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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. Also. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. was begging to have sex with you??. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. Awful! 1|Page . The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. FOR ONCE. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. divorce.
My lowest point though. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. She was blunt. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. The first time I had sex I was 22. I'm not a celebrity. Real-life. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. would come crashing to a passionless halt. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute.The Cheat-proof. Women won’t tell you this. Luckily. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I’m not even a millionaire. what car you drive. Who Am I. she will be yours for life. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. and not know where her lips have been. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. no matter how much I liked her. I’m not an athlete. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. or if you take out the trash.
I could get hard and last 45 minutes. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . I read hundreds of books. When I did get back in the game. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Now. I still have my day job as a business consultant. EVERY TIME. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. what happened was that through my own experimentation.
better looks. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. and better sexual skills than you. Most 4|Page . or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. she doesn’t even have the temptation. because as a man. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. girlfriend.
. “Come to Brazil. it’s funny.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. He was like.. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. In fact. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I’m not proud of this.. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I was a complete loser. and he knew this. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. laugh all you want. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. turn off your email and phone. Please don’t laugh. had never kissed a girl. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. so take a deep breath. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. 5|Page . I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). Actually.
After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I finally made it into the promise land. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page .. “Calm. It felt so good.ARGH! . Somehow she liked me. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. but what did she know. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I was really only a poor college student. Meanwhile. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.” anything to distract myself.God. So THIS was it! Haha... I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me... Once I was naked. In the hotel room.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. Math.” I’m thinking. Algebra. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. Please don’t. calm. the most I’d ever gone out. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room.
It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. but I had no idea what to do about it. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. And for a long time I was in denial. and feeling like a small. they were going fast and aggressively. It wasn’t that they were so huge. They had complete control of pleasing these women. pathetic little boy.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. but it was that they’d last forever.. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. 7|Page . .just kept pumping away. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again.. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. and pushed me off of her. And they weren’t having sex slowly. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. making the girls scream with pleasure. said something in Portuguese. I just want you to know how bad I was.
I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. I couldn’t get hard at all.” But for them. And the second time I had sex. their first time was at 16. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. videos. So to try and turn my sex life around. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. cumming immediately. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. 17 years old like a normal guy. seminars. 16. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last.pal?!” It sounds comical. I’d do 8|Page . “Yeah. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I had to learn how to do it. I would kiss her for a while. but when you wait longer. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. That’s what happened my first time. “What is wrong with you. So either way. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. and I was at 23.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I remember that. After three years of wild experimentation. I was like.
No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. So I moved on and started dating other girls. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. learning where her trigger spots were. “Oh goddd. Finally. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women.. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. 50 minutes — even an hour. regardless of the girl I ended up with. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. Most importantly though. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex.all sorts of other stuff. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex.
I need a hug. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. It was getting out of hand. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. practically tearing my clothes off. I’d hear “I want to take a nap.was ready to meet the challenge. or Have A Small Bank Account. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.” I’d try and show them how special they were. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. Or they’d be like “Oh. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. Here.Even If You’re “Small”.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. “Hey. something that seemed to work with every girl. These girls started to love it.. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. But something started to happen. I was having sex whenever I wanted.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. . I had to do 10 | P a g e . But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. they’d take the necklace. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. but they didn’t seem satisfied.. every time. Sure. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. I bought you a necklace. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears.
It only makes sense and if you can last longer. she will want you more and more. It’s what we think about all day long. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. she’s not going to treat you well. You’re here because of sex. It changed who I am. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. humiliation. more and more. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. How to give women the best sex of their life. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. you’re going to have to last. “A man is only as faithful as his options. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. No more not feeling like a man. and she’s going to be looking for other options. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. who have given up and faced rejection. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel.something with this power I had developed. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. she’s not going to want to have children with you. If she only knew! More importantly. Chris Rock once joked.
last as long as you want. These problems you’re having. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. really easy for you. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. problems I used to have. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. 12 | P a g e . just make sure it stays between us. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. You don’t need to have sex with 5. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex.
so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. So to get started. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. full-body orgasms. Women are the same way. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. We will address that in a moment. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. 13 | P a g e . The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. so really think carefully. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately.
we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. now touch that. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. 14 | P a g e . they can’t get hard. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. in the bedroom and outside it. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. They are thinking of “Touch this. the limper you become! But don't worry.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard.
