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Attitude Rules of Attraction Neg Collection Opener: 1.Jealous Girlfriend Opener 2.Two Part Kiss Opener 3.Girl Fight Opener 4.Seattle Girlfriend Opener 5.Tattoo Opener 6.Never Be Couple Opener 7.I Love You Opener 8.The Spell Opener 9. Weather Opener 10. Are You Shy Opener DHV: 1. Best Friend Test 2. Trust Test 3. Tension Test 4. The Girlfriend Test 5. C Smile vs. U Smile 6. Anger vs. Passion 7. Eye Accessing Cues 8. The Peg System 9. Psychic Code 10. Ring/Index Finger Game: 1.Lying Game 2.Fuck Marry Kill

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3.The Change Riddle Game 4.The Mouse Race Game 5.The Question Game 6.Kiss Game 7.5 Questions Game 8.Animal Game

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Intriguing Routine 1.Avoid Stalker Routine 2.Three Smiles Routine 3.Third Grade Girlfriend Routine 4.I Stole A Girl’s Girlfriend Routine 5.Gay Cat Routine 6.Pimp Daddy Routine 7.The Crazy Girl Routine

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Banter Line: 1. Marriage & Divorce 2. Categorize Her 3. Bad Girl Revealed On Phone 4. Good Girl Anyway 5. Embarrassment Contest 6. Making Her Your Item 7. Playful Hostility 8. She’s The Predator 9. Let’s Just Be Friends Role-Play: 1.Prision Break Role-Play 2.Bodyguard Role-Play 3.Good Doggie Role-Play 4.Would You Role-Play 5.12 Wives Role-Play 6.Bond Girl Role-Play Non-Verbal: 1.Mirror & Exaggerate 2.Pushing Her Routine 3.Grabbing Knee Routine 4. Back Turn Routine Rapport Builder: 1. Secret Self Routine 2. 7 Essential Questions 3. Soul Gazing Routine

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4. Guy/Girl Name Routine 5. The Movie Routine 6. Eliciting Value Routine Cold Reading: 1. The Cube 2. The Love Test 3. The Bus Stop 4. The Inside of Your Palm 5, The Strawberry Field Test 6. The 4 Magic Questions Destroying Tactics 1.Jealous Boyfriend 2.Boyfriend Destroyer 3.Cute Couple 4.Whole Room Destroyer Anti-Flakiness Routine: 1. Time availability Routine 2. Last Minute Resistance 3. The Sad Story Appendix – 1 Indicators of Interest Appendix - 2 Fun Fact Conversation Opener/Fixer Appendix – 3 Never Give A Straight Answer Appendix – 4 Rules Of Approaching Groups

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Sexual Routine: 1.Masturbating In Shower Routine 2.Remembering Name Routine 3.Mannequin Routine 4.Pants In The Air Routine Kino Routine: 1.The Hank-Shake Analysis Routine 2.Palm Analysis Routine 3.The Side of The Cheek Routine 4.Body Sound Routine 5. Hit & Tickle Routine 6. Pokable & Delicious Routine 7. Evolution Phase Shift Routine

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Attitude
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- Let go of your outcome - See yourself as a man that women desire - Know that you can and will please her. You will learn something from every set you run and every person that you meet - Always assume that it's on, that she desperately wants you, and that you hold all the cards - Have the attitude that you are auditioning or testing the girls to see if they meet your standards! - You deserve the best of everything - Be unflappable - Be non-needy

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- Good mood - Energetic - Smiling - Well-groomed - Radiate positive energy - Remember your last success and pretend like it just happened before you walk in the room - Sexual - Confident - Relaxed -Teasing - Playful

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Rules Of Attraction
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Step One: Opener - Do improvised or canned opener - Give yourself a time constraint ("I can only stay for a minute because I'm with my friends over there") - Body language as if you're about to leave - Convey personality, smile, but don't be overenthusiastic

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Step Four: Demonstrate Value - Use gimmick, magic, psychic routine, humor, game, whatever

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Step Five: Build Rapport - Elicit values - Find commonalities

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Step Two: Break Into Their World - Best friend test - Make perceptive or teasing comments about them (negs are included here) - Insert challenges
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Step Six: Close - Option 1: Close - Option 2: Isolate target, phase shift/seduce and close - Option 3: Stay in group (or return to group) so that you end the night with them. Try to get to target's house, or get her to your house

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Step Three (can also be done during or after step four) - Option 1: Take-away or false take-away - Option 2: Join the group, mid-story or routine, but again, give yourself time constraint

and slimmer. Your eyes are lovely.. Your hands are so SOFT and GENTLE. 4. if slightly taller. If she says something even slightly rude. when negging.. You look really sexy. Cool perfume. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  1. you must come off as sincere. especially the left one! 2. from behind! 5. I think my granny wears the same. 7.Negs Collection 1 It’s important to note that. 6.. you say: “You don’t go out much. do you?” . Like toilet paper.. you could have been a model. You are pretty. Nice teeth! Are they real? 3..... She shouldn’t perceive you as reaction-seeking or trying to make her feel bad in any way.

” 14. may I finish my sentence first?” You then say to others in the group.” n  n  n  n  n  n  . “My. your palms are sweaty… Ewww!” Where have you been? No. you come on strong. I’m showing them the photos. “Is she always like that?” 10. If your target interrupt you.Negs Collection 2 n  8. say: “Excuse me. not you. If you pull out things to show (Photos). “Ewwww. say: “I didn’t ask you.” Her: “Why not?” You: “I think you’re just too much of a nice girl for me. “You’ve got something in your ear.” 9. You: “I don’t think we should get to know each other. geez. If you’re asking question to two women and your target answer. I’m talking. When your target tries to see them. first show them to the obstacle.” 12. That isn’t till later in the relationship. wait your turn.” or “Excuse me. I don’t want to know. don’t tell me.” 11. say: “Hello.” 13. silly.

23. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  .take the gum. Is that a wig? It looks nice anyway… 19.Negs Collection 3 n  n  15. “No. You take a gum out and offer it to the target.” 16. You have eye crusty. I like that skirt. 20.” 18. waffle? (Smile) 21. Those are really popular these days. “I just noticed. there it goes again. your nose moves when you speak. it’s so cute. “You need to wash that dress already. I like that skirt. it’s so quaint. I think your hair would look better up. 22. haaa. I’m drinking beer.” 17. I saw a girl wearing it a few minutes ago.” “I know .” (Pointing and being cute) “Look. What do you call that hairstyle. thanks.

you can transition into Maddash's Romance Novel routine if you want or the opener about how men and women think differently…) . now let's say that he has a drawer in his apartment. like old souvenirs and memories of his past. I think it's fine/I think he should put them away in a closet/He should destroy them/whatever Okay. guys think differently from girls. I'm a guy. the reason I'm asking is because WING's girlfriend says doesn't want him to talk to his ex from college at all. Now. some of those letters happen to be from ex'es and some of the photographs happen to be with ex'es. as we all know. And. imagine you've been dating someone for three months.Jealous Girlfriend Opener n  Style: bunch HBs: Hey guys. I thought it was extreme and a bit insecure. And she wants him to destroy all of his old photos and letters from ex'es. he has been dating a girl for three months. And she just moved in with him. Well.. blah blah blah concerned comment blah blah question It's not like he ever looks at them. I'm trying to give my friend over there advice.. and he should let go of it now. And he is still friends with his old girlfriend from college. They talk like once a week at most. I think it's fine/I don't think they should be talking/whatever Okay. they're JUST friends. but we're just a of guys and not qualified to comment on these matters. see Wing over there. There's nothing else going on. n  Style: HBs: n  Style: HBs: Style: n  HBs: n  Style: HBs: Style: n  n  (From here. Personally. What? Okay. this is a two part question. let me get your opinion on something. She wants him to cut it off completely. She says it's just holding onto the past. But what do I know. So. How do you feel about that? blah blah blah are they just friends blah blah blah Yes. Now. And in that drawer he keeps all of his old photographs and letters. They are just there.

we're having a debate over here and need a quick opinion on something. interesting.Two Part Kiss Opener n  PUA: Hey guys. but if any guys say "no".) PUA: Okay. And I'll tell you why I'm asking in a second. And she likes to go out and get drunk and make out with girls. So we were trying to figure out who was right. you can bust them for having a double-standard etc. is it cheating? Group: (the responses will vary. some guys might be into that. it's cheating. So here's the real question. and she goes out to a bar with her friends one night and makes out with a guy just for fun. If she goes out and gets drunk and makes out with a girl for fun. which you will have to cut off soon and move into your next piece of material because they will go on and on about this and stale the topic and convo) n  n  n  n  n  . PUA: Okay. Group: (discussion ensues. is it cheating? Group: Yeah. If a guy is dating a girl. but it pisses him off and he thinks it's cheating. She says it isn't. Now. that makes sense. The reason I'm asking is because my friend over there has been dating this girl.

