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ADVANCED SEXUAL PRACTICES
VOLUME 2 Consisting of: Scroll III: The Sexual Practices And Scroll IV: A Little Extra Insight
BY SEBASTIAN HELLER
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CAUTION: All the practices contained in this book are powerful and do work. As such they will have significant and marked effects on your body, your energetic system, your character and your life as well as on your sexual practice. The decision to use and apply the knowledge and techniques presented herein is yours and yours alone. Neither Sebastian Heller nor The Aralzon Institute nor Quaral Trading nor any other person, entity or body corporate will be held responsible for any effects, adverse or otherwise, resulting from the use or application of the material presented here. If in doubt as to the suitability of any of these techniques to you yourself (due for example to your age or physical condition) then meditate more deeply and get to the point where you can make up your own mind, trust your own judgment and take responsibility for your own life. If in the meantime you deem it wise or helpful to seek the advice of external authorities (for example, your doctor) then do so. It is recommended that if you're in poor physical condition or during sensitive periods of your life (for example sickness, pregnancy) you exercise care and caution in your use of some of the techniques presented here, if you use them at all.
Outline of Contents
VOLUME 1 Scroll I: The Foundation Practices I) II) The Meditative Practices The Five Tibetans (plus one)
Scroll II: The Orgasm Practices I) II) The Male Orgasm Practices The Female Orgasm Practices
VOLUME 2 Scroll III: The Sexual Practices I) II) Advanced Sexual Practices level I Advanced Sexual Practices level II
Scroll IV: A Little Extra Insight In twelve parts
Extras and Appendices
Advanced Sexual Practices: level I Foreplay Oral sex Cunnilingus Fellatio Thrusting techniques Male thrusting techniques Deep thrusting Circular thrusting Spiral thrusting Shallow thrusting Deep / full thrusting Deep / shallow thrusting Drawing strokes Full and long thrusting Curved and long thrusting Combinations and variations .5 Table of Contents VOLUME 2 Scroll III: The Sexual Practices I.
6 The variation of thrusting techniques Female thrusting techniques The standard thrust: woman on top The straight thrust: woman on top The standard thrust: woman on bottom The circular thrust Thrusting in doggy-style Thrusting together Sexual positions Man on top positions Woman on top positions Rear-entry positions Side-entry positions Standing positions Sitting positions A note on the use of sexual positions Coming together Taking sex deeper The mystical purpose of sex Anal sex Ending the sexual session Having sex: an example of sexual practice at ASP I .
modifying and preventing the soulmerge . mutual. full-body orgasm Chakric melding: an introduction Chakric melding: the technique Orgasming as one within a melded chakra Clearing the effects of a chakric meld The soulmerge: an introduction The soulmerge: the technique Orgasming as One Controlling. lesbianism and bisexuality Choice of sexual partners and the wisdom of the body Control and letting go II. Advanced Sexual Practices level II The deeper mystical purpose of the union of the sexes Placing your mind in your partner’s body How to tell when your partner has an orgasm Exchanging energies Directing energy into your partner Drawing energy from your partner Clearing the effects of mixed energies Chakric alignment Continuous.7 The prevention of ejaculation Homosexuality.
The nature of beauty 5. Love and its nature 7. fidelity and freedom 8. The nature of karma 4. Treating your partner well . Loyalty. soulmates and twin flames 6. The deeper aspect of the chakras 2. Soulgroups. A deeper insight into astrology 3.8 Preventing and limiting the soulmerge Controlling and modifying the soulmerge The purifying effects of the soulmerge The soulmerge and astrology The Sun / Moon effect The wider effects Balancing your chakras and the softening of the natal chart Going for conception after a tantric session The three stages of sex / lovemaking Lovemaking: an example of sexual practice at ASP II Spirit joining Scroll IV: A Little Extra Insight 1.
sexual energy and health 10. ASP and the spiritual path 12. Tastes and odours 11.9 9. Sex magick Extras and Appendices Annotated bibliography and other resources Glossary Appendix I: The chakric cores Appendix II: Human physical anatomy Appendix III: Human energetic anatomy The Aralzon Institute Sebastian Heller . Internal balance.
When the time comes. With great love. My lady. I’ll be here for you babe. . Sebastian. truly have you mastered the art of being a woman. in memory of the days of friendship and passion. Mostly passion.10 Dedication This book is dedicated to Venus.
use them for different purposes. change them and develop them in your own direction. find your own path. to refine the external form of lovemaking into a pure. The work at this level is almost exclusively energetic. As with the orgasm practices. In other words. primarily. It is in fact lovemaking as practiced at this level that all the preceding work and techniques have been laying the foundation for.11 Scroll III: The Sexual Practices The mere use of all that you have attained so far through your practice of the techniques given in Scrolls I and II – greatly enhanced awareness. but nothing really that extends much deeper than what you have covered already. It is these specifically sexual techniques which we shall cover in this scroll. more prolonged orgasms – is sufficient to guarantee you a vastly improved sex life. they are nevertheless still best taken as a starting point rather than as a rigid set of rules which must be followed. is more as a necessary foundation – a foundation which can be greatly built upon using specifically sexual techniques. The purpose of the practice at this level is. sexual energy and sensitivity along with the ability to have deeper. Advanced Sexual Practices level I (ASP I) deals with the more practical. fully free. The primary function of all of these. There are some energetics involved. have been building towards: soaring to the greatest heights and reaching the greatest depths of the profound art of sex. chakric melding. the effects of a close sexual partner on your character and your life and the merging of souls is covered. It is in this section that techniques dealing with the energetic exchange between partners. though the techniques given here are complete in themselves. your own techniques and your own way of doing things – learn to be your own person and so become truly. far more esoteric aspects of lovemaking. . mechanical aspects of lovemaking: thrusting techniques positions and their uses. effortless symphony where everything flows naturally in perfect harmony. however. The primary purpose of the work at this level is to teach you how to take lovemaking and its pleasures to the very deepest and most profound levels possible. Once you have mastered them and they are all flowing easily and naturally then play with them: combine them in different ways. Advanced Sexual Practices level II (ASP II) deals with the very much deeper. mutual genital orgasms and so on.
And on the other hand because if you have a high enough level of sexual energy and are with the right partner. you have come to know and expect truly fantastic lovemaking. Fortunately. more profound techniques are covered. Finally on this front. energetically draining pleasures. the more mechanical techniques presented here are both a necessary foundation to ASPII and a pleasure in their own right. mentally you are helped in this process if. it is difficult to become excited and enthusiastic over the prospect of sex if it is normally mediocre. Both physically and mentally / emotionally the mere presence of your partner combined with the sexual focus of either one of you should be sufficient to make both of you eager and ready. no preliminaries to or preparation for lovemaking should be necessary. Foreplay In standard Western sexual theory and practice there has been a massive overemphasis placed on foreplay. disappointing and conducive but to limited. Further.12 I. it must be said that women especially (but some men too) often become very attached to foreplay because in terms of lovemaking itself their partners are at best incompetent and at worst absolutely hopeless. they are pleasures to be undertaken and enjoyed in their own right.g. for themselves. On the one hand because the arts of which foreplay consists are not there to be taken solely as a sort of aperitif to the main course. as should be the case once you have mastered the practices presented in this book. that should not be the case for you ever again. This approach is deeply flawed. shallow. the techniques presented in this section will form the primary basis of the quality of your sexual sessions. Widening and deepening your knowledge and understanding of these more mechanical aspects of sexual practice cannot but help to improve your lovemaking sessions. All the more reason to master them for their own sake then. Though by far the greatest amount of responsibility for your own orgasms rests on you and not your partner it must be said that a basic level of rudimentary ability. Advanced Sexual Practices: level 1 Whilst it is at ASPII that the deeper. through past experience. So much so that many women have come to rely on it for their only orgasms during the entire sexual process and that for many couples it plays a more prominent role than sexual intercourse itself. it’s very possible that you will have some sexual partners with whom you will not want to or will not be able to take the practice much deeper than as covered at ASP I. e. In such instances. not to ejaculate in 2 minutes . Of course.
Without this. However. It takes many people much time to open themselves up mentally and emotionally in order to be ready to and fully comfortable with making love with a new person (or sometimes to make love at all with anyone at all). trying to convince her or him of their validity. Instead. Foreplay gently and gradually prepares and opens up the physical. And this mental and emotional comfort – the absolute certainty and acceptance that you really want to be here now making love to this particular person – is essential if your sexual practice is to proceed anywhere beyond the most superficial of purely physical levels. mental and emotional openness is achieved by realizing there is nothing fear: you are you and you know what you are. desired or needed by one of the partners. no matter how great your skill. You are in the relationship to give and not to receive. all of this does not mean that foreplay should be omitted if it is necessary. to love not to be loved and so what you receive and whether you are loved makes no difference. Because everything is connected this causes the energetic structures which constitute the mental and emotional parts of your being to open up also. something of a joint effort. This does not mean selfindulgently airing all your thoughts and emotions to your partner. it does not matter whether your partner accepts it. Its one perceived advantage – that it does not entail any real degree of opening up of the core of your being – is in fact a self-perpetuating disadvantage because it keeps you locked to the cycle of closedness. This is just your conscious personality seeking control and approval and will likely produce many more problems that it solves. shallowness and aloneness. embracing sex itself and. Nevertheless. being completely open mentally and emotionally to your partner. Sex is. judges you. The primary reason however not to focus on the various arts of foreplay over those of lovemaking itself is that it is simply not possible for any other physical activity to lead to as high a level of pleasure or as deep a feeling of closeness between two souls as that which is accessible through lovemaking. Therefore by shifting the emphasis from lovemaking to foreplay you are shifting the emphasis from the deeper and more profound to the shallower and more superficial. foreplay can actually help you and your partner to take your sexual practice to a deeper level. loves you or anything else. it is very difficult for the sex between you to ever become really orgasmic and satisfying for either one. Consequently. Though in practice once you . most importantly. And while shallowness can be very pleasant and highly enjoyable it is hardly a very worthy focus in any area of life. this is rather like temporarily remedying a problem rather than actually solving the problem itself. And that problem is accepting your sexual nature. is necessary on the behalf of your partner.13 flat. after all.
14 are stable and certain within yourself in this way partners who judge you. the basics of oral sex are included here. the deeper and more profound will your lovemaking be. for those who are interested. Until then. this deep calm and stability within themselves then they will both be completely open mentally and emotionally to each other because they will be free to be so. but also because mastery of the arts of foreplay is in no way conducive to the real deepening and heightening of sexual practice. lead to the highest summits and the most profound depths of the sexual experience. cannot. stroking. Further. in all their . The arts of foreplay: kissing. biting. Once both partners have this degree of mastery. fight with you and don’t love you won’t come into your life. At the end of the day the only thing which is stopping you from being completely open in this way is yourself – your own ego personality. your own fears and your own demands. The full arts of oral sex. and will eventually be released by The Aralzon Institute. pulling. licking and oral sex beyond the basic techniques are not covered in this book. Oral sex Oral sex does not. Due to this consideration we look at oral sex only briefly in this book and cover only the basic techniques regarding it. The necessary energetic connections simply cannot be established through oral sex. to comprehensively cover all the arts of foreplay in a complete and detailed manner is a massive undertaking and would easily fill an entire goodsized book on its own. gestures. caressing. Like attracts like and fear draws that which you fear unto you. scratching. rubbing. mental and emotional openness which comes from the core of your being is much deeper and more total than a mental and emotional openness which is temporarily produced as a result of foreplay or even as a result of words. Once a good degree of self-mastery is attained the only purposes of foreplay between lovers is either to prepare and open the physical – and a strong sexual thought on the part of either partner (for they are connected) will be more than enough for this – or for the novelty and relaxing lightness of foreplay itself (but in this case foreplay is not being used as a tool but enjoyed and appreciated for what it itself is and has to offer). Such a project is in the planning stages. It is for this reason also that the greater the degree of your self-mastery. Finally on this aspect of the topic. Primarily because no deep esoteric knowledge or training is necessary to be able to be very competent at them. though as a DVD not a book. physical beauty or a feeling of being accepted.
With a tongue you simply cannot provide the necessary stimulation to produce any significantly worthwhile sensations anywhere else. With this in mind let us turn to the basic techniques of oral sex. Nevertheless. Many men don’t like the taste or the smell of their partner’s vagina and many women don’t like the taste or the texture of their partner’s semen. oral sex can be enjoyable for its own sake and can sometimes be useful as a warm-up to intercourse itself. Only then will doing what you like have any deeper meaning. will be covered in a DVD planned by The Aralzon Institute entitled: “The ASP little box of tricks”. When your tongue is held in this way you can only effectively stimulate her with the tip of the tongue. what is best for your path and the goals you wish to attain. a greater degree of accuracy and more force also is possible in your stimulation if you hold your tongue rigid and pointed in this way. an approach too selfindulgent of your currently established state of being. But so too are those of coffee. Who says sex can’t be educational? And in more ways than one at that. and so enjoy. You must learn to like what is good for you. and then 2) actually do learn to like and enjoy the taste and smell of your partner’s love juices. However. True. Cunnilingus In cunnilingus the main focus of your attention should be her clitoris. In cunnilingus there are two basic ways in which you can hold your tongue: 1) Rigid and pointed. It is true that it is an acquired taste and smell. . That having been said you can at the start.15 variety. For you. That way you’ll do it more totally. a certain amount of internal purification is necessary to make one’s love juices actively pleasant in taste and smell. going about oral sex in the right way can help you to learn an important conceptual lesson. and later on too if you like. lick and suck at the opening of her vagina and stick your tongue inside her vagina. the whole process a lot more. namely: do not do something only to please another. Also. As a consequence your partner will enjoy whatever you’re doing a lot more too. purpose or value to it. the advantage of doing so is that you get to really properly taste her love juices. and with relish. beer and tobacco amongst other things. To just do what you like is a lazy approach. you yourself should also actively enjoy everything you do too. For her. the benefit is more psychological / emotional: it lets her know that you actively enjoy her taste and smell and so allows her to relax into. But more importantly you need to learn to: 1) be willing to try to learn to like the taste and smell of your partner’s love juices.
Use a down to up motion. the tip. When you’re both ready. exposing the head (and perhaps some of the shaft) of her clitoris. you really do need to be able to see what is going on. Dg. or from your holding your tongue rigid and stationary and moving your whole head. Take a good deep smell. more indirect start. or a combination of the two. It is the head. Alternatively you can use a soft. Gently stroke her genital area with your hand. tasting her love juices.16 Dg. The movement can come either from your moving your tongue itself. All this is for your own pleasure and enjoyment mainly but it also lets her know that you truly like and appreciate her pussy in all its aspects. However. III-03: Pulling back the clitoral hood With your tongue held rigid gently flick it across the surface of her clitoris such that it only just touches her clitoris. light some candles or go for it during daylight hours. And so she can relax and be comfortable. broad tongue instead. when the time comes to get in there with your tongue. turn your attention to her clitoris. Gently lick across the surface of her clitoris using as long a portion of the upper surface of your tongue as you can. step by step: Start with a more circuitous approach for women tend to prefer a gentle. of her clitoris that you’ll be paying the most attention to from now on. To start with you might want to use your fingers to gently rub her clitoris through her clitoral hood. Dg. That is to say your tongue moves up and down but only comes into contact with her clitoris when moving from down to up. pull back the clitoral hood with your fingers and hold it back. So leave the light on. Again do so in a down to up motion such that your tongue touches her clitoris only when moving from down . Lick the vagina itself a bit. When your tongue is held in this way lighter and gentler stimulation is possible. at least when you’re still just starting out with a particular partner. Let us turn to the technique then. III-01: Holding the tongue rigid and pointed 2) Soft and broad. Look at her genitals appreciatively. Also you can stimulate her using most of the upper surface area of your tongue which allows for a much longer stroke. III-02: Holding the tongue soft and broad One last point before we get started: to do cunnilingus correctly.
The clitoris is and remains very sensitive and touching it with your teeth will do nothing to enhance the sensation for her and will probably feel actively unpleasant to her. As her degree of arousal increases you can make the stimulation you apply more intense. III-04: The cunnilingus jaw motion Until she becomes more aroused her clitoris is very sensitive and so you have to be gentle in your initial stimulation for it to be pleasant for her. make sure you don’t touch the clitoris with your teeth. produced by the movement of your lower jaw. and so stimulating her with the length of the upper surface of the tongue. With each suckle also move your tongue across her clitoris. Unless she’s feeding her clitoral stimulation – and coming orgasm – inwards and upwards there’s little point in stimulating her deep point or cervix during cunnilingus as doing so won’t significantly enhance her experience by much.17 to up. To do so increase both the pressure of the stimulation and its speed. very intense sensations for the woman though and so shouldn’t be used until she is very aroused and close to orgasm. The result will be a lapping motion of your tongue over her clitoris. This is a good technique to use when you want to perform cunnilingus for an extended period of time as the jaw muscles are usually much slower to tire than either the neck or the head muscles. Or one or the other if you want to take things a little more slowly. in time to the suckle. If you do use this approach. once she has begun to get properly aroused you can enhance the sensations for her by inserting a finger or two into her vagina and stimulating the muscular ring near the opening of her vagina. then it is also possible to produce the required movement by covering your lower teeth with your bottom lip. and also her g-spot. Some . sticking your tongue out so that it rests on the bottom lip and curls down to touch your chin and then moving your jaw up and down whilst keeping your head stationary. Even then most women won’t be able to take this for more than a minute or two. This technique produces very powerful. If you’re holding your tongue soft and broad. Even more intense stimulation can be applied by sucking her clitoris into your mouth and flicking your tongue across it. The more aroused that she is the more intense the stimulation that she can take – and will want – on her clitoris. You can make the stimulation more intense still by suckling upon her clitoris like a baby suckling at its mother’s breast. After the first few minutes of cunnilingus. Dg. Whereas at the start such harder stimulation would just be uncomfortable and unpleasant for her.
shake your tongue and jaw muscles out and move away. Open your mouth fairly wide. Then get your mouth into action. Lovingly. you can lick once or twice around the head of his penis in a circular motion and also up and down the shaft. The best way to do it is as follows. Don’t stop or slow down the pace or decrease the pressure. to-the-point approach. so that if you were to look into a mirror your teeth would not show at all. Once the first strong orgasmic wave has occurred you may want to slightly reduce the speed and pressure of the stimulation you are applying. If you like. Instead. As she approaches orgasm just keep on doing whatever you are doing. Grab his penis with one hand and start masturbating him slowly. III-05: Standard lip position for fellatio So you’ve got his penis in your mouth. Appreciatively. If you practice this in a mirror without anything in your mouth your lips will form a tight “O” shape. Then take the head of his penis into your mouth. 10 at the most. A really strong vacuum is made by . As her orgasm starts. and can. whilst fondling his testicles with your other hand. just keep on going. Enjoying what you are doing. When her orgasm finishes she will tilt her hips away from you or gently move your head away from her genitals. men prefer a direct.18 women also like to have a finger or two inserted into their anus during cunnilingus. you lips will press firmly and strongly onto his penis. you can increase the pressure and/or the pace somewhat though. This is where most women tend to be let down by poor technique. but don’t do so by too much. Keep your lips extended over your teeth as you do so. So relax. Generally. Dg. the clitoris is too sensitive after (outwards) clitoral orgasm for any direct stimulation of it to continue. But only for a few strokes. about ½” -1” wider than what is necessary to slide his penis into your mouth. Also keep your lips rigid enough so that you can then close your jaw fairly tightly over his penis without your teeth touching his penis in any way. Fellatio Whereas women tend to prefer a more circuitous approach. Now turn to intercourse where a much higher degree of depth and intimacy is available for both of you. But some women don’t like this so check the reaction from your partner before proceeding with this. The next step is to introduce suction to the process. If you like. The continuing stimulation serves to continue her orgasm and she will not be best pleased if you stop now.
On the down stroke breathe out a full breath of air. To give your cheek muscles a bit of a rest you can alternate the strong suck with twisting your tongue around his penis head whilst his penis is in your mouth. Watch your teeth. it also means that your tongue will stimulate the head of his penis as your head bobs up and down. III-06: Making the suction extra strong Keeping your tongue in this position not only increases the strength of the vacuum within your mouth. 2) Only partially close your mouth over his penis. Go slowly and on each upstroke breathe a full lungful of air in through your mouth. Dg. And that’s the basic fellatio technique. The final step in this process is to grip his penis with one of your hands directly below your lips. Now circle your head around so that his penis moves around inside your mouth in a circular motion. and doing so as if trying to suck an extra little bit of air in from between your teeth. This technique is good to use if you don’t want him to come just yet. You can use your free hand to massage his testicles or his perineum or you can stick a finger or two into his anus to stimulate his prostrate. There is a strong vacuum within your mouth and your tongue presses up against the underside of his penis. and use your tongue to enhance the process. The cool air will waft over his penis as you do so. If you wish to play about a bit you can use one of these alternatives to the basic technique: 1) Hold your mouth open with his penis inside. III-07: The basic art of fellatio Now simply begin to move your head up and down so that your mouth slides over the length of his penis. Move your hand at the same rate. Grip with your hand using roughly the same amount of pressure that your lips are applying to his penis further up. So: you have his penis in your mouth with your lips applying a strong pressure to it. or more if you wish. You have your hand on his shaft gripping it with roughly the same degree of pressure as your lips are exerting.19 sucking as hard as you can on his penis and then making the vacuum even stronger by moving your tongue back and up with the motion coming mainly from the middle section of the tongue. in time to the motion of your mouth. The hot air from your lungs will waft over his penis as you do so. . Dg.
If you have yet to develop a taste for his semen swallow immediately. and this is why the taste of semen lingers in their mouth afterwards. But whichever way you go about it. do swallow. They will be fully covered in the above mentioned planned DVD though: “The ASP little box of tricks”. then take your time about it – swish it around in your mouth a bit and then swallow it at your leisure. is the key to getting what you want out of both your relationship and your man. unmasterful. If you begin to swallow as soon as he starts to ejaculate you really will taste very little. The techniques of deep-throating and throat-fucking are too involved to go into here. gagging and wiping his tongue and then went to brush his teeth. that he just did it for you and that there was something undesirable or unpleasant about your genitals and their taste and smell. Thrusting techniques With all of these techniques focus first on becoming technically competent at them. A lot more enjoyable for both of you this way isn’t it? Nowadays. Normally women automatically wait for a while before they begin to swallow. in the West. whilst most men have learnt to at least try to give a woman pleasure. undeveloped attitude. At that point you can release your focus to enjoying the sensations and energetic movements that the . A lot of them think that just doing the bare minimum themselves and letting the man do what he wants is enough. On the downstroke massage his penis head using the length of your tongue from tip (at the beginning of the downstroke) to root (at the end of the downstroke). Once you have begun to attain technical competence the technique itself will soon begin to become intuitive and will start flowing naturally and effortlessly. Swallowing his semen you can compare to how much more enjoyable cunnilingus is for you when you know that your partner is not just doing it for you but because he actively wants to. when he does come. Which. women have yet to learn to at least try to give a man pleasure. if you are at the stage where you actively enjoy his semen and its taste. You’d feel he wasn’t really enjoying it. swallow. And not just in sex but in every area of the relationship. incidentally. enjoys doing it for himself. And not just because he wants you to. Alternatively. At any rate.20 3) Suck hard just on the upstroke. This is a lazy. You should actively enjoy pleasing your partner. if anything at all. fast and repeatedly: it will feel good to him and you’ll barely taste anything at all. You can compare spitting his semen out to how you’d feel if after going down on you he started spitting.
At no point during the thrusting techniques should you actually fully remove your penis entirely from your partner’s vagina. In all of the following descriptions “entering” refers to the inwards stoke not the literal entering of the vagina and “withdrawing” refers to the outward stroke not the literal withdrawing of the penis. how she reacts to various depths. a very male activity: it is the man’s job far.21 different techniques produce. there is the consideration that thrusting is essentially a very yang. energetically. and observing how these techniques relate to the other practices. As you make love. For now just try to pay attention and notice her responses. strokes. On a slightly different note the use of many of these techniques helps in the mastering of ejaculation control – useful if you’ve skipped straight ahead to this section without focusing on the orgasm practices sufficiently to master what’s covered there (tempting to do. but more on this later. all her sensitive and tingly spots. All the more reason to make sure that you are competent at it. Not only that but the use of advanced thrusting techniques help you to really get to know your partner internally. in the deep stages of lovemaking (as in ASP II) it is . I know. internally and esoterically more than externally (see ASP II for details on how to do this) to all of these factors. It is for this reason that. And why not?) Finally. Male thrusting techniques Skill in thrusting is far. far more so than it is the woman’s. during the various stages of lovemaking and how all of these are affected by her moods and by your other actions during lovemaking. It is indeed good practice to be as aware of your partner as you are of yourself during the whole lovemaking process. try to pay attention. Other than the increasing and directing of his sexual energy thrusting is practically the only tool that a man has at his disposal to use to fetch a woman to orgasm during lovemaking. Deep thrusting This does not refer to the full thrust – all the way in and all the way out – but to entering the vagina as deeply as you can comfortably go and then never really pulling out anymore than 2” or so from there. both in you and your partner. what makes her heat up the most effectively and what doesn’t really work for her. etc. angles. The big advantage of this stroke is that it enables you to remain continuously deeply inside your partner and yet also allows stimulation to continue. especially if you already are in a sexual relationship. far more important for a man than for a woman.
III-10: Deep and straight thrusting This version of the stroke is best used to strongly and continuously stimulate her deep point and can lead to some very powerful deep point / uterine orgasms for her very quickly. deeper stages of lovemaking. . The technique then. III-09: Entering the vagina fully From this point a variety of movements are possible including a gentle back and forth practiced by pulling out only by 2” or so before pushing back in. Dg.22 this stroke which you will be using almost exclusively. gripping the base of your penis. both for you and your partner). Especially if you are in the early stages of lovemaking do so gently and be careful not to hurt your partner by ramming your penis into her cervix with excessive force. for example when soulmerging. a woman’s vagina will distend (open up) quite significantly causing the portions of her vagina towards the entrance to be comparatively tight. Dg. animalistic fucking yet you yourself do not want to risk being pushed into ejaculation. However. This is because during these later stages. especially in and around the cervix. deep thrusting is best used to stimulate your partner’s cervix. III-08: a) An unaroused vagina b) A fully distended vagina Due to this difference in the level of stimulation between the man and the woman this technique can also be used to fetch a woman to orgasm without there being any real danger of “falling over” into ejaculation. than it does for the man. Dg. and only gently at that (you will find that excessive movement interferes with the sensations and energy movements. in the later. and especially after a few orgasms. This version of the stroke is useful when both you and your partner want some hard. and the deeper portions to be comparatively open. One way to do this is with small circular movements either around the cervix in the space between the hump of the cervix. the end of the vagina and the vaginal walls. Push your penis into the vagina as deeply as it can comfortably go. if used during the later stages of lovemaking. Due to the nature of the stroke it produces far more stimulation for the woman. All the way if possible but maybe less depending on the length of your penis and the depth of your partner’s vagina.
play with it. If instead of flicking your penis across her cervix in this side-toside motion you do so in an up-and-down motion: Dg. III-13: Deep thrusting – side-to-side cervical stimulation In practice this is most easily achieved by first pulling your right hip away from her whilst pushing your left hip towards her and then pulling your left hip away from her whilst pushing your right hip towards her.23 Dg. experiment with varying the speed and / or strength of the stroke. Or combine the slight in / out . III-16: Stimulating the cervix and the clitoris at the same time: in practice This produces both clitoral and cervical stimulation at the same time and can be very intense for her. III-14: Side-to-side cervical stimulation – hip motion Keep the penetration deep whilst dong so and it will cause the sideto-side movement described above. In practice it is most easily accomplished by resting at least a part of your weight on her and then moving your whole body horizontally back and forth either by pushing with your toes or by pulling with your arms Dg. Once you are competent at the basic technique. Dg. In order to “hit” the clitoris just right she can either arch her hips or you can lift and control her buttocks using one hand. Dg. You could. III-11: Deep thrusting – strong cervical stimulation Or on and around the cervix itself Dg. for example. This technique is best when used with a variant of the missionary position. III-15: Stimulating the cervix and the clitoris at the same time …then you are also able to stimulate her clitoris at the same time using your pubic bone. Or you could try stroking exclusively along the left side of the cervix in an up/down motion. III-12: Deep thrusting – smooth cervical stimulation Flicking the tip of your penis across the tip or the whole of her cervix in a side-to-side motion is also an option.
Dg. gentle circles are especially good for stimulating the tip of your partner’s cervix whilst big. gentle. you’ll find that deep. Dg. whilst rubbing across the bottom of her cervix on the “down” portion of the circle. III-19: Using the circular thrust to stimulate both deep point and cervix Spiral thrusting This entails moving deeper into the vagina using a spiralling motion and then moving shallower within the vagina also using a spiralling motion. In order for this stroke to be useful and effective it is best to use it only considerably into the sexual session when your partner’s vagina is well distended and both her deep point and her cervix are very receptive to stimulation. . and then rubbing across your partner’s deep point on the “up” portion of the circle. the size of the circles and the force which you use. Dg.24 movement with the circular movement to produce a spiralling motion onto and then off of the cervix. circular thrusting is a great way to continue the stimulation in a sensuous way during the deeper stages of lovemaking. forceful circles are good for stimulating both your partner’s cervix and her deep point using one thrust. You can vary circular thrusting by varying the speed with which you circle. III-17: Spiralling the cervix Circular thrusting Circular thrusting involves moving the tip of your penis around in a circular motion at one steady depth within the vagina. III-18: Circular thrusting When you are still starting out on the path of Advanced Sexual Practice you will probably find that alternating between straight in-out thrusting and circular thrusting greatly helps in the control of the ejaculatory urge. It is most useful for stimulating the cervix and as an alternative basic stroke to the straight in-out. This latter is achieved by angling your partner’s hips upwards (for example by placing 2 or 3 pillows under them when in the basic missionary position). Later on. Small.
Shallow thrusts Shallow thrusting refers to strokes which penetrate no deeper than about halfway into the vagina. As you do so it enables you to press against parts of the vagina that the straight and direct thrust just can’t reach. Dg. For other men this is also a possibility too. III-20: Spiral thrusting: a) the in-stroke b) the out-stroke It is rather like stirring a deep pot of stew. should also be able to quite easily reach the g-spot using front entry missionary style positions if they use a hand to lift and direct their partner’s hips or place a pillow under their partner’s buttocks. Again. often much less than that. usually significantly tighter ring of muscle at the very opening of the vagina. III-21: The shallow thrust: as far out as you go And then to push in slightly or until you hit the g-spot. Such a movement is also subtler and less forceful. For detailed instructions on where the g-spot normally is and how to find it refer to the female orgasm practices section. This technique is best used to move from thrusting at different depths of the vagina in a way other than straight and direct. Dg. The shallow thrust also produces especially strong sensations for the man as the head of the penis is moved back and forth through the tightest area of the vagina. The technique then is to pull back to the very opening of the vagina. experiment with the depth of penetration. whose erect penis nearly pushes against their belly area. The advantage is that the penis is always at an angle within the vagina. rather than entering or exiting straightly. III-22: The shallow thrust: as far in as you go In practice hitting the g-spot is easiest for most men using rearentry positions such as doggy-style.25 Dg. Men with a very high angle of erection however. Try hitting the rear wall of the vagina opposite the g-spot. but is in practice a little more difficult. For example when moving from shallow thrusts to deep thrusts. Practice this technique along different lengths of the vagina. Predominantly they are useful for hitting the g-spot. and can therefore press more strongly against the various parts of the vaginal walls. or ask your partner. and also the sensitive. varying the angle of .
and is an example of the confusion which often arises out of poor translations of classic texts. You do not intersperse the deep thrusts with one shallow thrust of the sort described in the previous section.g. using any variety of deep thrust that you wish Dg. That really would tend to destroy the whole rhythm of your lovemaking. Dg. in-stroke about to begin 3) Push your penis relatively fast and quite forcefully deep into the vagina once more thereby forcing more air out of the vagina and strengthening the vacuum. Step by step then: 1) Thrust at a deep level for a number of strokes. In the translations which you will nowadays read of the old writings you will find that most patterns which are recommended take the form of a large number of deep thrusts (e. etc. III-24: The full thrust: outstroke just completed. the one full thrust pushes more air out of the vagina thereby creating a greater vacuum within the vagina which produces a very pleasurable sucking sensation on the penis and the cervix during the subsequent deep thrusts. 8. What they are really recommending is a series of deep thrusts interspersed with one full stroke where you withdraw right to the very opening of the vagina and then push all the way back into the very depths of the vagina. III-25: The full thrust: just completed . 9. 5. 3) alternated with one full shallow thrust. III-23: Eight deep strokes 2) Withdraw to the very opening of the vagina being careful not to break the vacuum by coming too far out Dg. The technique is to alternate a set number of deep thrusts with a set number of full thrusts.26 penetration in other ways. The key advantage of interspersing the deep thrusts with the one full thrust in this way is that. using circular as opposed to direct movements. provided your penis is large enough and your partner’s vagina is tight enough. Deep / full thrusting This is the most traditional and the most popular of the Taoist thrusting techniques.
Perhaps focusing on g-spot stimulation for a while once more when you sense that your partner is at a point where this move will bring her to a good orgasm.27 And then return to step 1) once more. Should you choose to do this a good few shallow thrusts more than the simple one mistakenly recommended by the modern translations of the old Taoist classics would be necessary to build up any significant g-spot stimulation. Drawing strokes The left side of the penis corresponds to the left testicle and to the left side of the body and the right side of the penis corresponds to the right testicle and the right side of the body. It is the drawing strokes which are used to achieve this. Deep / shallow thrusting You can also of course alternate actual shallow thrusts as described in the “shallow thrusting” section with deep thrusts. Dg. for example in order to draw it in closer to the body. Certainly alternating the deep/shallow strokes in a set. fixed pattern during lovemaking seems to have little point to it other than interrupting the stimulation of both partners and so the rhythm and flow of the whole thing. starting position . Far better to focus on shallow thrusts and g-spot stimulation for a while. Let the rhythm establish itself naturally and instead pay attention to the sensations produced and to your partner. build up the energy. The technique then. And at any rate once you have built up such stimulation there is little point in then letting it go to waste by moving to cervical stimulation which you then let go to waste by returning to g-spot stimulation and so on. full thrust. III-26: Drawing strokes. Incidentally. and then move the energy and the lovemaking deeper by progressing to cervical stimulation. The tip of your penis remains in the vagina. give the vagina time to distend. then stimulate the left side of the penis more. Move your hips to the left by about 2-4” so that the base of your penis is no longer on a straight vertical line with the opening of the vagina but is instead offcentre by those 2-4”. They don’t have to be exactly the same between each long. Consequently if you wish to bring the left testicle into play more fully. Then return once more to the deeper thrusting. Similarly if you wish to balance the energies between the left and right sides of your body. don’t get caught up in counting your exact number of deep thrusts.
ensuring that the majority of the motion originates from the hips alone rather than from the movement of the body as a whole which is a different technique. III-29: Curved and long thrusting: a) as far out as you go b) as far in as you go . again feeling the stimulation more on the right than on the left side of the penis. III-28: The drawing stroke: hip motion This produces a more fluid motion and a steadier sensation. Rather than utilizing a straight thrust you can alternatively use a more drawing stroke achieved by keeping your left hip stationary whilst moving your right hip forwards and back. Dg. rather than their sensitivity being largely limited to specific. III-27: Drawing strokes: all the way in Then pull farther out to return to the starting position as above. That is why this stroke is so good to use during those middle stages: it allows the full length of the penis to rub against the full length of the vagina. Dg. You can also use this technique to balance the left and right sides of your partner’s body or to move energy between the two sides. You should feel the stimulation far more strongly on the right side of your penis than you do on your left Dg. localized areas. Curved and long thrusting This is the standard thrust often used almost mechanically by many men where the penis is pushed all the way into the vagina and then withdrawn until the very opening. By the middle stages of lovemaking the sexual energy should have heated up and expanded sufficiently to allow the whole penis and the whole vagina to be very sensitive and receptive to sensations. To perform this stroke push the penis all the way into the vagina as far as it will go.28 From here push your penis into the vagina all or most of the way. This stroke can be an excellent one to use in the middle stages of lovemaking if it is modified to produce greater finesse rather than being used in a pumping piston motion to fetch you to quick ejaculation. It should be obvious how to vary the above technique in order to stimulate the left side of your penis more than the right.
because it involves a lot more movement on the man’s part. Or vice versa: enter slowly and sensually. Lots. over a long period it is a lot more tiring. Other methods can be used also. reactions that this stroke produces both in your partner and within your own body. However. This last produces a feeling for both of you rather akin to your penetrating your partner for the first time. In order for this to be possible it is necessary if you are using a missionary-type position to support your body weight on your hands or elbows and move the whole torso. which is achieved by moving your whole body forwards as shown in Dg. in as straight and direct a way as possible. Then push it all the way in once more.29 Once the penis is in as deep as it will go withdraw it as much as it is possible to do without taking it out of the vagina altogether. Slowed down this too is a very good thrust to use during the middle to later stages of lovemaking. You can also try varying the angle of penetration and the rhythm. Make it a very. Combinations and variations . One of the best and simplest ways of refining this stroke is simply to slow it down. Full and long thrusting To perform this stroke push the penis all the way into the vagina as far as it will go. You can enter fast and hard on the in stroke only to withdraw with infinite slowness and tenderness. The two most important of these is that this stroke can be used to spread the natural lubricants of the vagina throughout the entire length of the vagina. more physical. Then push it all the way in once more. withdraw with speed and force. except again and again and again. for you than curved and long thrusting. Dg. and also this stroke helps to strengthen the man’s erection if it is receding or reducing. Otherwise the thrust will turn into a more curving motion which is the previous technique. Also notice the energy movements and the other. and so distracting. very slow and sensuous stroke during which you pay attention to every sensation and feel every bit of your penis and of your partner’s vagina. III-30: Full and long thrusting in missionary Once the penis is in as deep as it will go withdraw it as much as it is possible to do without taking it out of the vagina altogether. III-30. which is again achieved using movement of the hips alone. as at the very beginning of lovemaking.
Force: The power behind the stroke. in between or not at all. for example to break a pattern or in between changing thrusting techniques. regularity and order to your thrusting – you are not just flailing spasmodically all over the place. Whilst an irregular rhythm does occasionally have its uses. Depth: How deeply you choose to enter the vagina and up until which point you choose to withdraw. In slightly more detail: Angle of entry: rather than entering the vagina straight on you can begin off-centre resulting in an angled stroke. To stop or pause at the end of the outstroke. depth and rhythm.30 Essentially there are basically six ways in which the process of thrusting can be varied: angle of entry. slowly or somewhere in the middle. force. You can.g. on the instroke. And to vary the speed halfway through a stroke. Direction of thrust: The thrust itself does not have to proceed straight in and then come straight out again. Other forms of such curving strokes are possible. for example. tend to like and need some sort of predictable regularity on the basis of which to know what to do: relax and allow the energy to build up? Go for the orgasm? Enjoy the sensuality of the sensations? This is not possible if there is no real degree of regularity on the basis of which to come to this sort of understanding. as a rule a regular rhythm is preferable. the end of the instroke. It is also possible to make this power energetic rather than physical. steadily increase both the depth and the speed of your thrusting so that each stroke is both faster and deeper than the one before. the outstroke or both. Above. provided that the increment by which you do so is fairly consistent each time. though this is one very nicely balanced option. This consistency is important because your body along with your partner’s body and the more subconscious aspects of her mind. Rhythm: The timing of the strokes in relation to one another. below and diagonally are other alternatives. Speed: It is possible to thrust: quickly. It is possible to curve the thrust upwards for example so that the head of the penis stimulates the g-spot and the base of the penis on the side facing away from your body pushes against the ring of muscle around the vaginal opening. speed. Usually felt more on the instroke than on the outstroke. We covered doing this to the left and to the right in “The Drawing Strokes”. And to do so. as are circular strokes and also changing the stroke halfway through e. Rather what is important is that there is some sort of consistency. from straight to curving. direction of thrust. This does not mean to say that you have to keep all your strokes limited to one fixed speed. .
are based. The real solution is not to retreat from your orgasm by changing to a less stimulating thrusting technique which will prevent both of you from orgasming and so leave you both feeling unsatisfied. The key factor is to do so in a way which enhances lovemaking both for you and your partner. It would be foolish for example to move from a forceful deep. and it should all flow easily and naturally very soon indeed. The main problem with doing this though is that. To do this. The basis on which to do this is to realize that the physical movement is intimately connected to the orgasmic and energetic aspects of sex. and indeed all thrusting techniques. the energies are usually just beginning to warm up and you are both quite a way from orgasm. If you must change your thrust at such a point far better to go for a stroke which continues this deep stimulation such as a deep circular thrust. provided the two partners are reasonably energetically aligned. At any rate. The variation of thrusting techniques Whilst the man is still learning mastery of ejaculation control variation of thrusting technique is a useful tool for him to employ.31 It is on various combinations of these six aspects of thrusting that the thrusting techniques presented in this section. it is precisely when you are approaching ejaculation that your partner will also be nearing her orgasm. Consequently a deep. shallow thrust just as your partner is on the very verge of orgasm. if she approaches orgasm her vagina fills with huge amounts of energy which of itself causes you to come very near to ejaculation. pay attention to both your own body and energies and to your partner’s body and energies and then make your decisions on the basis of that. develop your awareness. As he feels himself approaching ejaculation he can change to a stroke which gives him less stimulation thereby preventing himself from ejaculating. practice. The ramification of this all is that you can then use variation of thrusting techniques to enhance both your orgasms rather than to merely help you control your ejaculatory urge. At the start of sex for example. By varying these six aspects in different ways you yourself can develop your own thrusting techniques. This is because as you get nearer to ejaculation your penis fills with huge amounts of energy which of itself causes your partner also to come very near to her orgasm. Rather what you must do is master the orgasm process so that when you feel yourself approaching ejaculation you can direct that energy into an internal orgasm thereby removing the urge to ejaculate or you can send it into your partner causing her to orgasm and then directing the energy that her orgasm releases to produce your own internal orgasm. straight thrust to a gentle. forceful thrust would be . Likewise.
You will want a deeper. Consequently you both feel the desire for more intense. men tend to prefer to stop altogether during ejaculatory orgasm. So you decide to change to a deep back and forth thrust. when you are actually changing from one thrusting technique to another you very rarely want there to be a big jump between the sensations produced by the two different techniques. Something such as a deep spiralling thrust would therefore be more appropriate. more fully and more gently. . As a rule. Most women also. light thrust would not be satisfying. Without this sort of continued stimulation many women feel that they have had only half an orgasm. An important point regarding thrusting during orgasm which must be made is that women generally like some sort of stimulation to continue during their orgasm – it helps to make it more intense. albeit more gently. when you are both approaching orgasm thrust deeper or faster or more forcefully or a combination of the three. Should your partner prefer a harder. Occasionally a big jump has a pleasing drama and forcefulness about it. Within the space of 3 or 4 strokes the transition between thrusting techniques should have been fully effected. once you have learned to orgasm internally without ejaculation you should find that it is perfectly possible and also more satisfying for you to continue to thrust. when you are both approaching a powerful orgasm a shallow. more intense stimulation during her actual orgasm you could try using a thrusting technique which stimulates her very intensely but you only comparatively mildly. You then do so smoothly by decreasing the extent to which you draw out of the vagina whilst also increasing the attention you pay to your partner’s cervix at the deepest end of the stroke. Conversely. And when you both want to focus more on the sensuality of the lovemaking thrust more slowly. Conversely. say you are using long and full thrusts and are both approaching orgasm. but more usually it is more satisfying for the lovemaking to flow and dance effortlessly rather than jump all over the place. such as the deep circular thrust. partial stroke would be more appropriate to the energetic and physical nature of this stage of lovemaking. Finally. Rather a gentle. However. satisfying and total for them. Whilst doing so ensure you don’t lose any of the controlled power so characteristic of skilful thrusting at the close-to-orgasm stage. In practice this is achieved by ensuring that the thrusting technique to which you intend to change is appropriate considering where the lovemaking and the orgasm process is going and then melding the one technique into the other.32 inconsistent at this stage. For example. closer stimulation. prefer this sort of more gentle stimulation during the orgasm itself. during your orgasms. more intense thrust which provides you both with stronger sensations and a greater sense of union.
