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10 of the Best
Love & Relationship Tarot Spreads
by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd
10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved.
Groundhog Day Tarot Spread………………………………………p. 3 Three Types of Love Tarot Spread……………………………..p. 5 Mr & Mrs Smith – Healing a Toxic Relationship…………..p. 8 Should I Stay or Should I Go? ……………………………………..p. 11 Single and Happy Tarot Spread…………………………………..p. 14 The Quickie………………………………………………………….……..p. 16 The Ultimate “Will He Come Back?” Tarot Spread…….p. 18 Lessons and Challenges Tarot Spread………………………….p. 21 Actions Speak Louder than Words Tarot Spread…….….p. 23 The Relationship Pioneer Tarot Spread……………………..p. 25
BONUS MATERIALS Yes/No Love Tarot Reading Techniques……………………..p. 27 Will He Call? The Majors (Tarot Humour)………………….. p. 29
ABOUT LISA & CONTACT INFO……………………………………..P. 31
10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved.
Groundhog Day Tarot Spread
We are unlikely to get relationship satisfaction through the belief that it’s our partner that has to change. ~ Joe Dunn and Mali Apple (from The Soulmate Experience)
Have you ever been in a relationship that is making you feel trapped and miserable? You have every intention of making things right (you do love each other), yet somehow things keep falling apart. Reactive responses are activated. Irritation, anger, anxiety, fear and pride run the show… and somehow being right has become more important than being kind to your beloved. Ready to break free? Ready to establish a healthier pattern of relating? The Groundhog Tarot Spread is for you!
1. Spirit – Karmic Lesson. Love flows from Spirit, as does any Karmic lessons (past life stuff). This is your main current lesson… and all relationship lessons are about releasing blocks to loving! 2. You – BLOCKS, current attitude/approach. This card indicates how you may be stopping the flow of love through your mental attitude. 3. Your Partner – BLOCKS, current attitude/approach. This card indicates how your partner may be stopping the flow of love through his/her mental attitude. 4. Your Relationship – Current pattern of relating. This card
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If not.4 reveals a main theme. more loving approach. 5. This is the next step on the journey. . We often insist we can’t let go of things we find irritating or feel resentful about. Cards that can indicate Karmic issues based in past life are Judgement. ~ Joe Dunn and Mali Apple 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Focus on the love you have for him/her. Your Partner – NEW. more loving approach. Justice and The Wheel of Fortune. This card shows you how you can refocus your thoughts to replace judgement with acceptance. There may be more but this is the one Spirit wants to shine the spotlight on right now. Result/Outcome. This card shows you how your partner can refocus their thoughts to replace judgement with acceptance. 6. All rights reserved. The Devil. rather than what annoys you and change what you can about yourself. then please bear in mind that you can only be responsible for your portion of what needs to be changed. But this idea is just another limiting belief. and negativity with a positive approach or action. and allow acceptance to replace resentment about your partner’s role. The Moon. You – NEW. Use this spread together with your partner if at all possible. provided you act on the advice given in positions 5 & 6. Things will begin to change once you do this Even if your current pattern of relating is fairly healthy. and negativity with a positive approach or action. there are always ways to make room for even more love in the relationship. 7.
You – Attraction 4. The attachment stage is much less frenzied. You – Lust 2. if you are looking for long term) settle into attachment. There is still warmth but we’re not living with constant hormone high. Overall long-term potential 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. You – Attachment 6. as many other areas of our lives risk to fall by the wayside when we are preoccupied with the object of our desire. They can do no wrong and the need for sleeping and eating becomes secondary to spending time with our beloved. Him – Attraction 5. This stage is said to last no more than three years at the most and a good thing it is too. if we only had them alone… We can’t stop fantasising about what we would do to them. The second stage is the high we get when we first fall in love. But these two stages are doomed to fade with time and (hopefully. Colette’s advice was for a woman who was looking to find The Ever Elusive One on a dating website. Do hop on over and read the whole thing as she’s got some great questions for self-inquiry at the end of it! Caroline goes over the three stages of love: • • • lust attract attachment The first stage is the initial surge of sexual energy that makes us really want the other person. Him – Lust 3. Him – Attachment 7. I reckon she and any of you out there who are looking to meet someone for lasting love could do with a bit of help… Tarot to the rescue! 1. . Oh.5 Three Stages of Love Tarot Spread This spread was inspired by a dating advice article by the lovely Colette Kenney over at Huffington post. All rights reserved.
