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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. divorce. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. FOR ONCE. Also. was begging to have sex with you??. Awful! 1|Page . in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex.

The first time I had sex I was 22. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have.The Cheat-proof. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. Luckily. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. or if you take out the trash. My lowest point though. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. I'm not a celebrity. Who Am I. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. what car you drive. would come crashing to a passionless halt. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. no matter how much I liked her. Real-life. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. She was blunt. and not know where her lips have been. she will be yours for life. I’m not even a millionaire. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . Women won’t tell you this. I’m not an athlete.

I still have my day job as a business consultant. When I did get back in the game. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. what happened was that through my own experimentation. I read hundreds of books. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Now. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). EVERY TIME. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . I could get hard and last 45 minutes. and the use of expensive pills and supplements.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years.

If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. and better sexual skills than you. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. Most 4|Page . because as a man. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. she doesn’t even have the temptation. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. better looks. girlfriend.

I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. laugh all you want. In fact. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. He was like. I was a complete loser. 5|Page . I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. I’m not proud of this. and he knew this.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. it’s funny.. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). Actually. . “Come to Brazil. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. Please don’t laugh. had never kissed a girl.. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. turn off your email and phone. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly.. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. so take a deep breath.

I was really only a poor college student.God. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. So THIS was it! Haha.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. I met this girl who barely spoke English. Somehow she liked me. but what did she know. Math. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. It felt so good.... I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. Please don’t. Once I was naked. “Calm. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.” anything to distract myself. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. the most I’d ever gone out.ARGH! .” I’m thinking. In the hotel room. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. calm. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.. Meanwhile.. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. Algebra. I finally made it into the promise land.

The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. It wasn’t that they were so huge. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on.just kept pumping away. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. but it was that they’d last forever. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. And they weren’t having sex slowly. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.. I just want you to know how bad I was. They had complete control of pleasing these women. pathetic little boy. 7|Page . beating it frantically trying to get hard again. said something in Portuguese. and pushed me off of her.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. but I had no idea what to do about it. And for a long time I was in denial.. they were going fast and aggressively. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. and feeling like a small. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. . making the girls scream with pleasure.

videos. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. 16. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I had to learn how to do it. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. 17 years old like a normal guy. That’s what happened my first time. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. I was like.pal?!” It sounds comical. And the second time I had sex. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I remember that. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. seminars. “What is wrong with you. cumming immediately. I couldn’t get hard at all. I would kiss her for a while. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. but when you wait longer. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. I’d do 8|Page . and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. So to try and turn my sex life around. and I was at 23.” But for them.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. “Yeah. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. After three years of wild experimentation. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. So either way. their first time was at 16.

I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. “Oh goddd. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. 50 minutes — even an hour. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. Finally. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. Most importantly though. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. regardless of the girl I ended up with.. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. So I moved on and started dating other girls. learning where her trigger spots were.all sorts of other stuff. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them.

They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. or Have A Small Bank Account. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. It was getting out of hand. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I need a hug. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me.Even If You’re “Small”. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. I had to do 10 | P a g e . getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. they’d take the necklace.was ready to meet the challenge.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. something that seemed to work with every girl. practically tearing my clothes off.. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. But something started to happen. every time.. .” I’d try and show them how special they were. Or they’d be like “Oh. Sure. but they didn’t seem satisfied. Here. These girls started to love it. I bought you a necklace. “Hey. I was having sex whenever I wanted.

“A man is only as faithful as his options. she’s not going to want to have children with you. I don’t want guys feeling this pain.something with this power I had developed. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. If she only knew! More importantly. she’s not going to treat you well. No more not feeling like a man. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. she will want you more and more. How to give women the best sex of their life. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. It’s what we think about all day long. you’re going to have to last. and she’s going to be looking for other options. humiliation. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. more and more. You’re here because of sex. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. Chris Rock once joked. who have given up and faced rejection. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. It changed who I am. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed.

is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. just make sure it stays between us. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. 12 | P a g e . and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. problems I used to have. really easy for you. These problems you’re having. last as long as you want. You don’t need to have sex with 5. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover.

So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. so really think carefully. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. 13 | P a g e . So to get started. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. full-body orgasms.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. Women are the same way. We will address that in a moment. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds.

keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. they can’t get hard.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. now touch that. the limper you become! But don't worry. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. 14 | P a g e . in the bedroom and outside it. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. They are thinking of “Touch this. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot.

