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Builder scribbled: Thank you Jen. My objective is always to make people think. Sometimes I do that by holding up a mirror so they can see themselves, other times I provide a different point of view they may not have thought of.

What a Relationship Needs to Succeed

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

Most relationships, especially marriages, seem destined to fail from the start today. This article explains why and how to avoid the problem when beginning a new relationship. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

6 days ago
Builder
Builder scribbled: I can't figure out that wording, either version. If what my friend says is the accepted interpretation, I'll go with that. I'm not comfortable with the "brother" reference either because the word has gone through so many transformations of meaning over the past 3000 years.

What a Relationship Needs to Succeed

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

Most relationships, especially marriages, seem destined to fail from the start today. This article explains why and how to avoid the problem when beginning a new relationship. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/28/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: Thanks Kenosis. Relationships are about what goes out from us, not about what comes in. Those who focus on what they get from the other tend to find themselves alone eventually. As a friend of mine says, "To get a friend you must first be a friend." He claims that's a quote from the Bible. True or not, the words are valuable.

What a Relationship Needs to Succeed

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

Most relationships, especially marriages, seem destined to fail from the start today. This article explains why and how to avoid the problem when beginning a new relationship. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/28/2009
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What a Relationship Needs to Succeed

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

Most relationships, especially marriages, seem destined to fail from the start today. This article explains why and how to avoid the problem when beginning a new relationship. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/28/2009
Builder

Builder scribbled: I can't figure out that wording, either version. If what my friend says is the accepted interpretation, I'll go with that. I'm not comfortable with the "brother" reference either because the wor... 10/28/2009

Kenosis23

Kenosis23 scribbled: These two different translations seem to make the whole thing rather more mysterious. I am thinking that "A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly" is roughly equivalent to what your frie... 10/30/2009

LovesCompanion

LovesCompanion scribbled: Bill, your articles are very interesting! I look forward to reading through more of your articles! I'm new on Scribd, so I don't have any documents up just yet.. in the works ;) I love how you pres... 11/01/2009

Builder

Builder scribbled: Thank you Jen. My objective is always to make people think. Sometimes I do that by holding up a mirror so they can see themselves, other times I provide a different point of view they may not have ... 6 days ago

emifasanya

emifasanya scribbled: i appreciate the things you wrote, though because of my religious inclination, i may not accept all. however, i find them thought provoking. 6 days ago

Builder
Builder scribbled: 42, I would note two things. First is (as the article suggests) that highly intelligent people are often socially underdeveloped, thus making friends who are like them is more difficult than for the average person ("The Big Bang" TV show is not typical). Second would be if the highly intelligent person thinks more about themselves than about the other, then a friendship would fall apart as any friendship would. The "throw-away" society does not teach relationship skills and it doesn't value them highly. Great analysis, by the way. Thanks.

Why Intelligent People Tend to Be Unhappy (full version)

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

This is the full version of the extremely popular article about highly intelligent people and their tendancy toward unhappiness. The previous version on Scribd had the second page cut off (for reasons as yet unaccounted for).

10/26/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: Dear Readers, please note that Scribd has refused to remove the second page of this article from its "store" even though Scribd admits that I will not receive anything from sales of the full article. This problem has been ongoing since August 30, 2009. Please see the full article at http://tinyurl.com/yjxuke4 Leave your comments there, not here any more. Thanks and sorry for the trouble.

Why Intelligent People Tend To Be Unhappy

from Builder

The rates of suicide, imprisonment and emotional dysfunction among highly intelligent people are much higher than for the average. Many are socially and emotionally underdeveloped or maldeveloped. Read on to learn why.

10/24/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: Dear Readers, please note that Scribd has refused to remove the second page of this article from its "store" even though Scribd admits that I will not receive anything from sales of the full article. This problem has been ongoing since August 30, 2009. Please see the full article at http://www.scribd.com/doc/20820997/Wh... Leave your comments there, not here any more.

Why Intelligent People Tend To Be Unhappy

from Builder

The rates of suicide, imprisonment and emotional dysfunction among highly intelligent people are much higher than for the average. Many are socially and emotionally underdeveloped or maldeveloped. Read on to learn why.

10/24/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: Rakesh, I regret my absence from the Vimarsh forum. I had thought that there was no further interest in the kinds of topics we used to discuss there.

Buy Your Way To Happiness? Not Likely

from Builder in Research

Not only can't you buy your way to happiness, believing you can will make you unhappy. Here's the evidence. You don't have to be poor to be happy, you only have to know what you're doing. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/15/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: Seaview, it staggers my imagination that you could believe that reality depends on agreement among humans. I find it equally hard to comprehend that integrity can be altered by others with "less honorable intentions." Alloyed integrity, as you put it, is not integrity at all.