the more ‘out there’ the better! 2. All rights reserved. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. perhaps together with the Internet Dating Vetting spread. You feel free and ready to explore a new relationship.6 Gilded Tarot Royale by Ciro Marchetti You can use this spread to vet someone you are interested in dating. The 7 of Swords is quite often a sign of someone with an ulterior motive. 7 of Swords. especially with someone who is totally different to the type you normally go for… in fact. He may have an agenda. The Fool. .or you can use it for an already existing relationship where the first and/or second stage are already in the past: SAMPLE READING 1.
6. He seems internally conflicted and the reason why is found in the final card… 7. The attraction stage is making you feel unusually free and at peace. All rights reserved. You’re in this for the long haul. 5. He’s not quite as comfortable though. 4 of Swords. There is unlimited potential for lasting. 8 of Swords. 4. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. The Knight of Pentacles is a good energy for long-term as it’s signified by steadfastness and a willingness to ‘plod along’ at an even peace. The male person in this reading is not quite there yet though and needs to let go of fear and learn to open his heart. .7 3. It looks like whatever ulterior motive he entered into this isn’t quite holding up. as if there is no worry in the world. This is true love. unconditional love. 5 of Swords. Ace of Cups. This is probably because the initial attraction fell under the auspice of The Fool.
Only stories that haven’t finished yet. Why A feels she can’t trust B (something B does) and vice versa 4. Trust issues within the self of partners A and B respectively that have carried over into this relationship from the past (childhood trauma. Most likely outcome provided this advice is heeded 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. I affectionately refer to this spread as the Smith & Wesson. partially because the inspiration came from the film Mr & Mrs Smith and because it was at gun point they realised how much they loved each other and called a truce. All rights reserved. there is potential for the toxic couple to flourish into an unbeatable duo who pull their strong wills together and use their passion for each other to take on the world instead of trying to destroy the other person. Where both parties are willing to do the work. both parties have to be willing to do the work. I intuitively laid the cards out in a W shape.8 Mr and Mrs Smith – Healing a Toxic Relationship “There are no happy endings. In order to do that. .) 2a+2b. What it would take for both parties to drop their guns and call a truce 6. Higher reason for both parties coming together 5.” Have you ever been in what could be described as a ‘toxic relationship’? At the core of these types of relationships we discover a common denominator: lack of trust. It made me smile ☺ 1a*****************1b **********6********** **2a******5******2b** **********4********** ****3a*********3b**** 1a+1b. previous abusive relationships etc. How A holds B ‘at gunpoint’ and vice versa 3a+3b. The key to resolving toxicity and making this type of relationship work is to resolve the trust issues. It was only when I began reading the cards that I realised the connection between the gun point allegory and the W for Wesson.
He also has a 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. It is possible that A moved around a lot and went to a few different schools. 2b. He picks on things and likes to hold onto past grudges. A still struggles with being self-sufficient and to provide for their own physical needs to some degree. 2a. She also suffers from feelings of low self-worth. How A holds B at gunpoint – V The Elder: She tries to change B by ‘teaching’ him how things are done. He has suffered from long periods of homelessness and moving like a hobo from place to place. All rights reserved.9 Tarot of the Sidhe by Emily Carding SAMPLE READING 1a. She often sounds and comes across as having more knowledge. as if she doesn’t deserve all the good that life has to offer. Past issues for partner A – Maker 9 (9 of Pentacles) Root and Blossom: This person was not able to put roots down in the early years. How B holds A at gunpoint – Judgement: B is very critical of A. Past issues for B – Warrior 4 (4 of Wands) Foundations Blessed: A blighted. unsupportive and aggressive (lots of beatings) home environment during childhood and adolescence makes it difficult for B to trust people in general. and she uses this to bludgeon her partner into submission. . 1b.
