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Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club
Table Of Contents
Introduction...................................................................................... 3 A Quick Warning About Strippers ..................................................... 6 PART I: How To Pick Up Strippers ................................................... 9 A Note About Your Appearance...............................................................10 The #1 Rule When Dealing With Strippers ...........................................13 Don’t Let Her Dance For You ...................................................................17 Don’t Stay In The Club For Too Long......................................................20 No Touching The Girls ...............................................................................22 Treat All Strippers The Same Way ..........................................................24 Never Trust A Stripper’s Phone Number...............................................28 Don’t Brag or Complain.............................................................................30 Don’t Stalk The Girls ..................................................................................32 Become An Insider .....................................................................................34 What To Do To Get A Stripper Interested In You ................................37 Become The “Striper Boyfriend”.............................................................40 The Numbers Game....................................................................................46 Meeting Strippers Online..........................................................................48 PART II: Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Strip Clubs (But Were Afraid To Ask) ................................................................. 51 How Strip Clubs Operate...........................................................................52 Types Of Strip Clubs...................................................................................59 When To Go To A Strip Club.....................................................................65 Go To Clubs Alone.......................................................................................67 Topless Or Nude, That Is The Question..................................................68 18 And Over..................................................................................................70 Find The “After Club” Hang Out ..............................................................72 Working In Strip Clubs To Pick Up Dancers.........................................75 PART III: Tricks Of The Trade: Stripper Secrets ............................ 78 Stripper Names ...........................................................................................85 Strippers And Religion ..............................................................................87 Never Believe A Stripper Is Single ..........................................................89 Girl On Girl Action: Strippers and Bisexuality ....................................92 Threesome Tactics With Strippers..........................................................94 High Mileage: Getting More Bang For Your Buck ..............................97 Using Drugs To Pick-Up Dancers ..........................................................101 Making “Arrangements” With Strippers .............................................103 Being In A Relationship With A Stripper.............................................105 Afterward & Disclaimer..................................................................108 Index .............................................................................................. 110
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Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club
So you want to date a Stripper, eh? Let’s face it, it’s hard not to want to! A Stripper’s job is to become every man’s fantasy, and if they’re doing their job right, we’re going to want to date them. But wanting something and actually getting it are two different things. I personally think EVERY man should date a Stripper at least once in his life, just to have the experience. It can be a very fun and rewarding endeavor. It can also be a hellish and traumatic event. Either way, you will have learned something about women in the process. Many guys look at Strippers as being “safe” in the regard that they come up to you, talk to you, dance for you, get naked for you, touch you, and all that good stuff, no matter what you may look like or what your lot in life is, as long as you got the money. This means none of the bad feelings of rejection that come with “normal” women.
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I not only got an insiders look into the lives of Strippers.” So what’s a guy to do? Well. though I will say that they reside in Las Vegas. and Pennsylvania) as a bouncer. My insider’s status eventually lead to jobs at some of the clubs they worked in because my connection with them got me in good with the management and bouncers. But lots of guys have no idea how to actually date a Stripper. See. I used to work at certain strip clubs (which will go nameless. She may seem like she’s totally into you at first. only to find it’s either wrong or disconnected. So what makes me qualified to teach you how to do this? Well. rambunctious teen. and not some lowly customer. a doorman. this book is designed to help you overcome those obstacles so you can get that girl you desire to look at you as an actual MAN. See. but there are common traits that all Strippers share that can be used to your advantage. Since I was the only guy they knew who had a car.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Some guys can mistake what the Stripper does for genuine affection. and I’ve figured them all out. and you get the polite but demoralizing line of “I don’t date customers. but I didn’t start learning the tricks of the trade until I fell in with two beautiful ladies who were professional dancers. they would bribe me into driving them to different clubs so they could make a living. All Rights Reserved 4 . she’s all business. I’m a guy who’s dated numerous Strippers in his lifetime. I used to go to strip clubs with my buddies frequently. Through this. but then once you go to the back. and to get her to meet you outside the club so you can pursue a relationship with her (what kind of relationship that may be is up to you). Los Angeles. Copyright 2005. and eventually a DJ. Or maybe you two “hit it off” and you actually get her number. all women are different. And some guys just like the appeal of a sexually promiscuous woman. and I have learned a lot about these women in the process. but I also had numerous sexual escapades with both women (sometimes at the same time). Maybe you even ask her out in the club. Others just get really turned on and want to fulfill their own fantasy. As a young. It also didn’t hurt that I’m a big guy who could handle himself in a fight.
and you should count yourself lucky that you don’t have to experience them the way I did. But seeing as how I spent most of my life in Strip Clubs and not as much of it in school as I should have. I know all the little tricks of the trade and can ensure we always get treated like royalty in the club. on to what you paid for… Copyright 2005. I still go to strip clubs with my buddies. And now. All Rights Reserved 5 . But hopefully. It was fun while it lasted. One night. and further edited by him and me to make it actually “readable. I decided it would be a good way to make some money.” I truly hope that you get exactly what you’re looking for from this book. after a particularly raucous night of drinking and sleazing at a topless bar. I am looking to supplement my income and help you out at the same time. where a loser like me can make a buck selling something like that!). This book was translated into written form by a friend of mine from recordings I made (since I can’t write worth a damn). Some of the lessons within it were hard learned. by missing the bad parts. a buddy of mine told me I should write a book since I know so much. and when I do. but the hardships of living life in the fast-lane started to wear on me and I wanted to settle down with a more normal woman who didn’t have most of the baggage your typical exotic dancer does.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club So I’m almost 30 now and have gotten out of dating Strippers all together. So. we always have a blast. having never written anything before. by selling the knowledge I’ve accumulated over almost a decade of running around with Strippers (God bless America. no matter where we are in the country. you’ll get to the good parts all that much quicker. Therefore my interests are not truly charitable. I dismissed the idea outright.
All Rights Reserved 6 . brothers. The one with the perfect body. step-dads. Initially. whatever. just that it happened. immaculate hair. And sometimes. seductive curves. Sometimes it’s by their fathers. you will be attracted to this fantasy figure. men. lusty stare. that woman may be more trouble than you’re used to. intimacy. pretty face. It doesn’t matter who did it. But you must be aware that a fantasy is just that – not real! You must be prepared to deal with the actual woman you’re lusting after. you have to expect any stripper you get involved with to have certain “issues. First of all. Now. Knowing this.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club A Quick Warning About Strippers Before we get into the bulk of this book. What do I mean by “trouble?” Well.” Be they issues with sex. neighbors. trust – Copyright 2005. This is what usually drives them into becoming dancers in the first place. right? Well. you may be wondering why I would say such a thing in a book that’s designed to teach you HOW to date strippers. those realities can be difficult to deal with if you’re not expecting to deal with them. I want to make one thing abundantly clear… YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE CAREFUL WHEN DATING A STRIPPER. Strippers are women who create a sexual fantasy figure designed to get men to spend money on them. This will be what gets you to WANT to date her in the first place. know that most (I’d say the majority) of women who strip have experienced some form of sexual molestation or abuse in their lives. and when it comes to Strippers. first of all. etc. I tell you this because you will have to deal with certain “realities” when dating women who sell fantasies for a living.
Strip clubs lend themselves to all types of degenerates and some girls do not have the best sense when it comes to choosing guys who are healthy for them. you will have to deal with one of these guys. But in addition to dealing with the kids she already has. and almost all of them have at least one guy they see on a regular basis who feels he’s entitled to her. Regardless. I’m not saying all Strippers will do this. and have issues with drugs. It’s simply not worth dealing with maniacs because of a woman. Most Strippers will have at least one kid. Eventually. Another (and common) form of trouble comes in the form of “Crazy Ex-Boyfriends and Husbands. Be prepared to deal with kids. There are exceptions to his. All Rights Reserved 7 . party a lot. bit of trouble you should be aware of is “lifestyle” issues. and I recommend that if you find this to be the case with the girl you’re involved with. but certainly not least. because many of them can be a lot of fun and very great Copyright 2005. then you might have a compatible lifestyle with the type of girl you’ve chosen to date. and if you don’t want to deal with a child.” Lots of Strippers have been married. The last. sleep all day. These can be scary things to deal with. I don’t tell you these things to scare you or discourage you from dating Strippers. but getting pregnant is a good way to collect a steady payment from a man in the form of child support for a long time. they will not be very savory people. you may want to think twice about getting involved with a Stripper. drink too much. then be prepared to walk away from most Strippers. Strippers tend to work late hours. but if you’re a 9-to-5 working stiff and don’t want to spend all your time partying or dealing with cocaine parties in your home on a nightly basis. you dump her and move on. If that doesn’t bother you. and more likely than not. A friend of mine who got involved with a particularly beautiful Stripper had more than one run-in with the Russian Mafia because she used to date one if it’s lieutenants. these are some of the realities you will have to face when going after women who choose to take their clothes off for money. you must be prepared for the very real possibility that she may get pregnant from YOU – even if you use protection.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club whatever! Know that they WILL be there and you WILL have to deal with them at some point. I’ve had to deal with an ex-boyfriend of a Stripper I was dating break into her apartment and wait for me and her to return with a loaded gun in his hand. of course.
And with that said. All Rights Reserved 8 . But I do want you to know what you’re getting into before you take that plunge. If you know the risks. you’ll be better prepared to deal with them.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club girlfriends. let’s get to how to date a stripper… Copyright 2005.
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Whatever it is. Copyright 2005. but for the most part.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club A Note About Your Appearance I know there are probably some guys out there who think that because of their looks. or old. The thing to remember about Strippers is that they are usually very sexually adventurous women. it’s a great equalizer. All Rights Reserved 10 . They’re awkward around the girls. truly disgusting here. In that sense. Seriously. The great thing about strip clubs is that you don’t need to be good looking to get the female attention you desire. Sure. you got a few prudes who like to delude themselves that what they do isn’t really who they are. they can’t get a “normal” woman. paying for their affections is a poor way to go about it. or fat. or their ears stick out too far. as long as you have the money to pay for it. Maybe they’re a little short. and I believe it does serve a type of function for men in today’s society. A lot of Strippers I have known (and dated) in the past – women who by all accounts are drop-dead gorgeous by any standard – have had sex with some truly disgusting guys. they think they’re ugly (and most of them usually are). A great many of these guys resort to strip clubs in order to fulfill their need for female contact. seemingly uncomfortable in their own skin. there are a lot of girls out there who are very open to all types of men. I used to see them all the time. if you’re looking to date a Stripper. I’m talking truly. But that said.
the more the girl will enjoy it. and dress well. so those will help make you stand out more in the club. Lighter colors tend to glow. be considerate about what you wear. ☺ Nice shirts are good too. The odds are in your favor that there’s a Stripper out there willing to date you no matter what. it will scratch the girl up. All Rights Reserved 11 . corduroy pants are always a big hit. If I’m feeling really festive. but if you do). and should you end up getting a dance (which you shouldn’t. greasy man with horrid acne because he was funny and made her laugh. wash your face before you go to a strip club! A friend of mine once entered a club with acne medication on his face.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club I’ve known a girl who’s banged smelly punk-rock guys who never showered and had rotting teeth. the greater your chances of scoring with a dancer! However. Shower. Once I told him he quickly rushed to the bathroom to wash them off. And my favorite is one girl who had sex with a wheelchair-bound midget who’s colostomy bag broke and spilled all over her during the act. Don’t wear shorts. fat. greasy losers who wander into the club. They make you look like a geek. All these girls were smoking-hot and none of these guys paid for it! It was all done of the girl’s own free will. smell nice (a little cologne never hurt anyone). every stain and smudge will come out. So what does this mean for you? It means the good news is that it doesn’t matter what you look like or how old you are. or a soft tee-shirt can work too. Seriously. In fact. I usually go for a nice pair of khakis when I go to a club. he might have gotten a few laughs from the girls. Also. I’ve known a girl who’s jumped in the sack with a huge. and it glowed in the black light! He had all these unsightly blobs smeared on his face. wear deodorant. A little note about the dress code of clubs… though there is no official Strip Club dress code. A button up silk shirt can be a big hit. The softer the fabric. Wear long pants. but had I not been there. I’d go so far as to say the more odd you look. comb your hair. Just be aware of what a shirt is going to look like under the black lights. I do think you should take care of your appearance. Copyright 2005. because they’re a rough fabric. This’ll put you at an advantage over the sweaty. Try not to wear jeans.
Strippers aren’t like other women.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club So in short. Copyright 2005. and don’t sweat your level of physical attractiveness too much. look your best. They’re more sexually adventurous and open minded than most. All Rights Reserved 12 .
Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The #1 Rule When Dealing With Strippers If you only learn one thing (and one thing only) from reading this book. and before you know it. But you’d be surprised. Copyright 2005. That is rule number one. All Rights Reserved 13 . “Thou Shalt Not Spendith Thy Hard-Earned Money!” Now. you may think this is a “self evident” truth. Tons of guys just feel like a vat of butter has spilled into their wallets when they enter a strip club. I want it to be this… YOUR ONLY GOAL IN DEALING WITH ANY STRIPPER IS TO NOT SPEND MONEY. it’s 3 am and you’re wondering how you’re going to pay rent after you’ve emptied your bank account for some good-looking lady in clear heels. Look at it as the “first commandment” of your own personal sexual religion.
Copyright 2005. I’ve talked to many strippers on this subject.” This type of advice is so prevalent. They will lie to your face. And in a way. these girls will answer: “Buy a dance with her and talk to her. just be aware I’m not saying this to bash the girls. what should he do to try and get to know you better and maybe get a date?” And you know what the answer is? 99.9% of the time. All Rights Reserved 14 . But when you walk into a strip club. especially if you get to know them outside the club. this is probably the worst advice any of us could follow. and they won’t stop lying to you no matter what. that even OTHER guys who consider themselves “strip club experts” advise guys to buy a dance in order to get to know the girl you like. of course the girls are going to say that! They’re in the club to make money. they will make up even bigger lies to cover the fact they’re lying. which I’ll get to in a bit. this indirectly brings me to the SECOND most important rule you should be aware of when it comes to dating strippers… STRIPPERS LIE. you should go in expecting that not a single utterance of truthfulness will escape any of the girl’s lips. because they “talked to actual strippers and that’s what they said was the best way. The first thing I want to talk about in this regard is the notion that you HAVE to spend money in strip clubs in order to get a girl in there.” Well. and I’ll ask them “So if a guy finds you attractive. And the idea of buying a dance to get to know the girl better is the biggest lie of all. There’s actually a really good reason behind why you should never spend money in clubs. But for those of us guys who actually WANT to date a stripper. so a unified stripper mantra of “buy a dance if you like us” is meant to get guys to spend money and help the girls who dance in the club make money.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club But I’m not just imparting this idea on you because I want you to be cheap. Now. They don’t lie all the time.
make their money. But after that customer leaves the lot. and it doesn’t go beyond that. To them. What’s the difference? Simple. Now. but that’s basically how it plays out. there are exceptions to every rule.” See. in a dancer’s eye. as a club patron. and you work your ass off to sell them those cars. do you want them to come back every time the car has a problem and complain to you? Do you want them to drive you around? Do you want them to come to your kid’s soccer game? No. Dancers won’t date/sleep with/party with/whatever with Customers. for the moment. go back to imagining you’re a car salesmen again. It’s basic supply and demand. You. there are only two types of men who are in strip clubs… 1. The customer is your paycheck. Customers Everyone Else. and you move on. you might as well have the letters “ATM” tattooed on your forehead and walk around shelling out greenbacks to every girl you see. Why is this? Well. 2. that strip clubs are expensive and you should save your hard earned money. However. You sell them a car. imagine that you’re a car salesman. are no different than the people who want to buy a car. let’s get to the reason behind why you should never spend money in a strip club.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Now. All Rights Reserved 15 . You spend all day talking to people who want to buy a car. and clock out. you are automatically branded as… A CUSTOMER! In this regard. Your life is separate from that car dealership. Aside from the obvious. They clock in. Think of Copyright 2005. there’s also the notion that once you spend a single red cent in any club. because that’s exactly what you become when you’re viewed as a “customer. dancing is a job. They will with Everyone Else. The same is true of Strippers.
