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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Also. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Awful! 1|Page . All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. was begging to have sex with you??. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. FOR ONCE. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. divorce.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman.

Real-life. I'm not a celebrity. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. she will be yours for life. I’m not even a millionaire. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. or if you take out the trash. what car you drive. Women won’t tell you this. and not know where her lips have been. The first time I had sex I was 22. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. would come crashing to a passionless halt.The Cheat-proof. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Luckily. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . I’m not an athlete. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Who Am I. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. My lowest point though. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. no matter how much I liked her. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. She was blunt.

what happened was that through my own experimentation. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. Now. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. I read hundreds of books.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. When I did get back in the game. EVERY TIME. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions.

and better sexual skills than you. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. better looks. she doesn’t even have the temptation. because as a man. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. Most 4|Page . girlfriend.

guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I was a complete loser. . I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. it’s funny. laugh all you want. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22.. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. Please don’t laugh. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. 5|Page . so take a deep breath.. turn off your email and phone. I’m not proud of this. Actually. had never kissed a girl. “Come to Brazil. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. In fact. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist.. He was like. and he knew this.

I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed.God. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. Somehow she liked me. So THIS was it! Haha. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. the most I’d ever gone out. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating.” anything to distract myself. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . In the hotel room.. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I was really only a poor college student. I finally made it into the promise land. Math.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. Algebra.. Once I was naked. calm. Please don’t.ARGH! . but what did she know. It felt so good. Meanwhile. “Calm. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex.” I’m thinking. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet... After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times.. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement.

7|Page .. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. but I had no idea what to do about it. And they weren’t having sex slowly.. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. and pushed me off of her. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. I just want you to know how bad I was. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. and feeling like a small. They had complete control of pleasing these women. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. making the girls scream with pleasure. It wasn’t that they were so huge. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. but it was that they’d last forever. And for a long time I was in denial. they were going fast and aggressively. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. .just kept pumping away. pathetic little boy. said something in Portuguese.

After three years of wild experimentation. 16. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. 17 years old like a normal guy. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I would kiss her for a while. And the second time I had sex.pal?!” It sounds comical. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I had absolutely no control over when I came. So either way. their first time was at 16. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. cumming immediately. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. I had to learn how to do it. seminars. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. videos. but when you wait longer. So to try and turn my sex life around. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I remember that. and I was at 23. I’d do 8|Page . “What is wrong with you. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. “Yeah. I couldn’t get hard at all. I was like. That’s what happened my first time. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right.” But for them.

50 minutes — even an hour. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. So I moved on and started dating other girls.. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought.all sorts of other stuff. learning where her trigger spots were. Most importantly though. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. Finally. regardless of the girl I ended up with. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. “Oh goddd.

These girls started to love it. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. Sure. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny.was ready to meet the challenge.. something that seemed to work with every girl.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. Here. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. but they didn’t seem satisfied..” I’d try and show them how special they were. Or they’d be like “Oh. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. . they’d take the necklace. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. I need a hug. But something started to happen.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. “Hey.Even If You’re “Small”. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. It was getting out of hand. or Have A Small Bank Account. I had to do 10 | P a g e . I bought you a necklace. I was having sex whenever I wanted. practically tearing my clothes off. every time. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me.

It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. “A man is only as faithful as his options. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. and she’s going to be looking for other options. she’s not going to want to have children with you. If she only knew! More importantly. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. she will want you more and more. It changed who I am. humiliation. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. more and more. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. It’s what we think about all day long. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. who have given up and faced rejection. No more not feeling like a man. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . Chris Rock once joked. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. You’re here because of sex. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts.something with this power I had developed. you’re going to have to last. she’s not going to treat you well. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. How to give women the best sex of their life.

you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. really easy for you. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. problems I used to have. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. These problems you’re having. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. 12 | P a g e . You don’t need to have sex with 5. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. last as long as you want. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. just make sure it stays between us.

so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. We will address that in a moment. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. Women are the same way. full-body orgasms. so really think carefully. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. 13 | P a g e . So to get started.

we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. the limper you become! But don't worry. they can’t get hard. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. now touch that. They are thinking of “Touch this.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. in the bedroom and outside it. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. 14 | P a g e . If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her.

it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. Show her how much you want her. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. They want you to be in charge. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her you know what you want.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. not confident and slightly feminine. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. Obviously. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. at some times the emotional.

