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The Unbreakable Boy: A Father's Fear, a Son's Courage, and a Story of Unconditional Love
The Unbreakable Boy: A Father's Fear, a Son's Courage, and a Story of Unconditional Love
The Unbreakable Boy: A Father's Fear, a Son's Courage, and a Story of Unconditional Love
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The Unbreakable Boy is the raucously tender story of the life of a teenage boy with a rare brittle-bone disease who joyfully embraces life's tragedies and triumphs--and the inspiring story of how his father was transformed through their journey together.

Like any other teenage boy, Austin loves pizza, movies, dancing, and girls. But unlike most other eighteen-year-olds, he has a rare brittle-bone disease, was locked in a mental ward as a child, and is autistic. Yet Austin doesn't let any of that stop him. His is a world where suffering a broken back is a minor inconvenience and the quest for the ultimate strawberry shake just might be the best day of his life.

Austin's journey dares readers to believe that

  • miracles are possible;
  • hope does spring eternal; and
  • we can find joyous moments to celebrate every day.

Written with remarkable candor by Austin's father, Scott, and New York Times best-selling author Susy Flory, The Unbreakable Boy weaves the beautiful and often humorous tale of how Austin teaches his father--and everyone else he encounters--to have faith in God and trust that one day life's messes will all make sense.

LanguageEnglish
PublisherThomas Nelson
Release dateNov 18, 2014
ISBN9781400206773
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Scott Michael LeRette

Scott LeRette is an ordinary man with an extraordinary son. Scott and his wife, Teresa, have two teen sons, Austin and Logan. Both Teresa and Austin suffer from Osteogenesis Imperfecta, also known as brittle bone disease. Scott writes an award-winning daddy blog called Austintistic.

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The Unbreakable Boy - Scott Michael LeRette

A NOTE FROM AUSTIN LERETTE

My name is Austin. Richard Austin LeRette. But you can call me Auz. That’s a true fact. When I meet new people, I tell them everything.

I’ve broken so many bones. I broke my back two times. I have osteogenesis imperfecta. I am not sure what this is; all I know is that my bones break real easy.

When I was little I had something wrong with my heart too, and the surgeons had to crack my chest open, fix it, and then wire me back together.

I also have autism. Autism stinks. Some autistic kids can’t talk but I can. Sometimes I make up words. It calms me down to say words over and over again. Sometimes I say bad words, and I have a hard time listening. I wish it would stop. I wish I was a better person. People don’t understand how much I try. I freak out over little things and get mad a lot when feelings come.

I don’t like my diseases. Logan is the lucky one because he can ride a dirt bike or skateboard. He’s so lucky. No autism. Sometimes I wish Mom could just put me back in her belly so I could get born all over again and maybe my genes would change.

Dad says the odds of a person having brittle bone disease, heart defects, and autism are 1 in a billion. I can prove you are special, he says. But I don’t want to be special. I just want to be like every other dude.

Nothing hurts right now. I don’t hurt every day, only every other day. My back hurts some days. My head hurts. My legs and my feet hurt. Sometimes I can’t block it out. But if I have a good day, I’m very happy. Like the day I had the best strawberry milkshake in the world. I kept trying and trying to explain how good it tasted to my dad.

Loud music makes me feel good. Eating does too. Especially when I dip things in ranch dressing. Cooking calms me down, and I want to be a chef someday. I’m going to open my own hotel with a restaurant called Auzzie’s Grand Diner. I’ll wear a big chef’s hat and apron and have butlers serving food. My special dish will be called Heart Attack Ravioli.

I’m a happy person with a crummy disease, but it doesn’t slow me down too much.

I love everybody. By the way, want to be my Facebook friend? And then how about a sleepover at my house? We can watch Back to the Future. I love you. Do you know that? Please, thank you, you’re welcome, I love you.

I have a hat collection, a music poster collection, and a shoelace collection. I take lots of showers, and I like to dress up with a jacket, shirt, tie, and hat. Wearing just the right hat makes my day. Once in a while when Dad sees how I’m dressed, he goes back upstairs and changes.

