Patterns, Poems, and Stories

TABLE OF CONTENTS

PATTERNS...................................................................................................................................................................1 ADVENTURER VS EXPLORER PATTERN...............................................................................................................................1 AMAZING WOMEN PATTERN.............................................................................................................................................2 ATTRACTION VS. LOVE PATTERN.......................................................................................................................................3 BISHOP’S THREE RULE PATTERN.......................................................................................................................................5 BJ PATTERN # 1.......................................................................................................................................................6 BJ PATTERN # 2.......................................................................................................................................................7 BJ PATTERN # 3.......................................................................................................................................................8 BJ PATTERN #4 : THE ICE CREAM PATTERN....................................................................................................9 ROSS'S ABSOLUTE FAVORITE PATTERN: THE BLAMMO...........................................................................10 THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER: PART 1...........................................................................................................14 THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER: PART 2...........................................................................................................15 BOYFRIEND DESTROYER : "RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE TELEVISION"...................................................16 THE CALLBACK PATTERN.................................................................................................................................17 CATERPILLAR AND MOTH: .............................................................................................................................................18 THE "CENTER OF ENERGY" PATTERN...............................................................................................................................20 CELTIC SOUL GAZING PATTERN .....................................................................................................................................22 COLOR OF PLEASURE PATTERN.................................................................................................................................23 COMPANIONSHIP VS ROMANCE PATTERN..........................................................................................................................24 THE COOKIE CLOSE.............................................................................................................................................25 DANCER PATTERN...............................................................................................................................................26 "DEEP FASCINATION" PATTERN.......................................................................................................................................27 THE DISCOVERY CHANNEL / THE IDEAL ATTRACTION PATTERN.........................................................28 THE DISCOVERY CHANNEL / THE IDEAL ATTRACTION PATTERN ........................................................29 PERFECT MAN PATTERN.................................................................................................................................................31 THE POWER OF "HAVE YOU EVER": FASCINATION PATTERN..................................................................33 "THE EROS STONE NECKLACE" PATTERN...........................................................................................................34 ICE TEA PATTERN................................................................................................................................................36 INDULGENCE VS SURRENDER PATTERN.............................................................................................................................37 INSTANTANEOUS/TIMELESS CONNECTION PATTERN VARIATION #1...................................................38 INSTANTANEOUS/TIMELESS CONNECTION PATTERN VARIATION #2...................................................39 INSTANTANEOUS/TIMELESS CONNECTION PATTERN VARIATION #3...................................................40 LOCKET PATTERN..........................................................................................................................................................41 LOVER'S RING PATTERN.................................................................................................................................................43 THE MOVIE PATTERN..........................................................................................................................................44 "NEW TECHNOLOGIES" PATTERN.....................................................................................................................................46 PEAK EXPERIENCES PATTERN............................................................................................................................................47 REMOTE CONTROL ZIP ANCHOR.....................................................................................................................48 SECRETS PATTERN.........................................................................................................................................................50 THE "SEDUCTION LAND" PATTERN..................................................................................................................................51 SMILE PATTERN............................................................................................................................................................52 SOUL JEWELRY PATTERN................................................................................................................................................53 SUBMISSION VS. SURRENDER PATTERN .............................................................................................................................55 THE SUMMER NIGHT PATTERN........................................................................................................................58 TIME DISTORTION................................................................................................................................................59 TITANIC PATTERN................................................................................................................................................60 SPECIAL PATTERNS...............................................................................................................................................61 DARK SUN PATTERN .....................................................................................................................................................61

GEMINI PATTERN (99 LA VIDEO)...................................................................................................................................69 BISHOP’S WARMTH BUILDER........................................................................................................................................72 BISHOP’S ROSE (LIVE EXAMPLE)....................................................................................................................................74 HUNA PRAYER......................................................................................................................................................75 STORIES / POETRY..................................................................................................................................................77 A WARM FUZZY (BISHOP’S VERSION)......................................................................................................................77 A WARM FUZZY (ROSS’S VERSION)..................................................................................................................................80 ANGEL LOVER I............................................................................................................................................................81 ANGEL LOVER II..........................................................................................................................................................82 BLUEBERRIES................................................................................................................................................................83 THE DIAMOND DRAGON.................................................................................................................................................84 FASCINATION: BY ROSS JEFFRIES...................................................................................................................86 HER JOURNEY...............................................................................................................................................................88 THE JOURNEY...............................................................................................................................................................91 THE KEY.....................................................................................................................................................................93 KISS..........................................................................................................................................................................95 THE LOVER'S DANCE 1........................................................................................................................................96 THE LOVER'S DANCE 2: TO THE GARDEN ONCE MORE..............................................................................97 THE MERMAID AND THE BLOWFISH..................................................................................................................................99 PONDERING THE INNERMOST THOUGHTS OF A BUTTERFLY................................................................................................100 THE RAIN OF DESIRE...................................................................................................................................................102 RED SATIN.................................................................................................................................................................103 "REMEMBER WHEN"....................................................................................................................................................104 THE RUBY BUTTERFLY................................................................................................................................................105 THE SAPPHIRE FLOWER................................................................................................................................................107 STAR OF BISHOP.........................................................................................................................................................108 THE SWEETEST SOUND.....................................................................................................................................110 "THE TEAR"...............................................................................................................................................................111 THE WHISPER OF ANTICIPATION....................................................................................................................................112 WORDS ON A PAGE....................................................................................................................................................113 YOU CAN MAKE IT BE.......................................................................................................................................114 LINES AND THOUGHTS.......................................................................................................................................115 MAJOR MARK ON FANTASIES – ....................................................................................................................................115 ORION ON CLOSES -.....................................................................................................................................................115 ROSS ON BIG CATS – (WIP) – .....................................................................................................................................115 ORION (ET. AL.) ON WHAT NEEDS TO HAPPEN – ...............................................................................................................115 ORION (ET. AL.) ON GETTING PHONE NUMBERS – .............................................................................................................115 ROSS & ORION ON BOYFRIENDS –.................................................................................................................................115 ORION ON SURPRISE KISSES –........................................................................................................................................116 ORION ON MASSAGES – ...............................................................................................................................................116 ORION ON JAPANESE AND NECKS – ................................................................................................................................116 MAJOR MARK ON MARRIED WOMEN – ...........................................................................................................................116 ROSS ON “NOT MY TYPE” –........................................................................................................................................116 BISHOP ON MEETING NEW WOMEN -............................................................................................................................117 BISHOP ON WOMEN WHO QUESTION IF THEY WANT TO MEET YOU -.....................................................................................117 MAJOR MARK ON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS............................................................................................................117 BISHOP ON ANCHORS -................................................................................................................................................117 THEMES....................................................................................................................................................................119 SECRET CORE THEME..................................................................................................................................................119

CONTINUE TO STAY CURIOUS .. ) See most people think the two are pretty much the same... And as that excitement grows stronger and stronger there is this internal voice that says.. or an explorer? (No matter which one they say. and .. LOOK AT THIS OPPOURTUNITY (self point) and immediately.. FEEL A RUSH OF EXCITEMENT. being and adventurer. about things (point to your crotch) they have not seen yet.. FEEL A WARMTH OF DESIRE ... while an explorer gets curious about what they have not yet experienced and decides to .. An adventurer is able to . but that's just not true. can you ... So as they ... So as you think about it like that." So you see. MAKE IT YOURS RIGHT (snap fingers) NOW!" And the adventurer goes out there and is able -to .PATTERNS ADVENTURER VS EXPLORER PATTERN You: Which do you think best describes you.. FEEL THAT (tap wrist) TO APPLY TO YOU? 1 ... "EXPLORE THIS (self point) COMPLETELY.. starts to .. which is. THAT WARMTH GROWS .. to see what this is all about. an adventurer sees an opportunity in front of them and they go for it. JUST DO IT... GET VERY CURIOUS . SEE WHAT THIS IS ALL ABOUT. An explorer on the other hand... "EXPERIENCE THIS ... even if they say neither or "I don't know" continue with ... They start to . they have only one thought.

SEE IMAGES of what was being described. that when she was able to . you can make a powerful decision. but Cleopatra's famous for it because she was ambitious enough to set her sights on powerful men (gesture toward self) and always believed that . who at age 13 said that inside her head she could ... and .... FOCUS ON THIS VOICE . HEAR THIS VOICE. but will also add more fulfillment to your life. you will realize you have powerful. And from these options. And you have a woman who heard and saw amazing things within her mind. when this voice tells you to . So no matter what anyone else says to you... because you know that you were able to . SEE AN OPPOURTUNITY HERE .. they profiled Cleopatra.. then decided to .. and was able to succeed. Two amazing people (motion back and forth between you and she) doing amazing things. she made the decision to say to herself.. 2 ..... MAKE IT HAPPEN. You have a woman who set her sites on a man. alternative. and began to ... you know that you're going to (snap fingers) JUST DO IT. with me. TODAY. you can.. and ... And then there's Joan of Arc.. LISTEN TO THIS VOICE inside your mind. With her able to .... So if a woman was good enough to have those options then. why can't you . If you can. And this particular night. MAKE IT HAPPEN. this gives you more fulfillment in your life. a decision that will not only cause you to .. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES . She made a powerful decision. Take a moment to .. as I see it. FOCUS ON YOUR DESIRES . They said of Cleopatra. where other women were unable to... FEEL THIS IS RIGHT .. HAVE THIS OPTION (self point) TODAY? The answer is..... options.. JUST STOP .. FOCUS ON THIS (self point) and . and as time went on and she began to . and Joan of Arc... Now.. All of the women at that time had the same options and abilities. that decision is called listening to your woman's intuition. ACT ON YOUR DESIRE S .. They were doing a week long profile on amazing women in History who were highly influential. the people of France in 1429 saw her as having a celestial connection with God. and the powerful decisions they made. "MAKE THIS YOURS " (self point) She had the ability to .. But look at the whole picture. SEE POWERFUL IMAGES. and so she was chosen to lead France's battle into England... THIS REWARD IS DESERVED (self point).. as you know. That's your woman's intuition.... HEAR THIS VOICE....AMAZING WOMEN PATTERN You: I was watching the most interesting program on cable the other night. to . the decision to BELIEVE THIS VOICE and ACCEPT THESE IMAGES. DELETE ALL OTHER DISTRACTIONS ..

You: But falling in love. LOVE PATTERN You: Have you ever thought about the difference about between attraction and being in love? Her: What do you mean? You: Well.. right? Her: Sure. (pause) mmmm. thinking about what I'm saying. here's the kicker . maybe you IMAGINE YOURSELF in all sorts of situations with this person (point to yourself again) having lots of fun. And maybe you start to have certain . draw a frame around your own face! Ha! This sticks you in there!) right? Her: Yes. actually I think they take place in different settings. you can remember what it felt like.ATTRACTION VS... (pause) thoughts. right in the pit of your stomach. but here's how it happened... can you feel that as I describe it to you? Her: Oh yeah. You: And then. You spent some time with that person (gesture to yourself) and then you went home. and enjoying the kind of feelings and things you'd like to enjoy with them? Can you REMEMBER HOW THAT FEELS? Her: Yeah You: And then maybe you start to LIST ALL THE QUALITIES about him you really like: He's so smart. You start BRINGING IT UP IN CONVERSATIONS WITH YOUR FRIENDS. and you maybe you think to yourself . and you PICTURE THAT PERSON IN YOUR MIND (as you do this. I mean. (point to yourself) and you're looking at them. you START SAYING HIS NAME OUT LOUD.. well I think you do that when you're not even in that person's presence. and maybe even you DANCE AROUND THE HOUSE. that just starts to spread out and let you know you really. whatever they were. I mean attraction is what you experience when you're in the presence of that person. right? Her: Sure. right in your solar plexus. You: Yeah. whatever the things are you really WANT AND ENJOY THAT in someone (point to yourself again) . he's so fun to be with. You: And then. he's so funny. images and you know what that feels like. can you remember a time when you just totally fell for someone? Her: Yeah. SINGING IT if you're 3 . You: And as you sit there looking at me. REALLY LOVE THIS PERSON? (point to self again) I mean. right? Her: Yeah You: And then you get that feeling.

that's when the magic takes over.a real goof? Right? Her: Totally. And when you DO THAT PROCESS WITH SOMEONE. That's an incredible feeling. but the real magic is when it happens INSTANTLY and you know it right away. Of course sometimes that can take months. including falling in love is a process. I think everything. (point to yourself) and really LET IT HAPPEN. You: See. the magic we're really all looking for. isn't it? 4 .

No question.BISHOP’S THREE RULE PATTERN You: "Before I have sex with a woman. Because I'm not interested in just the act of making love. there are three rules that I have. unforgettable night with me. that just the thought of what we have done brings a warmth to your heart and makes your soul purr. not mine. And that feeling will come from right … in … here. And allowing yourself to look back on today. that months from now. that no matter how well you think you're protected. and realizing that this was when it all began. Because if there's uncertainty. I'm determined to make it a night of shared passion so absolutely unlike anything you've ever felt before.' then I have respect for that. for your own reasons. 'I want us to make love. And the second rule I have. is that making love with me is exactly what you want. we have to have the understanding that we will give ourselves over completely to our passions and give each other the best that we have to offer. I'm going to wear a condom. it's best to not let it happen. this is what I want. And the third rule is. after already having shared that intimate. you still feel as energized as when we first made love. (Then I fired off the anchor I had set there during the "Secrets" pattern) 5 . It's a sign of respect and just how I do things. and want to know that this is how you feel. A night so perfect. If you can say to yourself. The first rule is.

. that's yummy. I bet. delicious.. this is it's 3-step structure. swishing INSIDE YOUR MOUTH . mmm . Me Hey Alicia... I love fresh ripe mangoes from Hawaii .. juicy mango NOW ....BJ PATTERN # 1 Basically. Describe the sensation of eating that food and amplify with gustatory gusto 2. soo tasty . can you taste the sweetness of the mango . Ask her about anything she really loves to eat 1.. oh yes . mmm . What do you love to eat ? Something that really makes you salivate just by thinking of it ? Ripe Mangoes huh ? Mmmm . Me 6 ... you'd WANT IT IN YOUR MOUTH (point to dickee !) .. SUCKING into one sweet. Let's put flesh into it ? Sure.. if there were a mango here NOW. Alicia Oh ... 3. Link it to your dick using a "dick point"..... doesn't that give you lots of pleasure and ha-PENIS just thinking about that? Mmm ..... I don't know if you can IMAGINE ..

SUCKING into one SWEET JUICY strawberry NOW … mmmm can you taste the sweetness of the strawberry … swishing INSIDE YOUR MOUTH ….BJ PATTERN # 2 Me Hey XXXX. I just love fresh strawberries from Ohio. you'd WANT IT IN YOUR MOUTH (self point) XXXX Oh. Me 7 .doesn't that give you lot's of pleasure and ha-PENIS just thinking about that? MMmmm … I bet if there were a big plump juicy strawberry here NOW. huh? … Mmmmm … that's so tasty! I don't know if you can IMAGINE…. What do you love to eat? Something that really makes you salivate just by thinking of it? Fresh Strawberries. Mmm … soo yummy ….

with that first soft contact of the lips where you don't even know if you are touching or not but then. you know like sometimes you meet someone and you're really attracted to them and you both know it and there's that moment when your eyes lock. it's like a jolt of electricity all through you. that moment when the first molecule of chocolate touches your tongue and you know it's inside your mouth and you just want to keep it there because it's so rich and so good. can you stop and remember a time when you. desires and fantasies. And then there's that moment of sliding in where you really let that pleasure take you and it just feels great doesn't it? Yeah well do you like chocolate? (Is there a food where when you see it you absolutely have to put it in your mouth. oh man. it's that special look just before you kiss before the very first time and you're trembling with anticipation and your heart is pounding because you're thinking about how good it's going to be.BJ PATTERN # 3 You I mean you ever come home from a hard day a work and the boss was a jerk and kept piling the papers up on you desk and its like all you can think about it is dropping your clothes and getting into that steamy hot bath or shower. See I think what happens is the conscious mind goes down into the unconscious and brings back up all these thoughts. but really I think they're blow me _____ because you're coming from a much deeper part and your mine Aren't you? 8 .) I mean. That's like before you even step in you can already feel that heat working its way through every muscle in your body and all your frustrations just drop away and all you can feel is the pleasure of that warmth just shooting thought every part of you. It's like every physical moment of that relationship is enfolded/contained or rolled into that first touch of the lips and there's that excitement. And then there's that moment. and you may think those thoughts are above me. Or then maybe. it's like you see that piece of chocolate and your mouth is already tasting it before you even put it in you can already taste that sweetness against your tongue and you can feel the special rich texture of it against your tongue as well. images. And there's that extra special warmth when you swallow that sweetness down. You know that texture that really good chocolate has.

and I roll the cream around in my mouth. all over. and no matter what you do you can't stop.. from your mouth.. I like how the flavor changes as it heats up in the mouth ... You know just look and admire the body of the cone .BJ PATTERN #4 : THE ICE CREAM PATTERN I started telling her about my **special way** to eat ice cream. Don't you think? 9 .. the way the balls of ice cream sit in the cone.. Imagine a cool heat that spreads. You: First I like to admire the ice cream. All saturated with the taste of your favorite ice cream which of course is no longer ice as it has melted and gotten extremely warm. It's a real curious and wonderful sensation that happens at the point where you stick your tongue into the cone. It's so sweet and because you have gotten the cone all. from getting it all over the fingers that are trying to keep the cream from running all over the place. really savoring the texture the smooth consistency.. I know I could.. You have to eat it gingerly. It's so good. You can see yourself eating it all summer . Then after looking at it for a minute or two I take that first tentative lick . moist and wet. I would think that ice cream is natures ultimate feel good food. Nothing is as satisfying once you have experienced it.

Step 3: Step 4: Step 5: Step 6: Step 7: Step 8: Step 9: Pounce or step back and let her pounce!!! Got that? So here it is. point to where you seem to see that picture. Now think of someone who you really don't like at all. Isn't science wonderful?) Set her up for anchoring an intense pleasure state by first getting her to notice how everything happens with a pattern or structure. picking up with step 3: You: See? Everything has a structure to it... Accelerate her pleasure state by describing the warmth of your voice coming from that place and spreading all through her body. Elicit and anchor intense pleasure Fire off that anchor Find out her sub modality location for picturing falling in love. listen to her babble for a little bit. (She'll discover that she can't do it) You: See that? It doesn't want to go does it? Because you need a way to sort out who you really like (point to yourself . either on a date or at first meeting. (Let her point . and try as hard as you can to move it over into the place where you see the picture of the person you do like. That's why they have to use an A-Bomb to set off an H-Bomb.. Super-accelerate her pleasure state by intensifying your description of that state and using quotes.. why miss an opportunity) from who you don't.. This is an H-Bomb combination! (The HBomb uses fusion which can only be ignited from the heat generated by atomic fission. The basic steps to the pattern are as follows: Step 1: Use fluff talk and humor to make her feel comfortable.. take that picture of the person you don't like ... think about someone you really like for a second? Ok? Got that? Now. Step 2: Use the Instantaneous Connection Patterns from Chapter 10 to get her to feel both an incredible connection and distort her time sense so it seems like she's been deeply connected to you for months.. who she's neutral about!) You: Now watch . (Let her point) You: Right there? Ok. and by the way if she's one of those people who doesn't dislike anyone. there's another difference in the way you make pictures in your head. For 10 .ROSS'S ABSOLUTE FAVORITE PATTERN: THE BLAMMO Note: This pattern can be done at any time . Isn't that need? Her: Yeah! Cool! Wow! (Or any other similar stupid female expostulation!) You: Now see.. For example. Ok? Point to where you see that.. then have her think of someone she could take or leave ..

Open your eyes... I want you to see what you saw. Open eyes. actually gave you the feelings of being there? Her: The second one!! You: Of course . breathing quicken. hear what you heard... try this . Now. touch her wrist and say. yeah! 11 . (Let her do this for a bit) You: Ok . (Watch to see she's really in state . maybe then you can just FEEL PERFECT (fire off the anchor by touching her wrist) And that feels great.. you remember a time when you were feeling exquisite pleasure in your body??? Her: mmmm . hear what you heard. the theory behind anchoring is. you ever been on a roller coaster? Her: Yeah! You: Ok. And when those feelings of exquisite pleasure really reach their peak. feel how it felt. So if I were to say to you. I want you to remember a time you were on a roller coaster. reach over. riding up and down on the roller coaster. and feel how it felt. you know.. which one felt more real. or see what you actually saw. see what you'd actually see through your own eyes if you were there.. And just hang on for a minute to how good it feels to FEEL PERFECT.. and I want you to see yourself sitting in the roller coaster car.. just wiggle your little finger for me. (Keep holding her wrist as she's experiencing this!) You: Ok. etc. when she wiggles that finger. and you combine that state with a touch or sound. doesn't it? Her: Oh.. And go through it again .. Close em again. going on that roller coaster ride. because you can see yourself in a memory.. that if someone is in a certain state. instead of seeing yourself. yes. wiggle that finger. see what you saw. here. one more time (run her through it one more time) You: Ok. close your eyes . And when those feelings reach their peak. (Repeat the anchor process) You: Ok. So. her face will change. When you see what you actually saw it really helps you to get the feelings of how it actually felt! Her: Wow! This is fascinating!!! You: Isn't it? Now look . :) You: Purrrfect. of those two.. here's the next piece of this and it's called anchoring. when you repeat that touch they'll go back into that state...example. and I really start to FEEL THAT SENSE OF INCREDIBLE CONNECTION. I find that when I spend time with someone. but this time. (Let her do that) You: Now. You: Ok. watch.. Just do that for a few seconds. now we're gonna do it again.

