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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. Awful! 1|Page . 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. divorce. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. Also. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. was begging to have sex with you??. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. FOR ONCE. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating.

Luckily. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. Real-life. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. Who Am I. I’m not an athlete. I’m not even a millionaire. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. My lowest point though. or if you take out the trash. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. I'm not a celebrity. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me.The Cheat-proof. She was blunt. and not know where her lips have been. Women won’t tell you this. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. what car you drive. would come crashing to a passionless halt. The first time I had sex I was 22. she will be yours for life. no matter how much I liked her. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make.

I could get hard and last 45 minutes. Now. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. I still have my day job as a business consultant. what happened was that through my own experimentation. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. EVERY TIME. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I read hundreds of books. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. When I did get back in the game. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!).

And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. because as a man. better looks. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. and better sexual skills than you. Most 4|Page . girlfriend. she doesn’t even have the temptation. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now.

turn off your email and phone. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. laugh all you want. had never kissed a girl.. He was like. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. so take a deep breath. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. it’s funny. . Actually. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. and he knew this. I was a complete loser. In fact.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). “Come to Brazil. Please don’t laugh. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. 5|Page . and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist..Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy.. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I’m not proud of this. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly.

the most I’d ever gone out. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. Meanwhile. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page .” I’m thinking. Math. Please don’t.. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.” anything to distract myself. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. In the hotel room. Once I was naked. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Algebra. I finally made it into the promise land. I was really only a poor college student.God. Somehow she liked me. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times.ARGH! . but what did she know. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet.. “Calm.. So THIS was it! Haha... we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. It felt so good.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. calm. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex.

They had complete control of pleasing these women.just kept pumping away. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. 7|Page . pathetic little boy. said something in Portuguese. And they weren’t having sex slowly.. they were going fast and aggressively. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. I just want you to know how bad I was. And for a long time I was in denial. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. and feeling like a small. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. making the girls scream with pleasure. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. and pushed me off of her. but it was that they’d last forever. It wasn’t that they were so huge. . It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil.. but I had no idea what to do about it. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again.

And the second time I had sex. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. I had to learn how to do it. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. their first time was at 16. So to try and turn my sex life around. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I’d do 8|Page . I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. but when you wait longer. So either way. 17 years old like a normal guy.pal?!” It sounds comical. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. 16. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. cumming immediately. I started reading every single book that I could about sex.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I was like. “Yeah. “What is wrong with you. I would kiss her for a while. That’s what happened my first time. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. seminars. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. videos. I remember that. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I couldn’t get hard at all. and I was at 23. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. After three years of wild experimentation.” But for them.

all sorts of other stuff. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex.. So I moved on and started dating other girls. 50 minutes — even an hour. learning where her trigger spots were. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. “Oh goddd. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. Finally. Most importantly though. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. regardless of the girl I ended up with. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan.

.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. something that seemed to work with every girl. But something started to happen.. Sure.” I’d try and show them how special they were. they’d take the necklace. It was getting out of hand. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. every time. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. practically tearing my clothes off.was ready to meet the challenge. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better.Even If You’re “Small”. These girls started to love it.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. but they didn’t seem satisfied. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. I was having sex whenever I wanted. “Hey. I bought you a necklace. or Have A Small Bank Account. . This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. I had to do 10 | P a g e . Here. Or they’d be like “Oh. I need a hug.

humiliation. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. It’s what we think about all day long. It changed who I am. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. and she’s going to be looking for other options. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. You’re here because of sex. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. she’s not going to treat you well. who have given up and faced rejection. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. more and more. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. you’re going to have to last. she’s not going to want to have children with you. No more not feeling like a man. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. Chris Rock once joked. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick.something with this power I had developed. How to give women the best sex of their life. “A man is only as faithful as his options. she will want you more and more. If she only knew! More importantly. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. I don’t want guys feeling this pain.

and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. 12 | P a g e . really easy for you. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. last as long as you want. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. just make sure it stays between us. You don’t need to have sex with 5.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. These problems you’re having. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. problems I used to have. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina.

13 | P a g e . So to get started. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. so really think carefully.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. We will address that in a moment. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. Women are the same way. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. full-body orgasms. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself.

keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. now touch that. they can’t get hard. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. in the bedroom and outside it. the limper you become! But don't worry. They are thinking of “Touch this. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. 14 | P a g e . And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes.

Obviously. not confident and slightly feminine. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. Show her you know what you want. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her how much you want her. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. They want you to be in charge. at some times the emotional. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man.

