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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. FOR ONCE. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. divorce.Chapter 1
Welcome To Incredible Sex Now!
I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. was begging to have sex with you??. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. Awful!
. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. Also. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating.
I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. would come crashing to a passionless halt. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. and not know where her lips have been. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. And Why Should You Listen To ME?
Hopefully you've never heard of me. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and
. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. My lowest point though. what car you drive. I'm not a celebrity. or if you take out the trash. she will be yours for life. I’m not even a millionaire. Real-life. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. Women won’t tell you this.
Who Am I. Sizzling Love Life
So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute.The Cheat-proof. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. The first time I had sex I was 22. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. She was blunt. Luckily. I’m not an athlete. no matter how much I liked her. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife.
Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. When I did get back in the game. Now. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I read hundreds of books. I still have my day job as a business consultant.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. what happened was that through my own experimentation. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. EVERY TIME. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything!
. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time.
or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. Most
. and better sexual skills than you. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book.And You CAN Become a Sex God
You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. girlfriend. because as a man. better looks. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. she doesn’t even have the temptation. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT.
“Come to Brazil.. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. so take a deep breath. and he knew this. In fact.. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. had never kissed a girl. He was like. laugh all you want. I was a complete loser. Actually.
. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. turn off your email and phone.Even If You're A Virgin
My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. Please don’t laugh. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. it’s funny.
.. I’m not proud of this.
” anything to distract myself. In the hotel room. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. but what did she know. It felt so good. I was really only a poor college student. calm. “Calm. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I
. I finally made it into the promise land. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.. Math. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. So THIS was it! Haha. Once I was naked. the most I’d ever gone out.. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. I met this girl who barely spoke English. Meanwhile. Please don’t.God. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. Algebra.. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there.. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. Somehow she liked me..” I’m thinking.ARGH! .
. and pushed me off of her. making the girls scream with pleasure. pathetic little boy. said something in Portuguese. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. and feeling like a small. It wasn’t that they were so huge.
. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast.just kept pumping away. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was. It has a happy ending!
I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. but I had no idea what to do about it. And for a long time I was in denial. but it was that they’d last forever. they were going fast and aggressively. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. And they weren’t having sex slowly.. They had complete control of pleasing these women. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.Even If You Have No Clue
This is NOT a sob story though.
I started reading every single book that I could about sex. their first time was at 16. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. That’s what happened my first time. videos. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. 17 years old like a normal guy. I had to learn how to do it. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I had absolutely no control over when I came.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I would kiss her for a while. 16. seminars. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. And the second time I had sex.pal?!” It sounds comical. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. After three years of wild experimentation. I was like. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15.” But for them. So either way. I’d do
. but when you wait longer. and I was at 23. “Yeah. I remember that. So to try and turn my sex life around. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. I couldn’t get hard at all. “What is wrong with you. cumming immediately. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl.
regardless of the girl I ended up with. Most importantly though. Finally. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. So I moved on and started dating other girls. learning where her trigger spots were. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I
. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. “Oh goddd. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them.. 50 minutes — even an hour. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study.all sorts of other stuff.
But something started to happen. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. “Hey..” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. let’s go out for a fancy dinner.Even If You’re “Small”. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. I bought you a necklace. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.
. These girls started to love it.” I’d try and show them how special they were. I had to do
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So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. every time. Sure. something that seemed to work with every girl. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. but they didn’t seem satisfied. I was having sex whenever I wanted. practically tearing my clothes off. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. Or they’d be like “Oh. or Have A Small Bank Account. I need a hug. they’d take the necklace.. Here. It was getting out of hand.was ready to meet the challenge. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. I’d hear “I want to take a nap.
No more not feeling like a man. who have given up and faced rejection. more and more. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. you’re going to have to last. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. she’s not going to treat you well. she’s not going to want to have children with you. If she only knew! More importantly. It’s what we think about all day long. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. How to give women the best sex of their life. It changed who I am. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. “A man is only as faithful as his options. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. Chris Rock once joked. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. You’re here because of sex.something with this power I had developed. and she’s going to be looking for other options. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life?