. Cause I know some guys can be so crude. all night long. the deep rich warmth of it... Either will work) Option #1: Quotes You: In fact. as she looks at the guy. one particular feature of his face just starts to rivet her attention... and the out line of his face . and SPREAD THAT WARMTH ALL THROUGH YOUR BODY . it's like the warmth of his voice. It's like the other night. and you're really feeling perfect right now. so she becomes totally absorbed in the connection taking place .. Like first. and you were SO HOT AND SO WET YOU WERE BEGGING TO HAVE ME INSIDE YOU?" I can't believe how crude some guys can be!!! Option # 2: Describing Another Person's Experience You: My friend Kim was telling me that her roommate has this best friend. so as she becomes aware of all these things.. she just becomes aware of certain things .. as you ALLOW MY VOICE TO COME FROM THAT SPACE . and as that's all happening. And when Dawn starts to notice that growing attraction.. I was in a bar .... and you really FEEL THAT TOTAL PERFECTION (fire anchor again) . and as her heart 12 . yes!! (At this point you have two options for preceding. SPREADING through your chest and down through your body . rich warmth of my voice to just penetrate your thoughts. like the rhythm of her breathing. (point to where she falls in love) As you THINK ABOUT THAT SPACE AS I TALK TO YOU . Dawn. It sure is better that being with all those jerks out there. that sure feels great. never miss that opportunity!) Her: You: Oh yeah! Well.. you might find it's like you want to CREATE AN OPENING FOR MY VOICE . as you're remembering that time. and spread all through her body...... and this guy walks right up to a girl and he says: "Can you IMAGINE HOW GREAT IT WOULD FEEL if I were going down on you. as YOUR HEART BEATS FASTER and your BREATHING INCREASES. it happens in a certain way.. just starts to penetrate her consciousness. exactly the way you like it.. I just want to tell you I'm having a great time with you tonight.. and the beating of her heart. aren't you? (fire off that anchor again!) Her: Oh yeah! You: So watch .... point to where you see that picture! (let her point it out) You: Ok .You: Isn't this interesting? Isn't the mind really cool? Now notice something else: you ever just fall head over heals in love with someone (point to yourself .. and starts to REALLY PAY ATTENTION.. as THE WARMTH OF THAT VOICE JUST TURNS TO A FIRE. and opening that allows the deep. doesn't it? Her: God.

that warmth just heats up into a fire.beats faster and her breathing increases. 13 . down to where she really longs to have it go. until that desire for him just BECOMES UTTERLY OVERWHELMING. a fire spreading through her chest and down through her belly. and she just SURRENDERS to it completely. a fire pounding and pulsating all through her.

I have to admit I'm disappointed. But let me ask you a question.THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER: PART 1 You You have a boyfriend? Well. and you starting to FEEL REALLY COMFORTABLE WITH IT? As you THINK ABOUT IT LIKE THAT. LAUGHING AND HAVING THE BEST TIME. How surprised would you be to FIND YOURSELF ACTUALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO SPENDING A LITTLE TIME WITH ME? I mean maybe to the point where you could IMAGINE US OVER COFFEE. doesn't seem natural to meet like Monday or Tuesday for coffee? 14 . I have to respect that you're in a relationship.

you haven't even thought about them in a long time? Yeah? Well notice as you take your finger and point... FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY (hold up your palm. I have a boyfriend You: But I'll tell you what really fascinates me. but what I'm curious about is. I can't keep seeing you. where do you see there picture? Right over there? Isn't that interesting? So if you were to. but now there way out of your mind . It's like. so you're going out with this guy. as you are making out like crazy) We really shouldn't be doing this. TO MAKE HIM LESS IMPORTANT... but it's also a nice thing. and you're enjoying it and all that . I should have told you before. something that over time. And when that happens it's a little sad... but I have a boyfriend. like. it'd be like he gets stuck in the same place.THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER: PART 2 Her: Her: I'm sorry . would really cause you to dump him. what's this guy's name you're going out with? Her: Bill You: Right. and maybe you NOTICE THE PATTERNS IN HIM THAT RUINED YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP .. and then let's say for whatever reason you break up. Bill (Point to your right palm) OK.. Or you know. is there someone you used to date. what would it be like for a person if that entire process that usually takes months. You might think you might think that .... "but I want to put him back".. because it allows you to CREATE AN OPENING FOR SOMEONE NEW. push it to where she pointed) . or maybe you start to LOOK AT HIM IN A WAY THAT REALLY MAKES HIM A LOT LESS ATTRACTIVE IN YOUR MIND? However you would JUST DO THAT! I mean it's so weird how the mind does all this stuff. And that's how you'd know that you'd already started to FORGET ALL ABOUT HIM. You ever BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE (point to palm) and you go through that period of mulling it over. until you REALLY NOTICE that from over there. (point to yourself) I know that's how it can GO DOWN WITH ME (point to your dickee!) 15 . what would it be like if that entire process were to TAKE PLACE INSTANTANEOUSLY (snap your fingers in her face) in someone's mind? It'd be like (wave your hand in her face) YOU COULDN'T SEE HIS PICTURE ANY MORE IN YOUR MIND. (or. And of course you might think to yourself. And you think he's real cool. from this perspective. you really can SEE ALL THE THINGS in him and about him you don't like . Every time you tried it'd be like something was just wiping it right out.

And the more you look at this. this (point to self) is what you want to enjoy. And you become so interested. you change the channel so to speak. But then. how do you mean?" You: "Well. you start to feel something missing from this (motion left again) and it just isn't as exciting as it used to be. So here you are changing the channel. you see something in this screen (make a square TV screen with your face in the center of it) that really captures your attention. that you actually start planning your week around enjoying this. so you date them. so you decided to see what this was about. then. So you decided to see what else is out there (motion right) . lets say you have a boyfriend (motion to your left) and like a good TV program. there's something there that caught your eye. And there might be some people who capture your attention for a short time. can you feel that to be a lot like relationships? 16 . you channel surf. the more you realize that this (point to self) is what you were looking for. So. But.BOYFRIEND DESTROYER : "RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE TELEVISION" You: "Have you ever noticed that relationships are a lot like watching television?" Her: "Hmm. or in this comparison. out of the blue. for whatever reason. then changing to another channel. and periodically stopping on a channel to see what it's about.

"Hey ... and of those times.... living in (insert your city or part of the country . a great outlook on life are rare . Call me back at 555-5512.... It almost always will get ignored ... NOT be home. since I live in L.A!) L. and they're worth working to get to know. this is Bob . about 80% of the women called back within 24hrs." 17 . my whole life. of course.. I've learned one lesson. I met you at the Starbucks. When you get her machine.A..A... I say L. to leave an "average Joe" kinda message that will NOT get a response. So if you can find your own reasons to call me. a great energy .. but people with a great attitude . which is what you want! The killer piece comes about a week later when you leave your NEXT message. leave a message like. some as soon as within the hour! Here's the message you leave. this is Bob . And I think that's an understanding that goes BOTH ways. is how this message. First thing is to give her a call when you can best calculate she will NOT be home. it's worked 90% of the time for me.. my number is 555-5512...THE CALLBACK PATTERN So here's how it works. I thought I'd give it one last shot at getting a chance to talk. That's right . This is an important part of the set up.. This will almost always work.. the second time: "Hey Debbie . almost NEVER gets a response. and that's that beauty is common ... straightforward as it is.." The sad thing.

CATERPILLAR AND MOTH: (Rev 3: June 1999) © Dan Scorpio The point of the story is to cause the woman to associate herself as the butterfly and yourself as the moth. The story has a complete ending but it never reveals the words. The magic would be lost if it did. There are so many different NLP word tricks in this story that it would take a much longer email to analyze it all. You: I'm going to tell you a short story about a caterpillar and a moth. The story is so short, it only takes a minute to tell, so no interruptions are allowed. Just settle back and let it flow. Caterpillar loved to play 'pretend'. She had a very vivid imagination and could pretend she was anything at all, anywhere at all, any time at all. When she let her deeper feelings well up, she could hear beautiful sounds, feel wonderful sensations, scent sweet, sweet perfumes and taste and see magical things. She could make time go faster, or slow down at will, or make any image shrink, or grow larger at her slightest command. When she made things larger, she could examine them in tremendous detail and could always observe vivid colors, intense sounds and feelings; things from the past she could remember with perfect clarity, as if they existed in the very here and now. One day, she went out blarging, eager, attentive and filled with joy, in a huge, leafy, green, spherical object of delight, and met a moth with glittering golden wings and gorgeous eyes. 'Hello,' said the moth in his sweet, deep, breathy voice, 'Why are cabbages round and green? Passion; Life is my name, and I know your S he See or He Tea. Come, I know you aren't really a caterpillar at all, and so do you. That's just what you've been told and believed, falsely pretended, until you reached this cross-roads in time and met up with me. You know as well as I, that open doors permit entry, and hidden deep inside you lives an eager, beautiful, playful butterfly who yearns to be released, wants to come out play and frolic in joyous pleasure. But she's so shy, so timid, so reserved. Fortunately, and for her delight, I am a master of metamorphosis, change. I know her secret longings and the magic word that will release her; would you like to hear the word?' 'Yes please, oh yes!' cried the caterpillar eagerly, 'I've always wanted to fly, be joyful, to soar above the ordinary and do so many other different, exciting things. Please, kind Sir, please tell me the magic word that will set me free.' The Moth drew her towards him, held her close, and whispered in her ear. The caterpillar immediately transformed into a beautiful, multicolored butterfly with translucent gossamer wings. She became free and no longer had to pretend things, for all the wonderful things she had pretended before became true. Can you guess what the word was? Performance notes:
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The correct answer to guessing what the word was is 'no': if you get an attempt at an answer, gently refute it. Now lean over and whisper something appropriate in her ear. Then continue, (because there's likely to be a vacuum here while it all begins to sink in)], do you know what happened next? If 'no', which is the likely response, then start thinking on your feet and describe what' she's doing, in real time e.g ... 'The butterfly stared, wondering what this new knowledge meant ... ' 'Butterfly tried to dismiss the moth's magic as a joke, but deep down she knew it was true ... ' 'She wanted to dance, to sing, to be joyful ... ' putting her in the role of the butterfly & you in as the moth in REAL TIME. If 'yes', then ask what, get reply & work it as above. Additional Notes: Since I've been asked questions several times about some of the peculiar words used & the phrasing: a) The word 'blarging' is not a spelling mistake: say it like it is, neither is the peculiar looking word group 'S he See or He Tea', which spells out SECRET phonetically. These are deliberate word interrupt devices b) Leave the question about the cabbage in: it's another interrupt. c) you are attempting to cast the lady as the caterpillar/butterfly & yourself as the moth in this little metaphor. Copy the moth's breathy voice for added impact. When he 'draws her close' do so. Magic/Kino/Anchoring Performance In the UK, it's quite easy to obtain adhesive backed 'Butterfly' stickers of various kinds. When you, as Mr. Moth, draw the lady close, you have one of these fastened to your palm (tiny blob of Blu Tak or such) with the adhesive side out. Be sure to rest your hand on her shoulder & leave the butterfly (implied transformation AND anchor) stuck there. Point it out when you tell her the word: she'll take the sticker home with her for sure & you can always have another one handy if you meet again. TantraLA the magic word is "believe"

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THE "CENTER OF ENERGY" PATTERN (I recommend only using this on babes who are either into the mystical arts, or who exhibit a very strong energy. Otherwise it may not be real for them and they won't connect to it) You: Have you ever heard the term "center of energy" before? Her: (No matter if she says "yes" or "No" continue as follows) You: What that's really referring to, is a person's unique ability to draw energy up from the earth, and create a more powerful force through their body. Ancient Druids said they had witnessed this remarkable ability in some people. The ability to ... JUST STOP ... and ... FOCUS ON THIS (self point) PRESENCE-that others do not notice. And as ... THAT FOCUS GROWS STRONGER ... a warming begins to start from the soles of the feet. As that starts to happen, without even having to think about it you begin to draw energy up from the earth. (As you say this last part, raise both hands up from your waist, palm upward) And the more you. FEEL THAT ENERGY RISING ... the more you start to ... FEEL THAT WARMTH GROWING deep inside you. But since not all energy is empowering, the druids wondered what did these people do to excise the bad, while retaining the good and being able to ... HOLD THIS INSIDE YOU. What they discovered was ... ab ... solutely ... amazing. Here, close your eyes a moment. (Wait for them to close their eyes, then lightly brush your index finger UP from the tip of their nose, to the point between the eyebrows, bring your finger back to the tip of her nose and again lightly brush it up to the point between her eyebrows, continuing this three or four times as you say ... ) Ancient druids claimed that the nose was like a filter for all the energy these special people drew up from the earth. That in this exact motion you feel right now, all the negative and limiting energies were cast aside, so the positive and fulfilling energies could enter your mind. The negative and limiting energies were thrown out of the body, in the form of a sneeze, or in the exhale of a good laugh. (Begin to rub the sides of the temple as you say ... ) The empowering and fulfilling energies would then flow to the sides of the eyes, allowing you to ... SEE THIS OPPOURTUNITY that others were missing out on. (She might open her eyes at this point, which is fine) And the more you ... FOCUS ON THIS OPPOURTUNITY ... in front of you-the more you come over and over to the conclusion that-THIS IS WORTH EXPLORING. And a burst of certainty fills your mind (As you say this, spread your fingers wide, and basically use the tips of your fingers to massage the back of her head) because you ... HEAR THIS VOICE ... and you know, without even having to think about it that-THIS IS YOUR VOICE OF PERMISSION.
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right .. and suddenly you realize that a shield of absolute protection has formed around you. And as you feel that shield protecting you. you ... MAKE THIS (self point) YOURS .. A shield so strong that you know with complete certainty .... THIS IS SAFE... ) And that warmth inside you starts to build. NOW! (snap fingers) 21 . you have willingly chosen to . FEEL IT ALL EXPLODE ... here (tap three times on top of head near the back) Exploding all that you are.. and all that you will be. and as you allow your desires to rise up from deep inside you.... you . take your hands and form an invisible circle all around her head as you say .. RIGHT . and bathing the surroundings with your presence. And having this shield to protect you.. and the earth's energy to power you. through . and as the earth's energies protect you. that certainty gets stronger..(Stop massaging her head. ALLOW YOUR DERSIRES TO RISE. And in doing that...

... She THINKS I'm going to read her palm. They SAY the eyes are the window to the soul. "let me see your left hand". (Then relax and soften my eyes .. Can you see an image of yourself on your 5th birthday? (If she can't go that far back... as it would get fired off by everyone who shakes her hand! I want it to be uniquely anchored to ME if possible!) You: Now....CELTIC SOUL GAZING PATTERN What I'll do is analyze an HB's writing. feeling that Soul Friend Connection Her: wow! You: Now imagine yourself on your birthday 5 years from now . that we have plenty of soul friends just waiting to meet us.. just by squeezing it (I don't anchor the right hand ..... when I see a little sparkle in their eye I say) THERE! RIGHT THERE! THAT one! Can you FEEL THAT (squeeze the hand) is the coolest thing to experience? They are amazed 100% of the time by this! Now I have a soul friend anchor on her left hand. (fire off anchor) feeling that Soul Friend Connection Her: WOW! You: now . not the eye that appears on MY right. The RIGHT eye (I point to HER right eye .. but that's really only half true.. we're going to do a little soul gazing here. here's something even more interesting. and let me see the soul friend that's been waiting her whole life to meet me. draw a line between the you on your X birthday and the you 5 years from now . When she gives it to me. You see the Celts don't believe in soul-mates.. The Celts believe in Soul-Friends. I take it with my right hand and turn it palm up. to see this soul friend waiting to meet you. (fire off anchor) .. as I open up my left eye.. and FEEL THIS (fire off anchor) as something really wonderful. they follow right along . 22 . So. and the left eye (pointing to HER left eye) is the window to the soul. When I'm done I'll say.. thinking loving thoughts .. eye on HER right side) is the window to the body and the mind . standing their next to you on your (X) birthday ... You: "Let me show you something really interesting.. I keep her hand in mine the whole time I am talking... 100% of the time. (this totally takes all the romantic pressure off . and see me standing their next to you . notice what it's like as a you see an image of me. try 10th birthday) Her: Yes! You: Now. and let you in. That just creates too much pressure. she can relax and feel great because what guy would bring up the "friends" term that quickly? There goes THAT ever being brought up by HER!) So. you can open up your left eye. but her actual.

. Or it may be whenever you step into that steaming hot bath or shower that reminds you that you just want to immerse yourself in all this pleasure. Having you as its center flowing and pulsing right back into the center of who you are. I don’t know just what in your environment that will remind you to have all these wonderful feelings and that even stronger desire to experience even more it may be whenever you hear a phone ring. you go the more your capacity for pleasure and experience continues to expand and the more your capacity continues to expand the higher and higher you go. Its the kind of thing that could cause a person . Now how good do you feel? The really amazing thing about feeling so wonderful s to realize really realize that the more you open and the deeper you respond to this voice of new experience this voice of new discovery this voice of new direction. with all of that color all of that feeling flowing back into you. That there’s an opportunity to move in a new direction and the thing about new directions is its not enough to just ponder it well on day I might get around to it. CD included with the LA videos) You: On a scale of one to ten how good do you feel? What if as good as this feels it was only the start? What if instead of being the end it was only the beginning? What if it was only the start of your asking yourself the question how much pleasure can I stand? How wonderful can I really feel? As that realization joins with my voice to wrap itself around you like a pair of powerful yet gentle arms lifting you higher and higher the higher. to one conclusion. and you realize there’s a powerful message coming through.. 23 .COLOR OF PLEASURE PATTERN (From the atlanta essential skills. You probably haven’t yet realized there’s a color to the feeling of pleasure but if you could See That Color Now what color would that be as that color expands t fill you pulsing and spreading all through you it expands to fill the room the world the solar system the galaxy the universe. An opening that longs to take it all in ride it join with it and be one with it Now. Maybe when ever you go through a door and you realize there is a doorway to new pleasures new thoughts new beliefs. Or maybe your unconscious will choose something for reasons of its own in a way that will surprise and delight you.. The more you’ll learn and the more you learn the better the quality of life and your experiences will be. But instead you got to reach out and create an opening for this new direction.. to come over and over and over .

when you . it seems that more than 70% of the women admitted that the romance has dwindled over time. that makes sense.. Can you. And you'll be compelled to . You: I was watching the most interesting program on cable the other right. and fancy dinners." NOW.. THAT'S WHAT YOU DECIDED. but unless ." Robin went on to say. that makes perfect sense. Regardless of what anyone else says. and they were talking about romance and companionship.COMPANIONSHIP VS ROMANCE PATTERN Use after getting some rapport and after using the "Relationships/Television" Boyfriend Destroyer. FEEL THAT to be something you agree with? 24 ... There's not as much romance anymore. is mainly to impress you. WITH ME. but stayed with the guy because he was a good companion to them.. Robin said. so the romance starts to dwindle.. LISTEN TO THIS VOICE.000 women. One of the women said. you'll hear exactly what you need to do. "He knows all the non-glamorous things about you. yet is still in the relationship. NOW. So you know that. HEAR THIS VOICE inside your mind. Because their reason for romancing you... And if you . from various parts of America. and what they discovered. They had talked with over 26. but touch you in a special way simply. HEAR THIS VOICE telling you to . is exactly what you want deep down inside you.. Her name was Robin. because you'll ... the ones who impress you. not with gifts or elegant dinners. LISTEN INTENTLY.. SEIZE THIS OPPOURTUNTTY (self point) it's because . but those guys never manage to keep romance alive long term. Once you're impressed they're job is done pretty much. Because it's like a woman's intuition. But when you meet the other type of men out there (touch palm to chest). "You'll know you're in the presence of such a man... LEAVE HIM. and she said that she discovered how to find the kind of man who can sustain romance long term. Because while there were several women who stated that the romance has been strong even after all this time. FOR ME. HE'S BEING UNFAITHFUL.. their voice. and compliments.. with .. blew them sway. and whatever romantic information this voice is giving to you. I have no reason to .-THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT.. "There are those men out there who will romance you with gifts. But I really liked what another woman they interviewed said.

you use the question as a transition to discussions about desserts. your favorite dessert of all time is simply FRESH BAKED TOLLHOUSE COOKIES .. let's go to the market and get the ingredients and go back to your house/my house and make them RIGHT NOW! Such spontaneity typically occurs to her as ever so exciting ..... just being there ... The beauty is that she will have had all the "ideas" herself . causing her friends to drool with envy. by this time . while you stand in the checkout line...... the heavenly childish scent of baked Toll House Cookies has filled the house . which sets up all types of opportunities for any number of "patterns" intended to get her visualizing erotic taste sensations .. She cannot help herself .... part one ends when you admit that frankly..... it's pretty much impossible for her NOT to look at you as a "pretend" husband . no big deal . and fun . second batch involves basic licking dough off spatula . and then melted chocolate off each other's fingers .. I've never done this technique and NOT burned the third batch..... will fill her with visions of the two of you as a "couple" . So off we go to the supermarket … PART TWO: There is NOTHING like taking a HB you don't know very well to a supermarket . first batch of cookies are totally straight .. and the childish innocence of visions of baking warm cookies is just compelling as hell... 25 . ”cute" ... truth be told . and the two of you playing "house".. her date was last night as he suggested making cookies ...... WARM FROM THE OVEN ....THE COOKIE CLOSE Basically there are three parts to the Cookie Close . and we ended up getting chocolate all over us .. basket/cart in tow ....... with a smirk and a wink .. and what your favorite desserts are ... she will be picturing you and her as a "couple" .... you've had your fill of feeding each other warm cookies . you need not say a word .... and will brag to her friends the next day how ..... basically . It's just so. the innocence of the activity has been superceded by a new "idea" that she will invariably dream up ....... PART THREE: Basically...... rather than ordering . She will admit that such sounds great . and sweet . and then you close Part One with an "idea" .. part one is when the waiter comes over and asks if you would like dessert .. etc ...