makes her lose the ability to detach. 5. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Learning to respect Self is always the first step. 3a.10 tendency to see things as either black or white. relationship but if they can make all the arrows fly the same way… There is a lot of power and potential here! If respect can be maintained. They could have turned to each other for comfort but instead they turned on each other. 6. She goes into reactive mode and lashes out. A mistakes ‘instruction’ with being helpful (makes B feel belittled) and B mistakes ‘withholding’ with keeping the peace (makes A feel abandoned). Why A doesn’t feel she can trust B – Dancer Five (5 of Cups) Where Loss Resides: She feels abandoned by B (he literally did leave her at a time when she was vulnerable and in need of support) and it triggers old abandonment issues within herself. Why B doesn’t feel he can trust A – Maker Seven (7 of Pentacles) Effort Sustained: He feels that A lacks patience and that she rapidly tears down everything he tries so laboriously to build for the two of them. This in turn. Quite synchronistically. All rights reserved. shortly after the loss of their baby. these two souls have chosen to get together under conditions of hardship and loss to see if they can learn and grow together. . This will take a lot of work for these two souls who both lacked role models for respect growing up. Most likely outcome – Warrior Eight (8 of Wands) Dragonflight: This would continue to be a passionate. the attraction would never fade. their dramatic split happened during the winter months. even combustible. 3b. Sometimes it is he who is destructive but he usually manages to find a way of blaming the destruction on her even if it means dragging something up that happened quite a long time ago (see 2b Judgement) 4. forcing a fiery finale when things don’t go his way. Higher reason for coming together – Maker Five (5 of Pentacles) Winter’s Bite: From the perspective of the Higher Self. What it would take for both people to drop their guns and call a truce – Warrior Nine (9 of Wands) Guardian: They need to learn to respect their own and each other’s boundaries.
All rights reserved. Very often. Shuffle the deck well and locate the Justice card (this is a card that deals with marriage and divorce). one person feels that they have outgrown the relationship because they have done a ton of work on themselves: taken responsibility for their lives. Any guidance the Tarot can offer before making that final decision is gratefully accepted. I like to use a spread I call ‘Should I Stay Or Should I Go?’ for this. However. let go of the past. I’m using the gorgeous Lover’s Path Tarot by Kris Waldherr to illustrate this spread: 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Deciding to leave a long term partner or spouse is a massive step and some people deliberate for years before they make their move. especially after years of trying to make it work but getting nowhere. This can be very frustrating. it’s actively deciding to stay and to accept things the way they are. their partner is not ready for change. learned to communicate without blame. This tells you the balance (another theme for Justice) between the mind and the heart. Yes. It’s called ‘Staying for now in awareness. there is a third option.’ It’s not fence-sitting out of indecision. It takes into consideration a third option. Place the it and the cards you find on either side of it on the table.11 Should I Stay or Should I Go? The cards will never tell you what to do but they can help you gain insights about the best way forward. . quit addictions and other destructive behaviour and started to make better choices in every way.
Your Heart. Your Mind.12 1. 5. This tells you the reason you might decide to stay. Staying. . This card tells you what needs to change for you to decide to stay permanently. This is your deepest held belief about your relationship. Advice. This is what your heart tells you and how you feel deep down about your relationship. 2. All rights reserved. 3. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. 4. Going. This shows you why you might opt for singledom.
STAYING: Ace of Staves (Wands). MIND: Prince of Arrows (Swords). You truly love the other person and are searching with all your heart for a vision that will unite the two of you. . You are aware that communication between the two of you is a constant source of conflict but you believe that there is a way through and a possibility of finding a better way to communicate. 4. GOING: Queen of Pentacles (Coins). ending the sense of separation you are experiencing. Work and health matters currently weigh in favour of a separation. 2. and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside. HEART: Temperance. Young 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. You are still passionate about your partner. You need to change the way you think about your partner if you want to stay. All rights reserved.13 SAMPLE READING: 1. ~ William P. How will you use your tongue (sword of communication) in the future? How willing are you to replace the thought ‘If only he would change?’ with ‘I love him just as he is and accept that right now he is not ready for change?’ I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing. ADVICE: Ace of Arrows (Swords). 5. 3.
