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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Personal Workbook

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Mar 29, 2004
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Bestselling author Stephen R. Covey, the internationally renowned authority on leadership, presents a hands-on guide in his landmark novel, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, which has sold over 25 million copies worldwide.

This integrated, principle-centric 7 Habits philosophy has helped readers find the solutions to both their professional and personal problems so that they can achieve a life characterized by fairness, integrity, success, and security. Covey's step-by-step guide is thoroughly explored in this workbook, which highlights the 7 Habits and shows readers how to put these concepts into action.

This workbook helps readers to understand and internalize the power of Covey's 7 Habits. These engaging, in-depth exercises let readers get their hands dirty as they develop and obtain their own set personal goals and improve their relationships with their peers.

This reference book offers the solutions to any personal or professional issue by promoting fairness and teaching integrity. Accompanied with the same clarity and assurance that all of Covey's fans have come to appreciate, this unique workbook shows readers how to fully internalize the 7 Habits through several thought-provoking exercises, regardless of whether or not they are already familiar with the principles.
Released:
Mar 29, 2004
ISBN:
9780743267038
Format:
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Renowned for his family and business leadership, organizational expertise and consulting, Stephen R. Covey is the co-founder of FranklinCovey Co. He is author of several international bestsellers, including The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, which has sold over 20 million copies. He was named one of TIME Magazine's 25 Most Influential Americans. Dr. Covey holds the Jon M. Huntsman Presidential Chair in Leadership at the Huntsman School of Business at Utah State University.


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PART ONE

PARADIGMS AND PRINCIPLES

Before you begin this section of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Personal Workbook, read pages 15–62 in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

PARADIGMS

Our paradigms, correct or incorrect, are the sources of our attitudes and behaviors, and ultimately our relationships with others.

—STEPHEN R. COVEY

A STORE MANAGER HEARD one of his salespeople say to a customer, No, we haven’t had any for some weeks now, and it doesn’t look as if we’ll be getting any soon. The manager was shocked to hear these words and rushed to the customer as she was walking out. That isn’t true, he said, but she just gave him an odd look and walked out. He confronted the salesperson and said, Never, never say we don’t have something. If we don’t have it, say we’ve ordered it and it’s on its way. Now, what did she want?

Rain, said the salesperson.

How many times have you made assumptions similar to the store manager’s? It’s easy to do, because we all see things in different ways. We all have different paradigms or frames of reference—like eyeglasses through which we see the world. We see the world not as it is, but as we are—or sometimes as we are conditioned to see it.

The more we are aware of our basic paradigms, or assumptions, and the extent to which we have been influenced by our experiences, the more we can take responsibility for those paradigms, examine them, test them against reality, change them if necessary, and listen to others and be open to their perceptions.

It becomes obvious that if we want to make relatively minor changes in our lives, we can focus on our attitudes and behaviors. But if we want to make significant quantum changes, we need to work on our basic paradigms—the way we view ourselves and the world around us.

Have you ever had an experience where you made an assumption, only to find that you had jumped to a conclusion too quickly? Describe the experience below.



What was the assumption you made?



Think about some other assumptions you may have made. What will you do this week to work on one of them?



EXAMINING YOUR PARADIGMS

Have you ever been to a different country or even to a different region in your country? What was strange to you?



Did people act the way you expected them to? What did you think about their actions?



Looking back on your travel experiences now, what do you think people thought about you? Do you believe their thoughts about you were probably similar to your thoughts about them?



If you had the opportunity to get to know people in your travels, how did that change your assumptions about them?



SHIFTING YOUR PARADIGM

Think about the different routes you can take to your home or work. Are some ways more complex than others? Is one way sometimes more convenient than another? Why or why not?



Have you ever found a new way home that you didn’t know existed? What were the unexpected feelings of traveling different routes?



Now think about the way you interact with people. Are there several ways to approach them? What new ways might you try?



PRINCIPLES

It is impossible for us to break the law. We can only break ourselves against the law.

—CECIL B. DEMILLE

ONCE EINSTEIN SAW the needle of a compass at the age of four, he always understood that there had to be something behind things, something deeply hidden. This also pertains to every other realm of life. Principles are universal—that is, they transcend culture and geography. They’re also timeless, they never change—principles such as fairness, kindness, respect, honesty, integrity, service, contribution. Different cultures may translate these principles into different practices and over time may even totally obscure these principles through the wrongful use of freedom. Nevertheless, they are present. Like the law of gravity, they operate constantly.

