this is the worst advice I could give to any man, considering this is bigoted and pointless. "Don't cheat, but if you do..." Don't join the military, but if you do..." Sounds like one who can't give advice. He didn't like the military, he doesn't appreciate women like you ought to, he was a very bitter liberal who couldn't get the Burger King treatment. He wants it "his way."Hhe hasn't grown up yet.