6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. she’ll be sexually pleased.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman.. they’re not based on feelings. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex.. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. 16 | P a g e . and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.interaction. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. almost every woman said “doggy-style. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. crazy shit.

To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. Of course. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.. this is what comes out. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e .So if you think that you’re any of these.. But fortunately.

looking back on it.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. She is sitting on his lap. 18 | P a g e . at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. or always trying to hold his hand. Then. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. because I couldn’t satisfy her. looks. It was so painful to admit that to myself. but I had to face the truth. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. There is no nagging. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. charm. or was stressed and not in the mood. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. just not with me. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. had a headache. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. or even social status. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or kissing him.

you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e .” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. The more that she initiates sex. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. that is the same thing. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. Unlike many men.Sign #1 . You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. so in this case. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. When a woman is initiating sex with you. Take note however. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.

She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. They will say things like.she wants to have sex right now or that night.” or “Lets watch a movie. and don’t try and skip that step. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.” If you are hearing things like this. chances are that she is initiating sex. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . Just stay calm. the sex won’t happen. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.” “I need a hug. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. “Let’s take a nap. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a massage. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. women need sex — then hey. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time.CAN improve your sexual skills. Any skill in life is learned. I used to think. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. Any skill that’s worth knowing. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. No matter how bad you are. And no matter how good you think you are. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. anything. but they are not. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. they WILL improve. you can still get better.” I’d think. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. you’re not where you need to be. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).” That’s not true. you had to learn. learning a language.” 25 | P a g e . programming a computer.

” So it’s okay to get help. It is one of my favorites. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Because you’re forced to fix it. take care of it. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. I guarantee it. Really think about that. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. When you’ve got an issue in your life. 26 | P a g e . You can be better in bed than any guy you know. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. and then boom. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. you’ve got to embrace it. It is possible. There is a saying that I love. you will. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. and that you’ll love too. realize you’re going to get it handled.

instinctual level. “Hey. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. like. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. the stuff that you look at. Look at YM. Look at all these women magazines. I’m a guy.” Or. the better off you’ll be. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys.” Yeah. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. and you’re. These are normal. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. If you think that you need sex. This is everywhere. women need sex more than men. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. Their main goal in life is to have children. with their picture. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. So. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual." She doesn’t get horny. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. I need sex. The sooner you realize this. 27 | P a g e . real women. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. but think of women. again. you do. to be child-bearers. but she doesn’t like sex.

make-up. and the examples of this are everywhere.” Women spend hours. 28 | P a g e .and other products to look good. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. buying underwear. let’s move on to the next mindset. but society represses it. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. They want to look desirable. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. You ever look at a man’s underwear. It’s my underwear.“That’s trash. They have all this sexual desire. these pants. “There it is. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.

NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . with proper education. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . It’s not your fault.

This is a bad thing. To start. it's HER being in the moment.Chapter 5 The P. Often. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. I'll run through all four. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. Women are feelers. and she's not thinking about anything. If her eyes are open. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. and she's not in the moment at all. 30 | P a g e .V. then at the end of this chapter. because you want her not thinking anything. but feeling.. Don't Think. "Oh. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything.A. It's not just you being in the moment.

. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. Nothing about.. 31 | P a g e .And more specifically. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. or about different aspects of your sexuality. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. or having sex with a woman for the first time. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. It's game over. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. because all of a sudden. and you lose your presence and your authority... and you're no longer good at all. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. Of course you want her to have a good time. or you get soft. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. It's a big problem. you won't have to worry about that any longer.

anything. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. Just like anything else." Think of just pure instinct. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. You want to just be going by instinct. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. It does it out of a primal instinct. 32 | P a g e . Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. He's not thinking. while you're learning this stuff. You're just primal. Just going right after it. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. when you learn a language.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. But. and what's going on. in the beginning. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. and I will grab him here. There'll be a learning curve. Always instinct. So. you're thinking about it at the start. That is PRESENCE. and the wind is this variable. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present.

2. but you need to be authoritative. they would be with one! No. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. I'm the boss here. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. more dominant. "I'm in charge. you've gotta show that you're in charge. Don’t ask to do doggy style. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. to be led by the male. So. and the woman is. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . If they did. You should always treat women with respect. a woman wants a man. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. I'm gonna do what I like. whether it's during sex or during a date. going to follow the lead of the man. That's how it's been since the caveman days." You wanna show that you're in charge. By having that mindset of leader. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. You need to show that you're in charge. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. It's much more attractive for women. you'll begin to naturally think.