.. you realize that this is a wonderful place to be . you begin to rise .. as the beat becomes stronger with the rhythm flowing powerfully through you even more . As you begin to move the music starts to enter inside as it fills you . It all starts when the lights dim. then... for you it is a new experience each and every time you do it. 26 .DANCER PATTERN You When you dance.. above everyone and everything that is there to enter that most special of places where you go ... it is here where you belong and desire to be.. and it is there where you become one with the music and the music becomes one with you .. the music moves through you and within you.. and you hear that first beat of the music... every part of you ..

with me (point to self) . there's incredible value in that. encounters you'd like to have. that this is what you want (point to self) . And that this feeling you're having right now. as you lay down on the sands. Or maybe feeling the rush of excitement as you treat yourself to a personal adventure. and allowing it to flow through your body. you just burst with an energy that others wish they could have. and focus on that amazing adventure you want to have. Without even knowing exactly why. with a friend of mine. (touch just below the chest area) here. slowly filling your body. Now. named Rachel. You decide to close off your mind. That sense of adventure that you can feel right . "Can you feel that as being the case here?") You: That's just like when you were a little girl. The way Rachel put it. a warmth. this energy is your own personal acknowledgment. And she said some of the same things you just did. But that you don't even have to understand why you're feeling this way. it's like you suddenly STOP. and you imagine all sorts of wonderful adventures you want to have. that you possess something incredible. because what matters. of an exotic island.. And the more you focus on this (point to self) the deeper your fascination will get. and flowing out through ever pour. Like a brilliant light. Feeling the warm breeze. this is the chance. this is what you deserve to feel. and lead the conversation in the most natural direction for that situation) 27 . and she thought that it comes from a deep fascination that you have. to any distractions. deep inside of you. is that you choose to just let it happen. or whatever she's going to do. Knowing that for your own reasons."DEEP FASCINATION" PATTERN You: That is so interesting! That reminds me of a conversation I had the other day.. Did you ever feel a deep fascination with something potentially rewarding? Her: (Let her answer) You: The way Rachel described it. You're feeling excited about what great things you can enjoy. this is the opportunity. manifests itself into an energy. just go for it. To the point where all you're focused on. maybe even romantic. (Then I let her talk. lets others see. Having that deep fascination. because you can feel something pleasurable growing inside of you. and what wonderful. is this feeling of fascination. (Then I anchor it with.

and your breathing gets faster and you just FEEL THAT AMAZING RUSH all over. you're CERTAIN YOU'RE SAFE . you FEEL A STATE OF HIGH AROUSAL. as soon as you GET OFF you want to GET BACK ON again. They were interviewing people who make their living designing attractions for amusement parks like Magic Mountain and Disneyland and Universal Studios. The Ideal Attraction Pattern! You: You know. First. The ideal attraction makes your heart beat faster.. Can you (squeeze her hand) feel that .. You just FEEL SO ENTHRALLED that you want to TAKE THIS RIDE (point to your pecker!) multiple times. it was a documentary about people who make their living designing attractions for amusement parks. and these guys were talking about what makes for the ideal attraction! Ha! So. I give you. anyway. you FEEL SAFE because you realize nothing bad can really happen. it's fascinating. using almost word for word what they actually said.THE DISCOVERY CHANNEL / THE IDEAL ATTRACTION PATTERN However. the other night. Her: Yeah! You: And they said. (Point to yourself) .. I had a great new pattern virtually handed to me. See. I saw the most interesting show on the Discovery Channel last night. finally. so that allows you to FEEL TOTALLY FREE to LET GO AND ENJOY THAT GREAT AROUSAL again and again and again. You: Well. without ado . when you EXPERIENCE the ideal attraction. That even though the attraction make look a little dangerous. the most important element. Her: Yeah! You: And then they said that another part to an ideal attraction is. is a sense of overall safety.. is pretty close to the way it is? Her: Oooh 28 .. Wouldn't that be a cool way to make a living? Her: Yeah! That sounds so interesting. they were talking about the elements that make up the ideal attraction. They said there are 3 parts to the ideal attraction.. while watching the Discovery Channel.

THE DISCOVERY CHANNEL / THE IDEAL ATTRACTION PATTERN (MODIFIED) WIP However, the other night, while watching the Discovery Channel, I had a great new pattern virtually handed to me. See, it was a documentary about people who make their living designing attractions for amusement parks, and these guys were talking about what makes for the ideal attraction! Ha! So, using almost word for word what they actually said, I give you, without ado ... The Ideal Attraction Pattern! You: You know, I saw the most interesting show on the Discovery Channel last night. They were interviewing people who make their living designing attractions for amusement parks like Magic Mountain and Disneyland and Universal Studios. Wouldn't that be a cool way to make a living? Her: Yeah! That sounds so interesting. You: Well, anyway, they were talking about the elements that make up the ideal attraction. (Point to yourself) . They said there are 3 parts to the ideal attraction. First, when you EXPERIENCE the ideal attraction, you FEEL A STATE OF HIGH AROUSAL. You: You know first long slow vertical climb on the roller coaster? And you can feel the adrenaline pounding through your body. The closer you get to the peak, the faster your heart beats. Your breathing starts to come faster and faster and as you're reaching the peak and you begin to go down, You're screaming with excitement The ideal attraction makes your heart beat faster, and your breathing gets faster and you just FEEL THAT AMAZING RUSH all over. Her: Yeah! You: And then they said that another part to an ideal attraction is; it's fascinating. You just FEEL SO ENTHRALLED that you want to TAKE THIS RIDE (point to your pecker!) multiple times; as soon as you GET OFF you want to GET BACK ON again. Her: Yeah! You: And they said, finally, the most important element, is a sense of overall safety. That even though the attraction make look a little dangerous, you're CERTAIN YOU'RE SAFE ... you FEEL SAFE because you realize nothing bad can really happen, so that allows you to FEEL TOTALLY FREE to LET GO AND ENJOY THAT GREAT AROUSAL again and again and again. Can you (squeeze her hand) feel that ... is pretty close to the way it is? Her: Oooh ...

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Okay. When you take this ride, you enter a state of high arousal. And then you say this. You say, "You know first long slow vertical climb on the roller coaster? And you can feel the adrenaline pounding through your body. The closer you get to the peak, the faster your heart beats. Your breathing starts to come faster and faster and as you're reaching the peak and you begin to go down, You're screaming with excitement.” Okay, now. What am I doing here? I'm giving a description. I give a description. Why do I give a description? Because if she's in rapport with me and following along as I describe that state ... Now, let's, let's help, let's have you make it up. When you're on the roller coaster and you're going up that climb, what do you feel in your body as you're going up, hearing clack, clack, clack?

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PERFECT MAN PATTERN Here's the basic idea ... 1. Do values elicitation by querying about previous boyfriends [attractors, and repulsions (which are simply antonyms of more attractors)]. 2. 3. 4. 5. Introduce the concept of a PERFECT MAN Describe him according to her criteria Describe how he would begin to effect her. Pace reality up to a passionate kiss. First, have her close her eyes. You: "Would you like to try something fun? Relax, and close your eyes for a couple minutes, and imagine this situation ... " What would it be like, if you had JUST MET THE PERFECT MAN ... not perfect in general ... but, instead the man who is perfect ... for YOU ... (IF you've done any values elicitation to her tastes in men, insert them here: "This man is A ... and B ... very C ... and he blah blah blah, etc." Now, she should be pretty solidly into a light trance!) For example ... this man ... from the moment you saw him, there was something just a little different about him. Maybe, from the moment you see him, you are immediately attract to this guy ... or even ... since this is the perfect man ... you feel an almost immediate connection with him ... even from across the room ... and as this man gets near to you ... (Note: here, we begin pacing reality for the duration ... ) and you start to talk with him ... and you listen to his words, you start to feel the most wonderful feelings ... fascination, curiousity, arousal, lust ... all of those wonderful feelings that you really enjoy, ... and the more he talks with you, the stronger these feelings become inside you ... until you start feeling incredible passion for him ... ... and when he touches you [you begin by, running your fingers through her hair, combing it back a bit ... go down the back of her head ... massaging the lower quarters of her head, where her neck starts ... and word down and out toward her shoulders] ... it's exactly what you've been waiting for ... he knows just exactly how to touch you, to make those feelings grow even stronger, (knead your way down her arms to her hands, then grab her hand) and stronger in intensity ... and soon, you find yourself guiding his hand, guiding it to the places that unleash that passion within you ... and as you look at him ... [touch her check, or eyebrown ... if she still doesn't open her eyes, brace your fingers on her cheek, and gently open one eyelid with your thumb]

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. as you study his face . you are imagining what it would be like to enjoy this man .. in your favorite... and you are still gazing into his eyes .. already.. gently pull her shoulder towards you) . feverishly hoping that he wants you... not for a few minutes . private place . as badly as YOU WANT THIS MAN . with at least your fingers laying on her shoulder blade) you find yourself drawn closer........ this perfect man ... and gaze into his eyes .. (wrap your hand around her shoulder..... you get even more turned on .... to give him your best kiss the moment your lips meet.. in your mind . and you're looking to see if you can find that passion within him . but for hours . you can't resist tilting your head to one side ..... and closer to him (if she doesn't close the gap between you .... 32 .

it was like his voice just seemed to wrap itself around you. and the rest of your environment just disappeared. everything you saw. if he were talk about a romantic walk. on a moonlit beach. You "Let me ask you question. It can stand on it's own or be integrated into part of a larger pattern. you found that you could just PICTURE IT CLEARLY? So you know. Have you ever been totally fascinated with someone? Like maybe as you were there. you could SEE YOURSELF there with him. and you started to LISTEN CAREFULLY. and your entire world.THE POWER OF "HAVE YOU EVER": FASCINATION PATTERN Note: This pattern should be used after general banter and fluff talk. LOOKING at him. became what was right in front of you? And anything he described. with your perfect partner. just enjoying what that would be like?" 33 .

and felt something around her neck. But then she began to… FEEL VERY RELAXED. leaving her to…UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS SAID. and what it had said to her. At first she tried to deny that she was starting to…FEEL A WARMTH DEEP INSIDE…because she was afraid to feel that good. that ran (slowly move finger up arm) all the way… up her body. Now. she made a wish that a man would come into her life." The next day she went into town to buy some things. POOF.. with a (the color of her stone) colored stone. a very strong warmth. but then she recalled the voice that she had heard. it all becomes clear. She put her hand to her chest. and stronger. She has the necklace." Then. and saw that where there was once nothing. there was a flash around her. up in the mountains near her home. and you will discover that which you desire. "Focus on what is in front of you. As she sat upon some rocks. One night she was out walking. to settle her breathing. and they stared for several moments. and was staring up at the stars. she started to FEEL DESIRE FORMING deep inside of her…right…in…here (touch solar plexus) It was like 34 . and the more she wanted this to continue. Without even fully understanding what is happening. And as the man approached her. the decision is made to pursue this…to have what is desired deep down inside. and was amazed…by what happened…upon entering the market. the more it caused her to …LISTEN INTENTLY TO WHAT’S SAID. and now I remember what it was." It was about a woman who was growing apart from her lover. Then an image flashed into her head. She said to herself.. She was of course confused at first. She pulled it forward. give me your hands (when she gives you her hands do this) a tingle like this. which at first startled her. there was now a beautiful necklace. HEAR THIS VOICE…inside her mind. the stronger it became.. Then she started to . The man’s eyes caught her eyes. And the more she allowed herself to . and fill her with the adventure she had been missing. (Stay quiet and wait for her to say something) Upon entering the market. FOCUS ON THIS (point to self) RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU…AND YOU WILL…FIND WHAT YOU DESIRE."THE EROS STONE NECKLACE" PATTERN You I’ve been staring at your necklace. and somehow it will give her what she desires. and stronger. and started to sound like her own voice. And this voice said to her. But the more she allowed herself to…FEEL THAT WARMTH INCREASE. A nice…soothing…comfortable feeling filled her body. called "The Eros Stone Necklace. the voice was gone. the more it warmed her. and was losing faith in love. I recall a story I had read once. and warmth. Suddenly. this is what you want (point to self) this is what you deserve. she saw this man (point to self) and felt a tingle. "No matter what anyone else says to you. That warmth deep inside. The voice began to change. that she almost thought she were dreaming. An image of passion so incredible… so fulfilling. wondering why it reminded me of something.. began to get stronger. LISTEN TO THIS VOICE…the more it relaxed her. and you’re going to do it for all your own reasons.

and asked herself. and instead kissed her lips softly. and a magical necklace. Then they simply fell into each others arms. and made love for the night. She instead chose to REMEMBER FOREVER that one perfect night. and said not a single word. surrounding them from the rest of the world. then let it out slowly with a slight moan) At last. (take in a breath." They parted the next morning. and desires. and whispered softly. made love to her exactly how she wanted to be made love to. to make you mine. They talked for hours. think of me. As they held each other later. and every day she would FEEL AN INCREDIBLE WARMTH for she knew. she took his hand. Sadly. And ever day she would touch that necklace. and opinions. with this one perfect man. He smiled. like a soft…private bubble. wonderful. and how she came to possess the necklace. what can I say. she had found the man who would make her feel alive again. And every time you touch this necklace. He kissed her lips.an energy had formed around them. He touched her exactly how she wanted to be touched. and I will smile. but made plans to meet again that evening. and his image was never far from her mind. for she feared that this magical. and lead him out of the market. She closed her eyes and took in the moment. he complimented her on her necklace. amazing adventure she had shared with this man (point to self) would eventually be ruined for one reason or another someday. And all of this was the result of a chance encounter. "What can I do. The man pulled back to look into her eyes. dreams. She thought of him often. he was smiling. "Every time you become aware of having this necklace. she decided not to meet him after all. that somewhere. In this moment only these two people (motion back and forth subtly) existed. She revealed to him what had happened the previous night on the mountain. sharing insights. if but only for a night?" She thought about what it was she wanted. I will feel your touch upon my face. "What do you want deep down inside of you? What is missing from your life right now that you want from this man?" And with only a smile. 35 . then said. It was unlike anything she could imagine.

.. I've noticed similar results .. there's a little secret ... the tea leaf simply makes you .. which might cause you to ... of what this has to offer you (Point to self).. I was reading the most fascinating article .... LOSE CONTROL OF YOUR WILL . I can respect .... LISTEN INTENTLY . will still allow you to ... just under your tongue .. and were better able to . a friend of mine had.. that drinking some forms of iced tea .. I have more energy .. YOU NEED TO FEEL THE WAY I DO.. for example. Now.. as their main beverage .... you'll . I take a different approach. It said that .. in YOUR MIND....... it tastes better than coffee to me...... than when I ...... FEEL COMPLETELY AT EASE.. 36 .... used to drink cokes.. WITH ME... And that . The article stated that .. in a 15 year study . if you place a raw tea leaf . there's no reason . FEEL THE BENEFITS .... the article also said ... when being talked to.. in a health magazine . about iced tea? (Wait for her to response) The other day .. Because . unlike a harmful drug . FEEL A PROGRESSIVE CALM .. those who had iced tea .ICE TEA PATTERN You Her You Did you know . in my extended use of it.. got sick less often... whatever opinion you have. Plus.

. it gave you a stronger sense of control. And that loss of control. (take in a deep breath and exhale with a pleased "Mmmm") Yeah. so you can JUST GO FOR IT. Sometimes though. bad (point LEFT) or good (point RIGHT). you're allowing a certain loss of control. it's about experiencing an alternative to the normal (gesture to self).INDULGENCE VS SURRENDER PATTERN You: Have you ever considered the difference between surrender and indulgence? When you surrender to something (motion LEFT). because it's an aspect of your control that had been holding you back from receiving this great benefit (motion RIGHT). or even the fear of that impending loss. curious to the point where YOU NO LONGER WAIT you moved straight into this experience without hesitation. a stronger sense of control because you were the only one able to have this right now and you took charge and made it yours for however long it lasts and being able to look back after indulging and feeling satisfied. Do you FEEL THAT making perfect sense. there's (motion RIGHT) a loss of control that's good. causes you to hesitate or even avoid pursuing an opportunity further.. And with each breath you grew more and more and more . THIS IS YOURS TO ENJOY.. when you suddenly saw something that made you curious. or just something you agree with? 37 . FOCUS ON THIS (gesture to self) the more you realize THIS IS WORTH YOUR ATTENTION.. And it had nothing to do with you having to give up control because in fact. It's like it takes you back to when you were a little girl . So when you can RECOGNIZE THIS IS WHAT'S HAPPENING and you ACKNOWLEDGE THIS IS GOOD you get to enjoy the rewards (gesture to self) Indulgence on the other hand is not about losing control.an alternative that the more you.

. You: See. at this point it really doesn't matter) . and LOOKING BACK ON TODAY (point back to you) as having been the start of it? Them: Oh yeah . (pause) .INSTANTANEOUS/TIMELESS CONNECTION PATTERN VARIATION #1 You: Have you ever felt an INSTANTANEOUS connection with someone? (Point to yourself) Like maybe as you were there. it was like there was a cord of LIGHT (gesture from your solar plexus to hers) going from you to them? And as that cord began to GLOW.. say six months from now.. WITH THE WARMTH of that connection. still FEELING THAT SENSE OF INCREDIBLE CONNECTION. looking at them. But I do find that during the course of an evening.. as you REALLY LISTEN to someone (point to yourself) . I think it's so funny how some people can JUST DO THAT and LET IT HAPPEN INSTANTANEOUSLY (snap your fingers) because for me it takes longer. WITH ME that's when you can MAKE THAT CONNECTION and really FEEL THAT GROWING BOND. and you started to LISTEN INTENTLY.. 38 .. maybe you were even able to IMAGINE A TIME IN YOUR FUTURE (gesture either to your left or to your right .. and you START TO RECOGNIZE those values and qualities in them that you hold so dearly for yourself ..

39 . say years from now. when all the barriers just drop. (pause) ME. long time? (Point to yourself) Like maybe even though you only knew them a short while. still being incredibly connected to this person (point to yourself again) and looking back on today as having been the it? I just think that's the neatest thing when a person can GO INSIDE and INSTANTLY recognize all those qualities and values in that other person.. that LETS THAT CONNECTION TAKE PLACE WITH SOMEONE . And it's like maybe you were even able to imagine a time in your future. as if there were a timeless connection between you and them? (gesture to her and then to you!) I mean. it usually takes a bit longer.. away and melt and you just feel so totally comfortable and at ease with them.INSTANTANEOUS/TIMELESS CONNECTION PATTERN VARIATION #2 You Did you ever instantly know you were going to like and trust someone for a long. it seemed like you had known them your whole life. you know that feeling of incredible bonding.

if you can remember the feeling of that. and toyed with... It can only happen naturally as the expression of an energy between two people. when all the barriers melt and drop away. just how much can you look forward to enjoying that with someone who moves you in that way? As you remember what that would be like. Speaking to you as a person who can experience that kind of connection. you know that feeling of incredible bonding. in such a way that anything else blurs into insignificance. with just words on a page? As you find yourself wanting to meet with me. Words and appearances are only expressions. realize I can be reached at (___) _ _ _ . long time? Maybe you only knew them for a short while but it seemed that you had known them your whole life.. and find those possibilities opening before you. building and increasing and intensifying. No essay or words or video tape can create it (insert her name here) . how powerfully will you feel that urge to call and find out more about this person who has so moved you. well. but when it does ... mingling into an expression of aliveness that words can initiate but never capture fully? It has instead to be indulged inside your own imagination . and just how wonderful it was. because sometimes life has a way of making us remember those things. dwelled on. I don't think that kind of thing can be forced. and two people come together. 40 . the vehicles that contain the essence that moves us. fused into one spiritual essence. right prior to discovering that we can experience those feelings again with someone. as if there were a timeless connection between you and them? I'm wondering as you read this. Me . the mingling of energies feeding one to the other.INSTANTANEOUS/TIMELESS CONNECTION PATTERN VARIATION #3 You Did you ever instantly know you were going to like and trust someone for a long. deep inside you._ _ _ _. deep..

it's something that could be preserved in time forever. it's going away. whatever. it's like you could take them and put them in a locket. and how much we wanted that. and put it deep inside. and think right now. And if you take that locket now. And they stay alive forever. and just snap it shut.. that you're taking a little bit of energy from those memories. 41 . they have pictures. and maybe when your feeling sad. with every breath you take. And you could take that locket. You have to understand that what we've been doing together is over... Its like if you were to take the essence of all those wonderful experiences and just hold them in your hand.LOCKET PATTERN You: You know those little lockets that women use to store momentos? (self-point) . how it feels. with every thought that you make.. about all of the things we've shared. things really aren't working out for you. your feeling down. What we've said.. All of the tremendous meaning we've shared together.. if you were to just stop. how much we enjoyed that . days when your feeling alone. Then you may find that with every heart beat. you can take those memories out again and you can share them and relive them and remember. in that secret place deep down near the essence of who you really are. how we looked in each others eyes. because you know … what you can do. they have locks of hair .

that the sex . and began to PICTURE IN YOUR MIND all the things you want to do when this holiday arrives... you got more excited. "You don't have to alter your free time beyond a day or two every month or so. which will give you the time to work on other things. will be . Because now this (self point) holiday has arrived. and fulfilling.THE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP PATTERN (Establish rapport. it'll be like you're enjoying a holiday. "By the time we see each other again. yet still having your breathing room. interesting relationship. ) You I have this friend. named Rachel.. instead of daily. Rachel lives here. and she's in a rather . it makes some great sense. Because everytime a get-together occurs. Maybe do a connection pattern. "No way Rachel and that guy will last more than a few months. looking at it that way." With me. At first I thought." But the way Rachel explained it to me.. but he lives in Chicago. sometimes every other month. This way. Can you THINK BACK to when you were a little girl. the meeting will be so highly energizing. "By only seeing each other every once in a while. You're going to do all those things you've been imagining. make her laugh at least once. do all the things you really want to enjoy. how does that (anchor) feel? Her You (let her answer) Looking at it that way... And on that special day." Rachel said. amazing. And they've been having this long distance relationship for about a year now. and won't be taken for granted.. having an incredible romance. and you're going to enjoy all those things you've really looked forward to. and you really looked forward to your favorite holiday? As the time got closer.. then ." And what really made sense is when Rachel said. it really makes sense! Rachel told me "Imagine the convenience of being with THIS PERSON (self point). they only see each other for a couple of days a month. makes the time we'll share (motion back and forth) together more special. You see. without needing an excuse when you want a break for whatever reason." (laugh) Rachel also said. neither person feels neglected. Mmm. or even weekly. can you (anchor again) FEEL THAT to be an enjoyable experience? 42 . you begin to GET VERY EXCITED. and are very satisfied with it.