.. Believe me.. it was not a pretty sight. And they seemed to be fighting over this short guy.Girl Fight Opener n  "OMG! . they were totally going at it. and the other one drew blood with her nails. Did you see those two girls fighting outside? Like right outside the club. one was pulling the other's hair. he was standing near them just totally laughing!" ..

and checks his camera. But he can't figure out if she's psycho or if its legit that for girls they just hate having pictures out there where she doesn't look good. the next morning he wakes up. Some of them they're just hanging out. He takes a few pictures of them together. He goes to her and says 'Are you psycho? Why are you going into my camera?' She says its because she thought she looked bad in the pictures. So he's up visiting her in Seattle last week. and a few of them they're like kissing or whatever while they're out walking. over the next week. and he sees that she's woken up before him and gone into it and deleted the pictures where they're kissing. and didn't want him to have them.“ (HB’s response) "He doesn't care about that. and they're out on a walk.Seattle GF Opener n  "Hey guys. and he even hung out with her in L. He just really liked them because he likes her and doesn't judge the pics like that. He looks at the pictures. Anyway. I need an opinion. He just doesn't want her deleting his pictures!" n  n  n  .A. He's busy. They wound up hooking up on the first night. Like really cute ones with them together. and they really hit it off. My friend met this girl in Seattle. and left the ones where they're just hanging out.

She's really strong headed and when I tell her not to get the tattoo it just makes her want to get it even more. no don't let her do it) See that’s the problem. would you ever get a Tattoo? Here’s the deal: My nineteen-year-old sister wants to get her boyfriend’s name tattooed on her shoulder.Tattoo Opener n  n  Hey guys. (HB: No. How do I deal with that and let her really know its mistake? n  n  .

we are too similar… IMAGINE.. we would be fighting and screaming and throwing things....you are soo cute. and the next moment.Never Be Couple Opener n  You: Awww . make up sex.. we would be SO IN LOVE. after a week we would both be in psychiatric care due to emotional drainage! n  n  . but you make me SO SAD! HB: WHY? You: (Pause with puppy dog face) Because we could NEVER EVER be a couple! HB: WHYYY??? You: Nooo. and then fight.. makeup sex. fight. and then we would have HOT MAKE UP SEX all over the place.

so you're IRRESSITABLE…) n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  .. yeah right!! PUA: what?? whaaat? I'm serious. since I do a lot of PU so I'm good at fishing for them). I totally love you. I HIGHLY recommend getting girls to close their eyes and kissing them. and you're stomping all over them like a little ant hill!! (make PUPPY DOG faces. and totally revealed all my emotions.... you're making me so shy!! I told you that I loved you.I Love You Opener n  PUA: I love you. I want to marry you... I swear! Close your eyes. in ANY sarge when you have IOIs. (closes her eyes) PUA: (now KISS the chick while her eyes are closed) HB: hahahahahhaha. HB: noooo way!! PUA: OMG I'm so embarressed.. yeah right!!! PUA: I do.. Then. I want to show you something... transition to PUPPY DOG routine. OMG you jerk!! PUA: yeah..) HB: OMG I'm soooo sorry.......) (I also use the "close your eyes" and kiss the chick usually within the first 1-2 minutes. HB: hahahaha. or whenever I get IOIs (usually for me I get IOIs early. here. so you look SOOO CUTE. so what do you like so much about jerks?? . I love you so much!! HB: hahahahha.

He says he's in love with her. I never see my friend anymore. he says. twenty-four seven. but nothing more happened and he passed out on the couch. So do you think its magic or just psychology? n  n  n  n  . When he woke up. There were weird markings inside. Anyway.. I want to get your opinion on something. it's a strange question. this is one of those guys with tattoos all over his face and stuff. So.. So we happened to be down at this esoteric shop the next day.they ended up going home together. and she said she's a witch.The Spell Opener n  n  n  n  n  Hey guys. because he's with this girl. Our friend. and we asked the proprietor what he thinks of this little scroll. Let me just get your opinions then I'll tell you.. Do you think spells work? I know. cause I like to get candles. ever since then.. he's not out with us tonight. You know. he found this tiny scroll of parchment tied with a leather string with a feather stuck in it. and made out. He said she wasn't really his type after all. We met her at a party last weekend. He's always hanging out with this girl. But I have a reason for asking." So the strangest thing is. "Oh that's a love spell.

HER: How? YOU: (blow in her ear) HER: hahaha. I can change it..Weather Opener n  YOU: Bad weather huh? HER: Yeah. n  n  ... YOU: You know.

Are You Shy Opener n  Are you guys shy? I’ve been standing here talking to my friend for like 5 minutes now and you still haven’t come and talked to me? n  .

How could you know that? I'll show you. I have to ask: how long have you guys known each other for? (If you think they're sisters ask. the answer doesn't matter. I'll give you the best friend test. n  n  n  If they want more. "Has one of you ever kissed someone the other person dated?" They fucking love this one . I get personal here and ask. ???????. if you weren't close to each other. (they always get excited here . you don't even need to say anything to each other. you'd keep eye contact with me as you answered.Best Friends Test (DHV) n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  Style: HBs: Style: HBs: Style: HBs: Style: HBs: Style: HBs: Style: HBs: Style: Okay. You can also use the telepathy line to launch into a mind-reading/cold-reading routine if you do that . It's like you just communicate telepathically. In fact. But if two people have a connection. Are you guys sisters or best friends?) blabla See. LOL) See. See.they love tests for some fucking reason) Okay? (Pretend like I'm about to ask a serious question . Kind of like you're doing right now. You already passed. right. I knew that. Giggle (This is where the seduction newbies you just met see you making two strangers laugh and think you're a PUA God. and then open their mouths to answer) Okay. they look at each other first. so you know they're already hooked)? Do you both use the same shampoo? (Look at each other.but don't make it your first question.you're hooked.

she passes.Squeeze her hands.Lower your hands. and if she follows with her hands. These are fundamental IOI kino-tests n  n  n  .Trust Test (DHV) n  Say "You're taking the trust test". and put your palms up for her to take them. Then say "Give me your hands". 2. If she squeezes back. and then she'll say "No No No. 1. I DO trust you! "and then she'll always be responsive to kino-tests from then on. she passes. Then TELL her if she passed or failed.

" 1 "OK I'm giving you the tension test" 2 Put her hands on your shoulders 3 Put your hands on the lower part of her back and massage in small circles 4 Massage your hands up her spine 'till you reach her traps (shoulder muscles) and then massage them 5 then rub your fingers down either side of her spine with a firm even pressure 6 Then make some bullshit cold read up based on the tension you claim to have felt in her back.. i bet you're the kind of person that finds it difficult to really let go and relax..Tension Test (DHV) n  "You know you're actually quite tense... n  n  n  n  n  n  .

Then ask her the questions while you hold her hand closed. If a girl checks your status it usually means she is interested. Take out a pen and write the correct answers on her palm but forbid her to look. There's a test. "Do you have a girlfriend?" Say. There are three multiple-choice questions. What is the sexiest food? Whipped crème. You should make up your own. Most times she will answer the first two correctly. If she gets it wrong: Whisper in her ear "I can't be with you if you really believe this (nibble ear) feels better than this (kiss neck). "To be my girlfriend (or lover) is a prestigious and exclusive thing." Make sure you kiss and nibble before you let go of her hand. strawberries and kisses on the neck.who knows. but here are some example questions. The crucial thing is that the last question is some sort of intense kino or kissing that you can do right then. But you may want to try it as an opening ." If she gets it right: "I'm glad you like this (nibble or kiss). she will want to take the test. It is so much better than this (kiss or nibble). 1. chocolate syrup or strawberries? 3.“ Curiosity being what it is. This test is used mostly after you have some connection. If she gets all the questions wrong give her a playfully hard time about it. The last question is up for grabs. What feels better? Kisses on your neck or nibbling on your ear? The correct answers are bath. Which do you enjoy more? A shower or a warm bath? 2. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  .The Girlfriend Test (DHV) n  n  When a girl checks your status.