If you succeed. The same is true for Strippers. you like some of them. they hang out with you because they like you. doormen. Why? You guessed it… Because they’re not customers! Most dancers like to put on a “persona” when they dance. you will have opened the doors for you to stand out from the other walking ATM machines in the club and actually have a chance at seeing the girl you like outside the club. you get to know them. but for a much greater sum than you may be willing to pay!). Your job is to spend as little as possible. It is your goal to be one of those people! So you want to do everything you can to go from being a simple “customer” to “everyone else. bouncers. and people they meet outside the club. People who get to know who that dancer really is and not the persona are the people she’s going to date and hang out with. the mechanics. Copyright 2005. best way to do that is to NOT SPEND MONEY ON THE GIRL! Now. not just a car salesman. They hang out with other dancers. not spending money on strippers will not endear them to you right away. But there are ways around that. Think of it as a game. whatever. To them. and you incorporate them into your life. and they leave that persona behind when they leave the club. the clerks.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club the people you work with.” And the simple. sometimes it will. This is Everyone Else. You see them all the time. However. The girl’s job is to get as much money from you as you can. and that’s why you hang out with them. The other salesmen. and if they need a car. DJs. you’re who you really are. you hook them up. you must learn that spending money on strippers will not get you what you want (well. They don’t hang out with you because they want a car. All Rights Reserved 16 . you go out and socialize with them. You meet other people at bars and parties.
And dancers don’t date customers. No Stripper could ever live on the singles that get thrown at her while she’s up on stage.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Don’t Let Her Dance For You This rule kind of goes in hand with the “No Spending Money” rule. this relates directly to that. If you give her money in exchange for her rubbing up against you or performing for you in some way. be they for $20 in the booths or $100 in the VIP room. So if you get a dance with a girl and you’re paying Copyright 2005. All Rights Reserved 17 . I don’t care if it’s a $1 floor dance. you are going to be seen as 100% customer. That means your job at getting to see her outside the club just got much harder. A Stripper makes most of her money from lap dances. Remember when I said there are two types of men in a strip club? Well. that’s her bread and butter. ANY MAN WHO PAYS FOR A DANCE IS AUTOMATICALLY A CUSTOMER.
that said. and he’d go approach her for me. eh? Now there is an exception to this rule.” Then my buddy would jump in on cue with one of my $20s and say “You don’t have a choice tonight. and I think he’d like a dance. saying something like “My friend really likes you. and I’d reply “I really like you. I’d then be “unwillingly” dragged away by the girl into one of the booths for a dance. The exception is if you get the dance for FREE. If this is the case. Another great way of doing a freebie is having a friend pay for your dances for you. and even if the girl is lying. so this isn’t necessarily a lie. Eventually.” ☺ Now. I’d pick the girl I’d like. The trick here is to further distinguish yourself from the average nudge even in the privacy of your dance booth. do it! Sometimes. even free dances can be problematic because the girls can slip into “stripper mode” once that song clock starts ticking. I’d give him a hundred or so dollars to spend on me for the night.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club for it.” it’s all business. so if it was my buddy’s turn. go ahead and pay the $10 for the lap dance or whatever. Before going into a club. If a girl is willing to dance for you without the money. Not a bad payday. All Rights Reserved 18 . go for it! Sometimes the girls will WANT to dance for you because they like you or they’re attracted to you. $20 for a two minute dance. But make it clear that’s all you’re going to pay and that you don’t usually do this. guess what? You’ve just become another walking ATM to her. this one’s on me!” And of course. Me and a good buddy of mine used to do this regularly. the fact she’s willing to do anything for a discount is making headway. all thanks to my good friend’s “generosity. but you got to go butter him up a bit. So if they offer. then by all means. she’d ask for a dance. by all means.” Then the girl would come over to me and sit and talk for a while. Then in the club. Copyright 2005. we’d agree that only one of us was going to buy dances for the night. they may say that it’ll cost half price because they still got to give the club its split. but I don’t do that kind of thing. When in “stripper mode. Some clubs do take a split of every booth dance the girls do.
should she ask you if you want to do another. All Rights Reserved 19 . politely decline. Basically.” After that.” interrupt it by saying “Stop!” Usually. I’ll talk more about that later). try to get your foot in the door of “Everyone Else. As soon as they start up with “stripper mode. it will snap her out of that dreaded “stripper mode. Come by and hang out if you’re bored.” Most of the time they won’t because they’ll be busy working the room.” This little chat you have will make you stand out from the crowd.” Pretty much every Stripper is more than willing to sit and talk for a dance rather than exert herself by dancing any day of the week. But sometimes they do. what guy would tell her to stop dancing for them? Does this mean you don’t like her? Did she do something wrong? Have you changed your mind? What’s going on!!!! All that will run through her mind after you put on the breaks. After all. They will all happily sit on your lap and chatter on about stuff for a few minutes.” Copyright 2005. smile at her and say “You know what. and even if they don’t. ask her about her personal life. Use this time to talk to her. And when the time is up. but say “I had a great time talking with you. share your own personal stories (but don’t brag.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The best way to do this is to get them to stop dancing. you’ve set yourself apart in their mind as someone who’s not the average “customer. and most of all. this’ll be met with a “deer-in-the-headlights” look from the girl. Just sit and talk to me for a while. I don’t want you to dance for me.
and in the back booths. I can do all I need to in about 30 minutes. going to a strip club at 9 at night and not leaving until noon the next day. sex. or whatever. The trick is to go into the club. whatever. laugh at Copyright 2005. do not stay in the strip club for extended periods of time. and sitting in the chairs. I’ve had bouts of indulgence where I’ve gone out partying with my buddies in a city like Los Vegas (strip club capitol of the world). and by extension. An hour is ideal.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Don’t Stay In The Club For Too Long If you’re going out for the purpose of picking up a Stripper. This means that while you’re in the club. that’s why! Think about it. I try to limit how long I actually stay inside the club. All Rights Reserved 20 . But that was a situation where we were looking to spend money and grope women we didn’t have to work for! But if I want to go to a club to pick up a Stripper for a date. chat them up. she’s going to peg you as a club junkie. and then leave. you want to position yourself for “maximum meeting potential. you may be tempted to stay longer. I say an hour and a half is the maximum amount of time you should spend in a club. If a girl comes in to dance and constantly sees you sitting around for hours on end. but after paying a $20 cover or whatever.” So when you walk into a club and see the guys at the stage. make contact with a few girls. a customer. Why? Because a guy who stays in a strip club for too long becomes a LOSER CUSTOMER.
tables.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club them. That’s right. This will usually be the bar area. You’ll suddenly be meeting more girls than you know what to do with. Guys who sit down anywhere other than at the bar are customer-potential. you’ll want to STAND there. This can be the DJ booth. Those are the sucker customers who are never going to get anywhere with the girls. Standing also has the added benefit of helping you to quickly meet and chat with girls who are walking by. it just is. Make yourself different. In every club. if the club has a bar (which they usually will). Stand. Stand. All Rights Reserved 21 . there will be a “high traffic” area where you’ll want to position yourself. Where ever it is. don’t sit down. I don’t know why this is. or couches by the dressing room. Especially if you get in that coveted high-traffic spot. But standing also has the added benefit of creating a “buffer zone” between any girl you come in contact with. look at the places where the girls tend to mill around. If they don’t. This is important because the next rule is… Copyright 2005.
I know this is like putting a three-inch thick steak in front of a starving man and telling him not to eat. sexy women anywhere they’ll let you.” guess what? You got it! Customers touch the girls. You do not want to be a customer. Ask yourself this: Who’s grubby. who wouldn’t want to reach out and touch these beautiful. do not touch them! Copyright 2005. right? But bear with me here. Therefore. sweaty hands are pawning their bodies all night long? If you answered “customers. All Rights Reserved 22 . I mean.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club No Touching The Girls This is another hard and fast rule you can take with you to the bank: NO TOUCHING THE GIRLS!!!! Now.
don’t put your arm around them. All Rights Reserved 23 . You have to look at each physical contact by a Stripper as a means of manipulating you into spending money on her. and that’s the important thing. don’t caress their knee. Some will see it as a challenge. and keep your hands to yourself. but they will all NOTICE. This is a bad thing.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club This means don’t shake their hand. By the same token. touching is the Stripper’s secret weapon. Just shrug off any touching by the dancers. Copyright 2005. don’t rub their shoulders. then after a few minutes of sitting on their laps and rubbing their chests. Most of them will notice the fact that you’re not all over them like most guys. don’t fall for the girls who touch YOU. because she’s treating you like a customer. others may take it as an insult. control your urges to touch the Strippers. The more a woman touches you. don’t even let them sit on your lap. You wouldn’t believe how many Strippers I know who were rejected by guys who didn’t want a dance. they got them into the VIP room for a couple hundred dollars worth of dancing. And even the girls who don’t mind it have to deal with overly-frisky morons who my try to grab their crotches or suck on their breasts. the more your brain goes “Whoa! What’s going on here? Sexy woman feeling me up! She must like me! Wheeeeeeeeee!” Well put the breaks on that thought right now. It’s complete BS. If you want to stand out. Most Strippers abhor the fact that they have to let themselves be felt up by guys all night long. See. You cannot take her touching you as meaning she’s attracted to you.
and all that jazz. inside the Strip Club. in the club.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Treat All Strippers The Same Way I once read about how all casinos are designed to get you to stay inside so you’ll gamble more money. and even though you might rate her a 3. you can have a girl that’s fat and old who’s still stripping. Inside the club. are engineered to get your money away from you. even if they don’t look like it. All Rights Reserved 24 . Because of this. by their very nature. These clubs. her attitude is that of a 10. it’s the girls who have all the power. they’re the ones who call the shots. Copyright 2005. they rig everything so that you are at a disadvantage. Strip clubs function in much the same way. They make the exits hard to find and there are no clocks anywhere. they’re the ones who create the fantasy. And the girls are the main attraction (and main money sucker). They’re the ones on stage. But the bottom line is. every girl is a 10 on the bachelor’s scale. Understand.
you are going to have to take that power away from them. In fact. and before you know it. are the guys who treat them as if they weren’t in the club at all. one in which they are incredibly beautiful and desired by all. They obsess over every wrinkle. I’d say you need to do the exact opposite. and if they want your company. Joke with them. Ever hear the old saying “Treat a princess like a whore and a whore like a princess?” Well. I DON’T mean you bend yourself to her will. you don’t treat them as sex objects. Poke fun at them. Customers treat the girls the way they’re used to be treated. the ones the girls always end up going for. All Rights Reserved 25 . In fact. in the club. I’ll tell you what I don’t mean… I DON’T mean you get down on your knees and worship her as a goddess. and deep down. Let them know you don’t come cheap. But the real players. they’ll have to pay YOU. If you wish to be successful at getting this girl to meet you outside the club. all the girls act like princesses.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club So you must treat all the girls you meet in the club like you would an extremely beautiful woman. Strippers are not used to being teased. Put them back in the real world where they’re just an average girl. they’re living out a fantasy as much as you are. you act like they’re not attractive at all. they’re the ones trying to prove themselves to you! Most Strippers are actually quite insecure about their looks. whatever! If you play on this insecurity about their looks. I DON’T mean that you do whatever it is she says. This means. hair. Act like YOU’RE the guy they should be fawning over. Tease them a bit. The best way to do this is with backhanded complements. that’s how they feel. In fact. they will be looking to you for approval. you get most of them in decent light and without make-up. When they’re in the club. not the other way around. Remember that Strippers are nothing special. boob. Copyright 2005. What do I mean by this? Well. as if they were just any other girl they met on the street. so you got to treat them the exact opposite way they’re used to being treated. they’re pretty regular looking girls. stretch mark.
because I told her that most guys won’t like her because she has small boobs. calling me all sorts of unsavory names. but I think they’re great. She was a petite blonde with small breasts.” I replied.” The look on her face was like a gasket had blown somewhere inside her head.” (I said this knowing she was obviously self-conscious about how small they were) She said “Really?” “Yeah. But don’t overdo it. Before I knew it. She didn’t know how to respond to that! Was it an insult? It kind-of was. When she came up to the bar I was standing at. they’ll get angry and move on to a guy who’ll feed their ego rather than thrash it. I was just good-naturedly ribbing her (or so I thought) when I went too far and struck a nerve. Just look for how the girl starts responding to you. she said “You just seemed different. but there was something real about you I liked. If she’s actually talking to you as a girl and not Copyright 2005. All Rights Reserved 26 . but a really cute face. she looked at me as a guy she had to prove herself to. Every guy I meet in there is ready to propose marriage.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club I can remember a time where I got this one dancer to meet me outside the club. But it was also a compliment. If you give the girls too hard a time. So you can go too far with this. she asked if I wanted a dance. you’re not really my type. She ended up meeting me at a local Denny’s after the club closed later on that night. “Well. because I told her that I.” So use backhanded compliments to knock them off their high horse and back into reality. and I was eventually asked to leave by management.” I said. You’ll like it. When I asked her what made her decide to meet me. After that. personally. “Most guys don’t like little boobs like yours. At one point I got into a lot of trouble for really making fun of a dancer at a club in Denver. this poor girl was screaming at me. and I said “Why should I get a dance with you?” She responded with “Because I’m good. found them attractive. she didn’t look at me as a customer. But I do love your breasts.
the object of the game is to seduce them.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club some beauty queen (you can usually visually notice a shift in the way she looks at you when the transition occurs). Copyright 2005. not destroy them. All Rights Reserved 27 . it’s time to stop making fun of her and throwing out the backhanded compliments and time just to be a cool guy. After all.
When I was driving around my two Stripper friends when I was younger.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Never Trust A Stripper’s Phone Number This is a good rule to live by. they believe they’re on their way to getting a date. Not so. So the first rule is to never ask a Stripper for her phone number. you’re not going to score with her. and once they get it.” or she’ll just give you a fake number. Either she won’t give it to you with an excuse like “We’re not supposed to give out our numbers. It’s probably the #1 most asked question for a dancer there is. the girls will only give you numbers where they can’t be reached. Understand that if you’re seen as a customer. Most Strippers have second cell phones or message services that they give out to customers to keep tabs on them or string them along. In fact. Sometimes guys will ask for a girl’s number in the strip club. Not so by a loooooooong shot! See. if a Stripper got a dollar for every time a guy asked them “What’s your number?” she could probably retire. This is just a way of protecting themselves from ungodly amounts of unsolicited calls. Unless the girl you’re after actually leaves the club with you and goes back to your place that night. All Rights Reserved 28 . and how many fake numbers the girls gave out. we used to laugh and joke about how many numbers and business cards guys gave them. Strippers get asked for their numbers a bajillion times a night. within the year. Bill Gates style. Others give out fake phone numbers. Copyright 2005. It’s very rare that a girl will give out an actual legitimate number to someone she meets in a strip club if there’s not something in it for her.
