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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. Awful! 1|Page . This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. divorce. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. FOR ONCE. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. Also. was begging to have sex with you??. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics.
I’m not even a millionaire. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. Real-life. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. I'm not a celebrity. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. and not know where her lips have been. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. would come crashing to a passionless halt. Women won’t tell you this. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. I’m not an athlete. Luckily. The first time I had sex I was 22. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. no matter how much I liked her. she will be yours for life. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . She was blunt. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. or if you take out the trash. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. what car you drive.The Cheat-proof. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. My lowest point though. Who Am I. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms.
Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. Now. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. When I did get back in the game. I still have my day job as a business consultant. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I read hundreds of books. EVERY TIME. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. what happened was that through my own experimentation. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). I could get hard and last 45 minutes.
she doesn’t even have the temptation. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. and better sexual skills than you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. girlfriend. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. better looks. because as a man.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. Most 4|Page . or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover.
so take a deep breath. In fact. Actually. 5|Page . I’m not proud of this. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. it’s funny. laugh all you want. “Come to Brazil. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. Please don’t laugh. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I was a complete loser. .. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22.. turn off your email and phone.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier.. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. He was like. and he knew this. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. had never kissed a girl. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me.
I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . but what did she know. the most I’d ever gone out. So THIS was it! Haha...ARGH! . It felt so good. “Calm.” anything to distract myself. Math. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. Algebra. I was really only a poor college student. Meanwhile.” I’m thinking. calm. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. Somehow she liked me. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex.God. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I finally made it into the promise land. Please don’t. I met this girl who barely spoke English. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. In the hotel room. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Once I was naked... her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room..
even though it definitely played a part in my mind. I just want you to know how bad I was. but I had no idea what to do about it.just kept pumping away. And they weren’t having sex slowly. and pushed me off of her. It wasn’t that they were so huge. And for a long time I was in denial. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. and feeling like a small. but it was that they’d last forever.. They had complete control of pleasing these women. they were going fast and aggressively. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. said something in Portuguese. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. .Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. pathetic little boy. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. 7|Page . making the girls scream with pleasure. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast.. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing.
I remember that. So either way. And the second time I had sex. 17 years old like a normal guy. I couldn’t get hard at all. I was like. I’d do 8|Page . I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I had to learn how to do it. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. but when you wait longer. seminars.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. “Yeah. “What is wrong with you. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. That’s what happened my first time. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. So to try and turn my sex life around. I had absolutely no control over when I came. After three years of wild experimentation. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. their first time was at 16. videos. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. 16. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books.” But for them. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl.pal?!” It sounds comical. I would kiss her for a while. cumming immediately. and I was at 23.
50 minutes — even an hour. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her.all sorts of other stuff. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina.. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. “Oh goddd. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. Finally. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. So I moved on and started dating other girls. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. regardless of the girl I ended up with. learning where her trigger spots were. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . Most importantly though. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex.
“Hey. let’s go out for a fancy dinner..was ready to meet the challenge. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have.” I’d try and show them how special they were. . I was having sex whenever I wanted. I bought you a necklace.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. Sure. I need a hug. every time. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. I had to do 10 | P a g e . they’d take the necklace. But something started to happen. Here. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears.Even If You’re “Small”. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. It was getting out of hand. but they didn’t seem satisfied. something that seemed to work with every girl. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. Or they’d be like “Oh. practically tearing my clothes off. These girls started to love it. or Have A Small Bank Account. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god.. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny.
and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. You’re here because of sex. Chris Rock once joked. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. who have given up and faced rejection. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me.something with this power I had developed. and she’s going to be looking for other options. she’s not going to want to have children with you. “A man is only as faithful as his options.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. It changed who I am. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . No more not feeling like a man. It’s what we think about all day long. you’re going to have to last. she’s not going to treat you well. How to give women the best sex of their life. more and more. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. If she only knew! More importantly. humiliation. she will want you more and more. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had.
just make sure it stays between us. These problems you’re having. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. problems I used to have. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. last as long as you want. You don’t need to have sex with 5. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. really easy for you. 12 | P a g e . Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method.
so really think carefully. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. So to get started. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. 13 | P a g e . The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. full-body orgasms. Women are the same way. We will address that in a moment. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately.
And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. they can’t get hard. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. 14 | P a g e . now touch that. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. the limper you become! But don't worry. in the bedroom and outside it. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. They are thinking of “Touch this. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes.
