this vessel there is a lot of goodness so treat her in a gentle manner. 4- Advice her in privacy and the best timing. Dont advice her in the presence of others, it can be a type of humility 5- Be generous with her 6- Move out of your way for her, when shes coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you 7- Avoid anger. 8- Look good for her and smell great. 9- Dont be rigid, you will broken- just because you are a man doesnt mean you have to be harsh hearted 10- Be a good listener 11- Say yes for flattering and no for arguing. 12- Call your wife with the best names she likes to hear. i.e: the prophet (Saw) used to call Aisha- Aish! 13- Surprise her secretly. Ex: Bring her a watermelon when its not the season of watermelons. Pick and choose in surprising her, be an artist in surprising her pleasantly 14- Preserve the tongue 15- Accept her shortcomings/ everyone has one 16- Show your appreciation to her 17- Encourage her to be in touch with her kin relations 18- Speak topics of her interest. 19- Speak of her goodness in the presence of others 20- Shower her with gifts. The prophet (saw) said: give gifts and youll love each other MML

Its doesnt matter how cheap or expensive the gift is, its the thought that counts! 21- Get rid of the same old routine once in a while, scrub the rust. Ex: Buy her ticket to a vacation cruise or something that she will enjoy. 22- Think good of her- husn althan23- Ignore some of the words/actions you dont like 24- Add a drop of patience- It can go a long way- i.e: at her time of pregnancy, mensesetc 25- Expect and respect her jealousy. 26- Be humble 27- Dont put a price on her happiness. 28- Help her around household chores just like the prophet (saw) did. 29- You cant force her to love her in laws, but help her respect and love your parents. 30- Show her that she is an ideal wife; each and every wife is an ideal wife in many ways, so make her feel that. 31- Make duaa for her and always remember her in your duaas 32- Leave her past to Allah swt 33- Dont show her that you are doing favors by doing your duties 34- ****aan/Satan is your enemy NOT your wife! 35- When eating, dont only feed yourself, feed her TOO! - Not only does it go to the stomach but to the heart too. 36- Look at her as a precious pearl, treat her and take care of her like a precious pearl 37- Speaking of pearls show her YOUR pearls SMILE! . Dont put your smile out-of-service when you reach home! Dont be rigid, smiling is Sadaqah 38- Dont hold grudges. Deal with the littlest matters and dont ignore them, it will build up and will create a wall between you and your wife. 39- Avoid being harsh hearted and moody. 40- Respect her thinking; her thinking strengthens you. 41- Help her discover/develop her skills and her success within

42- Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship- its a fragile matter. 43- Help her with the children; its not only her job its yours too! 44- Complement her!-give her the gifts of the tongues45- Dont be a stranger to her meals, know your wifes meals, and eat her food. 46- Let her know when you are traveling dont just disappear, and also let her know about your arrival. 47- When arguments arise, deal with it and dont run away from it. 48- Dont share your home secrets with your friends. Keep your privacy, and dont make it a garage sale. 49- Encourage each other to worship/obey Allah swt Go for umrah together, listen to a lecture/recitation.50- Engrave her rights in your heart and in your conscious 51- Treat her with kindness through happiness and sorrow 52- Dont jump on your wife like a ball!, in fact polish your love with many kisses- A kiss is a messenger- alqubulah rasool 53- When disputes happen between you and your wife, dont go and share it with the whole world.-dont leave your wounds open for the germs54- Show her that you care for her health. 55- Dont think that you are right all the time!-No one Is perfect but the prophet (saw)56- Share you happiness and sorrow with her. 57- Have mercy on her. 58- Be the shoulder she can lean on! 59- Accept her as is, shes a bent rib so dont try to straighten it. *Side note: A dear friend once said: a bent rib cannot be straightened, and in fact the beauty of it lies within its curve! 60- Have good intentions for your wife.