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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

was begging to have sex with you??. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. divorce. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. Also. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. FOR ONCE. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. Awful! 1|Page . Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity.

As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. I’m not even a millionaire. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. Who Am I. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. The first time I had sex I was 22. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. or if you take out the trash. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. I'm not a celebrity. I’m not an athlete. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. no matter how much I liked her. Luckily. She was blunt. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. she will be yours for life. and not know where her lips have been.The Cheat-proof. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. what car you drive. Real-life. My lowest point though. Women won’t tell you this. would come crashing to a passionless halt.

Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. EVERY TIME. Now. I still have my day job as a business consultant. what happened was that through my own experimentation. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. I read hundreds of books. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page .couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. When I did get back in the game. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!).

And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. girlfriend. because as a man. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. better looks. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. and better sexual skills than you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. Most 4|Page . or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. she doesn’t even have the temptation.

so take a deep breath. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). I’m not proud of this. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. and he knew this. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. Actually. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. Please don’t laugh.. it’s funny. laugh all you want. In fact. turn off your email and phone. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. He was like. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. . flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. 5|Page . You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. had never kissed a girl.. “Come to Brazil. I was a complete loser.

While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.. It felt so good.” I’m thinking.” anything to distract myself. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. calm. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. but what did she know. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. Meanwhile..God. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. I finally made it into the promise land. the most I’d ever gone out. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . “Calm. Please don’t. Somehow she liked me. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. Algebra.ARGH! . I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed.. In the hotel room. I was really only a poor college student.. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. Once I was naked. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. Math. So THIS was it! Haha. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me..

I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. I just want you to know how bad I was.just kept pumping away. 7|Page . beating it frantically trying to get hard again. and pushed me off of her. making the girls scream with pleasure.. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. They had complete control of pleasing these women. And they weren’t having sex slowly. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. but I had no idea what to do about it. said something in Portuguese. and feeling like a small. . and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. It wasn’t that they were so huge. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. but it was that they’d last forever. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. And for a long time I was in denial. pathetic little boy. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. they were going fast and aggressively. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.

“Yeah. After three years of wild experimentation. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I had to learn how to do it. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I would kiss her for a while. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. 16. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. but when you wait longer. seminars. their first time was at 16. I was like. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. and I was at 23. And the second time I had sex. 17 years old like a normal guy. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. I remember that. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I couldn’t get hard at all. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I had absolutely no control over when I came.” But for them.pal?!” It sounds comical. So either way. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. That’s what happened my first time. So to try and turn my sex life around. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. videos. cumming immediately. I’d do 8|Page . “What is wrong with you.

We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. So I moved on and started dating other girls. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. “Oh goddd. Finally. regardless of the girl I ended up with. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically.all sorts of other stuff. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. learning where her trigger spots were. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her.. Most importantly though. 50 minutes — even an hour. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance.

But something started to happen. or Have A Small Bank Account. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. Here. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I had to do 10 | P a g e . Sure. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. I need a hug. . They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. they’d take the necklace. something that seemed to work with every girl.” I’d try and show them how special they were. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have.Even If You’re “Small”. Or they’d be like “Oh.. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. It was getting out of hand.. “Hey. but they didn’t seem satisfied. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. practically tearing my clothes off. let’s go out for a fancy dinner.was ready to meet the challenge. I was having sex whenever I wanted. I bought you a necklace. These girls started to love it. every time.

I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. It’s what we think about all day long.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. humiliation. No more not feeling like a man. she will want you more and more. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. If she only knew! More importantly. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. “A man is only as faithful as his options. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. and she’s going to be looking for other options. It changed who I am. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . more and more. You’re here because of sex. How to give women the best sex of their life. she’s not going to want to have children with you. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. she’s not going to treat you well. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby.something with this power I had developed. you’re going to have to last. Chris Rock once joked. who have given up and faced rejection.

these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. These problems you’re having. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. 12 | P a g e . When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. really easy for you. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. just make sure it stays between us. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. You don’t need to have sex with 5. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. problems I used to have. last as long as you want.

Women are the same way. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. We will address that in a moment. full-body orgasms. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. so really think carefully. 13 | P a g e . So to get started. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE.

now touch that.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. the limper you become! But don't worry. in the bedroom and outside it. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. they can’t get hard. They are thinking of “Touch this. 14 | P a g e . we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion.

