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How to Practice the Art and Science of Attraction With No Risk of Rejection
By John Alanis The King of Let ‘em Come to You
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different chat programs open on his computer at once. he had two. and in my mind a little creepy. Way back in 1999. I looked at it. that sounds unrealistic—how do you “practice” without talking to a real live woman which. just like his cell phones. On one hand. I’m into delivering information that works. but thinking back on it. My friend. he met them. . and came over to ask me if there was an application for it. At first glance. and internet dating sites started to flourish. would obviously make it more than practice? The idea of a software system that produces female “avatars” programmed to interact with you is so far fetched as to be unrealistic. my friend had a weakness for the ladies. He didn’t like that answer.but it might be the most valuable. I have no idea who he was talking to or what about (since he never seemed to make any money). On occasion. and sometimes would be talking on two at once. and what I am about to reveal is the most valuable method I’ve ever discovered for practicing attraction. and soon enough AOL Instant Messenger was all the rage. I could stuff it full of fluff and filler to add bulk. it gave me the skills to do so. After reading the survey. excited about a new online tool he’d found—ICQ which stood for I Seek You. I’m not really into all that. Chat rooms sprang up. The other thing my friend liked to do was talk. I survey my customers and subscribers. Hell. suck it up. but I was certainly proven right on that count—Instant Messaging is an extraordinarily effective way to waste time. Let me tell you a quick story. He met women on the street. this system is going to be one of the shortest I’ve ever created. was bound and determined to find some sort of use for Instant Messaging. Cell phones were just starting to take off. and said it sounded like a fantastic way to waste time. Once I caught him chatting with two people at once. ICQ had started it all. But. I was just about to simply tell the guys to go out in the real world. I hadn’t done it in quite awhile because I’ve been so busy meeting women in the real world. I noticed an interesting pattern: a LOT of men were asking if there was a way for me to create a “practice system” so they could try out all of their new skills without risking rejection. a friend of mine discovered internet chat and instant messaging. however. He made a big show of always being on his cell phone. something that helped me hone my attraction skills dramatically. in the office. and talk to women until they were no longer afraid when I remember something from my past. but he just couldn’t get enough. Or a lot. Soon. and he didn’t have just one—he had two. slept with a lot more. He knew I was in the marketing game. everywhere you could meet them. Now. and I could put lots of pictures in it to make it pretty. while talking on his cell phone. even three. He dated a lot of women. but he sure loved to talk. he loved to talk. One day he came over.Welcome to the Attraction Simulator System. But it was never enough for him—he always wanted more. Reading over the results of my most recent survey. Oh. Cute.
looked at his watch and said he had to get ready for his date. While none of them were going to win the Miss American Pageant. flabbergasted. he’d met 4 women.” “Yeah. yeah. I asked him if he’d met her using this method and he said. He’d been talking to her on his cell phone as he drove home from work. bursting with excitement. full of women.” I said. fun. she sent him a picture within 2 minutes. and they’re pretty cute. I use it to meet women.” I said. then another. but pleasant looking blonde. But he didn’t stop there. he was talking to 4 women who’d sent him pictures within 2 minutes. and his face lit up. and he showed me a picture of chunky. I watched him for about 15 minutes. We went over to his computer. . He did the same thing with another woman. Whatever flaws my friend had.I met him in 1998. he went onto the next one.” he said. And while the guy wasted a lot of time yammering on his cell phones and chatting on his instant messenger programs. gotten their pictures. and in this case I was happy to let him…I wanted to know his secret. then he chose one and Instant Messaged her. Not only did she respond. He chatted for 15 more minutes. but I finally discovered a use for this thing. Soon enough. he had. He was. and I didn’t meet nearly as many women as he did. telling me about a new woman he was going to meet up with. yep. Things were flying so fast he could barely keep up. added them to his AOL Instant Messenger contact list. He loved to show off. Now I was intrigued. fired up AOL Instant Messenger and went to an AOL chatroom. At that time I hadn’t yet figured attraction out. Lots of women. No worries. and they were chatting away like old friends within 5. he always found time for the ladies. I’d never seen anything like it. “and you seem to do quite well wasting a lot of time with that thing. even three new ones a week. as if he was about to spill a secret. “How did you meet this one?” He got a gleam in his eye when he told me. “Remember that Instant Messenger you said was a waste of time?” he began. “Yep. I knew he had a trick up his sleeve. You should try it. One day he came home. I asked him to show me. and got them interested in him. and sexy. He started bringing home two. “Nice. Unbelievable. And she did respond. He turned on his computer. he was good at meeting women. During that time. and I wanted to see it. She didn’t respond. all of them were acceptably cute. He watched for about 5 minutes to see what the conversations were about. A lot of time. and wanted to show me a picture of her. and we were actually roommates in 1999 and 2000.