. But not just any ring... feature (ring finger) ... And know that a part of me is always with you.. And the most amazing thing about this story. if that's what her ring is) and it had a beautiful _____ colored stone set in the ring. And I don't know if you can FEEL THAT (tap anchor) to be true. It was set in the 1600's... He was pleased that he had finished the ring in time. she would look upon this ring (touch ring) and think of this man (self point) who has touched her heart." Then one day the warrior left for battle. and it was about a warrior who gave his true love a ring.. it was a ring the warrior had made himself. He wanted her to have a symbol of their love.. he said. is that it's not a fairy tale. it actually happened. and that his true love wore it always. his true love would look at the ring .. was perfect (hold and rub ring finger a few seconds) Upon giving it to his true love.. And every night.. her lover felt that kiss. or copper. 43 . for his true love.. a tangible reminder of him when they were apart. for seven days. that somehow . The ring was made of fine silver (or gold.. give it a gentle kiss . "Look upon this ring when I am not near. And he did this . And every night. while the warrior was away. and know . until every (run finger up her index finger) . Every tap of the hammer (tap the ring) was like pounding his passion for her deep inside. and accept that such things can happen. until it was exactly the way he wanted it to be for her. And every rub of the polishing rag (rub her fingers) was like a loving caress upon her soft skin. I just think it's a wonderful feeling to know that something as small as a ring (touch ring) can connect two people so deeply (motion back and forth) and in such a big way..LOVER'S RING PATTERN You Your ring reminds me of a story I read a while back. The warrior worked on this ring everyday. single (middle) . and think of only me.

" 44 . etc. and experiences .) I have been working on a few different ways to do this: 1. You "Have you ever seen Deep Throat?" (just kidding) “Have you seen Shakespeare in Love?" She can say yes or no . You find that your work is more passionate. You want to find this new person.. you actually become that character .. and say "for example. Pick a movie with a subject along the lines of how you want her to feel. what do you think of star wars . You discover an overwhelming desire to open yourself up to this person and you know when you do this. your life is more interesting. Basically he said that when you watch a Film you can feel/experience what the person or character in the film is experiencing/feeling And if the Film is really well done. those are my dreams etc. You "Well.. He was talking about the nature of film. that movie was _______.. those are my problems.. and you enter that Film.. PART 1: The launch. ******* Her: You: "A movie is something that simply is entertaining and keeps you busy for a few hours..... it doesn't matter. and make them a part of your life." Then describe the feeling and start running patterns.. You start to learn things about your own passions that you never knew before.." You "I think that Martin Scorsese said it best. have you ever thought about the difference between a Movie and a Film?" Or "What is it about the experience of watching a movie that make them so profoundly important to so many people?" Etc. and say that's me up there. away from it wanting to meet that special person.. your whole life improves. For me . Describing a specific movie/film and how it makes you/her feel.. have you seen any good movies lately. have you ever seen a movie that just made you feel X.. the sky is bluer and the roses smell sweeter. Now a film can really reach deep inside and touch you in that special place so you find yourself opening up to a whole new world of feelings. But if she says no. It is all about how when you meet that new ideal person . you come ." PART 2: The flight (Pick a state you want her to be in. then suggest you go see it some time because .. When you see the movie. this person who shows you things about yourself and makes you feel wonderful. sensations. Start up the topic of movies as I'm sure you've done 1000 times before with friends. You "That's a wonderful example of what I mean.THE MOVIE PATTERN Movie topic intro .

Can you feel that (anchor) ... Since you have been talking about movies .. So you can just let yourself relax.. this is an important part of the process.... there is nothing else. You can't get enough of it .. You just let go and experience all that the image before you has to show you.. You are riveted to this image. Now. but you know something is there and you have to find out. If she says no.. When you do this.. a little excited... Only use this one if you have some basic film study skills.. nothing will happen.. You might not even see it when . you find that the image in front of you just takes you exactly where you want to go. "We can get together. then continue . rent it. Or we could just rent a movie too. for me . horror.. find out what movie . Really . That feeling is like a natural drug .." Or get her number so you can go enjoy a movie some time etc. you'll let go and allow yourself to experience these feelings." Part 3: Fly that baby home.... 45 . "The scene will get very quiet and very slow . It will be a gold mine of trance material. then . romance?" "Have you ever noticed most horror movies are constructed and designed the same way? That's because the structure makes you feel a certain way... would this work as an anchor) While describing the above. Asking about a film having a given effect on her.2.. I want to experience it. You feel a little scared. no warning lights go off in a woman's head when you talk about movies. when you see a film?" . you notice everything around you fading away as you focus on this image in front of you.. go see a movie and I'll show you some amazing examples of this. you go nice and slow . you have a shitload of opportunity to bring up a movie and say. that's why these movies make so much money. You might be so tied up by the image in front of you (hehehe kinky me) that you just want to lose yourself in the process. but you just could not wait to find out what happens next. but deep inside you know you are really safe. it is happening to you. I don't want to watch a movie.. for horror only.. and if you've not seen it. but at just the right moment (snap your fingers right in her face) bam they break the mood to send that rush of adrenaline through you ... Now if she says yes... You "Have you ever seen a Film that just filled you with a sense of excitement and anticipation? Maybe it was a little scary or it was a mystery. like a horror movie ." You 3... There are lots of closes here because this is topical and it is a safe topic . There are a lot of dark shots. Describing a general film genre and maybe pointing out an example and how it is structured to make you feel a given way. Now for me. watching a film is a very involved process.. maybe you have experienced these feelings but just don't realize you're doing it. where you can't see exactly what's happening.. You "What kinds of movies do you like . There are so many possibilities to this that it boggles my mind.. you crave it.. (Now I have a question here . You find yourself emerged in the experience . action.. and you love that feeling..

that the Internet provides you with everything you need now. The article said. on our attractions with new technologies. you have the luxury of finding it all in one place. exactly the way you want it. no question. Because why should you have to waste your valuable time. you want this amazing adventure (touch palm to chest) to be yours. and know that you’re not going to leave this spot. With me (point to myself) . to find exactly what you want. The article posed the question. "Can you imagine how less satisfying your life would be. Whatever you find yourself desiring. just to settle for something that ultimately isn’t what you thought it was? But through the Internet. is accessible through the Internet. "Can you feel that to be true for you?" 46 . Suppose you want an exciting experience. until you finally find something here that satisfies your desires. the opportunity to have this comes in a way you really enjoy. you can just relax. if you never had this?" Then I anchor it with. Like vacations. Now. it’s an incredible time saver. weeding through all the choices out there."NEW TECHNOLOGIES" PATTERN You: I was reading the most interesting article the other day. Instead of having to search many different places. Like computers for example. the Internet specifically.

. a state where YOUR MINE is so in touch with the MYSTERY and the WONDER and the beauty of life (point to yourself.. but for me. NOW. 47 . NOW .. Her: God .. And you know. I know that for a lot of people different things can trigger that... lingering kisses . Her: Sure .. you know. I LOVE the way you talk ... But his really great stuff is composed of these long. or orgasm are peak experiences... but some of his stuff is just a series of short little musical segments .... Debbie. you just GO INTO A MUCH DIFFERENT STATE . they're like long... and I don't know if you are familiar with him or not.. er . you just SLOW TIME DOWN. TO ME . the other night I was listening to Mozart. lingering movements . She'll give away LOTS of information) ....... You: Well. yeah .. as you just LET YOURSELF GO WITH THIS (point to yourself) . I find it so neat how YOUR MINE can be going along in one direction. slow. from end to end.. You: That's really interesting. dumbshit!) And sometimes it's like in YOUR MINE... You know.. and then SUDDENLY for whatever MYSTERIOUS reason. Like. and LISTEN carefully. it's like your inside my soul. like little pecks on the cheek... for a lot of people falling in love.. and the whole world stops... long slow lingering caresses. it's music. WITH ME .. You: What was that like? (Here you should SHUT UP and let her describe it .. thank you dumbshit . and you just FEEL ALL OF THAT ALL OVER YOUR BODY when you LISTEN . and with some of his stuff those segments just HYPNOSIS Debbie.PEAK EXPERIENCES PATTERN You: Can you remember the last time you had a peak experience? Like climbing a mountain ... Can you FEEL THAT (reach out and touch anchor) is an incredible thing to experience .. you know in an everyday ordinary state.. it's an incredible thing . and keep getting repeated. or watching a beautiful sunset .. or the first time you looked at someone (point to yourself) and recognized YOU REALLY LOVE THIS PERSON (point to yourself again) . slow. ah .

REMOTE CONTROL ZIP ANCHOR You: here's a trick . Her: Ok You: and when you can REALLY feel all those sensations reach their peak. anticipation.) You: tell me when you've gotten that to work . Could keep me from doing anything rash over the weekend You: completely in control .. You: then . and notice how they diminish even more.. by the time you reach your elbow they should be incredibly intense . arousal.. I can get you out of this . ) and imagine all the sensations that are driving you wild. You: ok... Her: ok You: close your eyes (not yet . with me.. and notice how as you do this. passion... all those sensations intensify and intensify. (don't worry. to the original point on your forearm. throughout your whole body .. keep going.. and notice the little charge you get as those feelings intensify at that moment .. see if it works . . you know You: no. whatever they may be .. finish reading this first ... sloooowly. you can experience ALL that intensity again . only when you're really ready.. curiosity . now the part you've been waiting for .. huh? bet you didn't know you could do that with just a finger and an arm .. slowly. 48 ... and feel the sensations diminish from that over-the-top intensity down to a more manageable level of excitement and arousal … You: and then. ) Her: I'm going to hurt you for this.. I'll try this again later. Her: very weird You: again. Her: Ok You: touch yourself there again.. too... reach over and tap yourself three times on the right forearm.... Her: LOL . sliiiiiiiiide that finger back down. down toward your hand.. . you're going to thank me and THEN hurt me . Her: Her: one moment ok You: cool. more and more... . and sloooowly. but are happy just sitting there and grinning about it . to the point where you no longer feel like you're going to explode.. and paying close attention to all those sensations ... I think it's a good reminder that you can have the fun you want when you want it .. but content that sometime soon.... slide that touch up toward your elbow.

..... see how groovy that can be. You: what kind of evil phone call? You: now think about this .. if what you just did is possible just by reading my words on your computer. just be careful when _I_ reach for your arm … Her: uuurrrggghhhhhkkkk 49 .. tension.You: one warning . just imagine the kinds of things that are possible face to face ... at least not unless you're thinking about me .. you were the one worried about what to do with all that pent up . Her: oh? You: this weekend. because you don't want to find yourself pouncing on some innocent bystander . Her: Her: Her: oh really? you may be getting an evil phone call when I get back then one that tells you that you have absolutely no choice but to get your ass over to my apartment NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You: well.. I don't recommend that you slide your fingers up past your elbow ... Her: That's what intrigues me and scares me somewhat You: then just sliiiiiide those fingers down until you're the right amount of intrigued and no longer scared... when you're with someone who possesses the mysterious secrets ..

feel that energy forming inside of you . that can be a most intense situation. and she said that she ready to explode.. So you start to debate with yourself. where the two sides of the rib cage meet the breastbone) you can . In." I suppose... out. right .. (Tap the back of her hand) Can you feel that applying to you?" 50 . here (I touched her just under the breasts. And as you . The way Rachel described it.. named Rachel. To the point where you .. with a friend of mine... and then there are those secrets that you have to really work on keeping to yourself. to keep it in. yes For example. And like most secrets. you try your best to keep it in.. You want to hold this inside of you as long as possible. the more intense it gets. out. I recall a conversation I had one day. focus on this energy . in. out. this (point to self) can be quite an intense experience.SECRETS PATTERN You Her You Her You Have you ever noticed how some secrets affect us in amazing ways?" How so? Well.. it's like this ball of light. in. And the more you . all through your body. but you're also tempted to let it slip out. until you feel yourself wanting to just explode... feel a warmth start to spread. Now Rachel had apparently been told this really juicy secret. suddenly feel it growing . or energy. But sometimes. there are some secrets that you know you'll never utter to another living soul. or to let it out.. With me....

that nothing else could ever compare. Then notice how you still have that little girl sense of enjoyment when you visit Disneyland today. where you can JUST RELAX and HAVE FUN FOR HOURS. And the reason why you FEEL THAT WAY is because Walt Disney did what no one else had thought to embrace. think back to when you were a little girl. For example. that character you have enjoyed for years." And instead of engineers. is the true magic of what Walt Disney created. and made it possible for that character to be right here right in front of you. and impressive titles. So while other people were trying to impress you with flashy rides. come rushing back as an adult. as an adult. And as you FEEL THOSE FEELINGS NOW. WITH ME take a moment to appreciate what that was like. Instead of employees. Can you REMEMBER HOW THAT FELT that first time? The fascination . then continue) You: I do too. Disneyland focused on one simple thing. (Pause a few seconds to build a sense of anticipation) And that is you are in a place right now where your imagination your fantasies run wild. which is pretty damn likely. he had "performers. And one of the things most people don’t take a moment to realize.THE "SEDUCTION LAND" PATTERN You: Do you like Disneyland? Her: Response: (If she gives a positive response. you can’t help but just let go. he had "Imagineers" And he took your favorite Disney cartoon character. You still have that feeling of being in a place that is untouched by the outside world. WITH ME. whoever that might be.the excitement the absolute certainty that this was going to be a wonderful world of adventure. All those exciting feelings you had as a little girl. Because you knew that with this being real (self point) and this having everything you want to enjoy. and you first went to Disneyland. and made it possible for that character you really like. can you FEEL THAT to be something truly magical? 51 . everytime you see this (point to self) great escape from the outside world. Looking at it just like that.

... big . In a way that causes you to want to smile all the time . NOW when THAT happens (point at her smile) you can NOTICE THAT SMILE REMINDING YOU OF THAT SPECIAL PERSON (self point) and the more you smile the more you THINK OF THIS PERSON (self point) and the more you THINK OF THIS PERSON (self point) the bigger your smile gets .. ya know? . YOU'VE MET SOMEONE .. and FEEL A FLOOD OF hapPENIS entering deep inside you that can just FEEL SO GOOD. and it's like NOW whenever you THINK OF THIS PERSON (self point) you just start to NOTICE WHAT ITS LIKE as a great . smiles (smile big and lead her to smile) . happy ... I mean can you IMAGINE THAT happening and causing you to just FEEL INCREDIBLE? 52 . right? And what's REALLY cool is when .. big ... think of this person . really (self point) . smile (smile big) just flows across your face.. special (self point) . Like maybe FROM NOW ON when you go through life and you have good experiences that make you smile one of those great . to the point where you can't help but REALIZE THIS PERSON (self point) has affected you in a very powerful way .... I think it's cool cause then maybe it can happen the other way around..........SMILE PATTERN You Her You You wanna hear about something really cool? Yeah I was thinking about something the other day that was just so cool I couldn't help but get a big smile just exploding across my face ......... You know what that's like right? (give a big smile) I mean it's like you know when you're just going through your day and you think of something (self point) that just brings a smile to your face? And it's kinda funny cuz maybe it's because you started to FIND YOURSELF HAVING THOUGHTS OF SOMEONE SPECIAL (self point) or maybe your started to PICTURE THIS PERSON IN YOUR MIND (draw a frame around your face) or maybe you could even HEAR THIS VOICE inside your mine ..

Notice all the features you enjoy most about this ring. can you see it? You: Okay. and the wonderful 53 . inside your mind. the colors it gives off. oval. filling you up with a warmth deep inside you. Now.. what size is this "stone?" a karat. Not the stone yet. Or maybe it's connected in various spots by an energy. 5 karats. remembering to make a place for that beautiful setting for your stone. Just before you . Feeling the wonderful sensations that this brings. Mmmmmm .SOUL JEWELRY PATTERN You: Do you like Jewelry? Her: Yes You: I'm going to give you something.. stop into a hot bath or shower. that perfect.. beautiful. Now.. Now. just the "metal" ring. the way it glitters. And let me know when you can see it clearly. what's your favorite metal? If you could have a ring made out be? Her: Her: (Let her answer) (Let her answer) You: Okay. Like maybe it's disconnected in some way. Can you see that? Her: (Let her answer) You: Purrrrrfect. see that "X" karat "stone" mounted into the ring and notice how beautiful the ring looks. what? You: Very nice. (Wait for her to let you know) Okay. a perfect "metal" ring. what shape is this "stone?" Is it a baguette. This is your unique "metal" ring. now what gem stone would you want on this ring? You: Niiice.. The most beautiful "metal" ring you've ever seen. that's probably going to be the greatest gift you've ever received from anyone. Now. And as you see that ring. so craft it how you most want it.. And maybe it's crafted in a way that's maybe not possible to make with metal. Okay. 2 karats. (Let them respond/react to that) Close your eyes. now look at that "X" karat "stone" Notice the shape of it. now I would like you to imagine in your mind's eye. I would like "metal" ring itself to represent the feeling you have . can you picture that ring clearly. or maybe it has shapes on it that you've never seen before. trillium or some other shape? Her: Her: Her: (Let her answer) (Let her answer) (Let her answer) You: Very nice. And feel that same pleasure of when that warm water covers your entire body.

Swirl inside of you. Now. And you start to feel kinda nervous inside..... That is my gift to you.. Notice how now that you have on this incredible ring.. that feeling is what that "stone" set in the "metal" ring represents.. what I'm going to do. You know that feeling you get. You: Perfect.. Can you feel that? (Let her answer) Now notice something.feelings you have from this experience. And how now you have it forever. Now take a deep breath. Can you feel that? (Let her answer) That's what the "metal" ring represents. And now.. this ring . Can you see it on there? (Let her say 'Yes") See how it looks exactly how you imagined it would. open your eyes . the ring is on forever. Then notice how the color starts to light your whole hand up. 54 . And the "stone" that beautiful stone. I guarantee that you're going to experience an emotion and a feeling that you've never felt in your life.. slide . Slowly now . so you feel like you want to talk a lot. you can't take it off. I'm going to give you a feeling that you've never felt before. and he looks at you and you look at him and you know that something wonderful is about to happen. as I slowly . but you're nervous all at the same time and it's kinda exciting? You know that feeling? Her: (Let her answer) You: Yeah. and swirl all through you. Notice just how amazing that feels.. which finger do you want it on? Her: (Let her answer) (Wait for her to take a deep breath-take one with her too by the way) You: Now . is I'm going to take that ring. because what is about to happen is pretty amazing. that feeling. you're going to be able to take it with you wherever you go.. and run up into your body. something that you both want. you're going to notice those two feelings we talked about starting to mix together. and you're having a good time. this ring that only you can see. represents that feeling of . no matter how hard you try. and see very vividly that beautiful ring on your finger. when you're with a guy.. and I'm going to slide it onto your finger. and kinda giddy. onto your finger.. And it's going to be so beautiful. (Start to "put" ring on desired finger) Now notice the feelings mixing together for the first time.

where anything can be tried out. and provide for your needs and give you some security so you can just relax and live life fully with joy and happiness like it’s supposed to be. but due to the pressures that we put on ourselves. And the thing about surrender is that often times a person may want to surrender. And this man is sensitive and kind enough to make you feel totally safe enough to open up your soul to him and be free as he takes his pleasure with you and leads you in a completely nude erection. And wants to take care of you. And sometimes you keep them hidden for so long. But surrender is something completely different. we have to lock away and shut down that part of who we are in that place that I call the secret passionate core. I’m giving you permission. SURRENDER PATTERN You: Do you know the difference between submission and surrender? Her: ??? You: Submission implies that you’ve been defeated. You’ve come home to someone whos mature enough to see the woman that you are. and these secrets are buried so deep that you forget you even have them until that special someone helps you find the key and unlock your fantasies. To accept you just as you are. where you ponder your fantasies. The things you would do if no one were watching and you might not even want your best friend to know you dream about them at all. Because she might become jealous of you. But you don’t have to lock that part of you away anymore. And strong enough to make you feel totally protected in his arms. And you realize that you feel completely safe surrendering yourself because now you totally trust this person (point to self). because you have something special like this so beautiful. maybe a relationship that a person is in that is really restricting them from being finding true happiness in the world. That place deep inside you where anything is possible. that someone has snapped your will. your hidden desires that you’ve suppressed for so long. its the same place that you keep your most private fantasies and hide your deepest secrets about yourself. to be free. maybe in ways she can’t even admit to herself. and that society puts on us. and amazing possibilities where you indulge yourself in your deepest desires of physical pleasure and romantic sexual ecstasy. that you’ve been beaten.SUBMISSION VS. You are free to bare your soul. daydreams. and in all those ways she longs to be touched and caressed. to me. where you keep your most exciting memories. He’s experienced enough to see the woman you’ve become. (Like a little caterpillar that metamorphasizes into a beautiful butterfly or like a little baby rose 55 . Surrender is like when you sigh that sigh of relief (long tension-releasing sigh) cause you’ve finally come home. that place where you keep your highest dreams. the roles we’re forced to play. But you never even needed my permission in the first place. And I think when a man (point to self) can come along and touch a woman (touch her) in all those special places. where anything can be experienced with pleasure. you’re free to release that part of you. It’s that place right next to the essence of who you are where anything can happen. then I think that a trance-formation takes place on a molecular level and she blossoms beyond her physical beauty into something beyond description. There’s a feeling that you’ve given in or given up. and so rare.

these feelings deep inside you desperately wanting to be unleashed and shared with the other person. I will treasure her with all my heart for the rest of my life.bud that’s closed tight when its young. incredible mind-blowing romantic adventure of your life can start right now. the really fun exciting. Just let it happen. I have to have it right now . Now the thing that I wonder about is what would it be like for a person to just feel all those hidden parts inside them just wake up right now. But ultimately. then you give yourself permission to create an opening for this person (point to self). It could be the way the person looks at you. sensitive. this very moment. a man can provide the warmth and compassion to a woman so that she can open up and blossom into a truly beautiful woman and feel so complete with a strong. the way the warmth of their voice just wraps itself around you and penetrates you entirely. and that’s the same way it is between 2 people who connect on such a deep level. It’s like there’s this mysterious force deep inside us that’s creating all this passion and desire and feelings. so real. caring man right beside her. like a jolt of electricity. Sometimes I think you don’t even know why that’s taking place now. all of your body and soul. but to me. and feel with our hearts such incredible passion growing inside us and say YES! right now. with me. in my experience.. What is it about the way certain people affect us that causes us to think of them in that special place? to hear this voice and feel this presence from that spot in such a way that no matter how we try to deny our desire to act it takes on a life of its own. with me. An opening that longs to feel filled with the power and the presence of this person coming so strongly deep inside of who you are. begging to be released. compelling. amazing. beautiful flower with it’s petals spread wide open and free and luxuriating in the warmth of the sunlight of a warm summer day). bursting at the seams to be let out. right now. real. it feels like a mysterious force deep inside us that’s generating all these passionate feelings that go shooting thru the circuits of our bodies. 56 .. you might call it chemistry between us. all you have to do is just enjoy it and be excited about it as you look forward with anticipation to this incredible. Just as the sun can provide warmth and light to a flower so it can blossom. I find that sometimes all sorts of things go deep inside yourself and you don’t even know why you can’t help yourself. look though our eyes. the way they touch you. I think it’s about recognition and permission. but as it grows. that is when the real adventure of your life can begin. When you can DO THAT. when I find that special woman that understands what I’m talking about and can be with me like a lover and a soulmate. And it could be anything that triggers this explosion of energy and desire that wants to be expressed. When you recognize you’re listening to someone who knows what that place is like for himself. powerful. amazing adventure that’s about to take place in your life. completely. A desire that says YES! I wanna step into this special place with (you) this special person and explore anything we can make real together. RIGHT NOW. hear with our ears. Close to her. it blooms and blossoms into a brilliant.

