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Captain Hussain. He is working as so & so in so & so department.
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iKgi AvPvi, mvjvW BZvw`| Gjv Avmvi mv_ mv_B ezei evwivi mvne I cvjvgUvix mUvix mvne
Zv`i `yRbi cU h hZv cvib Xj wbq LZ Avi Ki w`jb| G mgq `ywbqvi Ab wKQzi w`K Zv`i Kvb
Lqvj AvQ ej gb njv bv| mywkwZ `yez LvQb| LvIqvi wK Ac~e K_v-Kvq`v Zv`i| cvjvgUvix mUvix
mvne LvQb- k nQ Qc-Qc, dm-dm Avi evwii mvne wMjQb, MvMvm, hvK BsiRxZ ej
(Devouring)| Avgiv evKx `yRb LvIqv-`vIqv Qo Zvu`i `yRbi LvIqv DcfvM KiZ jvMjvg| Ggwb gRvi
KvqKvievi mwZB DcfvM Kivi gZB|
|| wZb || GKevi gnvgvb AvMv Lvub Avgv`i `k GmQb| Zvui mvb Avgv`i miKvi GK b wenvii
AvqvRb KiQb| mB b-wenvi kixK nIqvi mfvM nqwQj AvgviI| AvMv Lvub I Zvui mdi mv_x`i Rb
`ycyi LvIqvi eev Kiv nqQ| we`kx gngvb`i LvIqv kl nj Avgv`iK gvb evsjv`kx gngvb`iK
LvIqvi Rb WvKv nqQ| LvIqvi eev eyd (Buffet)| mLvb wMq `wL Lvevi wbq KvovKvwo, Kvi AvM K
be| m GK ZjmgvwZ Kvq-Kvievi| gnv n P| hb `vsMv nvsMvgv-gviwcU ea hvq hvq| Kviv hbv wej^
mqbv| KgKv `L gb nq evsjv`kx gngvbiv hbv f~KvdvKv ew`b|
mwZ K_v ejZ wK, KD LvQ Avi KD h cvQ bv Ges Lvevi wbq KvovKvwo gvivgvwi evsjv`k Avwg Aviv
AbK RvqMvq `LwQ|
AbKB LvIqvi mgq wekl Ki weq evoxZ wbRi cU ekx Lvevi Zzj bb| Abvb gngvbiv cj wK cjbv
m evcvi Zviv Kvb Lqvj ivLb bv, hv bv`vb ev cUzKi KvR Ges Av`ii eiLjvc| LvIqv Avi Kivi AvM
Uwej Abvb mKj Lvevi cj wKbv m w`K Lqvj ivLv DwPr Ges eq jvK`iK c_g LvIqv Avi Kivi Rb
Abyiva Kiv GKv KZe| LvIqv Avi Kivi AvM wemwgjvn Ges LvIqvi kl Avjnvg`ywjjvn ejv cZK
gymjgvbi GKv KZe| gvb Avjvni bvg wbq LvIqv Avi Kiv Ges LvIqv kl Avjvni Kwiqv Av`vq Kiv
wekl Riix| cZK agi agvej^x`i DwPZ, LvIqvi AvM mwKZvi bvg bqv Ges LvIqvi kl Zvui KZZv
cKvk Kiv|
LvIqvi ci gyL Avyj w`q `vuZi dvuK _K AvUKvbv Lv`KYv ei Kiv DwPr bq| eis wLjvj w`q ei Kiv
`iKvi| `vuZ wLjvj Kivi mgq gyL nvZ ev igvj w`q wLjvj Kiv DwPr|
LvIqvi kl DV hvIqvi mgq evKx hviv LvQ Zv`iK Dk Ki ejv DwPr gvd Kieb, Avgvi LvIqv kl,
Avwg nvZ ayZ hvwQ A_ev Avwg Pj hvwQ, Avkv Kwi Avcbviv wKQz gb Kieb bv| (Excuse me, I hope you
dont mind if i wash my hand or if I take leave) wKQz bv ej PzcPvc hvIqv wVK bq|
AbK mgq cxwZfvR Abyvb `Lv hvq, GKmv_ GKvwaK gngvb GK Uwej ev RvqMvq LZ emj, gRevb Kvb
Kvb gngvbK wekl Lvevi (Special Dish) cwiekb Kib hv gvUB kvfbxq bq, Z`ycwi f`ZviI cwicx|
gRevbK gb ivLZ ne `vIqvZx gngvbiv mKjB Zvi gngvb, ZvB mevi cwZ mgvb AvPiY Kiv Zvi GKv

KZe| GKB Uwej ev RvqMvq GKRbK wekl Lvevi cwiekb Kij Abiv gb K cvq| Ges gRevbK Zviv
Lye QvU Ki `L| ZvB LvIqvi Uwej ev RvqMvq GKvwaK gngvb GK m LZ emj gRevbi DwPr cZK
gngvbK mgvbfve mgv`i Kiv I mgvb LvIqv cwiekb Kiv| hw` Kviv wekl (Special) gngvb _vK Ges ZvK
wekl Lvevi (Special dish) cwiekb Kiv cqvRb, Ze Zvi Rb Avjv`v emvi eev KivB fvjv|

