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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. divorce. Awful! 1|Page . but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. was begging to have sex with you??. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. Also. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. FOR ONCE.

I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. or if you take out the trash. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. The first time I had sex I was 22. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. and not know where her lips have been. I’m not even a millionaire. She was blunt. Women won’t tell you this. I’m not an athlete. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. I'm not a celebrity. Who Am I. Luckily. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. My lowest point though. Real-life. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed.The Cheat-proof. she will be yours for life. no matter how much I liked her. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. what car you drive. would come crashing to a passionless halt.

I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page .couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. Now. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. what happened was that through my own experimentation. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. When I did get back in the game. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. EVERY TIME. I read hundreds of books. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!).

or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. girlfriend. Most 4|Page . and better sexual skills than you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. she doesn’t even have the temptation. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. better looks. because as a man.

turn off your email and phone. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. Actually. . 5|Page . I was a complete loser.. so take a deep breath. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. Please don’t laugh. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22.. I’m not proud of this. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. it’s funny. had never kissed a girl. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. In fact.. He was like.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked).Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. and he knew this. laugh all you want. “Come to Brazil.

I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . Please don’t. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. but what did she know. In the hotel room.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. So THIS was it! Haha. I was really only a poor college student. the most I’d ever gone out.” anything to distract myself. It felt so good. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.” I’m thinking. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. Meanwhile. Somehow she liked me. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.God. I finally made it into the promise land... Once I was naked. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes.. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Math. Algebra.. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I met this girl who barely spoke English. “Calm.ARGH! . calm.

pathetic little boy. And for a long time I was in denial. It wasn’t that they were so huge. 7|Page . but it was that they’d last forever. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. and feeling like a small. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them.just kept pumping away. They had complete control of pleasing these women.. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was.. And they weren’t having sex slowly. said something in Portuguese. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. . It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. making the girls scream with pleasure. they were going fast and aggressively. and pushed me off of her. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. but I had no idea what to do about it.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was.

It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I was like. seminars. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl.” But for them. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. their first time was at 16. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I couldn’t get hard at all. I started reading every single book that I could about sex.pal?!” It sounds comical. And the second time I had sex. So to try and turn my sex life around. I would kiss her for a while. That’s what happened my first time. videos. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. After three years of wild experimentation. “Yeah. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. 16. 17 years old like a normal guy.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I had absolutely no control over when I came. So either way. but when you wait longer. cumming immediately. I remember that. and I was at 23. “What is wrong with you. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I had to learn how to do it. I’d do 8|Page . and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long.

I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. Most importantly though. “Oh goddd.all sorts of other stuff. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. So I moved on and started dating other girls. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina.. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. Finally. 50 minutes — even an hour. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. learning where her trigger spots were. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. regardless of the girl I ended up with. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her.

This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. It was getting out of hand. something that seemed to work with every girl. Here.. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. practically tearing my clothes off. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. . They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears.” I’d try and show them how special they were. I had to do 10 | P a g e ..” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. These girls started to love it. I need a hug. But something started to happen. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. I bought you a necklace.was ready to meet the challenge. they’d take the necklace. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with.Even If You’re “Small”. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. or Have A Small Bank Account. Sure. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I was having sex whenever I wanted. but they didn’t seem satisfied.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. every time. Or they’d be like “Oh. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. “Hey.

she will want you more and more. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . and she’s going to be looking for other options.something with this power I had developed. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. who have given up and faced rejection. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. you’re going to have to last. she’s not going to want to have children with you. If she only knew! More importantly. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. she’s not going to treat you well. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. more and more. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. No more not feeling like a man. humiliation. How to give women the best sex of their life. You’re here because of sex. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. Chris Rock once joked. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. “A man is only as faithful as his options. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. It’s what we think about all day long.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. It changed who I am.

these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. These problems you’re having. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. really easy for you. last as long as you want. just make sure it stays between us. 12 | P a g e . You don’t need to have sex with 5. problems I used to have.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you.

Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. full-body orgasms. 13 | P a g e .Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. We will address that in a moment. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. so really think carefully. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. So to get started. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. Women are the same way. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE.

we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. they can’t get hard. They are thinking of “Touch this. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. now touch that. the limper you become! But don't worry. 14 | P a g e .2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. in the bedroom and outside it. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard.