at some times the emotional. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. They want you to be in charge.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her how much you want her. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Show her you know what you want. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . Obviously. not confident and slightly feminine. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good.
and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork.. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.interaction. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. she’ll be sexually pleased. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. almost every woman said “doggy-style. 16 | P a g e . they’re not based on feelings.. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. crazy shit.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.
they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. this is what comes out. Of course.. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends.So if you think that you’re any of these. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. But fortunately.
looking back on it. but I had to face the truth. 18 | P a g e .Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. or kissing him. charm. just not with me. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. There is no nagging. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. or even social status. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. She is sitting on his lap. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. or always trying to hold his hand. because I couldn’t satisfy her. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. or was stressed and not in the mood. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. had a headache. It was so painful to admit that to myself. Then. looks.
so in this case. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. The more that she initiates sex. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. Unlike many men. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . that is the same thing. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Take note however. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. When a woman is initiating sex with you.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually.Sign #1 . you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.
” “I need a hug. and don’t try and skip that step. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. They will say things like.” If you are hearing things like this. Just stay calm. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. chances are that she is initiating sex. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.she wants to have sex right now or that night.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.” “I need a massage. “Let’s take a nap. the sex won’t happen. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” or “Lets watch a movie. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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Any skill in life is learned. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. programming a computer. but they are not. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. they WILL improve. women need sex — then hey. you can still get better. you had to learn. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. I used to think. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time.CAN improve your sexual skills. No matter how bad you are. anything. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. And no matter how good you think you are. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help.” 25 | P a g e . learning a language. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. Any skill that’s worth knowing. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar.” I’d think. you’re not where you need to be.” That’s not true.
” So it’s okay to get help. you’ve got to embrace it. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. I guarantee it. There is a saying that I love. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. and then boom. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. It is possible. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. Really think about that. realize you’re going to get it handled. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. It is one of my favorites. and that you’ll love too. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. 26 | P a g e . you will. Because you’re forced to fix it. take care of it. When you’ve got an issue in your life. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners.
Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic.” Yeah. the stuff that you look at. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. If you think that you need sex. with their picture. I need sex. I’m a guy. Look at all these women magazines. Look at YM. instinctual level. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. This is everywhere. real women.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. The sooner you realize this. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. So. 27 | P a g e ." She doesn’t get horny. again. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. and you’re. These are normal. women need sex more than men. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. like. “Hey.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual.” Or. but she doesn’t like sex. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. the better off you’ll be. but think of women. you do. Their main goal in life is to have children. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. to be child-bearers.
and hopefully you’ve internalized this. You ever look at a man’s underwear.and other products to look good. these pants.“That’s trash. but society represses it. 28 | P a g e . They want to look desirable. They have all this sexual desire. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. It’s my underwear.” Women spend hours. make-up. let’s move on to the next mindset. “There it is. buying underwear.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. and the examples of this are everywhere.
The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. It’s not your fault. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . with proper education.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.
and she's not in the moment at all.A. but feeling. To start. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. "Oh. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.Chapter 5 The P. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. 30 | P a g e . Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. If her eyes are open.V. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. it's HER being in the moment. and she's not thinking about anything. then at the end of this chapter.. Often. Women are feelers. I'll run through all four.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. This is a bad thing. because you want her not thinking anything. It's not just you being in the moment. Don't Think.
because all of a sudden. or you get soft. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over.. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. or having sex with a woman for the first time.. and you're no longer good at all. Of course you want her to have a good time. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. or about different aspects of your sexuality. It's game over.And more specifically. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed.. and you lose your presence and your authority. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. you won't have to worry about that any longer. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. It's a big problem. 31 | P a g e . "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. Nothing about. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance..
But. in the beginning. You want to just be going by instinct. when you learn a language. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Just like anything else. There'll be a learning curve. So. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. You're just primal. and the wind is this variable. He's not thinking. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. It does it out of a primal instinct. and what's going on. and I will grab him here. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. 32 | P a g e .Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. you're thinking about it at the start. anything. That is PRESENCE. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river." Think of just pure instinct. Just going right after it. while you're learning this stuff. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. Always instinct. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning.
