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10 of the Best
Love & Relationship Tarot Spreads
by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd

10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved.

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INDEX

Groundhog Day Tarot Spread………………………………………p. 3 Three Types of Love Tarot Spread……………………………..p. 5 Mr & Mrs Smith – Healing a Toxic Relationship…………..p. 8 Should I Stay or Should I Go? ……………………………………..p. 11 Single and Happy Tarot Spread…………………………………..p. 14 The Quickie………………………………………………………….……..p. 16 The Ultimate “Will He Come Back?” Tarot Spread…….p. 18 Lessons and Challenges Tarot Spread………………………….p. 21 Actions Speak Louder than Words Tarot Spread…….….p. 23 The Relationship Pioneer Tarot Spread……………………..p. 25

BONUS MATERIALS Yes/No Love Tarot Reading Techniques……………………..p. 27 Will He Call? The Majors (Tarot Humour)………………….. p. 29

ABOUT LISA & CONTACT INFO……………………………………..P. 31

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Groundhog Day Tarot Spread
We are unlikely to get relationship satisfaction through the belief that it’s our partner that has to change. ~ Joe Dunn and Mali Apple (from The Soulmate Experience)

Have you ever been in a relationship that is making you feel trapped and miserable? You have every intention of making things right (you do love each other), yet somehow things keep falling apart. Reactive responses are activated. Irritation, anger, anxiety, fear and pride run the show… and somehow being right has become more important than being kind to your beloved. Ready to break free? Ready to establish a healthier pattern of relating? The Groundhog Tarot Spread is for you!

1. Spirit – Karmic Lesson. Love flows from Spirit, as does any Karmic lessons (past life stuff). This is your main current lesson… and all relationship lessons are about releasing blocks to loving! 2. You – BLOCKS, current attitude/approach. This card indicates how you may be stopping the flow of love through your mental attitude. 3. Your Partner – BLOCKS, current attitude/approach. This card indicates how your partner may be stopping the flow of love through his/her mental attitude. 4. Your Relationship – Current pattern of relating. This card
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~ Joe Dunn and Mali Apple 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. If not. rather than what annoys you and change what you can about yourself. 7. There may be more but this is the one Spirit wants to shine the spotlight on right now. and negativity with a positive approach or action. Justice and The Wheel of Fortune. provided you act on the advice given in positions 5 & 6. This card shows you how your partner can refocus their thoughts to replace judgement with acceptance. The Moon. and negativity with a positive approach or action. then please bear in mind that you can only be responsible for your portion of what needs to be changed. Focus on the love you have for him/her. Things will begin to change once you do this Even if your current pattern of relating is fairly healthy. more loving approach. But this idea is just another limiting belief. This is the next step on the journey. This card shows you how you can refocus your thoughts to replace judgement with acceptance. The Devil. We often insist we can’t let go of things we find irritating or feel resentful about. . more loving approach. Result/Outcome. and allow acceptance to replace resentment about your partner’s role. Your Partner – NEW. Use this spread together with your partner if at all possible. 5. 6. Cards that can indicate Karmic issues based in past life are Judgement. You – NEW. All rights reserved. there are always ways to make room for even more love in the relationship.4 reveals a main theme.

Overall long-term potential 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. I reckon she and any of you out there who are looking to meet someone for lasting love could do with a bit of help… Tarot to the rescue! 1. You – Lust 2. . You – Attraction 4.5 Three Stages of Love Tarot Spread This spread was inspired by a dating advice article by the lovely Colette Kenney over at Huffington post. You – Attachment 6. as many other areas of our lives risk to fall by the wayside when we are preoccupied with the object of our desire. Him – Lust 3. They can do no wrong and the need for sleeping and eating becomes secondary to spending time with our beloved. There is still warmth but we’re not living with constant hormone high. if we only had them alone… We can’t stop fantasising about what we would do to them. Colette’s advice was for a woman who was looking to find The Ever Elusive One on a dating website. Oh. But these two stages are doomed to fade with time and (hopefully. Do hop on over and read the whole thing as she’s got some great questions for self-inquiry at the end of it! Caroline goes over the three stages of love: • • • lust attract attachment The first stage is the initial surge of sexual energy that makes us really want the other person. The second stage is the high we get when we first fall in love. Him – Attraction 5. All rights reserved. if you are looking for long term) settle into attachment. The attachment stage is much less frenzied. This stage is said to last no more than three years at the most and a good thing it is too. Him – Attachment 7.

