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How to Practice the Art and Science of Attraction With No Risk of Rejection
By John Alanis The King of Let ‘em Come to You
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a friend of mine discovered internet chat and instant messaging. and came over to ask me if there was an application for it. Hell. he met them. I have no idea who he was talking to or what about (since he never seemed to make any money). he loved to talk. and said it sounded like a fantastic way to waste time. Once I caught him chatting with two people at once. and he didn’t have just one—he had two. My friend. but he just couldn’t get enough. and talk to women until they were no longer afraid when I remember something from my past. just like his cell phones. but thinking back on it. But. I survey my customers and subscribers. I hadn’t done it in quite awhile because I’ve been so busy meeting women in the real world. On one hand. and sometimes would be talking on two at once. Now. and I could put lots of pictures in it to make it pretty. He made a big show of always being on his cell phone. Soon. something that helped me hone my attraction skills dramatically. but he sure loved to talk. excited about a new online tool he’d found—ICQ which stood for I Seek You. everywhere you could meet them. different chat programs open on his computer at once. and what I am about to reveal is the most valuable method I’ve ever discovered for practicing attraction. Way back in 1999. however. After reading the survey. Cute. He met women on the street. and internet dating sites started to flourish. Reading over the results of my most recent survey. I was just about to simply tell the guys to go out in the real world. would obviously make it more than practice? The idea of a software system that produces female “avatars” programmed to interact with you is so far fetched as to be unrealistic. At first glance. but I was certainly proven right on that count—Instant Messaging is an extraordinarily effective way to waste time. my friend had a weakness for the ladies. he had two. The other thing my friend liked to do was talk. Let me tell you a quick story.but it might be the most valuable. He didn’t like that answer. ICQ had started it all. I’m not really into all that. Chat rooms sprang up. Or a lot. slept with a lot more. even three. while talking on his cell phone. it gave me the skills to do so. I’m into delivering information that works. and in my mind a little creepy. . One day he came over. in the office. suck it up. was bound and determined to find some sort of use for Instant Messaging. He knew I was in the marketing game. But it was never enough for him—he always wanted more. I could stuff it full of fluff and filler to add bulk. Cell phones were just starting to take off. Oh. On occasion.Welcome to the Attraction Simulator System. and soon enough AOL Instant Messenger was all the rage. I looked at it. He dated a lot of women. that sounds unrealistic—how do you “practice” without talking to a real live woman which. this system is going to be one of the shortest I’ve ever created. I noticed an interesting pattern: a LOT of men were asking if there was a way for me to create a “practice system” so they could try out all of their new skills without risking rejection.
He loved to show off. “Remember that Instant Messenger you said was a waste of time?” he began. Things were flying so fast he could barely keep up. You should try it. fired up AOL Instant Messenger and went to an AOL chatroom. Now I was intrigued. and I wanted to see it. yeah. but I finally discovered a use for this thing. then he chose one and Instant Messaged her. then another. he had. During that time.” he said. He started bringing home two. “Yep. . and in this case I was happy to let him…I wanted to know his secret. Unbelievable. “and you seem to do quite well wasting a lot of time with that thing. He did the same thing with another woman. “Nice.” I said. “How did you meet this one?” He got a gleam in his eye when he told me. I use it to meet women. and he showed me a picture of chunky. and got them interested in him. and sexy. I’d never seen anything like it. We went over to his computer. Whatever flaws my friend had. I asked him if he’d met her using this method and he said.” “Yeah. all of them were acceptably cute. flabbergasted. I watched him for about 15 minutes. No worries. He watched for about 5 minutes to see what the conversations were about. he’d met 4 women. he was good at meeting women. Lots of women. Soon enough. and we were actually roommates in 1999 and 2000. but pleasant looking blonde. And while the guy wasted a lot of time yammering on his cell phones and chatting on his instant messenger programs. and his face lit up. and they were chatting away like old friends within 5. he went onto the next one. She didn’t respond. He was. and wanted to show me a picture of her. yep. fun. At that time I hadn’t yet figured attraction out.” I said. I knew he had a trick up his sleeve. gotten their pictures. While none of them were going to win the Miss American Pageant. bursting with excitement. Not only did she respond. and they’re pretty cute. he was talking to 4 women who’d sent him pictures within 2 minutes. full of women. she sent him a picture within 2 minutes. looked at his watch and said he had to get ready for his date.I met him in 1998. He’d been talking to her on his cell phone as he drove home from work. as if he was about to spill a secret. I asked him to show me. One day he came home. But he didn’t stop there. added them to his AOL Instant Messenger contact list. He chatted for 15 more minutes. even three new ones a week. A lot of time. he always found time for the ladies. telling me about a new woman he was going to meet up with. and I didn’t meet nearly as many women as he did. He turned on his computer. And she did respond.