this spread is guaranteed to make you the Sun of your own solar system. baby! Don’t let anyone or anything eclipse your light! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. In fact.14 Single and Happy Tarot Spread Flying Solo Whether you just broke up with someone or have been single for a while. It is entirely possible to be happy and fulfilled as a single woman. . You don’t need a man to shine. All rights reserved. I do believe the odds for happiness weigh in favour of us single ladies I created the Tarot spread below to help you remember that you are the brightest star in your own Universe as well as the source of your own light and happiness.
Neptune – Your dreams. Mars – Opposition 5. Jupiter – Career opportunities/Good fortune 6.15 1. Venus – Friendships 4. goals and aspirations 9. The Sun – You! Your vitality levels 2. Uranus – Unexpected future events 8. Saturn – Your obligations 7. Mercury – Your self-talk 3. . 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. The Moon. Pluto – What is changing/needs to change 10. All rights reserved. The Moon – Emotional challenge (stands between you and being 100% happy). Pluto (change) and Mercury (self-talk) form the key to unlocking the missing ingredient for complete and total selffulfilment.
10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. as well as the individual lessons of each person. It shows you the main theme. All rights reserved. .16 The Quickie This mini spread is one you can use any time when you just want a quick overview of the relationship. Pulling an additional tarot or oracle card is optional and please feel free to choose any deck you like. I have chosen to illustrate this spread with cards from Doreen Virtue’s Angel Tarot cards (see a review of this deck HERE) and the Romance Angels Oracle.
and to learn necessary new skills as focuses on a new path that will be financially viable. It’s finally back on track and you can look to the future with renewed optimism. Thriving friendships help the relationship stay healthy too! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. 2. Your lesson: Queen of Air/Swords – You have managed to detach enough to gain a better perspective of the true dynamics at work.17 SAMPLE READING: 1. 4. . Advice card: Let Your Friends Help You – This could be a reminder to not let go of newly reformed friendship bonds just because your love life is back on track. Your partner’s lesson: 8 of Earth/Pentacles – Having the relationship back on track frees up energy for your partner to focus on work again. You are now able to laugh at yourself and the old patterns that you have managed to free yourself from. 3. All rights reserved. State of the relationship/Central theme: The Star (Archangel Jophiel) – You have every reason to be optimistic about your relationship.
Sometimes relationships fall apart and we are quick to judge the other person. In some cases. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. even if we know in our minds that moving on is for the best. All rights reserved. it might be better to suggest cord cutting rather than looking into if the abuser will be back… but in the end it’s not for the reader to judge. when it’s clear that the seeker has just had a narrow escape. blaming the breakdown on them when really we know that it takes two and you are just as responsible as they for creating the dynamic you had and that led to the breakdown. This is one of the most often asked questions I get as a Tarot Reader. .18 The Ultimate “Will He Come Back?” Tarot Spread Sometimes we feel just like The Hanged Man after a break-up… in limbo … wondering if we’ll get a second chance. It is hard to move on without knowing the answer if we still love the one who left. We all have free will and it is a well-known fact that many people on this planet choose to live in co-dependent relationships.
All rights reserved. We all know it isn’t as simple as that. if applied to the desire to reconnect with an ex. the cards can give us clues about what we can and can’t do to reconnect in this situation. this implies that unlocking the door to an AWOL lover is in our control. Those who do take sides often had a vested interest in seeing the relationship end to begin with.19 Anyone who has been around for a while will want to avoid taking sides when the relationships of friends fall apart for this very reason. There are ways to supporting the one who is hurting without playing the blame game. The Magic Door Spread truly is a magical spread in that it sheds light on all aspects of the desire to reconnect as well as the best way forward (if there is one). However. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. or they are manipulated into taking sides. what would the door look like? What kind of lock would it have? What is the key like? Are you holding the key? What is the handle like? What does it feel like to push the door open and step through? Granted. I woke up this morning with the image of a door-shaped spread in my head: If what you desire deep down is hidden behind a magic door. and I say that having lived long enough to play every position in the field… But I digress. .