Hopefully this is one of the many things which this book will go some way towards rectifying.33 Once you are aware of all this though detailed focus on technique isn’t really that necessary. Despite this. it is useful for a woman to develop some degree of skill in thrusting for the times when she wishes to stimulate her man in this more active. combining basic female thrusting techniques with internal muscular techniques can produce some truly exquisite sensations for both you and your partner. Your lower back should curve outwards as you do so and your perineal region will move . external way as well as to use to signal to her partner what she wishes him to do and to enable the two of you to thrust together. with your outstretched arms supporting a good portion of your weight. Far better then to let him do the great majority of the work is this area. To perform the standard thrust then. Due to the physical mechanics of it all it is difficult for a woman to achieve the same degree of skill in thrusting that it is possible for a man to attain. The up-thrust is then effected by curving your hips as far back as you can. In terms of the mechanical aspects of lovemaking a woman’s skill is better focused on the more internal muscular stimulating techniques such as milking. a woman’s pleasure does seem to become more limited by taking the active role in this way than a man’s pleasure is limited by his taking this form of active role. Due to its reliance on hip movement rather than leg muscles this is the one thrust which it is relatively easy to maintain over a long period of time when you are on top. Nevertheless. Female thrusting techniques To be honest thrusting is not really a very female activity. The down-thrust is then effected by curving your hips forward as far as you can. This is in order to allow you a good degree of freedom of movement with your hips. and your perineal region will rise considerably above the upper surface of your partner’s torso. in unison. it never fails to surprise me how few women are aware of this thrusting technique and how even fewer are competent at it. leaning forward. Further. the first thing you have to do is assume the right position: astride your man. Also. With a little time and a lot of practice all of this should flow effortlessly and naturally. The standard thrust: woman on top The standard thrust is effected by means of hip movements very similar to that employed by men when they are thrusting. Your lower back should curve upwards as you do so.
etc. It is because this thrust is dependent on some sort of flexing of the leg muscles that the extent to which it can be varied with regards to speed. in this sort of position. the upper surface of your partner’s torso. In the woman on top positions this necessitates an up and down movement of the whole torso which is achieved by means of the flexing of the leg muscles. achieve anywhere near the same effects. The downstroke can either be achieved through the effects of gravity as you allow your whole upper torso to return to the initial starting position or if you are in a sexual position where you are leaning forward taking a portion of your weight on your hands it can be effected by pushing backwards using your arms and shoulder muscles. is severely limited. III-32: The straight thrust: woman on top The precise way in which the leg muscles are flexed to produce the upstroke is dependent upon the specific sexual position being used. possibly with the head pressing against your cervix. or very near to. even once you have developed good leg muscles through your practice of The Five Tibetans or other exercises. grinding or hip movement can. Dg. III-31: The standard thrust: woman on top: a) fully down b) fully up This thrust can be varied by changing the speed at which you curve your hips back and forth and also the degree to which you move them back (which determines how far out of your vagina your partner’s penis moves to) and forward (which determines how deep into your vagina you move your partner’s penis). Dg. direction of thrust. force.34 downwards to rest on. III-33: The straight thrust: the downstroke No form of rocking. The angle of thrust is also easily changed by placing yourself slightly off-centre to your partner’s penis. This will enable you to better direct the penis to where you want it to go. Dg. You can however alter the depth of the thrust quite easily by varying the extent to which you come up/go down. an effect . The straight thrust: woman on top The straight thrust is the name given to moving in such a way that your partner’s penis goes from being held at or near the opening of the vagina to being deep within the vagina.
it is very worthwhile combining this thrusting technique with the internal milking technique. the motion of the hips is the same. Also practice combining the circular thrust with the straight thrust to producing a spiralling movement. Or vice versa. Also it is useful to practice it a bit in order that the two of you can perform joint thrusting techniques comfortably and easily. It is worth experimenting with varying the size of the circles along with the depth at which the penis is held to produce different effects and sensations. Dg. The standard thrust: woman on bottom This is achieved using a back and forth curving movement of the hips.35 which can also be achieved by altering the angle at which you hold your hips. during a full upstroke simultaneously perform a pulling milking contraction and then follow this with a pushing milking contraction on the downstroke. pull away if shallower etc. you can use the same arc of motion. III-34: The standard thrust. Dg. in order to angle your hips and so your partner’s penis to stimulate specific areas within your vagina when it is your partner who is doing the thrusting. Finally. more internally. except holding it steady at a particular point. This thrust is most useful as a “signal” to your partner as to what you want him to do: for example thrust faster if you want him to go faster. deeper if deeper. For example. The circular thrust This thrust involves moving your hips in a circular motion to produce a stirring movement of your partner’s penis within your vagina. Whether you are on the top or the bottom. deep circles to stimulate the cervix or large. fairly shallow circles to stimulate the g-spot. III-35: Circular thrusting Thrusting in doggy-style . both when on top and when on the bottom. by contracting your internal vaginal muscles to fetch specific parts of your vagina into closer contact with your partner’s penis. Finally. woman on the bottom It is far easier to vary the thrust when in this position than when on top. And. For example you could try small.
So feel free to experiment and decide for yourself what you like best. probably be necessary to tell your partner to keep still before hand. Dg. Dg. deeper stages. It is in these early stages of lovemaking that doggy-style rear-entry positions are best used because they do not allow for the alignment of the energetic centres of both partners which is necessary in the later. III-37: Thrusting together – the outstroke Then he pushes inwards whilst the woman pushes forwards. In this position all the thrusting techniques we have covered so far. however. Thrusting together Thrusting together requires a little coordination and a good intuitive connection between the partners but it is well worth the effort for it can produce some truly amazing results and sensations. Do bear in mind also that whilst doggy-style is the easiest position for most women in which to perform the more involved thrusting techniques it isn’t too much harder to perform them in most woman-ontop positions either. easily and fluidly changing . A good basic thrust to begin with to help you to get used to moving together in this way is the basic back and forth stroke.36 The rear-entry position commonly known as doggy-style – and other positions like it – affords you far greater control of the thrusting process than is possible in any other position. It will. can be used with ease. Dg. III-36: Thrusting in doggy style This allows for a good little trick to use in the very early stages of lovemaking where the penis is held no deeper than the bottom third of the vagina and a variety of circular. You might also want to take a look at the various thrusting techniques covered in the section “Male thrusting techniques” – it shouldn’t be too hard to figure out how to adapt the techniques given there so that you can perform the female equivalents yourself. he pulls outwards whilst the woman pulls backwards. spiralling and straight strokes are used to massage the penis head. both those involving moving the whole body and those involving moving primarily only the hips. III-38: Thrusting together: the instroke Practice this until it flows quite naturally and masterfully and you are both used to moving together in this way. With the man on top.
straight on. Thereby changing the course of the entire thrust. spread apart and held further away from the body tends to make the vagina longer and more open. by varying the relative positioning of the hips (e. An easier and quicker approach is to learn the basic positions on whose variation the vast plethora of positions is based (with only a few exceptions).g. Secondly. at different speeds.) it is possible to vary the angle of entry of the penis into the vagina. either a face to face approach or a front-to-back approach. Another good technique to try is for one of you to thrust circularly whilst the other thrusts back and forth. standing and sitting upright. This can be used to stimulate different parts of the vagina. And by placing one or both of the woman’s legs in such a position that they will be moved as the man thrusts it is possible for the way in which the vagina is internally held to be varied over the course of each thrust. the other anti-clockwise) using different sized circles or spirals and. By holding each leg at a different position it is possible to affect the left and the right sides of the vagina separately. except in different directions (one moves clockwise. On a more advanced level you can both use circular or spiralling thrusts. and to produce deeper or more shallow penetration. Sexual positions There is a vast plethora of possible sexual positions and an equally vast number of books available telling you all about them. it is not really worth spending huge amounts of time learning. Regarding the variation of the basic positions it is worth realizing that there are 2 basic ways in which this is done. where appropriate. It is these basic positions along with some of their basic variations which we shall cover in this section. and of the penis. Closer together and drawn up towards the body tends to make the vagina shorter and tighter. the force of the stroke etc. the depth of penetration. Combined with. These are: man on top. the angle.37 such things as the speed. This can result in some very different sensations for both of you. rear-entry. side-entry. not to mention acquiring the necessary flexibility to perform some of them. The returns in terms of variety. The first is by varying the way in which the woman holds her legs. However. Then learn to do the same with the woman on top. Though by all means feel free to work your way through them with the handy assistance of a reference book and then make up your own mind. intensity or depth of pleasure so acquired simply do not justify it. . woman on top. memorizing and perfecting all of these. slightly off-centre to the right etc. with practice.
If you bear these principles in mind then you will be able to easily create your own positions and. to allow for deeper penetration. especially if your penis is still a little on the short side. to feel closer to your partner. III-40: The vagina tightener This variation makes the vagina tighter resulting in stronger sensations for both partners. Deep penetration is however more difficult with the woman’s legs in this position. Then the different positions will become a valuable tool rather than being a mere novelty item. III-39: The basic missionary The standard missionary position allows for easy penetration and easy thrusting. aligns your energy centres to your partner’s. Consequently. By supporting his weight on his hands the man avoids any great mixing of the energies.). to make the vagina tighter. then it is best to use a position which is not face-to-face with the fronts of your torsos touching. in other positions this type of joining does not readily occur thereby naturally leading you to tend to focus more on your own sensations and pleasures. 1 This happens naturally to a limited degree but can be made to happen to a much greater degree using conscious intent. This allows for the melding (joining) of your energy centres to the corresponding energy centres of your partner. Dg.38 On a deeper level it’s also worth being aware that the face-to-face positions with the fronts of your torsos physically touching. . if during sex this is what you’d prefer to focus on for a while. Dg. Thereby producing a feeling of great closeness and other effects 1 . etc. It is primarily for this reason that only face-to-face positions are used at ASP II. Placing a pillow or two under the woman’s buttocks in this position helps with g-spot stimulation. Man on top positions Dg. Which makes this position good for stimulating your partner’s deep point. The man supporting his weight on his elbows produces sufficient proximity of the two partners to allow for the relatively easy mixing of energies. more importantly. III-41: The deep penetrator This position allows for deep penetration and for great closeness as the energies will naturally mix quite strongly. Conversely. you will understand why you are doing so (for example.
In this position thrusting is most easily performed by the man. III-43: The standard woman-on-top The standard woman on top position. Also a good position to use should the woman wish to massage her partner’s penis using more external movements. she can remain comparatively still while the man does the thrusting. This position is also ideal for the practice of the milking techniques. require greater leg strength and is not the best to use if you wish to practice internal muscular techniques. Dg. Rear-entry positions Dg. animalistic fucking.39 Dg. Do note that it does not have to be the woman who thrusts in this position. III-47: The g-spotter For most men this is the easiest position in which to stimulate their partner’s g-spot. Dg. It does. III-45: The great closeness: woman-on-top Allows for great closeness between the partners and the easy mixing of energies. however. III-44: The woman squatting on top This position makes the vagina tighter and allows for fairly deep penetration. III-46: Doggy-style Good for hard. Side-entry positions . Despite the physical proximity of this position the face to back approach does not produce the chakric alignments necessary to allow for the easy mixing of the partners’ energies. Allows her to easily direct her partner’s penis to where she wishes it to go. Woman on top positions Dg. Dg. Good for sex over lovemaking. III-42: The right angle Allows the partners’ energies to be easily kept very separate.
allow for very deep penetration. Which makes this position the perfect one to use for long-lasting sex sessions. III-48: Spooning Sometimes a good way to start sex in the middle of the night after you’ve both been sleeping and are not yet fully awake. in this position it is relatively easy for the man to enter the woman quite deeply indeed and thrust fairly fast and powerfully. III-51: The power stand Normally a hard position for the man entailing significant leg and back strength and stamina. Chakric alignment (see ASP II p. etc. III-49: Side-entry. soulmerging. face-to-face Again a very relaxing position. like all side entry positions. Dg. III-50: The long-timer In this position the woman lies on her back and the man lies on his side. The man’s legs pass under the woman’s legs and her leg nearest to him rests on top of his pelvis. unlike the other sideentry positions. This means that this position can be maintained for hours without the body really tiring. If however you combine not ejaculating for a month or so with the practice of the Chi-kung / martial arts horse stance or embracing the tree stance then this position becomes very easy to maintain over long periods of time (provided your partner is not seriously overweight). relaxing position for both partners. Standing positions Dg. Dg. III-52: The forest stand Good if you’re outdoors… . Does not. However. …) is however not possible in this position and as such this position is not ideal for lovemaking. Allows for hard thrusting. A very easy. Dg. however. The great advantage of this position is that.40 Dg. deep penetration and also the easy mixing of energies. it is very easy to maintain as it places very little stress on the body. but with the advantage that it allows for the easy mixing of energies.
III-53: The classic tantric The standard position normally recommended and used by tantric sex practitioners. Both partners being able to place their legs on the floor makes thrusting much easier and more effective for them both. Also allows for easy thrusting by the woman if she fetches her arms into play. using them to help her move her body up and down. he pulls the woman towards him so that she is not sitting completely straightly erect but is leaning slightly forwards. As such. III-55: The Paris chair The having sex version of the preceding lovemaking position. during sex try not to break the flow of the whole process by stopping halfway through to laboriously rearrange yourself and your partner into a new position. With practice you can also get the changes between positions of different basic types flowing smoothly as well. A note on the use of sexual positions Sexual positions should be used to enhance not detract from the pleasures of sex and lovemaking. Thrusting is however difficult for either partner in this position. Allows for the easy mixing of energies and is also the easiest position in which to draw the energy upwards through the spine due to the erect. Also. Rather. though internal muscular techniques can be used here with ease. and at the same time he supports her back by linking his arms behind her shoulder blades. If whilst doing so.g. III-54: The westernized tantric A westernized version of the previous position. Dg. the more you will find your desire for the variety offered by such things as different positions decreasing. then her back also can relax for a while. straightness of the spine. Also maintaining an erect spine in this way is difficult over long periods of time for most western couples. The deeper that you move into lovemaking. Dg. This is easy to do between positions which are all of the same basic type (e. man on top).41 Sitting positions Dg. try to fluidly move from one position to another all the while keeping the penis within the vagina. Once you are in the very deep stages of lovemaking you will . the man can lean against the chair back for support when he needs it.
And so on. simply try to use a position which complements and makes easier that which you are trying to do at that time. no desire to change positions at all. A build-up which is released in the orgasm resulting in the feeling. Taking sex deeper This section doesn’t really teach anything new – it just summarizes and brings together everything covered so far into a unified whole. So then: . Indeed physical movement as a whole will have become something of a distraction and so will be very limited at this stage. Practice and experiment and you should quite easily reach your own conclusions and understandings in this area. For example. This strong flow of energy into your partner should be enough to fetch him or her to orgasm also and then the two of you will be orgasming together. Regarding which positions to use when. Thereby showing the connection between everything and so making explicit and clear anything you might not be entirely sure about. Do note that it is only energy which flows outwards in this technique – it does not involve ejaculation. Further details on how to do this can be found in the “Male Orgasm Practices” section. Coming together As your partner approaches orgasm you should feel a build up of warmth and energy in his penis or within her vagina. Hard fucking? Doggy style’s pretty good. so that you yourself do not end up losing any energy. Pay attention to these phenomena until you are able to feel them quite clearly and notice them with ease and precision. If it isn’t. work on your timing and on ensuring that the outwards energy flow is powerful enough and directed enough. Once you can do this it is then possible to notice when your partner is sufficiently close to orgasm and then have or induce an orgasm of your own in which you allow the energy to flow outwards into your partner rather than inwards and upwards. you want to feel close to your partner? Use a face to face position which involves the torsos touching. afterwards. After your partner has finished his or her orgasm you can then draw the energy which you sent into him or her back into you.42 feel no need. that there is less energy centred there. Once you have begun to use the techniques contained in ASP II however you will both be drawing in such massive amounts of energy that this sort of “energetic accountancy” becomes highly irrelevant.
These two factors also are interconnected. For example. then you’ll never really develop any real degree of sensitivity in any other portion of your sexual organs. whilst deficiency leads to greater deficiency. if your sexual energy is low it will be difficult for you to maintain your body in good physical condition. Also. In order for this sort of deeper sex to be possible it is. Thirdly. Consequently it’s all quite circular and progress leads swiftly to more progress. For a woman this refers mainly to the internal portions of the vagina. For a man this refers mainly to the shaft of the penis. Secondly. necessary: 1) to be able to internalize your attention and hold a steady. in order for this sort of deeper sex to be possible it is necessary: . if you’re in poor physical condition your physical body will not be able to contain any significant quantity of sexual energy. Hence the importance of The Orgasm Practices becomes obvious. cumulatively and rapidly. Hence the importance of The Foundation Practices becomes obvious. in order for this sort of deeper sex to be possible it is necessary: 1) to increase the sensitivity of your sexual organs. the deeper you take your sex the more intense. if your level of sexual energy is low you’ll find it much harder to effectively internalize your attention. conversely. a strong and more harmonious overall relationship between them. Your vagina or penile shaft also has a very important role to play and function to fulfil in the sexual and orgasmic processes. and rely on such stimulation for your orgasms. the more pleasurable and the more transformative the whole experience becomes. a greater feeling of closeness between the partners. relaxed focus 2) to have a high level of sexual energy 3) to be in good physical condition All of these three factors are interconnected. Conversely. greater unity between their two souls and.43 Deeper sex means deeper orgasms. If the sensitivity of the deeper portions of your sexual organs is low you’ll be unable to find anything but the stimulation of your clitoris or penile head even remotely satisfying. 2) to not rely solely upon stimulation of your clitoris or penile head for the production of sexual sensations and increased arousal. All in all. the more profound. if you can’t effectively internalize your attention you’ll find it very difficult to increase your sexual energy: conversely. firstly. consequently. also cumulatively and possibly rapidly. if you focus only on stimulation of your clitoris or penile head.
Now. how to orgasm and what orgasm is. It’s not possible to attain a good mastery of the physical lovemaking techniques and have them powerfully flow if your body and energetic system is not clear as to how to relate them to the orgasmic process.44 1) to attain a good mastery of the physical lovemaking techniques. or even when and in what way you are going to orgasm. if you don’t know what orgasm really is and don’t know how to really orgasm then it will be very difficult for you to enthusiastically and effectively perform the physical techniques with the degree of subtlety and mastery which is required. whilst in that state. Once you begin to practice with this you’ll find that a bit of the way into the sexual session. Just let it all flow. and so also expanding and becoming more powerful of their own accord. and keep your awareness . about how to thrust properly. all of these factors combine to produce deep sex and the secret as to how they do so is this: they allow you to enter the meditative state during sex and. Yet bear in mind that you can reassert control over them at any point should it prove necessary. However. these two factors are interconnected. at times. and a strong awareness of.e. usually around a ½ hour or so. Rather than thinking. Again. control) this does not mean you’re sitting cross-legged humming and barely moving. Hence the importance of lots of sexual and orgasmic practice becomes obvious. as should be clear to you by now. focus and. more sensual stages of lovemaking. And at the end of the day all that this meditative state amounts to is an exclusive focus on. all the sensations and energy movements of which sex consists. Conversely. the internal energies will start going deeper and higher of their own accord. for example. Once this begins to happen you don’t really have to control and direct them anymore – you can just flow with them. Otherwise you’ll be so caught up in trying to get these right that you won’t be able to focus on the deeper aspects of sex nor will you be able to relax sufficiently to enjoy the whole thing. to powerfully control the internal. Finally do note that whilst you may be having sex in a meditative state (i. energetic aspects of sex rather than having them control you. there is a lot more to orgasm than the energy loss and shallow contractions which form the limits of most people’s orgasmic experience. The point is to be able to be in this meditative state at all times during the sexual session – when fucking hard like an animal as well as during the slower. 2) to know. too. Most people tend to rely on having their body forced to a very partial and shallow form of orgasm (which for women means clitoral orgasms and for men means ejaculatory orgasm). with internal awareness. what your partner feels for you. experientially. control the flow if need be.
The point behind it. the reason (or one of the reasons) why this occurs is that because of it when you have sex with someone you will experience. learn what he has learnt and also on the other hand feel the effects of his imbalances through your sexual interaction. It is all rather like a more powerful version of spending time with someone who is depressed and so feeling depressed yourself. although with regards to the levels we’re referring to here this effect occurs most with reference to moods and emotional states. The mystical purpose of sex Other than great pleasure and. see the section “The deeper mystical purpose of the union of the sexes” on p. It is this: whenever you have sex with anybody. just as all that you are will affect him. brilliance. Essentially what we’re talking about here is the mingling of your auras. and how it all works at that level. though parts of your deeper soul will also touch (but not merge and join. Hence you will.45 on what you’re experiencing rather than off lost in the mists of your desires or the mire of your thoughts. Now many people can sleep with someone and not notice much difference within themselves. with little talent. What this all amounts to is that all that your partner is: his character. sex has one other mystical purpose. no matter how well or how badly or how willingly you do so. For more details on this deeper level. his life’s experiences and his mood at that time will affect you. Usually this is due to the state of an incredible lack of awareness of themselves and of their own consciousness that most people live in. giving a soul the opportunity to incarnate. unless a deeper connection is established). “…”. insight or even such negative but highly noticeable traits as a powerful cruelty. what it is like to live life from their perspective. on occasion. actually experiencing the depression yourself or spending time with someone who is very happy and so actually experiencing great happiness yourself. what it is like to be them. Also it is because if your sexual partner is very forgettable as a person. you absorb a portion of their energies and they absorb a portion of your energies. within him then there will be little there to have an effect on your soul . his deep soul. Except with sex the intermingling of energies is more total. at a deeper level it also occurs with reference to states of consciousness and the nature of your spirits themselves. even if only slightly and barely consciously at that. more obvious and longer-lasting. Because of this you will take on some of your partner’s active karma (the karma that he or she is gong through at that particular time) and your partner will take on a portion of your active karma. Further. in diluted form.
This in-drawing of energy on the woman’s part continues even after the orgasmic contractions have subsided. It is this pouring forth of the core of her being into her partner which produces the feeling of deep acceptance by her partner which women also experience with deeply orgasmic lovemaking. her being and her soul. to an extent. some effect there will be even if it is only a move towards greater mediocrity on your part. she has. However. the female deep orgasmic process also means that she. continual. quite literally. to totally experience all that your partner is through lovemaking and to join together down to the deepest levels of your being. talents. The man for his part absorbs large amounts of yin from the woman which serve to encompass and pacify his naturally more yang energy. are open to her partner to partake of as far and as deeply as he is capable of doing. which. Nevertheless. their fears and their emotionalities as well as the more external manifestations of their insights. if you deeply love and respect your sexual partner this won’t be what you’re really seeking to do. Also. be taking on their character traits. thereby causing him to feel more tranquil. a man’s energetic structures are not constructed in the same way as a woman’s and so he himself is technically unable to draw in large amounts of . satisfied and at peace. Anal sex During normal vaginal sex the man stimulates the woman to a deep orgasmic state which results in her energetic structures expanding and pulsing and thereby drawing in large amounts of energy. Rather you will want to find a way to deepen the lovemaking between the two of you. This drawn-in energy is then automatically shared with the man (provided he is open to it) because the open energetic state necessary for. Now it is possible to prevent all of this from occurring provided you are conscious of it and how to do so (see the section “Clearing the effects of unified energies” on p. in the form of her characteristic core yin energy. This is why it is good to be wise in your choice of sexual partners and always remember that by having sex with them you will. qualities and the like. It is this opening of the core of her being which produces the feeling of deep profundity and intimacy which women experience with deeply orgasmic lovemaking. and characteristic of. the large amount of yin he receives from his partner produces the feeling that she has truly given herself to him. resulting in a steady drawing-in of energy from the external universe by the woman once a few deep orgasms have opened and activated her energetic structures sufficiently to allow such a drawing-in process to be ongoing. “…” for more information on this). It is on how to do all of this that ASP II focuses.46 and so little there to notice. Now.
Hence also why women who regularly have anal sex are usually a lot bitchier and “couldn’t-give-a-shit” in their behaviour – the presence of substantial yang energy in their core gives them the force and the ability to fetch out into the world things they would normally keep within themselves and not live or express.47 energy during sex in the same natural and total way as a woman (unless the couple are in the midst of a full soulmerge. for the average man and woman. behave in a free. The key point is this: during anal sex the direction of the energetic flow is reversed: it instead flows from the man into the woman. The solution is simple: merely alternate anal sex with vaginal sex. Ten minutes of anal sex followed by twenty minutes of vaginal sex followed by a ½ hour of anal followed by twenty minutes of vaginal again as the desire takes you and the flow of energy guides you. This yang will give substance. It is because their yin has been given substance and body by the yang they have absorbed from their partner. a man’s energetic structures are not like a woman’s and so will not draw in energy in the way that a woman’s are capable of doing. from the man’s ejaculation. However. often. . At the same time the woman herself will absorb a lot of yang energy from her partner during anal sex. force and. to a limited extent. direction to her yin. As a result the energetic flow man to woman which occurs during anal sex will reduce and subside after a while (usually 10 minutes to a ½ hour or so) as most of his surplus yang energy flows into the woman. It is repeated here just so you can have it clearly in the front of your mind when we turn to that which is to follow. As a consequence the profundity and usefulness of anal sex cannot. be sustained for very long. As a result anal sex gives a man the same feelings of deep intimacy and profundity which a woman experiences during vaginal sex. his yang energy. So the man pours the core of his being. uninhibited manner with less dependency and more substance to them. Now all of the above has already been covered in this book. It is for this reason that women will often. of its own. Thereby enabling her to fetch her innermost nature and desires out to the surface to be expressed and lived. albeit some of it implicitly rather than explicitly. and so you should already be aware of it. The woman in her turn gets the yang she needs to give substance and direction for her yin from the relationship as a whole and also. Hence it is through such sex that the man gets the yin he needs to balance out and harmonize his yang. into the woman. see p. “…”). after a good bout of anal sex. the man will focus more on the sex whilst the woman will focus more on the relationship. Consequently the overwhelming majority of the energetic flow during deep orgasmic vaginal sex is from woman to man. Hence the main esoteric reason why.
It is this which constitutes part of the beauty and magic of sex. who will. energetic centre Hence one of the reasons why we tend to idealize our love partners: we are quite literally receiving a very idealized energetic description of them during sex. the yang energy which the woman has acquired through the preceding anal sex session will give her energetic core more power and substance resulting in her drawing in more energy. A good portion of this yang he will then. will increase also. much like the g-spot or the deep point within the vagina. Dg. As a consequence the energy the receptive partner absorbs will be purer and more refined than it was whilst within the partner with whom it originated 2 . after a good session of alternating vaginal/anal intercourse both of your energies will be a lot purer. as he absorbs it into his energetic structures. Firstly. yet very potent. e. Secondly. and the strength of both partners’ orgasms. more powerfully during the vaginal sex session which follows. As a result. Now. make a good part of it yang. III-56: The Jupiter female rectal point You will notice that this key point is quite a way up inside the woman and so once again. a lot more refined. (This also means that she will orgasm more easily and more powerfully during vaginal sex if it follows on from an anal sex session). That is the basic process. This point in the female rectum is also a sensitive orgasm point. when the energy flows naturally from one partner to another.g. Deep anal penetration of the woman by the man results in the head of the penis passing through the very centre of the woman’s Jupiter chakra. There is also one further important factor to consider. pass on to the woman during the anal sex session. in his turn. with each change from anal to vaginal to anal sex the absolute quantity of energy in play will increase and so the feeling of intimacy and pleasure. but with its own specific characteristics and effects. 2 . Stimulate this point enough and the centre of the woman’s Jupiter chakra will connect with a minor. from woman to man. it does retain the essential qualities of the partner from whom it originated but is nevertheless naturally and automatically refined to a very significant extent in the process of being absorbed by the receptive partner. Consequently. if you are continually alternating the direction of the energetic flow by alternating between vaginal and anal sex you will be continually refining your core energies as they move between the two of you. the man needs a significantly large penis in order to reach it.48 Other than both partners establishing a balanced yin/yang energetic state within themselves there are two other advantages to alternating vaginal and anal sex in this way. A good portion of the energy which she absorbs in this way will be passed on to her partner.
If you feel these topics have no real relevance to you or your partner(s) simply skip to the next sub-section: “Anal sex: physical practicalities” on p “…”.49 within the tip of the man’s penis leading to the woman experiencing a very potent. A lot of women nowadays do have a real issue about anal sex. this orgasm is not. sustainable for a long period of time because you will recall this particular orgasmic process started at the Jupiter chakra and then shot upwards. therapy-oriented kind then take a look at the plethora of such books already available on the market. As this occurs the woman will begin to feel the strong urge towards vaginal sex once again. filling her central route with yang energy and blasting open all the chakras located upon it on the way. By this time the man will probably have poured all his yang out into the woman and so he too will be inclining towards vaginal sex once again too. The main piece of advice I have to give in this area is: get over it. but very pleasurable way. after a while. unfortunately. Consequently. And so the upward orgasmic spiral continues. from the Jupiter and up. If you close your eyes you’ll probably see bright white light behind your closed lids. are blasted open as a result of the specific type of anal orgasm just described. But don’t expect any of these books to improve your sex life or even solve your problems and issues regarding sex. So. However. As a consequence it lacks the Saturn element necessary to give it a strong and substantial foundation. very intense type of orgasm as yang energy ignites within her Jupiter chakra causing it to rush up to her crown. the more energy you pump into them and the stronger and more . Drawing in large amounts of energy as she does so. the more you indulge them. the energy will begin to flow back down into the Saturn seeking to fill it too. They view it as dirty and unnatural and are afraid it will hurt. tingly light and as if the top of your head has been blasted upon in an intense. If you want advice of the more limp-wristed. etc. The key thing to realize is that now all her chakras. That’s how powerful this form of orgasm is. Women: emotional and psychological readiness Now before we turn to a few basic physical considerations it is probably necessary to address the issues of psychological and emotional readiness regarding anal sex. once her Saturn chakra has also drawn in enough energy (usually this takes 5-10 minutes of vaginal sex to achieve) she will then orgasm very easily and very powerfully during the vaginal sex. Do not indulge your fears and do not tolerate emotional prejudices within yourself. The fact remains that the more you focus on your problems. In terms of sensation it feels as if your whole core is filled with sparkly.
Then. Never. is it predominantly a question of the right man. the starting point is you yourself. She’ll probably be a lot more receptive to the idea now. worthy of. And remember always to never let the subconscious forces within your mind-body complex control and restrict you. once she is strongly vaginally orgasmic. your new state of being. Your life is by divine right yours to live but it won’t be if you let your fears and prejudices do your living for you. as in all others of all life and all sexual practice. From such a position of inner stability and confidence all sex with all men will be eminently pleasurable and satisfying (provided they have at least a basic level of ability on their side!). After all if the woman you are with doesn’t fully satisfy you . Dissolve them. It is a question of balance within yourself and acceptance of your nature as an integrally sexual being first and foremost. and has experienced the depths and the extreme pleasures which vaginal orgasms can produce. If however she still isn’t willing then you could consider finding yourself another woman who is more sexually adventurous or having an affair. And the natural results of this is that as you live your life as someone who partakes of and enjoys sex more and more you will in time draw unto yourself a partner corresponding to. in any form of sexual practice. something to be defended against and resisted to viewing it as an intensely pleasurable mutually profound experience. remove them or change them as you see fit. So in this field too. which does involve considerable work on her part. as well as attention to her body and orgasmic responses. Use meditation wisely and with focus and discipline work directly on the fears and prejudices within yourself. There’s nothing like the prospect of extreme orgasmic pleasures to encourage a woman towards a particular course of action. at the point or points within your body where they are located in their energetic form. So fundamentally the best approach to take is for both of you to work towards making her strongly vaginally orgasmic. In practice what is necessary in order to overcome your fears. The main thing to realize is that a woman won’t really be able to enjoy anal sex until she is very strongly vaginally orgasmically. then suggest anal sex to her once more. probably even eager to give it a go. One final point worth noting on this topic. In this case from viewing anal sex as invasive. Men: women’s emotional and psychological readiness The best way to overcome any emotional and psychological obstacles women may have regarding anal sex is to get them to the stage where they can easily enjoy anal sex to an extreme.50 entrenched they become. emotionalities and psychological obstacles is to shift your state of consciousness from one perspective to another. but also considerable work on your part.
it does not have a definite end. As always I recommend a good-quality natural oil for lubrication such as almond or macadamia nut oil. gently and slowly. fully lubricate your penis and insert the tip of it into her anus. unlike her vagina. rest it there a while. but preferably more. You can continue to three fingers if you believe it necessary. the more of your penis you can push into her using a progression of gradually deeper thrusts to achieve this. metaphorically of course. Once it is fully in. First. intense vaginal orgasms. These will loosen up all her muscles in the pelvic region including those within the rectum itself. taking the session deep enough to give the woman at least three or so. Continue in this manner until she opens up sufficiently. secretes no natural lubricant of its own and so an artificial lubricant will have to be used. Then begin to move it in and out as you would when fingering her vagina. deep. and begins to enjoy it sufficiently to enable you to insert a second finger. At the same time you can also stimulate her vaginally if you like as this often helps the process. lubricate one single finger well using a natural oil. It will also change the way she experiences sensation: a stimulation which in a cold. bear in mind that the rectum. Then continue the stimulation as she opens up further. The more she opens up. but two is often sufficient to open her up sufficiently for her to be able to accommodate at least a portion of your penis. Again. And the good thing about her anus is that. highly aroused state most likely feel as pleasurable in an intense sort of way instead. It might even teach her that she needs. unlike the vagina. once you’ve fully inserted both fingers wait a while with them inside her before you begin moving them in and out. Instead perform a series of gentle. So even if you’re significantly bigger than average you should be . Also. shallow thrusts pushing no more than the top third of your penis into her.51 sexually and isn’t willing to even try to fully satisfy you sexually then she isn’t really entitled to object if you seek that satisfaction elsewhere. to loosen up a bit. Insert this finger into her anus. Anal sex: the physical practicalities The anus and the rectum need time and a gentle start in order to comfortably open up sufficiently to pleasurably allow anal intercourse to commence. Once you feel she is ready for it. She still needs time to open up and get used to its size and feel. have vaginal intercourse for at least a good half hour or so. Do not push your whole penis all the way into the anus at this point. In terms then of the physical practicalities of anal sex the recommendation is to proceed as follows. unaroused state she would probably feel as painful she will in her hot. Next.
If your partner is going too slowly working through progressively more fingers before inserting his penis into you. Then when the actual anal sex gets underway. And if you feel you’re already ready for penile penetration. then tell him so. of it inside her. One final point. comfortably and painlessly in. which you will probably . experience. From this point of full penetration. or at least most. So. profound or substantial as vaginal orgasms. After the first anal sex session within one sexual session there is no need to do the gradual finger-by-finger thing again. thrust more or less as you would in standard vaginal intercourse but use steadier. smoother strokes and don’t really bother with any of the circular thrusting techniques (no cervix here to stimulate you see). Ending the sexual session In normal sexual practice the sexual session is terminated by the man’s ejaculation and subsequent loss of erection. go with it and allow the yang energy to flow from you into her as it desires to do so. as a man or a couple. From the woman’s point of view. Do not try to control or direct it too much until you get used to feeling it and are sensitive to how it works. you will not be limited in this way. whilst you’re still starting out on anal sex. anal orgasms are truly mind-blowing. You may if you wish. Then when the anal stimulation starts focus on the stimulation itself and feed it into the pleasurable sensations. pay special attention to her Jupiter chakra point by using a very deep thrust with minimal movement back out on the outstroke. euphoric pleasure characteristic of deep orgasm. switch back to the anus once more your penis should just slide smoothly. very intense and very pleasurable. The sensations and the orgasms are usually very strong. Not that you’ll cause any damage if you do so.52 able to fit all. and if your penis is long enough. Her anus will usually remain open and relaxed whilst you’re in the vagina once more so that when you want. He isn’t doing it so much for his own pleasure as out of consideration for you. no more than ½” . are using the techniques presented in this book however. or when she wants you to. let go and go with it. let go with the orgasms in the vaginal sex allowing them to take you to that place of intense.1”. observe and learn first. If you. though usually not as deep. believe me he won’t object. it’s just that your progress will probably be slower if you try to control something before you fully understand how to do so and what effects it will have. In their own way though. Much more intense than anything experienced through vaginal sex. The question arises then: when do you stop having sex or making love? One option. More importantly however.
Also it is unlikely that you will always have the 4 or 5 hours plus that it takes to get to this state 3 . especially your testicles. One option then is to simply have an inwards and upwards orgasm and then withdraw. Probably the most pleasurable way in which to do this is to finish with an orgasm. The key considerations are that you wish to finish feeling both satisfied and energized. checking that there is not an excessive amount of energy there. gently withdraw. it does tend to effectively put you out of action.53 experience quite a few times.C. There will also probably be quite forceful contractions in other parts of your body especially around the spine and belly areas. subtler muscular movements also. as well as softer. muscles and deeper muscles contracting quite forcefully. If you find any of these contractions uncomfortable or undesirable merely strongly will them to stop and they will do so. draw it upwards and transmute it so that your testicles don’t end up feeling sore and overfull and to prevent any stagnation of the sexual energy. pay attention to your sexual organs. for the next few days at least. therefore. So much so in fact that vigorous sex can continue almost indefinitely without any real soreness being experienced by either partner. Also. . Afterwards. orgasming more and more energy out of your genitals and up into the rest of your body until your erection subsides and disappears. Whilst this is going on you will feel your penis. Whilst you are doing this it is a good idea for the woman also to be orgasming in a similar way so that you both finish in the same sort of state. necessary. Whilst this sort of extremism can be fun occasionally. But if there is. for a while. built up a good amount of energy in the whole body and are significantly if not thoroughly satisfied. P. Needless to say it is best to finish the sexual session in this way only after both you and your partner have had several orgasms. More satisfying though and also a better option regarding the conservation of energy is to begin the inwards and upwards orgasm and then continue it. usually in waves. Remaining within your partner at this point will probably prove too much of a temptation and you’ll just start all over again. is simply to continue having more and more orgasms and building up more and more energy until both your genitals are rubbed so raw and you are both so sore that it is simply no longer possible to comfortably continue to have sex. Once your penis is quite soft. if you should at a later point then wish to start 3 If the woman has a very refined energetic system it could take a lot more than 4 or 5 hours of really quite vigorous sex to get to this stage. Alternative options are. If you have correctly performed the inwards and upwards orgasm there shouldn’t be. This is because as a woman’s sexual energy becomes more refined it changes the composition of her vaginal secretions causing them to become far slicker and finer in consistency and so far more effective as a lubricant. An effect which is even more the case if you’ve both worked on packing a lot of energy into your sexual organs resulting in your both having a form of penile or vaginal “iron shirt”.
And it is freedom which is the big mystical secret. the key to enjoying the earth life. the union of two hearts. So realize and learn to accept that there’s nothing wrong with just having sex. So then: They are both standing. As he does so he moves to concentrating on the nipple with the other hand and . all remain far closer to having sex than to making love. in fact they are the practice at that level. perhaps just to get you started and to give you an idea of what is possible. Then he uses his thumb to pull back and hold back her clitoral hood whilst using the other fingers to stimulate her clitoris. Having sex: an example of sexual practice at ASP I All that you have learnt so far can now be put together to give you truly amazing sex: greatly heightened sensations. however. It will. He parts the lips of her vagina and inserts the tips of his fore and ring fingers in order to lubricate them. profound and meaningful all the time. both powerful and also more subtle energy movements as well as that ease. minds and souls and the life and personality changes which characterize lovemaking are not part of the practice at this level. Do however bear in mind that you don’t always want to make love. there’s nothing wrong with hard. no matter what amount of time has elapsed since you finished the last sexual session. you will be able to do so quickly and easily. And with some people also. Exactly how you combine all the techniques that you have learnt so far within the sexual session is something that is infinitely variable and best left to you and your partner to experiment and play with. continuous and full-body orgasms.54 having sex again. It would all get kind of heavy and boring if you were. He approaches her from behind. though they may well happen automatically to some degree anyway. The feeling of extreme closeness. Thereby you will have released yourself from your own mental limitations to enjoy these activities also and so will have become more free. You don’t want to be deep. strong multiple orgasms. and kisses her. animalistic fucking occasionally. At the same time he cups one of her breasts in one hand and begins to gently stroke and massage it whilst the other moves down to her genitals. An example might well be helpful though. especially if you intend them to. comfort and confidence that comes when you know through experience that you really are exceptionally good at something. turning her head so that her lips meet his. They are part of the practice at ASP II. nor with everybody that you might choose to sleep with. Sometimes you just want to have good sex. and you yourself would probably become more than a little self-righteous.
turns to face him and kisses him on the lips whilst looking him in the eyes. After 3 or 4 minutes of this she herself is coming close to orgasm and she feels that he is also. As she does so she moves one hand to his testicles which she begins to gently yet firmly massage and she lubricates the other hand with a good amount of saliva before moving it down to the head of his penis which she then begins to stimulate. During the orgasms the degree of movement from both partners is somewhat reduced in order that they can both concentrate on the sensations of the orgasms as intensely and as fully as possible. Slowly and sensually at first and then with greater force and speed. Her orgasm finishes and she moves the man’s hand away from her genitals. He meanwhile feels her orgasm fast approaching and so allows his to happen first directing the energy release from it to flow powerfully outwards into her vagina. Very soon their whole torsos begin to tingle and feel pleasantly warm as the sexual energy builds up. This causes her to begin to orgasm also and they both continue to orgasm in this way for a minute or two taking pleasure also in the sensation of their partner’s contractions. in time to the thrusts. The man then sits upwards and the woman extends her legs behind him so that they are in the classic tantric face-to-face sitting position. . gentle wave-like contractions throughout their torsos. She meanwhile is moving her hands over her own body quite strongly pushing against her skin and muscles and enjoying all the sensations. She then moves on top of him as in the standard woman-on-top position and inserts his penis into her vagina. circular motions and soon continuous. sensuous thrusting for a little while longer and then gradually allow it to stop as they both remain motionless. They both begin to thrust in gentle. Then she moves her one hand away from his testicles and onto his chest and gently pushes him back onto the bed so that he is lying face up. She sits down fully on top of him with his penis as far inside her as it will comfortably go and then begins to use the internal milking techniques and contractions. Likewise her nipple and her neck.55 kissing and using his teeth along her neck. She feels orgasm approaching and so directs it internally and lets it come in a series of powerful contractions which leave her feeling tingly all over. They both continue their slow. These contractions push/guide the sexual energy upwards along both the spine and the central energy route. all the while not thrusting in any sort of way whatsoever. enjoying the orgasms and energy movements. As she is orgasming the man slightly reduces his stimulation of her clitoris making it a little more gentle. This is accompanied by many series of deep. gentle orgasmic contractions begin for both partners. He soon becomes very strongly erect and she continues for a brief while. She begins the basic up/down thrust continuing the milking while she does so.
whilst he focuses it on the area of his Jupiter orgasm point. to shudder quite forcefully. hence stimulating her g-spot even more intensely. some localized in the genital area. allowing the sexual energy to build up in the genitals until it reaches quite tremendous levels. This helps to keep the focus strongly internal thereby directing the energy into the orgasm itself rather than into your vocalized reaction to it. It does so with strong contractions of his prostrate. very. This is complemented by the woman’s use of internal vaginal contractions and occasional milking strokes. Do not worry about your partner noticing the proximity. occurrence or strength of your orgasm. Both partners hold back from orgasm for a fairly long time this time. This process continues for a half-hour or so during which time both partners have many orgasms. As the energy begins to build-up the woman contracts her vaginal muscles in such a way as to press her g-spot more strongly against her partner’s penis. As his orgasm begins to finish the man begins to thrust very. breaths. Feeling this contraction.C. contractions which then spread up into her cervix and uterus. thereby increasing the degree to which the genitals are stimulated. and its accompanying sensations and energy movements. And then higher causing both her belly area and the deeper parts of her body radiating out from her central route. Your genital contractions. penis and P. the man moves on to thrusting using a drawing stroke where he draws his penis over the front wall of the vagina. quite forcefully now. Whilst she is orgasming the man slows his thrusting down a bit and focuses on enjoying the sensations of her orgasm and her reactions to it4 . sighs. muscles which expand the orgasm up through the physical orgasm channel to the Jupiter orgasm point and beyond.56 As these begin to reduce the man moves the woman backwards and they form the man on top position where he is resting his upper body against hers. vocalizations such as moans. in the form of very powerful contractions of her vaginal walls. she feels that she is ready for the orgasm and allows it to come. . The strength and force of the thrust is enjoyable after the slowness and sensuousness of the previous position. releasing it upwards as it does so. Prior to orgasm however. She directs this energetic build up to the area of her g-spot. also applies to the man and his orgasms. using an eight deep – one long and full pattern. but not so tightly as to restrict his capacity to thrust. slowly using a long. As her orgasm begins to die down he strongly contracts his abdominal muscles allowing standard tantric orgasm to begin. All of this incidentally. more intense if you keep your reactions to it internal rather than making them very vocalized and external. energy movements and spontaneous muscular shudders will be more than enough to make all of this obvious to him if he is even a little attentive. Once the energetic build-up has reached a truly tremendous level for the woman. The man begins to thrust. etc. some spreading 4 It will tend to make the orgasm. full stroke. She holds him tight with her arms and also wraps her legs around him. can be used to deliberately vibrate the genitals in various ways. The woman comes out of her orgasm enjoying the sensation of her partner’s orgasm and his reactions to it.
tingly and thoroughly satisfied. Every so often their bodies remind them of the powerful sexual session which they have just experienced in the form of spontaneous energy movements. They then lie in each others arms. simultaneously both beginning a continuous inwards and upwards orgasm as they do so. the outer reaches of the forward portion of your Saturn chakra. And you will be more open to your partner too. Intend that it open up and connect to your central route. and so your Saturn chakra as a whole. gradually. During sex focus on the centre of your Saturn chakra. lots of orgasms. when you do so. Ejaculation normally arises because too much sexual energy builds up at a point just behind your testicles on the internal portion of your penis. The technique then. and is directly connected to. they allow the movement to stop. to your central route then the sexual energy will powerfully flow from this point behind the testicles into the centre of your Saturn chakra and from there up into your central route. right down to the deepest level. Nevertheless. at best.57 out through the whole body. particularly if they tend to ejaculate prematurely. both feeling warm. especially as for many men this is the most difficult thing to master and until they do so. both their sex life and that of their partners will be mediocre and unsatisfying. gentle muscular contractions and light orgasms. III-57: The prevention of ejaculation: energetic structures involved If you strongly connect the centre of your Saturn chakra. The man’s penis begins to reduce in size and become soft and the woman’s vagina begins to close up more and to stop secreting lubrication. most likely coming in waves and extending up your central route and out from there. Once most of the sexual energy has been orgasmed up in this way both partners gently intend the orgasming to reduce and finally to stop and then the man withdraws. The main and the best way then to prevent yourself from ejaculating is to open and strongly connect your Saturn chakra to your central route during sex. will probably also result. Then. if you do. Dg. Hence it won’t build up at the point just behind the testicles and hence the uncontrollable urge to ejaculate won’t come about. Further. This point corresponds to. If this . The prevention of ejaculation Your work with the male orgasm practices should be more than enough to give you good control over the ejaculatory process and so allow you to decide whether you ejaculate or not and. a little extra guidance can’t do any harm.
) And it is this energy primarily which will fuel the orgasms within you in your genital area and at various points along your central route and out from there. Dg. that’s the main technique for the prevention of ejaculation during sex. Probably radiating outwards from your central route at one or more specific levels. Focus on this flow for a while. go with the muscular contractions and orgasmic energy movements as they begin of their own accord at other points in your body. muscles will of their own accord push to start contracting in an inwards and upwards direction. then focus on the rest of the Saturn chakra and direct it. Nevertheless. Once the sexual energetic flow from your genitals into your Saturn chakra and from there up into your central route is smooth. of your Saturn chakra. Let them. III-58: The prevention of ejaculation – in practice This technique also results to your being open to receive the “universal and spiritual energy made Jing” from your partner (see the section “The deeper mystical purpose of the union of the sexes” on p. ejaculation results. Then direct your body to flow the sexual energy from the entirety of your genitals. At any rate. when the energetic capacity of the energetic structures within the genital area is just exceeded. if necessary using intention to make it smooth. As you will recall. open and powerful. up through your Saturn chakra into your central route. powerful and continuous then your P. Focus on your Saturn chakra as a whole and its connection to your central route and intend that that connection be strong. Further. powerful and continuous. to connect to your central route. but especially from the full length of your penis. too. “…” for more information on this.C. and degree of balance. and if her Saturn chakra is a lot larger than yours – and consequently holds a far higher sexual energetic charge – then you will be pushed over into ejaculation. So by increasing the size of your Saturn chakra you will be able to handle a much higher sexual energetic charge without falling over into ejaculation. During sex your Saturn chakra will connect to your partner’s Saturn chakra. for the sake of completeness.58 doesn’t cause the rest of your Saturn chakra as a whole to automatically open up and connect to your central route also. It works especially well and it should be all you need. below are a few further pointers which combined cover pretty much every single possible aspect of ejaculation control that there is: Things to do before sex 1) Increase the size. The way to avoid this is to devote some time to meditating upon your Saturn chakra to .
