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Table of Contents Foreword Perfecting Society Beautiful Leadership God: The Most Respectful Leader Rags The Gift of Sukrti Unconditional Kindness i 2 3 6 6 7 An Ideal Society A Society Without Politics Loving Management The Advisory Committee Meeting Group Dynamics Considerate Preachers Don’t Fear 8 10 11 13 13 13 13 Learning Harmony Humility Humility Springs from Bhakti Giving Like a Tree Not Asking In Return More Humble Than the Grass Offering All Respect to Others 16 16 17 18 19 19 Love and Affection Dedication to Others’ Welfare Giving up Self-Praise 21 21 23 Teachers Need These Qualities Never Retaliating The Sage and the Scorpion Never Taking Revenge 24 24 25 25 Honoring Even the Grass Respecting the Kanistha and the Deer 27 28 .

So Shall You Reap 32 32 32 33 The Vaisnava and the Prostitute We Are Not Masters to Chastise A Special Hell for Vaisnava-Aparadhis If You Have the Power Not Even In the Mind The Kingdom of Kali The Medicine to Cure Criticizing 35 36 38 38 40 41 42 46 46 47 47 Bhakti Avoids Quarrels Don’t Quarrel “I Have Not Come to Sit in Court” “I Am Not a Court” “I Am Also Not a Court” No One Quarrels In Goloka Vrndavana How Best To Avoid Quarrels Trees Don’t Quarrel The King Didn’t Quarrel Krsna Doesn’t Quarrel The Quarreling Demon Named Mura Krsna’s Friends Don’t Quarrel Krsna’s Gopis Don’t Quarrel Krsna’s Cows Don’t Quarrel I Will No Longer Hear About Quarrels 48 48 49 50 51 51 52 52 54 55 Like Red Bulls No One Else To Blame Pay Attention to This Message Freedom from Anger Considering Krsna’s Mercy No One Else Is Guilty 55 58 58 58 59 60 . and Lose the Holy Name To Surely Receive Krsna-prema On One Condition As You Sow.Criticism Destroys Bhakti Criticize.

No Revenge 80 81 82 83 85 85 87 Two Loving Brothers Brothers in the Mode of Goodness Rules and Regulations Create Peace The Uncontrolled Tongue Creates Wars 88 89 91 92 .Harmonious Asramas Bhakti Doesn’t Depend on Asrama "You Are Rotten" Polite Householders Tolerant Householders 64 64 65 66 Criticizing That Brahmacari “He fled from here” “Bring him to me” “Prabhupada is So Merciful” 66 66 67 67 Harmonious Household-Life Tit For Tat Good Behavior Brings Trust A No-Problem Household Life Controlled Senses Remove Problems Krsna Removes Problems Internal and External Harmony 69 69 69 70 70 72 73 For Peace in The family If Someone Urinates On You 74 75 78 78 Accepting Responsibility On Good Communication Hearing the Other Person’s Moods Our Problems: Not Due To Others Don’t Worry About Others’ Behavior I Cheated Them First Happy To Be Cursed Freedom from Anger and Resentment Taking Responsibility for Our Experience No blame.

Uncontrolled Thoughts Create Quarrels An Atom Bomb to Kill a Mosquito Uncontrolled Eating Creates Madness 93 94 95 A Pure Heart He Fully Depended On Krsna He Returned Evil With Well-Wishing He Blamed Himself He Controlled By Love 95 97 97 98 99 Scriptural References The Wisdom of Sastra What if I Point the Finger? Neither Friend nor Enemy For Peace of Mind 102 102 102 103 .

Musically. His approach to bhakti-siddhänta. Çréla Gurudeva is well-known for presenting the very elevated and confidential aspects of the Gauòéya Vaiñëava philosophy. He is a cutting-edge revolutionary. As an eternal associate of the Supreme Lord’s internal pleasure potency. is precise. ideas. not only in the most exalted transcendental topics. action. but to enhance the experience of the audience. and peaceable or friendly relations. and group dynamics. and scientific. The aim is not for each musician to claim more or less attention for his own part in the arrangement. our saìga is the orchestra. he exemplifies and emphasizes harmony with others and with the divine arrangements in all circumstances. We are the musicians. and his narrations of the Lord’s pastimes are enchanting. but also in basic transactional processes. relationships. systematic. agreement in feeling. and the conductor is responsible for suggesting areas of improvement for each musician. At the same time. and our worshipful Çréla Gurudeva is our conductor.Foreword The word harmony is defined as a combination of parts into a pleasing or orderly whole. he is avidly practical and down-to-earth in his approach to communication. congruity. harmony is achieved when different instruments and voices come together and work to complement one another in order to bring out the best in the entire composition. conclusive philosophical truths. what is hidden from him? What is beyond i . interests. He is deeply realized in the transcendental pastimes of the Lord. Each musician gives his undivided attention to improving his contribution to the production. and also of the other musicians. At the same time.

We published a preview of this book during Kärtika. and this present work is the revised and full edition. ii . we are very conditioned souls. although all-knowing and powerful. After publishing the preview. we did some minor editing while reviewing Çréla Gurudeva’s sound-files. The instructions presented in Harmony appear to be extremely simple. he appeared in our midst as a surpassingly humble and unassuming personality. but we think you will find that they are actually extraordinary. Your aspiring servants.Harmony his power? Yet. honored readers. The Editors On the anniversary of the auspicious appearance day of Çré Çrémad Bhakti Prajïäna Keçava Gosvämé Mahäräja: February 22. Still. to kindly excuse whatever mistakes we have made in compiling this presentation of Çréla Gurudeva’s guiding words. So we beg you. 2010. 2011 All the footnotes in this book have been written by the editors based on the explanations of Çréla Gurudeva.

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Will you tell us what is the meaning of ‘leadership?’ Çréla Gurudeva: You can learn by my example – by my life and behavior. Italy: June 12.Beautiful Leadership Çrépäda Nemi Mahäräja: Çréla Gurudeva. Venice. Don’t be selfish. Be equal to all. be broadminded. and preach. 2009 2 . you are a very beautiful leader. be kind to all.

because he was not only the most senior and expert amongst the sages. and asked about his well-being. in the course of their meeting. Lord Brahmä was very happy to see his son. the great sage Bhågu left for Brahma-loka. However. they resolved to discover which of the three divinities – Brahmä. but also the son of Lord Brahmä. and when Bhågu saw his father’s 3 . Upon hearing their request. and Viñëu – is the chief and Supreme over all. Çré Bhågu Muni entered the court of Lord Brahmä and stood in front of him. so the sages turned to the sage Bhågu Muni for help in resolving the issue. the abode of Lord Brahmä. and yet others maintained that Viñëu is the Lord of all Lords. The sages agreed that they would unanimously accept Bhågu Muni’s decision when he had personally tested each of the divinities. Some said that Brahmä is the Supreme. He did not offer respects or endearing words. was confusing. and they discussed only transcendental topics. so he acted haughtily instead of paying attention to Lord Brahmä’s words. the sage had come to test his father.God: The Most Respectful Leader [Çréla Gurudeva tells this history. Chapter Nine] We read that in ancient times. All of the three major divinities were proposed as the Supreme by the various Puräëas. Antya-khaëòa. Çiva. being born from his mind. Lord Brahmä became livid with rage when he saw his son’s misdemeanor and uncouth behavior. many great sages assembled on the bank of the sacred Sarasvaté River to perform the Vedic sacrifice of hearing the Puräëas are the sages were very learned and well versed in the scriptures. as told here in Çré Caitanya-bhägavata. others said Maheçvara (Çiva). Bhågu was the right person to make the investigation. This of course. as a son should to his father.

hobgoblins. your Lordship. not a single word of criticism about Lord Çiva would be heard from his mouth. is it proper to be so angry with your elder brother?” His wife’s wise words calmed Lord Çiva. “O Maheça. Lifting his trident and looking as if he were about to destroy the three worlds. “My Lord. However. Falling at his feet.1 After this episode. Besides that. and he felt ashamed for his outburst. you are always surrounded by unclean and vulgar ghosts. and other untouchable creatures and your own behavior is unpredictable and ill-mannered. Bhågu Muni was Çiva’s elder brother. because i will have to take a bath if you touch me!” Of course. he swiftly fled from the scene. he became very exultant and stood up with his wife. Çré Pärvaté-devé. she propitiated him. Brahmä put aside his anger. Çré Pärvaté-devé stepped in between them and caught hold of her husband’s hand. so how can you be so angry with him?” The words of Lord Brahmä’s courtiers acted like water upon a fire and. “After all. and next proceeded to Mount Kailäsa to test Lord Çiva. do not touch me! You always dress like an uncivilized barbarian. the sage proceeded to Vaikuëöha to test Çré Viñëu. 1 Brahmä and Çiva actually have no false ego. Bhågu Muni was speaking these words only to test Çré Maheçvara. The Supreme Personality of Godhead was reclining upon His gem-studded bed. otherwise. saying. you are his father and he is your son. overcome with paternal affection. Bhågu said. Which scripture recommends one to smear ashes all over the body? Stay away from me. so he approached the sage respectfully and wanted to embrace him. Lord Çiva became so enraged that he forgot that Bhågu Muni was his elder brother. When Lord Çiva saw Bhågu Muni. he rushed towards the sage.Harmony burning eyes. which could quickly reduce him to ashes. to greet him. Some of Lord Brahmä’s associates began to pacify him saying. They were simply assisting in the Lord’s pastime of instruction. Bhågu then returned to Lord Brahmä to explain everything. 4 .

2 Çrévatsa refers to marks of silver hairs on the right side of the Lord’s chest. as if under a spell. When he came out of this spell. The holy water from the bathing of your feet purifies all the places of holy pilgrimage. Today. bathed the sage’s feet and then offered him their finest seat. laugh. and swoon at the same time. Lord Viñëu told the sage. is seated as çrévatsa2. “With great happiness i will keep the dust from your foot imprinted upon My breast. the Supreme Lord immediately stood up and offered His respects with folded hands. which was free from lust. Let the Vedas declare My name as ‘Çrévatsa-läïchana’. tremble. feeling very pleased. Bhågu Muni appeared as if from nowhere and kicked the Lord upon His chest. the Lord anointed the sage’s body with sandalwood paste. With His own hands. Çré Lakñmé-devé. massaged His lotus feet. “Kindly forgive Me for My transgression of etiquette. Feeling very ashamed. Çré Lakñmé-devé. one who is marked with the sign of çrévatsa. it has purified all the kings and emperors of the innumerable universes that are situated in My personal form. greed. Çré Lakñmé-devé. 5 . he had acted under some compulsion. horripilate. perspire. in the same place where My beloved wife. he remained for a long time with his head hung down. acting as if He were an offender who was trying to exonerate Himself from His offenses. he began to dance. for i was not at all aware of your auspicious arrival. Suddenly.” The sage was truly amazed when he heard the Supreme Lord’s words and witnessed His humble demeanor. anger. The Lord and His wife. Saturated with the ambrosia of bhakti-rasa. he was overcome with joy and reverence for the Supreme Lord. May your character and personality remain forever unstained. Seeing the sage Bhågu. The actions of Båghu Muni were not really his own doing. Certainly.Perfecting Society while the goddess of fortune. indicating the residence of the goddess of fortune. and illusion.

Hare Räma Hare Räma Räma Räma Hare Hare.Rags There is not just one world – there are millions upon millions of worlds – and within all these worlds the eternal spirit soul wanders through the various species of life. he receives the association of pure devotees. “Rädhe Çyäma!” “Rädhe. Here is an example of how one becomes fortunate. “Hare Kåñëa Hare Kåñëa Kåñëa Kåñëa Hare Hare. he called out again and again. or His land (Våndävana-dhäma. begging for chapatis. What is that fortune? One becomes fortunate if he has performed any activities related to Kåñëa and His associates. Sometimes he takes the form of a human. or related to anyone or anything connected with Kåñëa. “Don’t come to my door in the future. such as Tulasi-devé. and as he was begging he constantly called out. if he is fortunate. and just as before. sometimes a tree. otherwise i will break this stick on your back! Always remember this! Don’t come to my door!” However. She did not want to hear “Rädhe Rädhe” or “Hare Kåñëa. Hare Räma Hare Räma Räma Räma Hare Hare. Rädhe!” One day he went to the door of an old lady who was in a very angry mood. rice. Rädhe Rädhe!” He was simply absorbed in chanting. Rädhe. “Rädhe.” 6 . Rädhe Çyäma!” or “Rädhe Rädhe. The Gift of Sukrti Once there was a Vaiñëava saint who used to go from door to door. the Vaiñëava returned the next day at the same time. saying. Navadvépa-dhäma or Puré-dhäma). and sometimes a creeper or an animal. or any other foodstuff. Rädhe!” and “Hare Kåñëa Hare Kåñëa Kåñëa Kåñëa Hare Hare. His temples. in the course of his wandering.” or “Rädhe Çyäma.” and in fact she rebuked him. He wandered throughout Vraja-maëòala.

” That day. He left. The lady thought. but he returned again on the third day. where he washed off the clay and rinsed it until it became soft.Perfecting Society Unconditional Kindness That lady became furious and rebuked him again. clean. i am coming. he dried it. tore it into small pieces. This is an example of sukåti3.” (respectable sädhu) she said. Hare Räma Hare Räma Räma Räma Hare Hare. She gave something to that saint. dipped the pieces into the ghee that someone else had donated him. “Oh! Take this!!” She took the moldy. “O Baba. On the fourth day the Vaiñëava again went to that lady’s house. and called out loudly. “You have come again?!” she said to the Vaiñëava. “He must be coming just because he wants to eat something!” At that time she was cleaning her room with cow-dung mixed with water. which he accepted very gladly. wornand-torn cloth full of the cow-dung and water. He gladly took the cloth and went to the Yamunä River. “Hare Kåñëa Hare Kåñëa Kåñëa Kåñëa Hare Hare. the lady’s mood had completely changed. New York: May 25. and used the small ghee-wicks to offer ärati (ceremony of worship) to his Deity. 3 7 . which creates spiritual impressions on the heart of the performer and gradually qualifies him to enter the path of bhakti. “Wait a minute. and threw it at him. performed knowingly or unknowingly. he used it in the service of Kåñëa. Then. and smooth. and she received sukåti. 1998 A spiritual pious activity.” She gave him some chapatis.

Of course. and everyone will be happy. and training is required for that. if there is goodwill. or else we will have to create some society ourselves. so that it can facilitate the training of all children. i have heard somewhere that human beings are social animals. Either we will have to choose some society of which we can be part. Always maintain the conception that we are all in Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu's family. and others in our line – especially Çréla Bhaktivinoda Öhäkura and Çréla Bhaktisiddhänta Sarasvaté Öhäkura. i encourage the school here to expand. because they will also be members of the society. What is the meaning of preaching? its purpose is only to develop a very good society everywhere. Çréla Sanätana Gosvämé. so that everyone can be happy forever. so try to realize these truths. Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé.An Ideal Society Try to develop your Kåñëa-consciousness by following the process of Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. After so many years you are coming to the stage of madhyama-adhikäré. and be happy. 8 . but of your children. Do not think only of yourself. We want a society in which we can chant. then all problems will disappear and the children will be welltrained and happy. You will require a committee that can meet and try to solve any problems that arise. We cannot live without society. We want to start by developing such a society here. Train them in the principles and teachings of Kåñëa-consciousness. if this society is Kåñëa-conscious. remember Kåñëa. it will help everyone. and if you all honor each other. and thus try to honor all devotees without consideration of caste or creed. and not blindly. it is ideal to respect devotees according to their quality of bhakti.