take it from here. So. I thought of things to say faster. You could say anything you want. I’d email them on a dating site. Yahoo Messenger came into vogue. I decided to master internet dating. but not after until he came back from his date. then realized it was a big time waster. Damn. he came back (late) with a big grin on his face. no rejection training tool for learning the skills. I couldn’t think. the better I was on the phone and in person. he sat down with me. It was a skill I really wanted to learn because I wasn’t very good at it back then. and my mind was quicker. Match. In 2001 he got a new job. but when I called them or met up with them. and almost every dating site had a built in chat feature. spending my time focusing on my own businesses and projects. Instant Messenger was the perfect. I got pretty good at writing online profiles. with no fear of personal rejection—if she didn’t like you. or some other instant messenger programs. The more I chatted. see if she was online. Then he stood up with a big grin and said. and AOL Instant Messenger was still going strong. even though I’d discovered that attraction was a learnable skill. “she’s all yours champ. and I was left to ponder. I half expected him to come in and tell me she was a beast. “Hey. I did. I started chatting with women on dating sites. But nope. I did it for about a week. So. You could look at a woman’s profile. Then it struck me. easier to chat on there?” Many did. But I still wasn’t very good with women. And a funny thing happened. About that time internet dating really took off. I didn’t know what to do or say. things weren’t very good. then opened up a conversation with a woman. I got several emails from women interested in my profile. showed me how to set up AOL Chat.com had a chat function (since disabled). What should I do to solve this? Suddenly I remembered my friend’s strategy: IM chat. She was hot. I kept the conversation going. . but I had fun chatting with them. and if I got a response I’d simply say. she just went away. using what he taught me. There was an unlimited supply of women to chat with. So. proceeding to tell me how wild and crazy she was. told me how to find a chat room. getting her picture in less than 2 minutes. Could Instant Messaging really have a productive use? I decided to give it a try myself. and we went our separate ways. I opened a few chats with a few different women. and the dates were not fun. I had to try this for myself. and stopped doing it. It was surreal. you have Yahoo messenger. and started getting more serious about meeting women. and chat with her then and there. I wasn’t brave enough back then to meet any of them in person.” So. I was nervous. and they rhythm of attraction. I lost touch with him. and got several pictures within 2 minutes. or a transvestite or something weird.He left for his date.
Even better. conversational themes. so I knew what to do and what to say. you could talk to multiple women at the same time. and it darn near gets overwhelming. Not only that. with different women. You have Skype. It used to be you’d open different chat windows using the same Instant Messenger. with match. You have Twitter. wasn’t social media. Instant Messenger is more popular than ever. I highly recommend you read it. There’s Skype. Think about it. if you hit it off with a woman. I’ve done it. I highly recommend listening to the other four attraction . I didn’t fall down or stumble. First off. and I met a lot of them in person. three. Plenty of Fish has an Instant Messenger. There wasn’t broadband. especially in this day and age. And. I rode like a pro.com and eHarmony spending huge amounts of money on tv advertising. the confidence to call a woman. all with different themes. Facebook.” and it served me very well. So. And when I took the training wheels off. no rejection way to “practice” attraction. Everyone’s on Facebook. and I realized it was the ultimate. and the internet was still considered “weird. training your brain to think quickly enough carry on two. There’s Twitter. and it’s the best way I’ve found to simulate attraction. I quit doing it. and can send huge files back and forth with ease.” Online dating was viewed as something only desperate people did. Internet dating is considered perfectly normal and customary. You have Facebook’s Instant Messenger. Think about the internet today. It filled in the gap between theory and real world application. Yahoo. I’d already had the conversation a million times on Instant Messenger. Instant Messenger is everywhere. After awhile. and Plenty of Fish all at the same time. And yet. even four conversations at the same time. I got so good at it. Instant Messenger was my “training wheels. you could meet her in person and take things from there. a real world simulator. Everyone has broadband. You have Yahoo Messenger. You still have AOL Instant Messenger. Why? Because I had the confidence to meet women in the real world. Also. When my friend started with ICQ the internet was in its infancy. you can literally chat on AOL Instant Messenger. if you haven’t been through Secrets of Natural Attraction yet.You could test sayings. and way more men than women were on the internet. the confidence to carry on a conversation because I knew what she was going to say. my friend still met two to three new women a week with it. using what we would consider antiquated technology. This was powerful stuff. and it is the perfect attraction simulator. Now. let’s talk about how you can create your own simulator system so you can learn the art and skill of attraction at a blistering rate. and you could steer the conversation anyway you wanted.