You feel free and ready to explore a new relationship.6 Gilded Tarot Royale by Ciro Marchetti You can use this spread to vet someone you are interested in dating. 7 of Swords. The 7 of Swords is quite often a sign of someone with an ulterior motive. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. The Fool. perhaps together with the Internet Dating Vetting spread. He may have an agenda. the more ‘out there’ the better! 2. .or you can use it for an already existing relationship where the first and/or second stage are already in the past: SAMPLE READING 1. especially with someone who is totally different to the type you normally go for… in fact. All rights reserved.

4. The Knight of Pentacles is a good energy for long-term as it’s signified by steadfastness and a willingness to ‘plod along’ at an even peace. The male person in this reading is not quite there yet though and needs to let go of fear and learn to open his heart. 5. . as if there is no worry in the world. You’re in this for the long haul. unconditional love. The attraction stage is making you feel unusually free and at peace. 6.7 3. 4 of Swords. He’s not quite as comfortable though. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Ace of Cups. This is true love. This is probably because the initial attraction fell under the auspice of The Fool. It looks like whatever ulterior motive he entered into this isn’t quite holding up. 5 of Swords. There is unlimited potential for lasting. 8 of Swords. All rights reserved. He seems internally conflicted and the reason why is found in the final card… 7.

there is potential for the toxic couple to flourish into an unbeatable duo who pull their strong wills together and use their passion for each other to take on the world instead of trying to destroy the other person. Trust issues within the self of partners A and B respectively that have carried over into this relationship from the past (childhood trauma. It made me smile ☺ 1a*****************1b **********6********** **2a******5******2b** **********4********** ****3a*********3b**** 1a+1b. previous abusive relationships etc. Most likely outcome provided this advice is heeded 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. What it would take for both parties to drop their guns and call a truce 6. How A holds B ‘at gunpoint’ and vice versa 3a+3b. In order to do that.” Have you ever been in what could be described as a ‘toxic relationship’? At the core of these types of relationships we discover a common denominator: lack of trust. It was only when I began reading the cards that I realised the connection between the gun point allegory and the W for Wesson. both parties have to be willing to do the work. The key to resolving toxicity and making this type of relationship work is to resolve the trust issues. Only stories that haven’t finished yet. I affectionately refer to this spread as the Smith & Wesson. Where both parties are willing to do the work. . partially because the inspiration came from the film Mr & Mrs Smith and because it was at gun point they realised how much they loved each other and called a truce.8 Mr and Mrs Smith – Healing a Toxic Relationship “There are no happy endings. Why A feels she can’t trust B (something B does) and vice versa 4. Higher reason for both parties coming together 5. I intuitively laid the cards out in a W shape.) 2a+2b. All rights reserved.

. Past issues for B – Warrior 4 (4 of Wands) Foundations Blessed: A blighted. He has suffered from long periods of homelessness and moving like a hobo from place to place. 2a. unsupportive and aggressive (lots of beatings) home environment during childhood and adolescence makes it difficult for B to trust people in general. She often sounds and comes across as having more knowledge. How B holds A at gunpoint – Judgement: B is very critical of A.9 Tarot of the Sidhe by Emily Carding SAMPLE READING 1a. How A holds B at gunpoint – V The Elder: She tries to change B by ‘teaching’ him how things are done. as if she doesn’t deserve all the good that life has to offer. 1b. All rights reserved. and she uses this to bludgeon her partner into submission. He also has a 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. A still struggles with being self-sufficient and to provide for their own physical needs to some degree. Past issues for partner A – Maker 9 (9 of Pentacles) Root and Blossom: This person was not able to put roots down in the early years. It is possible that A moved around a lot and went to a few different schools. She also suffers from feelings of low self-worth. He picks on things and likes to hold onto past grudges. 2b.