In this case digestion. Primarily this means devote enough time and effort to your practice of the jelqing techniques and P. Your control over your energies will be limited as will be the degree of your internal awareness. limited physical and mental focus and lacking sufficient strongly mobile energy to progress beyond very outwards. which greatly helps in the control of the ejaculatory urge.C. As regards physical preparation which you can do to help you control the ejaculatory urge strengthening your P. muscles thereby encouraging the ejaculatory reflex. Or if that’s not really possible meditate open-eyed for a bit to temporarily restore your vitality to some degree. The solution with overeating is even simpler: merely wait an hour or two. The solution is simple: sleep a while.C. In fact you will be in a state very similar to that which you were in before you started these practices: limited internal awareness. resulting from a slowing down of your energies and their redirection to other process rather than a basic lack of them. and even then somewhat different such state. better still. permanent state resulting from a fundamental lack of sufficient sexual energy and of internal awareness. They enable you to get your physical body into the state where great ejaculatory control is physically possible and easy. The jelqing techniques strengthen the penis and open up the energetic meridians within it. Or.C. when you are tired now it produces only a temporary. When your bladder is full it will create an outwards and downwards pressure on your P. without your being pushed into ejaculation. . don’t overeat in the first place. Regarding overeating. An easy condition to change. 3) Don’t have sex with a full bladder. for example from your partner’s vagina. it tends to tax your body and energetic system in a way very similar to staying awake too long / not getting enough sleep: it draws the energy on which awakeness. When you are tired you will lack the necessary physical and mental strength and focus to easily avoid ejaculation.C. external pleasures. The more balanced that a chakra is. The difference is that whereas before it was your basic. the greater the extent to which you can enlarge and open it. muscle and practicing the jelqing techniques are the most important. 2) Do the necessary work as detailed in The Orgasm Practices. vitality and awareness is based into other processes.59 open and enlarge it more. 4) Don’t have sex when tired or after overeating. which enables a far higher energetic charge to flow through your penis. muscle enables you to better control how and in what way the muscles in your genital region tighten as you approach orgasm. squeezes. thereby enabling it to contain a far higher sexual energetic charge. A strong P.
It takes a little discipline and a little practice but it is quite easy to get it flowing naturally and smoothly after a few tries. muscles and by focusing on that area you will be drawing more sexual energy there. angry. for example. but instead have a strong. One solution is to simply not have sex when under this sort of influence from the Mars chakra. rather than inwards and upwards.60 5) Do not have sex when under the strong influence of a not completely balanced Mars chakra. Points to always remember during sex 1) Don’t stop suddenly.C.. . etc. focus on the genital area and mentally intend/think: “don’t ejaculate. thereby hastening ejaculation even more. determined. don’t ejaculate”. The trouble is that both by clenching the P.C. the direction of this clenching of the P. This is a bit of an apparent catch-22 situation because most men tend to stop suddenly during intercourse only when they feel that they are about to ejaculate and yet don’t want to do so. thereby fetching you closer to ejaculation. upwards focus. feel hostile or aggressive. muscles is usually outwards and downwards. When they feel ejaculation coming on many men tend to forcefully clench (contract) their P. When you are feeling stressed or angry or aggressive etc. or at least without direction.C. longer-term solution is to balance and master your Mars chakra to the extent that you no longer get stressed. Clenching the P. Further. And this includes the sexual energy which will have a much stronger impetus than normal to want to flow outwards in the form of ejaculation. Suddenly stopping stimulation or thrusting tends to break the pattern of energy build-up and movement and so often pushes you into ejaculation even if you were not that close before you stopped.C. A better. This is very similar to the previous point. Using it. 2) Don’t clench. muscle. muscles combined with stopping suddenly is as sure and certain a way as you could have of pushing yourself into ejaculation combined with a very unsatisfying and unwanted ejaculatory orgasm. An added advantage of this technique is that it doesn’t result in the woman’s stimulation being abruptly cut short. to add great force to your internal. focused will which you can direct as you wish. The solution is to continue the stimulation or the thrusting but at a greatly reduced rate/speed and simultaneously direct the continued energetic build-up and energy movement inwards and upwards. don’t ejaculate. all your energies will tend to want to flow forcefully outwards into the external world.
be determined. There is a definite limit on the amount of time and the degree of stimulation that your personality and body can comfortably experience before some sort of orgasm is necessary. Within a few months or a year you should be able to get there easily and comfortably. . your energetic system and you sex life can be very useful. accustomizing it to doing so and also drawing the sexual energy upwards and transmuting it when necessary should be enough to make it comfortable and happy with not ejaculating. Finally. frequently and with a good degree of regularity. The genital muscles need to pump. whatever your intention at the beginning of the session may have been. she wants me to etc. and the pleasure that orgasm provides you with. And you will do so. If you and your body are denied these things not only will the whole process of sex be not very enjoyable and somewhat tedious for you. paying attention to the draining effects of ejaculation on your body. It’s more fun too. once why not?. focused and disciplined in your desire to change by all means. 4) Overcome your mental desire to ejaculate. towards the old and familiar way of doing things. For this lifetime at least. The force of the tendency that your mind. but it is far easier merely to ensure that during sex you orgasm strongly. You’re not gong to want to stop ejaculation overnight. the feeling of release. but you will probably go ahead and ejaculate anyway – with or without conscious volition – in order to assuredly get these things. or be comfortable with so doing at every level of your being. your emotions and your body have to ejaculate must be overcome if you are to effectively and comfortably reduce the extent to which you ejaculate or stop it all together. your mind will come up with all sorts of good reasons why you should ejaculate: the pressure needs to be released. bear in mind that this sort of change takes time. the sexual energy needs to move and you need the satisfaction. Emotionally.61 3) Have non-ejaculatory genital orgasms quite regularly during sex. in the moment. Physically. gently and step-bystep. During sex your body needs to orgasm and your mind and personality strongly want to. though more likely much longer than that. rather than forcefully and with difficulty. Practicing the previous technique should help greatly with this point. teaching your body how to orgasm without ejaculation. And. These attachments create strong forcefields pushing you towards ejaculation. Mentally. but do so slowly. you have been used to ejaculating and have become mentally and emotionally attached to it. having plenty of non-ejaculatory orgasms should be enough to awaken this side of your nature to the advantages of the new way of doing things. You can work on increasing both these factors. So.
Also. As you continue to better master the techniques of advanced male orgasmic practice the levels of sexual energy which you will be able to handle and also hold in the genital area will dramatically increase. the greater the extent to which you will master them and to which your body will get used to them. thereby helping to make this technique obsolete for you. for when you are in such a state ejaculation will produce a more intense. This is very much a beginner’s technique though. And that’s if you’re using The Five Tibetans and the “Energizing the sexual organs” exercise. and won’t really last long at all. to be left behind once you have progressed a bit. If you continually draw the energy upwards it won’t have the chance to build up and so you will find it very difficult to ejaculate as a basic amount of hot sexual energy in the genital area is necessary before ejaculation is possible. If you’re not it might well take you a week or two or more. the processes of focusing internally and the conservation and increasing of your sexual energy will greatly increase the power of your mind and the force of your intention. Until you have the requisite amount of sexual energy in place your non-ejaculatory orgasms won’t be very intense. The more you have sex using the techniques presented in this book. non-ejaculatory orgasms to be powerful and satisfying. because it is also a fundamentally unsatisfying technique resulting in your having absolutely no orgasms whatsoever.62 5) Have more sex. won’t be very powerful. After you’ve ejaculated it will take a few days (at least) for your body to build up the amount of sexual energy necessary for your internal. Also this continual drawing of energy out of the penis reduces the extent to which the penis will arouse the woman as well as making the penis less erect and reducing its sensitivity to sensation. more subtle orgasms during this recovery period. more satisfying orgasm. But then you’d just have to wait even longer before you could get back to being strongly multi-orgasmic. Hence the temptation to ejaculate when you are in this low-energy state. Probably better then to content yourself with the sensations of lovemaking itself and the gentler. Little tricks to use during sex if you like 1) Draw the energy upwards. . All of which will contribute to making it much easier for you to control the ejaculatory urge and process. 2) After you’ve ejaculated once take sex slowly for the next few days.
C. During sex or other genital stimulation. At other times you’ll probably prefer to have more freedom to do whatever you want with your P. You’ll probably find this technique most useful for making sure that you don’t accidentally ejaculate during hard and fast animalistic fucking. muscles have experienced quite extensive contractions. muscles. contraction. the P. All that you are doing with this technique is changing the direction in which the muscles tighten. This technique also works if you use it after the point when ejaculation is normally inevitable but before any semen leaves the penis. This is a very effective way to prevent ejaculation. in order that you might also enjoy the whole process. 4) Maintain a slight inwards and upwards contraction at the point just behind the testicles on the internal portion of the penis. muscles cannot begin to tighten in an outwards and downwards direction.C. combined with the P. Continue this orgasm for a while until a good amount of sexual energy has been moved out of your genitals and your P. a gentle tightening of the muscles in an inwards and upwards direction. the energy will move out of the genitals and your need to ejaculate will disappear. Dg. When you feel ejaculation coming on simply begin the inwards and upwards consciously induced orgasm (see “The male orgasm practices: part 2” for further details on this type of orgasm and how to consciously induce it). will lead to the building up of sexual energy in the area of the P. III-59: Preventing ejaculation – the slight inwards and upwards contraction This form of contraction at this point will ensure that your P. You will therefore find the use of this technique more comfortable and more pleasurable if you combine it with a few inwards and upwards orgasms and/or with the drawing of . This is the normal prerequisite to ejaculation. it. Whilst you are maintaining this sort of contraction you will probably feel a straight pull in the muscles around the urethra up to about ½ way up the penis. thereby making ejaculation pretty much impossible. Because it is not a strong forceful contraction you should be able to easily maintain it indefinitely.C. contraction. However.63 3) Begin a consciously induced orgasm. This is not something to discourage: it contributes to the technique’s effectiveness.C.C. When you do choose to use this technique bear in mind that it is just a gentle contraction. Pay attention to the sensations of the orgasm and the energy movements as you do so. muscles will naturally begin to tighten slightly anyway as the energy builds up in that area.C. The contractions will begin in an inwards and upwards direction.
5) After ejaculation. make it feel more energetic and so be much more pleasant to be inside. However. And if the orgasms are vaginal they will also serve to warm her vagina up. continually directed focus during sex to once again establish the tendency to tighten and contract in an inwards and upwards direction as the basic. muscles want to operate. this isn’t really a problem.C. in terms of ejaculation control. You can of course simply direct your energy up and out with an internal orgasm but then she’ll go from being right on the verge of a powerful orgasm to being quite a long way away from it and won’t . natural way in which the P. as the sexual session continues your Saturn chakras will automatically begin to meld or at least join and so much larger amounts of energy will be able to gather in her vaginal area. perhaps to a different specific location. it will be necessary to refocus these muscles directing them to lift slightly and begin to tighten in an inwards and upwards direction. The next time you have sex. Otherwise they’ll just begin to tighten in an outwards and downwards direction. Initially. You can always fetch that energy back down to the genitals if you so wish. And there is only so much energy that can be held within the genital area before ejaculation becomes unavoidable. With regards to your partner 1) Teach your partner these techniques. After that. it will be much easier to have inwards and upwards orgasms once again. whereas if you try to go for them before that it will all probably feel a little forced. in terms of vaginal orgasms this means that the way they will orgasm is by merely waiting for a massive amount of aroused sexual energy to build up in their sexual organs until it becomes so great that it pushes of its own accord to release through orgasm.C. during the earlier stages of lovemaking. fetching you closer to ejaculation and reinforcing the focus of this patterning. refocus the muscles. When you ejaculate all your P.64 energy up out of this area to the rest of the body. However. It will probably take you about 10-15 minutes of gentle. Most women don’t actually know how to orgasm and must be virtually forced to it! If the only orgasms that they can have in this way are clitoral then. muscles will contract in an outwards and downwards manner and will continue to hold themselves in this way following the ejaculation. this shouldn’t really present a problem to you as the amount of sexual energy needed to bring her to orgasm at this stage will probably be way below what you are used to handling as a result of your practice of the techniques contained in this book.
Consequently the energetic capacity of the energetic structures in her genital region can never really be effectively exceeded should she decide to merely allow them to expand instead. who have to be forced to vaginal orgasm. who even can be forced to vaginal orgasm. Women who are more male than female by contrast. it is much more satisfying and enjoyable if orgasm is a mutual process. tend to have a very definite limit as to the extent to which the energetic structures in their genital region can expand. you need to learn how to handle ever larger amounts of energy within the genital area. Or you could simply close off your Saturn chakra to her completely but then you would no longer feel as close to each other as before (it will become a lot more like fucking. Many women believe that a man is only satisfied sexually if he ejaculates and that if he does not it is because she is in some way . who don’t revel in and enjoy it. at least. For your part. in terms of Advanced Sexual Practice that is a beginning not an end attained.e. but unless other considerations are involved why bother with second best? 2) Demonstrate to your partner that ejaculation is not necessary or desired. Needless to say their orgasmic capacity will therefore be very limited and so they won’t be the best in bed. Everybody can learn and improve of course. who try to think like a man. and indeed in terms of vaginal orgasm will probably only be accustomed to. her energetic structures in the genital region can expand pretty much indefinitely and hold a nearly unlimited sexual energetic charge. will. Besides. This is because when a woman is truly womanly. orgasm in this way (i. of the best vaginal orgasms of her life. rather than being like making love). and so in harmony with her deeper nature. Consequently such women can be forced to vaginal orgasms. Consequently your partner needs to learn how to orgasm the energy upwards before it builds up to the extent that it pushes you over into ejaculation. and your own orgasmic capacity will also reduce once you’ve disconnected your Saturn chakra from your partner’s. By the time the chakras merge in this way she will already have had 3 or 4. etc. it is only women who have not fully embraced their womanliness. compete like a man. However. Bear in mind that this aspect of the nature of orgasm and lovemaking is not an excuse for incompetent technique and poor control on your part. Finally do note that. and only be able to. by being forced to it). And so she can’t ever be forced to vaginal orgasm (instead she is free to decide for herself when and in what way to orgasm). like a man. And as a couple you need to both co-ordinate yourselves to each other and learn when to orgasm and when to allow the energy to build up. in terms of choice of sexual partners.65 know why.
Then demonstrate this to her during your lovemaking as she’ll probably still be skeptical until she sees and feels the truth of it within her and on top of her. don’t get involved with a woman with these sorts of personality problems in the first place. Which to be honest you’ll entirely deserve. If you don’t explain things to her in this way she’ll probably try to make you ejaculate in some way by. What is necessary is a metaphysical firm hand and to show her who’s in charge. It makes them feel that they’ve got a strong man standing beside them who can be relied upon. This time she’ll listen. What you must realize though is that explanation and reasonableness are of less than no use in such a case. such as her breasts. not to mention multiple. Fetch her to many powerful orgasms without being too gentle at any point and without having any genital orgasms yourself which she might notice at any point either. And besides there should be trust and communication between sexual partners… Occasionally you might encounter a woman who is satisfied only by the power of being able to make you ejaculate. Whatever all the feminists who aren’t lesbians may say all women want to be dominated (though in a tender way – the iron fist within the velvet glove). so that no matter how much energy builds up in her genitals it won’t even begin to affect you. more powerful and longer lasting. What she wants is to know that she has made you ejaculate and that therefore she is a good lover because she has satisfied you to the point where you do not want to continue to have sex and cannot continue to have sex. when you don’t. Whilst you yourself are not as able to satisfy her. So instead of explanations and pleading which she’ll ignore. . allowing massive amounts of energy to build up in her vagina or stimulating you strongly when you are experiencing a powerful internal orgasm which nonetheless is only a little externalization away from ejaculation. which make up for her limited character. Then you can explain to her how you prefer to make love than just to fuck and how orgasms are more satisfying for you when you don’t ejaculate.66 a bad lover. Then just withdraw fully erect once she is orgasmed out. Alternatively. Explain to her that this is not the case and that you actually prefer not to ejaculate and that your orgasms are better. fuck her hard and close off the connection between your Saturn chakras as you do so. for example. And women such as these even more so – they need to be dominated and early on during your acquaintance too or the relationship will deteriorate into little power games and she’ll develop a healthy contempt for you. If you do end up with such a woman. well she might have other aspects to her being.
It won’t get you anywhere or increase anybody’s happiness but more importantly it will. And as a matter of technical esoteric anatomy a female energetic body simply cannot harmoniously connect to and fit within a male physical body. Namely. make the energetic nature of your Saturn chakra a lot heavier which means that the expression of your Saturn karma will be a lot more substantial and a lot harder to go through. That is to say the direction and route of the energy flow will . Under any circumstances Saturn karma is the heaviest and the most painful to go through – you don’t want to do anything to make life harder for yourself than it has to be. lesbianism and bisexuality First and foremost the most important thing to realize with regards to this topic is that there should be no judgement and no self-judgement with regards to sexual orientation. This all having been said the following can now hopefully be stated without it feeding or producing any prejudice: both homosexuality and lesbianism are the result of an inharmonious connection between the physical and energetic bodies of a person. Accept it if that is what you choose to do or change it (technique explained below) if that is what you prefer to do but above all don’t make an issue out of it: get on with your life and do not lose the focus of your spiritual progress. significantly slows down or even stops altogether. a homosexual will have a female energetic body whilst a lesbian will have a male energetic body. so absorbed by their sexual orientation and what it means to them that their progress in all other areas. lesbian or bisexual yourself is to not allow emotionality or attachments to develop within you as a result of your homosexuality. Likewise for lesbians with their male energetic bodies and female physical bodies. So live and let live. First though let us look a little closer at homosexuality from an energetic perspective. internal peace and balance is very hard if not impossible to achieve. That’s fine. The second important thing to realize with regards to this topic if you are homosexual. as people. So you are homosexual. like all judgement. Bisexuality is a somewhat more complicated case which is best understood by looking at the specifics explained below. Under such conditions of disharmony between different aspects of your own being.67 Homosexuality. Many people get so focused. lesbian or bisexual. lesbianism or bisexuality. There are many factors and many imbalances involved but fundamentally they all trace back to the same root cause: the inter-chakric energetic spin cycle will move upwards in an anticlockwise direction starting from the rear of the Saturn chakra in a homosexual.
It can. Lesbians by contrast spin like a man resulting in their having characteristics which whilst useful to the male esoteric path are usually a hindrance to one on the female path.68 be exactly what it normally is in a heterosexual woman. self-absorbed and self-indulgent. There is however one . As a result their inter-chakric energetic spin cycles form a complete caduceus with both flows going upwards. and consequently they are usually able to be a lot more balanced and a lot happier within themselves than either homosexuals or lesbians. So sex between two lesbians also can never be truly deep. As a result the energy simply isn’t there to enable them to reach the peaks of sexual ecstasy with a partner of either sex. With both paths flowing upwards in this way there is simply not enough energy in the body (usually) to give either flow any real force. But the highest summits of the sexual experience are as inaccessible to lesbian couples as they are to homosexual couples. unless their partner is a heterosexual female. profound. This will result in characteristically female tendencies in the homosexual man. it must be noted that outside of the fairly limited circle of advanced mystics. profound and satisfying. except that the energy flows upwards through this path in their case. However they lack the physical structures necessary to give energetically to their partner in the way they desire. With regards to sex and sexual partners they want to give. Consequently deep. power or intensity. she won’t have the energetic structures necessary to receive what her partner is trying to give her because an energetic upwards spin originating at the rear of the Saturn chakra is necessary in order to receive energy in this way during sex. All of which are characteristics which might well often be of value to women in their path but which sit uncomfortably within the male psyche and usually hinder rather than help progress along the yang path of spiritual evolution. protect and be strong. advanced internal martial artists and Chi-kung masters it is usually bisexuals who have the clearest. namely a penis with all the relevant internal nerve and energetic connections. That’s not to say it can’t be very good and mutually pleasurable. fully satisfying sex is not possible between two homosexual men. most blockage free downward inter-chakric energy path. Also. the most pronounced of which will be a strong need to receive from the world around him and from his relationships with people and lovers. This means that they contain both male and female within themselves. Also. Bisexuals of both sexes spin upwards through both routes. the female direction of spin within him will turn his energies inwards making him very emotionally introspective. Sexually however the specific way in which he would need to receive in order for that desire to be satisfied requires sex with a heterosexual man whose energetic upwards spin starts at the front of the Saturn chakra. Also.
receptive and focused on their own pleasure yet also very active and adventurous sexually. male bisexuals usually have both streams flowing upwards with about equal force. Set the energetic body up in 5 Obviously the more consistent and exclusive your homosexual or lesbian sexual practice is.69 exception to this rule.e. in that direction. and focus upon. effective) Practice of The Five Tibetans” on p. probably trying to spin both ways.e. This is an easily fixed situation: merely meditate for a few hours directing your inter-chakric energetic spin cycles to flow in the manner correspondent to a full heterosexual state: i. In terms of differences between male and female bisexuals. and so you. then both flows will be about equal in them making them very feminine. the inter-chakric energetic spin cycles). This incidentally is the method by which you can make yourself heterosexual if you are by birth or inclination homosexual. very external focus within the bisexual personality which usually manifests as a strong absorption in. They do however push both your energies. As a consequence female bisexuals who are strongly feminine and womanly are usually the most internally balanced and harmonious of the non-heterosexual groups. is necessary. adventurous and active in sex. Female bisexuals usually have the male (i. lesbian or bisexual in nature or temperament. And finally. if they are interested in getting the eternal youth practices working within themselves then a change to a downward-flowing clockwise inter-chakric spin cycle path. the sexual experience. It must be said at this point that one or several homosexual. clockwise) stream flowing with greater force than the female stream making them very forceful. “…” for more details on this 5 . very strongly sexually female. as both streams spin upwards there will be a very outwards.e. as there is no downwards spinning path for it to flow along bisexuals cannot draw energy in from above into this particular energetic system (viz. Also in this case both flows will have significant power due to the ability of the female energetic structures to draw in large amounts of energy from the external universe and the fact that they do so more strongly the more strongly sexually feminine a woman is. the more entrenched it will become and the more time and force of focus it will require to change. Simply make your inter-chakric energetic spin cycles flow in the manner correspondent to a heterosexual of your sex. . and hence heterosexuality. clockwise upwards and anti-clockwise downwards for a man. However. the reverse if you’re a woman. Also. However. lesbian or bisexual experience do not make you homosexual. if by nature they are very womanly. Refer back to the section “The Advanced (i. As a consequence bisexuality and the eternal youth practices cannot be combined. noted below. You will. lesbian or bisexual. notice that your bodies and your energies are a little confused. following such experiences.
And if you make your own inter-chakric energetic spins cycles very strong and powerful. if you spend substantial amounts of time (around 1 hour and up) with homosexuals or male bisexuals if you’re a man or with lesbians or female bisexuals if you’re a woman. the weaker your energetic flows. That’s to say your energies will begin to become like theirs spinning in the way correspondent to homosexuality. then their energies will begin to affect you in a way similar to if you had sex with them. However there is no cause for concern as this situation too is easily rectified with a little meditation. lesbians or bisexuals. the closer your physical proximity to them and the stronger their overall energy in relation to yours. time and inner force will be necessary to change your habitual patterns. it shouldn’t take them more than a maximum of ½ -1 hour a day for 6 months or so. there will be a strong and instant chemistry and your sexual desires and inclinations will always seem to match. With other people . the more your energies are likely to be affected in this way. The less sexual a person you are. Similarly. Finally. to teach your body’s energies to change in this way. but rather only focus on the very depths and the very heights of sexual practice. then it would be very difficult indeed for you to be affected in this way by proximity to homosexuals. probably much less.70 a particular way and the physical body will follow as will your psychological and emotional desires and inclinations. I neither concern myself with nor teach mediocre sexual practices. However do bear in mind that the more consistently and exclusively you have been homosexual. it should be noted that it is because neither homosexual or lesbian sex can be used to reach the summits of the sexual experience that these forms of sexual practice are not included in this book. and the less strongly heterosexual you are. The more time you spend with them. lesbian or bisexual the more focus. the more of them there are. or at least on those areas of sexual practice which have the potential to be taken to the deepest depths and the highest heights or take your sexual experience there for you. flowing in the way correspondent to heterosexuality of your sex. Still. Choice of sexual partners and the wisdom of the body With some people your energies will complement each other perfectly. bisexuality or lesbianism. the stronger and more noticeable will this effect be. The energies within the body learn over time to behave in a certain way and it usually takes repeated and consistent meditation to teach them to behave in a different way and keep on behaving in that way.
your daydreams or your emotional attachments may say. . It is often far wiser than the ego personality with all its preconceptions. Now. or be in a long-term relationship with. That is a temporary state which can be corrected comparatively easily and swiftly. orgasms normally come easily to you. 6 The tracking meditation helps to connect the various levels of the self and to strengthen the communication between them. orgasms come only with great focus and effort. put large amounts of effort into your relationship and your sex life and yet things will never quite seem to work and the sex will never really be sensational. Learn to listen to your body. insecurity. be sexually involved with. The point to realize though is that if you are not well suited to a person of the opposite sex sexually then you won’t be well suited to that person on any “deeper” romantic or relationship level. try to find them attractive. You as an ego personality may well want to get on with. someone who. as I’d probably enjoy saying in one of my more iconoclastic moods. it probably is. your deep personalities. More often though the “problem” is simply that sexually you will work very well with some people whilst with other people it just won’t work at all. If this is the case for you you’ve got to consider doing some serious work on your energies. Do not confuse this with your partner merely being highly sexually incompetent. your personality. If your sex life is normally good. soul level you really are not suited to at all. on a deep. it is true that the problem could very well be you. flawed judgements and emotional desires. the subconscious mind and the soul. learn to think with the little head. do not complement each other and that consequently you have little of real value to offer each other. The reasons for this are various ranging most commonly from emotional attachment all the way through loneliness. your desires and your judgements. yet with your current partner your sex life is poor. Or. The basic incompatibility of your souls is another matter altogether. the energy flows freely and arousal is automatic and almost instantaneous. energetic.71 you will work at appreciating their good qualities. It is an indication that your energies. the energies don’t really flow but must be continually forced and directed and arousal takes time in coming and is weak when it does (or perhaps you even have to consciously induce it) then you can take this as a blatantly obvious indication that you and your partner really are not suited to each other at all. usually there is a large degree of separation within the self 6 . If things never seem to work and the sex never really is sensational. and sticking to what you’re used to (due to fear) to the simple desire to have sex now and this person happens to be there. No matter what your insecurities. For most people it is rare that the ego personality is in accord with the deep levels of the personality. are not well suited to each other.
what is its basis? The answer to both these questions is: the subconscious patternings held within your physical. and then going into your body. the way they are held. Consequently. your life and your big dreams as well as of your sexual practice. what you want your life to be. your physical body. redirection and conscious control may well seem more than a bit artificial and unnatural to you when you are just starting out with them. They become so used to doing something in a set way that first it becomes a habit and then it becomes “natural” and automatic. with all their focus. your mind and your emotions and changing the way they operate. The way that these bodies are habituated to doing things due to your repeated doing of those things in those ways in the past. and lots of practice. to correspond to the reality that you desire. And isn’t sex and lovemaking supposed to be about letting go and allowing it to happen? The question you have to consider is: what is it that you are letting go to? You release the conscious control. the energies and the chakras “do their thing”. . In terms of your personality. With time. When that stage is attained. It’s all a question of deciding what you want your experiences to be. detach and let the body. both in this life and in previous ones.72 Control and letting go These techniques. emotional and mental bodies. if you then begin to do things in a way which goes against these habits it will feel very “unnatural” and consciously controlled at first. but what determines that “thing”. your emotions and your mind will get used to doing things in this new way and then this new way will begin to become the habit and eventually the natural and automatic way of doing things. doing things in the old way will then feel very artificial and unnatural to you.
at this level your choice of partner is very much an essential consideration and central to the whole process. when sex is properly practiced it is one of the highest. They produce the deepest pleasures. very close. blissful. most profound aspects of lovemaking. Essentially what occurs is that the woman absorbs the man’s understanding and degree of mastery of the chakric lessons from him whilst the man absorbs a deeper understanding of the nature of the universe and of his partner’s particular . It is difficult to learn how to take off and fly when you have yet to learn how to walk properly. Deep. as well as the techniques which will enable you to induce then and. are very much the culmination of all your work so far. The Source of all things is half yin and half yang and the process of the Source experiencing itself is essentially yin getting to understand yang better and yang getting to understand yin better. and ASP I. if you wish. profound and very. the Source getting to know and understand itself better. Advanced Sexual Practices: level II It is at this level that you will learn about the deepest.73 II. Having said all that. free. to put it another way. Sex too has this deepest mystical purpose behind it. let alone run. Unlike the techniques and practices covered at ASP I. most ecstatic. If you have not yet reached this level of mastery now is the time to go back to The Orgasm Practices. the deepest feelings of union and closeness. once you have come to experience the depth and profundity of lovemaking as at ASP II you will appreciate that it has all been very much worth the effort. On the deepest level that purpose is always the same: for the Source of all things to experience itself. The deeper mystical purpose of the union of the sexes Everything within the physical reality always has a deeper mystical purpose behind it. these practices. to get to understand itself better. And you will understand that this is the way sex is meant to be. most transformative of all human activities. control them. and work on developing it. Also it is necessary to have reached a level of mastery in the other techniques to the extent that they all flow easily and naturally. through them. this occurs in very specific ways with regards to very specific aspects of each partner’s being (and so of the reality). or at least with the barest amount of effortless direction. and can be used to quite dramatically change your personality. These techniques. Or. your soul and your life. In terms of sex. not just the two individual partners getting to know and understand each other better but also.
the more powerfully will this universal and spiritual energy pour into you.74 Spirit from the woman. But let us look at it all a lot more clearly from the perspective of what each sex gives to the other. More specific details on this connection and what it involves are given below. flow into the woman’s central route from both the external universe and her Spirit. As a consequence your partner . These qualities will make it easy to distinguish from your Jeng and the basic Jing within you which accumulated “cold” over time after being drawn in through your chakras. and the more sexually aroused that you are. This particular universal and spiritual energy by contrast will only pour into you “hot” i. Moon chakra and the place within the body near the heart chakra that the Spirit connects to the denser bodies via. From the walls of the vagina it will also spread to fill out any space between those walls. probable even.e. Once it reaches the level of the Saturn chakra it should be very easy to pick up on. as a result of this connection to the universe and her Spirit. Now. Even if you know that it is happening. large quantities of energy will. 3rd eye. that more such universal and spiritual Jing will fill you. fairly subtly. It is unlimited and within one sexual session it is possible. combined. this universal and spiritual energy will flow into the vaginal walls below the level of the cervix (starting at about 2/3”– 3/4” below the level of the cervix) and will connect especially strongly to the muscular ring near the opening of the vagina which is where the Saturn chakra is located and which serves as a sort of anchoring point for the central route to the physical body. For now the point is that. the energy when it enters you is so refined and so subtle that it is hard to feel and pick up on unless it really is a tremendously powerful flow and/or you have developed your awareness to a high degree of sensitivity. Indeed it is this universal and spiritual Jing which mostly fuels the deeper levels of orgasm for both of you. The woman giving to the man Depending on her level of esoteric development the woman connects to the universe and her Spirit either solely through the crown or through some combination of crown. than all other energies which both of you had to start with. when you are sexually aroused. the closer you feel to your partner and the deeper the two of you take the sexual session and your orgasms. Powerful and quite dense will the energy be at this level but it will still retain the essential nature of the part of the universe which you have connected to and of your Spirit (if you have connected to it also). As this energy moves through your energetic system though it will become denser and more obvious as it flows down through the central route to the level of the Saturn chakra. and through you your partner.
to her Spirit through her heart connection and to the lower planes through her crown. If a woman is more developed she can and does connect to her Spirit directly and energy will pour into her central route directly from her Spirit at round about the level of her heart chakra which is the point within you where the Spirit connects to the denser bodies. Only the connections which you are conceptually ready for will be established and these . Dg. But his being aware of and allowing his own connection will serve to make the woman’s connection stronger and so the flow of universal and spiritual energy into her will be stronger. this depends on the level of the woman’s esoteric development. for both of you. III-60: Deep spiritual energy flowing from the woman to the man Now this flow. This sort of connection is through the crown. both into the woman and also from the woman into the man will occur more strongly if: I) the woman knows her nature. is true to it and allows it to flow naturally. And the stronger the flow. and II) the man is aware of his spiritual nature and connection to the universe also and allows that connection to flow during sex. the astral and the causal predominantly.75 will absorb it through his penis and into his central route from there. more strongly so through the portion of his penile shaft from the base to about ¾” before the head of his penis and most strongly so through his base point. and connect to their Spirit only indirectly via these three planes. If a woman is more developed still. Most women are not at a level where they can connect directly to their Spirit nor to the higher levels of the reality beyond the Great Void. the easier and the more powerful will the orgasms be. she will connect to the higher planes beyond the Great Void through her Sun and Moon chakras. Due to the way the man’s energetic structures work he will absorb this universal and spiritual energy from you through the portion of his penis below the penis head i. III-61: How deep spiritual energy flows into a fully esoterically developed and connected woman during sex However. she may also connect to the Earth through the portion of her central route which extends out below the bottom of the torso. With regards to where the universal and spiritual energy will enter the woman from. Dg.e. through his penile shaft. As a consequence they tend to connect to the lower planes below the Great Void. there is little point in trying to establish these connections during sex through conscious intent. and what its nature will be. Not that the man will as a result draw in spiritual and universal energy as the woman does.
connections will be established automatically, of their own accord, as you take sex deeper and feel closer to your partner. Each connection and each level of each connection embodies a particular conceptual understanding and only those connections embodying understandings you have already attained will be established. It is possible to attain the conceptual understanding embodied by a connection during sex and thereby establish a connection which was not open to you before but this is a very esoteric and involved aspect of the sexual process which will be covered at a later date in a book planned by The Aralzon Institute entitled “Mystical Sexual Practices”. For now let us summarize the deeper energetic flow from woman to man during sex: the energy will enter the woman’s central route through her crown, Sun chakra, Moon chakra and/or directly from her Spirit. It will move down through her central route to her vagina as a whole (below the level of the cervix) and the muscular ring near the opening of her vagina specifically. From here a portion of it will go to fuel her orgasms and another portion of it will flow into the man through his penis (below the penis head) and from there into his central route. On the way from his penis into his central route, and further up along his central route also, it will fuel his orgasms too. The main thing to realize is that as a result of the woman’s connection to her Spirit and the external universe she will feel that connection more and so be more aware of her essential nature. As this universal and spiritual energy flows into the man he too will partake of the woman’s understanding of the deeper nature of the universe and existence and will also become more aware of the higher, spiritual nature of his partner. The man giving to the woman Generally women’s and men’s energetic and meridian structures are fairly similar: they may use them differently and flow different energies in different directions and in different ways, but the basic structures they are using remain the same; what varies is the way they use them. However, men have an extra meridian which women don’t have and women have an extra meridian which men don’t have. It is through these extra meridians that the deeper energetic flow from man to woman during sex occurs. The woman’s extra meridian is located within her body and runs from her cervix up to her Moon chakra, running for most of its length between her central route and her spine. Dg. III-62: The female sexual meridian
But remember, this is a very special meridian so it does not just begin or end as a point. Rather at each end it spreads out into many fine meridians which look much like nerve endings and run through the entirety of the cervix at one end and the entirety of the Moon chakra at the other. It is this special meridian ending and connection which makes the cervix especially sensitive during sex and which allows for the extreme intensity and power of cervical orgasm. The man’s extra meridian runs from the centre of his head out through the 45˚ Sun point (another yang approach / expression of the centre of the head, just like the Sun chakra / 3rd eye but used for slightly different things), and out and down through his aura in a long curving loop to the tip of his penis. Again at the beginnings and ends of this meridian it branches out like a whole lot of nerve endings to fill up the entirety of the head of the penis at one end and the entirety of the centre of the head at the other. Dg. III-63: The male sexual meridian Now, the man will have attained a specific degree of mastery over each chakric lesson and will approach each chakric lesson in a particular way. As a result each of his chakras will be held in a particular way. The way that each of his chakras is held will combine to form a specific, individual basic state of consciousness at the centre of his head. This specific, individual basic state of consciousness will represent and contain the essence of his understanding of all the chakric lessons. And it is this essential understanding which will flow through his extra meridian to the tip of his penis and from there into the woman through her cervix. From where it will enter her extra meridian, flow up to her Moon chakra through it, be absorbed from there into the centre of her head, whence it will flow down through her central route to her individual chakras. For women it is this which is the deeper purpose of cervical orgasm: the absorption into themselves of their man’s understanding of each of the chakric lessons. Indeed it is through this mechanism that women were originally intended to attain a large part of their mastery of the chakric lessons, just as it is through the mechanism described in the previous section that men were originally intended to attain a large part of their connection to the deeper nature of the creation. However, the mechanism of the deeper energetic flow from man to woman will only work if a woman orgasms cervically in an inwards and upwards way. If you direct cervical stimulation into a downwards and outwards orgasm this mechanism will not work for you as the deeper energy from your man will not flow up to your Moon chakra. This is great though if you
don’t particularly like or respect the deeper nature of the man you are with and so don’t want to learn anything from that deeper nature of his. Or to put it another way, don’t want to make his deeper nature a part of you in any way. In this case you can reverse the flow along your special extra meridian so that it flows along your Moon chakra to your cervix. A powerful outwards and downwards orgasm should result. Many women do this automatically anyway in a more subconscious way by fantasizing during sex. You see, your deeper, more subconscious fantasies are held within your Moon chakra and by focusing upon them you move them to a more superficial level of that chakra from which they are free to move to another area of your body. If your cervix is being stimulated at the same time the energy of the particular fantasy or fantasies you are focusing upon will flow through your special meridian to your cervix where they will lend their energetic power and direction of flow to the cervical orgasm which is building up there. And so a powerful outwards cervical orgasm will result. But if you want to feel closer to your partner and take sex and orgasm to the highest levels then inwards and upwards cervical orgasm is the way to go. Though do bear in mind cervical orgasm does not always have to flow upwards all the way to the Moon chakra to be worthwhile. On a less deep, yet still highly valuable in terms of advanced sexual practice, level cervical stimulation can be used to produce powerful uterine orgasms. The cervix is after all just the very bottom part of the uterus and so is strongly connected to the uterus as a whole. Compared to the deeper energetic flow from woman to man, the deeper energetic flow from man to woman is like a fine, directed thread. It is quantitatively much less. It is also not as deep nor as profound as the deepest energies it is possible for a woman to connect to (her spirit and the planes beyond the Great Void). Though it may be deeper and more profound than the energy which the woman does actually connect to (if she connects to the astral and causal only for example). However, the deeper energetic flow from man to woman is focused and directed and does relate to mastery of the lessons of the lower three worlds and so to mastery of the Earth life. So if you partner is very masterful and esoterically advanced, absorbing the essence of his understanding from him during sex in this way can be very useful and beneficial to you. Or even if he is just more advanced than you in an area of the Earth life which you value and want to better master. So to summarize, the deeper energetic flow from man to woman during sex flows up through his central route and his chakras to the centre of his head, out through the 45˚ Sun point into his extra meridian, down to the tip of his penis and from there into the woman through her cervix. From her cervix it flows up to her Moon chakra from where it is absorbed
into the centre of the head and then flows down into her central route and all her chakras. Dg. III-64: The deep chakric lesson energetic flow from man to woman * * *
And that’s it. The thing to realize about both these mechanisms is that they happen automatically, of their own accord – provided you don’t block the process by being closed to your partner. How to be open to your partner, both energetically and emotionally/conceptually is what this whole book is basically about so we won’t go into it again here. However, because the mechanisms described in this section occur automatically provided you are open to your partner no particular focus on technique is necessary to re-educate or teach your body and energies how to go about it all. As such no specific step-by-step techniques are given in this section. The mechanisms are just outlined to make you aware of this deeper aspect of sex and how it all works. If you wish though you can, during sex, focus on the whole process, how it works and how it flows, experientially understand it and then, if you so choose, adjust or modify it as you see fit. You should be familiar enough by now with your body and energies and how it all works for this to be well within your capabilities. The other thing to realize about all this is the circularity and connectivity of it all, both energetically and conceptually. Energetically, the more universal and spiritual energy which flows from the woman into the man’s central route the more powerful will be the flow from the man’s central route to the centre of his head and so through his extra meridian to the tip of his penis. Which means that the greater will be the power behind the deeper energetic flow from him into the woman and so the more totally will his essential understanding of the chakric lessons become a part of the woman and her chakras. Which, providing his chakric understanding is more developed (open) than the woman’s, will result in the woman’s chakras opening to a greater extent which will enable her to connect more strongly to the universe and her Spirit. Which will make the flow of energy into her central route stronger, and so on. Conceptually, the more the woman gives, the more she receives (which is a more intuitive and therefore more direct way of going about things. Yin’s nature is only indirect in a certain sense of that term). And the more the man understands that he should give and be open (which is what chakric development amounts to), the more he gives that understanding to the woman and so the more he receives (in a very rational, via concepts, yang and more indirect way).
In fact. and thereby master their chakras more. Conceptually this may well seem to you to be a very difficult thing to do. And women should first and foremost be women and master being women and then. begin to address the yang sides of their nature and so the universe. Just relax and try it and you will see tangible results very quickly. Now. which obviates the need to run around in the external world karmically doing and finding answers. accept and master being a woman with all that entails. how it feels within the finger. pleasant and reassuring. be that the physical world or the higher planes. you look at the tip of that finger. Or perhaps more completely. men should first be men and master being men and then. Placing your mind in your partner’s body At this stage. As always it is all connected and you’re not going to have good sex as a man. direct connection to the deepest levels of their being and the universe.80 Thus the final thing to realize becomes clear: men should be men: find their answers and their understandings out in the external universe. Dg. what condition it is in. it is incredibly easy. developed awareness to notice it. intuitive. Just as you won’t have good sex as a woman. let alone deep and exceptional sex. III-65: Placing your mind in your partner’s body Very soon. if you don’t enjoy. your partner should begin to feel the tip of her finger warming up quite considerably. whilst still being first and foremost men. external force within her which is however (depending of course on the nature of your relationship). so too is it possible to control the energies within your partner’s body. if you don’t enjoy. Have your partner hold up his or her right hand with the index finger of that hand extended. accept and master being a man with all that entails. Stand or sit opposite your partner so that your torsos are no closer than 1m apart but not more than 3m apart. and try to feel it. focus on it. The technique then. This though needs a more subtle. begin to address the yin side of their nature and so the universe. Just as using awareness and intention you can control the energies within your own body. quite welcome. Whilst women should be women and focus on their naturally strong. The exact degree to which your partner’s finger will begin to heat up or tingle depends both on the force . try to feel what it feels like. whilst still being completely women. She may also feel the presence of your mind within her body as a sort of foreign. let alone deep and exceptional sex. it would prove useful to spend a little time learning how to place your awareness within your partner’s body.
feeling the energy build up there. have your partner hold up the index fingers of both her hands and focus on one or the other without telling her which one. This is to help you both overcome the idea that it is her focus being drawn to her own finger that is causing it to heat up. As your mindforce leaves her body. and her herself becoming more and more aroused. with practice. Your partner also. Try to increase your awareness to the point where you can feel the energy movements within her body as you do so. What is the nature of their soul and is it a nature to which you would wish to become very close? Is their heart good. The way to do this is using intention. As well as its sexual application this ability is also useful for coming to swiftly understand prospective partners. If you do place your mind in another person’s body remember to clean it. Once you can do this quite easily. Instead. proclivities and essential nature back into your body to some degree also. meat and other toxins? Are they free of any sexually transmitted diseases or other illnesses? Is their internal muscle tone good? One word of warning though. but before it enters yours. Try tracking her spine. And doing so without looking at the relevant body part and also with your eyes closed. It is possible to develop the technique and your awareness to the extent that you are as aware and as knowledgeable about your partner’s body as you are about your own. is their body well looked after and free from such impurities as alcohol. intend that it be totally cleaned of any influences or energies that it may have picked up. closed and full of petty spite? Are they a strong person and willing to allow you your freedom or would they seek to control and limit you? On a more physical level. which shouldn’t take more than a few minutes’ practice. This technique can. loving and open or small. have her tell you. It is your focus which is drawing her energy to her finger causing it to heat up. On the basis of the practices which you have both done so far the effect should be very marked and easily noticeable. Focus on her individual chakras and see how they are held. should work at developing this ability too. And are also as able to control your partner’s energies as you are your own (provided she is willing to let you and doesn’t try to block or interfere with the process). give you very deep insight into somebody’s true nature very quickly. Also you might want to try doing all of this from across the room and from different rooms. should you so desire it.81 of your mind and on the power of her energy. of course. drugs. . Also try placing your attention in her left and right foot as well as in her hands and fingers. before fetching it back into your own body. Try also focusing on her genitals. to purify and refine it. The next step is to proceed deeper within her body. Otherwise you will also fetch the other person’s impurities.