and my mind was quicker. no rejection training tool for learning the skills. you have Yahoo messenger. or some other instant messenger programs. and AOL Instant Messenger was still going strong. I got pretty good at writing online profiles. Match. I wasn’t brave enough back then to meet any of them in person. and they rhythm of attraction. Damn.He left for his date. She was hot. and the dates were not fun. So. and got several pictures within 2 minutes. Could Instant Messaging really have a productive use? I decided to give it a try myself. I got several emails from women interested in my profile. I kept the conversation going. “Hey. she just went away. I did. or a transvestite or something weird. It was a skill I really wanted to learn because I wasn’t very good at it back then. What should I do to solve this? Suddenly I remembered my friend’s strategy: IM chat.” So. But I still wasn’t very good with women. But nope. and almost every dating site had a built in chat feature. spending my time focusing on my own businesses and projects. even though I’d discovered that attraction was a learnable skill. So.com had a chat function (since disabled). take it from here. And a funny thing happened. There was an unlimited supply of women to chat with. I thought of things to say faster. things weren’t very good. Then it struck me. and I was left to ponder. and we went our separate ways. I couldn’t think. I lost touch with him. It was surreal. proceeding to tell me how wild and crazy she was. I was nervous. . I half expected him to come in and tell me she was a beast. but not after until he came back from his date. and stopped doing it. and chat with her then and there. I had to try this for myself. using what he taught me. You could look at a woman’s profile. showed me how to set up AOL Chat. So. and if I got a response I’d simply say. In 2001 he got a new job. I did it for about a week. “she’s all yours champ. the better I was on the phone and in person. Instant Messenger was the perfect. easier to chat on there?” Many did. see if she was online. I started chatting with women on dating sites. I’d email them on a dating site. I opened a few chats with a few different women. Yahoo Messenger came into vogue. The more I chatted. then opened up a conversation with a woman. You could say anything you want. he came back (late) with a big grin on his face. then realized it was a big time waster. I didn’t know what to do or say. and started getting more serious about meeting women. but when I called them or met up with them. he sat down with me. getting her picture in less than 2 minutes. but I had fun chatting with them. I decided to master internet dating. with no fear of personal rejection—if she didn’t like you. Then he stood up with a big grin and said. About that time internet dating really took off. told me how to find a chat room.
all with different themes. a real world simulator. It used to be you’d open different chat windows using the same Instant Messenger. and way more men than women were on the internet. I didn’t fall down or stumble.com and eHarmony spending huge amounts of money on tv advertising. and can send huge files back and forth with ease. And yet. and it darn near gets overwhelming. So. I highly recommend you read it. I’d already had the conversation a million times on Instant Messenger. and I realized it was the ultimate. so I knew what to do and what to say. You have Yahoo Messenger. First off. You have Facebook’s Instant Messenger. I got so good at it. There’s Twitter. training your brain to think quickly enough carry on two. especially in this day and age. and you could steer the conversation anyway you wanted. Why? Because I had the confidence to meet women in the real world. And. my friend still met two to three new women a week with it. the confidence to carry on a conversation because I knew what she was going to say. Facebook. you could meet her in person and take things from there. and Plenty of Fish all at the same time. Think about it.” Online dating was viewed as something only desperate people did. conversational themes. After awhile. I rode like a pro. three. with match. There wasn’t broadband. Everyone has broadband. I’ve done it. with different women. Internet dating is considered perfectly normal and customary. Think about the internet today. Now. And when I took the training wheels off. if you haven’t been through Secrets of Natural Attraction yet. and I met a lot of them in person. Not only that. Yahoo. Instant Messenger is more popular than ever. if you hit it off with a woman. There’s Skype.You could test sayings. no rejection way to “practice” attraction. Also. You have Twitter. When my friend started with ICQ the internet was in its infancy. using what we would consider antiquated technology. I highly recommend listening to the other four attraction . you could talk to multiple women at the same time. Plenty of Fish has an Instant Messenger. wasn’t social media. Instant Messenger is everywhere. I quit doing it. Even better. Instant Messenger was my “training wheels. You have Skype. and it’s the best way I’ve found to simulate attraction. let’s talk about how you can create your own simulator system so you can learn the art and skill of attraction at a blistering rate. even four conversations at the same time. You still have AOL Instant Messenger. It filled in the gap between theory and real world application. This was powerful stuff. the confidence to call a woman. and it is the perfect attraction simulator.” and it served me very well. you can literally chat on AOL Instant Messenger. and the internet was still considered “weird. Everyone’s on Facebook.