Principles are also inarguable. That is, they are self-evident. For example, you can never have enduring trust without trustworthiness. Think about it; that is a natural law.

Natural laws (like gravity) and principles (like respect, honesty, kindness, integrity, and fairness) control the consequences of our choices. Just as you get bad air and bad water when you consistently violate the environment, so also is trust (the glue of relationships) destroyed when you’re consistently unkind and dishonest to people.

Remember Aesop’s fable The Goose and the Golden Egg? The moral of this fable has a modern application. True effectiveness is a function of two things: that which is produced (the golden eggs), and the producing asset or capacity to produce (the goose). Like the foolish farmer, we often emphasize short-term results at the expense of long-term prosperity.

Effectiveness lies in the balance: the P/PC Balance®. P stands for production of desired results—the golden eggs. PC stands for production capability—the ability or asset that produces the golden egg.

In spite of the obvious need for balancing P and PC, we frequently neglect and abuse physical, financial, and human resources. For instance, we don’t properly maintain our bodies, the environment, or our valuable physical possessions. Of equal concern, we overlook relationships, neglecting kindnesses and courtesies.

On the other hand, PC investments such as exercising and eating properly, increasing skills, and developing relationships contribute to our quality of life. Relationships are stronger, finances are more secure, and physical assets last longer.

Reflect on Aesop’s fable The Goose and the Golden Egg. Take a few moments and write your own fable about yourself. In terms of your production and production capability, where do you need to develop greater balance? Here’s an example to help get you thinking:

A talented and enterprising young woman was a wife, mother, and businesswoman. She wanted to do a good job for herself, her family, and her company. She worked hard and was soon recognized as someone whom people could depend on to get things done quickly, efficiently, and with high quality, whether at home or at work. Things began piling up. She came home barely in time to put the kids to bed. The quality of her life diminished on every level. She felt tired all the time, and she ended up feeling used and abused.



The 7 Habits center on timeless and universal principles of personal, interpersonal, managerial, and organizational effectiveness. Listed here are the principles upon which the Habits are based.

1. The principle of continuous learning, of self-reeducation—the discipline that drives us toward the values we believe in. Such constant learning is required in today’s world. Continuous learning is part of what keeps us feeling empowered in our relationships and accomplished in our work. Technology is constantly changing, and many of us will work in more than five different fields before we retire. Are you willing to be left behind?

That is what learning is. You suddenly understand something you’ve understood all your life, but in a new way.

—DORIS LESSING

2. The principle of service, of giving oneself to others, of helping to facilitate other people

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  • I'm reading this book again for the fourth time, and I got the workbook so that I could start taking this to the next level; and I couldn't be happier. This book is a treasure trove of insight. It's the work of a god-centric man who studied the practical ways on how to improve yourself. This book reveals our natural, inborn desire to be the absolute best that we can be, no matter how hard that may be. Our culture is centered around doing what's easy, and the independence level that Covey discusses is what most of us strive for. The greatest thing you can learn from this book is the emphasis on independence and the value of you becoming an active and dynamic contributor to society and the things larger than you. This book is a fantastic and practical way to achieve your dreams. This is what churches need to preach about in order help their congregation enhance their relationships to one another and themselves.

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  • This might possibly be the best personal development book of all time. It certainly falls into my top 5. If you've never read a personal development book, then you need to pick this up right now and read it! Covey's book is designed to help you find your path in life, it's designed so that you can achieve your wildest dreams and live how you want to. The book does merit multiple rereads as it may overwhelm you at first with its abundance of useful information. Sure, this is certainly a mental exercise, especially if you've never read anything like this before, but luckily there is a workbook for you to help you manage all of the information. I run a company and made all my of team members read it, then I got my wife to read it. And now I'm working on teaching our kids these principles while they are still young . I love Covey and I love this book!

