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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Also. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. divorce. FOR ONCE. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. Awful! 1|Page . This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. was begging to have sex with you??.

And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. would come crashing to a passionless halt. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. Women won’t tell you this. She was blunt. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. I'm not a celebrity. and not know where her lips have been. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. Luckily. she will be yours for life. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. or if you take out the trash.The Cheat-proof. My lowest point though. The first time I had sex I was 22. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. no matter how much I liked her. what car you drive. Real-life. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. I’m not even a millionaire. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Who Am I. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I’m not an athlete. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make.

I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I read hundreds of books. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). When I did get back in the game. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. what happened was that through my own experimentation. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. Now. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I still have my day job as a business consultant. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. EVERY TIME.

you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. and better sexual skills than you.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. because as a man. better looks. she doesn’t even have the temptation. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. girlfriend. Most 4|Page . filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now.

I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me.. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier.. turn off your email and phone. “Come to Brazil. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. He was like.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. Please don’t laugh. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. Actually. laugh all you want. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. In fact.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. I was a complete loser. and he knew this. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. it’s funny. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. . 5|Page . I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. so take a deep breath.. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I’m not proud of this. had never kissed a girl. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.

Please don’t.. calm. It felt so good. Somehow she liked me. I was really only a poor college student. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating... I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. but what did she know. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. Meanwhile. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page .. the most I’d ever gone out. So THIS was it! Haha. Algebra. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. “Calm. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I finally made it into the promise land.” anything to distract myself. Once I was naked. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times.ARGH! . I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. I met this girl who barely spoke English.” I’m thinking.God. In the hotel room. Math.. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room.

The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast.. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. said something in Portuguese. And for a long time I was in denial. They had complete control of pleasing these women. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. 7|Page . but I had no idea what to do about it. And they weren’t having sex slowly. I just want you to know how bad I was.just kept pumping away. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. It wasn’t that they were so huge.. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. making the girls scream with pleasure. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. . the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. and pushed me off of her. pathetic little boy. but it was that they’d last forever. they were going fast and aggressively. and feeling like a small.

instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. And the second time I had sex. and I was at 23. I had to learn how to do it. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. After three years of wild experimentation. but when you wait longer.pal?!” It sounds comical. 16. cumming immediately. “What is wrong with you. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I would kiss her for a while. That’s what happened my first time. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. So to try and turn my sex life around. seminars. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. I was like. “Yeah. I remember that.” But for them. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. videos. I couldn’t get hard at all. I’d do 8|Page . I started reading every single book that I could about sex. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. their first time was at 16. I had absolutely no control over when I came. 17 years old like a normal guy. So either way. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed.

From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. “Oh goddd..all sorts of other stuff. 50 minutes — even an hour. Most importantly though. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. So I moved on and started dating other girls. learning where her trigger spots were. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. regardless of the girl I ended up with. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. Finally. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex.

I was having sex whenever I wanted. something that seemed to work with every girl. .” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. But something started to happen. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I had to do 10 | P a g e .. These girls started to love it. Sure. Or they’d be like “Oh. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. they’d take the necklace.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. or Have A Small Bank Account.” I’d try and show them how special they were. but they didn’t seem satisfied. “Hey.was ready to meet the challenge. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. I bought you a necklace. I need a hug. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. Here. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. every time.Even If You’re “Small”. It was getting out of hand. practically tearing my clothes off. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner.

I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. It changed who I am. You’re here because of sex. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. No more not feeling like a man. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . “A man is only as faithful as his options. It’s what we think about all day long. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. humiliation. who have given up and faced rejection. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. more and more. she’s not going to want to have children with you. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. she will want you more and more. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. she’s not going to treat you well. you’re going to have to last. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. How to give women the best sex of their life. Chris Rock once joked. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life.something with this power I had developed. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. and she’s going to be looking for other options.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. If she only knew! More importantly.

These problems you’re having. just make sure it stays between us. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. last as long as you want. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. really easy for you. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. You don’t need to have sex with 5. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. 12 | P a g e .Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. problems I used to have. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you.

You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. so really think carefully. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. Women are the same way. We will address that in a moment. 13 | P a g e . So to get started. full-body orgasms. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE.

they can’t get hard. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. the limper you become! But don't worry. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. 14 | P a g e .2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. They are thinking of “Touch this. in the bedroom and outside it. now touch that. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel.

it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. Show her how much you want her. They want you to be in charge. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. Show her you know what you want. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. at some times the emotional. Obviously. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. not confident and slightly feminine.

and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. 16 | P a g e . Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. she’ll be sexually pleased. they’re not based on feelings. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.interaction. almost every woman said “doggy-style. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. crazy shit. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything.. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex.