6. 4. The handle – This card shows you what action you would need to take to reconnect. The lock – This is the main challenge/obstacle that lies between you and your AWOL lover. A card such as The Hanged Man shows that it won’t matter what you do. you’ll at least have some idea of what is happening there and why things are best left alone. & 9. The key – If you received a green light for using that door handle. financial worries… even you! 7. Your motivation – The first card shows you the real underlying reason for your desire to reconnect. What lies on the other side of the door – If you know that it is best not to push through. 8. It tells you if you feel that you didn’t learn all you needed to learn or if you are just struggling with letting go. you’ll just have to surrender and wait for the future to unfold. then this is the key that unlocks the lock and gives you the understanding you need to open the door. 10. What you had – These two cards represent the relationship dynamic you had in the past and sheds further light on the first card. It indicates if you want them back to soothe a bruised ego or if there is true love there. family. Look for the Fire (Wands+Majors) and Air (Swords+Majors) cards to indicate that taking action will pay off. He could have moved on emotionally or he could be struggling with stuff that you can’t help him with. 2. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. & 3. 5.20 1. An outside influence currently affecting the situation – Work. . another lover. All rights reserved.
when you are working through issues in the relationship or when you have just broken up with someone that you have hopes of getting back together with. Your Current Challenge 3. All rights reserved. Advice About the Best Course of Action 8. The Psychic Tarot Oracle by John Holland 1. Your Lesson as Couple 6. . Your Partner’s Current Lesson 4. Your Current Lesson 2. Your Partner’s Current Challenge 5. Your Challenge as a Couple 7. It can be used at the start of a new relationship.21 Lessons and Challenges Tarot Spread This is a simple and easy-to-remember spread you can use any time you need insights into your relationship dynamics. The Outcome (Provided the Advice is Acted On) 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.
Patience & Planning (7 of Pentacles) + The Waiting Game (2 of Wands) – You can’t do much about the situation as it has its root in the personal struggles of your partner 3. 7. Light (XIX The Sun) The dark clouds will be dispersed and happiness will be restored. 19.22 SAMPLE READING: 1. Throat Chakra (no Tarot equivalent) + Heartache & Loss (3 of Swords) – Your partner is struggling to find his voice to express the emotional pain he is suffering due to recent loss and grief 5. It is a true soul mate connection. & 4. 8. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. . All rights reserved. Things may not be as bad as they seem. & 2. Choose Wisely (7 of Cups) + Deception & Envy (7 of Swords) – There is an element of confusion here and the challenge is to pierce the negativity and delusions created in the mind. Memories of Love (6 of Cups) Honour the loving connection you have. 99% of the bad stuff is in the mind. & 6.
men don’t like to talk about their feelings. I wish someone would have told me this growing up – It would have saved me a lot of hassle. If I’d had a penny for every time this happened to me. All rights reserved. That’s as good a theory as any when it comes to the legendary female intuition. Thank heaven for the gifts of second sight and divination! Here’s a little tool I developed to help you see if your man will walk his talk and what is really going on in his heart and mind.23 Actions Speak Louder Than Words Tarot Spread Apparently. of course use this spread to figure out how she feels about you too! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Most men get angry and shut down when we suggest dialogue as a way of problem solving. And you may. I’d be a rich woman by now. . You may argue it’s just a sexist cliché but as clichés go. I’ve found it to be mostly true. Perhaps women even developed their intuitive skills in order to gain insights into the minds of men.
All rights reserved. Outside influences on his walk 6. How he feels about you deep down 4. . His story – What he’s telling you 2. What he’s really thinking 3. How he will be walking his talk within 6-8 weeks 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.24 1. How he’s walking his talk 5.
