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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. divorce. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. FOR ONCE. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Also. Awful! 1|Page . was begging to have sex with you??. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex.
Who Am I. I’m not an athlete.The Cheat-proof. I'm not a celebrity. what car you drive. Real-life. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. Women won’t tell you this. Luckily. The first time I had sex I was 22. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. no matter how much I liked her. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. My lowest point though. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. would come crashing to a passionless halt. I’m not even a millionaire. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. and not know where her lips have been. or if you take out the trash. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. she will be yours for life. She was blunt.
Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. When I did get back in the game. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I read hundreds of books. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!).couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. EVERY TIME. what happened was that through my own experimentation. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Now. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things.
girlfriend. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. because as a man. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. she doesn’t even have the temptation. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. Most 4|Page . better looks. and better sexual skills than you.
anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. and he knew this. He was like. “Come to Brazil.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. laugh all you want. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.. so take a deep breath. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. 5|Page . I’m not proud of this. turn off your email and phone. .. had never kissed a girl.. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. it’s funny. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. I was a complete loser. In fact. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. Please don’t laugh. Actually. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.
I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. In the hotel room. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet.. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.” I’m thinking. calm.. So THIS was it! Haha.. Somehow she liked me. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I met this girl who barely spoke English. “Calm. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page .Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. Please don’t. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. Math. Algebra. Meanwhile. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I finally made it into the promise land. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex..God. Once I was naked.” anything to distract myself..ARGH! . It felt so good. I was really only a poor college student. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. the most I’d ever gone out. but what did she know.
. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. And for a long time I was in denial. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. They had complete control of pleasing these women. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. I just want you to know how bad I was. but I had no idea what to do about it.. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. they were going fast and aggressively.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though.just kept pumping away. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. making the girls scream with pleasure. and pushed me off of her. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing.. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. And they weren’t having sex slowly. and feeling like a small. but it was that they’d last forever. 7|Page . It wasn’t that they were so huge. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. said something in Portuguese. pathetic little boy. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on.
The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. “Yeah. seminars. 16. I’d do 8|Page . videos. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I had to learn how to do it. their first time was at 16. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right.pal?!” It sounds comical. So either way. So to try and turn my sex life around. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. “What is wrong with you. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I couldn’t get hard at all. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I was like. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. I had absolutely no control over when I came. and I was at 23. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. 17 years old like a normal guy. After three years of wild experimentation. That’s what happened my first time. I would kiss her for a while. I remember that. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. And the second time I had sex. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. cumming immediately. but when you wait longer.” But for them.
We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. “Oh goddd. learning where her trigger spots were. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. So I moved on and started dating other girls. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. Finally. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. 50 minutes — even an hour. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan.. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. Most importantly though. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. regardless of the girl I ended up with. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page .all sorts of other stuff.
getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. But something started to happen. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. they’d take the necklace. but they didn’t seem satisfied.. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. These girls started to love it. Or they’d be like “Oh. practically tearing my clothes off. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me.. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. It was getting out of hand.was ready to meet the challenge. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. something that seemed to work with every girl.” I’d try and show them how special they were. I was having sex whenever I wanted. “Hey. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears.Even If You’re “Small”. Sure. or Have A Small Bank Account. every time. . They wouldn’t be interested in dinner.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I had to do 10 | P a g e . Here. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I need a hug. I bought you a necklace.
I don’t want guys feeling this pain. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . Chris Rock once joked. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. It changed who I am. It’s what we think about all day long. she will want you more and more. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. How to give women the best sex of their life. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. she’s not going to want to have children with you. “A man is only as faithful as his options. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. and she’s going to be looking for other options. humiliation. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. more and more. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. she’s not going to treat you well. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. You’re here because of sex. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. you’re going to have to last.something with this power I had developed. No more not feeling like a man. who have given up and faced rejection. If she only knew! More importantly. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women.
10 or 50 girls to be experienced. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. 12 | P a g e . to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. problems I used to have. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. just make sure it stays between us. You don’t need to have sex with 5.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. really easy for you. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. These problems you’re having. last as long as you want. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover.
You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. so really think carefully. We will address that in a moment. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. 13 | P a g e . so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. Women are the same way. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. So to get started. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. full-body orgasms.
And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. in the bedroom and outside it. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. they can’t get hard. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. 14 | P a g e . They are thinking of “Touch this. the limper you become! But don't worry. now touch that.