I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). pin her arms behind her head. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. Get it? 34 | P a g e . after you've started gently and she is warmed up. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. Try saying things like. That's authoritative. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. slowly take it to the next level. If you're in missionary position. Now.. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty.. That's very authoritative. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. Push her down into the bed. and then ramp it up from there.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. And by all means. but as you see how well she responds to it. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first.

. “These are my lips to kiss”.. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. 35 | P a g e . which is something all women want to hear. If this excites her.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. powerful man. “You are ALL MINE right now”.. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. Start with things like...

system is VARIETY. Then. I love you so much. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. and you have different interactions in these different positions. If you do different positions. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. You're slapping her ass. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. You're doing her doggie-style. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. because different positions give her different emotions. and you say different things.A. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. saying "Baby.3. And while physical variety is nice. It's not solely about different positions. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy.E. Different positions definitely help. or sneaking off somewhere." That's one kind of a lover.V. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. I love being inside you. that Casanova. like in public. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. Something like out of a romance novel.

on Friday night. But. repeatedly. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Try to have various times where you have sex. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. In the missionary position you can make love to her. 37 | P a g e . being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. You can talk emotionally. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. So. It's not gonna have emotion. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. Being Spontaneous So. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. If it's planned. if you can. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex.variety. that's not very spontaneous. You want to be having sex at different times. It's gonna seem monotonous. So. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. it's not gonna have that variety. but positions aren't as important. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. You can fuck her. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. Y eah. And I just touched upon it. You can talk dirty. positions themselves aren't really that different.

So. be a different kind of lover. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. 4. and she's going to be madly in love with you. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. There are lots of different fantasies. when you're 38 | P a g e . (In a moment. Keep things fresh. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. You want as much spontaneity as possible. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. So in summary. be spontaneous. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. Change the feelings that she has. And again. Do it in the shower. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. If you can't be emotional yourself.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. she's not going to feel emotion. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. and in the morning when you wake up.

it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. if you're not with a girl that you like. The stronger the emotions. either inside the bedroom. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. 39 | P a g e . Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. And then the sex peters out. Then that emotion dips over a time. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning." If you're saying “I love you. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. They’ll get married. So. or outside. there's so much emotion for both of you. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. because you married her.telling her things. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. So now. and in the beginning the sex is really good. even sexually or in any manner. The Stronger the Emotions. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. Your bodies are new. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. make sure that you really mean it. or they'll get a girlfriend. after the initial emotions have dipped. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. You're madly in love. It's because in the beginning. you need to be emotional. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. If it's your wife. So. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. you should be pretty emotional. you need to be.” you want to say it with passion. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions.

until finally she can't take it anymore. Just keep going with the foreplay. Different emotions. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. If you're teasing a girl.And you want to do that in bed. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. And the way that you can do that. Feelings of being loved. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. anticipation. If you're not talking in bed. Emotions are best shown through words. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Anticipation creates excitement So. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. teasing. Feelings of just being fucked. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Play hard to get. and she really wants you inside of you. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. excitement. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. and then kind of push her away. I just keep kissing. all that teasing creates anticipation. and 40 | P a g e . Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom.

” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. But romantic talk is. baby. I miss you so much. Romantic talk means things like. Kind of ease it in there. you need to start now.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. "I love you so much. 41 | P a g e . otherwise it sounds a little weird. "Oh. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby.

Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . This stuff is so close to the P.A. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.V.E system its unbelievable.V.VE. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.A. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. anonymous. Pay close attention when you are reading these. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. Look for all the elements of P.A. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. As usual. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.E.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.

My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. you fill the room with your sexual presence. I feel your hands slide up over my hips.” I whisper in your ear. “Not yet. I step back. You pull my suit coat off. I straddle your lap. Wrapping my arms around your neck. revealing a tight. “Here are the rules: I touch you. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . pulling me against you. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. and appraise your amazing body. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. I set my briefcase on the counter. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. kissing you softly. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. darling.physically big. as I grind my hips against you. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. still in my 4 inch heels.” My hands trail down your abdomen. sucking on your bottom lip. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. “Baby. You help me remove them. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. and before I can stop you. I lean into your strength and warmth. satin camisole. Just lie back and let me pleasure you.” is all that you can utter. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur.