Dad says sometimes I am the one teaching and he is the one learning.

Whatever, Dad.

Right now it’s time to go find him. Sometimes my dad hides from me.

Come on, Dad. I know you’re in the closet. Where are you, Daddy-O?

1

IN THE CLOSET

Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. . . . The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, The more joy you can contain.

—KHALIL GIBRAN

I sit cowering in my closet, the one place I find refuge. Life is hard, really, really hard, and sometimes this is the only place I can find a few minutes to ease my brain and recalibrate my soul. Go ahead and laugh. A grown man hiding in a closet like a little kid.

But even though I’m a dad and Austin is my son, I often feel like a child because I feel so helpless. Austin sees things differently, and I wish I could climb inside his brain and understand why he does the things he does. Some days it’s like we’re playing two different video games with two different controllers and two different sets of rules in two different virtual universes. I get frustrated. We all do.

Tonight is worse than usual. I’m scared and unsure what to do next as I sit on a kiddie chair alone in the dark, trembling and thinking and analyzing. I relive that night again. I can’t get it out of my brain.

My stomach tightens, and I feel sick as I remember standing in the men’s room at the country club, drunk as I’d ever been. I couldn’t stop staring at the man in the mirror. I raised my hands and tried to touch his burning eyes.

I wanted to keep believing this was all normal and life was just fine, but the man looking back at me was someone else—lost, alone, and at the point of destruction. I didn’t know who I was anymore, and I felt empty, like a lifeless cicada shell stuck on a post. I stumbled back into the dining room, the lights beating into my brain.

I have to get out of this place. Everyone is looking at me, and they just don’t understand.

As the awful memory unfolds, I grab my two boys and stumble out to the parking lot, heading for the car. Then I forget how to walk. My keys go flying, and I am on the ground, staring at the rocks stuck in my palms. I have gravel in my knees too. I look up at the moon and laugh, out of my mind, hands bleeding and snot bursting from my nose.

Nothing makes sense. I laugh even harder when a random man helps me to my feet and hands over my keys.

Be careful, he says.

Sure. I’m fine. No problem.

I zigzag to the car. We get in.

Dad, are you okay? Logan asks. Daddy?

I work the key into the ignition, start the car, and step on the gas. As we turn on the highway, I push the pedal all the way to the floor.

Daddy? Logan asks again.

I can’t remember anything that happens after that. Everything is gone. Black.

Much later, alone with my memories in the closet, I rock back and forth like Austin does sometimes, the tears running down my cheeks as I remember the next morning, the thoughts screaming through my hungover brain.

What have I done?

Did I kill my boys?

Oh my God.

2

THE GIRL WITH THE BLUE EYES

Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you.

—LORETTA YOUNG

Life was good—I was twenty-nine years old, an Iowa boy living in Charlotte, North Carolina. When I first met Teresa, I thought she was pretty cute, but she thought I was gay. I was blessed with considerable self-esteem, so it didn’t bother me too much. I had a great sales job, I lived in the newest and trendiest apartment complex, and I spent most afternoons exploring the awesome trails around the Piedmont on my mountain bike.

One cold winter day my friend Gary and I wandered into Structure, a trendy clothing store at Carolina Place Mall. I was sporting Bermuda shorts in multicolored stripes, a dark T-shirt with a hoodie on top, penny loafers, and round, wire-rimmed glasses. Part jock, part prep, part dork with a dash of romantic fool in the mix, I was also ex-navy and strutted a little when I walked. I’ve always been positive and happy-go-lucky with a streak of toughness—I never back down from a fight.

In college I could hammer out 330 pounds on the bench press, but even though I couldn’t lift that much anymore and I wasn’t very tall, I was in great shape. The girls seemed to like my dark blond hair and green eyes and told me I was cute and sweet and genuine. I liked my life just the way it was.