Show her how much you want her. at some times the emotional.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. not confident and slightly feminine. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. Obviously. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. They want you to be in charge. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. Show her you know what you want.
So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.interaction. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. crazy shit. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. 16 | P a g e . and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. they’re not based on feelings.. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. almost every woman said “doggy-style.. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. she’ll be sexually pleased. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.
. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.. this is what comes out. But fortunately. Of course.So if you think that you’re any of these. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.
Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. because I couldn’t satisfy her. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. or even social status.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. looks. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. charm. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. looking back on it. She is sitting on his lap. just not with me. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. Then. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. 18 | P a g e . no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. had a headache. or kissing him. or always trying to hold his hand. or was stressed and not in the mood. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. but I had to face the truth. It was so painful to admit that to myself. There is no nagging.
so in this case. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Take note however.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you.Sign #1 . that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. Unlike many men. The more that she initiates sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . that is the same thing. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.
” “I need a massage. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.” “I need a hug. the sex won’t happen.she wants to have sex right now or that night. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.” or “Lets watch a movie. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . “Let’s take a nap. Just stay calm. and don’t try and skip that step. chances are that she is initiating sex. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. They will say things like. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” If you are hearing things like this.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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“I’m not a cool guy because I got help. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar.” That’s not true. you can still get better. anything. Any skill in life is learned.” 25 | P a g e . but they are not. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. you’re not where you need to be. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. programming a computer. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser.” I’d think. women need sex — then hey. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. I used to think. No matter how bad you are. Any skill that’s worth knowing. learning a language. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).CAN improve your sexual skills. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. you had to learn. they WILL improve. And no matter how good you think you are.
Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. When you’ve got an issue in your life. Really think about that. It is possible. and that you’ll love too. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with.” So it’s okay to get help. There is a saying that I love. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. you’ve got to embrace it. It is one of my favorites. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. and then boom. I guarantee it. Because you’re forced to fix it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. you will. realize you’re going to get it handled. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. take care of it. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. 26 | P a g e .
27 | P a g e . and you’re. The sooner you realize this. These are normal. women need sex more than men. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. instinctual level. with their picture. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. but think of women. If you think that you need sex. like. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal.” Or. the stuff that you look at. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. Their main goal in life is to have children.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. This is everywhere. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. I need sex. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. to be child-bearers. again.” Yeah. “Hey. real women. but she doesn’t like sex. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. Look at YM. Look at all these women magazines. So. I’m a guy. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. you do. the better off you’ll be. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter." She doesn’t get horny.
They want to look desirable. and the examples of this are everywhere. 28 | P a g e . Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. and hopefully you’ve internalized this.” Women spend hours.and other products to look good. buying underwear. make-up. let’s move on to the next mindset.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). these pants. “There it is. You ever look at a man’s underwear. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. They have all this sexual desire. It’s my underwear. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird.“That’s trash. but society represses it.
It’s not your fault.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. with proper education. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.
Often. then at the end of this chapter. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. but feeling. Women are feelers. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything.. I'll run through all four.Chapter 5 The P.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. To start. Don't Think. and she's not in the moment at all.A. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. If her eyes are open. and she's not thinking about anything. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. it's HER being in the moment. "Oh. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. 30 | P a g e . we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. because you want her not thinking anything. This is a bad thing. It's not just you being in the moment. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.
or you get soft. 31 | P a g e . you won't have to worry about that any longer. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. Of course you want her to have a good time. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. or having sex with a woman for the first time. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. It's game over. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum.. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. Nothing about.. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. and you're no longer good at all. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. and you lose your presence and your authority. or about different aspects of your sexuality. because all of a sudden.And more specifically. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions.. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. It's a big problem.
Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. You want to just be going by instinct. you're thinking about it at the start. when you learn a language. while you're learning this stuff. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. in the beginning. But. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. anything. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. 32 | P a g e . That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Just going right after it. That is PRESENCE. Just like anything else." Think of just pure instinct. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. It does it out of a primal instinct. You're just primal. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. Always instinct. and what's going on. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. and I will grab him here. So. He's not thinking. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. and the wind is this variable. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. There'll be a learning curve.
a woman wants a man. It's much more attractive for women. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . I'm the boss here. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. you'll begin to naturally think. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. more dominant. whether it's during sex or during a date. and the woman is. they would be with one! No.2. to be led by the male. So." You wanna show that you're in charge. By having that mindset of leader. you've gotta show that you're in charge. That's how it's been since the caveman days. but you need to be authoritative. I'm gonna do what I like. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. If they did. going to follow the lead of the man. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. You should always treat women with respect. You need to show that you're in charge. "I'm in charge. Don’t ask to do doggy style.
give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper.. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. Get it? 34 | P a g e . Now. slowly take it to the next level. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. That's very authoritative. but as you see how well she responds to it. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. And by all means. That's authoritative. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. Push her down into the bed.. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. If you're in missionary position. Try saying things like. pin her arms behind her head. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. and then ramp it up from there.
