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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Awful! 1|Page .Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. FOR ONCE. was begging to have sex with you??. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. divorce. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. Also. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages.
unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. I’m not an athlete. what car you drive. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed.The Cheat-proof. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. Real-life. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . no matter how much I liked her. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. I’m not even a millionaire. Women won’t tell you this. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. She was blunt. Luckily. Who Am I. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. or if you take out the trash. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. and not know where her lips have been. would come crashing to a passionless halt. she will be yours for life. I'm not a celebrity. My lowest point though. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. The first time I had sex I was 22. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it.
I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Now. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). and the use of expensive pills and supplements. When I did get back in the game.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. I read hundreds of books. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. EVERY TIME. what happened was that through my own experimentation.
you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. because as a man. girlfriend. and better sexual skills than you. better looks. she doesn’t even have the temptation. Most 4|Page . They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now.
Actually. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. Please don’t laugh.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. and he knew this... had never kissed a girl. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.. turn off your email and phone. 5|Page . flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). In fact. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. He was like. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. it’s funny. I was a complete loser. I’m not proud of this. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. .Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. “Come to Brazil. so take a deep breath. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. laugh all you want. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.
.” I’m thinking. calm. Somehow she liked me. Once I was naked.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there.. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I was really only a poor college student. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . It felt so good. So THIS was it! Haha. In the hotel room. Please don’t.” anything to distract myself. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times.ARGH! . Meanwhile. Math. “Calm.. but what did she know. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet.God. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating.. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement.. I finally made it into the promise land. the most I’d ever gone out. I met this girl who barely spoke English. Algebra.
and pushed me off of her. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was..just kept pumping away. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. 7|Page . It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. but it was that they’d last forever.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. And for a long time I was in denial. making the girls scream with pleasure. they were going fast and aggressively. but I had no idea what to do about it. They had complete control of pleasing these women. . pathetic little boy.. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. And they weren’t having sex slowly. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. and feeling like a small. said something in Portuguese. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. It wasn’t that they were so huge. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.
I didn’t know how these guys could do it. 16. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I was like. but when you wait longer. I started reading every single book that I could about sex.” But for them. cumming immediately. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. I remember that. And the second time I had sex. 17 years old like a normal guy. I had to learn how to do it. So to try and turn my sex life around. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I’d do 8|Page . I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. So either way. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. their first time was at 16. After three years of wild experimentation. seminars. videos. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. and I was at 23. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming.pal?!” It sounds comical. I would kiss her for a while. I couldn’t get hard at all. “Yeah. “What is wrong with you. That’s what happened my first time. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed.
I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. So I moved on and started dating other girls. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. Most importantly though. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. 50 minutes — even an hour. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance.. Finally. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. regardless of the girl I ended up with. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. “Oh goddd. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. learning where her trigger spots were.all sorts of other stuff.
phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. every time. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. something that seemed to work with every girl. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. I had to do 10 | P a g e .. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I was having sex whenever I wanted. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. . “Hey. Or they’d be like “Oh.was ready to meet the challenge.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex.Even If You’re “Small”. or Have A Small Bank Account. I bought you a necklace. These girls started to love it. I need a hug. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me.” I’d try and show them how special they were. practically tearing my clothes off. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like.. It was getting out of hand.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. Here. Sure. but they didn’t seem satisfied. But something started to happen. they’d take the necklace. let’s go out for a fancy dinner.
I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. No more not feeling like a man. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. she will want you more and more. humiliation. “A man is only as faithful as his options. you’re going to have to last. who have given up and faced rejection. It changed who I am. more and more. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. she’s not going to want to have children with you.something with this power I had developed. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. It’s what we think about all day long. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. If she only knew! More importantly. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. How to give women the best sex of their life. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . Chris Rock once joked. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. You’re here because of sex. and she’s going to be looking for other options. she’s not going to treat you well. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel.
you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. problems I used to have. just make sure it stays between us. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. really easy for you. 12 | P a g e . last as long as you want. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. These problems you’re having. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. You don’t need to have sex with 5.
So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. We will address that in a moment. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. full-body orgasms. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. 13 | P a g e . If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. So to get started. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. Women are the same way. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. so really think carefully. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately.
And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. now touch that. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. they can’t get hard. 14 | P a g e . keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. in the bedroom and outside it. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. They are thinking of “Touch this.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. the limper you become! But don't worry. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well.