Don’t ask to do doggy style. You need to show that you're in charge. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. going to follow the lead of the man. and the woman is. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. It's much more attractive for women. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. "I'm in charge. they would be with one! No. If they did. you've gotta show that you're in charge. whether it's during sex or during a date." You wanna show that you're in charge. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. I'm the boss here. So. you'll begin to naturally think.2. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. You should always treat women with respect. to be led by the male. By having that mindset of leader. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. a woman wants a man. That's how it's been since the caveman days. more dominant. I'm gonna do what I like. but you need to be authoritative. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e .
but as you see how well she responds to it. That's very authoritative. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. Try saying things like. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. Get it? 34 | P a g e . If she seems to REALLY get off on it. pin her arms behind her head. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. slowly take it to the next level. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. If you're in missionary position. And by all means.. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. Push her down into the bed. and then ramp it up from there. Now.. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). That's authoritative. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper.
... There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. which is something all women want to hear... “You are ALL MINE right now”. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. 35 | P a g e ..What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. powerful man. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. Start with things like. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. “These are my lips to kiss”. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. If this excites her. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic..
A. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . I love being inside you. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. saying "Baby." That's one kind of a lover.3. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. system is VARIETY. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. and you say different things. And while physical variety is nice. You're slapping her ass. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be.V. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. Different positions definitely help. like in public. because different positions give her different emotions. You're doing her doggie-style. Something like out of a romance novel. Then. that Casanova. If you do different positions. It's not solely about different positions.E. I love you so much. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. or sneaking off somewhere. and you have different interactions in these different positions. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings.
If it's planned. repeatedly. And I just touched upon it. on Friday night. Try to have various times where you have sex. You can talk dirty. if you can. that's not very spontaneous. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. You want to be having sex at different times. But. You can fuck her. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. So. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Y eah. It's gonna seem monotonous.variety. but positions aren't as important. In the missionary position you can make love to her. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Being Spontaneous So. 37 | P a g e . So. positions themselves aren't really that different. it's not gonna have that variety. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. You can talk emotionally. It's not gonna have emotion.
and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. So in summary. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. And again. be spontaneous. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. You want as much spontaneity as possible. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. and it’s a very enjoyable thing.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. she's not going to feel emotion. Do it in the shower. There are lots of different fantasies. when you're 38 | P a g e . you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. Keep things fresh. (In a moment. and in the morning when you wake up. Change the feelings that she has. 4. If you can't be emotional yourself. be a different kind of lover. and she's going to be madly in love with you. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. So. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. as well as have a lot of fun yourself.
Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. after the initial emotions have dipped. They’ll get married. Then that emotion dips over a time. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions.telling her things. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. or outside. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. The stronger the emotions. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. It's because in the beginning." If you're saying “I love you. there's so much emotion for both of you. even sexually or in any manner. and in the beginning the sex is really good. make sure that you really mean it. You're madly in love. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. The Stronger the Emotions. if you're not with a girl that you like. So now. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. because you married her. or they'll get a girlfriend. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her.” you want to say it with passion. you need to be emotional. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. Your bodies are new. you should be pretty emotional. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. either inside the bedroom. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. 39 | P a g e . So. you need to be. If it's your wife. So. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. And then the sex peters out.
What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Different emotions.And you want to do that in bed. all that teasing creates anticipation. until finally she can't take it anymore. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. If you're not talking in bed. Anticipation creates excitement So. Feelings of just being fucked. anticipation. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. excitement. and 40 | P a g e . It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. I just keep kissing. And the way that you can do that. teasing. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. and then kind of push her away. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. Feelings of being loved. If you're teasing a girl. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. and she really wants you inside of you. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Play hard to get. Emotions are best shown through words. Just keep going with the foreplay.
you need to start now. otherwise it sounds a little weird. I miss you so much. "Oh.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. "I love you so much. baby. Kind of ease it in there. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. But romantic talk is." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. Romantic talk means things like.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. 41 | P a g e .
Pay close attention when you are reading these. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. anonymous.A. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.V. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. Look for all the elements of P.E.VE. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.V.E system its unbelievable.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.A. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. This stuff is so close to the P. As usual.A. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.
pulling me against you. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. I step back. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. Wrapping my arms around your neck. darling. as I grind my hips against you. I set my briefcase on the counter. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. I lean into your strength and warmth. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. and before I can stop you. You pull my suit coat off. sucking on your bottom lip. revealing a tight. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I straddle your lap. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. Got it?” 43 | P a g e .” is all that you can utter. “Not yet.” I whisper in your ear. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you.” My hands trail down your abdomen.physically big. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. still in my 4 inch heels. kissing you softly. and appraise your amazing body. You help me remove them. satin camisole. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. “Baby. “Here are the rules: I touch you. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. you fill the room with your sexual presence.