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. humiliation.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. she will want you more and more. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. And if you can’t give a woman good sex.
just make sure it stays between us. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. You don’t need to have sex with 5. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. really easy for you. problems I used to have. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. last as long as you want. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina.
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. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. These problems you’re having. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You!
What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you.
I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. Women are the same way. so really think carefully. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. We will address that in a moment. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it.Chapter 2
The Six Types of “Loser Lovers”
Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. full-body orgasms. So can you!
1) The "Two-Pump Chump"
The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types.
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. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. So to get started.
If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. They are thinking of “Touch this. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. now touch that.
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. in the bedroom and outside it. they can’t get hard. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard.
3) The “Robot”
The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. the limper you become! But don't worry.2) The “NO Pump Chump”
The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes.
Show her you know what you want. Show her how much you want her. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual
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. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that.4) The “Follower”
Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. They want you to be in charge. at some times the emotional. Obviously. not confident and slightly feminine.
I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was.. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. they’re not based on feelings.. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way.
6) The “Guru"
Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. she’ll be sexually pleased. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. crazy shit. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. almost every woman said “doggy-style.interaction.
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they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.So if you think that you’re any of these. But fortunately.. this is what comes out. so now let's talk about how to do that!
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. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. Of course..
looks. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. because I couldn’t satisfy her. or kissing him. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. just not with me. or always trying to hold his hand. She is sitting on his lap. had a headache. but I had to face the truth. charm. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man.
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. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend.Chapter 3
The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track
When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. It was so painful to admit that to myself. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. or even social status. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. There is no nagging. Then. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. looking back on it. or was stressed and not in the mood. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses.
When a woman is initiating sex with you. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. that is the same thing. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. most women do not have sex just to “have sex.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if
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. The more that she initiates sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Take note however.Sign #1 . Unlike many men.She Can't Leave You Alone
When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. so in this case. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you.
“Let’s take a nap. They will say things like. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a massage.she wants to have sex right now or that night. chances are that she is initiating sex. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. Just stay calm. and don’t try and skip that step. They complain of things like:
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.” or “Lets watch a movie.” “I need a hug. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse!
Sign #2 . Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.” If you are hearing things like this. the sex won’t happen.She Does Leave you Alone
Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time.CAN improve your sexual skills. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed
Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). programming a computer. but they are not.
Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man
It’s ok to get help. Any skill that’s worth knowing. No matter how bad you are. Any skill in life is learned. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. I used to think. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember.”
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. And no matter how good you think you are. That’s basically “experienced-based learning.” I’d think. you had to learn. they WILL improve. women need sex — then hey. you’re not where you need to be. you can still get better. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. learning a language. anything. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.” That’s not true.
When you’ve got an issue in your life. take care of it. I guarantee it.” So it’s okay to get help. It is possible. you will. It is one of my favorites. you’ve got to embrace it.
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. realize you’re going to get it handled.
Really think about that. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. Because you’re forced to fix it. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious
shortcomings. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. There is a saying that I love. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. and then boom. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods.
“The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good”
sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. and that you’ll love too.
The sooner you realize this. with their picture. These are normal. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. Look at all these women magazines. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. but she doesn’t like sex." She doesn’t get horny. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. This is everywhere. “Hey. I’m a guy.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. Look at YM. and you’re. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys.” Or. instinctual level. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. Their main goal in life is to have children. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. women need sex more than men. like.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me
That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. you do. to be child-bearers. again.
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. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. the stuff that you look at. So. If you think that you need sex. I need sex. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. the better off you’ll be.” Yeah. real women. but think of women. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her.
these pants. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. “There it is. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. You ever look at a man’s underwear.
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.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). let’s move on to the next mindset.“That’s trash. They have all this sexual desire. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. make-up. and the examples of this are everywhere. It’s my underwear. buying underwear. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys.and other products to look good. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex?
So now that you know women are sexual creatures. but society represses it. They want to look desirable.” Women spend hours.
Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. It’s not your fault. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.NOW
The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. with proper education. your lover will scream your name in thanks!
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.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled .
you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE
Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed.
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. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. To start.Chapter 5
The P. PRESENCE
The first component is PRESENCE. This is a bad thing. it's HER being in the moment. It's not just you being in the moment. If her eyes are open. because you want her not thinking anything.