C Smile vs. HB: No way! Style: And she had me go look at pictures of like Christina Aguilera.. and you get a print-out at the end.. and you have to be careful with them. And people with C-shaped smiles were perceived as friendly. who is a C. Because she used to work as an exotic dancer. HB: ???? Style: I dated a girl who wanted to be a pop star. She actually got her teeth surgically reshaped from a U to a C. n  n  n  n  n  n  . She had her eye make-up and her lipstick tattooed on.. she got the fat injected into her labia so that she always looked aroused. (If the HB seems open-minded I continue with the following.. fake nose (point to nose). and Britney Spears. she's a U. U Smile (DHV) n  n  n  n  n  Style: Smile again for me. HBs: So what's a U then? Style: A U is when your teeth go straight back in your mouth (can add "kind of like a horse" if she's a SHB). fake eyes (point to eyes). but this is the rest of the routine if you want it.. fake breasts (cup your breasts). embarrassed) Then I throw in this joke. Style: She was from LA. Style (to wing): See. She worked out two hours a day and was super-fit. This next section isn't part of the IVD. But here's what's crazy.. and when she changed her hair color she had her lips re-tattooed. A C is when there's a row of pearly whites in the front. HB: Um. but evidently she got lips too. everything can be really fake. (From here. they put her through a machine. who is a U. You have to take them to the doctor first to find out which parts are real.) And do you want to hear the grossest thing? One day I noticed that she had two round dots on her upper thighs. Look at the cover of any magazine and you'll see that it's always a C smile on the cover. Whenever you go out with girls in LA. me and the target start inspecting the teeth of random strangers looking for the perfect C or U. okay.) Style: It's crazy how many plastic surgeries they have for celebs now. And to my ex.. (Pretend to walk away. it was more than just a theory. with credit going to Nightlight9. fake teeth (point to teeth).. And she had a theory that people with U-shaped smiles were perceived as unfriendly. Fake hair (point to your hair).

and Passion . maybe there's actually some truth to that!" n  n  ... is caused by only 4 different reactions from that! It seems that passion is only a baby step away from anger... are caused by 24 different chemical reactions . Passion (DHV) n  Have you heard about this? . So have you seen all of those old movies (and even some of the newer ones) where the couple is fighting and the woman is throwing plates at him while he is screaming like a maniac and just when you think they will kill each other.. look deep into each others eyes. start running toward each other and make out like they haven't seen each other in 10 years! And I always thought "what the fuck is going on here?!“ But now I think "well.Anger vs. Anger and aggression . they suddenly stop...

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They are: One-Bun. Eight-Gate. Outer Space. You can list them forwards or backwards. and write the numbers 1 through 10 on the paper.The Peg System (DHV) n  n  First. let's say she chose the words: 1. Ask her to pick a random word to write down next to each number. Five-Hive. 8. Apparently you have a photographic memory. Four-Door. Water. 3. Airplane. n  n  n  n  . Six-Sticks. Three-Tree. you claim to have all the words memorized and in order. 7. Ten-Hen Once you have these memorized. Cocaine. and 10. Strait jacket. Dog. If she calls out a number. After briefly studying the paper. 9. you must memorize the pegs. Backscratcher. Seven-Heaven. Dancing. Ugly. Nine-Line. 5. you are ready to perform this routine. you can instantly answer with the word associated with that number. Two-Shoe. 2. 6. Car. 4. The effect: Pull out your trusty notepad and pen. For example.

could 6. perhaps 8.I 2.Try 4. go 3." Note: Sometime it's more believable to be off by one day. wingman: “Shit.Woud.Alright 0.Will 5.Please 7.Ok If you do not get it: "This is a hard one." If messed up. it's been a long hot day.Quickly.Now 9.So.Psychic Code (DHV) n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  1. n  n  n  .

telling them that they have men’s hand) n  .Your fingers can tell whether you are a girl or a man. only gay men have shorter ring fingers. and some others may have longer and shorter fingers on different hands. (Some girls have longer ring fingers. you know? . Neg them on this. For girls.Ring/Index Finger n  n  .It’s male characteristic that the ring finger is longer than your index finger. normally you must have shorter ring finger too.

. I am not playing some silly lie game".. One of them will be a lie. are you a good liar? HB : What ? You : Can you lie.. Then usually someone goes "MY Turn!" and if they say to you "Your turn" you go "Are you kidding.. shop you like and first guy you slept with.. (HB raises eyebrow) You : Ok guy.. a place you have always wanted to visit. Ok? (the whole table is now looking at her) HB : Ok. You : Is that right? Well lets see. these people are crazy”) . hold on. like (turns to other HB). place to visit. you get the idea.. then turn to your wing "Yeah like _I_ and going to play some lie game.. you try and pick the lie. she can't lie. is she a good liar? HB or Others : Yes! she is a fantastic liar! / No. So that's three things. think about it you have to try and be as convincing as you can.. take it slow..Lying Game n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  You : Hey. Ummm a shop you like going to. You : Right.. umm... You : Ok. and. (She tells. or girl..... you are going to tell me three things. you are going to tell me. the name of the first guy you slept with. Ok.. Ok ? HB : Ok..

marry or kill the girl. etc and go on from there. and she picked three ugly women (Janet Reno. Kill I don't pick 3 guys and get the girl to choose out of them. Rosie. and kill one of them. and I had to pick what I wanted to do with each one. Then I bust on her answers and shift the conversation to girl on girl action and find out if she's ever experimented with another girl. and the third time she gave me a choice of two common friends of ours and herself. One person you have sex with (I think only once. I just pick a guy and ask if she would rather fuck.” Version 2: She told me she would name three people. Then I gave her a choice again. then she named three celebrities. When it gets old I pick a hot girl and ask if she would fuck. or kill him. not really clear on that). marry. Salma Hayek. Then I let her pick a girl and I answer and we go back and forth for a while. and the third person you have to push off a cliff.Fuck Marry Kill Game n  You play it by pointing out three guys in the club and telling her you have to fuck one of them. Then it was my turn so I gave her a choice of three famous men. The next time she said she would make it tougher. Which one would you do what to?? Version 1: "When I play Fuck. and someone else. (J-Lo. n  n  n  . She told me she would start with an easy one. and someone else) so I had to pick from those. marry one of them.) I made my choices and explained them. one person you get married to but can never have sex with. Marry.

The Change Riddle Game n  Have penny. the second new was Nicholas and the third one is? . and dime in your hand. nickel. Ben's mother had three children: the first one was penny.

She will call “Stop” to signal the stop of drawing each line. A blind one 2. .The Mouse Race Game n  Draw three lines on her inside of arm. A dumb one 3. A deaf one n  These three mice will compete in a race by you drawing lines on her inside arm. each line represents 1 mouse: 1. But you pretend not to hear her at the third line thus making this the longest line.

because I don't know how weird you are yet! The questions have to be good ones. it's like Truth or Dare but without the Dare. how many boyfriends have you had? (From there the questions will get deeper and more sexual as the game goes along.. Would you like to kiss me?" Her: "I don't know" You: "Let's find out!" *kiss* n  n  . when it's your turn you can say..) n  n  n  n  You: "I have a good question for you. no "where do you work" bullshit.The Question Game n  You: "Let's play the question game. ok? You go first" Her: "I can't think of anything!" You: "Ok. Then after you have been playing for a few minutes." Her: "What's the question game?" You: "Well.

.... (close their eyes) PUA: (KISS the chicks. do MORE!! PUA: Fuck. PUA: nice. "more...... that was cool.. whatever... close your eyes. and sit there) HBs: no no no. n  n  n  n  n  n  .Kiss Game n  PUA: (does trick or tells story . PUA: ok you want more.... HBs: ok.. I got what I want. you promised!!! PUA: NICE!!! (high-five your wing. I've got ONE more.. PUA: OK. PUA: are you imaginative? HBs: yes. typical woman... PUA: ok. or just you if you're solo) HBs: hahahhahahahha.. or any guy around you. peace!!! (start to leave) HBs: hey!! HEY!! come back!! PUA: hahahah.. n  PUA: ok. (turn back on them.. or her friends). ok we'll do it.. HEEEEY.. or PUPPYDOG routine if you've already conveyed enough JERK-ness to turn her on) n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  PUA: yes? HBs: yeah PUA: yes? HBs: yes. are you intuitive? HBs: uhuh. just for YOU. (move into next JERK routine. more!!" (said in troll imitating voice) HBs: hey! we want more.... HBs: you're not going to kiss us are you?? PUA: WTF?? Look I don't know what FANTASIES you have.. both you and your wing. ok get this.. HEEEEY!! We KNOW what you're doing.. PUA: are you intelligent? HBs: yes. we'll do it. PUA: ok. close your eyes. HBs: ok.. HBs: HEY... and I want you to visualize a kiss.whatever) HBs: more more... do you understand VISUALIZATION?? HBs: yeah. PUA: OK. She likes me!! HBs: hahahahah. but I'm just doing VISUALIZATION tricks here.

The third question should be a long one. making her to think. I got you!" n  . you got me. you win. At the fourth question you ask: "How many questions so far?" 3. then she'll win. 1. bust her: "You see. After she answer the 4th question. you pretend to be surprised and ask her: "Oh. 2. When she says no. have you played this game before??" 4.5 Questions Game n  n  n  n  Tell her to answer 5 questions wrong. if not.

open the door and put the elephant in the refrigerator? How do you bring the rabbit in the refrigerator? Open the door. take out the elephant and put in the rabbit! Animals meeting. River with crocodiles.Animal Routine n  1. which animal isn't there? Rabbit 3.If you could be an animal.How do you bring an elephant in a refrigerator? No. How do you pass? n  n  .. which one? 2..