I will build you with a slow fire. stick by stick. taste you growing full. A once-in-a-lifetime opportunity right here in front of you. smell. take it all the way in as deep as it will go. taking all the time in the world. would be an amazing thing to experience. maybe someday. The thing about new opportunities is it’s not enough just to ponder and think about it and say well. grab hold of this incredible new opportunity. hear. simmering in my hand. cover your body with smiles and games. Because then it will be gone and it will be too late. join with it. I will slowly fill you up every crevice and curve watch. To experience incredible passion in your life right now. And then it’s like all those images and fantasies and thoughts move from the place where things might happen into the place where you absolutely must MAKE THEM HAPPEN RIGHT NOW. Can you feel that. I will play with the wind of you. and watch the color of your sunrise. feel. Instead you gotta reach out. The interesting thing about feelings is how they can get better and better and better the more you recognize there’s an incredible opportunity here. witches brew of potions and incantations And feel you rolling. (read her the essence poem later to rekindle passionate core theme) 57 . I will stir your secret core. promises and fantasies that disappear without a trace. make it part of who you are.(this poem is optional) It’s just like this amazing poem I read: (openings poem) I will open you petal by petal. floating.

and everything around you just seems SO REAL again . There're probably a lot of stuff to talk about like horoscopes or constellations but one experience I had I think is worth creating a pattern for. WITH ME.. a few wild animals or it could have been a really huge grassland with beautiful. It's like you FEEL SO UNIQUE but you also feel a sense of DANGER and HELPLESSNESS . and peaceful. is a wonderful feeling? Her You Her You 58 ... you are able to just STOP. and the sounds around you become all that clearer. no humans. no civilization... The following pattern basically makes her feel lonely and want you as her salvation.. and IMAGINE traveling back in time.. no cars around .... you feel it's like you've discovered this very world we live in anew... right? Yeah .. It's like in one of those movies. totally MYSTERIOUS and beautiful ... I felt that before ... chat.. and you can even start to HEAR YOUR INNER VOICE STRUGGLING to escape .. it often happens at times like right now when it's quiet.. shining stars in the sky . say 500 years ago... WITH ME . to find warmth . Yeah and maybe to the point where it was once full of trees. this kinda reminds me of the idea of a time machine .. and look up at the stars with quiet surroundings. can you FEEL THAT (Touch Her Gently) . and PICTURE where you are right now was once some very remote area.. WITH ME.. Oh my God. There's nobody around but only you. to find someone......THE SUMMER NIGHT PATTERN One of the things to do on summer nights is to sit on the grass. (Optional) : And I think it's so funny how when you're back in reality. like you are able to feel the cool breeze on your skin.. ) Yeah . it's the best time to REALLY REFLECT ON ONESELF and let your imagination GO WILD and think about things that you normally wouldn't ... and think about this. You Her You Have you ever felt that the world we live in could sometimes be very unreal? (Alternative: You know. dark. It's so true . and you start to notice how beautiful those city lights are from afar . RIGHT NOW ..

still FEELING THAT SENSE OF INCREDIBLE CONNECTION. and LOOKING BACK ON TODAY (point back to you) as having been the start of it. at this point it really doesn't matter) .. say six months from now.TIME DISTORTION You Maybe you were even able to IMAGINE A TIME IN YOUR FUTURE (gesture either to your left or to your right .. 59 .

Whenever you open a door. You: Yeah. And as the movie goes on.. is the start of SOMETHING GREAT (gesture at you and her) . it's like when you THINK ABOUT THIS PERSON ALWAYS (point) . but all the good feelings. It's like. Have you ever experienced loving someone like that? (point and anchor) Can you imagine loving someone like that? NOW. didn't you. ME.. STANDING THERE (point to self) .. WITH ME. just before you go to sleep.. you just want to LET GO OF YOUR FEARS and GO WITH IT. and she knows. As the looks at HIM. that THIS. Lead into any other more description intensive patterns you like. right then.. she just can FEEL SO GOOD with THIS GUY. like lightning into your soul. Why/agrees/whatever. You: You know what I think the best thing about that movie is? The characters. when they see each other for the first time. I think this pretty much sets her up for everything. duh) Her attraction keeps growing every time she sees him. or walk into a room. I like to think things like that still CAN HAPPEN NOW. or while you're lying in bed. that love between two people can be so strong that she would DO ANYTHING for him. like when you WANT TO KNOW MORE about THIS PERSON (point to self). Girl: That was great . You: Well. Or when he holds her in front of the ship. The way that love PENETRATES DEEP INSIDE YOU. she keeps thinking about this guy (point. they have such an INCREDIBLE CONNECTION. it's like all you want to do is know him better. you SEE HIM THERE. she's CURIOUS.. Can you remember them? (anchor) The feelings of love between Jack and Rose . When YOU'RE SO CURIOUS about this guy (point) . I liked the way Jack and Rose were so realistic in what they felt for each other. she FEELS so MAGICAL. Yeah . not the sad ones. I love the feelings you get from this movie. 60 . NOW. like you feel so SAFE AND FREE with this guy (point to self) .TITANIC PATTERN You: Girl: Girl: (knowing full well that she's seen it) : You saw Titanic.

4. for MARRIED women/women in long term relationships because IT IS AN ACCURATE DESCRIPTION OF THEIR EXPERIENCE. I've found.. gotta get the right ingredients IN the right order!) 3.. I think all sorts of things go deep inside yourself .. Use on married women/engaged women/women who tell you they have a BF. What color is this rose? Ideal vacation spot BJ Special places in you're mine 5. Starting this way with women who DON'T fill this bill doesn't get nearly so strong a response.. 2. and imagination and then Special places.. I've found it works best if I FIRST have them do imagination experiments . You can't help yourself ("Sometimes you don't even know why that's taking place . Special places and THEN imagination experiments.. I'll bet you the second way works better. I'd like to share a few thoughts: 1. with me ... I came up with the Dark Sun for use on married ladies .. (Note that in some respects SS IS like baking a cake . 2.. Somehow a trance induced by a sensory rich experience makes them MUCH more capable of using their imagination to get a lot more turned on when I THEN expound on the "Special Places" theme. step into their ideal vacation spot .. that with HIGHLY visual/suggestible women... try it both ways ... now .. Originally. visualize the rose I'm holding.. So .(who aren't married or in a long term relationship) the following sequence works best: 1. STARTING with this works great . The Special Places Theme-I've found that this idea of "Special Places In You're Mine" to be the LEGGO of patterns … it's attachable ANYWHERE and you can attach virtually ANTYHING to it . 3... and 61 . talking about relationships and the roles they require us to play cause us to compartmentalize and shut away certain aspects of who we are … yet they are still there in those SPECIAL PLACES INSIDE YOU'RE MINE ..SPECIAL PATTERNS DARK SUN PATTERN After fooling around with Dark Sun and variations of it.. I've found that doing the BJ pattern AFTER the imagination experiments ups the responsiveness to Special Places EVEN MORE! So ideally......

.. But they are still there .. waiting to be released . rich warmth of their voice. and it can be anything that triggers it .. Part of the reason is. Dark Sun.. etc. With women who tell you off the bat they are married. the variation is to talk about how important it can be.... "And you know... far away.. with me .. each word I say allows you to experience anything I suggest you ENJOY that much more vividly! Dark Sun Variation Anyway. in those special places inside your mine .. I think...... where you keep your most exciting memories ... talking and communicating with people . etc. 3. there are all sorts of rhythms a person has. even the rhythm at which they PAY ATTENTION . and being INSIDE .. pulling you in to something that feels SO wonderful . like a pair of powerful but gentle arms. it could be the way the deep.. in that special place of FANTASY . 2. and that is the rhythm of how they move back and forth between being outside in the world . generating all this passion that just goes shooting through the circuits.. to really understand their sense of personal rhythm. 62 .. it could be the way some unique feature of their face rivets your attention .. be it poetry.. just wraps itself around you.. that when I DO have them in their ideal vacation spot I throw in the following KEY piece of language: I invite you to notice that each breath you take .... a personal and deeply special rhythm ... BJ 5. There is the rhythm of their breathing . BJ or whatever. each beat of your heart . but then there is another rhythm ... POEM! Intro it by saying how all this inspired you to write something .. and she doesn't even know why YOU CAN'T HELP YOURSELF .... when getting to know someone.. Blammo 6.... the sequence is: 1.. it could be the gentle way they touch you .. Relationships and the roles they force us to play cause us to shut away parts of ourselves ..you don't even know why you can't help yourself .. and of course sometimes a person doesn't even know what makes them GO INTO THAT PLACE OF FANTASY .. have a BF. You can't help yourself 4. the rhythm at which they speak .. The most profound thing I've noticed is that doing the visualizing stuff first REALLY heightens everything else.. it's like there is this mysterious machinery far... I think sometimes all sorts of things GO DEEP INSIDE .... etc . ) 6.. now . Poem Play with these sequences.... Debbie .

.. It could be a photo. The first one had this message: 'Always A Pleasure' We each have a picture of someone we treasure We take it out often. where they can consider the person they are observing . lovingly. but she's going to visit another continent just so she can hop into bed with me? Wow! Now I gotta get the other two turned around..... and doing her level best to SS me right back. it's a long time to wait for a shag. and go ALL THE WAY INSIDE . they can wonder .. really wonder .. to be enjoying this person . and always with pleasure.. I've hit her with a mix of dark sun... She's picking up on the pattern language quite fast. but not quite there yet . Every day the same old thing . bless her. I've got two women bombarding me with hints that I should fly across the Atlantic and visit them... poetry. in all the ways YOU love to be enjoyed . One was suggesting I send her a plane ticket. and what it would it be like .. who do they know in their life ... and she started looking for cards to express how she felt. . 63 . but often it's not It may be no more than a wonderful thought.. and some really weird stuff that just sort of rose out of the context. Getting closer. This SS by email is a pain in the neck. in all the ways two people can enjoy each other?" SUMMARY: #1 #2 #3 #4 I waffle on about the email stuff I'm doing I point out some pattern language stuff in greeting cards I point out that this summary business is a lot like hard work . I suppose... Yes. Anyway.. a person can just TAKE A DEEP BREATH ....-) Another one at least is actively planning to visit me in the spring.. into that place of fantasy .-) I tell everyone to have fun.-) The lady who's planning on visiting has also taken to sending me cards by snail mail. Perhaps for a moment.. what does this person do in their free time . perhaps for all day Then carefully.. tuck it away .It's just so interesting how when that is taking place.

Do the "end zone strut... And now you're holding this card in your hands. You've already opened the envelope. (Go on: I'll wait." Give yourself a high five..The kind that's brought happiness right from the start. It goes like this: [front of card] This card comes with special instructions Okay. And think of me. • open your door and yell at the top of your lungs "Yesss! Yesss!" Startle the neighbors. I've been thinking of you. And that's always nearby .. Smile a nice quiet smile. card by Blue Mountain Arts if anyone's interested.) Now. So here's what to do next . • Start jumping up and down and cheering as though you'd just won an eighty million dollar lottery • Act like you just scored the winning touchdown in the Super Bowl. Get them jumping up and down with you in unison. (Does this count as plugging someone else's product?) 64 . -By Emily Matthews (Forget Me Not Cards) Does the process in that sound familiar to anyone? Now... • Plant a big juicy kiss on this card and say something that sounds incredibly Italian.. [inside card] Get a big goofy grin on your face. Right? Right. I get another one that's got so much NLP type stuff in it it can hardly be accidental. Then . for it's kept in the heart.. [end of card] This wonderful piece of head meddling was perpetrated by one Jessie Moore. as you begin to realize how sensational it is to receive a card from _this_ particular person (me!) . go back inside. Really whoop it up.

My mind is still fried from Ross' seminar this last weekend and while on the plane home I came up with a wonderful ambiguity that you can work into any pattern. Get some useful physiologies going. tell me if this trances you out like it does me? FIELD TEST! On that note the seminar was AWESOME!!! Ross and Mark were on a roll from day one. send them this way! The Dark Sun A certain spot inside you. It was a WONDERFUL example!). Where everything is true. elicit some nice juicy states.. The contest deadline is Thursday. it's my job. Then "go back inside (?!!) smile a nice quiet smile" . Suffice to say. a bit of thought binding .. the sky’s the limit. If you have any corrections. by all means use it. this year I decided to write a Dark Sun poem. some useful sounds as well for the auditory types amongst us. you gotta post about the errant phone call to the seminar room. then inside: Get some linked presuppositions on the go. Ross. 65 . There you store your qualities. Having wimped out of competing with an SS poem last year.. Hey guys. suggest a smile. in life to make people who will *accept the good things I have* to *feel wonderful* or get them out of my life because WHY NOT PUT PEOPLE WHERE THEY MOST WANT TO BE ANYWAY WITH ME?" Please. assuming I can find one that has its pattern language in English. link to the sender. The pattern starts off with the Dark Sun and you explain how " . on that spot and inspired my Marks talk evolved a pattern on the difference between what we would like in a relationship and what we NEED .. and link all those feelings to the sender. my obligation. Mark and the gang made it clear to me on all sorts of levels NOT TO MAKE APPLOGIES for what we do and to be blatant in a context of FUN (Ross..I mean have a look at that again: Lovely pacing on the first page. but please don't use it until Friday night (just in case). I'm going to have to do some browsing in a Card Bar somewhere. Ross..... but I will leave that for Ross to post... <WARNING open loop> The question came up "Where is SS going?" and just from looking at where its come from in such a short time leaves me beyond speculation. and I'd like some feedback.. Throw in a tag question. If you like it. . and my school is having a "romantic ramblings" contest. . V-day is coming up.

Experience them fully. Soon you'll dream of it. You don't need to talk.And all the best of you. But then there are the fantasies. The things you just might not. Here are the various versions of The Dark Sun Pattern. The ones you dare not think of Except that special place. That place you can't yet explore But in your secret dreams. 66 . Each dream you will remember. With help from your unconscious. soon. But in the future. you often Find that sacred spot. You'll begin to realize. In your mind you keep The wishes you embrace. That place will stay so secret. You'll replay all those dreams All day right in your mind. No other needs to know. Remember all your dreams. Just go down below. For them your mind will scream. For when you make them true. Imagine something coming. In your dreams. Where anything might happen. Time right after time. It's between me and you. It's something you must own. You need not feel excited. Through all your daily grit. I will leave you to discover their underlying patterns.

. NOW.. You say: "We were discussing how relationships and the roles we play in them require that we shut away and compartmentalize certain aspects of who we are .... and THINK OF NEW WONDERFUL IDEAS. *********DARK SUN: BETA TEST VERSION II***************** Caution: this pattern may induce uncontrollable sexual arousal in women... WITH ME.. Conversational set-up: Ask if she has any married friends. it's like you are able to LISTEN TO THIS VOICE that just draaaaaws you inward . Special acknowledgements to Ross and Mark C.. WITH ME.. in fact maybe you can think of a time in the future where need to make a decision and you STOP and you HEAR THIS VOICE guide you ..Brothers... I have a voice like that .. new thoughts . I'll bet that if you listen you can hear this voice right now .. inside .. It's the place where you can DREAM THE DREAMS THAT WILL(WE'LL) BE COMING TOGETHER to make new things possible. where we ponder fantasies . amazing possibilities . and it comes from that special place ... yet they are still there in that special place where we keep our most exciting memories .. as you GO THERE it really is a place where you can FEEL NEW FEELINGS. Suzanne.. Here's a version of "Dark Sun" designed to get a woman having intense sexual dreams about you. Taking the half thrown ball from Ross and brothers I have devised my own Dark Sun Pattern: I think its so interesting how all those creative processes seem to come from that same special place ... and what is it in how some people effect us that causes us to 67 ... Use caution if applying it around women who are on the more unstable side. and I've used a wee bit in it. like do you remember the last time you really had a good laugh so that as you remember it you smile really wide? . that's what *MY* voice does . with me ...... and if you can THINK OF TIME YOU MADE A REALLY GOOD DECISION it was this voice that guided you . I think it was Brother Xhodos who posted about his dream induction pattern. this voice of wisdom .. WITH ME.. Where to use it: Try it as a phone pattern . this voice of experience ... daydreams ..... there's a lot of key phrasing that it depends upon.. It doesn't matter what the answer is.. there is that one special place where all of that comes from... Follow up by saying you were having the most interesting conversation with your married friend.. or have you ever worked on something that really compelled you (point) to study it so the you wanted to take it all in as far as it would go? .

.. no restrictions .. undeniable ... just fantasies . a dream is a place where their are no rules ... real .... and the amazing enjoyment of something you realize you have to have.... demanding .... 68 ... to hear their voice and feel their presence from that spot .. excitement . it takes on a life of it's own .... with me . " (Ok.. compelling ..... so that no matter how much we may try to deny our desire to act . here's where you program the dreaming) I think it's the kind of thing to explore in a dream . now that you've set her up ...think of them in that special place ... as I think about it ..

The kinds of things you’d do if no one were watching and you wouldn’t even want your best friends to know you dream about and long for. I think its so interesting sometimes you don’t even know why you just want to go deep inside that place of fantasy. And then there’s the natural woman. To feel all those hidden parts and desires wake up hungry desiring alive ready realizing this is the moment the main chance right Now a chance to move in a new direction and the thing about new directions is its not enough to just ponder them instead you gotta reach out grab hold of them take them all the way in ride it join with it make it real right here Right Now. The two questions I like to ask myself are what is it about the way certain people affect us that causes us to Think Of This Person in that special place. That’s the one where you keep your most exciting memories where you ponder fantasies daydreams amazing possibilities. I added this next paragraph its from the Maui tape. The roles you have to play and maybe a relationship that really restricts you. I don’t give out my phone number. Do you think most men understand what women really want? I think most men don’t either But I’ve learned something that has helped me to begin to understand women. Listen they may talk here. And often times what happens because of the pressure society puts on us. The culturally programmed woman and then there’s the natural woman. feel this presence and see this face in that space in such a way that no matter how we try to deny our desire to act. I don’t kiss on the first date. The punctuation may (probably) be wrong. Where that voice inside says Yes. I don’t sleep with anyone until after the third date. It takes on a life of its own compelling powerful real. A person has to lock those parts away and keep them safe and yet they’re still there waiting to be released. Watch for anchor potential here.GEMINI PATTERN (99 LA VIDEO) This is a transcription from several sources. And the other question I ask myself is what would it be like for a person right now. to hear this voice. I want to step into that special place with this Special Person and explore anything we can make real together. The culturally programmed woman is the one the one with all the rules and roles. I think all sorts of things go deep inside yourself and you don’t even know why you can’t help yourself now I think its so interesting that how sometimes a person can just take a deep breath and go all the way down into that place of fantasy into that place where she can consider the person in front of here and she can wonder really wonder what is this person like who do they know in there life and what would it be like to be enjoying this person in all the ways you love to be enjoyed in all the ways two special people can enjoy each other and the interesting thing is how sometimes those thought take on a life of their own so even if your already with someone its like suddenly with them you see this persons face you imagine this 69 . I think inside every woman there are two women.

70 . You know you learn something at school and you forget instantaneously someone you meet makes no impression on you and yet in know its equally true that there’s a special place right next to the essence of who you are as a woman where you keep your most exciting memories where you ponder fantasies daydreams amazing possibilities and hypnosis is about asking the question how can you now go into that place and from that place open yourself up to something wonderful because you see _____ there are three kinds of people in this world there are the people who go for what they know they can get that’s the majority of people then there’s that very rare smaller segment of the population who go for what they really truly want and there’s the much rarer people there so rare there precious gems when you find them and those are the people who can open themselves to that place where anything can be possible because they can open themselves to experiences they never knew they were missing they never knew they were missing cause they never realized it could feel so amazing to open your mind to new thoughts open your heart to new feelings open your body to new sensations seduction is about a similar recognition but there’s an additional recognition there’s the recognition that sometimes because relationships were already in or just whatever is going on in our life our circumstances or conditions we’re forced to lock away to shut down and lock away certain parts of who we are and yet those parts are still there in those special places so seductions about asking a slightly different question its about asking the question what is it about the way certain people affect us that causes us to think of them in that special place to hear this voice and feel this presence in that spot in such a way that no mater how we try to deny our desire to act it takes on a life of its own compelling powerful real I think sometimes you don’t even know why that’s taking place I think sometimes all sorts of things go deep inside yourself and you don’t even know why you cant help yourself it could be anything that triggers it you know ____ it could be some unique feature of this persons face that rivets your attention as you just keep looking it could be gentle way they touch you it could be the way the deep rich warmth of their voice just warps itself around you pulling you into something that makes you feel so wonderful you begin to get certain ideas but you know its about another question the other question is what is it about the way a certain person touches us in that special place in that special way that we hunger to be touched exactly the way we long to be touched right there that can cause those parts those parts of us to wake up right now look out through our eyes hear with our ears and say in a loud voice on the inside oh my god I want this and that to me is what seduction is really about ______ Most of the kinds of communications that guys think will touch a woman in that special place in that special way instead go right into the trash.persons touch you hear the warmth of this persons amazing voice wrapping itself around you and you know that this person is who you want to be with. He treats you like one of his business deals. I’ll bet he’s a control freak. That’s right because he doesn’t know how to touch you in that special place. Back to the Maui tape The things that have no impact no value and you just don’t give a dam about you know you have a conversation with someone at a party it goes in one ear and right out the other.