The man’s penis will rhythmically pump a few times and the woman’s vaginal walls will rhythmically contract in a series of involuntary spasms. total.82 Focused intention alone is enough to achieve the desired end. With the orgasm this tensing is released to be followed by a very relaxed. The more intense the orgasm the stronger and more forceful these pumpings or contractions will be. or sometimes not so gentle. If you wish though you can use some sort of visual imagery to help you such as seeing the mind-force as a small golden white sphere which is then temporarily engulfed in a cleansing. Also. it is generally considered polite to ask their permission first. Energetically also. just a gentle. Not a full-on. or in a prospective partner’s body. Fortunately. Before placing your mind in your partner’s body. purifying. usually especially so around the pelvic area. As your partner approaches orgasm there will be a build up of energy in the genital area which you can feel as a very tangible increase in the warmth of their . or a total cessation of stimulation. Even these aren’t necessary though for most types of orgasm will have some very physically obvious effects. and indeed is the most effective way to do so. powerful purple flame. a piece of advice. after the orgasm your partner will want less stimulation. in the build-up to orgasm. either overtly so or more tacitly. Particularly if they are self-aware to the extent that they will realize what you are doing… How to tell when your partner has an orgasm It is useful to be able to tell when your partner has what type of orgasm in order that you might know how she responds to different types of stimulation and energetic movements without having to resort to the interruption and inaccuracy of words. this is very easy to do once you have a bit of meditative experience and a little insight into the sexual processes. much more flaccid muscle tone. Both of these different ways in which the muscles of the body are held are physically very obvious: pay attention and it is easy to see them and to feel them if you touch your partner’s muscles. To be honest though such visual imagery really is not necessary and by this stage you really shouldn’t need it. especially if their orgasm has involved the movement of a large amount of energy out of the genital area. tensing of them. Finally. Such as a tensing of the body’s muscles. body-builder-style flexing of the muscles. Even more obviously though orgasms which are centred on or involve the genitals will produce contractions of the sexual organs themselves. the signs will be there.
you’ll know when she has an orgasm and what type of orgasm it is because you too will be . You should also be able to feel an increase in force and energetic pressure in their genital area. Also it will seem sort of “sparkly” (try closing your eyes and looking at your partner’s body through your mind’s eye both before and after her orgasm). even partially. For this reason it is unlikely that you’ll be able to feel the physical contractions of such orgasms on your genitals as you can feel the contractions of her vagina around your penis or the pumping of his penis within your vagina with more external. At a more advanced level this expansion will also be accompanied by a massive and powerful inflow of external energy. Once it is released in this way the level of energetic warmth of your partner’s penis or vagina will decrease and the degree of energetic force and pressure in the genital area will reduce. at the genitals neither the energy movements nor the physical contractions will be centred at the genitals. This is quite easy to do (with a little practice) by simply keeping a portion of your mind-force within your partner’s body for the duration of the sexual session. albeit in a less simplistically obvious way than the more genital types of orgasm. At the most advanced levels of orgasmic practice though.83 penis or vagina. There will still be an increase in the energetic warmth of the area around which the orgasm is centred but this warmth. will be a more refined. less dense type of warmth. when the energies of the two partners are well aligned. In terms of orgasm not centred. or internal yet still genitally-centred. That way is in much the same way as you feel your own deep orgasmic contractions. However. orgasms. probably downwards and outwards if we are talking of the more physical. except the body and nerve endings through which you will feel your partner’s orgasm will be your partner’s and not your own. less heavy. you can feel such contractions but in a different way. With the orgasm this build-up of energy will be released. when sexual energy builds up in the body at a level above the genital there will instead be a feeling of expansiveness to that energy as if it wants to go somewhere or (gently) explode. Instead of an increase in the feeling of energetic force and pressure which accompanies the build-up of sexual energy at the genital level. quietly powerful sort of way. Both of these factors (direction of expansion and inflow of energy) combine to mean that following the nongenital types of orgasm your partner’s entire body will feel more energized yet in a relaxed. though probably greater and more intense. When it does do so it will tend to expand upwards through the torso or perhaps outwards from its centre into both your bodies and nerves. Energetically too the deeper orgasms will be very noticeable. external types of orgasm.
mind. Secondly. and the stronger your love for each other. how much they feel for each other. The closer the two partners are and the deeper they take the sexual session the greater will be the mixing of their energies and hence the more like lovemaking and the less like merely having sex will the sexual session feel to them. Now. And this is probably the easiest way with which to tell when your partner is having an orgasm. First. the insight to realize is that love for your partner is very conducive to advanced sexual practice. It is this mixing of energies which makes sex a bit magical and which separates it from any form of masturbation. because that negative energy is refined and purified as a result of the love you feel for each other. This “by love purification” process isn’t perfect and it’s not 100% but it is in there and it does work. If you want to progress swiftly and easily in your sexual practice the way to do so is to feel love for your . the more effectively does it work. This means that when you absorb energy from your partner in this unconscious. long-lasting multiple or continuous orgasms to occur. “natural” way through lovemaking you do not absorb your partner’s negative energies to any great extent as a result. Just as she will orgasm in the same way as you whenever you have an orgasm. There are two points worth noting here. that each partner feels for the other. if you are not open to your partner.84 orgasming in the same way. Exchanging energies During any sort of sexual intercourse the energies of the two partners will mix. To put things succinctly the more love. emotions and soul to her (or she to you) then it is simply not possible to easily establish the energetic connection necessary between the two of you for deep. intense. the extent to which the energies mix in this way is determined by how open each partner is to the other. of whatever sort. consequently the more the energies of the two will mix and so the deeper the sexual session can be taken and the more intense and flowing the orgasms can be become. Then. if you close your heart. the more the energetic systems of the two lovers will open and connect to each other. when the sexual session is over and you (and your energies) separate you’ll both feel better and lighter because both of your energetic systems will have been refined and uplifted through this love purification process. So. the fact that when energies mix naturally they do so as a result of the love the partners have for each other means that this love itself purifies the energy of each partner as that energy begins to mix. It has to be a two-way thing for the necessary energetic dynamics to work.
and combine the energy movement with a simultaneous more physical stimulation to the same area e. In truth there is no advantage to be attained by being stingy with your love. mystically. during sex it is very easy. It is only fear and insecurity which makes you insist that the binding must be performed first before the openness is allowed. just as when you draw your own energy from your genitals up your spine. III-66: Directing energy into your partner: a) in a directed way b) in a more dispersed way This technique has a variety of applications. to be helpful. you fetch a large amount of energy into your genitals and then with an out-breath you direct this energy into your partner. Dg. Initially especially. Or you might prefer just to move the energy into your partner as a whole. Whether you then decide to bind your hearts and souls together is a decision which can be taken at a later date. Probably the most useful is to help two partners quickly and effectively equate their energy levels and their levels of arousal.g.85 partner. The way to do so is by using intention. and often very useful. you will probably come to prefer using intention alone. to consciously direct the exchange of energies with your partner. it can be taught. For now. You don’t have to be in love with them or they with you but your hearts and your souls do need to be open to each other. Now. It is from this angle that the more advanced practices are approached in ASP II. every second of every day of the creation. but energetic openness. and is. love cannot be taught 7 . merging and deepening can. at least during the later stages of lovemaking. Directing energy into your partner You feel the energy building up in your genitals and in your body yet your partner is still lagging somewhat behind. such as the prostrate or the g-spot. It is also good to use to help push your Well actually. you may well find an in-breath as you draw energy in from your partner or an out-breath as you move energy outwards into him or her. Consequently. in a more dispersed way through their whole body. causing the inner portion of the penis to be pushed against his prostrate. the techniques. Firstly then. 7 . In time though. a deep thrust to the g-spot or a powerful push-down on the penis shaft using the vaginal muscles. But that’s a slightly more advanced lesson. in order to increase their overall energy level. if at all. You might wish to direct this energy to a particularly sensitive area of his or her genitals. to help things along.
Not that the acolytes seemed to mind. when both your energies are flowing freely and orgasm comes easily to you both. to do so. she can use it to direct extra energy into her partner’s penis and prostrate to help strengthen his erection. less selfish. you are able to refine it still further. there are many other. ways in which this technique may be applied. If. Provided you are both aware of what is going on. then to have your partner try. This is because your partner’s energies will be refined to the extent corresponding to their level of esoteric development.86 partner over into orgasm if he or she is fairly close to it anyway. they probably would only have wasted that same sexual energy in downwards and outwards orgasms anyway. If your partner then draws that energy back to her. “…”) from unsuspecting acolytes. Nevertheless. she ends up with a more refined quality of energy. your basic life-giving. Further. Thereby effectively increasing their own health and longevity at the expense of that of their acolytes. health-enhancing energy. both partners continually exchange energies in this way then both will end up with a markedly more refined quality to their energy at the end of the sexual session. the fact that they used their veil of secrecy to not fully reveal to their acolytes what exactly was going on makes the use of this technique in such a way not something to be encouraged because it does not increase the amount of awareness in the world but rather decreases the potential for such awareness. That having been said. The technique then. you feel that you . unless you are both at the stage where you understand and know each other as well as you know and understand yourself. many of the more scrupulous masters absorbed only such energies as had already been released in this way. After a few orgasms. then it is easier to draw the energy into yourself directing it to where you wish it to go. also refining it as she does so. For the woman. Indeed. it is preferable for the partner receiving the energy to draw it into themselves rather than to have it directed into them by their partner. but when you draw that energy into you. See p. less successfully. during sex or lovemaking. Also if you yourself feel that you have too much energy within you at any point this is a very good way to release some of that energy and increase your partner’s arousal at the same time too! Drawing energy from your partner This particular technique has throughout history acquired something of a bad name primarily because it was frequently used by Taoist sages and tantric witches to draw large amounts of sexual energy (which you’ll remember is equivalent to Jing.
far better. As you draw the energy out of his genitals simultaneously intend that it be refined as you do so. Clearing the effects of mixed energies Being with a partner that you love and pre-refining energy as you draw it into you will usually effectively ensure that you do not draw in 8 This is by far the most important principle to be remembered whenever you draw any energy into your body from an external source. This energy will become a part of you and so will have an effect on your energetic system. It is also possible to draw in your partner’s energy through your mouth when kissing. other energies or just “her energy” as an undifferentiated whole. And you will have also made all your esoteric work a lot easier. far more effective. Otherwise you are either committed to drawing in and living with all the negative aspects of the energy from that source or to spending hours subsequently refining within your body the energy which you have drawn into it. Then it is her turn again. in order that it really become a part of you. . Of the two. So you focus on his genitals and with an in-breath draw a good amount of energy out of them and into your vagina. So that when it enters your body it has already been refined 8 . uterus and the rest of your body. This effect is especially noticeable when you focus on exchanging Shen energies with your partner. Dg. Note that while the easiest and the most enjoyable way in which to draw your partner’s energy into your body is usually via the genitals. also prerefining it as he does so. but it is an arduous and time-consuming process. central nature. and far easier. III-67: The man drawing energy in from the woman Finally. After a while. your body as a whole and your aura. It is also possible to draw in Chi.87 want your partner’s energy inside you more fully. the latter would be the preferable option. Regarding things like transient moods and superficial characteristics these will tend to be effectively removed by your prerefinement of the energy before drawing it into yourself and so won’t affect you. it is worth realizing that any energy which you draw in from your partner will have to it the basic feeling which corresponds to her essential. more totally. he too draws her energy into his body. it is not the only option. Shen. And so the process continues. Nor do you have to limit the energy which you draw in to being only sexual energy or Jing. you can soon teach your body and your subconscious mind to implement the process automatically. to simply refine the energy before it enters your body. your chakras. If every time that you draw external energies into the body you intend that they be refined in this way. Be aware of these possibilities and experiment with them if you wish. Pay attention to it and thereby learn from the essence of what she is. through your hands.
88 any “negative” energy from your partner. Continue in this manner until you reach the more internal. from the 3rd eye where you are . Hold your attention there. Then simply focus about 60% of your attention on the places in your body where that energy is held and. Then widen your focus so that you are holding about 40% of your focus at the 3rd eye point and about 60% within your body as a whole. Depending on your level of esoteric development (and the karma you’re going through at that particular time) you will either find the negative (or undesirable) energy localized at some point in your body or flowing freely through your energetic system as a whole. If your intention or your love is weak. sickness energy etc. probably as much within your own mind as in any more external way. more detached. The technique then. That is to say. very negative person or due to serious chronic illness) then it is quite possible that you will still draw her negativity into you when the two of you have sex. then. with your attention held at the 3rd eye point. i. confused mind-states. quieter mindstate characteristic of meditation. What is often the case though is that you are with a certain partner who has certain aspects to her character which are perfect for her and her path and which you truly love her for but which are not completely appropriate to you and your path. or if your partner has very strong negative energy within her (for example due to being a very powerful. the qualities which it has. to heat up or gently vibrate in the places where the drawn-in energy is held. Pay attention to the nature of the energy in your body as a whole. for example. gently and deeply and calm the mind as taught in The Foundation Practices. And if you mix energies with her on a long-term basis.e. any energy which you draw from your partner will have her essential quality. simply leaving her energy in your body afterwards you will begin to acquire aspects of her character which are something of a hindrance to the lifepath you want to take. how he or she is at the core of his/her being. Further. negative or neutral is a matter open to debate. Whether you define that essential quality as positive. If you can’t identify where the drawn-in energy is in your body using observation alone. – the energy will still retain the basic characteristic of your partner. In a sitting position with your spine erect begin by focusing at the rd 3 eye point. instruct your body. though pre-refinement and love will effectively remove transient negativities from your partner’s energy – things like negative emotions. For all these instances it is useful to know how to clear the effects of any drawn-in or mixed energy from your energetic system. the extent to which such negative energy is purified depends on the force of the intention which you use to purify it and the strength of the love which you feel for your partner. However. breathe slowly.
To reiterate though. Dg.e.89 still holding about 40% of your attention. your aura. your aura extends out from your physical body about three feet in all directions. Once you’ve finished. If you feel there is still some negative left there. pay attention for a while to the energies in your body as a whole. Continue until you are sure that your aura is clear and then spend a little time just focusing on your aura until you’re absolutely certain that it. . up to about 3” out from your physical body. When the heat begins to die down it is a sign that the process is nearing completion. As you will recall. turn your focus to those parts of your energetic bodies which extend out beyond the boundaries of your physical body i. if you love your partner. Whilst you are holding this focus you’ll probably feel yourself getting quite hot indeed. for example. is completely clear. again holding 40% of your awareness at your 3rd eye. If before that point you feel that you’re getting too hot simply reduce the force of your intention. continue the technique until you are satisfied that you’re clear. III-68: The Aura Place 60% of your awareness within your aura. But transmuting usually works best in this case and also means that the draw-in energy within you is not wasted or lost. Still. have the strong intention that the negative energy transmute into positive energy. to ensure that all the negative has effectively been transmuted. Usually we’re talking 5-20 minutes here. This is nothing to worry about – it is one of the things which normally occurs when energy changes from a less refined state to a more refined state. Or that it change into energy with the characteristics that you want it to have. take care to pre-refine energy before you draw it into yourself. or alternatively just take a break for a while. too. Instead of transmuting the negative energy you could instead dissolve it or expel it from the body (and aura) if you wish. and have a fairly strong force of focus than you really shouldn’t need to use this technique too often. use your awareness and decide for yourself in each specific case what the best approach to use is. and repeat the process as given above with your aura this time. and especially in the areas where you’ve been working. After you’ve confirmed that the energies within your physical body are clear. with this intention for long enough to produce the actual result. the force with which you are focusing. say. You will have to hold this focus. if at all. though you’ll probably only clearly feel that part of your aura which has a substantial energetic charge within it.
Then intend that they connect. This energy can be used to enhance the sexual process. For example. Trying to connect non-corresponding . the whole process can be greatly enhanced by the introduction of conscious intention. Chakric alignment refers to the physical positioning of your torso in relation to your partner’s torso such that the front of each of your chakras is in physical proximity to the front of each of your partner’s corresponding chakras (e. then angle your bodies to fetch these two chakras (e. consequently. Which. The advantage of aligning your chakras to your partner’s chakras in this way is that they will connect. First align the chakras in this physical way. The same applies to the Admeitus / Erechtheus chakric level also. either all at once or one at a time. to cleanse and purify the entire body and energetic system and. But when working with the chakric system as a whole such an exact alignment is not absolutely necessary. and large amounts of energy will be drawn in.90 Chakric alignment Recall the diagram of the seven major chakric levels given on p. Mars to Mars. III-69: Chakric alignment Regarding the Moon chakra. Venus to Venus). Regarding significant height differences between the partners. and feel them connect to your partner’s chakras. “…”. Dg. as long as your Sun chakra is aligned to your partner’s Sun chakra it will align that chakric level and so there is no need to try to separately align the Moon chakra also. Provided you’re face to face with your partner with your torsos touching everything seems to work fine. It can also be used to energize the whole body. Place your mind in the chakras. for example by making orgasm easier to achieve and more powerful. feel them begin to draw in energy 9 . Venus to Venus. don’t worry about it. simultaneously. Saturn to Saturn. incidentally. create these vortices and begin to draw in energy. If in such an instance you want to focus on the alignment of a specific chakra. 9 Note that the intention is to connect your chakras to the corresponding chakras in your partner.g. In practical terms what this amounts to is that you use a face to face position with your torsos touching. Whilst the mere physical alignment of your chakras to your partner’s chakras in this way will automatically produce this drawing-in of energy. vortices will be created. It is also a great way to lift yourselves up when you’re feeling low or tired. to heal. is also impossible to do. your Mars and your partner’s Mars) into closer physical proximity to each other.g.
Complementarity is more easily understood in relation to the famous Taoist “yin-yang” symbol. Rather. live in the present and generally wake up and go to bed with a smile on their face. Dg. Then see how these all match up. this difference is of a sort which causes the two attitudes to fit together perfectly. chakras in this way (e. for their energetic alignment to be possible. more tranquil pleasures of life.g. more detached. An example might be useful. III-70: The Taoist yin-yang symbol There is. however. as a point of physical practicality. metaphorically. the more extreme pleasures of life whilst her detachment and her tranquillity helps him to enjoy the more gentle. it is worth noting that for your chakras to connect and join with your partner’s chakras in this way they have to be sufficiently similar. You don’t have to have identical attitudes or even similar ones. greater whole. well-functioning Jupiter chakra. it would also mean. more raw. so fundamentally opposed to. Venus to Saturn) won’t really work and won’t really produce much of an effect. sufficiently complementary the one to the other. His extremeness and his wildness helps her to enjoy the more intense. at core. just let it happen and enjoy the strong feeling of closeness which it produces. The way that their individual chakras are held is just so different. a fundamental sameness to both your attitudes as represented. there is also an essential difference to your two attitudes as represented by the one tadpole being white and the other black. This is something which we will take a lot deeper later. However. Nevertheless. To see if this is possibly the case between you and your partner go through each chakra. Finally. All of which are indicative of a strong. that the alignment of the chakric system as a whole is not possible. What is important is that they be complementary. more tranquil way. the area of life it represents and try to determine both your attitude to it and your partner’s attitude to it. more extreme way whilst she does so in a more refined. they will also begin to join and merge to some extent. He. the way that your chakras are held that there is nothing there to base a connection on. There are some people whose soul is just so different to what your soul is that such an alignment simply isn’t possible. tends to enjoy life in a wilder. by the small white circle within the black tadpole and by the small black circle within the white tadpole. . No matter how externally beautiful or attractive a proposition to your conscious system of values that he or she might be. Indeed your very being repels and is repelled by his or her very being. For now. Perfectly complementing each other to make a newer.91 As your chakras connect to your partner’s chakras in this way. Both partners fundamentally enjoy life.
full-body orgasm Using the techniques you have covered so far you will have probably already experienced full-body orgasm by generating the energy in the genitals. if you are looking at the chakras of two partners in this way you will probably find it necessary to look at how the chakras interrelate as well as how one partner’s chakras relates to the other partner’s chakras. This is because the technique of the genital generation of energy and its subsequent upward direction simply does not produce enough energy in the body as whole to sustain full-body orgasm in both of you at the same time. you could simply just go ahead and try to align your chakras with your partners. mutual. well. the vortices are created and the energy is drawn in. If one partner does so slightly before the other. Merely intend it to be so and it will be so. What you have probably not experienced is the continuous. and then allowing the full-body orgasm to follow. Neither does it necessarily co-ordinate your energies with those of your partner. mutual. and the greater will be the extent to which you can do so. of course. it doesn’t really matter. And the easier will it also be to align chakras with any one specific person. Allow the vortices to form and the energy to begin to be drawn in. at least you’ll know that it doesn’t. If it works and the chakras connect. is now about to drastically change. moving your mind. Continuous. however. Generally you will find that the more loving you become as a person. the more will be the people with whom you can align chakras in this way. both partners should take an inbreath and begin a consciously induced orgasm. At the same time. though again you can use visual imagery if you find it helpful. your awareness into your partner’s body. If it doesn’t. as in the technique presented in the previous section. increase the extent to which energy is drawn into your bodies in this way. Then relate this to what you understand about the way in which your own chakras are held. resting it within each chakra. using intention. directing it upwards through the body by means of inwards and upwards orgasm and by drawing it up. then great. and seeing how they all are held. one partner can begin a non-consciously induced yet nevertheless .92 In practice. After you are a good way into the lovemaking process. Also. All that. align your chakras with your partner’s chakras. when both you and your partner have had several orgasms and the energies are flowing freely. full-body orgasm being the underlying state of your lovemaking. Alternatively. the more accepting and the less judgemental and selfrighteous. It is possible to do the whole thing energetically. if you are not too concerned about the why of it all. Now.
if you wish. when they are ready to do so. Allow the orgasm to spread all the way down to your toes and out to the tips of your fingers also. At any rate. increasing it.93 continuous orgasm and the other partner can then join in. you can just detach from the whole process and allow it to continue automatically whilst you turn your attention to other areas. Practice until you can make the whole thing occur quite easily and naturally. Dg. It is through this back portion of their chakras that both partners will draw in most of the energy. which you draw in as one. Whatever it is that you take your attention to in this way it will be enhanced by the light (or not so light) contractions throughout your whole body. Then. It is this movement of about half the energy to the front of each chakra which produces the feelings of great closeness between the partners as these front portions of their chakras are touching. of the full-body orgasm. what occurs is that the front portion of your chakras will extend to touch. orgasming in the same way. on a more technical note. Further. thereby continually providing the full-body orgasm with the energy it needs to sustain itself. III-71: Mutual full-body orgasm – note the energetic closeness produced Occasionally what occurs is that your chakras will join with those of your partner to a greater degree to form what is almost just one set of . spreading out as they do so rather like a funnel formation. will be moved to the front portion of the chakras as each chakra seeks to naturally internally balance itself. direct the orgasmic contractions and the energetic release from this orgasm upwards through the body. strengthening it.g. as well as the total. sustaining it. allowing them to spread through the torso as a whole. Energy which. Finally. You can of course use intent to make all of these natural processes stronger and more forceful if you wish. the front portion of your partners’ chakras. As they do so allow the vortices created by your aligned chakras to draw in even more energy which feeds into the whole orgasmic process. At the same time. extending out beyond the surface of your skin into your aura. or possibly even merge with. this fully body orgasm cannot help but be mutual and also produce a feeling of great closeness as you both share the same energy. e. because this energy is drawn in by your aligned and somewhat joined chakras. melding chakras or a few more localized genital orgasms for their quick intensity. In the body as a whole. powerful energy movements. this funnel formation will spread out to the back of both your chakras. to a good degree. in exactly what way is the energy drawn into your bodies when the chakras of both partners are aligned? Ordinarily. This drawing-in of energy via the chakras continues on an ongoing basis.
“…”. rather than being drawn into it in a 3rd-dimensional direction. Almost as if it is appearing within that ball from a deeper dimension. “…”. the way in which the major chakras located along the spinal axis are “held”: the exact form that they take in you. If it does occur for you and your partner at this stage you can take it as a very strong indication that you are naturally very well suited to each other. although the six chakric levels below the Sun/Moon level also operate at another level. is not a common occurrence at this stage. pulsating energetic balls centred about halfway between the two of you. the practices from this level onwards should be undertaken only when you are absolutely certain that you want what your partner is to affect what you are. your personality or your life. however. producing very easily noticeable changes in both your personality and your life. What you should really be basing your understanding on is your own meditative experience of both your own chakras and those of your partner. and when your partner also wants what you are to affect what he or she is. Really the details given there are only meant to serve as a rough guide. recall the chakras as they were covered on p. Dg. Again. and hence the exact attitude which you have in relation to the areas of life that they govern. These aspects of the chakras are. From here on in the nature of your partner’s soul would have a very marked effect on the nature of your soul. Chakric melding: an introduction The practice as covered in the previous section is about as deep as you can take things without the nature of your partner’s soul having any really significant effect on the nature of your soul. These aspects of the chakras area covered in the section: “The deeper chakric levels” on p. however. It is more akin to the sort of orgasm which follows a full soulmerge with your partner. is determined by. III-72: Soulmerging through mutual full-body orgasm In this case the energy will usually feel as if it is being drawn from within the energetic ball itself. normally embedded deeper in the subconscious than the aspects of the chakras with which you . Consequently. in another way. at the deepest of levels. You will recall that in that section it was mentioned that about 95% of your deep personality. or soul. This. is accounted for.94 chakras which will feel like glowing. Now this is strictly true. Indeed it is a little over halfway between that type of orgasm and the type of orgasm more common at this level of practice. as if from a deeper level.
whilst retaining its essential steadiness and measuredness. her dynamism and forcefulness. very measured. An example might be helpful. both of your personalities. for a while. Hence the advantages of working with the chakras. it is really only the first chakric levels with which you need to concern yourself. whilst retaining its essential gentleness and caringness will also become more enduring. If. for example. his levels of insight. deeper level. technically. What concerns us here is that it is possible. humans tend to be very consistent beings and there are some things which they will almost universally find difficult. Now.95 already familiar. To the extent that. let alone the second. their life experience. and more. because by changing the way in which they are held you are able to change all of these things. Thereby fundamentally altering both of your souls. painful and . a question of how we interpret out experience of the reality. Now they are both very dynamic and forceful people. most people are barely conscious of the first level of the chakras. to his opinions. more steady. Yet he is dynamic and forceful in a very gentle. for now. Consequently. and both of your lives. The chakras do operate at both levels in everybody. large. to merge and join one of your chakras with the corresponding one of your partner. Say it is the Mars chakra which the couple decides to meld. to put it another way. Or. joined chakra rather than two separate ones. during sex. very caring. Only once it is mastered will the focus shift more to the deeper level. will also become more thoughtful towards others. any special abilities or skills he might have and the nature of the experiences which come into his life. they will account for 95% of all that that person is and all that he experiences. whilst she is dynamic and forceful in a very steady. more caring. how he interrelates with other people. At the same time. However. very considerate way. very step-by-step way. From the condition and form of his physical body. It should be noted that any changes produced in this way do not necessarily have to be positive. the way in which your partner’s chakra is held will fundamentally alter the way in which your chakra is held. Further. And while it is true that positivity and negativity are. because they have yet to begin to master this first level the vast majority of their focus. As a result of their melding chakras in this way his dynamism and forcefulness. the way he does things. their personality and their insight will be directed towards it. there exists only one. This leads to the essential qualities of your partner’s chakra becoming a part of your chakra and the essential qualities of your chakra becoming a part of your partner’s chakra. And vice versa. you merge Mars chakras with a partner who is very hostile and aggressive then these attributes will become a part of you. seeing as these major chakras account for about 95% of a person’s deep personality or soul.
can honestly say that they enjoy sickness and poor health or that they don’t enjoy love and affection? So use insight when choosing your sexual partner or partners and be careful who you choose to meld chakras with. Or to put it another way. pour energy into them. emotions and desires. for example. A useful tool indeed. experience of all these approaches. and the extent to which it does so. Karmic particles then enter through your crown. And are able to control your reaction to them and just observe them and learn from them. karma. become attached to them. And it is possible to change the underlying . To give you actual personal internal. nor by your reaction to them. and how they come about (hint: they’re not caused by external factors. it is responsible for all the good experiences that came into your life. and if you wish external. If you meld chakras with your partner at a time when they have significant karmic energy within that chakra. or at least very greatly soften. for most people. your personality is karma. rather than: partake of them. disadvantages. How many people. you are able to more or less control. Remember. And karma does not have to be “bad”. pleasures and difficulties of it all. Life is there to be experienced and enjoyed. It is possible to reach the level of esoteric development where you just observe your thoughts and emotions. Yes. But do not fear karma. There is another thing to consider. Once you have reached this level of development it is possible to use the technique of chakric melding not so much to change your life or your personality but rather to give you insight into the whole spectrum of approaches possible to the process of living.96 unpleasant. In short. as well as all the harder ones. from the earthly perspective. all that it can be. filter down to the appropriate chakra and then go out into the world through that chakra. to be lived. the external manifestation of your karma. if at all. a portion of the external manifestation of that karma. And to do so within a single lifetime. Two final points need to be explicitly explained. At most these things can act only as “triggers”). and take them outwards. Karma is life. That is to say. the form which it takes. it enables you to experientially understand all that human life consists of. thereby taking that chakra’s patterning out into the world and hence bringing you your life’s experiences. then you will take on a portion of that karmic energy and hence also. your experiences are karma. And hence of the advantages. the level of development where you are aware of all your thoughts. melding chakras with your partner will cause you to take on a portion of the karmic patterning of your partner’s chakra. This usually follows on from the attainment of Enlightenment due to the insight into the fundamental nature of karma and the increase in strength of the mindforce which comes about with Enlightenment. Each chakra has a particular karmic patterning to it: it is this which constitutes the way the chakra is held. Firstly.
meditation. Just as you would have had to work to change the basic way in which your chakra was held before the melds. How to do this? Change the way in which your chakras are held. Secondly. and hence the form of expression of the karmic particles through those chakras. Another way is through chakric melding. If you continually meld the same chakra with your partner the nature of both your chakras will be fundamentally changed after between about 3 weeks and two months. or to what extent to continue to emphasize the way your chakra was held before the meld and so allow the effect of the meld to gradually recede and become just a memory. if such energy was present in his or her chakra at the time of the meld: any external experiences directly caused by such energy should have all occurred within about 3 months of the meld. this is more or less open for you to decide. normally it is much shorter. and hence your life experience. In terms of the essential nature of your partner’s chakra affecting and changing the essential nature of your chakra. special way in which your partner held his or her chakra will always remain with you. nor do I know of any reason which might cause it to do so. The effects caused by the . also an option. it’s over. how your partner holds his or her chakra and the advantages and disadvantages of so doing. for it to happen. through. This is because all such karmic energy is subject to a period of activation during which it is possible for it to “fire”. though usually much. for example. the question of permanence.97 patterning of your chakras. change your basic attitude and approach to the areas of life governed by each chakra. pour energy into it and make it grow. to what extent to focus on it. I have never observed this active period to last longer than 3 months. Further chakric melding with a different partner is. The karma is “dead” after that point and can no longer fire in any way. In terms of any karmic energy which you might have absorbed from your partner. That is to say. It is now up to you to decide to what extent to make this a part of your personality. How permanent are the results of a chakric melding? In one way they are absolutely permanent because the memory of the particular. much sooner (a few weeks). After one single chakric meld it will tend to do so over the space of about three weeks. of course. though you can always call on the memory again and reinforce it should you wish to. Once this period of activation is past. you would have to work on changing it. One way to effectively do this is through meditation. You’ve melded chakras with your partner and you have fully understood. To change it from this state if you desire to do so. This change will be as permanent as any such change can be and your chakra will have moved to a new form of basic resting state. And this period of activation never lasts for more than 3 months. experientially. that’s it.
esoterically. The partners are in the later stages of lovemaking. your physical form.98 external experiences which come about as a result of the firing of such karma is another matter. why not share the burden or the good fortune. but it is not magic. Their chakras are aligned. If. It doesn’t much matter whether they are in a state of mutual full-body orgasm or not. for example. more than extremely unlikely. mystical factors which you can’t really see and can’t really consciously control. Or to put it another way. the effects of such events will reverberate in your life far beyond the occurrence of the events themselves. drawing in large amounts of energy. bear in mind that such changes need work and focus on your part too to make them real. but one single larger chakra. just as is the case in life anyway. Chakric melding: the technique Chakric melding is the name given to the merging and joining of one or more of your chakras with the corresponding one or more of your partner’s chakras. the most central. for the duration of the meld. And you are still free and responsible for your own self and for your own life. however. As well as taking care of those energetic. regarding changes to your personality. It can give you the essential intuitive insight into the new way of being. that which is contained within must still be brought outwards. For such drastic events to be caused by the absorption of karmic particles from your partner is. not two separate chakras belonging to each partner. to solidify them. Before they had started the sexual session they had both agreed to meld . when they have both had several orgasms and their energies are flowing freely. Chakric melding can cause you to understand such changes and how they can be brought about. This results in there being. timely meetings. the most real. thing about any way of being or any way of living. such as all those strange coincidences and convenient. shared by both partners. the karmic particles you’ve absorbed fire and cause you to win the lottery or have a road accident. And it can probably do so faster and more completely than any other technique or approach whatsoever. your life experiences and your life conditions. The technique then. But. taking about half each? He or she is presumably the love of your life after all… Finally. You may through a chakric meld acquire the basic insight into what it is to be wealthy or beautiful but you will still have to do the necessary work to actually make yourself wealthy or beautiful. And if it was going to occur to one of you anyway. Chakric melding may be a powerful tool. the new way of living which is what is. your chakric patternings may control the outline of your destiny. but it is up to you whether you fulfil that destiny or not.
feeling it. the way it is held and also its connection to their partner’s Venus chakra. You will feel your partner’s body and his or . As the chakras grow in this way. It begins to do so and they feel their two chakras extending and expanding. when the time felt right. they too expand and reach out to meet their counterpart. as they reach out to meet their counterpart. III-73: Expanding Venus chakras The energies of the two Venus chakras begin to mix and meld. growing in strength and power. the two chakric cores connect and begin to exchange. the energy movements between them. You will notice that ordinarily a chakra has a small central core at which its essential nature is most easily and most forcefully held. its qualities. its qualities. in your partner’s Venus chakra and chakric core almost as much as it is in your own. its quality. As the energies of the chakric-field-part of the Venus chakras begin to mix and meld. Extending out from this central core. The bond between the two chakras. the Mars and Mercury chakras. As they do so they both intend the connection between their two chakras to strengthen and increase. Dg. III-74: The partner’s chakric cores connecting to each other By this stage your mindforce. much like the Earth itself extends out from its core. becoming more strongly aware of all of them as they do so. He focuses on her Venus chakra. and its connection to his own Venus chakra and she focuses on his Venus chakra. They continue to focus on these factors for a while. so they both focus on their own Venus chakra. At the same time she does likewise. They might even begin to move into the space occupied by the chakras on either side of the Venus chakra. is a more diffuse energetic field which has the same basic properties as the chakric core.99 their Venus chakras during the sexual session. Then they both move their focused attention back to their own chakras whilst keeping a relaxed awareness of their partner’s chakra. The time now feels right. mix and merge energies. Dg. This is nothing to worry about and doesn’t seem to have any special effect provided that the focus remain on the Venus chakras. and its connection to her own Venus chakra. they increase in size to the extent that they begin to occupy the same physical space as each other. your awareness will be in your partner’s body. the way each chakra seems to be pulling its counterpart into itself. Then he extends his mindforce into her Venus chakra whilst also maintaining a relaxed awareness of his own Venus chakra. As they do so. but less forcefully so and in a less “pure” way.
something more complete. Dg. within the area of that one chakra the sensory boundaries will dissolve and you will feel your partner’s body as much and as easily as your own. As with melding the Venus chakra. pay attention to your Venus chakra and the ways in which it has changed and how it is now held. just as she does with her own Venus chakra and with yours. You will feel a deep. Stay in this state. or with melding two or more chakras. within this area you will feel any orgasm as . Afterwards. profound connection to your partner and the chakra itself may well begin to automatically pulsate. if you’ve melded your Venus chakras together) then. As the energy continues to be drawn in. Gradually reverse the process. very forcefully in a very pure. Also do likewise for your partner’s Venus chakra. for as long as you wish. Pay attention to this single chakra and feel its qualities.g. letting the core contract. It should feel very much like a mixture of your Venus chakra with your partner’s Venus chakra. Orgasming as one within a melded chakra Once you and your partner have fully melded one of your chakras (e. begin to separate and move into your two separate bodies and finally for the two chakras to disconnect and become two completely separate chakras. Consequently. Dg. do so slowly and gently. so too with melding any other chakra. using intention direct the chakric core to expand so that it occupies the entire chakric field. using intention.100 her Venus chakra with all its qualities as much as you feel your own. Both partners then encourage the melding to continue and. III-76: Chakric melding level II Once this is done the qualities of the melded Venus chakra will be felt very clearly. but somehow “purer”. one in your body and one in your partner’s. When you are ready to finish the meld. Also there will be a definite feeling of bliss and of extreme closeness to your partner. separate into two separate ones. enjoying the insights and sensations. they direct the two chakric cores to meld completely into one single core. III-75: Chakric melding level I At this point there will be just one Venus chakra with just one chakric core. distinct form. the chakric fields reduce in size. for the duration of that meld. something greater. somehow something more.
the memory of what her approach is to the lessons represented by the chakra which the two of you melded together will remain with you always. Should you choose to do so. or to allow to begin. to be fully gone probably within a month or so. or begin to. So much so that you may wish to direct them to tone down a bit or stop altogether. Definitely a very easy and a very fast short-cut to take in terms of esoteric development. Very shortly the chakra will begin to “pulsate”: it will be continually drawing in energy to such an extent that it will also begin to emit energy in short. Now. Go with it and allow this to happen. and work/intend that it become your attitude to Venus issues as a whole. be aware that these contractions can become very forceful and very intense indeed. pulse-like bursts. act in a certain way) will soon dissipate as it is used up. You can however use intention to induce. harmony and love. ease. the karmic energy which you absorb from her chakra during the meld (i. If this is the case then you can simply focus on this memory of how to approach the Venus lesson.e. rather than as two separate entities merely orgasming at the same time. Now. This is one. Clearing the effects of a melded chakra Melding a chakra or chakras with your partner is not the same as the very transient effects of merely exchanging or mixing energies. ordinarily. within your partner’s body as within your own. that is fine if her insight into the life-lessons is more developed than yours and more useful to your lifepath than your own level of insight before the meld. Indeed. or almost as much. orgasm in this way is to draw in more energy into the fully merged chakra. However. The melded orgasm is such a total.101 much. elegance. it tends to be the way in which most couples usually prefer to orgasm. That is to say. muscular contractions which will tend to occur in time to the pulsing of the chakra. ongoing basis. It will truly feel and be as if you are orgasming as one. if you melded Venus chakras then you will. which will be held in your Venus chakra. beautiful experience and set of sensations that it alone is a very good reason to be involved with a partner who you love and respect so deeply and so totally that you are willing to meld chakras with them on a regular. . at this level. the compulsion pushing you to think in a certain way. In which case they will promptly do so. The way to induce. solely energetic. more physical. feel in a certain way. carry around with you forever after a memory of her attitude to Venusian issues such as charm. form of orgasm at this level. When you meld chakras you are actually uniting a part of your soul with a part of her soul.
then it is not necessary to use as strong an intention to achieve the desired effect. if you use a stronger force of intent (than was used to meld the chakra) then you will not have to hold the focus for as long as the chakric meld was held. given your new insight. Now. that your Venus chakra be cleared of any effects. in time. have the strong intention. clear your Venus chakra of any memory of the meld and its effects.e. Another alternative is to simply meditate on the Venus chakra after the meld much as you did in the “Balancing the Chakras” section of The Foundation Practices. Obviously. you may wish to speed the process up. Whilst performing this technique maintain a detached awareness of the state your Venus chakra is in. you’ll probably have to repeat this technique a few times. Then decide what state you wish. to hold your Venus chakra in and then using intent work on your Venus chakra so that it comes to be held in that state. Hold it there as you enter a state of meditation. Once you notice that it is completely clear then you can stop the technique in the certain knowledge that it has been effective. Then hold the strong focus. the soulmerge involves the union of the entire chakric . You will have to hold this focus for as much time and with as much strength of intent as was put into the original chakric meld in order for it to fully clear the chakra. However. precisely because it is quite advanced. And if you hold the focus for longer than the chakric meld was held for. memories and energies acquired as a result of the chakric meld. The technique to do this is actually quite simple. Place your attention within your Venus chakra. reminding the Venus chakra precisely how you want it to hold itself. the purer and the more developed that one’s Venus chakra is (i. See what state it is in following the meld and learn what there is to be learnt. in order to make the change permanent. At least while you are still starting out. The soulmerge: an introduction Whilst a chakric meld usually involves the union of only one or two chakras. the greater your insight into the Venus lesson) the more powerful will that chakra be in you. or it may be that you prefer your own approach to the Venus lesson after all and so wish to remove all traces of the memory acquired from your partner’s Venus chakra. So if your partner was objectively comparatively less developed in this area than you then the natural workings of the chakric system will.102 If however your attitude to Venus issues is more developed than your partner’s or more useful to your specific lifepath then obviously you will want to clear the memory of how that partner approached Venus issues from your chakric system.
in this life and beyond. to offer to your partner or to your prospective partner. It is then possible for you to experience and understand the essential results. But it is also a very profound and a very altering experience. and so both the sexual practice and the relationship to be satisfying and rewarding for both partners. it produces a linking of your life paths and your destinies. and vice versa. In like manner also. it is necessary that each have something to offer to their partner that is of value to that partner. Even assuming that in such a case of uncomplimentarity you are able to produce a soulmerge at all. approaches to and insights into the fundamental areas of life experience must be developed to the extent that your partner values and appreciates them so much that he is willing to and desires to make them an integral part of his being. Because of this it is probably a good idea not to enter into it too lightly. It produces the greatest feelings of closeness – total union in fact – and the deepest feelings of bliss. afterwards. Finally. As such. It is a highly enjoyable experience – you’ll be walking around on a permanent high with a great big smile on your face and the world will seem like an amazing place for days. the condition of each individual’s soul).103 systems of the lovers. little insight and little perfection within your own soul then you will have but little to really offer your partner. If there is but little development. This highlights an important aspect of the sexual practice at ASPII: for the exchange to be equal. if not weeks. In such a case. It also leads to everything that you are affecting and altering everything that your partner is. the big advantage of soulmerging is that the way in which each individual holds their chakras (in other words. And so to come to a level of understanding that has taken your partner many lifetimes to develop. let us assume that you are with a partner who is your equal and that you have soulmerged with her on an ongoing basis for 2 or 3 . and perhaps something original. All the more reason to work on developing yourself to the extent that you have something of value. the nature of your attitudes to. He or she will learn but little from you and will progress but little as a result of his or her soulmerging practices with you. will also gain the same from you. Or to put it another way. And then to ensure that your partner is at least close to being your equal. He or she meanwhile. the condition of your soul. except on the physical plane. must the nature and condition of your partner’s soul satisfy you. the fruits. Esoterically. In terms of the created reality. it is unlikely that they will find the soulmerge with you either a very deep or a very altering experience. of all that personal development in the space of a few hours. is the result of many lifetimes’ worth of experience and personal development on the basis of that experience. you do literally become one.
Far from it. continually evolving and probably with great speed if they are already at the level where they can effectively practice the advanced techniques contained within this book. what you gain from a soulmerge with them today will be different to what you gained from a soulmerge with them last week or a month ago. allowing each chakra that has been melded to remain so as you progress to the next one. Would not the next step logically be to seek out a new partner so that you can learn from them in like fashion also? Not necessarily. possessiveness and the desire to control and limit the freedom of your partner. This is the technique which we shall cover in detail now. He releases his awareness and focuses it gently on all of his chakras simultaneously. in relation to what they gain from you. and also notices how they are all connected and how they interrelate. Their chakras are aligned and connected. most of all. Saturn to Saturn. So when you do find it. or twice as fast. she also does likewise. Each person is continually developing. Not to mention that it is a rare thing to find a partner whose fundamental nature is so complementary to your fundamental nature that a deep connection automatically ensues and a deep soulmerge is easily possible. whilst also receiving the results of theirs. However. fidelity or. it is easier. melding them all simultaneously. value it and try to sustain it 10 . is gently aware of the nature of each of them. It is perfectly possible – and wiser – to do this whilst allowing them their freedom – and maintaining your own. for bear in mind that the condition of one’s soul is not a static thing. it is an ongoing process. And likewise also for them. recognize it. faster and feels more natural to work with all the chakras at the same time. I’m not advocating or supporting monogamy. as would be possible if each of you was going it alone. when they have both had several orgasms and the energies are flowing freely. The soulmerge: the technique It is possible to produce a soulmerge step-by-step by melding one chakra at a time. as in all that follows. 10 . and their desire for physical movement is fairly limited. He feels the way that all of his chakras are connected to the corresponding chakras in his partner (e.104 months or so leading to a full understanding and integration into your being of all that she is and all that the condition of her soul has to offer. They are in a face-to-face position with their torsos touching. The partners are in the deep stages of lovemaking. He feels his chakras. Jupiter to Don’t get me wrong. As such you are both continually evolving and progressing and then offering the results of this work to your partner. Thereby enabling the two of you together to progress with twice as great a scope. As such. What I am saying is: try to fully appreciate a person of value when they come into your life. Now.g.
Mars to Venus and Jupiter. III-77: The soulmerge: connected. etc. Enjoy the sensations of union and closeness and the total insight and understanding which they give you of your partner’s nature.g.) as described in the section “Chakric alignment”. gently encourage it to continue and .105 Jupiter. towards their counterparts within his partner’s body. shared chakric system. Venus to Mars and Mercury). Using intention. you will probably feel these melded chakras pulling towards each other. She meanwhile has done likewise and so her chakras have also extended into his body. they expand and begin to extend into her body as they join with her chakras. if necessary. expand and be drawn to each other. feel to be pulled. drawing her corresponding chakras into his body. and gently encourages it to increase. III-79: The soulmerge: united into one chakric system with expanded chakric cores Pause at this point and feel your joint natures flowing through yourself and through each other. Dg. Soon. Somewhat similarly will your Admeitus and Erechtheus chakras merge with your partner’s Admeitus and Erechtheus chakras to form one single. By the end of the process the Sun and Moon chakras of both partners will be fused together into one. Allow this process to occur and. He focuses on this sensation. as has her awareness. single. The way that all of his chakras seem to be drawn. At this point their chakric systems have totally fused together to form one single. slightly horizontally elongated chakra. Dg. He allows his awareness to extend with them so that it is gently focused both within his body and within her body. this process. extending into each other (e. they encourage or direct this process to continue and increase until the chakric cores have fused together and expanded to fill their entire chakric field. he directs his chakras to connect more deeply. As they do so. more totally with his partner’s chakras. Dg. slightly horizontally elongated (if you’re sitting upright) chakra. it will tend to begin to fuse with your Sun chakra at the point when your Sun chakra begins to expand and merge with your partner’s Sun chakra. Whilst simultaneously his chakras also feel as if they are pulling. expanded chakras They feel their chakric cores begin to connect. of her soul. Regarding the Moon chakra. III-78: The soulmerge: connecting chakric cores Using intention.
and almost prevented altogether. If it doesn’t. The first point. of the new insights and understandings which you have both acquired. Even less for those people who do no energetic practices whatsoever. elongated chakra will be full of energy and will not only occupy the entire space of your bodies but also extend quite significantly beyond them into your auric fields 11 . the single “chakra”. is to just release your conscious control and let your body and your energies do what they want to do. See the section “Clearing the effects of mixed energies” on p. your aura and its energies will tend to mix and merge with your partner’s aura and its energies. During sex. III-80: The full soulmerge If it hasn’t already done so. . the whole chakric system will begin to fuse together until only one single. will probably begin to draw in massive amounts of energy. Dg. “…” for more details on this. During the high-energy environment of the ASP II practices you will probably be able to feel this aura in its entirety quite easily and strongly. if you can. This process can be greatly reduced. Afterwards. In the rare instance when it doesn’t. by now. As it does so. This can be as little as a limit of 2” or so out from the body. as with the single chakric meld. And of the depth and the strength (and. Also be aware of the new things which you have both learned. This single. using intention. do so slowly and gently. any sort of sex. As more and more energy is drawn in in this way the chakra will begin to pulsate with a regular rhythm. You are. and also to have foreknowledge of the exact nature of what will happen. it is useful to know how to induce it. usually for a distance of about 3 feet. you can direct it to do so. As you continue to remain in this state. which is the fused essential nature of both your beings. the nature) of the connection which exists between you now. be aware of the changes which have occurred within your soul/chakric system and within the soul/chakric system of your partner. When the time comes when you wish to end the soulmerge. encourage this elongated chakra to extend all the way down to beyond the tips of your toes so that it encloses the whole of both of your bodies. In this way you will both leave a lasting “energetic imprint” on each other for a few hours at least.106 increase. working your way through all of the steps contained here in reverse. Orgasming as One Once you have taken things to the extent of the full soulmerge your joint soul will probably begin to expand and pulsate of its own accord. very far from the 11 The aura is the energetic field which extends outwards beyond your physical body in all directions. At other times you will probably only feel it strongly to the extent that it contains a high level of energy. elongated chakra exists. but more likely for many days or more. which should be obvious by now and natural to you. long.