so she’ll feel chemistry for you. Your mind works in parallel instead of sequential. When a woman is in the presence of a man with both of these characteristics. Your goal is to transmit authority and intelligence via what you type to the woman you’re chatting with. Four was usually the most I could handle. What women look for in a man that tells them he’s intelligence is “quick thinking. and how they make decisions about men. something magical starts to happen. you want to start with one woman and see how long you can keep the conversation going. When you can do that for an extended period of time. Soon. one being funny comebacks. or a saying that activates her imagination. they will do anything to get away from him. Your mind starts to work at a faster level. You start to think faster. women look for authority and intelligence in men. You want to be fast and quick-witted. some of them very naughty. . Most men don’t. do you have a spin on words that makes her laugh. what topics you can steer it to. They are biologically programmed to feel attraction for men they know can protect them and produce superior offspring. Some of them will be sedate. one being about your day. some of them funny. and what you are doing in the simulator system is learning that behavior and getting immediate feedback from women. what reactions you get from her and so on. Then you start coming up with multiple responses at the same time. the action is fast and furious. When you do this. They’re dull witted. When you are starting out with Instant Messenger. You’ll know you are well on your way to mastering the skill of attraction when you can carry on four completely different conversations at once. responding quickly so each woman thinks you’re still engaged. do you have a quick comeback for something she says. and chemistry begins to form. When you master talking to two women. with one being about the weather. different woman and carry on two different conversations with two different women at the same time.acceleration systems so you can understand how women think. the more female “chat friends” you’ll acquire. a woman pegs you as intelligent. if it’s not. You have to fly from one conversation to another. The more you do this. instead of thinking about what to say next. As you get comfortable chatting with one woman.” In other words. it’s on the tip of your tongue. When you are. and I mean really interesting. but I got up to five a few times. she feels what women call “chemistry. then to four. women will do anything to be with a man. But here’s where it gets interesting.” If this feeling is present. then move onto three. Male behavior creates the feeling of chemistry in women. you’ll want to initiate a second chat with another. In summary of those systems. slow and boring. When you’re talking to this many women. and one being naughty. You start to acquire the ability to “divide your mind” so you can carry on two totally different conversations at the same time.
and leaving it at that. The ones you insult will go away. huh? I’m going to give you the best sites to use in a few minutes. and you will seem fast to them. But after that. You will have trained your mind for quickness. live voice . especially when you talk to a new woman: after awhile. Be a nice guy to one woman. your purpose is to try new things so you can find your own attraction groove and style. Your attraction groove and style is what you will take out into the real world with women. After three weeks are up. chatting with multiple women at the same time. You stop thinking consciously and start acting subconsciously. you know what she’s going to say before she even says it. because you are entertaining where most men are boring. a jerk to another. your purpose is not to deliberately insult women. but I do want to give you a word of warning. let’s talk on the phone. But you can talk to three women back to back to back. Most will say yes. they will often initiate chats with you. Remember what I said in the beginning about Instant Messenger being a great way to waste time? It is. One on one. Sadly. the more female friends you’ll make online. all the conversations are the same. you want to start talking to these women on the phone. women will seem slow to you. and the more women you’ll have to chat with. you’ll be much quicker with your wit that other men because you’re used to talking to four at a time. first. something few other men will ever do. and get good at responding to women. you will be very. it’s time to move on. “hey. and you can find it using this simulator system. When you’re chatting with all these women. You don’t want to fall in the trap of chatting with women. experiment with different things. Your goal is to now get comfortable talking on the phone to women. It’s simple to do so—you just say. my fingers are sore from all this chatting. Pretty exciting stuff. How long will this take you? Three weeks from start to finish is sufficient.keeping all the women engaged and laughing. If you spend two (maybe three) hours a day. When you login. Your purpose is to train your mind to think quickly so you always have the right thing to say to the right woman at the right time in person because you know what she’s going to say next. you can’t talk to 4 women at the same time on the phone. you are well on your way to mastering the art of talking to women. but it can also be addictive. Sure there are specifics that pertain to each woman you’re talking to. You will soon start to notice something else. When you interact with women in the real world. Push the envelope at times to see how they respond. a lady’s man to another. but for all intents and purposes the conversational “flow” is the same. and your mind has several comebacks ready to go. translating the skills you developed with instant message into real. and then you talk to her on the phone. The more you do this. You can blow hours a day on it if you’re not careful. In fact. This simulator system can be powerful. very good in three weeks. and so on. Your purpose is to find your own attraction groove.” She’ll either say yes or no. Now.