4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her how much you want her. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. Show her you know what you want. Obviously. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. not confident and slightly feminine. at some times the emotional. They want you to be in charge. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that.
” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork.interaction. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. almost every woman said “doggy-style. she’ll be sexually pleased. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. they’re not based on feelings. crazy shit.. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. 16 | P a g e . So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.
So if you think that you’re any of these. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. this is what comes out. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends.. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. Of course.. But fortunately.
charm.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. but I had to face the truth. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. had a headache. just not with me. looking back on it. looks. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or kissing him. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. or was stressed and not in the mood. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. Then. or always trying to hold his hand. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. It was so painful to admit that to myself. 18 | P a g e . Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. because I couldn’t satisfy her. There is no nagging. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. or even social status. She is sitting on his lap.
that is the same thing. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). so in this case. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. The more that she initiates sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.Sign #1 . you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Unlike many men. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Take note however. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys.
” “I need a hug. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. chances are that she is initiating sex. the sex won’t happen. and don’t try and skip that step. Just stay calm. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. They will say things like.she wants to have sex right now or that night.” or “Lets watch a movie. “Let’s take a nap. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .” “I need a massage.” If you are hearing things like this. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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Any skill that’s worth knowing. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar.” 25 | P a g e . women need sex — then hey. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. you’re not where you need to be.” That’s not true. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. you had to learn. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys).CAN improve your sexual skills. And no matter how good you think you are. they WILL improve. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. learning a language. I used to think. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. anything. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. but they are not. No matter how bad you are. programming a computer.” I’d think. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. you can still get better. Any skill in life is learned.
realize you’re going to get it handled. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. It is possible. you’ve got to embrace it. and that you’ll love too.” So it’s okay to get help. and then boom. take care of it. 26 | P a g e . you will. Really think about that. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. It is one of my favorites. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. When you’ve got an issue in your life. I guarantee it. There is a saying that I love. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. Because you’re forced to fix it. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods.
” Yeah. but think of women. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. women need sex more than men. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. “Hey. again. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. Look at all these women magazines. the stuff that you look at. you do. but she doesn’t like sex. So. the better off you’ll be. like. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. Their main goal in life is to have children. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. I’m a guy. 27 | P a g e . and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. to be child-bearers.” Or. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. The sooner you realize this.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. I need sex. and you’re. Look at YM. instinctual level. real women. This is everywhere. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. These are normal. If you think that you need sex." She doesn’t get horny. with their picture.
It’s my underwear. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. let’s move on to the next mindset. these pants. make-up. 28 | P a g e . Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. but society represses it. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. They want to look desirable. They have all this sexual desire. You ever look at a man’s underwear.and other products to look good.” Women spend hours. and the examples of this are everywhere. “There it is.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). buying underwear.“That’s trash. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.
Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e .Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. It’s not your fault. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. with proper education. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.
actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. 30 | P a g e . Don't Think. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. and she's not in the moment at all. but feeling. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. "Oh. then at the end of this chapter. Often.V. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. and she's not thinking about anything. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed.Chapter 5 The P.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on.. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. it's HER being in the moment. To start. because you want her not thinking anything. It's not just you being in the moment. I'll run through all four. Women are feelers. This is a bad thing. If her eyes are open.A.
"Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. 31 | P a g e .And more specifically. Of course you want her to have a good time. You lose every feeling of being in the moment.. It's game over. Nothing about. and you're no longer good at all. It's a big problem. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. or about different aspects of your sexuality. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. or you get soft. you won't have to worry about that any longer. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes... or having sex with a woman for the first time. and you lose your presence and your authority. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. because all of a sudden. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence.. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about.
You're just primal. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. in the beginning. Just going right after it. Always instinct." Think of just pure instinct. and the wind is this variable. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. anything. There'll be a learning curve. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. and what's going on. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. Just like anything else. while you're learning this stuff. you're thinking about it at the start. That is PRESENCE. He's not thinking. It does it out of a primal instinct. So. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. and I will grab him here. You want to just be going by instinct. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. But. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. when you learn a language.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. 32 | P a g e .
you've gotta show that you're in charge. more dominant. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. but you need to be authoritative. You should always treat women with respect. If they did. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. You need to show that you're in charge. whether it's during sex or during a date." You wanna show that you're in charge. and the woman is. to be led by the male.2. Don’t ask to do doggy style. So. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. I'm the boss here. That's how it's been since the caveman days. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. By having that mindset of leader. they would be with one! No. It's much more attractive for women. I'm gonna do what I like. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. a woman wants a man. going to follow the lead of the man. you'll begin to naturally think. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. "I'm in charge.
