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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. divorce. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. was begging to have sex with you??. Also.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. FOR ONCE. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. Awful! 1|Page . Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating.

and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. Who Am I. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. The first time I had sex I was 22. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . I'm not a celebrity. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. Women won’t tell you this. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I’m not even a millionaire. Real-life. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Luckily. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. she will be yours for life. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. would come crashing to a passionless halt. or if you take out the trash. and not know where her lips have been. I’m not an athlete. what car you drive. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. She was blunt. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife.The Cheat-proof. My lowest point though. no matter how much I liked her.

but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. When I did get back in the game. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). what happened was that through my own experimentation. Now. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. EVERY TIME. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I still have my day job as a business consultant.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I read hundreds of books.

because as a man. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. and better sexual skills than you. she doesn’t even have the temptation. better looks. girlfriend. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. Most 4|Page . you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover.

Please don’t laugh. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation.. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. I was a complete loser.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women.. I’m not proud of this. 5|Page .. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. In fact. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. laugh all you want. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. Actually. and he knew this. He was like. had never kissed a girl. . I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. so take a deep breath. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. it’s funny. turn off your email and phone. “Come to Brazil. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash.

. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room..ARGH! . After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I met this girl who barely spoke English. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. but what did she know.. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. Once I was naked.” anything to distract myself. I was really only a poor college student. calm. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement..God. Math. So THIS was it! Haha. In the hotel room. Please don’t.” I’m thinking. Somehow she liked me.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. “Calm. Meanwhile. the most I’d ever gone out.. Algebra. It felt so good. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I finally made it into the promise land. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.

pathetic little boy. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. they were going fast and aggressively. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. making the girls scream with pleasure.. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. and feeling like a small. said something in Portuguese. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. but I had no idea what to do about it. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”.just kept pumping away. . It wasn’t that they were so huge. They had complete control of pleasing these women. and pushed me off of her. but it was that they’d last forever.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though.. And for a long time I was in denial. And they weren’t having sex slowly. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. I just want you to know how bad I was. 7|Page .

seminars. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. And the second time I had sex. “What is wrong with you. 16.pal?!” It sounds comical. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. That’s what happened my first time. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. I’d do 8|Page . It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I was like. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. After three years of wild experimentation. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I would kiss her for a while. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. but when you wait longer. I had absolutely no control over when I came. their first time was at 16. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. “Yeah. So either way. I remember that. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. So to try and turn my sex life around. and I was at 23. I had to learn how to do it. 17 years old like a normal guy. cumming immediately. videos. I couldn’t get hard at all. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15.” But for them.

Most importantly though. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them.all sorts of other stuff. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. “Oh goddd. 50 minutes — even an hour. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. regardless of the girl I ended up with. So I moved on and started dating other girls. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex.. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. Finally. learning where her trigger spots were.

” I’d try and show them how special they were. Or they’d be like “Oh.. every time. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. something that seemed to work with every girl.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. These girls started to love it.. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. Here. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I was having sex whenever I wanted. I had to do 10 | P a g e . But something started to happen. practically tearing my clothes off.Even If You’re “Small”. It was getting out of hand. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. Sure. I bought you a necklace.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. I need a hug.was ready to meet the challenge. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. they’d take the necklace. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. . let’s go out for a fancy dinner. but they didn’t seem satisfied. “Hey. or Have A Small Bank Account.

something with this power I had developed. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. “A man is only as faithful as his options. who have given up and faced rejection. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. humiliation. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. No more not feeling like a man. she’s not going to want to have children with you. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. she will want you more and more. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. It changed who I am. you’re going to have to last. more and more. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. she’s not going to treat you well. and she’s going to be looking for other options. It’s what we think about all day long. You’re here because of sex.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. Chris Rock once joked. If she only knew! More importantly. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. How to give women the best sex of their life. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed.

None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. problems I used to have. 12 | P a g e . These problems you’re having. last as long as you want. just make sure it stays between us. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. really easy for you. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. You don’t need to have sex with 5.

Women are the same way. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. We will address that in a moment. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. So to get started.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. so really think carefully. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. 13 | P a g e . You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. full-body orgasms. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around.

in the bedroom and outside it. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. They are thinking of “Touch this. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. 14 | P a g e . And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. they can’t get hard. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. now touch that. the limper you become! But don't worry.