4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. Obviously. They want you to be in charge. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. Show her how much you want her. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . When you are passive and unsure of yourself. Show her you know what you want. not confident and slightly feminine. at some times the emotional.

16 | P a g e . They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. they’re not based on feelings.. she’ll be sexually pleased. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. crazy shit. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.. almost every woman said “doggy-style.interaction.

. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. this is what comes out. Of course. But fortunately. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e .So if you think that you’re any of these. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.

or even social status. 18 | P a g e . or kissing him. had a headache. just not with me. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. or always trying to hold his hand. looks. or was stressed and not in the mood.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. Then. There is no nagging. but I had to face the truth. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. charm. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. It was so painful to admit that to myself. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. She is sitting on his lap. looking back on it. because I couldn’t satisfy her. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much.

She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). Take note however. that is the same thing. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex.Sign #1 . the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Unlike many men. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. The more that she initiates sex. so in this case. When a woman is initiating sex with you. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions.

She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.she wants to have sex right now or that night. Just stay calm. the sex won’t happen. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. chances are that she is initiating sex. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. and don’t try and skip that step.” or “Lets watch a movie. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.” If you are hearing things like this.” “I need a massage. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. “Let’s take a nap. They will say things like. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed.” “I need a hug.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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you had to learn. programming a computer. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. Any skill in life is learned. they WILL improve. learning a language. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. but they are not. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help.” I’d think. women need sex — then hey. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. No matter how bad you are.” That’s not true. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. you’re not where you need to be. you can still get better. anything. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. And no matter how good you think you are. I used to think. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).CAN improve your sexual skills. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time.” 25 | P a g e . Any skill that’s worth knowing.

26 | P a g e . It is one of my favorites. Because you’re forced to fix it.” So it’s okay to get help. I guarantee it. It is possible. and that you’ll love too. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. take care of it. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. realize you’re going to get it handled. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. you will. When you’ve got an issue in your life. you’ve got to embrace it. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. There is a saying that I love. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. Really think about that. and then boom. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners.

the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. like. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual." She doesn’t get horny. again. I’m a guy. instinctual level. 27 | P a g e . to be child-bearers. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. you do. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. Look at all these women magazines. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. Look at YM. but she doesn’t like sex. and you’re. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. I need sex. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her.” Or. but think of women. real women. This is everywhere. These are normal. The sooner you realize this. the stuff that you look at. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. Their main goal in life is to have children. So. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. “Hey. If you think that you need sex.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually.” Yeah. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. the better off you’ll be. women need sex more than men. with their picture. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex.

” Women spend hours. “There it is. They want to look desirable. these pants. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. let’s move on to the next mindset.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them).and other products to look good. You ever look at a man’s underwear.“That’s trash. 28 | P a g e . and the examples of this are everywhere. It’s my underwear. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. They have all this sexual desire. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. buying underwear. but society represses it. make-up. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.

Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. with proper education. It’s not your fault. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW.

Often. 30 | P a g e .A. and she's not in the moment at all. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. then at the end of this chapter. and she's not thinking about anything. I'll run through all four..Chapter 5 The P. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. Women are feelers. Don't Think. it's HER being in the moment. "Oh. It's not just you being in the moment. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.V. This is a bad thing. but feeling. If her eyes are open.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. because you want her not thinking anything. To start. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present.

that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. 31 | P a g e . is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes.. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. or having sex with a woman for the first time. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong.. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. you won't have to worry about that any longer. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about.. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. Nothing about. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. and you're no longer good at all. or you get soft. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. because all of a sudden.And more specifically. and you lose your presence and your authority. It's a big problem. or about different aspects of your sexuality. It's game over.. Of course you want her to have a good time. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis.

32 | P a g e . That is PRESENCE. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. and what's going on. Just going right after it. It does it out of a primal instinct. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. So. while you're learning this stuff. in the beginning." Think of just pure instinct. Just like anything else. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. and I will grab him here. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. You're just primal. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. You want to just be going by instinct. you're thinking about it at the start. anything. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. when you learn a language. Always instinct. He's not thinking. But. There'll be a learning curve. and the wind is this variable.

Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. By having that mindset of leader. It's much more attractive for women. I'm the boss here. going to follow the lead of the man. and the woman is. You should always treat women with respect. to be led by the male. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. but you need to be authoritative. You need to show that you're in charge. whether it's during sex or during a date. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. If they did. a woman wants a man. they would be with one! No. "I'm in charge. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. I'm gonna do what I like. Don’t ask to do doggy style. That's how it's been since the caveman days. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . you'll begin to naturally think. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger." You wanna show that you're in charge. So. you've gotta show that you're in charge. more dominant.2.

slowly take it to the next level. Get it? 34 | P a g e . If you're in missionary position. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. Push her down into the bed. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. That's very authoritative. but as you see how well she responds to it. And by all means. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. That's authoritative. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. pin her arms behind her head.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY.. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first.. Now. and then ramp it up from there. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. Try saying things like.

.. “These are my lips to kiss”. 35 | P a g e .. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.. Start with things like. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. which is something all women want to hear.. If this excites her. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. powerful man. “You are ALL MINE right now”. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.

I love you so much. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . because different positions give her different emotions. like in public. or sneaking off somewhere. saying "Baby. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her.E.V. And while physical variety is nice." That's one kind of a lover. Something like out of a romance novel. and you say different things. You're doing her doggie-style. It's not solely about different positions. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings.A. Then. If you do different positions. that Casanova. system is VARIETY. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. I love being inside you. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY.3. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. and you have different interactions in these different positions. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. Different positions definitely help. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. You're slapping her ass.

If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. 37 | P a g e . But. Try to have various times where you have sex. repeatedly. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. Y eah. that's not very spontaneous. In the missionary position you can make love to her. It's not gonna have emotion. So.variety. You can fuck her. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. You want to be having sex at different times. but positions aren't as important. on Friday night. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. You can talk dirty. if you can. So. it's not gonna have that variety. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. You can talk emotionally. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. positions themselves aren't really that different. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. And I just touched upon it. It's gonna seem monotonous. Being Spontaneous So. If it's planned. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY.

and she's going to be madly in love with you. If you can't be emotional yourself. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. You want as much spontaneity as possible. So. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. Keep things fresh. be spontaneous. when you're 38 | P a g e . or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. There are lots of different fantasies. Change the feelings that she has. 4. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. she's not going to feel emotion. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. be a different kind of lover. Do it in the shower. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. And again. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. (In a moment. So in summary. and in the morning when you wake up. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION.

you should be pretty emotional. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl.” you want to say it with passion. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. They’ll get married. It's because in the beginning.telling her things. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. even sexually or in any manner. So. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. The stronger the emotions. you need to be. So now. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. there's so much emotion for both of you. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. Then that emotion dips over a time. or they'll get a girlfriend. you need to be emotional. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. make sure that you really mean it. after the initial emotions have dipped. You're madly in love. The Stronger the Emotions. If it's your wife. and in the beginning the sex is really good. And then the sex peters out. because you married her. 39 | P a g e . Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. Your bodies are new. So. or outside." If you're saying “I love you. either inside the bedroom. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. if you're not with a girl that you like. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions.

and 40 | P a g e . keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. I just keep kissing. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Emotions are best shown through words. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. until finally she can't take it anymore. Anticipation creates excitement So. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion.And you want to do that in bed. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Different emotions. Feelings of just being fucked. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. all that teasing creates anticipation. and then kind of push her away. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. excitement. If you're teasing a girl. teasing. and she really wants you inside of you. If you're not talking in bed. And the way that you can do that. Play hard to get. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Just keep going with the foreplay. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Feelings of being loved. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. anticipation.

” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. otherwise it sounds a little weird. 41 | P a g e . I miss you so much. But romantic talk is. "Oh. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. Kind of ease it in there. Romantic talk means things like. you need to start now. are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. "I love you so much.

Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.A. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .V. Look for all the elements of P.E system its unbelievable. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.VE. As usual. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.V. Pay close attention when you are reading these. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. This stuff is so close to the P.E.A. anonymous. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.A.

revealing a tight. “Here are the rules: I touch you. I straddle your lap. I lean into your strength and warmth.” I whisper in your ear.physically big.” is all that you can utter. pulling me against you. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. “Not yet.” My hands trail down your abdomen. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. darling. “Baby. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. You help me remove them. kissing you softly. sucking on your bottom lip. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. and appraise your amazing body. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. You pull my suit coat off. I set my briefcase on the counter. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. as I grind my hips against you. still in my 4 inch heels. Wrapping my arms around your neck. and before I can stop you. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . I step back. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. you fill the room with your sexual presence. satin camisole.