Don't Think. I'll run through all four. "Oh. Often.A. and she staring at you or looking around the room like..V. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level!
1. and she's not thinking about anything. but feeling. and she's not in the moment at all. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. Women are feelers. then at the end of this chapter. Just Do!
One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much.
you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. Of course you want her to have a good time. or you get soft. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it!
Not Thinking About Penis or Performance
We're gonna move into the next part of presence. because all of a sudden. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. or about different aspects of your sexuality. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. you won't have to worry about that any longer. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. or having sex with a woman for the first time. It's game over. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions... You lose every feeling of being in the moment.And more specifically. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. and you lose your presence and your authority..
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. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. It's a big problem. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance.. Nothing about. and you're no longer good at all. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong.
The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it." Think of just pure instinct. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. Just like anything else. There'll be a learning curve. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. you're thinking about it at the start. and what's going on. anything. while you're learning this stuff.Using Primal Instincts and Desire
You don’t want to be thinking. He's not thinking.
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. You're just primal. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. Always instinct. and the wind is this variable. when you learn a language. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. You want to just be going by instinct. in the beginning. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. So. But. Just going right after it. and I will grab him here. It does it out of a primal instinct. That is PRESENCE. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction.
they would be with one! No. So. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. but you need to be authoritative. to be led by the male. a woman wants a man." You wanna show that you're in charge. I'm gonna do what I like. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. You need to show that you're in charge. AUTHORITY
The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. You should always treat women with respect. whether it's during sex or during a date. By having that mindset of leader. "I'm in charge. I'm the boss here. you've gotta show that you're in charge. more dominant. you'll begin to naturally think. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. That's how it's been since the caveman days. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive.2. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. Here’s how:
Show her you're in charge by leading. going to follow the lead of the man. Don’t ask to do doggy style. It's much more attractive for women. and the woman is. If they did. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Just pull her into position and get going!
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pin her arms behind her head. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. Try saying things like. Push her down into the bed.-Talk Dirty
The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. If you're in missionary position. And by all means. Now. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). slowly take it to the next level. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. That's authoritative.. and then ramp it up from there. but as you see how well she responds to it. you'll get comfortable REAL fast!
The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her.. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. Get it?
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. That's very authoritative. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty.
The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. “These are my lips to kiss”. “You are ALL MINE right now”.. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this!
The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.... If this excites her... powerful man. Start with things like. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. which is something all women want to hear. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.
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and you have different interactions in these different positions. system is VARIETY.A. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY." That's one kind of a lover.E. Something like out of a romance novel. VARIETY
The 3rd part of the P. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. and you say different things. I love you so much. Different positions definitely help. it's definitely gonna add
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. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. It's not solely about different positions. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. because different positions give her different emotions. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. or sneaking off somewhere. that Casanova. Then.3. saying "Baby. like in public. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. You're doing her doggie-style. I love being inside you.V. If you do different positions. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. And while physical variety is nice. You're slapping her ass. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be.
that's not very spontaneous. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. If it's planned. it's not gonna have that variety. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. It's gonna seem monotonous. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position.
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. You can fuck her. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. But. You can talk emotionally. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. So. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. positions themselves aren't really that different. And I just touched upon it. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. repeatedly. In the missionary position you can make love to her. on Friday night. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. but positions aren't as important. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety.
So. You want to be having sex at different times. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex.variety. Y eah. So. It's not gonna have emotion. You can talk dirty. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Try to have various times where you have sex. if you can.
(In a moment. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. and in the morning when you wake up. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. when you're
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. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. Keep things fresh. There are lots of different fantasies. be spontaneous. be a different kind of lover. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. So in summary. EMOTION
The 4th trait is EMOTION. she's not going to feel emotion. Do it in the shower. If you can't be emotional yourself. Change the feelings that she has.
A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. when you make her feel a variety of emotions.
4. So.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. You want as much spontaneity as possible. And again. and she's going to be madly in love with you. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms.
The stronger the emotions. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. So. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. Then that emotion dips over a time. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. So now.
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. you should be pretty emotional.
Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions
EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions.