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Reader reviews

  • (4/5)
    Great book. Learn a lot about being a better business person AND a better person in general.
  • (5/5)
    Summary: Let's face it. Apply every true principle in this book and you can't help but be living life to it's very fullest. This book will be just as true and important 100 years from now as it is today.
  • (5/5)
    This book has something for everyones self development. Do you want to remake yourself into a better person, improve your relationship with a spouse, develop better communication skills with you kids, refine your business expertise, enhance your leadership capabilities, prioritize your life, I could go on and on. To quote the book, you learn, that the gate to change can only be opened from the inside. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People is very well written, There are stories, examples, forms, diagrams and even interactive areas within the book to help you understand concepts. The book breaks down how to be effective in whatever goal you choose. You learn how to prioritize, expand listening skills (great to help you understand your children and spouse), why you must admit mistakes, and how what you say impacts others. By the end of the book you will understand how to develop good attitudes and a winning behavior. I highly recommend his book.
  • (4/5)
    The seven habits are universal and applicable not only at work, but also at home. They deserve reading and re-reading year after year. The only problem I have with the author is that some of the stories told are simply too neat and perfect, and they leave the reader feeling just a bit as if they are being talked down to. The whole "clean and green" story just seems to have been enhanced, and is told with such extreme detail you simply want it to end.
  • (3/5)
    Good information on becoming a successful person. Covey covers habits that can help anyone in either their personal or professional life. The only issues I have with the book is the use of metaphors, anecdotes, and the over-all verbosity. I would have appreciate the book more as a tool if he had kept it simple.
  • (5/5)
    I have had this book on my reading list for a while. This books has been a valuable catalyst in my personal development. On one hand there is very little that is shocking. As the author freely admits, he does not consider the principles that these habits embody to be his, but universal. While I think most people will find an innate understanding of each of these habits, Stephen Covey is blessed with an ability to clearly explain them in a way that will help you grow if you chose to follow them.You do not have to be unhappy with your life, job or marriage to find benefit in this book. What the book helped me with was to make clear to where I needed to improve. Although Stephen Covey is a religious man, he had written the book in such a way that can be approached and understood by anyone from the atheist, to the agnostic and the religious man.I would highly recommend this book for anyone looking for a direction or approach to give their life more mean and purpose.
  • (5/5)
    What can I say. This is the classic book on leading an effective life.
  • (4/5)
    This is a highly effective book for getting your life turned around and on a path toward professional and personal success. This is certainly no a cure-all; no promised panacea here. You have to make a sincere and sustained effort. You have to apply what Covey teaches. But even failed attempts, even imperfect applications should result in improvement.
  • (5/5)
    No wonder this book was named #1 Most Influential Business Books of the 20th Century. It makes you build/strengthen your personal effectiveness as a step towards ‘total’ effectiveness in all aspects of life; personal, professional and social.The book is well-written and full of real life examples. I like the way Covey explains his thoughts throughout examples most of which are of his own experience. He elaborates more on each point he expects the reader to be unclear of.Covey emphasizes the fact that these habits are not of his own creation, they are already existing and living with us but he puts them in a mold and sequence that enable the reader to put into practice right away. Although they seem idealistic and difficult to master, they are all applicable. The reader may take a long time struggling with one or more of the habits, but they can be practiced separately and without order, and they will yield a satisfactory level of effectiveness.With the 7 Habits, Covey tries to convey the concept of caring for others in order to achieve effectiveness. I can say that both Effectiveness and Social Responsibility are products of the correct and perseverant practice of these habits.As Tom Peters says in the Praise Section of the book, Covey offers us an opportunity to explore ourselves and our impact on others. This is a book that could change the reader’s life.
  • (4/5)
    This is not a quick fix book. I will take time and focus for any of the advice given in the book to make big changes. That said I've just finished the book and noticed some positive changes in myself.

    This book does have "buzzwords" that other reviews have complained about but that is because the book made them that way. People just repeat the words instead of doing the hard work.

