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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
Awful! 1|Page . let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Also. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. FOR ONCE. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. was begging to have sex with you??. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. divorce.
The first time I had sex I was 22. She was blunt. I’m not even a millionaire. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Who Am I. or if you take out the trash. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. My lowest point though. I'm not a celebrity. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. what car you drive. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I’m not an athlete. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. and not know where her lips have been. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. no matter how much I liked her. Luckily. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Women won’t tell you this.The Cheat-proof. she will be yours for life. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. Real-life. would come crashing to a passionless halt. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page .
I still have my day job as a business consultant. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. EVERY TIME. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. what happened was that through my own experimentation. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. I read hundreds of books. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Now. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. When I did get back in the game.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I could get hard and last 45 minutes.
Most 4|Page . and better sexual skills than you. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. girlfriend. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. better looks. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. she doesn’t even have the temptation. because as a man. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you.
.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. Actually. it’s funny. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). and he knew this. Please don’t laugh. so take a deep breath. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. 5|Page . I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. had never kissed a girl. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. He was like. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. . laugh all you want. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. turn off your email and phone.. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. In fact. I was a complete loser. “Come to Brazil. I’m not proud of this. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me.
” I’m thinking. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.ARGH! . I was really only a poor college student. Once I was naked. I met this girl who barely spoke English.. So THIS was it! Haha. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating.. “Calm.God. It felt so good. Please don’t. Somehow she liked me. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there.. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. but what did she know.. the most I’d ever gone out. calm.” anything to distract myself. In the hotel room. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. I finally made it into the promise land. Math. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times.. Meanwhile. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. Algebra. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me.
It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. they were going fast and aggressively. and pushed me off of her.. They had complete control of pleasing these women. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. said something in Portuguese. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. 7|Page . I just want you to know how bad I was. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. And they weren’t having sex slowly.just kept pumping away. pathetic little boy. .. and feeling like a small. It wasn’t that they were so huge. but I had no idea what to do about it. making the girls scream with pleasure. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. And for a long time I was in denial.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. but it was that they’d last forever.
I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. seminars.” But for them. their first time was at 16. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. So to try and turn my sex life around. “Yeah. I’d do 8|Page . I had to learn how to do it. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. 16. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. videos. 17 years old like a normal guy. I couldn’t get hard at all. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. and I was at 23. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. I remember that. but when you wait longer. After three years of wild experimentation. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I was like. cumming immediately. “What is wrong with you. That’s what happened my first time. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. So either way. I would kiss her for a while. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last.I didn’t know how these guys could do it.pal?!” It sounds comical. And the second time I had sex. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15.
I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. Finally. Most importantly though. learning where her trigger spots were. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. 50 minutes — even an hour. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over.. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. regardless of the girl I ended up with.all sorts of other stuff. “Oh goddd. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. So I moved on and started dating other girls.
This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. every time. Sure. But something started to happen.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with.. something that seemed to work with every girl. they’d take the necklace. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. These girls started to love it.” I’d try and show them how special they were. “Hey. Or they’d be like “Oh. or Have A Small Bank Account. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I had to do 10 | P a g e . phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. I bought you a necklace. but they didn’t seem satisfied. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. I was having sex whenever I wanted. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. ..was ready to meet the challenge. I need a hug.Even If You’re “Small”. Here. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. It was getting out of hand. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. practically tearing my clothes off.
It’s what we think about all day long. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. you’re going to have to last. It changed who I am. You’re here because of sex. humiliation. No more not feeling like a man. Chris Rock once joked. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. she’s not going to want to have children with you. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. she will want you more and more.something with this power I had developed.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. more and more. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. If she only knew! More importantly. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. and she’s going to be looking for other options. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. “A man is only as faithful as his options. who have given up and faced rejection. she’s not going to treat you well. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. How to give women the best sex of their life. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts.
You don’t need to have sex with 5. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. 12 | P a g e . these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. last as long as you want. really easy for you. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. These problems you’re having. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. problems I used to have. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. just make sure it stays between us. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat.
“Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. full-body orgasms. Women are the same way. 13 | P a g e . Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. so really think carefully. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. We will address that in a moment. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. So to get started. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix.
keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 14 | P a g e . now touch that. the limper you become! But don't worry. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. They are thinking of “Touch this. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. in the bedroom and outside it. they can’t get hard.
“Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. not confident and slightly feminine. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . Show her you know what you want. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. They want you to be in charge. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her how much you want her. at some times the emotional. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. Obviously.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker.
6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. 16 | P a g e .” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way.. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. she’ll be sexually pleased. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.interaction. they’re not based on feelings. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. crazy shit. almost every woman said “doggy-style.
But fortunately. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. this is what comes out.. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. Of course..So if you think that you’re any of these.
had a headache. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. charm. just not with me.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. looking back on it. Then. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. because I couldn’t satisfy her. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. There is no nagging. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. or even social status. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. looks. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. She is sitting on his lap. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. but I had to face the truth. or kissing him. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. or was stressed and not in the mood. or always trying to hold his hand. 18 | P a g e . It was so painful to admit that to myself.
the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. so in this case. Take note however.Sign #1 . so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. The more that she initiates sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. Unlike many men. that is the same thing. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e .She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually.
When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. “Let’s take a nap.she wants to have sex right now or that night. and don’t try and skip that step. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.” “I need a massage. the sex won’t happen.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. chances are that she is initiating sex. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .” or “Lets watch a movie. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a hug. They will say things like. Just stay calm. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” If you are hearing things like this.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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That’s basically “experienced-based learning. but they are not.CAN improve your sexual skills. women need sex — then hey. Any skill that’s worth knowing. And no matter how good you think you are.” That’s not true. I used to think. they WILL improve. anything. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. Any skill in life is learned. you can still get better. you’re not where you need to be. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).” I’d think. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural.” 25 | P a g e . “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. learning a language. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. you had to learn. programming a computer. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. No matter how bad you are.
It is possible. and then boom. It is one of my favorites. and that you’ll love too. you will. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. Really think about that. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. 26 | P a g e . Because you’re forced to fix it. realize you’re going to get it handled. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. There is a saying that I love. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. I guarantee it. When you’ve got an issue in your life.” So it’s okay to get help. take care of it. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. you’ve got to embrace it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. You can be better in bed than any guy you know.
The sooner you realize this. with their picture. So. again. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. the better off you’ll be. like. to be child-bearers. Their main goal in life is to have children. Look at all these women magazines.” Or. These are normal. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. but think of women. 27 | P a g e . If you think that you need sex. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. Look at YM. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. real women. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. I need sex. you do." She doesn’t get horny. but she doesn’t like sex. “Hey. women need sex more than men.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. I’m a guy. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. and you’re. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. instinctual level. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. This is everywhere. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. the stuff that you look at.” Yeah.
but society represses it.” Women spend hours. buying underwear. “There it is. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. make-up. let’s move on to the next mindset.“That’s trash. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. It’s my underwear. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. and the examples of this are everywhere. They want to look desirable.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). You ever look at a man’s underwear. They have all this sexual desire. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird.and other products to look good. 28 | P a g e . these pants.
it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. with proper education. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. It’s not your fault. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e .Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled .
PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE.Chapter 5 The P. It's not just you being in the moment. but feeling. and she's not thinking about anything. If her eyes are open. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. Women are feelers. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. then at the end of this chapter. and she's not in the moment at all. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything.. To start. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. This is a bad thing. Don't Think. I'll run through all four. "Oh. 30 | P a g e . PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. because you want her not thinking anything. Often. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. it's HER being in the moment. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….V.A.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present.
Of course you want her to have a good time. and you lose your presence and your authority. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over.. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. or about different aspects of your sexuality. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. you won't have to worry about that any longer.And more specifically. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. Nothing about. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. and you're no longer good at all. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. or you get soft. 31 | P a g e . It's a big problem. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong.. It's game over. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes.. or having sex with a woman for the first time. because all of a sudden. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff.
It does it out of a primal instinct. You're just primal. 32 | P a g e . Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. in the beginning. Just going right after it. But. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. You want to just be going by instinct. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. when you learn a language. while you're learning this stuff. He's not thinking. and I will grab him here. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river." Think of just pure instinct. Just like anything else. That is PRESENCE. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. So. you're thinking about it at the start. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. Always instinct. and the wind is this variable. There'll be a learning curve.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. and what's going on. anything.
Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. whether it's during sex or during a date. and the woman is.2. "I'm in charge. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. You need to show that you're in charge. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. to be led by the male. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. If they did. they would be with one! No. It's much more attractive for women. more dominant. By having that mindset of leader. I'm the boss here. I'm gonna do what I like. but you need to be authoritative. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. you'll begin to naturally think. So. you've gotta show that you're in charge. a woman wants a man. That's how it's been since the caveman days. going to follow the lead of the man. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. You should always treat women with respect. Don’t ask to do doggy style." You wanna show that you're in charge.
pin her arms behind her head. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. Try saying things like.. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. If you're in missionary position. Push her down into the bed. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. Get it? 34 | P a g e . what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. slowly take it to the next level.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. but as you see how well she responds to it. and then ramp it up from there. That's very authoritative. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). after you've started gently and she is warmed up. Now. And by all means.. That's authoritative.
There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. “You are ALL MINE right now”... You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. “These are my lips to kiss”. 35 | P a g e . which is something all women want to hear. powerful man. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. If this excites her... Start with things like..
Then.V. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. It's not solely about different positions. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. And while physical variety is nice. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. You're doing her doggie-style.3. that Casanova. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. and you have different interactions in these different positions." That's one kind of a lover. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. saying "Baby. I love you so much. Something like out of a romance novel. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting.E. like in public.A. system is VARIETY. and you say different things. You're slapping her ass. or sneaking off somewhere. because different positions give her different emotions. I love being inside you. Different positions definitely help. If you do different positions. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.
being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. And I just touched upon it. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex.variety. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. You can talk emotionally. but positions aren't as important. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. You can fuck her. It's gonna seem monotonous. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. You want to be having sex at different times. 37 | P a g e . on Friday night. So. if you can. In the missionary position you can make love to her. that's not very spontaneous. Try to have various times where you have sex. So. Y eah. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. It's not gonna have emotion. it's not gonna have that variety. positions themselves aren't really that different. You can talk dirty. If it's planned. Being Spontaneous So. repeatedly. But.
when you make her feel a variety of emotions. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. There are lots of different fantasies. You want as much spontaneity as possible. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. Keep things fresh. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. and she's going to be madly in love with you. and in the morning when you wake up. And again. be spontaneous. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. be a different kind of lover. (In a moment. when you're 38 | P a g e . If you can't be emotional yourself. she's not going to feel emotion. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. 4. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. So. Do it in the shower. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. Change the feelings that she has. So in summary. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule.
or outside. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys.” you want to say it with passion. you need to be. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. So now. The stronger the emotions. after the initial emotions have dipped." If you're saying “I love you. Your bodies are new. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. either inside the bedroom. 39 | P a g e . Then that emotion dips over a time. So. You're madly in love. if you're not with a girl that you like. They’ll get married.telling her things. The Stronger the Emotions. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. because you married her. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. And then the sex peters out. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. even sexually or in any manner. If it's your wife. So. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. or they'll get a girlfriend. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. you need to be emotional. and in the beginning the sex is really good. make sure that you really mean it. you should be pretty emotional. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. there's so much emotion for both of you. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. It's because in the beginning.
all that teasing creates anticipation. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. If you're teasing a girl. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. Play hard to get. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. and she really wants you inside of you. Anticipation creates excitement So. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. Emotions are best shown through words. until finally she can't take it anymore. excitement. and 40 | P a g e . and then kind of push her away. I just keep kissing. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. Different emotions.And you want to do that in bed. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. If you're not talking in bed. anticipation. Feelings of being loved. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. teasing. Just keep going with the foreplay. And the way that you can do that. Feelings of just being fucked.
But romantic talk is. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. otherwise it sounds a little weird. baby. 41 | P a g e . Romantic talk means things like. you need to start now. Kind of ease it in there.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. "Oh." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. I miss you so much. "I love you so much.
within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.A. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .V. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.V. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.VE.A. Look for all the elements of P. This stuff is so close to the P. Pay close attention when you are reading these. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. As usual. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.E system its unbelievable.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. anonymous. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.E.A.
you fill the room with your sexual presence. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I lean into your strength and warmth. I step back. revealing a tight. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. I straddle your lap. and before I can stop you. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. kissing you softly. You pull my suit coat off. satin camisole. Wrapping my arms around your neck. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. as I grind my hips against you.physically big. “Baby. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . darling. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. still in my 4 inch heels.” I whisper in your ear. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom.” is all that you can utter.” My hands trail down your abdomen. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. You help me remove them. and appraise your amazing body. “Here are the rules: I touch you. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. “Not yet. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. sucking on your bottom lip. I set my briefcase on the counter. pulling me against you.
