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Ten things women LOVE to hear  
By: Rakshita Pandey
 If there's one thing that has always kept men wondering about women, it has to be figuring out what they
 love
to hear? Most men would agree that when it comes to compliments and sweet nothings, women can never have enough of it. The more they get,the more they want!
So, all that you need to do to impress her is – simply tell her all that she already knows.Yes! Strange but true – whether you are in a committed relationshipor worried about her losing interest in you or are an amateur wanting to takeyour relationshipto the nextlevel, here's a complete guide to help you learn exactly what she wants to hear...
'You look gorgeous!'
If one could list down three things that women can't live without – they would probably be – good food, a wardrobe to die for and hearty compliments. So, don't be stingy whenit comes to wooing her with a shower of compliments. The more you give, the more youare likely to get in return. Say all that she has been dying to hear – whether it is abouther looks, her attire, her figure, professionalism at work or her culinary skills. AnuditaMishra, 34, a homemaker says, "I love to be showered with compliments as I think mostwomen do. It gives my ego a boost when my hubby says, 'This dress suits you', or something like – 'You look prettier than any of those ladies I know' or saying, 'I wonder how you look so sexy even in your 30s!' It just makes me feel good about myself.'
 Hear say:
Dr. Sushma Dayal, a clinical psychologist says, “Each of us like to receivecompliments as it improves our self-image. It helps us to get rid of our inhibitions, actsas a motivation and helps us enhance our  personality.”
'You are the first woman in my life'
Saying this would certainly assure your girl that you are a 'one woman man' and thatyou don't keep hopping from one girlfriend to another. This is bound to put her on a pedestal and it will prove to be effective particularly in a long-term relationship. Becareful not to flatter her. Say this only when you mean it so that she never questionsyour loyalty.Abhay Bajaj, 26, a marketing professional says, "When I told my girlfriend that she isthe first woman in my life, she was utterly surprised. It's funny, but I believe mostwomen have a myth that guys are rarely committed to asingle woman.Once she was convinced, she was able to free herself from all insecurities and was head over heels for me."
 Hear say:
Archana Nanda, a psychologist opines, "Telling a woman that she is the first person you have been so close to is sure to elevate her  self-esteem and assure her of  your faithfulness. But one shouldn't do this just to just to flatter a woman, say it only
 
when you mean it from the bottom of your heart. It will rip your relationship apart if shefinds out that you kept her in the dark about your real emotions."
'You are great in bed'
This is sure to make her feel like a sex goddess and sweep away all the inhibitions shehad about her performance between the sheets. Praising her performance in bed andtelling her that she is simply irresistible, is sure to set the momentum for a sizzling actlater. The more you elevate and understand her sexuality, the more willing she will be toexplore her wildest fantasies.Don't just be grateful for every little effort that she puts to turn you on – say it aloud!Anant Joshi, 29,
(name changed on request)
says, "A few months ago I complimentedmy wife for her performance in bed and I think that was the greatest turn on for her since then. She's now more experimental and also more open to my sexual advances. Ithink it's not just men but women too who like to be appreciated for the efforts theymake in the bedroom."
 Hear say:
Sunil Garg, an expert on sex-related issues states, "You are sure to boost to awoman's sexuality when you tell her that she was super in the act. It will want her toexplore more of herself and not just you. She will be able to connect with you in asexual context."
'You'll make a great mother'
Most women look forward to having kids, but also tend to doubt themselves when it comes to being a good mother. Saying this is bound to put her on cloud nine –  particularly when her man thinks she has all that it takes to be a nurturing mother. In away, you'll also be assuring her of your commitment and that you would like to bring upyour kids with her. Ritu Jaiswal, 27, who gotmarrieda year ago, confesses, "It was myhusband who made me comfortable with the idea of parenthood. I was always scared of having kids, but he made me feel at ease by assuring me that I'll be a good mother andwill do an excellent job as a parent. I am now expecting my first child."
 Hear say:
“It’s important to assure a woman that she will be a good mother and that shehas qualities like compassion and endurance being a good parent. This will make her  believe in herself and also prepare her for the new role,” adds Dr. Sushma.
'Will you spend your life with me?'
Most women tend to be ultra sensitive and by saying this you are bound to play musicon the chords of her heart. You will also affirm to her that you are not just playingaround with her, but are actually looking forward to spending your entire life with her.Tell her how incomplete your life would be without her and that she has now become anindispensable part of your existence. Don't be surprised if you find her smiling for days!Richa Nanda, 25, who works with an advertising agency in Delhi confesses, "I had been
 
datinga guy for the last six months. We work in the same office. Although I like himvery much, I was a bit reluctant to commit to him prematurely. He recently asked mewhether I would like to get married to him and it was then that I made up my mind. Iwas convinced that he is genuinely interested in me and would like to take therelationshipfurther."
 Hear say:
"I think this is the most difficult thing to ask a woman. It is a very importantquestion and it means asking her for a long-term commitment. So, it is important to besure before you speak your mind," adds Archana.
'What do you think about .............?'
Ask for her opinion – whether it is about buying a new car or simply about what youshould wear to office. By doing this, you are not just asserting that her opinion isimportant to you, but also that you respect her views. And if you are still in doubt, justremember that women love to express their views on whatever it may be – so let her speak for longer than you may want to hear and let her be the diva who knows it all!Kanika Shrivastava, 28, who works with a telecom company in Delhi agrees, "I feelreally special when my boyfriendasks for my opinion. It boosts my ego. He consults me before taking any major decisions – whether it is regarding his career or investments. Iappreciate the fact that he values me not just for my looks but also my brains."
 Hear say:
“It’s important for a woman to believe that she is an important part of thedecision making process. Asking her for advice – no matter how big or small thedecision – makes her feel special and respected,” adds Dr. Sushma.
'You are my dearest pal'
Want to assure her that you are the kind of man who's not just with her for her glamlooks and her hourglass figure? Well, then all you need to do is to tell her that she is not just the love of your life, but also your dearest friend. Try to establish a connection beyond your sexual interest in her. This is sure to give her ego the much required boostand score you brownie points. Namita Goswami, 21, a college student says, “The best thing that my boyfriend has ever told me is that he considers me his best friend. Although he has many gal pals, but whenit comes to sharing anything special, I am the one he comes to. It is great to find your  best friend in your partner.”
 Hear say:
Manmeet Bhalla, amarriage and relationship counselor opines, "Being a woman's friend is the first step to winning her over. It is important for a woman to believe that she means much more to you than just being your wife or your girlfriend.What she needs to feel is that you count on her – when you are in a problem or adilemma, when you need advice, when you need a shoulder to cry on."
'I am lucky to have you'
Tell her that she is the only one for you. If not her, you would probably have still been
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