    This book does have one flaw the writer talks about not projecting your paradigms on others Covey forgot that not all his readers will be Christian.
  • (4/5)
    This book was important for me because it inspired me when I was becoming a coach. It also reinforces the important lessons about the importance of discipline in becoming successful.
  • (2/5)
    Not a big fan of either mormons or their management books. Not as badly written as the out of the box book, but the constant harping on about church, and higher callings is really offputting. Im not sure I agree with his ideas, and some of them are so common sense I find it hard to believe that they are sold under such great fanfare.
  • (4/5)
    The best time management system and certainly the most publicized. There's no big secret in what Covey has to say, it's how he says it that makes it worth while.
  • (5/5)
    There is much more to this book and the series of books than I first thought. I thought it was a bundle of cliches and ignored the work required to develop all of the ideas into actual habits, used daily and in all circumstances. I have a lot of work to do on this package.
  • (5/5)
    Clear, concise, and to the point. It's no wonder this is a classic. Each of the 7 habits is explained well, with a relevant story to illustrate each one. I'm certain I will return and review this until these become my personal habits. 
  • (5/5)
    great book, really helped me realize i could take better control of my life
  • (5/5)
    In these days, a lot of people are wondering what Mormons' religious beliefs lead to as a philosophy of life. Read Covey. Wholesome, motivating, inspiring.
  • (3/5)
    I've been working an a pair of books and this might be an interesting read for character types.
  • (5/5)
    This is a wonderful self-help book with a Christian focus. But even if you are not Christian, the basic concepts are still worthwhile. Covey requires you to really look inside yourself and discipline yourself. I could only read the book in short spurts because he makes you THINK!! And not only think, but to apply these concepts takes serious focus and determination.
  • (5/5)
    This book is always a good one to re-read. The habits are really common sense, but sometimes you need to sit down and remember them.
  • (5/5)
    This book started a transformation in my life. I look at the world with a different set of eyes now thanks to that book.
  • (5/5)
    This book is the main text of a secular religion. Stephen Covey is/was a practicing Mormon; this, however, is his personal religion and faith. Reading his preface, Covey says that the more he practices his own principles, the more he realizes that he has not actually put his own principles into practice. This is a religion of salvation by works, though Covey does not say that in so many words. On page 11, Covey wrote that the ultimate source of his principles is God.I say this is a secular religion because there are scant references to God or Scripture, but each principle is referred to as an ultimate principle. A Jew, Muslim, Hindu, Mormon, Catholic, Unitarian, or Baptist could all equally practice Covey's principles without equivocation. So, the principles are useful insofar as they are also utilitarian; Covey's ideas are dangerous insofar as they place human effort above God's Sovereignty and Grace. There is no mercy here, only work and self effort.Be careful reading and implementing the principles of this books to not lose sight of Whose we are, and Who is really in control.
  • (4/5)
    هو كتاب يتحدث عن الاعتماد على الذات وركز على سبع مبادىء اذا طبقهم الشخص فقد تساعدة على ان يكون شخصاً أكثر فعالية ، كما أكد الكاتب على أنه من الممكن تحقيق ذلك عن طريق المداومة هذه المبادئ تمنحنا الأمان بالتكيف مع التغيير إلى جانب الحكمة والقدرة على الإفادة من الفرص التي يتيحها التغيير يعد هذا الكتاب "العادات السبع للناس الأكثر فعالية"، من أكثر الكتب مبيعاً في أميركا وذلك لما يعرضه المؤلف من معالجات شاملة متكاملة وواضحة المبدأ تساعد في حل المشاكل الشخصية والمهنية وفي كل مرة تعيد قراءة هذا الكتاب تكتشف رؤية ثاقبة جديدة مما برهن على ما ينطوي عليه من دعوات تتميز بالعمق والرسوخ. إن رشاقة الأسلوب، والفهم العميق لأغوار الاهتمامات البشرية، ومدى احتياجنا إليه في أمورنا التنظيمية والشخصية، تجعل هذا الكتاب الرائع جدير بأن يغير مجرى حياتك.Is a book that talks about self-reliance and focused on the seven principles if Tabatha person has to help him be more effective people, as the author emphasized that it is possible to achieve this by pollutants such principles give us the security to adapt to change, along with the wisdom and the ability to take advantage of opportunities offered by the change is the book "the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People," a best seller in America books, so why presented by the author of an integrated and clear principle comprehensive treatments help in solving personal and professional problems and each time re-read this book discover new insight into the vision which proved it entails invitations featuring depth and firmness. The agile method, and deep understanding of the depths of human concerns, and how we need to in organizational and personal things for us, make this a wonderful book deserves to alter the course of your life.
  • (4/5)
    Great book with valuable, motivating info. A little heavy on the case studies, but otherwise very helpful.
  • (5/5)