Show her you know what you want. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. at some times the emotional. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. not confident and slightly feminine. Show her how much you want her. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. They want you to be in charge. Obviously.
you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. almost every woman said “doggy-style. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. crazy shit. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. 16 | P a g e .. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. she’ll be sexually pleased. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.interaction. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. they’re not based on feelings. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was.
. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. Of course.So if you think that you’re any of these. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.. this is what comes out. But fortunately.
or always trying to hold his hand. but I had to face the truth. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. or kissing him. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. Sexually attraction far outweighs money.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. 18 | P a g e . or was stressed and not in the mood. There is no nagging. charm. looking back on it. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. had a headache. She is sitting on his lap. Then. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. It was so painful to admit that to myself. looks. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or even social status. just not with me. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. because I couldn’t satisfy her.
You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. Unlike many men. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Take note however. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . When a woman is initiating sex with you. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this).Sign #1 . that is the same thing. so in this case. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. The more that she initiates sex.
She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.she wants to have sex right now or that night. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .” “I need a hug. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.” or “Lets watch a movie. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a massage. chances are that she is initiating sex. They will say things like. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed.” If you are hearing things like this. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . Just stay calm. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. and don’t try and skip that step. “Let’s take a nap. the sex won’t happen.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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” That’s not true. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.CAN improve your sexual skills. you can still get better. you had to learn. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. programming a computer. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). learning a language.” 25 | P a g e .” I’d think. anything. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. but they are not. No matter how bad you are. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. And no matter how good you think you are. Any skill that’s worth knowing. women need sex — then hey. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. Any skill in life is learned. I used to think. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. you’re not where you need to be. they WILL improve. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural.
You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. Because you’re forced to fix it. and that you’ll love too. It is possible. you’ve got to embrace it. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. take care of it. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. Really think about that. and then boom. you will. There is a saying that I love. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. 26 | P a g e . You can be better in bed than any guy you know. It is one of my favorites. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. I guarantee it.” So it’s okay to get help. realize you’re going to get it handled. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. When you’ve got an issue in your life.
I’m a guy. but think of women. I need sex. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. If you think that you need sex. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. the stuff that you look at.” Or. but she doesn’t like sex. Look at all these women magazines. “Hey. These are normal. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. The sooner you realize this. So. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. like. again. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. women need sex more than men. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. real women.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter." She doesn’t get horny. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. with their picture. Their main goal in life is to have children. the better off you’ll be.” Yeah. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. to be child-bearers. you do. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. and you’re. Look at YM. This is everywhere. 27 | P a g e . instinctual level.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual.
It’s my underwear.“That’s trash. You ever look at a man’s underwear. They have all this sexual desire. let’s move on to the next mindset.” Women spend hours. They want to look desirable. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.and other products to look good. 28 | P a g e . And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. make-up. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. buying underwear. but society represses it.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). and the examples of this are everywhere. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “There it is. these pants. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird.
Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. It’s not your fault. with proper education. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e .
PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….A. Often.. because you want her not thinking anything. "Oh.Chapter 5 The P. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. then at the end of this chapter. 30 | P a g e . and she's not thinking about anything. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. Women are feelers.V. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. If her eyes are open. but feeling. To start. It's not just you being in the moment. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. I'll run through all four. Don't Think. This is a bad thing.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. it's HER being in the moment. and she's not in the moment at all.
"Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. or about different aspects of your sexuality. and you lose your presence and your authority.. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. and you're no longer good at all. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. or having sex with a woman for the first time. It's a big problem. because all of a sudden. you won't have to worry about that any longer. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong... "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. Of course you want her to have a good time. Nothing about. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff.And more specifically. or you get soft. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. 31 | P a g e . "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. It's game over.
in the beginning. It does it out of a primal instinct. when you learn a language. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. 32 | P a g e ." Think of just pure instinct. That is PRESENCE. you're thinking about it at the start. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. and I will grab him here. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. So. You're just primal. There'll be a learning curve. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. and what's going on. He's not thinking. and the wind is this variable. Just going right after it. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. anything. Just like anything else. while you're learning this stuff. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. But.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. Always instinct. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. You want to just be going by instinct.