Try saying things like. and then ramp it up from there. Get it? 34 | P a g e .-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. but as you see how well she responds to it. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. That's very authoritative.. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!).. Push her down into the bed. slowly take it to the next level. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. pin her arms behind her head. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. That's authoritative. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. Now. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. And by all means. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. If you're in missionary position. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk.
If this excites her. Start with things like. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. 35 | P a g e . You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. which is something all women want to hear. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. “You are ALL MINE right now”. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL..... powerful man. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. “These are my lips to kiss”...
" That's one kind of a lover.E. Different positions definitely help. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. and you say different things.V. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . I love you so much. You're doing her doggie-style. Something like out of a romance novel. Then. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be.A. And while physical variety is nice. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. and you have different interactions in these different positions. that Casanova. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. system is VARIETY. because different positions give her different emotions. saying "Baby. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy.3. like in public. I love being inside you. It's not solely about different positions. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. If you do different positions. or sneaking off somewhere. You're slapping her ass. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.
You can talk emotionally. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. But. And I just touched upon it. It's not gonna have emotion. repeatedly. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. but positions aren't as important. on Friday night. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. Y eah. if you can. So. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Try to have various times where you have sex. positions themselves aren't really that different. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. In the missionary position you can make love to her. it's not gonna have that variety. You can talk dirty. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety.variety. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. 37 | P a g e . There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. You want to be having sex at different times. If it's planned. You can fuck her. that's not very spontaneous. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. So. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. It's gonna seem monotonous. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Being Spontaneous So.
because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. (In a moment. she's not going to feel emotion. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. So in summary. Do it in the shower. Keep things fresh. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. If you can't be emotional yourself. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. You want as much spontaneity as possible. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. and she's going to be madly in love with you. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. be a different kind of lover. be spontaneous. when you're 38 | P a g e . and it’s a very enjoyable thing.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. Change the feelings that she has. 4. And again. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. and in the morning when you wake up. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. There are lots of different fantasies. So. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule.
So. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. The Stronger the Emotions. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. So. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. there's so much emotion for both of you. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. after the initial emotions have dipped. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. You're madly in love. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. If it's your wife." If you're saying “I love you. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. And then the sex peters out. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. It's because in the beginning. They’ll get married. even sexually or in any manner. if you're not with a girl that you like. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. because you married her. So now. or outside. Your bodies are new. Then that emotion dips over a time. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. make sure that you really mean it. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions.telling her things. you need to be emotional. you should be pretty emotional. either inside the bedroom. The stronger the emotions. you need to be. and in the beginning the sex is really good. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. 39 | P a g e . or they'll get a girlfriend.” you want to say it with passion. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl.
and she really wants you inside of you. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Feelings of just being fucked. Emotions are best shown through words. and then kind of push her away. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Just keep going with the foreplay. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. And the way that you can do that. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. excitement. If you're not talking in bed. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. teasing. all that teasing creates anticipation. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. anticipation. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Different emotions. If you're teasing a girl. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. until finally she can't take it anymore. Anticipation creates excitement So. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation.And you want to do that in bed. and 40 | P a g e . I just keep kissing. Feelings of being loved. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. Play hard to get. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you.
baby." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. Romantic talk means things like.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. But romantic talk is. 41 | P a g e . I miss you so much. you need to start now. "Oh. "I love you so much. otherwise it sounds a little weird. Kind of ease it in there. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.
V.E system its unbelievable. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.A. As usual. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.A. This stuff is so close to the P. Look for all the elements of P. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.A.VE. Pay close attention when you are reading these. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.E. anonymous.V. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.
darling. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. kissing you softly. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. I can feel the desire pool between my legs.” I whisper in your ear. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. still in my 4 inch heels. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. I step back. You help me remove them. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. revealing a tight. I set my briefcase on the counter. you fill the room with your sexual presence.physically big.” My hands trail down your abdomen. “Not yet.” is all that you can utter. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. “Here are the rules: I touch you. and before I can stop you. pulling me against you. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . Wrapping my arms around your neck. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. sucking on your bottom lip. You pull my suit coat off. I straddle your lap. as I grind my hips against you. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. “Baby. satin camisole. and appraise your amazing body. I lean into your strength and warmth.