It’s equally awful to not give your partner the freedom to change.25 The Relationship Pioneer Tarot Spread I came across this quote by Deepak Chopra earlier and it really rang true in my heart. Forget all the old clichés about old dogs not being able to learn or leopards not being able to change their spots. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. All rights reserved. Anything you can imagine. . The truth is that being reactive keeps our relationships in a time-warp where we keep repeating past mistakes. It’s a terrible mistake to think that things have to remain the same because they’ve always been a certain way. It’s time to imagine how totally different and wonderfully awesome things could be and then start responding in ways that make it so. you can do… and so can your partner! Try this Pioneer Tarot Spread to take the pulse on your relationship as well as to see how moving forward in the spirit of the pioneer can change things.
Both parties determine to self-validate and believe in themselves as well as their talents. 2. 3. Pioneer – 10 of Pentacles.26 The Crystal Visions Tarot SAMPLE READING: 1. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. They have a much better than a snowball’s chance in hell of making it. . They start building a solid foundation based on trust – one that will carry not only them. but future generations. The relationship will end but the lesson will remain for them to resolve elsewhere. All rights reserved. In spite of their best intentions. This can include the occasional power struggle. Looking to the other person for validation or somehow getting validation from gaining the upper hand will kill the love they have for each other. Prisoner – Death. Both parties are seeking to express their individuality in this relationship. this couple risks reaching the end of the road if they keep being reactive. Deep-rooted fears about not being good enough or capable enough could rear their ugly heads from time to time but on the whole this is a couple willing to fight for their relationship. State of the relationship – 7 of Wands.
. All rights reserved. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Make sure that there is roughly 50% reversed cards by cutting the deck in half and turning one of the halves upside down before shuffling until you’re satisfied.27 BONUS MATERIAL Yes/No Love Tarot Reading Techniques Many modern Tarot readers will tell you that you can’t ask ‘Yes/No’ type questions of the Tarot. The truth is.’ 1+2 of the other means a probable yes or no… a maybe in other words. If all three cards are upright. in which case the cards are as stumped as you are. you can ask anything and any type of question of the Tarot… just be prepared for a ‘maybe’ when asking ‘Does he love me?’ or ‘Will he come back?’ Remember that most things aren’t set in stone and that a surprising amount of men (and women) aren’t sure how they feel themselves. There are many ways of getting the cards to give you a ‘yes’ or ‘no.’ Here are a few of my personal favourites: 3 card answer with reversals: Mix the cards to include reversals. it’s a resounding ‘no. it’s a definite ‘yes’ and if all three cards are reversed.
If no answer has been given after you’ve drawn the first 22. 1 card quickie: You can use either of the techniques mentioned above for this. Some cards. it takes a while to master but is by far more reliable than simply going by reversals – especially for the 1 card draw. It’s quite a complicated method centred around where the Wheel of Fortune card lands. Pay attention to where the yes or no lands. like the ones I chose to illustrate yes/no answers from the Tarot in the image above. Only use the first 22 cards. One of the advantages of this spread is that if the first two cards don’t resonate with the situation you asked about. You simply pull cards off the top until you get either an Ace (yes) or a 10 (no).’ This spread also gives you quite a bit of information about the reasons for the yes. 18. If you go with the second technique. maybe or delayed.28 3 card story spread: This requires intuitive reading skills but also makes an excellent way of practising reading the cards intuitively. The final card holds the key. Click HERE to read about it. then you know the cards are giving you the finger about doing a yes/no reading. Greer’s excellent tarot blog. All rights reserved. no. the Tarot isn’t prepared to tell you.e. The Moon. Others take a bit more work and are more dependent on the context/energy of the question… Have fun experimenting! Aces and 10′s: This methods requires a well shuffled deck. i. . The main advantage is that it gives you one more option in addition to yes/no/maybe. a middle and an end. This is a story with a beginning. that you are deluding yourself or that this situation touches on very deep fears. you will need to tune in to the energy of the card and see how that energy meets the energy of the question. if it’s in position no. And yes. For example. are quite self-evident. Yes/No Advice Oracle: This is a method I stumbled upon over at Mary K. In other words. Do not use reversals for this draw. an upright card would be a yes and a reversal would be a no. and it will tell you the most likely outcome. then it’s likely that someone is trying to keep you in the dark. ‘delayed/later. Simply shuffle and randomly choose three cards and lay them out on the table before you. if you go with the first technique. (More on this in my article Reading the Gap Tarot Technique) I prefer the latter method by far. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.
