Parshat Chukas
June 30, 2012 10 Tamuz, 5772
In his recent bestseller,The Social Animal, NewYork Times columnistDavid Brooks writes: “We are living in themiddle of the revolutionin consciousness. Overthe past few years,geneticists,neuroscientists,psychologists,sociologists,economists,anthropologists, andothers have made greatstrides inunderstanding thebuilding blocks of human flourishing. Anda core finding of theirwork is that we are notprimarily products of our conscious thinking.We are primarily theproducts of thinkingthat happens below thelevel of awareness.” Too much takes placein the mind for us to befully aware of it.Timothy Wilson of theUniversity of Virginiaestimates that thehuman mind canabsorb 11 millionpieces of information atany given moment. Wecan be conscious of only a tiny fraction of this. Most of what isgoing on mentally liesbelow the threshold of awareness.One result of the newneuroscience is that we arebecoming aware of thehugely significant part playedby emotion in decision-making. The FrenchEnlightenment emphasizedthe role of reason, andregarded emotion as adistraction and distortion. Wenow know scientifically howwrong this is.Antonio Damasio, in hisDescartes’ Error, tells thestory of a man who, as theresult of a tumor, suffereddamage to the frontal lobesof his brain. He had a highIQ, was well-informed, andhad an excellent memory.But after surgery to removethe tumor, his life went intofree-fall. He was unable toorganize his time. He madebad investments that costhim his savings. He divorcedhis wife, married a secondtime, and rapidly divorcedagain. He could still reasonperfectly but had lost theability to feel emotion. As aresult, he was unable tomake sensible choices.Another man with a similarinjury found it impossible tomake decisions at all. At theend of one session, Damasio
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suggested two possibledates for their nextmeeting. The man thentook out a notebook,began listing the pros andcons of each, talked aboutpossible weatherconditions, potentialconflicts with otherengagements and so on,for half an hour, untilDamasio finallyinterrupted him, and madethe decision for him. Theman immediately said, “That’s fine,” and wentaway.It is less reason thanemotion that lies behindour choices, and it takesemotional intelligence tomake good choices. Theproblem is that much of our emotional life liesbeneath the surface of theconscious mind.
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