. that girl. oh my God. effective and funny . My God.Avoid Stalker Routine n  "Oh. n  . Later when target asks why. don't let her see me!" (Hide behind your HB or run and hide behind a corner..builds huge intrigue. avoid the topic!) Comment: Simple.

... not fake. 'hey this guy fancies me' smile. um. you have three smiles.. Then there's this smug. that was your 'I'm flattered' smile. then there's this really genuine smile when you laugh. and your whole face lights up. you can run this routine.. and then you improvise along the lines of the following) "Yeah." n  . and then you have a. you know.Three Smiles Routine n  Any time the chick smiles.." (usually.. "Hey. but a polite smile... and that you are quite attractive to her. she'll smile in response to this) "and there's a fourth!" (she'll probably ask something. I've a feeling I might see that a lot.. It's best used once you've established that you are cool.

her screaming. (Pause slightly to see her response) PUA: So in elementary school when all my friends thought that girls had cooties I was secretly making out with them during playtime. and right there she pulls my pants AND my underwear down. And JUST at that moment the teacher turns around from the blackboard and just freezes with the most horrified look on her face. So for some reason. But now I was with this other girl under the building block table. in the classroom. Now I wasn't about to let her get away with all this so I jump forward. and then the entire class turns and sees me half naked on top of my girlfriend. Yeah. I'd even do cutesy stuff like pretend we were getting married or whatnot. would just be to pull her pants down too. "Remember Arcane. (You'll get a good reaction right here as she should totally be into the story by now) PUA: I didn't know what to do. I remember the chalk falling from her hand.Third Grade Girlfriend Story n  n  n  PUA: HB: You know how kids go through this phase where they think the opposite sex is gross? Yeah PUA: Well. we keep our hands off and our pants on". I had this girlfriend. Ever since I was born I've loved girls. (This almost ALWAYS gets a laugh) PUA: So I'm kissing this girl and my girlfriend finds me and freaks out. Sometimes. n  n  n  n  n  . Now as kids we never wore blue jeans or belts or anything. I get up and try to explain that we were just playing doctor or some shit. The principle actually laughed about it once I told him what happened. (Pause slightly to see her response) PUA: I remember this one in third grade. third grade and I was already cheating on my girlfriends. but I never really got in trouble. But I forget that I've got my undies around my ankles so I trip and fall on top of her. I wore these sweat pants things with the elastic waistband. When I popped out of my mom I probably hit on the nurse. I'm standing there with my weenie hanging out. He let me go saying. I never went through that. (ROFL) PUA: I was sent to the principal. I grab them but she jumps back a step and sticks her tongue out at me. I figured the best thing to do.

. It seemed that this girl had been going out with her girlfriend and she found out about me and went postal. I just couldn't believe it. So as the party is going. someone would call her on the phone and she'd be like. I didn't think much of it there. But there was always something strange. after we broke up like 5 months ago she calls me today and she says that she wants to see me again.. and i need your opinion on this... we even had this cool fog machine that made it really cool...I Stole A Girl's Girlfriend Story n  n  You know the weirdest thing happened to me today. two cute girls came in.. Ok.. i threw this party in my house. so later in the party i start talking with one of these girls and we really hit it off. whenever she was at my house.. we started hanging out together. all my friends came.. But now.. "yeah. but they were like holding hands and giggly over each other... Until one day i get this phone call and in a girls voice someone says "you'd better stay away from Tatiana or I'll send someone to beat you up". sorry I'll be home tonight don't worry". I thought it was like her parents or something like that. like when you feel like you've known someone for a long time. and you know. So the next day she surprised me by showing up at my house. When i lived alone. What would you do? n  n  n  n  n  ..

HB: LOL!! Punch line: "So now her neighbor's cat is knocked up. HB: smiling PUA: No Really. When I would go to her place to visit her. HB: hehehe PUA: And Sara had a neighbor that she really hated. sometimes even licking each other. I mean they haven't seen a female cat in months. So pretty soon I think I know where you can get your very own little gay kitten!" (Wilder) n  n  n  n  n  n  . n  PUA: Ok. he had a female cat. but she bought all three *male* cats. my friend Sara. you know. It was so funny. you'll have the undivided attention of your audience. its amazing how she never thought about it. so once while the guy was away. we stole it and put it in the room with three male cats.. "Have you ever met a gay cat?" After this. So we embarked on a mission to find a female cat.. Only God knows what happened then.. I told Sara "you know what. coz the last thing Sara wanted were gay cats.Gay Cats Story n  Initial hook: Start the story with.. bought 3 cats some time ago. I don't know what she was thinking when she bought them. I mean not gay by birth. get this. what are they supposed to do" So Sara started getting freaked out. but maybe prison gay. And we decided one day that we're going to do something about it. I would see the cats spooning each other. I think they're gay.

when the bar closed I saw the them leave holding hands and I couldn't help but feel I might have brought two people together. but neither was going to do anything about it. so I go up to the man and tell him that he should kiss her on the cheek. .Pimp Daddy Story n  I saw two people sitting next to each other in a bar. it was obvious that both were interested in each other. a man and a woman. he does and she gets all happy and they start talking. well.

"Sarah. "Oh my God. She puts her hand on my chest. And she's not at dinner. it's me. then afterwards we fall asleep in each others' arms.The Crazy Girl Story n  The Girls at Burning Alan are flacking crazy! So I met this girl at dinner and we really hit it off. but she didn't wake up. looks deep into my eyes and says. "How did you know my name?!" n  n  n  . Finally after dinner. but something seemed a little off. Anyway. figuring I'd see her at breakfast." I looked at her and said. you're so hot. which was like twenty yards away. she finally takes me back to her tent and it's really romantic and everything. We spent the whole evening together and she was great. I have to meet you. So I left and went to my own tent. But she's not at breakfast. And she's not at lunch. In the morning I kissed her on her forehead." Then she gets this really weird look on her face and says. I see her across the space and she comes right oyer to me with this weird look on her face.

. Her: HAHAHA This is great for groups.Masturbating In Shower Routine n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  You: Did you know that 93% of girls masturbate in the shower? Her: No You: The other 7% sing Her: Oh yeah? You: And do you know what they sing? Her: No. what? You: Oh you must be one of the girls that masturbates then.

not yet anyway.Remembering Name Routine n  When a girl asks my name I'll say. Now what's my name? And don't say Daddy-. "My name is Wilder. "Turn around a sec." n  . "Haha." Then I'll grab her ass and say. I find people remember my name much better after I've done something delightfully inappropriate." You better have the game to back this up. but I'll diffuse and get around to.

Mannequin Routine n  Tell them about that time you saw a fallen over mannequin in the department store and you tripped over it. The security guard thought you were trying to make it with the mannequin and called you a little freak. n  .

and you remove your panties. then that means that you liked us! n  n  .Pants In The Air Routine n  Hey girls. throw them in the air and if they stick to the ceiling. do you know how you can tell whether you liked us? No? Well tonight. when you get back to your room.

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At some point during the routine you can hold out your hand and say: "Oh, by the way, my name is magicman." Optional: Keep holding their hand (it can be a test for comfort) and with your left hand trace a line from their hand to their shoulder (kino) as you say: "That's an interesting handshake you have. Have you ever had your handshake analyzed? (no pause) I know it sounds crazy, but if you stop and think about it, your hand is connected to your arm, your arm is connected to your body, and everybody knows that there's a mind-body connection. For that reason, your handshake reveals a quite a bit about you." Either pause for their response or plow ahead with: "At first you gripped my hand firmly. That says that overall you are confident and probably have good leadership skills. I wouldn't be surprised to find that at work in or some other way you are a good leader...or soon will be." "Then you relaxed your hand a little which says that even though you’re confident that you're not inclined to reveal too much about yourself until you get to know and trust someone." "On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being great, how was it?" If they give your cold reading a high mark, then press on. If they give you a low mark say: "Wait! There's also one other thing...I also sense that you can be disagreeable at times!“ (smiling). If they say, "Not all of the time" or "No I'm not!" Smile and say, "See! There you go again!”

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Ask a woman, during the conversation, casually, to give you her hand, and hold her hand in one hand of yours and use your thumb of your other hand to touch her palm, then drop it, and tell her that you can know a lot about a person from the feeling of her hand. When she asks what you learn, ask her to give you her hand again (pretending to be a little annoyed), and then tell her that you look for 3 things: the texture of her skin, how much tension is in her hand (by touching into it), and how flexible her wrist is. If her hand is tense, shake her wrist and tell her to relax. Then tell hand when you continue touching her hand: "If you skin is smooth and soft, usually you're a very sensitive person; If your skin is very tough, usually you're a very rough and tough person; you hand is kind of in the middle, so I'll say you've got your issue handled, and are socially healthy." And drop her hand at this point, and lean back.