.So if you think that you’re any of these. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . this is what comes out.. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. But fortunately. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. Of course.

Then. or even social status. just not with me. charm. or kissing him. There is no nagging. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. She is sitting on his lap. or was stressed and not in the mood. 18 | P a g e . Sexually attraction far outweighs money. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. but I had to face the truth. had a headache. looking back on it. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. or always trying to hold his hand. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. looks. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. because I couldn’t satisfy her. It was so painful to admit that to myself. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses.

Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). Unlike many men. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. that is the same thing. The more that she initiates sex. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e .Sign #1 . you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. When a woman is initiating sex with you. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. so in this case.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Take note however.

” “I need a hug. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. “Let’s take a nap. They will say things like. Just stay calm.she wants to have sex right now or that night.” “I need a massage. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . chances are that she is initiating sex. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.” If you are hearing things like this. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.” or “Lets watch a movie. and don’t try and skip that step. the sex won’t happen. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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anything. Any skill in life is learned. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help.CAN improve your sexual skills. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. NO ONE IS A NATURAL.” That’s not true. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. you had to learn.” 25 | P a g e . And no matter how good you think you are. learning a language. women need sex — then hey. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. you can still get better. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. you’re not where you need to be. That’s basically “experienced-based learning.” I’d think. programming a computer. but they are not. I used to think. they WILL improve. Any skill that’s worth knowing. No matter how bad you are. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.

and then boom. you will. It is one of my favorites. There is a saying that I love. When you’ve got an issue in your life. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. take care of it. I guarantee it. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. you’ve got to embrace it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. 26 | P a g e . You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods.” So it’s okay to get help. realize you’re going to get it handled. Really think about that. and that you’ll love too. It is possible. Because you’re forced to fix it.

instinctual level.” Or.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. the stuff that you look at. This is everywhere. to be child-bearers. the better off you’ll be. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. I need sex. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. with their picture.” Yeah. women need sex more than men. Their main goal in life is to have children. but she doesn’t like sex. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. but think of women. and you’re. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually." She doesn’t get horny. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. you do. The sooner you realize this. again. real women. These are normal. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. “Hey. So. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. Look at all these women magazines. I’m a guy. Look at YM. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. If you think that you need sex. 27 | P a g e . like. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her.

They have all this sexual desire.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). let’s move on to the next mindset. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. make-up.and other products to look good. They want to look desirable. 28 | P a g e .” Women spend hours. these pants. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird.“That’s trash. but society represses it. and the examples of this are everywhere. buying underwear. “There it is. You ever look at a man’s underwear. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. It’s my underwear. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.

The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e .Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . with proper education. It’s not your fault. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.

E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. 30 | P a g e . It's not just you being in the moment. but feeling. and she's not in the moment at all. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. and she's not thinking about anything. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. To start. Often.A. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. then at the end of this chapter. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. Women are feelers. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much.Chapter 5 The P. it's HER being in the moment. I'll run through all four. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed.. If her eyes are open. This is a bad thing. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1.V. because you want her not thinking anything. "Oh. Don't Think.

and you're no longer good at all.And more specifically. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. or having sex with a woman for the first time. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. and you lose your presence and your authority.. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. 31 | P a g e . You lose every feeling of being in the moment. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. you won't have to worry about that any longer. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong.. It's a big problem. Of course you want her to have a good time. because all of a sudden.. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. or you get soft. Nothing about. or about different aspects of your sexuality. It's game over.

and what's going on. So. and the wind is this variable. in the beginning. while you're learning this stuff. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. anything. 32 | P a g e . But. You want to just be going by instinct. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. It does it out of a primal instinct. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Just going right after it. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Just like anything else. you're thinking about it at the start. Always instinct. when you learn a language. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. He's not thinking. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. There'll be a learning curve. You're just primal." Think of just pure instinct. That is PRESENCE. and I will grab him here.

they would be with one! No. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. but you need to be authoritative. you'll begin to naturally think. By having that mindset of leader.2. You need to show that you're in charge. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. a woman wants a man. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. and the woman is. to be led by the male. If they did. whether it's during sex or during a date. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. It's much more attractive for women. I'm the boss here. That's how it's been since the caveman days. Don’t ask to do doggy style. I'm gonna do what I like." You wanna show that you're in charge. going to follow the lead of the man. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. you've gotta show that you're in charge. So. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. "I'm in charge. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . You should always treat women with respect. more dominant. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction.