LvIqvi ci KZZv cKvk


Avgv`i `k mPivPi `Lv hvq Avgiv Kvb evcvi KvDK abev` `B bv| GKRb Aviex fvlvfvlxK GK Mvm
cvwb w`j m ej kvKivb ev Avjnvg`ywjjvn GKRb BsiRx fvlvfvlxK GK Mvm cvwb w`j m ej Thank
you (_vsK BD), GKRb D`y fvlvfvlxK w`j m ej Kwiqv, GKRb Rvcvbx fvlv fvlxK w`j m ej
AvwiMvZv MvRvBgvv Ggwbfve cw_exi cZK RvwZB h hvi wbRi fvlvq abev` vcb Ki| Ges LvIqvi
mgq Lvevi fvj nvK ev g` nvK Lvevii Zvwid Ki| BsiRx fvlvfvlx ej Very good food, delicious,
wonderful food. Dy fvlvfvlx ej eZ Dg`v Lvbv, enZixb Lvbv Aviex fvlvfvlx ej jvRxR
ZvBqe| Rvcvbx fvlvfvlx ej AvBnb IBwm Kvv`k| Ges LvIqvi ci BsiRx fvlvfvlx ej, Thank you
very much for good food. Dy fvlvfvlx ej AvQv LvbvKv wjq AvcwK eZ eZ Kwiqv| Rvcvbx
fvlvfvlx ej MvwPmv mvgv `v| Aviex fvlvfvlx ej kvKivb Avjv ZvqvwgKzg~jvRxR|
Avgiv evsjv`kxiv fvRb wejvmx| ZvB LvIqvi Uwej ev weQvbvq LZ em ewj fvZ GKUz k ev big, ZiKvixZ
jeb ekx ev Kg, njy`-gwiP ekx ev Kg| Svj gyLUv Rj Mjv, njy` Lvevi wZZv nq MQ, D Avnv BZvw`
bviv iKg k I ge Ki _vwK hv cw_exi Ab Kvb RvwZ Ki bv| gRevb UvKv cqmv LiP Ki Ges AbK K
Ki Lvevi Zix KiQb ZvB Lvevi fvj nvK ev g` nvK bvbv iKg ge Ki gRevbi gb K `qv DwPr bq|
Ges KZZv cKvk KiZ Kvcb KivI DwPr bq| LvIqvi mgq ejv DwPr ivbv Lye fvj nqQ| fvj Lvevii Rb
AvcbvK ev Avcbv`iK AvwiK abev`| gRevb AvwiKZvi mv_ AbK K Ki Lvevi Zix KiQb m Rb
abev` Zvi cvc|
wbR evoxZ gv, evb, x ev eveyPx whwb Lvevi Zix KiQb, ZvK abev` `qv GKv KZe| nVvr ev KLbI Lvevi
GKUz Lvivc nj, Zv Lvivc ejv ev m welq ge Kiv DwPr bq| KviY Lvevi Zixi mgq cvPKi AvwiKZvi Afve
_vK bv| ewZgUv Zvi BQvKZ bq, eis `yfv Mi KviY|
KD GK Kvc Pv ev GK Mvm cvwb Gb w`j ZvKI abev` `qv DwPr| Uwej eq eqviv hviv cwiekb Ki abev`
Zv`iI cvc|
we`vq wbq Avmvi mgq gRevbK fvj Lvevi fvj ivbv I Av`i Avcvqbi Rb abev` vcb Kiv GKv KZe|
Avgv`i gb ivLv DwPr, hviv KZZv cKvk KiZ Rvb bv Zv`iK AKZ ejv nq| ZvB me mgq mevi Rb
KZZv cKvk Kiv GKv evbxq|

Lvevi AcPq
n Av`g mvb| cZK (Iqv) bvgvhi mgq Zvgiv my`i me cvlvK ci| Avi LvI I cvb Ki (LykxgZ)|
wK AcPq Kivbv| Avj-KziAvb, myivt-7, AvqvZt-31
LvIqvi mgq AbKB Lvevi AcPq Ki| mvaiYZ: weq ev Rb w`b Abyvb Lvevi AcPq Lye ekx nq| AbK
LvIqvi kl evmb wKQz Lvevi iL `q| GUv Zviv f`Zvi iIqvR ej gb Ki| Avgv`i `k Lvevii Afve|
kZKiv mi (70) Rb jvK GLvb `wi` mxgvi wbP evm Ki| e jvK GLvb Aavnvi Abvnvi w`b KvUvq|
Wvweb _K gvbyl Lvevi Kzwoq Lvq| KLbv KLbv `Lv hvq Wvwebi _K Lvevi wbq gvbyl KzKzi UvbvUvwb
Ki| we`kxiv G `ki Qwe DwVq Zv Zv`i `k Uwjwfkb `Lvq| wKQz we`kx mvnvh msv G me Qwe `wLq
Zv`i `ki jvK Rbi KvQ _K Pvu`v Av`vq Ki|
AvgwiKv (U.S.A) Z cPzi Lvevi AvQ| Zviv Avgv`i gZv e Mixe `kK mvnvh w`q _vK Ges cvq `ki
KvQ Lv` wew Ki| Ggb wK ivwkqvI AvgwiKvi _K Lv` q Ki| AbK mgq AvgwiKvb`i Lv` km ivLvi
RvqMv nq bv, ZeyI Zviv Lvevi AcPq cQ` Ki bv| AvgwiKvb Avwg, bfx Ges Gqvidvm gmi mvgb cvq `Lv
hvq mvBb evW Szjvbv _vK Ges ZvZ jLv _vK Food is scarse dont waste A_vr Lv` `yjf AcPq Kiv bv|
ga cvPi jvKiv AbK ekx Lv` AcPq Ki, A_P cw_exZ jvL jvL gvbyl cwZw`b Lv`vfve gZzeiY KiQ|
1943 Bs mb evsjv`k Ges fviZi cwge h fqven `ywf nqwQj Zv Avgiv AbKB `LwQ| `ywf
cwZw`b nvRvi nvRvi jvK gZz eiY KiQ| m h wK fqven `k bv `Lj Zv wekvm Kiv hvq bv| KvjKvZv kni
gvbyl ivvq nvuUQ Avi co gviv hvQ| 1974 Bs mb evsjv`ki `ywf Avgiv AbKB `LwQ, ZvZI jvLv
jvLv gvbyl giY eiY KiQ| 1949Bs mb Avwg cwg RvgvbxZ Ges 1952 Bs mb Rvcvb hvB| Lv`vfve Zv`i
`yivev Avwg ^P `L GmwQ| wZxq wek hy Rvgvb I Rvcvb civRq eiY Kivq Zv`iI Lv`vfve `Lv
w`qwQj| wK hyi ci G `y`ki jvKiv AZvwaK cwikg Ki Zv`i `y`kv jvNe Ki DbwZi wkLi cQQ|
Lv`i AcPq hvZ bv nq m w`K wekl j ivLv meviB KZe|