Obviously. Show her you know what you want. not confident and slightly feminine. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. at some times the emotional. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. They want you to be in charge. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. Show her how much you want her.

crazy shit. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. she’ll be sexually pleased... Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. almost every woman said “doggy-style. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.interaction. they’re not based on feelings. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. 16 | P a g e . They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way.

so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. Of course. this is what comes out. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face... But fortunately.So if you think that you’re any of these.

at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. or was stressed and not in the mood. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. because I couldn’t satisfy her. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. 18 | P a g e . and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. or even social status. or kissing him. or always trying to hold his hand. just not with me. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. Then. It was so painful to admit that to myself. charm. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. looking back on it. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. but I had to face the truth.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. had a headache. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. She is sitting on his lap. looks. There is no nagging.

that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. that is the same thing. The more that she initiates sex. Take note however.Sign #1 . if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. Unlike many men. so in this case. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . most women do not have sex just to “have sex.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. When a woman is initiating sex with you. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this).

she wants to have sex right now or that night.” or “Lets watch a movie. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . and don’t try and skip that step. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.” “I need a hug. “Let’s take a nap. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a massage. the sex won’t happen. chances are that she is initiating sex. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . They will say things like. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. Just stay calm.” If you are hearing things like this. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. you can still get better. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. you’re not where you need to be. learning a language. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. you had to learn.” 25 | P a g e .” That’s not true. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).” I’d think. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. they WILL improve. anything. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser.CAN improve your sexual skills. programming a computer. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. I used to think. Any skill in life is learned. Any skill that’s worth knowing. And no matter how good you think you are. women need sex — then hey. No matter how bad you are. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. but they are not.

” So it’s okay to get help. Really think about that. There is a saying that I love. realize you’re going to get it handled. It is possible. It is one of my favorites. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. 26 | P a g e . Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. and then boom. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. you will. you’ve got to embrace it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. and that you’ll love too. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. I guarantee it. take care of it. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. When you’ve got an issue in your life. Because you’re forced to fix it. You can be better in bed than any guy you know.

instinctual level. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. Their main goal in life is to have children. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. again. So.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. but think of women. the better off you’ll be. real women. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. If you think that you need sex. women need sex more than men. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic." She doesn’t get horny.” Yeah. 27 | P a g e . but she doesn’t like sex. These are normal. the stuff that you look at. I need sex. “Hey. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. Look at YM. like. Look at all these women magazines. and you’re. This is everywhere.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. The sooner you realize this. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. to be child-bearers. I’m a guy. with their picture.” Or. you do.

let’s move on to the next mindset. It’s my underwear. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. 28 | P a g e .“That’s trash. You ever look at a man’s underwear. They want to look desirable. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. They have all this sexual desire. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.and other products to look good. buying underwear. but society represses it. and the examples of this are everywhere. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. and hopefully you’ve internalized this.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). make-up. these pants. “There it is.” Women spend hours.

it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. It’s not your fault. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. with proper education.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled .

Often. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….V. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. If her eyes are open. and she's not thinking about anything. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. Don't Think. I'll run through all four. 30 | P a g e . It's not just you being in the moment. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. it's HER being in the moment.Chapter 5 The P. This is a bad thing. Women are feelers. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. To start. "Oh. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. and she's not in the moment at all.. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. because you want her not thinking anything. then at the end of this chapter.A. but feeling.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed.

. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. or you get soft. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. Nothing about. It's a big problem. you won't have to worry about that any longer. 31 | P a g e . Of course you want her to have a good time.And more specifically. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. or having sex with a woman for the first time. and you lose your presence and your authority. or about different aspects of your sexuality. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. and you're no longer good at all. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. because all of a sudden. It's game over. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes.. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong.. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum..

He's not thinking. in the beginning. and what's going on. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. Always instinct. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. Just like anything else. anything. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. So. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river." Think of just pure instinct. while you're learning this stuff. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. But. 32 | P a g e . That is PRESENCE. you're thinking about it at the start. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. It does it out of a primal instinct. when you learn a language. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. There'll be a learning curve. You want to just be going by instinct. and I will grab him here. Just going right after it. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. You're just primal. and the wind is this variable.

Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. Don’t ask to do doggy style. a woman wants a man. "I'm in charge. You should always treat women with respect. That's how it's been since the caveman days. By having that mindset of leader. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . but you need to be authoritative. they would be with one! No. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. You need to show that you're in charge. If they did. you'll begin to naturally think. going to follow the lead of the man. So. you've gotta show that you're in charge. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. I'm gonna do what I like. It's much more attractive for women. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. more dominant. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action.2." You wanna show that you're in charge. and the woman is. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. whether it's during sex or during a date. I'm the boss here. to be led by the male.

-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. If you're in missionary position. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. and then ramp it up from there. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). but as you see how well she responds to it. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. And by all means. pin her arms behind her head. slowly take it to the next level. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. That's very authoritative. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. Try saying things like.. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness.. Now. Get it? 34 | P a g e . Push her down into the bed. That's authoritative. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her.

which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. 35 | P a g e . move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. “These are my lips to kiss”. powerful man.. Start with things like. “You are ALL MINE right now”. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.. “Your ass is mine right now” etc.. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. If this excites her. which is something all women want to hear. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong....What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.

Then. It's not solely about different positions. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. I love being inside you. like in public. saying "Baby.A. If you do different positions. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. system is VARIETY. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. and you have different interactions in these different positions. or sneaking off somewhere. and you say different things.E. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet." That's one kind of a lover. You're doing her doggie-style. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. because different positions give her different emotions. I love you so much. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. Different positions definitely help. that Casanova. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . You're slapping her ass.V. And while physical variety is nice.3. Something like out of a romance novel.

that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. You can talk emotionally. But. You want to be having sex at different times. but positions aren't as important. if you can. Try to have various times where you have sex. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. It's not gonna have emotion. 37 | P a g e . You only really need about four or five sexual positions. So. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. And I just touched upon it. on Friday night. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. that's not very spontaneous. it's not gonna have that variety. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. You can talk dirty. Being Spontaneous So. In the missionary position you can make love to her. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. So. repeatedly. You can fuck her. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. It's gonna seem monotonous. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. If it's planned. Y eah. positions themselves aren't really that different. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions.variety.

be spontaneous. Do it in the shower. 4. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. So in summary. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. Keep things fresh. be a different kind of lover. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. (In a moment. So. when you're 38 | P a g e . because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. If you can't be emotional yourself. There are lots of different're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. she's not going to feel emotion. and she's going to be madly in love with you. and in the morning when you wake up. And again. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. You want as much spontaneity as possible. Change the feelings that she has. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES.

Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. you should be pretty emotional. even sexually or in any manner. Your bodies are new. you need to be emotional. The stronger the emotions. So. or outside. 39 | P a g e . And then the sex peters out. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. either inside the bedroom. If it's your wife. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. you need to be. after the initial emotions have dipped. because you married her. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. So. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl." If you're saying “I love you. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. It's because in the beginning. or they'll get a girlfriend. So now. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. The Stronger the Emotions. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. They’ll get married. and in the beginning the sex is really good. You're madly in love.” you want to say it with passion. make sure that you really mean it. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. there's so much emotion for both of you. if you're not with a girl that you like. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. Then that emotion dips over a time.telling her things.

Play hard to get. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. Feelings of just being fucked. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. and 40 | P a g e . and then kind of push her away. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. anticipation. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. If you're teasing a girl. all that teasing creates anticipation. until finally she can't take it anymore. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Feelings of being loved.And you want to do that in bed. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. and she really wants you inside of you. excitement. Different emotions. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. If you're not talking in bed. Just keep going with the foreplay. I just keep kissing. And the way that you can do that. Anticipation creates excitement So. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Emotions are best shown through words. teasing. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom.

But romantic talk is. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. otherwise it sounds a little weird." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. "Oh. Romantic talk means things like. you need to start now. are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. "I love you so much. I miss you so much. 41 | P a g e . Kind of ease it in there.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk.

So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.E system its unbelievable. Look for all the elements of P.A. Pay close attention when you are reading these. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .A.VE. anonymous.V. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. As usual.E.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. This stuff is so close to the P.A. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.V. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.

” I whisper in your ear. “Not yet. and before I can stop you. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. I set my briefcase on the counter. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. as I grind my hips against you. sucking on your bottom lip. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. I lean into your strength and warmth. “Baby. pulling me against you. you fill the room with your sexual presence. kissing you softly. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. You help me remove them. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. still in my 4 inch heels. You pull my suit coat off. revealing a tight. Wrapping my arms around your neck. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom.physically big. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . and appraise your amazing body. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight.” My hands trail down your abdomen. darling. I step back. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. satin camisole. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. I can feel the desire pool between my legs.” is all that you can utter. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. “Here are the rules: I touch you. I straddle your lap.

