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My Daily Life
Dedicated to God who pulls me through each day.
Dear Reader:
I write about my experiences to provide insight about abuse, mental health, and the mental health system. I want to emphasize the purpose of this personal story is not to bash anyone or to exact revenge. It is to inform people of harsh experiences and how to take action. The purpose of this personal story is also to inform people about the role mental health plays in building and maintaining relationships, job productivity, keeping a job, crime, and more. I will relay my experiences and lessons learned through my struggle with mental health. Additionally, I include some essays about God. I am not claiming to be a follower of God yet I feel compelled to let you know that if you can muster the courage to believe in God, I believe that He may be the answer to many if not all of life’s struggles. Thank you for reading.
Amelia N. Reiling
Amelia N. Reiling
Amelia N. Reiling graduated from Indiana University Bloomington with a degree in psychology and a minor in biology. She is from Carmel, IN. She enjoys writing, acting, music, and artwork. She has an interest in educational reform and international development.
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My Daily Life - Amelia N. Reiling
MY DAILY LIFE
Amelia N. Reiling
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Dedicated to God who pulls me through each day.
Dear Reader:
I write about my experiences to provide insight about the significance of abuse in relationships. I want to emphasize the purpose of this personal story is not to bash anyone or to exact revenge. It is to inform people of harsh experiences and how to take action. Additionally, I include some essays about God. I feel compelled to let you know that if you can muster the courage to believe in God, I believe that He may be the answer to many if not all of life’s struggles. Thank you for reading.
Amelia N. Reiling
Table of Contents
We Are Wired for Relationships
The Trigger
My Family
Bullying
Sexual Harassment
Cycles of Abuse
Setting Boundaries v. Cutting Ties
Delivering the Concept of Forgiveness
Abuse
My Mental Health
Continued Trauma
Trauma Caused My Poor Mental Health
General Impressions of Certain Psychiatrists I’ve Come Across
Dealing with Pain
Homelessness
Pity and Poverty
Prostitution
The Perfect Relationship
Spiritual Abuse
Forgiveness and Accountability
Dealing with Pain, Mental Health, and Abuse with God’s Help
Conflict Management
TIPS and Approaches to Conflict Management
Basic Policy Recommendations in Developing Emotional Intelligence via the Educational System
I introduce the concept of how we are wired for relationships as a focal point for this document. My Daily Life
discusses the significance of relationships and how they affect mental health.
We Are Wired For Relationships
In psychologist Daniel Goleman’s book Social Intelligence, he quotes Richard Davidson, Director of the Laboratory for Affective Neuroscience at the University of Wisconsin,
All emotions are social. You can’t separate the cause of an emotion from the world of relationships-our social interactions are what drive our emotions.
Dr. Brian Parkinson in his journal article Emotions Are Social
further explains this concept.
He explains that emotions are interpersonal, cultural, and institutional and have an impact on other people. Emotions stem from interactions and are relational in meaning.
Why do emotions and the fact that they largely stem from relationships matter?
Dr. Mona Dekoven Fishbane explains in great detail that relationships are key to brain development in her article, Wired to Connect: Neuroscience, Relationships, and Therapy.
She explains that genetics and environment play a huge role in brain development and that our experiences alter the connections among our neurons. Trauma, abuse, and neglect can impair brain function, and relationships also affect physical health.
For example, in the arena of mental health, WebMD explains that stress, abuse, or a traumatic event can contribute to triggering mental illness. Severe trauma as a child, neglect, and a lower capacity to relate to others also contribute to chances of developing mental illness. Divorce and a dysfunctional family were also listed as potential factors. All of these factors that I listed are relevant to relationship building. Mental illness can develop as a direct result of unhealthy relationships.
In fact, according to Dr. Eric J. Marsh in his book Abnormal Child Psychology, the requirement for children’s mental health services will double by 2020. Twenty percent of adolescents with serious disorders have high levels of difficulty in finishing school. Their social problems and