I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. but tonight is about control. then with a bit more strength. where are you?” “I’m here. I pull the camisole off too. My touch is light and tentative. and is driving you wild. baby. “Don’t worry. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. and plant a kiss in your palm. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. You hear it hit the floor.” I manage to get out between pants. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. If at any point it gets to be too much. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. “I’ve got something that will help”.You swallow hard and nod your head. Just try to relax. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. I can see the skepticism on your face. so I continue with my lesson. I’m trying to drink you all in. 44 | P a g e . it looks like it might explode. just say yellow. “You’re a naughty boy. and kiss me breathless. I grab your left hand. “Baby. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. I’ve never taken control like this. You grab me around my waist. gently at first.
I cry out your name.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. and you moan. lapping up a drop of precum. You squirm a little and cry out my name. You slap my ass . You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold.hard. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. You grab my wrist and suck harder. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I pinch your nipples. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. The sting of your broken skin excites you. as you fuck me. I run my fingernails down your back. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I am yours now. down to your pelvic bone. and slam into me. I begin to nibble at your thighs. running my tongue along your side. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I cry out. as our movements become frantic. but not touching them. they’re so different from mine. then the other. nearing the verge of my climax. My aching pussy has to have you now. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. riding you. You roll me underneath you. I continue my assault. I cannot take another second. breathing on your balls and shaft. I inhale deeply near your navel. first one cheek. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. causing your abdomen to quiver. loudly.
trying to catch my breath. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. I get on all fours for you. 46 | P a g e . but you refuse to let me go. almost scream your name. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. I whimper again. I touch my clit as you slam into me. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. You start to orgasm.” I take a sharp breath in. my pussy throbbing with excitement. “Roll over. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. It builds and I beg you to finish. causing me to moan. never changing pace or pressure. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. The orgasm is different this time. begging you to make me cum. I have never felt so safe. pulling me against you. but you keep that same pace.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. You are so strong. You pull back and look in my eyes. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies.” you say roughly. You lap at me slowly.” I feel so wanton. yet I’m excited. bruising my tender skin. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. You wrap your arms around me. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. I shudder my completion. You grab my hips and pound harder. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. “Tell me that you want me. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. “Fuck me…now. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away.
I feel like a goddess every time we make love.” This is what I fantasize about . I thought. You cater to my whims. It is a winding highway someplace rural. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed.. You can never seem to get enough. can’t think. I have to pee. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. 47 | P a g e .for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. “I love you”. Really badly. probably western North Carolina. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast.. but not before hearing you say softly. Mind numbing. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. I close my eyes and drift off too. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. what the hell. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee.
I must keep driving. number 15. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. there are the lights. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. At least I hope it is. Oh my word. I think I turn off the car but who really knows.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. come out with your hands in the air. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I manage “I’m in here. Such relief. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. And oh shit. And he is pointing a gun at me. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. Thank god. My room. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. 48 | P a g e .” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. He is coming after me. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. This is so weird. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals.
He is totally hot. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. look at my privates. Don’t shoot me. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. Since he has seen me. looking at him. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. He exhales again. It is awkward in heated kind of way. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. he hasn’t said anything to me. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. “How about you put that weapon away.“I had to pee. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. 49 | P a g e . He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. Higher still. The cop can’t help but look at me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look.
I have to touch him. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. This next transition is a blur. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. “Too fast. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. grunts and moves in quickly. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt.I try speaking. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He spreads my legs with his knee. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. I arch my back and press my chest against him. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. His 50 | P a g e .
He is so strong and I know he is hard. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. My thighs are at his eye level. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I love it. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. He looks up with need and reverence. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I know I am beautiful. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles.
I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot.tongue over his lips. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass.” I moan and then release. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. more. “More. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. It is so perfect. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. Don’t stop. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. This gets me so excited for more. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I still want to be fucked. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. I am so wet and hot. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. My orgasm comes fast and hard. 52 | P a g e . I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot.
I feel like a conqueror. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff.” he moans. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. panting and trying to catch his breathe. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper.“Oh Jesus in heaven. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. He fills me completely. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . I feel triumphant. I relish him being worn out. My ass is barely on the counter. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. This is when we both come together. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me.
and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.
the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. your problem is entirely psychological. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. not a physical problem. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. which basically means the harder you try. the limper you will get. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. but not during sex.
Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. nothing about life or any topic. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. and trust me when I say. This breath is 1. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes... 56 | P a g e .2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. Clear your mind other than the numbers. (5 cycles of 2). “10-Count Breathing”. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air... This exhale is 2. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10.
More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. then it will help your erections. And trust me. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. which allows you to relax more and get hard. 3. Sounds crazy. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. You’ll be glad you did. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down.
For further details.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. yoga is what I recommend . These include the dead lift. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. you learn to control your breathing as well. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. dumbbell press. squat. and pull-ups.
Instead. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. put it at a number. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. Don’t fight your arousal. no erection. Here’s how: Step 1. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. When you don’t have presence. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e .
The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Again. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5 and when it turns into number 9.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.5 to number 9. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. harder stroking. give us a call if you need help with this.5.. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e .not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. Step 2.
You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. or kiss her body.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Instead eat her out. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Step 3. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. See demonstration in the DVD. 61 | P a g e . Step 4. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down.
A. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. 62 | P a g e . full body orgasms.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. exercise. She will. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. Also.E. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. model.V. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. women are capable of many different types. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.
Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her neck. inner thighs. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. side of back. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . mouth. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.
She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. variety. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. a really sexy. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. and emotion. I know this sounds ridiculous. she was from Austria. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. smart 64 | P a g e . I was dating this girl Renee. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. authority. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. repeated cumming etc. continuous orgasmic state. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came.
e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .accountant.a. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. gifts. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough.v. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. Over time with her though. with no physiological hang-ups. and panties with my name on them. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.
you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.. kisses. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.
it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect.. Online porn these days is cheap. the girls are beautiful. In short. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. and the sites have TONS of videos.. so get in as much as you can.
the woman that you are with is even more self conscious.5 inches hard it does not matter. stamina. or exercises don’t waste your time. pumps." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Even if it does work at all. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. and maker her come. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. it will raise your testosterone. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Just get naked. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Unless your penis is under 2.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. 68 | P a g e . a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery.
Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. But if you feel that you really need it. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Remember. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Let’s do a quick run through. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Remember though. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here.
don’t. It’s a waste of your time and money. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Dick size is NOT the problem. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. If you’re thinking of getting one. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. It hurt. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. Relax and Enjoy .
Classy. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. whether she is coming. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. If you want to say something say it. Sassy. Just FUCK her. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. that’s fine. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. These are psychological principles. Shy. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. not just think about theoretically. Conservative. if you want to do something to do it. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. the evidence is overwhelming. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. what position you are in.50% of the time. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. if you want to last 2 minutes. Don’t think about ANYTHING. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. Something that you have to work on.. 71 | P a g e . If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting..
but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e .
Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. but I want to make sure you are SAFE.. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. boring stuff.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent.
The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. Sperm lead to children. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy.There are numerous types of birth control.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Pre-cum contains sperm. It works really well — as long as she takes it. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. 74 | P a g e .
Again. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. There chance of pregnancy is too high. The Patch. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. However. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. the Shot.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. 75 | P a g e . some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. I would not recommend it. The Ring. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. You can experiment with it. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Guys take responsibility.
The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Some STDs are very serious. My friend Mike. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. it’s a very effective. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. I’ve never had one. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. but I know people who have had. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. If you’re going to do this be sure. Don’t get it. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . AIDS is still a life threatening disease.
a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. you should be fine. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. or condoms ruin sex. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. not guess. I’m not going to list every STD here. Just get tested to be sure. Despite it being a serious subject. doesn’t grip you too tight. bring it up casually but firmly. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Often guys will say something like. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Always ask a woman about her sexual history. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. and still always you to enjoy sex.
(Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom.in your head. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. You can use Astroglide. For overall experience. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms.condomdepot. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. 78 | P a g e .com. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. Let’s review how to put on a condom. Read about his issue under trouble shooting.
" so again stick to the basics. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. Have a few” go-to” moves. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). in 2 or 3 basic positions. "baby that feels so good. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. you 79 | P a g e . and focus on your breathing. Sticking with the classics like. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration." To avoid this.Don't Wait. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. 1. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. If you are having relatively tame sex.
You don’t have to go crazy. Focus on foreplay. 4. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Be able to give her an orgasm. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. 5. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal.
Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. ISN Education. living life on your own terms.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom.com 2009.IncredibleSexNow. It’s being a real man. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. it’s so much more than that. Bobby Bradshaw www. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. LLC 82 | P a g e . You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get.
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