However. There should be harmony. some persons wanted to control others by intelligence and not by love and affection. Those who are senior disciples of Çréla Prabhupäda Bhaktivedänta Svämé Mahäräja should be honored. California: 1999 9 . and they should have great affection for their juniors. Thus you can advance. sometimes another.” There is no need to be angry and upset about disturbing occurrences. try to reconcile the situation by thinking. if any problems come. it is so beneficial for you to associate with Vaiñëavas who are really madhyama-adhikäré. Badger. due to false ego. and we ardently wish to follow Him. Your Prabhupäda – my Sväméji – also wanted this. Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu had that universal love. weekly. whether junior or senior.Perfecting Society Everyone. this is most essential. and everyone will benefit. and you can enter into the Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé’s Upadeçämåta and Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé’s Manaù-çikñä. whose character is very elevated and spotless. and consequently. “This is due to my past karma. should be honored according to his/her position in bhakti. The process for achieving success has nothing to do with controlling. This is the way to make a very ideal society.” or. it has to do with universal love and affection. Meetings and classes may be held fortnightly. i request that a school be established specifically to teach spiritual association on the basis of developing love and affection for each other. “Kåñëa wants to test me and operate on me. and he tried to establish it. they could not succeed. or on the occasion of any festival. Sometimes one devotee can give class. you can create a very beautiful and strong community. You will be successful through harmony.

how to please their guru. All disciples should be like this. and this is why he became pleased with us.A Society Without Politics We can learn from Mahäprabhu and His associates. Çréla Vämana Mahäräja. nothing else. Thinking how to please guru later transfers into thinking how to please Kåñëa. not engaged in politics. Cebu. Çréla Sanätana Gosvämé. in this way we served our Gurudeva. 2009 10 . and Çré Svarüpa Dämodara always thought about how to please Mahäprabhu. Myself. We were not selfish. Çréla Trivikrama Mahäräja and others were always like this. Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. who never engaged in politics. and we did not hear kaöha about anyone but Kåñëa and His pure devotees. Philippines: January 5. thinking.

Çréla Gurudeva: At that time we may remember Kåñëa and Yaçodä in the pastime of Mother Yaçodä tying Kåñëa to the grinding mortar (dämodara-bandana-lélä). There cannot be any mood of revenge. But she is not committing any aparädha.Loving Management Çrépäda Tamäl Kåñëa Maharaja (iSKCON GBC member): We see that we must be so careful not to commit näma-aparädha. or anything of the sort. sevä-aparädha. but still it is criticism. and at the same time be able to perform sevä to the Vaiñëava or the institution when we have to analyze or even perhaps criticize? it may be criticism in a helpful way. She does not slap Him. if someone is acting against bhakti. "May i beat You?" and she ‘rebukes’ Him so much. but this must be done with love (préti). and even perhaps helping that person. So. if we are not pure and we criticize repeatedly. However. Her heart is devoid of any unfavorable mood (pratiküla-bhäva). or hatred. We may use some rough words for the purpose of management. and we must analyze another person's behavior for the purpose of protecting our institution. A madhyama-adhikäré has the ride to act in this way. but with préti. we must distinguish right from wrong. and she strongly chastises Him. we will give him appropriate çikñä. We can give someone a slap and rebuke him. so that his nature will change. and it can only be done with préti if our inner heart is such. and vaiñëava-aparädha. as managers of an institution. This means she desires only His happiness. because her heart and mood is favorable (anükula-bhäva). how do we keep free from vaiñëava-aparädha. our heart becomes like a stone and our fear of committing vaiñëava-aparädha 11 . But sometimes. We should be very careful. but she shows her stick as if she will do so. Yaçodä says to Kåñëa.

it is essential that we try to please those Vaiñëavas according to their position in bhakti. So. we should be very careful. Mathurä. India: November 11. 1991 12 . if we do anything wrong to anyone.Harmony goes away. or with any Vaiñëavas. by heart also. with Kåñëa also.

India: March 24. 2008 13 . i request the sannyäsés and other preachers not to press anyone.] Group Dynamics Çréla Gurudeva: Your votes will be by majority. don’t fear from anyone. saying. so you should give me my ‘coming and going’ fare. and then decide who will go where and when they will go. “Oh. and this creates a burden for the local devotees. Don’t Fear (To all devotees) i think you should all tell your ideas openly and bravely.” Navadvipa (Koladvipa). He personally dropped in a couple of times and participated briefly. and two/thirds vote is better. Do you understand? Devotees can give. Here are some excerpts. an Advisory Council Meeting was held at Çré Keçavajé Gauòéya Maöha on Çréla Gurudeva’s request. it is best that the preachers first discuss among themselves. but of their own accord. in this way you can decide everything. only they are controlling. Considerate Preachers Çréla Gurudeva: Five or six or seven sannyäsés and other preachers go to the same place at the same time. “i am coming to your area. You all have a right to express your ideas.” They may not insist. Don’t think.The Advisory Committee Meeting [After the successful completion of the Navadvépa-dhäma parikramä.

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as teachers. The teachers should also be very humble. i want this school to advance still further so that devotees will be inspired to send students from every part of the world. they will never be able to teach these principles to their students. Humility Springs from Bhakti Now we will come to the subject of our class on Bhajana Rahasya. and in this regard Çréla Bhaktivinoda Öhäkura has quoted the third çloka of Çré Çikñästakam: 16 . and i want more students to come. if they are not humble and polite. Students learn from their teachers’ behavior. Some of the teachers may sometimes become upset. but it is important for them to understand that. they must practice in order to teach. the stage of steadiness in bhakti. We are explaining niñöhä. i know personally that Vrajendra-nanda prabhu and Nityä-maïjaré däsé are very humble and polite. i became very satisfied this morning when i visited the school and saw the students and teachers. The students should learn Vaiñëava etiquette.Humility i offer millions of humble obeisances unto the lotus feet of my paramaradhyadeva (most worshipful master). and i desire the other teachers to be like them. and the same unlimited obeisances unto the lotus feet of my çikñä-guru. oà viñëupäda Çré Çrémad Bhaktivedänta Svämé Mahäräja. and they should also learn our siddhänta from the beginning. i want this school to advance further. and do not honor their superiors. because they are young. oà viñëupäda Çré Çrémad Bhakti Prajïäna Keçava Gosvämé Mahäräja. They should learn to be very polite and humble and to honor all Vaiñëavas.

and properly respecting all Vaiñëavas. it is essential to increase your sädhana-bhajana: chanting “Hare Kåñëa”. humility will come naturally. Mere remembrance will not suffice. who is more tolerant than a tree. try to follow it and practice it in your daily life. hearing Çrémad-Bhägavatam (bhagavat-çravaëa). (verse 3) One who considers himself lower than the straw in the street. living in Mathurä. and serving the Deity with faith (çré-mürtira çraddhayä-sevana).Learning Harmony tåëäd api sunécena taror api sahiñëunä amäninä mänadena kértanéyaù sadä hariù Çré Çikñästakam. your humility will not be real. Giving Like a Tree Mahäprabhu addressed Çré Svarüpa Dämodara and Çré Rämänanda Räya in the Gambhira: O Svarüpa Dämodara Gosvämé and Rämänanda Räya. To attain humility. Try to remember this çloka. serving your Gurudeva and Vaiñëavas. or Våndävana (mathurä-väsa). You cannot become humble just by imitating humility. Without these. namely associating with devotees (sädhu-saìga). chanting Kåñëa’s holy names (näma-kértana). please hear from Me the process of chanting the Hare Kåñëa mahä-mantra to 17 . if your bhakti increases. it is especially essential to engage in the five most important limbs of bhakti. can very easily chant the holy name of the Lord at all times. Even more importantly. who does not expect honor for himself but who is always prepared to give all respect to others.

which means ‘showing mercy without ever wanting anything in return. and who does not expect honor for himself but who is always prepared to give all respect to others can very easily chant the holy name of the Lord at all times. You can become like these trees only by chanting and remembering. and so on to anyone who asks. On the contrary. then be indifferent to all worldly desires and intoxications. Çréla Bhaktivinoda Öhäkura discusses the importance of nirmala-dayä. knowing that Kåñëa resides in the hearts of all. and by serving guru and Vaiñëavas. Then natural humility will automatically manifest in your heart. Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. Nirmala-dayä is the mercy of helping others advance in 18 . but he does not think that he is better than others. One who considers himself lower than the straw in the street. The tree gives its own wealth of fruits. A Vaiñëava is the most exalted of all. Antya-lélä (20.20-25) Çréla Bhaktivinoda Öhäkura has said that if you want to chant pure näma. The symptoms of one who chants the Hare Kåñëa mahämantra are as follows. Offering their entire lives to others. it gives shelter to others. To the extent you engage all your senses and moods in devotion to Kåñëa.Harmony awaken one's dormant love for Kåñëa. even while tolerating scorching heat and torrents of rain itself. to that proportion nirmala-dayä may awaken. they never ask anything in return from anyone. His tolerance is like that a tree. the heart disease of lust. which does not protest when it is cut down and does not ask anyone for water when it is drying up. but he thinks himself lower than the straw in the street. he gives all respect to others. who is more tolerant than a tree. Not Asking In Return in Çré Bhajana-Rahasya. and so on. He is actually very exalted.’ The trees are an example of this. flowers. the attachment to wealth and reputation.

and try to make others devotees. in order to help us do this. Giving donations of money or food. offer obeisances to him.34) in order to know this truth. give proper respect to devotees according to their advancement in bhakti. and serve 19 .” “i am the most qualified devotee.” Otherwise. He has said that it is very hard to turn an ordinary person into a devotee. if you turn someone's mood from worldly desires to serving Kåñëa. Çréla Bhaktisiddhänta Sarasvaté Öhäkura has also glorified nirmaladayä. Offering All Respect to Others Most importantly. Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé has described the symptoms of different classes of devotees. vast amounts of energy. Try to come to the platform on which you can practice nirmala-dayä.” “i can attract others. one must approach a spiritual master. One who cannot give proper respect to Vaiñëavas is considered to be arrogant. you will not be able to chant the pure holy name.” “i am very wealthy. if you want bhakti. inquire from him submissively. or giving your daughters for marriage are worldly things. it takes so many hundreds of gallons of blood. Become devotees yourselves. More Humble Than the Grass Try to give up all false ego: “i am very learned. this is the best mercy (dayä) and compassion. or in other words. always remember Kåñëa's words: tad viddhi praëipätena paripraçnena sevayä upadekñyanti te jïänaà jïäninas tattva-darçinaù Bhagavad-géta (4. and by doing so you will simply be engaged in matter.Learning Harmony Kåñëa consciousness.” “i am very beautiful.

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him. Those who are self-realized can give you knowledge because they directly see the Transcendental Reality.

Gurudeva will automatically give you knowledge if you perform these activities. From today onward, let us give proper respect to Vaiñëavas according to their level of bhakti as neophytes, intermediate devotees, and advanced devotees (kaniñöha, madhyama, or uttama-adhikäré). We consider those who chant kåñëa-näma to be our family members, whether they are initiated or not. i know that you cannot realize who is exalted (uttama) and who is on another level. Still, try to give proper respect. One who does not do so is not even a kaniñöha-adhikäré.

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Kåñëa is love, and love is Kåñëa. The aim and object of the teaching of Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu and Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé is simply to know this. Rädhä and Kåñëa have combined to become Çacénandana Gaurahari (Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu), who is more merciful than either of Them. Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu traveled throughout india, from north to south, from east to west, preaching love and affection everywhere He went. This was also the mission of Çré Çrémad Bhaktivedänta Svämi Mahäräja and our entire guru-paramparä. We want to associate with everyone on the platform of love and affection, not by controlling others. You cannot bring others to Kåñëa's service by manipulating them or controlling them. You cannot even control your own mind, what to speak of controlling others’.

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Mahäprabhu exhibited His love and affection in the jungles of Jharikhaëòa by causing the wild animals to chant the Hare Kåñëa mahä-mantra together in ecstatic love. By His influence, the behavior of these wild animals towards each other changed; they lived together peacefully and even drank from the same watering places. it was by His mercy that He quickly spread love and affection throughout this planet and the universe. The love that He preached is Çrématé Rädhikä’s special prema. if you want to make your life successful, happy, and peaceful, then try to give all of your love and affection to Kåñëa and, with Kåñëa in the center, give your love and affection to all living beings. Don’t try to control others by your order or your thoughts. Try to give your whole being. Love has nothing to take but everything to give.

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if your aim is to preach Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu’s love and affection, then dedicate your whole life for others’ welfare. They will reciprocate with that love, and thus give their life to serve Kåñëa. However, if you try to control them, they will not offer their love and affection. Avoid criticizing others; criticize your own mind and bad habits instead. The first point is that if we want to show love to others, it is essential not to cause them any pain or suffering, or to burden them for our personal happiness or maintenance. Our first concern is for the happiness and satisfaction of others. We want to be completely selfless in our dealings, and for this, we have the example of the tree, which gives its bark, roots, fruits, leaves, wood, and shade. The tree offers everything to others with no expectation of remuneration. Why can’t we human beings be so selfless? Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu has given us this verse:
A devotee thinks himself to be even lower and more worthless than insignificant grass that has been trampled beneath everyone's feet. He is more tolerant than a tree, he has no pride, and he offers respect to all others according to their respective positions. Thus, he is able to chant the holy name of Çré Hari continuously. (Çré Çikñäñöakam verse 3)

i want my sannyäsés and preachers to understand this verse and follow it completely, and to teach others by their personal example. i want them to behave selflessly, trying to give their hearts to others. i have come to give my heart, not to take anything from you. This is the preaching of Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu. He gave His heart even to dogs, lions, and tigers. We need not ask anyone for money. if we preach the message of Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu selflessly, God will automatically send money

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This is Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu’s teaching and example. At the present moment. and then try to follow them. 2002 23 . i can preach everywhere. Go on with your preaching. Don’t think. and our guru-varga. Spread it broadly all around the world. and you should also realize this fact.” instead. Begin where Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämi Mahäräja left off. and continue to preach more and more. write down these instructions. rather. Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. Remember that you are a servant of your dékñä-guru and çikñä-guru. Odessa. Don’t forget what i am saying. glorify your dékñä-guru and çikñä-guru everywhere. the first necessity is to give up the desire to praise yourself. everyone will be pleased with your preaching and praise you. Don’t be ambitious to create your own disciples. Giving up Self-Praise if you want to be successful in your life. Listen carefully. if you do this. My desire is that you understand the object of the mission of Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämi Mahäräja. i have realized this. derailed from their devotional service and giving up their practice of chanting and remembering Kåñëa. Please listen very carefully to my words so that they don’t evaporate in the air.Learning Harmony like a shower of rain from the sky. Çréla Bhaktisiddhänta Sarasvaté Öhäkura. Ukraine: September 22. try to bring disciples to your gurudeva’s lotus feet. we see that many senior Vaiñëavas and sannyäsés are falling down. and preach the mission of their gurudeva. “i am very glorious and talented. i request that our preachers set a high standard of behavior. and take care not to seek that praise. if you glorify your guruparamparä. We need not worry about that at all. you will be successful in your preaching and glory will come into your pocket.

