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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. was begging to have sex with you??. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Awful! 1|Page . Also. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. divorce. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. FOR ONCE. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second.

Luckily. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Who Am I. The first time I had sex I was 22. what car you drive. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. would come crashing to a passionless halt. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. I'm not a celebrity. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. and not know where her lips have been. My lowest point though.The Cheat-proof. Real-life. I’m not even a millionaire. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. or if you take out the trash. Women won’t tell you this. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. no matter how much I liked her. She was blunt. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I’m not an athlete. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. she will be yours for life. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make.

but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. When I did get back in the game. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. I read hundreds of books. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. Now. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . what happened was that through my own experimentation. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. I still have my day job as a business consultant. EVERY TIME.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years.

girlfriend. because as a man. Most 4|Page . They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. and better sexual skills than you. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. better looks. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. she doesn’t even have the temptation. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book.

Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy.. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. Actually. . turn off your email and phone. and he knew this. He was like. so take a deep breath. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash.. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. it’s funny. 5|Page . Please don’t laugh. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. laugh all you want. I’m not proud of this. had never kissed a girl. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier.. In fact. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I was a complete loser. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). “Come to Brazil.

calm. I finally made it into the promise land.God. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. but what did she know. Math.. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. Please don’t. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed.” anything to distract myself. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. Once I was naked.” I’m thinking. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex...Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there.ARGH! . In the hotel room. So THIS was it! Haha. the most I’d ever gone out. Meanwhile. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. “Calm.. I was really only a poor college student.. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. I met this girl who barely spoke English. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. It felt so good. Algebra. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. Somehow she liked me.

the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast.. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. and pushed me off of her. 7|Page . . but I had no idea what to do about it.. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. I just want you to know how bad I was. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. pathetic little boy. making the girls scream with pleasure. and feeling like a small. It wasn’t that they were so huge. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. they were going fast and aggressively. They had complete control of pleasing these women. said something in Portuguese. but it was that they’d last forever. And for a long time I was in denial. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. And they weren’t having sex slowly. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.just kept pumping away.

I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. “Yeah. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. 16. and I was at 23. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I would kiss her for a while. cumming immediately. After three years of wild experimentation. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed.” But for them. That’s what happened my first time. their first time was at 16. I was like. videos. seminars. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I remember that. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. I’d do 8|Page . I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. I couldn’t get hard at all. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. 17 years old like a normal guy. So either way. but when you wait longer. I had absolutely no control over when I came. “What is wrong with you. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. And the second time I had sex. So to try and turn my sex life around. I had to learn how to do it.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15.pal?!” It sounds comical. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last.

I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. learning where her trigger spots were. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. Finally. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. So I moved on and started dating other girls. “Oh goddd. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice.. Most importantly though. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. 50 minutes — even an hour. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina.all sorts of other stuff. regardless of the girl I ended up with. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex.

I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. Sure. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. but they didn’t seem satisfied. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like.. . These girls started to love it. “Hey. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. Or they’d be like “Oh. Here. But something started to happen.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. something that seemed to work with every girl. It was getting out of hand. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. I bought you a necklace. I had to do 10 | P a g e . I was having sex whenever I wanted.was ready to meet the challenge. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. or Have A Small Bank Account. they’d take the necklace. practically tearing my clothes off. let’s go out for a fancy dinner.” I’d try and show them how special they were.Even If You’re “Small”. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. I need a hug. every time. I’d hear “I want to take a nap.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me..

and she’s going to be looking for other options. You’re here because of sex. she will want you more and more. you’re going to have to last. How to give women the best sex of their life. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. No more not feeling like a man. more and more. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby.something with this power I had developed.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. humiliation. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. she’s not going to treat you well. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. If she only knew! More importantly. she’s not going to want to have children with you. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. It changed who I am. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. “A man is only as faithful as his options. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. who have given up and faced rejection. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. It’s what we think about all day long. Chris Rock once joked. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had.

When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. problems I used to have. last as long as you want. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. You don’t need to have sex with 5. These problems you’re having. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. just make sure it stays between us. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. really easy for you.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. 12 | P a g e . You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want.

You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. so really think carefully. full-body orgasms. We will address that in a moment.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. Women are the same way. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. 13 | P a g e . Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. So to get started. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it.

They are thinking of “Touch this. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. in the bedroom and outside it. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. the limper you become! But don't worry. 14 | P a g e . they can’t get hard.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. now touch that. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot.

but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . not confident and slightly feminine. They want you to be in charge. Obviously. Show her how much you want her. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. Show her you know what you want. at some times the emotional. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. When you are passive and unsure of yourself.

or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. crazy shit..” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. they’re not based on feelings. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. 16 | P a g e . almost every woman said “doggy-style. she’ll be sexually pleased. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru.interaction. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.

so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. Of course. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.So if you think that you’re any of these. But fortunately.. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.. this is what comes out. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things.

