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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. FOR ONCE. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. Awful! 1|Page . Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. was begging to have sex with you??. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. divorce. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Also. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages.
Women won’t tell you this. no matter how much I liked her. The first time I had sex I was 22. I’m not an athlete. Who Am I. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. I’m not even a millionaire. She was blunt. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. or if you take out the trash. would come crashing to a passionless halt. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. Real-life. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make.The Cheat-proof. My lowest point though. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. and not know where her lips have been. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I'm not a celebrity. what car you drive. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. she will be yours for life. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. Luckily.
When I did get back in the game. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . Now. what happened was that through my own experimentation. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. EVERY TIME. I read hundreds of books.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions.
and better sexual skills than you. girlfriend. she doesn’t even have the temptation. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. better looks. Most 4|Page . They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. because as a man.
. 5|Page ... laugh all you want.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. it’s funny. turn off your email and phone. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. “Come to Brazil. I’m not proud of this. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. so take a deep breath. In fact. Actually. had never kissed a girl. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. He was like. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. and he knew this. Please don’t laugh. I was a complete loser.
I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room.ARGH! . Somehow she liked me.. Once I was naked.God. calm. Meanwhile.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. but what did she know.. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.” I’m thinking.. “Calm. I met this girl who barely spoke English.” anything to distract myself. In the hotel room. Please don’t. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. Algebra... I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. So THIS was it! Haha. It felt so good. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. I finally made it into the promise land. I was really only a poor college student. Math. the most I’d ever gone out.
said something in Portuguese. It wasn’t that they were so huge. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. making the girls scream with pleasure. pathetic little boy. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. and pushed me off of her. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. they were going fast and aggressively.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.just kept pumping away. And for a long time I was in denial. and feeling like a small. And they weren’t having sex slowly. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. but I had no idea what to do about it. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. 7|Page . beating it frantically trying to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was. but it was that they’d last forever. . and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. They had complete control of pleasing these women. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed... I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was.
I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I couldn’t get hard at all. cumming immediately. their first time was at 16. seminars. So either way. and I was at 23. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. I remember that. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I had absolutely no control over when I came. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. videos. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. 16. “What is wrong with you. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. So to try and turn my sex life around. “Yeah. I would kiss her for a while. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. After three years of wild experimentation. I had to learn how to do it. And the second time I had sex.” But for them. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. I’d do 8|Page . but when you wait longer.pal?!” It sounds comical. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. 17 years old like a normal guy. That’s what happened my first time. I was like. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass.
but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. So I moved on and started dating other girls.. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. Most importantly though. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. Finally. “Oh goddd. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. 50 minutes — even an hour. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. learning where her trigger spots were. regardless of the girl I ended up with.all sorts of other stuff. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women.
I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears.. something that seemed to work with every girl. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. every time. I was having sex whenever I wanted. I need a hug.” I’d try and show them how special they were.was ready to meet the challenge. I bought you a necklace. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. Or they’d be like “Oh. “Hey. Sure.. they’d take the necklace. It was getting out of hand. but they didn’t seem satisfied. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. But something started to happen. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. practically tearing my clothes off. I had to do 10 | P a g e . Here. or Have A Small Bank Account.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex.Even If You’re “Small”. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. . These girls started to love it.
How to give women the best sex of their life. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. more and more. she’s not going to want to have children with you. It’s what we think about all day long. You’re here because of sex. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. It changed who I am. she will want you more and more. she’s not going to treat you well. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. who have given up and faced rejection. No more not feeling like a man. If she only knew! More importantly. and she’s going to be looking for other options. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. you’re going to have to last. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. humiliation. And if you can’t give a woman good sex.something with this power I had developed. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e .” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. “A man is only as faithful as his options. Chris Rock once joked.
just make sure it stays between us.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. problems I used to have. 12 | P a g e . and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. really easy for you. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. last as long as you want. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. These problems you’re having. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. You don’t need to have sex with 5. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want.
“Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. Women are the same way. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. full-body orgasms. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. 13 | P a g e . This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. We will address that in a moment. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. So to get started. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. so really think carefully.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep.
2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. now touch that. the limper you become! But don't worry. They are thinking of “Touch this. they can’t get hard. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. in the bedroom and outside it. 14 | P a g e .