So going for a Stripper’s phone number is a waste of time. I’ve gotten Strippers to give me their numbers before without asking. in which case you might hear from her again. chances are it’s a working number. They won’t care. but getting them to meet up with you can be hit or miss. They’ll either lose it and throw it away. The third rule is that should a girl willingly give you her number without you soliciting it. All Rights Reserved 29 . Something like “This place is dead. Should you do this. The best tactic is to try and get the girl to meet you outside the club after she gets off work.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The second rule is to never give the girl your number or business card. But even that is hit or miss. but it won’t be a social call. but don’t count on it as a means to see her again. Even setting up a date to meet while you’re in the club is preferable to getting a number. and also more convenient for them than handling hundreds of phone calls a day from guys they don’t really remember from the night before. Pulling a Stripper from the club is almost a guarantee that something is going to happen with her. you wanna meet me at the bar down the street for a drink in an hour?” is preferable to “What’s your number? Let’s go out. Usually the emails are just a means to let you know when they’re working at the club again in the hopes you’ll come to see them and spend money. I’ve found e-mail addresses to be more reliable.” Copyright 2005. since its easier for them to get new anonymous email accounts on yahoo and hotmail. and some were legitimate. do not expect her to get in contact with you unless she thinks she can squeeze more money out of you.
They’ve heard it all before. They want to impress the girls or dump their problems onto them.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Don’t Brag or Complain This is another good rule to abide by when you’re in a strip club. All Rights Reserved 30 . The two biggest things the girls hear the most are: Bragging and Complaining. The only thing they care about is how much money you’re going to spend IN THE CLUB. But that $20 in your pocket is. They’re also used to hearing about how much money a guy makes. Copyright 2005. you’ll also bore a Stripper by complaining to her. because he thinks that’s the way to get her to sleep with him. If you start using her as a therapist and unloading about how crappy your job is. and its a job they do quite well. They’re used to guys lying to them about what they do. or whatever it is that’s bugging you. And seeing as how they do their job well. If you brag to a Stripper. They want to feel important. they’re used to hearing all sorts of things from their customers. Most Strippers know that their job is to talk to guys. Your fancy car or yacht on the Caribbean is of no use to them. in order to impress them. all you’re going to do is bore her. like big shots. you’re not doing anything to further your cause of getting a date with this dancer. bragging about how great their job is and what kind of car they drive. Guys who go to strip clubs are usually looking to escape whatever is ailing them on the outside and blow off some steam or have some fun in fantasy land for a while. The girls are used to this. and they don’t care. Every time I go into a club I see guys throwing around money. By the same token. or how crummy your family is.
Copyright 2005. but in the end. they simply don’t give a damn about you.” They can act like they care and be understanding of your problems. This will make you stand out from most losers. BAD IDEA. Just act cool and stay positive. All bragging or complaining to a Stripper will do is make you look like your average customer.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Most Strippers have trained themselves well in the art of “smiling and nodding. They have their own problems to deal with. All Rights Reserved 31 . Keep your problems to yourself and be a bit humble.
Don’t. you’ll never be welcomed back at that club. I used to go out after the club had closed to check all the cars left in the parking lot to make sure there weren’t guys hiding in the back seats of the girl’s cars. Her job is to make you BELIEVE she is. or friends of the dancer who don’t care too much about your safety. what girl is going to want to work at a club that doesn’t protect them?). But in the long run. you’ve definitely been in “strip club land” too long. Either you’ll have a run in with the police. leave that club and don’t come back. but it will ruin any chance you have at getting the girl you want! So you need to be sure that you… Copyright 2005. though. Do not believe a word they say or a single touch they administer to you. No matter what happens. They are not what you think they are. Move on with your life. That’s how serious most clubs take the girl’s safety (after all. But she’s not. When I was a Bouncer.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Don’t Stalk The Girls Seriously. Even girls who’ll perform sexual acts on you in the club don’t necessarily like you. Remember rule number two? STRIPPERS LIE. Stalking is not only unhealthy to you. it’s a losing proposition. Remember that the girls sell a fantasy. Know that if you start getting obsessed with a girl and become one of her “regulars” in the hopes she’ll be yours one day. Don’t look back. If you find yourself uncontrollably attracted to a girl you’ve met in a strip club. It’s a bad idea. All Rights Reserved 32 . and it will not work out in your favor. You may think one of the girls likes you and is maybe even attracted to you. There have been untold countless kidnappings and murders at strip clubs because some guy snuck into a girl’s car and caught her unawares as she was driving. Your bubble will eventually burst. Sometimes the urge to indulge in the fantasy Strippers provide can be really tempting.
Don’t give lavish gifts or propose marriage (especially if your only interaction with her has been in the club!) Do not pay for her expenses or bills. Stalking is a bad idea.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club • • • • • • • • Don’t go to the club every night of the week just to see one girl. There are other women in the world. All Rights Reserved 33 . Do not follow her home after the club closes. Don’t follow her around. Don’t get jealous if she dances with other guys. Don’t spend all your time in the club hoping to see her. It will only lead to heartache and pain. don’t obsess over just one. Copyright 2005. Don’t stare at the girl you like. and its not a good thing for anyone involved.
the DJ. or has at one time. there are also the guys who are FRIENDS of the people who work in the club. Copyright 2005. The DJ is usually most notorious for this. They spend most of their time working in the club. they have an “in” with the girls. Be they friends of the dancers. slept with one of the dancers. When you walk into a strip club. All Rights Reserved 34 . whoever it may be. because he has lots of contact with the girls every night. the doormen.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Become An Insider Strippers live a very closed existence. so they tend to date guys who are somehow associated with the club itself. know that every guy who works there is currently. if they have a connection. In addition to the guys who work at the club.
To become a true insider takes time. After that. The best way to become an insider is slowly. He looked like my dad. Give me a call sometime and I’ll hook you up. If they see you come around often and you don’t cause Copyright 2005. you can claim to be their friend. we all can’t befriend the owners of the club chain. Before he left. You don’t have to go there every night.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club I can remember one night in Las Vegas. so I walked up to him and told him how cool I thought his hair was. To get to know them will get you in good quickly. Then I became friends with all the girls who danced there and I never had to pay for a cover charge or a drink. Get to know the people who work at the club gradually. We got to talking and had a few drinks together. I can remember when I was first driving around those two Strippers after I got out of high school. like visiting the club something like once a week to become a regular. but once a week can be good. except he had his gray old-man hair spiked up into an extreme flat-top.” Bartenders at the club are usually the manager or girls who used to dance or are on their way to dancing at the club. After about my 3rd time there.” Now. Sit at the bar and chat up the bartender. Just buy a drink and sit and talk to them. It was a pretty bold hair-doo for a guy his age.” Turns out the guy owns one of the largest strip club chains in the country! Since that day I just call him up when I’m traveling to a city that has one of his clubs in it. I got to know all the bouncers and eventually the DJ and management of the club. Before long. but there are ways to get the same effect. and he calls the management to expect me and treat me as one of his “personal friends. I went to an after-hours party where I ran into an older guy who must have been in his 50s. we’d go to a certain club every Saturday for them to dance at. This is always a good first target on your track to becoming an “insider. one of the bouncers came up and introduced himself because he noticed I was coming around a lot with some of the girls. even though I’ve never been there before in my life! Thus is the power of being an “insider. Bouncers and doormen will usually take a little bit of time to warm up to you. All Rights Reserved 35 . he gave me his card and said “I like you.” I have to practically bat the girls away from me with a stick when I walk into the club.
go up to him and ask “What was that song you just played?” After he responds talk to him about whether he DJs outside the club at all. Copyright 2005. you can actually BECOME and insider.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club trouble. Talk to them about what they do outside the club. If you can get to know the DJ. Talk to him between songs. After a song you like plays. After a few visits. or they have a hobby they are passionate about. And after you start dating a girl who dances at the club. your status as an insider will be solid. that’s a great hook-up to have too. you can learn enough about the people who work at a club to pass yourself off as an “insider” to any girl who dances there. All Rights Reserved 36 . A lot of these guys are musicians or students. In one night. they’ll start to be more social with you.
Smile a lot. If you walk into a strip club and tell a dancer “This club sucks. bored). but that girl is WORKING there.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club What To Do To Get A Stripper Interested In You In a previous chapter I talked about the two big things you should never do when talking to a Stripper – namely bragging or complaining to them.” you’re not helping your cause. you’re insulting her by saying the club sucks. I don’t mean acting overly cool or being an ass hole. People in general like positive things. #1: Act Happy This might seem like a no-brainer. Know that introducing anything negative into a conversation with a Stripper you’re trying to seduce is a bad idea. It’s a part of her life. She probably has friends there. Copyright 2005. In my opinion. You want to convey that you’re in a great mood and having a good time. All Rights Reserved 37 . and act like meeting the girl you like is secondary to everything else that’s happened to you. The club may suck. If you go into a strip club. Crack jokes. So the real trick to getting a Stripper excited is to be positive and exciting. Tell everyone how great your day has been. there are four major things every guy can do to come off as a positive and exciting guy a Stripper would want to get to know better. but it isn’t. By this. Let’s go somewhere cool. A guy who’s smiling and laughing is always more attractive to the girls than a guy who’s hunched over his drink watching the dancer on the stage. you’ll usually see a bunch of guys sitting around looking either overly serious or overly depressed (or worse. Be upbeat. In a way.
If you’re laughing and having a good time. where would you go?” No matter what she answers. You’ll become the center of attention and this will attract all the bored girls over to you.” If you try to talk dirty to a girl in a club. sexuality. The girls are inundated with sex the minute they step into the club.” or “I think this is stupid. You want to remind them that there’s more to life than sex and you’re the pathway to that life. and refrain from judgmental comments about religion. Tell her stories about places you’ve been and things you’ve done. If you want to compete with your environment. If you are a really rigid or judgmental person. Always keep an open mind when talking with dancers. you’re going to be pegged as a customer. then you may run the risk of turning them off and sabotaging your chances of picking them up. I’ll tell her a Copyright 2005. Most Strippers lead pretty boring lives and can be intrigued by men who’ve experienced exciting stuff. Don’t say “Oh. you’re going to have to be enthusiastic and outgoing. because suddenly you’re something interesting and worth checking out.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club #2: Be Enthusiastic A strip club is not a place to be subtle or shy. #4: Be Adventurous Note that I didn’t say “be sexual. Display qualities that show you’re spontaneous and fun. that will infect those around you into having a good time too. It’s a loud and obnoxious place full of stimulus of all kinds. #3: Be Open-Minded Many of the girls who dance in strip clubs have a wide variety of beliefs and lifestyles. I’ll often ask a dancer I’m talking to “If you could take a vacation right now.” because the very subject you’re condemning could be something she’s passionate about or believes strongly in. Remember to be accepting and interested in things you don’t know about. All Rights Reserved 38 . Calling attention to yourself is a good thing. politics. or anything like that. I hate that.
feats you’ve accomplished.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club story about the best vacation I ever took down to Bermuda. and how she has to go down there and experience some of the things I did. Copyright 2005. and show how much better it is. the cat-fights between rival girls backstage. and the list goes on… Doesn’t sound so glamorous anymore. What you want to try to do is introduce your world into her world. the problems they may have with management. vacations you’ve taken. Know that the whole concept of Stripping is a form of entertainment. any injuries that may be plaguing them. This puts you at an inherent disadvantage. lessons you’ve learned. You’re playing an away game in the other team’s home field. as long as you talk about your passions that are outside of club life. you’re in Stripper world. make stuff up. And if your life is boring. It doesn’t matter. A man who has his own life and could care less about the fantasy a strip club presents is always a guy who will be coveted among Strippers. does it? So don’t talk about her world. Strippers are performers. All Rights Reserved 39 . Forget talking about the club or what’s going on with her in her life. Talk about exciting experiences you have. and they don’t see their lives as glamorous or exciting. the creepy customers they have to put up with. They see the trouble they go through to look good. In a way. this leads us into our final tactic… #5: Have A Life Outside The Club Remember that while you’re in the strip club.
All I CAN do is share with you what I know works. I can’t tell you this is exactly how to seduce a Stripper. All Rights Reserved 40 .Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Become The “Striper Boyfriend” By now you’re probably wondering “Gee. I do know that there is a specific TYPE of man that Strippers are generally Copyright 2005. but when are you going to tell me HOW to seduce a stripper?” Well. and every guy reading this book is different. all this stuff you’re telling me is all fine and dandy. So I don’t think I can lay out a step-bystep method on how to get a Stripper to go out with you. Having worked in strip clubs and dated numerous exotic dancers. because every girl is different. every situation is different.
In fact. they have their own lingo. other models were coming onto him. and told all the women he met that he was dating that particular model in the picture.” I’ve seen everyone from “rock and roll guy wannabes” to upright doctors and lawyers display these traits. I can remember back when Seinfeld used to be on TV. and it was only after seeing the guys the dancers went for in the clubs I worked at that I was able to spot the similarities between what they were doing and what I did. After I recognized these traits. because “one of their own” had decided he was good enough to date. and they know the high points and dangers of their chosen profession. you’ll be able to attract the girl you want and hopefully move things outside the club. There’s a kind-of subliminal pre-approval process that goes on in a Stripper’s head when she finds out that you used to date another girl who stripped for a living. there was an episode where the character George got a picture of a model. All Rights Reserved 41 . and if you adopt these traits I’m going to share with you while in the club. there’s no way you can know what it’s like… Unless you’ve dated a Stripper in the past. and they never fail to work. Short of working at a Strip Club as well. kind of like dock workers are a class of men. you won’t act all jealous and crazy. It’s almost as if you’ve been given the stamp of approval. I worked up a profile of a typical Stripper Boyfriend. Soon. Copyright 2005. things kind of work the same way with Strippers.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club attracted to. Well. I fell backwards into the stuff that works just by being associated with the dancers I drove around with when I was younger. They all know what the job entails. So here are the traits you need to know… Trait #1: Be the Veteran Understand that Strippers are a class of women. because you won’t freak out about her job. and you know what life with a Stripper can be like. I call guys who meet these traits “Stripper Boyfriend Material.
You have to realize that besides dancing. you must lead an exciting life. And the more they talk to guys. the more they begin to hear the same types of questions over and over again. By saying something like this. never refer to Strippers as “Strippers. Questions like: “What’s your name?” “How long have you been dancing?” “Do you’re parent’s know?” “It must be so glamorous being an exotic dancer. It can be a boring job. It’s important not to make a big deal of this. You must be rich!” The girls hear these types of questions all night long! They start to associate these types of questions with customers. Trait #2: Know The Score After you’ve established that you’re a Veteran. It’s nowhere near being exciting.” you’re not showing you know what being a Stripper is about. Stripping is a job. you are showing your ignorance of her profession and displaying that you really are not a Veteran. Copyright 2005. but mention it casually. a Stripper’s job is to talk to men. The best way I know of to get a girl to look at you as a Veteran is to flat out tell her. you have to back that up by showing you have knowledge of what being a Stripper is like. It’s much less demeaning and will set you apart from most guys). You also want to mention that your girlfriend was a long term relationship – not just a one night stand. and that’s more attractive than some guy who’s just looking for a fantasy she can’t realistically provide in the long term. as if it’s normal.” Always call them Exotic Dancers or Dancers. you’re already “initiated” into the lifestyle she’s living. Mention that you had a girlfriend who was an Exotic Dancer (quick note.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club In a way. So when someone comes in and says “Wow. All Rights Reserved 42 .