3a. Most likely outcome – Warrior Eight (8 of Wands) Dragonflight: This would continue to be a passionate. shortly after the loss of their baby. these two souls have chosen to get together under conditions of hardship and loss to see if they can learn and grow together. They could have turned to each other for comfort but instead they turned on each other. She goes into reactive mode and lashes out. All rights reserved. Learning to respect Self is always the first step. What it would take for both people to drop their guns and call a truce – Warrior Nine (9 of Wands) Guardian: They need to learn to respect their own and each other’s boundaries. Quite synchronistically. 5. Sometimes it is he who is destructive but he usually manages to find a way of blaming the destruction on her even if it means dragging something up that happened quite a long time ago (see 2b Judgement) 4. This will take a lot of work for these two souls who both lacked role models for respect growing up. relationship but if they can make all the arrows fly the same way… There is a lot of power and potential here! If respect can be maintained. makes her lose the ability to detach.10 tendency to see things as either black or white. Why A doesn’t feel she can trust B – Dancer Five (5 of Cups) Where Loss Resides: She feels abandoned by B (he literally did leave her at a time when she was vulnerable and in need of support) and it triggers old abandonment issues within herself. even combustible. Why B doesn’t feel he can trust A – Maker Seven (7 of Pentacles) Effort Sustained: He feels that A lacks patience and that she rapidly tears down everything he tries so laboriously to build for the two of them. their dramatic split happened during the winter months. This in turn. the attraction would never fade. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Higher reason for coming together – Maker Five (5 of Pentacles) Winter’s Bite: From the perspective of the Higher Self. 3b. . A mistakes ‘instruction’ with being helpful (makes B feel belittled) and B mistakes ‘withholding’ with keeping the peace (makes A feel abandoned). forcing a fiery finale when things don’t go his way. 6.

It takes into consideration a third option. learned to communicate without blame. Place the it and the cards you find on either side of it on the table. there is a third option. Deciding to leave a long term partner or spouse is a massive step and some people deliberate for years before they make their move. Yes.11 Should I Stay or Should I Go? The cards will never tell you what to do but they can help you gain insights about the best way forward. However. It’s called ‘Staying for now in awareness.’ It’s not fence-sitting out of indecision. let go of the past. Any guidance the Tarot can offer before making that final decision is gratefully accepted. quit addictions and other destructive behaviour and started to make better choices in every way. Very often. . This can be very frustrating. I’m using the gorgeous Lover’s Path Tarot by Kris Waldherr to illustrate this spread: 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. one person feels that they have outgrown the relationship because they have done a ton of work on themselves: taken responsibility for their lives. I like to use a spread I call ‘Should I Stay Or Should I Go?’ for this. All rights reserved. it’s actively deciding to stay and to accept things the way they are. especially after years of trying to make it work but getting nowhere. their partner is not ready for change. Shuffle the deck well and locate the Justice card (this is a card that deals with marriage and divorce). This tells you the balance (another theme for Justice) between the mind and the heart.

. This shows you why you might opt for singledom. This is your deepest held belief about your relationship. This is what your heart tells you and how you feel deep down about your relationship. Advice. All rights reserved. 4. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. This tells you the reason you might decide to stay. This card tells you what needs to change for you to decide to stay permanently. 2. Staying.12 1. 5. Your Heart. Going. 3. Your Mind.