Teresa took one look at me in my funky outfit accompanied by tall, tan, and buff Gary and thought, Gay. She started joking around with us, picked out an awful pea green sports coat, and kept trying to sell it to me. She was tiny, cute, and loved to laugh. And then there were those eyes. They were the color of the Atlantic, and even the whites were blue.

She wouldn’t give up trying to sell me the ugly green coat, and we started talking. We discovered we both liked eating out, clubbing, and the musical Cats. I bragged about my new Calphalon cookware. And we both loved anything having to do with Italy. In Teresa’s mind, I was her new best girlfriend.

Two days later I came back by myself, this time in more respectable Levi’s 501 jeans, an L.L.Bean fleece pullover, and my killer black lizard Tony Llamas. Man, did I look good! I brought a gift—I’d made her a recording of the soundtrack for Cats.

Our first dinner was at the Epicurean restaurant. Teresa was still a little confused about my sexual orientation, but when I kissed her good night, it officially became a date.

I was casually interested, and we ended up seeing each other a few times over the next several weeks. I liked her, but I didn’t even know her last name.

Then I got a phone call that changed my life. You know the kind? The game-changer call, the one that turns you upside down and shakes you?

I’d left work early to get some things done before heading out of town on business. I had some paperwork in hand and was lounging half out of my recliner, my leg slung over the side. The phone on my desk buzzed. I looked over at the caller ID display and liked what I saw.

Teresa. Cool.

I smiled, tossed the papers down, and punched the Talk button.

Hello?

Hey, Scott. I’m having some medical things done. You know, just some routine stuff. Teresa’s voice was rushed, thin, a little out of breath. It’s not that big of a deal. But, umm . . . can you run by the hospital and take a blood test?

What?

Her voice was like a hammer to my chest, and when the shock went through my body, I flopped out of my chair and crashed to the floor. On the way down I hit my head on the edge of the desk, hard. The cordless phone bounced somewhere under the desk. I lay there, trying to understand what was happening. And I knew it couldn’t be good.

Man. My life is over.

It was 1994 and AIDS was all over the news. Millions of people had this horrible blood disease, and they all died. There was no cure.

I’d grown up in the Catholic church and knew all about the dangers of sin, but Teresa was a beautiful girl and our chemistry was strong. We’d gone on several dates, some of them sleepovers. Now I was going to pay.

She must have AIDS, and I do too. Now I’m going to die.

With my bashed head throbbing and adrenaline pumping through my veins, I flailed around under the desk, trying to find the phone.

Oh, God. What have I done?

I finally located the phone, tried to stop hyperventilating, and took a deep breath.

Slow down, Scott. Maybe it’s just routine. Maybe it’s no big deal.

I thought I’d heard a little catch in Teresa’s voice. Is she crying? But I was completely unprepared for what came next.

Scott, I’m pregnant.

I turned over, threw my arms out to each side, and stared up at the underside of my desk. This time I hung on to the phone, my hand gripping it like a lifeline.

I didn’t want to bother you, and I knew this would ruin your life, Teresa said. I know you’re a good person, and you don’t need to get involved. We don’t even know each other. I was silent as her sweet Southern voice spiked each word into my heart.

I lifted my head a few inches off the ground and for some reason flashed back to a few weeks before. My mother had been in town, and I’d taken her to meet Teresa. I remembered Teresa had looked thinner; I told her how great she looked and asked if she’d been working out.

Ouch! My head fell back again as I realized she’d already been pregnant. With my baby.

I just need you to do this blood work. Teresa’s voice sounded stronger now. I’m going to have this baby. Just do this and we can get on with our lives.

I must have said something to Teresa and clicked off the call, but I can’t remember. When I finally rolled over and pushed myself up off the floor and onto my knees, I went into some kind of fog. My heart was pounding. I realize I should’ve been worrying about Teresa and the baby, but I wasn’t.

This is messed up. There is no way I can be a dad. I don’t even know this girl. And she’s the reason my life is over.