" You wanna show that you're in charge. you've gotta show that you're in charge. If they did. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. You should always treat women with respect. and the woman is. a woman wants a man. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. they would be with one! No. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. I'm gonna do what I like. "I'm in charge. more dominant. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. whether it's during sex or during a date. but you need to be authoritative. I'm the boss here. going to follow the lead of the man. you'll begin to naturally think. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . You need to show that you're in charge. That's how it's been since the caveman days. It's much more attractive for women. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. to be led by the male. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. By having that mindset of leader. So. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction.2. Don’t ask to do doggy style.
you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her.. Now. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first.. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. That's authoritative. Try saying things like. slowly take it to the next level. pin her arms behind her head. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. If you're in missionary position. And by all means. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). Push her down into the bed.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. but as you see how well she responds to it. That's very authoritative. and then ramp it up from there. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. Get it? 34 | P a g e .
“You are ALL MINE right now”. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man...... which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. Start with things like. “These are my lips to kiss”... 35 | P a g e . “Your ass is mine right now” etc. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.. If this excites her. which is something all women want to hear. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. powerful man.
because different positions give her different emotions. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P.E. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. And while physical variety is nice. You're slapping her ass. Something like out of a romance novel. and you say different things. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting.3. and you have different interactions in these different positions. You're doing her doggie-style. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. that Casanova. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.A." That's one kind of a lover.V. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. Different positions definitely help. saying "Baby. It's not solely about different positions. I love you so much. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. Then. system is VARIETY. or sneaking off somewhere. If you do different positions. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . like in public. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. I love being inside you.
Y eah. 37 | P a g e . You want to be having sex at different times. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. positions themselves aren't really that different. it's not gonna have that variety. If it's planned. Try to have various times where you have sex. So. And I just touched upon it. but positions aren't as important. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. In the missionary position you can make love to her. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. So. But. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. It's gonna seem monotonous. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. It's not gonna have emotion. if you can. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. You can talk emotionally. repeatedly. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. You can talk dirty. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety.variety. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. Being Spontaneous So. that's not very spontaneous. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. You can fuck her. on Friday night.
Keep things fresh. Do it in the shower. You want as much spontaneity as possible. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. So. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. be a different kind of lover. 4. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. when you're 38 | P a g e . and in the morning when you wake up. And again. There are lots of different fantasies. (In a moment. Change the feelings that she has. be spontaneous. she's not going to feel emotion. If you can't be emotional yourself. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. and she's going to be madly in love with you. So in summary.
” you want to say it with passion. If it's your wife. after the initial emotions have dipped. and in the beginning the sex is really good. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. even sexually or in any manner. So now. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. The stronger the emotions. So. if you're not with a girl that you like.telling her things. 39 | P a g e . he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. there's so much emotion for both of you. Then that emotion dips over a time. or outside. So. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. because you married her. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. It's because in the beginning. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. you need to be emotional. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. you should be pretty emotional. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. They’ll get married." If you're saying “I love you. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. Your bodies are new. either inside the bedroom. And then the sex peters out. The Stronger the Emotions. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. or they'll get a girlfriend. you need to be. You're madly in love. make sure that you really mean it.
keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. If you're not talking in bed. anticipation. and she really wants you inside of you. all that teasing creates anticipation. Feelings of being loved. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. Different emotions. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. and then kind of push her away. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Just keep going with the foreplay. I just keep kissing. and 40 | P a g e . Feelings of just being fucked. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Anticipation creates excitement So. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. excitement. And the way that you can do that. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. If you're teasing a girl. until finally she can't take it anymore. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. teasing.And you want to do that in bed. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Play hard to get. Emotions are best shown through words.
Kind of ease it in there. otherwise it sounds a little weird. Romantic talk means things like. "I love you so much.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. I miss you so much. But romantic talk is. you need to start now. baby. 41 | P a g e . You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. "Oh.
A. As usual. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.E system its unbelievable. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .E. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.A. This stuff is so close to the P. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. anonymous. Pay close attention when you are reading these.VE. Look for all the elements of P.A.V. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.V.
satin camisole. Wrapping my arms around your neck. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. “Here are the rules: I touch you. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. pulling me against you.” is all that you can utter. kissing you softly. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. and before I can stop you.” My hands trail down your abdomen. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. “Baby. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. and appraise your amazing body. as I grind my hips against you. I straddle your lap. still in my 4 inch heels. I set my briefcase on the counter. You pull my suit coat off. sucking on your bottom lip. You help me remove them. revealing a tight. I step back. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. I can feel the desire pool between my legs.” I whisper in your ear.physically big. you fill the room with your sexual presence. I lean into your strength and warmth. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . “Not yet. darling.
