Do the Work: The Official Unrepentant, Ass-Kicking, No-Kidding, Change-Your-Life Sidekick to Unfu*k Yourself
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Based on the New York Times bestseller Unfu*k Yourself comes an all new book of prompts, questions, and exercises, giving you the tools to intentionally commit to finally unfu*king your life.
In Unfu*k Yourself, Gary John Bishop inspired people to put his words into action to transform their fu*king lives. Through seven paradigm shifting assertions such as: “I am wired to win,” “I embrace the uncertainty” and “I expect nothing and accept everything,” Bishop helped millions of readers to move past their self-imposed limitations.
Still, Bishop knows it’s hard to go from reading the book, feeling inspired, and then actually doing the necessary work. That’s where Do the Work comes in: it’s the kick in the ass you need to get moving and create the life you want. The workbook drills down into three categories — self, people, and purpose — to help you identify and remedy the challenges that frustrate and often cripple us.
Filled with entirely new material, including personalized prompts and exercises with ample lined space to journal and process, Do the Work expands the lessons in Unfu*k Yourself, giving you the tools to intentionally commit to taking on your life.
“This is a personal workshop for your brain, a legit resource where you can work your life out, what matters to you, what’s going to make the biggest difference and empower you to act in ways that make some palpable change to the direction your life is currently taking.”
The truth will set you free, right? So what are you waiting for?
Gary John Bishop
Gary John Bishop is a leading personal development expert and the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself, Stop Doing that Sh*t, Do the Work, Wise As Fu*k, and Love Unfu*ked. His “urban philosophy” approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has led to miraculous results in the quality and performance of people’s lives. He lives in Florida.
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Reviews for Do the Work
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I have not read the first book in this series: Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life. The message that Gary John Bishop delivers has resonated with millions of people. He helps people identify the problems that keep people from achieving their goals. And he does it in such a no-nonsense, in-your-face, blatantly honest way. Do the Work: The Official Unrepentant, Ass-Kicking, No-Kidding, Change-Your-Life Sidekick to Unfu*k Yourself is the companion workbook to Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life. In this workbook, Bishop strives to help his readers to take the next step by helping to identify and understand some of the issues that block your personal progress by breaking it down into three categories: Self, People, and Purpose.Are you living your best life? Do you want to change the direction your life is taking? Are you being honest with yourself? Are you really, though? Sometimes we need a kick in the ass to get ourselves going. And Bishop does just that. I listened to this book on audio, and I really enjoyed it. I think having Bishop's voice in my ear is a real motivator. This book only took a little over two hours from start to finish, but it's also the kind of book that you want to listen to again and again. Especially when those destructive behaviors start to creep back in.There are so many things we can't control in this life. However, we can control ourselves, our actions, and how we deal with problems. But sometimes we get in our own way of success. Are you ready to do the work? Are you ready to stop making excuses? Then it's time to listen to Do the Work: The Official Unrepentant, Ass-Kicking, No-Kidding.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I loved Un Fu*k Yourself and this one made it even better. His tone works for me, he's not saying anything new he's just saying it crisp and clear. His method is one of self responsibility, woah image being responsible for your own life and not playing. the blame game No one is going to save you, save yourself, lift yourself stop being a fu*king baby. Being stuck sucks, get up do the work and make your life more.Yeh I loved it.
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Do the Work - Gary John Bishop
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Journaling Instructions
01. Introduction
02. Project 1: A Question of Self
03. Project 2: The Relationship Trap
04. Project 3: Purpose, What Purpose?
05. Seven Assignments
06. Conclusion: A See-You-Soon Kind of Farewell
About the Author
Also by Gary John Bishop
Copyright
About the Publisher
Journaling Instructions
How to Use this Journal on an Ebook Device
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We hope this helps you get the most out of Do the Work: The Official Unrepentant, Ass-Kicking, No-Kidding, Change-Your-Life Sidekick to Unfu*k Yourself. Now, what are you waiting for? Get to work!
01
Introduction
You are not defined by what’s inside your head. You are what you do. Your actions.
—Unfu*k Yourself, p. 117
I’m not a fan of self-help workbooks or journals or planners.
I mean, they’re okay, and sure, they might work for some people, but here’s the deal, they never worked for me. If you’ve used them before and you’re reading this, there’s a good chance they never really worked for you either.
In my case, I would get bored or distracted or caught up in the drama of my real life and eventually give up. Another failure to add to the list. They just seemed too powder puff, too generic to get to the heart of my shit and so I’d quit.
Ah well, there’s always hope I guess . . . and Amazon Prime.
What I am a big fan of is helping people take their lives on once and for all. To empower them to call quits on their own bullshit. And that’s why I wrote this.
You see, the problem with taking your life on is that you somehow think you know what you need to do. At least at some level. And that’s usually what you’ve got in mind whenever you take on changing something about your life. You think if you just had more money, less worry, more patience, more confidence, then life would be amazing, or at the very least, better. You say to yourself, I need love, I need to move, I need a break, blah de blah, blah, blah. But in my experience of people, they have often conflated and distorted their lives to such a degree that they lack the kind of mental clarity and decisiveness they need to be able to point to something and categorically state,
THAT THING RIGHT THERE, THAT’S A GAME CHANGER!
I mean, think about it. If you really had worked your shit out you’d be living the life you are after already and you’re not, you’re sitting reading these words. That, at least, should tell you something.
So here we now are.
An Unfu*k Yourself workbook with an emphasis on the work part.
Be left in no doubt, that’s what this is. A personal workshop for your brain, a legit resource where you can work your life out, what matters to you, what’s going to make the biggest difference and empower you to act in ways that make some palpable change to the direction your life is currently taking. This book is all about mastering the head game of the change you say you want to make. Get this down and suddenly the pathway gets a lot clearer.
Where do we start?