III-81: Orgasming as one: the orgasmic pulse This process will continue to a regular beat: the energy from your soul pulsing out into the universe and the energy from the universe moving into your soul. . if you just go with it. the physical contractions which occur during a soulmerge are usually more subtle. the only thing that has to be done is to direct your joint soul to draw in more energy and. This is accomplished using intention. This energy can be drawn into your joint soul either from outside inwards or from within the soul itself. intense beat but rather a steadier. Beyond that. as if from a deeper level. pulse-like burst. Unlike the physical contractions which occur within a single melded chakra (which are usually very strong and very intense.107 beginning levels of practice where the re-education of your bodies was necessary. of energy from the external universe into your soul until your soul has expanded once again to the point where it emits the short. to do so at a faster rate. Once there is a high enough level of energy within your joint soul. experiment and see for yourself what you come up with. outwards as the joint soul begins to come very close to the emission of the pulse of energy. it usually feels as if both these methods of energy being drawn in are occurring at the same time. provided you let it. as always. more gradual beat. if necessary. Whether the core of your being is located within you body. more wave-like. The most intense and forceful of these outwards contractions will occur at the same time as this pulse-like emission. More and more energy will flow into the joint soul causing it to expand and glow more brightly. In practice. Dg. followed by a gentle contraction or series of contractions. or series of contractions. as explained at the end of the section “The mutual full body orgasm”. leading to a contraction of your joint soul due to the lower amount of energy now contained within it. It will reach a point when there is a tremendous amount of energy within the joint soul which feels almost as if it is too much to be contained within it. Regarding physical contractions. in both. At this point a large amount of energy will be emitted outwards into the external universe from your joint soul in a short pulse-like burst. albeit very powerful. sometimes wavelike in nature. or somewhere in between the two. It does not tend to be a very fast. They tend to take the form of a gentle contraction. it will automatically begin to “pulsate”. probably due to the concentrated nature of the focus in this case). within your partner’s body. inwards to the very core of both of your beings as the energy flows in from the external universe. But. This will be followed by a steady inflow. these do often occur with this type of orgasm especially if you encourage them to.
the easiest way to prevent a soulmerge from happening. It is included because this world that we live in is not always perfect and there are times when your partner.108 depends on where you choose to centre your focus.” You will have experienced a depth of union and a depth of peace and a depth of bliss which you have probably not ever touched before. is to simply not use a position in which you are face to face with your torsos touching. It is very highly pleasurable. for example strengthening your Venus chakra and its qualities over your partner’s Venus chakra and its qualities whilst also strengthening your partner’s Saturn chakra and its qualities over your own Saturn and its qualities. A very. a profound and a powerful more. limiting and preventing the soulmerge In many ways this section represents a step downwards from the “high” of the previous two sections. and consequently you would wish to hold back from a full soulmerge. it is an altered state of consciousness. This will prevent the necessary chakric alignment from taking place. very. by. And. that there is more to life than this physical plane. It is still possible that individual chakras might spontaneously meld. personalities and lives than they were before the soulmerge. And that it is a deep. it doesn’t really matter where you centre your focus (or indeed whether you do so at all). but not in any real conventional sense of the term. of true union. And you will not be the same again for you will have understood. you will have personally experienced. Controlling. an ordered. very peaceful bliss might be a more accurate form of description. Preventing and limiting the soulmerge To start with then. your karma or your partner’s karma may be less than ideal. modifying. true yoga. Also because you may wish to produce specific effects using the soulmerge technique. you yourself. thereby effectively precluding any possibility of a soulmerge occurring. Once you have fully merged souls. It does produce an altered state of consciousness. You will feel just as comfortable and “at home” within your partner’s body as you are in your own. especially your Saturn . independent of its effects. The full soulmerge and the accompanying process of orgasming as one is just about as deep and as total as sexual practice can get. very deep. Thereby leading to the qualities of your Venus and of your partner’s Saturn chakra being more dominant in both your souls. spontaneously for example. the experience itself will leave you a changed person: “So that is the nature of complete closeness.
for example. but don’t particularly like them as a person. Temple-of-Venus-like understanding of the true art and purpose of prostitution. out of your body. for example personal preference. if you feel your chakras begin to expand and begin to connect with your partner’s chakras then focus on your chakras and. or only specific chakras within it. that the . Or if you are working as a prostitute and are with a client (and have yet to come to a full. not only to protect yourself but also to protect your partner from the nature of your chakras or from specific karma held within them. using the directed force of your mind. If necessary. if need be. in order to prevent any undesirable energetic build-up or tension within your system. for example. In such a state they cannot be affected to any real degree by your partner’s chakras or their energies. Controlling and modifying the soulmerge More productively. focus on them one by one and gently encourage them to open up in this way. its benefits and how it can be best mastered / perfected). using intention. Bear in mind that you can close up your entire chakric system. it is possible to control the exact nature of the soulmerge in order to produce specific results. as well as their awareness or mindforce. will always be in close enough physical proximity to meld in this way. to push your partner’s energies and chakras. This technique can also be used to close up one or several specific chakras rather than all of your chakras together. you are using a face-to-face. checking afterwards to make sure that they have done so. This technique is useful if. You can continue this contraction and closing up of your chakras until they are completely closed and no longer really drawing in or giving out energy to any significant extent. More consciously. Say. chakras do not really like to be completely closed – it is not their natural state and it prevents them from fulfilling their function. once the sexual session is over allow your chakras to open and function normally again. because you are just having sex with them because it’s been a long time and you felt the need. during sex. within your body. for one reason or another. At all events. Say. However. direct them to contract and to draw all of their energies within themselves. This could easily become a battle of wills however and if you do find yourself considering using this technique you really do have to question your wisdom as to your choice of partners and what exactly it is that you are doing with them anyway. torsos touching position yet do not want to become close to your partner or allow what they are to have any real effect on you. It is also possible. As such it will probably need a continued focus for you to maintain them in this state.109 chakras which.
Continue doing this until the process can be left to continue on its own with just the barest amount of focus on it. both of you focusing on your (the man’s) Venus chakra. as if in the back of your mind. internally tranquil. free-flowing and powerfully open resulting in her having a strong ability to communicate very easily and very effectively with people and also being able to think in a very clear. starting at the very beginning of the soulmerge. very step-by-step way. taking it right out of her body.110 condition of your Venus chakra is exceptionally good: very open. to the qualities and nature of your Venus being dominant in both your souls. drawing more energy into it and making it more powerful. Whilst your Mercury chakra is in nowhere near as good a condition. Much more powerful. Then both transfer your focus to her Venus chakra and. personalities and lives and the qualities and nature of her Mercury being dominant in both your souls. draw energy out of it doing so through the back of her chakra. be exceptions to this general rule). it is useful to be able to strengthen and empower this process. In practice. once the soulmerge is over. occasionally. In such an instance it would be advantageous to you both to soulmerge and during the soulmerge to add power and strength to your Venus chakra whilst also ensuring that her Venus chakra has but little power and strength to it. very logical. Nevertheless. and then out of the auric field to be dispersed and not reabsorbed. personalities and lives. However her Mercury chakra is in a really superb state being strong. exiting out through her back. Consequently. very loving. normally. more aware of the whole process. opening it up more. More a gentle awareness than an actual focus. Do similarly in the appropriate way to your Mercury chakras leading to the qualities and nature of her Mercury overruling and dominating the qualities and nature of your Mercury. your more mastered chakra will tend to naturally overrule your partner’s less mastered chakra. both to make it more effective. and also to help you to become more conscious. continuing the example given above. Continue to do so until it is at the bare . and happy with the nature of life. Now all of this will tend to happen naturally anyway to some extent because the more developed you are as a person in a particular area of life the more powerful will the energy of your chakra which corresponds to that area of life be. whilst still keeping it completely open. Your partner’s Venus chakra meanwhile is in nowhere near as good a condition. than a corresponding less developed. Consequently leading. less mastered chakra in your partner (though there can. Thereby leading to the qualities and nature of your Venus overruling and dominating the qualities and nature of her Venus. very powerful resulting in your being effortlessly at ease with people. when you have both just aligned your chakras. this is achieved by. for various reasons.
it is the cores of the chakras which will dominate during the later stages of the process and . This occurs due to several things which tend to happen during the soulmerging process. and a stronger force of mind. The purifying effect of the soulmerge The process of soulmerging as a whole.111 minimum size that it can assume and yet still remain fully open. less mastered of these two corresponding chakras. This however does take greater focus. Dg. the more mastered of your two corresponding chakras which will tend to dominate throughout the whole process. will tend to purify both of your souls and all of your chakras. now strengthen her Mercury and weaken your Mercury. this technique is to be preferred because its simplicity makes it more effective: there are less intermediary factors involved to detract from the key intention and so to lessen the efficiency of operation of the mindforce. except that your Venus will be much larger and stronger than her Venus (and so will contribute more to the nature of the melded. Then proceed to continue with the full soulmerge. single Venus chakra) and her Mercury will be much larger and stronger than your Mercury (and so will contribute more to the nature of the melded. overruling the nature and qualities of the less refined. to notice and understand the effects of this modified soulmerge. it is the nature of the more refined. ensuring it stays in this state and then both transfer your attentions to her Mercury chakra. But they will do so to a greatly reduced degree. it is possible to achieve the same effects by simply intending that your Venus chakra and her Mercury chakra dominate during the soulmerge. It is also possible to use the modified soulmerge technique to lessen the impact of any particularly difficult karma that is about to come through. but especially in its later stages of the fully joint single soul and the pulsating orgasm. Firstly. III-82: Controlling and modifying the soulmerge Her Venus chakra will still affect your Venus chakra to some extent. More simply. greater mastery. Maintain a gentle awareness on her Venus chakra. and especially to the nature of your Venus and Mercury chakras. single Mercury chakra). just as your Mercury chakra will still affect her Mercury chakra to some extent. Secondly. Just as you strengthened your Venus and weakened her Venus. Afterwards. At this point it should really feel very “empty”. both of you pay attention to the nature of your souls. If you have these to a sufficient degree however.
However. Rather than on any given external ideas or theories. . the process of willingly sharing your partner’s karma will tend to reduce the overall burden of that karma. See the annotated bibliography at the back of this book for some recommendations on astrological texts. if necessary. Astrology though should be used but as a guide and a confirmation. your meditative internal experience and your external life experience. Finally. Your imperfections will still have a marked effect on your partner. during this time. the pulsing orgasm will tend to purify. I love this girl. The soulmerge and astrology It is possible to use astrology to gain foreknowledge of the effects of a soulmerge. unlike the rest of this book which is entirely self-contained. The Sun / Moon effect The most obvious effect of the soulmerge is that the man will take on the woman’s external nature whilst the woman will take on the man’s internal nature. And also. So at the end of the day the best solution would still seem to be for both you and your partner to work at becoming as developed and as perfect as you can be before entering into the soulmerge process.” This is not really a very masterful approach. And I do believe that there are definite advantages to always continuing to live your basic humanity. It is a very human approach though. The key factors with the soulmerge is that it does so faster and also. It is my belief that it is the combination of these purifying factors which leads to the feelings of deep bliss and great profundity characteristic of the soulmerge. Thirdly. Finally. refine and uplift your entire system and being. the astrological methods covered in this section cannot really be effectively understood or applied without some additional knowledge and experience.112 the cores of the chakras are the purest. importantly. This happens anyway after about three months or so of a couple continually sharing the same bed whilst they sleep. no matter what level of esoteric development you may have reached. most refined part. whether they have deep sex. or indeed any sex at all really. It should be noted though that there is a limit to the purifying capacity of the soulmerge. rather than merely redistributing it. Let’s do it and see what happens. just as her imperfections will still have a marked effect on you. Your opinions and assessments are still best based upon your intuition. it is also possible to just say: “Fuck it. to confirm and clarify those effects which your intuition feels but your conscious mind still suspects and is unsure of.
if you wish. trine her Neptune and contraparallel her Mars. The fact that it is the external nature of his partner that a man will take on. for example.e. but the aforementioned bias will still remain. what aspects it makes to your own natal planets. That is to say it is not just her Sun in 15˚ Libra which you are placing in your own chart but her Sun in 15˚ Libra which is. You are aware of what you are doing and of the effects it produces. and all aspects to that natal Moon. control the process to some degree. out-in-the-world effect. usually more. Of course. To see this effect astrologically if you are a man. your emotional state and your mental state. whilst it is the internal nature of her partner that a woman will take on. Then notice how the transiting planets aspect this new Sun within your chart.e. as indeed it is best to do. take your partner’s natal Sun and all aspects to that natal Sun and just place it in your natal chart as you would any other planet. Finally. what aspects it forms to your own natal planets. and just place it in your natal chart as you would any other planet. And a Sun which is trined to Neptune is as different to a Sun which is unaspected or trined to Pluto as a Sun in Aries is to a Sun in Pisces (more so in fact). III-83: The Sun effect on a man’s natal chart: Humphrey Bogart (born on 23/1/1899) and Lauren Bacall (born on 16/9/1924) Likewise if you are a woman and you want to see this effect astrologically then simply take your partner’s natal Moon. Also you can. For it is these aspects of their partner’s being that will affect them each the most. may help to explain why men tend to be more concerned with the more external qualities of prospective partners whilst women tend to be more concerned with the more internal qualities of prospective partners. Then see how it sits within your own natal chart i. there remains the question of which will be the stronger. in terms primarily of their external. Dg. most people will tend to consider both sides of the equation. Also bear in mind that the nature of the Sun in a chart affects the nature of all the other planets in the chart. Compare this to the effects of the planets transiting your own natal Sun. At any rate.113 more consciously. You see. your own Sun/Moon or the Sun/Moon of your partner which you have placed in your chart? The best way to answer this question is of course to pay attention to the effects of both your own Sun/Moon and of your . and what effects these bring into your life. all aspects to a planet will affect that planet’s nature at least as much as that planet’s sign placement. once you have placed your partner’s natal Sun (bearing in mind all aspects to that natal Sun) within your own chart then simply see how that Sun “sits” within your own natal chart i.
much depends on the specific natures of the individual partners. if you are using a computer programme. and place them in your own natal chart alongside your own natal planets. Analyzing the effects of the soulmerge in this way can help you to very quickly see what extra characteristics and abilitities you will have acquired as a result of that soulmerge. it does not account for the greatly increased force within the soul which comes about 12 For example. as they correspond to the chakras of the same name 12 . then everything will work out well and you don’t need the astrology to tell you this. however. Then see how these planets “sit” within your natal chart: most importantly that means seeing what aspects they form to your own natal planets. Also. Bear in mind that while astrology will give you some insight into the relative strengths and qualities of your respective chakras. and then come to your own conclusions on the basis of that. the effect of your partner’s Sun/Moon will tend only to exert a degree of influence wihin your own natal chart. In practice. which effect will dominate: that of your own chakric energies or those acquired from your partner? Again. Again the question remains.114 partner’s Sun/Moon which you have placed in your chart. Alternatively. The wider effects When you soulmerge with your partner you take on at least a part of the nature of his or her chakras. of their individual chakras and chakric energies. Ordinarily. To see these effects astrologically simply take all of your partner’s natal planets. because twice the number of planets are involved (and so many more planetary aspects are created than you have when it is only your own natal planets that are a consideration). This does. both internally and externally. not even coming close to overpowering the effect of your own natal Sun/Moon. this is revealed by the condition of the natal planets within your partner’s chart and then how they sit within your own natal chart. are very right for each other. you can just get it to draw up a synastry chart. This will produce tangible and noticeable effects in your life. Jupiter corresponds to the Jupiter chakra . If for example your natal Moon is unaspected whilst his natal Moon has three squares and four trines to it and is conjunct a midpoint then it is unlikely that your Moon will have the force necessary to dominate more than his Moon. depend. So the best answer remains to try it and see for yourself. Astrologically. if you and your partner are strongly complementary to each other. and how these energies “fit into” each partner’s soul. an important insight is revealed: soulmerging with a partner allows you both each to be more than either one of you could be on his or her own.
it became a lot fuller and the whole picture became a lot more complicated. All that will be left are the memories and the experiences gained and any deep changes within your soul which you have decided to keep and make a part of you. if you increase the extent to . For example. And is this not after all part of the process of life itself and the ways in which we grow? Balancing your chakras and the softening of the natal chart Essentially what the natal chart will show are potentialities. if this sort of inequality exists between the partners it is unlikely that the relationship will be rewarding for either partner or that it will occur in the first place. The way to do this is to realize that certain of the astrological aspects essentially reflect the natures of the planets which correspond to the main chakras. so full of different qualities. conceptually. Now. the more you balance. they will be felt as being positive or negative) is the relationship which exists between the chakras. There is. people with whom you are willing to soulmerge. Further. Astrology can be used to give you very clear and precise indications. direction or order to it all. this is never the case. this is revealed by the aspects which the planets form to each other. however. after all. the more harmonious will the relationship between them be. Consequently. of what needs to be worked on. your chakras. the more you master. And all of these will be in some way strongly complementary to your essential nature and your life path and will have valuable things to teach you. after about a year of separation from a partner all direct influences from their chakras and energies will tend to have faded. not to mention a life and personality. an order and a purpose to life and the universe. you will have noticed that when you placed your partner’s planets in your natal chart. In theory it would be possible to go around soulmerging with several or more partners leading to a natal chart. In practice. Astrologically. if one of the partners is very developed in this way it will easily outweigh any astrological indications of relative strengths. The chances are that in your entire life you will probably only meet with one or two.115 as a result of esoteric development. All the more reason to ensure that you are involved with an equal to whom you can truly give and from which you can truly receive. On the other hand. or at the outside possibly up to 3 or 4. One of the key factors affecting whether these potentialities will be harmonious or inharmonious (in other words. Consequently. forces and interrelationships that it would be very hard to maintain any sort of consistency. Finally. whether. with whom it is even possible for you to effectively soulmerge. the square has the essential nature of the planet Mars. And consequently the more harmoniously will all your psychological urges and all the various areas of your life fit together. in actuality.
Now Saturn squaring your Jupiter will tend to make you feel as if rules and restrictions are actively. more externally. systematic work and your tending not to have sufficient patience or sufficient of an eye to the future to undertake this sort of work. You then spend some time in meditation and succeed in very significantly changing the way in which your Mars chakra is held. on the other hand. Indeed. aggressive way. you might even undertake it in an energetic. You will no longer feel that they are against you. to be exuberantly optimistic about it all. This form of limitation will apply especially to your desires and attempts to enjoy life. and to live in the moment. civil servants. with Jupiter squaring your Saturn your inclination to expansively enjoy life and always looking on the bright side of things will lead to you being hostilely opposed to undertaking any sort of ordered. Los Angeles. systematic. III-84: Natal chart with Jupiter tightly squared Saturn: Angelina Jolie. some schoolteachers. Dg. then all of the squares in your chart will automatically soften to reflect this change. born 4th June 1975. USA. optimistically and in the moment. Or to your way of living exuberantly. expansively. As a consequence you will no longer feel that rules.116 which your Mars chakra is balanced. optimistic way focussing this work into those areas where it will cause you to actually . 9:09 am. perhaps some bosses. are opposed to you. this is much easier to cope with than focused opposition and aggression. making it far more balanced. as if they are personally against you. your life will reflect this internal patterning and you will have problems with people in authority who use that authority to limit others such as judges. An example might be helpful. On the other hand. enjoying it as you do so and being optimistic about the results. systematic work. You might even get to the stage where you realize that the best and most useful expression of the Jupiter squared Saturn natal aspect is to work in precisely such an ordered. dynamic sort of way. And. aggressively limiting you in a very hostile sort of way. restrictions and the corresponding sorts of people limit and restrict you in a hostile. And indeed. you will no longer be hostilely opposed to hard. And indeed in your external life they won’t oppose you in this way anymore. routine sort of way. though they might still restrict you in a more detached. also we’ll ignore any considerations of sign or house placement. Let us say that in your natal chart Jupiter is tightly squared Saturn. some policemen. For simplicity’s sake we’ll assume that your Jupiter chakra is very balanced whilst your Mars and Saturn chakras still need a lot of work. if you master more fully the areas of life governed by the Mars chakra. etc. Still.
Chakra Admeitus Mercury Venus Mars Jupiter Saturn Erechtheus Aspect Conjunct Semisextile Sextile Square Trine Quicunx Opposition Degrees 0˚ 30˚ 60˚ 90˚ 120˚ 150˚ 180˚ Do note that. depending upon the degree to which you’ve balanced and developed your Mars chakra. remove and perhaps even destroy all restrictions which have been placed upon you or which life and others attempt to place upon you. As a consequence. Bear in mind that astrologers’ classification of aspects as “harmonious” or “inharmonious” are general rules and so do not always specifically hold – at least in terms of your natal chart where it is your own degree of internal balance that determines a specific aspect’s effect. tend to have more validity. And all from the balancing of one single chakra. So you see. you probably wouldn’t think so to notice the effects of the trines within your natal chart on your . For more on the deeper chakric levels see the section “The deeper chakric levels” in Scroll IV on p “…”. In terms of transits-to-transits. more satisfied person. the trine is normally classed as the most harmonious of aspects. a lot more flowing. can embody / express the Mars and / or the Pluto lesson of existence. and in this case traditional astrology’s classifications do. in terms of natal astrology. you will be a happier. more tranquil. For example. transits-to-natal. yet if your Jupiter chakra is in a very bad state. Hence the square. Or perhaps. those experiences could even be actively enjoyable and pleasant in a very forcefully substantial sort of way. balancing your Mars chakra will have made your personality a lot less jagged. Imagine what would happen if you worked on balancing them all! To help you foresee. some of the effects that this would have. electional astrology and the like it is the degree of mastery over life’s 12 lessons attained by consciousness on the Earth as a whole that determines specific aspects specific effects. except for the conjunction and the opposition which are seperated as shown above. all other aspects can express the nature of either or both of the lighter and the deeper of the chakric levels of the chakra to which they correspond. astrologically. for example. in most cases.117 overcome. here is a list of the planets as equated to the aspects which reflect their nature. and the experiences which come into your life a lot easier to cope with.
direct workings of the Erechtheus chakra. the nature of the geometric relationship itself can also be changed. What it is important to realize is that that which is set is the geometric relationship between the forces operating in your natal chart. Due to your meditation on your chakras at the level of The Foundation Practices it should by now be experientially clear to you that there is no such thing as a chakra which is essentially. On the basis of this. in your life (i. Generally though aspects which correspond to the “enjoyable” chakras of Jupiter. Provided the forces which are operating within its context are balanced. developed state. while in any aspectual relationship between two planets one planet will reveal what is done and the other planet will reveal the field in which it is done (and vice versa also) it will be the aspect between the planets which will determine the way in which that which is done is done. 13 . And indeed in most people the “pleasant”chakras are more balanced than the “unpleasant” ones. That which can be quite easily changed is the degree of refinement of the forces operating within the context of this relationship 13 . This is because.118 life. and further there is no real need to do so. the exact nature of your expression of the forces. of the way in which you access them. of themselves. negative producing negative effects. and much more mystically. can be quite easily changed. That depends on how it is held and your specific attitudes to the area that it governs. will not be something they are comfortable with or can appreciate and enjoy due to the strong desire for ease.e. Although for some people the very drastic. but this is more difficult to do. The same holds true In fact. the conclusion that there is no such thing as an essentially negative planet follows. And the way in which you do things is very central to how pleasant or enjoyable the experience is for you. At any rate the natal chart can be used to go through the various planets and clearly see the relationship between them and so between the corresponding chakras and areas of your life/personality. It is only the degree of mastery contained within your attitude towards them that makes you experience them as negative or positive with negative or positive effects. the planets’ aspectual relationships to each other). Thereby leading you to being able to enter the soulmerge process in a far more balanced. And then you can use this clarity to help you know which chakras to direct focused attention to in order to balance them most swiftly. Venus and Admeitus / Erechtheus will be felt as far more pleasant than aspects which correspond to the “hard work” chakras of Saturn. and to do so harmoniously and with pleasure. negative or positive. (Or to put it more accurately. Whatever traditional astrological theory may say. consistency and lack of change which they maintain in their lives. and so too of the oppositions within their natal charts.) These forces are not. of itself. the geometric relationship itself will help you to walk your path in this lifetime. Mars and Mercury. in your personality.
they begin to serve you rather than you serving them. and you should quite easily be able to figure out what needs to be done to attain results in this area.119 for astrological signs and houses also. purest. Now. And it is only the woman who can connect to the higher planes in the way necessary to allow this. once you begin to work esoterically at a deep level 14 all rules become merely guidelines which you can bend. after all. control and play with to very significant extents. purest way possible. and so the codings held in your sperm or eggs. Suffice to say that put together all the information you’ve been given in this book regarding meditation and the nature of the reality. Going for conception after a tantric session Conception essentially involves three aspects: the physical side of things. Thereby enabling him to fetch his own patternings regarding those one or more chakras into physical incarnation in the strongest. the soul which incarnates into that child will fetch it’s own patternings and proclivities through with it. and meditate a little on it all. very predictable. This is because it is only really the woman who can control and direct the Spirit side of things. in case you didn’t realize. changes. And it is the Spirit side of things which is more important. most total way possible. is what we are doing at the level of ASP II! . just realize that whilst for most people astrology insightfully practiced can produce very accurate. The soul side of things basically relates to exactly how the chakras will be held in the child which is conceived. In terms of the Spirit side of things what you want to do is to connect to the higher planes of the reality in such a way that the incarnating entity’s Spirit can come into the earth life in the clearest. an astrological text. But you can go about the conception process in such a way as to give that incarnating soul strong abilities and exceptionally clear expression in the areas governed by one or more chakras. Physically. but I shall not go into the basis for this here because this is not. This soul side of things is best left to the man to control and direct. For now. All three can be affected by your focus and intent and will be affected by your level of esoteric development and self-mastery. At this point. relating as it does to the very core of the being of the child which will be conceived. it’s a question of developing your awareness to such an extent that your DNA itself. This side of it all is a little advanced and esoteric – and also likely to induce incredulity in those who still arrive at their conclusions on the basis of societal opinion – and so we won’t really go into it here. very “standard” results. 14 Which incidentally. the soul side of things and the Spirit side of things.
Further.120 Finally. Men and conception If aiming to conceive a child the optimal way of going about the whole ejaculatory process is a little more involved than when you ejaculate just for the pleasure of it. Once you’re satisfied that the sexual energy has sufficiently absorbed the qualities of that chakra then you can repeat the process at another chakra or proceed directly to flowing the energy down to the genitals. it is worth noting that although it is the woman who establishes the necessary connections between the physical and the higher aspects of the reality which allow an entity to incarnate into the physical reality. the attributes of the charka whose qualities the sexual energy absorbed. The choice as to whether you use the techniques presented here or not remains yours. Any child you have as a result of the subsequent ejaculation will be strongly influenced by. In which case any resultant child would be able to clearly and strongly draw on the attributes of all the chakras. Now many would consider all of this to be playing with the natural order of things but the natural order of things works its will through whatever you do so I would consider such objections to be representative of an understanding which operates only on one level. the important thing I think is to be aware of . up-on-the-causal state as opposed to how that chakra is held in you specifically. “…” for more information on this). or “blessed” with. or for any other purpose. Whilst you are holding that energy within that chakra you may wish to make the process more potent by adding your intent to it viz. the process is more potent still if you perform it with a chakra which you’ve melded to the corresponding chakra in your partner (see the section “Chakric melding” on p. You can also do a full soulmerge prior to flowing the sexual energy down to the genital region. If you wish your child to have specific attributes and abilities then you can flow all of the sexual energy which has accumulated within you over the course of the preceding tantric session into one of your chakras first prior to flowing it down to your genitals. perfect. At any rate. But whatever. first for the man and then for the woman. And these karmic factors may mean that the incarnating soul is incarnating more to the mother or more to the father or about equally to both members of the couple (though this latter instance is somewhat rarer). that the sexual energy absorb the qualities of that chakra. Hold that energy there for long enough for it to be completely permeated by the nature of that chakra in its pure. let us now turn to what exactly is involved in terms of technique. which actual entity does incarnate unto the couple is usually determined karmically rather than by the sort of connection to the higher planes of the reality which is established during the process of conception.
And not just through your feet. perineal region and crown but through your whole being. The advantage of making that connection as strong as possible is that the stronger and more open it is the greater the extent to which the incarnating soul’s essential nature can come through and also the greater the extent to which that essential nature . gentle thrusts (unless such a thrusting pattern is not quite appropriate to the qualities you’ve imbued your sexual energy with…). Once you’ve ejaculated remain inside your partner for a good long time continuing to flow whatever accumulated sexual energy remains within you out into your partner whilst the energetic outpouring phase following ejaculation takes place. and your body begins to draw in energy once more to replace that lost in the ejaculation. most importantly. Even during ordinary sex you will connect to both Heaven and Earth to some degree. At any rate. to know that the qualities of your sexual energy will have a marked effect on any child which results and.121 what you are doing. Then hold your partner and show her tenderness. Hold this connection for a few minutes. when you’ve got your sexual energy in the state that you want it. From there flow a portion of it out into your penis and from there out into your partner’s vagina and up into her womb. It is this connection which allows that which is in Heaven (a specific soul) to come to Earth (incarnate) through you (as your child). All the while maintain the stimulation using slow. probably just sufficiently to allow the esoteric side of the process of conception to take place. what to expect and so preparing her womb to receive it. Use this strand of sexual energy to connect the sexual energy within you (with all its specific. Women and conception The advantage of going for conception after a long-lasting. Specifically you’ll be connected both to Heaven and to Earth. to know that you have a choice as to what qualities your sexual energy will bear. letting the energy in her womb know what is coming. ejaculate flowing all of your accumulated sexual energy out into your partner along with your semen. You have after all just given a soul a very special opportunity to incarnate together. then flow it all down to your genital region whilst you are still quite a way from the point of ejaculatory inevitability. Withdraw from your partner once the switch occurs. Then when the connection is strongly established and the time feels right. deep. highly orgasmic tantric session is that your energetic structures will be very open and so you’ll be very connected to the external universe. or just before. imbued qualities) to the sexual energy within her womb (uterus). out into her vagina and then further up into her womb.
that you go about it all in the right way. the part of God within you. III-85: The created reality The three planes above the Great Void are called the spiritual planes because it is from one of them that your Spirit. each of which have their own specific characteristics. The soul is. There are. a series of coverings or sheaths over your Spirit which your Spirit acquires as it moves through the three lower planes of mind and matter (physical. The thing to realize is that though which soul will actually incarnate into you is usually determined karmically. Provided. feelings and thoughts will have less force behind them and less clarity within them than could have been the case had the way in which he was conceived been different. your memory track containing all your insights. desires. astral. technically speaking. It is in fact composed of many different worlds. the deepest part of you. that is.122 can be expressed in his Earth life. the plane immediately above the physical (astral) and the one above that (causal) respectively. Dg. proclivities. originate. The technique is quite simple. most essential nature. In practical terms this will tend to result in his being and life flowing less and his desires and aims being harder for him to attain as the obstruction (various aspects of his soul) to the expression of his essential nature (the nature of his Spirit) come into the Earth life more strongly than his essential nature at the time of conception. As a result he will tend to think. The recommendation then to you is to connect to one of the spiritual planes with the entirety of your being prior to your partner ejaculating within you and preferably also for a good while afterwards. feel and act from more superficial levels of his being rather than from his core and so all his actions. and (nearly) all Spirits. We’ve already talked about the astral and causal planes. however. causal). “Heaven” is not just a homogenous “place up there”. fears and thoughts. Towards the end of a powerful tantric . or planes. The term “soul” technically refers to your character on all its levels. Your Spirit is your deepest. This is the “Heaven” that most women connect to during the process of conception. also the spiritual planes above the Great Void. which parts of his being will be emphasized in his Earth life will be strongly influenced by which part of Heaven you connect to. The undesirable thing about connecting to the astral and/or the causal when going for conception (as opposed to one of the three spiritual planes) is that doing so allows for the less essential parts of the incarnating entity’s being (various aspects of his soul) to come into incarnation more strongly than the more essential aspect of that entity’s being (his Spirit).
enter a meditative state at your 3rd eye or at the centre of your head. It will have entered you long before the actual sexual session which results in the physical conception actually takes place. or by telling your energetic structure to connect to it. When you feel or otherwise observe that this change has taken place then simply continue with the sexual session until your partner ejaculates. Incidentally. focus on your energetic structure as a whole and see or feel what higher plane it is connecting to. usually enter the developing foetus until between about the 9th and 12th weeks of pregnancy. strength and clarity. That strong. Until then it usually spends most of its time rotating around. however. At any rate. once the connection is established you’ll feel the nature of all your energies change to become closer to the nature of the plane to which you have just connected. In the meditative quiet. up and down. to incarnate. as timed from the date of conception. the mother’s spinal axis. You can do this merely with intent. wide-open connection can then be used later on in the process of conception / pregnancy by the incarnating entity to fetch his / her spiritual nature through into physical incarnation with great force. What you are doing is causing that karmic thread to become wide open and strongly connected to the spiritual plane from which the incarnating soul’s Spirit originally came in this cycle of incarnations. the incarnating soul will usually enter your body via your Moon chakra. Nor are you causing a karmic thread to be created between the incarnating soul and the zygote. Do note that what you’re doing here is not establishing a gateway through which the incarnating soul /Spirit can enter you. The incarnating soul does not. If during this period abortion or miscarriage occurs then the soul simply leaves the mother’s body and returns to the higher planes to await another opportunity. Then direct it to connect to the higher plane of your choice.123 session during which you have had many deep orgasms. all the while maintaining a small part of your awareness on the connection between you and the higher plane you have chosen to connect to. That karmic thread is already in place. . The connection to the Earth will by now have happened of its own accord and does not need to be enhanced or altered in any way. or by focusing on the higher plane yourself at your 3rd eye and fetching the energy from it through your 3rd eye into your body as a whole until a connection is established. If you meditate and are internally aware it should be fairly obvious to notice when exactly this occurs. If you don’t get pregnant from this particular sexual session it is worth repeating the process in three weeks time. or karmic obligation. The incarnating soul usually enters the mother three weeks prior to physical conception in order to familiarize itself with its future mother and also so that physical incarnation is not too much of a shock for it.
from Sach Kand. most people in physical incarnation originally come from the love plane. when the time comes you’ll probably just intuitively very strongly know which plane to connect to and will do so quite naturally. So yes. has its own specific nature. So during the process of conception your focus is best devoted to establishing a clear and strong connection to one of the higher spiritual planes as this is not something you can leave to your partner for men. The only way to clearly see his true nature is to look at him from above his position e. Thst is the woman’s . efficiency and determination. Now. meditate and experience the truth of it all for yourself. He’s also a devious little fuck who’ll try to deceive you to keep you bound in the three lower worlds as long as possible. and so Spirits which begin their journey into physical incarnation from that plane will partake of. pure love). Sach Kand. that plane’s specific nature. At any rate. Usually therefore if you just connect to Sach Kand you should be fine. It is (usually) only if they rejoin God. effective action. parts of the process. it is a combination of power and detachment. and then decide to re-enter the process of physical incarnation for a second (or third or more) cycle of incarnations that it is possible for the Spirit of an incarnated entity to originate from somewhere other than the love plane. The third plane above the Great Void. The nature of the first plane above the Great Void. but only in one of his aspects. cannot normally connect to these higher planes during sex in the way necessary to the process of conception. Agam Lok. It’s only if the Spirit seeking incarnation through you is from one of the higher aspects of God that your connecting to Sach Kand in this way won’t really be of too much help to him and to his Earth life. is pure love. unlike women. One thing to note though: the causal is not the top of the creation and the ruler of that plane. Sach Kand. each spiritual plane. It just won’t help him actively progress for it will relate to a lesson he’s already fully learnt (viz. is best summed up as freedom. You see. To be honest though.g. is not the highest god. The nature of the second plane above the Great Void. and also the most important. You can if you wish meditate on it beforehand to be clear and certain if you like. Otherwise he’ll derive little benefit from the whole process. will share. Alakh Lok. each aspect of God. it is a combination of courage. Kal (also known as Brahm). Not that it will hinder him as your connecting to the astral or causal would. This is because all Sprits will project downwards from that plane in their first cycle of incarnation. is best summed up as focused. the spiritual plane which you connect to must be the specific spiritual plane from which the entity karmically tied to incarnate through you comes from. God is pure love.124 Regarding one of the more technical. travel upwards to one of his higher aspects. About 98% in fact.
It is characterised by its emphasis on more external forms of stimulation. Regarding the various astral and causal connections relating to the chakras which are involved in the conception process – and the correspondent mental. yet do not take them to be ironclad rules which must be obeyed. And it is an endeavour in which I wish you all the best. either by making them inwards and upwards in nature or. directing that energy into your partner to increase his/her arousal and then drawing it back into yourself later. if you do choose to make them outwards in nature. It can. the stages. In order to be clear and comfortable about the whole process it would probably be helpful for the two of you to talk it through beforehand and to meditate together on what will be involved.125 role / function here. Bearing this in mind then. to a greater extent. But do not allow this classification. Learn from them by all means and use them to the extent to which you find them helpful. This very genital aspect of sex does have to be mastered before you can effectively progress to any of the deeper levels. however. intense genital orgasms This stage occurs at the very beginning of sex when both partners want the pleasure of the intensity of genital orgasms. to summarize the whole process: you connect to Earth and a specific part of Heaven whilst your partner imbues the process with the necessary astral / causal chakric attributes. Provided. help you to understand the process. and the possibilities which are open to you. The three stages of sex / lovemaking Any classification of sex / lovemaking into stages is somewhat artificial. emotional and physical abilities which result – leave that side of things to your partner. that is. that you make sure that these orgasms do not result in energy loss. You can if you like allow him to fully control any chakric melding which might be necessary or useful too. Stage 2: Multiple orgasms and the build-up of energy . and quickly. You will probably find that it all feels very deep and very profound but the real purpose of going about things in this way is to give your child the best start in life possible. or any classifications for that matter. such as forceful thrusting. Stage 1: quick. So. to bind and restrict you. It does serve a useful purpose in that it helps to get all the energies flowing freely and powerfully.
healing. to allow them both to learn from each other on a deep. though the degree to which they are consciously directed or produced will be limited. Its purpose is the build up of a strong energetic charge and the formation of a powerful connection between the partners. energizing.126 This stage usually follows on from stage 1. Stage 3: The alignment of energies and the merging of souls A powerful energetic charge and a deep connection between the partners are necessary to allow lovemaking at this level. the more subtle thrusting techniques and energetic movements. It is characterized by slower more sensuous movements and by its emphasis on more internal forms of stimulation such as muscular contractions. which is achieved through the mutual multipleorgasmic process. These orgasms do not have to be limited to just the genital area – they can also be spread out into the body as a whole. therefore. And. more sensually orgasmic aspect of sex does have to be mastered and then used to some extent for the partners to have the energetic charge necessary to allow them to progress to the deepest levels of lovemaking. Further. higher state of consciousness. they can be layered one on top of the other such as by having the continuous mutual full-body orgasm form the basic foundation and then during and at the same time as that also experiencing powerful genital orgasm. also be used for other purposes such as karmic exchange. though you may choose to just begin the lovemaking process at this level. of the physical movement is spontaneous and thought-free. The purpose of lovemaking at this level is to produce a deep connection between the partners. however. The muscular contractions of orgasm will continue. It is characterized by a minimum of conscious physical movement: most of the directed action at this level is energetic and most. This is always the result of any deep esoteric practice: freedom. and most likely deepen. esoteric level and to produce within them an altered. personal responsibility. deep pleasure etc. Once you have attained this sort of depth to your lovemaking you’re pretty much free to do whatever you like with it. if not all. Lovemaking: an example of sexual practice at ASP II Just in case an example proves to be helpful… . This sort of lovemaking can. This more energetic.
on the lips and then pushes his very strongly erect penis into her very wet and open vagina. deepening and empowering the meld. More energy is drawn in. whilst also continuing the powerful. supporting his weight on his hands. mutual. By doing so. in a man on top. They are still in a face-to-face man on top position but now the man raises his torso upwards. undress and move to the bed.127 He looks at her and she feels the sexual desire in his glance. is fully aware in the same sort of way of all that he is. as well as their own. the chakric cores expand. for several minutes. Once they do so he is fully aware. merge and finally all join to form one single chakra. They feel their chakras connecting and pulling towards each other. They remain almost motionless in this state. as one. expand and begin to merge. powerful. As this orgasm begins to die down they begin to slow down and reduce the force of their thrusting with the man lowering himself down until his torso is touching his partner’s torso and he is supporting some of his weight on his elbows. forceful thrusting satisfies the more physical. enjoying the orgasms and allowing them to expand. It does so and soon they are in a state of continuous. They relax their conscious focus and gently encourage their chakras to reach out to each other. And all the while the full-body orgasm is continuing. they both simultaneously come to an intense. drawing in more and more energy and deepening the connection between them. They both focus on this melded Saturn chakra. animalistic sides of their natures. to facilitate the thrusting. begin to thrust together. more . He kisses her once. Almost immediately they both begin to orgasm. too. During it. their Saturn chakras spontaneously meld into one. Soon. face-to-face. explosive orgasm centred within their genitals and Saturn chakra. At first the orgasms are localized to the genital area but as more energy is drawn in and the whole process begins to flow freely they direct the energies and the orgasm to spread throughout their whole bodies. The hard. They go to the bedroom. As each feels his (or her) partner’s mindforce entering his (or her) own body he (or she) welcomes it with a smile. As one. First quite gently but soon very forcefully and powerfully indeed. As their chakras expand into each other’s bodies they allow their awareness to expand with them and flow into their partner’s body. The backdrop to all of this is the mutual full-body orgasm which is still continuing but in a deeper. Once the mutual full-body orgasm is well under way they then. torsos touching position with him fully inside her. in a relaxed loving sort of way of all that she is just as she. with the energy level and the degree of connection between them increasing as the orgasm continues. they encourage the soulmerge to deepen. they begin to feel and become aware of their partner’s body and energies from the inside. full-body orgasm. forceful thrusting. tenderly.
Spirit joining Your Spirit is the immortal. they allow their awareness to do so also. If and when you are ready to do so. allowing the pulsing to stop. It is almost exclusively. They do so slowly. Soon the steady inpouring of energy from the universe causes their soul to expand and begin to pulsate. merge and fully join Spirits with your partner. For now. feeling themselves into their two separate bodies and accustomizing themselves to it. It is the part of God within you. gentle. The physical aspect of the pulsating orgasm does. yet immensely powerful sort of way. intend as One. enjoying the peace. As their souls join to form one single soul massive amounts of energy begin to pour in from the external universe in a steady. the purity and the profound depth of it all. During this time physical movement is quite limited – perhaps a few gentle thrusts or muscular contractions every now and then. just concentrate on mastering the techniques already given and on increasing your awareness. yet subtler muscular contractions. feel as One. reduce in size and then separate. but not absolutely entirely. feeling and enjoying the full effects of the lovemaking session on them both. They are aware as One. . continue. of being one. They then hold each other with infinite tenderness. They stay in this state. They both still maintain some awareness of their separate identities but this is far less strong than their sense of one single identity. When they both feel ready the man withdraws his by now fairly soft penis from his partner’s vagina. just pure awareness. At some point they then feel a gentle urge encouraging them to return closer to their more separate identities. As the chakras begin to separate into two separate sets and return to the two separate physical bodies. the exact way in which it might be done will become evident to you. They remain motionless for a while. eternal part of you. When it is within your physical body the Spirit is located in the area of the Venus / heart chakra. As it does so the One feels its physical bodies begin to orgasm in time to this energetic beat. the spark from the flame. the individual chakras to begin to form again. yet softer energy movements and deeper. It is possible during lovemaking to touch. however.128 energetic way now with more powerful. for around 3 or 4 hours. the drop from the ocean.