” I manage to get out between pants. You hear it hit the floor. and kiss me breathless. “Don’t worry. My touch is light and tentative. “Baby. 44 | P a g e . The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. I’m trying to drink you all in.You swallow hard and nod your head. “I’ve got something that will help”. Just try to relax. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. where are you?” “I’m here. You grab me around my waist. I can’t get enough of your different textures. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I grab your left hand. so I continue with my lesson. I pull the camisole off too. If at any point it gets to be too much.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I can see the skepticism on your face. just say yellow. but tonight is about control. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. then with a bit more strength. gently at first. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. it looks like it might explode. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I’ve never taken control like this. “You’re a naughty boy. and is driving you wild. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. and plant a kiss in your palm. baby. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard.
I run my fingernails down your back. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I cannot take another second. causing your abdomen to quiver. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You slap my ass . loudly. they’re so different from mine.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. breathing on your balls and shaft. lapping up a drop of precum. My aching pussy has to have you now. I am yours now. nearing the verge of my climax. and slam into me. You roll me underneath you. I cry out your name. A flush has 45 | P a g e . down to your pelvic bone. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. then the other. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. but not touching them. riding you. and you moan. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. I inhale deeply near your navel. first one cheek. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. as our movements become frantic. running my tongue along your side.hard. I begin to nibble at your thighs. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. as you fuck me. You squirm a little and cry out my name. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I continue my assault. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You grab my wrist and suck harder. I cry out. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I pinch your nipples. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.
pulling me against you. I get on all fours for you. I whimper again. “Tell me that you want me. It builds and I beg you to finish. almost scream your name. bruising my tender skin. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. causing me to moan. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge.” I feel so wanton. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. but you refuse to let me go. You wrap your arms around me. “Fuck me…now. You pull back and look in my eyes. You lap at me slowly. my pussy throbbing with excitement. “Roll over.” you say roughly. You grab my hips and pound harder. yet I’m excited. but you keep that same pace. I have never felt so safe.” I take a sharp breath in. trying to catch my breath. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. I shudder my completion. I can feel my juices running down my legs. 46 | P a g e . The orgasm is different this time. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. I touch my clit as you slam into me. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. You are so strong. You start to orgasm. never changing pace or pressure. begging you to make me cum. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa.
Mind numbing. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. It is a winding highway someplace rural. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. what the hell.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. but not before hearing you say softly. I thought. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. But when I saw the ad for fantasies.. 47 | P a g e .” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. can’t think. I close my eyes and drift off too.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. “I love you”. Really badly.” This is what I fantasize about . There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. You cater to my whims. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast.. I have to pee. You can never seem to get enough. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. probably western North Carolina. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now.
As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. This is so weird. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I must keep driving. Oh my word. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. And he is pointing a gun at me. He is coming after me. My room. Thank god. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. At least I hope it is. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. number 15. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. there are the lights. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. And oh shit.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I manage “I’m in here. come out with your hands in the air. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. Such relief. 48 | P a g e .
49 | P a g e .“I had to pee. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. The cop can’t help but look at me. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. He exhales again. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. Since he has seen me. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. looking at him. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. Don’t shoot me. he hasn’t said anything to me. look at my privates. It is awkward in heated kind of way. He is totally hot. Higher still.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. “How about you put that weapon away.
I try speaking. This next transition is a blur. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. His 50 | P a g e . I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. He spreads my legs with his knee. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I arch my back and press my chest against him. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. grunts and moves in quickly. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. Brushing his cheek against my chest. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. I have to touch him. “Too fast. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder.
With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I love it. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He looks up with need and reverence. I know I am beautiful. My thighs are at his eye level. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt.
I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy.) But I am not done with this fantasy. more. This gets me so excited for more. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. Don’t stop. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer.” I moan and then release. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. My orgasm comes fast and hard. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. “More. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter.tongue over his lips. I am so wet and hot. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. 52 | P a g e . I still want to be fucked. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. It is so perfect. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot.
panting and trying to catch his breathe. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back.” he moans. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I relish him being worn out. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I feel triumphant. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. This is when we both come together. He fills me completely. My ass is barely on the counter. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. I feel like a conqueror. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me.
let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure.
not a physical problem. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. your problem is entirely psychological. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. the limper you will get. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. but not during sex. which basically means the harder you try. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .
. Clear your mind other than the numbers.. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. and trust me when I say. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. (5 cycles of 2). 56 | P a g e . “10-Count Breathing”. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. nothing about life or any topic. This exhale is 2. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. This breath is 1... After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes.2.
but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. Sounds crazy. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. 3. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. And trust me. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. which allows you to relax more and get hard. then it will help your erections. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. You’ll be glad you did. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence.
just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. and pull-ups.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. dumbbell press.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. These include the dead lift. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. squat. you learn to control your breathing as well. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. For further details. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. yoga is what I recommend . which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense.
tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. no erection. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. When you don’t have presence. Don’t fight your arousal. put it at a number. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Here’s how: Step 1. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Instead. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused.
Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. harder stroking.5 and when it turns into number 9.. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. give us a call if you need help with this.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e .5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.5 to number 9.5. Step 2. Again. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.
You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. 61 | P a g e . Instead eat her out. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Step 3. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. or kiss her body.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Step 4. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight.
women are capable of many different types. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Physical Stimulation Orgasms.E.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training.A. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. exercise. She will. Also. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. 62 | P a g e . you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. model.V. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. full body orgasms.
Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. inner thighs. Kiss her neck. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Don’t do anything else just leave it there. mouth. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. side of back.
Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. variety. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. I know this sounds ridiculous. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. repeated cumming etc. I was dating this girl Renee. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. continuous orgasmic state. and emotion. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. smart 64 | P a g e . authority. she was from Austria. a really sexy. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship.
Over time with her though. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. and panties with my name on them.v. gifts. with no physiological hang-ups. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.a. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.accountant. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .
she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good...How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. kisses. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.
and the sites have TONS of videos. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. the girls are beautiful. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. Online porn these days is cheap. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. In short. so get in as much as you can. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice... it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn.
it will raise your testosterone. pumps. Even if it does work at all.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Just get naked. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. or exercises don’t waste your time. It’s not hiding as much as you think. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. and maker her come.5 inches hard it does not matter. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. Unless your penis is under 2. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. 68 | P a g e . the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. stamina.
Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Let’s do a quick run through. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Remember. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Remember though. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. But if you feel that you really need it.
Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . It hurt. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Dick size is NOT the problem. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. don’t. It’s a waste of your time and money. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. If you’re thinking of getting one. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Relax and Enjoy . Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed.
So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. These are psychological principles. what position you are in. not just think about theoretically. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you.. if you want to last 2 minutes. the evidence is overwhelming. 71 | P a g e . whether she is coming. that’s fine. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. if you want to do something to do it. Classy. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. Conservative. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Shy.50% of the time.. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Something that you have to work on. Sassy. If you want to say something say it.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Just FUCK her. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time.
You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women. 72 | P a g e .
. boring stuff. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).
If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. Sperm lead to children.There are numerous types of birth control. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. It works really well — as long as she takes it. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. 74 | P a g e . if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. Pre-cum contains sperm.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge).
However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. The Patch. I would not recommend it. You can experiment with it. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. There chance of pregnancy is too high.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. The Ring. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Again. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. 75 | P a g e . However. the Shot. Guys take responsibility. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex.
My friend Mike. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. it’s a very effective. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. Some STDs are very serious. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. I’ve never had one. If you’re going to do this be sure.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Don’t get it. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. but I know people who have had. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine.
and still always you to enjoy sex. Often guys will say something like. I’m not going to list every STD here. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. It’s all 77 | P a g e . This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. you should be fine. bring it up casually but firmly. Just get tested to be sure.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. doesn’t grip you too tight. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. or condoms ruin sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. Despite it being a serious subject. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. not guess. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease.
in your head. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. 78 | P a g e . If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. Let’s review how to put on a condom.condomdepot. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom.com. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. You can use Astroglide. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. For overall experience. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms.
Sticking with the classics like. Have a few” go-to” moves. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. "baby that feels so good. If you are having relatively tame sex. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. in 2 or 3 basic positions. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system." so again stick to the basics.Don't Wait. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do." To avoid this. you 79 | P a g e . but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. 1. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!)." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. and focus on your breathing. Be able to last at least 10 minutes.
If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Focus on foreplay. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. You don’t have to go crazy. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. 4. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Be able to give her an orgasm. 5. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3.
After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. ISN Education. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. it’s so much more than that. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. It’s being a real man.com 2009. Bobby Bradshaw www. LLC 82 | P a g e .IncredibleSexNow. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. living life on your own terms. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell.
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