“The qualities of My devotees are as follows: kåpälur akåta-drohas titikñuù sarva-dehinäm satya-säro ’navadyätmä samaù sarvopakärakaù Çrémad-Bhägavatam (11. Devotees like them are very. like Närada. His strength and meaning in life come from the truth itself.11. who was the embodiment of mercy. Even if others are aggressive. “O My dear Uddhava. He was sent by his Gurudeva. Kåñëa said. and his mind is equal in material happiness and distress. very 24 . he is free from all envy and jealousy. the instructions imparted by Çré Kåñëa to Uddhava just prior to Kåñëa’s departure from this world. “What is bhagavat-dharma? What are the symptoms of pure devotees? How can we become pure devotees? How can we achieve uttama-bhakti (pure devotional service)? in this connection Kåñëa replied. My devotee is very merciful. he travels throughout the world without invitation. a saintly person is merciful and never injures others. That is why. he is tolerant and forgiving toward all living entities.Teachers Need These Qualities Never Retaliating We are discussing Uddhava-Saàväda.’ by his mercy.29) O Uddhava.” No one invited Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämé Maharaja: “Please come and preach here. He cannot tolerate the sufferings of the conditioned souls. Uddhava asked Kåñëa. Çréla Prabhupäda Bhaktisiddhänta Sarasvaté Öhäkura.” He came ‘automatically.

please do not do this. “No. but the scorpion stung him and again fell into the stream. they never want to see mischief come to others. two saints were standing on the bank of a river. “if this scorpion is not giving up his nature to bite. Even if they are insulted or beaten. they continue preaching. 25 . The Sage and the Scorpion Once. and His devotees are like Him. Even if a great calamity befalls a devotee. but the saint picked him up yet again. Tolerance is a very high-class quality. Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu became extremely angry and wanted to kill them with His cakra (disk weapon). and their strength for others.” His devotees are also like this. why should i give up my nature to save him?” Never Taking Revenge if someone does something against you. their wealth. their power. You killed the demons in other incarnations.Learning Harmony compassionate. Jagäi and Mädhäi hit Nityänanda Prabhu with an earthen pot and made His head bleed. His friend said. Kåñëa is Truth. like Nityänanda Prabhu. to help others. pleading. They go from door to door. but Nityänanda Prabhu stopped Him.” That saint replied. even if someone insults them. “Why are you doing this? Let’s go. inviting everyone to somehow or other chant Hare Kåñëa. One of the saints picked up the scorpion on the palm of his hand to save him. They do not give up their avowed intent to preach. Don’t try to save him. From the core of their heart. Again the saint lifted out the scorpion and again the scorpion stung him. don’t take revenge. Let him die. to save others. the Absolute Truth. but please don’t do so in this incarnation. when they saw that a scorpion was being carried away by the current. he tolerates it. They always use their life. Lord.

Murwillumbah. Australia: February 6. kindly follow this instruction. They don’t disturb anyone. The nature of devotees is very sweet. and offering respect to all others according to their respective positions. They behave and speak very sweetly. They never use harsh words when speaking to anyone.” if you want to be able to constantly chant the holy name of Kåñëa. being more tolerant than a tree. and they always follow this principle: “Thinking oneself to be even lower and more worthless than insignificant grass which has been trampled beneath everyone’s feet. being prideless.Harmony Their intelligence never becomes contaminated. one should continuously chant the holy name of Çré Hari. 2008 26 .

and now is describing the qualities of the kaniñöha-bhakta. a materialistic devotee. but is unable to properly respect Vaiñëavas and people in general.47) A devotee who faithfully engages in the worship of the Deity in the temple but does not behave properly toward other devotees or people in general is called a präkåta-bhakta. Such a person is a materialistic devotee. Çréla Gurudeva: Why has it been told that such a person is a bhakta (devotee)? Why has he been called a kaniñöha-bhakta? Sundara-gopäla däsa: Although he is only like the shadow of a bhakta. He has already discussed the qualities of the uttama-bhakta and madhyama-bhakta. The kaniñöha-bhakta is one who serves the Deity of the Supreme Lord with faith. and is considered to be in the lowest position.Honoring Even the Grass [Çréla Gurudeva called on Sundara-gopäla däsa to recite and explain this verse:] arcäyäm eva haraye püjäà yaù çraddhayehate na tad-bhakteñu cänyeñu sa bhaktaù präkåtaù småtaù Çrémad-Bhägavatam (11. Why should he honor them? Do you understand my question? 27 .2. Çréla Gurudeva: The verse states that he does not honor ordinary persons. he worships Hari on the altar. Sundara-gopäla däsa: Çré Havir is explaining to King Nimi the qualities of the kaniñöha-bhakta.

knowing everyone to be the resting place of Kåñëa. Çréla Gurudeva: My question is this: To say that he has the flaw of not respecting bhaktas (tad-bhakteñu) is alright. if you do not properly honor others. Kåñëa is everywhere. you are asking. but the kaniñöha does not know how to make that differentiation. whether or not we are aware of it. Padua. 2009 Respecting the Kanistha and the Deer Even if one knows all siddhänta or established philosophical truths. Antya-lélä (20. but why should he honor ordinary people (anyeñu)? Sundara-gopäla däsa: Oh. Italy: June 26.Harmony Sundara-gopäla däsa: The madhyama-adhikäré bhakta can differentiate between different levels of devotees and non-devotees. and instead you are thinking. we honor even a blade of grass. “i know better 28 .26) Although a Vaiñëava is the most exalted person. Therefore. “Why should he?” Çréla Gurudeva: uttama haïä vaiñëava habe nirabhimäna jéve sammäna dibe jäni’ ‘kåñëa’-adhiñöhäna Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. he is prideless and gives all respect to everyone. it is essential to be very humble and to honor everyone.

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than anyone,” you may end up challenging even your gurudeva. You may end up challenging Çré Kåñëa, Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu, and also Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. When you speak, you will take the credit for yourself, saying “These are my words,” rather than giving credit to our äcäryas. Gurudeva is very, very humble. He always says, “Oh, i have heard this from my gurudeva, and i am simply explaining his words.” This humility is imperative; giving proper respect even to kaniñöhaadhikärés, as Çrématé Rädhikä gave great honor even to the deer.
dhanyäù sma müòha-gatayo 'pi hariëya etä yä nanda-nandanam upätta-vicitra-veçam äkarëya veëu-raëitaà saha-kåñëa-säräù püjäà dadhur viracitäà praëayävalokaiù Çrémad-Bhägavatam (10.21.11) Blessed are all these foolish deer because they have approached Mahäräja Nanda's son, who is gorgeously dressed and is playing on His flute. indeed, both the doe and the bucks worship the Lord with looks of love and affection.

Rädhikä used to say, “i want to be a deer, because they can easily get the darçana of Kåñëa, whereas i cannot.” Such is Her humility. Always be more humble than a blade of grass; persons with this quality will develop their Kåñëa-consciousness. On the other hand, if one is overwhelmed with false ego, thinking, “i know everything. Why should i honor all these bogus persons?” he will deviate. Try, therefore, to learn Vaiñëava etiquette, follow properly, and honor all according to their development in bhakti. Honor even those who are kaniñöha, and especially the madhyama, madhyama-uttama, and uttama-adhikäré.
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çuçrüñayä bhajana-vijïam ananyam anyanindädi-çünya-hådam épsita-saìga-labdhyä Nectar of Instruction, (text 5) One should mentally honor the devotee who chants the holy name of Lord Kåñëa. One should offer humble obeisances to the devotee who has undergone spiritual initiation (dékñä) and is engaged in worshiping the Deity, and one should associate with and faithfully serve that pure devotee who is advanced in undeviated devotional service and whose heart is completely devoid of the propensity to criticize others.

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We speak publicly on the Bhägavatam and give instructions to others.Criticize. we deceive ourselves and are deprived of the real fruit of chanting. many lifetimes are wasted. but we are not really hearing. but we do not protect ourselves from offense to Vaiñëavas. residing in the holy place and hearing Bhägavatam. be very. Therefore. in this way. çré-mürtira çraddhäya sevana sakala-sädhana-çreñöha ei païca aìga kåñëa-prema janmäya ei päìcera alpa saìga Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. cannot tolerate this. for offense to Vaiñëavas is offense to the holy name. näma-kértana. chant the holy names. we somehow disrespect or criticize them. and some of us only act as if we are following. so there is no doubt. and that is the disrespect of. On One Condition But there is one condition. We chant hari-näma. who is God Himself. and Lose the Holy Name To Surely Receive Krsna-prema sädhu-saìga. Joking and laughing. by performing these five activities one will surely receive kåñëaprema. The holy name. or offense to Vaiñëavas. 32 . This is our dilemma. hear Çrémad-Bhägavatam from the lotus mouth of a rasika Vaiñëava and serve the Deity of the Lord with faith. Madhya-lélä (22. By all means. Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé has promised. very cautious to avoid offense to Vaiñëavas. bhägavata-çravaëa mathurä-väsa.128-129) One should stay in Våndävana under the guidance of a sädhu.

We don’t see our own faults. but he did not disrespect Vaiñëavas. don’t look. like a trident. There are elevated Vaiñëavas who will see their faults and rectify them. he stopped his sinful activities and was able to chant the pure holy name. we talk about this. the main cause is disrespect to guru and Vaiñëavas. so just tend to your bhajana. He cursed Çré Närada Muni.Criticism Destroys Bhakti if you see another devotee doing something wrong. As You Sow. and now they have left our home and family. or the holy names. but as soon as he had the association of Vaiñëavas. we lose the chance to do bhajana. the holy abodes of the Lord in this world. and it will return to pierce you.” Therefore. never harbor bad thoughts about anyone 33 . and for that i curse you that you will not be able to remain in one place for more time than it takes to milk a cow. Ajämila was more fallen than fallen. if someone else is not doing bhajana. that thorn will become three. or some material difficulties. saying. sädhus. guru. On the other hand. But how would others react? There is a Hindi saying: “if you place a thorn in someone’s path. You cannot do so. Nowadays this is the fashion. wherever we see some kind of fall-down. there is a decline in bhakti. So Shall You Reap You may have heard the history of Prajäpati Dakña. He was sinful. some disaster. but we want to see others’. why are you worrying about it? Just look at your own behavior. some digression from bhajana. if you do good for others you will be showered with flowers. in our own lives. “You gave my sons instructions on the performance of bhajana of the Supreme Lord. You have ruined everything for me. saints. and day and night. Wherever there is a little bit of disrespect for the Vaiñëavas.” Çré Närada became very pleased because he took this as a benediction rather than a curse. and in this way. Please understand this clearly.

[Translated from Çréla Gurudeva’s Hindi class. by Mädhava-préya däsa brahmacäré] Mathura. simply tolerate. Even if someone unjustly abuses you. India: 1994 34 . do not retaliate.Harmony with intent to harm them.

no! i am not the man you are looking for. We have come especially for you. while the mood of the Vaiñëava in the temple was different. The Vaiñëava who was living near the prostitute had one mood in his heart. The other Vaiñëava resided in a temple in the middle of that town. i am so unfortunate that i cannot live in the temple. That other Vaiñëava is so fortunate – he is always performing kértana.” the Yamadütas replied. The Vaiñëava in the temple saw that so many people were coming to visit the prostitute and then leaving again. The Vaiñëava protested.” they replied.” in due course of time. the messengers of Death. “Oh. He is over there! He is always with that prostitute. He saw three very frightful figures approaching him. living in a temple!” “No. we will take you to the most wretched of places and punish you. no. “Oh. “Oh! That Vaiñëava is there with a prostitute!” Regarding.The Vaisnava and the Prostitute Once. and always remembering Kåñëa. “We know everything.” The first Vaiñëava was always thinking of the fortune of the Vaiñëava living in the temple. always chanting. and he imagined. the mood of the Vaiñëava who lived near the prostitute. while that wretched person is there with that prostitute. but i am a holy person. death came to the Vaiñëava in the temple.” “Where will you take me? To Svargaloka?” “No. He considered. two Vaiñëavas went to live in a town. whereas the second Vaiñëava was always criticizing: “i am so lucky that i am in the temple. and we have come to take you with us. and it so happened that not far away from that banyan tree a prostitute lived on the second storey of a very beautiful building. and he asked them “Who are you?” “We are Yamadütas. One of them took up residence under a banyan tree. for you 35 .

” My instruction is the instruction of Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé in Çré Upadeçämåta: never criticize anyone. if you criticize someone. he only causes harm for himself. He is a controller. California: June 26. No matter whether persons belong to iSKCON or any other institution. Çré Kåñëa. Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu. He is always chanting the holy name and engaging in other devotional practices. hearing. thinking. “This is wrong.” or “This fellow is very bad. Even if such persons are actually bad. chanting.Harmony are always criticizing. if someone is doing bad things. and remembering harikaöha. Badger. This is a good process.” then all the bad qualities that you are thinking about will enter your heart and the Yamadütas will come to punish you first. i have heard that some of my disciples criticize iSKCON leaders and others. do not criticize them. That other Vaiñëava is a real sädhu. and Çré Nityänanda Prabhu are 36 . He is always thinking favorably of you. Please avoid this. Don’t waste your time criticizing or trying to control everything around you. still. This is the instruction of Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. no matter what is their caste or creed. Always remember true devotees and glorify them. do not criticize them. and also of parama-püjyapäda Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämé Mahäräja. Please be careful about this. 1997 We Are Not Masters to Chastise Try to advance. it is not what i want. Gurudeva can control. Always try to remember the good qualities of real Vaiñëavas and Kåñëa.

i should try to control myself. You are free to accept or disregard what i am saying. California: May. if you are performing abundant service to gurudeva but at the same time chastise Vaiñëavas instead of honoring them. just correct your mind.” This is the way to develop our Kåñëa consciousness. i have a shop here.” But do not criticize. You only need more love and affection. i should fix it. Otherwise. those offences will spoil everything. if you think my goods are all right. Guru can criticize and chastise. Offer daëòavat-praëäma from a distance. All of our endeavors will be wasted and go into the garbage can. or less. We must protect ourselves from committing offenses to others while chanting. but we are not masters to chastise. Badger. you may take them. i don’t want to create any problem or give you any trouble. you can say. then don’t take them. Don’t spend time thinking. my daëòavat-praëämäs. Try to serve Vaiñëavas and guru. Be very humble and hanker for bhakti so that your hearts will melt. The external situation is sufficient. remembering.Criticism Destroys Bhakti controllers. You can come and take the goods in my shop. meaning. it is best to think in this way: “i am not the controller. and engaging in devotional service. You can accept more.” Everything is correct externally. 1997 37 . and there are no jewels. or you can leave without them. then don’t associate with him. Now i should go. gurudeva will not accept your service. don’t think about him at all. Rather. if not. "Oh. Otherwise. i should be controlled by Them. “Çréla Prabhupäda’s vyäsäsana is made only of cloth. Please don’t be disturbed by my strong words. if you see that a person is wretched.

it has not been altered or enhanced. For example. his curse turned out to be a benediction. you will have to go to hell. so Närada came to them and cursed them out of pity. Try to follow this principle.Harmony A Special Hell for Vaisnava-Aparadhis if you commit näma-aparädha and vaiñëava-aparädha. He did not pay specific attention to what they were doing. and at the same time you are chanting the holy name. Holland: June 7. 38 . 2001 If You Have the Power Do not criticize anyone. Çré Kåñëa will make another kind of hell for you – a special kind of hell. How shall i reform them?” He had the power to do what was necessary. The holy name cannot bear anyone criticizing His devotees. He considers that these present hells are not enough. Malaysia: January 27. You can correct a person only if you can change him. their lives have gone in vain. Thus. He considered only this: “Oh. 2009 4 Editors' Note: The image on the following page is original. all sannyäsés must especially follow. what will be the result? Especially if you are criticizing Vaiñëavas. and that is why he pointed out their fault. Nalaküvara and Maëigréva were doing wrong.

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25) Although a Vaiñëava is the most exalted person. Çréla Gurudeva: We should also try to take this out of our mind.28. uttama haïä vaiñëava habe nirabhimäna jéve sammäna dibe jäni’ ‘kåñëa’-adhiñöhäna Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. but criticism starts from the mind.Not Even In the Mind Padmanäbha däsa (from Delhi): Çréla Gurudeva. knowing everyone to be the resting place of Kåñëa. This is a very bad thing. Çréla Gurudeva: i know that you criticize. Don’t do this. Padmanäbha däsa: By tongue we may not criticize. Antya-lélä (20.1) The Supreme Personality of Godhead said: One should neither praise nor criticize the conditioned nature and activities of 40 . he is prideless and gives all respect to everyone. Try to see an individual’s good qualifications. yesterday you said that we should not criticize or praise anybody. when you quoted this verse: para-svabhäva-karmäëi na praçaàsen na garhayet viçvam ekämakaà paçyan prakåtyä puruñeëa ca Çrémad-Bhägavatam (11. Çrépäda Padmanäbha Mahäräja: A question came into my mind yesterday. but sometimes we criticize or praise people in our minds.

Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé always saw Çréla Sanätana Gosvämé and Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé as his gurus. 41 .Criticism Destroys Bhakti other persons. Don’t disobey him. He is asking how he can get rid of this habit. 2008 The Kingdom of Kali The servant of the guru is deeply respected. Nevertheless. Çrépäda Sädhu Mahäräja: (Translating from Russian) Dämodara prabhu says that he is always seeing faults in others and his mind meditates on others’ bad qualities. Do not criticize or praise any sense enjoyer. one should see this world as simply the combination of material nature and the enjoying souls. “Do not criticize or praise. and his good qualities come into us. it is essential to always glorify devotees. one builds a bridge to the other person’s bad qualities. simply turn it away and forcibly focus it on Çré Kåñëa. all based on the one Absolute Truth. which then come into the body of the person who is criticizing.” You have also said that by criticizing. However. Understanding this. Çréla Gurudeva: (To Dämodara däsa) Has Gurudeva told you to criticize others? You are disobeying your Gurudeva if you do so. if we praise someone and build a bridge. Rather. Badger. California: June 17. if you find that your mind is criticizing others. what is the problem? Çréla Gurudeva: This injunction applies to sense enjoyers. Here it is said.

as is going on nowadays. and don’t associate with persons who are chattering and pattering. Read books and engage your mind at all times. Sädhu-saìga is the best medicine. if the mind 5 Kali-yuga is the iron age of quarrel and hypocracy. Be careful.Harmony We should also have this behavior amongst ourselves. there will be quarrels among us. He is not as good a servant of our Gurudeva as i am. He doesn't even know any siddhanta. Where there is hatred and similar mentalities. for that will create love between us. “i am guru. India: August 9. This is an offense. India (Lecture on Sri Vilapa-kusumanjali.” if we think in this way. “i am the only äcärya and no one else is qualified. but not others. that place is kali-räjya5. He knows nothing. 2009 Prakäçätma däsa: How can i curb my tendency to always speak prajalpa and criticize others? Çréla Gurudeva: You can do so by always being in sädhu-saìga and hearing hari-kaöha. text 6): 1991 The Medicine to Cure Criticizing Änandiné däsé: How can i stop myself from criticizing? Çréla Gurudeva: You can criticize yourself.” Or. Parékñit Mahäräja had no time to speak with anyone. 42 . We may think. He was drinking only the nectar of kåñëa-lélä. and bhakti will go away. Mathura. or to sleep or eat or drink. Vrndavana. Chant the holy name in sädhu-saìga. the kingdom of Kali.

France: June 30. Paris. so we should give it harikaöha – as much as you can hear and chant and meditate on. then it will automatically engage itself in bad things.Criticism Destroys Bhakti is not engaged by you. The mind wants something to eat. 2009 43 .

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“I Have Not Come to Sit in Court” Once. it never begs water. “i have told them that i came to help them develop transcendental love and affection for Kåñëa. if you throw a stone at it. Following these principles. fruit. Rather. it will give you sweet fruits in return. they are quarrelling so much. Don’t come to me for that. its bark.” Guru Mahäräja replied. two disciples of my Gurudeva were quarreling between themselves. even if they are being cut down. amäninä mänadena. devotees are humble like a blade of grass and more tolerant than the trees. “Trees never complain about anything to anyone. not to be a judge. during Navadvépa-parikramä.Don’t Quarrel i offer my so many humble obeisances unto the lotus feet of my spiritual master. both were bitterly arguing. Even if the tree is drying up. i told them that those who want to do bhajana of Kåñëa will follow the principles of tåëäd api sunécena. nitya-lélä-praviñöa oà viñëupäda Çré Çrémad Bhaktivedänta Svämé Mahäräja. there are thousands of courts where one can go and complain: no harm. and everything else are for others. Taking burning sticks of wood from the kitchen. it always serves others. wood. Someone came and told Gurudeva.” 46 . in india. “Oh. They should quarrel. “Let them quarrel. “i am not a judge. i have not told them to quarrel. And i offer my same obeisances in the lotus feet of my çikñä-guru. and after that. They won’t listen to anyone. Please do somehow make them stop. and especially in Bengal. taror api sahiñëunä. i have not come to sit in court and decide about worldly things. they should go to court and file a case against each other. nitya-lélä-praviñöa oà viñëupäda Çré Çrémad Bhakti Prajïäna Keçava Gosvämé Mahäräja.

i have not told him to do as he did. He had been given a service by the State to collect money. i have come simply to help devotees advance in bhakti.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels “I Am Not a Court” As you may know. “You want Me to go to the king? i cannot help him. i can help so much. i have only come to give love and affection for Kåñëa. i am also not a court.” “I Am Also Not a Court” Similarly. i do not want to waste my time. or if you are weak. Gopénätha Paööanäyaka. Why should he not pay that money? He must pay. the next day he would be put to death. Very worried. The son of the king went to him and demanded. but he once withheld a large amount. i will not interfere. who was very dear to Mahäprabhu. “O. i have not come from india to be like a court. You can go to court if you have any dispute. in guru. or in Kåñëa. and he was collecting it. if you have no faith in the holy name. So he was guilty. the brother of Çréla Räya Rämänanda. but i have not come for this. i am not a court. For millions of births you have been quarreling in courts here and there. when Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu was residing in Puré. where it was decided that he should be given the death sentence. please save him. nor have i told that wife to quarrel with her husband. all the devotees approached Mahäprabhu and begged. so do not come to me with these things. how can i help? if you do not want to perform devotional 47 . However. i can make you strong. i can help you only with this. This is not my duty. My life is dedicated for that.” Mahäprabhu replied. Do you understand? if you have some desire to serve Kåñëa. i have not told any man to quarrel with his wife. if you have a problem in chanting and remembering. had kept a large sum of money which belonged to the king. “Why are you withholding the money?” He arrested him and brought him to court.

and all other çästras say the same thing. and sometimes at Vaàçé-vaöa in Våndävana. to do as you like. You are independent to do all bogus activities for sense gratification. and we also see from the Vedas. that a man cannot be happy. at Çyäma-kuëòa. The Vedas. and all others like them. where are You? O Viçäkhä. “O Kåñëa. Engaging in this way throughout the day 48 . My request is that wife and husband avoid quarreling with each other. and all their associates used to weep bitterly. if he or she is not chanting and remembering Kåñëa. Aberyswyth. i will give up my life. There are so many sincere senior devotees here who are very peaceful. Be like chaste indian ladies and chaste indian husbands. like Anusüyä and Atri. Wales: July 2. Puräëas. like the gopés and Kåñëa. Be tolerant. 2000 No One Quarrels In Goloka Vrndavana How Best To Avoid Quarrels Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. This can never be. then follow the path of Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu and have strong faith in kåñëa-näma. you are free. like Sävitré and Satyavän. otherwise your life will be spoiled.Harmony activities. What can i do? We see from history. if you want to be happy. Çréla Sanätana Gosvämé. Please be merciful to me. and neither can a woman be happy. Be like Räma and Sétä. and all other scriptures. where are you? if i don’t receive your mercy. and i become happy to see them. at Rädhä-kuëòa.” They would weep here and there. where are You? O Çrématé Rädhikä. i want you to be happy forever. the Upaniñads.

but His motive is much deeper. He is expert. They do 49 . “Oh brother. if you neglect Him. When Kåñëa and Baladeva entered the forest. Don’t quarrel among yourselves for any reason. Chanting in a pathetic tone. see how beautiful this scenery is. How humble these trees are. Outwardly it is seen that Kåñëa is going out to cowherd. which were all full with blossoming flowers. then there will never be quarreling. i want all of you to be like them. you will see that everything has changed. but how can i express everything in one or two days? Trees Don’t Quarrel Kåñëa and Baladeva entered Våndävana with Their thousands upon thousands of cows and cowherd friends. Very happy. Otherwise. When They arrived in the forest. Very sweet honey flowed from the trees. Räma Räma. Hare Kåñëa. Kåñëa Kåñëa. Kåñëa said to Baladeva Prabhu. Hare Räma. Try to honor everyone as guru. He will also neglect you. they would sometimes become unconscious in ecstasy. Kåñëa will hear your prayers. all the trees bent over as if they were offering praëämäs along with their fruits and flowers. beautiful trees and creepers full of fragrant flowers surrounded Them on all sides. and sometimes Çrématé Rädhikä would appear to them. and which were laden with mangos and other sweet fruits. always giving their life and soul for others. Hare Hare Oh. so everyone should learn from them how to live in this world. The life of the trees is truly successful.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels and night. There are so many things to say. there are so many purposes in His one action. Hare Hare Hare Räma. Your chanting will enter Kåñëa’s ears. Try to make your chanting of the Lord’s names like this: [Çréla Gurudeva began chanting slowly and with great absorption] Hare Kåñëa.

still. Some village boys came along while he was taking rest there. they donate their seeds.” Those who want to be happy must be like the trees in tolerance and other excellent qualities. i am not less than this tree. wood. Why not? Some part of the kingdom should be given to this boy. And. and creepers? Do not disturb anyone for your own interest. and was returning home with his generals and entire army. Why were the boys throwing stones at the tree? To get fruit. fruit. please give me water. ripe mangos in that tree. the tree responded by giving them fruit. a very strong and famous king in india conquered a kingdom. O Baladeva. Unfortunately. shade." it does not matter to the trees if someone comes to cut them down. Still. On the way home. Blood flowed from the wound. he and his entourage became tired. “Please give us permission to cut him in pieces. Seeing the sweet. “Oh. bark. they began throwing stones at the tree to get the fruit. “What shall we do with this boy?” they asked. branches.Harmony not live for themselves. or if a storm comes to ravage their sweet fruits. i have never seen two trees quarreling. The sorrowful generals caught the boy and brought him to the king. Even if trees dry up because they have no water. but i see so many devotees quarrelling. so he decided to take rest under a mango tree in a large garden. i am drying up. so i must also give him very sweet fruit. trees.” 50 . when they threw the stones at the tree. i think they are actually offering everything at Your lotus feet. wait. Why should we not give of ourselves? The King Didn’t Quarrel Once.” The king replied. You are the Lord of Lords. they never ask anyone. one of the stones hit the king’s eye. and the king became blind in that eye. and juice to others. “Wait. What are we? Are we lower than animals. they give their fruits.

But you are devotees and have been initiated by a good devotee. Don’t give shame to real devotees. Always remember: if you are not tolerant donors. i don’t want to hear that the devotees in Murwillumbah are afflicted by the quarreling demon named Mura. who was killed by Kåñëa. but not a real quarrel. Ordinary people may quarrel about something due to their own self-interest. become like this at once. may be like that. don’t cause any problems for anyone. then ordinary people will think. but He allowed her to take birth in Goloka and offer to Him her breast milk there with a motherly mood. Don’t waste your time. they are all bogus. “Devotees always quarrel with each other. you will never be happy and you will never attain pure bhakti.” i know husbands and wives in india who have lived together without quarreling for eighty years. From now on. This is my request to all. there is no quarreling. Why should devotees quarrel amongst themselves if they are really devotees? There should be some difference between devotees and ordinary people. then donate to them whatever they want. Pütanä came to kill Him. The Quarreling Demon Named Mura There was once a demon named Mura.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels Krsna Doesn’t Quarrel Always remember the behavior of Kåñëa. Sometimes they may have a lovequarrel. Never quarrel with anyone. i don’t want to hear any problems caused by quarrels over silly things. Aren’t you able to change this? in selflessness. 51 . Murwillumbah. so why are you all quarreling and not helping each other? This is a big problem everywhere. i worry when i hear that devotees quarrel and don't get along. i don’t want to hear quarrel-related topics. like the trees. This place. Why quarrel? if anyone wants anything from you. if you do not change.

and who hate others. and billions of other cowherd boys surround Him. unable to tolerate His separation. Krsna’s Gopis Don’t Quarrel As Kåñëa wanders from one forest to another. it is improper for them to think.Harmony Krsna’s Friends Don’t Quarrel çré-çuka uväca itthaà çarat-svaccha-jalaà padmäkara-sugandhinä nyaviçad väyunä vätaà sa -go-gopälako 'cyutaù Çrémad-Bhägavatam (10. We cannot imagine how 52 .” He allows others to win. and the devotees of Kåñëa are acyuta-gotra. the gopés are in their homes. “i am defeated and you have won. Kåñëa takes all His cows and cowherd friends from one forest to another. rather. searching for something. Madhumaìgala. The infallible Lord. Why quarrel? in the Çrémad-Bhägavatam. coming in Kåñëa’s lineage. entered that Våndävana forest.1) Çré Çukadeva Gosvämé said: Thus. Kåñëa tells His friends. and plays with them along the way. Däma. and He would become so happy. Lord Rämacandra is also like this. “i am better than others. the Våndävana forest was filled with transparent autumnal waters and cooled by breezes perfumed with the fragrance of lotus flowers growing in the clear lakes. Why? Being devotees. He used to behave in this same way with Lakñmaëa and others. Kåñëa is known as Acyuta because He is infallible and eternal. who hardly chant.” Avoid this false ego. it may seem as if there is some quarreling going on.21. be like trees. i know so many persons who don’t attend class. accompanied by His cows and cowherd boyfriends. but that is solely in love and affection. Sudämä. but i have never heard that He quarrels with them.

there is no bhakti. Lord Kåñëa exhibited His transcendental form as the greatest of dancers as He entered the forest of Våndävana. The cowherd boys sing and dance in glorification of Kåñëa.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels much attachment and affection the gopés have for Him. From neck to feet. He is also decorated with Tulasé leaves and maïjarés. and the cowherd boys sang His glories. cämeli. calling out. if there is no attachment.5) Wearing a peacock-feather ornament upon His head. they talk about Him as if they are physically present with Him in the forest. 53 . Always carrying Kåñëa is their minds and hearts. and no one is quarreling. especially belé. He filled the holes of His flute with the nectar of His lips. a yellow garment as brilliant as gold. None of them are chattering and pattering. Kåñëa is decorated with a garland of colorful forest flowers. of which there are four types: svapakña. in their rooms. discussing in groups of likeminded friends His qualities and pastimes. barhäpéòaà naöa-vara-vapuù karëayoù karëikäraà bibhrad väsaù kanaka-kapiçaà vaijayantéà ca mäläm randhrän veëor adhara-sudhayäpürayan gopa-våndair våndäraëyaà sva-pada-Rämaëaà präviçad géta-kértiù Çrémad-Bhägavatam (10. and suhåt. Beautifully playing His flute in the forest. The gopés see Kåñëa dancing. Like-minded gopés sit in groups. all glory to You!” it is difficult to find the equivalent English words to express this Sanskrit phrase. “He Kåñëa. beautifying it with the marks of His footprints.21. tomare jaya ho! – O Kåñëa. He is in the forest and they are in their homes. taöasthä. blue karëikära flowers on His ears. which exude so much honey that numerous bumblebees hum around them. and jühé. and the vaijayanté garland. The gopés give very masterful descriptions of Kåñëa. vipakña.

by simply thinking. tiri. and gazing with sidelong glances that attract the world.” Always follow in the footsteps of the gopés. then take the shelter of a high-class devotee in the line of Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé and Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé. “Now you are satisfied.Harmony speaking as if singing. you are thirsty. They want to forget Kåñëa. and also discuss the pastimes of Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu with Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé and Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé. calling. we should share Kåñëa-related questions and answers. His appearance.” And. very humble. if He does not appear there.” They vividly hear Him calling them with His flute from many miles away. The gopés hear the very beautiful flute-song. and think. but not like the gopés see Him. 54 . “Dhiri. come on the bank. and be attached to Kåñëa like they are. very humble. dhiri. and you will quickly realize His pastimes. come easily. Brahmä may see Kåñëa in a trance. You can drink water here. kléà. Kåñëa should always manifest in your heart. niri. They speak to each other in this way. Come on. but they can’t. “Come on. They describe Him as if He were in front of them. This is the process to become attached to Kåñëa. remembering nothing but Him. Tiri. They glorify His sweetness and beauty when He stealthily gazes at them with sidelong glances. if you like. When we assemble together. “This is Manasi-gaìgä. Oh. They were very humble.” Or. come on.” When Kåñëa plays on His flute. “He is calling me. Don’t give trouble to others. not about any worldly topics. and His behavior. after the cows drink. and all are attracted. This is Pävana-sarovara. you can also hear His flute-song wherever you are. When Kåñëa goes to herd the cows. He tells them. They gave Him their heart.” Then. niri. “i want to hear the flute-song of Kåñëa. seeing them thirsty He says to them. Krsna’s Cows Don’t Quarrel The gopés describe Kåñëa’s gait.

all persons may become disciples of such a self-controlled person. O Kavaré. Come and hear very attentively. if you continue in this way. and the agitation of the genitals can instruct the entire world. Murwillumbah. at least for seven days. the onset of anger. Try to give this up. the urge of the belly.” they immediately come to Him. i will not hear any quarrel-related problems. O Dhavalé. Then. atyähäraù prayäsaç ca prajalpo niyamägrahaù 55 . the agitation of the mind. I Will No Longer Hear About Quarrels Now it is late. Australia: June 19. From tomorrow. çlokas one and two: väco vegaà manasaù krodha-vegaà jihvä-vegam udaropastha-vegam etän vegän yo viñaheta dhéraù sarväm apémäà påthivéà sa çiñyät A wise and self-composed person who can subdue the impetus to speak. 2001 Like Red Bulls We have been discussing Çré Upadeçämåta. you will become humble like trees throughout your life. and follow my instructions.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels “O Kälindé. in other words.Tomorrow i will speak further on these beautiful topics of Våndävana. the vehemence of the tongue.