“…”. 1. At the Sun/Moon chakric level these two aspects are held at opposite ends of the head – rather than the deeper level being located within the lighter level – and both of these chakric levels have already been covered. less developed aspect. Rather. your sexual practice. My aim is to give you enough of a start so that you can then set off on your own. your actions and the course of your existence (including the Earth life). your own insights. your thoughts. The information contained in this section will help to start you on that path towards greater awareness. try it.129 Scroll IV: A Little Extra Insight This final scroll is somewhat different from the preceding three scolls in that its main concern is not the communication of specific techniques. your own techniques and your own understanding. And then wondering as to the reason why when your life does not go as you want it to and your experiences are hard. use your awareness and your intuition. but only if you apply it and do the necessary work. opinions. Thereby finding your own path. . apply it. there is also a deeper aspect to them. I actively wish to avoid taking you and leading you by the hand. This deeper aspect is essentially a more internal. Specifically regarding areas which will affect. Instead of having these things determined by external influences. Just reading it may be interesting but it won’t on its own really get you anywhere. Rather the aim here is to broaden and deepen your esoteric knowledge in terms of the nature of yourself. Where you determine your emotions. groups. or which can be affected by. The deeper aspect of the chakras As well as the aspect to the chakras which was covered in the section “The chakras: an introduction” on p. and come to your own conclusions. established systems and energies and by internal forces which you don’t control – yet not even beginning to be aware that this is so. Progressing as you do so towards that final of all mystical goals – freedom. At the Admeitus level the two chakric levels are similarly separated: the Admeitus level being located at the point of the chin whilst the deeper aspects of this chakra – the Erechtheus level – is located towards the back of the head. do not just accept what is written here straight off. of life and of how it all works. As with the techniques. more masterful way of approaching the same central areas of life with which the chakras deal in their lighter. self-responsibility and freedom.
near the base of the skull. The Erechtheus level is covered in this section. Below the Admeitus / Erechtheus level though both the lighter and deeper aspects are contained within one chakra. Both the deeper and the lighter chakric aspects are active in everybody, affecting their lives and their personalities. But until you have mastered the lighter chakric levels your awareness of the deeper chakric levels themselves and their methods of approach will be very limited if not non-existent. Let alone any degree of control over them. Nevertheless, if you do begin to actively work at balancing and mastering the lighter aspect of the chakras it is possible to get to the stage where you can then proceed to the deeper aspect of the chakras with amazing rapidity. For this reason, and for the sake of completeness also, this deeper aspect of the chakras is covered here. Dg. IV-01: The deeper aspect of the chakras Uranus: Again relates to real, tangible, probably primarily physical-world, results. The key difference is speed. In contrast to its slow, limiting, “painful” operation at the Saturn aspect, at the deeper Uranus aspect this chakra is concerned with the very quick, almost sudden, production of real, tangible results. A production effected by the powerful and directed application of an inspirational sort of insight. As such, at this level the chakra has a strong sense of independence of thought and action about it, a strong sense of freedom. Practically you may know that you are, for the time being, in some ways limited, but because you can clearly see the method with which to overcome this limitation, you do not feel it in the (unpleasant) way characteristic of the Saturn aspect of this chakra. Neptune: Again relates to the enjoyment of life. The key difference is that it is a peaceful, internal enjoyment of life itself, a quiet appreciation of the forces of existence. In contrast to the very expansive, externally focused sort of enjoyment characteristic of this chakra at the Jupiter level. At this deeper level there is a tranquillity to it like the still depths of the ocean. You know, observe, notice, are aware and deeply, steadily, powerfully appreciate it all. There is also a flowing quality to the chakra at this level: a connected, interlinked, progression of continual change, much like the flow of life itself. You observe the changes and the forces at work and just enjoy the harmonious flow of it all. Pluto: Again relates to the way in which you produce results and make things happen. The key difference is that you make things happen not by
external action but by determining the deep, fundamental nature of your being, of your soul and then just allowing that to fetch the corresponding people and experiences into your life and personal progress into your being. Unlike in its Martian aspect, at the Plutonian level there is no forcefulness, no aggression, no focused determination to this chakra. There is no running around trying to fight against the order of things. Instead you are working with the order of things. And so at this level there is a deep, quiet, profound sense of powerful, unstoppable inevitability to this chakra. Apollo: Again relates to being in harmony and at ease with things. The key difference is that you are in harmony with and at ease within the natural order of things, the ways of the universe, rather than with the external conditions of your life as is the case at the Venus level of this chakra. Essentially, at the Apollo level, this chakra relates to taking the natural, ordered harmony of the universe, the creation and reflecting it in the self, making it a part of the self, living it. Unlike at the Venus level, at the Apollo level this chakra is not concerned with comfortable, easy, enjoyable external life conditions. Rather it is comfortable, easy, enjoyable internal conditions which concern it, the condition of your soul. Which, if it is in harmony with the laws of the universe and the nature and purpose of your Spirit, will cause you and your life to flow with great ease, comfort, harmony and beauty in a most enjoyable manner. At the Apollo level this chakra is very much concerned with the application of the understanding of the nature of elegance and beauty rather than the mere enjoyment and appreciation of elegance and beauty. You see and understand what produces elegance and beauty in the universe, in the natural world, you see the purpose for them, the reason behind them and so you aim to produce them in your self, in your soul and in your life. Finally, in its Apollo aspect this chakra is very much lighter and less forcefully powerful than the preceding three chakras in their deeper aspects. Nevertheless, through its unforceful, harmonious, elegant action this chakra has the capability to be immensely transformative throughout your entire being and life. Vulcan: Again relates to knowledge. The key difference is that at this level the chakra is concerned with the practical application of a very specific type of knowledge: knowledge of the natural, divine order of things, the laws of reality and creation. Rather than with just the acquisition of any type of knowledge, as is the case at the Mercury level. At the Vulcan level this chakra is concerned with the application of your knowledge of
the order of things to yourself, your life path and your actions. As such, what the Vulcan aspect essentially relates to is practical wisdom, wisdom practically applied. It is a very direct, very practical approach. You clearly see what needs to be done, you know how to do it and so you do it. There is a definite, effective minimalism to it: you will do what has to be done effectively and directly with no wasted action, with the minimum of work necessary. At the Vulcan level there is a quiet, steady confidence to this chakra. It lacks the compulsive nature of the Mercury aspect of this chakra which is driven to run around continually collecting knowledge much of which proves to be pointless. Also in contrast to the Mercury aspect, in its Vulcan aspect this chakra involves the communication of knowledge not so much through words but rather through the practical application of that knowledge, through the living of it. Erechtheus Again relates to combat and fighting. The key difference is that at this level, unlike at the Admeitus level, you are not fighting from within yourself as the ego personality with all the human frailty, fear, uncertainty and emotionality which that entails, but from within your Self as the entire creation itself. Action and intention at this level is characterized by the same sort of detachment and unstoppability as the flows of nature and the laws of the universe themselves. There is a high degree of detachment involved for you don’t, emotionally or conceptually, really care whether you win or lose, live or die, at all. This contributes to making your mindstate (or, more accurately, your soulstate) at this level entirely uncompromising: you don’t care whether you lose everything and so this frees you to fight in the most extreme way in order to attain your desired end. In other words there is no holding back out of fear and caution. There is at this level the ability to ride within the flows of nature, to control and direct them, and to bend the laws of probability to your will. It is not so much that you feel no fear but that fear itself does not even exist, does not even enter into consideration. In practice, action and intention from this level is vicious, extreme, unstoppable and yet controlled, detached and flowing. It is not action based on the frail superficiality of human morality (as at the Admeitus level) but on the necessity of the moment and on an inner freedom to embody the forces of nature, of the universe. That is probably the key to understanding the nature of the Erechtheus level: you address the problem, the obstacle in the most direct way possible i.e. without letting your ego personality and human concepts such as morality, restriction and fear get in your way.
The Sun/Moon chakric level remains the same as was described when going through the lighter aspect of the chakras. This is because the Sun/Moon chakric level is somewhat different to the other six chakric levels. The Sun/Moon chakric level has to do with understanding, with comprehension of the essential nature of things, of the natural, divine order of the universe, the creation and the form that this takes. And it is this understanding which allows you to move from functioning primarily at the lighter chakric levels to functioning primarily at the deeper chakric levels. It is for this reason that this change normally comes about following Enlightenment and the understanding thereby attained (though it does not necessarily come about following Enlightenment nor is it necessary to attain Enlightenment in order to move from functioning primarily at the lighter chakric levels to functioning primarily at the deeper chakric levels, though it is easier to do so if you have). Do note that – excluding the Sun/Moon chakric level which is probably best viewed as the tool that you use to understand the other chakric levels – you have six chakric levels with two aspects to each chakric level which gives you a total of 12 aspects. And so a total of 12 areas of life that must be mastered, 12 lessons that must be learnt. The way that these 12 lessons may be presented, the ways in which they appear in your life is almost infinitely variable but the lessons behind the experiences will always be these 12. Or to put it another way, the reason behind all the experiences in your life is to encourage you to move towards a greater mastery of one or more of these 12 basic lessons; and the exact form which your experiences will take is determined by your degree of mastery of these 12 basic lessons. Or to put this last in another way: by the exact way in which the 12 aspects of your chakras are held. What this means is that, although life may appear to be infinitely variable, there are, in fact, only 12 lessons to learn. Learn these and that’s it, you’ve mastered life 15 . And then it all flows, becomes really easy, and living is a pleasure. Of course, it is much easier to learn these 12 lessons once you have a clear idea of what they actually are. And now you do. If you meditate on the chakras and their aspects you will have an even clearer idea for it will take the form of personal, experiential understanding. Do not be discouraged if it’s a little difficult at first to get to the deeper aspects of the chakras. You really do have to take your meditation much, much deeper in order to access these deeper aspects. Focus on the lighter aspects for a while, and on mastering them. Later, quite soon, you’ll be able to get some sort of impression of the nature of these deeper aspects which will, in time, become clearer and clearer.
Or at least life within the evolutionary context of this particular solar system.
a detachment and a peace which is entirely missing from the chakras’ lower aspects. a stillness. greater tranquillity: you’ve seen the order of it all and understand how everything works. To be living at the deeper chakric level it is necessary to have already pretty much mastered the lighter aspect of the chakras. Or. of the distinction between light and dark. if you’ve reached a sufficiently high level of mastery you can. In terms of your focus. at the deeper level the chakras are much more internally connected than at the lighter level. Due to this mastery your life flows and is a lot easier. Mars. and you’ll do them. This reflects the overcoming. a greater freedom to be what you want to be and do what you will. Rather than going through the external motions and thereby learning the required internal lessons. approach both chakric levels in the same way. integral part of the human experience even once it has been . Jupiter. this detachment also comes a greater power. so you relax and appreciate (and use) the great harmony of it all in a far more masterful way. You’ll perceive the internal actions/changes necessary to attain a particular end / walk your path.134 On a different note. Then. at the deeper chakric level the flow will be from internal to external rather than from external to internal as is the case at the lighter chakric levels. At this deeper level. if you so choose. more accurately. Admeitus). look at the difference between the way the chakras work when they are functioning at the deeper aspect and the way in which they work when they are functioning at the lighter aspect. Essentially. thereby allowing the external results to follow from them. Of course. Venus. along with this acceptance. Finally bear in mind that when your focus does shift to this deeper chakric level if you then choose to simultaneously continue to live at the lighter chakric level also then life will be very enjoyable and a great deal of fun for you. All of which are also characteristics of various of the deeper aspects of the chakras. To start with. you are in tune with it. After all. the deeper aspect of the chakras is a much more masterful level. there is a depth. pleasant and unpleasant which will have been necessary in order for you to move from living primarily at the lighter chakric level to living primarily at the deeper chakric level. That is why it is necessary to master the lighter aspect first – after you have done so you are ready for the deeper aspect. your actions and the chakras’ effects. your desires. positive and negative. They work as a united whole rather than being balanced against each other (Saturn. you will have already pretty much mastered this lighter level and it too is an essential. the transcendence. these will all probably be more internal when you are living primarily at this deeper chakric level. You possess greater clarity. Mercury vs. once you begin to work with this deeper aspect. whereas these are all more external when you are living primarily at the lighter chakric level.
The zodiacal signs and the horoscopic houses are both merely indicative of how that essence is modified. Unfortunately such external factors are usually of dubious wisdom and always present a biased. It is the planets which constitute/represent the 12 lessons of life. your mind. incomplete view of your own life. friends’ opinions. The trouble though is that astrology. when they need it. but rather that it can be looked upon as an external confirmation of that intuitive meditative insight for those who need it. therefore. as well as its strengths and the areas in which you have to tread gently. represent the essence and core of your being and so should form the essence and core of astrology. The first thing to realize is that the central feature of astrology should be the planets. The planets. 2. “experts’” advice etc. The zodiacal signs will reveal how that essence is modified psychologically/emotionally in terms of your personality and psychological make-up.135 mastered. As such. and the relationships between them (planetary aspects). your partner and the nature of the relationship between you. the state which they are all in and the abilities this gives you. accurate and to the point. inaccurate bullshit as it does spot-on insight. The purpose of this section is to show you how you can correct astrology as a science for yourself so that it is easy. Too many people seem to forget this in their urge to go deeper. is in a confused mess and so produces as much. A deeper insight into astrology Astrology can be used to very accurately know yourself. faster and so end up appearing to lose a great deal of their basic humanity and consequently drastically reducing the extent to which other people can comfortably relate to them. as it is currently generally known and practiced. etc.. and your mastery of these 12 lessons is what constitutes the “you” of this lifetime: the fundamental nature of your personality. Not that it should therefore be used as a replacement for meditation and intuition. it will help you to have faith in yourself and your insights once you see that what you always suspected was the case between you and your lover really is the case and society. The best way to view . your emotions. your advisers and the experts are all “not completely right”. if not more. Whereas astrology properly practised can give you a very specific. but many people do not have sufficient faith in themselves to trust in their intuition and instead base their behaviour and decisions on external ideas such as the prevailing social norms. your body. accurate perspective of it all. Of course. your partner and the relationship between the two of you. yourself. all of this can also be clearly known through meditation and intuition.
in terms of your physical life conditions. It is not that a particular planet rules a particular zodiacal sign. whilst the zodiacal sign will express this lesson in a more indirect way through the focusing of its energies in such a way as to modulate the expression of a planetary force. and the astrological sign which corresponds to it. Indeed.136 zodiacal signs is as a colouring added to the completed drawing given by the planetary aspects. for those of you who are interested. Technically. houses have little value or relevance (they are however relevant to relocational astrology). what it is is that a particular planet. for example. To be honest. Anyway. Nevertheless. merely by changing the country in which you live (this branch of astrology is referred to as relocational astrology). will both be manifestations at different levels of the same esoteric lesson. the correct correspondences between the zodiacal signs and the planets is as follows: Cancer Capricorn Erechtheus Admeitus Mercury Vulcan Venus Apollo Mars Pluto Jupiter Neptune Saturn Uranus Gemini Sagittarius Taurus Scorpio Aries Libra Leo Aquarius Virgo Pisces - And it is a question of correspondences and not of rulerships. It is just that the planet will express this lesson in a direct way and with force. and more accurately. the form of modification can be radically changed quite easily. the essence remains the same regardless of the manner (sign and house placement) in which it is modified. The houses will reveal how that essence is felt to be expressed physically. Your actual physical life conditions will however be far more influenced by your planetary aspects than by anything that has to do with houses. The traditional astrological concept of rulerships arose in the first place precisely because the expression of the esoteric lesson through a planet . in terms of natal astrology.
how skilled. you are not your personality. by a good understanding of the planets and the relationships between them. planets and the lessons they . However. though this will probably be offset in other areas of your life.137 was so much more powerful than the expression of that same lesson through a zodiacal sign placement. Remember. It is this which will change your life because it will change your nature. But to truly improve your life permanently and without any sideeffects you have to improve yourself and the key to this is meditating on the chakras guided. ) is indicative of a connection between the two. So. the modulation of the expression of a particular planetary force does not really matter. to state things explicitly: it does not really matter which zodiacal sign any planet (including the Sun) is in nor which house any planet is in. how masterful an actor you are and how well you play the part. This can make your life different and in some ways easier or more successful. you are not your life’s experiences – you are that central core of awareness which controls/determines these things. if necessary. As regards houses. It may be interesting to know and fun to play around with but that which is crucial is the lesson behind the expression and the degree of mastery which you have over it. they really are a too non-essential consideration for me to bother with them here. Your personality is just a tool that you use and like all tools you should keep it sharp and use it well but not become attached to it or dependent upon it. and how much control you have over the whole process. on a deeper level. it will change who. The crucial thing to realize is that. you are. What does matter is how good. only the aspects listed on p. It is rather like being an actor: it does not matter so much whether you play Hamlet or King Lear nor whether you do so at one theatre or another. And so how much you enjoy playing it. it is not the planet which actually rules or controls the zodiacal sign it corresponds to but the esoteric lesson which they are both expressions of that “rules” them both. or more. to be honest. Each 30˚ aspect (i. how satisfying it is for you. It is probably due to the fact that traditional (and even present-day) astrologers did not know about the existence of all the relevant planets that they got the planetary/zodiacal sign correspondences a little muddled. To understand the planets as they affect you what you have to do is look at the geometrical relationship between the planets in your natal chart. You can play with these factors quite easily using force of will (most useful in affecting planets’ sign placement) or by other more external means (most useful regarding planets’ placement by house).e.
You’ll probably decide to focus on one specific area or another and then do the (little) work necessary to make it a physical reality.138 represent 16 . say you have Venus parallel to Pluto in your natal chart. or which you have the potential to very easily have. It is really just a question of combining the symbolisms of the planets involved 17 . unity. This essentially is what living consciously. Far better then to decide for yourself how exactly it is expressed. mystically. It represents an interrelationship between the lessons of life which pushes you to learn both those lessons more totally and it will be expressed whether you want it to be or not. What you cannot do is expect an aspect not to manifest in any way whatsoever in your life. beliefs and actions. each aspect will represent a special talent or ability which you have. 16 . Every experience and every person that comes into your life comes into it for a purpose and that purpose. all of the possible manifestations of a particular natal aspect. you can easily draw on all the talents represented by a particular aspect as you fully master the lessons of the planets involved and also realize that life is life and it’s all good for it is all God. The exact nature of the talent so represented will depend on the planets involved in creating the aspect and on your degree of mastery of the lessons represented by the planets. compelling urge (Pluto) to make love (Venus) or a desire (Venus) for money and power (Pluto) or the ability to seduce (Venus) men of power (Pluto).com. At a deeper level. What exactly you are meant to teach each other can be Actually there are some other geometrical relationships between the planets which are relevant also. So that you yourself are one and consistent not a confused mess of conflicting desires. in a relationship. Similarly. which consists of the lessons you are here to learn. living masterfully consists of. in a specific way. 17 For a good and accurate listing of the discovered planets’various symbolisms see the book “Magi Astrology® . How you choose to manifest the aspect depends on you. And so on. As such. You are free to choose what to be and how to live but it is easiest to be free in this way if you do so within the valid range of possibilities for your path in this lifetime. integration. This can mean: money (Venus) from big business (Pluto) or a powerful. in order that the two of you can each learn specific lessons.magiastrology. is to teach you something. And the lessons are learnt through the interrelationship between them.the key to success in love and money” (listed in the bibliography) or the website www. and so in your life. The thing is to make that choice consciously and to realize that you are free to change that choice at any time to one of the other abilities represented by that aspect. Thereby revealing the nature of progress: harmony. The-multiples-of-30˚ aspects are by far the most important ones to focus upon at this stage. what you are will relate to what your partner is. You can even if you wish embody within yourself. For example. but let’s keep things simple here.
for most people. one which does not contain any houses. Admeitus. If you have such aspects it will still be very much easier to draw on the abilities they represent then it would be to draw on an ability represented by an aspect which you did not have.e. say your Mars is trine to your partner’s Venus. IV-02: The combined chart showing those planets already discovered and all 120˚ interaspects for Madonna (born on 16/8/1958) and Guy Ritchie (born on 10/9/1968) How you both learn the lessons which you need to learn together is however entirely up to you. Regarding the lessons represented by the chakric levels of Apollo. Erechtheus and Aesclepius. or into your being. there are in fact planets and planetoids in this solar system which are yet to be discovered (at least . However. What astrology will do is clearly show you the possibilities and the possible dangers.e. (Unlike the tighter orb aspects which will). You and your partner then have to be aware of these and take the appropriate decisions and actions. For example. In both cases the strengths of these aspects can be drawn upon should you wish to do so by focusing on the areas they represent and doing the slightly greater amount of work necessary to fetch them through. but it is evident that some ways of learning the lesson are generally easier and more pleasant than other ways. if you don’t want such aspects to be a part of your life don’t focus on them and then they won’t really come into it. longitudinally aspects between 3-6˚ of orb and declinationally aspects between 1-2˚ of orb can also be made to be valid. Occasionally they represent abilities / lessons only partially learnt. plus two Suns and two Moons and seeing what interaspects are created between your planets and your partner’s planets. It is clearest to see these if you use a zodiac-ring style chart i. but which weren’t meant to really be a large part of your being or your path in this lifetime. in any significant or strongly noticeable way. There are also declinational aspects (the parallel and contraparallel) which are valid within a 1˚ orb. 30˚ aspect) to be valid (strongly evident) it has to be accurate within a 3˚ orb of influence. Vulcan. for any longitudinal (i. What such aspects usually represent are parts of your being which at one time were predominant in you. However. Dg.139 seen by combining your two charts into one chart containing (at least in the near future…) 24 planets. The choice is yours. This means that the lesson could be learnt by having: A desire (Venus) to fight (Mars) Or an aggressive (Mars) attitude towards money (Venus) Or having energetic (Mars) sex (Venus). More technically.
That is an important point so I’ll repeat it: your natal chart is a graphic representation of how your own chakras spark between themselves. When you set up a big business you are not running around doing all the tasks yourself. Astrology does not preclude free will. Finally. but if you set it up poorly it will fetch you “bad” dramatic change – the loss of lots of money and power.140 by mainstream science…) which astrologically have a nature corresponding to that of the chakric levels whose names they share. Further. That is how the causal primarily affects the physical and why the movements of the planets affects the state and condition of your own chakras and your own life. Just make sure the clear focus is maintained). but for now it is enough to know . you are also free to decide for yourself the precise nature of the future karma which is expressed through your chakras. important systems well. of the planets. the symbolisms and meanings. It should be realized that the details I have given in this book regarding the natures of the specific chakras are precisely that: descriptions of the natures of the specific chakras. What it does do is reveal to you the pattern within which that free will is going to operate. An example would be helpful: Pluto the chakra deals with effecting dramatic change through determining the deepest levels of your being and then allowing the flow of life to fetch into your life conditions correspondent to this changed deep level of your being. This point is explained more fully in the next section: “The nature of karma”. You are free to decide for yourself how balanced or imbalanced your chakras are. power and again dramatic change. It is these massive causal chakras which determine the nature. As such the natal chart of a person can be viewed as a very accurate map of the ways in which that person’s chakras will relate to each other. As already stated though you are free to decide for yourself in exactly what way a particular interplanetary or interchakric relationship manifests externally. You are putting in place a system and then letting that system run on its own to fetch in the results with nothing but a little guidance from you. Pluto the planet astrologically symbolizes big business. Yet in both instances the esoteric lesson behind the physical-world experience is to realize the importance of setting up deep. The way to relate the meanings given here of the chakras to the symbolisms of the planets is to view the chakras’ natures as being the meanings behind the symbolism of the planets. Because you are dealing with big business if you set it up skilfully and well it will fetch you “good” dramatic change – lots of money and power. how to do so and to what extent to guide it once the system is in place (very little at all. They are not the symbolisms / meanings of the planets themselves though they are related to them in that the essential nature of the chakras in your body are exactly the same as the nature of the massive chakras up on the causal plane. a note regarding free will.
Now one day the car will be a Ferrari and another day the car will be a Landrover. . preset times. What you cannot do is change the Ferrari into a Landrover or vice versa. a Ferrari or a Landrover. where you drive that car to. Saturn deals with solidity and the physical manifestation of the forces within your energetic system with the greatest weight behind them. etc. metaphorically. So the solution to dealing with Saturn karma is to ensure that the heaviest energies within your body are still very positive and helpful. what stops you make along the way. What it does mean is that at specific times in your life strong Venus karma will come through and at other times strong Saturn karma will come through. So once again the advice is: balance and master your chakras. Depending on the day that you are born on you get. guilt and so on which of course will fetch very difficult and unpleasant experiences into your life. However. how you drive and how hard you push the “car” given you – all of these factors you are free to decide for yourself. all people born on the same day will all live their lives according to a preset timescale with specific types of things happening in their lives at specific. pessimism. Nevertheless. As you will recall Saturn deals with solidity and the heaviest energies in your body. that having been said. transport heavy loads with. wishing others harm. transits-to-natal and day-for-a-year progressions. pick up girls with. how fast you go and so on. However. get places quickly. If you do this then when Saturn fires it will solidify positive things into your life – with great force – rather than solidifying negative things into it. These times can be identified using the astrological tools of transits-to-transits. This does not mean that bad things have to happen and will happen at a specific time in your life. etc. in its most balanced state. In other words the car that you have at your disposal to use does limit what you are able to do with it and so to an extent determines what sorts of things you do actually do with it. balance and master your chakras. Being born on a particular day with its specific planetary geometry is analogously like being given a particular car with specific abilities. The Ferrari you can use to drive fast along roads. all of these are factors that you decide for yourself. Normally therefore in most people when Saturn activates it will release karmic energy dealing with such things as judgementalness. how fast you drive it there. But where you drive it to.141 that it is one of the main reasons that 100 people born on the same day will live 100 very different lives. balance and master your chakras. The Landrover you can use to go off road. However even though Saturn karma has to come through at some specific time it does not mean that it has to be negative. reach places few people ever explore.
and so harder and more difficult experiences come into your life. It does. beautiful harmony to it all. I don’t think it’s a particular good theory. so too you don’t need to understand karma completely in order to be able to soften it. As simple as that. with a sure and certain inevitability. by taking the necessary action. their desires and ideas which are fetching all of their external experiences into their lives 18 .” This probably doesn’t really help you much though when you’re crying over a broken heart or struggling to recover from a serious illness. more limited human perspective this grand harmony seems to be entirely missing. that belief gets stronger. The nature of karma Karma is the most complex thing in the universe and there is nobody who understands it completely in all its facets. The basic theory behind it is that. especially as a basis for the universe. broader perspective there is a grand. you’ll get fed up with being hit over the head in a more and more intense manner and so will change the way you do things. The whole process can soon get very circular 19 . is to become aware of the patterns within your subconscious mind. then. The key. however far more subconscious than conscious. all suffering arises from wrong points of view. 18 .142 3. It is useful then to work towards gaining some degree of control over the karmic process. An example might be helpful. yet this is the big esoteric secret to controlling your karma and hence your destiny and life. de-energize it. 19 The whole process. cause you to learn and evolve. how you live. However. what you believe. when looked at from God’s higher. Think on how these two insights fit together. is. Thereby learning and progressing. This can be achieved by meditating on the chakras. But just as you do not need to understand your body completely in all its detailed aspects in order to be able to learn how to swim. All. The problem is that. understanding the esoteric mechanisms involved will probably help you to better understand why such a simple And the basic insight which comes about through living life is that you make what you want happen by doing what has to be done. This in turn confirms you in your belief that life is hard and difficult. redirect it and otherwise control it to your advantage. Personally. emotions and actions. but I will say this for it: albeit it slowly. It is their thoughts and emotions. Essentially you do this by controlling (not repressing) your thoughts. not even the entities who administer it. And. including the hard ones. karma does work. The basic insight which comes about at Enlightenment is that everybody is getting what they’re asking for. It is as Buddha said: “Ultimately. sooner or later. what you desire. You think life is hard and difficult and so hard and difficult experiences come into your life. when looked at from the smaller.
However. emotions and actions in the first place: these went out into the . That is to say. So then: Essentially what you have to know is that there are 12 types of karma corresponding to the 12 chakric aspects. control what karma you generate in this lifetime in order to control your life conditions in this lifetime. the more the karmic particles it can hold). and that energy will have the quality of both the state of balance of the specific chakra through which it is expressed and the nature of the karmic particles held within that chakra which are firing at that particular time. unless you generate so much heavy karma within one lifetime that the majority of it simply can’t be fed to you in that same lifetime and so has to be stored up for future lifetimes. unlike all other energies. These karmic particles enter through your crown and are “tuned” to a specific chakra. After they have entered through your crown they will settle within that specific chakra doing very little other than weighing it down a bit until their time to activate comes. and simultaneously to cause you to think/feel/say/do the things necessary to fulfil your karma. you have to realize that that karma was created by your own thoughts. Only a very small portion is carried over to be fed to you in future lifetimes. However. though the more open and developed a chakra is. but also by what you think/feel/do in this very lifetime! In fact the majority of the karma of one lifetime is gone through in that very lifetime. So in other words.143 solution works and how it does so. the majority of what you go through in this lifetime will be a direct result of the karma which you yourself (as the present ego personality) generated in this very lifetime. which in turn will help you to better control the karmic process. Now. Now. Usually what this amounts to is that. cannot be directly controlled using thought and intention. when that karma’s time to activate is due the energy associated with it will go out through the chakra in which it is held to draw to you the people and experiences necessary to fulfil your karma. it was specifically stated above that karmic particles. (There are only so many karmic particles that any chakra can hold. What this means is that once a packet of karma has entered your system. the karma itself is not the specific chakra it is associated with nor is it the way that specific chakra is held. The karma itself is a packet of energy particles very different from normal energy in that it cannot be directly affected or controlled using thought and intention. At this time energy will be emitted from that specific chakra to draw towards you the experiences necessary to fulfil your karma. the nature of the karmic particles will indeed be determined by what you thought/felt/did in the past. unless you’re fetching very heavy karma over from past lives. that’s it you can’t change its essential nature in any way. Each type of karma is expressed through the chakra to which it corresponds.
144 world. if you really have progressed very significantly. emoting. emotions and actions. say in a previous lifetime you had an exceptionally strong desire to be rich and famous but never made it. Looked at in this way karma is nothing more than self-evident common sense. but instead are thinking. doing or saying anything that would contribute to further fame and fortune. As it does so it will of necessity take on the features and characteristics which correspond to the specific state of balance in which that chakra is held in you. Further. And in fact all of these . very easy and very effective. It is especially effective because the state of balance of your chakras tend to. emote and do happens (provided you do so with enough force for it to filter down to the physical). Other possible scenarios include: you come back once as a woman and are killed by mercenary soldiers and so learn the lesson. There is a more esoteric dimension to it all but it is easiest to understand when viewed from this commonsense angle. Though this is indeed an outside possibility it would only really occur if you had not attained a greater degree of internal chakric balance in the meantime. emoting. The other way in which you can control the effect of karmic particles is this: all karma has to be expressed through the chakra to which it corresponds. what you think. you can have significant undesirable karma from a past life in a specific chakra yet you can overpower this undesirable karma by creating strong enough contradictory karma in this lifetime. An example here would probably be helpful. Now that does not mean that in subsequent lifetimes you will keep coming back as a woman or a child to be killed many times over. and then returned to you from God in the form of the karmic particles which entered through your crown. you come back as a man whose beloved wife is killed by mercenary soldiers and so learn the lesson. determine the nature of your thoughts. This is the big esoteric secret regarding control of your karma. reverberated up to the topmost planes and up to God. yet now you want a quiet. Remember. to a large part. emotions and desires. Say in a past life as a mercenary soldier you used to kill women and children. simple life away from the public eye. peaceful life. For fun. So you can control what the nature of the future karmic particles which enter your energetic system will be. This karma then comes through in this lifetime. Very quick. For example. So by changing the state of balance in which a specific chakra is held you will automatically change the effects of all future karma expressed through that chakra. You do this by simply controlling your thoughts. or. doing and saying that which corresponds to your desire for a quiet. Simply control your thoughts. you come back as a man who marries such a good wife that he then realizes that in no circumstances should you kill women for fun. There is no other way about it. emotions and actions so that you’re not thinking. Lots of them.
to control and master your karma: I) control your thoughts. take very different paths. An immediate objection which might be raised is that there are in this world very many beautiful people who aren’t really very nice at all. life consists not only of the ease and pleasantness of the Jupiter. so without. as within.” It is this law which is the basis of all astrology and most of mysticism. Remember. And karma is the mechanism by which this is. Venus and Admeitus chakras but also the work and hardness of the Saturn. In terms of beauty what this amounts to is that if the internal state is beautiful then the external state will be beautiful. 20 . It exists to teach and educate souls in their process of growth and maturation. Niceness is. And if the internal state is not beautiful then the external state won’t be beautiful either. considerate and easy to get on with but niceness itself does not lead to internal progress nor is it the result of it. So if you want to be externally truly.145 scenarios have been played out at one time or another and are direct examples of the ways in which karma works and how people who start off in very similar ways can afterwards. esoterically the insight is that you are able to determine the internal state to produce whatever external state you wish. Mars and Mercury chakras. This is indeed true for niceness has very little to do with beauty 20 . emotions and actions. so below. The point to realize in all of this is that karma is not retributive and God is not judgemental. Only mankind is judgemental and wants to punish. It is also the reason why meditation produces real. naturally beautiful work at making yourself internally beautiful. The nature of beauty One of the esoteric laws of the universe is: “as above. primarily. Nice people may well be pleasant. That way you are controlling both the content of your karma and the form it takes as a result of its expression. does not exist for the petty purpose of punishing people. beauty relates far more to the nature of the deep soul than it does to the exact form of the thin patina of the external personality. And of course you are simultaneously growing and maturing in a far quicker and more effective way than that allowed for by the karmic process. to make suffer those it deems as evil or wrongdoers. 4. Niceness does not constitute even a minor part of any of the 12 life lessons. How nice a person you are has little bearing on your level of development. achieved. Also. physical-world results. II) balance your chakras. Consequently. and indeed the whole physical universe. Karma. To reiterate. due to their use of free will and discrimination.
the greater the degree to which you can consciously control the process. The thing is God did not create you in this way. physical exercise and generally keeping the body fit. judgementalness. “I was born this way / God created me in this way and there is nothing that I can do about it”. undemanding love any sort of beauty is very difficult indeed. every emotion and every action you are continually creating and recreating yourself. Connected to this. the more you take responsibility for yourself and the more aware you become. in both its aspects. However. You then entered this system and created yourself. Though even if you master just the light chakric aspects the results will be very significant. very incomplete. think you that these actions do not form a part of the application/expression of mastery internally attained? 21 . giving heart. loving life and loving your fellow human beings no matter their nature. by far the greatest obstacle which most people need to overcome in this context is the lack of an open. Master and apply the lessons of this chakra in both its aspects and beauty will be the result 21 . loving. but it has no achievement to it: it’s easy to be nice but it’s not going to get you anywhere and it is not. With every thought. Of course. accepting. because the essential lesson of the Apollo aspect of this chakra is the reflection of the harmony of the universe in the self. Without this sort of easygoing. To be even more specific. and healthy. It is an ongoing process and you are free to do with it what you will (subject to the laws of the universe) whether you are aware of it or not. conditionality. comfortable or “nice” for you whatsoever. The other big emotional / conceptual obstacle which many people have in this area is unwillingness to take full responsibility for all that they are. “It is not my fault that I am ugly” they will say. the context.146 essentially. because they tend to prevent it. young. And are still doing so. self-righteousness (which is very closely related to judgementalness) and a desire to try to Of course. In terms of what specific internal work must be undertaken in order to produce beauty. it is also necessary to consider such things as diet. Not only that. of this universe. Come to realize that the world is not nice. the chakra which has the greatest bearing on beauty is the Venus/Apollo Chakra. In terms of your physical body and your soul God did not create you at all. Venus has a lot to do with loving yourself. both internal and external. going to make your life easier for you. But. If there is a lesson you must learn you will learn it and life will keep on getting harder and harder for you until you do so with no regard as to whether this is pleasant. of itself. God is not nice and the laws of existence are not nice. suspicion. What God created was your Spirit and the system. are fear. in practice mastery of all the chakras in both their aspects is involved.
how long does it take you to master your Venus / Apollo chakra? Regarding how long it takes for an internally established state of greater balance to manifest externally. A change on the causal. Well. This is the physical world and it is subject to a time delay. Once they do filter down to the physical they won’t only affect your physical form but also your physical life conditions – things such as who you meet. For example. will take a month before it begins to filter through to the physical world and three years before it affects the whole mind-body complex in the ways necessary to produce the physical change. such as changes in your underlying bone structure. Bear in mind that such changes once they are established on the higher planes will affect such things as how you behave. i. Note that all of this also applies to changes in the opposite direction. any changes which do occur are attributed by most people to the aging process. But really all we’re doing here is approaching the same thing from a different angle.e. etc. things will take a little longer. Finally. views and approaches to life then this will with time manifest in your Do note that all of these tendencies relate to the Saturn chakra. your movements.147 control other people. i. changes to its basic form take a while. there is the question of how long it all takes. what you do. Once it is firmly established as your new basic nature it will be immediately obvious to all in terms of the general “feel” about you / the atmosphere which surrounds you. instantaneously. 22 . first has to filter down to the astral and then to the physical. how you do it etc. A complete. Regarding more physical factors. just work towards loving unconditionally and all of these problems / imbalances will simply begin to just disappear. Also. depending on the level at which the change is effected. This reflects the fact that it is imbalance within the Saturn chakra which most limits the free operation and development of the Venus / Apollo chakra (and all the other chakras too for that matter). astral and physical. If you start off beautiful yet persist in small-hearted. Hence the insight: it is necessary to master your Saturn chakra in order to be able to fully master your Venus / Apollo chakra. limiting behaviour. That is to say: work on changing your thought patterns simultaneously with changing your needs and desires towards the same direction and also your physical wishes and actions towards the same direction. the answer is: in some ways. the qualities evident in your eyes. enjoy. total change will have fully filtered through within 1-9 years. towards greater ugliness. on the nature of your desires and how you handle them. 23 The reason that you don’t see most people’s physical appearance altering rapidly within the course of one lifetime is that most people don’t really change their basic nature by much within the course of one lifetime. etc. be at ease within and in harmony with. even by the end of the first month the effects will be very noticeable 23 . Thereby. what experiences come into your life. change produced on the astral. your voice. The quickest way to effect physical change is to work on all levels at once: causal. of your thought patterns. the way the muscles of your face are held. It’s hard to appreciate.e. Fundamentally. rather than just accepting them as they are 22 . the physical reality when you feel yourself to be (strongly) limited by it.
overall lesson. each Group Soul is learning one. the deepest lesson behind all his experience in all his lifetimes. and only one. one part to reflect the female principle and one part to reflect the male principle). 24 . These 13 parts then each divide into two. 25 This is because the 13th aspect of the nature of the reality does not exist within the physical world. It represents the union into one of the other 12 aspects. And the male part of the subIn this section. once it reaches the top of the causal plane divides into 13 parts. I use the popular terminology rather than the technically accurate terminology used everywhere else in this book. this 13th part often does not separate into male-female aspects. astral. Instead it just reflects those aspects within itself. due to the time delays involved this technique is best used only as a broad. especially to throw you into raw.e. One soul sub-group (i. Also. And every single individual soul – which originally came from that Group Soul and so will eventually rejoin it – is also learning that one single Great Lesson. Evolution is not the invariable rule of life. from a different angle. general guideline. It is that lesson which will determine the overall direction of all his incarnations. soulmates and twin flames24 A somewhat deep and esoteric subject. honestly look at your physical form and see within it the areas in which you need to work as well as how your progress is going. If you want to be technical about it then in this section read “Spirit” for “Soul” e. one female part and one male part (or. devolution too is quite possible. the direction in which all his lifetimes are taking him. but I’ll do my best as this is an area many people are interested in but unclear about. and in some lifetimes you may well end up less developed overall than when you started. It is possible to objectively. more accurately. etc. causal) of mind and matter below the Great Void it does so as a large Group Soul. Now. Your understanding is still best based on your intuition and your meditative experience.g. usually this is something of huge scope or wide application such as “the joy of service” or “acting strongly. However. And no amount of make-up or plastic surgery will be able to hide it. That makes a total of 26 parts. 5. This Group Soul.148 physical form. However each male-female sub-group will learn that lesson in a different way. in deference to common usage. Group Spirit instead of Group Soul. independently and originally”. one male-female pair) remains in the causal world. sometimes journeying as low as the astral but never into the physical 25 . Soulgroups. spiritmate instead of soulmate. When a portion of Spirit leaves the Father to journey into the three lower worlds (physical. each part reflecting a different aspect of the nature of the reality and so representing a different way of experiencing that reality. The remaining 24 parts (which together form the 12 male-female sub-groups) then journey into physical incarnation.
as well as almost instantaneous affinity. And ultimately this is because you are both learning a different Great Lesson in a different way. Whilst sex or a relationship with a soulmate will not be as total or as harmonious as sex (or a relationship) with your twin flame. That you don’t like. on a deep level. You will both be learning the same Great Lesson. that Group Soul will have understood its great lesson from each and every perspective possible within the created reality. And the relationship will be deeper than any other that you have had because it will have the potential to be deeper as there will be a much greater similarity between what both of you are than will have been the case with your other involvements. Nevertheless. that you. unlike twin flames. different hopes and different approaches.149 group will do so in a yang. Your twin flame is the incarnated entity whose nature is closest to your own. Thus. if you are male the female principle of your individual subgroup will be your twin flame (if you are female. everything which you respect. male way whilst the female part of the subgroup will do so in a yin. To be exact. Everything which you value. Soulmates. female way. very total and harmonious. all the ways of doing things which you have decided are best. . don’t respect and can’t see the point of. it will be the male principle of your subgroup). in all honesty. when all the individual souls come together and reform the Group Soul. all of these will be embodied in your twin flame. that which stops you merging totally with other people is that there will be aspects of their being. 12 of them will be of the opposite sex to you and 11 will be the same sex as you. whose vibration is most like yours and so with whom it is possible to merge most totally. With your twin flame the situation is different. do not agree with. Now. of who and what they are. And you will both understand each other totally and agree with each other on practically everything. usually of the 24 individual souls within the physical incarnation. can be of either sex. The person who embodies this individual soul will be the person with whom it is possible for you to feel closest. it will still be very. Hence what she is does not fit in perfectly with what you are. there will be a great feeling of closeness and mutual respect between soulmates. This is because. This is because you’re both learning the same lesson (Group Soul) in the same way (sub-group) just from a different perspective (male or female). You will both understand and respect each other and appreciate each other’s reasons for doing whatever you each decide to do. just in different bodies and so more male or more female. A soulmate is a person whose soul comes from the same soul group as your own. This is because you are two different people with different values. It is almost as if you are the same person. She is like a reflection of what you are and you are like a reflection of what she is. but in a different way.
So you see. etc. That having been said. Often more accurately this translates into: the part of your nature which is dominant at a particular time draws unto you another. if you know how. However. However. in such instances. The second thing to realize is that. Like draws unto like and each person draws unto himself others whose natures correspond to his own. for one individual soul to leave one soul group and remain separate or join another soul group. the predominant part of whose nature at that time corresponds to yours. Such liaisons are usually short-lived unless the ego personality and emotional attachment gets in the way. And yet even in such instances you will know at a deep level of certainty the truth about the relationship and the limits as to what you can feel for each other . but rare. and also you’ll be aware (though more subconsciously than consciously) that if you proceed with the relationship. Now that the necessary background knowledge has been covered we can turn the question of real interest (for most people) in this area: how do you go about meeting your soulmate? The first thing to realize is that nothing in this life happens by chance or coincidence. (though it may well seem that way to the non-mystic) and that everything in life has a reason and a cause behind it. Just don’t expect to meet all 24! Further it is possible. strive for. once the decision has been made and you are both part of the same soul group then such inharmonies will simply disappear. you can control and determine those reasons and causes. And the third thing to realize is that opposites do not attract. respect. taking it deeper. Hence two people may meet for no reason other than that they are both feeling horny that night. One of the ways in which the actual change from one soul group to another can occur is through a deep love between two partners combined with profound sex. thereby determining the effects – that which happens in your life. then the “threat” you feel towards your presence in your particular soul group could well become a reality. you really are free to choose your own path! Changing soul groups usually happens only when there is a strong connection between the lesson of your original soul group and the lesson of the soul group to which you change. it’s not unusual for 4 or 5 soulmates all to be incarnated on one planet at the same time. such a relationship is unlikely to be the most harmonious at least initially (and for initially here read “many years at least”) because you will both feel a very deep closeness to the other and will greatly respect a lot of what the other is but at the same time you will both be very aware of some very great differences between the two of you and what you each value.150 It is rare however for all the individual souls from one soul group to be in physical incarnation at the same time and it is rarer still for the ones within physical incarnation to be embodied on the same planet.
This will result in your drawing a part of your soul (your Group Soul) unto you. the more developed that you become the less divisions you will have within yourself and the more like unto your core. in order for your soulmates to enter your life you need to transcend the ego personality and be true to your soul’s purpose. And so the criteria to meet your twin flame is: get to the stage where you have learnt all that you have to learn about your aspect of the Great Lesson.151 and offer each other. become it. In other words one (or more) of your soulmates (except your twin flame) will enter your life. do things or grow. Usually. to repeat. live your destiny. Now. Essentially the criteria are the same: become your soul more than your ego personality. your deepest driving force. The difficult thing is being honest enough to admit it to yourself. However once you meet your twin flame. your partner will be drawn unto you by your soul. your deep soul. that’s it you won’t run around within the reality trying to understand things. In practice what this amounts to is being complete within yourself and completely self-sufficient. At this point. rather than by your ego personality. has been to fully and completely learn your aspect of the Great Lesson. the basic insight is that you draw your partner unto you by the nature of who you are. Therefore it is somewhat undesirable from your Group Soul’s point of view if you meet your twin flame without first having learnt all that you have to learn about your aspect of the lesson. where “who you are” means the aspect of yourself that you focus most strongly upon and so give the most energy and force to. The situation regarding your twin flame is more demanding. You’ll feel complete and at peace and so won’t have any reason to do any of these things. Once you’ve done that you’ll be completely complete within yourself and so will have no external desire . You see. So. Rather than being a person with many different aspects pulling in many different directions you will become a unified whole in which all the aspects unite and flow in the same direction. So. As this process of development continues there will come a time when the force of your soul is greater within your being than the force of your ego personality. will you become. neither needing nor desiring of anything external. You will be able to identify your soulmates by the feeling of deep and permanent closeness which will exist between the two of you and the automatic understanding that you will both have of each other and each other’s natures. most souls within one soul group will develop in this way in time with one another (give or take a few hundred years). and embody that which you are here to learn on the deepest level. in this lifetime and every other. Or in other words. get places.
