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Sometime, I really wonder why such an unbearable torment has been So, in my case what can I do?
imposed on our women. My sisters cannot do anything without the
permission and assistance of my father or brother. They are at home, The straightforward answer to this question would be: nothing, I can
all the time, watching television. There is no sport for them to play, do virtually next to nothing to change the situation. If I file a case
no work to attend to, no hope and nothing to live for. The reality is against my father, the religious judge will ask him, ‘Why don’t you
that they are incarcerated in the biggest prison in the world— Saudi let your daughters get married?’ My father’s vague answer will be,
Arabia , the land of the pure, unadulterated Islam. “These girls are my responsibility (that is, under my safe custody),
and Allah will punish me if I don’t choose good husbands for them.”
One might legitimately ask: why all these happen to Saudi women? As a proof of his sincere effort he might even produce evidence that
Who is to be blamed for this loathsome ordeal perpetrated on our all the men he had sought were smokers and also will bring witnesses
women? It is quite easy to blame the silly, inane Saudi laws, the wide- that they were also non-praying (in mosque) Muslims. This will
spread illiteracy prevalent among the Saudi people and the archaic completely silence the Islamic judge. He will find no ground to
traditions for the hopeless condition of our women. But think again. chastise my father; instead, he might impose punishment on me for
All these factors are firmly rooted in Islam. It is Islam which is clearly not respecting my father and his decisions.
the culprit. It is the Islamic laws in Saudi Arabia which have rendered
our women chattels of men, forced them into their servitude and have With such anguish and frustration in my heart, I am patiently waiting
completely robbed their dignity, honour and respect they should for the death of my father. Once he dies, the control of my sisters will
deserve as women. To say the least, Islam has shaken and shamed the automatically transfer to me. Their ownership will officially be in my
very basic foundation of womanhood. name. I shall be their new possessor—just like cars, houses, goats,
camels etc. Then I shall be completely free to do with them whatever
Islam provides complete authority to a father to control his daughter/s. I wish—Islam gives me all the authority. I could take them to Hell or
He has full control to give her in marriage, to ban her from social life to Heaven—wherever I desire.
or even to kill her. You might be shocked to learn that a Saudi father
can kill his daughter with complete impunity. Please know that even Readers: please do not feel sorry or pity for my sisters. Compared to
when he kills his daughter, government will not kill the father because many other Saudi women, they are quite lucky—they can visit
shopping centres, once or twice a year. They can use make ups and
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they can even listen to music. The best freedom they have is that they
can choose Television channels they like to watch. For many Saudi
women, this is a great privilege, if you did not know.