The six urges delineated in çloka number one and the six impediments to bhakti in çloka number two are out of our control. An aspiring devotee may be very good. How can you control these urges? You cannot control them. Do not take on that quality of bulls. What is that process? it is explained in the third çloka: utsähän niçcayäd dhairyät tat-tat-karma-pravartanät 56 . not mad. take on this quality. and this is very harmful. Yet. (2) endeavors that are opposed to bhakti. We can remember. or memorize. be like bulls when they serve and support like fathers. (5) association with persons who are opposed to bhakti. the instructions given in the first two çlokas of Çré Upadeçämåta. they will lift you up and throw you with their horns. (3) useless mundane talks. Sometimes he may be controlled by anger. Never be like bulls when they fight with others or beat them. at other times he may become mad if anything happens against his desire. Let us be always humble and tolerant. (4) failure to adopt essential regulations or fanatical adherence to regulations. and sometimes like red bulls. and (6) greed. if you come in front of them. and humble at times. simple. and he will begin to beat anyone who comes in front of him.Harmony jana-saìgaç ca laulyaà ca ñaòbhir bhaktir vinaçyati Bhakti is destroyed by the following six kinds of faults: (1) eating too much or collecting more than necessary. i hear that many devotees are very humble sometimes. or the restlessness of the mind to adopt worthless opinions. however – a very grand process – which can control them. but it is essential that we also try to follow them. instead. There is one process.

each of the two brothers said. if you have committed an offense to another devotee. “i promise that i will no longer be a sense enjoyer. and then follow. atheists and pseudo-religionists. your tongue.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels saìga-tyägät sato våtteù ñaòbhir bhaktiù prasidhyati Progress in bhakti may be obtained by the following six practices: (1) enthusiasm to carry out the rules which enhance bhakti. the association of those who are overly attached to women and the association of Mäyävädés. Murwillumbah. 2001 57 . and (6) adopting the good behavior and character of pure devotees. even when there is delay in attaining one’s desired goal. (3) fortitude in the practice of bhakti. Your mind. Australia: January 21. then the two previous çlokas will be followed automatically. even in the midst of obstacles. (4) following the limbs of bhakti such as hearing (çravaëa) and chanting (kértana) and giving up one’s material sense enjoyment for the pleasure of Çré Kåñëa. Try to know the meaning of this çloka. then go to him at once and beg pardon: “i have done wrong to you. i will not do anything wrong again. (5) giving up illicit connection with women. Please excuse me. if you do not follow all these principles.” And they never did. it means you are not following me. (2) firm faith in the statements of the çästra and the guru whose words are fully in line with the çästra. and you are not following Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu and Rädhä-Kåñëa Conjugal.” When Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu and Nityänanda Prabhu liberated Jagäi and Mädhäi. if you follow this third çloka. Try to be like this. you are not following Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. and all your senses will thus be and very easily controlled. or patience during the practice stage of bhakti. They became so humble.

6 in his previous manifestation as Çrématé Rädhikä’s parrot in Vraja. after my class. may come to you. Don’t allow your eye lids to drop down. Freedom from Anger Try to hear this very carefully. Many devotees who were there during the manifest presence of parama-püjyapäda Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämé Mahäräja did not follow this process. and this is perhaps the third.6 This is the process. Without such remembrance you will always be angry and beset with many problems. That is why you have no taste for chanting and hearing. you will have to remember this çloka of Çrémad-Bhägavatam – not the çloka. Don’t even chant. By this process Çré Çukadeva Gosvämé.No One Else To Blame Pay Attention to This Message What are you doing? Stop making garlands. 58 . after which he took birth from her womb as a youth. You will always be upset. Through her mouth. the personification of transcendental knowledge and the embodiment of bhakti. in fact. i have come for only four or five days. and also with your mouth. Rather. if you want to do bhajana. At that time you can chant and remember Kåñëa. Çukadeva Gosvämé entered her womb and remained there for eleven years. but don’t neglect any senior Vaiñëava who is on the level of guru. but its meaning and mood. and now you are not following. continually drink that Vaiñëava’s words with your eyes and ears. You can chant when ordinary devotees like yourselves give class. Çukadeva Gosvämé entered the wide-open mouth of Vyäsadeva’s wife while she was hearing ÇrémadBhägavatam from him. it is best to make the garland of this harikaöha in your heart. you’re losing your time. and you will not be able to do bhajana. Your attention is not here. You can make garlands at night.

good and bad. is certainly a bona fide candidate for becoming Your unalloyed devotee. and who always offers obeisances unto You.14. What is the meaning of this phrase of the 59 . What is the best way to think when a problem comes? “Kåñëa has sent this.” Considering Krsna’s Mercy When the Muslims were beating Çréla Haridäsa Öhäkura in the market places. Why has Kåñëa sent what He has sent? Su-samékñamäëo bhuïjäna evätma-kåtaà vipäkam. “Kåñëa wants to teach the world tolerance. Mahäprabhu has done it. There is certainly something good here for me. words. He wants to glorify me throughout the world.8) One who seeks Your compassion and thus tolerates all kinds of adverse conditions due to the karma of his own past deeds. he considered. What is the meaning of su-samékñamäëo? it is the careful consideration or judgment of what is good and what is bad.Bhakti Avoids Quarrels tat te 'nukampäà su-samékñamäëo bhuïjäna evätma-kåtaà vipäkam håd-väg-vapurbhir vidadhan namas te jéveta yo mukti-pade sa däya-bhäk Çrémad-Bhägavatam (10. who engages always in Your devotional service with his mind. and body. We should see how Kåñëa has arranged all circumstances for our benefit.” We should see something good in whatever happens to us. “Kåñëa is arranging everything. Su means that ‘considering. for my auspiciousness. and He wants to use me as an example of that. We determine.” We will have to reconcile everything in this way. for my benefit. both good and bad. is due to the mercy of Kåñëa.’ We consider that everything in this world. Kåñëa has mercifully done this.

su-samékñamäëo bhuïjäna evätma kåtaà vipäkam håd-väg-vapurbhir vidadhan namas te. By this situation You want to glorify me by using me to set an example. and Kåñëa is also not responsible." High-class devotees think.’ and väg means ‘by speech. so merciful. that You have invested Your whole power in Your name – and i can chant that name." Vidadhan namas te." 60 . and i engage in more nonsense than Jagäi and Mädhäi. You are merciful. he offers praëämäs by folding his palms. and we will have to be ready to taste these results.Harmony above-mentioned çloka? Why are all the troubles. Thus i will very quickly become free of these impurities. How merciful You are. i am guilty. and i will be able to attain Your service. then vidadhan namas te. and problems coming to us? Kåñëa is not the cause. Who is responsible? i am. i am worthless. if problems and sufferings approach. "O Kåñëa. No One Else Is Guilty “No one else is guilty. "O Kåñëa. Such conditions are the results of our past activities. i am more insignificant than the worms in stool. Thinking in this way. You are creating the process by which i can very soon reach You and serve You. i am responsible for whatever activities i have performed. suffering. i am stupid. The devotee always offers praëämäs to Kåñëa. "O Prabhu. we will always be happy – even if we have millions of problems. You have sent this to purify me from all the results of my past activities. miseries. Håd means ‘by the core of the heart. it is the arrangement of Kåñëa that reactions must come as a result of whatever actions we perform. for any troubles that fall upon me. sorrows. you are very tricky. they come to purify us. By having given me this difficult situation.’ The sincere devotee prays. a devotee offers obeisances and considers.” By thinking like this.

Bhakti Avoids Quarrels Even if a father has not written a will. Toulouse. when he dies. Similarly. His son is his natural heir. Kåñëa will automatically give that devotee vraja-prema. by rolling on the earth in appreciation of Kåñëa’s mercy. still. France: July 1999 61 . his property automatically goes to his son. a devotee can become the heir to the Lord’s service and attain prema.

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We can preach and do bhakti.” After this incident everyone became very careful. i don’t think you have taken initiation at all. 64 . Antya-lélä (4. One day. but we heard about it afterwards an informed Çréla Gurudeva. “You are rotten. “Householders have nothing to do with bhakti. one of the brahmacärés gave class and said that all householders are rotten. but nondevotees are always condemned and abominable. We brahmacärés and sannyäsés are strong. Çréla Bhakti Prajïäna Keçava Gosvämé Maharaja. At that time. and so was Kåñëa Himself. Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu. understanding that advancement in bhakti depends only on bhakti itself.67) Anyone who takes to devotional service is exalted. because He married in Dvärakä. Çréniväsa Äcärya. and all of the gopés were married. You have no connection with bhakti. yei bhaje sei bodo abhakta hina chara kåñëa-bhajane nahi jati-kuladi-vicara Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. He told his audience. You don’t know any siddhänta. Are they rotten? The Päëòavas were householders. you are especially rotten. Advancement in bhakti has nothing whatever to do with family prestige and one’s position in society. He at once became furious and told that brahmacäré. but these rotten householders cannot. Most of our äcäryas were married. You are not even a Vaiñëava. Are they rotten? Oh. there were about forty brahmacärés and ten sannyäsés in our group.” "You Are Rotten" None of the sannyäsés were in the class when the brahmacäré spoke in that way.Bhakti Doesn’t Depend on Asrama Once i was in Äsäma with my Gurudeva.

65 . in fact many are desperate to commit offences. and they have nothing to do with bhakti. i actually prefer the gåhastha devotees if they are more polite than the sannyäsés. a brahmacäré. and if they have not left the teachings of Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämé Maharaja and his paramparä. or gåhastha to offend a Vaiñëava. i think that for the most part gåhasthas do not commit offences. if he really knows the science of Kåñëa. or in any position. i am a sannyäsé. They have no fear at all. We do not think. “i am learned. no matter what his status. However. because they are afraid of what will happen if they do so. sei guru haya Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. But nowadays sannyäsés and brahmacärés are not at all afraid of committing offences. he is actually guru. the Vaiñëava line coming from Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. Sannyäsés sometimes have a great false ego and think. They commit offences one after another. a sannyäsé. again and again. Everyone in our line – from Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu to paramapüjyäpada Çréla Bhaktivedänta Svämé Maharaja and myself – takes this view. that is.128) One may be a brähmaëa. a sannyäsé.Harmoniums Asramas kiba vipra. One may be a gåhastha. it is very harmful for any sannyäsé. in any case. if he knows the established philosophical truths – the philosophy of the love and affection that was taught by Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu He is a pure Vaiñëava. those who are offending their guru and other Vaiñëavas cannot return. Madhya-lélä (8.” if they have this conception. All the sannyäsés with such false egos have fallen down. brahmacäré. they are sure to fall down. or even a çüdra.” Polite Householders in fact. kiba nyasi. They may return to the path of bhakti if they have not offended any Vaiñëava. sudra kene naya sei kåñëa-tattva vetta. “All the gåhasthas are rotten.

Be careful. so we don’t have so much association with high-class Vaiñëavas. Gurudeva. Sannyäsés sometimes give up their renunciation.” Consequently. Sometimes a preacher may say as a point of reference. they themselves become lusty and associate with women in the mood of sensual enjoyment. Tolerant Householders Householders are more tolerant and advanced in devotion to Kåñëa than many modern sannyäsés. Los Angeles. where they preached very successfully. Always glorify Kåñëa. “We don’t know anything. then all the bad qualities that he describes will come on his head and in his heart. Then. We are in family life.Harmony whereas gåhasthas are somewhat polite and think. California: June 5. “Don’t be lusty. don’t be angry. after saying this. They cannot give up the renounced order and fall down. they respect Vaiñëavas. the Vaiñëavas.” without criticizing anyone. the pastimes of Mahäprabhu. because they have not accepted the renounced order in the first place. 1998 Criticizing That Brahmacari “He fled from here” Çréla Prabhupäda Bhaktisiddhänta Sarasvaté Öhäkura once sent some devotees to preach in East Bengal. But if he criticizes others. Do not criticize even if one does something to be criticized. When they asked him what he wanted them to do. he 66 . They tell others to be careful regarding women and to give up their wives and children. and especially the pastimes of Nityänanda Prabhu.