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Morse: You're a good woman, Sarah. Sarah: How can you say that, we hardly know each other. Morse: I have a feeling. Sarah: So? Its feelings that gotten me in this mess. Morse: I'd like you to trust me Sarah. Sarah: I'd like to trust you too. Morse: Would you close your eyes for me, just for a second? Sarah: Er, ok? Morse: You can open your eyes when I tell you to Sarah closed her eyes, I very gently ran my index finger down the side of cheek. Morse: What am I doing? Sarah: You’re......touching me? Morse: How do you know? Sarah: Because I can feel it. Morse: You should learn to trust that, Sarah. You don't trust your feelings enough. I thought she was going to ask me to marry her right there and then...

or whatever. demote her to number 3.Body Sound n  n  Fun way to escalate kino: "Do you get a good sound?“ Start drumming your hands on various parts of her body. n  . your head doesn't have a very full tone. playfully tease her. I don't know if I could be with a girl who's head sounds like that. Remark on the acoustics." Take away points. "Oh I don't know. Head is good.

"You think you can take me? I doubt it. you get the idea) n  .Hit & Tickle n  Suggest taking it to a physical level "Want to take this outside?". but I will tickle you until you pee your pants. wrestling on the ground. Even funnier if you're already outside." (Good transition into tickling her." "I don't hit girls.

say something like "Eh." "Your shoulder looks delicious.Pokable & Delicious n  "You seem very pokable"." Bite her on the shoulder. If you want to do a take away. maybe a little. It's probably best to do takeaways if you're escalating the kino. Poke her. n  n  n  . "Your hair seems very pullable. "What does your hair taste like?" Put it in your mouth." I like doing stuff like this.

Kiss n  n  n  n  n  . Ask her what perfume she's wearing (smell her). Bite her arm (right at the "under elbow") 4. Have her bite your neck 5.Evolution Phase Shift Routine n  1. Pull her hair (unless she's spent lots of time on her hair) 3. Say: Animals get their information about their mate by the scent 2. Criticize her bite and show her how to do it 6.

divorce her.Marriage & Divorce n  Marry her then when she does something bad. .

. so you're one of THOSE. so then you are one of those people who don't like to be categorized." If she resists use "Oh.Categorize Her When she responds to something.. say: "Oh." n  n  ..

I see your point. n  n  . Make sure you say this close to the phone so the girl can hear you. say "Do you want to talk to (girl's name)?" Then pretend like the person on the phone is shit talking her.Bad Girl Revealed On Phone While talking on the phone with a mutual acquaintance. You know I can't stand that girl. Works similarly when someone is handing you the phone. she is kind of a bitch sometimes. etc." This can go on for a while. "What do you mean you don't want to talk to that bitch?" "Well yea.". Say "Hell no I don't want to talk to her.

" . despite what everyone else says about you.Good Girl Anyway n  "You know. you're a cool/good/nice girl.

Embarrassment Contest Have an embarrassment contest with her. This is pretty limitless." Start introducing her to random people as your wife. she's a little shy. Go up to random girls and say. but you're even less shy. "I bet I can embarrass you more than you can embarrass me". This work's best if you're both not shy. "Want to feel the baby?". who's pregnant. Get creative and crazy. but she wants to meet you. "My friend thinks you're pretty. n  n  n  .

Then ask her a question to let her qualify that she is worth it. so that you can bring her everywhere or use her whenever you like. are you housebroken? n  n  .Making Her Your Item Tell her that you will transform her into one of your items. Wait. (You can add sexual connotation to it) Ex: I’m going to take you home in my little pocket and ask my roommates if I can keep you.

Tell her that she needs to be tamed (put into a cage) or spanked. Tell her that you two would fight all the time but you’ll always win. 2.” . 3. I’d never take your shit and you’d never take mine. we’re too similar.Playful Hostility n  n  n  1. “We’d never get along.

You’re making me think impure thoughts. 3. You’re bad.She’s The Predator n  n  n  1. . I hate how the girls look at me here. Stop it… You’re looking at me like a tiger looks at his prey. like I’m a piece of meat. This place is such a meat market. 2.

Let’s Just Be Friends n  1. n  . but a little annoying. You’re cool. You’re like my little sister. Lovable. you can help me pick up chicks. 2.

like hmm i don't know. you can qualify her a bit. Are you in or you out? " (If she plays along and says she is in (IOI).endless possibilities) n  . We have to first get out of this bar.Prison Break Role-Play n  "Can you keep a secret? I'm trying to organize a prison break. then the city. and then the country. how do i know i can trust you and you don't tell the guards *pointing at the barman* .

since the premise of “guarding your body” can lead to all sorts of things.holding their balls and groaning in pain.” n  n  n  n  . tell her to walk ahead of you to make sure it’s safe.” If you two are going places. You can take this wherever you want to go with it.” Tell her “I can’t pay you much. I’m making you my bodyguards! Just like protecting the President…You’re my VICTORIA’S-SECRET SERVICE.” (What are the benefits?) “Well. add “With THOSE shoes you’d be leaving guys on the floor all over the place…. you’re tough! I’m hiring you as my new BODYGUARD. you get to spend a lot of time hanging out with ME. or talks about pushing/punching/kicking some loser/ex-boyfriend who was making a play for her.Bodyguard Role-Play n  If she acts or talks tough. You guys can run alongside my presidential limo in high heels and skimpy lingerie. say “Wow.” If she has pointy shoes on. but the benefits are GREAT. And if you’re dealing with a group set: “You guys are TOUGH.

" She’ll ask. while almost turning your back on her. Then grab her really close as if you’re going to kiss her. and since she’s almost as cute as Sammy you’re going to name her “Number Two”. Say "Because you remind me of Sammy. "Who’s Sammy?" Respond by telling her that Sammy was the only dog that you ever loved.. pull her even closer to you and say. "Good doggie" (you might even want to pat her on the head at this point). "why". look in her eyes. and say "Are you an adventurous doggie? Because if not I’m going to take you to the pound". but he had to be put down.. Then hug her and tell her that she’s such a cute doggie. hold her hands but start to push her just a wee bit away from you. you’re trying to kiss me and you’re a dog!!!” n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . then I’m taking you home with me".” Then say with a suspicious look on your face. I might have to buy you from the pet store. If she says that she is. "Good. do you?" If she says "no" then grab her hands while pulling them in close and say. Then say to her. what kind of dog would you be and why?” After she answers. "You know why?" She’ll say. and say: "Ew.Good Doggies Role-Play n  A ROLE-PLAYING scenario that’s lots of fun to do with a woman is to ask her: “If you were a dog. "You don't pee on the floor. say "I like that kind of dog. Then look in her eyes.

have sex with an 80 year-old man. Next time you call her you can say “Hi! It’s your future temporary husband” or “Hey Barbie! It’s Ken”. etc). Whatever she says. try to talk her down in price! The real beauty of role-plays is that you can easily use “call-back humor” with them. Ask her how much money it would take for her to (be a stripper. This can instantly get her in the fun state created by your prior role-play and start the conversation off playfully.Would You Role-Play n  Closely related to role-playing is the “Would You” game. n  . change the oil in my car.

"Wife No.... Wife No. What have you got going on to be my new wife? (Note: You can keep mentioning new wives each time you want to qualify her.10 is a fire fighter.12 Wives Role-Play n  (After marrying her) We get along so well! Now you just have to impress my 12 wives. It won't work out between us"! n  n  n  n  .12 is an Astronaut and has been around the world twice! Wife No.9 is an oil tycoon and is too picky.. since they won't let me marry anyone unless the approve. Wife No. or disqualify yourself.11 is a private eye and has busted Columbian drug lords.

. If they're foreign.Bond Girl Role-Play n  n  n  n  n  Me: You're bad. and she does something and little spikes come out of her shoes and she KICKS the guy and he gets poisoned to death. HB: hahahahaha Me: You know what we should do? HB: What? Me: We should run away together.. I also want another army. and YOU will be in charge of recruiting them. I don't usually). and then we'll point it at x-country (sometimes they will go nooooo. you might try mentioning that place first. and then underneath it we'll build a big ass laser gun. and build a mansion there with a huge manmade lagoon. but you know. with big futuristic guns. that chick in the James Bond movies. I'll have to recruit an army of guys in uniforms. like.. though? We need an army. and check out your shoes too. And when things are good.. and you can go into a little sideline of figuring out which country you're going to point the laser gun at. HB: Yeah? Me: Yeah.. if you're being a bit of a jerk) and we'll tell them we will laser them unless they give us ONE BILLION DOLLARS (you can go all Dr Evil here if you like..YEAH! n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . I want an army of. I like x-country. HB: Oh?/Yeah!/blah Me: Yeah. like. HOT girls in bikinis who are.. they bring her in when they want to assassinate someone. and go to an island in the Caribbean. HB: Yeah! Me: But you know what we need. So. they can just lounge around the pool in bikins being hot. HB: blah blah Me: Yeah. You know who you remind me of? HB: Who? Me: You know. The one who has thoseshoes. but when there's bad shit going down they can take down all the invading special forces guys by leaping on them and snapping their necks with their thighs. total martial arts experts. and you know what country THEY come from.