How will you use your tongue (sword of communication) in the future? How willing are you to replace the thought ‘If only he would change?’ with ‘I love him just as he is and accept that right now he is not ready for change?’ I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing. and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside. ADVICE: Ace of Arrows (Swords). ~ William P. HEART: Temperance. You are still passionate about your partner. 3. Work and health matters currently weigh in favour of a separation. Young 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. MIND: Prince of Arrows (Swords).13 SAMPLE READING: 1. 4. You truly love the other person and are searching with all your heart for a vision that will unite the two of you. GOING: Queen of Pentacles (Coins). . You need to change the way you think about your partner if you want to stay. You are aware that communication between the two of you is a constant source of conflict but you believe that there is a way through and a possibility of finding a better way to communicate. 2. All rights reserved. ending the sense of separation you are experiencing. 5. STAYING: Ace of Staves (Wands).

It is entirely possible to be happy and fulfilled as a single woman. baby! Don’t let anyone or anything eclipse your light! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. this spread is guaranteed to make you the Sun of your own solar system. In fact. All rights reserved.14 Single and Happy Tarot Spread Flying Solo Whether you just broke up with someone or have been single for a while. I do believe the odds for happiness weigh in favour of us single ladies I created the Tarot spread below to help you remember that you are the brightest star in your own Universe as well as the source of your own light and happiness. . You don’t need a man to shine.

The Sun – You! Your vitality levels 2. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Uranus – Unexpected future events 8. Saturn – Your obligations 7. All rights reserved.15 1. goals and aspirations 9. The Moon. Neptune – Your dreams. Jupiter – Career opportunities/Good fortune 6. . The Moon – Emotional challenge (stands between you and being 100% happy). Pluto (change) and Mercury (self-talk) form the key to unlocking the missing ingredient for complete and total selffulfilment. Mars – Opposition 5. Pluto – What is changing/needs to change 10. Mercury – Your self-talk 3. Venus – Friendships 4.

All rights reserved. .16 The Quickie This mini spread is one you can use any time when you just want a quick overview of the relationship. Pulling an additional tarot or oracle card is optional and please feel free to choose any deck you like. I have chosen to illustrate this spread with cards from Doreen Virtue’s Angel Tarot cards (see a review of this deck HERE) and the Romance Angels Oracle. as well as the individual lessons of each person. It shows you the main theme. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.

You are now able to laugh at yourself and the old patterns that you have managed to free yourself from. 4. Advice card: Let Your Friends Help You – This could be a reminder to not let go of newly reformed friendship bonds just because your love life is back on track. State of the relationship/Central theme: The Star (Archangel Jophiel) – You have every reason to be optimistic about your relationship. All rights reserved. . 2. 3. and to learn necessary new skills as focuses on a new path that will be financially viable. Thriving friendships help the relationship stay healthy too! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Your partner’s lesson: 8 of Earth/Pentacles – Having the relationship back on track frees up energy for your partner to focus on work again.17 SAMPLE READING: 1. Your lesson: Queen of Air/Swords – You have managed to detach enough to gain a better perspective of the true dynamics at work. It’s finally back on track and you can look to the future with renewed optimism.

Sometimes relationships fall apart and we are quick to judge the other person. blaming the breakdown on them when really we know that it takes two and you are just as responsible as they for creating the dynamic you had and that led to the breakdown. All rights reserved. It is hard to move on without knowing the answer if we still love the one who left. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. In some cases. . it might be better to suggest cord cutting rather than looking into if the abuser will be back… but in the end it’s not for the reader to judge. We all have free will and it is a well-known fact that many people on this planet choose to live in co-dependent relationships.18 The Ultimate “Will He Come Back?” Tarot Spread Sometimes we feel just like The Hanged Man after a break-up… in limbo … wondering if we’ll get a second chance. when it’s clear that the seeker has just had a narrow escape. This is one of the most often asked questions I get as a Tarot Reader. even if we know in our minds that moving on is for the best.

or they are manipulated into taking sides. this implies that unlocking the door to an AWOL lover is in our control. The Magic Door Spread truly is a magical spread in that it sheds light on all aspects of the desire to reconnect as well as the best way forward (if there is one). All rights reserved. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. There are ways to supporting the one who is hurting without playing the blame game.19 Anyone who has been around for a while will want to avoid taking sides when the relationships of friends fall apart for this very reason. what would the door look like? What kind of lock would it have? What is the key like? Are you holding the key? What is the handle like? What does it feel like to push the door open and step through? Granted. the cards can give us clues about what we can and can’t do to reconnect in this situation. if applied to the desire to reconnect with an ex. . and I say that having lived long enough to play every position in the field… But I digress. Those who do take sides often had a vested interest in seeing the relationship end to begin with. We all know it isn’t as simple as that. However. I woke up this morning with the image of a door-shaped spread in my head: If what you desire deep down is hidden behind a magic door.

