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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

was begging to have sex with you??. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. divorce. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. FOR ONCE. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. Awful! 1|Page . and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Also. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming.

I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. she will be yours for life. The first time I had sex I was 22. Who Am I. My lowest point though. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. She was blunt. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. no matter how much I liked her. Real-life. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. I’m not an athlete. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. would come crashing to a passionless halt. I’m not even a millionaire. and not know where her lips have been. Luckily. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. what car you drive. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Women won’t tell you this. or if you take out the trash. I'm not a celebrity.The Cheat-proof.

I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. what happened was that through my own experimentation. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . When I did get back in the game. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. EVERY TIME.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I read hundreds of books. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. Now. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things.

filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. because as a man. girlfriend. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. and better sexual skills than you. Most 4|Page . she doesn’t even have the temptation. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. better looks. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT.

“Come to Brazil. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. In fact. had never kissed a girl.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. He was like. Actually. 5|Page . I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. and he knew this.. I’m not proud of this. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. . so take a deep breath. I was a complete loser. Please don’t laugh. turn off your email and phone.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. it’s funny.. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. laugh all you want.

.God. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . I was really only a poor college student. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. “Calm. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Once I was naked. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. the most I’d ever gone out. I finally made it into the promise land. So THIS was it! Haha. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. Somehow she liked me.ARGH! . It felt so good.. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. Math. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement.” anything to distract myself. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. Algebra. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. calm.. Please don’t..Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I met this girl who barely spoke English..” I’m thinking. but what did she know. Meanwhile. In the hotel room.

and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again.just kept pumping away. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. And they weren’t having sex slowly. but it was that they’d last forever. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”.. they were going fast and aggressively. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. They had complete control of pleasing these women. 7|Page . My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. and feeling like a small. but I had no idea what to do about it. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them.. It wasn’t that they were so huge.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. I just want you to know how bad I was. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. . and pushed me off of her. And for a long time I was in denial. making the girls scream with pleasure. pathetic little boy. said something in Portuguese. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil.

I’d do 8|Page . After three years of wild experimentation. “Yeah. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. cumming immediately. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. seminars. I remember that. videos. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. That’s what happened my first time. I couldn’t get hard at all. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. “What is wrong with you. I would kiss her for a while. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with.I didn’t know how these guys could do it.pal?!” It sounds comical. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I was like. 16. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. but when you wait longer. So either way. So to try and turn my sex life around. And the second time I had sex. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I had to learn how to do it. and I was at 23. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming.” But for them. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. 17 years old like a normal guy. their first time was at 16.

“Oh goddd. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her.. So I moved on and started dating other girls. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. Most importantly though. learning where her trigger spots were. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. Finally. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over.all sorts of other stuff. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. regardless of the girl I ended up with. 50 minutes — even an hour.

” I’d try and show them how special they were. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. I was having sex whenever I wanted. “Hey. Sure. I need a hug. I had to do 10 | P a g e . They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. It was getting out of hand. they’d take the necklace. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. practically tearing my clothes off.. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner..Even If You’re “Small”. . Or they’d be like “Oh. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I bought you a necklace. or Have A Small Bank Account. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. every time. but they didn’t seem satisfied. But something started to happen. These girls started to love it.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me.was ready to meet the challenge. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. Here. something that seemed to work with every girl.

and she’s going to be looking for other options. “A man is only as faithful as his options. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. Chris Rock once joked. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. she will want you more and more. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed.something with this power I had developed. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . you’re going to have to last. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. It’s what we think about all day long. she’s not going to treat you well. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. How to give women the best sex of their life. If she only knew! More importantly. humiliation. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. she’s not going to want to have children with you. more and more. You’re here because of sex. It changed who I am. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. No more not feeling like a man. who have given up and faced rejection.

is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. last as long as you want. 12 | P a g e . These problems you’re having. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. problems I used to have. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. really easy for you. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. just make sure it stays between us. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. You don’t need to have sex with 5. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover.

Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. We will address that in a moment. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. Women are the same way. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. full-body orgasms. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. So to get started. 13 | P a g e . You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. so really think carefully.

They are thinking of “Touch this. now touch that.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. they can’t get hard. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. 14 | P a g e . the limper you become! But don't worry. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. in the bedroom and outside it.