. You don't even have to say a word.Mirror & Exaggerate (NV) n  Mirror her then Exaggerate some part of what she's doing that sticks out or seems even slightly unnatural. n  . make sure it's playful. * I've been doing this a lot lately with great success..

Pushing Her Routine n  Push her into things as you're walking together .

Grabbing Knee Routine n  Grab her knee after she says something funny .

and gives you an excuse: Go “aw“ (没有吧?有没有搞错?)and turn your back on her and just stand there for 5 seconds before turning back around. Do it in a way that's playful. or even something that you can pretend to Misinterpret as bad (in fact. or if she's making like she might leave or says she has a BF. do it serious. until you learn to calibrate it so that they'll grab you and hug you and say “no no no no” * Every PUA should do this in a sarge. n  n  n  n  . * Keep doing this.Back Turn Routine n  Next time that a chick does Anything that gives you an excuse. * It's one of the best techniques that we have. to create drama and tension. this is even better/funnier).

Throughout our life all of us struggle with these problems that have been implanted deep within ourselves. give example. 2. What's the part about yourself that you like the least? This is the part of yourself that you don't like to show other people. It took. So rather than trying to deny it. begin the routine.Secret Self Routine n  "I went to dinner the other night with some friends of mine. like. * Don't get stuck on the "therapist role". This is actually a part of you that serves a purpose. What does this character look like? What's it wearing? *Ask her to imagine a figure in mind and give details. if we take just a moment to think about them and learn to how to use them correctly. So what job would you give to this character that would help and add to your life? *Reframe this from something negative to something positive. like the destroyer. 3. 4 Questions: 1. what would it be? * Resist. * This routine could be life-changing. It's so amazing to realize that it's so simple to fix them. 4. If you could give this part of you a name. 5 minutes and was literally life-changing. give her example." Once she expresses interest. like your friend's lack of knowledge on some topic. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . * If she resists. instead give it a constructive and positive role to play in your life. and they did this psychological profile of me that was really fascinating. your "Secret Self". change gear after you finish.

" you demonstrate those values that they wish they had (and feel like they lack. What kind of children did you play with when you grew up? (A personality develop through it) 6. What matters the most to you in your life? n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  *Once they tell you things like "I wish I was more confident.7 Essential Questions n  n  n  n  n  PUA: I’m going to ask you a question. How would you describe either of your parents? ( She feel closer to the first one she talks about) 5. PUA: Take your time and think about it. What are the 3 or 4 of your early childhood memories? (Anchor the experience to you) 4. How would you describe yourself between the age of 5 – 12? (Many people are still child inside) 2. PUA: [Question] Her: I don’t know. . that’s really a hard question.) It makes the attraction flow toward you. 7 Questions: 1." or "I wish I was more intelligent. Her: Okay. What’s the difference between your ideal self and real self? 7. What did you learn about men (or women) when you were growing up? ( They’ll relate to you) 3.

(relax and think loving thoughts) (After you see sparkles) There! Right there! That one! Can you feel that? (Anchor) n  n  n  n  n  . (or shoulder) In Celt they believe in soulmates. Now give me your hands. if two people are soulmates. that is. and put them on my hands. you open your left eye. now you relax. to see if we can find that sparkles.. they can discover their soulmate sparkles in each other’s left eyes So. They say the eyes are the window to the soul. and let me in. but that‘s really only half true. we're going to do a little soul gazing here.. and the left eye (pointing eyes) is the window to the soul. So. and as I open up my left eye. to let you in. that special soulmate sparkle.Soul-Gazing Routine n  n  Let me show you something really interesting. The right eye is the window to the body and the mind .

Guy/Girl Name Routine n  1. have you thought about if you were a guy. n  n  . *If she doesn’t know her guy name. 2. from now on I’m a girl named [Name]. give her one. And do exactly what a beautiful girl would do to a guy to her. and you’re a guy named [Her Name].Hey. what would your name be? If I were a girl. my name would be [Name]. Play a role-reversal game with her: “Ok.

I'll tell you a tamer story. PG-13 or PG then you look kind of sad and say. ." Her: "What is that?" You: "It is the art and science of relating on a deep emotional level to another human being..... coming home. " Her: "Come on.. When I find someone of the same mind then it is like. What would your movie be rated?" You: "NC-17 (pause for effect) because some crazy stuff happens to me. here is a fun one. And then that book was made into a movie.“ If she says R or above then smile give her a high five or whatever. a kiss and tell book. I have a couple questions that I like to ask people to find out if they are passionate and alive. Her: "How about you. n  n  n  n  n  n  .. tell me." Look around as if you don't want anyone to overhear and then take her hand and lead her to a more intimate area of your venue. We got to get some adventure for you..) Her: "What questions?" You: (Looking surprised) "Oh.. Now of course the whole purpose of this is really to get her to ask you what your movie would be rated. "Oh I am so sorry.." (You are planting the hook of curiosity and then moving past it a little so it doesn't look so obvious. an autobiography. If your life story up until this point was written as a book. I love people who love life.. Once there tell her your best (hopefully true) non-humorous sexual adventure story that happened to you 'last week'. What would that movie be rated and why?“ If she says rated G. For instance. Her: "How about you?" You: (Playing a little dumb) "About me what?" Her: "What is your passion?" You: "I dig interpersonal philosophy." You nod silently.. Okay. let's see.The Movie Routine n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  You: "What is your passion in life?“ Her: "I don't know. I like traveling I guess. No wait I shouldn't tell you about that.. Like just last week.

. and the way you feel those emotions in your body." In other words: 1.. So what's most important to you is the experience of fun and excitement.what would it be?" "What is the ideal scenario of you doing that thing? Describe it. and yeah it's kind of because I'm being a bit funny or weird or whatever.. you smiled. your core value is fun and excitement.. how do you feel. blah blah" "Ok.. and whatever leads you to that is most important. blah blah blah" "So really then." "So picturing it right now.. even though your favorite experience is dancing..What emotions?" "So really then. but also. What emotion she gets while she pictures this 4. it's because you could kind of feel that emotion right now. while I was asking you this... Show her that what she really wants is not so much the activity (although it's important) but the emotional fulfillment she gets from it... Description of her favorite activity in an ideal setting 3. You can die now.Eliciting Values Routine n  "What is the experience you most enjoy doing?" or "If you had to pick one experience that makes life worth living. Favorite activity 2. while we were talking about it. Now she can die happy n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  .. so in four minutes we've fulfilled your quest for core value. can you feel it. 6... Show her that she experienced the emotion while picturing it 5...

This can be a real desert. how?) 6) And. give 5 adjectives to describe the cube. Describe the cube as best you can. what kind? How is it in relation to the Cube? 5) Somewhere in this desert is a storm. What kind of storm is it? Where do you see it? Does it affect the Cube. What is it made out of? Where is it in relation to the cube? How big is it? 4) There is a horse in this desert. What kind of horse is it? What color? Where is it? What is it doing? Does it have a saddle. Ladder. there is a ladder. finally. or just one of fantasy. one in pictures.The Cube 1 n  n  1) Imagine desert. and the "mood" it conveys. in this desert there are flowers. also. as well as the physical qualities. a bridle. Are there objects in your desert? How big is it? What time of day is it? are you in the desert or just looking at it? How does it make you feel? 2) In this desert there is a cube. Describe the horse. Describe the ladder. or anything? If so. 3) Now in this desert. as well. Where are the flowers? Are there many? or few? What color? What kind? n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . Describe what's in the desert. And Horse? (If so. How big is it? What is it made out of (if you can tell)? What color is it? What texture? Is it hollow or solid? How far is it from your point of view? What position is it in? Also.

ladder under the cube) => feels her close associates support her in her accomplishments Strong ladder => is surrounded by strong people.The Cube 2 n  n  1. imaginative but unrealistic Cube partly above the horizon line => ambitious Cube below the horizon => not very ambitious Cube resting on its edge => meta-stable life. has a hard shell around herself Ladder leaning against cube => Feels she does a lot of things for her friends. unfulfilled in the extreme n  n  n  n  n  n  . very different from normal people Ladder with few rungs => has few close friends Ladder in a less than good condition => believes people around her are fucked up Ladder far away from the cube => Does not let people get too close to herself. outgoing personality. has many friends. feels oppressed by them Ladder much bigger than cube => feels small in her social circle\ Ladder supporting cube (like. wellgrounded personality n  n  n  Cube made of gold => Thinks of herself as extremely precious Cube made of glass or transparent cube => Considers herself pure Cube full of slimy stuff => Hates herself completely Cube hollow inside => feels hollow. feels she has some codependent people around her Ladder on top of cube => Feels her friends/family are overbearing. The Cube = Your Self-Image Cube resting on the ground => generally has a firm foothold on reality Cube far away in the distance => Feels left behind by life Cube flying in the air or levitated => daydreamer. perhaps? n  n  The Ladder = Your Friends. feels secure in them Burned up ladder => Feels surrounded by totally fucked up people who are ruining themselves n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  Cube made of solid material => good sense of self-worth. keeps aloof. supports them more than they support her. or Social Support Structure Long ladder with many rungs => big social circle. sociable Ladder made of some odd material => feels her friends are weird.