The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I grab your left hand. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf.” I manage to get out between pants. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I’ve never taken control like this. so I continue with my lesson. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. and kiss me breathless. I can see the skepticism on your face. and plant a kiss in your palm. and is driving you wild. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I pull the camisole off too. If at any point it gets to be too much. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. then with a bit more strength. You grab me around my waist. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. “You’re a naughty boy. but tonight is about control. I’m trying to drink you all in. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. 44 | P a g e .” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. You hear it hit the floor. “I’ve got something that will help”. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles.You swallow hard and nod your head. baby. My touch is light and tentative. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. Just try to relax. just say yellow. “Baby. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. where are you?” “I’m here. it looks like it might explode. gently at first. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. “Don’t worry. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly.

causing your abdomen to quiver. as our movements become frantic. You roll me underneath you. they’re so different from mine. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I cannot take another second. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You slap my ass . I cry out your name.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I continue my assault. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. first one cheek. The sting of your broken skin excites you. running my tongue along your side. and you moan. riding you. as you fuck me. I am yours now. My aching pussy has to have you now. down to your pelvic bone. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. then the other. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I cry out.hard. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I pinch your nipples. nearing the verge of my climax. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I run my fingernails down your back. breathing on your balls and shaft. loudly. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I inhale deeply near your navel. but not touching them. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. and slam into me. You grab my wrist and suck harder. lapping up a drop of precum. I begin to nibble at your thighs.

My breasts are bouncing back and forth. The orgasm is different this time. I get on all fours for you. It builds and I beg you to finish. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. “Roll over.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. never changing pace or pressure. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You are so strong. almost scream your name. my pussy throbbing with excitement. You start to orgasm. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. trying to catch my breath. I shudder my completion. “Tell me that you want me. yet I’m excited. I have never felt so safe. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. bruising my tender skin. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You lap at me slowly. I whimper again. “Fuck me…now.” you say roughly. 46 | P a g e . causing me to moan. but you refuse to let me go. begging you to make me cum.” I feel so wanton. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. but you keep that same pace. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. You grab my hips and pound harder. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. I touch my clit as you slam into me. You pull back and look in my eyes. You wrap your arms around me.” I take a sharp breath in. pulling me against you. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa.

. what the hell. I close my eyes and drift off too. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. “I love you”.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. probably western North Carolina. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. Mind numbing. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. I have to pee. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.. I thought.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. Really badly. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. It is a winding highway someplace rural. 47 | P a g e . You cater to my whims.” This is what I fantasize about .“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. can’t think. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. but not before hearing you say softly. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. You can never seem to get enough.

I manage “I’m in here. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. He is coming after me. At least I hope it is. And oh shit. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. My room.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. Oh my word. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I must keep driving. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. Such relief. number 15. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. there are the lights.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. 48 | P a g e . is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. Thank god. And he is pointing a gun at me. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. This is so weird. come out with your hands in the air.

He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. Since he has seen me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. Don’t shoot me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. he hasn’t said anything to me. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. It is awkward in heated kind of way. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile.“I had to pee. “How about you put that weapon away. 49 | P a g e . His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. looking at him.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. He is totally hot. Higher still. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. look at my privates. He exhales again. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. The cop can’t help but look at me.

Brushing his cheek against my chest. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. “Too fast. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. grunts and moves in quickly. This next transition is a blur. His 50 | P a g e . I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. He spreads my legs with his knee. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one.I try speaking. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I arch my back and press my chest against him. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I have to touch him. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths.

He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. He is so strong and I know he is hard. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I know I am beautiful. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. My thighs are at his eye level. I love it.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. He looks up with need and reverence.

Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter.tongue over his lips. Don’t stop. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. My orgasm comes fast and hard. “More. more. I still want to be fucked. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. It is so perfect. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. 52 | P a g e . I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.” I moan and then release. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. This gets me so excited for more. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I am so wet and hot. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real.

My ass is barely on the counter. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. I feel like a conqueror. I relish him being worn out. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I feel triumphant. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back.” he moans. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. He fills me completely.“Oh Jesus in heaven. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. This is when we both come together. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm.

