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ASK HER ANYTHING

What thrusting speed feels best for women during sex? I like to speed things up, but don’t women prefer it slower?

—KEVIN, Brooklyn, NY

Don’t assume that all we want to do is “make love.” Women like hard and fast sex just as much as the slow and sensual kind. I think the stereotype stems from the fact that a majority of female orgasms come from clitoral stimulation, which, depending on your body, can

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