My touch is light and tentative. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. but tonight is about control. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt.You swallow hard and nod your head. gently at first. it looks like it might explode. I can’t get enough of your different textures.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. “I’ve got something that will help”. I pull the camisole off too. where are you?” “I’m here. You grab me around my waist. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. baby. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. then with a bit more strength. I grab your left hand. so I continue with my lesson. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I can see the skepticism on your face. “Baby. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. and is driving you wild. “Don’t worry. I’ve never taken control like this. 44 | P a g e .” I manage to get out between pants. and plant a kiss in your palm. You hear it hit the floor.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. “You’re a naughty boy. and kiss me breathless. just say yellow. If at any point it gets to be too much. Just try to relax. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I’m trying to drink you all in. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking.

down to your pelvic bone. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. they’re so different from mine. My aching pussy has to have you now. I begin to nibble at your thighs. You squirm a little and cry out my name. You grab my wrist and suck harder. riding you. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I cry out. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. You slap my ass . I inhale deeply near your navel. running my tongue along your side. I cannot take another second. and slam into me. I cry out your name. as you fuck me. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. breathing on your balls and shaft. You roll me underneath you. loudly. The sting of your broken skin excites you. I run my fingernails down your back. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. I continue my assault. I pinch your nipples. first one cheek. but not touching them. causing your abdomen to quiver. and you moan. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. then the other. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. as our movements become frantic. I am yours now.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. lapping up a drop of precum. A flush has 45 | P a g e . nearing the verge of my climax. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach.hard. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.

bruising my tender skin. my pussy throbbing with excitement. causing me to moan. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. but you keep that same pace. You lap at me slowly.” I take a sharp breath in. “Tell me that you want me. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. begging you to make me cum. “Roll over. I collapse onto our oversized sofa.” I feel so wanton. You are so strong. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. never changing pace or pressure. I whimper again. It builds and I beg you to finish. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. You pull back and look in my eyes. You wrap your arms around me. The orgasm is different this time. I have never felt so safe. You grab my hips and pound harder. trying to catch my breath. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. almost scream your name. I get on all fours for you.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. “Fuck me…now. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. I touch my clit as you slam into me. You start to orgasm. yet I’m excited. 46 | P a g e . causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. but you refuse to let me go. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. pulling me against you. I shudder my completion.” you say roughly.

Really badly. I thought. You cater to my whims.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way..“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. I have to pee. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.. You can never seem to get enough. what the hell. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. 47 | P a g e . There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.” This is what I fantasize about . “I love you”. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. can’t think. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. Mind numbing.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. but not before hearing you say softly. probably western North Carolina. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. It is a winding highway someplace rural.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. I close my eyes and drift off too.

Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. come out with your hands in the air. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. Such relief. This is so weird.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. And he is pointing a gun at me. He is coming after me. I manage “I’m in here. I must keep driving. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. My room.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. And oh shit. Thank god. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. there are the lights. At least I hope it is. number 15.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. 48 | P a g e . I keep my foot nailed to the petal. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. Oh my word. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front.

“I had to pee. looking at him. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. Higher still. He is totally hot.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. He exhales again. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. 49 | P a g e . look at my privates.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. It is awkward in heated kind of way. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. “How about you put that weapon away. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. Don’t shoot me. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. Since he has seen me. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. he hasn’t said anything to me. The cop can’t help but look at me.

He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. grunts and moves in quickly. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. “Too fast. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I arch my back and press my chest against him. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. This next transition is a blur. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. I have to touch him. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. His 50 | P a g e .I try speaking. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. Brushing his cheek against my chest. He spreads my legs with his knee.

He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He looks up with need and reverence. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I love it. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. My thighs are at his eye level. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I know I am beautiful. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop.

His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. 52 | P a g e . I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. Don’t stop. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. “More. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. It is so perfect. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. This gets me so excited for more. I still want to be fucked. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing.” I moan and then release. I am so wet and hot. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me.tongue over his lips. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. more. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. My orgasm comes fast and hard. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center.

He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. This is when we both come together. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. He fills me completely. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I feel like a conqueror. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I feel triumphant. My ass is barely on the counter. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e .” he moans. I relish him being worn out. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me.“Oh Jesus in heaven.

and what to do about them. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. 54 | P a g e .

which basically means the harder you try.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. not a physical problem. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . but not during sex. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. the limper you will get. your problem is entirely psychological. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.

After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed.2. 56 | P a g e .. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. This breath is 1. and trust me when I say.. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. “10-Count Breathing”. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing.. (5 cycles of 2).. Clear your mind other than the numbers. This exhale is 2. nothing about life or any topic.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.

Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. then it will help your erections. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. 3. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. which allows you to relax more and get hard. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. You’ll be glad you did. Sounds crazy. And trust me. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly.

For further details. dumbbell press. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. yoga is what I recommend . Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. These include the dead lift. squat. you learn to control your breathing as well.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. and pull-ups. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman.

The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. put it at a number. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. no erection. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. Instead. Don’t fight your arousal. Here’s how: Step 1. When you don’t have presence. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. It’s just going to take a little bit of work.

or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. Step 2. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. give us a call if you need help with this.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Again.5 to number 9.. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.5 and when it turns into number 9.5. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. harder stroking. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.

Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Step 4. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Step 3. 61 | P a g e . Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. See demonstration in the DVD. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. or kiss her body. Instead eat her out. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style.

Also. exercise. women are capable of many different types.E. She will.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Physical Stimulation Orgasms.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. model. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.A. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. 62 | P a g e . meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.V. full body orgasms.

inner thighs. mouth. Kiss her neck.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . side of back.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. Don’t do anything else just leave it there.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.

and emotion. continuous orgasmic state. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. repeated cumming etc. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. a really sexy. I know this sounds ridiculous. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. she was from Austria.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. smart 64 | P a g e . I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. variety. I was dating this girl Renee. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. authority.

When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. gifts. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.a. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.accountant.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. with no physiological hang-ups. Over time with her though.v. and panties with my name on them. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.

she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you.. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.. kisses. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually.

That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. the girls are beautiful. In short. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e .. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. and the sites have TONS of videos.. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. so get in as much as you can. Online porn these days is cheap. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn.

or exercises don’t waste your time. Unless your penis is under 2. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. and maker her come. 68 | P a g e .Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. pumps. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. it will raise your testosterone. Just get naked. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. stamina. Even if it does work at all.5 inches hard it does not matter. and you’ll be able to move better in bed." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. It’s not hiding as much as you think.

Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. But if you feel that you really need it. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Remember. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e .turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Remember though. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Let’s do a quick run through.

Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Dick size is NOT the problem.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. It hurt. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. It’s a waste of your time and money. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Relax and Enjoy . If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. don’t. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. If you’re thinking of getting one. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore.

As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. if you want to do something to do it.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Sassy. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. If you want to say something say it. the evidence is overwhelming. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Just FUCK her. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time.50% of the time. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Classy. Conservative. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. if you want to last 2 minutes. Shy. not just think about theoretically. that’s fine. 71 | P a g e ... That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. what position you are in. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. whether she is coming. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Something that you have to work on. These are psychological principles.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. boring stuff.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).

If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge).) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It works really well — as long as she takes it. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle.There are numerous types of birth control. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. 74 | P a g e . The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Sperm lead to children. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. Pre-cum contains sperm.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate.

The Ring. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. There chance of pregnancy is too high. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. You can experiment with it. Again. the Shot. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. I would not recommend it. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. 75 | P a g e . Guys take responsibility. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. The Patch. However.

If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. I’ve never had one. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. My friend Mike. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. but I know people who have had. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. it’s a very effective. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . Don’t get it. Some STDs are very serious. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. If you’re going to do this be sure.

What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. you should be fine. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. and still always you to enjoy sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. doesn’t grip you too tight. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Despite it being a serious subject. or condoms ruin sex. Always ask a woman about her sexual history.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. I’m not going to list every STD here. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. not guess. Often guys will say something like. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Just get tested to be sure. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. bring it up casually but firmly. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. that is completely STD free as are you yourself.

If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.in your head. You can use Astroglide. Let’s review how to put on a condom. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable.condomdepot. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom.com. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. 78 | P a g e . The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. For overall experience. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.

Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once." To avoid this. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. Have a few” go-to” moves. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. "baby that feels so good. in 2 or 3 basic positions. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. you 79 | P a g e . 1. Sticking with the classics like. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!).Don't Wait. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. and focus on your breathing. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. If you are having relatively tame sex." so again stick to the basics. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise.

don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Focus on foreplay. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. 4. You don’t have to go crazy. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. 5. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Be able to give her an orgasm. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay.

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Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. It’s being a real man. it’s so much more than that. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get.com 2009. LLC 82 | P a g e . living life on your own terms. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. Bobby Bradshaw www.IncredibleSexNow. ISN Education.