strong man Color of horse => Possibly the race of the lover she wants Horse close to the cube => Wants the lover to be very close to her emotionally and physically Horse well separated from cube => Is reserved about opening up completely to lovers Horse licking/sniffing the cube => Imagines/wishes she's being doted on Small. or would like to. submissive horse => Wants a lover she can dominate Wild horse => wants a guy who is not tamed and will not be tamed Tethered horse => Wants to keep him very restrained/restricted Horse stomping on the cube => Has been or feels extremely abused by lovers Horse destroying the flowers => Feels the lover will not be good towards her children (single moms probably have this thing more often) Horse messing with the ladder => Conflict between her lover and her friends Horse far away or walking away => Feels abandoned Horse separated from flowers by the cube => feels she will have to take care of the children and manage her lover's relationship with them Weak horse => envisions being or stuck with a wimp n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . (One chick I know had this.The Cube 3 n  n  The Flower = Children or Pets Number of flowers => children she has or wants to have. poppy etc) => Finds children very beautiful n  n  n  n  The Horse = Ideal Lover Strong. she is a grade school teacher) Flowers shaking in the wind => feels children in her life have hardships Flowers all around/over the cube => Feels overwhelmed by kids Flowers separated from cube by the ladder => feels her friends/family (do/will/might) interfere in her relationship with her children Beautiful flowers (roses. large horse => Wants a protective. or has/wants to have around (See * below) Flowers close to cube => Feels very close to the children she has or will have Flowers far away => Does not want children Flowers blooming well => Feels positive about her children's lives Flowers messed up => is surrounded by screwed up children * Lots of flowers everywhere => Probably works with children.

has few problems around in her life. dominant storm => Feels her life is in deep shit Storm in the distance. as in being lied to. passing away affecting none of the other four things in the scenery => Feels her life is relatively trouble-free. or emotional highs and lows BARE DESERT ~ sign of extreme self-reliance. pleasure. satisfying love life. shelter. Small storm => Feels secure about problems she will face n  n  The Desert = Your Life. World View CACTI ~ usually difficult people.The Cube 4 n  n  The Storm = Troubles in Life Storm in the distance => Troubles are not overwhelming her presently Storm approaching => Fears crises in future Storm receding => Has had troubles recently but feels they are over Huge. and nourishment. WATER ~ emotional nourishment. such as a good imagination. portraying the mood. and untrusting. TIME OF DAY ~ may indicate time of life. snowcapped could mean that you choose to keep a spiritual perspective in sight. mostly refers to a humans or many as the case may be. could be good. the presence of feeling or love. DUNES ~ sensuality. or bad. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . independence. especially for a woman. or other difficulties. but because of the humanoid shape. or just to give a better background of the world. CLIFFS AND/OR GULLIES ~ dramatic events. MOUNTAINS ~ spirituality. PALM TREES ~ sources of support. MIRAGES ~ life's illusions. (notice how DUNE and NUDE are anagrams of each other).

intrigued. WHAT COLOR COMBINATION DO YOU CHOOSE? (Any combination including all one color is fine. boring one that gets you home fast. It's time to go home now. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way.. I actually enjoyed using this and most people dig this routine. or the curvy. which takes you there quickly. and you start to head back.. Later. One is full of white roses. On the way. and their potential significant others. You ring the bell and the maid answers.I would like to present you the LOVE TEST. or on the bed. You enter the room: ARE THEY AWAKE OR SLEEPING? 6. WHICH ROAD DO YOU CHOOSE? Short or long? n  n  n  n  n  n  . WHERE DO YOU PUT THE ROSES? On the bed or by the window? 5. You wake up in the morning. sight-filled road that you can just casually take your time with.The Love Test 1 n  I have not seen this on the board yet. relationships. One is full of red roses. you see two rose bushes. WHICH ACTION DO YOU TAKE? Ask the maid or do it yourself? 4. It could be used in order to enrich your routine arsenal.) 3. 1. in separate rooms. There are two roads to get there. You decide to pick 10 roses for your boyfriend. Most people whom I have used this routine on ended up giving me a deep-down silence. and go to your significant other’s room to check up on them. its time for bed. No one is there. but is very plain and boring. One is a straight path. You can take either road home now: The plain. You are walking to your significant other’s house. It was beautiful! This routine is focused on 3 things: personality. You can ask the maid to please get your lover. but takes quite a while to reach your lover's house. You and your lover go to sleep. You finally get to your significant other’s house. and fascinated about themselves. or you may go get them yourself. WHICH PATH DO YOU CHOOSE? Short or long? 2. They were curious. Now. you go up to your significant other’s room. You can leave the roses by the windowsill.

You want to work it out right away. Which road do you choose to go home? “The short and long roads now represent how long you stay in love. Where do you put the roses? On the windowsill or on the bed? “The placement of the roses indicates how often you'd like to see your significant other. If you found them awake. If you asked the maid to get your loved one. If there is a problem.” 6. If you chose the long one. If you chose the short one. If you chose the long one. Placing the roses on the bed means you need lots of reassurance in the relationship.” 3. What combination of roses do you choose to give your love? “The number of red roses represent how much you expect to give in a relationship.” n  n  n  n  n  .” 4. Placing the roses by the window show that you don't expect or need to see your lover that often. The number of white roses represent how much you expect to receive in a relationship.” 2. you expect them to change for you. you tend to stay in love for a long time.The Love Test 2 n  n  Analysis 1. if a person chose all red with one white. you confront it and deal with it. then you may beat around the bush. seeing them just once in a while is OK. and you'd want to see your lover every day. you fall out of love easily. If you went and got your lover yourself. or do you do it yourself? “This question shows your attitude in handling relationship problems.” 5. If you chose the short one. you fall in love quickly and easily. Therefore. Do you find your love asleep or awake? “If you found your significant other asleep you accept your loved one the way they are. you take your time and do not fall in love easily. they give 90% in the relationship but expects to receive only 10% back. then you are pretty direct. if possible. maybe asking a third party to intervene. Avoidance of problems runs high. Which road do you choose to take to your love's house? “The roads represent your attitude towards falling in love. Do you ask the maid to get your love.

d. lacks of certain social abilities.” .She's passionate. or indecisive. religious.) .) n  n  n  n  n  . is serious.” . and I would wait for the bus with my love. your best friend.” .” . as they deserve.She's insecure. “I'd carry my best friend. and doesn't enjoy life. b. Your car has enough space to carry one more person. and impulsive. and a "good girl". you see three people waiting at the bus stop: an elderly woman. loyal.Either she's a very self-centered. “I'd let my friend to drive the woman and himself.She has a very high moral.” .(The correct answer!) She's smart and witty. c. “I'd carry the elderly woman. What would you do? a. e. shy. (You could help. dreamy. and when you stop at the traffic light.The Bus Stop n  Imagine that you're driving on a stormy day. and the love of your life. “I'd carry the love of my life. “I would continue alone.

The Inside of Your Palm n  When you are talking someone and you have become comfortable with each other say: “I can tell what kind of lover you are by looking on the inside of your palm. those whom you can trust with the full intensity of your emotions.” After you have done this for 10 seconds or so. your physical passions are very strong. affable. You are likely to be most comfortable with a familiar lover who knows your habits and desires very well. your partner must be completely aware of your likes and dislikes.” n  n  n  . while at other times you are introverted. sociable. You reserve the disclosure of your true feelings for those who are close to you. Once involved with a lover. In order to enjoy love most fully. say the following statement with a calm and steady voice: “At times you are extroverted.

who's field you took them from? (=how you feel to that person after fucking them) n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . how do you feel about the farmer. It is very popular in Japan & is a good state transitioner Hey. and see a strawberry field in front of you with tasty strawberries. after you have finished enjoying the strawberries. How high is it? (= how easy is this girl/guy to take sex) How you are in the strawberry field. how many strawberries do you take? (=how many BFs/GFs that person wants) Ok.The Strawberry Field Test n  This is a game to find out some things about how chicks see sex. There is a fence/gate around the field. lets play a game! Imagine you are alone in a field.