If you say “No. and as a customer. because Strippers DO NOT DATE CUSTOMERS.” you come off as being broke or stingy. you’re never going to show her that you’re Stripper Boyfriend material.” I don’t mean you get to be berating or controlling.” you become a customer. When you hear questions like: “Want a dance?” “What’s your name?” “Where you from?” “What do you do?” If she’s asking you these questions. Because if you answer her questions and allow her to dictate what you talk about. All Rights Reserved 43 . she’s trying to treat you like any other customer. I mean you have to take charge of what you talk about with your girl. Here’s how you get around this: You have to take control of the conversation. Just like customers ask the girls the same thing over and over again. So what do you do when she comes up to you and says “Would you like a dance?” If you say “Yes. It’s an auto-pilot response they develop after they’ve been dancing for a while. So what’s the answer to this? Copyright 2005.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The best way to show you know the score is to not even ask these questions at all! Trait #3: Be Dominant By “being dominant. you’re just going to be trapped into saying the same crap every other customer says. the girls will ask the customers the same things over and over again too. And should you actually answer and of these questions – BOOM! You’re right in that dreaded “customer” category and no longer “Stripper Boyfriend” material. you will not turn her into a girlfriend.
That’s the secret to being dominant. yeah. not what she wanted. this cat loving Stripper was comforting me talking about a cat she lost a few years back and how sad it made her. or I probably wouldn’t be able to talk to you like this.” Me: “My cat Arnold died today. of course I didn’t have a cat. What mattered was I became dominant and got her to talk about what I wanted. Do you like cats?” (note: almost all Strippers love cats) Stripper: “Um. Before you knew it. cut them off and have them walk your path into your world. You just change the subject. If she asks you “What do you do?” tell her “I don’t want to talk about work. Not A Customer This is an important trait. you look like you like cats. and it certainly didn’t die. then I could walk on the moon. When you’re talking to your girl. Now. probably the best way to make it clear you aren’t one is to just come right out and say it. You ever want to walk on the moon?” or something like that. but that didn’t matter.” Right there you’ve made it clear you’re Copyright 2005. I just came here to see Bruno (or someone else who isn’t a dancer at the club). Well. Everything I’ve been telling you so far has been about how to distinguish yourself from regular customers. ANYTHING other than whether or not you want a dance. Start talking about something. I wish I was an astronaut. say something like “You know. All Rights Reserved 44 . Trait #4: Be A Normal Guy. You start being dominant and you control the conversation with her.” Before I knew it. I’m so sad.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Simple. it’s a good thing I’m not a customer. Here’s a line I used one day just for kicks… Stripper: “Want a dance?” Me: “Oh my God. Every time they try to lead you down one of their paths to customer land. all thoughts of whether I wanted a dance were out the window.
the easier it is to set yourself apart from the others and display yourself as “Stripper Boyfriend” material. The clearer you can make it that you’re not just some dude waiting to be hustled.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club not a customer because. but it does. All Rights Reserved 45 . Copyright 2005. well. you TOLD her you weren’t! This shouldn’t work. I don’t know why.
because the odds just aren’t in your favor. and he’ll keep waiting until he finds the one who responds to what he has to offer. With this in mind. you’d probably have an easier time meeting a girl in a regular bar and getting her to come home with you than you would pulling a Stripper from a club. He loves to pick up Strippers. a customer – whatever. He’s got the long hair. a waitress.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The Numbers Game When you go out with the express intent of picking up a Stripper. While I hang out by the bar and be social. you have to realize that picking up Strippers is about one thing and one thing only… Numbers. I have a friend who’s a musician. He plays the numbers. You have to be open to picking up any girl who’s in that club. He’ll wait all night if he has to. When you enter a club. and he looks like one. and when he and I go to a club. so thinking it’s possible to seduce the exact girl you want is a bit far-fetched. he’ll sit quietly in a chair somewhere and just wait for women to approach him. All Rights Reserved 46 . Copyright 2005. tattoos that cover his arms and back. talking to girls and whatnot. not narrow. for the most part. Truth be told. who dresses in all black all the time – typical heavy metal rocker guy. And though he’s not as consistent as I am with getting the girls. he will eventually find a girl who’ll like him. Your focus should be broad. we go there with the express intention to get a girl and not spend money. be they a dancer. you have to realize that you’re undertaking a daunting task. The girls are there to work. you can’t go in there looking to get a specific girl.
You have to play the numbers and look for the girls who respond to you. You have to be the same way. All Rights Reserved 47 . and when he does he’ll pursue her and try to get her outside the club. who responds to his look and his style. Copyright 2005.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club He waits until he finally finds a girl who’s into him. They will be the ones you have a chance with.
But there are many other places you can meet Strippers that won’t get you anywhere near a club. The first of which is for business. I somewhat touch on this in the section where I explain about “After Club” hang outs. and sites that deal with customers (such as message boards that people will write about them on. There are two major reasons for this. a great many Strippers are quite online savvy. finding them on the internet can be a bit of a task… if you don’t know where to look. The best place I’ve found to do this is on the internet. “Where the hell do you find Strippers on the internet?” Well.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Meeting Strippers Online Believe it or not. Some clubs have mailing lists devoted to them where every girl is critiqued and rated. Some girls find this helpful in improving their ability to make money). All Rights Reserved 48 . Strippers will often go online to look up clubs they want to dance at. Now. that’s right. A social life. sometimes it’s easier to meet Strippers in places other than clubs. and probably a bigger factor in the internet playing an important role in most Strippers’ lives than business. The fact is. The second reason. Yes. I know what you’re thinking. There are also certain message boards they will frequent that deal either with actual stripper issues (such as a board where Strippers will exchange tips and tactics and reviews of clubs). Now. you may say to yourself “But the girls work in a strip club! Isn’t that their social life?” Copyright 2005. is for a social life. Strippers also use the internet to buy new clothes and sexy things to wear.
All Rights Reserved 49 . Holidays. and add them to your “friends list. And they work LATE. where do you think they find the time to have fun and unwind? The answer is -. like Friday and Saturday nights. which means they have to sleep all day long. shopping. it’s like networking with other people online. showering. Not only that. But the single. They can just go online to do it! I’ve seen Strippers who’ve had some of the biggest Instant Message Buddy Lists I’ve ever seen. They’ll post on message boards too. They’ll text people on their cell phones (when they’re not turned off. This is a free website that allows you to have your own web page where you can post info about yourself.com stand out is that it’s geared Copyright 2005. along with pictures and a daily diary. they no longer have to “get out” to meet people. sometimes until 3 or 4 in the morning. This is why the girls usually end up dating the bouncers or DJs who work at the club. cleaning. with the advent of the internet. errands. playing with the kid.” In short. waking up around 2 or 3 in the afternoon. And after you factor in eating. best place that Strippers go to socialize on the internet is… MYSPACE! That’s right.they don’t! A Stripper’s social life is pretty much confined to that of the club she works at. The thing that makes Myspace. They simply don’t get out enough to meet other guys. let me ask you this… is your social life confined to where you work? Or do you have friends you make outside of the workplace? Do you go to work on a Friday night to have fun? Or do you go someplace fun or chill to hang out with friends? Remember that Stripping is a job (it can be a fun job. bill paying. and they’ll spend hours IMing people.com. Currently the internet’s #1 online community. and the girls usually work at prime socializing hours. However. that is) for hours as well.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Well. etc. but you can go on other people’s pages and post stuff on their site. MySpace. etc. but it’s still work).
their eyes will light up and say “Oh my God! You’re on MySpace too? I love that site!” And then they’ll babble on about how much fun they have on it. After that. the girls with really sexy pictures or pictures of them in lingerie or dancing are Strippers (there are exceptions since some of the girls on the site can be pretty exhibitionist. but once you can see her profile.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club towards a very diverse and young crowd. So don’t dismiss any avenue you have available to you. they’re notified about various parties and events their friends are having. Often times. and it helps give them an outlet to do something outside the walls of the strip club. Strippers also like to use MySpace for business purposes. I’m going to add you to my MySpace friends list. Not only that. sexy strippers! You can also just search the site for people in your area. Admittedly. but for the most part. Usually. all you need to do is get yourself added to their Friend’s List.” When the girls hear this. I’ve used the line “I like you. getting a Stripper’s email address is more reliable than getting their phone number. So offering to put her on your friend’s list is a great way to get her email. Many of the Strippers I know have profiles on this site with hot and sexy pictures of themselves and friends lists that range into the hundreds. you can’t go wrong with this tactic). Sites like Friendster. adding regulars to their friends list so they can update them about where they’ll be appearing. Copyright 2005. chances are she’s going to have a lot of hot stripper friends in her Friend’s List. and before you know it. All Rights Reserved 50 . It revels in pop culture.com and AOL IM or Yahoo! Messenger are good ways to meet Strippers too.com. With this site. but I find them to be more random than a site like MySpace. you have the ability to contact literally HUNDREDS of hot.
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All Rights Reserved 52 .” Most clubs require the dancers pay out 40 to 50 percent of their income for stage or couch rental (this means that everything they Copyright 2005. but there’s more to it than that. The better you understand how strip clubs operate. They think that these girls get naked and rake in the dough.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club How Strip Clubs Operate If you’re going to be operating in strip clubs and going after Strippers. All clubs are different. therefore their income is totally dependent on dances and tips they get from customers. But there are general similarities in all clubs. which is usually known as a “house fee” or “stage fee. Most guys are ignorant of what a career as a Stripper is really like. the better you’ll be able to seduce the girl you want. Strippers usually have to pay for the privilege of working at a club. This means that most Strippers are not paid a salary. it’s important to know how things operate and what the girl’s job entails. with different rules depending on state law. Most Strippers are hired to work as “independent contractors” rather than as actual employees.
Some club owners require Strippers to sign agreements indicating that they are working as independent contractors and some clubs require women to sign a waiver of their right to sue the club for any reason before they’re allowed to dance there. receive workers’ compensation. or unemployment benefits. If a dancer does not earn the quota for the night and wants to continue working at the strip club. Regardless of the agreements claiming independent contractor status. most clubs maintain a lot of control over the girls who dance there.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club make on stage and with lap dances is divvied up between the club and the dancer). Club owners are free from tax obligations and liability. Usually a shift quota is set and the Stripper must. tip the Copyright 2005. turn over at least that amount before she leaves the club. sex toys. The clubs usually have other ways of making money independent of the girls. There’s usually also a “tip-out” to bouncers and DJs which can be around 10 or 20 percent of the girl’s overall earnings for the night. they are actually treated more like employees of the club they dance at. and no sick pay for the dancers. no health insurance. Some clubs also get kickbacks from dancers who perform sex acts on customers while in the club. The club controls the schedule and hours. none of them are entitled to file discrimination claims. etc. along with sales of drinks and any fines they may have in place to be levied against the girls who break the club’s rules. Although strippers are independent contractors. and renting out booths or couches so they can dance on them too). All Rights Reserved 53 . There’s also the cover charge to get into the club. pornography. Owners of clubs pay no Social Security. Most sell promotional items like shirts or hats. at the bare minimum. requires the girls to pay “rental fees” (like renting out the stage so they can dance on it. Since the girls all work as independent contractors. she owes the club and must pay off that shift’s quota by adding it to the quota for the next shift she will work.
girls can be fined $1 per minute for being late. etc. leaving the main floor before the DJ calls her off. Every club enforces their rules through the use of fines. and must perform a nude floorshow (all this regardless of whether customers are tipping her or not). and various other arbitrary things. Some clubs don’t have seating available for the girls in the dressing room and enforce a strict nosmoking policy in that room. Some clubs have specific rules about costuming and even dictate the sequence of the stripping.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club support staff of the club. being sick. All Rights Reserved 54 . For example. One of the initial appeals of working at a strip club is that the job is flexible. and other arbitrary amounts for giving attitude to management or the staff. by the middle of the first song the woman must remove her top. You tend to work long hours late at night. There are even clubs that regulate when women may use the bathroom and how many of them can be in the dressing room at one time. as much as $100 for calling in sick. and for girls who work at different clubs. she must do on the main floor or in the smoking lounge/area so she’s in contact with the customers). but to give you an example. she must be entirely nude by the end of the second song. not cashing in one dollar bills. there’s the added stress of travel too. if a girl wants to sit down and rest. If she wants a smoke. talking on her phone without permission. being late on stage. not cleaning the dressing room. but this is far from the truth. and even sets the price of table dances and private dances. sometimes you have to deal with the fact that drugs and alcohol are all over the place. The type of fine differs from club to club. For someone who wants to function during Copyright 2005. fighting with a customer. The girls can also be fined for prostitution. This is a way to keep the girls from slacking off in the dressing room and keep them out on the main floor with the customers (like. Most of the time working at the club takes over your life. Usually being late to the stage is the most typical fine that’s levied on the girls. she must do so with a customer.
I know a lot of Strippers who have to get drunk before they even show up to the club just to make it through the night. There’s also the added pressure or temptation to perform prostitution while working at certain clubs. There’s the main floor (where the customers sit). There’s also a great deal of sexual abuse that goes on in strip clubs as well. you could define a Stripper’s entire job as that of “sexual abusee. groped. there are a great many who are willing to take that leap. dressing room (sometimes the girl’s bathroom doubles for the dressing room).Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club “normal” work hours. but other clubs tolerate (and in some instances encourage) it due to the extra money it brings in. the bar. they are still oogled. Lots of clubs frown on this type of behavior because it could shut them down. There is also a small amount of physical abuse girls suffer. All Rights Reserved 55 . this type of job can be quite problematic. kissed. There’s always drama and rivalries between girls. But on top of the physical stress involved in working at a strip club. putting up with that type of stuff can take its toll psychologically. The girls can suffer from verbal abuse from customers and employees at the club (as well as from other dancers). there’s a great deal of mental and emotional stress too.” even though the clubs are geared towards protecting the girls (usually). This is also a reason many Strippers initially turn to drugs. There can be dry periods where the girls make little money. While there are a great many Strippers who draw the line at performing sex acts for money. the stage. Copyright 2005. the lap dance areas. be it from rough or aggressive customers or injuries that accrue from dancing on stage. the DJ booth. The girls need something to help them disassociate themselves from the experience of dealing with working at the club. and in some instances penetrated by various types of strange men. In fact. licked. Most strip clubs tend to be divided up into certain areas. Needless to say. and in some cases the VIP room. fondled.
the girls will crawl or move around on the floor posing in sexual positions and spread their legs at the customers’ eye level. show off her goodies. During a set. There’s usually a rotation for the dancers working in the club to go up on stage and perform their set. a dancer will strip. All Rights Reserved 56 . or play pool (if there’s a table) during their shifts. These buffers are usually padded in some way so the girls have the option of getting close to the customers to hustle more tips. Stages will usually have a bumper on them where customers can sit down and watch the girl dance up close. dance. Strippers will ordinarily only position themselves in front of customers who are tipping when they’re on Copyright 2005. revealing her naughty bits). During a floorshow. In some clubs. that they have to be sitting with customers. Some clubs mandate that the girls aren’t allowed to buy their own drinks. In smaller clubs. even when their drinks are full (this is because the bar is almost pure profit for the club). but it’s the place where the girls perform for the customers. Generally a girl will start her set fully clothed and over the course of a set of 2 or 3 songs she will remove her top and in nude clubs. ("Flashing" is when the Stripper pulling her g-string aside. and if she’s really into it.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The Main Floor This is where the girls circulate through the crowd. drinking. Some stages wouldn’t even be considered a “stage” by any standard. as well as lay down tips. a dancer changes her movements from upright to positions on her knees and squatting in order to ‘flash’ tipping customers. the girls can use the main floor to hang out. The Stage Stages come in all styles and sizes. encouraging men to buy dances. and can never turn down a drink. In higher scale clubs. the girls have to hustle drinks to feed the bar’s cash register. order in food. The main floor is where most of the hustling for dances takes place. her g-string. perform acrobatics. walk around. and talking with the customers.