I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex.interaction. 16 | P a g e .” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything.. she’ll be sexually pleased.. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. almost every woman said “doggy-style. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. they’re not based on feelings. crazy shit. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.

so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . But fortunately.So if you think that you’re any of these. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. this is what comes out.. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.. Of course.

looking back on it. 18 | P a g e . or kissing him. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. It was so painful to admit that to myself. but I had to face the truth. charm. just not with me. had a headache. or was stressed and not in the mood. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. Then. or even social status.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. looks. She is sitting on his lap. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. because I couldn’t satisfy her. There is no nagging. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. or always trying to hold his hand. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy.

Sign #1 . When a woman is initiating sex with you. Unlike many men. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. Take note however. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. that is the same thing. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. The more that she initiates sex. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. so in this case.

she wants to have sex right now or that night. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . the sex won’t happen. and don’t try and skip that step.” “I need a massage. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. chances are that she is initiating sex. They will say things like. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.” or “Lets watch a movie. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a hug. Just stay calm.” If you are hearing things like this. “Let’s take a nap. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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anything.” 25 | P a g e . I used to think. Any skill in life is learned. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. you’re not where you need to be.CAN improve your sexual skills. learning a language. you can still get better. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. you had to learn.” I’d think. they WILL improve. programming a computer. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. No matter how bad you are. but they are not. Any skill that’s worth knowing. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.” That’s not true. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). And no matter how good you think you are. women need sex — then hey.

and then boom. Because you’re forced to fix it. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed.” So it’s okay to get help. realize you’re going to get it handled. When you’ve got an issue in your life. and that you’ll love too. take care of it. It is possible. There is a saying that I love. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. Really think about that. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. It is one of my favorites. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. I guarantee it. you’ve got to embrace it. you will. 26 | P a g e .

Look at all these women magazines. Their main goal in life is to have children. again. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. “Hey. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. 27 | P a g e . the stuff that you look at. but think of women. like.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. the better off you’ll be. you do.” Yeah. real women. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. If you think that you need sex. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. I’m a guy.” Or. These are normal. with their picture. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. I need sex. to be child-bearers. women need sex more than men. instinctual level." She doesn’t get horny.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. but she doesn’t like sex. So. This is everywhere. and you’re. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. Look at YM. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. The sooner you realize this. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter.

make-up. let’s move on to the next mindset. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. You ever look at a man’s underwear. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes.and other products to look good. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). They want to look desirable. but society represses it. “There it is. They have all this sexual desire. It’s my underwear. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. buying underwear. and the examples of this are everywhere. 28 | P a g e . “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.” Women spend hours. these pants.“That’s trash.

society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. with proper education. It’s not your fault. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.

and she's not in the moment at all. because you want her not thinking anything. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1.V. 30 | P a g e .. Women are feelers. "Oh. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….Chapter 5 The P. Often. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. Don't Think. This is a bad thing.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. To start. then at the end of this chapter. If her eyes are open. It's not just you being in the moment.A. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. but feeling. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. I'll run through all four. it's HER being in the moment. and she's not thinking about anything. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE.

But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. or about different aspects of your sexuality.. It's a big problem. and you're no longer good at all.. you won't have to worry about that any longer. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. Nothing about. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. or you get soft. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. 31 | P a g e . that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. or having sex with a woman for the first time.And more specifically.. It's game over. because all of a sudden.. Of course you want her to have a good time. and you lose your presence and your authority. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft.

"What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Just going right after it.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. It does it out of a primal instinct. You want to just be going by instinct. anything. There'll be a learning curve. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. So. That is PRESENCE. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. when you learn a language. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. and the wind is this variable. But. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. and what's going on. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. while you're learning this stuff. You're just primal. He's not thinking. Always instinct. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. 32 | P a g e ." Think of just pure instinct. you're thinking about it at the start. in the beginning. and I will grab him here. Just like anything else.

2. I'm gonna do what I like. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Don’t ask to do doggy style. you'll begin to naturally think. "I'm in charge. but you need to be authoritative. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. By having that mindset of leader. So. You need to show that you're in charge. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . going to follow the lead of the man. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. more dominant. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. to be led by the male. I'm the boss here. It's much more attractive for women. they would be with one! No. If they did. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. whether it's during sex or during a date. You should always treat women with respect. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. you've gotta show that you're in charge. That's how it's been since the caveman days. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. a woman wants a man." You wanna show that you're in charge. and the woman is. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman.

like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. pin her arms behind her head. Get it? 34 | P a g e . but as you see how well she responds to it. slowly take it to the next level.. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her.. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. and then ramp it up from there. after you've started gently and she is warmed up.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. If you're in missionary position. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). That's authoritative. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. That's very authoritative. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. And by all means. Try saying things like. Now. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. Push her down into the bed. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first.