What do you do? 1. 4. Visualize yourself in a white room.4 Magic Questions n  1. Nobody is around and the ocean is right in front of you. This is how they view sex. This is how they view themselves. 3. What is your favorite animal? What qualities do you see it as having? 3. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . What is your favorite color? How does it make you feel when you think about it? 4. Imagine yourself on a beach. This is how they view death and dying. How do you feel? 2. You’re in a bed and everything is white. 2. This is how their friends view them.

) n  “Hey is that your jealous boyfriend?" “Good." . a jealous boyfriend saw his girlfriend talking to me and tried to start a fight with me. 'cause last week I was at this bar. or comes over to chat with her briefly. Another guy waves to her....Jealous Boyfriend (Destroying Tactic) n  (Every time when I'm talking to a girl.. or comes over to give her a hug. I would say to the girl.

hold your hand close to your heart. hold your hand far away. Do you have it? How close is that to your heart?” "How close is your boyfriend to your heart?” "How close is your family to your heart?” "Now. If it's far away.Boyfriend Destroyer (Destroying Tactic) n  "I'm going to ask you some questions. If something is close to your heart. would you take him?" Yes. closer than her original job]. I'm going to ask you about some things like your job. If it's in between. would you take it?" She answers yes. I want you to answer with your hand. hold your hand there. and I don't want you to answer with words. "Now. n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . if I was to offer you another job that was right there [he moves her hand near her face. how close is your job to your heart?” "Think about something you're really passionate about. like a hobby. "And if a some guy came along [Chris is waving his hands toward me] who was right there [he moves her hand so it's touching her nose].

. he is the perfect guy for you. look he is even well dressed/good looking/fit/tanned" and keep at it until she starts moving away from the poor guy in denial. I often walk over and say "You are such a cute couple!" to make the girl deny they are together and follow up with "But you are so cute together.Cute Couple (Destroying Tactic) n  When I see a guy and a girl talking.

" Make sure they look around and see all the boring AFCs. you tell them: "Listen. And I will guarantee you that not one of them is as interesting as us/me. I will introduce you to any other guy in the room. (Gesture around the room so that they look. and I will personally walk up and introduce you to him. I'll tell you what.) Pick anyone out.Whole Room Destroyer (Destroying Tactic) n  Once you're in a set and they are loving you most. n  n  .

Lance uses a fun routine for this: You: “What are you doing Friday?” Her: “Nothing” You: “Oh”… *pause and wait for her to speak* Her: “what are you doing Friday?” You: “I’m busy.” n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . Don’t tell her about a great thing that’s happening Tuesday.” Her: “Doing what?” You: “I’ve got a date with you. find out when she’s free first. you’ve wasted your time. Ask her “what are you doing Monday night?” “What are you doing Tuesday?” Wait until you’ve found out when she is free before you tell her what you’re doing.Time Availability Routine n  Now it’s time to find out when she is free.) So. and THEN ask her what she’s doing Tuesday (If she’s busy on Tuesday.

If she still says she's uncomfortable. Agree with her. say "I understand". I'll tell her when she returns "I felt your absence and was really happy when you got back. Spend at least seven hours with her or talking to her (all at once or over the course of several days) before having sex 2. or act wounded. Don't pout. but continue keeping her turned on 3. If she says "We shouldn't be doing this". and check your email or watch infant brain surgery on The Learning Channel. Then turn on the light. If she goes to the bathroom. be angry. blow out the candle. don't argue with her. Let her know that you won't leave her before you get to the bedroom.Last Minute Resistance n  1. Don't push for sex right away. She will feel your absence and want your attention again 4. I'll tell her that she's hijacked my brain or that I had a dream about her. turn off the music. What did you do to me?" n  n  n  .

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Let me tell you a story, it's called "Meeting the 100% Perfect Girl Once an Afternoon in Montreal". It begins with "Once upon a time", an it ends with "A sad story, isn't it?". Once upon a time, there was a guy, he was walking down a quite street, and he was going to mail a letter. It was a spring afternoon, and he was not doing anything but to mail the letter. From the other direction there came a woman, and she was going to do her laundry, again, she was not going to the club, or the bar, or anything special, she was just doing her laundry. And they passed each other. As they passed each other, the man looked at her, and thought to himself: "You know what, that is the 100% perfect girl for me. But I was just going down here, not doing anything, what is the chance of me meeting the 100% perfect girl for me?" And the girl looked at the guy and thought to herself: "You know what, that is the 100% perfect guy for me. And this is amazing." By some trick of fate, or some one in a million odds, they just didn't know, but they stopped and spoke to each other. So they started talking, and they realized they clicked on every level. Like it was just fate, they just walked down the street, and they lost track of time. Everything they had in common, and everything they didn't have in common, they just complement each other perfectly. They sat down on a bench and they started talking, and they said: "This is too weird, what is the chance of actually meeting your 100% perfect person randomly? This is crazy, so let's make sure this is for real. What we are going to do right now is that we are going to separate. We are not going to talk to each other and we are not going to exchange phone number or anything, but if we run into each other again, then we know that it is really meant to be, and we will marry on this spot." And then they separated, and a day passed, a week passed, 6 months passed, a year passed, 5 years passed, 10 year passed, and they didn't see each other again. And obviously they started dating people, and they found 65% perfect love, they found 70% perfect love, they even found as much as 80% perfect love, but they never found a 100% perfect love again. It was fine, they married, they had family, and they became grandparents separately with their own husband and wife, and it was all fine. And in one season, it was a very cold winter in Montreal, influenza was going around and everybody got sick. They lived separately in their own homes and they got really really sick, their spouses were getting it by now. They got very very sick, and they pulled through. One day they were walking down the same quite street, he was 82 and he was going to mail a letter, she was 77 and she was going to do her laundry, carrying her laundry on her shoulder. They passed each other and he looked at her, he thought to himself: "I recognize her from somewhere but I don't remember where." She looked at him and thought: "That guy looked so familiar, but I just don't know who he is." They kept walking, and they passed each other. The thing is, they were really meant to be together, they would have been the 100% perfect persons for one another, but the fate, what is the chance that the fate only bring them together once? Like the chance of the lottery won. They tested fate and they separated, and they only had one chance.

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She asks you, without prompting, what your name is, what you do for work, shortly after meeting you She changes her opinion on a song or movie based on your own opinion of it You lean back and she leans toward you You take her hand and she squeezes it She says, "I'm not sleeping with you" before you've asked her to

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1. The average woman consumes eight pounds of lipstick in her lifetime 2. Chewing gum while chopping onions will prevent you from crying 3. No word in the English language rhymes with month 4. Mosquitoes are attracted to people who just ate bananas 5. Fish can drown 6. The only bird that can swim but not fly is a penguin

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then you sound like a weirdo hiding something. n  n  n  n  She: How old are you? You: I'm 72. maybe twice. Seriously. Does anyone have some chalk? She: What's your sign? You: No parking any time n  n  . but I look younger because I don't smoke She: What do you do for work? You: I'm a professional hopscotch player. But if you don't answer the question on her third try.Appendix – 3 Never Give A Straight Answer The general rule is to make a joke response once.

or special skills. they'll accept you 4. or teaching her something about herself. if you must .or can learn . Until you win them over with your humor. but you can't take her anywhere!". If you don't let the group know why you're asking then they are going to think you're taking a survey. Win over her friends first. "How long does this guy plan on staying here?". because my friends are waiting over there. hand-writing analysis. If you are able to make them have a little more fun than they're currently having. Note: this should not be an insult.will come in handy. and his boss has set him up with his daughter. whether it be magic. but more of a tease. Even ignore her. two subjects fascinate everybody: relationships and the unknown. Do not face directly or lean in. It's kind of a lose-lose proposition. tell her friends: "You can dress her up. Enter with an energy level equal to or slightly above that of the group you're approaching. personality.Appendix – 4 Rules Of Approaching Groups n  1. psychological personality tests. When you begin speaking. you must short-circuit that fear by telling them. As soon as you approach. As they become more comfortable with you. So add a story: "I'm asking because my friend over there just moved to Los Angeles. Now that you have approached and talked to the group. 8. If she does something silly. Root the opener. According to Mystery. This will make her friends feel safe with you and make her wonder how you could possibly be unaffected by her charms. To start a conversation. ask a question that will pique the attention of most people. if you pretend as if you are going to leave afterward and they drag you back to talk more n  n  n  n  n  n  n  . Approach indirectly. then you may turn in and join the group 2.this will only pique her interest 3. like one might do to a little sister." 7. the next step is to make it so they don't want you to leave This is where any skill you know . Demonstrate value. for example: "Where would you take someone on a blind date?" 5. Everyone's out to have fun. palm-reading. So ask. Do not hit on the woman you are interested in right away. Demonstrate active disinterest in the woman you are actually interested in. You'll know you've done it correctly. Offer a time constraint. Use a neutral entertaining opener. talk over your shoulder. "I can only stay for a second.“ 6. the first thing the group worries is. This will make them uncomfortable.

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