This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. Get it? 34 | P a g e . If you're in missionary position. And by all means. and then ramp it up from there. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. Try saying things like. after you've started gently and she is warmed up.. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. but as you see how well she responds to it. Push her down into the bed. Now. pin her arms behind her head. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. slowly take it to the next level. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. That's authoritative. That's very authoritative.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY.. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!).

... powerful man.. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. “These are my lips to kiss”. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. If this excites her. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU.. Start with things like.. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. 35 | P a g e .. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. “You are ALL MINE right now”.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. which is something all women want to hear. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.

what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY." That's one kind of a lover. You're slapping her ass. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. and you have different interactions in these different positions. that Casanova. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. Something like out of a romance novel. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one.A. Then. system is VARIETY. and you say different things. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard.3. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. Different positions definitely help.V. because different positions give her different emotions. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. It's not solely about different positions. or sneaking off somewhere. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. I love you so much.E. If you do different positions. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. I love being inside you. saying "Baby. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. And while physical variety is nice. You're doing her doggie-style. like in public.

positions themselves aren't really that different. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. it's not gonna have that variety. So. Y eah. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position.variety. repeatedly. It's not gonna have emotion. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Try to have various times where you have sex. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. You want to be having sex at different times. Being Spontaneous So. on Friday night. You can fuck her. You can talk dirty. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. You can talk emotionally. but positions aren't as important. 37 | P a g e . But. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. If it's planned. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. if you can. In the missionary position you can make love to her. So. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. that's not very spontaneous. And I just touched upon it. It's gonna seem monotonous.

Do it in the shower. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. and in the morning when you wake up. when you make her feel a variety of're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. If you can't be emotional yourself. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. You want as much spontaneity as possible. she's not going to feel emotion. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. There are lots of different fantasies. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. And again. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. (In a moment. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. be spontaneous. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. So in summary. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. 4. be a different kind of lover. Change the feelings that she has. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. So. and she's going to be madly in love with you. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. Keep things fresh. when you're 38 | P a g e .

make sure that you really mean it. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. You're madly in love. So now. after the initial emotions have dipped. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. you should be pretty emotional. Then that emotion dips over a time." If you're saying “I love you. either inside the bedroom. you need to be emotional. If it's your wife. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning.telling her things. you need to be. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. Your bodies are new. So. The Stronger the Emotions. They’ll get married. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl.” you want to say it with passion. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. The stronger the emotions. or they'll get a girlfriend. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. So. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. And then the sex peters out. there's so much emotion for both of you. if you're not with a girl that you like. even sexually or in any manner. and in the beginning the sex is really good. It's because in the beginning. or outside. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. because you married her. 39 | P a g e .

teasing. If you're teasing a girl. excitement. And the way that you can do that. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. until finally she can't take it anymore. Anticipation creates excitement So. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. Feelings of just being fucked. I just keep kissing. and then kind of push her away. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Different emotions. If you're not talking in bed. and she really wants you inside of you. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. Play hard to get. Emotions are best shown through words. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. all that teasing creates anticipation.And you want to do that in bed. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. and 40 | P a g e . Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. anticipation. Just keep going with the foreplay. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. Feelings of being loved.

"I love you so much. "Oh. you need to start are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. I miss you so much. baby. Romantic talk means things like. otherwise it sounds a little weird. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. Kind of ease it in there. But romantic talk is." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. 41 | P a g e .

E system its unbelievable. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.A. anonymous. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.A. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.V. As usual.V. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. Look for all the elements of P. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.A. Pay close attention when you are reading these.VE. This stuff is so close to the P. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.E. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.

sucking on your bottom lip. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. Wrapping my arms around your neck. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . as I grind my hips against you. revealing a tight.” I whisper in your ear. I lean into your strength and warmth. You pull my suit coat off. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. darling. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. “Not yet. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. You help me remove them. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. and before I can stop you. kissing you softly. “Here are the rules: I touch you. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I step back. I straddle your lap.” My hands trail down your abdomen. and appraise your amazing body. you fill the room with your sexual presence. “Baby.” is all that you can utter. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I set my briefcase on the counter. pulling me against you. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. still in my 4 inch heels. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. satin camisole.physically big.