. 35 | P a g e . “These are my lips to kiss”.. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU.. Start with things like. powerful man... which is something all women want to hear.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. If this excites her. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL..What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. “You are ALL MINE right now”.

If you do different positions. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy.V.E. saying "Baby. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . Then. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. Something like out of a romance novel. I love you so much. I love being inside you. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. Different positions definitely help. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. You're doing her doggie-style. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. system is VARIETY. You're slapping her ass. because different positions give her different emotions. and you say different things. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. like in public. It's not solely about different positions.3. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one.A. And while physical variety is nice. that Casanova. and you have different interactions in these different positions. or sneaking off somewhere. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY." That's one kind of a lover.

but positions aren't as important. on Friday night. It's not gonna have emotion. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day.variety. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. You can talk dirty. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. In the missionary position you can make love to her. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. 37 | P a g e . But. repeatedly. Being Spontaneous So. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. that's not very spontaneous. You can talk emotionally. positions themselves aren't really that different. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. So. You want to be having sex at different times. Y eah. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. And I just touched upon it. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. If it's planned. if you can. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. So. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. It's gonna seem monotonous. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Try to have various times where you have sex. it's not gonna have that variety. You can fuck her.

you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. 4. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. You want as much spontaneity as possible. So. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. Change the feelings that she has. If you can't be emotional yourself. There are lots of different fantasies. And again. and in the morning when you wake up. So in summary. be a different kind of lover. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. be spontaneous. when you're 38 | P a g e . and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. Keep things fresh. Do it in the shower. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. (In a moment. she's not going to feel emotion. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. and she's going to be madly in love with you.

So. They’ll get married. you should be pretty emotional. Women want to feel different emotions during sex." If you're saying “I love you. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. if you're not with a girl that you like. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. or they'll get a girlfriend. Your bodies are new. there's so much emotion for both of you. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions.telling her things. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. after the initial emotions have dipped. you need to be. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. So now. because you married her. either inside the bedroom. It's because in the beginning. You're madly in love. and in the beginning the sex is really good. make sure that you really mean it. you need to be emotional. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. even sexually or in any manner. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. The stronger the emotions. Then that emotion dips over a time. 39 | P a g e . you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. or outside. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. The Stronger the Emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. If it's your wife. And then the sex peters out.” you want to say it with passion. So.

Just keep going with the foreplay. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants.And you want to do that in bed. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. and 40 | P a g e . keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. all that teasing creates anticipation. Feelings of just being fucked. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. anticipation. I just keep kissing. Different emotions. Anticipation creates excitement So. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. and then kind of push her away. excitement. And the way that you can do that. teasing. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Play hard to get. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. If you're teasing a girl. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. Feelings of being loved. until finally she can't take it anymore. Emotions are best shown through words. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. and she really wants you inside of you. If you're not talking in bed.

” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. 41 | P a g e . otherwise it sounds a little weird.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. But romantic talk is. "Oh. you need to start now. Romantic talk means things like. Kind of ease it in there. I miss you so much. baby. "I love you so much.

This stuff is so close to the P.VE. Pay close attention when you are reading these. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.A. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .V. Look for all the elements of P. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.A.V. anonymous. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.E. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.A.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.E system its unbelievable. As usual. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.

I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. as I grind my hips against you.” My hands trail down your abdomen. you fill the room with your sexual presence. and appraise your amazing body.” is all that you can utter. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. “Not yet. sucking on your bottom lip. I straddle your lap. and before I can stop you. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. pulling me against you. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. Wrapping my arms around your neck. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. You pull my suit coat off. You help me remove them.physically big. kissing you softly. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. satin camisole. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material.” I whisper in your ear. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. I set my briefcase on the counter. still in my 4 inch heels. darling. I lean into your strength and warmth. “Baby. I step back. “Here are the rules: I touch you. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. revealing a tight.