Aligning yourself to your subgroup of the Group Soul does not mean that you become androgynous in any way. prevalent in some circles. which must be corrected here. All it means is that you understand the “opposite” aspect of your sub-group lesson. It is all somewhat paradoxical. more esoteric way. respect and agree with everything that she is.: the same sub-group of the same Group Soul. not to mention frustrating and annoying to many. You see. If you are androgynous. And that something is the opposite polarity of each other. This is necessary because to fully understand the yang of anything you also have to understand the yin of that thing. when you do meet your twin flame you will both be so aligned to each other that you whole relationship will be completely harmonious and absolutely total. and she will totally. Dg. Yang is also contained within yin. there would be no polarities to attract each other. just as yin is contained within yang. In relation to this there is one common error. But what we’re dealing with here is states of consciousness and yang leads to yin just as yin leads to yang. The point is that you are yang.152 or need. viz. And as you can see from the yin-yang symbol. Nevertheless. in a certain Of course. There will be no “holding back” anywhere because you will totally love. And yet it is precisely at this point that your twin flame will enter your life. love. 26 . the yang does.e. not even that of meeting your twin flame 26 . no dance to be danced. i. you cannot understand “no-mind” fully unless you also understand “mind”. the yin to your yang. neutral. (Though you may not have looked at your path from this perspective before). This insight should help you to understand the nature of karma in a deeper. this will also make the sex fantastic as you’ll be able to go deeper than you’ve ever been and merge more totally than you ever have before with anyone else. not yin nor the union of yin and yang. there are solid reasons as to why it all works in this way. shape or form whatsoever. IV-03: Tai Chi – The grand ultimate So you can understand the yin to your yang simply by going deep within your own yang itself. The thing to understand though is that you are both so aligned to each other not so much because you both came from the same sub-group of the same Group Soul but rather because you have both done a lot of work on yourselves to align yourselves to the same thing. you can get there the quick way by focussing on attaining a state of complete detachment in your meditation. Incidentally. respect and agree with everything that you are. For example. For there to be any point to your meeting your twin flame there would have to be something for each of you to offer the other. not to become complete in what you are not. What is required of you is to become complete in what you are.
if you want to meet your twin flame the thing to do is to focus on mastering yourself and so also (thereby) mastering the physical reality. success and good things is internal progress. For you see. So. . have some yin within it – and needs this yin to be complete within itself – but it is most definitely firmly yang in nature. In fact. Nothing ever accrues to deficiency. Or to put it perhaps more accurately. Running around looking for your twin flame won’t get you anywhere and you’ll just waste time running in circles. it is worth nothing that because of how it all works you won’t meet your twin flame until you’re pretty much ready and able to leave the physical reality (or to remain within it only because you choose to do so). only by being definitely yang in this way is it able to complement the yin and dance with it (or vice versa). meditate. Hence the completeness and unity of being that is necessary to meet your twin flame. giving and taking will be the same thing for you will both in a very real way be the same thing and so you will feel no distinction as to who is giving and who is receiving or indeed between giving and receiving themselves. It will all simply be. to be blunt.153 sense. meditate and live life as a meditation. essentially what is necessary to meet your twin flame is to learn everything about your great lesson that you can within the physical dimension of reality. In actual reality there is no white dot in the black tadpole or black dot in the white tadpole. the classical yin / yang symbol is represented as it normally is in order to make a metaphorical / philosophical point (roughly that which has just been explained above). to make you feel good about yourself. So meditate. And if you are in a relationship and demanding things from the relationship or from your partner then neither is your partner your twin flame nor will your twin flame come into your life until you’ve developed more. It is from a position of abundance and completeness that you will attract your twin flame – and that your twin flame will attract you – and so you will both seek to give as you both overflow rather than both demanding and seeing what you can take from the other because you both lack and are deficient within yourselves. Finally. if you are looking for your twin flame to make you happy. the fastest and surest way to external happiness. And so. as usual. You demand from others only that which you yourself lack or are unsure of and from such a position of lack your twin flame will never enter your life. And how could it possibly be imagined that sex would ever be any fun with an androgene anyway?! Hence. to make you complete or to give you a sense of comfort and security then you won’t find him (or her). This is because.
given or received. Consequently you realise that there is no need to change yourself or others or to attach conditions to your love because you are one already. that they are in some way separate to each This indeed is the “function” (when viewed from the higher planes) of all the lower planes of creation below the Great Void and of all beings and everything else within them. Or. it just is. whilst you probably won’t choose to live your life solely as an expression of love in its purest sense. whilst the reality is separate within itself. The best way to fully understand love’s deepest. joy etc. between you and everything and indeed between every part of the universe and every other part. 27 . oneness. purest form is equivalent to sameness. However.154 6. at a very deep level (viz. Love is not something to be attained.e. more accurately. To repeat. union. Even if they both give to and receive from each other continuously and simultaneously still there persists the belief. nor between you and God. union. purest nature is to meditate deeply on the nature of the Sach Kand aspect of God (see the section “Going for conception after a tantric session” for further details on the nature of the reality and the aspects of God). deepest sense. that of the Sach Kand aspect of God). worked at. always be pure love. it is worthwhile experientially understanding the purest. Nor. love in its deepest. At this level a degree of separation exists as the love is given from one entity and received by another. the perception within themselves. this level is quite esoteric and hard to grasp. often combined with a higher or a lower admixture of other concepts/emotions such as attachment. Nor is this a temporary state – since its very beginning and for as long as it continues to exist the nature of this universe will. nor between you and anybody else. There is no difference between you and the universe. i. You will certainly find it a most blissful and illuminating experience. At this deepest level love is equivalent to sameness. oneness. deepest nature of love both for its own sake and also because every other form of love is just a more or a less dilute expression of love in this purest. would such an approach be a whole and complete way in which to live: there are other aspects to the Godhead other than pure love and mankind’s “function” as it were is to express and develop these aspects of God in a variety of different ways through a variety of different combinations. 27 Nevertheless. without judgement of any sort. At a less but still deep level love is equivalent to acceptance unconditionally given. you are everything just as everything is you. Love and its nature At a very deep level all is one and there exists the realisation that you are a part of everything just as everything is a part of you. harder still to apply and live in practice in this physical world.
29 Kal is the Lord of the causal plane of existence.”…” for more information on this topic. At a more superficial level love is equivalent to approval. why then is this Earth life and indeed life in the lower three planes of the creation as a whole something of a school where lessons are continually presented to each individual soul and the more that you progress and master these lessons. unjudgementalness. And that the true nature of tragedy is forseeable inevitability embodying unfortunate consequences (though you won’t see these consequences as unfortunate if you’re completely unjudgemental. unconditional love is quite a high state of being and definitely one worth aspiring to and trying to embody along with its correlate. That is to say they are run by Kal. And Kal’s heart is closed for he understands not love nor its nature. Even if the other makes what you yourself perceive as mistakes. consequently. The reason for this is very esoteric and has to do with the exact way in which the creation was projected from The Source. make his own decisions and subscribe to his own beliefs and values. the exact way in which the creation was able to be projected from The Source. valued and loved. of the three lower planes of the creation below the Great Void as a whole: the causal. The reason as to why this is not the case is that the three planes below the Great Void are Kal’s domain not the domain of Sach Kand 29 . and. See the section “Going for conception after a tantric session” on p. Please note that unjudgementalness and uncondtionality means that you accept the other as he/she/it is without the desire to make him like (the same as) you nor to help him progress/see the light as this often phrased. And you only perceive them as mistakes from within the context of your own psyche and value system which is. the better your life becomes and the happier and the more harmonious you are as a person? If indeed the lower three planes were truly an expression of unconditional love then there would be no such thing as progress and self-development for all states of being would be equally accepted. Nevertheless. different – embodying different priorities. even if those “mistakes” harm him. if unconditional love is unconditional and allows and accepts. 28 As a brief sidenote here there is the question of why. 28 . loving completely unconditionally).155 other. to a judgement that this person / event / idea is one which you agree with. the astral and the physical. On one level they may be harmful but on another level they are rebalancing aspects of that person’s psyche and so are a necessary part of his evolutionary path. are an expression of his nature. one “Psyche” by the way comes from the Greek ψύχη and means “soul” so we return once more to the chakras and their balancing and mastering. of necessity. True unconditional love accepts completely and allows the other to take his own path in life. Suffice to say that God needs and learns from mankind (and the lower three planes) just as much as mankind (and the lower three planes) needs and learns from God. different understandings and different goals – to his psyche.
a desire to restrict and limit another person (in order to make them like you are and so attain sameness. Either because he / she / it is like you or because he is as you yourself would like to be. union with them. is that unconditional love is permanent and lasting: it will not be diminished by anything they do or fail to do. Once they experientially realise. Conditional love is. only conditional love which is experienced. romantic love is usually conditional and consequently intrinsically temporary for its being given is dependent upon certain conditions being fulfilled – and one’s state of being is continually changing on all levels during one’s sojourn in the three planes below the Great Void. This is because. will as time goes on develop in different directions. conditions which originate within your own psyche. it helps them on their way towards an understanding of unconditional love and also because. you already are one with everything and everybody and so embody and express love in its purest form every second of every day of your existence. the deeper nature of love and each soul’s efforts towards it is evident here). and you can only give it to them whilst they fulfil yours. better than no love at all and often serves a useful function in many people’s evolutionary path. once they feel. firstly. This is conditional love – love which is given only if certain conditions are met and fulfilled.” syndrome). in the same direction. it is more often the case that your two natures. to the same timescale thereby enabling you both to fulfil each other’s conditions on a continuing. However. that another can love them just as they are then it becomes a whole lot easier for them to love themselves. from the point of view of he / she who receives it. Now. which is given and received. your two souls. love conditionally given to them often acts as a powerful motivating factor pushing them to develop and progress (the “I’ll love myself and/or be loved by others if I become better / smarter / thinner / richer etc. Of course in the latter case love unconditionally given to them would be a better solution as it will usually help them to attain a state of self-love far more swiftly than any form of conditional love they could be given. with your values. for those who have yet to attain selflove. Yet they can only give conditional love to you whilst you fulfil their conditions. the great thing about unconditional love. The thing to realise about conditional love is that it is a form of judgement. within your own subconscious.156 which is harmonious with who you are. ongoing basis. You may get lucky and you both evolve in the same ways. You see. at the level of the conscious ego personality it is. in whole or in part. by anything that they are or that they fail to be. for most people. Although at a very deep level within you. If this is the case with you and your partner then take what you each have to offer the other and enjoy the time . This is what usually occurs when soulmates get together or when the lovers are from two different yet closely connected soulgroups. however.
your deep souls and your paths in life will begin to push you both to each take your different directions and any attachments. In terms of permanency such a conditional love would be best founded upon the nature of your partner’s deep soul. every moment of it. deep personality. of course. no longer have much which you value to offer each other. When you both have such unconditional love for each other then no vows. the one which most people try to follow at least at first. or what most people would call the true. For you will always love each other no matter what. Things such as external life conditions.157 you have together. for example. Ultimately however no such measures are of themselves of any use or value. when you don’t fulfil their conditions and they don’t fulfil yours. through marriage vows. with gratitude for the magic moments you had together and without bitterness in your heart or regrets in your mind. is to try to layer some sort of permanency over their conditional love for each other. spoken words and even actions are often more the flows and eddies of life’s . then go with the flow and take your own path with detachment. difficulties and an increasing dissatisfaction within you both. If you do want a particular love relationship to be very long-lasting the only true solution is to make the love on which it is based permanent – and that means unconditional. attachment or other restrictive measures will be necessary. possessiveness. Far better to go where life is taking you. possessiveness or other restrictions which you’ve layered over yourselves will only serve to build up tensions. Perhaps a practical version of this solution for life on Earth would be to initially get together with your partner on the basis of conditional love and then work towards developing unconditional love the each for the other. most often in this lifetime but maybe several lifetimes down the road. vows. as your paths diverge and you no longer are well matched. possessive love etc. Such as. hard world. Life was originally intended to be enjoyable and easy after all – it is only humans who choose to make it difficult and a trial. At which point your natures. and no matter what he/she becomes or what you become. you will always deeply. If your love for each other is conditional then there will come a time. unconditionally love each other. Such attachment is understandable for even conditional love is a very pleasant. it is important to realise that staying in a particular relationship or situation only due to a sense of obligation or duty is neither going to make you happy nor is it going to help you to truly progress spiritually. So that no matter where your partner’s life takes him or her. Then. very intense. very precious experience for most people: it is a deep indication that another approves of who and what you are (which helps you yourself to build your own self-love) and it also means that you no longer feel all alone in this cold. while it lasts. and yours you. The other alternative. Finally.
In this context the thing to realise about love. begins to accumulate in the body feeding upon all the body’s other energies to sustain itself. difficult periods in their lives (due for example to hard transits to their natal charts) during which their actions. any love. longer-lasting and of greater value? If love has to be in some way conditional – and it does seem that for most people on this Earth at least romantic love does have to be in some way conditional – basing that love on the true nature of your partner’s deep soul serves to make that love as long-lasting and as unconditional as is possible. sustains. such as awareness. words and life conditions and even they themselves will appear to others in an actively unfavourable light that is far from being an accurate representation of their true nature. keep. more profound. as it cannot express itself through the attainment of the person or relationship situation which it is directed towards. Which one do you think is deeper. lifts higher and makes more joyous both the giver and the receiver. for most people on this Earth. primarily about limitation and learning how to overcome it. Indeed when it is said that people fall ill of a broken heart – be it physically or just an emotional state of deep melancholy and amotivation – what in fact is happening is that they have built up a large forcefield of attachment within their own souls which. possess and control the object of your love . always originates within your own soul and remains connected to nothing but your own soul. The Earth life is. This means that all attachments – of whatever form – will always use up your own energies thereby decreasing the energy you have with which to live freely and happily.158 unseen forces being expressed rather than an accurate reflection/expression of the fullness of an individual’s true. Plus it’s one thing to fall in love with someone merely on the basis of the external motions they are going through and quite another thing entirely to fall in love with them on the basis of the true nature of their deep soul. after all. As such attachment will always be fuelled only by your own personal energy. however. Attachment. the less energy you have for other things. At any rate. within the context of a romantic relationship. deep nature or soul. is that it always connects both the giver and the receiver directly to the Sach Kand aspect of God and as such nourishes. It would just be a shame if you failed to recognise a partner who would be ideal for you just because you were so caught up in focusing on superficial impressions that you ended up giving them more weight than the nature of his or her deep soul. Attachment combined with conditional love is always a hard and difficult mix to live with as the attachment will push you towards wanting to hold. The more energy which is used up in attachment. And everybody goes through hard. along with loving conditionally the other big difficulty which most people tend to introduce into their love lives is loving with attachment.
Not that such an emptiness can ever be filled by loved poured into you from the outside. more loving by nature. What few people tell you or know is that the way to attain detachment is to realise that love comes from within you not from anyone or anything external. Again it’s a question of unconditionality. Please bear in mind that loving and being able to love relates to receiving love as much as it does to giving love. Although the first step is usually learning how to give love. the more open and developed that your heart chakra is (and also more generally your energetic system as a whole) the more you can love. That one is fairly common knowledge. how to love yourself and accept being loved by another. learning how to receive love is also important and a part of true balance. is detachment. The solution to attachment. That and learning how to receive love into yourself. Consequently you don’t need to do great things. Many people are quite happy and comfortable with giving love yet remain very judgemental as to who they are willing to accept love from. It’s an internal thing and has to do with your own understanding of love. You see. So once again it’s a question of disharmony within your psyche. the more that you are able to love. become a better person. your deep personality. is already there inside you. and a thousand times more. . Once you realise that love comes from within you then you no longer crave after and need love to be given to you externally for all the love you could ever possibly use or desire. be involved with a particular man or woman or hold on to your partner in order to be loved. with different parts of your soul pulling you in different directions.159 whilst the fact that the love is conditional will both make you insecure that the love will at some point no longer be given to you aswell as making you continually critical and judgemental within yourself of your partner as you seek to ascertain whether he/she still fulfils the conditions you have set in order to give your love. Both due to the mechanical aspects of it all (more love energy can flow through a wide open heart chakra than through a small and fairly closed heart chakra) and also because by opening your heart chakra more you fetch yourself closer to the Sach Kand aspect of God and so make your soul. In practical terms essentially what is involved is opening and developing your heart chakra thereby allowing the deeper levels of your being to flow into the more superficial levels of your being. At any rate such internal work is well worth undertaking for a strong self-love is important both in itself and also as a basis for loving others. This in turn frees you to enjoy any love given to you from outside for its own sake rather than to grasp after it as you seek to fill an emptiness inside of you. of course. yourself and how it all works.
aligning the one to the whole. very spiritually developed state of being in which your whole being flows and acts in perfect harmony and without any regrets or tensions within itself. irrespective of what you are or are not. a form of self-love: the unconditional acceptance of your ego personality and its desires. As you progress in this process you should come to the realisation that even regarding your own self love does not have to be (conditionally) based on anything and that you don’t need any self-love insecurities in order to be motivated to progress and develop. too. You no longer have to be careful with your love (as you no longer need to be loved in return) and you no longer have to be stingy with your love (for it overflows from within you). Rather than.160 Anyway. Once you do get to this stage you will probably come to understand one final very important thing about love: namely that love is not compromise or self-sacrifice. not in order to love yourself or be loved. irrespective of what you do or do not do. uniting. You progress just because that is the harmonious flow of life.e. Thereby resulting in the various levels of your being all pointing in the same direction. possessiveness etc. desires or belief structures. once you do love yourself. you see. The next step in all of this would be to learn to love yourself unconditionally i. desires and ego personality.). becoming one. to love every aspect of your being. It’s a question of letting your deep Spirit purpose flow outwards to determine the nature of your thoughts. freely love others as love begins to overflow from within your being outwards into the world. desires and actions to effortlessly flow with ease and pleasure due to your loving acceptance of . and so have a lot of love inside you. it then becomes possible to truly. Love is perfect and idealistic and so too therefore is any relationship which is primarily an expression of love (as opposed to attachment. loving yourself in all your totality including what you may now perceive as your weaknesses or bad points. emotions. what you desire is. loving another as a sort of request to be loved in return. It is of course very distinct from merely indulging desires which you feel / know on a deep level are in some ways unsuitable or unhealthy for you yet which you go ahead and do anyway due to your being in the grip of restrictive or compulsive emotions. Thereby allowing your life. more. It is this sort of love given from overflow which is the first step towards learning how to love freely and unconditionally. Doing what you will. to accept. Initially a more practical approach may be to love your whole self as totally and as unconditionally as you can aswell as loving your strengths and good points even more on top of that in a conditional love sort of way. And thus allowing your Self to see. This is a very advanced. including your ego personality. as most people do nowadays. At the same time work on improving your weaknesses and bad points so that you may conditionally love them.
161 them and the life process on all levels – as opposed to having your desires. power and detachment. That is to say. inharmonious ways. for example. thoughts. want in a relationship and so the form that relationship should take and with whom it should be. through your relationship with him/her you progress towards a greater understanding. There are other aspects to God also and they too need to be expressed within a relationship for that relationship to feel fully complete to you. it is not enough on its own. and so a greater embodiment. emotions or beliefs compelling you to act in fixed. power and detachment. You see. of the qualities of God. Know thyself though and be aware that just maybe this is not the case for you and what you are really looking for in a relationship is to be helped towards a greater understanding of. and more importantly. No compromise and no self-sacrifice will be involved on either partner’s part for neither of you will have jagged aspects to your personality or compulsive/restrictive desires. I would also add that true humility means submiting yourself to God's will. when you do love yourself unconditionally in this way and your whole being flows with ease and with harmony then. Again see the section “Going for conception after a tantric session for more information on God. habits and emotions controlling you and living your life for you. a perfect relationship is not just a question of finding a partner with whom you are perfectly matched but also. It most emphatically does not mean denying the enormity of your greatness. the specific characteristics of the plane which your Spirit is from will determine which of the aspects of God are most important to you. If your entire life you’ve always been very different from those around you in a subtle and unemotionally compulsive way then it is probably worth your time meditating on where exactly your Spirit originally came from in order to help you clearly see and understand what you really. Nevertheless. the higher planes of the creation and the nature of it all. 7. you will both be able to do exactly as you want in your relationship together and yet the results will always be perfect. which aspects you draw towards and need to feel the most. As the Spirits of most people in incarnation originally come from the Sach Kand plane of existence most people will indeed feel love to be the most important thing for them in any intimate relationship. provided that your partner is at a similar level of self-development. effective action. at the deepest level. Namely: courage. Finally there is the consideration that in any relationship love alone is incomplete. Loyalty. the purpose of the Spirit within you. a question of both partners being internally balanced and developed themselves. At any rate. fidelity and freedom .
And to be honest you shouldn’t desire to either because it is taking you to good places. who is fighting against it and trying desperately to remain limited and constricted because you enjoy the comfort and familiarity of the cage. It is only your resistance to the flow of life and lack of harmony with the lessons of life that cause you to make it hard on yourself. bitter break-up with your current partner in order to be involved with another partner.162 Just as everything that comes into your life does so to teach you something. Then again. Just as you cannot stop a river in full flow by swimming upstream you cannot stop the flow of life by swimming against it. forcefully and almost unstoppably pushed towards it. if you resist the change and fight against the flow of life you will be pushed more forcefully and more powerfully towards where you have to go. What this means is that if you are involved with one person in this lifetime and yet also have to be involved with another then you will be either gently encouraged towards it or. for both them and their partner. Very often. You don’t have to have a messy. So you see there is very definitely a purpose and a direction behind all the changes which your life is encouraging you towards. you in your higher aspect will have decided a long time before you ever came into this lifetime to be involved with more than one lover or partner during this lifetime in order to learn different lessons over the course of this lifetime. as ego personality. And this includes all your lovers. But if you believe that such a course of action is necessary then that is the course that your life will take. regrets and bitterness is to . is trying to make you free. You don’t in fact need to break up at all. Remember. And just as is the case in all other areas of the Earth life. on the highest level life and the entire universe wants you to be free. The bearing of all this on fidelity? Well for most people it is simply not intended to be the case for them to be involved with only one partner in this lifetime. if it is part of you path to be involved with more than one partner the way to avoid heartache. What you can do however. It is you. life was never meant to be difficult. partners and your spouse or spouses. And the more they cling to their emotional attachments and their concept of fidelity the greater will be the physical turmoil in their life and the emotional pain in their hearts. No two people are the same and you will usually learn very different things from your involvement with one person than you do from your involvement with another. is decide in which part of the river to swim and whether you’ll enjoy the trip. so too everybody who comes into your life does so to teach you something. better places. if necessary. In other words. You can lean the lessons of life the easy way or the hard way but learn them you will.
163 simply not subscribe to the theories of monogamy and fidelity. because of everything that she is. the deeper. this does not mean that you cannot be incredibly loyal. the reason for this correlation is that the greater your internal balance and . flow with and appreciate this situation too. You do not own her and she is sovereign over her own life. meditate. after you have learnt what you had to learn from the other you should be able to love your original partner more – and in a more harmonious way – as you will have developed yourself through the lessons you learnt and so your capacity to love will have increased. However. honest. And generally superb sex seems to produce a very harmonious relationship between the two people involved. You love her because she is who she is. 8. Only then will she have the freedom to truly blossom into all that she can be. if you are involved with another in this way love them too. strong and supportive (but never as a crutch) to those you love. all of this goes very much against the social norms currently prevalent to which the vast majority of the world is unthinkingly attached. Of course. true love. Treating your partner well The greater your own internal balance and development (and/or that of your partner). There is room enough in your heart for the entire universe if you allow it. feel and think on the issue and then make up your own mind. You may have things to learn from somebody else and you may well end up involved with them and sleeping with them but that doesn’t mean that you therefore have to love your original partner any less. whilst appalling sex seems to be indicative of problems in many other areas of the relationship also. Then again. And. of course. Indeed. And if it does in the end work out that you’re destined to spend a lot of time with only one specific partner and learn a lot of things from that partner then enjoy. There are no shoulds or should nots. Or do you think that there is room enough in your heart for only one person? This is not so. Love. So let her live it. As for your partner? She (or he: what follows applies to both sexes just as what preceded did also) too has her own path to walk and her own lessons to learn. is unconditional. the more profound and the simply better the sex between the two of you will be because it will be easier for you to align to each other and to do so to a deeper level. You do not love her because of what she does or does not do nor because she is willing to bend to your will and so give you a little sense of triumph or security. For yourself. this whole book goes very much against the accepted way of doing things so that doesn’t really concern me too much. On a deeper level. Love allows and accepts.
Mystically. the greater will be the extent to which you treat your partner well. will be the Mars and Sun chakras and. respect. satisfies and helps them and that which doesn’t – very well indeed. opinions. generally. will be the Venus and Moon chakras. the two major points of contact.164 development. This does not mean indulging your partner’s every wish and desire and allowing them to make a puppet of you. To be able to do this entails knowing your partner. on a man’s soul. It might help to know that. In practice what this usually amounts to is that men want to have sex and to understand their partner and what she has to offer / teach them in a logical sort of way. that which pleases. Essentially the lesson which has to be learnt is to not treat others as you would they treated you. emotions. that would be very bad for both of you. but as they themselves want to be treated. on a woman’s soul. understand and will like. the extent to which you are able to treat your partner well. and apply your developed awareness to getting to know the nature of your partner’s soul. whilst women want to love and to understand from their partner in an intuitive sort of way that they are cared for / guided (and people wonder why there is misunderstanding between the sexes…). your own desires and conceptual structures. the less will be the force that they have over you. Instead you will focus on your own demands and what you will offer your partner will be things which satisfy these. desires and actions are an externalization of your internal state. The more you master your own soul. behaving towards them in a way (mentally and emotionally as well as in terms of physical words and actions) which they can appreciate. and so the easier will it be to clearly and unjudgementally understand the nature of your partner’s soul. desires and levels of development and that which satisfies one soul is unlikely to completely satisfy another. in terms of sex and relationships. issues and desires that you won’t be able to even begin to be aware of the true nature of your partner or what he or she truly wants or needs. More specifically though what you really have to do is devote some time and focus. Nor are you deliberately avoiding understanding and accepting what you . The unjudgementally is important: you are not looking into your partner’s soul in order to judge it and thereby “rank” your partner. What it does mean is treating them in a way which will truly satisfy their soul. their needs and desires. If the degree of your development and mastery is but very limited then you will be so caught up in your own forcefields. As should be obvious by now this has a lot more to do with knowing the nature of their subconscious patternings than with catering to any more conscious conceptions of their personality or external patinas as to what they are which they present to the world (and sometimes to themselves). This is because all of your thoughts. Everybody is different with their own individual needs.
an effect is still noticeable but this effect is not externally very evident at all. harmony and satisfaction to be possible. And both partners will find that they receive from the other what they truly want. So by using the techniques contained in this book it is possible to increase your basic energy level many times over. more developed aspects. the less it will be affected by other external energies such as those associated with illnesses. and what you consider to be the negative or less developed aspects of your partner’s soul are as central to their being as what you might consider to be the more positive. not to be made happy. not because it is demanded but because it is offered. hard situations and around sick people without . understand and then use your knowledge of both. If you pour it into the bucket of water the effect will be very significant. but really. In a low energy state you and your energetic system are much like the bucket of water: contained within definite limits and easily affected to a great extent by external influences. Bear this in mind and it will help you not to get stuck on that which you are receiving from your partner. as you help you will find that you are helped. If you pour it into the ocean however. to serve not to be served. most separates judgement (Saturn chakra) from understanding (Sun/Moon chakras) is love and acceptance (Venus chakra). It is not. And as you remember. as you love you will find that you are loved and as you make others happy you will find that you in turn are made happy. to love not to be loved. it is sexual energy which is the basis for all the other energies in the body. you will find that you receive. at the end of the day. the effect on the ocean as a whole will be very limited and won’t really change the ocean’s nature much at all. In practice what this means is that you will be able to be in stressful environments. markedly changing the nature of all the water in the bucket and being very externally noticeable. Yet as you give. Yet again the reciprocity and harmony of it all becomes evident… 9. Internal balance. If you pay attention. to help not to be helped. It’s rather like taking a bottle of dye and pouring it into a bucket of water or pouring it into the ocean. There must be some sort of equality between partners in order for balance. as you serve you will find that you are served. sexual energy and health The stronger your own personal energy. in the mistaken belief that understanding is equivalent to judgement. Look at. quite literally. to make others happy. what it is important to realize is that you are here to give not to receive.165 judgementally consider to be the negative aspects of your partner’s soul. but always remember that that which.
any of them having any real effect on you. All of these do have an energy to them and this energy will affect you (normally) but because the quantity of your energy is so much greater it will be rather like pouring dye into the ocean. And if the energetic effect is limited, the physical effect is limited. Further, using awareness and conscious intent (which you will have also developed as a result of these practices) it is possible to completely block any external energies, preventing them from having any effect on you at all. Or to remove them from you energetic system once they have attached to it. All of which will lead to your not really falling ill, either from externally contracted pathogens or from more internally caused (e.g. stress-related) diseases. Regarding the latter however, a degree of internal balancing is also necessary. It’s not going to be much use making yourself pretty much immune to stressful situations if you yourself are still essentially an angry, hostile, stressful person. Once all of this has been established all that remains is to pay attention to your emotions and mindstates to make sure that no karmic negativity is filtering through. If it is, work at softening, limiting and de-energizing it. Regarding such types of illnesses what you probably will experience if you are using the esoteric techniques is that during the few days preceding the normal scheduled onset of the illness you will, in some vague way, not feel 100%. The actual onset of the illness itself will, however, be unlikely unless it is very heavy, powerful karma indeed. And even then you will have markedly softened it and reduced the extent of its effect. Finally, another reason as to why it is wise to combine the conservation and generation of sexual energy with internal balancing techniques is that an increased quantity of sexual energy will make you more awake, more aware, and all of your sensations will be more intense. Consequently, any hard, negative emotions coming into your life will also be felt more. It’s not that they will actually come into your life with more power, it’s just that you will be more aware of them as they do so and so will feel them more. This in itself will probably be enough to encourage you to work more at balancing your internal environment, but if you are already aware of this need for balancing and of how to do it then the whole process can be effected with much greater ease. And as should be evident by now, the internal affects the external: a developed, harmonious, stress-free internal state is far more conducive to good health than is an imbalanced, undeveloped, emotionally torpid internal state.
10. Tastes and odours
The internal condition of your body will determine the qualities of your bodily secretions and odours and whether they are pleasant or unpleasant. Diet does play a role in this and you should pay attention to the effect which what you eat has on your bodily odours and on the nature of your bodily secretions. In this respect, by far the most important factor, as a rule 30 , is to limit your food consumption both in terms of quantity but also in terms of food groups eaten, particularly within one sitting. All digestion involves enormous effort on the body’s part and the more you overload the body’s digestive system the more will it be forced to work and so the more will be the toxins released into the body as a whole, whence one of the ways in which they shall leave is through the fluids your body secretes e.g. sweat, saliva, sexual fluids. The more you limit your food consumption, the less will be this effect and so the purer, the sweeter-smelling and the sweeter tasting will your bodily secretions be. This is not a recommendation for you to go off and starve yourself – the chances are if you immediately stopped eating altogether you’d probably die quite soon. And, until a certain level of esoteric development has been reached, a full balanced diet is necessary to the healthy functioning of a strong, fit body. However, the more that you refine, upgrade and purify your mind-body-emotional system the less will be the physical food necessary for its upkeep. Both absolutely and in terms of the heaviness of the foods you eat. Your desire and emotional compulsiveness towards foods will also decrease – you will actually want and enjoy a more limited, smaller diet. As an example, in the West, vegetarianism is becoming increasingly popular as people don’t actually want, don’t desire, to eat meat. Amongst yogis, it is quite a common practice to live on fresh fruit alone. More extreme diets are also possible. As you reduce your diet in this harmonious, balanced, gentle way you will notice the amount of toxins within your body steadily decrease. Leading to your becoming a happier, more peaceful, more stress-free person. As well as 31 markedly improving the taste and smell of your bodily secretions. Of course this process is greatly helped by eliminating, or greatly reducing, your intake of obvious toxins such as coffee, cigarettes, drugs and alcohol. Living on a starvation diet of three cups of coffee, 20 cigarettes, a couple of gin and tonics and a bowl of brown rice a day ain’t going to make you a happier, purer person. You don’t have to eliminate these things altogether – your body is probably well able to cope with one coffee, or a cigarette or a glass of wine every few days, and heck, you might even enjoy it. It would definitely help to keep you from becoming too serious and self-righteous, which are more important
Because you should by now be well past the stage that you need to be told of the importance of eating only healthy, wholesome, unprocessed foods 31 (consequently…)
considerations. But the regular or excessive intake of such toxins is a very different matter. The solution, of course, is to increase your awareness and pay attention to your body to see what it can easily cope with and what it can’t, what overloads it. And then modify your food and stimulant intake accordingly. The last of these more external factors which must be taken into account is the use of cosmetics and bodily products such as soaps, shampoos, moisturizers, deodorants, etc. Nearly all of the commercially available variants of these products, including those labelled things like “natural” and “organic” contain large amounts of petroleum-based, aluminium-based and cetyl alcohol based ingredients. Now petrol and the like may by some generously broad definition be considered natural but your body doesn’t like it and if you apply it to your skin some of it will be absorbed through the skin into the body. And all this stuff is very, very poisonous to your body. It takes a huge amount of energy and effort on the body’s part for it to get rid of these toxins. And like all toxins which must be removed from your system they leave via the bodily secretions which includes sweat, saliva and the sexual secretions. So your breath smells worse, your sweat smells worse and your mouth and genitals taste and smell worse. So guess what? You then use more of the toxic cleansing products to mask and “remove” these tastes and odours, thereby making the problem worse! And the cycle continues as the companies get richer. It may make sense for them, but it doesn’t for you. The solution is to stop using these products and find natural alternatives. A good rule is to not put on your skin anything which, in smaller quantities, you wouldn’t be happy eating. Instead of moisturizing creams use a light natural oil such as sweet almond or macadamia nut. Such an oil can also be used to shave with. Instead of deodorants, use a mixture of water and lemon juice or water and ethyl (cane) alcohol. In terms of toothpaste at least find one that is fluoride free 32 or use alternatives such as salt or a plain wet toothbrush. In terms of soap find one that is as natural as possible and use it as little as possible. If your system is internally very clean there will be little that needs washing off externally, and for what there is plain water should suffice. You could also try using a little of this soap on your scalp and afterwards applying a little light natural oil to your hair as conditioner. Natural alternatives to chemical-loaded shampoos and conditioners are the hardest of them all to find: I’m not aware of a single one which is available within Europe.
Fluoride is a by-product of the aluminium processing industry and one of the most toxic substances known to man. It’s really good at fucking up your immune system and making you dimmer. Nor does it help make your teeth stronger: nearly all modern research – except that funded by those with an axe to grind – shows that fluoride actually weakens your teeth. But some old myths die hard.
Bear in mind that when you first stop using these products it will take a few weeks for your body to clear out all the toxins that have built up within you due to your continued past use of such products. During this time, as you will lack their strong chemical masking effect, you will probably become more aware of your own natural taste and smell, and won’t like it too much. Have patience, use your natural alternatives and shower regularly using just plain water. Within a week or two you’ll find that all these chemicals, lotions and potions are not only unnecessary but your skin, hair, mouth, scalp and body are actually far better off without them. More important than any of these more external considerations though (unless you are really off at the deep end) is the control and purification of your emotions. For most people there is nothing which pollutes their internal environment anywhere near as much as the heavy energies of their negative emotions. Things like anger, hostility, disapproval, depression, fear and so on. All of these will strongly affect the qualities of your bodily secretions, particular if they are intense or ongoing. You may be a non-smoking, vegan teetotaller but because you are also a very serious, depressed, hostile type of person you need to take two showers a day, use a whole lot of aromatherapy oil and yet still you smell unpleasant. So at the end of the day the answer is still: balance and master your chakras, balance and master your chakras, balance and master your chakras.
11. ASP and the spiritual path
In order to increase your awareness it is necessary to massively increase your energy. The mindforce is fuelled by energy and in a very real way is energy. Most people simply do not have enough energy in their system to be aware beyond a level which would mystically be considered a virtual coma. The easiest way to bring about this increase in energy is to conserve the sexual energy and then redirect it upwards. It is important though to ensure that you have enough sexual energy in your system for its redirection to make a significant difference. The great outwards drainage of sexual energy through ejaculation or menstruation that most people nowadays subject themselves to produces just too great a loss of sexual energy for any fast, significant spiritual progress to really be possible whilst it continues. Sexual energy is just too basic, too fundamental to the human energetic system. No matter what other energies you draw in, if your sexual energy is low it will be very difficult indeed to increase your awareness to any real degree.
celibacy is not the only option for those on the spiritual path. melding chakras or soulmerging. you are engaged in an operation as delicate as entering the state of Enlightenment for the first time this minimal effect may well be sufficient to disturb the focus in your mindstate enough to prevent any real attainment. The techniques covered in this book allow you to continue to have sex and not only not lose any sexual energy. not only does not help your spiritual progress but actually actively harms it and your health.) When. Such. emotions and mindstate. Essentially. is the case when you are going for Enlightenment. and is living it. their focuses and their energies. this is when you wish to rapidly change your consciousness to learn the lesson of a specific concept or plane and so need to maintain a strong focus on that concept or plane without any distraction. (Provided. In which case sex with them. in some instances. and your mindstate. And so celibacy would be recommended. Otherwise the sexual energy will begin to stagnate. The one exception to this general rule is if your partner has already attained that which you are aiming to attain. but actually end up with more than you started with! Nevertheless. causing all the other energies in the body to stagnate which will not only mean that there is no real increase in awareness but also will produce great dormancy as well as great tension within your system with corresponding negative effects on your health.170 It is not enough though to merely stop ejaculating or stop your periods (the latter of which it is also possible to achieve by merely drawing – as opposed to transmuting – large amounts of energy out of your sexual organs). however. and your emotional state. the same holds true if your partner has not . for example. there are times when. once the ejaculatory urge has been mastered and the ability to orgasm inwards and upwards has been developed. with the effective practice of some sort of transmutation technique celibacy does become a viable option and. or even better a soulmerge. Of course. depending on your sexual partner. you take the necessary precautions such as guarding your chakras. Also. The reason is that whenever you have sex with someone you will to some extent be affected by their desires. unless you’re doing something like exchanging energies. celibacy is still the best option for spiritual progress. would greatly facilitate your spiritual progress. It is for this reason that celibacy (for men). whether you are a man or a woman. However. without the practice of some sort of transmutation technique. Some sort of transmutation of the sexual energy is also necessary. is even to be recommended. of course. pre-refining any energy you draw in and not having sex with anybody who has very heavy or very low energy. this effect will be minimal and not enough to produce any significant impact on your spiritual progress. Normally.
instead of feeding the visualized image with the too-valuable-to-waste-in-this-way sexual energy. not to the time during which you are doing all the necessary preparatory work for it. the techniques of chakric melding and soulmerging can prove especially useful. personal progress. In terms of your personal esoteric development though the use of sex magick practices can be quite disadvantageous due to their tendency to rely heavily on external ritual and to focus on drawing in and controlling energies which. the most effective way to do things is always Do note that this recommendation applies only to the period during which you are focused upon attaining Enlightenment itself. learning from the nature of your partner’s soul is one thing but if it is more objective realizations and states of consciousness which you wish to attain. And after Enlightenment? Well. more effective ways to attain all that can be attained through sex magick practices. detach and maintain the focus 33 . It is like the old Taoist adage states: “Before Enlightenment. In this. there are other better. In terms of spiritual progress. Not that long really to go without sex. very systematized focus characteristic of sex magick will tend to detract from the pleasure of the sexual act itself and hinder its deepening. Sex magick. carry water. 12. carry water. Besides which.” In other words live life before Enlightenment and live life afterwards. if properly practiced. in your thoughts. 33 . Creative visualization practices are also an option but. comparatively. Regarding internal. In terms of the sexual practice itself. emotions / desires and in your actions. it is wiser (and can be more effective) to power it up using external. you will have increased your awareness and gained some significant understanding of how the universe works. If you’ve done the necessary preparation this key period should not last long at all: a matter of days or a few weeks at most. are very low-level. plane-related energies. Whilst you are aiming at attaining Enlightenment though. but sometimes they are more internal in nature. A good idea would be to apply these things in order to attain a conscious understanding – and mastery – of the human experience itself. If it is external-world results which you wish to produce then cut to the core of the issue and maintain a strong focus on those results.171 already attained the state which you are aiming for but is sincerely focused upon attaining it. provided he or she does not have any real heavy karma in his or her soul. After Enlightenment. More often these results relate to the external world. all of the very external. the most effective way to do so remains to go it alone. as in life. does work. Sex magick What sex magick usually involves is the use of the sexual process and energies in order to attain specific results.
most focused and most direct. the longer it takes to travel and the harder is the journey. After an excessive focus on emotions and desires. if either of these areas and their associated techniques interests you. . Still. see the annotated bibliography where there are a few recommendations regarding them and sex magick in general. The more you complicate the path. the main thing which binds souls to the lower planes (physical.172 the way which is simplest. astral and causal) is an excessive focus on knowledge and conceptual structures.
present in an easily-readable. as well as others by the same author. clear form the vast body of information which constitutes standard “new age” theory nowadays. narrative stories / documentaries and don’t really contain any techniques. Do be aware though that most new age stuff tends to get lost playing about with astral and causal factors (though they often do not perceive them as such) which is why most new agers don’t tend to ever get anywhere and are usually somewhat ineffectual.173 Extras and Appendices Annotated bibliography and other resources In this section are detailed other information sources dealing with sex and related topics. my recommendation would be to not take any of the new age stuff too seriously nor devote much time or attention to it. more or less. They are. General esoteric information The Magus of Strovolos Homage to the Sun Fire in the Heart all by Kyriacos C. If they did The Aralzon Institute would not have bothered to produce a book on the topic. Do note though that with regards to sexual theory and practice (and to a lesser extent also with regards to metaphysical theory and meditative practice) all the other sources out there put together do not even come close to the depth and scope you have found in this book. Markides These books cover a lot of basic mystical knowledge in a quick. Joshua David Stone These books. At any rate only the best of what’s out there is listed here. So when looking at the other information sources given here be gentle in your judgement of them. aswell as other braches of esoteric knowledge. take what they have to offer you and don’t concern yourself with focusing upon their omissions and inaccuracies. Techniques are included. The Complete Ascension Manual Soul Psychology Hidden Mysteries all by Dr. . clear and easily readable form. As such.
intense and highly transformative process the main effect of which is that afterwards you will no longer need to eat or drink anything whatsoever: you will automatically attain all your nourishment energetically. This book does contain a lot of new age fluff but it also tells you how to undertake a fast. translated by Thomas Cleary A good story containing enough hints on traditional high-level Taoist training principles to enable you to figure out which techniques they used for yourself.jasmuheen. Children of the Matrix: by David Icke. Highly recommended. with a little meditation and a nicely open third eye. Because what is actually going on is so far removed from the standard representation of what is going on this book is best used to make yourself aware of the alternative possibilities. And Jasmuheen herself is a very clear.174 Pranic Nourishment also published as Living on Light by Jasmuheen. Correctly. The Magus of Java by Kosta Danaos. Children of the Matrix details how society. pure. meditate on the techniques necessary to develop the powers talked of in the book. well-explained and accurate. politics and economics work in the world today and who controls what. Well written and easy to read. most of the inaccuracies are contained in the parts talking of distant earth history. Clear. from which point you can meditate . Opening the Dragon Gate – The Making of a Modern Taoist Wizard by Chen Kaiguo and Zheng Shunchao. This book is available at metaphysical bookshops and from the website www. It is easily his most accurate book yet. Though this book does not contain any secret techniques it does talk of the Taoist seventy-two levels of esoteric power and mastery.com. if you wish. It’s an interesting and easy to read story and you can later. developed and open-hearted person (even if her conceptual structures do need a little work…) – unlike many authors on metaphysical subjects nowadays who talk the talk without having first learnt to walk the walk. Recommended. It is chapter 14 which contains the relevant information. Further. The Tao of Natural Breathing by Dennis Lewis A book on how to breathe. Despite his penchant for excessively serious crusading and accidentally humorous pronouncements. David Icke has managed to put together this book which is incredibly accurate for someone with no conscious psychic ability. being around 80% correct and is far more spot-on than anything else out there.
You might also want to check out Hans Decoz’s numerology website at www. Germain A book dedicated to the subject of soulmates and twin flames. some through analogy. Do note though that the information given in this book regarding the reptiles and the rituals they engage in is pretty much 100% spot-on. many such higher-plane entities who are just looking for an excuse or an invitation to kick some illuminati butt. It is quite a good book on the subject though it does lack details on the technical aspects of how it all works. The films contain a lot of solid and accurate mystical knowledge. As an aside it’s also worth looking at “The Matrix” film trilogy from which Children of the Matrix derives its name. There are many. Astrology Astrology Really Works! by The Magi Society The Magi Society is the one astrological organization which uses and teaches a form of astrology based predominantly on planetary geometry as opposed to traditional astrology’s somewhat unfortunate .davidicke. Also note that many of David Icke’s previous books did not attain the accuracy of this one. Germain. You might want to take a look at the David Icke website at www. and even download some free numerology software.com from which you can purchase numerology computer software.com.decoz. Numerology: The Key to your Inner Self by Hans Decoz with Tom Monte.175 on the factors involved and ascertain the truth of it all for yourself. Twin Souls and Soulmates by St. some of it stated explicitly. If you do decide to check them out in your meditation be aware that they have strong psychic abilities so be circumspect in the way you go about it and be ready to do forceful psychic battle if necessary. is very astral in nature – unsurprising considering he is currently residing in the astral plane and this book is channelled material – so do expect insight beyond the normal but not anything exceptionally deep or profound. This is the best. If you are engaged in psychic battle with them and are having difficulties merely ask for help from higher-plane warriors. St. The understanding embodied by its author. being only between about 30%-50% correct. the clearest and the most insightful book available on traditional Western numerology.
focus on horoscopic houses and zodiacal signs. Due to their focus on planetary geometry The Magi Society’s form of astrology, which they refer to as Magi Astrology, is actually consistently accurate and produces consistent, statistically valid results. In Astrology really works! The Magi Society set out to scientifically prove their form of astrology using methodology very similar to that sometimes utilized by genetic scientists. As well as comfortably succeeding in this project they also manage to communicate substantial valuable astrological knowledge in a clear, concise and direct way. Plus their books are easy to read and easy to understand which is always important. If something is hard to read or hard to understand it indicates that the author does not understand his subject matter in any deep way and / or is unable to effectively communicate what understanding he does have. Astrology really works! is currently out of print but there are plans to re-release it in the near future. Highly recommended. The Magi Society Ephemeris (1950-1999) by The Magi Society The majority of this book contains tables listing astrological information such as planetary positions. But the first 128 pages contain some very valuable, though quite advanced, astrological information with regards to midpoint conjunctions which they call Magi Quads. This was the first book by The Magi Society I ever encountered and I have to admit I was impressed because I’d never even considered looking at midpoint conjunctions before even though they are a form of planetary geometry. So my thanks to The Magi Society for teaching me about these, and also other aspects of astrological knowledge. Also my thanks to them for undertaking to teach the public a valid, accurate form of astrology and so saving me from ever having to undertake that large, time-consuming enterprise. Highly recommended. Magi Astrology: The Key to Success in Love and Money by The Magi Society. Probably the most accessible of the Magi Society’s publications this book explains how you can use astrology to choose very auspicious dates to found companies on, start jobs on or get married on and thereby help to guarantee the success of such enterprises. It also reveals how to accurately astrologically analyze any relationship so as to know ahead of time the most likely outcome of that relationship and what the pluses and minuses of it will be. As usual with The Magi Society’s publications lots of examples are included and a lot of accurate, to-the-point astrological knowledge is presented in a clear, concise, easy-to-read format. Very highly recommended.
www.magiastrology.com: This is The Magi Society’s main website on which you can find free lessons on Magi Astrology, a link astrologically explaining virtually every celebrity relationship and other useful and valuable astrological information. On this website you can also find out how to purchase The Magi Society’s astrological software “Magisoft”, how to become a member of The Magi Society, and follow links to other astrological websites run by The Magi Society, such as www.stockmarketcompass.com which deals with financial astrology and www.magicalmarriage.com which deals with the astrology of choosing a good wedding date. www.astrodatabank.com: a good website to go to if you’re looking for birth data i.e. when exactly particular famous people were born or when exactly important things happened. Essays on Astrology by Robert Hand. Robert Hand is probably the most thoughtful and incisive of the prominent traditional astrologers practicing nowadays. He is also willing to be original and thinks for himself which is rare and valuable in any field of inquiry. In this book chapter 4 entitled: “Handling the Malefics” is particularly worthy of attention. Planets in Composite by Robert Hand. This book covers the techniques and interpretations of the composite chart, a valuable astrological tool in understanding relationships. As usual though I’d recommend focusing on the composite planetary geometry rather than any considerations of house or sign placement. Planets in Transit and Planets in Youth by Robert Hand. Two more good books on astrology by Robert Hand. Astrology for Dummies by Rae Orion. Despite the title this is the best introductory text to traditional Western astrology out there.