The Stronger the Emotions. It's because in the beginning. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. the Better
Women are attracted to strong emotions. So. even sexually or in any manner. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. because you married her. there's so much emotion for both of you. If it's your wife. if you're not with a girl that you like. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. Your bodies are new. you need to be. you need to be emotional. and in the beginning the sex is really good. And then the sex peters out." If you're saying “I love you. or outside. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. or they'll get a girlfriend. after the initial emotions have dipped. either inside the bedroom. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys.telling her things. They’ll get married. You're madly in love. make sure that you really mean it. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions.” you want to say it with passion.
keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. If you're teasing a girl. and then kind of push her away. and she really wants you inside of you. Feelings of being loved. all that teasing creates anticipation. I just keep kissing. Anticipation creates excitement So. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Feelings of just being fucked. And the way that you can do that. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her.
Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom
Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. anticipation. Emotions are best shown through words. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily
TEASING is a great way to create emotion.And you want to do that in bed. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Just keep going with the foreplay.
excitement. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Different emotions. and
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. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation.
You Must Be Verbal in Bed
Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. teasing. until finally she can't take it anymore. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. If you're not talking in bed. Play hard to get.
you need to start now. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. Romantic talk means things like. "I love you so much." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby.
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. otherwise it sounds a little weird. I miss you so much.here are some ways you can do that:
Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her
Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. Kind of ease it in there. But romantic talk is. "Oh. baby.
I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.A. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. Even though you are not
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. As usual. anonymous. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk!
Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now!
I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.VE. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.A.Chapter 6
Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women!
To show you just how powerful this stuff is. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.A.E.V. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. Look for all the elements of P. Pay close attention when you are reading these. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.V. This stuff is so close to the P.E system its unbelievable. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.
” I whisper in your ear. I step back. darling.physically big. “Baby. You pull my suit coat off. and appraise your amazing body. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. I set my briefcase on the counter. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. pulling me against you.” is all that you can utter. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. and before I can stop you. still in my 4 inch heels. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. as I grind my hips against you.” My hands trail down your abdomen. You help me remove them. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. kissing you softly. Wrapping my arms around your neck. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. Got it?”
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. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I straddle your lap. “Not yet. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. revealing a tight. you fill the room with your sexual presence. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. “Here are the rules: I touch you. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. satin camisole. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. sucking on your bottom lip. I lean into your strength and warmth.
it looks like it might explode. baby. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.
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.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I’m trying to drink you all in. just say yellow.You swallow hard and nod your head. but tonight is about control. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. You grab me around my waist. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I’ve never taken control like this. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I pull the camisole off too. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. so I continue with my lesson. then with a bit more strength.” I manage to get out between pants. where are you?” “I’m here. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. If at any point it gets to be too much. and plant a kiss in your palm. My touch is light and tentative. I can see the skepticism on your face. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. and kiss me breathless. and is driving you wild. I can’t get enough of your different textures. “Don’t worry. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. Just try to relax. You hear it hit the floor. “I’ve got something that will help”. “Baby. gently at first. “You’re a naughty boy. I grab your left hand.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt.
My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. and slam into me. I run my fingernails down your back. down to your pelvic bone. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I cry out. I inhale deeply near your navel. riding you.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. You grab my wrist and suck harder. lapping up a drop of precum.hard. but not touching them. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I am yours now. I begin to nibble at your thighs. A flush has
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. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. and you moan. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. My aching pussy has to have you now. I continue my assault. You slap my ass . nearing the verge of my climax. first one cheek. I cry out your name. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. as you fuck me. then the other. You roll me underneath you. The sting of your broken skin excites you. as our movements become frantic. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. causing your abdomen to quiver. breathing on your balls and shaft. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. they’re so different from mine. loudly. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. running my tongue along your side. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I cannot take another second. I pinch your nipples.
You lap at me slowly. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. You pull back and look in my eyes. I get on all fours for you. You start to orgasm. I have never felt so safe. yet I’m excited. never changing pace or pressure. “Roll over. I touch my clit as you slam into me.” I feel so wanton. almost scream your name.” I take a sharp breath in. You are so strong. begging you to make me cum. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. but you refuse to let me go. I shudder my completion.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. I whimper again. The orgasm is different this time. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. You wrap your arms around me. causing me to moan. bruising my tender skin. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa.