The guys who don’t tip are pretty much ignored. Wall dancing is where a man is placed with his back to a wall and the Stripper rubs up against him. Live sex shows involve 2 or more girls engaging in simulated or actual sex on stage for the customer’s enjoyment. All Rights Reserved 57 . The stage is also the area where live sex shows are performed. When the girls are in private dance situations with the customers. it’s own Copyright 2005. The VIP room is usually an actual “room” that is more private than the normal booths. But despite that.” who’s a bouncer or manager who’ll come by just to check and make sure everyone is abiding by the rules. a stereo. There are a variety of private dances available in strip clubs. of course). they are kept an eye on by small security cameras or the “Peeper. so they may feel more vulnerable. this is also a time where the girls are cut off from ready security. Private Dances & The VIP Room Private dances are usually done in more secluded areas away from public view. among other things. Shower dancing is offered in some clubs and allows a customer to get into a shower stall with a dancer and massage their bodies with soap and water. A variation involves the woman dancing between his legs while he slides down in his chair so that the dancer’s thighs are rubbing his crotch as she moves.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club stage. Couch dancing for a customer entails the dancer standing over him on the couch. a bed. “Lesbian sex shows” can be an advertised feature for certain clubs and two girls partner up and split the profits from the show (with the club getting a nice cut. This is usually where the girls are most open to do “extras. Table dancing is performed on a low coffee table or on a small portable platform near the customer’s seat. But this is also the place where the girls can be most careful or businesslike. Lap dancing requires the woman to straddle the man’s lap and grind against him. They can contain couches. because men will usually proposition them for sex acts. Private dances can range anywhere from $15 per song to $300 for a half an hour VIP excursion.” such as hand jobs and blow jobs. Bed dancing is offered in a private room and requires the dancer to lay on top of the customer and simulate sex.
some take all the money from a VIP session and girls have to rely on tips made while in the room to pay for their time. Copyright 2005. Strippers make most of their money with private dances. and it’s also the place that the most prostitution usually occurs. All Rights Reserved 58 . The VIP room is designed to be more private and comfortable than the rest of the club. Some clubs split the cost of the VIP room with the dancer. Different clubs have different policies concerning VIP rooms. and a variety of other things that make it seem fancy.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club bar.
I have been to countless different clubs in many different states. since they usually have a very well kept building. you should know the different types of clubs that are out there. wherever they may be. Different types of clubs attract different types of girls and have different sets of rules and standards. and a parking lot full of new cars which you will notice before you even go inside the club. All Rights Reserved 59 . yet it seems to me that strip clubs. Show clubs appeal to upscale customers by providing them with Copyright 2005. you'll at least have some guidelines as to what you can expect when you go there. tend to fall into one of three different types.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Types Of Strip Clubs Now that you know how strip clubs operate. Type #1: The "Show" Club Show clubs are the easiest type to identify. By being able to recognize which of the three types applies to a new club you are checking out.
working the room with energy and a smile. they are usually managed professionally by business professionals. All Rights Reserved 60 . vacationers. so girls with top-notch physical appearance and dancing skills will be the most prevalent. both for the customers and for the dancers. unbelievably beautiful and sexy girls! In show clubs the emphasis is on show. "Show" Club Characteristics . showing up straight. A show club dancer who drops from a 9 to an 8 will be talked to by club management. etc. Dancers caught performing “extras” are usually immediately fired and blackballed. who are expecting to see something that will truly impress them. As a result. white collar guys traveling on business etc. After all. since they do not want to risk any problems with the local police which might result in negative publicity for their club. if you were a local businessman would you risk your face on the front page of your local newspaper as a result of being in a strip club during a bust? Show clubs depend on the exceptional or unusual appearance of their dancers as the main attraction for upscale customers. but they also have high earning potential for dancers (which means if you’re expecting to go to a show club.Since they cater to professional and upscale customers. since the owners need the club's image to be squeaky clean.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club something they can't see anywhere else – live. they expect professional conduct from their dancers such as showing up on time. Copyright 2005. and they also may bring in feature entertainers like porn stars. Show clubs also usually have excellent security. the show clubs usually only hire dancers with an exceptional or unusual physical appearance (9s and 10s on the bachelor scale). show clubs usually have very strict rules. Because show clubs represent a large business investment on the part of the owners. so show clubs usually will not tolerate a dancer who lets her appearance slide either from weight gain. long nights. Show clubs also usually have high cover charges. you better be making more that $24K a year). and a dancer who drops to a 7 will usually be let go. Show clubs cater to businessmen entertaining their business clients. or bad habits. To provide this. high stage fees and high tip-outs. They usually will not tolerate contact of any kind between their dancers and customers.
The girls in these clubs tend to work there regularly. Copyright 2005. blue collar guys traveling on business etc.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Since show clubs are the only type of club where it is possible for dancers to earn major bucks in a relatively clean. so the girls usually aren’t big hustlers. and have a more relaxed attitude towards their customers. This means that show club managers can (and will) be very selective in the dancers they do hire! This also means that in many cases the dancers can be catty and cutthroat.” neighborhood clubs are usually fairly easygoing. This is my personal favorite type of club. neighborhood clubs usually wind up hiring dancers who are 8s and 7s (on the bachelor scale). college students. The atmosphere and acceptable behavior in a neighborhood club are about the same as at a neighborhood bar. although 9s and 10s will be treated like Gold in neighborhood clubs. Neighborhood clubs appeal to neighborhood customers by providing them something which is comfortable and affordable.Since they cater to “regular guys. All Rights Reserved 61 . Neighborhood clubs cater to 'regular guys' out with the boys for the evening. "Neighborhood" Club Characteristics . In neighborhood clubs the emphasis is on socializing. the first club I got work at as a doorman was a neighborhood club. who are expecting a little personal attention from the dancers. professional environment. smaller clubs which are usually located away from the main business district. Type #2: The "Neighborhood" Club Neighborhood clubs are exactly that. since 9s and 10s often do not get along well with each other and since heavy money is at stake. Neighborhood clubs are also the best venue you can have to find a decent girl to date in the world of Strippers. but who are also expecting to leave the club with some of their paycheck still left in their wallet. In fact. and most (but not all) neighborhood clubs are topless only (or bikini) and serve alcohol. As a result. show club owners usually have many more dancers applying to work there than they have openings.
management may not be all that professional. Often the club is owned by a 'regular guy' as well. Because sleazy clubs cater to the up close and personal customers. working the room steadily. This usually means that even though it can be very comfortable to work in neighborhood clubs.” but they usually are not super-strict about enforcing “no contact” rules but are concerned nonetheless. The reason these types of neighborhood clubs are so easygoing is that they pretty much have to be. neighborhood clubs are usually very easygoing about the girls showing up on time. Security is usually pretty lax as well. but it is usually well intentioned. sensuality is the most important characteristic for the girls who work there. although physical appearance is also somewhat of an issue. the tipout is low. etc.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Neighborhood clubs cater to customers who do not have a lot of money to spend. and there probably won't be a stage fee for the girls at all. As a result. This also means that the dancers in neighborhood clubs usually get along with each other well. since the “primadona factor” usually does not come into play and there isn't all that much money to be had from the customers to be worth risking bad blood with the other dancers. This gives you greater leeway in getting girls to hang out longer and maybe even leave the club with you. Sleazy clubs are usually (but not always) nude clubs. Because neighborhood clubs are usually locally owned. who may even live in the same neighborhood. All Rights Reserved 62 . so the cover charge (and drink price) is low. Type #3: The "Sleazy" Club Sleazy clubs are more difficult to identify since on the surface they may appear just like a show club or a neighborhood club. This means that neighborhood clubs also do not want trouble with the local police or the “neighbors. The obvious difference is that sleazy clubs appeal to customers who are expecting more than a “no touch” dance whether the dancer is a vision from heaven or not. since neighborhood clubs offer the lowest earning potential for dancers. most dancers will keep looking for better paying opportunities in other clubs. Copyright 2005. and that some decent money can be earned after a dancer builds up a group of regular neighborhood customers who like her.
or even the main club area. she’s hired). This includes fights and police busts. but their earnings will be disappointing. But in sleazy clubs. Sleazy clubs are fun if you’re looking for quick sexual gratification and are willing to pay for it.The 'bread and butter' of sleazy clubs is the VIP room. Also. messed in the head. not to keep an eye on the dancers! Obviously there is tremendous earning potential for girls in sleazy clubs. stage fees and tip-outs can be relatively high. but in a sleazy club this is usually an area not within view of the main room. so cover charges. as incredible amounts of money can be made by dancers willing to keep the customers totally “happy. the girls in these types of clubs are more self destructive. Many show clubs and neighborhood clubs also have private dance areas. Since sleazy clubs by their very nature are not all that concerned with the letter of the law. I do not recommend them if you’re looking to date one of the girls. private area. However. Usually. All Rights Reserved 63 . security is primarily there to protect the club and club owner. and it’s not unusual to see bouncers with brass knuckles or collapsible metal clubs on their person. Girls who are less willing than most will usually not be pressured. Security is also usually strong also. if the girl’s willing to give the manager a blow-job. Dancers ranging anywhere from 5s to 10s can be found in sleazy clubs. champagne room. Management will always take care of their dancers though. in sleazy clubs. Copyright 2005. the bouncers and sometimes even management will get kickbacks from the girls who perform illicit sexual favors in the back rooms. management is usually professional but not necessarily fair. or whatever they choose to call the club's private area. be prepared for just about anything to happen in the dressing room. I say this because typically. Girls who are more willing than most to keep the customers “happy” will do extremely well in sleazy clubs. especially the 9s and 10s. Obviously the customers these clubs cater to expect privacy with their favorite dancer.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Sleazy clubs need to keep their customers happy so they usually hire dancers based on their “performance” during a private dance audition (as in.” "Sleazy" Club Characteristics .
That doesn’t mean they’re ALL bad women.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club and prone to disease than the girls in the other types of clubs. but just be extra cautious when dealing with a sleazy club. All Rights Reserved 64 . Copyright 2005.
Whenever I walk into a club and I see it’s slow. but it sure is more difficult. The best times to do it are during off-hours and weekdays. the girls are busy hustling and making money. like “half price dance night” or “Oil Wrestling Contest” or “Amateur Night. The other half of the information is WHEN to go to the club. forget it! The club will be so jam-packed with Copyright 2005. am I right? So weekends are bad times to pick up Strippers. The prime days to pick up dancers in clubs are not the weekends. A lot of clubs know the weekdays are slow. they’ve almost accepted the night is gonna be a bust and they’re open to doing stuff to break the boredom.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club When To Go To A Strip Club Now that we’ve covered what type of clubs there are. And if the local radio station is involved. But it would take some convincing. as they should be. so they throw special events to try and attract customers.” The effectiveness of these special events can be hit-or-miss. When a club is dead. I smile. Is that impossible? No. I’m not saying its impossible to get a girl from a club on the weekend. (It’s also easier to convince them to leave early and go have some fun) So weekdays are good times to go. that’s only half the information you’ll need to prepare you for picking up a Stripper. but be aware of any special events that may be occurring in the club and avoid those too if possible. All Rights Reserved 65 . When a club is crowded. then do yourself a favor and find another club to go to on that night. But if you see a lot of promotion for a particular event. Its kind-of like if I were to walk into your workplace on Monday around lunch time and ask you to take the rest of the week off and hang out with me. Weekends are the time the girls make the bulk of their money. because I know it’s going to be much more fun than a club that’s crowded.
Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club people you’re going to be wasting your time trying to pick up a dancer that night. Just be aware that most of the girls who work at clubs during the day (the “day shift. occasionally you’ll get girls who come in during the day just because they love their job and feel more at home in the club. All Rights Reserved 66 . Some clubs are open during the day. picking up girls on weekends is possible. depending on what part of the country you’re in. and girls with families that can’t stay out late at night. Copyright 2005. which can also be a good time to go. Also. But this can also be a time where new dancers are “broken in” before they start dancing on the prime nights (I know a few clubs in Las Vegas that do this). or girls who are trying to get back into the good graces of management after some bad behavior and are being punished by working during the day. so if you want to have your “pick of the litter. And as I said before. This is a time where older dancers come in. figure out the best times to pick up dancers in your favorite clubs by seeing when the club is slowest.” be prepared to throw down and put in the work during those prime hours on the weekends.” as I like to call them) are not all exactly visions of beauty. So knowing all this. but more difficult.
have a few “wingmen” who enjoy strip clubs too who know what they’re doing and can support your efforts to get a girl. If you do succeed and should find a girl who wants to go home with you. All Rights Reserved 67 . When you go with friends. But if your buddies are running around acting like loser customers. In the end. sometimes having friends with you can help you out with a pickup. the last thing you want to have to deal with is the fact you drove to the club with a big group of friends. If you’re going to a strip club to pick up a girl and you want to go with friends. When I go to a strip club to pick-up. If your friends are fun and you guys are the life of the party. It’s also important to have an “exit strategy” when you’re out to pick up girls at a club. there’s an added pressure to stay longer than you should if you really want to pull girls. I don’t spend very long in the club. that can help. I just stay long enough to maybe get a number or pull a girl. Copyright 2005. I’d say it’s always preferable to go it alone if you want to try and pull a girl from the club. go alone.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Go To Clubs Alone There’s always the question “Should I go to a strip club alone or should I go with friends?” Here’s my answer to that… If you want to go to pick up a Stripper. If you want to go to have fun. Now. being associated with them can impede your chances of getting a girl. go with friends.
That Is The Question Okay. or Nude Club? This is actually a more important decision than you might know. Girls who work in Nude Clubs think the girls in Topless Bars are stupid because they can make more dancing in the nude. so now that you know the types of clubs and when to go. Let me explain. these two attitudes don’t affect you directly. you still have one more decision to make: Topless Bar. But other attitudes associated with them do. Copyright 2005. See. In fact. All Rights Reserved 68 .Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Topless Or Nude. it’s rather funny because both types of girls look down upon the other type. There’s a certain snootiness there. However. there’s a different type of girl who works at a Topless Bar than the type of girl who works at a Nude Club. Girls who work in Topless Bars think that girls who work in Nude Clubs are more like whores.
since younger girls can be easier to pull because they’re not as experienced or hardened as some of the other dancers are. that’s another bonus. So if you have the choice between a Topless Bar and a Nude Club.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Girls who dance at Nude Clubs do so for the money. so usually you’ll find lots of hustlers at these types of clubs. When it comes to Topless Bars. the added bonus of a bar that serves alcohol makes it more of a fun. however. maybe even shoot some pool. Also. Because of this. I’ve found that Topless Bars are far superior to full Nude Clubs when it comes to picking up Strippers. Which brings us to our next chapter… Copyright 2005. Plus. so there’s a bigger comfort factor there. so there’s that. it’s more of a social atmosphere. The girl’s in Topless Bars never get completely naked. They know they can make more money by taking off all their clothes. All Rights Reserved 69 . so the girl’s don’t have to deal with drunk customers (unless the club is BYOB). she’s going to feel a little vulnerable and try to compensate for this through disassociation with the men she’s dancing for (ie: The customer mentality is more prevalent in all Nude Clubs). Most Nude Clubs in this country don’t serve alcohol. know that your odds of pulling a girl from the Topless Bar is greater. party place where dancers and customers can unwind. But anytime a girl is exposing herself as completely as they have to in Nude Clubs. But girls at Nude Clubs are harder to pick up because they’re more closely guarded. if a club allows girls who are 18 and up (some have a minimum age of 21).