It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. not confident and slightly feminine. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. Show her you know what you want.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. They want you to be in charge. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. at some times the emotional. Show her how much you want her. Obviously. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e .

she’ll be sexually pleased. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. they’re not based on feelings. crazy shit.. almost every woman said “doggy-style. 16 | P a g e .” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way.. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru.interaction.

So if you think that you’re any of these. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . this is what comes out.. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. Of course. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. But fortunately. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.

looking back on it. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. It was so painful to admit that to myself. but I had to face the truth. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. Then. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. because I couldn’t satisfy her. She is sitting on his lap. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. or even social status. There is no nagging. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. or was stressed and not in the mood. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. looks. or kissing him. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. or always trying to hold his hand. charm. just not with me. 18 | P a g e . had a headache.

She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. When a woman is initiating sex with you. that is the same thing. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. The more that she initiates sex.Sign #1 . Unlike many men.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. so in this case. Take note however. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well.

In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. “Let’s take a nap. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” or “Lets watch a movie. They will say things like.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. and don’t try and skip that step.” “I need a hug.” “I need a massage. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. chances are that she is initiating sex. Just stay calm. the sex won’t happen.” If you are hearing things like this.she wants to have sex right now or that night.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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Any skill in life is learned. women need sex — then hey. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. you had to learn. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). they WILL improve. you’re not where you need to be. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. anything. programming a computer. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. but they are not.CAN improve your sexual skills. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. Any skill that’s worth knowing.” That’s not true. No matter how bad you are. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. learning a language. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. And no matter how good you think you are.” 25 | P a g e . That’s basically “experienced-based learning. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. I used to think. you can still get better.” I’d think.

When you’ve got an issue in your life. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. There is a saying that I love. It is one of my favorites. and then boom. you will. you’ve got to embrace it. take care of it. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. I guarantee it. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. and that you’ll love too. Really think about that. realize you’re going to get it handled. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. Because you’re forced to fix it.” So it’s okay to get help. It is possible. 26 | P a g e . Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good.

" She doesn’t get horny. I’m a guy. If you think that you need sex. to be child-bearers. The sooner you realize this. women need sex more than men. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. real women. instinctual level. Look at all these women magazines. again. the better off you’ll be. I need sex. So. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. 27 | P a g e . the stuff that you look at. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. you do. but think of women. Their main goal in life is to have children. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. This is everywhere. like. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. “Hey. and you’re. but she doesn’t like sex.” Yeah. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. These are normal.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. Look at YM.” Or. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. with their picture.

Look at all the time they spend buying shoes.“That’s trash. 28 | P a g e . make-up. “There it is. these pants. They want to look desirable. let’s move on to the next mindset. They have all this sexual desire.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). You ever look at a man’s underwear.and other products to look good. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. buying underwear. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.” Women spend hours. and the examples of this are everywhere. It’s my underwear. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. but society represses it.

it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. with proper education. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. It’s not your fault. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e .NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.

PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. it's HER being in the moment.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed.V. If her eyes are open. because you want her not thinking anything. This is a bad thing. then at the end of this chapter.Chapter 5 The P. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. It's not just you being in the moment. but feeling. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed.. "Oh. Women are feelers. and she's not thinking about anything.A. and she's not in the moment at all. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. Don't Think. I'll run through all four. Often. 30 | P a g e . PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. To start.

It's game over. because all of a sudden. or about different aspects of your sexuality.And more specifically. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.. or you get soft.. you won't have to worry about that any longer. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. Nothing about. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. It's a big problem.. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. and you're no longer good at all.. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. 31 | P a g e . so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. or having sex with a woman for the first time. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. and you lose your presence and your authority. Of course you want her to have a good time.

So. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. in the beginning. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. and what's going on. It does it out of a primal instinct. when you learn a language. He's not thinking. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. anything. while you're learning this stuff. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. you're thinking about it at the start. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. You're just primal." Think of just pure instinct. That is PRESENCE. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. You want to just be going by instinct. Always instinct. and the wind is this variable.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. and I will grab him here. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. Just going right after it. But. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. There'll be a learning curve. Just like anything else. 32 | P a g e . you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing.