When you are passive and unsure of yourself. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . at some times the emotional. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. They want you to be in charge. not confident and slightly feminine. Obviously. Show her how much you want her. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. Show her you know what you want.
and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.interaction. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. she’ll be sexually pleased. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. crazy shit. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. they’re not based on feelings.. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. 16 | P a g e . almost every woman said “doggy-style.
To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. But fortunately. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends.. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.So if you think that you’re any of these. this is what comes out.. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . Of course.
no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. or always trying to hold his hand. or kissing him. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. She is sitting on his lap. looks. looking back on it. because I couldn’t satisfy her. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. had a headache. There is no nagging. charm. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. but I had to face the truth. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. just not with me. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. Then. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. 18 | P a g e . If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. It was so painful to admit that to myself. or even social status. or was stressed and not in the mood. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses.
Sign #1 . most women do not have sex just to “have sex.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). so in this case. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Unlike many men. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Take note however. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. The more that she initiates sex. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. When a woman is initiating sex with you. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. that is the same thing. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.
Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.she wants to have sex right now or that night. Just stay calm.” “I need a massage. the sex won’t happen. “Let’s take a nap.” If you are hearing things like this. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. and don’t try and skip that step.” “I need a hug. They will say things like. chances are that she is initiating sex.” or “Lets watch a movie. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time.CAN improve your sexual skills. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. women need sex — then hey.” 25 | P a g e . Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). programming a computer. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. you had to learn. That’s basically “experienced-based learning.” I’d think. I used to think. but they are not. And no matter how good you think you are. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. they WILL improve. learning a language. Any skill in life is learned. No matter how bad you are. you’re not where you need to be. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. you can still get better. anything. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. Any skill that’s worth knowing.” That’s not true. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.
” So it’s okay to get help. It is possible. take care of it. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. Really think about that. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. you’ve got to embrace it. 26 | P a g e . you will. When you’ve got an issue in your life. It is one of my favorites. realize you’re going to get it handled. There is a saying that I love. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. and that you’ll love too. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Because you’re forced to fix it. I guarantee it. and then boom.
but she doesn’t like sex.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. This is everywhere.” Or. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. Look at YM. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually." She doesn’t get horny. The sooner you realize this. again. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. women need sex more than men. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. Their main goal in life is to have children. 27 | P a g e . the better off you’ll be. I need sex. “Hey. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. If you think that you need sex.” Yeah. but think of women. These are normal. So. and you’re. Look at all these women magazines. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. to be child-bearers. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. you do. I’m a guy. real women. instinctual level. the stuff that you look at. with their picture. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. like.
Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. They want to look desirable. make-up. You ever look at a man’s underwear.“That’s trash. but society represses it. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. buying underwear. and the examples of this are everywhere. It’s my underwear.” Women spend hours. “There it is. these pants. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. let’s move on to the next mindset. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.and other products to look good. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. 28 | P a g e .” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). They have all this sexual desire.
Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . with proper education. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. It’s not your fault.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.
Often. 30 | P a g e .V. it's HER being in the moment. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. and she's not in the moment at all. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. Don't Think. Women are feelers. It's not just you being in the moment. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. This is a bad thing.A. To start. because you want her not thinking anything. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. If her eyes are open. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. "Oh. then at the end of this chapter. but feeling. I'll run through all four. and she's not thinking about anything..Chapter 5 The P. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1.
or about different aspects of your sexuality. It's game over. 31 | P a g e .. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. or you get soft. or having sex with a woman for the first time. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis.. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. and you lose your presence and your authority.And more specifically. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. you won't have to worry about that any longer. because all of a sudden. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence.. It's a big problem. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about.. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. Of course you want her to have a good time. Nothing about. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. and you're no longer good at all.
and the wind is this variable. That is PRESENCE. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. You want to just be going by instinct. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. while you're learning this stuff." Think of just pure instinct. He's not thinking. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. 32 | P a g e . anything. It does it out of a primal instinct. So. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. when you learn a language. in the beginning. Just like anything else. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. you're thinking about it at the start. Always instinct. You're just primal. But. There'll be a learning curve. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. Just going right after it. and what's going on. and I will grab him here. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present.
AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. I'm gonna do what I like. you've gotta show that you're in charge. a woman wants a man. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. I'm the boss here. Don’t ask to do doggy style. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. to be led by the male. It's much more attractive for women. If they did. and the woman is." You wanna show that you're in charge. they would be with one! No. more dominant. You need to show that you're in charge. That's how it's been since the caveman days. but you need to be authoritative. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. you'll begin to naturally think. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. whether it's during sex or during a date.2. going to follow the lead of the man. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. "I'm in charge. You should always treat women with respect. By having that mindset of leader. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. So.
and then ramp it up from there. That's very authoritative. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. but as you see how well she responds to it. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. Get it? 34 | P a g e . after you've started gently and she is warmed up. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. Now. That's authoritative. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. pin her arms behind her head. Push her down into the bed. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). Try saying things like. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. If she seems to REALLY get off on it.. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. slowly take it to the next level. And by all means. If you're in missionary position..
. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. “Your ass is mine right now” etc...... “You are ALL MINE right now”.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. “These are my lips to kiss”. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. If this excites her.. which is something all women want to hear. powerful man. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. 35 | P a g e . Start with things like.
sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. And while physical variety is nice. It's not solely about different positions. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. You're doing her doggie-style.V. saying "Baby. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e .3. like in public. or sneaking off somewhere. and you say different things. system is VARIETY.A. because different positions give her different emotions. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one." That's one kind of a lover. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. You're slapping her ass. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. If you do different positions. Then. that Casanova. I love you so much. Something like out of a romance novel. Different positions definitely help. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. I love being inside you. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. and you have different interactions in these different positions.E. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY.
you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. But. You want to be having sex at different times. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. You can talk dirty. positions themselves aren't really that different. on Friday night. You can fuck her. if you can. but positions aren't as important. It's gonna seem monotonous. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. In the missionary position you can make love to her. it's not gonna have that variety. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. that's not very spontaneous. And I just touched upon it. Try to have various times where you have sex. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Y eah. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. So. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. 37 | P a g e . Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. So. You can talk emotionally. You only really need about four or five sexual positions.variety. Being Spontaneous So. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. It's not gonna have emotion. If it's planned. repeatedly. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety.
and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. Keep things fresh. she's not going to feel emotion. be spontaneous. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. You want as much spontaneity as possible. and in the morning when you wake up. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. If you can't be emotional yourself. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. (In a moment. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. Change the feelings that she has. There are lots of different fantasies. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. be a different kind of lover. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. And again. Do it in the shower. So in summary. and she's going to be madly in love with you. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. 4. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. So. when you're 38 | P a g e . Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES.
So now. or they'll get a girlfriend. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. The stronger the emotions. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. and in the beginning the sex is really good. It's because in the beginning. The Stronger the Emotions. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. If it's your wife. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way." If you're saying “I love you. Then that emotion dips over a time. you should be pretty emotional. or outside. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. there's so much emotion for both of you. Your bodies are new. So. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. after the initial emotions have dipped. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. either inside the bedroom. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. you need to be. even sexually or in any manner. And then the sex peters out. 39 | P a g e . because you married her. So.telling her things. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. you need to be emotional. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. They’ll get married.” you want to say it with passion. You're madly in love. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. if you're not with a girl that you like. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. make sure that you really mean it. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you.
Different emotions. teasing. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. If you're teasing a girl. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. If you're not talking in bed. and 40 | P a g e . and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Emotions are best shown through words. excitement. Feelings of being loved. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. Just keep going with the foreplay. Anticipation creates excitement So. Feelings of just being fucked. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. And the way that you can do that. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. anticipation. until finally she can't take it anymore. Play hard to get.And you want to do that in bed. and then kind of push her away. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. I just keep kissing. and she really wants you inside of you. all that teasing creates anticipation.
Kind of ease it in there.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. baby.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. Romantic talk means things like. you need to start now. 41 | P a g e . "Oh. But romantic talk is. otherwise it sounds a little weird. I miss you so much. "I love you so much.
I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.A. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. As usual.E. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.VE.V. Look for all the elements of P. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .V. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. This stuff is so close to the P. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.A. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.A.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.E system its unbelievable. anonymous. Pay close attention when you are reading these.
“Here are the rules: I touch you. “Not yet. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. I can feel the desire pool between my legs.physically big. I step back. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you.” is all that you can utter. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. kissing you softly. revealing a tight. darling. pulling me against you. sucking on your bottom lip. and before I can stop you. You pull my suit coat off.” I whisper in your ear. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. as I grind my hips against you. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. I lean into your strength and warmth. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. satin camisole.” My hands trail down your abdomen. still in my 4 inch heels. “Baby. Wrapping my arms around your neck. You help me remove them. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . you fill the room with your sexual presence. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. and appraise your amazing body. I straddle your lap. I set my briefcase on the counter. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom.
