It's His Loss When the Relationship Ends encourages self examination. It is geared toward women so that they can complete themselves instead of looking to others for this task. Forgiveness is emphasized. This is essentially because until this is granted, you cannot move forward with anything. It encourages by pointing out four popular issues that women encounter at some point in their life. Self love, forgiveness, self definition, and what if scenarios are all common to women of all ages. Once readers read these four chapters and they have acknowledged within themselves what (if anything) needs to be changed, they are then ready for the concept of It's His Loss! The last chapter is all about the author. She tells of a few encounters she has had with men. She also tells just why it really is HIS loss when a relationship ends!