I pulled myself up, then dropped back into my recliner. I took a deep breath, held it, and breathed out. But did I come to my senses? No. I hate to admit it now, but I was just thinking of one very important person. Me.

I am not happy about this. I have yet to sow my oats. This is not fair. I deserve better than this. And it all coalesced down into one sharp, undeniable urge.

I need a beer. Or three.

Later Teresa told me how she discovered she was pregnant. She had been getting ready for work one day when she suddenly doubled over in pain. She drove herself to the emergency room where tests showed a benign tumor in her ovaries. Her doctor recommended immediate surgery, but he said tests showed something else—Teresa was pregnant!

Teresa had no idea; she hadn’t experienced any signs of pregnancy. And because of some preexisting health issues, she didn’t think she could even get pregnant. In shock, she kept the news to herself, had surgery to remove the tumor, and went home a few days later. The unborn baby, our baby, came through it all okay. Did I visit her in the hospital? No, I was out riding my bike, still blissfully unaware I was going to be a father.

Teresa felt unprepared for motherhood, and she made an appointment for an abortion. I swore I would never have kids and here I was, twenty-seven years old, just met this guy, fell hard for him, and couldn’t believe I was pregnant, she later told me. She felt alone and afraid and wasn’t sure how she could make it all work. But she couldn’t go through with the abortion. I can’t end the life of this baby God gave me, she thought and canceled the appointment.

This all happened around the time my mother was visiting. Teresa didn’t tell me about the baby then because she didn’t want to ruin my visit with my mother. It was a few weeks later that Teresa told me she was pregnant, and I fell out of my chair and into a very different life from my carefree, before-the-phone-call life.

I had always been the black sheep of the family. I was my mama’s boy, but I was also the one my three brothers called the screwup. What’d he do this time? was the phrase that usually followed the word Scott. I never got in real trouble; I just tended to make poor choices and didn’t think enough or look too far ahead before I leapt.

I didn’t really know much about this beautiful Southern belle who was about to be the mother of my child, and that needed to change. A few days later, when the shock had worn off, I bought a baby bottle, stuck a daisy in it, and took it over to Teresa’s house. I like you and want to get to know you better, I said. I want to be a part of the baby’s life.

I never did go in for the blood test, but soon Teresa was healthy again, and we started spending more time together and making some plans for the baby. One day I gathered my courage and told Teresa that I loved her.

Being in a serious relationship was uncharted territory for me, and I didn’t know how to handle it. I don’t think I really loved her. I wanted to love her, but I didn’t know how. One day Teresa had a migraine. I didn’t know about her headache, played my music too loud, and we had a disagreement. Then I got mad and took back my I love you.

I could have handled that better. I had a lot to learn. And now I really needed that beer.

I was havin’ a baby.

3

TRADING JABS WITH JOE

When a child is born, a father is born.

—FREDERICK BUECHNER

Right before I got off the plane, I started tapping my toes inside my shoes. First two taps on the left, two on the right. Then three taps on the left, three taps on the right. However many times I tap on one side, I have to tap on the other. I’ve always done this. It helps me stay calm, and I was about to step off the plane into the cool Omaha air and hop in a car to drive to Red Oak, Iowa. I was going to break the news to my family. I silently practiced the words I’m going to be a father.

Then Joe started giving me a hard time.

You’re really in a fine mess, ya big dork, Joe said.

Dude, I’m not sure how this will go. Four taps on the left, four on the right. I’m a dead man walking.

Runnin’ home to Mommy and Daddy?

Uh-huh. That’s exactly what I’m doing, my man. Running home, I said. I know what to do.

I often traded jabs with an imaginary friend I’d had since I was a kid. The first time Mom heard this running dialogue, she named my invisible friend Joe. She always gave me a lot of grief about our lively, sometimes loud conversations, but I often talked to Joe when I was trying to figure things out.

As usual, I felt pretty positive and optimistic about the future. I knew I would have to grow up, and I had always wanted to be a dad. But first I needed to go home to my own mom and dad for comfort and a shoulder to

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