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Uncensored: Te Real Story of the Real Savoy
With the h anniversary o my pickup and dating blog (Te Real Savoy), many readers askedor something exactly like this - a collection o some o the best and most popular posts. Someare about dating and attraction techniques. Some are case studies (“eld reports”). Some are a bitrandom. All in all, that’s a good representation o what the blog was, and what it continues to be.Other than edits or clarity, no content was changed. You might notice that some things haveevolved over time. o me, that’s normal and natural, and not something to hide. We are constantly testing, rening, and re-assessing.My ultimate goal is to create a system that any man can use to attract any woman at any time. O course, that’s impossible. But having it as a goal means I (and my ellow Love Systems instructors)are never satised with “good enough” or with whatever was excellent yesterday. We want to beeven more excellent tomorrow. Our techniques can always be rened and improved.I’m oen asked how and why I became “Savoy”, and an expert on the art and science o attractingbeautiul women. In many ways, my story is not that unusual. Several years ago, my long-termgirlriend and I broke up, and I moved to a new city or work where I didn’t know anyone. For therst time in my lie, I didn’t have a social lie already set up or me through riends or school. Tatmeant I wasn’t being introduced to interesting women; I had to go nd them and meet them mysel.So I started going to bars. A lot. And with very little success.Like other men, I made a lot o excuses at rst. I a woman I was interested in was respondingto another man, I would tell mysel that she must be his girlriend or that they knew each otherbeore that night, or that I didn’t want her anyway, or that I just had come out to the bar to have un.Whatever it took to protect my ego rom these truths: 1. Women DO want to meet men (just not me).2. Women respond well to at least some men who don’t seem to have any obvious advantagesover me. (Losing a woman to Brad Pitt is one thing. Losing her to Dive Bar Steve is anotherthing entirely).3. Tese men must be doing something diferent rom me that is helping them.4. I need to learn what that something is.Tese days, learning that “something” is a lot easier. Pick up a copy o the Magic Bullets Handbook or take a bootcamp, and you’ve got a road map to attracting beautiul women right there or you.But “back in the day”, beore Magic Bullets, beore Te Attraction Forums, beore any o this stuf,there was just observation and trial and error.And that’s what I did. I went out, a lot. I watched beautiul women a bit, but mostly I watched themen who they were attracted to. I wanted to learn what they had in common, so I could reverse-engineer what they were doing. I asked them lots o questions beore I realized how useless thatwas – most “naturals” have no idea o what they are doing, because it all comes naturally to them by instinct. Realizing that I had to become my own teacher, I took a lot o notes. I experimented a lot.Tere were denitely a lot o brutal nights and blind alleys. As a riend o mine encouraged me,“o course it’s hard at rst. I it wasn’t, everyone would be doing it.” But eventually, there camethat moment that any man who studies dating science reaches eventually – where “the game slowsdown”. Where I could start to see two or three steps ahead, where I was in control instead o hopingnot to be blown out.