I'm the boss here. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. That's how it's been since the caveman days. to be led by the male. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. more dominant. you'll begin to naturally think. you've gotta show that you're in charge. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. It's much more attractive for women. whether it's during sex or during a date. "I'm in charge. a woman wants a man. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. they would be with one! No. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. I'm gonna do what I like. and the woman is. By having that mindset of leader. So. You need to show that you're in charge.2. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. but you need to be authoritative. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . If they did. Don’t ask to do doggy style. You should always treat women with respect. going to follow the lead of the man." You wanna show that you're in charge.

. Get it? 34 | P a g e . you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. If you're in missionary position. Now. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). That's authoritative. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. That's very authoritative. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first.. and then ramp it up from there.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. slowly take it to the next level. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. pin her arms behind her head. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. And by all means. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. but as you see how well she responds to it. Try saying things like. Push her down into the bed.

What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. Start with things like. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. powerful man. If this excites her.. which is something all women want to hear. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.. 35 | P a g e ... which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. “You are ALL MINE right now”. “These are my lips to kiss”..

because different positions give her different emotions. I love being inside you. system is VARIETY. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. I love you so much. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy.E. like in public. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. Something like out of a romance novel.3. You're doing her doggie-style. And while physical variety is nice. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.V." That's one kind of a lover. and you have different interactions in these different positions. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. You're slapping her ass. saying "Baby. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be.A. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . Different positions definitely help. Then. and you say different things. It's not solely about different positions. or sneaking off somewhere. that Casanova. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. If you do different positions. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting.

because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. it's not gonna have that variety. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. So. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. repeatedly. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. 37 | P a g e . You can fuck her. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. So. You can talk dirty. You want to be having sex at different times. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. It's gonna seem monotonous. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. Y eah. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex.variety. but positions aren't as important. positions themselves aren't really that different. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. on Friday night. It's not gonna have emotion. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. But. In the missionary position you can make love to her. that's not very spontaneous. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. if you can. Being Spontaneous So. Try to have various times where you have sex. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. And I just touched upon it. If it's planned. You can talk emotionally.

Change the feelings that she has. and she's going to be madly in love with you. There are lots of different fantasies. And again. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. 4. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. (In a moment. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. So. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. be a different kind of lover. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. You want as much spontaneity as possible. be spontaneous. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. and in the morning when you wake up. she's not going to feel emotion. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. So in summary. If you can't be emotional yourself. when you're 38 | P a g e . Keep things fresh. Do it in the shower. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms.

If it's your wife. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. Your bodies are new.telling her things. And then the sex peters out. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. after the initial emotions have dipped. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. So. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. So. or outside. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. because you married her. or they'll get a girlfriend. even sexually or in any manner. So now. 39 | P a g e . The Stronger the Emotions.” you want to say it with passion. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. make sure that you really mean it." If you're saying “I love you. there's so much emotion for both of you. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. you need to be emotional. if you're not with a girl that you like. you should be pretty emotional. You're madly in love. Then that emotion dips over a time. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. and in the beginning the sex is really good. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. The stronger the emotions. It's because in the beginning. They’ll get married. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. you need to be. either inside the bedroom.

Feelings of just being fucked. And the way that you can do that. If you're not talking in bed. all that teasing creates anticipation. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. and 40 | P a g e . I just keep kissing. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. until finally she can't take it anymore. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. and then kind of push her away. anticipation. Feelings of being loved. Play hard to get. excitement. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Anticipation creates excitement So. teasing. Emotions are best shown through words. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. If you're teasing a girl. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. and she really wants you inside of you. Just keep going with the foreplay. Different emotions. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up.And you want to do that in bed. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom.

” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. Romantic talk means things like. "I love you so much." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. you need to start now. 41 | P a g e . But romantic talk is. "Oh. Kind of ease it in there. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. otherwise it sounds a little weird. I miss you so much. baby.

VE. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.V.E system its unbelievable. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. This stuff is so close to the P.A.E. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.A. anonymous. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.A.V. Pay close attention when you are reading these. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. As usual. Look for all the elements of P.

You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. “Here are the rules: I touch you. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. You pull my suit coat off. I straddle your lap. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I lean into your strength and warmth.physically big. revealing a tight. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. kissing you softly. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I step back. I set my briefcase on the counter. “Not yet. satin camisole. darling. Wrapping my arms around your neck. and appraise your amazing body. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur.” is all that you can utter. sucking on your bottom lip. I feel your hands slide up over my hips.” I whisper in your ear. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. as I grind my hips against you. You help me remove them. and before I can stop you. you fill the room with your sexual presence. “Baby. pulling me against you.” My hands trail down your abdomen. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. still in my 4 inch heels. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak.