Show her you know what you want. Obviously. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . at some times the emotional. They want you to be in charge. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. not confident and slightly feminine. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. Show her how much you want her.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man.

I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.interaction. crazy shit. she’ll be sexually pleased. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. they’re not based on feelings.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. almost every woman said “doggy-style. 16 | P a g e . and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything..

. Of course. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . this is what comes out. But fortunately. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face..So if you think that you’re any of these.

Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or was stressed and not in the mood. There is no nagging. because I couldn’t satisfy her. or even social status. looking back on it. just not with me.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. had a headache. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. charm. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. but I had to face the truth. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. or always trying to hold his hand. looks. Then. It was so painful to admit that to myself. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. or kissing him. She is sitting on his lap. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. 18 | P a g e .

She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Unlike many men.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. so in this case. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. The more that she initiates sex.Sign #1 . Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. that is the same thing. Take note however. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.

so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.” “I need a hug. “Let’s take a nap. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. and don’t try and skip that step.” or “Lets watch a movie. They will say things like. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .she wants to have sex right now or that night. the sex won’t happen.” “I need a massage. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. chances are that she is initiating sex.” If you are hearing things like this. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. Just stay calm.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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but they are not. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. Any skill that’s worth knowing. anything. No matter how bad you are. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).” 25 | P a g e . And no matter how good you think you are. Any skill in life is learned. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. women need sex — then hey. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. they WILL improve. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.CAN improve your sexual skills. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. you had to learn. programming a computer. you’re not where you need to be. learning a language. I used to think.” I’d think. you can still get better.” That’s not true. That’s basically “experienced-based learning.

 Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. 26 | P a g e . you will. I guarantee it.” So it’s okay to get help. Really think about that. and that you’ll love too. and then boom. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. take care of it. Because you’re forced to fix it. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. It is one of my favorites. When you’ve got an issue in your life. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. There is a saying that I love. realize you’re going to get it handled. you’ve got to embrace it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. It is possible. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners.

I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. but she doesn’t like sex. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. “Hey. 27 | P a g e . Look at YM. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. I’m a guy. real women. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. the stuff that you look at." She doesn’t get horny. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. These are normal. Their main goal in life is to have children.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. with their picture. This is everywhere.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually.” Yeah. Look at all these women magazines. instinctual level.” Or. the better off you’ll be. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. but think of women. So. to be child-bearers. you do. The sooner you realize this. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. and you’re. women need sex more than men. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. If you think that you need sex. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. like. again. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. I need sex.

“Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. It’s my underwear. these pants.“That’s trash. but society represses it. 28 | P a g e . “There it is. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys.” Women spend hours. make-up. buying underwear. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird.and other products to look good. You ever look at a man’s underwear. let’s move on to the next mindset. and the examples of this are everywhere. They want to look desirable.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. They have all this sexual desire. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures.

NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. It’s not your fault.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. with proper education. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.

Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. then at the end of this chapter. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. and she's not thinking about anything. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1..A. This is a bad thing. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. it's HER being in the moment.V. Women are feelers. I'll run through all four. Often.Chapter 5 The P. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. If her eyes are open. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. "Oh. It's not just you being in the moment. and she's not in the moment at all. because you want her not thinking anything. Don't Think. but feeling. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. To start. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. 30 | P a g e .

and you're no longer good at all. It's game over. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. and you lose your presence and your authority.. or having sex with a woman for the first time.. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff.. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. or about different aspects of your sexuality. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. Nothing about. or you get soft. It's a big problem. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. you won't have to worry about that any longer. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft.. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. because all of a sudden. 31 | P a g e . Of course you want her to have a good time.And more specifically. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about.

you're thinking about it at the start. Always instinct. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. It does it out of a primal instinct. But. So. when you learn a language. while you're learning this stuff. anything. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. That is PRESENCE. and I will grab him here. Just going right after it.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. Just like anything else. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. 32 | P a g e . and the wind is this variable. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. You want to just be going by instinct. There'll be a learning curve. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. You're just primal." Think of just pure instinct. He's not thinking. in the beginning. and what's going on. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon.

going to follow the lead of the man. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. "I'm in charge. It's much more attractive for women. you've gotta show that you're in charge. That's how it's been since the caveman days. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . Don’t ask to do doggy style. but you need to be authoritative. a woman wants a man. If they did. more dominant. whether it's during sex or during a date. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. to be led by the male. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. You need to show that you're in charge. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman.2." You wanna show that you're in charge. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. I'm the boss here. you'll begin to naturally think. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. I'm gonna do what I like. and the woman is. You should always treat women with respect. By having that mindset of leader. they would be with one! No. So.