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. I can feel my juices running down my legs.” you say roughly. It builds and I beg you to finish. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. pulling me against you. You grab my hips and pound harder. but you keep that same pace. my pussy throbbing with excitement. “Fuck me…now. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. trying to catch my breath. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. “Tell me that you want me. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge.
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. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. can’t think. I have to pee. I close my eyes and drift off too.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. It is a winding highway someplace rural. You can never seem to get enough. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I feel like a goddess every time we make love.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. but not before hearing you say softly. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. probably western North Carolina. “I love you”. Mind numbing.. what the hell. Really badly. I thought. You cater to my whims. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy.
From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do.
Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way.” This is what I fantasize about .” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer..
As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. Such relief.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. there are the lights.
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. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. number 15. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I must keep driving.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. This is so weird. My room. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. And oh shit. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. come out with your hands in the air. He is coming after me. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. Thank god. And he is pointing a gun at me.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. Oh my word. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I manage “I’m in here. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. At least I hope it is.
He is totally hot. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look.
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. look at my privates. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals.“I had to pee. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. It is awkward in heated kind of way. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. Since he has seen me. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. Higher still. he hasn’t said anything to me. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. Don’t shoot me. looking at him. He exhales again. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. “How about you put that weapon away. The cop can’t help but look at me. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders.
Brushing his cheek against my chest. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. “Too fast. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep.I try speaking. I have to touch him. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. His
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. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. This next transition is a blur. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I arch my back and press my chest against him. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. grunts and moves in quickly. He spreads my legs with his knee.
My thighs are at his eye level. He looks up with need and reverence. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I love it. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I know I am beautiful. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his
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.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones.
” I moan and then release. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I still want to be fucked. I am so wet and hot. My orgasm comes fast and hard. more. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. Don’t stop. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck.
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. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing.tongue over his lips. It is so perfect. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. This gets me so excited for more. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. “More.
I relish him being worn out.” he moans. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. My ass is barely on the counter. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper.“Oh Jesus in heaven. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I feel triumphant. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think!
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. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. This is when we both come together. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I feel like a conqueror. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. He fills me completely. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff.
let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. and what to do about them.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure.
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not a physical problem.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. your problem is entirely psychological. Here is what to do instead:
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. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman:
1. which basically means the harder you try. the limper you will get. but not during sex.
How To Get HARD (Without Pills)
When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard
If you are trying to hard. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.Chapter 7
Common Problems And How To Fix Them!
No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor.
Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed... Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are
I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing.2. nothing about life or any topic. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. and trust me when I say. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. Clear your mind other than the numbers. This breath is 1. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called.
Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. (5 cycles of 2). In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. This exhale is 2.
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. “10-Count Breathing”... this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it.
no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections!
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Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. You’ll be glad you did. More foreplay
Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. Sounds crazy.
3. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. then it will help your erections. which allows you to relax more and get hard. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. And trust me.
Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. For further details. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. These include the dead lift. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. dumbbell press. yoga is what I recommend
. squat. you learn to control your breathing as well.
How To Last Longer
If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now!
I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all.Here
-Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming!
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. and pull-ups.
masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come.
Don’t fight your arousal. Here’s how:
Step 1. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. The scale should be roughly like this:
Not aroused at all. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. no erection. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. Instead. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. put it at a number. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. When you don’t have presence. inevitable climax
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Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie.. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. When you are increasing
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. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come.5 and when it turns into number 9. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6.
Step 2.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).
Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. give us a call if you need help with this.5. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. harder stroking. Again. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.5 to number 9.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.
its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob.
Step 3. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem.
Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it.
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. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. or kiss her body. See demonstration in the DVD.
Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Instead eat her out. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come.
How To Give Her An Orgasm
A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.A.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. women are capable of many different types. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. Also.
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. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.V. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. full body orgasms. She will. exercise. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple.E.
While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. side of back. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. inner thighs. mouth. Feel her get off!
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. Kiss her neck.