There are different places in the mind there’s the place where you keep the things of least importance to you in one ear and out the other and then there are those places where you keep the things that are the most important to you as a woman where you keep your most exciting memories you ponder fantasies and daydreams amazing possibilities and what is it about the way certain people affect us that causes us to think of them in that special place In that special way we hunger we long to be touched that causes that special place to wake up right now Look out through our eyes hear with our ears and recognize that there’s this unbelievable opportunity such that we hear its voice saying so loudly oh my god I want this right now I think its so interesting sometimes you don’t even know why you just want to go deep inside that place of fantasy I think all sorts of things go deep inside yourself and you don’t even know why you can’t help yourself now I think its so interesting that how sometimes a person can just take a deep breath and go all the way down into that place of fantasy into that place where she can consider the person in front of here and she can wonder really wonder what is this person like who do they know in there life and what would it be like to be enjoying this person in all the ways you love to be enjoyed in all the ways two special people can enjoy each other and the interesting thing is how sometimes those thought take on a life of their own so even if your already with someone its like suddenly with them you see this persons face you imagine this persons touch you hear the warmth of this persons amazing voice wrapping itself around you and you know that this person is who you want to be with END MAUI 71 . That’s crying out to be touched in a way where she can come to the surface and you will blossom beyond being physically beautiful into something that’s ethereal beyond this world because that’s what you really want with the right man. What I love about poetry is that it touches us in that special place in the mind the place where you keep your most exciting memories where you ponder fantasies.What your boyfriend doesn’t realize is he looks at you and sees a beautiful babe but he doesn’t see the goddess inside that’s crying out to be released.

.. rotating . right . Then have it start moving again. The move and stop on her "heart" zone (Stop tracing it from this point... so you know what result you got and where you might need to take the sarge from this point! 72 ..... even though you think you might explode . to her wrist . with enjoyment.. at an angle. "And notice how that warmth seems to double .BISHOP’S WARMTH BUILDER Hold the babe's hand with her palm UP.. all that fulfillment. move your hand BY her crotch... in ..") Then swoop your hand BY her crotch. as it travels UP from her hand . here. invite her to notice how much warmer it became as it moved to this spot... Then move it down to her solar plexus (And here use EXACTLY this wording... Put your index finger in the center of her palm. up from that spot of warmth. and warmer ..came from .. Then tell her to imagine a shape (any shape she wants and she is not to tell you what shape she chooses ) ** Next tell her imagine that shape is sloooowly . because it's too blatant. and with each rotation .. (Your index finger will be tracing the movement) While it is stopped here. Then tell her to slooowly let that shape sink back down into the spot it rose from. "And just let all of this flow right out and through you. and more fulfilling.. at an angle.. Next tell her to feel the warmth. and it stops in that spot where the arm bends. as it might be too intrusive to her) Again inviting her to notice the growing warmth and fulfillment." Then poke her solar plexus to anchor it!) Then tell her to continue moving that incredibly warm and fulfilling shape down (and tell her something like... it gets warmer . (raise you index finger up to prompt her to raise her shape) Tell her it is floating . Instead. and warmer. and say.. "Continue this movement.. and over her right or left leg) And then SHUT UP and let the first words be out of HER mouth. Continue moving and stopping at her "charm" zone (that's the area where a charm on a necklace would be resting) Again invite her to notice how even warmer and more fulfilling it continues to get. riiising .... around ." (Make sure you do NOT stop your hand by her crotch.. this time travelling up and stopping on her shoulder. as if the core of all that warmth ... (you are still tracing the movement) Invite her to notice how that warmth is now even stronger . and tell her to focus on the warmth in that spot your finger is on.... maybe even triple in intensity ...

or I elicit some of her trance words in some other way. if it goes as designed. "I know if you had a choice." 73 .. or is an example of her imagination. is to introduce it AFTER deep rapport. and illicit some of her trance words. that's a great sign that she is having sensual thoughts with you in mind. So once I've built a little rapport. THAT will get her interested enough to give you three minutes to use the "Warmth Builder.. because it is a personal anchor for her. Keep in mind. then.** It's important that you DO NOT make her tell you what shape she chose. It's easy to lead into the "Warmth Builder" by saying something along the lines of. Remember. But that's not possible right now. and after I've either done a guided visualization. let me show you something really cool. soak in a hot tub for a half hour. I'll introduce it like. so let's do the next best thing. the good ones anyway) Because chances are her legs are tired and she's been getting "slammed" before you showed up." Dude. if AFTER you've done the "Warmth Builder" (and gotten a favorable result) she tells you what shape she chose. I feed them back their trance words. since we're obviously on the subject of things that bring her pleasure. because it becomes more personal when she does not have to share it. that shape is now her symbol for orgasmic pleasure. she tells you because she wants you to use the information!) WHEN DO YOU USE IT? It varies from babe to babe. you'd walk right out that door and get a nice manicure. The mere thought of that shape from this point on will give her pleasure. and then sleep until the week-end. My most successful uses of the "Warmth Builder" happens to be on quality servers (that what I call waitresses ." But the rule I follow. (It's like a woman showing you where her clit is. well. "Speaking of _______.

. "Do you want more?" She opened her eyes quickly...." (Notice I didn't actually answer her question) She said. "Now . my.I want you to ... Now. Mmm.. close your eyes again ." She took the "rose" from my hand. "Why is it I suddenly feel like a hypnotist's volunteer?" I replied... touch your tongue .. and ..... and it has nothing to do with chocolate.. isn't it?" She said..) Then I said." So I asked her.... "Yellow... that pleasing aroma .... wanna see just how powerful your imagination is?" She smiled back and joked... do you want some? " She licked her bottom lip. can you . "Slowly . because just as quickly .. as you .. "That would be nice.. "Now I want you to . "Perrrrrfect . nice. explosion of flavor .." I said. and begins to .. yeah." (Her breathing at this point had slowed down to match my speaking pace. that lollipop . open your mouth . as this treat . let this treat .... metamorphosis .BISHOP’S ROSE (Live Example) I smiled and said.... then whispered to me... to hold it ever so gently.” I laughed slightly then said.... becomes your favorite chocolate treat. your favorite color . "is there a hidden offer in that question?" I smiled and joked. I bet you can ." She said... becoming your favorite flavor lollipop.. see me holding a rose in this hand . and replied.. Now." I then said. imagine ... that first . Mmm.. You will have complete control over whatever it is you imagine. . "Because you are.. "Oh.... "Perrrrfect . do you?" 74 . from my hand . up to your nose .... I believe I'm getting quite excited..... "Are you really going to hypnotize me?" I said.... "Oh. and of course . take this yellow rose . it's yellow . I like chocolate though. "Lollipop? I don't have a favorite one of those. touches your tongue ... hold the rose up .." She said. let out a small laugh. of the rose . close your eyes . "Okay. "I'm going to join you in exploring your imagination. being careful .. "Ya' don't know.. and smell the wonderful scent .. slide down your throat. this is very nice indeed.." She laughed and asked. and . "What's your favorite color?" She replied.. "So." I said. Then I said...... imagine the wonderful .

the Conscious and Unconscious Minds. However. just this close!" Here is how to change this. I know that CONSCIOUSLY. etc. will be given to you?" Well. Middle and Low Self. The Unconscious connects up with the High Self(The High and Middle selves do NOT communicate directly). Decisions made at an ordinary level of conscious awareness seldom have much effect. Prayer. but more importantly. realize that according to the Hawaiian system of prayer called Huna. and decide what our reality will be. With ALL your exposure to the best technology and tools for change.. IF those leaps would run COUNTER to the "prayer" you sent up with full belief. properly done. how you thought . this is NOT what we set out to do.. Now. When we reach deep inside.. that is what most of us do. The Middle self(conscious) forms an image of what it wants..HUNA PRAYER HUNA PRAYER BRIEF GUIDE At some point. at a deeply powerful level of the mind. fulfilled.... function or effect than a powerfully offered PRAYER . a PRAYER to your Higher Self to create a reality that you would go through and experience. without doubt. even when given very powerful tools to work with and master. decisions made in an altered state of consciousness.. consists of this: 1. These correspond to the SuperConscious.. Do you remember what a Great Master once said about. it is in what state and what level of mind the decision is made and held that makes a difference in how it effects us and our lives. will happen" and happen it will. Many of us have "decided" lots of things and never actually wound up seeing any difference at all from these "decisions". Decisions alone are powerful. in your life. we have a High. without even knowing it. This is why many people never really change as much as they consciously want to. and then we can spend a lifetime "not quite getting there" and struggling with "almost’s" and "damn . 75 . That decision shaped what you could do . "this is what I believe. by the decisions we make at deep levels of consciousness . without doubt. you may well make incremental "progress" but quantum leaps won't take place. coming from the deep level of identity and deservingness are no different in form. it opens a channel to the "High Self" and says. etc. a DECISION about the kinds of results you deserved to have in an area or areas of your life. etc. what you could perceive and WHAT RESULTS THE UNIVERSE COULD BRING TO YOU. First. 2.. you made a DECISION. even if it doesn't lead us to being happy. and that is precisely the point. "Whatever you ask for in prayer. by themselves.

and see it sweeping it's golden light into you future .. a place where anything can be manfested and all possible realites are equally present.. Visualize a cord of light going from your solar plexus up to your High Self . 1 . "I now withdraw from contact... take four deep breaths and imagine blowing the breath back out through your lips as a golden stream of energy to the High Self... here is what you must do. removing the limiting decision and all the beliefs.. just like when you have remembered where you put your keys. "High self ... 2 . 76 . "Lower Self. Please take this limit and this decision from me with all the power I know you have .. Visualize the Gold Light of the High Self. 4. but at least 3 weeks .... The Unconscious sends the images formed by the Middle Self up to the High Self. 1 . We create our reality from a deeply held belief and DECISION. 3 ... 3 . my loving Parental Spirit" .. a sense of completion .. or something you have to do. MAGICIANS.. instead of by chance or accident! Now. along with the energy of deep breathing.. 1 Say. I'm sure you've heard this before. unwittingly. or when you remember a word that had been on the tip of your tongue. 2 ... attitudes. 3 . I ask that you begin to make contact with the High Self . Say. sweeping through your past time line.. As you do this. I know that you can do this for me and I trust now that you are healing me of this ... Say.. what's been missing is the mechanism to take control of the process and make it work FOR us at OUR will. Find a quiet place . I ask you now to help heal me of this earlier decision I had made that has been blocking my life. turn them upward about 30 degrees and count as follows ...... the physical realm". what this means is we are all. responses and behaviors that came from it ... of unlimited possibility .. and then uses the energy of your consciousness to make it real in THIS realm.. Get a click ... Brothers and sisters. The High Self makes manifest the thought form in it's own Higher Realm. on the ground... STEP into this circle.. I now send to you the energy of my breath to make this manifest and real in this. content my prayer is being granted. 2 . for as long as you feel you need to . Before you.. sit in meditation or even lay down .... Close the prayer sessions by saying. and feel a flow of love going from you to the High Self and back.. according to our desire. Let the rain of blessings flow" Do this once a day. "Thank you for granting my prayer . Close your eyes.... please remove this from me so that I can manifest the wishes of my heart in ways that are for the Highest good for myself and all those I will touch. visualize a circle of deservingness .3. Take four deep breaths and blow golden energy out through pursed lips up to your High Self......

and it surrenders to you. Soon you complete the task. and sent by someone unknown. Your fingers gently stroke the silky golden ribbon. A wave of pleasure fills your body as you literally FEEL it touching you. as you remove it slowly from the package. and that your excitement over the gift's contents. searching for the best place to begin peeling it off. To your surprise. and you have yet to open this gift from a stranger. Delicately you peel off the golden ribbon. You wonder what this texture would feel like around your body.. You notice that your breathing has gotten heavier. A gift that is both out of the blue. Then you take hold of another corner. and find that it releases itself to you willingly. allowing you to gaze upon your gift. and made to embrace the gift that lay beneath it. you look at the gift and it's intricate wrappings. you are certain that it is indeed ivory that you are touching. The velvety red paper feels good to the touch. then begin to unwrap the gift. 77 ..STORIES / POETRY A WARM FUZZY (BISHOP’S VERSION) You awake to find a gift waiting for you. You run your fingers across the paper. You gently give one end a slight pull. Soon. Running a hand over the velvety red paper again. Your eyes look anxiously. the velvety red paper has been removed. happy to have not torn the beautiful ribbon. at the milky white box that lays before you. is increasing. making sure not to damage it in any way. Instead it has been carefully tucked and folded. Though the box is not at all heavy. Your fingers run across the smooth texture. and the golden bow that adorns it is pleasing to your eyes. and you find yourself smiling. Soon you become aware that it has been almost a half hour. and it feels like a perfectly carved piece of ivory. you take in a deep breath . Your fingers play with the golden bow for a moment. Minutes pass while you are enjoying this special gift given to you. Cautiously. and you feel a warmth fill your body. You again run your hand over the velvety red paper. the paper has not been taped at all.

You reach down.. Your neck.. Finally. Your eager fingers grasp the box. relaxing. You wonder what this could possibly be. In fact. Invigorated. only to change its shape a moment later. the light feels quite . 78 . and brings another smile to your face. A perfect hue of that one color you enjoy the most. and slowly open it up. you gaze inside the ivory box. you can take it no longer. until.. As you remove the top. Your stomach. but not so bright as to hurt your eyes. The scent of vanilla kisses your nose. Weightless . Images dance inside your head. Your chest. down. yet is not solid at all. The brilliant light that fills the room. You sit for several moments. imagining what might be inside. It feels so wonderful. And farther. you pull out a most curious object. a brilliant light fills the room. uncertain of what you are seeing. and smell the box. As another wave of pleasure fills your body. You feel the tingle begin to run down your arm. it. reaches. only seems to intensify as you look inside the box. Then it reaches your shoulders. begins to tingle. The hand that is holding the amazing object. Reaching a hand inside. Your face.. thoughts of what might be waiting inside the ivory box. Your stare fascinated at this object. running a hand over the box. You feel as if you might actually be floating at this moment.. and how it came to be given to you.. The object slowly turns into your most favorite color. It appears to be shaped like a crystal ball. your. Content .

toes. You feel an energy within your entire body. An ecstasy like you have never known before. You feel as though you are bursting with raw energy. The feeling is incredible to you, and you wish it to never end. Your passionate eyes gaze once more inside the ivory box. Inside you notice a small, handwritten card. Perhaps now you will find out who has given you this incredibly satisfying gift. With eager fingers, you reach inside and pick up the card. It simply reads: <Her Name> You are the recipient of a Warm Fuzzy. May it fill your days with unrivaled pleasure, and your nights with incredible dreams. Signed <Your Name>

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A WARM FUZZY (ROSS’S VERSION) You stir from a wonderful dream, And are surprised to find a gift awaiting you as you awaken, The package is elegantly wrapped in velvety and a golden bow atop of it You run your hands along the soft, smooth wrappings A pleasant warmth begins to fill you You let out a pleased laugh and continue to caress the wrapping Next you run a finger over the golden bow, noticing its firm texture, You let out another laugh as you realize that the soft gentle wrapping and strong firm bow, are like a perfect couple Both have their own unique abilities, yet complement each other, perfectly A tingle of pleasure runs through you as you relish your delight at this thought You enjoy the pleasured thoughts for several moments, allowing yourself this time of personal enjoyment and escape. Then you slowly begin to unwrap the gift. You’re careful not to tear the wrapping As you peal it back slowly, exposing what lays underneath Then you gently pull away the golden bow and set it off to the side Now, exposed, you see that a perfectly white, ivory smooth box lays before you Running a hand over it, you feel it’s cool, smooth, texture Suddenly a light shoots forth from the box, filling the room with a brilliant display of your favorite color. A pleasure beyond your imagination comes over you A feeling of pure ecstasy You feel the rush of warmth flood through you, over and over again. Several moments pass before you can even open your eyes. Yet when you do, a card can be seen within the box You reach in, bite the side of your lip as you open the card It simply reads <HER NAME> You have been given the gift of a warm fuzzy. May it fill your days with lovely thoughts and prime your nights for incredible dreams Signed <Your Name>

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ANGEL LOVER I I came upon a woman in a state of arousal, And wondered how she might feel with an open mind, If she came upon someone naked, And thought about the man sitting in the chair: I have seen you with beautiful eyes, Entered that house with a strange feeling, Spoken to the woman with great self-confidence, Yet spoken to her as a child: Then dreamed I had an angel in my bed, An angel who had worn shoes on her feet, With hair askew to explain why, I touched this woman with a good feeling, I know that you can see me as a friend, Imagine me with a warm smile, And see me as a lover. (c) Dan Scorpio 1999 Be SILENT after the last line.

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And wondered how she might feel. And imagined someone sitting quietly. With hair askew to explain why. I know that you can see me as a friend.ANGEL LOVER II I have seen you with beautiful eyes. If she came upon someone naked. I touched this woman with a good feeling. And see me as a lover. With an open mind. (c) Dan Scorpio 1999 82 . Imagine me with a warm smile. An angel who had worn shoes on her feet. I met a woman in a state of arousal. Yet spoken to her as a child: Then dreamed I had an angel in my bed. Spoken to the woman with great self-confidence. Entered that house with a strange feeling.

and can simply wait no more. And notice just how good it tastes. Take a nibble.BLUEBERRIES The power of a blueberry. but make it very small and you'll taste the nectar of this satisfying ball. If you take the time to focus. Down your throat you feel it go. just do that for awhile. and underneath the skin. suck out all the juice it gives. where adventure can begin. and suck it slow. Now slip it all into your mouth. and just feel it there. but do not bite it yet. like nothing can compare. Tasting it upon your tongue. just a bite. Now isn't that the nicest thing. hasn't happened yet. inside your mouth. For the greatest gift is has for you. Close your eyes. That beneath it's soothing color. you ever had to eat? 83 . tangy treat. Roll it around. and let the nectar pour. making sure to smile. a tasty. I'm sure you will agree. is not so fast to see. Once you have done all this. lay something quite exciting.

that you hardly move. Music fills your ever space.THE DIAMOND DRAGON As you lay upon your bed. "What was that for. every groove. two "Hmms" then an "Ah!" He studies every finger. an angel must be you. he holds it in his claw Then he makes some "Oh. your body floats. And since I am not at all blind. no he. instead you rub his chest Then you let passion take over. He talks of fiery adventure. unsure of what to do. You get all caught up in it. and says with an impressed grin "You have a nice unique aura. Finally Goo looks up at you. this truly magic scene. "Hey there. to some idiot last week. you have the urge to play. which absolutely no one knows. no her. and he must be kidding you. flying like a bird And listening to the sweetest sound. To the right are wild horses. you look at Goo with lust He seems so very tuned into you. so vast and perfect blue. and you drift away. a nice big diamond dragon. and that time you kissed that geek And of that funny thing you did. But then you stop and ask yourself. you know you've ever heard. No you. Then suddenly you gasp in air. "Let me see your hand. and explode out happily. waves your fear away And now instead of fighting. no beginning and no end No him. doing what they do And to the left a glistening lake. you reach on over and give Goo a big kiss He looks at you with surprise and asks. And before you even know it. Rainbows seem to dance about. You gasp in complete pleasure. and think about your day Your eyes then close. Then Goo says with a sly grin. every digit. in all of this fair land. all over his clear frame And with tiny smirk you ask. Soon you are up in the clouds. Flying up ever so high. you see large fields of green No word can express this sight. and higher yet again You greet your massive playmate. have him. Miss?" You reply not a word to him. your attention to him grow. For reasons you can not explain. From underneath the fluffy clouds. as a shadow covers you At first you start to panic. though you've heard it all before And you hope this dashing dragon will not become a bore. yes." You at first think it a joke. an adventure did begin. where shall I begin?" He tells you of your little habits. preparing now to fight. and let it do the rest. he moans in sensual glee Then all at once you both stop time. just one erotic blend. "What if it is true?" Lady-like you give your hand. but you may call me Goo. you must! Without a word. ho!" sounds. you glance a massive sight And summon up all your courage. 84 . and touches you within And you know without a doubt. Turning your hear up to the sky. Two beings soon become like one. what's YOUR name?" "I was born to the name Googlemon. For I am the greatest aura reader. But then something deep inside of you." You smile at this compliment.

What happened next you are not sure. you'll always have this rhyme 85 . it got hazy at this time But you know for ever more.

Just one direction? People sometimes ask... I know...... ME . you know? As the warmth of that voice takes on a glow Spreading and pulsing where you want it to go I will tell you all you desire .. "Please .. umm so magic being spun by the sound of a voice whose rich warmth was spreading on down Have you ever experienced INSTANEOUS CONNECTION? To the point where your thoughts moved in mmmm ..FASCINATION: BY ROSS JEFFRIES Have you ever been fascinated by someone who's words just seemed to PENETRATE you? You FIND YOURSELF LOOKING and you can't look away and the more that you try the more that GAZE STAYS RIVETED HERE where you want it to be cause you know that there's something you just have to see As you LISTEN SO CLOSE and you START TO WONDER what would it feel like to be FALLING UNDER A spell. 86 . just a kiss!" Funny how you find yourself WISHING THE SAME WISH Your mind is amazing when you really LET IT GO As you FIND YOURSELF PICTURING mmm .

You step out of what was Invited. slipped inside Feels like warm rain Between your sighs And it's not important that you find every inhibition is left far behind As you recall how it feels To be SO IN LOVE And you SEE THAT IMAGE of us (point to it) Up above You see at last who you've finally found what you've looked for and longed for has finally COME round 87 .

she came into a glade All sunny warmth. A potent wizard schooled in ancient lore Who might transform her so men'd pound her door. the time it passed quite quick Past fields and valleys. 'til everything was set She said farewells and in the morning went Towards the rising sun to where her quest Led her. Which she would open to that special man She felt excitement as she made her plan: I'll climb at once up to the highest peak Where wizard did erect his tall stone keep. So sure was she. 88 . She packed her things. But then one day she hatched herself a plan. which rose up to the sky Her mind was set to climb upon that height. There was a woman dwelling in this place Who knew she lacked in beauty and in grace. she put on heavy clothes To mask her form complete from head to toes. eyes were ever fixed Upon her goal. Then late one day. To fill a pool surrounded by foxglove. She traveled long. where her life would change for the best. but near Where days were warm with sunny skies so clear. And so she thought it was her lot in life To live alone and never be a wife. a stunning bright cascade Of water pouring down from rocks above. 'Tis there I'll travel now to plead my case To beg him please to change my curséd face.HER JOURNEY Her Journey It was a long long time ago. To travel far to find herself this man. Her journey thus had been one long and hot So bathing in this pool was all she thought. She'd shy away from all the men she'd see Embarrassed that they'd spy her and would flee.