Try saying things like. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair.. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). And by all means. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. That's authoritative. slowly take it to the next level. Get it? 34 | P a g e . Now..-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. pin her arms behind her head. If you're in missionary position. but as you see how well she responds to it. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. and then ramp it up from there. Push her down into the bed. That's very authoritative. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. If she seems to REALLY get off on it.

which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. “These are my lips to kiss”...What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. which is something all women want to hear.. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.. 35 | P a g e . “You are ALL MINE right now”. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. Start with things like. powerful man. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. If this excites her... And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong..

Something like out of a romance novel. Different positions definitely help. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy.A. because different positions give her different emotions. It's not solely about different positions.3. And while physical variety is nice. and you say different things. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. Then. I love you so much. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. You're doing her doggie-style. If you do different positions. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. You're slapping her ass.V. I love being inside you. and you have different interactions in these different positions. like in public. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. system is VARIETY.E. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. that Casanova. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings." That's one kind of a lover. or sneaking off somewhere. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. saying "Baby. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy.

You can talk emotionally.variety. You want to be having sex at different times. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. So. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. Try to have various times where you have sex. on Friday night. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. In the missionary position you can make love to her. Being Spontaneous So. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. So. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. It's gonna seem monotonous. Y eah. repeatedly. that's not very spontaneous. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. if you can. it's not gonna have that variety. You can talk dirty. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. It's not gonna have emotion. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. But. 37 | P a g e . because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. If it's planned. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. And I just touched upon it. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. positions themselves aren't really that different. but positions aren't as important. You can fuck her. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY.

and it’s a very enjoyable thing. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. Do it in the shower. (In a moment. she's not going to feel emotion. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. So. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. when you're 38 | P a g e . EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. So in summary. be spontaneous. And're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. If you can't be emotional yourself. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. and in the morning when you wake up. Keep things fresh. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. There are lots of different fantasies. You want as much spontaneity as possible. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. Change the feelings that she has. be a different kind of lover. and she's going to be madly in love with you. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. 4. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring.

And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. even sexually or in any manner. The Stronger the Emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. either inside the bedroom. after the initial emotions have dipped. They’ll get married. or outside. 39 | P a g e . because you married her. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. The stronger the emotions. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. and in the beginning the sex is really good. you need to be. you should be pretty emotional. You're madly in love. So now. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. If it's your wife. Then that emotion dips over a time. So. there's so much emotion for both of you. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. if you're not with a girl that you like. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. So. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. you need to be emotional." If you're saying “I love you. make sure that you really mean it. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. And then the sex peters out.telling her things. or they'll get a girlfriend. Your bodies are new. It's because in the beginning.” you want to say it with passion. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem.

until finally she can't take it anymore. Feelings of just being fucked. Just keep going with the foreplay. and she really wants you inside of you. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up.And you want to do that in bed. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. If you're not talking in bed. and then kind of push her away. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. Anticipation creates excitement So. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. I just keep kissing. Different emotions. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. teasing. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. excitement. Emotions are best shown through words. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. all that teasing creates anticipation. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. And the way that you can do that. anticipation. Feelings of being loved. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. and 40 | P a g e . You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. If you're teasing a girl. Play hard to get. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times.

"I love you so much. But romantic talk is. you need to start now." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. Romantic talk means things like. Kind of ease it in there. baby. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. I miss you so much. otherwise it sounds a little weird. "Oh. 41 | P a g e .

VE. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.V. Pay close attention when you are reading these.A.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. anonymous.A. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.E system its unbelievable.A.V. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. Look for all the elements of P. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.E. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. This stuff is so close to the P. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. As usual.