... “These are my lips to kiss”.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. Start with things like.. “You are ALL MINE right now”. 35 | P a g e . If this excites her.. powerful man. “Your ass is mine right now” etc.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. which is something all women want to hear. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.
I love you so much. that Casanova. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. And while physical variety is nice. If you do different positions. It's not solely about different positions. system is VARIETY. You're slapping her ass. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy.A. like in public. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.3. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. Something like out of a romance novel." That's one kind of a lover. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. or sneaking off somewhere. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. Then. saying "Baby. You're doing her doggie-style. and you say different things. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. I love being inside you. Different positions definitely help.E. because different positions give her different emotions. and you have different interactions in these different positions.V. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one.
positions themselves aren't really that different. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. repeatedly. if you can. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has.variety. You want to be having sex at different times. And I just touched upon it. but positions aren't as important. But. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Try to have various times where you have sex. Being Spontaneous So. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. You can fuck her. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. You can talk emotionally. So. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Y eah. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. it's not gonna have that variety. that's not very spontaneous. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. You can talk dirty. on Friday night. So. If it's planned. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. It's not gonna have emotion. It's gonna seem monotonous. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. 37 | P a g e .
or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. she's not going to feel emotion. be spontaneous. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. Do it in the shower. And again. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. be a different kind of lover. when you're 38 | P a g e . So. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. and in the morning when you wake up. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. You want as much spontaneity as possible. Change the feelings that she has. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. (In a moment. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. So in summary. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. Keep things fresh. and she's going to be madly in love with you. If you can't be emotional yourself. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. There are lots of different fantasies. 4. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring.
The Stronger the Emotions. You're madly in love. It's because in the beginning. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. make sure that you really mean it. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. 39 | P a g e . Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. either inside the bedroom. you need to be. if you're not with a girl that you like. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. you need to be emotional. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. If it's your wife. So. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Your bodies are new. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you.telling her things. So. And then the sex peters out. because you married her. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. even sexually or in any manner. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. you should be pretty emotional. The stronger the emotions. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. or they'll get a girlfriend. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. Then that emotion dips over a time." If you're saying “I love you. So now.” you want to say it with passion. They’ll get married. there's so much emotion for both of you. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. after the initial emotions have dipped. or outside. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. and in the beginning the sex is really good. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions.
and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. and 40 | P a g e . keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. teasing. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. Just keep going with the foreplay. I just keep kissing. Emotions are best shown through words. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion.And you want to do that in bed. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. and she really wants you inside of you. Play hard to get. If you're not talking in bed. anticipation. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Different emotions. Feelings of being loved. and then kind of push her away. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Feelings of just being fucked. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. until finally she can't take it anymore. And the way that you can do that. If you're teasing a girl. all that teasing creates anticipation. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. excitement. Anticipation creates excitement So.
You need to add in a lot of romantic talk." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. Kind of ease it in there. I miss you so much. Romantic talk means things like. baby. "Oh. But romantic talk is. "I love you so much. 41 | P a g e . otherwise it sounds a little weird.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. you need to start now.
anonymous.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .E system its unbelievable. Look for all the elements of P.VE.V.A.V.A. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.A. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. As usual. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. This stuff is so close to the P.E. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. Pay close attention when you are reading these. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.
and before I can stop you.physically big. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. kissing you softly. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. Wrapping my arms around your neck.” is all that you can utter. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. still in my 4 inch heels. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. “Not yet. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. and appraise your amazing body. darling. You pull my suit coat off. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. I straddle your lap.” I whisper in your ear. You help me remove them. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. I set my briefcase on the counter. I lean into your strength and warmth. pulling me against you. as I grind my hips against you.” My hands trail down your abdomen. sucking on your bottom lip. “Here are the rules: I touch you. “Baby. I step back. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. you fill the room with your sexual presence. satin camisole. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. revealing a tight. Just lie back and let me pleasure you.
