well, it is not we are trying to be like caucasians cos we never wanted to look one. we have long, thick, black healthy hair that all blondies envy. that is why, we can do whatever style we want. but for the caucasians, your hair is thin and almost falling off. so you would only want to limit yourself to your styles otherwise they will all be gone. i have long black hair and i am asian.i am here in US and everyone liked my hair to the extent that they would touched it without my knowledge. later i would just feel that someone has touched my hair. most caucasian women envy our hair. and most caucasian men get attracted to asians...that is why i cant blame the caucasian women who envy the asians. sorry but that is the fact. perhaps the men here are tired of caucasian beauties.