10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door. 4. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover. 10. & 9. A card such as The Hanged Man shows that it won’t matter what you do. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through. 6. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle. 5. 2. another lover. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card. you’ll just have to surrender and wait for the future to unfold. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – Work. & 3. you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone. All rights reserved.20 1. financial worries… even you! 7. family. 8. . It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. Look for the Fire (Wands+Majors) and Air (Swords+Majors) cards to indicate that taking action will pay off. He could have moved on emotionally or he could be struggling with stuff that you can’t help him with.

Your Partner’s Current Challenge 5. Your Current Lesson 2. when you are working through issues in the relationship or when you have just broken up with someone that you have hopes of getting back together with. Advice About the Best Course of Action 8. All rights reserved. Your Challenge as a Couple 7. Your Current Challenge 3. .21 Lessons and Challenges Tarot Spread This is a simple and easy-to-remember spread you can use any time you need insights into your relationship dynamics. Your Lesson as Couple 6. It can be used at the start of a new relationship. The Outcome (Provided the Advice is Acted On) 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Your Partner’s Current Lesson 4. The Psychic Tarot Oracle by John Holland 1.

Things may not be as bad as they seem. Throat Chakra (no Tarot equivalent) + Heartache & Loss (3 of Swords) – Your partner is struggling to find his voice to express the emotional pain he is suffering due to recent loss and grief 5.22 SAMPLE READING: 1. 19. & 6. 8. Choose Wisely (7 of Cups) + Deception & Envy (7 of Swords) – There is an element of confusion here and the challenge is to pierce the negativity and delusions created in the mind. . All rights reserved. 7. Light (XIX The Sun) The dark clouds will be dispersed and happiness will be restored. & 4. 99% of the bad stuff is in the mind. Memories of Love (6 of Cups) Honour the loving connection you have. Patience & Planning (7 of Pentacles) + The Waiting Game (2 of Wands) – You can’t do much about the situation as it has its root in the personal struggles of your partner 3. It is a true soul mate connection. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. & 2.

That’s as good a theory as any when it comes to the legendary female intuition. I’d be a rich woman by now. All rights reserved. men don’t like to talk about their feelings.23 Actions Speak Louder Than Words Tarot Spread Apparently. I wish someone would have told me this growing up – It would have saved me a lot of hassle. . Most men get angry and shut down when we suggest dialogue as a way of problem solving. You may argue it’s just a sexist cliché but as clichés go. of course use this spread to figure out how she feels about you too! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Thank heaven for the gifts of second sight and divination! Here’s a little tool I developed to help you see if your man will walk his talk and what is really going on in his heart and mind. And you may. I’ve found it to be mostly true. Perhaps women even developed their intuitive skills in order to gain insights into the minds of men. If I’d had a penny for every time this happened to me.

How he feels about you deep down 4. All rights reserved. . What he’s really thinking 3. How he’s walking his talk 5. How he will be walking his talk within 6-8 weeks 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.24 1. Outside influences on his walk 6. His story – What he’s telling you 2.

Anything you can imagine. It’s time to imagine how totally different and wonderfully awesome things could be and then start responding in ways that make it so.25 The Relationship Pioneer Tarot Spread I came across this quote by Deepak Chopra earlier and it really rang true in my heart. The truth is that being reactive keeps our relationships in a time-warp where we keep repeating past mistakes. Forget all the old clichés about old dogs not being able to learn or leopards not being able to change their spots. . It’s a terrible mistake to think that things have to remain the same because they’ve always been a certain way. All rights reserved. It’s equally awful to not give your partner the freedom to change. you can do… and so can your partner! Try this Pioneer Tarot Spread to take the pulse on your relationship as well as to see how moving forward in the spirit of the pioneer can change things. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.