They made a temple in that center. and Vaiñëavas. So i don’t want to make a center here. You know. “O Gurudeva. with Deities ready to be installed by him.” “Prabhupada is So Merciful” The brahmacäré began to weep. they worked day and night to prepare the preaching center. “i will be very happy if you establish a preaching center. “i do not want to establish a preaching center here. Çréla Prabhupäda arrived at the temple at mid-day. but i was not happy. and they began searching everywhere for that brahmacäré. and was very pleased to see everything they had done. Search for him and bring him to me. But you have chastised him and he has gone away. otherwise i will leave.” “Bring him to me” Çréla Prabhupäda replied. in this world it takes hundreds of gallons of blood to rescue a person from the clutches of mäyä. at first that devotee was a good brahmacäré. He apologized to that brahmacäré. nor do i want to install the Deities. “ÇrélaPrabhupäda is so merciful.” All the disciples became anxious. He then asked. but later he became entangled with a lady. “Please excuse me.” Accordingly. and when you are ready i will come there with many devotees. guru. Please come with me. 67 . expertly arranging all kinds of facilities so that Çréla Prabhupäda would come there and be happy. if that brahmacäré made some mistake. crying out. Çréla Prabhupäda is very unhappy with us. Hayagréva Brahmacäré somehow discovered his whereabouts. We rebuked him so much for his behavior that he fled from here.Harmoniums Asramas replied. i was working here in a watch company. “Where is the brahmacäré who came here first and worked so hard?” They told him. it would have been washed away by his chanting and service to Hari.

para-svabhäva-karmäëi yaù praçaàsati nindati sa äçu bhraçyate svärthäd asaty abhiniveçataù Whoever indulges in praising or criticizing the qualities and behavior of others will quickly become deviated from his own best interest by his entanglement in illusory dualities. neither devotees nor even worldly people. 68 . all based on the one Absolute Truth. Rather. So. one should see this world as nothing more than the combination of material nature and the enjoying souls. but i was thinking.1-2): çré-bhagavän uväca para-svabhäva-karmäëi na praçaàsen na garhayet viçvam ekämakaà paçyan prakåtyä puruñeëa ca The Supreme Personality of Godhead said: “One should neither praise nor criticize the conditioned nature and activities of other persons. whether they are good or bad.” He immediately went running and weeping to Çréla Prabhupäda. What endless mercy he has! He is more merciful than Lord Kåñëa. and all his anarthas were washed away in a moment.28.Harmony i wanted to return. “But Çréla Prabhupäda has called me. Do not glorify worldly people. it is stated in Çrémad-Bhägavatam (11. He fell flat at his Guru Mahäräja’s lotus feet. do not criticize anyone. if you do so. all their bad activities will come to you and your life will be spoiled. ‘How can i show my face?’ That is why i did not come back.

if you abuse someone. we will surely have to taste the reactions. This instruction is for all. “i will poke out your eyes. preaching well and behaving very well. in this way everyone will trust you. So be very humble. Why should we take flesh or eggs? Eggs are like wombs. if we engage in sinful activities. Whatever lust and other attachments are present in that person’s heart will go away very soon if he is chanting and remembering and listening to hari-kaöha. others will slap you. Hawaii: February 7. do not worry about others. Be very careful. so you have no right to criticize.Harmoniums Asramas it is very. very difficult to bring someone from the clutches of mäyä. This is very serious. and they will also trust Kåñëa. very serious. 2005 Harmonious Household-Life Tit For Tat We are human beings.” he will do the same to you. if you give others a slap. 69 . Guru and Kåñëa are responsible for others. Good Behavior Brings Trust i encourage you all to do nagara-saìkértana in your area. if you tell someone. Hilo. very polite. is there any lust in you? is there any deceit and hypocrisy in you? Be worried about that. First look at your own condition and try to purify yourself. he will abuse you. and very sweet to all – especially to Kåñëa. You cannot do anything to help them.

while traveling to Våndävana you may quarrel with each other.Harmony A No-Problem Household Life i desire that all householders who are initiated by me become strong in their family life – husbands not divorcing their wives. but both are cooperating. everywhere and in everything. like Çréniväsa Äcärya. all husbands chaste to their wives. Our singer. Prahläda never wanted anything from Kåñëa. their only problem is. and like Çyämänanda Prabhu. She considers that only half is hers and that all is for her husband. Always be very tolerant. always be very strong. “How can we attain the mercy of our Gurudeva?” i request that all householders become like them – like Çréväsa Paëòita. Kåñëa-känta. Both are independent. be happy. if you are householders. 70 . but i request that it be easily solved. don’t divorce each other. He was always saw his worshipful Deity. Giving everything to me. “How and where can i have Kåñëa’s darçana?” Only this. and they had no problems. Yaçodä-nandana has given all kinds of freedom to Anaìga-mohiné. So be tolerant. then be like Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé. and wives chaste to their husbands. and his wife Yogamäyä are so beautifully helping each other. Controlled Senses Remove Problems Even in family life. There may be some problems. and if you have no wife and children. Our only problem should be. be like Çré Prahläda Mahäräja. and help newcomers. Otherwise. nothing else. and from there you will have to return to your homes in the West. and Yaçodä-nandana thinks the same way toward her. you will not reach Våndävana. don’t quarrel. and wives not divorcing their husbands. or some difference of opinion. How loving they are to each other. They were all householders. i want all my householders to be like Yaçodä-nandana and Anaìgamohiné.

he used to take rotten Jagannätha prasädam. try to follow Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé. His renunciation was only for this. His father told him. but at the same time i want to help by sending you a brähmaëa and a servant. more. if you want to become pure devotees. more. thus calling for many problems. “You can do bhajana. Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé’s character and devotion is topmost. As far as Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé is concerned.” Why did he refuse his father’s offer? So that he could be a bona fide devotee. This is appropriate because you are my son. you can follow Prahläda Mahäräja. He considered that if he would take anything tasty. we will then be able to follow Çréla Raghunätha-däsa Gosvämé. he had nothing to do with opulence. who was always and only immersed in vraja-prema. he rejected standing at Siàha-dvära and waiting to see if anyone would give him some prasädam. And. He used to happily take this. then wake up and search for more. Rather. What was the reason? He rejected the tasteful prasädam of Jagannätha-deva. He considered that if he would take tasteful prasädam. if we have the association of a tattvajïa-rasika-vaiñëava in the line of Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu. more. but we cannot realize this at present. more. but only those remnants that were rejected by even the cows.Harmoniums Asramas and helped the children of the demons to be very bona fide devotees. He used to wash it with water. the son of a king. He would then have to sleep. he would end up taking more. so rotten that it had been rejected even by the cows. and then add one or two grains of salt. All the teachings and moods of Prahläda Mahäräja were situated in the dust of the lotus feet of Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé. Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé used to take the remnants of Jagannätha. gopéprema – service to Çré Çré Rädhä-Kåñëa. The brähmaëa will cook for you and give you very excellent prasädam. 71 . and he rejected everything his father offered him. Therefore. he would end up filling his stomach to the brim. we first imbibe all the teachings of Prahläda Mahäräja. but more so.

Don’t eat anything for one day. and within your mind render service to Rädhä and Kåñëa in Våndävana. and i am seeing although you are unaware. Kåñëa will be very far away. and always 72 . You will see that Kåñëa will somehow arrange everything for you. then try to learn all these principles. “Don’t take delicious. rich foodstuffs.Harmony Krsna Removes Problems if you want to be devotees. in that way you will solely remember Çré Çré Rädhä-Kåñëa and GauraNityänanda Prabhu. Do not expect honor. Avoid decorating yourself with expensive. two days. You should not eat very palatable food. Regarding those who do not follow these principles. if you have no trust in my words. He will take upon His head all your requirements and bring them to you. Antya-lélä (6. Always chant the holy name of Lord Kåñëa. He is funny. gramya-katha na sunibe. You can make an experiment and test my words. i am looking. somehow He will arrange. He will be very anxious for you. 237) Do not talk like people in general or hear what they say. He is doing everything. nor should you dress very nicely. Mahäprabhu instructed Raghunätha-däsa. but offer all respect to others. opulent dresses. otherwise you will not be able to control your senses. then make an experiment and see for yourself. Kåñëa will then take all your requirements on His head and carry them to you.236. gramya-varta na kahibe bhala na khaibe ara bhala na paribe amani manada hana krsna-nama sada la’be vraje radha-krsna-seva manasa karibe Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. three days – just chant. remember. and serve. if you are not doing anything for your maintenance and only observing these principles.

antare niñöhä kara. “O Kåñëa. bähye loka-vyavahära acirät kåñëa tomäya karibe uddhära Çré Caitanya-caritämåta.239) Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu continued. if our faith is in externals and not in the internal. “Within your heart you should keep yourself very faithful. We don’t give our hearts internally. For the time being. “Don’t put your faith in the external. Thus. We maintain so many attachments and we have so much affection to those attachments. we say off-handedly.Harmoniums Asramas engage internally.” Mahaprabhu continued: markaöa-vairägya nä kara loka dekhäïä yathä-yogya viñaya bhuïja’ anäsakta haïä Çré Caitanya-caritämåta.” Mahäprabhu further instructed Raghunätha däsa. but externally you may behave like an ordinary man. your devotion for Rädhä and Kåñëa. enjoy the material world in a befitting way and do not become attached to it. and outwardly speak in this way to others: “Are you okay? How are you? How are your children? i have so much affection for them. in making an offering to Kåñëa. Kåñëa will soon be very pleased and deliver you from the clutches of mäyä. You should take this thing. Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu. 73 . Keep this in your heart. in the service of Rädhä and Kåñëa. and Nityänanda Prabhu.” We chant Hare Kåñëa in kértana like monkeys dancing.” But that is what we are doing.238) You should not make yourself a show-off-devotee and become a false renunciant. then what happens internally? We get the opposite of spiritual life. Madhya-lélä (16. Madhya-lélä (16.” Internal and External Harmony Don’t show your bhakti.

Your only problem should be this: “O Kåñëa. and others who sacrificed so much for their country and society.Wales: May 5. with no anxieties or problems. Ladies are not only responsible for cooking and bearing children. it is important for them to avoid thinking of women as mere servants of the house or as simply meant for bearing children. the famous Queen of Jhansi. 74 . Mothers have more responsibility than fathers. Women play a very responsible role in educating children. or whose wives have died – be renounced. Their children should be taught Vedic culture and should be protected from atheistic influence. Don’t be greedy to eat the very big laglu (representing sense gratification). we find many examples of courageous women such as Lakñmé Bäé.Harmony Those of you who have been kicked out by your wives. Aberyswyth. Men have their own part to play. Vedic personalities such as Lord Rämacandra and the Päëòavas showed how to respect women. Always try to engage yourself in Kåñëa consciousness. 1998 For Peace in The family The ladies’ duty is to create a peaceful environment in the house. it is incumbent upon them to also see that their children become learned in bhagavad-bhakti. and it is essential that they also treat women with respect. for they must teach their children about Bhagavän and bhakti from the children’s earliest years. where are You?” Then you will be very strong. in india. very poisonous. and strong and courageous like Bhéma and Arjuna. This is very dangerous.

Similarly. When that sannyäsé went begging in his native place. at any time. unenthusiastic.Harmoniums Asramas india should reflect the principles of sanätana-dharma that prevailed when the Päëòavas ruled the world. and in this regard we have the historic example of the tridaëòi-bikñuka . but not from guru. “Dongi sannyäsé (bogus. because Fiji is like india on a small scale. Çréla Bhaktivinoda Öhäkura emphasizes that we continue to practice sädhana-bhakti with firm determination. They would break his daëòa. and fathers. My dear sons. Cooking is also arcanaà. Lord’s lotus feet (päda-sevanam). daughters. insult him. mothers. [Translated from Çréla Gurudeva’s Hindi discourse by Jagannätha däsa Adhikäré] Lautoka. serving the ). to first please guru and then to please Çré Kåñëa. without caring about the insults. he will know. 75 . Everyone will be happy. How will you know that guru is happy with your activities? Oh. He continued to go begging there again and again. This is the symptom of bhakti. these principles should never become weak. imitation sannyäsé). sanätana-dharma must prevail in Fiji. Don’t be neutral.” Still. some of the residents would take his water pot (kamaëòalu) and pass urine in it. in his Bhagavat-ärka-maréci-mälä. he was very tolerant. put stool on his head. remembering. please follow the teachings of sanätana-dharma. and worship of the Deity of the Lord (arcanaà). 2002 If Someone Urinates On You Be enthusiastic at the time of hearing. You can hide from yourself. and call him. and the society and country will be at peace. Fiji: February 8.

be tolerant and continue performing bhakti with enthusiasm. it’s best to think. and among sannyäsés. 2005 76 . California: June 17.” Be tolerant if someone insults you. i see that some persons become hopeless and give up bhakti. or steals from you before your eyes. thinking. Don’t be hopeless. Badger. “Bhakti is nothing. Kåñëa will be very soon pleased with you. “No harm. senior sannyäsés most of all. and you will achieve your goal. Çrémad-Bhägavatam relates the life and character of the tridandi-sannyäsé. but they remained tolerant. if someone urinates on your head or body. and Çré Caitanya-caritämåta tells the history of Çréla Haridäsa Öhäkura and others. He will be happy and Gurudeva will be happy. following the examples in the life histories i have mentioned.” Don’t give up. or pushes you so that you fall down.Harmony Similarly. if any bad person cheats you. still. Çréla Bhaktivinoda Öhäkura has collected verses in his Bhagavat-ärka-maréci-mälä. You will also be happy. “i should not continue. if you are tolerant in these cases and continue developing your bhakti. Why do so many calamities and sufferings come? i should give up. Sometimes i see that you are bewildered in these cases. you do not know what to do or what not to do. Sannyäsés should especially take note of this. Thinking. please hear this carefully. Çréla Haridäsa Öhäkura was beaten and tortured. or even acts with violence or extreme envy towards you. in this regard. Be like them – this is sädhana. and Prahläda Mahäräja’s enemies tried to kill him. forcibly takes away your entire wealth by cheating you. Be very strong at the time of sädhana.” Everyone. ties you up. Be tolerant if someone spits on you.

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” They do not consider what the other person is saying. Hearing the Other Person’s Moods Please don’t be like this. then our association is not really in the category of ‘association. or saìga. Let us try to keep our own mood concealed. “You should obey me. Try to be like Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu and His associates. Try to realize their difficulties. You will not be able to understand the topics i am going to explain [on the subject of Bhakti-tattva-viveka] if you maintain anger. Then. (verse 3) This verse is in Çré Caitanya-caritämåta. if we keep our own mood prominent instead of hearing the other person’s mood. Some devotees are always in an arrogant mood. Try to be very humble: tåëäd api sunécena taror api sahiñëunä amäninä mänadena kértanéyaù sadä hariù Çré Çikñäñöakam. They tell others.’ 78 . or whether the other person’s advice is good or bad. What i say is the true to the highest extent. giving up our own moods and hearing the other person’s. and try to hear and accept the other person’s.On Good Communication First try to give up all aspects of your false ego. we can all consider what to do. Let us try to understand the other person’s happiness and distress. but let us not leave it there. who were so broadminded. Always see what other people want. Try to understand their suffering. such as anger. together. let it also come into your heart. i will not obey you.

“Duryodhana is my enemy. Duryodhana and his party performed many harmful and offensive activities against Yudhiñöhira Mahäräja. let us follow the example of Prahläda Mahäräja in his reciprocal dealings with his father. who are not very advanced. so much friendship to those who are equal. but we should tolerate that. They simply tolerate and do the needful. if our ego is like a mountain. and also the example of Yudhiñöhira Mahäräja’s reciprocation with Duryodhana. The first of which is to give love (prema) to Çré Kåñëa and Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu. but Yudhiñöhira never thought. if we do not create this platform. The second duty is to relate in friendship with Vaiñëavas: friendship and service to Vaiñëavas who are our superiors. they will not remain with us. Always tell them hari-kaöha. The third duty is to give abundant mercy to those who are innocent. their showers will not remain on it. instead of calling him “Duryodhana” (evil warrior). These principles are the ground-level platform of bhakti. Doctors are very patient and tolerant if a patient they are operating on abuses them. well-behaved warrior). he always called him “Suryordhana (pure. then although showers of instructions may come. Badger. Let us not quarrel with them. whereas those who are proud will gain nothing. they will flow down the mountain. California: Summer. Rather. Those who are polite and humble (tåëäd api sunécena) will gain everything. They may do something wrong. 1997 79 . including kaniñöha Vaiñëavas. The same is true of a mother with her child. and friendship with mercy and compassion to those who are junior.” in fact.Accepting Responsibility The madhyama-adhikäré. intermediate devotee. has four duties.” He also addressed Duçäsana (ill-behaved ruler) as Suçäsana (well-behaved ruler). and Karëa as Sukarëa. The fourth duty is to neglect those people who have an opposing mood and are committing offenses.

or meditate upon Kåñëa. anger (krodha-vegaà). Let others do as they wish. who do not chant or remember. and so on. but it is still more difficult to control the mind. you can engage it always in the service of Çré Hari. remembering. Don’t criticize Vaiñëavas in any way. only because we do not want to control our senses. they discourage others from coming to hear hari-kathä. pattering. mind (manasaùvegaà). in fact. and who don’t come to hear hari-kathä even though they may live nearby. i was speaking about the need to control the urges of our senses: our speech (väco-vegaà). Since your hand is not able to chant. remember. 80 . tongue (jihvä-vegam). Rädhä-kuëòa. Çyäma-kuëòa. A yogé can stay alive without breathing for a thousand years. Chattering. it is possible to control one’s breathing. and Giriräja Govardhana. Your tongue can be engaged in always chanting the names of the Lord and glorifying Vaiñëavas. and continue to create more. or to shop in the market for Öhäkurajé. We encounter many problems. cutting vegetables. belly and genitals (udaropastha-vegam). and Kaçyapa and Aditi also did this for thousands of years. Dhruva survived in this way for four months. cooking. shopping at the market. without reason. only. The mind wanders aimlessly. and Vaiñëavas by sweeping. Your feet can be engaged in traveling with devotees to Våndävana. There are many persons who have no job to attend to. offering obeisances. only – is to engage all your senses and moods in chanting. gossiping. speaking ill. The only way – only. Can you survive without air for even one minute? This is a very difficult task. and criticizing Vaiñëavas.Our Problems: Not Due To Others Yesterday in my class. don’t criticize anyone. and thus it is very hard to control. guru. and serving Kåñëa.