and is driving you wild.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. where are you?” “I’m here. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I’ve never taken control like this. I pull the camisole off too. but tonight is about control. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. just say yellow. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. “Don’t worry. I can see the skepticism on your face. 44 | P a g e .” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. I grab your left hand. “Baby. baby. and plant a kiss in your palm. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. so I continue with my lesson. and kiss me breathless. it looks like it might explode. “I’ve got something that will help”. Just try to relax. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I’m trying to drink you all in. You hear it hit the floor. “You’re a naughty boy. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. gently at first. then with a bit more strength. You grab me around my waist.” I manage to get out between pants. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. If at any point it gets to be too much. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. My touch is light and tentative. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. The material is cool and smooth against your skin.You swallow hard and nod your head. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs.

A flush has 45 | P a g e . You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. as you fuck me. You grab my wrist and suck harder.hard. but not touching them. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I cry out your name. loudly. The sting of your broken skin excites you. lapping up a drop of precum. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I begin to nibble at your thighs. then the other. You squirm a little and cry out my name. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I inhale deeply near your navel. I am yours now. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. and you moan. they’re so different from mine. causing your abdomen to quiver. I continue my assault. breathing on your balls and shaft. riding you. You slap my ass . I cannot take another second. I run my fingernails down your back. first one cheek. running my tongue along your side. nearing the verge of my climax. and slam into me. down to your pelvic bone. I pinch your nipples. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. My aching pussy has to have you now. You roll me underneath you. as our movements become frantic. I cry out. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth.

causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. It builds and I beg you to finish. but you refuse to let me go. “Roll over. trying to catch my breath. causing me to moan. My breasts are bouncing back and forth.” I feel so wanton. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa.” I take a sharp breath in. yet I’m excited. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. my pussy throbbing with excitement. I shudder my completion. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. “Fuck me…now. I get on all fours for you. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. “Tell me that you want me. but you keep that same pace. almost scream your name. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. The orgasm is different this time. You start to orgasm.” you say roughly. You wrap your arms around me. I have never felt so safe.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You pull back and look in my eyes. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. I whimper again. pulling me against you. bruising my tender skin. I touch my clit as you slam into me. 46 | P a g e . Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. never changing pace or pressure. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. You are so strong. You grab my hips and pound harder. begging you to make me cum. You lap at me slowly.

I close my eyes and drift off too. It is a winding highway someplace rural.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. I feel like a goddess every time we make love.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. I have to pee. “I love you”. Mind numbing. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. You cater to my whims. I thought. Really badly. probably western North Carolina. but not before hearing you say softly.” This is what I fantasize about . I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. 47 | P a g e . what the hell..“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. You can never seem to get enough. can’t think. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do.

number 15. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. come out with your hands in the air. Thank god. Oh my word. At least I hope it is. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. And he is pointing a gun at me. My room. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. And oh shit.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. He is coming after me. This is so weird. Such relief. there are the lights. I must keep driving.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. 48 | P a g e . I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I manage “I’m in here. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police.

He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. The cop can’t help but look at me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. looking at him. Don’t shoot me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. 49 | P a g e . My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. Since he has seen me. he hasn’t said anything to me. He exhales again. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. look at my privates. He is totally hot.“I had to pee. “How about you put that weapon away. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. It is awkward in heated kind of way. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. Higher still.

He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. His 50 | P a g e . I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. I arch my back and press my chest against him. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I have to touch him. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. “Too fast. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter.I try speaking. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. This next transition is a blur. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. grunts and moves in quickly. He spreads my legs with his knee. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips.

As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I know I am beautiful. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I love it. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He looks up with need and reverence. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. He is so strong and I know he is hard. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . My thighs are at his eye level.

“More. I am so wet and hot. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. My orgasm comes fast and hard. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. This gets me so excited for more. I still want to be fucked.) But I am not done with this fantasy.tongue over his lips. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. more. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm.” I moan and then release. Don’t stop. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. It is so perfect. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. 52 | P a g e . I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.

He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper.” he moans. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. My ass is barely on the counter. I feel like a conqueror. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. panting and trying to catch his breathe. He fills me completely. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. This is when we both come together. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm.“Oh Jesus in heaven. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. I relish him being worn out. I feel triumphant.

So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. 54 | P a g e .

here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. not a physical problem. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. but not during sex. the limper you will get. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. your problem is entirely psychological. which basically means the harder you try. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn.

.. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. This breath is 1. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. Clear your mind other than the numbers.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. This exhale is 2. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.2. and trust me when I say. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. (5 cycles of 2).. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. “10-Count Breathing”. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. nothing about life or any topic..  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. 56 | P a g e . Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.

In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. Sounds crazy. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. And trust me. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. then it will help your erections. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. which allows you to relax more and get hard. 3.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. You’ll be glad you did. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay.

You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. squat. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. For further details. yoga is what I recommend . dumbbell press. These include the dead lift. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . you learn to control your breathing as well. and pull-ups.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman.

thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. When you don’t have presence. no erection. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Don’t fight your arousal. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. put it at a number. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. Here’s how: Step 1. Instead. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it.

harder stroking. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . give us a call if you need help with this. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. Step 2.5 and when it turns into number 9. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Again. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.5. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie.5 to number 9.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6.

Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Instead eat her out. Step 4. Step 3. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. See demonstration in the DVD. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. 61 | P a g e . It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. or kiss her body. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down.

She will. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. Physical Stimulation Orgasms.E. full body orgasms.V.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. 62 | P a g e . Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. women are capable of many different types. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Also. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. model. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. exercise. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms.A.

 While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Kiss her neck. side of back. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. inner thighs. mouth.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e .  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts.

Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. repeated cumming etc. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. variety. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. continuous orgasmic state.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. a really sexy. and emotion. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. smart 64 | P a g e . she was from Austria. I was dating this girl Renee. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. authority. I know this sounds ridiculous. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined.

Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.v.a. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. gifts. and panties with my name on them. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. with no physiological hang-ups. Over time with her though.

she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . kisses..

and the sites have TONS of videos. Online porn these days is cheap. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. In short. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good.. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn.. the girls are beautiful. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. so get in as much as you can.

Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. It’s not hiding as much as you think.5 inches hard it does not matter. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. pumps. Even if it does work at all. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Just get naked." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. stamina. 68 | P a g e .Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. or exercises don’t waste your time. Unless your penis is under 2. and maker her come. it will raise your testosterone. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker.

Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Let’s do a quick run through. Remember though. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Remember. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. But if you feel that you really need it. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e .

It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Relax and Enjoy . If you’re thinking of getting one. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. It hurt. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. It’s a waste of your time and money. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. don’t. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e .give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. Dick size is NOT the problem. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons.

Shy. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. Just FUCK her. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. If you want to say something say it. Don’t think about ANYTHING. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Something that you have to work on. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. what position you are in. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. if you want to last 2 minutes. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. not just think about theoretically. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. the evidence is overwhelming. These are psychological principles. Sassy. that’s fine. if you want to do something to do it.. whether she is coming. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques.. 71 | P a g e .Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Classy. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting.50% of the time. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Conservative.

72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover.

but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. boring stuff. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful)..Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know.

Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy.There are numerous types of birth control. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. 74 | P a g e . I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. It works really well — as long as she takes it. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Pre-cum contains sperm. Sperm lead to children. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate.

I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. There chance of pregnancy is too high. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. However. The Ring. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. Again. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. You can experiment with it. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. I would not recommend it. Guys take responsibility. the Shot. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. 75 | P a g e . Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. The Patch.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. unless you have a major aversion to condoms.

He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. but I know people who have had. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. it’s a very effective. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Don’t get it. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. I’ve never had one. If you’re going to do this be sure. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Some STDs are very serious. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. My friend Mike.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties.

You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. Just get tested to be sure. bring it up casually but firmly. you should be fine. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. not guess. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. or condoms ruin sex. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. and still always you to enjoy sex. I’m not going to list every STD here. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Often guys will say something like. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. doesn’t grip you too tight. Despite it being a serious subject.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past.

com. 78 | P a g e . you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. I highly do recommend that Durex Love.condomdepot. Let’s review how to put on a condom. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. You can use Astroglide.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely your head. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. For overall experience. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms.

you 79 | P a g e . Sticking with the classics like. and focus on your breathing. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. If you are having relatively tame sex. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations.Don't Wait." To avoid this. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. Have a few” go-to” moves. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. in 2 or 3 basic positions. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. "baby that feels so good." so again stick to the basics. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. 1.

You don’t have to go crazy.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focus on foreplay. 5. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. 4. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Be able to give her an orgasm. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner.


it’s so much more than that. It’s being a real man. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can 2009. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.IncredibleSexNow.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. ISN Education. living life on your own terms. LLC 82 | P a g e . This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. Bobby Bradshaw www.

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