it looks like it might explode. If at any point it gets to be too much. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. You grab me around my waist. where are you?” “I’m here. I can’t get enough of your different textures. so I continue with my lesson. 44 | P a g e . I pull the camisole off too. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I’m trying to drink you all in. “Baby.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I grab your left hand. just say yellow. then with a bit more strength. but tonight is about control. I’ve never taken control like this. Just try to relax. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. “I’ve got something that will help”. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me.You swallow hard and nod your head. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. and plant a kiss in your palm. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I can see the skepticism on your face. baby. “Don’t worry.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. “You’re a naughty boy. My touch is light and tentative. You hear it hit the floor. gently at first.” I manage to get out between pants. and is driving you wild. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. and kiss me breathless.
My aching pussy has to have you now. I cannot take another second. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You roll me underneath you. lapping up a drop of precum. and you moan. I am yours now. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. as you fuck me. running my tongue along your side. they’re so different from mine. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I inhale deeply near your navel. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. first one cheek. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. A flush has 45 | P a g e . You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep.hard. riding you. but not touching them. I run my fingernails down your back. causing your abdomen to quiver. You squirm a little and cry out my name. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I pinch your nipples. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I cry out your name. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. down to your pelvic bone. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I continue my assault. and slam into me. You grab my wrist and suck harder. I cry out. loudly. then the other. as our movements become frantic.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. You slap my ass . nearing the verge of my climax. breathing on your balls and shaft.
causing me to moan. but you refuse to let me go. “Tell me that you want me. You pull back and look in my eyes. I shudder my completion. trying to catch my breath. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. I get on all fours for you. You are so strong. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. almost scream your name. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. “Fuck me…now. but you keep that same pace.” I take a sharp breath in. “Roll over. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You lap at me slowly.” you say roughly. I have never felt so safe. never changing pace or pressure. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. I touch my clit as you slam into me. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. my pussy throbbing with excitement. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I whimper again. You grab my hips and pound harder. It builds and I beg you to finish. pulling me against you. bruising my tender skin.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. You wrap your arms around me. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. You start to orgasm. yet I’m excited.” I feel so wanton. I can feel my juices running down my legs. 46 | P a g e . begging you to make me cum. The orgasm is different this time.
” This is what I fantasize about . 47 | P a g e .. but not before hearing you say softly. You can never seem to get enough. probably western North Carolina.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. I have to pee. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. what the hell.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. can’t think. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. I close my eyes and drift off too. Really badly. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I feel like a goddess every time we make love.. It is a winding highway someplace rural. Mind numbing. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. You cater to my whims. “I love you”.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. I thought.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do.
there are the lights. At least I hope it is. My room. come out with your hands in the air. I must keep driving. Thank god. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I manage “I’m in here. Oh my word.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. He is coming after me. Such relief. This is so weird. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. And oh shit. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. And he is pointing a gun at me. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. number 15. 48 | P a g e . I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down.
The cop can’t help but look at me. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. Higher still. 49 | P a g e . Don’t shoot me. He exhales again.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. looking at him. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. look at my privates. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. he hasn’t said anything to me. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. He is totally hot. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. “How about you put that weapon away.“I had to pee. Since he has seen me. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. It is awkward in heated kind of way. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip.
I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh.I try speaking. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. Brushing his cheek against my chest. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. “Too fast. His 50 | P a g e . I have to touch him. He spreads my legs with his knee. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I arch my back and press my chest against him. grunts and moves in quickly. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. This next transition is a blur.
He looks up with need and reverence. I love it. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I know I am beautiful. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. My thighs are at his eye level. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e .
(This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. It is so perfect. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I still want to be fucked. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I am so wet and hot. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. This gets me so excited for more. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. 52 | P a g e . more. “More. Don’t stop. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot.) But I am not done with this fantasy.tongue over his lips.” I moan and then release. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass.
I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. I relish him being worn out. My ass is barely on the counter. This is when we both come together. I feel like a conqueror. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor.” he moans.“Oh Jesus in heaven. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. panting and trying to catch his breathe. He fills me completely. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. I feel triumphant. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff.
let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. and what to do about them.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. 54 | P a g e .
) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. which basically means the harder you try. but not during sex. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. the limper you will get. not a physical problem.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. your problem is entirely psychological. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.
Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. 56 | P a g e . Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. nothing about life or any topic. This exhale is 2.2. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. “10-Count Breathing”. (5 cycles of 2). Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. Clear your mind other than the numbers... This breath is 1. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes.. and trust me when I say.
then it will help your erections. And trust me. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. which allows you to relax more and get hard. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. Sounds crazy. You’ll be glad you did. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. 3. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e .
I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. yoga is what I recommend . and pull-ups. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. dumbbell press. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. squat. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. you learn to control your breathing as well.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. These include the dead lift. For further details.
The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Don’t fight your arousal. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. Here’s how: Step 1.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. no erection. When you don’t have presence. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. put it at a number. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. Instead. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come.
not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. give us a call if you need help with this. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5.5 to number 9. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play.. harder stroking. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. Step 2. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Again.5 and when it turns into number 9. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.
Instead eat her out. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. or kiss her body. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. 61 | P a g e . In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Step 3. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Step 4. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4.
E. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. model. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple.A. Physical Stimulation Orgasms.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.V. She will. women are capable of many different types. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. exercise. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. 62 | P a g e . Also. full body orgasms. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.
While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Kiss her neck. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . inner thighs. side of back. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. mouth.
However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. and emotion. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. I was dating this girl Renee. variety. she was from Austria. continuous orgasmic state. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I know this sounds ridiculous. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. smart 64 | P a g e . repeated cumming etc. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. a really sexy. authority. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined.
I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.a.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .v. with no physiological hang-ups. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. Over time with her though. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.accountant. and panties with my name on them. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. gifts.
realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good... kisses. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.
. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. so get in as much as you can. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women.. In short. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. and the sites have TONS of videos. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. the girls are beautiful. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Online porn these days is cheap. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e .
68 | P a g e . the woman that you are with is even more self conscious." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. stamina. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Just get naked. and maker her come. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. pumps. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Unless your penis is under 2. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. or exercises don’t waste your time. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Even if it does work at all.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in.5 inches hard it does not matter. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. it will raise your testosterone. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. It’s not hiding as much as you think.
pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. But if you feel that you really need it. Remember though. Let’s do a quick run through. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Remember.
Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Relax and Enjoy . Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. If you’re thinking of getting one. don’t. It hurt. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Dick size is NOT the problem. It’s a waste of your time and money. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about.
Don’t think about ANYTHING. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. that’s fine. 71 | P a g e .. Shy. what position you are in. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. the evidence is overwhelming. Conservative. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. whether she is coming. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. Just FUCK her. not just think about theoretically. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course.. These are psychological principles. if you want to last 2 minutes. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff.50% of the time. If you want to say something say it. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Something that you have to work on. if you want to do something to do it. Classy. Sassy.
but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e .
Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know.. but I want to make sure you are SAFE.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. boring stuff. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .
If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Pre-cum contains sperm. 74 | P a g e . (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate.There are numerous types of birth control. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. Sperm lead to children. It works really well — as long as she takes it. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy.
the Shot. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. The Patch. Guys take responsibility. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. 75 | P a g e . The Ring. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. I would not recommend it. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. However. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. There chance of pregnancy is too high. You can experiment with it. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. Again. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex.
Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. I’ve never had one. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. If you’re going to do this be sure. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. My friend Mike. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. it’s a very effective. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . but I know people who have had. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. Don’t get it. Some STDs are very serious. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible.
bring it up casually but firmly. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. you should be fine. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Just get tested to be sure. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Despite it being a serious subject. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. or condoms ruin sex. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Often guys will say something like. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. and still always you to enjoy sex. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. not guess. I’m not going to list every STD here. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. doesn’t grip you too tight.
For overall experience. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. 78 | P a g e . The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break.condomdepot. Let’s review how to put on a condom.in your head.com. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. You can use Astroglide. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms.
Be able to last at least 10 minutes. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. and focus on your breathing. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect." so again stick to the basics. "baby that feels so good. in 2 or 3 basic positions." To avoid this." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. 1. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Have a few” go-to” moves. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. you 79 | P a g e . Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. If you are having relatively tame sex. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable.Don't Wait. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Sticking with the classics like.
You don’t have to go crazy. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. 5. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focus on foreplay. 4. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Be able to give her an orgasm. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority.
and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Bobby Bradshaw www. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.IncredibleSexNow. LLC 82 | P a g e . living life on your own terms. It’s being a real man. ISN Education.com 2009. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. it’s so much more than that.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom.
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