You swallow hard and nod your head. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. If at any point it gets to be too much. and plant a kiss in your palm. “You’re a naughty boy. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. You hear it hit the floor. gently at first. Just try to relax. baby.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. it looks like it might explode. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. “Baby. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. so I continue with my lesson. and is driving you wild. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. just say yellow. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I can’t get enough of your different textures. where are you?” “I’m here. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. “I’ve got something that will help”. 44 | P a g e . “Don’t worry.” I manage to get out between pants. My touch is light and tentative. then with a bit more strength. I can see the skepticism on your face. I’ve never taken control like this. and kiss me breathless. I grab your left hand. You grab me around my waist. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I’m trying to drink you all in.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. but tonight is about control. I pull the camisole off too.
I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. and slam into me.hard. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. lapping up a drop of precum. loudly. down to your pelvic bone. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I continue my assault. A flush has 45 | P a g e . but not touching them. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I cannot take another second. I cry out your name. first one cheek. I run my fingernails down your back. You squirm a little and cry out my name. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I inhale deeply near your navel. as our movements become frantic. they’re so different from mine. My aching pussy has to have you now. You roll me underneath you. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. and you moan. I am yours now. as you fuck me. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. You slap my ass . nearing the verge of my climax. I pinch your nipples. running my tongue along your side. breathing on your balls and shaft. I cry out. You grab my wrist and suck harder.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. causing your abdomen to quiver. then the other. riding you. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.
You grab my hips and pound harder. “Tell me that you want me. causing me to moan.” I take a sharp breath in. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I have never felt so safe. yet I’m excited.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. almost scream your name. pulling me against you.” you say roughly. bruising my tender skin. “Roll over. my pussy throbbing with excitement. but you refuse to let me go. You pull back and look in my eyes. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. You lap at me slowly. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. begging you to make me cum. I touch my clit as you slam into me. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I get on all fours for you. 46 | P a g e . but you keep that same pace. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. trying to catch my breath. I whimper again. I can feel my juices running down my legs. “Fuck me…now. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. never changing pace or pressure. You are so strong. The orgasm is different this time.” I feel so wanton. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. You wrap your arms around me. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. You start to orgasm. It builds and I beg you to finish. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. I shudder my completion.
” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. It is a winding highway someplace rural. 47 | P a g e . Really badly.. You cater to my whims. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I have to pee.. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. I close my eyes and drift off too. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. Mind numbing. I thought.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. can’t think. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. probably western North Carolina. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. what the hell. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. but not before hearing you say softly.” This is what I fantasize about .” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. You can never seem to get enough. “I love you”.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee.
Such relief. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. And he is pointing a gun at me. This is so weird. My room.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I manage “I’m in here. there are the lights. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. He is coming after me. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. I must keep driving. 48 | P a g e . I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. come out with your hands in the air. number 15. Thank god. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. At least I hope it is. Oh my word. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. And oh shit. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals.
He is totally hot. Don’t shoot me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals.“I had to pee. look at my privates.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. looking at him. Since he has seen me. The cop can’t help but look at me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. “How about you put that weapon away. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. Higher still. he hasn’t said anything to me. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. He exhales again. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. 49 | P a g e . I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. It is awkward in heated kind of way. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes.
I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt.I try speaking. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. grunts and moves in quickly. He spreads my legs with his knee. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I have to touch him. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. “Too fast. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. His 50 | P a g e . He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I arch my back and press my chest against him. Brushing his cheek against my chest. This next transition is a blur.
With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I know I am beautiful. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. My thighs are at his eye level. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He looks up with need and reverence. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. I love it.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink.
I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot.” I moan and then release. more. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. My orgasm comes fast and hard. This gets me so excited for more. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. Don’t stop. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. It is so perfect. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. 52 | P a g e . I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. “More. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I am so wet and hot. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I still want to be fucked.tongue over his lips. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.) But I am not done with this fantasy.
” he moans. I relish him being worn out. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He fills me completely. panting and trying to catch his breathe. This is when we both come together. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I feel like a conqueror. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I feel triumphant. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. My ass is barely on the counter. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e .
let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. 54 | P a g e . and what to do about them.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure.
Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. but not during sex. the limper you will get. which basically means the harder you try. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. your problem is entirely psychological. not a physical problem.
Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Clear your mind other than the numbers. “10-Count Breathing”. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. This exhale is 2. (5 cycles of 2).. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. This breath is 1. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.2.. and trust me when I say. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called.. nothing about life or any topic. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. 56 | P a g e .
no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. Sounds crazy. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . You’ll be glad you did. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. And trust me. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. which allows you to relax more and get hard. 3. then it will help your erections.
as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e .Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. dumbbell press.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. For further details. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. These include the dead lift. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. you learn to control your breathing as well. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. and pull-ups. yoga is what I recommend . squat. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.
Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. When you don’t have presence. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. no erection. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. Instead. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. put it at a number. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. Here’s how: Step 1.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. Don’t fight your arousal.
5 and when it turns into number 9. give us a call if you need help with this..You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play.5. Step 2.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. harder stroking. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). Again. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e .not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5 to number 9. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come.
Step 3. Instead eat her out. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Step 4. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. 61 | P a g e . or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. See demonstration in the DVD. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. or kiss her body. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you.
you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. She will. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. Also. 62 | P a g e . Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. model. full body orgasms.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms.V. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. exercise.E. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. women are capable of many different types.A.
Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . side of back. mouth. Kiss her neck. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. inner thighs. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts.
Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. a really sexy.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. continuous orgasmic state. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. smart 64 | P a g e . and emotion. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. she was from Austria. variety. repeated cumming etc. I know this sounds ridiculous. I was dating this girl Renee. authority. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going.
I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. with no physiological hang-ups. Over time with her though.a.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .accountant.v. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. gifts. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. and panties with my name on them.
etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts..How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. kisses.
but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Online porn these days is cheap. and the sites have TONS of videos. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn... plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. so get in as much as you can. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. In short. the girls are beautiful.
the woman that you are with is even more self conscious.5 inches hard it does not matter.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. Even if it does work at all. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. it will raise your testosterone. stamina. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. or exercises don’t waste your time. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. pumps. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. 68 | P a g e . You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Just get naked. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Unless your penis is under 2. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. and maker her come. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. It’s not hiding as much as you think.
Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Remember though. Let’s do a quick run through. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Remember. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. But if you feel that you really need it. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills.
It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. If you’re thinking of getting one. Dick size is NOT the problem. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. It’s a waste of your time and money. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. It hurt. don’t. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. Relax and Enjoy . The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.
ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Sassy. If you want to say something say it. that’s fine.50% of the time. the evidence is overwhelming. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. if you want to do something to do it. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Just FUCK her.. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Classy. Something that you have to work on. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. if you want to last 2 minutes. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys..Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. whether she is coming. Conservative. not just think about theoretically. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. what position you are in. These are psychological principles. 71 | P a g e . The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Shy.
You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women. 72 | P a g e .
. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. boring stuff. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .
(as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge).) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it.There are numerous types of birth control. Pre-cum contains sperm. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. 74 | P a g e . Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. Sperm lead to children. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. It works really well — as long as she takes it. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.
Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. 75 | P a g e . However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. The Patch. However. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Guys take responsibility. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. You can experiment with it. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. the Shot. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. There chance of pregnancy is too high. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Again. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. I would not recommend it. The Ring. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm.
Don’t get it. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. If you’re going to do this be sure. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Some STDs are very serious. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. but I know people who have had. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. I’ve never had one. it’s a very effective. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. My friend Mike. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested.
or condoms ruin sex. bring it up casually but firmly. and still always you to enjoy sex. I’m not going to list every STD here. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. It’s all 77 | P a g e . doesn’t grip you too tight. not guess. Just get tested to be sure. you should be fine. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. “I can’t get hard with a condom on.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. Despite it being a serious subject. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Often guys will say something like. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. that is completely STD free as are you yourself.
78 | P a g e . If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.condomdepot.in your head. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. For overall experience. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break.com. Let’s review how to put on a condom. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. You can use Astroglide.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. Read about his issue under trouble shooting.
Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Let’s go through and talk about where to start." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations.Don't Wait. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. If you are having relatively tame sex." To avoid this. 1. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Have a few” go-to” moves. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Sticking with the classics like. and focus on your breathing. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2." so again stick to the basics. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. "baby that feels so good. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. in 2 or 3 basic positions. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). you 79 | P a g e .
Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. 4. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focus on foreplay. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. You don’t have to go crazy. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Be able to give her an orgasm. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. 5.
Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. it’s so much more than that.IncredibleSexNow.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. living life on your own terms.com 2009. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. LLC 82 | P a g e . It’s being a real man. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. Bobby Bradshaw www. ISN Education.
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