disappointed.
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If you think you should have help to do something, you might feel inadequate and becomedependent.
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If you feel nothing will work out for you, you feel sad or passive and you stop trying.No doubt there are connections between thoughts and feelings and/or actions.Introduction on Rational Emotive Therapy:Rational-Emotive
(RET) is built on the belief that how we respond emotionally at anymoment depends on our interpretations, views, beliefs, thoughts, etc. of the situation. To phrase itdifferently, the things we think and say to ourselves, cause our positive or negative emotions.The principle of this Rational-Emotional therapy is the relationship between thinking, feeling andaction. It is an analysis model: what is going on? It has self-control procedures. This helps you inbecoming able to easily influence the situation. You can gain insight in certain way of thinking.Belief against which Rational Emotive Therapy (RET) works.Some of the beliefs which cause the trouble are as follows:
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It is necessary for an adult to be loved or approved by everyone for everything he does.
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Certain acts are wrong, wicked and that people who perform them should be severelypunished.
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One needs one stronger than oneself on which to rely instead of standing on one's own twofeet.
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One should be thoroughly competent, adequate, intelligent, and achieving in all respectsinstead of looking at oneself as an imperfect being.
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If something once affected one's life it should always affect it instead of learning fromexperiences.
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It is important to our existence what other people do instead of realizing people'sdeficiencies are their own problems.
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One has no control over his emotions and can not help feeling certain things instead of accepting the control we can have over our lives.
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Unhappiness is externally caused and forced on one by outside people and events.
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If something is fearsome or dangerous one should be terribly concerned about it instead of facing it head on.
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It is easier to avoid than face life difficulties and self responsibilities instead of lookingdirectly at the problem.
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