If at any point it gets to be too much. I’ve never taken control like this. “Baby. You grab me around my waist. I can see the skepticism on your face. You hear it hit the floor. gently at first. Just try to relax. where are you?” “I’m here. just say yellow.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. but tonight is about control. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. and kiss me breathless. I pull the camisole off too. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. it looks like it might explode. and is driving you wild. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. My touch is light and tentative. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. and plant a kiss in your palm.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. I’m trying to drink you all in. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. so I continue with my lesson. “Don’t worry.” I manage to get out between pants. then with a bit more strength.You swallow hard and nod your head. 44 | P a g e . “I’ve got something that will help”. “You’re a naughty boy. I grab your left hand. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. baby. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs.

I begin to nibble at your thighs. running my tongue along your side. as you fuck me. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I pinch your nipples. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. then the other. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. riding you. You roll me underneath you. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. The sting of your broken skin excites you. nearing the verge of my climax. I cry out. down to your pelvic bone. I cannot take another second. breathing on your balls and shaft. first one cheek. and you moan. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I continue my assault. they’re so different from mine. causing your abdomen to quiver. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. I run my fingernails down your back. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. lapping up a drop of precum.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I inhale deeply near your navel. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. as our movements become frantic. and slam into me. A flush has 45 | P a g e .hard. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I am yours now. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. loudly. I cry out your name. My aching pussy has to have you now. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. You slap my ass . but not touching them. You grab my wrist and suck harder.

It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. bruising my tender skin. I get on all fours for you. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. almost scream your name. I shudder my completion.” I feel so wanton. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little.” I take a sharp breath in. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. never changing pace or pressure. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. begging you to make me cum. You start to orgasm. but you refuse to let me go. “Fuck me…now. I touch my clit as you slam into me. I whimper again. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. You grab my hips and pound harder. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. but you keep that same pace. It builds and I beg you to finish. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. trying to catch my breath. pulling me against you. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. You pull back and look in my eyes. I have never felt so safe. “Roll over. causing me to moan. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. 46 | P a g e . You wrap your arms around me. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. The orgasm is different this time. yet I’m excited.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. You lap at me slowly. “Tell me that you want me. You are so strong. my pussy throbbing with excitement. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I can feel my juices running down my legs.” you say roughly.

From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. but not before hearing you say softly. what the hell. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. 47 | P a g e .. I thought. “I love you”.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. can’t think. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. You can never seem to get enough. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I close my eyes and drift off too.” This is what I fantasize about . It is a winding highway someplace rural. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. You cater to my whims.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. Mind numbing.. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. probably western North Carolina. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. Really badly. I have to pee.

I must keep driving. come out with your hands in the air. And oh shit. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I manage “I’m in here.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. And he is pointing a gun at me. This is so weird. At least I hope it is. number 15.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. Thank god. Oh my word. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. there are the lights. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. Such relief. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. 48 | P a g e . He is coming after me. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. My room. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me.

“I had to pee. he hasn’t said anything to me. Since he has seen me. Higher still. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. Don’t shoot me. 49 | P a g e . He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. look at my privates. looking at him. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. The cop can’t help but look at me. “How about you put that weapon away. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. He exhales again. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. It is awkward in heated kind of way. He is totally hot. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes.

He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. His 50 | P a g e . I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. This next transition is a blur.I try speaking. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He spreads my legs with his knee. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. Brushing his cheek against my chest. grunts and moves in quickly. “Too fast. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I have to touch him. I arch my back and press my chest against him. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth.

I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. I love it. My thighs are at his eye level. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. He looks up with need and reverence. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I know I am beautiful. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop.

” I moan and then release. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I still want to be fucked.tongue over his lips. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I am so wet and hot. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center.) But I am not done with this fantasy. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. “More. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. 52 | P a g e . (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. Don’t stop. This gets me so excited for more. It is so perfect. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. more. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass.

His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. This is when we both come together. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. He fills me completely. I feel like a conqueror. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm.“Oh Jesus in heaven. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him.” he moans. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. I relish him being worn out. I feel triumphant. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. My ass is barely on the counter.

let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .

Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. not a physical problem. the limper you will get.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. which basically means the harder you try. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. your problem is entirely psychological. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. but not during sex. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn.

Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. This exhale is 2.2. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. 56 | P a g e ..  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. “10-Count Breathing”. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. nothing about life or any topic. (5 cycles of 2).. and trust me when I say.. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Clear your mind other than the numbers. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. This breath is 1.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air..

In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. which allows you to relax more and get hard. 3. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. And trust me. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. then it will help your erections. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. Sounds crazy. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. You’ll be glad you did.

dumbbell press. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. squat.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . you learn to control your breathing as well. These include the dead lift. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. For further details. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. and pull-ups. yoga is what I recommend . as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.

When you don’t have presence. put it at a number. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. no erection. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. Don’t fight your arousal. Here’s how: Step 1. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Instead. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want.

The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Again. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . give us a call if you need help with this. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5.5 and when it turns into number 9. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. Step 2.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.. harder stroking. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting.5 to number 9. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie.

See demonstration in the DVD. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Instead eat her out.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Step 3. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. or kiss her body. 61 | P a g e . You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. Step 4.

This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. women are capable of many different types. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P.V. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm.A. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. full body orgasms. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. She will. Also. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. exercise.E. model. 62 | P a g e .If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.

inner thighs. side of back.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. mouth. Kiss her neck.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Don’t do anything else just leave it there.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning.

It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. continuous orgasmic state. I know this sounds ridiculous. a really sexy. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. authority.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. smart 64 | P a g e . she was from Austria. repeated cumming etc. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. I was dating this girl Renee. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. variety. and emotion. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms.

v. Over time with her though. gifts. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. with no physiological hang-ups. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.a. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. and panties with my name on them. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.accountant. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .

you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. kisses. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover... It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.

Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice.. Online porn these days is cheap. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. and the sites have TONS of videos.. In short. so get in as much as you can. the girls are beautiful. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect.

Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills.5 inches hard it does not matter. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. stamina. 68 | P a g e . it will raise your testosterone. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. or exercises don’t waste your time. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. pumps. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Just get naked. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. and maker her come. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Unless your penis is under 2. Even if it does work at all.

Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Let’s do a quick run through. But if you feel that you really need it. Remember. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Remember though. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e .

Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. It hurt.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. Relax and Enjoy . If you’re thinking of getting one. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. don’t. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. It’s a waste of your time and money.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Dick size is NOT the problem. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it.

if you want to last 2 minutes.. if you want to do something to do it. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff.50% of the time. 71 | P a g e . Shy. that’s fine. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. Conservative. Something that you have to work on. These are psychological principles. the evidence is overwhelming.. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. Classy. Sassy. what position you are in. If you want to say something say it. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. whether she is coming. Just FUCK her. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Don’t think about ANYTHING. not just think about theoretically.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different.

but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e .

because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. but I want to make sure you are SAFE.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. boring stuff.

74 | P a g e . It works really well — as long as she takes it. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy.There are numerous types of birth control. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. Pre-cum contains sperm. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. Sperm lead to children.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome.

but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. However. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. The Ring. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. the Shot. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Again. Guys take responsibility. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. 75 | P a g e . You can experiment with it. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. The Patch. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. I would not recommend it. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex.

If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. My friend Mike. Some STDs are very serious. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. If you’re going to do this be sure. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. it’s a very effective. Don’t get it. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. I’ve never had one. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. but I know people who have had. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on.

” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. not guess. or condoms ruin sex. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. Despite it being a serious subject. and still always you to enjoy sex. Just get tested to be sure. doesn’t grip you too tight. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. It’s all 77 | P a g e . then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. you should be fine. bring it up casually but firmly. Often guys will say something like. I’m not going to list every STD here.

For overall experience. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. You can use Astroglide. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on.in your head. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break.com. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online.condomdepot. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. Let’s review how to put on a condom. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. 78 | P a g e . you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom.

" so again stick to the basics. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. Have a few” go-to” moves. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do.Don't Wait." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. and focus on your breathing. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. If you are having relatively tame sex. "baby that feels so good. in 2 or 3 basic positions." To avoid this. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. 1. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Sticking with the classics like. you 79 | P a g e . You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Be able to last at least 10 minutes.

Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. 5. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Focus on foreplay. You don’t have to go crazy. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Be able to give her an orgasm. 4. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”.

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com 2009. living life on your own terms. It’s being a real man. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. LLC 82 | P a g e . Bobby Bradshaw www. it’s so much more than that.IncredibleSexNow. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. ISN Education.