so she’ll feel chemistry for you. You have to fly from one conversation to another. with one being about the weather. . When you do this. When you are. one being about your day. and what you are doing in the simulator system is learning that behavior and getting immediate feedback from women. Your goal is to transmit authority and intelligence via what you type to the woman you’re chatting with. When you master talking to two women. you want to start with one woman and see how long you can keep the conversation going.” In other words. When you are starting out with Instant Messenger. When a woman is in the presence of a man with both of these characteristics. Some of them will be sedate. what topics you can steer it to. they will do anything to get away from him. They are biologically programmed to feel attraction for men they know can protect them and produce superior offspring. some of them very naughty. the more female “chat friends” you’ll acquire. some of them funny. But here’s where it gets interesting. In summary of those systems. something magical starts to happen. Soon. or a saying that activates her imagination. and I mean really interesting. As you get comfortable chatting with one woman. and chemistry begins to form. she feels what women call “chemistry. You want to be fast and quick-witted. if it’s not. and one being naughty. what reactions you get from her and so on.” If this feeling is present. You’ll know you are well on your way to mastering the skill of attraction when you can carry on four completely different conversations at once. a woman pegs you as intelligent. The more you do this. They’re dull witted. different woman and carry on two different conversations with two different women at the same time. When you can do that for an extended period of time. You start to acquire the ability to “divide your mind” so you can carry on two totally different conversations at the same time. you’ll want to initiate a second chat with another. do you have a quick comeback for something she says. and how they make decisions about men. You start to think faster. Most men don’t. slow and boring. the action is fast and furious. What women look for in a man that tells them he’s intelligence is “quick thinking. When you’re talking to this many women. but I got up to five a few times. Male behavior creates the feeling of chemistry in women. instead of thinking about what to say next. Your mind starts to work at a faster level. Then you start coming up with multiple responses at the same time. women will do anything to be with a man. then to four. then move onto three. one being funny comebacks. do you have a spin on words that makes her laugh.acceleration systems so you can understand how women think. Your mind works in parallel instead of sequential. it’s on the tip of your tongue. responding quickly so each woman thinks you’re still engaged. Four was usually the most I could handle. women look for authority and intelligence in men.
and leaving it at that. your purpose is not to deliberately insult women. and then you talk to her on the phone. Be a nice guy to one woman. Push the envelope at times to see how they respond. The more you do this. and the more women you’ll have to chat with. Pretty exciting stuff. let’s talk on the phone. Sadly. but for all intents and purposes the conversational “flow” is the same. it’s time to move on. Your purpose is to train your mind to think quickly so you always have the right thing to say to the right woman at the right time in person because you know what she’s going to say next. Remember what I said in the beginning about Instant Messenger being a great way to waste time? It is. huh? I’m going to give you the best sites to use in a few minutes. and get good at responding to women. but I do want to give you a word of warning. Your purpose is to find your own attraction groove. very good in three weeks. If you spend two (maybe three) hours a day. After three weeks are up. experiment with different things. One on one. When you’re chatting with all these women. In fact. and your mind has several comebacks ready to go. you’ll be much quicker with your wit that other men because you’re used to talking to four at a time. The ones you insult will go away. When you login. This simulator system can be powerful. a jerk to another. But you can talk to three women back to back to back. Your attraction groove and style is what you will take out into the real world with women. you will be very. When you interact with women in the real world. my fingers are sore from all this chatting. live voice . You can blow hours a day on it if you’re not careful. You will have trained your mind for quickness. you know what she’s going to say before she even says it. chatting with multiple women at the same time. you are well on your way to mastering the art of talking to women. but it can also be addictive. your purpose is to try new things so you can find your own attraction groove and style. something few other men will ever do. You stop thinking consciously and start acting subconsciously. all the conversations are the same. because you are entertaining where most men are boring. You don’t want to fall in the trap of chatting with women. translating the skills you developed with instant message into real. Your goal is to now get comfortable talking on the phone to women. Now. first. you want to start talking to these women on the phone.keeping all the women engaged and laughing. the more female friends you’ll make online. a lady’s man to another. and you can find it using this simulator system. It’s simple to do so—you just say. Sure there are specifics that pertain to each woman you’re talking to. you can’t talk to 4 women at the same time on the phone. women will seem slow to you. How long will this take you? Three weeks from start to finish is sufficient. and so on. But after that. Most will say yes. they will often initiate chats with you. You will soon start to notice something else. especially when you talk to a new woman: after awhile.” She’ll either say yes or no. “hey. and you will seem fast to them.