Obviously. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Show her you know what you want. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. at some times the emotional. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . not confident and slightly feminine.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. Show her how much you want her. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. They want you to be in charge. When you are passive and unsure of yourself.

or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was.interaction. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. she’ll be sexually pleased. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. crazy shit. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex.. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. almost every woman said “doggy-style. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. they’re not based on feelings. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. 16 | P a g e ..

they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.So if you think that you’re any of these. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. this is what comes out. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things.. Of course. But fortunately.

just not with me. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. Then. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. looks. looking back on it. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or was stressed and not in the mood. or always trying to hold his hand. charm. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. or even social status. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. or kissing him. because I couldn’t satisfy her. had a headache. but I had to face the truth. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. 18 | P a g e . There is no nagging. It was so painful to admit that to myself. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. She is sitting on his lap.

that is the same thing. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you.Sign #1 . When a woman is initiating sex with you. The more that she initiates sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . so in this case. Take note however. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Unlike many men.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more.

” “I need a massage. the sex won’t happen. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” or “Lets watch a movie.” “I need a hug. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.” If you are hearing things like this. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. and don’t try and skip that step.she wants to have sex right now or that night. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. They will say things like. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . “Let’s take a nap.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. chances are that she is initiating sex. Just stay calm.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). NO ONE IS A NATURAL. And no matter how good you think you are. learning a language. they WILL improve. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser.” That’s not true. No matter how bad you are. you had to learn.CAN improve your sexual skills. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. you’re not where you need to be. Any skill in life is learned. I used to think.” I’d think. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. programming a computer. but they are not. you can still get better. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. Any skill that’s worth knowing. anything.” 25 | P a g e . Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. women need sex — then hey. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural.

and then boom. It is one of my favorites. you’ve got to embrace it. take care of it.” So it’s okay to get help. 26 | P a g e . you will. It is possible. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Because you’re forced to fix it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. There is a saying that I love. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. and that you’ll love too. When you’ve got an issue in your life. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. I guarantee it. Really think about that. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. realize you’re going to get it handled.

the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. These are normal. The sooner you realize this. again.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. I need sex." She doesn’t get horny. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. Look at YM. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. So.” Yeah. but she doesn’t like sex. “Hey. Their main goal in life is to have children. real women. the stuff that you look at. and you’re. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. with their picture. I’m a guy. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. 27 | P a g e . cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. Look at all these women magazines. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. to be child-bearers. like. the better off you’ll be. If you think that you need sex. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. but think of women. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to.” Or. women need sex more than men. instinctual level. This is everywhere. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. you do.

They want to look desirable. and the examples of this are everywhere. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. You ever look at a man’s underwear.” Women spend hours. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. They have all this sexual desire. “There it is.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). let’s move on to the next mindset. make-up. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. these pants. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. but society represses it. It’s my underwear. 28 | P a g e .“That’s trash. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. buying underwear. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.and other products to look good.

it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. with proper education. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled .NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. It’s not your fault. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.

it's HER being in the moment. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. because you want her not thinking anything. and she's not thinking about anything. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. Don't Think.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed.A. "Oh. If her eyes are open. Often.Chapter 5 The P. 30 | P a g e . but feeling. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. It's not just you being in the moment. then at the end of this chapter. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. Women are feelers.. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.V. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. and she's not in the moment at all. I'll run through all four. This is a bad thing. To start.

You lose every feeling of being in the moment. and you're no longer good at all.. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. It's a big problem. Of course you want her to have a good time. and you lose your presence and your authority. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. Nothing about. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. or about different aspects of your sexuality. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. because all of a sudden. 31 | P a g e ..And more specifically. or you get soft. It's game over.. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. you won't have to worry about that any longer.. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. or having sex with a woman for the first time. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.

So. Always instinct. 32 | P a g e . Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it." Think of just pure instinct. But. There'll be a learning curve. in the beginning. when you learn a language. and the wind is this variable. It does it out of a primal instinct. That is PRESENCE. while you're learning this stuff. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. you're thinking about it at the start. anything. You want to just be going by instinct.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. and I will grab him here. He's not thinking. and what's going on. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. Just like anything else. Just going right after it. You're just primal.

to be led by the male. By having that mindset of leader. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . I'm the boss here. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading." You wanna show that you're in charge. and the woman is. It's much more attractive for women. You need to show that you're in charge. more dominant. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. but you need to be authoritative. So. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. Don’t ask to do doggy style. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction.2. You should always treat women with respect. "I'm in charge. you'll begin to naturally think. If they did. That's how it's been since the caveman days. a woman wants a man. I'm gonna do what I like. whether it's during sex or during a date. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. they would be with one! No. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. going to follow the lead of the man. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. you've gotta show that you're in charge.

give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. pin her arms behind her head. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. Now. That's very authoritative.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. Try saying things like. slowly take it to the next level. Push her down into the bed. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. And by all means. and then ramp it up from there. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair.. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). If you're in missionary position. Get it? 34 | P a g e . "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty.. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. but as you see how well she responds to it. That's authoritative.