” if you cannot do even this. chant.” sannyäsé. and engage in bhajana. again separating them.” Why did He say this although it isn't true? The reason is that He was humble. Don’t worry about what others are doing. tåëäd api sunécena taror api sahiñëunä amäninä mänadena kértanéyaù sadä hariù Çré Çikñäñöakam. “Hare Kåñëa. more humble even than a blade of grass. (verse 3) All devotees must follow this principle. Hare Kåñëa. you can mix uncooked rice and däl together while chanting. especially sannyäsés. Don’t criticize anyone. Murwillumbah. He followed the principles of the following verse. if you cannot think of any other engagement to do. Don’t look to see whether others are doing nonsense or acting improperly. remember. please let me know. Hare Kåñëa. “How well am i developing in Kåñëa consciousness? Am i following tåëäd api sunicena. and all devotees follow Him in this regard. taror api sahiñëunä. 2001 Don’t Worry About Others’ Behavior Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu told Rämänanda Räya. amäninä mänadena?” 81 . “Hare Kåñëa.Accepting Responsibility Remaining far from such persons and behavior. giving honor to others.” Then. Australia: January 20. ask yourself. chant. “i am a Mäyävädé . Rather.

if you do. but we should respond in the following way. 82 . but those that who have taken shelter at the lotus feet of Çré Kåñëa will be able to walk on the head of personified time and all other obstacles. Australia: April 29. Question: But those people can put many people in confusion. and remembering Kåñëa?” Murwillumbah. your own life will be spoiled. “How is your bhajana?” Try to ask questions like this: “How is your bhajana? How are you developing in your hearing. Our constitutional religion is bhakti. Some people have cheated us. “Api cet su-duräcäro bhajate mäm ananya-bhäk – One who is engaged in devotional service is to be considered saintly. 2005 I Cheated Them First Çréla Gurudeva: Let us try to control our heart and our mind. because he is properly situated in his determination” (Bhagavad-gétä 9. Don’t quarrel with him. and help others as well. but time is one of the biggest obstacles.30). even if he commits a most abominable action.Harmony Let us take a look at Kåñëa's statement in the Bhagavad-gétä. That is why they are cheating me today. “i have cheated them in a previous birth.” it should not make us angry. always one-pointed. When Vaiñëavas meet. they ask. chanting. Don’t worry about the temporary material contamination in a sincere devotee. there is no question of asking. Try to be surrendered. Don’t criticize someone who is beginning to develop one-pointed bhakti but still has some impurity in his being. that is true. Know that the time factor (käla) is very powerful. “How are you?” Rather.

You started and he reacted. was touring his kingdom. You must die. 83 . you can think. Mathura. the king of entire world. we want to dishonor them. or offense to the holy name of Kåñëa. it is not necessary to become angry. and that sage’s son became so disturbed and angry that he gave a cursed him: “Oh.” Nowadays we don't honor devotees. No one will be able to save you. Upon returning home he committed an offense at the lotus feet of a self-realized sage. Now. but they don’t know what will be the effect of these bogus rumors and criticizing Vaiñëavas. you cannot complain. “i have caused him some harm in a previous birth. This teaching is for all of you. if someone abuses you with words. offend them. otherwise your mind will become agitated and you won’t be able to perform bhakti. through him.” Don’t become angry or envious. the grandson of the great Päëòavas. “His insult doesn’t affect me. i am not offended. India: August 1992 Happy To Be Cursed Once. Such persons may create false rumors about devotees.Accepting Responsibility Çréla Gurudeva: if you hit someone and that person hits you back twice as hard. you have dishonored my father! i curse you that after seven days you must die by a snake-bite. Vaiñëavaaparädha is the very biggest kind of näma-aparädha. Disobeying them.” The offense will turn back against the person who committed it. Parékñit Mahäräja. Kåñëa is giving me the reaction. You can think. and criticize them.

and you will die in seven days. children. i have not been cursed to lose my devotion to Kåñëa. it is not that millions of my births have been affected by this curse. Today. Parékñit Mahäräja considered. “Oh. Although nowadays offenders of Vaiñëavas don’t repent their offenses. “A curse has been given to you by the sage’s son. so that you will be crushed in such a way that no one will be able to save you. and position. garlanding the sage with a dead snake. He was acting by the supreme will of Krsna. He honored Çréla Çukadeva Gosvämé. So actually.Harmony if you commit vaiñëava-aparädha. who was then seated on a vyäsäsana. you must go to hell. Srila Çukadeva Gosvämé arrived at that same spot. 84 .” Very happy to hear this. What shall i do?” in the meantime. was not actually an offense. Toulouse. reputation. right now. He was thinking. i am giving up my wealth.” The king thus left his palace and kingdom and came to the bank of Ganges. so that ultimately he would hear Çrémad-Bhägavatam. What hell? Kåñëa has to manage a new one. As he was wondering about the best course of action for his spiritual welfare. “if i have dishonored this saint. Parékñit Mahäräja repented his so-called offense7 to the sage. nothing bad has happened. France: July 1. a student of the sage came and told him. and heard Çrémad-Bhägavatam from him. the world would hear. then i must be crushed. You will be bitten by a snake. and through him. 1999 7 His action. wife.

she requested her son to bring some flowers from the nearby bushes for her worship. whose only son was a beautiful and charming boy of about nine. “Mother. a poisonous black snake came and suddenly bit him. While he was in the midst of picking flowers. The hunter covered the mouth of the pot and picked it up again. and the hunter was thus able to put it in the clay pot he had been carrying. and remembering Kåñëa. very early in the morning while the brähmaëé was engaged in some duty. “What happened?” and began to weep bitterly. He chanted a mantra by which one can control snakes very easily. she cried out. when she became somewhat pacified. and then approached the boy’s mother. One day. cämeli. She lived in a hut and maintained herself and her son by begging. The snake came from inside the bushes and bit him for no reason. He was innocent. His whole body at once became black. and other flowers from the bushes. When the old widow saw her son. She had been initiated by a high-class Vaiñëava and worshiped Öhäkurajé every day. 85 . A hunter happened to be walking in the forest at that time. “Alas! Alas!” After some time. and he fell flat on the ground and died. the hunter told her. She was happy in her life of worshiping. and began to pick belé. The boy happily set out to follow her order. and became very compassionate when he saw this incident. it became peaceful. When the serpent heard the hunter's mantra. chanting. i was there when the boy was picking flowers. He didn’t attack or disturb the snake at all.Freedom from Anger and Resentment Taking Responsibility for Our Experience Once there was a very poor brähmaëé widow. carrying his body in his arms.

i will then burn it. “i don’t want to kill it. Death personified. i only bit this boy today because Death came and told me.” The hunter insisted. “Are you saying that i have caused this to happen? That i have ordered you to bite the boy? i never did so. Please order me. “Then why should you kill it?” she asked.Harmony “i have caught that poisonous snake by mantra. Please order me to cut the snake into pieces.” That kind brähmaëé widow was a realized soul and a devotee of Kåñëa. Actually. he will attack some other passer-by without any reason. and this boy killed the other person. the serpent interrupted. He said to the snake. am not responsible for this. Please order me. which bit and killed him. and there will be no trace of its existence. but she simply asked him. “The boy is responsible for his own actions. Will that bring my son back?” “Never.” 86 .” At this point. Why accuse me? i am not responsible for this. They had a fight. ‘You should bite him. “This serpent is wicked.” The hunter appealed to the old widow again and again. “Why should you kill the serpent if that will not bring my son back? Please don’t kill it. personally appeared at that spot. i myself. Yamaräja. The person he murdered has now taken birth as the snake and has taken his revenge.’ i’m innocent. He may bite someone else. the serpent also had a human body. suppose you kill this poisonous serpent and burn its body.” Again the hunter repeated. “Oh. You must order me to kill and burn it. the boy’s past actions are like a poisonous snake.” At that moment Yamaräja Mahäräja. neither is the serpent. When he was a human being in his previous life. and kept it in this pot. the controller everyone’s deaths. Don’t kill me. “if i don’t kill this serpent. hunter.” he replied. She simply replied. “Why should you kill me? i was living in those bushes for years and years without biting anyone.

Why are you now afraid to taste the result? You must taste it. What shall i do?” You can also remember Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu and pray: “O Caitanya Mahäprabhu. if you are fearing. Don’t fear. Be like Çré Prahläda Mahäräja and Çréla Haridäsa Öhäkura. and again the serpent would have come as a human to take revenge. still it will come. and that is why reactions are coming. “O Kåñëa. Please bestow Your mercy upon me. if someone abuses you.” Be calm and quiet. Even if someone creates problems to the extent of giving you poison. there are many problems. Although Haridäsa Öhäkura was beaten in so many market places. and chant. i have offended many Vaiñëavas. and Your mercy is coming in this way. Kåñëa Kåñëa Hare Hare.” Consider thinking in this way: “i am worthless. and the mind is always upset. Although i chant the holy name. and the reaction is that i am stupid and nonsense. Hare Räma Hare Räma. in her next life she would have had to take birth. be careful. Räma Räma Hare Hare. No blame. These beatings are the result of all my previous sinful activities. i am without 87 . in this Kali-yuga life is short. it means that you have done something wrong in the past and now the result is coming.if any problem comes in your life. be kind and excuse them. Kåñëa has arranged all situations. You cannot clap with one hand. don’t abuse him in return. O Kåñëa. No Revenge if you abuse anyone. and this is similarly true regarding your good actions. in other words you have done bad things in the past. You will have to taste the results of all of your bad actions. You are causelessly merciful. Kåñëa will arrange that you are also abused. if you don’t want the result. if the widow had asked the hunter to chop and burn the snake. he prayed. “Hare Kåñëa Hare Kåñëa. tears do not come and my heart does not melt. What should i do? i am always besieged with obstacles in my attempt to execute bhakti.

” Toulouse. You have given mercy to Jagäi and Mädhäi. “Hare Kåñëa Hare Kåñëa. France: July. giving honor to all. being very tolerant. hearing. and always remembering Kåñëa. 1999 Two Loving Brothers Hearing. Räma Räma Hare Hare. Kåñëa will bestow His mercy. tåëäd api su-nécena taror iva sahiñëunä amäninä mäna-dena kértanéyaù sadä hariù Çré Çikñäñöakam. Are you hearing so that you will be able to practice? Or. i know only You. and i have not obtained Kåñëa’s mercy. and therefore i am qualified to receive Your mercy.” if you weep in this way. if tears are not coming. hearing – so many billions of years have come and gone.” Always repent like this and chant. and where are we now? We are still where we were. Why not to me? i am more wretched than them. i am weak. Hare Räma Hare Räma.(3) 88 . By properly hearing we will be very humble. you can think.Harmony Vaiñëava association. “i have committed so many offenses. Kåñëa Kåñëa Hare Hare. By chanting in this way. O Caitanya Mahäprabhu. not creating any problems for others. your heart will melt and tears will come. are you hearing only for the sake of hearing? i encourage you all to hear to practice.

and when they finished their studies they returned to their village. “Why did i do this? i am guilty of theft. they were admitted in the gurukula of a very high-class devotee. in such an atmosphere purity manifests. Sanka was elder and Liket was younger. cämeli. They were trained there until they reached the age of about twenty-five. he plucked and smelled a fragrant yellow campaka flower. but ridden by guilt he could not bring himself to do so. he was overcome by the very lovely flowers there. They were very qualified. They had so much love and affection for each other. enclosed in an atmosphere surcharged with the mode of goodness. When Liket entered the garden to offer praëäma to his brother. “Oh. there were two brothers. Upset.” No one should take even an insignificant thing without permission of the owner. where he offered säñöäìgapraëäma to him and began weeping loudly. “Why are you weeping?” Liket wanted to embrace his brother. during the time of india’s ancient Vedic culture. The hut was very simple. brother. When the boys were about five years old.Accepting Responsibility Brothers in the Mode of Goodness Once. he took that flower to his brother. named Çaìka and Liket. i did not ask my brother’s permission for this flower. Unable to check his greed. it was a very charming bhajana-kuöéra. He immediately became very worried and thought. went to take darçana of his elder brother at his bhajana-kuöéra. but it was situated in a beautiful garden with a river flowing by. They knew how to behave towards others according to the laws and regulations of Vedic culture. He said. One day Liket. automatically purifying the thoughts and the heart. the younger brother. especially in etiquette and friendly behavior. His brother asked. i have 89 . Rather they each made separate bhajana-kuöéras just outside their village. for he knew all the rules and regulations of Vedic culture. He realized that he should not have done it. and jühé. The two brothers never married. such as belé.

” “What have you done brother? ” “Oh. “i have excused you. because both had touched the flower. i took this flower without your permission. i can also excuse you. Unable to check my heart. i plucked it and smelled it for my own sense gratification and enjoyment. After his brother medically treated him. i don’t feel pure. when i entered your garden i saw so many beautiful flowers. even though blood flowed profusely from his wrists. “i must become pure. Please come. “Which hand did you use to take the flower?” and then cut off both hands.” Thinking. in ancient times the punishment for stealing was to cut off a thief’s hands. i’ve committed a theft. Liket decided to visit his elder brother again. in this way the thief would always remember his sin. He became worried. i have done wrong.” Liket insisted that he should be ideal and take some punishment. Çaìka asked him. if there is no punishment.” Liket continued to weep. “This is nothing. even though Çaìka repeatedly said. because he could not offer säñöäìga praëäma 90 . if i can punish you.” Çaìka began to smile and. and we will talk. told him. “No brother. and then i will be qualified to be your brother.Harmony done something wrong. Finally. That is why governments throughout the world have made jails for punishment. and the rest of the citizens would fear sinning. i’ve taken something without your permission. Punish me to purify me. he returned to his bhajana-kuöéra and continued doing bhajana. Please don’t excuse me.” Sometimes. so please punish me. there is no purification. Otherwise i will simply be overwhelmed with guilt. First purify me. putting his hands on his brother’s shoulders. So. i want you to punish me. and said. however. because it was nothing. After some time. Liket repeatedly requested Çaìka to punish him. Liket was now happy. i am excusing you. so please give me punishment.

as are one’s knees. nose.” Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé thus wrote Çré Upadeçämåta. Çré Rämacandra and Yudhiñöhira Mahäräja followed all the principles therein. without fear of admonishment. Rules and Regulations Create Peace Çré Caitanya Mahäprabhu told Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. and Çaìka. sprinkled some water on him. very strict laws. “Why are you worried? Your hands will come back. and said.” At once his hands appeared.8 His brother came at that time. (verse 1) 8 When offering säñöäìga praëämäs. and then he embraced his brother. and two feet. one’s head is on the earth. two hands. rules and regulations. brahmacäré. so that devotees can follow them and become qualified to chant and remember Kåñëa. He may be a sannyäsé. Nowadays no one cares for law and order.and Liket-småti. and so we find Manusmåti. he is not really a Vaiñëava. “Kindly write down some rules and regulations. vänaprasthé.Accepting Responsibility as he had no hands. Yajyavalkya-småti. Anyone can do anything without permission. Çaìka and Liket each wrote two of the eighteen Småtis concerning all the rules and regulations of Vedic culture. or anyone else. he must start from here: väco vegaà manasaù krodha-vegaà jihvä-vegam udaropastha-vegam etän vegän yo viñaheta dhéraù sarväm apémäà påthivéà sa çiñyät Çré Upadeçämåta. in india’s ancient Vedic culture there are very. all eight parts of one’s body touch the floor. and that is why everyone used to fear them. 91 . They should not quarrel with each other or create any problems for each other. if any Vaiñëava does not follow the rules and regulations of Çré Upadeçämåta.