Your Life In A Day

from Builder in Research, Humanities

Ever wondered about the meaning of life, the purpose of your existence or why such a place as we live even exists? The answers may be hard to find only because we don't know how to look for them. Here are some tips to think about. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/12/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: Thanks Seaview. I agree with your sentiments, but not with the arguments you use to get there. There is no "general concensus." You may believe there is, and that provides your reality. Without integrity, nothing matters. Unfortunately, almost everyone believes they have it, while very few do. That's why so much seems to matter so little to so many.

Your Life In A Day

from Builder in Research, Humanities

Ever wondered about the meaning of life, the purpose of your existence or why such a place as we live even exists? The answers may be hard to find only because we don't know how to look for them. Here are some tips to think about. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/12/2009
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Your Life In A Day

from Builder in Research, Humanities

Ever wondered about the meaning of life, the purpose of your existence or why such a place as we live even exists? The answers may be hard to find only because we don't know how to look for them. Here are some tips to think about. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/11/2009
Builder

Builder scribbled: Thanks Seaview. I agree with your sentiments, but not with the arguments you use to get there. There is no "general concensus." You may believe there is, and that provides your reality. Without in... 10/12/2009

seaview911

seaview911 scribbled: :) Your ability to observe how reality is brought about mustn't be as sharp as you like to think. For it is only through agreement that we have reality at all in this universe. As for integrity, ... 10/12/2009

Builder

Builder scribbled: Seaview, it staggers my imagination that you could believe that reality depends on agreement among humans. I find it equally hard to comprehend that integrity can be altered by others with "less h... 10/12/2009

seaview911

seaview911 scribbled: Yeah I understand that you might be staggered. One only need view how friendships are formed, relationships with partners, formations of groups or the building of a society to prove the point out. ... 10/12/2009

LovesCompanion

LovesCompanion scribbled: Bill, This is really a great article! I loved it! I haven't laughed in a bit,.. and you had me the first 1/4, then I was focusing on the Power of Now, which I very much believe in.. and then you br... 11/01/2009

Builder
Builder scribbled: Primatephreak, the two do not necessarily go together. Anyone can be unhappy. Not everyone can be highly intelligent. Some have speculated that highly intelligent people have a mild form of the more severe problem known as savantism. It's a shocking course of thought to pursue because we can find so much evidence to support it. If it's true, in any sense, then the typical problems of highly intelligent people and the obvious difficulties of savants begin well before birth, I would speculate.

Why Intelligent People Tend to Be Unhappy (full version)

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

This is the full version of the extremely popular article about highly intelligent people and their tendancy toward unhappiness. The previous version on Scribd had the second page cut off (for reasons as yet unaccounted for).

10/10/2009
Builder
Builder published:

Why Intelligent People Tend to Be Unhappy (full version)

from Builder in Research, Health & Medicine

This is the full version of the extremely popular article about highly intelligent people and their tendancy toward unhappiness. The previous version on Scribd had the second page cut off (for reasons as yet unaccounted for).

10/08/2009
primatephreak

primatephreak scribbled: Oh, as I realize my intelligence, I also realize my unhappiness. 10/10/2009

Builder

Builder scribbled: Primatephreak, the two do not necessarily go together. Anyone can be unhappy. Not everyone can be highly intelligent. Some have speculated that highly intelligent people have a mild form of the mo... 10/10/2009

zeruke

zeruke scribbled: this seems very true to me. i don't like dealing with the social structure that is around at the moment because people of intelligence are considered as "something" to be messed with by most peopl... 10/10/2009

seaview911

seaview911 scribbled: You know, intelligence could be defined as: "The ability to observe, pose and resolve problems of survival as an individual, as a relationship or family, as a group member, as a member of mankind, ... 10/11/2009

Builder

Builder scribbled: 42, I would note two things. First is (as the article suggests) that highly intelligent people are often socially underdeveloped, thus making friends who are like them is more difficult than for th... 10/26/2009

Builder
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Our Own Shame

from Builder in Research, Humanities

Most of us do not realize how we show our prejudices and guilt to others. We do. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/04/2009
Builder
Builder scribbled: 212826, devil worshippers have faith. Gamblers have faith. Most people have faith of some kind. They just don't believe mythological tales told by shamen of rather coarse and crude semitic tribes of the times of the Ancient Egyptians and Philistines (both of which were truly cultured though Christians believe they were heathens). But you do. And that is your right. Faith is an excuse used by people who are devoted to beliefs in things for which there is no evidence. As the article said, Christmas is worth celebrating because of the teachings of the person after whom it was named. That person NEVER asked anyone to have faith in something for which no evidence existed. He wanted people to believe in what he could prove and demonstrate existed. His God was within each of us. His God was not the God of Moses and the Israelites who fought among themselves so much they stayed in the desert for 40 years and ate insects (manna) because they couldn't agree on anything. Theirs is the God you have faith in.

Why Everyone Should Celebrate Christmas

from Builder in Research, Humanities

Why and how you celebrate Christmas or avoid it completely may change after reading this dramatically different article. The whole event may take on a different meaning for you. / Find the home site of author Bill Allin at http://billallin.com

10/03/2009

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