You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. still in my 4 inch heels. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. sucking on your bottom lip. I lean into your strength and warmth. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. You pull my suit coat off. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. I set my briefcase on the counter. kissing you softly.physically big.” My hands trail down your abdomen. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. satin camisole. I step back. “Here are the rules: I touch you. and appraise your amazing body. and before I can stop you. revealing a tight. pulling me against you. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. “Not yet. as I grind my hips against you. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. you fill the room with your sexual presence. I straddle your lap. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. “Baby. darling.” is all that you can utter. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. Just lie back and let me pleasure you.” I whisper in your ear. Wrapping my arms around your neck. You help me remove them.

just say yellow. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. “You’re a naughty boy. You hear it hit the floor. and plant a kiss in your palm. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.You swallow hard and nod your head. where are you?” “I’m here. If at any point it gets to be too much. I’ve never taken control like this. baby. then with a bit more strength. The scent of your arousal teases my nose.” I manage to get out between pants. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. “I’ve got something that will help”. “Baby. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. it looks like it might explode. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. I can see the skepticism on your face. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. Just try to relax. 44 | P a g e .” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. but tonight is about control.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. gently at first. and kiss me breathless. so I continue with my lesson. I’m trying to drink you all in. “Don’t worry. I pull the camisole off too. You grab me around my waist. and is driving you wild. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. My touch is light and tentative. I grab your left hand.

I cry out. as our movements become frantic. first one cheek. breathing on your balls and shaft. loudly. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I inhale deeply near your navel. My aching pussy has to have you now. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. down to your pelvic bone. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. riding you. and you moan. I cannot take another second. they’re so different from mine. I am yours now. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. You grab my wrist and suck harder. I run my fingernails down your back. and slam into me. lapping up a drop of precum. I continue my assault. then the other. as you fuck me. You slap my ass .hard.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. causing your abdomen to quiver. I pinch your nipples. nearing the verge of my climax. running my tongue along your side. You roll me underneath you. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I cry out your name. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I begin to nibble at your thighs. but not touching them. The sting of your broken skin excites you.

You lap at me slowly. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. I shudder my completion. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. “Fuck me…now.” I feel so wanton. I get on all fours for you. You grab my hips and pound harder. You start to orgasm. 46 | P a g e . but you refuse to let me go. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. I have never felt so safe. I whimper again.” you say roughly. almost scream your name. never changing pace or pressure. You wrap your arms around me. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. bruising my tender skin. begging you to make me cum. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs.” I take a sharp breath in. my pussy throbbing with excitement. I touch my clit as you slam into me. “Tell me that you want me. You are so strong. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. “Roll over. The orgasm is different this time. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. causing me to moan. but you keep that same pace. pulling me against you. It builds and I beg you to finish. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. trying to catch my breath. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I can feel my juices running down my legs. yet I’m excited. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You pull back and look in my eyes.

There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. “I love you”. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that..” This is what I fantasize about . There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. Really badly.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. You cater to my whims. Mind numbing. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. You can never seem to get enough.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO.. but not before hearing you say softly.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. I close my eyes and drift off too. I thought. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. what the hell. probably western North Carolina. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. can’t think. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. It is a winding highway someplace rural. I have to pee. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. 47 | P a g e .

We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. I must keep driving. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I manage “I’m in here. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. And oh shit. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. come out with your hands in the air.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. there are the lights. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. At least I hope it is. And he is pointing a gun at me. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. Thank god. He is coming after me. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. Oh my word. This is so weird. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. My room. number 15.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. 48 | P a g e .especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. Such relief.

As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. It is awkward in heated kind of way. Don’t shoot me. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. The cop can’t help but look at me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. he hasn’t said anything to me. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me.“I had to pee. “How about you put that weapon away. He exhales again.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. 49 | P a g e . look at my privates. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. Higher still. looking at him. Since he has seen me. He is totally hot.

He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. He spreads my legs with his knee. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. “Too fast. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. This next transition is a blur. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. His 50 | P a g e . I arch my back and press my chest against him. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I have to touch him. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. grunts and moves in quickly. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths.I try speaking.

I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. He is so strong and I know he is hard. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. He looks up with need and reverence. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. My thighs are at his eye level. I know I am beautiful. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I love it.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining.

) But I am not done with this fantasy. I still want to be fucked. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. more. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. This gets me so excited for more. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. 52 | P a g e . I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. It is so perfect. I am so wet and hot. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life.” I moan and then release.tongue over his lips. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. Don’t stop. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. “More. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.

I feel like a conqueror. My ass is barely on the counter. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm.“Oh Jesus in heaven. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop.” he moans. I feel triumphant. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. panting and trying to catch his breathe. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. I relish him being worn out. This is when we both come together. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He fills me completely. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper.

So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e . let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.

here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the limper you will get. not a physical problem. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. your problem is entirely psychological. but not during sex.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. which basically means the harder you try. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .

56 | P a g e . After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.2... and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. and trust me when I say. (5 cycles of 2). This exhale is 2. Clear your mind other than the numbers... Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. “10-Count Breathing”. nothing about life or any topic. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. This breath is 1.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing.

If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. 3. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. then it will help your erections. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. And trust me. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. Sounds crazy. You’ll be glad you did. which allows you to relax more and get hard. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good.

squat. These include the dead lift. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. you learn to control your breathing as well. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. yoga is what I recommend .Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. dumbbell press. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. and pull-ups. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . For further details.

Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. Don’t fight your arousal. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. put it at a number. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Here’s how: Step 1. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Instead. no erection. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. When you don’t have presence.

Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting.5 to number 9. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Again. Step 2. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. harder stroking.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. give us a call if you need help with this. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.5 and when it turns into number 9. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm..5.

61 | P a g e . Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Step 4. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. or kiss her body. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Step 3. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Instead eat her out. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. See demonstration in the DVD.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex.

If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Also. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. She will. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. full body orgasms. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.V. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. model. women are capable of many different types. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. 62 | P a g e . you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper.A. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.E. exercise.

inner thighs. side of back. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. mouth.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Kiss her neck.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e .

and emotion. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. authority. a really sexy. I was dating this girl Renee. she was from Austria. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. continuous orgasmic state. repeated cumming etc. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I know this sounds ridiculous.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. variety. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. smart 64 | P a g e . When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship.

When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. and panties with my name on She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.a. with no physiological hang-ups. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. gifts. Over time with her though. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough.

realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.. kisses. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.

and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. and the sites have TONS of videos.. the girls are beautiful. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. so get in as much as you can. In short. Online porn these days is cheap. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect..

Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Just get naked. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. It’s not hiding as much as you think.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Even if it does work at all. Unless your penis is under 2.5 inches hard it does not matter. it will raise your testosterone. stamina. 68 | P a g e . the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. pumps. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. or exercises don’t waste your time. and maker her come.

Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Remember. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. But if you feel that you really need it.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Let’s do a quick run through. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Remember though. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more.

Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. If you’re thinking of getting one. don’t. Relax and Enjoy . I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. It hurt. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. It’s a waste of your time and money. Dick size is NOT the problem.

if you want to last 2 minutes.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. These are psychological principles. whether she is coming. the evidence is overwhelming. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Shy. Don’t think about ANYTHING. not just think about theoretically.. that’s fine. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. If you want to say something say it. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Classy. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. 71 | P a g e . Something that you have to work on. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. what position you are in. if you want to do something to do it. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Conservative.50% of the time.. Sassy. Just FUCK her.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women. 72 | P a g e .

if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me.. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . boring stuff. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).

If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. It works really well — as long as she takes it. Pre-cum contains sperm. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Sperm lead to children. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time.There are numerous types of birth control. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. 74 | P a g e . If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free.

unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. the Shot. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. I would not recommend it. You can experiment with it. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. However. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. There chance of pregnancy is too high. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. The Ring. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Again. 75 | P a g e .Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Guys take responsibility. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. The Patch.

If you’re going to do this be sure. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. but I know people who have had. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. My friend Mike. Don’t get it. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Some STDs are very serious. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. I’ve never had one. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. it’s a very effective. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man.

” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. you should be fine. It’s all 77 | P a g e . It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Often guys will say something like. Despite it being a serious subject. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. I’m not going to list every STD here. doesn’t grip you too tight. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. and still always you to enjoy sex. or condoms ruin sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. not guess. Just get tested to be sure. bring it up casually but firmly. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease.

The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. You can use Astroglide. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. I highly do recommend that Durex your head. Let’s review how to put on a condom. For overall experience. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. 78 | P a g e . I have never found them in a store but have bought them When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break.condomdepot.

" To avoid this. in 2 or 3 basic positions. Sticking with the classics like. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. If you are having relatively tame sex. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise." so again stick to the basics. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do.Don't Wait. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). 1. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. and focus on your breathing. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. you 79 | P a g e . "baby that feels so good. Have a few” go-to” moves. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl.

Focus on foreplay. 4. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. 5.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Be able to give her an orgasm. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. You don’t have to go crazy. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .


Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. ISN Education. LLC 82 | P a g e . You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. living life on your own 2009. it’s so much more than that. It’s being a real man.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom.IncredibleSexNow. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Bobby Bradshaw www.

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