Awdm AvPiY
cw_exZ Kvb Kvb `k Awdmi mgq mKvj 9Uv _K weKj 4Uv Avi Kvb Kvb `k mKvj 10Uv _K weKj
5Uv ch| m me `ki jvKiv wVK mgqgZ (Punctually) Awdm nvwRi nq Ges wVK mgqgZ Awdm ZvM Ki|
cvq me `k Awdm 5 wgwbU wej^ (Late) Abygvw`Z nq| 5 wgwbUi ekx 6 wgwbU njB Avav NUvi eZb KU
bqv nq A_ev `wi Rb KwdqZ PvIqv nq| Avgiv AbKB Rvwb BsiRiv Avgv`i `k Zv`i kvmbvgj mKvj
9Uv nZ weKj 5Uv ch Awdm KvR Ki MQ| Kvbw`b Awdm `wi Ki nvwRi nqwb Ges Awdm mgq kl
nIqvi c~e Awdm ZvM Kiwb| ZLb G`ki jvKiv, hviv Zv`i Aaxb A_ev m KvR KiQ, ZvivI wVK
mgqgZ Awdm nvwRi nqQ Ges Awdm ZvM KiQ| AvRI we`kxiv Avgv`i `k Zv`i Awdm mKvj 9Uv nZ
weKvj 5Uv ch KvR Ki Ges h_vmgq Awdm Avm I Awdm ZvM Ki|
`ytLi mv_ ejZ nq Avgv`i `k AvRKvj `wi Ki Awdm hvIqvUv hbv iIqvR cwiYZ nqQ| ewkifvM
jvK wVK mgqgZ Awdm nvwRi nq bv| AbK mgq `ki cwmWU I cavbgxK wewfb gbvjq I Awdm wMq

nvwRiv PK KiZ `Lv hvq| Avgv`i gb ivLv DwPZ, Awdm mgqgZ nvwRi nIqv GKv Riix| KviY, `wiZ
Awdm hvIqvi dj Awdmi Riix KvRi wZ nZ cvi Ges mnKgx`i I ZvZ Amyweav nZ cvi| ZvQvov
RbmvaviY I Acvq _K _K K cZ cvi|
Avgv`i `k wewfb Awdm GKwU `k cvq `Lv hvq, Avi Zv nQ AwZw_ ev `kYv_x (Visitor) Awdmi `iRvq
Gm wRm Ki AvmZ cvwi mvi ? fZi mvne Avivgi mv_ envj ZweqZ emv| em em wZwb nqZ ZLb
BsiRx T Gi gv_v KvUQb A_ev I Gi gv_vq we`yi ZvR civQb A_ev evsjvq Kivwb bv Kivbx ne Zv
KiQb| gyL Kvb K_v bB| Iw`K `kYv_x evi evi AvmZ cvwi mvi ? AvmZ cvwi mvi ? ejZ ejZ nqivb
cikvb nq kl fZi XzK Pqvi Ub em co| Avevi AbK Awdm XzKj `Lv hvq h, mvne GKevi
dvBji fZi Wze AvQb| gv_v bv Zzjj mvneK `Lvi Dcvq bB| `kYv_x emB AvQb| AbK ci mvne nVvr
gv_v DuPz Ki wfwRUiK wRm Kib wK PvB ? GB wK PvB wRm KivUv bZ h Lvivc jvM ZvZ Kvb
m`nB bB| AbK mvne Avevi Kvb K_vB ejb bv, Avcb gb KvR Ki hvQb|
evsjv`kx msweavbi 7g AbyQ` jLv AvQ cRvZi mKj gZvi gvwjK RbMY Ges 21Zg AbyQ` ejv
nqQ| mKj mgq RbMYi mev Kwievi Pv Kiv cRvZi Kg wbhy cZK ewi KZe|
cZK miKvix Awdmi KgKZv I KgPvix`i Aek gb ivLv DwPZ h, Zviv RbmvaviYi fZ Ges Zv`i eZb
RbmvaviYi c` Uv nZ Avm| ZvB RbmvaviYi mv_ fvj eenvi Kiv I h_vh_fve Zv`i ^v_ iv Kiv
Zv`i gnvb `vwqZ I GKv KZe| Awdm Kvb `kYv_x Gm wfZi XvKvi AbygwZ PvBj ZvK Avmvi AbygwZ
w`q f`fve MnY Kiv, `uvwoq Zvi mv_ nvZ wgjvb Ges ZvK emvi Rb Abyiva Ki ejv DwPZ AbyMn Ki emyb
(Please sitdown) `kYv_xK wK PvB ? ej ck bv Ki f`fve ejv DwPZ ejyb mvi Avcbvi Rb Avwg wK
KiZ cvwi ? A_ev ejv DwPZ ejyb mvi Avwg Avcbvi wK L`gZ AvmZ cvwi ? (What can I do for you
sir?) `kYv_x em _vKv Aevq ZvK wKQz bv ej KvR Kiv DwPZ Zv bqB eis geo eqv`we| hw` Riix KvR
_vK Ze gv Kieb Avgvi wKQz Riix KvR iqQ, Avwg KvRjv mi wbZ PvB, Avkv Kwi Avcwb wKQz gb
Kieb bv| (Excuse me, I have some important work to attend. I hope you dont mind if I attend
those) Gic ejv DwPZ| AZvwaK eZvi `iY K_v ejvi mgq bv _vKj ejv DwPZ, Avwg `ytwLZ Avwg AZ e
weavq Avcbvi mv_ K_v ejZ cviwQ bv, Avkv Kwi Avcwb wKQz gb Kieb bv| Avcwb `qv Ki AgyK mgq Avmyb|
gb ivLZ ne h, wfwRUi GKRb gngvb, ZvB KvR miB Zvi mv_ f`fve Avjvc-AvjvPbv Kiv `iKvi|
AvMKK hvevi mgq abev` I fQv wewbgq Ki we`vq `qv DwPZ|
Avgv`i `k mvaviYZt AviI GKwU `k `Lv hvq| Awdmi wcqb ev PvcivkxivB mvnei Mvox _K Awdm Ges
Awdm _K MvoxZ wedKmwU enb Ki wbq Avm| h wedKmwU wcqb enb Ki Zvi IRb Avav KwR ev GK
KwRi ekx bq| hv mvne wbRB enb KiZ mg| wK enb Ki bv ay AvZ ghv`vi LvwZi, hvK ej wg_v
AnsKvi (False vanity)| evsjv`k, fviZ, cvwKvb I Abvb KqKwU Gwkqvb `k Qvov wcqb cwZ cw_exi
Kvb DbZ `k `Lv hvq bv| m me `k Awdmviiv wbRivB wbR`i wedKm enb Ki| Zviv kgi ghv`v `q
(Dignity of labour)| AvgwiKvbiv cw_exi k abx nIqv mI wbRivB wbR`i gvjvgvj enb Ki| KLbvB
Zviv Kvb gR`yii mvnvh bq bv| wK Avgv`i gZ Mixe `ki Avgjv`i bevexqvbvi Kvb mxgv-cwimxgv bB|
Avgv`i `k eevcbvq wbqvwRZ Ges DaZb KgKZv`iK cvq `Lv hvq, Awdm em em dvBj j^v bvU
wjL mgq b Kib| Aciw`K wmvi Afve Riix KvRi fxlY wZ nq| GKRb DaZb Awdmvi ev GKRb
eevcK, whwb eevcbvi `vwqZ wbqvwRZ, Zvi KvR dvBj j^v bvU bv wjL msc wjL `Z wmv `qv Ges
Aatb KgKZv I KgPvix`i KvRi Z`viK Kiv, hv we`kxiv Ki _vK| DbZ `ki jvKiv dvBj mgq b bv

Ki eis Aatb KgPvix`i KvRi Z`viK Ki KvRi AMMwZ mvab Ki| Zviv mgqi g~j `q I mgqi mv_
KvRi AMMwZi I g~jvqb Ki| GKRb Awdmvi bvejxi ga mePq eo KqKwU Yvejx nQ `Z wmv `qv,
wbR KvR Kiv, Abi wbKU nZ KvR Av`vq Kiv Ges mgqi mv_ KvRi AMMwZ g~jvqb Kiv|
GKRb Awdmvii wbwZ KZKjv wekl b _vKv cqvRb, hgb- 1| Awdm mgqgZ nvwRi nIqv Ges mgqgZ
Awdm ZvM Kiv 2| KZecivqY nIqv 3| mZev`x nIqv 4| ZvrwbK ev `Z wmv `qvi gZv _vKv 5| mr
Pwievb nIqv 6| m`vPvix I m`vjvcx nIqv 7| `qvjy nIqv 8| wmv AUj _vKv 9| AveM ceY bv nIqv 10|
`vwqZ bqvi hvMZv I mvnm _vKv 11| cwZwnsmv civqY bv nq cwZhvMx nIqv 12| bZZ `qvi hvMZv _vKv
13| Abi Dci wbfikxj bv nq wbRi KvR wbR Kiv 14| AvBb-Kvbyb Rvbv I AvBbi Dci kvkxj nIqv 15|
c` ghv`vq eo`i cwZ kvkxj nIqv I Zv`i Kzg Zvwgj Kiv 16| gvwRZ cvlvK civ 17| Rvi K_v bv ej
Av Av K_v ejv 18| Kviv K_v eySZ bv cvij gvd Kieb, Avcbvi K_v Avwg eySZ cvwiwb Gfve ejv 20|
GKRb K_v ejj gbhvM w`q Zvi K_v kvbv 21| K_v Kg ejv I ekx kvbv 22| Kviv mv_ K_v ejv I mvlb
`qvi mgq `qv Ki/AbyMn Ki k eenvi Kiv 23| eevcbvq wbqvwRZ Ges DaZb KgKZv`i DwPZ dvBj
j^v bvU bv wjL msc I `Z wmv `qv Ges Aatb KgKZv I KgPvix`i KvR Z`viwK Kiv 24| mgqi
mv_ KvRi AMMwZ g~jvqb Kiv 25| mnKgx I Aatb`i cwZ kvkxj I `qvjy nIqv 26| Abi wbKU nZ KvR
Av`vq Kiv 27| Zvlvgv`Kvix IPvUzKvi`i ckq bv `qv 28| miKvix A_i AcPq iva mP nIqv 29| wbRK
evuPevi Rb mnKgx ev Aatb`i Dci `vl Pvwcq bv `qv 30| RbmvaviYi mv_ fvj eenvi Kiv I h_vh_fve
Zv`i ^v_ iv Kiv|

Uwjdvb AvPiY
Uwjdvb AvaywbK hyM hvMvhvMi wekl iZc~Y gvag| Uwjdvbi gvag GK `ki jvK Ab`ki
jvKRbi mv_ AwZmnR Ges `Z hvMvhvM iv KiZ mg| wbRi `ki jvKRb I we`kx`i mv_
Uwjdvb Avjvc KiZ nj, Uwjdvb AvPiY wewa Rvbv cZKiB GKv KZe| we`kxiv Uwjdvb AvPiYi
Dci wekl iZ `q|
Uwjdvbi NwU evRvi k b wiwmfvi DwVq Kvb jvMvj cvq kvbv hvq, Aci cv wRm Ki, Avcwb K ?
GUv KZ b^i ? Avcwb Kv_v _K ejQb ? BZvw`|
Uwjdvb Wvqj Ki Aci cv NwU evRvi k kvbvi ci Wvqj KviKi nvjv Avm&mvjvgv AvjvBKzg Good
morning ejB wRm Kiv DwPr GUv wK AgyK bv^vi (Is it so & so number) Zvici Avwg wK AgyKi mv_
K_v ejZ cvwi ? (Can I talk to Mr. So & so) nvjv Avcwb K ejQb ? G Uwjdvb Kvi ? GUv Kv_vq ?
Kvb mgqB G fve wRm Kiv DwPZ bq| Aci c whwb Uwjdvb MnY Kieb ZviI wiwmfvi DwVq ejv DwPr,
nvjv Avmmvjvgv AvjvqKzg A_ev (Good morning) GUv AZ bv^vi A_ev Avwg AgyK ejwQ (Hallow this
is so & so number) or (I am so & so speaking) A_vr MnxZvivI nvjv ej mvjvg w`q wbRi Uwjdvb
b^vi I cwiPq `qv GKv KZe| Aci ci cwiPq wRm KiZ nj, Avcwb K ejQb ? G fve ck bv Ki
eis ck Kiv DwPr-`qv Ki Avcbvi cwiPqUv `eb wK ? Di Aci ciI DwPr Zvi bvg I wVKvbv ej `qv|
Zvici Dfq cqvRbxq K_vevZv mi GK AbK abev` w`q kl Kiv DwPr| we`kxiv Uwjdvbi G wbqg me
mgq AekB gb Pj|

MvoxZ emv
Avgv`i AbKiB Mvoxi gvwjK nIqvi ev MvoxZ Povi mfvM nqQ, wK cvqB `Lv hvq MvoxZ emvi wbqgKvbybi cwZ AbKB j ivLb bv| MvoxZ WvBfvi I gvwjKi ga GKUv ZviZg _vKv cqvRb weavq MvoxZ
emvi wbqg Kvbyb Rvbv AvekK|
WvBfvi Mvox WvBf Kij gvwjK WvBfvii cQbi wmU wecixZ w`K emeb A_vr WvBfvi Mvoxi Wvb w`K emj
gvwjK WvBfvii cQb evu w`K emeb| A_ev WvBfvi Mvoxi evu w`K emj gvwjK WvBfvii cQb Wvb w`K
emeb| gvwjK wbRB WvBf Kij WvBfvi cQbi wmU mvRv gvwjKi wcQb eme| hviv Awdmi Mvox eenvi
Kib ev fvov Kiv MvoxZ Pob Zv`iI DwPr G wbqg gb Pjv| hw` gvwjK WvBfvii cvki wmU emZ Pvb Ze
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hvwK k Zuvi wekl Amyweav nZ cvi| Rvi gvBK evRvj, gvBK Mvb evRbv Kij ev Kvb agxq Abyvb Kij
gnjvevmxi Amyweav nZ cvi| GgbI nZ cvi h, gnjvq KwVb ivM Avv Kvb iMx _vKZ cvib| hvK
Wvvi m~Yic Avivg Kivi wb`k w`qQb| G gvBKi k Zuvi wekl Amyweav nZ cvi, Ggb wK GZ
Zuvi cvY nvwbI nZ NUZ cvi| gnjvi Kvb jvK, whwb w`b A_ev ivZ AKv cwikg Ki GmQb, Nyg I
Avivgi Zvui wekl cqvRb| wkv cwZvbi Qv-Qvx Ges cwiv_x, hviv jLvcov wbq e Zv`i jLvcovi
hvZ evNvZ bv NU m w`K weklfve Avgv`i meviB j ivLv DwPr| ZvB iwWI Uwjwfkb I gvBK Avgv`i
mveavb eenvi Kiv KZe, hvZ gnjvevmx`i Kvb iKgi Amyweav bv nq| Avgv`i cZKi gb ivLv DwPr h,
Kvb gB Avgv`i GKi viv Abi hb Kvb Amyweav bv nq| GK K_vq gnjvevmx`i kvw weN Kivi AwaKvi
Avgv`i Kviv bB|

ivZ wekvgi Rb
wZwb [Avjvn&] ivZK mw KiQb Zvgv`i wekvg I kvw jvfi Rb Ges w`bK AvjvKgq KiQb `Levi Rb
-Avj KviAvb, myiv t 10, AvqvZ t 67|
ivZ wekvgi Rb| ZvB ivZ 10Uv _K mKvj 5Uv ch cZK my mej jvKiB wekvgi cqvRb| wekl
cqvRb Qvov Avgv`i mKjB ivZ 10Uvi ci iwWI, Uwjwfkb Ges we`yrevZx e Ki `qv DwPr| ivZ 10Uvi ci
Kvb iKg k ev Mvjgvj Ki Abi wekvg ev wb`v b Kiv Kvb gB DwPr bq| DbZ `ki jvKiv ivZ 10Uvi
ci me evwZ wbweq dj| gnjv ev Mvg evmxi Amyweavi w`K j iL Zviv kvi Mvj _K hb weiZ _vK|

mgvR wgjwgk evm Kiv


gvbyl mvgvwRK Rxe| h mgvRi Afz bq m nq wdwikZv bv nq c| mgvRi cZKi mv_ wgj wgk Pjv I
fvj eenvi Kiv DwPr| cZKK gvi PvL `Lv Dg| gv gnZi jY| cwZwnsmv civqb bv nq cwZhvMx
nIqv fvj| Kviv `vl wU Ges ewMZ AvPiYi Rb ZvK eywSq ejv DwPr| hvZ m eySZ cvi Ges gb K
bv cvq| mKj Zi mKj Avgiv cZK Avgiv cii Zi| ci wb`v I cikxKvZiZv fvj bq| nvK bv m
Aag ZvB ej wK Avwg Dg nZ cvwi bv| cZKB wbRi Zvwid cQ` Ki| wekl Ki gwnjviv Zv`i Zvwid
KivUvK ekx cQ` Ki| ZvB Kviv Zvwid KiZ KcYZv Kiv DwPr bq| gnvvbxiv ejQb wbPz jvK Kfz hw`
g` K_v ej, nvwmqv Dove Zv KZzKi Qj| mgvRK Aenjv ev ay wb`v Ki evm Kiv hvq bv| mgvRi mevi
mv_B wgj wgk evm KiZ nq|

`uvZ cwivi Kiv


`uvZ _vKZ `uvZi gg eySbv GUv GKwU mycw PwjZ cev`| `uvZi AhZi KviY AbKB `uvZi ivMi Avv
nq _vK| Ges `uvZi e_vq K cvq, A_ev AKvj `uvZ co hvq| A eqm `uvZ nvwiq evKx Rxeb nv-Zvk Ki|
Avgv`i `k mPivPi `Lv hvq h, AbKB IRy I Mvmj Lvbvi evBi eviv`vq GgbwK ivvq nuvUZ nvUZB `uvZ
cwivi Ki| IRy I MvmjLvbvi evBi evm I gmIqvK w`q `uvZ cwivi KivUv Lye Lvivc `Lvq Ges GUv bvMwiK
PZbvi cwicx| ivvq nuvUZ nuvUZ ev evoxi eviv`vq `vZi evm Ges c w`q `uvZ cwivi Kivi mgq gyLi
`yw`K ci dbv ei nq, hv `LZ LyeB Lvivc jvM| ZvB IRy I MvmjLvbvi evBi `uvZ cwivi Kiv DwPr bq|
cwZevi LvIqvi ci fvj Ki Kzjx Ges gmIqvK I evm w`q `uvZ cwivi Kiv fvjv| ivZ kvqvi mgq Ges mKvj
c, evm, gmIqvK, Kqjvi ov I `uvZi gvRb w`q `uvZ cwivi Kij `uvZi Kvb M _vKbv Ges ZvZ `uvZi
ivM _K gy _vKv hvq LvIqvi ci `uvZi duvK h Lv` KYv AvUKvbv _vK Zv _K `uvZi ivMi Drcw nq
Ges gyL _K `yM ei nq| ZvB LvIqvi ci `uvZ fvj Ki cwivi Ki `uvZi duvK AvUKvbv Lv`Kbv [Food
Particle] ei Ki `qv GKv KZe|
`uvZi duvK AvUKvbv Lv`Kbv ei bv Kij ZvZ cPb ai Ges Rxevbyi Drcw nq| GB Rxevby `uvZi Gbvgj
cwUs b Ki| hvidj `uvZi Mvovq Zi mw nq| cwiYwZZ `uvZ ev_v, gyL M Ges AKvj `uvZ UzKiv UzKiv
nq fsM co| ZvB `uvZi mej I my`i ivLZ nj `uvZi hZ bqv GKv KZe|

nvB IVv I nuvwP `Iqv


nvB IVv I nuvwP `qv iva Kivi Kvb Dcvq bB| GUv Zvi wbR^ MwZZB Pj| nvB IVv I nuvwP `qvi mgq Avgv`i
mveavb nIqv DwPr, hvZ cvki jvKRbi Amyweav bv nq| AbK mgq nuvwP `qvi mgq nuvwPi mv_ gyLi _y _y I
bvKi mw` Abi Mvq co Ges ZvZ Ki Zv`i Amyweavi mw nq| Avgv`i Rvbv KZe h, nvB DVv I nuvwP `qvi
mgq bvbv ivMi Rxevby GKi kixi _K ewiq evZvm wgk Abi wbtkvmi mv_ Zvi kixI cek KiZ cvi|
nvB IVv I nuvwP `Iqvi mgq gyL nvZ A_ev igvj `qv DwPr| nvB DVj jv nvIjv IqvjvKzqvZv Bjvwejgvn Ges
nuvwP `Iqvi ci Avjnvg`ywjjvn ejv KZe| AZtci DcwZ mevBK Dk Ki gvd Kieb (Excuse me)
GB evKwU eenvi Kiv KZe|

wmuwo w`q IVv bvgv


wmuwo w`q IVv bvgvi mgq AbKiB RyZv, mj I Logi fxlY k nq| KvVi wmuwo eq DVZ AviI ekx k
nq| ZvZ evoxZ emevmKvix`i fxlY Amyweav nq|
wmuwo w`q wbtk IVv bvgv Kiv KZe| IVv bvgvi k hvZ Abi Amyweav bv nq mw`K wekl j ivLv DwPr|
hviv wmuwo w`q k Ki IVv bvgv Ki Zv`iK evanxb ejv hZ cvi| AbK mgq `Lv hvq wmuwo w`q GK msM
GKvwaK jvK n P ev RvI K_v ejZ ejZ IVv bvgv Ki| GZ h Abi Amyweav nq ZvZ Zv`i gvUB
c bB| wmuwo w`q Pzwc Pzwc cv dj IVv bvgv Kiv cZKiB KZe| AbKB wmuwo w`q IVv bvgvi mgq wmuwoi
`yavi `qvj I wmuwoi Dci cvbi wcK, Kd I _y _y dj wmuwo I `qvj bvsiv Ki, hv `LZ AZ wekx `Lvq
Ges ^vi cwicx| ZvB wmuwoi Dci, wmuwoi `yavi `qvj cvbi wcK, Kd I _y _y djv DwPr bq|

gwnjv`i mv_ m`vPiY


LyeB mZK _vK gvZ MfI ghv`vi ck A_vr mvb Ki x RvwZK hviv Zvg`iK Mf aviY KiQ|- Avj
KviAvb, myiv bmv t 4, AvqvZ t 1
cw_exi cZK RvwZ Ggb wK AvgvRvb fjxi Avw`g Awaevmx hviv gvbyli gvsl Lvq, Zviv I gwnjv`i mvb Ki
Ges gwnjv`i gvsm Lvq bv| AvgvRb fjxZ ag cPvii Rb AvgwiKvbiv c_g cyil ag hvRK`iK cvwVqQb|
`Lv Mj mLvbKvi Avw`g Awaevmxiv [Aborigines] Zv`iK Lq djQb| Zvici mLvb gwnjv
aghvRK`iK cvVjb| wK Avhi welq mB gvbyl LKv jvKwj gwnjv`iK LvIqvZv `~ii K_v eis Zv`i
mv_ meenvi KiQb| Zv`i KvQ ag `xwZ nq jLv cov wkLQb| hw` mB Avw`g Avwaevmxiv gwnjv`iK
mvb KiZ Rvb, Ze Avgiv mf nqI Kb Rvbebv| ZvB Avgv`i cyil mgvRi DwPr gwnjv`iK mvb Kiv|
Kvb RvqMvq gwnjv gngvb DcwZ nj Zv`i mvb cyil`i `uvovb DwPr| evm, Ub I MvoxZ gwnjv`i Avmb
Qo w`q emZ `qv DwPr| gwnjv`i mv_ m`vPiY Kiv I Zv`i mvb `Lvb mfZvi AsM|

KvbK_v I Re
Avgv`i ga AbKB KvbK_v I Re ekx iZ `q| KvbK_v I Re ekx iZ `qv eywgvbi KvR bq|
eis me mgq KvbK_v I Rei mZZv hvPvB Ki Zvi cwZKvi Kiv DwPr| KvbK_v b Kviv wei AvKkb
bIqv DwPr bq| KviY, hvPvB Kij nqZ `Lv hve hvi wei AvKkb bqv nqQ m m~Y wb`vl| `ytLi mwnZ
ejZ nq, mgvRi GK`j jvK Kvb K_v ejZ Ges Avi GK `j Re QovZ e| Avi AbK DP wkwZ Ges
AbK i `vwqZ wbqvwRZ Ges AbK bZv bxq eweMK Zv b I wekvm Ki Kvb ic Z` QvovB Abi
mebvk KiZ `Lv hvq hv `vwqZcyY jvK`i c gvUB DwPr bv|

ewMZ ck Kiv
Avgv`i `k cvq `Lv hvq, webv KviY GK AbK wRm Ki- Avcbvi eqm KZ ? jLv cov KZ `~i KiQb ?
wK PvKzix Kib ? eZb KZ cvb ? BZvw` BZvw`|
PvKzix cv_x, cixv_x A_ev wekl cqvRb Qvov KvDK Zvi eqm, wkvMZ hvMZv, eZb I gvwmK Avq mK
wRm Kiv f`Zvi cwicx|

mvaviY ck
cvq `Lv hvq, GKRb evsjv`kxi mv_ Ab GKRb evsjv`kxi `Lv nj GK AbK wRm Ki- Avcbvi `k
Kv_vq ? Avgv`i mevi gb ivLv DwPr- Avgv`i `k evsjv`k| ZvB AbK Avcbvi `k Kv_vq ? G fve ck
bv Ki eis ck Kiv DwPr Avcbvi evox Kv_vq ev Kvb Rjvq ?

mvaviY f`Zv
1. Avgv`i gb ivLv DwPr c jLK me mgq Di cvIqvi Avkv Ki| ZvB c cvIqv gv Di `Iqv
KZe|
2. Avcbvi evoxZ KD GKevi Avmj Avcbvi DwPr Zvi evoxZ GKevi hvIqv|
3. me mgq GwMq wMq gngvbK ^vMZg Rvwbq mv`i MnY Kiv Ges we`vq `Iqvi mgq Zvi mv_ MBU ev
m`i `iRv ch wMq fQv we`vq `Iqv KZe|

cwZekxi mv_ menvi


hv`i cwZekx Afz _vK Avi Zviv wbRiv cUcyi Lvq Zviv gvgb bq|- Avj nvw`m|
K_vUv Avgv`i meviB iZi mv_ gb ivLv `iKvi h, cwZekx AvZxqi PqI ekx| Avc`-wec`, myL-`ytL Ges
nvqvZ-gDZ cwZekxB AvZxq ^Rbi AvM nvwRi nq
Ges DcKvi Avm| ZvB Zv`i mv_
meenvi Kiv DwPr| cwZekxi evwoZ Avmv-hvIqv I Zv`i DcKvi Kiv Avgv`i cZKiB KZe| G Avwg
GKUv NUbvi DjL KiZ PvB Avgv`i GK cwZekxi mv_ GKL Rwg wbq Av`vjZ AbKw`b ai Avgv`i
gvgjv PjwQj| me mgq m Avgv`i evoxZ Avmv hvIqv I LvIqv-`vIqv KiZ| Avgv`i evox _K Av`vjZ AbK
`~i wQj| gvgjvi w`b m Gm Avgvi wcZvK WK ejZ AvRK Avgv`i gvgjvi w`b| Ges `yRb GK msM
Av`vjZ Avmv hvIqv KiZ| GKw`b Avgvi wcZv ZvK wRm Kij-mivdZ Avjx, Avwg ev`x Avi Zzwg weev`x| Avwg
Av`vjZ nvRxi bv nj gvgjv LvwiR nq hve Ges Rwg Zzwg cq hve RbI Zzwg Kb gvgjvi w`b Gm AvgvK
WvK Ges gvgjvi K_v iY Kwiq `vI| Di m ejv, gRvwgqv Avcwb I Avwg cvov cwZekx Avgvi gZzZ
Avcwb AvgvK `vdb Kieb Avi Avcbvi gZzZ Avwg AvcbvK `vdb Kie| Rwgi evcvI Av`vjZ wmv `e
Rwgi cKZ gvwjK K ? Avcwb bv Avwg ? GLvb Avcbvi mv_ Avgvi Kvb kZv bB| KviY Avcwb I Avwg
cwZekx| ZvB Avgvi wcZv me mgq ejZb, hw`I mivdZ Avjx GKRb AwkwZ jvK wQjb, wK wZwb wQjb
gnvb|
mZB Avgv`i cwZekx f`jvK GKRb gnr ew wQjb| GLvb wekl Ki DjL h, Avjvn&i ingZ H ewi
gZzZ Avgvi wcZvB Zvi RvbvRvi bvgvR cwoq wQjb Ges ZvK `vdb KiwQjb|

GKv Riix KqKwU Dc`k


1. K_v Kg ejv I ekx kvbv vbxi KvR|
2. bZv wbR KvR KI Zvi jvKRbi ga KvRi ciYv hvMvq Avi gwbe ay Kzg `q ciYv hvMvq bv|
3. mKvj mKvj Nywgq cov I mKvj mKvj Nyg _K IVv ^vi Rb gjKi|
4. ZvrwbK wmvB KggZv cKvk cvq|
5. cZK bZvi ev Awdmvii ZvrwYK wmv `qvi YvY _vKv PvB|
6. w`b Nygvb Ges AwZwi Nygvb DfqB my^vi cwicx|
7. cwikg ^v fvj _vK|
8. Kg LvIqv Ges evisevi LvIqv my^vi AbyK~j|
9. GKRb gymjgvbi KLbI wg_v ejv DwPr bv| KviY Avgv`i bex (mvt) Rxeb KLbI wg_v ejbwb|
10. mvb-mwZi wec`Mvgx nIqvi Rb iRb I mgvR eevB `vqx|
11. hZB cwoe ZZB wkwLe, hZB wkwLe ZZB eywSe-Zzwg Lye Kg Rvb|
12. cw_exZ Lye Kg msLK gavex ew Rb MnY Kib, AwaKvsk ewB cwikgi viv KZKvh nq|
13. BwZnvm gvbylK GUvB wkv `q hv gvbyl wkL bv|
14. mwUm ejQb, Ze Avwg Avcbvi _K GKUv K_v ekx Rvwb Avi mUv nQ GB h, Avwg wKQzB Rvwb
bv|

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