A girl who’s been stripping for a while knows the ropes. But you can’t argue with the fact that the greener the girl.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club 18 And Over Here’s a tip for all you guys who are looking to pick up a Stripper that most guys don’t know about. A lot of them aren’t very good lovers OR strippers. Girls who are just starting out. Chances are she’s fallen for every trick in the book and has learned to protect herself from most guys’ tactics and focus on making money while in the club. In the words of one of my good friends “The younger. that’s a crass way of putting it. Copyright 2005.” Why is this? Because girls who are inexperienced at stripping are much easier to pick up than hardened veterans. the easier she is to pick up. If you really want to improve your chances of picking up a dancer. I’d say “The younger. are still learning and are more open to guys who are trying to pick them up. You don’t want them to have bad experiences with you. the more open they are to new experiences. you want them to have good experiences just like every girl you date.” Now.” I’ve dated a few dancers who were really young (like 18 and 19) before. Just be careful dealing with the younger girls. All Rights Reserved 70 . and I’ve even coached a few of the younger girls to look out for some of the pitfalls of the business. however. the dumber. that’s because they’re inexperienced. go to a club that allows girls who are “18 and over. but again. right? So treat them with respect and patience.
to try and sneak into clubs by pretending to be 18 with a fake ID or something like that. They are insecure about how they look. Follow the advice I laid out in section one of this book.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club You should also be careful because it’s not unheard of for underage girls. Copyright 2005. like 16 or 17 years old. and about how much money they make. Many new girls are nervous about asking for money when they first start off and shy about revealing their body. They’re still looking for validation that they’re pretty and men will find them attractive. about how they’ll be received. about their skills as a Stripper. They want their customers to like them and don’t quite know the distinction between the fact that it’s a job and not a social experience. Be fun and positive and nice to the younger girls. you could be in real trouble should anyone find out! Most girls who are new to stripping are very insecure about themselves. but be sure not to act like a dumb customer as well. All Rights Reserved 71 . If you hook up with one of these girls. You can use all this to your advantage when picking them up.
They might be wound up and not ready to go to sleep. Invariably. whatever the case may be. or maybe they have families. I discovered this little gem in my days as a bouncer at a strip club. Copyright 2005. and they usually go straight home. But almost always there would be other girls who weren’t quite ready to go back to their place quite yet. Or they might simply be hungry. The reasons for this are many. Now. the girls would be ready to leave. All Rights Reserved 72 . They might still be turned on or high and looking for something to do. some of the girls are tired after a long night of bumping and grinding.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Find The “After Club” Hang Out One good way to further endear yourself to Strippers is to find the “After Club” hang out. once 3:30 am rolled around and the club was closing. This means they’re all dressed in their street clothes and heading to their car.
Still. In other places. and lots of Strippers would go there after work to either score drugs. the typical “After Club” hang out is some form of 24-hour restaurant. if you find out where these “After Hours” hang outs are. a good question to ask in this case is “Hey. and that will always help you out when it comes to dating them. like Las Vegas. With one dancer I used to date when I was in Las Vegas. where’s a good place to party other than this club?” Copyright 2005. food. whether to get drinks. All Rights Reserved 73 . chances are pretty good you’ll see some of the Strippers there after the club closes. In most parts of the country. chances are you’ll see a lot of Strippers migrate there after work. is there a place around here that serves food 24 hours?” Whatever the answer is. If you’re in a bigger city. she took me to a dumpy little bar way off the Las Vegas strip that looked like an abandoned building which turned out it was an after-hours drug den which also happened to serve booze. it’s a good bet that place will be where the girls go after the club closes. but it’s usually the closest casino to the club that wins out. like Las Vegas.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Whatever the reason. If there is a casino or a bar close by one of the clubs. If you know of a Denny’s or other 24-hour diner in the vicinity of the strip club you’ve gone to. More girls will get to know you and get comfortable with you. Needless to say. this can be different. you have more choices. especially if it’s a dancer who tells you the name of the place. Just ask one of the dancers or the bouncers or whoever “Hey. or maybe even solicit a few guys for some extra money if the night was slow. Depending on the location you’re in. it can be trickier to find out what kind of “After Club” place is the best. like Denny’s (the universal After Club gathering place). drugs. Food places are always a good bet. you can further ingratiate yourself out of the “customer” frame and into the “insider” frame. There will usually be an “After Club” hang out place the girls always go to. One of the best ways to do that is to ask. So the first part of this tactic is finding out where the hang out place is. where you have 24-hour everything. there will always be girls who won’t go home after the club closes. usually around 4 am. or any other thing they crave. get drunk. Sometimes there are “after-after-hours” clubs that most people don’t know about that Strippers go to.
Just be persistent in asking around. Be playful. you’ll discover where the “After Club” place is. invite them to sit and eat with you. Be like “Hey. you’ll be persona non-grata for a very long time. just approach them like you would any other girl in a bar. And if you’ve followed rule #1 and haven’t spent any money on them. Eventually. be patient. and eventually. Try to get them to sit with you. Act like it’s a coincidence you just happened to end up there too. you’re in even better shape! Copyright 2005. When you do find the “After Club” hang out.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club If you don’t find out on the first try. it’s time to actually interact with the girls. but should you be caught (even if your intentions are innocent). “After Club” hang outs are where you really get to work your way into the girl’s inner circle. (A quick note here: Sometimes girls will go to these After Club places with their boyfriends or husbands who pick them up from work. you’ll find out. All Rights Reserved 74 . because seeing you outside the club in a social way sets you apart from the average customer. all your hard work is washed down the drain. Have fun with them. or to join their party. even if they’re with other guys. you’ll be branded a “stalker” and before you know it. Only approach the girls if they’re in a group of other girls just so you don’t run into any boyfriend trouble) If you run into the girls someplace other than a restaurant. If it’s at a diner. If even one girl tells the club she saw you following her. Not only can you not be sure if the girl is actually going there. I would strongly recommend that you not resort to following the girls in your car after the club closes to try and find out where this place is. you’re the girls from the club! You guys wanna join me?” Be fun and playful.
horny loser who likes to oogle the dancers. Copyright 2005. I’ve also talked about how women who strip at clubs have very little social life outside the club. When you work at the club along side the dancers. you don’t want to be seen as a customer? Well. the best method I’ve found to pick up Strippers has to be either working at a strip club. that INSTANTLY separates you from the customers. You’ve got a job to do. Remember how I’ve spent most of this book telling you that if you want to date a Stripper. All Rights Reserved 75 . you become part of the small social life they DO have. when you work a strip club or you’re friends with someone who works there. You have a reason to be there other than being a lonely. This gives you many opportunities that the average chump going into a club doesn’t have.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Working In Strip Clubs To Pick Up Dancers Bar none. and makes picking them up much easier. or being close friends with someone who works at a strip club.
But what you have to deal with sometimes can be much worse. this might be a good job to start out Copyright 2005. Getting a job as a manager in a strip club can be tough if you don’t have experience. like bad employees. You have to work late into the night and suffer from a great deal of the social shortcomings most of the dancers do. All Rights Reserved 76 . You have to put up with crooked management sometimes. That being said. but depending on the club. But it soon turns into a job. Strip clubs are one of the few workplaces where you don’t have to worry about “sexual harassment” or any other crap like that. You get tipped out by each dancer who works at the club. you get laid. management definitely gets the most out of the girl in terms of sexual escapades. in being a bouncer or a doorman. There are different types of jobs you can get at strip clubs. You have to deal with drugs and prostitution. You have to break up fights. organized crime.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club That being said. you still have to deal with a lot of the same problems. crazy dancers. it might not be a very good one. either between the dancers or the customers. There are jobs in management. drug dealers. You have to deal with all the problems the girls bring with them to the club and all the petty drama there is. especially if you help hook-up customers and accept tips from them. If you’re going to college or just out of high school. Also. or in being a DJ. and sometimes the authorities. You have to handle rude and sometimes violent customers. it can be fun and exciting at first. Sure. But in exchange for all that. So you have to weigh the pros and cons of working at a strip club and decide if that’s something you really want to do. and all sorts of other headaches. The pay isn’t all that great either. you can make a living doing it. working at a strip club is not exactly the most desirable profession one could want. Being a bouncer or a doorman is not a very rewarding job either. the authorities. you have to deal with various degrees of unsavory elements. it’s possible to make some good money. You show up at the club early and have to help clean it up. because every girl is looking to get favors from the boss. depending on the club. You also don’t make very much money unless you’re working at a really large and popular club. so if you get a job in a big club in Las Vegas. Sure. Though you don’t have the same kind of burdens management does.
Copyright 2005. a lot of dancers like to befriend the DJ to make sure he doesn’t mess them up by playing the wrong type of music or not helping to sell them to the audience. Just be sure you know how to defend yourself and that you can take a punch. because at some point you will have to get rough with someone (that is part of your job. Occasionally you might want to have a laptop with a couple thousand MP3s on it that you can plug into the system at the strip club and run your own selections. You also meet a lot of customers who are big businessmen around town. And the thing about being a DJ is that it doesn’t require any prior experience. Being a DJ in a strip club is probably the best way for an average guy to get involved in the scene.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club with and do part time. but there’s already an excellent book on the subject by a guy named Bill Hibbler called “I’d Kill For That Job: How To Make $500 Every Day As A Gentleman’s Club DJ. you don’t have to spend any money buying DJ gear. he details pretty much all you need to know to get a job as a DJ at a club. It takes very little skill to perform the duties of a DJ in a strip club. And since all the strip clubs have their own equipment. but for the most part this isn’t necessary. because EVERYONE wants to be the DJ’s friend. All Rights Reserved 77 . after all). The schedule is really flexible. and the perks can be amazing. there you are. You can check out his website by clicking here. I could go into more detain on how to be a strip club DJ. You just show up and say “I’m a DJ!” and BOOM. Since the DJ sets the tone of the club. and can make a lot of hook-ups for special treatment at their businesses.” In it.
Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club PART III: Secrets Tricks Of The Trade: Stripper Copyright 2005. All Rights Reserved 78 .
I’m not talking about that dance from the 70s (although. Copyright 2005.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Beware The Hustle No. This is called “Hustling. a girl’s ability to hustle is her ability at selling what she has to offer to a customer. So in strip club parlance. you should probably beware that too! ☺ ). there are even seminars and courses dancers can take to learn how to hustle better and make more money. manipulative little tricks Strippers do to separate you from your money. In fact. When I say “The Hustle.” A Stripper who really knows how to hustle can make thousands of dollars a night.” I’m talking about all those subtle. Whenever you walk into a strip club. All Rights Reserved 79 . expect to be hustled by at least one girl while you’re there.
you’ll also be pegged as one of those “chump customers” you’re trying so hard to disassociate yourself from. Often there is a private area that you can go for a dance. their mentality is “if you didn’t want to spend any money. Some clubs just have stage dancing. nothing tells a girl you’re an “insider” more than when you call her on all her little hustling tricks! So here’s how it works… At most clubs. Since at most clubs treat the girls as independent contractors. then the Hustle will be nothing new to you. Hustling is basically any trick that gets you to spend money on a girl. not only will you be spending money and breaking rule number one. After all. not initially). They’re there for one reason and one reason only – to get paid.. a girl who does this doesn’t make any money. Usually. Girls who just walk up and say “Want a dance” are usually inexperienced hustlers who rely on their looks rather than their selling skills to make their money.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Hustling can happen on many different levels with varying degrees of success. and it can take many forms. because they will be looking to get your money and nothing else (at least. why did you bother coming to the club in the first place?” If you know anything about sales. But should you fall for a well planned hustle. And believe me.. So don’t take a girl who’s trying to hustle you as an insult. Copyright 2005. The career Strippers know they have a shelf-life of only a couple years and really bust their humps to make their nightly “money goals” which they will usually smartly pack away in a savings account somewhere. All Rights Reserved 80 . since almost every girl in a strip club will be trying to do it. The smart girls treat dancing like a job. However. not a social experience. introducing herself. and starting to gain rapport with you. maybe. the dancers walk around and ask the customers if they'd like a private dance (or lap dance depending on the club). These are the girls you have to watch out for – the ones who look at it as strictly a business. an experienced hustler will follow this 3-step pattern… The Beginning is walking up. they won't get fired if they don't work hard and no one will say anything if they decide to hang out at the bar and talk all night. essentially making you comfortable with her being around and talking to you.
she’s usually scanning the room. I’m even better in the back room you know?” Customer: “Oh really?” Stripper: “Um-hmmmm. which is to get a dance with him. Copyright 2005. no guy minds if a girl sits with him in the club). Then she gets him to keep saying “yes” to her questions.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The Middle is the dancer getting you to open up and start talking so they can get you into a “buying mode.” Stripper: “You having a good time tonight?” Customer: “Yeah. If she’s sitting. Would you like me to show you?” Customer: “Okay!” See the difference? The first was a “Yes/No” question. doing dances and VIP trips with guy after guy. it’s with a customer she’s buttering up. I saw you when I was up on stage. Here’s an example: Stripper: “Care for a dance?” Customer: “No thanks.” Stripper: “That’s great. it just comes down to her selling that dance or that trip to the VIP room. She’ll always be the one walking around the room talking to customers. sure. I love this place. Either the customer wanted a dance or not. until he’s so used to it she knows he’s properly “buttered up” for her close. There are countless different ways to do this and yet ultimately. This is a selling tactic where it’s believed that small commitments lead to big commitments. You can always spot a Hustler because she’s a very busy girl. If she’s not with a customer.” Stripper: “I’m glad you liked it. All Rights Reserved 81 . She’ll be going in and out of the back room. In the second one.” As opposed to… Stripper: “Hi! Can I sit down with you?” Customer: “Yeah.” Little things like asking you questions that get you to open up so there’s a connection made. the Hustler started off with an innocent question she was sure she’d get a yes to (after all. Did you like my dancing?” Customer: “Oh yeah. it was hot. Which brings us to the last part of any successful hustle: The Close. How a girl closes the deal is how she makes the sale. and getting you into a “yes chain” (a tactic that gets you to say the word "yes" frequently).