” Some will. but if you ask enough of them. One reason this works so well is because women constantly get pictures of men with their pants off. Match. they won’t talk to you). some won’t. After you get comfortable talking on the phone with women.plentyoffish. but they removed it.com is great because it’s free. the first one or two will feel a little awkward. Some are weird. Don’t get sucked into for months on end—you are using it for a purpose and that’s to hone your newfound attraction skills in a very forgiving environment.com used to have an IM function. but after that it becomes second nature. Just keep asking. odds are she has Yahoo Messenger or AOL Instant Messenger. but if you look around long enough. let’s chat on Yahoo or AOL. get responses from them. When a woman’s online. and there are a ton of women with profiles you can chat with. “Hey. soon you’ll have more than you know what to do with. If you go to Google and search on “dating chat rooms” you’ll find all kinds of options. because you’re chatting with friends. and you’re just as quick and witty in person as you are in online chat. They are sick and tired of it. Ok. love to gossip. you’ll find plenty. You’ll be a little nervous the first few times you do it. puts you in a better category and is happy to chat with you. and only revisit it on occasion to keep your skills fresh. but if a woman will chat with you there. but after that. and you can start a conversation with her by simply referencing something in her profile.conversations. some are normal. and then you can initiate a chat based on what they say in their Facebook profile. and are happy to indulge you. The trap you do NOT want to fall into is simply staying with Instant Message chat. They love to chat. . If one doesn’t want to talk. Keep in mind women are naturally chatty creatures. She appreciates it. PlentyofFish (POF) doesn’t have the best technology around. Another place to initiate IM conversations is in chat rooms. so where’s the best place to start chatting online? www. Many times women will approve you as a friend if you know someone they do. Yes. But you can still email women. Then you’ve made the transition from chatting via instant messenger to talking to women who you know are interested in you (if they’re not. “G-rated pic attached-trade?” He’d usually get a response with a picture and then he’d start chatting. love to talk. the next step is to simply meet them in person and continue the conversation there. then simply say. He’d instant message her and say. There comes a time when you want to leave it behind. so when a woman sees “G-rated pic” she knows she’s talking to a man who understands women don’t like penis pictures. Facebook is another great place to chat. it becomes second nature. the letter “instant message” appears under her picture. there are two others who will. Here’s a trick my friend used to use many years ago to get a woman in a chat room to send over her pic.
” or you just want to try some far out angle you’d never use in the real world until it was tested. “off your game. So.htm . On with the fun. Most of the women you’ll never meet in real life.johnalanis. and I mean anything to stay with you.There is one other use for Instant Messaging as a form of attraction simulation. If you ever feel like you’re a bit rusty in the real world or the phone. Instant Messenger is the best place to do so. -John Alanis The King of Let ‘em Come to You PS One of the best all around resources I’ve ever put together is my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success With Women System. In that system. put the simulator system to work.com/ultimate_system. she will do anything. When a woman knows you understand her at this level. and watch your attraction skills increase dramatically in a very short period of time. and they’re just pixels on a screen. You can check out all the amazing details at: http://www. we get into the deep psychological details of how women think. and how you can understand them better than any other man.
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