well i can understand how you feel about all that, however if you work in a place where people treat you that way you need to change jobs. as for me i am a man and i hate it, i do everything , i work 50 + hours a week , i pick up the kids on my way home, i cook dinner i do the dishes i take out the trash i wash the cars i give my 2 kids baths everynight , i do the laundry , i clean the house , i go grocery shopping , i pay all the bills. my wife dose 3 things, 1 drops the kids off at daycare , 2 works 6 hours a day, at night no less so she dosnt watch the kids at all, 3 she sleeps, sorry but im not saying the world is perfect but you have it way better than me if thats the only stuff you have to complain about.