So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .

which basically means the harder you try. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . the limper you will get.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. your problem is entirely psychological. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. but not during sex. not a physical problem. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.

Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing.... (5 cycles of 2). and trust me when I say. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. “10-Count Breathing”.2. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. This breath is 1. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. This exhale is 2. Clear your mind other than the numbers. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. nothing about life or any topic. 56 | P a g e .. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.

If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. You’ll be glad you did. Sounds crazy. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. 3. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . And trust me. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. which allows you to relax more and get hard. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. then it will help your erections. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly.

as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. dumbbell press. yoga is what I recommend . For further details. and pull-ups. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. squat. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. you learn to control your breathing as well. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. These include the dead lift. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e .

no erection. Here’s how: Step 1. Don’t fight your arousal. When you don’t have presence. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. put it at a number. Instead. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused.

give us a call if you need help with this. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Step 2.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5.. Again. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. harder stroking. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.5 and when it turns into number 9. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.5 to number 9. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).

or kiss her body. Instead eat her out. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Step 4. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. 61 | P a g e . You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Step 3. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight.

How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. women are capable of many different types. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. She will.A. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. full body orgasms.E. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. exercise. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. model.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills.V. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. 62 | P a g e . This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. Also.

 Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. mouth. inner thighs.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . side of back. Kiss her neck.

I was dating this girl Renee. and emotion. a really sexy. authority. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. variety. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. I know this sounds ridiculous. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. repeated cumming etc. she was from Austria. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. smart 64 | P a g e . continuous orgasmic state.

v. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. with no physiological hang-ups. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. and panties with my name on them. Over time with her though. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.

. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually.. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. kisses. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.

so get in as much as you can. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. the girls are beautiful. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations.. In short. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Online porn these days is cheap. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. and the sites have TONS of videos.. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice.

You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. and maker her come. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Just get naked. pumps. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. it will raise your testosterone.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. 68 | P a g e . Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Unless your penis is under 2. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. or exercises don’t waste your time. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Even if it does work at all." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure.5 inches hard it does not matter. stamina.

Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Remember though. Let’s do a quick run through. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. But if you feel that you really need it. Remember. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better.

Dick size is NOT the problem. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. don’t. It hurt.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. It’s a waste of your time and money. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . It May Just Be in Your Head Look. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. If you’re thinking of getting one.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. Relax and Enjoy . Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons.

These are psychological principles. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. 71 | P a g e . Sassy. Classy. what position you are in. not just think about theoretically.. If you want to say something say it.. that’s fine.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. Just FUCK her. Don’t think about ANYTHING. if you want to last 2 minutes. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff.50% of the time. if you want to do something to do it. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. Conservative. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Something that you have to work on. the evidence is overwhelming. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Shy. whether she is coming.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

boring stuff..if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. but I want to make sure you are SAFE.

It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. It works really well — as long as she takes it. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. Sperm lead to children. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). 74 | P a g e . Pre-cum contains sperm. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it.There are numerous types of birth control. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control.

However. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Again. The Patch. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. I would not recommend it. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. the Shot. Guys take responsibility. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. You can experiment with it. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. The Ring. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. 75 | P a g e .

It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. it’s a very effective. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. My friend Mike. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. but I know people who have had. Some STDs are very serious. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. If you’re going to do this be sure. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Don’t get it. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . I’ve never had one. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY.

bring it up casually but firmly. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. Just get tested to be sure. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. you should be fine. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. doesn’t grip you too tight. or condoms ruin sex. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. I’m not going to list every STD here. Often guys will say something like. It’s all 77 | P a g e . not guess. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. and still always you to enjoy sex. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. Despite it being a serious subject. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there.

in your head.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. Let’s review how to put on a condom. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. You can use Astroglide. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. 78 | P a g e . Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. STDs make LIFE For overall experience. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break.condomdepot.

Sticking with the classics like. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. and focus on your breathing. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. 1." so again stick to the basics. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration.Don't Wait. "baby that feels so good." To avoid this." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. If you are having relatively tame sex. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. you 79 | P a g e . in 2 or 3 basic positions. Have a few” go-to” moves. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent.

Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. 4. 5. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Focus on foreplay. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Be able to give her an orgasm. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You don’t have to go crazy. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay.


Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. ISN Education. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. living life on your own terms. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. It’s being a real man. it’s so much more than 2009. LLC 82 | P a g e . Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.IncredibleSexNow. Bobby Bradshaw www.

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