44 | P a g e .” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. “I’ve got something that will help”.You swallow hard and nod your head. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. Just try to relax. My touch is light and tentative. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. so I continue with my lesson. it looks like it might explode. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. just say yellow. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I can’t get enough of your different textures. and plant a kiss in your palm. I’ve never taken control like this. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. “Don’t worry. You grab me around my waist. “You’re a naughty boy. and kiss me breathless. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. baby. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. then with a bit more strength. gently at first. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. “Baby. I can see the skepticism on your face. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.” I manage to get out between pants. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I grab your left hand. I pull the camisole off too. If at any point it gets to be too much. but tonight is about control.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. I’m trying to drink you all in. and is driving you wild. You hear it hit the floor. where are you?” “I’m here. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking.

lapping up a drop of precum. You roll me underneath you. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I cry out. I cannot take another second.hard. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. riding you. as you fuck me. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. they’re so different from mine. nearing the verge of my climax. down to your pelvic bone. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. You grab my wrist and suck harder. The sting of your broken skin excites you. My aching pussy has to have you now. and slam into me.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. and you moan. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. first one cheek. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I pinch your nipples. I continue my assault. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You slap my ass . causing your abdomen to quiver. I run my fingernails down your back. I am yours now. running my tongue along your side. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I inhale deeply near your navel. loudly. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I cry out your name. then the other. breathing on your balls and shaft. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. as our movements become frantic. but not touching them. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder.

never changing pace or pressure. trying to catch my breath. but you keep that same pace. “Fuck me…now. You grab my hips and pound harder. but you refuse to let me go. I can feel my juices running down my legs. “Roll over. yet I’m excited. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. “Tell me that you want me. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. almost scream your name.” I take a sharp breath in. causing me to moan.” I feel so wanton. I get on all fours for you. my pussy throbbing with excitement. bruising my tender skin. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I shudder my completion. begging you to make me cum. You wrap your arms around me. I have never felt so safe. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. You are so strong. 46 | P a g e . You lap at me slowly. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. pulling me against you. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. Your tongue slides across my aching clit.” you say roughly. You start to orgasm. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. It builds and I beg you to finish. You pull back and look in my eyes. I touch my clit as you slam into me. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. The orgasm is different this time. I whimper again.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa.

” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. I thought. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. Really badly.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. You can never seem to get enough. but not before hearing you say softly. 47 | P a g e .. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. You cater to my whims. It is a winding highway someplace rural. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. Mind numbing.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I close my eyes and drift off too. “I love you”. probably western North Carolina. But when I saw the ad for fantasies.” This is what I fantasize about . This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. I have to pee. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy.. what the hell. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. can’t think.

48 | P a g e .” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. He is coming after me. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. And oh shit. My room. At least I hope it is. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. come out with your hands in the air. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. there are the lights. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. This is so weird. I think I turn off the car but who really knows.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. number 15. And he is pointing a gun at me. I manage “I’m in here.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. I must keep driving. Thank god. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. Oh my word. Such relief. I keep my foot nailed to the petal.

I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. He exhales again. “How about you put that weapon away. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. 49 | P a g e . He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. Since he has seen me. Don’t shoot me. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. look at my privates. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. The cop can’t help but look at me. He is totally hot. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. he hasn’t said anything to me. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times.“I had to pee.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. It is awkward in heated kind of way. looking at him. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. Higher still. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes.

I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. This next transition is a blur. grunts and moves in quickly. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. “Too fast. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. His 50 | P a g e . I arch my back and press my chest against him. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. He spreads my legs with his knee. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I have to touch him. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him.I try speaking. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth.

I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I love it. My thighs are at his eye level. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He looks up with need and reverence. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I know I am beautiful. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining.

I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. This gets me so excited for more. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. more.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. Don’t stop.tongue over his lips. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I still want to be fucked. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I am so wet and hot. “More. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. 52 | P a g e . He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. It is so perfect. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy.” I moan and then release. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand.

It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He fills me completely. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. panting and trying to catch his breathe. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me.” he moans. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I relish him being worn out. I feel triumphant. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. I feel like a conqueror.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. This is when we both come together. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. My ass is barely on the counter.

54 | P a g e . let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them.

Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. which basically means the harder you try. not a physical problem.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. but not during sex. your problem is entirely psychological. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the limper you will get. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor.

Clear your mind other than the numbers.. This breath is 1.. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. (5 cycles of 2). nothing about life or any topic. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing.2. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it.. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.. This exhale is 2. and trust me when I say. “10-Count Breathing”.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. 56 | P a g e . 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air.