There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. powerful man... the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.... You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. Start with things like. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. If this excites her.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. which is something all women want to hear.. “You are ALL MINE right now”. “These are my lips to kiss”. 35 | P a g e .. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.

Something like out of a romance novel. saying "Baby. I love being inside you." That's one kind of a lover. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. Different positions definitely help. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. It's not solely about different positions. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. that Casanova. I love you so much.A. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. You're slapping her ass. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. system is VARIETY. You're doing her doggie-style. because different positions give her different emotions.V. like in public.E. And while physical variety is nice.3. or sneaking off somewhere. and you have different interactions in these different positions. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . If you do different positions. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. Then. and you say different things. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy.

And I just touched upon it. Y eah. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. that's not very spontaneous. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. It's gonna seem monotonous. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. if you can. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. So. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. It's not gonna have emotion. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. repeatedly. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. on Friday night. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You can talk dirty. 37 | P a g e . You can fuck her. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. positions themselves aren't really that different. You want to be having sex at different times. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. it's not gonna have that variety. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. But. If it's planned. but positions aren't as important. Try to have various times where you have sex. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety.variety. You can talk emotionally. So. Being Spontaneous So.

And again. Keep things fresh. be spontaneous. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. If you can't be emotional yourself. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. So. and in the morning when you wake up. she's not going to feel emotion. be a different kind of lover. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. Do it in the shower. There are lots of different fantasies. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. You want as much spontaneity as possible. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. 4. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. So in summary. when you're 38 | P a g e . when you make her feel a variety of emotions. (In a moment. Change the feelings that she has. and she's going to be madly in love with you.

Women want to feel different emotions during sex. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. Your bodies are new. after the initial emotions have dipped." If you're saying “I love you. Then that emotion dips over a time. if you're not with a girl that you like. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you.telling her things. The Stronger the Emotions. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. either inside the bedroom. you should be pretty emotional. So now. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. you need to be emotional. 39 | P a g e . So. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. or outside. The stronger the emotions. They’ll get married. or they'll get a girlfriend. If it's your wife. make sure that you really mean it. there's so much emotion for both of you. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. and in the beginning the sex is really good.” you want to say it with passion. You're madly in love. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. It's because in the beginning. even sexually or in any manner. you need to be. because you married her. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. And then the sex peters out. So. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl.

anticipation. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Just keep going with the foreplay. Feelings of just being fucked. I just keep kissing. Anticipation creates excitement So. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. Feelings of being loved. teasing. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. and 40 | P a g e . If you're not talking in bed. Play hard to get. and then kind of push her away. And the way that you can do that. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. excitement. Different emotions. all that teasing creates anticipation. If you're teasing a girl. and she really wants you inside of you. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Emotions are best shown through words.And you want to do that in bed. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. until finally she can't take it anymore. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion.

” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. "Oh. Kind of ease it in there. baby. Romantic talk means things like. I miss you so much. 41 | P a g e . "I love you so much. But romantic talk is.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. you need to start now. otherwise it sounds a little weird." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.

Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.E system its unbelievable. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .A. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. Pay close attention when you are reading these. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.A. Look for all the elements of P. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.VE. This stuff is so close to the P. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. As usual.V.E.A.V. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. anonymous.

I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. and appraise your amazing body.” is all that you can utter. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. sucking on your bottom lip. kissing you softly. I lean into your strength and warmth. Wrapping my arms around your neck.” I whisper in your ear. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. You help me remove them. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. still in my 4 inch heels. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. and before I can stop you. revealing a tight. pulling me against you. “Not yet. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. as I grind my hips against you. “Here are the rules: I touch you. I straddle your lap. darling.” My hands trail down your abdomen. satin camisole. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I set my briefcase on the counter. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. you fill the room with your sexual presence. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. You pull my suit coat off. I step back. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. “Baby. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you.physically big.