and kiss me breathless. I can see the skepticism on your face. Just try to relax. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. and plant a kiss in your palm. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. just say yellow. I’ve never taken control like this. where are you?” “I’m here. “You’re a naughty boy. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. gently at first.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. so I continue with my lesson.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. If at any point it gets to be too much. You hear it hit the floor. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I’m trying to drink you all in. but tonight is about control. I pull the camisole off too.You swallow hard and nod your head. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. it looks like it might explode. baby. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. “I’ve got something that will help”. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. You grab me around my waist. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. 44 | P a g e . My touch is light and tentative. “Don’t worry. I grab your left hand. I can’t get enough of your different textures. then with a bit more strength. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt.” I manage to get out between pants. and is driving you wild. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. “Baby. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms.

I pinch your nipples. as our movements become frantic. I cry out. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. first one cheek. You roll me underneath you. You grab my wrist and suck harder. I cannot take another second. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I run my fingernails down your back. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. and slam into me.hard. I inhale deeply near your navel. breathing on your balls and shaft. I continue my assault. I begin to nibble at your thighs. You slap my ass . nearing the verge of my climax. running my tongue along your side. they’re so different from mine. riding you. My aching pussy has to have you now. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. and you moan. but not touching them. I am yours now. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I cry out your name.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. A flush has 45 | P a g e . then the other. as you fuck me. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. lapping up a drop of precum. down to your pelvic bone. causing your abdomen to quiver. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. loudly. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder.

It builds and I beg you to finish.” I feel so wanton. my pussy throbbing with excitement. “Tell me that you want me. You grab my hips and pound harder. I get on all fours for you. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. I can feel my juices running down my legs. The orgasm is different this time. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. I whimper again. You pull back and look in my eyes. never changing pace or pressure. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. pulling me against you.” you say roughly. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. You are so strong. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. but you keep that same pace. You wrap your arms around me. I shudder my completion. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. You start to orgasm. but you refuse to let me go. trying to catch my breath. begging you to make me cum. almost scream your name. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. I touch my clit as you slam into me. bruising my tender skin.” I take a sharp breath in. I have never felt so safe. “Roll over. “Fuck me…now. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. 46 | P a g e . yet I’m excited. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. causing me to moan.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. You lap at me slowly.

You make me feel safe and loved and protected. 47 | P a g e . I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. can’t think. what the hell. Really badly.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. You can never seem to get enough. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do.. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. probably western North Carolina. I thought.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now.. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. Mind numbing. but not before hearing you say softly. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. I close my eyes and drift off too.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. “I love you”.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. You cater to my whims. I have to pee. It is a winding highway someplace rural.” This is what I fantasize about .

At least I hope it is. Thank god. Such relief. come out with your hands in the air.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. number 15. This is so weird. And oh shit. 48 | P a g e . Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. He is coming after me. And he is pointing a gun at me. My room. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. I must keep driving. I manage “I’m in here. Oh my word.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. there are the lights. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car.

“I had to pee. He exhales again. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. he hasn’t said anything to me. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. look at my privates. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. The cop can’t help but look at me. “How about you put that weapon away. Since he has seen me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. 49 | P a g e . It is awkward in heated kind of way. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. Don’t shoot me. Higher still. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. looking at him. He is totally hot. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me.

I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I have to touch him. grunts and moves in quickly. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He spreads my legs with his knee. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I arch my back and press my chest against him. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. His 50 | P a g e . My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine.I try speaking. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. “Too fast. This next transition is a blur.

I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I know I am beautiful. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. My thighs are at his eye level. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. I love it.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . He looks up with need and reverence. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop.

I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I still want to be fucked. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. more. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. 52 | P a g e . I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. Don’t stop. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I am so wet and hot. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. “More. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.” I moan and then release. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me.tongue over his lips. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. It is so perfect. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. This gets me so excited for more. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on.

It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. My ass is barely on the counter. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He fills me completely. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I feel like a conqueror. panting and trying to catch his breathe. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. I feel triumphant. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready.” he moans. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me.“Oh Jesus in heaven. This is when we both come together. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. I relish him being worn out. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him.

let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .

(If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. your problem is entirely psychological.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. but not during sex. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. not a physical problem. the limper you will get. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. which basically means the harder you try.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1.