Beware. or Mahäprabhu. The Uncontrolled Tongue Creates Wars Väco vegaà means ‘urge of the tongue. the vehemence of the tongue. it is independent. i will give up my life in the fire. Although it was not Draupadé’s nature to make fun of others. i will not allow this. Kåñëa. she once slipped. there will be no problems at all. guru. 92 . the onset of anger. it can go up. if you want the association of elevated devotees. She told Duryodhana. but i refuse to change my husband. all persons may become disciples of such a self-controlled person.” What Draupadé said it was right. i see that if everyone strictly follows these first instructions of Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. and everyone’s life will be so exalted.Harmony A wise and self-composed person who can subdue the impetus to speak. if someone is speaking against bhakti. as your father was blind. “Oh. and it can turn in any direction. be very careful with the tongue. and sideways. the agitation of the mind.’ The tongue has no backbone. What mistake did Sétä make? She said to Lakñmaëa.”9 So. Never say anything that will make a devotee or anyone else become angry or opposed to you. “You have come like a spy for Bharata and Kaikeyé. you are also blind – like father like son. You want Räma to be killed so that you can satisfy your lusty desire for me. or committing offenses to Vaiñëavas. but Sétä was not right. i cannot tolerate this. to facilitate His pastimes and to teach us conditioned souls. down. the urge of the belly and the agitation of the genitals can instruct the entire world. then first follow väco vegaà. i don’t mind dying. if you want to be initiated. then simply try to defeat their 9 Draupadé and Sétä were acting by the wish of the Lord. it was the uncontrolled tongue that caused the great battles of Mahäbhärata and Rämäyaëa. in other words.

Uncontrolled Thoughts Create Quarrels Väco vegaà manasaù. What will you remember? You will think. “Take this. just as he was about to add salt. He would give it to Çré Svarüpa Dämodara. For Himself.” He then took some very bitter neem leaves and ate them. “Oh. you want some salt? And after that you will want some ghee and something sweet? All right. Kåñëa will go from your mind and heart. “He is very wicked. i am very good. He would only take what was required to maintain His life. Manasa refers to the mind: if your mind is not controlled. saying. i should do this and that. you will have to be very strong like Çréla Rüpa Gosvämé. Çréla Gaura Kiçora däsa Bäbäjé Mahäräja wanted to eat a chapatti. if you are coming toward kåñëa-bhakti. 93 . as did Çréla Gaura Kiçora däsa Bäbäjé Mahäräja.” if you harbor thoughts like this. and Çré Jähnavä Öhäkuräëé were ladies. in the sense that it wishes to taste so many delicious things. and you will be happy. i should control him.Accepting Responsibility arguments. How beautiful! How sweet!” if any delicious preparation was offered to Mahäprabhu. creating problems for yourself and for others. i will at once give you a very good preparation. or to the devotees. Once. Çréla Raghunätha däsa Gosvämé. He put a dry chapatti in water. and then. you will quarrel with everyone. but we are not Hanumän. Çré Gaìgämätä Öhäkuräëé. they were gurus of entire Vaiñëava communities. Because it is crooked and is without ‘backbone. and Çré Jähnavä Öhäkuräëé. Try to control your eating. Though Gaìgämätä Öhäkuräëé. Hanumän can cut out the tongue of an offender. he said to his tongue.’ the tongue has another uncontrolled activity. i should finish him.

But we have no faith. Kåñëa. if you cannot control the mind and tongue. anger. But i must use an atom bomb to kill that mosquito. Not only anger. He will support. “Kåñëa. thinking. all the villagers will die. Always remember the glory of Nityänanda Prabhu and the glory of our guru-paramparä. There is a saying in Hindi: “Maëina raìgäyo raìgäya yogé kapra. “Oh. Krodha.” which means. nourish. We want to control. the color of love and affection – and i am giving it to you. like a mosquito. How will we make advancement? By thinking. “Kåñëa is in my heart.” Always chant the names of Kåñëa. Be like Çré Prahläda Mahäräja and Çréla Haridäsa Öhäkura.” Kåñëa is merciful. Wherever the gopés look. Rädhä. we search for an atom bomb.” Repenting like this always. despite the fact that his father repeatedly tried to kill him.” This is the problem. Rather. what should i do? What shouldn’t i do?” 94 . We think. “i am a very wretched person. and save me. Prahläda Mahäräja never wanted to control his demoniac father. so He can do this very quickly. Try to color your mind so that it will be like the minds of the gopés. He will make your environment favorable. they always remember. but why not color your mind?” i have a very powerful dye – anuräga. for any insignificant thing. you will automatically become angry. no harm. Everything is in His hands.Harmony What shall we do? Chant “Govinda Dämodara Mädhaveti. “i will die. Väco vegaà manasaù krodha-vegaà. my family will die. will spoil you. i have no kåñëa-bhakti. “You cover your body in saffron-colored cloth. you will be confused and bewildered. he was thinking. Your mind will be upset.” An Atom Bomb to Kill a Mosquito Nowadays. so many unwanted moods will immerse you. and Mahäprabhu. Kåñëa. you will see that all worldly thoughts will disappear and you will stop being obsessed with thoughts of controlling others.

mind. and genitals. is born of passion. how i behave. On Dvädaçé. 2001 A Pure Heart Once. so many problems arise. everything is favorable. you will see everywhere that the environment is favorable to you. and thus it creates very big problems. Lust is our greatest enemy. you become like mad dogs. Gaura premänande. how i do bhajana. Besides bringing on disease of the stomach. King Ambaréña respectfully received Durväsä Muni. how i don’t waste a moment of time. it is alldevouring and extremely formidable. i am giving my whole time for you.37) Uncontrolled Eating Creates Madness if the belly is not controlled. which indeed transforms into wrath. by resisting the urges of the tongue. Murwillumbah. Try to follow me. On the other hand. The belly wants ever-new tastes. observing the vow of Dvädaçé. you will not be able to control your lust. anger. Know it to be the primary enemy of the jévas in this world. if you cannot tolerate lust. belly. the day after Ekädaçé.Accepting Responsibility Çré Bhagavän said: This desire to enjoy sense objects. the great mystic yogi Durväsä appeared in his house and became his guest. when he was about to break his Ekädaçé fast. speech. Bhagavad-gétä (3. Australia: January 19. Mahäräja Ambaréña was worshiping the Supreme Personality of Godhead in Vrndavana. after accepting his 95 . and Durvasa Muni.

and it immediately became the fiery demoness named Kåtyä. Mahäräja Ambaréña. which includes concluding it by honoring the Lord’s prasäda at the proper time on the following day. he was greeted by him with open arms.” Durväsä Muni was furious. He chastised him with great resentment. and this is your neglect! You are cruel. Durväsä grabbed a lock of his hair and threw it towards Mahäräja Ambaréña. and therefore i will punish you!” Full of wrath. “O Muniji. “What shall i do? On one hand. then even in heaven my existence would be useless. it will be an offense on my part it if i honor prasäda before my guest returns. but Bhakti-devi will remain with me. Drinking water may be considered in the category of eating. he did not come back very soon. went to bathe in the Yamuna River at noontime. upon seeing that the time to break the fast was passing. However. Mahäräja Ambaréña told Durväsä. “You are a hypocrite! You say that you are a devotee of Viñëu. the water that had bathed the Deity. On the other hand. i may go to hell if i offend the brähmaëa in this way. if i offend bhakti.” Thus. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (Summary of Canto 9. “it is far more harmful to disobey bhakti than to disobey a brähmaëa. please come and take prasäda. if i do not properly observe Ekädaçé. then i am offending Ekädaçé. but it may also be considered in the caregory of fasting. Chapter 4) Mahäräja Ambaréña was thinking. but your Viñëu shows honor to brähmaëas whereas you don’t! You ate before feeding me. after consulting with his learned brähmaëa associates. When Durväsä returned to the palace of Mahäräja Ambaréña after taking bath. he decided to drink caraëämåta.Harmony invitation to eat there. because he had understood during his meditation at the river that Mahäräja Ambaréña had drunk water... however. Because he was absorbed in samädhi. i must consider Ekädaçé. 96 .

Go and take shelter of Mahäräja Ambaréña. Lord Viñëu performs the acts of creation and destruction of all the universes. and Mahäräja Ambaréña maintained this mood in relation to Bhagavän. and yet he now ran in fear for his life. Sudarçana immediately burned Kåtyä to death. Listen to Me.” Bhagavän then told Durväsä Muni. “i'll let you know how you can be saved.” Bhagavän said. the Lord personally protected His devotee by sending His ultimate weapon. One of the symptoms of high-class Vaiñëavas is that they'll forget whatever harm another person does to them. and then he ran towards Durväsä.” Durväsä replied. “No. He is samadarñé – he sees everyone. Just go and see.” Durväsä then ran to the planet of Çaìkara. He Returned Evil With Well-Wishing Durväsä Muni then ran to Räma-priya Vaikuëöha and begged Lord Viñëu. into caves. and on the tops of mountains. if He is now sending His cakra. Durväsä then went to Brahmaloka and prayed to Brahmä for protection. otherwise that Sudarçana cakra will also come to me. “Please save me form Your cakra. he'll not be angry. “How can i save you? Simply by His glance. Sudarçana was almost touching him. the Sudarçana cakra. to leave. Durväsä was a powerful yogi. You are brahmaëya-deva.Accepting Responsibility He Fully Depended On Krsna A purchased animal does not think about his own protection or maintenance. Following very closely behind. Brahmä replied. the Lord and protector of the brähmaëas. Therefore. but Lord Çiva told him. 97 . how can i save you? You should go now. with equal vision. so please protect me. enemies and friends. from a distance. “How can i go to him? He’ll be angry. ready to burn him as he ran across oceans. but they’ll never forget whatever good one does to them. Lord Çiva.

and devoid of faith in a self-realized guru cannot possess the results of austerity and knowledge. austerity and learning are certainly auspicious.” The devotee considers that suffering is coming to him from a past life. thinking. practicing the principles of Çré Çikñäñöakam: tåëäd api sunécena taror api sahiñëunä amäninä mänadena kértanéyaù sadä hariù He Blamed Himself Finally convinced and. Bhagavän continued. feeling the burning heat of the Sudarçana cakra. if he is not surrendered. he did this as a repentance. 10 98 . puffed up with false ego. so he never takes revenge. but you should know that austerity and knowledge never stay with proud persons. “You are not qualified. it was only because of his prayers that the cakra did not destroy you.”10 He had been fasting for the entire year that Durväsä was being chased throughout the universe by Sudarçana. At that time Mahäräja Ambaréña felt ashamed. You brought him suffering.” A person who is proud.Harmony Don’t see Mahäräja Ambaréña as the creator of your suffering. Durväsä Rsi left Vaikuëöha to fall at the lotus feet of Mahäräja Ambaréña. Thinking that the fault in the entire incident was his own. such austerity and learning are most dangerous. but still he prayed to the Sudarçana cakra to spare you. You think that you are very intelligent and learned. You are the cause of your own suffering. his austerity and knowledge will become like death for him. nor does he blame anyone else. but when acquired by a person who is not gentle. Your so-called knowledge is actually ignorance. “A brahmarsi like Durväsä is suffering on my behalf. One must be humble. as was the case with Durväsä Muni. For a brähmaëa. Even if one is able to give good lectures due to his learning and scholarship.

No harm if one is a householder. On the contrary. i have been so worried. Now i have seen the glory of the bhaktas. India: August 22. he is not a brähmaëa. he is a devotee. if a devotee is not in bhava-bhakti. Mahäräja Ambaréña served guru and Kåñëa with all his senses. no harm if one is renounced. “O Brähmaëa.” in this way Durväsä Muni saw that the greatness of the bhakta was more than that of any brähmaëa. then please cool down Your heat.” Still. because you have been going here and there without food. “O King. i have been waiting for you for one year. Although we try to engage our senses in the Lord's service. just because of me.” We have seen guru and bhaktas so many times. He Controlled By Love When Durväsä saw that Sudarçana's heat had vanished. He said. please give shelter to this brähmaëa. “if God is pleased with me. Çré Kåñëa will not send His cakra. Please take prasäda. “O Sudarçana. and if i have seen others with equal vision. in whatever situation one finds himself. then please become cool. either in vaidhé-bhakti or rägänuga-bhakti.” Sudarçana now became cool like the moon. We should do the same. 2001 99 . “if in my life i have given donations to devotees and sadhus. Although he was a gåhastha. This is our problem. He then prayed. if a brähmaëa does not honor a Vaisnava. Sudarçana was emitting tremendous heat. he began to understand the glory of Ambaréña Maharaja. by Çrématé Umä däsé] Mathura. but we have never really seen them. we can't. For the benefit our dynasty. [Translated from Çréla Gurudeva’s Hindi lecture. all his senses were engaged. Mahäräja Ambaréña engaged all his senses and moods. and if i have rendered any service to Bhagavän.Accepting Responsibility He therefore prayed. either in Våndävana or anywhere else.” Sudarçana was still not pacified. you destroy demons and maintain bhaktas. if he engages all his senses in service. Ambaréña told him. and therefore he prayed.

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Çrémad-Bhägavatam (7. Bhagavad-gétä (5.11) When the Supreme Personality of Godhead is pleased with the living entity because of his devotional service.” Çrémad-Bhägavatam (7. indeed. a cow.18) 102 . although i have previously heard of it from authoritative sources.17. by virtue of true knowledge.22) Neither Friend nor Enemy Prahläda Mahäräja replied: Let me offer my respectful obeisances unto the Supreme Personality of Godhead. one becomes a paëòita and does not make distinctions between enemies. an elephant. i am now actually experiencing this. “Every one of us is an eternal servant of God. sees with equal vision a learned and gentle brähmaëa. You are no other than the personality of religion. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (1. friends and himself. a dog and a dog-eater (outcaste.The Wisdom of Sastra What if I Point the Finger? The King (Pariksit) said: O you who are in the form of a bull! You know the truth of religion. and therefore we are not different from one another.5.12) The Supreme Personality of Godhead said: The humble sage. he then thinks.5. intelligently. whose external energy has created the distinctions of “my friend” and “my enemy” by deluding the intelligence of men. and you are speaking according to the principle that the destination intended for the perpetrator of irreligious acts is also intended for one who identifies the perpetrator.

Scriptural References Lord Kapiladeva said: i am present in every living entity as the Supersoul.29.22) For Peace of Mind One who offers Me respect but is envious of the bodies of others and is therefore a separatist never attains peace of mind.29. through charitable gifts and attention. who abide in all creatures as their very Self. if someone neglects or disregards that Supersoul everywhere and engages himself in the worship of the Deity in the temple. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (3. must be in ignorance and is compared to one who offers oblations into ashes. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (3. is situated in every living entity's heart. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (3. i (Lord Kapiladeva) cause great fear to whoever makes the least discrimination between himself and other living entities because of a differential outlook.29. as well as through friendly behavior and by viewing all to be alike.23) My dear Mother.21) One who worships the Deity of Godhead in the temples but does not know that the Supreme Lord. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (3.27) 103 . a person who is ignorant of My presence in all living entities never pleases Me by the worship of My Deities in the temple. one should propitiate Me.29. because of his inimical behavior towards other living entities. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (3.29. Çrémad-Bhägavatam (3.26) Therefore.24) As the blazing fire of death. even if he worships with proper rituals and paraphernalia. as Paramätmä. that is simply imitation.29.