When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. a really sexy. continuous orgasmic state. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be.Vaginal Orgasms
Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. variety. she was from Austria. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. repeated cumming etc. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. authority. (using the PAVE system)
This is a term that I have coined. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. I was dating this girl Renee. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. smart
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. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. I know this sounds ridiculous. and emotion. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence.
with no physiological hang-ups.
Giving Women Orgasms Ladder
Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. and panties with my name on them. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.v. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm
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.accountant.a. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. Over time with her though. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. gifts.
you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!
Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement
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. kisses..How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex!
First of all. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !)
What To Do If You’re Inexperienced
First off. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. Here are some tips to follow:
Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts.
but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. In short. and the sites have TONS of videos. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. the girls are beautiful. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men!
A Warning About Pornography
A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. and when you are with a woman you will be ready!
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. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Online porn these days is cheap. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. so get in as much as you can...
Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. stamina." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you!
She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours!
Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. and maker her come. Just get naked. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. it will raise your testosterone.Chapter 8
Does Size REALLY Matter?
"My penis is too small.5 inches hard it does not matter. Even if it does work at all. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted.
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. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. pumps. Unless your penis is under 2. or exercises don’t waste your time.
But if you feel that you really need it. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Let’s do a quick run through. Remember. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical!
About Pills. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Remember though. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Supplements and Penis Pumps
I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts.
Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t
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. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better.
What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. It hurt. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Dick size is NOT the problem.It isn't all Hard Work!
Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than
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. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. If you’re thinking of getting one. don’t. It’s a waste of your time and money. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed.
Relax and Enjoy . The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head.
It May Just Be in Your Head
Look. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore.
not just think about theoretically. These are psychological principles. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. if you want to last 2 minutes.. if you want to do something to do it.
Classy. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Something that you have to work on. Shy.
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. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. what position you are in. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Just FUCK her. Conservative. the evidence is overwhelming. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. Be a total primal instinct driven animal.Works for Every Woman!
Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. If you want to say something say it. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. that’s fine. whether she is coming. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Sassy. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex.50% of the time..
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.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.
but I want to make sure you are SAFE.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent.. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend.Chapter 9
Getting Started is Easy
I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. Sex will occur!
The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs
I know I know. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. boring stuff. Ignore at your peril!
Types of birth control
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. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).
It works really well — as long as she takes it. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Sperm lead to children. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution.
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. Pre-cum contains sperm. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge).) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy.There are numerous types of birth control. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time.
You can experiment with it. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would.
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. Again. The Ring. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. However. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. the Shot. The Patch. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. There chance of pregnancy is too high. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. I would not recommend it. Guys take responsibility.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. unless you have a major aversion to condoms.
If a condom does break with
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. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. If you’re going to do this be sure. I’ve never had one. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Some STDs are very serious. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. it’s a very effective. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. but I know people who have had. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. My friend Mike.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Don’t get it. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child.
and still always you to enjoy sex. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. you should be fine. not guess. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.
STDs other than HIV:
There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Despite it being a serious subject.
What Kind of Condoms Are Best:
The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. or condoms ruin sex. doesn’t grip you too tight. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. It’s all
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.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. bring it up casually but firmly. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. I’m not going to list every STD here. Often guys will say something like. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. Just get tested to be sure. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes.
They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.condomdepot. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love.)
When The Condom Breaks:
If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.
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. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.com. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms.in your head. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. For overall experience. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. Let’s review how to put on a condom.
(Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. You can use Astroglide.
and focus on your breathing." so again stick to the basics. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). You’ll be amazed at how well it works!
2. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. If you are having relatively tame sex. you
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. Sticking with the classics like. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. Be able to last at least 10 minutes.Don't Wait." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect.
If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration.
Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP!
What good is this system if you never implement it?
Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Let’s go through and talk about where to start." To avoid this. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent.
1. in 2 or 3 basic positions. Have a few” go-to” moves. "baby that feels so good. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system.
Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay.
5. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority.
As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent
If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Focus on foreplay. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Be able to give her an orgasm. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner.
Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her.
4. You don’t have to go crazy. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex!
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Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done!
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2009. it’s so much more than that.After-thoughts:
I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. It’s being a real man. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. ISN Education. LLC
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