26 The Crystal Visions Tarot SAMPLE READING: 1. The relationship will end but the lesson will remain for them to resolve elsewhere. 2. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. . This can include the occasional power struggle. Both parties are seeking to express their individuality in this relationship. All rights reserved. State of the relationship – 7 of Wands. this couple risks reaching the end of the road if they keep being reactive. Both parties determine to self-validate and believe in themselves as well as their talents. They start building a solid foundation based on trust – one that will carry not only them. Pioneer – 10 of Pentacles. In spite of their best intentions. Prisoner – Death. Deep-rooted fears about not being good enough or capable enough could rear their ugly heads from time to time but on the whole this is a couple willing to fight for their relationship. Looking to the other person for validation or somehow getting validation from gaining the upper hand will kill the love they have for each other. but future generations. 3. They have a much better than a snowball’s chance in hell of making it.

Make sure that there is roughly 50% reversed cards by cutting the deck in half and turning one of the halves upside down before shuffling until you’re satisfied. All rights reserved. There are many ways of getting the cards to give you a ‘yes’ or ‘no. The truth is. you can ask anything and any type of question of the Tarot… just be prepared for a ‘maybe’ when asking ‘Does he love me?’ or ‘Will he come back?’ Remember that most things aren’t set in stone and that a surprising amount of men (and women) aren’t sure how they feel themselves.’ 1+2 of the other means a probable yes or no… a maybe in other words. If all three cards are upright. it’s a definite ‘yes’ and if all three cards are reversed. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. .27 BONUS MATERIAL Yes/No Love Tarot Reading Techniques Many modern Tarot readers will tell you that you can’t ask ‘Yes/No’ type questions of the Tarot. in which case the cards are as stumped as you are. it’s a resounding ‘no.’ Here are a few of my personal favourites: 3 card answer with reversals: Mix the cards to include reversals.

’ This spread also gives you quite a bit of information about the reasons for the yes. This is a story with a beginning. Others take a bit more work and are more dependent on the context/energy of the question… Have fun experimenting! Aces and 10′s: This methods requires a well shuffled deck. Only use the first 22 cards. It’s quite a complicated method centred around where the Wheel of Fortune card lands. You simply pull cards off the top until you get either an Ace (yes) or a 10 (no). Simply shuffle and randomly choose three cards and lay them out on the table before you. an upright card would be a yes and a reversal would be a no. If no answer has been given after you’ve drawn the first 22. If you go with the second technique. One of the advantages of this spread is that if the first two cards don’t resonate with the situation you asked about. if it’s in position no. then it’s likely that someone is trying to keep you in the dark. ‘delayed/later. if you go with the first technique. 1 card quickie: You can use either of the techniques mentioned above for this. The Moon. like the ones I chose to illustrate yes/no answers from the Tarot in the image above. Pay attention to where the yes or no lands. are quite self-evident. (More on this in my article Reading the Gap Tarot Technique) I prefer the latter method by far. . The final card holds the key. it takes a while to master but is by far more reliable than simply going by reversals – especially for the 1 card draw. then you know the cards are giving you the finger about doing a yes/no reading. no. Some cards.28 3 card story spread: This requires intuitive reading skills but also makes an excellent way of practising reading the cards intuitively. Do not use reversals for this draw. i.e. that you are deluding yourself or that this situation touches on very deep fears. and it will tell you the most likely outcome. 18. the Tarot isn’t prepared to tell you. a middle and an end. In other words. Greer’s excellent tarot blog. you will need to tune in to the energy of the card and see how that energy meets the energy of the question. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. The main advantage is that it gives you one more option in addition to yes/no/maybe. And yes. maybe or delayed. For example. Click HERE to read about it. Yes/No Advice Oracle: This is a method I stumbled upon over at Mary K. All rights reserved.

