This Dating Cheat Sheet is a summary of the concepts taught in "Stumbling Naked in the Dark: Overcoming Mistakes Men Make with Women" by Bradley Fenton (http://www.amazon.com/St umbling-Naked-Dark-Overco ming-Mistakes/dp/14120121 55). The book has some really great material, and compiling this cheat sheet helped me digest it better. Maybe it'll help you, too :).