But just Copyright 2005. However. If a girl comes up and starts massaging you in some way. you want a dance?” that’s a sure sign she’s a mediocre hustler. If you start hearing questions like “That feels good. DO NOT FALL FOR THE GUILT TRIP! Women in general are masters of the guilt trip. she will never come off “business-like. more experienced Hustlers will say things like “I’ve been sitting with you all this time and you still don’t want a dance! Don’t you like me?” after you refuse their close. Either they don’t make it believable that they’re really interested in you. If a girl is sitting and talking to you and suddenly asks “So.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club sizing up her potential targets. and hustlers even more-so. remember?).” Some Hustlers will use guilt to try to bait you into falling for their sell. Other. doesn’t it?” know that you’re being baited with a “yes chain. the customer will enter her “yes chain” of “I do like you! I think you’re beautiful!” And then the girl will say something like “Then why were you leading me on thinking you’d get a dance from me? If I don’t pay my rent soon I’m going to get evicted!” (notice how they make it seem like you’re at fault and you were leading THEM on?) This is. She wasn’t a great hustler. and she’ll usually ignore the ones who aren’t spending money (she looks at this like a business. if he refused. she’d suddenly look sad and rejected. the guy would see this and feel bad. I used to know this one Stripper who was quite pretty and innocent looking. you’re being hustled. or they have weak closes. Bad hustlers can be spotted easily. and if he didn’t stop her right there and invite her to sit with him. When she would walk up to a guy and ask him for a dance. and start to sulk away. Usually. A good hustler will also notice which guys are spending money and which ones aren’t. or walking around looking for a guy who’s open to making contact with her. Invariably. he’d find her later and apologize. like he’d hurt her. but it effectively guilts the guy into giving in and buying a dance. like rubbing your shoulders. complete BS. know that despite how good it feels.” And always remember my rule about “never trusting when a Stripper touches you. All Rights Reserved 82 .” The best hustlers are the ones you don’t know are hustling you. but she had this one trick that almost always worked on guys. of course.
be sure you tell her that you only tip after the dance is done based on how well you feel she did. If a girl over-quotes you a price. and if that’s a problem. There’s a fine line between a girl who knows how to hustle and a girl who is looking to rip you off. Some girls will start dancing for you and go one or two songs over. she will try to rip you off again. But I’ll tell the girls I get dances with that I don’t tip. and then tell you “Okay. Beware the multi-dance hustle. that’s $100. If not. your one or two dances become four because she just “assumed you wanted more since you didn’t tell her to stop. you have a defense against her rip-off tactic. they charge $30 so they can make a $20 profit on the 1 ½ minute dance instead of just $10 (remember they usually have to give the club half). But always be on your guard.” If you make it clear up front how many dances you wanted. Make it clear what your policy on tipping is right up front. If a lap dance is $20. then you’re going to have to pay up unless you want to deal with management. She may say something like “We get to set our own prices. which is a crafty hustle because it puts pressure on you to give them extra money once you’re already in their Copyright 2005.” Suddenly. Some Strippers will try to get their tip up front. unless the girl REALLY goes above and beyond the call of duty. Picking up Strippers who are in the club to hustle can be quite difficult. do NOT get a dance from her. even if you call her on her crap. Always know the club’s prices before you go in (ask the doorman what the club usually charges for dances). we should go in the back. but know that if she tries to rip you off once. If you take a girl in the back for a dance. should you go to a club just looking to blow some cash and have a good time. make it clear how many dances you want before going to the booth. However. but it takes time and perseverance. so I usually dismiss these types of women as good targets to try and date (though usually these women will be the most faithful and trustworthy because they are able to disassociate between their private life and their job). a good hustler can be a lot of fun because she’ll make you feel good and give you a good dance. It can be done. I’ve been to clubs where girls have upped the price of their lap dances. then I’ll pony up an extra $20. All Rights Reserved 83 .Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club remember its their last-ditch attempt at getting you into that back room where they make their real money.” which isn’t necessarily a lie. If you are willing to tip. I don’t like to tip.
then she’s going to perform better for you (and if she doesn’t. the club was presenting me with a $480 bill. If you really want to protect yourself from hustlers. All Rights Reserved 84 . Be sure to time the songs in a club so you know how long each dance you pay for really is! Tricks like “two for one” may be two songs clocked at a minute each. There are lots of good books on the subject of sales which many dancers read to get better at making money. $180 of which I was not aware of nor willing to pay for (the dancer neglected to mention the hidden costs to me). you’ll know all the tricks and how to protect yourself. and only if you feel she gave a good dance.” If a girl pulls this with you. Copyright 2005. tell her you found her dance unsatisfactory and un-tipworthy). better that than throwing away your money. She may get pissed off at this.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club “domain. but hey. plus a $100 tip for the girl that was “required” up front. I can remember I was at a club in Las Vegas one night where I fell for a rather good hustle that took me into the back VIP room. Personally. If you were to check them out. Before I knew it. so you’re really not getting a free dance at all). so on top of the $300 room charge. which included the dancer. I call your attention back to rule #1. Always negotiate what you want before you go into a VIP room. since you get very little for your money (most clubs cut the songs after a minute and a half or two minutes so they can squeeze as much money out of you as they can. read up on sales techniques. Little did I know that the VIP room had a two-drink requirement per person. and be sure you know how much money you’re going to have to spend before hand. Be really careful about VIP rooms. I’ve come to believe all forms of dances and drink buys in strip clubs are rip-offs. and a regular dance is already two minutes long. You pay a whole lot of money for very little in return. They’re almost always a rip off. Therefore. Some rip-off dancers will get their tip then just go through the motions until the song is over because you have to pay for the dance no matter what. I had to spend $80 ($20 a drink) at the bar. That is an example of a rip-off hustle. make it clear you don’t tip until the end. But if she has to work for her tip.
” “Goldie.” or various other normal sounding names in an attempt to keep people from asking what their real name is in the club (the psychology being that this IS her real name).” and lots of girls form performer identities to help them do what they have to in order to make money stripping. but I guess it’s important enough to talk about so it has to go somewhere. Hence the “stripper name” was born. The first real step to getting your foot in the door with a Stripper is to discover her real name.” or “Bethany. Every stripper I’ve ever know has had a stage name she goes by.” and their “performer selves.” “Martini. More recently. This can be easy or hard. Names like “Honey.” “Meadow.” and any other cute girlie name you can think of. such as “Vanessa. depending on the Copyright 2005. All Strippers have different identities.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Stripper Names I hesitate to give this subject its own chapter. All Rights Reserved 85 . They have their “real selves. girls have been adopting common names for their aliases.
I’ll say “You mean your parents actually named you (insert her stage name here)?” After that I can usually squeeze their real name out of them.” so I started calling her “Marge” as punishment. I later found out her real name was “Margaret. It all depends on the girl. I had one girl tell me her middle name. Copyright 2005. she’ll give me her stage name. It will only help you connect with who she really is as opposed to the “shield” she puts up around her when she’s in the club. I was dating her. By knowing the girl’s real name. Others don’t think a guy knowing their real first name is a big deal. I’ll always start calling her that. she started saying “You’re the only one who can get away with calling me Marge. Whenever I find out a girl’s real name. The way I find out a girl’s name is with a little joke. After I ask her name. though some girls will still give you a fake name. and not as her performer persona. After that. because it helps take me out of the “common customer” frame.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club girl. Lost of Strippers don’t feel comfortable telling a guy in the club her real name because of security issues.” Not long after that. Then I’ll say “Is that your Christian name?” This’ll usually get a laugh. you now have a tool to use in order to start relating to her as who she really is. So do what you can to find out what their real name is. All Rights Reserved 86 . If the girl doesn’t get it.
Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Strippers And Religion This might be hard for a lot of guys to believe. All Rights Reserved 87 . Almost all Strippers are spiritual or believe in metaphysical stuff in some fashion. and these religions help them to shape their beliefs and values. and they find religion or come from a heavy religious background. Others can be really hard core into Christianity or some other religion that would frown on stripping. This is why they’re not walking the streets looking for johns. I know this seems like BS. They really do have a set of values that helps them live their lives. I actually think Wicca is quite an interesting and positive religion).” who sells her body (and sometimes sexual favors) to men. They believe in “higher powers” and “ghosts” and “spirits” and “energy. I once hooked up with a Playboy model who was stripping at a club I was working at because I commented on the pentagram necklace she was wearing and started talking about Wicca (I had dated a girl who was Wiccan before so I knew a thing or two about the religion). I’m not saying all the girls are religious. but they seem to be able to justify the fact that what they do is separate from what they believe in. but most of them do have a strong set of beliefs and values which they live by. She lit up when I commented Copyright 2005. Though there are some girls who strip as a way to rebel against an oppressive religious upbringing. but that doesn’t mean they still don’t believe in what they’re rebelling against. Most Strippers partake in counter-culture type religions. How can a woman who partakes in the “sex industry. Now. but many Strippers are actually quite religious. such as Wicca or Satanism (not to say the two are synonymous. religion can be a good thing to connect with them on. actually be religious? Well.” Because the girls usually have strong religious beliefs.
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on it and we got into a deep conversation about her beliefs. This was probably the primary reason she ended up going home with me that night, because I was one of the few guys who really seemed to “understand” her. A lot of Strippers have a very open mind towards different beliefs and can become really interested when you talk about different religions. My favorite one to talk about is Mormonism. When I lived in Los Vegas, I actually found out a great deal about Mormonism and all of its interesting secret ceremonies and beliefs. Girls find it an intriguing subject. So knowing this, you can always fall back on what a Stripper’s beliefs are as a way to make yourself stand out from the average customer.
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Never Believe A Stripper Is Single
I don’t care what you hear or what she tells you. Strippers are never, ever, ever, ever, EVER single! Never. Every Stripper you meet will have either a husband, boyfriend, sexbuddy, or multiple boyfriends. She will never be single. So no matter what, you will have to deal with competition from another man. In the cases where the girl has a sex-buddy or multiple boyfriends, this means that she’s still open to seeing you socially. But when you get the husband or boyfriend in the mix, things become harder. Usually, the husband or boyfriend will know the rules of their girl’s game. They will stay out of the club and trust her enough to behave herself with other men when she’s out of his site. Typically, the girls
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will be fiercely loyal to their significant other and do their best not to stray from them. And if they ARE willing to stray, know that you’ll be dealing with a jealous and possibly violent man who’ll come looking for you should he find out (and they usually do). It is rare that you’ll find a Stripper who just divorced her husband or broke up with her boyfriend, but it does happen. This is also preferable, but timing is just the luck of the draw. Know that many of the girls you meet will lie to you if you ask them if they have a husband or boyfriend. This is because if you think the Stripper is single, you will spend more money on her. So never believe a Stripper’s answer to the question “Do you have a boyfriend?” or “Are you married?” because it’s sure to be a lie. In fact, don’t even bother asking. I can remember I once knew a dancer who was married with two kids. She was up on stage one night and getting a lot of attention from one guy in particular who was being quite generous with his money. When he asked her “Do you have a boyfriend?” she unthinkingly said “I’m married.” But then, having caught herself, she quickly backpedaled and said “But it’s nothing serious!” However, the damage was done, and the man’s tips soon dried up to find their way to another, more “available” girl. A lot of Strippers claim they’re single even in their personal lives. Indeed, some of these women are so bitter about men because they have to deal with all types of degenerates due to their job, that they don’t want to get involved with a guy. They sit around and lament about how “single” they are and how there aren’t any good men around. Don’t believe this either. The girls are deluding themselves. Most of them have guys in the wings they are having sex with but don’t really care for (and in some instances don’t even like!). Others maybe have lesbian relationships or female lovers that they fool around with, even if they really are looking for a guy. And some Strippers are so bitter and angry about men, that they’re NEVER available, even if they are single. They’re just too emotionally closed off to ever be in a decent relationship with anyone.
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and prepare yourself for it. Copyright 2005. All Rights Reserved 91 .Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Its best just to go in knowing you’re going to be dealing with a girl who has other men (or women) in her life. It will save you a lot of time and heartache in the long run.
I used to date a Stripper who’d get incredibly turned on when she worked because she was around so many other sexy women. This is typically a by-product of the sexual molestation most girls who become Strippers endured. Copyright 2005. All Rights Reserved 92 .Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Girl On Girl Action: Strippers and Bisexuality I’m not going to say that ALL strippers are bisexual. This often led to many. some are more into relationships with other women. Some are just into sex. But I will go so far as to say that a great deal of them are! I’d venture to say that 2 out of every 3 girls who strip for a living are into sex with other girls. and it’s also a by-product of the job. and a few are hard core lesbians. and I’m sure lots of girl-on-girl hanky-panky behind my back. many threesomes for myself.
In fact. I’ve seen even the best.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club But this is a reality. and let me tell you. Many girls you get involved with who dance in strip clubs will have sex with other women. then you’re going to love dating a Stripper! Copyright 2005. This may not seem like a big deal. most devoted woman stray from their man after dancing in a club for a while. And those who aren’t bisexual will usually also perform lesbian acts for the stage in the club. Not that you should ever expect a Stripper to be completely faithful to you. All Rights Reserved 93 . and better it’s with a woman than with another guy. and there’s little you can do when your competition is another woman. If she doesn’t fool around with guys. So if that’s okay with you. but I’ve been the victim of a girl coming along and stealing my girlfriend before. It allows you to have threesomes (and sometimes even foursomes) with sexy women. It comes with the territory that she’s going to stray every once and a while. But it’s a factor you’ll have to take into account. nothing makes you feel more angry or confused than having your girl leave you for another woman! It is not fun. (Things like kissing other girls and pretending to eat them out are always a big hit at strip clubs) The fact that most Strippers are bisexual can be both a blessing and a curse. It’s a blessing in the sense that it opens up the realms of sexual adventurism for you. she will with girls. a bisexual girlfriend can help you pick-up other girls quite easily! The curse is that she’s not going to be faithful to you. and you really do want to experience those viagra-fueled nights of two or more girls. simply because they can make a lot of money doing it.
what’re you going to do about it? ANGLE FOR THE THREESOME. OF COURSE!!! C’mon. So if you’re looking for the threeway. Another thing you have to accept is that it’s up to the girl as to whether or not she wants to have sex with another woman. so now that you know most Strippers are bisexual. you can’t go to a strip club expecting to get a threesome unless you’re already dating a girl or another dancer. be sure you’ve already got at least one girl you’re sleeping with.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Threesome Tactics With Strippers Okay. who we kidding? What red-blooded heterosexual man wouldn’t at least THINK about doing that? Well. so I never pressured them to. What I mean by that is. the first thing you should be aware of is that you can’t have your cake and eat it too. The girls who want to have threesomes with Copyright 2005. This is an important factor in getting a threesome. All Rights Reserved 94 . I’ve dated Strippers in the past who did not want to have sex with women.
it’s going to be her job to recruit the OTHER girl for the threeway. If you’re not dating a Stripper.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club you will eventually warm up to the idea if you’re patient. the best way I’ve found to make this happen is to take her to the strip club! The better looking she is. Most likely she’ll find a girl who’s willing the next time she goes to work. let her do the recruiting. In fact. Then I’ll take her up to the stage and start throwing down dollars in front of her and have the dancers come up to her. want to have a threesome?” Just imply your willingness to do so. and the dancers who are into women will notice this (especially if they were up on stage dancing for her). plant the seed. or she may already have a friend who is into it. In fact. Bisexual Strippers never have a hard time getting another girl to go to bed with them. gentle persistence is the key. Its important to wait and let the Strippers approach you. I’ll sit with her for a while and let her get comfortable with the surroundings. its then Copyright 2005. Never come out and say “Hey. dancers will approach us and I’ll start buying lap dances for the girl I’m with. your girl should be nice and turned on and having a good time. they may even suggest it! So if you want to get two girls in bed at once. and wait and see if she’s up for it. Once they go in the back. women have a much easier time pulling Strippers from clubs simply because most Strippers resent and mistrust men. and there are (of course) other dancers who are open to it. the more girls will easily flock to her. talk about her attraction to other women. but are dating a girl who’s open to being with another woman and wants to have a threesome. And you want her to feel comfortable that she can do so safely and that you’re not going to stray from her emotionally. when we pull back from the stage. So if your girl is a Stripper. because those are the ones who’ll be into women to begin with. After a little while of girls rubbing their breasts in her face and physically seducing her. There are women who go to strip clubs looking to pick up girls. All Rights Reserved 95 . When I take a girl into a strip club. Eventually. Why is this? Because in the end. once you two settle on the idea to bringing another girl into the mix.
because sometimes you just can’t find a compatible girl in the club for whatever reason. This isn’t a fool-proof method to get the threesome. while leaving the seduction to your partner. just try another club. All Rights Reserved 96 . If that’s the case.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club your girl’s job to “feel out” the dancer and see if she’s game to go home with the two of you. Remember that your job is to be the leader and guide things to make sure they happen. Copyright 2005.
so if it’s illegal in your state. Now. All Rights Reserved 97 . so by now you should be absolutely sure that the purpose of this book is to make sure you don’t spend money in strip clubs.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club High Mileage: Getting More Bang For Your Buck Okay. you had best get as much out of that money as you can while you’re there. Nothing wrong with that! In my opinion. before I get too heavy into this subject. Copyright 2005. This means getting some type of sexual gratification for it. I also do not condone prostitution. do the right thing and refrain from participating in it. sometimes you just want to have a good time and ease the weight of your wallet for a night. if you’re going to spend money in a strip club. she’s doing it with lots of other guys too!). it is a pretty shady thing to go into a back room with a girl you just met to exchange money for some type of sex act (and if she’s doing it with you. I mean. But let’s face it. I’d just like to make it clear that I think there are better ways to go about getting your rocks off than going to a strip club.