I’ve never taken control like this. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. then with a bit more strength. I grab your left hand. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. You hear it hit the floor. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking.” I manage to get out between pants. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. You grab me around my waist. I pull the camisole off too. “I’ve got something that will help”. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. Just try to relax. “You’re a naughty boy. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you.You swallow hard and nod your head. it looks like it might explode. and kiss me breathless. If at any point it gets to be too much. I’m trying to drink you all in. I can’t get enough of your different textures. and is driving you wild. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. so I continue with my lesson. where are you?” “I’m here. gently at first. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I can see the skepticism on your face. 44 | P a g e . just say yellow. My touch is light and tentative. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. “Don’t worry. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. and plant a kiss in your palm. but tonight is about control. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. “Baby.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. baby.
I inhale deeply near your navel. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I pinch your nipples. breathing on your balls and shaft. loudly. running my tongue along your side. riding you. My aching pussy has to have you now. You grab my wrist and suck harder. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. and slam into me. as our movements become frantic. as you fuck me. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. lapping up a drop of precum. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I cannot take another second. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. I cry out your name. I am yours now. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You roll me underneath you. then the other. causing your abdomen to quiver. I run my fingernails down your back. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. nearing the verge of my climax. I continue my assault. first one cheek.hard. I cry out. they’re so different from mine. but not touching them. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. and you moan. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I begin to nibble at your thighs. You slap my ass . I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. You squirm a little and cry out my name. down to your pelvic bone.
and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. trying to catch my breath.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. You lap at me slowly. bruising my tender skin. but you keep that same pace.” I take a sharp breath in. I have never felt so safe. I whimper again. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. I get on all fours for you. “Tell me that you want me. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. You start to orgasm. 46 | P a g e . You are so strong. I touch my clit as you slam into me. It builds and I beg you to finish. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. pulling me against you. yet I’m excited. “Fuck me…now. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. The orgasm is different this time. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. begging you to make me cum. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You pull back and look in my eyes. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I shudder my completion. causing me to moan. You grab my hips and pound harder. but you refuse to let me go.” you say roughly.” I feel so wanton. “Roll over. never changing pace or pressure. You wrap your arms around me. almost scream your name. my pussy throbbing with excitement.
Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. I have to pee. can’t think. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. probably western North Carolina. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. 47 | P a g e . From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. what the hell. I close my eyes and drift off too.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. You can never seem to get enough.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. but not before hearing you say softly. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. I thought. “I love you”.. Really badly. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. You cater to my whims. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear.” This is what I fantasize about . Mind numbing. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. It is a winding highway someplace rural..
I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. My room. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. He is coming after me.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. Thank god. 48 | P a g e . I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. come out with your hands in the air. And oh shit. At least I hope it is. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. Oh my word. I manage “I’m in here. I must keep driving. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. This is so weird.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. number 15.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. And he is pointing a gun at me. Such relief. there are the lights.
He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. 49 | P a g e . He exhales again. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. The cop can’t help but look at me. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. Higher still. looking at him. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals.“I had to pee.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. “How about you put that weapon away. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. Since he has seen me. It is awkward in heated kind of way. He is totally hot. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. he hasn’t said anything to me. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. look at my privates. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. Don’t shoot me.
He spreads my legs with his knee. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. His 50 | P a g e . A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. I arch my back and press my chest against him. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. I have to touch him. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. Brushing his cheek against my chest. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. This next transition is a blur. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine.I try speaking. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. “Too fast. grunts and moves in quickly. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips.
I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. He looks up with need and reverence. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I know I am beautiful. He is so strong and I know he is hard.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. My thighs are at his eye level. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I love it.
I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. I still want to be fucked. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. more. My orgasm comes fast and hard. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. It is so perfect. 52 | P a g e . I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. “More. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center.” I moan and then release. I am so wet and hot.tongue over his lips. This gets me so excited for more. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble.) But I am not done with this fantasy. Don’t stop. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing.
He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . This is when we both come together. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. I relish him being worn out. I feel like a conqueror. I feel triumphant.” he moans. panting and trying to catch his breathe. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. My ass is barely on the counter. He fills me completely. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught.
and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e . let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure.
the limper you will get. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. but not during sex. not a physical problem. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. your problem is entirely psychological.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. which basically means the harder you try.