5. After he has finished sitting on the fence like a true Libran by which time you’ll have hooked up with someone else. no. The Fool – Maybe. no!’ (In fact all reversals make a ‘yes’ less likely. The Chariot. Yes but I wouldn’t trust him quite yet.29 “Will He Call?” – The Tarot Majors Totally tongue in cheek… ☺ 0. so just read with the cards upright!) 11. Not a chance. 3. 4. yes! Unless it’s reversed in which case it’s a ‘No. 1. Ever been to limbo? Want to join him there? Didn’t think so. Yes. . No. The High Priestess. If he said he’d call after that slightly awkward first date. Expect a booty call! 9. The Emperor. 12. The Hermit… well duh! Hell no! 10. Yes. yes. Too busy with his own stuff. Justice.’ Any other scenario and it’s a ‘yes. The Lovers.’ 6. The Magician. Hell yeah with a cherry on top! 7. No. The Hanged Man. and if he does. The Wheel of Fortune. The Empress. Strength. and on time. All rights reserved. Who’d wanna date a boy racer anyway! 8. The Hierophant. Probably in the middle of Christmas dinner at Aunty Margret’s. Time to move on unless you want to wait and wait and wait… 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. He’s busy getting his leg over with a MILF. it’ll be when you least expect it. 2. he meant it in the ‘traditional’ way in which case it’s a ‘no.

Your wishes are about to come true so be careful what you wish for. He will make a decision very soon. Death. The Devil. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Temperance. 15. He’s just going to finish licking his wounds inflicted by an ex first. He probably got run over by a bus and ended up in hospital. 21.30 13. Yes. 18. Before you wish for him to call back. 17. The fates are withholding information about which way he’s leaning but either way. No. Funny how that excuse is a sign of delusion with any other card. Judgment. Of course he will. Paralysing fear has got hold of his very best text message and phone dial fingers. The Tower. making this decision is a biggie to him so cut the poor man some slack. The Star. All rights reserved. The Moon. He’s ‘The One. Start planning that second date picnic now and check the weather forecast! 20. Yes. 14. The World. Delete the b*stard’s number now! 16.’ Or something. NO. in other words. you may want to make sure he’s not living with his mother. No. but for totally selfish reasons and/or a booty call. The Sun. Yes. 19. .

Being a dancer and having an interest in holistic health. just south of the polar circle. drama and psychology) as well as starting a family. I read my first book on Numerology and Astrology studies followed soon after. At the age of 10. I found a book on The Golden Dawn just after I was given my first Tarot deck at the age of 15.31 About Lisa Hi. my approach to the Tarot is to explore its usefulness as a tool for healing of mind. Reading anything mysterious and magickal I could get my hands on. I gained certification as a Character Dance Teacher from the University College of Dance in Stockholm. living in North Yorkshire since 2002. My interest in all things occult started during the long summer holidays I spent with my grandmother in the North of Sweden. Serious tarot studies were deferred until my early 30′s due to university studies abroad (theology. All rights reserved. . my name is Lisa Frideborg Lloyd and I am a Holistic Tarot Healer and Reader. Not long after giving birth to my second child. There. I was introduced to various forms of divination such as reading coffee grounds. I went on to gain a Level 3 Certificate in Person-Centred Counselling in 2005 (Darlington Technological College). 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Having a keen interest in psychology from my university years and being a natural empath. molybdmancy (readings done with molten lead) and playing cards divination.

seerpathways.32 body and spirit.tarotize.com . All rights reserved.Tarot for Love & Relationships www.My Personal Online Journal Email: tarotize@gmail. .com .com .Your Holistic Tarot Resource www.com Ignite your passion with holistic tarot! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.lovedovetarot. Each element of the Tarot can be experienced through the senses… and that is what brings the Tarot to life! Contact Information: My websites www.

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