    Stephen had a tremendous impact not only on my life, but through me, on the lives of those I had the privilege to lead. It started indirectly, when, after a period of reflection and tough going I discovered the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. The overall approach of private victory then public victory, describing our growth as proceeding from dependence through independence to interdependence struck me as incredibly simple yet powerful. I applied what I learned to my life immediately.Later, when assigned to command the USS Santa Fe, I applied his 7 Habits approach at the organizational level. I gave every officer and chief who reported a copy of his book. We would have seminars discussing the various habits and the application of those habits made Santa Fe a more effective submarine.It turned out that Stephen was doing some work for the navy and learned about what we were doing on Santa Fe. He expressed an interest in riding the ship and the navy set it up. We were scheduled to conduct a one-day transit from the port of Lahaina on the neighboring island of Maui back to Pearl Harbor. This would be a perfect time for him to ride. It was also when we had set up a family member cruise and were expecting about 80 family members to ride as well.I was apprehensive about having both events at the same time. I thought the presence of the family members would present a distorted picture of how Santa Fe operated. Further, I wasn’t sure how I’d appropriately apportion my time between running Santa Fe, Stephen, and the family members.It worked out perfectly! Stephen was working on a book for families and held a special talk just for the family members. His message was that they played a critically important role in the success of the ship and placed high value on family. It was a win-win.Stephen spent the entire day onboard, talking with crew members, looking through the periscope and driving the ship. He was tremendously interested in the people, and how they worked together. Everyone he talked to felt better about themselves afterward, especially me.He remained interested in how Santa Fe did and was happy to hear of the subsequent successes the ship had, including the selection of 9 of the officers for submarine command. I was honored that he included USS Santa Fe in his book, The Eight Habit, and agreed to write the foreword to Turn the Ship Around!
  • (5/5)
    Wonderful! Very practical, and useful, personally applicable.
  • (2/5)
    I can't take any more. Yes, despite how little effort this takes to read, it's DNF.Maybe because all the good ideas have already been stolen by other books and leadership seminars I've been to?Maybe because so much of it seems like the author took a lot of techniques and discrete skills, understood that they need to be tied together and the closest tie he could identify was character? It feels looking at a puzzle after someone put it together in the dark: all I can see are the missing and misplaced pieces and it distracts me from the whole.Also, it's a lot more Jesus-y than I was expecting. Which I could deal with, if the rest of it was better, but it's not, so... I'm done. That said, if you like Jesus-y stuff, you might like this entire thing more than I did.
  • (5/5)
    I got this book about 15 years ago as a gift from a publisher, lend it to a friend who lost it and brought a new copy for me. Still, I didn't touch it until I am searching for important answers to life this year.In summary, the author believes that to be truly effective, our center of life must be based on timeless principles, because money, church, friends, family, work, pleasure or even self are inconsistent and unreliable. If you depend on these insecured sources as your center, you will end up reacting according to their ever changing action upon you. You feel good only when these factors are in good conditions.In time management, there are quadrants:1. Important and Urgent (Deadline-driven projects)2. Important but Not Urgent (Relationship building)3. Not Important but Urgent (Phone calls)4. Not Important and Not Urgent (Pleasant activities)We always end up busy in Quadrant 1 and 3 because these are urgents. Yet to be truly effective, we need to invest time in the important Quadrant 2 activities. In fact, by investing in Quadrant 2, we are preparing ourselves to handle future Quadrant 1 activities. For example, if we invest in building up our knowledge and upgrading our skills (Quadrant 2 activities), we can avoid making ignorance mistakes that will lead us into handling Quadrant 1 activities such as correcting those mistakes.The author gave a very good example :-Suppose you were to come upon someone in the woods working feverishly to saw down a tree and asked him "What are you doing? You look exhausted!". He replied "Can't you see? I'm sawing down this tree for over five hours!". You suggested him to take a break and sharpen that saw, but he replied "I don't have time to sharpen the saw, I'm too busy sawing!"Sharpening the saw is Quadrant 2 activity that will prepare you to work more effectively in sawing down that tree, which is a Quadrant 1 activity.
  • (2/5)
    My dad recommended this to me as a must-read. It had been a revelation for him. But contrary to my dad, who has been a teacher all his life, I've been working in corporate serfdom up to now. And I've been exposed to too many corporate seminars, away days, retreats and other HR outings to find anything in this book a revelation. Maybe all those well-meaning presenters got their input from this very book (in fact, I suspect that a large part of them did), and so I maybe should have read it earlier in my life for me to find it useful. I'd recommend it to people between 25 and 35 who work in large professional environments and score relatively low on emotional intelligence (that would have been me, back in the day). Being over 40, I found the book had a handful of good ideas, but those were eclipsed by the author's style, which I found a little repetitive, trite and sanctimonious. As it stands, I got my main life lessons not from self-help books like this, but from walls (by butting my head repeatedly into them, a slightly more unpleasant but fairly efficient learning method).
  • (5/5)
    If I was asked to recommend one self help book to improve your whole life this would be it. Its easy to read and the suggestions are not hard to implement. It deserves a couple of reads one, to get and overview and another slower read to implement change.