” Some will. and you’re just as quick and witty in person as you are in online chat. some won’t. But you can still email women. One reason this works so well is because women constantly get pictures of men with their pants off. but if a woman will chat with you there. “Hey. . Facebook is another great place to chat. Many times women will approve you as a friend if you know someone they do.conversations. Here’s a trick my friend used to use many years ago to get a woman in a chat room to send over her pic. and only revisit it on occasion to keep your skills fresh. they won’t talk to you). He’d instant message her and say. After you get comfortable talking on the phone with women. some are normal. but if you look around long enough. If you go to Google and search on “dating chat rooms” you’ll find all kinds of options. so when a woman sees “G-rated pic” she knows she’s talking to a man who understands women don’t like penis pictures. love to gossip. If one doesn’t want to talk. but they removed it. love to talk. soon you’ll have more than you know what to do with. then simply say. Ok. but if you ask enough of them. They love to chat. because you’re chatting with friends. Some are weird. and you can start a conversation with her by simply referencing something in her profile. let’s chat on Yahoo or AOL. The trap you do NOT want to fall into is simply staying with Instant Message chat. There comes a time when you want to leave it behind. Don’t get sucked into for months on end—you are using it for a purpose and that’s to hone your newfound attraction skills in a very forgiving environment. Match. and are happy to indulge you. so where’s the best place to start chatting online? www. When a woman’s online. the letter “instant message” appears under her picture. They are sick and tired of it. the next step is to simply meet them in person and continue the conversation there.com used to have an IM function. and then you can initiate a chat based on what they say in their Facebook profile. but after that it becomes second nature. odds are she has Yahoo Messenger or AOL Instant Messenger. Just keep asking. and there are a ton of women with profiles you can chat with. She appreciates it. “G-rated pic attached-trade?” He’d usually get a response with a picture and then he’d start chatting. Another place to initiate IM conversations is in chat rooms. Yes.plentyoffish. Then you’ve made the transition from chatting via instant messenger to talking to women who you know are interested in you (if they’re not. you’ll find plenty. get responses from them.com is great because it’s free. it becomes second nature. PlentyofFish (POF) doesn’t have the best technology around. the first one or two will feel a little awkward. puts you in a better category and is happy to chat with you. You’ll be a little nervous the first few times you do it. but after that. Keep in mind women are naturally chatty creatures. there are two others who will.
she will do anything. In that system.johnalanis. On with the fun. If you ever feel like you’re a bit rusty in the real world or the phone. So. -John Alanis The King of Let ‘em Come to You PS One of the best all around resources I’ve ever put together is my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success With Women System. You can check out all the amazing details at: http://www.” or you just want to try some far out angle you’d never use in the real world until it was tested. “off your game. and they’re just pixels on a screen. and watch your attraction skills increase dramatically in a very short period of time. and I mean anything to stay with you. When a woman knows you understand her at this level. put the simulator system to work.htm . Most of the women you’ll never meet in real life.There is one other use for Instant Messaging as a form of attraction simulation. Instant Messenger is the best place to do so. and how you can understand them better than any other man.com/ultimate_system. we get into the deep psychological details of how women think.
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