Sure. or penetrate her is considered high mileage. Now. But if you’re in a strip club and feel the urge to get some moist relief. The term “Mileage” refers to how far a Stripper is willing to go in regards to your pleasure. often the hottest girls are the ones most willing to shell out the miles. because they really aren’t willing to do anything with you. If the girl is really dancing a lot and is into it. in addition to the dances they do.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club That said. but also kiss. So I will focus on telling you how to get the high mileage girls. A Stripper who loves being a Stripper is a girl who is very open sexually. or they may just be motivated to make more money. First of all. Another factor to take into consideration is the reputation of the club you’re in. but true. And a girl who will perform sex acts like hand jobs or blow jobs is super-high mileage. The first and most important thing you must remember when looking for a high mileage experience is that what you get entirely depends on the type of girl you choose. the more likely it is she’s going to give you what you want. there are ways you can go about doing this. So it is important to look for certain traits in a typical “high mileage” dancer. The next factor to look for is whether or not the girl likes what she’s doing. I’m assuming you don’t care about the “low” and “middle” range. A girl who will not only let you touch her. but strangely enough. not a Stripper. Strange. you got average looking ones who’ll do it. but chances are they will be willing to go the distance. girls who do air dances for you while you sit on your hands are considered low mileage. this isn’t a hard and fast rule. Typically. It might be a turn on for them. my first advice is: if you want to pay for sex. suck. hire an escort. There are lots of hot Strippers out there who wouldn’t consider going past medium mileage. All Rights Reserved 98 . The sleazier the club. For the purposes of this chapter. chances are she’s open to doing high mileage dances. the better looking the girl. the more likely the girls are open to Copyright 2005. since that’s easy enough to get. if she’s smiling and laughing and walking around talking to customers a lot. But the better looking girls can actually make a LOT more money by performing “extras” in the back. A girl who will allow you to touch her while she dances for you is considered medium mileage.
since she’s already doing something illegal (in most states). The more at ease you can make a dancer feel. and may keep her from doing what you want. as long as it’s within reason for what you want. Whatever you do. Either way. Play with the girl you want. since this is where most of the sex acts will take place. she may not be getting all that much money. This could be anywhere from a set price to a percentage of her take. That is why you should always tip the girl who treats you well. you’ll want to go for the VIP room. By contrast. You can do this by expressing interest in her. In some clubs. the upscale Gentlemen’s Clubs have very little high mileage happening. The reason I say this is because in order to perform any extras for you. making them feel safe and comfortable. she’s a good candidate for high mileage. she might mistake you for an undercover cop and leave you be. If you think you have a good candidate. Be fun. you’ve blown your shot. Copyright 2005. Don’t try to talk her down in price. If she’s into it and playful back. take her for a “test drive” with a $20 lap dance to see what she’s willing to do. Or. cut your losses and move on. girls who do extras in the back have deals with the Bouncers and the Peeper who keeps an eye on things where they’ll let her slide in exchange for some of the money she makes off the deal. the girl will usually have to kick-back a certain amount of money to the club. being polite. If she isn’t responsive. Usually. So know that before you proceed. don’t ever come out and ask a Stripper “So. the more open she’ll be to giving you more mileage. as in what she’s willing to do and what she isn’t and how much she wants. and let her make the offer. Pay her what she wants. The trick is to imply that you want more than just a dance. If things look good. All Rights Reserved 99 . Give her a little extra cash for the extra effort.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club high mileage interactions. what can I get for $100?” or “Do you ever do anything extra in the back?” This will make the girl feel dirty and cheap. management even gets a cut! So by the time all is said and done. A little bit of negotiating will be necessary before this.
then ask him if he’d recommend a dancer. tip him some money ($20 is usually a good amount). The Bouncer may take your money and disappear without recommending any women) Copyright 2005. he’ll take you to the girl he’s partnered with and you’re sure to get what you want. All Rights Reserved 100 .Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Another good way for tracking down the High Mileage girls is to approach a bouncer or doorman. be wary about doing this in big clubs that are crowded. (However. If the bouncer is in on the kick-back.
It’s the “party drug” that is most prevalent in clubs. this depends on the type of girl. which is why I can recommend not doing it. And most of all. you’re going to get a drug addict. however. do not recommend this approach. When you tempt a woman with drugs. I will admit I tried using this approach in the past. I. and not only that.” Feeling like an idiot and like I was about to get lectured on why I shouldn’t be doing drugs.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Using Drugs To Pick-Up Dancers The topic of drugs and strip clubs almost go hand-in-hand. but girls who are heavy drug users also tend to be prone to more sexually transmitted diseases. which I personally don’t find cool. You’re never going to know if the woman is with you because she likes you or because she likes the drugs. and said “Ew. I wish I could say this wasn’t true. so you’re putting yourself at risk. I don’t smoke pot. Plain and simple. All Rights Reserved 101 . She indignantly looked at me. ruffled her nose in disgust. but she wasn’t. you’re contributing to the destruction of another human being through substance abuse.” At first I thought she was joking. the girl suddenly pipes up “I only do cocaine. but it is. Copyright 2005. Of course. The drug of choice for Strippers is cocaine. Many Strippers I know do cocaine. There’s also a great deal of ecstasy that works its way through clubs. There are a lot of guys out there who think that enticing Strippers with drugs will help them to pull the girls from the clubs. but it can work. so I’d feel remiss if I were not to address it. I learned this when I tried to tempt a Stripper I was attracted to into coming back to my place after the club by telling her I has some weed.
and after witnessing the “pimp out” more than once.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club and pot is pretty common too. Copyright 2005. my opinion of them dropped even further. To a certain degree. At the very least. offering to hook the girls up in exchange for coming home with them. A lot of these drug dealers would eventually recruit the girls and pimp them out outside the club. They have also been known to stake out the parking lots of strip clubs as well and follow suspected offenders to their home in order to make a bust. They will get you the type of girl who will cause you trouble in the long run. Drugs are just too much trouble to really consider using them as a method of pick-up. All Rights Reserved 102 . I never had much respect for these guys. Too often. So always be sure to follow that old 80’s mantra and “Just Say NO” to drugs. I’d often see drug dealers who would come in and hang out. it may get you banned from the club. You also have to take into account police involvement when dealing with drugs. there are some dancers who are involved with heroine too. there are undercover cops who hang out in strip clubs to try and observe illegal activity. and possibly attract attention from unsavory elements in society or the authorities. though it’s not usually done in the club. When I was working at strip clubs.
I’ll take care of it for a little extra lovin’. blah. I can take you down to my beach house for a romantic weekend. And probably the most common tactic is what I like to call the “Arrangement. They just lay it out for the girl.” Copyright 2005. The only thing I like about customers who try to make “arrangements” with the dancers is their honesty. I’ve seen every trick in the book a guy can use to get one of the girls to sleep with him. Blah. Can’t quite make your car payment? No problem.” This is basically where some customer offers to pay the Stripper for sex whenever she needs money. Does it look like you’re going to be short on rent this month? Give me a call! I’ll pay your rent in exchange for a romp in the sack.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Making “Arrangements” With Strippers During my time in strip clubs. All Rights Reserved 103 . Feel like getting away for a while? Don’t sweat it. “Money for sex. blah.
either in terms of finances or health (or both). Its common knowledge that most Strippers are not wise with their money. I once dated a Stripper who would make around $500 a night and the next day she’d spend it all on shoes or clothes. I guess most guys don’t know where else to go to find girls who’ll have sex with them for money. Personally.” so Strippers are the next best thing. All Rights Reserved 104 . This is not only why most Strippers keep dancing. but the girl will not have any real respect for you. and the strip club is the best they can do. it can be hard to find “working girls. Not only that. It may cost you more in the long run. But do yourself a favor and refrain from making arrangements with Strippers. but you’re also tempting Strippers to become whores when you offer them arrangements. and this could lead to theft or extortion. I’d never attempt to make arrangements with any Stripper. It’s not a positive way to create a relationship. but why a lot of them are tempted by these arrangements that customers offer them. You may see it as a simple business transaction. Copyright 2005. why go to a strip club? Why not get a hooker or an escort? It’s much more cut and dry and less headaches (and work) than going to a strip club to try and find a girl who’d be willing to do that.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club The thing I never understood is this… if you’re willing to pay for it. In places that aren’t big cities. She was seriously making over three grand a week and was always broke. and that shows them that you do not make a distinction between the two professions – not good for your image.
But once you enter into a relationship. You get to deal with the real woman behind that construct. your own mental state can play a big part in the happiness of your relationship. You get to see Copyright 2005. going out to eat. But it can also be nightmarish and hellish. It can be a wonderful and rewarding experience. that fantasy goes away.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Being In A Relationship With A Stripper Eventually you may find a girl in a club where things just seem to click and before you know it. picking her up from work. You see her in the morning under the harsh light of day without her make-up or glitter. You get to see her come home tired and worn out. More than that. and suddenly – BOOM! You’re a Stripper Boyfriend. It’s easy to say you want to date a Stripper in the fantasy world of the strip club. I’ve had this happen to me numerous times. All Rights Reserved 105 . you’re seeing her regularly and staying over at her place. driving her to work. though. depending on the type of girl you get involved in. In the club she’s a beautiful goddess who imbues sexuality.
All Rights Reserved 106 . you need to go into the relationship knowing you’re not going to get her to quit Stripping. you have to deal with the job. Like the girls. that’s who you’re going to be dating – a woman who sells sexual fantasy to other men. you resent what she does (even if that’s how you met her!). A lot of guys think they can handle their girlfriend being a Stripper. and it’s easy to imagine her being unfaithful. but it has to be HER decision. Sometimes it was too much for me. But then jealousy can set in. But it’s actually very rare that a guy can handle their girlfriend dancing in strip clubs for an extended period of time. If she wants to quit. and you can’t change who someone is. All your insecurities start to bubble up. If you date a Stripper. and after that I was fine. because she wouldn’t even look my way for the length of her shift. I’d have to see the girl I was dating walk around and flirt with guys. Most guys I’ve known who dated Strippers were cool with the job for the first few weeks. and have to deal with the problems and complications she has in her life. But most of all. and before you know it. Copyright 2005.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club her best and worst qualities. Nuh-uh. I learned to detach myself from what goes on in the club. In fact. Not gonna happen. and you shouldn’t pressure her if she doesn’t want to stop. When I used to work at Strip Clubs. They think that once they’re a part of her life. When you get involved with a Stripper. You can never be sure what they are doing at the club. you’d be surprised how many guys actually talk their girlfriends into BECOMING a Stripper. that’s one thing. You can’t save someone who doesn’t feel they need to be saved. Too many guys think they can “save” the girl from that life by whisking her away from it. she’s going to turn over a new leaf. I worked at the club myself and even I started to resent her job! But I learned to get over that because I knew how the game was played and strip clubs were a part of my life.
sexual abuse. you can have many great experiences with great girls.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club But most guys don’t know how to do this. Most clubs have a policy that prevents boyfriends of the dancers to enter the club as a measure to prevent any embarrassing or violent scenes. it IS cheating.” especially if their boyfriend is involved in threesomes. and it takes a certain kind of guy to handle that. It’s a weird relationship. All Rights Reserved 107 . I’ve had more than one girl leave me for a bouncer or a DJ at the club they worked at (this was after I left the life of being a Bouncer and a DJ myself. but you can also have terrible ones. So don’t delude yourself if you want to date a Stripper. This usually doesn’t happen with customers. of course). You must also be prepared to deal with issues of substance abuse. there’s the issue of your girl fooling around with other girls. And trust me. It’s important you detach yourself from that lifestyle as much as possible and be the place she comes to in order to escape the life of the club. I had to learn how because I was working at a club. and bisexuality. Go into it with your eyes wide and be prepared to deal with the consequences of dating such women. Indeed. most girls who dance do have a tendency to stray from the guy they’re dating. I usually recommend that guys who date Strippers never think of setting foot inside the club(s) she works in. so be prepared for them. which can be much more prevalent than you might think because few Strippers look at that as “cheating. Many Strippers have both long term boyfriends AND girlfriends that they keep at the same time. Just know what you’re getting into. As I said before. that hurts almost more than if she were to have run off with another guy. But make no mistake. And of course. the first time you have a girlfriend who leaves you for another woman. don’t get involved with a dancer! Probably the hardest thing to deal with in relationships with Strippers is the notion of them not being faithful to you. Other guys don’t have that luxury. Copyright 2005. These are common issues that arise in a relationship with a dancer. but more with guys who actually work at the club they dance at. If you don’t feel up to it.
Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club Afterward & Disclaimer So there you have it. All Rights Reserved 108 . every situation is different. I hope you learned a lot and will enjoy great success in whatever endeavor you undertake. no method is fool-proof. That means that these strategies may or may not work exactly as you intend them to. and I firmly believe that what I’ve presented in this book is accurate and works. The writings and tactics I’ve laid out in this book is designed to inform and provide strategies regarding the goal of dating a woman who works at a strip club. However. All Strippers are individuals. and each individual’s experiences and success may vary. the author. over a decade’s worth of Stripper knowledge. all in one book. nor publisher will assume responsibility for any errors or omissions. However. I have based the information in this book solely on my own experience over the course of my lifetime. neither I. and because of that. Copyright 2005.
I strongly advocate the principles of “safe sex” to prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. I hope you strive for a successful and happy life. when engaging in any sexual activity. I highly recommend using protection. sexual assault or other criminal acts carried out by a reader of this publication.Stripper Secrets: How To Seduce Strippers In The Strip Club I also specifically disclaim any liability resulting from the use or application of the information contained in this book. encourage. Copyright 2005. be civil. and find the woman you’re looking for to share that with. It is my strongest belief that the only acceptable form of sexual activity occurs between two consenting adults. This book is for entertainment purposes only and is intended for persons 18 years of age or older. Use your knowledge wisely and for the benefit of everyone you know. Good luck. Furthermore. such as condoms. I do not encourage or condone prostitution or drug use. and be safe. and God bless. or accept any liability for any use of coercion. including yourself. So in conclusion. Note also that I (the author) and publisher do not endorse. All Rights Reserved 109 .
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