If worthy were their thoughts. but knew This could not do. His grasp It reached out from his keep. she gasped: His touch she felt it deep within. She dressed and quickly flew Along the path which led up to that peak. on which he pass'd his time. Her glade she knew was in his land And so the mountain grew quite close at hand. why they'd seek to climb His mountain tall. it warmed her deep inside Relaxed she gave a long contented sigh. The wizard's power caught Attempts to reach his fortress. tall stone keep. To find she did enjoy the sun's caress Upon her skin. At last she felt the grass beneath her feet And halted by the pool awhile to feel The sun upon her skin. She slowly slipped into the frothy swirl. The wizard would assault your every sense With perfect pleasure felt in every pore 89 . You had this trial to pass to reach your goal: It was in truth the most unique defense. then perhaps he'd let them have their wish. She wished to steal another perfect moment here. She felt so perfect now she felt as if she'd melt Away into this blissful moment's heat. then curled Around to wrap her thighs and hips. It wet her feet and ankles too. to prove Resolve. This test was one that most did loose For though the wizard would not hurt a soul. She kept her pace to reach it ere the week Was gone. And probed the minds of all who tried this feat To know their reasons. But first there was a trial to pass. And now 'twas time to climb that peak. why to seek this Aid.Her modest nature bade her check all sides To know her glade was safe from prying eyes And then in comfort safe she did undress. to probe her thoughts He knew her deep.

Towards that tall red keep which stood in sight: That highest peak which she in pleasure climbed. she'd made the trip at last. and yet She still climbed up and up the mountainside. She raised her hand to touch the waiting doors They opened first. So now 'twas time to go inside and ask To grant that favor which she wanted so She could not wait. if yes she had to know.But magnified a thousand times or more. to enter was her fate. 90 . In wave and wave it throbbed inside. She came at last up to that keep which shined Her breathing slowed. It mounted higher with her every step.

It’s a gentle wind. A warmth begins to fill my body. a comfortable air. our pleasure. my cheek. and seems to envelope my body. to this pleasured moment in time. my lips. I listen from my vantage point. and higher. The fingers of the wind embrace my shoulders. and more. Now the warmth within me grows stronger. and plays a song for only me. I no longer feel my feet on solid ground. 91 . it has been replaced by the wind through my toes. The wind and the warmth embrace me. a soothing breeze. My pleasure. The thinning purple clouds. holding me close. and this is one of the most fulfilling. A loving brush across my brow. I feel the fingers rub down my arms. and can hear the music of the sea. Nothing can be put into words. submitting to this pleasure. then my neck. The warmth within brings tranquillity. as they dance upon the waters of the ocean. It’s now as if I feel fingers. Feelings of surrender. Conforming. more. only emotions exist now. and I feel safe. as if soaring above the ground. from within. That warmth increases. single. joining together like lovers. The warmth and the wind. The water hits the rocky shore. embracing. as I feel my body float. and I feel the rising begin. Passion comes in many forms. then my eyes. caressing the features of my face. from deep inside. and the warmth rush up my spine. It’s as if I were about to fly. detail. stretching out along a darkening sky. and focus on every detail of this moment. and without. relaxing with each new breath. Up. I let out a pleasured breath.THE JOURNEY I admire the colors of a setting sun. and alive. where my soul resides. higher. Every. I close my eyes and breathe in deep.

I now sit alongside a beautiful angel. And time has been neither dragging. and through me. The liquid of reality washes over me. searching for an understanding that does not come right away. 92 . and realize that I have been brought to you. A smile forms across my face. For while I began this journey standing upon the shore of the sea. It spreads out before me. and am taken in a new direction. I slowly open my eyes. and a moan of approval slips through my lips. eager to know where I have been taken. and I suck in a breath of anticipation.Though my eyes remain closed.magnificent…. I feel no gravity. My mind races. The fingers of the wind now touch me lower. and brings its own gifts. but instead merely flowing. caresses me. nor speeding. Where the night was once dark. The initial sting now replaced by utter ecstasy. deeper. It joins with the wind and the warmth. I can feel night upon me now. inside me. and with more intent. brightness now bursts forth. like silky satin sheets. cradles me. The satin of the night blankets me. And in one….moment. The warmth is now below me.

And by wanting to feel this way.THE KEY As the last shine of daylight slips away beyond the sea.... I would . want you. You are controlling me. right .. so I can leave this feeling. and where will I be? And what is your place in all of that? You who’s voice wraps around me like a silk robe.. I do not like this feeling of being controlled by you. it is it! The sparkle of the now visible stars reflect in my eyes.. I don’t know what it is called. Ah.. I would .. because it can not be real. I have never felt it before. You who’s eyes give a preview of adventures to come. the stars . warming me like no other has done before you. and imagine you here. I would . there.. Where have I been. here. Here. is my first impulse. with me. And I feel your touch. Yes. Throw away your image from my mind... It arouses me... 93 . My body fills with sensations known and unknown. of course. I close my eyes. as I think of you . because it has never been this way for me. It warms me. and of me . where am I at. isn’t it? Yes. How dare you do this to me! How dare you invade my waking thought... that’s it. right? Because if you are not controlling me. us. another reminder of you. I feel your presence right .. It can not be real. let it happen again.. I must . and my sleeping world... You who’s very essense is all around and through me. I ponder the thoughts that dance through my mind.. Why did you choose me? Why? If only I could turn back the clock. Deny it. that means I want to feel this way.. Deny it all. and of . This feeling of ..

94 . because of my fears. Every part of my body sings like a thousand angels. You have given me the key. and find that my hand has cupped your face. And in the distance. I take in a deep breath . My fears of the past. You have shown me a door to a room that I have seen before. I realize something.... The choice to hand back the key... and experience . I turn it . I see what must be heaven. and the choice. Everywhere around me is bathed in the most soothing light. I slip the key inside .. something beyond my own expectations. I reach out to touch it. And as my breathing grows rapid. and my body surrenders to your touch.Sensations that are incredible satisfying ... and of what I thought I wanted. there I’ve said it. and find out everything. and never look back.. Or to use the key.. I realize that I almost lost you.

shallower. Your wisps of arching flame Your luminous being Joining with mine In an ecstasy of fusion As hot as our first kiss.KISS My angel of the half-light Undulating swoon of curving grace What passes through your mind As you sway. into the darkness of penumbra And into the light of you -. 95 . hotter with every motion Every breath making it glow With the heat of a thousand suns? And as your breathing speeds -Faster. and sway again To the torrid rhythm of pulsing air? Do you feel the purple song Entering your ears and rushing on down To course through your whole body? Does the glowing red sphere at your core Grow larger. breath of fire -Does your chest tingle and sweat And ache for the caress That lifts you higher. higher and higher still To where every cell of you can come To an explosion of light and flame Tingle of neck. sway.your sun. arch of back Electric waves moving back and forth And back again.

take hold of my hand. me upon you. and upon the clouds we sit. 96 . my lovely. our wings spread wide. words never spoken. for we have begun the lovers dance. we embrace with just one thought that we have entered the garden. so we dance without a care and all that you have dreamed.THE LOVER'S DANCE 1 come with me. higher we soar. shines brightly into reality then once we are done. and our passions laid bare. looking over our kingdom below. yet images abound. with each heated breath. time does not hold us here. and planted a tree. as we start the lovers dance. and rise up with me.

to travel . and explore..... of our bodies .. an animalistic gleam in your eyes.. I reach around and cup you . You create the rhythm . laying me on my back . you reach around . preparing to pounce. I thrust my tongue between your parted lips.... and we share a passionate kiss.. we become even more animalistic. you wrap your arms around me. and return once again to our shared bath. as we seem to float . With not a single word spoken.. I pull you down . the nakedness . The passion continues to intensify .THE LOVER'S DANCE 2: TO THE GARDEN ONCE MORE As I lay down inside the warm water of a soothing bath. and taking the upper spot . up ... This passion we have created . as we begin our Lover's Dance anew. to face the wall. series of motions... there is little water left inside the tub.. By the time we both . You turn me over.. and onto the bed. and I rub your wet hair across my face. Back to the garden we have gone ... We take our time exiting. while I linger down..... Watching me like a cat . My muscles twitch in nervous excitement . I gently bite your neck. but we refuse to relent.. then again ... There are no words to be said. and let me taste. back. deep within you .. as you apply the pressure from your nails in my back... keeping our connection ... out of the room ... 97 . surrendering .. in this moment ... let out a pleased moan. The wetness ... never disconnecting... The Lover's Dance continues...... you put your hands into the water .. in one fluid motion.. taking in the passion.... dripping wet . and ... and you grab my shoulders. I carry you . You tease my mouth with fleeting contact from your chest . and the room spins... your mind will concoct deep inside you. then . as we work . The Dance lasts for several more moments . I cannot budge. You kiss my chest.. take a hold of me .. the wall.. I thrust my head back in pleasure .. and accept my release. Returning to meet you... You continue up .. purring seductively . Our motions intensify... another tree to plant.. Our bodies blend into one.... flying off of the bed and onto the floor. You leap from your hiding place.. You shudder with an explosion .. the balcony seat. a hard ..... you have me pinned. along . and I become aroused. As I share a deep thought in each others eyes...... instinct and primal desire make the decisions.. Then you disconnect . and again. long ... I feel the rush of your next release .. ourselves .. feeling those muscles relaxing .. You guide the object of your desire to where you want it .. is beyond words ... The Dance of Lover's.. Landing with a splash. I sense you watching me. release .... we have learned it well together. and accept it all.. is like slippery silk.... beyond anything . I turn you around .... Our legs tighten in fatigue . You grab my head and grip my hair between your fingers.... then under me ..

The night will give way to day . our Lover's Dance continues. and our next Dance will begin... unite as one.. We will never know for sure .We share in our gifts to each other. the twin beats of our hearts ... and when we were not. Within that sleep ... Laying together.. of our heated bodies. in the warmth ..... for a moment . we take pleasure ... when we were dreaming . and we will sleep...... Soon. And as we listen closely .. as we once again fall onto the bed. 98 . the relaxing wind will put us in slumber .

It was at this time she realized what had been going on this whole time. exactly the same color as the glow throughout the cave. the cave was dark and covered with yucky stuff. was what would truly make her happy.. and came upon an underwater cave. to her shoulders) all through her body. "What do you see?" The mermaid looked the blowfish with confusion and replied. She noticed that her breathing was growing more rapid. "What do I see? I see a cave. bright . the peak of personal awareness-the very fiber of what had been missing in her life up to this point. allowing herself to fully enjoy not only the feelings she was having right now..... The mermaid began to GET VERY FASCINATED by what was happening.. And just like THAT (snap fingers) she was back inside the cave. so she only got a glimpse of what could have been hers.. she had never know this kind of pleasure before.." The blowfish smiled and said. bright .. But what the blowfish gave her a taste of. Feelings of untold pleasure filled her from deep down inside. because your mind must make sense of what is around you. What she had thought she wanted when she entered the cave. with beautiful markings and soothing lights. (Run fingers up from her wrist.. But the more she began to FOCUS ON THESE FEATURES (self point) the more she was pleased with what she saw. To the point where she was able to FEEL VERY EXCITED ABOUT BEING HERE. She had been fulfilled.. she began to HEAR THIS VOICE inside her mind. Her own permission. great.. almost as if the cave had begun to BREATH VERY SLOWLY. revealed some nice features she hadn't noticed at first. As the mermaid continued on her exploration. and spread . you're one of those new age fishes... and slowly fading from bright. she began to FEEL A WARMTH enter her body . growing . here. soothing glow was filling the cave. but to continue to ENJOY THIS all the way to it's conclusion. she realized what the height of true utopia really feels like. And somehow she knew. Something . And as it began to grow more strongly inside her. Slowly . The glow was gone. personified itself to her. the blowfish exploded into a growing . "What makes you think I'm a fish at all?" And with that..THE MERMAID AND THE BLOWFISH One day a mermaid was swimming near a beautiful island cove." The blowfish smiled and asked. The rush of total satisfaction . right ... to dim ... in .. to dim... As she entered the cave she noticed a nice.. she failed to see what true benefits could be had with the blowfish (self point). to dim.. and for the first time she realized . Because while she now knew what would truly make her happy.. she began to notice that there were exquisite markings all over the cave walls... Suddenly a blowfish appeared and asked. Without even understanding how. And the way the light was hitting these markings." The mermaid rolled her eyes and said. She had always thought she had experienced true pleasure in her life. that is what you think you see. deliciously . Being the adventurous type.(touch her solar plexus) And that warmth began to grow (extend fingers out in front of her solar plexus) . she began to feel something happening from within her. she decided to check it out. that THIS VOICE is the voice of permission. "No. but also left lacking. wonderful. A glow that was in the hue of her favorite color. and was matched perfectly by the throbbing pulse of the glow within the cave. but after this. ball of light. "Oh.. 99 ... and the blowfish (self point) was gone.

and the faint sound of the ocean's melody against the shore. breath . at least it appeared that way. refreshing . silky stem of a flower.. healthy grass of the hills... It was a ladybug. From waaaay up here. After all." Said the grasshopper with excitement. to . "How many different colors do you have on your wings?" The butterfly said.PONDERING THE INNERMOST THOUGHTS OF A BUTTERFLY Today a new adventure begins. "Thank you all.. the blades of grass looked miles away. "There's green. the butterfly said to herself "Look at the opportunities right in front of you. that first . yeah. and your mind. and began. deep . I just today became a butterfly. again . and began the new adventure that awaited her. enjoy this . the butterfly lifted up off of the tree branch.. "Mmmm... so I'm gonna go for it........ and were only outdone by the lush green grass of the far reaching hills.. and could see a beautiful assortment of flowers just up ahead. and began to imagine how good this treat will be. That is the thought. "Hi. Suddenly. No longer the caterpillar that was unfulfilled in her life. still cast the coolness of a deep shade on the hills. And what a perfect day for this exciting new adventure to begin. this will be so niiiiiice. and enjoyed the rewards in front of her.. I've earned something as good as this. And Just beyond the mountain range. very colorful. ahhhhhh. then exhaled . contact. exciting ." And a smile formed on the butterfly's face... and again.... her eyes closed and smile on her face. Onward she flew. and the colors that they have. HIGHER . Higher . feel . I deserve to enjoy this. this new butterfly took in a long . loaded with all kinds of good things just right for a butterfly. the innermost thought. and a grasshopper. and thought. an awe inspiring ocean flickered and glinted the sun's rays upon its surface. Mmm. and they had just arrived.. I love my new wings.... The majestic mountains in the distance." "I think it looks like the long... 100 . your ears. adding a brightness to an already bright day... we haven't met. The butterfly opened her eyes just a moment. and it was all hers if she acted quickly enough. Then she began to imagine . it can make every single day seem glorious... The sky is the most glorious ever. She landed on the flowers with the gentleness of a graceful feather.. which looks like the lush. She began to imagine . yeah. The trees were alive with rich green leaves." "They sure are!" Came two voices from behind. that felt gooooood. she flew. Looking around her environment. shall we?" Then she spread out her wings. and again . in fact." The ladybug asked. "Those are very impressive wings.. as she could feel the soft embrace of the wind.. let's take them one at a time. When you have something truly exciting to look forward to. of the butterfly who has awakened from her cocoon slumber. Birds could be heard chirping in the distance. and to hear all those magical sounds. filled with countless possibilities. something this good would not stay free for long." The bee looked at the butterfly's wings and said.. higher . The butterfly sat on a tree branch to take a moment and see all these wonderful images clearly. made the scene a treat for your eyes. With a soft flutter. with the reds and yellows of wild flowers here and there.. how it would . "Well.. holding in that wonderful feeling . "No." The butterfly closed her eyes again. I haven't seen you around here before have l?" She replied. a bee flew next to her and pleasantly asked. and then someone else would be enjoying it instead of her. Mmm. She let out a pleased moan.. The butterfly smiled and said.

." Said the grasshopper. it's like the fluffy clouds up in the sky. the butterfly thought to herself "Wow. After taking a moment to enjoy the imagined treat. When a babe inquires. which were hung over a farmer's wooden fence. that it's not finished yet. there's red. it's like the sweet. keep in mind that there is no real conclusion to this story. and then see just how curious she has beCUM to learn more. the ladybug gave her input. was beyond her imagination. white. "Then there's yellow... the sensations .. and began to imagine . " said the bee. that sweet .. " Not to be left out." They all enjoyed playing this fun game.. golden. it's like the red of beautiful rose when it reaches full bloom. It's just a tool to capture her imagination. "And to me." The grasshopper said with a smile. And this red reminds me of a big. to taste that ." said the bee. "Well. "That's a good one." The ladybug laughed." They all smiled." Said the grasshopper happily. the butterfly said. makes your . "And then I have white on my wings. right ." said the bee." Offered the grasshopper.." Next.) 101 ..." Said the bee. I wonder what else there is to enjoy on this adventure? " And what the butterfly experienced next. which reminds me of a soft. "To me. "Ooh. what it would be like .. of tasting . "Well.. "That green color makes me think of the juicy growing tomatoes in the garden of a farm.. " The ladybug said.. comfortable pillow. "To me." "I think it looks like a sparkling sapphire. Never before had she thought such a wonderful adventure could be hers. the yellow color reminds me of ripe ears of a corn cobs." "I think it looks like the red of a beautiful Cardinal bird. kitten. so the butterfly moved on to the next color on her wings. now. treat . it looks like the bountiful leaves on a mighty oak tree.." Next the butterfly said. sweet."Hmm. "And to me. "Ooh. "Very nice." Said the bee. lollipop.. it's like the freshest morning sky of a spring day. Mmm . like the color of a furry. Then I send them another story/poem/SS laced e-mail. mouths ." "I think it looks like the white of an abundant cotton field. which looks like the cool. water." And the ladybug said. lead her into some very descriptive directions. "To me. warm glow like a sunrise. I tell them the truth. this is a wonderful experience." "I think it looks like the yellow of a dandelion. "That color red reminds me of a big. "That blue color reminds me of a pair of jeans I landed on.. "Then there is blue. soothing color of a gentle lake. juicy apple. which has the rich.... tasty honey me and my brothers make. gentle. sticky. "And finally.." Then the ladybug said.. TO BE CONTINUED (Brothers." And then the butterfly said..

The thought that perhaps the deep. unyielding earth. all over my face. And the brightness of this passion flashes for all to see. and stare up into the sky. That instead. I slowly open my eyes. of a lover's kiss.. they are simple . are not in battle at all. I take in a sudden breath. a thought enters my mind. to find my lover gone. I want to remain just like this . The coppery scent of what is to come. My face is touched again.. I close my eyes. In the distance I can see the fast coming darkness of storm clouds. And then . The feeling is like a touch. as I take in this moment of desire. but now more frequently. 102 .. but ever so brief. I see that the storm clouds have moved east. making love. But.. and look out at the glorious view. A touch as if from a lover.. forever.THE RAIN OF DESIRE I sit atop my mountain perch. as if warning me that the battle is near. And soon. Then my lips feel the wetness .. And just as soon.. the crackle of lightning illuminates that which is all around me. just as quickly as it began . it becomes more like a caress . The wind blows strong against my face. A smile forms across my face. brings a smile to my face. clouds. my lover has stopped. A low sound of thunder. as if from a lover's fingers. A thunderous sound of passion echoes through the valley. and a slight flash of lightning tickle my senses. Soon. I feel my lover upon my neck.. The wind blows through my hair. Soon the clouds powerful attack on the unyielding earth will be upon me. and the strong. Sitting up. the low sound of thunder grows louder. and a warmth begins to grow inside. as I feel my lover all around me.. The battle between the clouds and the earth rages elsewhere now. I lay down on the smooth rocks that is my vantage point.... then . powerful. as I ponder this thought. My heart races.. as the first drop of rain pelts my face..

or did I just feel my lover's fingers on my chest.RED SATIN I sit upon the rocks. or shall I stay like this . as a touch upon my neck is like a sensual kiss. The warmth within begins to build. and feeling the warm wind across my face. and enjoy the moment. Is it my imagination. Dare I open my eyes. It feels nice across my skin. Suddenly the warmth upon my face seems to fill me from within. I breathe in deep. like a lover's touch. forever? 103 ... and I let out a pleased moan. I close my eyes. red satin. The touch of satin. watching the sunlight dance upon the ocean.

and still in awe ... As if . he's just about to come.. like before.. you fill with wonder . You hear a knock upon your door.. to take your hand. you'd known him all your life.. 104 . you liked him even then. You stop .. you're safe and warm with him. you know ...... Remember when . just right.. that perfect night. you feel so closely to this man... and delight... to take you .. right now . Exciting feelings build within.. you savor how. and .... you know that everything's .."REMEMBER WHEN" Do you recall . You know ... feel your heart race . who's here .... and think of years from now. for a night of fun... you first met him? You knew .

will release a sprinkle of golden dust from her fluttering wings..THE RUBY BUTTERFLY Below the bluest sky with its wisp of cotton clouds. uttered by the butterfly. Glowing brighter . is a colorful . Her wings will flutter faster with each perfect touch.. and brighter ... A warmth will begin to grow.. this.. Faster .. which interlock like nature in dance. and watch them turn a beautiful ruby red. start .. Nothing else can describe it .. Soon all that you are . You hear the echo of a single word.. To unlock this secret. magical . wonderful.. A gentle . with only you and she inside... lay a secret that very few have ever known.. one must touch her in just the right way... of something . A caress here ... The very peak of absolute pleasure is reached .. single . flower. magic happens.. caress. To most everyone she is a sight to behold.... A beautiful . This golden dust will form a glowing globe. like .. just right. which sounds like angels laughing joyfully.. Through the trees you can hear a waterfall.. At the foot of the waterfall. and even brighter. glowing.. A warmth of satisfaction .. 105 . a stroke there .... and fewer still have ever seen. caring .. and faster.. This is where . but she must be handled carefully. next to the rocks. Beyond the field stand many trees.. and faster .... that they actually . and in you.. is bathed in this flood of pure enjoyment. just .. Her ruby wings will flutter so fast. both in her . lay a massive field of lush green.. because the words have not been discovered yet....... then you are sent flying beyond even that.. Touch her wings . Upon that flower sits a butterfly... all that she is . Because beyond her obvious beauty. butterfly. down her back..

and fulfilling. how curious are you to find out? Make sure to send this in an e-mail. "Can you FEEL THAT (anchor her wrist) to something worth indulging in?" 106 . have her call you.. "The secret word is .... to release..." If you happen to have her sitting there with you. When she asks you for the secret word.. everything allowed. and amazing . Permission... this luxury . Then. say. and have her read you the story. wonderful . Allow yourself this pleasure ....One word that causes this voice inside you to respond . can you hear it? If not .... once she's done. you deserve it ........ end with. so just go for it.. One word that makes everything safe . step outside of what you know... Shhh .. or you call her. and into something . Permission to step outside the confines of your day . listen .