Clear your mind other than the numbers. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. 56 | P a g e .. and trust me when I say. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. This breath is 1. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.2... “10-Count Breathing”. nothing about life or any topic.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed.. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. This exhale is 2. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. (5 cycles of 2).

no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. 3. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. Sounds crazy. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. And trust me. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. which allows you to relax more and get hard. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. then it will help your erections. You’ll be glad you did.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed.

Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. squat. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. These include the dead lift. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. For further details. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. dumbbell press. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. yoga is what I recommend . and pull-ups. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. you learn to control your breathing as well. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.

put it at a number. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. Here’s how: Step 1. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. no erection. Don’t fight your arousal. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. When you don’t have presence. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Instead. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come.

Step 2.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5 to number 9. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. harder stroking. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).5.5 and when it turns into number 9. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.. Again. give us a call if you need help with this.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6.

your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. or kiss her body. Instead eat her out. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. 61 | P a g e . Step 4. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. See demonstration in the DVD. Step 3.

Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. women are capable of many different types. exercise. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. full body orgasms. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills.V. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. 62 | P a g e . Also. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper.A. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. She will. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training.E. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. model.

 While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. mouth.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. side of back. Kiss her neck. inner thighs. Don’t do anything else just leave it there.

a really sexy. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. variety. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. authority. I was dating this girl Renee. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. she was from Austria. repeated cumming etc. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. smart 64 | P a g e . She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I know this sounds ridiculous. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. and emotion. continuous orgasmic state. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship.

gifts. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.a.v. Over time with her though. with no physiological hang-ups. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. and panties with my name on them.

. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you.. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. kisses.

and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. In short. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. the girls are beautiful. Online porn these days is cheap.. so get in as much as you can. and the sites have TONS of videos. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn.. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex.

Even if it does work at all. or exercises don’t waste your time. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. 68 | P a g e . Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. it will raise your testosterone. pumps. and maker her come.5 inches hard it does not matter. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. stamina. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. It’s not hiding as much as you think. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Unless your penis is under 2. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Just get naked.

Let’s do a quick run through. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. But if you feel that you really need it. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Remember. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Remember though. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more.

Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. It’s a waste of your time and money. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. It hurt. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. Dick size is NOT the problem. Relax and Enjoy . she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. If you’re thinking of getting one.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. don’t. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. It May Just Be in Your Head Look.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e .

Classy. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Something that you have to work on. These are psychological principles. what position you are in. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. that’s fine. 71 | P a g e . I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. whether she is coming. Shy. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys.. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. Conservative. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Sassy.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. if you want to do something to do it. Don’t think about ANYTHING. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. not just think about theoretically. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. If you want to say something say it..50% of the time. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Just FUCK her. if you want to last 2 minutes. the evidence is overwhelming.

72 | P a g e .You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent.. boring stuff. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me.

Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. It works really well — as long as she takes it. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. 74 | P a g e . Pre-cum contains sperm. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge).) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time.There are numerous types of birth control. Sperm lead to children. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy.

Again. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. The Patch. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. I would not recommend it. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. the Shot. The Ring. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. However. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Guys take responsibility. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. There chance of pregnancy is too high. 75 | P a g e . some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. You can experiment with it. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic.

It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. it’s a very effective. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. but I know people who have had. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Don’t get it. If you’re going to do this be sure. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. My friend Mike. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. I’ve never had one. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Some STDs are very serious.

Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. doesn’t grip you too tight. and still always you to enjoy sex. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. not guess. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Despite it being a serious subject. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. I’m not going to list every STD here. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. Often guys will say something like. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Just get tested to be sure. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. bring it up casually but firmly. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. or condoms ruin sex. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. It’s all 77 | P a g e .” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. you should be fine. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs.

Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. You can use Astroglide. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a your head. Let’s review how to put on a condom. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. For overall experience. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex 78 | P a g e . What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.condomdepot. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable.

you 79 | P a g e . and focus on your breathing. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Sticking with the classics like. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. 1. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Let’s go through and talk about where to start." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. "baby that feels so good. in 2 or 3 basic positions.Don't Wait. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. If you are having relatively tame sex. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. Have a few” go-to” moves." so again stick to the basics. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect." To avoid this.

It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Focus on foreplay. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. You don’t have to go crazy. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. 5.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. 4. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Be able to give her an orgasm.


It’s being a real man. Bobby Bradshaw www. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. living life on your own terms.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. ISN Education. LLC 82 | P a g e . it’s so much more than that. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and 2009. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.