. (5 cycles of 2). After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. This exhale is 2. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes.2. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.. nothing about life or any topic. “10-Count Breathing”. This breath is 1. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. Clear your mind other than the numbers.. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. 56 | P a g e .. and trust me when I say.
which allows you to relax more and get hard. then it will help your erections. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. And trust me. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. Sounds crazy. You’ll be glad you did. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . 3.
These include the dead lift. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. yoga is what I recommend . squat. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. dumbbell press. For further details. you learn to control your breathing as well.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. and pull-ups. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman.
your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. Here’s how: Step 1. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. no erection. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. put it at a number. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. When you don’t have presence. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Don’t fight your arousal. Instead. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex.
You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play.5 to number 9.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. give us a call if you need help with this. harder stroking. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).5 and when it turns into number 9. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting.. Step 2. Again.5. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e .
Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. 61 | P a g e . It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Step 3. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. Instead eat her out. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Step 4.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. or kiss her body. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight.
You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. women are capable of many different types. She will. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.A. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.V. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. Also. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. full body orgasms. model. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. exercise. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. 62 | P a g e . Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple.E.
Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. inner thighs. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. side of back. mouth. Kiss her neck. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e .
and emotion. smart 64 | P a g e . I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. a really sexy. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. continuous orgasmic state. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. I know this sounds ridiculous. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. repeated cumming etc. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. she was from Austria. I was dating this girl Renee. authority. variety. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence.
with no physiological hang-ups. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.v. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p.accountant. Over time with her though.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. gifts.a. and panties with my name on them. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.
kisses. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex..How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .
and the sites have TONS of videos. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. In short. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women.. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. Online porn these days is cheap. the girls are beautiful. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations.. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. so get in as much as you can. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice.
If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. Unless your penis is under 2. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. Just get naked. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. or exercises don’t waste your time. pumps. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. it will raise your testosterone. 68 | P a g e .5 inches hard it does not matter. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. stamina. Even if it does work at all. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. and maker her come. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. It’s not hiding as much as you think. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery.
Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Let’s do a quick run through. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Remember. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. But if you feel that you really need it. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e .turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Remember though.
she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Dick size is NOT the problem.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. It’s a waste of your time and money. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. don’t.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If you’re thinking of getting one. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . It hurt. Relax and Enjoy . If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help.
Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different.50% of the time.. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. whether she is coming. Something that you have to work on. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. These are psychological principles. Just FUCK her. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. if you want to last 2 minutes. 71 | P a g e . that’s fine. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Don’t think about ANYTHING. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Sassy. Conservative. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Classy. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. if you want to do something to do it. what position you are in.. the evidence is overwhelming. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. not just think about theoretically. Shy. If you want to say something say it.
72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover.
. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. boring stuff.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know.
It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. 74 | P a g e . As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. It works really well — as long as she takes it. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options.There are numerous types of birth control. Sperm lead to children. Pre-cum contains sperm.
and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Again. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. The Ring. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. I would not recommend it. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. Guys take responsibility. You can experiment with it. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. 75 | P a g e . the Shot. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. There chance of pregnancy is too high. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. The Patch. However.
If you’re going to do this be sure. Don’t get it. I’ve never had one. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. but I know people who have had. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . My friend Mike. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. it’s a very effective. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. Some STDs are very serious. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on.
I’m not going to list every STD here. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Despite it being a serious subject. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. not guess. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. you should be fine. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. Often guys will say something like. and still always you to enjoy sex. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. or condoms ruin sex. bring it up casually but firmly. Just get tested to be sure. doesn’t grip you too tight. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months.
) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. 78 | P a g e . You can use Astroglide. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out.in your head.condomdepot. Let’s review how to put on a condom. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. For overall experience.com. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom.
"baby that feels so good.Don't Wait. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Let’s go through and talk about where to start." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. 1. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl." so again stick to the basics. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Sticking with the classics like. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes." To avoid this. If you are having relatively tame sex. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). you 79 | P a g e . in 2 or 3 basic positions. Have a few” go-to” moves. and focus on your breathing.
don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. 4. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. 5. Be able to give her an orgasm. Focus on foreplay. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . You don’t have to go crazy. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer.
You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. LLC 82 | P a g e . ISN Education. It’s being a real man. Bobby Bradshaw www. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. it’s so much more than that.IncredibleSexNow. living life on your own terms.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.com 2009.
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