That is. The sapphire flower is so delicate and fragile. The mild ocean current gives the illusion that the flower is dancing. Perhaps it is. that it can never be touched. private. A dance not just through the physical. It's said that when certain lovers meet for the first time. Perhaps the reality is. except for the lovers that it bloomed for. and so intoxicating. that the lovers get lost in a dance. but through the mind.THE SAPPHIRE FLOWER Ancient legend tells of a once in a lifetime love that is so deep and pure. People have said that such a flower is fantasy. the faint tone of music can be heard. Legend contends that when the lovers gaze upon the sapphire flower. and the love that they share is untainted. and its stem is strong. A slow. It isn't meant to. and that it does not really exist. and the soul. that somewhere deep. grows a flower of sapphire. Its petals are like silk. So soothing is the music. that an incredible event occurs. in the bluest of the ocean. dance. 107 . it does not exist for them.

..STAR OF BISHOP Bishop’s Note: Here is a story I wrote not that long ago. begin to ... feel an amazing connection with this person . seeing the stars... everything we did. as bright ... as a soft ..... flicker.. but that the star . I have included where.... thoughts .. if you were to . which I use to get a HB feeling an incredible connection. this voice goes inside of you .. must have been . even the jaded catalog model. a star begins to shine. and because she may start talking. so she can have an uninterrupted moment to feel those wonderful feelings. and give my blessing to make it your own! Bishop There were ancient philosophers .. a combined result .. and lived. that star will . true romantics as well.... and all 4 had a positive reaction to it. feel this (anchored with me tapping my finger on her wrist) growing connection . So when you . with me. and her positive feelings.. and serves to remind you . It may start off . and how. and build ...... because they believed ... chose to pause. But as you .. when. you see ..... (I've even bought a few small bottles at Pier One Imports to give to those whom I want to have a tangible anchor of the moment in their home) Those who read my transcript.. of the energy that is ... now shared. The . Diana! I hope that it goes without saying. as I recite this story in a calm.... start to feel fascinated ..... That . will know that "The Star of Bishop" is the story I used on 4 babes at once..... and create that soothing glow .... are where I . Your personal method may vary.. I freely share this with you all.. and ideas . like replacing a few words in the next part of the story) The philosophers also believed that the same held true for your thoughts. single ... And that star will only get . of the party I went to in Manhattan Beach a couple of weeks ago. pauses .. brighter the star. They believed that every .. which will give you additional stuff to use.. I anchor.... that you feel. represented all the ... intense the feeling. was now . of your feelings...... (I pause here a moment... with this person you are with..... begin to warm . The more . relaxing tonality. Take the stars for example... and the connection would 108 . So as you . and steady glow... you'll see that I have worked it into the last part of the story. positive emotions . of the connection you now have . If you're familiar with "The Warrior's Bottle" story. that you'll want to have the HB outside. that you not only . who believed that .. while with someone . to a strong . said.. in some form or another. personified itself ..... The philosophers . have certain ... as you recite this story to them......... that if you happened to . feel yourself becoming more fascinated .. star .... gentle . the ... a star would appear . as the intensity .. feel that fascination . for those of you still working on your anchoring skills.... then anchoring that connection.

for now when she ... and grasps it faithfully . and served to . feeling a deep connection ...... before departing. right onto his grave. the woman would ........ all your doubts can just start to melt away..... do whatever it takes . (I then look at her. And when she would cry for her warrior . to find him... The intense connection that they shared . connect these two people .grow stronger . feel that connection ... and pour out the tears .. open the bottle . as I see it.. she knew ..... he would .." 109 . inside the bottle...... shared.. And if the bottle were ... save the tears .... just as he had.. look upon the bottle.... and make her ... you can feel . Should tragedy strike however .... when one set off on a great journey . A connection .. keep this bottle at all times . If the warrior had survived the battle .... feel warm inside .... she would . or off to battle...... gazed upon the stars .. that a warrior give the woman a small bottle .. right (Tap my index finger just under her chest) here.. the warrior was now in the stars . And it was traditional then .. as I say) “Can you feel that... This would release his spirit .. with whomever you were with . the ones that they alone . and again tap her wrist with my finger. that more than just . filled up inside . that she had continued to .. She would .. stayed with them even when apart.. to be an incredible connection to have. look up at the stars . he knew .. With me. and the warrior fell in battle . And upon reaching the sight of his burial ..... in that moment. keeping them brightly shining... when she would ...... This was an incredibly powerful thing ...... she would .

and I soon found myself standing on the beach. was a thing so beautiful. as I talk with you. And now.THE SWEETEST SOUND The sweetest sound I've ever heard. talking of bluebirds. was the coo of a newborn child. It reminded me of a song by bluebirds. and I smile. but which lovers could not resist hearing. I once again hear the sound of that newborn child cooing. on a cloudless day. and magical seas. that most people could not hear it. The melody was far reaching. The magical music of the crashing water on the rocks. 110 . <<NAME>>. among the lush cool green grass of a country field.

live on your cheeks. and die on your lips. I'd be conceived in your heart. born in your eyes. 111 ."THE TEAR" Oh. to be a tear.

wonderful. yet every single one is exactly the way we wanted it to be. Soon daylight returns.. and once again we are upon the shore . Knowing that come nightfall... you gently bit your lower lip .. and you take my hand... begins to rise up through your body. you know.... Our time here speeds by rapidly and almost embraces forever .. Without even realizing it. every scent the perfect aroma . you can .... and I am there. and listen always for the whisper of anticipation. We share a loving embrace. The most gentle wind blows upon your face.... something . all at once.. deep . energizing . and watch as night slips over the sky. Closing your eyes.... experiences . adventure .... for as long as there are stars..THE WHISPER OF ANTICIPATION You stand upon the shore of a tropical getaway. And as you listen closely. A tingle of . you've laid down upon the still warm sands. where it all began. hear the whisper . down to the most delicate feature. breath.. It almost feels like a million tiny candles... each one focused on a part of your body. far beyond what most people ever get to enjoy.. a passionate kiss. of anticipation. ever sound the perfect song.. And as you take in a . hiding the stars beneath the brightness of the new day. Something is about to happen... we will have a reminder of what we have shared.... new memories .. and smile the way you do when you feel really . long .. 112 . you begin to hum a tune to yourself. when once again we can create something . Together we create a new adventure for each star in the sky. like a blanket. A warming ball of golden light surrounds us . then say goodbye. wonderful. Every color the perfect hue . No two adventures are alike. Be well... Caressing you into a contented mood.

. waiting for you ..... As you feel the excitement of this possibility pounding through you . a little bit ...WORDS ON A PAGE Have you ever experienced the beauty of words on a page? Sometimes just words on a page spark an inner experience of beauty that moves the same way and just as powerfully as something external to us that catches our eye and stirs our senses. to be filled by the one person you KNOW can bring it to you . the moments that softly silence all fears and doubts in the mystery and the wonder that sweeps us away beyond all thought .... waiting for your command .. building . you feel yourself melting away with the heat that is generated there in that place that aches and hungers for it ... melting into the waves of sweet oblivion? And if you give yourself permission ..... does it not already seem like something that already in some way inevitably already IS real and meant to be? 113 . quickly . real with the action of your taking the action that has made it happen .. all the way? How do you imagine the slick..... to activate fully.. and you look back on having experienced it with a fond sigh as a memory you will treasure forever.......... boom . whenever you wish. tasting ....... the moments between the beats of a heart ... to do their job so that you can drink life in to its fullest ... the moments between breath ... right over.. slide rhythm building and building. Sometimes I think the most interesting sense is that sense that all of your senses ARE there.... exploring .. dissolving together only in pure ecstasy. bliss and pleasure........ as you feel yourself moisten and open to this opportunity .... partaking . where do you imagine you will first feel his lips? Where do you imagine you would first feel his tongue . closer to the edge of it and then ahhhhhhh . the moments between thought . ebbing and flowing. true permission . every moment brings more and more desire for it . every fiber of your mind and heart and every part of your body... something you can draw upon for the rest of your life. experiencing it with every molecule .. slowly . consuming as you yourself are consumed with the passion and the pleasure of it? How do you imagine him first entering . to indulge these thoughts . find them running through your mind during days and filling your dreams at night .... how could you possibly deny yourself or settle for anything less? Nothing else brings fulfillment . and realize how deeply you long to have this. until that line between fantasy and reality blurs and you find that it has become real .. experiencing it down to the smallest moments . waxing and waning between you as you feel it building .

. You go. A spark electric in the gloom. "Debbie. A fleeting glimpse of one with whom You can truly feel free. Then comes a smile to match those eyes A gentle voice invites your sighs A voice as soft as butterflies that brush you tenderly.. For one long beat the contact held A time in which you are enspelled.. 114 .YOU CAN MAKE IT BE So let's say you do the incredible connection pattern.. ” remember I said those words . Two eyes across a crowded room. A time in which two souls can meld If only this could be. A voice that flows like liquid gold And warms your senses in its folds And gives in your heart to hold The hope that this could be.will really get you laid? It's just like this poem I read on the Internet. . it's just like .it's just like and it's just like when .

sure I'll give you my phone number. .” [If they wont give you theirs] . you have to ask yourself is it that they draw you towards them with an irresistible desire or is that you are just compelled to move towards them out of something that's welling up within you?” Orion on closes "You know. but not right now.” "It's so rare to find somebody who meets all of your own special. it's all interesting isn't it. If you don't want to give me your phone number."You know. who are deep inside.” 115 .) on what needs to happen – “What would have to happen for us to laugh over a cup of coffee?” “What would have to happen for you to convince your wondrous self to join me for a cup of coffee?” "What steps would we have to take to make sure we get a chance to talk again. At the moment..” Ross on big cats – (WIP) – "Do you. I would love to have a chance to get to talk to you another time were aren't so many distractions and. but I also need to get yours from you. I bet you I could pet that tiger and make it roll over and purr for me and only for me. no is okay.Oh.. but I'm real serious. Orion (et.) on getting phone numbers – [If they ask for yours] .. well you know. danger and safety? And you feel the tug between the two forces deep on the inside such that it opens up an entirely different personality inside? A personality begins to emerge and come forth. did you. ummm. I can't control how naturally and easily you'll find all your feelings changing for just. ummm.LINES AND THOUGHTS Major Mark on fantasies – [Give 3 descriptions] – “Say.” I'm riffing on this. you ever gone to the zoo and look at a big cat or predator. really powerful. those fantasies that are so compelling? It's like. all that coiled power can be unleashed and directed right at you. "Hey. ” Orion (et. you feel totally safe with this. A personality that goes. Almost like you're something for them to eat And what is that like inside when you walk the line between danger and safety. He must be the kind of man who can touch you. I'm making . al. Do you ever watch people watching predatory cats? I think the real appeal of the cat is to note that this is something really dangerous. al. unique values. no is okay.” … "Because I'm real serious about getting together with you and I want to make sure we get together.” Ross & Orion on boyfriends – ”Boyfriend? That's great.” something along the lines of "get to know the inner you is as beautiful as the outer one. but you know at the right moment.” "Boyfriend?" I'll go.. only the right reasons. instead of just someone you're keeping around until you find someone better. What is it about. that's all right. I can promise to control myself.

”You know. if you were to think of a color that you associate with the warmth of those relaxing. for example. You could have jerked me around with "uh … can you call me back?" etc but were direct and straight to the point. the low-cut kimonos where you see that beautiful back of a woman's neck. So.” You can do is caress the back of their neck and put your hand underneath their ear. wonderful feeling. That's a stand-up attitude I've got to respect. P. as they experience a massage and really feel the pleasure of a massage from someone who really knows how to give a wonderful massage cause they've trained so well. Do you feel that pleasure.. if they're down with that . would you do it? Ross on “Not My Type” – Her: "I liked the pic.” Orion on massages – You can have them close their eyes. you feel so good. that enjoyment of that kiss? You go into a space where it's just." over phone Ross: (e-mail) Surprisingly this is a short note to say "THANKS" for your direct. you know. fine hairs or because they think it's so attractive.Orion on surprise kisses – ”Have you ever had a person give you a surprise kiss? Like maybe you're there and you're thinking about all the worries of the day or all the hassles or problems? And suddenly. no-bullshit response. but you're not my type. you can do some really heavy trance stuff when they've got their eyes closed and you're massaging them. And I don't know if it's because of all those fine nerve endings And I don't know if. It says lot about you and how you walk through the world and I wanted you to know it was appreciated.S. you can imagine six months from now reaching back to recapture the sweetness of that kiss.” And you can be brushing the back of her neck "Or maybe it's because you can't tell whether it's the soft brush of a person's fingers or the soft brush of their lips.. Just as a funny side note: I can tell you the last few women with whom I've been deeply involved (with one notable exception) all told me the same thing when I 116 . if it's the most sensuous part of a woman's body because that's where the nerve endings are or if it's because they believe that's where the energy enters your body or if it's because of all those soft. a person can lean forward and look deep in your eyes. the touch of your tongue. the kiss. some people can even allow those thoughts to just penetrate your and put that red deep inside you. some people think. the Japanese think that the back of a woman's body is the most sensuous part of her. Cup it … and if they've. some people. what color might you tell me? Red.” Orion on Japanese and necks – "You know. understand your distress and give you a kiss that sends an electric thrill throughout your spine. And as you see that red getting bigger and brighter and maybe even wrapping itself around you like a pair of warm but strong arms. throughout your whole body and just lift you up like a bed of clouds. Major Mark on married women – If there was a way for you to enjoy a romantic or sexual adventure outside your marriage in such a way that it would never negatively impact your primary relationship. They're able to feel a certain inside or associate a certain color with that warmth. And as you continue to let that happen.

that of course. So while touch anchoring is in my opinion the strongest way to anchor. is going to make me want to take all my time. it's certainly not the only way. somehow they all got this strange realization that what was typical for them really hadn't made them very happy and fulfilled and it was time to explore a totally different range and set of choices and responses! I guess 13 years of training and experience with hypnosis and seeing over 5000 clients gives a person some skills in moving minds. Too bad we'll never meet in person. refreshing encountering someone. and if that's all you're about. or the moment they turn on the television set. that you are going to give me everything any woman could ever offer to me. depending on what direction the conversation is going. or when they hear a specific song. Funny. Good luck in your search Bishop On Meeting New Women The goal is to be different from from every other guy. then I thank you for your time and I'll be on my way. the more powerful it will work for you later. Bishop On Anchors The touch itself is a stimulus that connects the touch to the emotion. How can I approach her in a way she may have never known before. just as soon as you show me. however briefly who knows her own mind and choices and stands by them. her inspiration and her aspirations. and only when I want her to feel what 117 . Oh. and the stronger her emotion when you anchor. In fact. bodies and feelings in new and unexpected ways. and give it just to you. I only snap my fingers sporadically. You could have dozens of men drop to their knees and respect only the physical side of you. I guess this adventure ends here (turn and walk away) Major Mark On Monogamous relationships I’m perfectly willing to date you exclusively. well. If however. in ways that I can understand. Bishop On Women who question if they want to meet you Her: You: Why would I want to know you / get to know you better? You strike me as an intelligent woman. anchoring does is not limited to just touching her to get the emotion. because. you're the type of woman who would like to share her thoughts and her dreams. I've anchored dozens of women who are now thinking of me when they see the stars. I've a feeling it would have been glorious. I would like to be the guy to find out about the women who lies within this angels body. Speaking for myself. everything I have to give.first met them about not being their type. after spending about an hour with me over coffee. Anyway. all my attention. BUT.

A common set of anchors I use would be: wrist. arm. say. the solar plexus. and not. solar plexus. The wrist tap anchor is mine.I'm describing in that moment. My pattern of anchoring goes from least intrusive to their body to slightly personal. opposite hand. opposite arm. that's why I tap the wrist. I agree that touching them too aggressively is not wise. throat/neck. but then I ALWAYS anchor with a touch once she's feeling it at peak state. 118 . so I'll cover that one.

there is still pressure on a woman to look and act in a certain way or else she is not accepted. to their husband or boyfriend is the person who represses her true. to the point of being repressed. Even today. You also are influenced by what your girlfriends tell you. There’s the cultural woman and then there’s the natural woman. Let me give you 2 examples of this repression of women. and the shouldn’ts. women have had to repress their own sexuality. Do this. because so many men feel threatened by a woman’s superior sexuality. or being rejected by their mother or father. inside of every woman I really believe that there’s two women. the cultural or social woman that most women show to the world. That’s the woman that follows all the rules. to their family. So she must follows certain rules to be socially accepted and is culturally conditioned and programmed. the wont’s. most women secretly know this. Now. and so they shut up and repress their feeling deep inside them.THEMES SECRET CORE THEME Cultural vs. all the should’s. don’t you? So. The natural woman is the part that’s inside every woman. Now. to their friends. not being accepted by their girlfriends. And. and suppressed and confined. you and I both know that’s bullshit. Don’t do this and You can’t do that. because of social conditioning and cultural training. there’s the part of you that you show to the world. and that’s the natural real woman. women get the message that "nice girls just shouldn’t have those desires". and that is unhealthy. And that’s the repression of feminine sexuality. 1. the second form of social repression of women is just as harmful. the cant’s. real feelings about certain things for fear that they will be rejected. she follows what is considered acceptable ladylike behavior. all the dont’s. on the surface. The woman who is supposed to be PROPER and conduct herself like a lady. But they have learned to keep probably 90% of their passion suppressed and hidden from men.) At first. Some women feel that they cannot express their true. Natural Woman Pattern (Gemini) You: Do you think men really understand women? Ok. the socially programmed woman. But then. They admit it to themselves and each other. some of which she gets from all the women’s magazines. (have you seen the movie Titanic. Glamour. And that’s what most women fear. here’s the fundamental problem. there’s another woman inside you. Why? Because they feel they must play the "virtuous" role that society has burdened them with. if you don’t think that you are being repressed. deep down feelings & desires. has all the fashionable etiquette. Now. you have those feelings and desires deep inside you. Of course. Historically. the socially conditioned woman inside of you reluctantly listens to what your mom tells you to do. but she doesn’t dare 119 . You see. Cosmo. Now. that’s the culturally conditioned woman. It’s hard for men to understand this but. or you act according to how your parents raised you.

The natural woman wants a man who is 120 . waiting to be shared now with the right person. What I think that most women really want deep down. but I'll tell you something.show it to the world because then she might be disapproved of. what a difference in the way you think about things. If this were a perfect world. The natural woman is not afraid to show her real self. {ideal man pattern}I don't know what it is you think about when you just stop and you go inside and you consider the ideal man you want to be with and you begin to imagine exactly what it would be like to be with this person. covered by a bunch of layers. She doesn’t suppress her true feelings or her sexuality. you really begin to wonder when that ideal man (point to self) is going to come along (point to self). and it's like you carried this love in your heart throughout your whole life into your adulthood as a full grown woman. but it’s asleep inside of you. you feel true joy and happiness That part of them that longs to be free and then to fall into this man’s arms and to be held close and to be cared for and to be loved unconditionally. I think the tragedy is some people couldn't even just stop and imagine what it would be like to make that discovery. as I think about it. Layers of social conditioning and programming. It’s Natural. and you were just drifting off to sleep. Ok. once the natural women inside you is awake and alive and ready to live life passionately. (point to self) that special person who complements you so perfectly. but they would never admit this out loud or even to themselves consciously. the smell of your bedroom. Now. I think that's really amazing that it can happen in an instant. with me. and you continue to hope to find your soulmate. Why do you think most women bury this natural woman deep inside themselves? Here’s why: Do you remember when you were a teenager or a young girl and maybe you were falling asleep in your bed. your perfect partner? your soulmate that you would meet someday. and you began to dream of the ideal man for you. you fell in love with him at that moment.. We all fantasize about our perfect mate. don't you? but to feel all that love and emotion flooding back into your mind . and she wants to be accepted and respected for who she is. after years of dating and being disappointed by other men (point away) time after time. getting back to what I was saying: But over time as we grow up. this is the part of the woman that would never be repressed. that special man that can touch them and reach deep inside them and awaken that natural woman that sleeps inside. to feel all the things you really want to feel for all the right reasons. when I'm with a woman like that and they begin to see the possibilities of having all that with me. and you realize. She lets them out and expresses her real feelings and emotions and passions because she is not afraid of what other people might say or she’s not afraid of what her parents and family would think if they really knew her deep dark secrets or how she really felt inside. But that natural woman that was formed in you when you were young is still in there. you don’t have to wait anymore.. waiting for that moment when you knew it was safe to release all that love that’s been building up inside you. what women really want is they wanna find that man. feeling the warmth of your bed sheets. its amazing that you can remember all that right now here with me. that faraway someday is today.

He’s smart enough to know she’s trying to test him. we understand that in order for a woman to feel good about herself and comfortable about expressing herself and her sexuality fully. she needs to feel safe and reassured that her ideal partner not only gives her his permission. This man and this woman have developed such an incredible connection with each other that they are truly connected. (Go into surrender pattern) (Do essence poem sometime after to rekindle) 121 . And when a woman finds this special man. He encourages her to be free with her passionate sexuality and her emotions and her feelings. and he’s smart enough and man enough to not put up with her female bullshit when she’s disrespecting him by walking all over him. like you and me. and he’s sensitive enough to anticipate her feelings so that she doesn’t always have to tell him what’s on her mind because he just knows her so well. that he will take care of her.strong enough not only to understand that she has passionate emotions but strong enough to be his own man and to be her protector to make her feel safe when she needs someone to lean on and to hold her in his big strong arms when she wants be comforted or to cry on his shoulder... but he actually wants and tells her to unleash her sexuality whenever she wants to . A woman wants to know that she has security with him. and he’s not afraid to share his feelings with her when he feels vulnerable. it’s just natural that she can just surrender herself to him because she knows that she’s finally found a place where she can be free to do whatever she wants and express herself and share herself in every way that she wants to with this man. He wants her to be sexually uninhibited. like soulmates and they compliment each other perfectly.

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