yes. Too busy with his own stuff. 3. so just read with the cards upright!) 11. no. The Hanged Man. Hell yeah with a cherry on top! 7. it’ll be when you least expect it. Ever been to limbo? Want to join him there? Didn’t think so. The Hermit… well duh! Hell no! 10. He’s busy getting his leg over with a MILF. he meant it in the ‘traditional’ way in which case it’s a ‘no. The Emperor. Yes. The Lovers. Not a chance. 1. Who’d wanna date a boy racer anyway! 8. After he has finished sitting on the fence like a true Libran by which time you’ll have hooked up with someone else. . Strength. The High Priestess. 12. No. The Fool – Maybe.29 “Will He Call?” – The Tarot Majors Totally tongue in cheek… ☺ 0. Yes. The Chariot. All rights reserved. 2. yes! Unless it’s reversed in which case it’s a ‘No. 4. The Wheel of Fortune. no!’ (In fact all reversals make a ‘yes’ less likely. and on time. and if he does. Probably in the middle of Christmas dinner at Aunty Margret’s. The Empress. Expect a booty call! 9. The Magician. Time to move on unless you want to wait and wait and wait… 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.’ Any other scenario and it’s a ‘yes. The Hierophant. Yes but I wouldn’t trust him quite yet.’ 6. No. Justice. 5. If he said he’d call after that slightly awkward first date.
He’s ‘The One. in other words. Judgment. 19. Paralysing fear has got hold of his very best text message and phone dial fingers. NO.30 13. Your wishes are about to come true so be careful what you wish for. you may want to make sure he’s not living with his mother. The Devil. Delete the b*stard’s number now! 16. making this decision is a biggie to him so cut the poor man some slack. 21. No. All rights reserved. 18. . He’s just going to finish licking his wounds inflicted by an ex first. He will make a decision very soon. 17. Temperance. Yes. Yes. but for totally selfish reasons and/or a booty call. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Of course he will. The Moon. The Sun. Start planning that second date picnic now and check the weather forecast! 20. 14. Yes. Funny how that excuse is a sign of delusion with any other card.’ Or something. He probably got run over by a bus and ended up in hospital. The Star. No. 15. Death. The World. Before you wish for him to call back. The fates are withholding information about which way he’s leaning but either way. The Tower.
I went on to gain a Level 3 Certificate in Person-Centred Counselling in 2005 (Darlington Technological College). There. Reading anything mysterious and magickal I could get my hands on. just south of the polar circle.31 About Lisa Hi. I gained certification as a Character Dance Teacher from the University College of Dance in Stockholm. I read my first book on Numerology and Astrology studies followed soon after. Serious tarot studies were deferred until my early 30′s due to university studies abroad (theology. All rights reserved. 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd. Having a keen interest in psychology from my university years and being a natural empath. My interest in all things occult started during the long summer holidays I spent with my grandmother in the North of Sweden. I was introduced to various forms of divination such as reading coffee grounds. living in North Yorkshire since 2002. my approach to the Tarot is to explore its usefulness as a tool for healing of mind. I found a book on The Golden Dawn just after I was given my first Tarot deck at the age of 15. At the age of 10. molybdmancy (readings done with molten lead) and playing cards divination. Not long after giving birth to my second child. . Being a dancer and having an interest in holistic health. my name is Lisa Frideborg Lloyd and I am a Holistic Tarot Healer and Reader. drama and psychology) as well as starting a family.
com .My Personal Online Journal Email: email@example.com body and spirit.Tarot for Love & Relationships www. .Your Holistic Tarot Resource www. All rights reserved.com . Each element of the Tarot can be experienced through the senses… and that is what brings the Tarot to life! Contact Information: My websites www.com .lovedovetarot.seerpathways.com Ignite your passion with holistic tarot! 10 of the Best Love & Relationship Spreads ©2012 by Lisa Frideborg Lloyd.tarotize.
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