Eventually The Aralzon Institute will release a full astrological programme for free distribution to the public via our website at www.aralzon.com. We probably won’t have everything ready to do this
until around 2008/2009 though. Meanwhile the current available options are: Starlite: The Starlite programme is available for free download from the website www.patterns.com. It is a very basic programme with no printing capabilities (though you can of course always press the “print screen” key on your keyboard and then paste it into Word and print from there…). Still as far as basic astrological programmes go it is quite good, and it is free. If only the Kepler programme produced by the same people was as good value for money. Kepler: One of the main astrological programmes out there this one is unfortunately the least practical and least useful of all the main astrological programmes. I say unfortunately because they do provide the Starlite programme for free which is laudable. The good points of the Kepler programme are the report writers which come bundled with the programme for free and the astrological lessons included in the “Avalon College” section of the programme. However, overall I’d say choose another programme instead. Solarfire: Quite a basic programme considering it is sold at the same price as, and marketed as, a mainstream “full” astrological programme. The good point about Solarfire is that you can animate the chart i.e. get it to move forward steadily day by day. Solarfire is also well put together and fluid to use. But its limited capabilities make me recommend Winstar over it. Winstar: Probably the best mainstream astrological programme out there, though it does take a few days to learn how to use it smoothly. It’s worth the effort though as you can do pretty much every astrological search and calculation with this programme quite easily. It’s relocational astrology mapping capabilities are also the best, and the best presented, out there. Also if you buy Winstar you get the basic astrological programme Winstar Express included for free. Leaving the clock box open on the Winstar Express programme enables you to animate a chart a day, an hour or a year at a time which is useful for choosing electional astrology dates. Magisoft: On the one hand Magisoft is undoubtedly the clearest astrological programme out there due to the chart form it uses which enables you to clearly see the planetary geometry of a day without houses getting in the way. Also the declinations are graphically displayed and you can animate a chart by any time increment you choose. The ability to
easily change which sorts of aspects are displayed on-screen is also useful as is the listing on-screen of when exactly each aspect becomes (or became) exact. Magi quads and midpoint crossings can also be easily calculated and displayed which are not attributes any other astrological programme has. Also you can buy versions of Magisoft with the best heliocentric and progression calculation abilities out there, as well as the most accurate interpretive text. On the other hand, Magisoft is very expensive for what you get: the full version will cost you over US $700, though you do get membership to The Magi Society included for that price. Also, it is not the smoothest, slickest programme out there. Very functional it might be but finesse it does not have. It’s programmed in Visual Basic, believe it or not (at that price!). And it doesn’t have an atlas, can’t calculate composite charts and has very poor printing capabilities. The conclusion then would be that if you’re really interested in astrology and / or in learning from The Magi Society, or if you have lots of money to spend, then Magisoft is worth the money as your first choice of astrological programme, simply because it is functional enough with a sufficiently clear on-screen display and has the calculational abilities to enable you to easily do most of what needs to be done in geometric astrology. If however your financial resources are more limited or you’re not that interested in astrology then Winstar does have pretty much most of the calculational abilities of Magisoft, is slicker in use and presentation, and cheaper. You can find details on how to buy Magisoft on The Magi Society’s website at www.magiastrology.com. There are a few other astrological programmes out there but I have not tried them and so can’t really comment. At any rate, the ones listed here are the main options out there. Most astrology programmes can be purchased over the internet via the website: www.astrologysoftwareshop.com.
Cosmology and meditation
The Path of the Masters by Julian Johnson. This book gives details on San Mat, a system of meditation based on the sound current and Spirit travel which takes you to the higher planes of existence up to Sach Kand under the guidance of the San Mat Master who is the current Avatar from the Sach Kand plane of existence on Earth at this time. Further, because the San Mat Master will feed you all of your physical and lower-plane karma (in the gentlest way possible) within three lifetimes of the current one, being initiated into San Mat
your courage. India or from the San Mat representative in many countries worldwide. whose Spirit in this cycle of incarnations originally came from one of the planes above Sach Kand) and are considering the San Mat path my advice to you would be: “Stop being such a spineless pussy.” Limpwrist. Paul Twitchell founded Eckankar a system of meditation and Spirit travel similar to San Mat in that being initiated into it and practicing the techniques given to you will enable you to travel to the higher planes. what you came here to do. Eckankar books are available for order from high street book stores and amazon. and then start doing what you’re supposed to be doing. The Tiger’s Fang by Paul Twitchell This book gives details. . a “way out” for them. The Shariyat-ki-Sugmad by Paul Twitchell A more textbook-like description of the higher planes and the nature of the reality from the Eckankar organization. I’d say they erroneously consider some of the sub-planes to be full planes in their own right but perhaps this is just a matter of perception or interpretation. However. because the Eckankar Masters cannot control karma in the necessary ways being initiated into Eckankar does not guarantee that you’ll be able to permanently stay in the higher planes should you wish to. Just visiting the higher planes would not be enough – your lower-plane karma would pull you back down. though I leave it to you to locate these latter.com. Punjab. and is only suitable for.180 enables you to leave the lower planes permanently if you wish. more independent and developed way to attain the higher planes beyond the Great Void open to you. Beas. So if you yourself are such a person (viz. of the planes of reality and their nature. in the form of a spirit-travel narrative. Further. Also included in this book is accurate esoteric information on the nature of the creation and the planes of existence. you’ll also have greater responsibilities – and therefore also rewards and external life conditions – open to you which it is part of your incarnational contract to fulfill. San Mat books are available direct from the organization’s headquarters which are based at The Radha Soami Satsang. Go find your balls. Such Spirits will usually be on their first cycle of incarnations and San Mat is. essentially. there will be another. One important point to note though is that the San Mat path is designed for. If your Spirit in this cycle of incarnations originated from one of the higher planes of the reality than such a “cop out option” is not for you. those whose Spirit originally came from the Sach Kand plane of existence in this cycle of incarnations.
This is the full version of this text. As you may have gathered from the description of the chakras’ natures given in this book the Ancient Greeks knew what they were talking about esoterically. This book is written by Goswami Kriyananda who is the soul who in the entirety of creation understands and has the ability to control karma best (though perhaps he has yet to fully realize this…).yogakriya. with the information given to you in this book you should. Beginner’s Guide to Meditation Intermediate Guide to Meditation both by Goswami Kriyananda. Highly recommended. concise exposition of the nature of karma and the ways in which it works. the first of which Meditative Practice and the Nature of the Reality is due for release by around 2008. Which will give you access to a far deeper and more correct source of esoteric information than what is available in the books published on metaphysical subjects nowadays. Philosophy / Life Wisdom That which distinguishes true wisdom from man-made ethics is that true wisdom reflects the laws and forms of creation and so is practical. happier and internally peaceful.181 The Laws of Karma: A Deeper Insight into the Esoteric Teachings of Kriya Yoga by Goswami Kriyananda About the only available clear. The best introductory books on meditation out there. Both of these books are available from the website www. An abridged version is published as The Penguin Dictionary of Classical Mythology.org. The full version is a lot better. Wisdom does not restrict and hold back – it frees . with a little insight and meditation. Living in a truly wise way will make your life easier. easily be able to decode the Ancient Greek myths for yourself. meditation and other areas of mystical practice. is available from the website www. detailed. This book.org.yogakriya. both from a theoretical and also from a practical. though they tended to disguise everything in myth and allegory. The Aralzon Institute has plans to release several books on cosmology. techniques-given point of view. like all books by Goswami Kriyananda. However. more flowing and more harmonious and you yourself more developed. The Dictionary of Classical Mythology by Pierre Grimal as published by Blackwell.
that the clearest exposition of Aristotle’s life wisdom is to be found. an undefeated Samurai duelist. easy-toread. imbue your beliefs and values with a validity that you are unable to arrive at for yourself”. who believe that truth and wisdom can only come from serious. All the books recommended in this section contain true wisdom. 7. poetic and covering virtually the whole spectrum of the human experience from children to work to friendship. rather than in his overtly ethical works. as with everything. searching-for-truth point of view which is what gives his material the substance and depth that is totally lacking from most later and modernday philosophers. This is a short book which is especially worth looking at if you want to better understand the practical workings of the Erechtheus chakra. The Prophet by Khalil Gibran. Specifically see Book I.182 you and lifts you higher. very balanced and very open Erechtheus chakra. Concise. Many people. simple. It is actually in this book. Aristotle does not look at life from a moral point of view but rather from an inquiring. Very highly recommended. To them I say: “Lighten up and learn to think and assess for yourself rather than needing to have your ideas and values given to you externally by authority sources which. professional. The best book out there on this topic. The Book of Five Rings by Miyamoto Musashi The Shambala edition translated by Thomas Cleary is the best English edition out there. you believe. Rhetoric by Aristotle The best translation is to be found in The Complete Works of Aristotle published by Princeton University Press. The key. 9 and 11 and Book II. lived his life predominantly from a very developed. chapters 5. is to work on your self. chapters 2-17. Watchmen by Alan Moore This is a graphic novel which essentially is a large comic book. authority sources will therefore probably consider it beneath them to find insight in this book. Plus I’d probably have a wry smile over their . Beyond Good and Evil by Friedrich Nietzsche The key to understanding this book is to realize that its title is completely appropriate: for the entirety of the book Nietzsche is talking about how to progress beyond good and evil. Musashi.
In all of these capacities. simple book about following your dream and not giving up or compromising. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho An inspiring. Rorschach and even Dreiberg (who represents the position that perfection entails being very human and as such acts as something of an counterpoint to the others). Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman Despite the somewhat crap title this book contains a lot of solid. way. in terms of wisdom. And great fun. the sexual experience. cannabis has been used by many cultures and peoples to enhance. easy-to-read and quick to understand.183 very earnest seriousness. cannabis can also be used to enhance such things as jelqing practice. Very highly recommended. right down to the depths of his being. cannabis is indeed a very effective and useful tool. substantial wisdom and insight all presented in a readable. The key to fully understanding what this specific book has to teach you is to look at each of the central figures as an examination in a particular approach to human perfection. And Socrates (the mentor in the book and not the Ancient Greek philosopher) truly was a warrior in his own way. Let me say at the outset that sex and cannabis often make for a great combination: sex is pretty much always superb when you’re very high. vaginal muscular development exercises and dan-tien energy gathering. As such this book would be incomplete if the use of cannabis to enhance the sexual experience was not considered. though not 3rd eye meditation and the like. Aswell as its specifically sexual applications. aswell as when used specifically sexually. the value of a work is determined neither by the respectability of the medium in which it is presented nor by the degree of established authority of its author(s) / creator(s) but by the amount and the depth of the wisdom it contains. The thing to realise is that. at times humorous. Cannabis Throughout history. especially as a whole scroll is devoted to its consideration in the original text of the Kama Sutra. and so fully understood the real nature of the warrior’s path (at least from the perspective of where his particular Spirit originated from). Not only Jon and Veidt but also Blake. or at least alter. Another point worth bearing in mind is that if your partner is sexually bland and unskilled – and too lazy to learn the techniques given in this book – then using cannabis prior to beginning the . and nowadays also. Well-written.
easier and quicker to use cannabis to help you to reach the heights and the depths of the sexual experience it is not necessary. at least initially. For a start. The residue of marijuana smoke is a lot faster to clear from your lungs than the residue of tobacco smoke. It does so by making superficial images come more easily. Indeed I would say that at the higher levels of sexual practice and mastery cannabis use is a hindrance rather than a help. Finally on this point please be aware that you do not need to use cannabis in any way in order to derive the maximum pleasure from the techniques contained in this book. but cleared it should be. sometimes all you need is an understanding of the superficial sort and there are even times when such an understanding might well serve you better than an understanding of greater depth. So . if you first attain a good degree of mastery over the sexual process and then try sex and cannabis together the results will be far. and during. although it is. So cannabis use is best avoided for 2-3 weeks prior to. Also. Though. it is unwise to allow yourself to get to the stage where you come to rely upon the use of cannabis in order for the sex to be good. but this is at the expense of the deeper levels of comprehension which become less accessible due to the energy held in them being moved to the aforementioned superficial levels. of course. any period of your life when a naturally deep. if you do decide to smoke cannabis. At any rate. or even desirable to go about things in this way.184 sexual session will make that sexual experience a lot better than it otherwise would have been. Another important consideration is that. That would be a form of dependence and so a restriction of your own freedom. Further. it would be wise to perform 15-30 minutes or so of Chi-Kung the following day in order to fully clear the undesirable effects that smoking cannabis had on your lungs. which is never a good thing. As always though I leave the final conclusion on this score to your own personal insight and experimentation. unforced understanding is necessary or would be useful. and it is easier to clear it more totally. be they natural or “medical”. far better than if you just went straight into stoned sex with no real understanding of energies. do bear in mind that smoking or otherwise consuming cannabis does limit and constrain the free and full operation of the third eye. A better approach of course would be for you both to put the requisite effort and time into developing your sexual skills and capacities independently of cannabis or any other external “enhancement” drugs. indeed they often flow freely of their own accord (if you’ve got access to quality product that is…). Or find yourself a partner with a greater level of sexual skill and expertise. your own body or the deeper workings of the sexual and orgasmic processes.
nowadays. Simmering the cannabis in butter over a low flame for 10-20 minutes or so however will work very well indeed. Regarding personal use. habitual use is. On another note. strength and type of high. cannabis is illegal and its use is subject to legal and moral censure.185 use your own insight and decide for yourself when in your life cannabis is best avoided and when you are free to indulge. as ever. . the choices are Amsterdam or breaking the law (which. cannabis use is not an issue in which I personally want to get too involved but if you yourself do wish to do so then you’ll get the most out of the experience if you go about it in a knowledgeable and well-informed way. Regarding those involved in the enforcement of the current legal position on cannabis. be aware of your own body and what it can handle and then decide how high you can go on the basis of that. mainly by the various seed companies. Still. this time written. accurate guide on the market on how to cook with cannabis in such a way that ingestion of the finished products will make you high. Whilst occasional extreme use (provided it is within your personal capacity) can be useful and productive.e. My personal take on the whole issue is unjudgementalness and the belief that people should be free to do what they like provided they don’t harm others in the process. is a terrible thing to do for your government always has your best interests at heart). Recommended. some time in the near future (within the next ten years) cannabis will be fully legal. it would seem. to be avoided. in most of the world. of course. their flavour. At any rate. The Cannabible by Jason King A guide to the various strains of cannabis out there by probably the world’s foremost cannabis gourmet. Until then. be aware that even though you are “just doing your job” that is not a mitigating factor and you are generating some very heavy karma indeed for yourself which will “mature” (i. a good. The Art and Science of Cooking with Cannabis by Adam Gottlieb This is the most concise. The Big Book of Buds by Ed Rosenthal et al Another guide to the various strains of cannabis out there. However. The recommendations given here should help you in this process. The chief consideration in this process being that the active ingredients in cannabis are fat-soluble not water-soluble and so making tea out of it won’t work. have to be paid) very soon indeed. clear book for all that. freely available and untaxed across the world.
coffeeshopdirect. importantly.worldsexguide.186 The Marijuana Chef Cookbook by S. then you’ll probably find the following websites to be useful. concise and simple style and is. in many parts of the world. And personally I quite like hookers finding them as a rule to have more open hearts and to be a lot more honest (both to themselves and to others) than many of today’s women who don’t formally work as prostitutes. At any rate if you’re interested in prostitution or are looking for a good hooker / brothel / massage parlour etc. Recommended.org – main site . Many would consider the cannabis dosages included in the recipes to be on the small side. friendliness and the like. well-presented book. And again those doing the censuring and the judging are generating significant heavy karma for themselves. The majority of the grow books out there are too long. Marijuana Grower’s Guide by Mel Frank A more detailed look at marijuana growing including information on both indoor and outdoor cultivation. atmosphere. rating each one in terms of the quality and variety of cannabis sold. too complex and include information probably only of interest to the commercial grower. www. competent. www. though for various esoteric reasons (which this really isn’t the place to go into) this karma is nowhere near as heavy as that generated by those involved in the legal censuring of cannabis. direct. Prostitution Another area of human experience which is.T. It is written in a clear. generally. Oner Similar to the above book but with more emphasis placed on the culinary as opposed to the psychoactive part of the process. short. I myself am. Thanks to the site’s administrators for providing this service to the world for free. Kiss of the Sun – The Natural Marijuana Garden by John Alexander A book telling you all you need to know about growing your own cannabis outdoors. Nevertheless a clear.com A guide to the various coffeeshops (cafes where cannabis is sold and consumed) in Amsterdam. on the side of freedom in all areas that do not directly harm anybody else. subject to moral and legal censure.
for providing this excellent resource to the world for free. even recommendations on specific girls. as well as some more general nonsex-related information for the foreign visitor to Thailand. However. It is updated regularly and also contains information on prostitution in other areas of Thailand.com Another free site giving superb. everything is well organized and the site is well run and it is all right up to date all the time. printable map of the red light district and details on which streets specific nationalities of girls can be found in the “windows”. well-organized information on the prostitution scene in Amsterdam including a downloadable. Many thanks to Stickman. for providing this valuable service to the world for free. This site also offers information on the coffeeshop scene in Amsterdam. the site’s administrator. longer and it’s usually easier to find what you’re looking for. the sort of quality available. What prices to expect. Many thanks to the site’s administrators for providing this excellent resource to the world for free.wsgforum. Sacred Geometry . and they can also book your hotel room for you (the small commission they get from doing this helps to keep this free website up and running so booking your hotel room through them is a good way to say “thank you” for the superb free information they provide). www. Does this justify paying for access? That probably depends on how frequently you travel the world to go whoring and how much you like websurfing. Jackson. amongst other things. many thanks to the site’s administrator.com This website is similar to the world sex guide except that you have to pay for access and a lot of the information posted is better written.stickmanbangkok. www.tsmtravel.187 www. www. Many. contains the best and most complete information on the large and varied Bangkok prostitution scene. It will probably take you a little while to find exactly what you’re looking for because the material on the site is all contributed by the public.com – posting forum including the most recent information (and without any porn banners) This website is free to access and contains information on the various prostitution options available pretty much the world over.com This site. in the “naughty nightlife” section.ignatzmice.
And they know that. All such proportions are derived from. including the physical universe. And also how both the vaccine and the cure already exist: they were created and fully tested well before AIDS was ever released. As a consequence certain geometrical proportions are to be found in every aspect of the natural world. The recommendations given in this section serve as good introductions to sacred geometry. conciseness and the exceptional depth of understanding of their author which they embody. Not as readable as The Ancient Secret of the Flower of Life but concise and technically accurate nevertheless. On a side note. the illuminati may well be (as they view it) Machiavellian and beyond morality. can be found within. . is geometrically created. the nature of reality and related esoteric subjects.org If you contact the flower of life organisation personally you can also get hold of a copy of the Strecker memorandum and videocassette from them. but they are not stupid. Highly recommended. After all. You might also want to take a look at the website: www. Combined these two books contain a lot of information on sacred geometry as well as on Earth history. the flower of life – the basic geometrical design used to create the universe. which is essentially a two-dimensional representation of the flower of life within a star tetrahedron. Looking more to the future. The Strecker memorandum and videocassette detail how the AIDS virus was genetically engineered and then released into specific segments of the world population through smallpox and hepatitis B vaccination programmes. The Ancient Secret of the Flower of Life. all advanced technologies are based upon sacred geometry. a good introductory text. Sacred Geometry by Richard Lawlor Again. though for reasons of personal safety they tend to prefer to be very discreet about it all. In terms of relatively recent history it was Pythagoras who first introduced the world in a detailed way to sacred geometry. simplicity.floweroflife. at the end of the day. for the purposes of (attempted) population control. a basic understanding of sacred geometry will enable you to understand some of the layers of meaning contained within the Aralzon star / flower symbol.188 If you look at things from a certain perspective you will see that the entire reality. volumes I and II by Drunvalo Mechizedek I would consider these two books to be the best introductions to sacred geometry out there due to their readability. their own continued existence is dependent upon the continued existence of the human race.
Kilham who originally came up with the name “The Five Tibetans” for this series of exercises and not a certain German company who have dubiously registered the term “The Five Tibetans” as their personal trademark even though they didn’t come up with it! Of all the books included in this bibliography The Five Tibetans by Christopher S. written in a style which makes its content a lot more easily accessible and understandable to the Western mind than a lot of the other books on ChiKung currently available. Chi-Kung Chinese Medical Qigong Therapy – A Comprehensive Clinical Text by Dr. Kilham A superb little book giving a clear description of each exercise and also covering such things as meditation on the chakras and even upon the sound current! (which is very high-level). Highly recommended.189 The Unknown Leonardo by Ladislas Reti (editor) This book contains Leonardo da Vinci’s sacred geometrical drawings and research for those of you who are interested. The Five Tibetans by Christopher S. This book includes the exercises themselves and also the story of how they were discovered in a monastery in Tibet and then brought to the West.qigongmedicine. well-organized work. The Fountain of Youth also published as Tibetan Secrets of Youth and Vitality by Peter Kelder This is the original book which introduced the series of exercises now commonly known as The Five Tibetans to the world in general. The Five Tibetans Do note that no book or other resource covers The Five Tibetans in as much depth as is to be found in this book that you are now holding. coming in at over 1000 pages. A clear. . It is also a very large book however. Kilham is the one I would recommend most highly. It was also Christopher S.com. This book is available for order online from the website www. The very best book on Chi-Kung out there by a very large margin. And it’s a little expensive for the casual reader (though the price is easily worth it considering the knowledge and deep understanding that this book embodies). Jerry Alan Johnson A very comprehensive text covering nearly every aspect of ChiKung theory and practice.
recommended. The other ones which are . The real depths of Chi-Kung practice are however unfortunately not included here (even though the author knows and understands them). Nevertheless. to-the-point and easy to understand. The answer is that he doesn’t.190 The Root of Chinese Qigong: Secrets for Health. this book does have some good diagrams and Mantak Chi himself has done an excellent job in fetching many of the esoteric teachings of China to the West. It is just unfortunate that he does not at the moment have any real depth as a mystic or skill as a teacher. easy to learn and do work. The Mantak Chia books are. especially for beginners. He knows a lot of good techniques and has a broad range of esoteric knowledge but he doesn’t really understand the depth and import of most of it. The Art of Chi-Kung by Wong Kiew Kit A good book on Chi-kung. especially if you’re just starting out on the Chi-Kung path. This is reflected in the fact that he’s currently (2003) lost playing about with astral forces and factors even though he knows techniques which could sort everything out for him very quickly if he just cut to their essence. Certainly the techniques he presents in this book are simple. Longevity & Enlightenment by Yang Jwing-Ming This book doesn’t contain any actual techniques but is very good on the theory behind Chi-Kung practice. This book is better written. easier to understand and embodies a deeper understanding than any of the Mantak Chi books which deal with the same topic (viz. Taoist Chi-Kung techniques). concise. The Art of Chi-Kung is written by a martial artist trained in the traditions of Shaolin Kung-fu. better illustrated. Iron Shirt I by Mantak Chia Like nearly all of Mantak Chia’s books Iron Shirt Chi Kung I contains a lot of very good techniques which are nevertheless presented in such a way that it is very hard to put it all together into a coherent whole and you are left wondering whether the author actually really understands what he is writing about. so you know that his Chi-Kung practice has some real substance behind it. not really. Bone Marrow Nei Kung by Mantak Chia One of the few books authored by Mantak Chia which is clear. His openness with what he knows is also highly laudable. A Complete Guide to Chi-Gung by Daniel Reid A good introduction to Taoist chi-kung practices by someone with a good understanding of them. however. Nevertheless.
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and you may want to read around the topic a bit. However. Flicking through it every so often will probably reveal to you many little techniques and approaches to the sexual process that you had not considered before. They do not produce results on their own. importantly. In all honesty after reading and mastering the practices contained in this book there is very little to be gained by looking at the other sex books out there. Further. You might also want to take a look at pages 70-74 on aphrodisiac herbs. as techniques which are much more essential and important. this is the only sex book out there whose authors seem to fully understand the importance of vaginal muscular development and control to sexual practice: pages 91-93 and 358-363 are the relevant ones in this area. For these reasons there follow some recommendation as to the best of the other sex books out there. To do so would slow your progress and would not take you anywhere very special. a few minor pointers here and there. Also. This book presents a massive range of techniques covering pretty much most areas of sexual practice and approach.192 supplements only enhance the effects of a penile enlargement exercise regime. Also. However. Though the authors have no real conscious very deep understanding of sex they do intuitively have a very deep understanding of sex and this does come through in the book. However. compared to what else is out there. So read them with a critical eye and don’t let their limitation hold you back or restrict your sexual practice. and space. in places. frequently misguided and often downright wrong. Sex Don’t expect anything even approaching the scope and depth of this book when looking at the other books on sex out there. comparatively unimportant techniques are given the same weight. this is a superb book. The information and techniques they provide is nearly always limited. the techniques are not really organized into a coherent whole or related the one to the other so that the connections between them all can be clearly seen. non-essential aspects of the sexual experience as many of the sex books out there recommend that you do. Books on sexual practice written with an awareness of energy Sexual Energy Ecstasy by David and Ellen Ransdale Other than the book you are now holding I would say that Sexual Energy Ecstasy is the best book on sexual practice out there. don’t get caught up in focusing on the more trivial. a . there are a few little tricks you could pick up.
Such transmutation techniques are included in Mantak Chia’s overall system but not until the level of the lesser enlightenment of Kan and Li. After Sexual Energy Ecstasy. pages 220-230 on . much is missing from his books and teachings. Specifically pages 180-201 on vaginal egg exercises. With regards to this book the main omission is of any techniques actually telling you how to become multi-orgasmic. Cultivating Female Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia Not a very readable book but it does contain some good parts to it. Nevertheless. Recommended. The Multi-Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams Arava Mantak Chia has done a good job in fetching some of the basic techniques of Taoist sexual practice to the West and in making men aware that ejaculation is a separate physiological response to orgasm. Highly recommended and congratulations to the authors for coming up with one of the few good sex books out there. Jewel in the Lotus is probably the second best sex book out there. However. Nevertheless this book is one of the few written on sexual practice which displays a solid understanding of energy and how it works. Also these texts were written by people who had quite a deep. So I’d say the title of this book is more than a bit of a misnomer. A little meditation should reveal to you what they’re really talking about and what techniques they used. Many of the techniques and ways of going about sexual practice are only indirectly alluded to or mentioned metaphorically but there’s some good stuff there nevertheless and it’s all very readable. It is a pity though that the details of the technique they call “the cobra breath” is not included in the text of this book and must be learnt personally from one of their instructors as it would seem to be essential to their system of sexual practice. even if not overtly or explicitly so. recommended. his recommendation to stop ejaculating altogether without the teaching or inclusion of any effective transmutation techniques is somewhat irresponsible. Art of the Bedchamber: The Chinese Sexual Yoga Classics by Douglas Wile (translator) Good English translations of old Taoist and other Chinese texts on sexual practice. Also. which is a bit of a way down the road.193 topic not covered in the book you are now holding. profound understanding of sexual practice and this does come through in their writing. Jewel in the Lotus by Sunyata Saraswati and Bodhi Avinansha A well thought-out book presenting techniques organized into a coherent whole.
.com The Multi-Orgasmic Couple by Mantak Chi et al A well written book containing reasonable information and techniques on Taoist sexual practice. Not a very deep or profound book in any way. It also includes a few good minor techniques that you might find it fun to play with. Most of the techniques are to be found in the “General Sexuality Index” subsection of the website at www.universal-tao. It’s all well organized and there’s a plethora of information to be found here. free website containing lots of information on many aspects of sex. recommended. Books and other resources on sexual practice written without any awareness of energy www. Jade eggs for use in vaginal exercises can be ordered over the internet via the websites: www.194 different sexual positions to be used for healing different physical ailments and the Chi timetable on p. nor really original. including good details on foreplay and oral sex techniques. sexuality and related topics.org/sex. Many thanks to the administrators of this website for providing this valuable service to the world for free. a good book on the standard aspects of standard sexual practice. sexual practice.sexuality. meridians and senses.com www. Nevertheless.secretorgasm. Sexual Ecstasy – The Art of Orgasm by Margot Anand Unlike some of Margot Anand’s other books this one is reasonably well-written and gets to the point fairly quickly. 249 which details at what times of the day Chi energy is most localized in the various organs. It’s also well-written in terms of readability and Tracey Cox does have a sense of humour which is so often lacking from the oh-so-serious and sincere majority of books on sex. If only for the sections just mentioned. It does however do a good job of summarizing current mainstream sexual knowledge and techniques. Hot Sex by Tracey Cox Good title.jadeeggs.org A large. Hot Sex does read a bit like an extended article in a women’s magazine and it doesn’t have any diagrams or illustrations whatsoever in it.html.com www.sexuality. which is a bit of a pity.
Sex. The One Hour Orgasm – How to Learn the Amazing “Venus Butterfly” Technique by Bob and Leah Schwartz .195 Anne Hooper’s Kama Sutra by Anne Hooper Features photos which manage to be impressively unerotic despite the fact that they are of sexual positions. Nevertheless. written by a woman (even if that woman is called Tristan). Also included in this video are clear instructions on how to make a woman ejaculate. Recommended (for the photos alone). This book is probably the best available in its subject area and it is written by probably the world’s leading authority on the ingestion of drugs for nonmedicinal purposes. Seymore’s Squirters by Seymore Butts (director) This is hardcore pornography featuring female ejaculation. strong orgasms going. this book does illustrate a large variety of sexual positions in a clear. Masturbation or manually stimulating your partner The books in this section essentially discuss the same techniques and responses. Also included is information on herbal options for the relief of menstrual cramps and the overcoming of impotence (though as usual I would personally recommend solving both these problems energetically instead). And Seymore Butts’ pornography is always first-rate. in all honesty you would do best to ignore most of it. easy to see what’s going on sort of way. Drugs and Aphrodisiacs by Adam Gottlieb This book provides details on a wide variety of drugs – primarily natural but also some chemical / manufactured ones – which can be used to enhance or at least alter the sexual experience. The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino A guide to anal sex for women. But if you modify your internal responses using the knowledge you’ve learnt in this book and use the external manual techniques presented in these books you can get some fairly deep. I don’t recommend the version of prolonged orgasm which they advocate as it results in the loss of massive amounts of sexual energy. Regarding the textual commentary. whereas some of the more artistically accomplished books on sexual positions sometimes leave you wondering as to the details of some of the positions they present.
Sex magick I find sex magickal practice to usually be far too ritualized and to focus on the “magick” side of the process too strongly to the detriment of the “sex” part of the process.196 Reasonable. more effective ways of going about things. more suitable. Perhaps most importantly for those interested in the subject there aren’t really any exceptionally powerful sorcerers left in the world today (though 2 or 3 come close) and definitely none who are involoved in the practice or teaching of sex magick. Modern Sex Magick – Secrets of Erotic Spirituality by Donald Michael Kraig . Some sex magickal practices will be included in an upcoming release from The Aralzon Institute entitled Master and Sorcerer: The Way of the Open Hand. ESO – Extended Sexual Orgasm by Alan and Donna Brauer The best of the three whose authors have a somewhat deeper intuitive understanding of the sexual process than the authors of the above two books. A little question about the title: when is orgasm not sexual? A Hand in the Bush – The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting by Deborah Addington A book on vaginal fisting – the practice of inserting the full hand into the vagina. The recommendations given in this section then are the best of what is available but aren’t really high-level for all that. Includes clear. Extended Massive Orgasm by Steve and Vera Bodonsky After your experiences with Advanced Sexual Practices you’ll probably find the title of this book to be more than a little hyperbolic. Contains photos. step-by-step instructions on technique. Further. which some people may find illustrates the techniques involved more clearly for them. more effective energies to use in magickal workings and sexual energy is too valuable to the body and your personal energetic system to be squandered in this way. as opposed to drawings. reasonable. Nevertheless. let alone the publication of books on the subject. For real spiritual progress though – or magickal results – meditation and other solo practices are quicker. Still you might well find it fun to play around with sex magick a little bit. there are better.
Other internet resources www. www.197 A good introductory book to the basics of most aspects of modern sex magickal practice. easy-to-use. Also includes information on sex with succubi and incubi. Rather. good prices and superb customer service. This work has greater depth than the Kraig book but does not include step-by-step techniques. energy work and ritualistic sex magickal practices as well as having appendices on herbs and crystals and their magickal uses. most complete book on sex magick out there. . It covers some of the basics of tantra. U.amazon. Well organized. They ship across the world which is very useful if you are based in a country without any good Englishlanguage bookshops. As such this book is probably best used by those with prior magickal training and knowledge. This book does not really go into any depth on any of the areas it touches upon though. what is possible is outlined and the practitioner is left to figure out the exact way to go about things for himself. Secrets of Western Sex Magic by Frater. Includes information on polyfocal (orgiastic) and sadomasochistic sex magick practices.com Probably the best internet site for the ordering of pornographical videos / DVD’s and sex toys and accessories of every description. Sex and Magick by Sirona Knight Probably the best.toyboxxx. superb customer service and they ship to nearly every country in the world. Love. good prices.D.com The world’s largest bookshop with a fantastic selection.
Embodying within yourself both opposites of an attribute. . Chi – The basic life-force energy. Ordinarily. Causal – The plane of existence above the astral. Astral – The next full plane of existence immediately above the physical reality. many minor chakras also exist). Astrological aspects are measured in degrees and are valid within a certain number of degrees either side of exactness (known as an orb of influence). a specific field of character and personality. Chakra – An energy centre within the body which plays an important role in the functioning of karma.g. though it is the major chakras located along the spinal axis which are the most important. Base point – a specially sensitive point on the penis located just above the testicles and extending all the way around the base of the penis in a band about 1” thick.198 Glossary Agam Lok – The third plane of existence above the Great Void Alakh Lok – The second plane of existence above the Great Void Aspect (astrological) – A geometric relationship between two or more planets or other celestial bodies (e. The base point connects directly to the dantien. asteroids). Chi is less dense than Jing and more dense than Shen. is held. It is Chi which fuels most of the body’s organs and functions. It is within your chakric system as a whole that your deep personality. A relatively mobile and refined form of energy within the body. Balance – The state of being in harmony with the laws of creation and the order of the universe. it is primarily Chi energy which flows within the body’s meridian system. Sun. There are 12 such core chakras (though many. a specific way of living life. though it is the portion at the front of this band which is usually the most sensitive. to an equal degree (though which opposite you choose to live and express can be decided separately). Each chakra relates to a specific geometric expression of the reality. You have many chakras in your body. or soul.
Energy can be controlled and directed using focused intent. Concentration – The act of focusing upon something in a forceful. The deep point connects directly to the dan-tien and the uterus. Deep point – A specially sensitive point in the vagina located on the front vaginal wall about 1” .g. powerful. The Great Void is located between the top of the causal and the bottom of Sach Kand.1½” from the end of the vagina. in men. finishing above your head. directed way. The deep point is about 1” in diameter. Ordinarily. In women the dantien is always located at the centre of the uterus. it is predominantly Shen which flows within the central route. Focus – Gathering your mindforce into one place and merging it with one particular thing/person/objective. Dan-tien – the main Chi storage centre in the body located. e. The Great Void – A region of absolute nothingness separating the higher. make the full length of the penis more sensitive to stimulation and also greatly reduce the propensity of the penis to get sore due to large amounts of sex. from blows. attacks with bladed weapons etc. Iron shirt – The martial arts discipline of packing energy into the physical body so as to make that physical body resistant to physical damage. Jelq – A technique of penis enlargement which also serves to greatly open up the energetic meridians within the penis. Harmony – Flowing with and accepting the current of life and the universe. Energy is more refined and less dense than matter but less refined and more dense than spirit.199 Central route – a large energetic pathway running through the centre of the body and starting below your feet. Energy – The basic building block of the reality below the Great Void. about 1½” below the navel and about 1”-1½” into the body. . spiritual planes of the creation from the lower planes of mind and matter.
Milking – The contraction of the vaginal muscles so as to produce sexual sensations for both partners similar to those produced by thrusting but without any external movement being involved. What your body does with its Jeng greatly affects how your body will use its Jing. return to you. Jing is denser than both Chi and Shen.200 Jeng – A very dense form of sexual energy which is directly connected to your pre-natal Chi. Meridian – A pathway in the body through which energy flows. Meditation – The act of focusing upon something in a total yet also gentle. thought and emotion and everything that you are will. or heavier than. Much like blood flows through veins. sameness to and oneness with that which is loved. It is also important to realize that inaction and not doing something you’re supposed to do usually generates karma just as heavy as. Natal chart – A graphic representation of the planets within the solar system and their relative positions to each other at the time of your birth. Jing – The basic form of sexual energy which can be increased quite easily and used to fuel orgasm and provide enhanced genital sensitivity. any form of actual action. Mindforce – The energy of which your mind is composed. at some point. as seen from the Earth (geocentric chart) or the Sun (heliocentric chart). Most frequently refers to that energy which is held or located (even temporarily) at the third eye level. Jing is not directly connected to your pre-natal Chi. often accomplished by means of forceful breathing techniques . Packing – The act of compressing energy into the physical tissue of the body. Acceptance of. Microcosmic orbit – An energetic circuit composed of the Du Mai and Ren Mai meridians which run up the spine and down the front of the body respectively. Love – Equivalence. Essentially it can be summed up in the realization that all action. Karma – The basic mechanism by which the universe works. relaxed and detached way.
Packing energy into the genitals serves to greatly strengthen them and make them highly resilient to soreness arising from large quantities of vigorous sex. Sat Desh. proclivities. the longevity of the soul far exceeds that of the physical body. Pre-natal Chi – the basic store of life-energy given to you at birth. The sexual meridians play a very important. The body’s basic biological clock. though the Spirit is. When an entity is within a physical form its soul is predominantly held within its chakric system. very specific role in the deeper sexual process. Contrary to popular belief the soul is not immortal. desires. When it’s all gone you die. effective) practice of The Five Tibetans” for more information on this. . Sach kand – (also known as Sat Lok. As your pre-natal chi is used up you age. Expanding orgasm through this channel results in some very physical sensations. However. Sexual energy – The basic energy with which the universe is created and sustained. Soul – The full totality of the deep personality containing all the thoughts. memories and approaches of a particular incarnating entity.e. Pre-natal chi can however be increased by fetching energy in through the downward flow of the inter-chakric spin cycle. The most refined of the basic energies within the body. one of which only women have and the other of which only men have. Muqam Haq and NijDham.201 combined with focused intent and physically striking or forcefully massaging the body. It is also the basic energy with which orgasm is produced and fuelled. amongst other appellations) The first plane of existence above the Great Void. Shen – Mindforce energy. Physical orgasm channel – An energetic meridian running along the front of the body from the perineum up to the top of the head and then round to the base of the skull. See the section “The advanced (i. Sexual meridian – One of two special extra meridians. Shen is less dense and more mobile than both Chi and Jing. Within the body sexual energy can take one of two basic forms: Jeng which is directly connected to your pre-natal Chi and Jing which isn’t.
albeit awareness with certain qualities and hence a certain way of perceiving the reality. Your Spirit is almost exclusively pure awareness. Your Spirit is the part of God within you and originally comes from one of the spiritual planes above the Great Void. half male and half female. A soulgroup is a large portion of Spirit which splits into 26 individual Spirits as it descends through the planes of existence into physical incarnation. The Source is half light and half dark. and who is still a member of that soulgroup (which is equivalent to still walking the path. Realizing this we can progress beyond judgementalness. eternal part of you. still living the lesson of that soulgroup). Taoism. others later and still others will leave one soulgroup to join another. it almost never works out this way as some members of a soulgroup will return sooner. Sach Kand. beyond lower plane concepts of good and evil.202 Soulgroup – More technically accurately this should be called spiritgroup. Soulmate – a person whose Spirit originally came from the same soulgroup as yours. but the term soulgroup is used in this book in deference to popular usage. like Sikhism (and unlike all other world religions) was originally begun by a lineage of Avatars (Spirits who entered the physical reality directly rather than going through the full incarnational process) from the first full plane above the Great Void. The nature of the Source reveals that all opposites are the same thing and that for one extreme to exist so must its contrary. In practice. . all members of a soulgroup will reunite and join together once again to return to the higher spiritual plane from which they originally come. Tantra – Technically means just “practice” or “technique” but has come to mean in the West those yogic sexual teachings which originated in India. Spirit – The immortal. Theoretically. Occasionally a soulmate is someone whose Spirit did not originally come from the same soulgroup as your own but joined your soulgroup later on. The Source – The origin from which the entire creation comes. It is often represented graphically by the Taoist yin-yang symbol. Taoism – Originally an Ancient Chinese belief and practice system which encompassed esoteric and metaphysical ideas as well as meditative and other energetic practices. however. It is possible in some instances to change soulgroups by Spirit joining in a specific way during deep sexual practice.
into the head and to the 3rd eye point. live and enjoy their womanliness. Which is something that many women nowadays do need to work more upon. Zodiac – An imaginary belt around the Earth projected up into the heavens and divided into 12 equal-sized 30˚ portions which constitute the 12 signs of the zodiac. very womanly. usually at your 3rd eye point.203 Third Eye – The energetic centre located above and between the eyebrows and about ½” . very beautiful and very sexual. In this book transmutation usually refers to the changing of sexual energy into one of the higher energies of Chi or Shen. The Ancient Greek and Roman goddess of love. Most frequently this is done visually but you can fetch the other senses into the process too. Currently she is involved with helping humanity to master the lessons of the Venus and Chiron chakras and in trying to inspire women to revel in. up through the spine. Transmutation – The changing of the essential nature of a thing to a higher. though unless you’re talking to her in Greek she prefers the name Venus. Very charming. trying. to really hold the image of how a thing would feel. more refined state of being. Tracking route – Essentially this is the energetic pathway of the Du Mai meridian from the tip of the coccyx. Visualization is a useful aid to meditation and concentration. for example. Twin Flame – The incarnated entity whose Spirit comes from the same sub-group of the same soulgroup as your own Spirit. Visualize – The act of trying to form as clear a mental image as you can of a thing. . Venus – Also known as Aphrodite. Meditating upon Venus and her nature will help you to truly understand and appreciate the beautiful art of being a woman. Focusing on the third eye enables you to see and understand things beyond the confines of the physical reality.1” into the head.
Relates to the method of progress through the reality. MARS / PLUTO – ACTION AND ACHIEVEMENT. . the foundation. amongst others. Nevertheless. a conceptual outline of that understanding is possible and you’ll probably find it useful: The chakric cores SATURN / URANUS – RESULTS AND EFFECTS.204 Appendix I: The chakric cores The core of each chakra is the essence. It is for this reason. meditative state of mind with your awareness held at your 3rd eye. by now you should be at the stage where you are able to quite easily comprehend the chakras’ essential nature by meditating upon each chakra’s very core. Mastering the reality itself. as shown in the diagram below. Then place about 70% of your awareness within the core of the chakra whose essential nature you wish to understand whilst keeping about 30% of your awareness at your 3rd eye point. Relates to learning from the reality itself. The cores of all the major chakras are located at the centre of the central route. how that progress is fuelled / moved forward / brought about. Each chakra’s deepest. that the focus in this book has been primarily upon the lighter and the deeper chakric levels rather than on the chakric cores themselves. most essential nature is to be found at its core. A full understanding of the essential nature of each chakra as expressed at its core can really only be satisfactorily attained through personal meditative experience. However. detached. Almost exactly as you did in the section “Understanding the chakras” except that you hold your focus a little deeper within your body this time. and of which they are an expression. Then simply hold your focus upon that chakric core in this way until its nature becomes clear to you. upon which the lighter and deeper chakric levels of that chakra are based. JUPITER / NEPTUNE – ENJOYMENT AND APPRECIATION. To meditate on a chakric core first enter a calm. Relates to enjoying the reality and the life process within it. That nature is simultaneously both simple and complex and hard to understand if approached rationally / intellectually purely because it is so far removed from the conceptual framework of physical-world rationality within which most people’s minds are accustomed to operating and in relation to which they ordinarily intellectually understand things.
SUN / MOON – UNDERSTANDING AND INTUITION. Relates to being in harmony with the nature of the reality and at ease within it. ADMEITUS / ERECHTHEUS – IDEALISM AND EFFECTIVENESS. Detachment and self-discipline are strongly involved too.205 VENUS / APOLLO – EASE AND HARMONY. Relates to living freely and without compromise. making your dreams and values a reality. X-1: The chakric cores . Relates to understanding the nature of the reality. useful results in terms of your personality and life experience. and hence essentially transcending that reality. Relates to learning about the nature of the reality and applying that knowledge to produce practical. MERCURY / VULCAN – KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM. Dg.
Female genital – front view Dg. and your partner’s. ANATOMICAL DIAGRAMS Dg. X-6: Internal organs – front view Dg.206 Appendix II: Human physical anatomy This appendix contains some simple anatomical drawings which you may find help you to understand your own. Male genital – side view Dg. X-7: Internal organs – rear view Dg. physical body better. X-2. X-5: Female genital – side view Dg. X-3. X-4: Female genital – full frontal view Dg. X-8: Skeletal – front view .
207 Appendix III: Human energetic anatomy This appendix contains diagrams giving a simple outline of some of the aspects of the human energetic system. a lot more complex and a lot more detailed than the simple outline given here. within the human energetic system as a whole. of course. the most essential. The full human energetic system is. Essentially it is those aspects of the human energetic system used in Advanced Sexual Practices which are outlined in this appendix. X-12: The chakra system – side view . Dg. front view Dg. X-10: The meridian system – main meridians. side view Dg. X-9: The meridian system – main meridians. those energetic structures outlined here are the most important. However. X-11: The chakra system – front view Dg.
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209 Sebastian Heller [photograph] I breathe the air of freedom Though I walk the path of light. I hold darkness in my left hand And goodness in my right. .
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