just say yellow. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. and is driving you wild. I’ve never taken control like this. I pull the camisole off too. “Baby. it looks like it might explode. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. where are you?” “I’m here.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. “Don’t worry. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. “You’re a naughty boy. I grab your left hand. baby. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. If at any point it gets to be too much. I can see the skepticism on your face. 44 | P a g e . and plant a kiss in your palm. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms.” I manage to get out between pants. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. but tonight is about control.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. You hear it hit the floor. gently at first. Just try to relax. then with a bit more strength. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. My touch is light and tentative. You grab me around my waist. I’m trying to drink you all in.You swallow hard and nod your head. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. and kiss me breathless. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. “I’ve got something that will help”. so I continue with my lesson.
I inhale deeply near your navel. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. You roll me underneath you. as you fuck me. riding you. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I run my fingernails down your back. I continue my assault. loudly.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. You grab my wrist and suck harder. and you moan. they’re so different from mine. nearing the verge of my climax. The sting of your broken skin excites you. then the other. My aching pussy has to have you now. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I pinch your nipples. lapping up a drop of precum. causing your abdomen to quiver. I am yours now. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. breathing on your balls and shaft. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I cannot take another second. I cry out your name. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. but not touching them. as our movements become frantic. I cry out. down to your pelvic bone. You slap my ass . I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.hard. first one cheek. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. and slam into me. You squirm a little and cry out my name. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. running my tongue along your side. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices.
You lap at me slowly. bruising my tender skin. yet I’m excited. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. pulling me against you. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You wrap your arms around me. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. The orgasm is different this time. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. I have never felt so safe. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted.” I take a sharp breath in. begging you to make me cum. It builds and I beg you to finish. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. “Fuck me…now. I shudder my completion. almost scream your name. but you keep that same pace. You are so strong. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. You grab my hips and pound harder. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. “Roll over. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. never changing pace or pressure. trying to catch my breath. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You pull back and look in my eyes. but you refuse to let me go. causing me to moan. I get on all fours for you. I whimper again.” you say roughly. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. I touch my clit as you slam into me. You start to orgasm.” I feel so wanton. my pussy throbbing with excitement.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. “Tell me that you want me. 46 | P a g e .
There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. You cater to my whims. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. 47 | P a g e . I close my eyes and drift off too.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. You can never seem to get enough. probably western North Carolina.” This is what I fantasize about . Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I thought. Mind numbing...” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. It is a winding highway someplace rural. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. what the hell. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. but not before hearing you say softly. “I love you”. I have to pee. Really badly. can’t think.
I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. number 15. I must keep driving. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. And oh shit. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. there are the lights. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. Such relief. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. Oh my word. Thank god. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. 48 | P a g e . He is coming after me.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. My room. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. And he is pointing a gun at me. come out with your hands in the air. This is so weird. At least I hope it is. I manage “I’m in here. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me.
Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. looking at him. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. “How about you put that weapon away. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. he hasn’t said anything to me. It is awkward in heated kind of way. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. Don’t shoot me. look at my privates.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. He exhales again. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip.“I had to pee. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. He is totally hot. 49 | P a g e . The cop can’t help but look at me. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. Since he has seen me. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. Higher still. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile.
He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. “Too fast. grunts and moves in quickly. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt.I try speaking. Brushing his cheek against my chest. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I arch my back and press my chest against him. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. I have to touch him. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. This next transition is a blur. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He spreads my legs with his knee. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. His 50 | P a g e . I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter.
He looks up with need and reverence. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I know I am beautiful. My thighs are at his eye level. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I love it. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up.
tongue over his lips. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble.) But I am not done with this fantasy. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. more. “More. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. This gets me so excited for more. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. Don’t stop. My orgasm comes fast and hard. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. It is so perfect.” I moan and then release. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I am so wet and hot. I still want to be fucked. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. 52 | P a g e .
He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. He fills me completely. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. I feel triumphant. This is when we both come together.” he moans. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I relish him being worn out. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I feel like a conqueror. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. My ass is barely on the counter. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper.
and what to do about them. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. 54 | P a g e .
your problem is entirely psychological.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. but not during sex. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. which basically means the harder you try. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. the limper you will get. not a physical problem.