I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. so I continue with my lesson. but tonight is about control. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I can see the skepticism on your face. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I grab your left hand. “I’ve got something that will help”. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. “Don’t worry. Just try to relax. and is driving you wild. “Baby.You swallow hard and nod your head. I’ve never taken control like this. My touch is light and tentative. If at any point it gets to be too much. I’m trying to drink you all in. gently at first. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. and kiss me breathless. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. “You’re a naughty boy. just say yellow. it looks like it might explode. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. and plant a kiss in your palm. then with a bit more strength. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I pull the camisole off too. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. You grab me around my waist. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. where are you?” “I’m here.” I manage to get out between pants. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. 44 | P a g e . I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. baby. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. You hear it hit the floor.

as you fuck me. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. I begin to nibble at your thighs. as our movements become frantic. loudly. then the other. first one cheek. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You squirm a little and cry out my name. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. they’re so different from mine. My aching pussy has to have you now. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I cry out your name. running my tongue along your side. down to your pelvic bone. and slam into me. I run my fingernails down your back. I cry out. I am yours now. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.hard. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I pinch your nipples. You slap my ass .I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I cannot take another second. riding you. I continue my assault. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I inhale deeply near your navel. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. You grab my wrist and suck harder. and you moan. causing your abdomen to quiver. nearing the verge of my climax. but not touching them. breathing on your balls and shaft. You roll me underneath you. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. lapping up a drop of precum.

You pull back and look in my eyes. I whimper again. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. You grab my hips and pound harder. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs.” I take a sharp breath in. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. but you keep that same pace. causing me to moan. “Roll over. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. You lap at me slowly. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa.” I feel so wanton. It builds and I beg you to finish. never changing pace or pressure. 46 | P a g e . I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. “Tell me that you want me. I get on all fours for you. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies.” you say roughly. You wrap your arms around me. begging you to make me cum. You start to orgasm. I can feel my juices running down my legs. almost scream your name. trying to catch my breath. yet I’m excited.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. my pussy throbbing with excitement. but you refuse to let me go. I shudder my completion. bruising my tender skin. I have never felt so safe. pulling me against you. You are so strong. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. I touch my clit as you slam into me. “Fuck me…now. The orgasm is different this time. Your tongue slides across my aching clit.

I have to pee.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. You cater to my whims. Mind numbing. can’t think. “I love you”. I feel like a goddess every time we make love.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. I thought. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. what the hell. but not before hearing you say softly.” This is what I fantasize about . 47 | P a g e . Really badly.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. probably western North Carolina. You can never seem to get enough. It is a winding highway someplace rural. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do.. I close my eyes and drift off too. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. But when I saw the ad for fantasies..

is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. come out with your hands in the air. Thank god. number 15. At least I hope it is. 48 | P a g e . My room. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. And he is pointing a gun at me. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. He is coming after me. And oh shit. there are the lights. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I must keep driving. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. This is so weird. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. Such relief. I keep my foot nailed to the petal.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. Oh my word. I manage “I’m in here.

The cop can’t help but look at me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. Don’t shoot me. He exhales again. He is totally hot. he hasn’t said anything to me. look at my privates. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. Since he has seen me. Higher still. It is awkward in heated kind of way. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. 49 | P a g e . I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile.“I had to pee. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. “How about you put that weapon away. looking at him.

I arch my back and press my chest against him. He spreads my legs with his knee. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. “Too fast. This next transition is a blur. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. Brushing his cheek against my chest. His 50 | P a g e . I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. grunts and moves in quickly. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain.I try speaking. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I have to touch him.

I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. He looks up with need and reverence.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. He is so strong and I know he is hard. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I know I am beautiful. I love it. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . My thighs are at his eye level. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining.

I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I still want to be fucked. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. 52 | P a g e . His hands are roughly he kneading my ass.” I moan and then release. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. It is so perfect. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. more. “More. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center.tongue over his lips. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. Don’t stop. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. I am so wet and hot. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me.) But I am not done with this fantasy. This gets me so excited for more.

” he moans.“Oh Jesus in heaven. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. He fills me completely. I feel triumphant. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. This is when we both come together. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. My ass is barely on the counter. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I feel like a conqueror. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. I relish him being worn out. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me.

So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. 54 | P a g e . let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. and what to do about them.

Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. the limper you will get. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . not a physical problem. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. but not during sex. which basically means the harder you try. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. your problem is entirely psychological.

and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.. Clear your mind other than the numbers.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10... After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. “10-Count Breathing”.. This breath is 1. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. and trust me when I say. nothing about life or any topic. This exhale is 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. (5 cycles of 2).2. 56 | P a g e .  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.

as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . 3. then it will help your erections.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. And trust me. You’ll be glad you did. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. which allows you to relax more and get hard. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. Sounds crazy.

Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. yoga is what I recommend . Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. For further details. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. These include the dead lift. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. dumbbell press.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. squat. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. and pull-ups. you learn to control your breathing as well. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all.

inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Instead. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. no erection. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. When you don’t have presence. put it at a number. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. Don’t fight your arousal. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. Here’s how: Step 1. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to.

5. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . harder stroking. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6.5 to number 9.5 and when it turns into number 9. Again. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. give us a call if you need help with this.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Step 2. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever..

Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Step 4. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. 61 | P a g e . Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Instead eat her out. Step 3. or kiss her body. See demonstration in the DVD.

exercise.V.A. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. model.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. Also. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. women are capable of many different types.E. 62 | P a g e . She will. full body orgasms. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm.

 While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . inner thighs. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her neck. side of back. mouth.

she was from Austria. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. authority. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. smart 64 | P a g e . It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. a really sexy. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. I know this sounds ridiculous. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. and emotion. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. repeated cumming etc.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. variety. I was dating this girl Renee. continuous orgasmic state. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you.

e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . Over time with her though. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p. with no physiological hang-ups. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.accountant.v. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.a. and panties with my name on them. gifts.

she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.. kisses. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.

it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. Online porn these days is cheap.. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. and the sites have TONS of videos. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good.. In short. the girls are beautiful. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. so get in as much as you can. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations.

" This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Even if it does work at all. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Just get naked. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. 68 | P a g e .Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. or exercises don’t waste your time. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Unless your penis is under 2. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. and maker her come. it will raise your testosterone. stamina. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker.5 inches hard it does not matter. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. pumps. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body.

Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Remember. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Remember though. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. But if you feel that you really need it.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Let’s do a quick run through.

Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. It’s a waste of your time and money. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. don’t. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Relax and Enjoy . It May Just Be in Your Head Look. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. It hurt. If you’re thinking of getting one. Dick size is NOT the problem. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it.

ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. whether she is coming. not just think about theoretically. Conservative. If you want to say something say it. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. Something that you have to work on. if you want to do something to do it.. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. the evidence is overwhelming. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Shy.. what position you are in. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. 71 | P a g e . I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. if you want to last 2 minutes. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Just FUCK her.50% of the time. that’s fine. Sassy. Classy. These are psychological principles.

72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover.

if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).. boring stuff. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.

If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. Sperm lead to children. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.There are numerous types of birth control. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. 74 | P a g e . I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. Pre-cum contains sperm. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. It works really well — as long as she takes it. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control.

The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Guys take responsibility. the Shot. There chance of pregnancy is too high. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. I would not recommend it. The Ring. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. You can experiment with it. Again. The Patch. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. 75 | P a g e . However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. However.

Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Don’t get it. it’s a very effective. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. Some STDs are very serious. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. I’ve never had one. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. My friend Mike. but I know people who have had. If you’re going to do this be sure.

if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. bring it up casually but firmly. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. or condoms ruin sex. you should be fine. doesn’t grip you too tight. not guess. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. Just get tested to be sure. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Often guys will say something like. It’s all 77 | P a g e . I’m not going to list every STD here. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. and still always you to enjoy sex.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Despite it being a serious subject. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures.

(Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. You can use Astroglide. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. I highly do recommend that Durex Love.com. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online.in your head.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break.condomdepot. Let’s review how to put on a condom. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. 78 | P a g e . If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. For overall experience. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.

If you are having relatively tame sex. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Let’s go through and talk about where to start. Sticking with the classics like. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations.Don't Wait. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. "baby that feels so good. 1. you 79 | P a g e . You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Have a few” go-to” moves." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. and focus on your breathing." so again stick to the basics. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl." To avoid this. in 2 or 3 basic positions. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise.

4. Be able to give her an orgasm. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. 5. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focus on foreplay.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You don’t have to go crazy. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation.

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Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell.IncredibleSexNow. it’s so much more than that. ISN Education. Bobby Bradshaw www. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. LLC 82 | P a g e . Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. It’s being a real man.com 2009. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. living life on your own terms. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom.