let go of the statistics baby and you need to call it out by faith! Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not yet seen. Jesus said "According to your faith...be it done unto you. which basically means you gotta believe to see it and/or become what you believe! I speak words of blessings over your life right now and YOU WILL HAVE A GIRLFRIEND. In fact, I'm believing that you will be blessed with a divine connections. I declare it by faith right now.