The power of pleasure

In the past two centuries we’ve come a long way in our attitude towards understanding sexual pleasure and the orgasm. Less than 200 years ago it was believed a woman was not capable of experiencing orgasm outside of sexual penetration by a man — and likely didn’t experience sexual desire at all. Unsurprisingly, many women were sexually frustrated, complaining to their doctors of irritability, nervousness, headaches, erotic fantasies, insomnia and heaviness in the lower abdomen. These came to be known as symptoms of a female medical condition called “hysteria”, though nearly any behaviour could be attributed to “hysteria”. British physician Havelock Ellis, wrote that nearly 75 per cent of women suffered from it.

Fortunately, physicians eventually found they could do something that miraculously made these symptoms disappear: a “physician-assisted paroxysm”. This was simply a pelvic massage that resulted in — you guessed it — an orgasm. But, of course, it wasn’t called an orgasm. Instead, if a woman became flushed and happy from her pelvic massage, she was said to have undergone a “hysterical paroxysm”, another

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