How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive: A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality
Written by Kate Kinsey
Narrated by Alexandra Shawnee
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About this audiobook
Erotic author Kate Kinsey brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.
Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about "training" to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners.
Contains mature themes.
Kate Kinsey
Kate Kinsey is a lifelong writer who has been very involved in the BDSM community on both local and national levels. Education within the community is one of her passions. “Sex,” says Kinsey, “is one of the most powerful forces in our lives. It affects who we are and how we feel about ourselves. When that drive carries shame and repression, it cripples us in a very real and pervasive way. The stereotype that people who embrace BDSM—or indeed, any kink considered outside the mainstream of ‘normal’—are somehow sick or damaged could not be further from the truth. It takes courage and self-awareness to seek out the things that fulfill and satisfy us. People who do what we do are among the healthiest and happiest people I know.” To learn more about Kate and BDSM, visit her at www.katekinsey.weebly.com.
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Reviews for How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Great introduction, touches on important basics in a way that empowers
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book is superb! As a Dom myself it's always wonderful to hear the insights and wisdom from an experienced submissive. This book is exactly what it says on the tin. It cuts through so much bhollohx to get right at the heart of what it means and what it takes to be submissive but remain true to your own values. It outlines how to maintain your identity and core of who you are and grow in the safety and care a propperly established DS dynamic offers. You can't help but grow after reading or listening to a book like this. It's a must read for anyone in a DS dynamic or who is considering what that really means to them.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Perfect for anyone wanting to understand this beautiful complex world.