And trust me. Sounds crazy. then it will help your erections. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. which allows you to relax more and get hard. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. 3. You’ll be glad you did.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed.

You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. These include the dead lift. you learn to control your breathing as well. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. For further details.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. and pull-ups. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. dumbbell press. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. squat.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. yoga is what I recommend . Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e .

your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. When you don’t have presence. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. Instead. put it at a number.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Here’s how: Step 1. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. Don’t fight your arousal. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. no erection. It’s just going to take a little bit of work.

Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. harder stroking.5 and when it turns into number 9. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. give us a call if you need help with this.5.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting.. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Step 2. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). When you are increasing 60 | P a g e .not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5 to number 9.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Again.

Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Instead eat her out. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. 61 | P a g e . See demonstration in the DVD. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. or kiss her body. Step 4.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. Step 3. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it.

full body orgasms. women are capable of many different types. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. exercise.V. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. Also. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.E. model. 62 | P a g e . From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. She will.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P.A.

Don’t do anything else just leave it there. inner thighs. side of back.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. Kiss her neck. mouth.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts.

” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. authority. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. I know this sounds ridiculous. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. variety. a really sexy. smart 64 | P a g e . repeated cumming etc. she was from Austria. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. I was dating this girl Renee. and emotion.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. continuous orgasmic state. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came.

with no physiological hang-ups.accountant. Over time with her though. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.v.a. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . gifts. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. and panties with my name on them. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.

It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts.. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. kisses. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you.

 Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. the girls are beautiful. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. In short. so get in as much as you can. and the sites have TONS of videos. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Online porn these days is cheap. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e .. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm.. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex.

68 | P a g e .Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. it will raise your testosterone. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Unless your penis is under 2. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. It’s not hiding as much as you think." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Just get naked. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. and maker her come. or exercises don’t waste your time. pumps. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Even if it does work at all. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it.5 inches hard it does not matter. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. stamina. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery.

Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. But if you feel that you really need it. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Remember though. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Let’s do a quick run through. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Remember. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more.

she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. It hurt.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Relax and Enjoy . Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If you’re thinking of getting one. It’s a waste of your time and money. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Dick size is NOT the problem. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. don’t.

and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. If you want to say something say it. Conservative. the evidence is overwhelming. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Something that you have to work on. not just think about theoretically.. if you want to last 2 minutes. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. Classy.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Shy. what position you are in. These are psychological principles. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Just FUCK her. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time.50% of the time.. whether she is coming. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. Sassy. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. 71 | P a g e . I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. that’s fine. Don’t think about ANYTHING. if you want to do something to do it.

but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women. 72 | P a g e .You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover.

Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . but I want to make sure you are SAFE. boring stuff. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her..if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend.

If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. Sperm lead to children.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. 74 | P a g e . The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. It works really well — as long as she takes it.There are numerous types of birth control. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. Pre-cum contains sperm. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options.

The Ring. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. 75 | P a g e . Here is what you need to know about spermicide. I would not recommend it.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Again. the Shot. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. However. You can experiment with it. The Patch. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Guys take responsibility. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy.

Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . If you’re going to do this be sure. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Don’t get it. My friend Mike. but I know people who have had. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. I’ve never had one. it’s a very effective. Some STDs are very serious. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. AIDS is still a life threatening disease.

STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Just get tested to be sure. and still always you to enjoy sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Often guys will say something like. doesn’t grip you too tight. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. bring it up casually but firmly. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. or condoms ruin sex. It’s all 77 | P a g e .” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. Despite it being a serious subject. I’m not going to list every STD here. you should be fine. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. not guess. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs.

You can use Astroglide. I highly do recommend that Durex Love.in your head. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. For overall experience. 78 | P a g e . I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Read about his issue under trouble shooting.com. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom.condomdepot. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Let’s review how to put on a condom. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms.

make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. 1. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. in 2 or 3 basic positions. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. Sticking with the classics like. and focus on your breathing. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. you 79 | P a g e . "baby that feels so good. Have a few” go-to” moves. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration.Don't Wait. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!)." To avoid this. If you are having relatively tame sex." so again stick to the basics." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once.

which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. 5. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Be able to give her an orgasm. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. 4. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. You don’t have to go crazy. Focus on foreplay. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .

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You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. LLC 82 | P a g e . and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Bobby Bradshaw www. living life on your own terms. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms.com 2009. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell.IncredibleSexNow.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. it’s so much more than that. ISN Education. It’s being a real man. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.

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