10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.2... This exhale is 2. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it.. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. nothing about life or any topic. This breath is 1. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. 56 | P a g e . and trust me when I say. Clear your mind other than the numbers. (5 cycles of 2).. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. “10-Count Breathing”. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10.
then it will help your erections. which allows you to relax more and get hard. You’ll be glad you did. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. 3. And trust me. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. Sounds crazy. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down.
It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. yoga is what I recommend . For further details. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. you learn to control your breathing as well. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. and pull-ups. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. dumbbell press. These include the dead lift. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . squat. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.
masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. no erection. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. put it at a number. Here’s how: Step 1. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. When you don’t have presence. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. Instead. Don’t fight your arousal. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early.
When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5.. Step 2.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play.5 to number 9. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. Again. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. give us a call if you need help with this. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. harder stroking. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6.
or kiss her body. Instead eat her out. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Step 4. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. 61 | P a g e . Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Step 3. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. See demonstration in the DVD. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob.
A. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. exercise. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.E. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. women are capable of many different types. Also. 62 | P a g e .If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. full body orgasms. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.V. model. She will. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.
mouth. Kiss her neck. side of back. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . inner thighs. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning.
Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. continuous orgasmic state. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. a really sexy. I know this sounds ridiculous. I was dating this girl Renee. smart 64 | P a g e . repeated cumming etc. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. she was from Austria. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. variety. and emotion.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. authority. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came.
Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. gifts. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p.a.accountant.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . and panties with my name on them. with no physiological hang-ups. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. Over time with her though. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.v.
she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you.. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. kisses. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually.. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.
and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. so get in as much as you can. and the sites have TONS of videos. Online porn these days is cheap.. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. the girls are beautiful. In short. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex.. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn.
5 inches hard it does not matter. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. or exercises don’t waste your time. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. pumps. it will raise your testosterone. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Unless your penis is under 2. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. and maker her come. stamina.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Just get naked. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Even if it does work at all." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. 68 | P a g e . If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious.
But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. But if you feel that you really need it. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Let’s do a quick run through. Remember. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Remember though. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more.
Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. If you’re thinking of getting one.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Relax and Enjoy . Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. It hurt. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. don’t. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. It’s a waste of your time and money. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. Dick size is NOT the problem. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it.
These are psychological principles. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. if you want to last 2 minutes. Classy. if you want to do something to do it. Something that you have to work on. whether she is coming. Sassy. Conservative. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. 71 | P a g e .Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. that’s fine. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques.. not just think about theoretically. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Shy. Just FUCK her.. what position you are in. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. the evidence is overwhelming. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. If you want to say something say it. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you.50% of the time. Be a total primal instinct driven animal.
but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e .
Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). but I want to make sure you are SAFE..Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. boring stuff. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her.
As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. Sperm lead to children.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It works really well — as long as she takes it.There are numerous types of birth control. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). 74 | P a g e . Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. Pre-cum contains sperm. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options.
Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. However. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. The Ring. There chance of pregnancy is too high. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. The Patch. Since these have to be replaced infrequently.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. Guys take responsibility. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. the Shot. Again. 75 | P a g e . However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. You can experiment with it. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. I would not recommend it. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm.
comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. Some STDs are very serious. If you’re going to do this be sure. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. but I know people who have had. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Don’t get it.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. My friend Mike. I’ve never had one. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. it’s a very effective. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine.
“I can’t get hard with a condom on. Despite it being a serious subject. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. or condoms ruin sex. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. Always ask a woman about her sexual history.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. I’m not going to list every STD here. doesn’t grip you too tight. Often guys will say something like. you should be fine. Just get tested to be sure. and still always you to enjoy sex. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. bring it up casually but firmly. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. not guess. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. It’s all 77 | P a g e .
(Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Let’s review how to put on a condom. You can use Astroglide. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms.com. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.in your head.condomdepot. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. 78 | P a g e . For overall experience. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.
Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. you 79 | P a g e . but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. "baby that feels so good. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). in 2 or 3 basic positions. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. 1. If you are having relatively tame sex. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. Sticking with the classics like. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. and focus on your breathing. Have a few” go-to” moves.Don't Wait." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations." so again stick to the basics." To avoid this.
If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Focus on foreplay. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Be able to give her an orgasm. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. 4. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You don’t have to go crazy. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. 5. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .
After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom.IncredibleSexNow. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. it’s so much more than that. LLC 82 | P a g e . Bobby Bradshaw www. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. ISN Education.com 2009. living life on your own terms. It’s being a real man. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get.
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