It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. or even social status. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. looking back on it. just not with me. but I had to face the truth. charm. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. Then. She is sitting on his lap. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. 18 | P a g e . Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. or was stressed and not in the mood. because I couldn’t satisfy her. It was so painful to admit that to myself. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. looks. had a headache. There is no nagging. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. or kissing him. or always trying to hold his hand. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man.

Sign #1 . if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. that is the same thing. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. Take note however. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. When a woman is initiating sex with you. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this).” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. The more that she initiates sex. Unlike many men. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . so in this case.

” or “Lets watch a movie. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.” “I need a massage. chances are that she is initiating sex. They will say things like. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.” “I need a hug. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex.” If you are hearing things like this. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . “Let’s take a nap. the sex won’t happen. Just stay calm. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . and don’t try and skip that step.she wants to have sex right now or that night. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. And no matter how good you think you are. you had to learn. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). No matter how bad you are. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. they WILL improve. programming a computer.” That’s not true. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help.CAN improve your sexual skills. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. but they are not. women need sex — then hey. I used to think. you’re not where you need to be. learning a language.” 25 | P a g e . anything.” I’d think. Any skill in life is learned. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. you can still get better. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. Any skill that’s worth knowing.

Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. There is a saying that I love. 26 | P a g e . You can be better in bed than any guy you know. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. Because you’re forced to fix it. take care of it. It is one of my favorites. It is possible. I guarantee it. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. and that you’ll love too. When you’ve got an issue in your life. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. Really think about that. you’ve got to embrace it. and then boom. realize you’re going to get it handled. you will.” So it’s okay to get help. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with.

Look at all these women magazines. I need sex.” Yeah. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. Look at YM. with their picture. instinctual level. “Hey. This is everywhere. like. These are normal. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. the better off you’ll be. women need sex more than men. but think of women. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. the stuff that you look at." She doesn’t get horny. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. real women. 27 | P a g e . I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. If you think that you need sex. Their main goal in life is to have children. but she doesn’t like sex. again. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. The sooner you realize this. you do.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. and you’re.” Or. to be child-bearers. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. So. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. I’m a guy.

They want to look desirable. 28 | P a g e .” Women spend hours. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them).and other products to look good. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. and the examples of this are everywhere. but society represses it. “There it is. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. buying underwear. these pants. You ever look at a man’s underwear. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. make-up. They have all this sexual desire.“That’s trash. let’s move on to the next mindset. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. It’s my underwear.

it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. with proper education. It’s not your fault. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.

30 | P a g e . should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1.Chapter 5 The P. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. then at the end of this chapter.A.. but feeling. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. Don't Think. To start. and she's not in the moment at all. It's not just you being in the moment. Often. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. and she's not thinking about anything. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.V. I'll run through all four. If her eyes are open. because you want her not thinking anything. "Oh. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. Women are feelers. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. it's HER being in the moment. This is a bad thing.

because all of a sudden. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance.. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. or about different aspects of your sexuality.. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. or having sex with a woman for the first time. Of course you want her to have a good time.. Nothing about. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. 31 | P a g e . You lose every feeling of being in the moment. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. and you're no longer good at all. and you lose your presence and your authority. It's game over. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. It's a big problem. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft..And more specifically. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. or you get soft. you won't have to worry about that any longer.

and I will grab him here. He's not thinking. anything. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. But. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. There'll be a learning curve. in the beginning. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. and the wind is this variable. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. while you're learning this stuff. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. You want to just be going by instinct. That is PRESENCE. Just going right after it. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. You're just primal.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. It does it out of a primal instinct." Think of just pure instinct. So. you're thinking about it at the start. Just like anything else. 32 | P a g e . Always instinct. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. when you learn a language. and what's going on.

Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. That's how it's been since the caveman days. to be led by the male. but you need to be authoritative. It's much more attractive for women.2. and the woman is. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. a woman wants a man. Don’t ask to do doggy style. whether it's during sex or during a date. So. You need to show that you're in charge. going to follow the lead of the man." You wanna show that you're in charge. I'm gonna do what I like. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. I'm the boss here. you'll begin to naturally think. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. "I'm in charge. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. If they did. you've gotta show that you're in charge. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. they would be with one! No. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. By having that mindset of leader. You should always treat women with respect. more dominant.

Push her down into the bed.. and then ramp it up from there. If you're in missionary position. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. slowly take it to the next level. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. pin her arms behind her head. Try saying things like. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). And by all means. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. That's authoritative. but as you see how well she responds to it. after you've started gently and she is warmed up.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair.. That's very authoritative. Get it? 34 | P a g e . "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. Now.

. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. “You are ALL MINE right now”. If this excites her. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. powerful man...What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you.. “These are my lips to kiss”.. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.. 35 | P a g e . which is something all women want to hear.. “Your ass is mine right now” etc.. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. Start with things like.

You're doing her doggie-style. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. like in public. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard.A. and you have different interactions in these different positions. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. You're slapping her ass.V. Different positions definitely help. saying "Baby. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . I love being inside you." That's one kind of a lover. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. I love you so much. because different positions give her different emotions. and you say different things. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. or sneaking off somewhere. system is VARIETY. It's not solely about different positions. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. Something like out of a romance novel.E. And while physical variety is nice. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. that Casanova. Then.3. If you do different positions.

But. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. that's not very spontaneous. on Friday night. positions themselves aren't really that different. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. it's not gonna have that variety. It's gonna seem monotonous. repeatedly. You can talk dirty. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. It's not gonna have emotion. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. 37 | P a g e . You can talk emotionally. So. So. but positions aren't as important. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. If it's planned. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms.variety. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. You can fuck her. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Y eah. Being Spontaneous So. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. if you can. You want to be having sex at different times. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. And I just touched upon it. Try to have various times where you have sex.

You want as much spontaneity as possible. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. And again. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. Do it in the shower. be spontaneous. If you can't be emotional yourself. when you're 38 | P a g e . be a different kind of lover. (In a moment. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. 4. she's not going to feel emotion. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. and in the morning when you wake up. So in summary. So. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. and she's going to be madly in love with you. There are lots of different fantasies.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. Change the feelings that she has. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. Keep things fresh.

either inside the bedroom. and in the beginning the sex is really good. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. or they'll get a girlfriend. or outside.telling her things. you should be pretty emotional. The stronger the emotions. They’ll get married. The Stronger the Emotions. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. you need to be emotional. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. So. make sure that you really mean it. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. So now." If you're saying “I love you. you need to be. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. because you married her. there's so much emotion for both of you. if you're not with a girl that you like. If it's your wife. 39 | P a g e . the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. So. And then the sex peters out. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. It's because in the beginning. You're madly in love. Then that emotion dips over a time. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions.” you want to say it with passion. after the initial emotions have dipped. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. even sexually or in any manner. Your bodies are new. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl.

and then kind of push her away. all that teasing creates anticipation. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. If you're not talking in bed. anticipation. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. teasing. and 40 | P a g e . Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. I just keep kissing. Anticipation creates excitement So. And the way that you can do that. and she really wants you inside of you. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Just keep going with the foreplay. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Feelings of being loved. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. excitement. until finally she can't take it anymore. Emotions are best shown through words. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. Different emotions.And you want to do that in bed. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. If you're teasing a girl. Play hard to get. Feelings of just being fucked.

” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. "I love you so much. Kind of ease it in there. "Oh.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. otherwise it sounds a little weird. baby. But romantic talk is. Romantic talk means things like. you need to start now. 41 | P a g e ." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. I miss you so much. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.

offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. Pay close attention when you are reading these. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. anonymous.A. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.E system its unbelievable. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.E. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.V.A. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. This stuff is so close to the P. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.V.VE.A. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. As usual. Look for all the elements of P.

Wrapping my arms around your neck. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. and appraise your amazing body. as I grind my hips against you. “Here are the rules: I touch you. You help me remove them. I step back. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you.” My hands trail down your abdomen. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. sucking on your bottom lip. You pull my suit coat off. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. I set my briefcase on the counter. “Baby. I straddle your lap. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. satin camisole. still in my 4 inch heels. revealing a tight. I lean into your strength and warmth. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. and before I can stop you. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. I feel your hands slide up over my hips.” I whisper in your ear. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. “Not yet. pulling me against you.physically big. you fill the room with your sexual presence. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. darling.” is all that you can utter. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. kissing you softly.

I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I grab your left hand. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. I’ve never taken control like this. 44 | P a g e . The material is cool and smooth against your skin. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. baby. just say yellow. My touch is light and tentative. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. “You’re a naughty boy. “I’ve got something that will help”. I’m trying to drink you all in. You hear it hit the floor. I can see the skepticism on your face. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking.You swallow hard and nod your head. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. “Don’t worry. Just try to relax. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. and plant a kiss in your palm. I pull the camisole off too. “Baby. where are you?” “I’m here. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. If at any point it gets to be too much.” I manage to get out between pants. and kiss me breathless. but tonight is about control. so I continue with my lesson. gently at first.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. and is driving you wild. I can’t get enough of your different textures. then with a bit more strength. You grab me around my waist. it looks like it might explode.

first one cheek. causing your abdomen to quiver. riding you. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. The sting of your broken skin excites you. loudly. as our movements become frantic. I cannot take another second. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. then the other. I am yours now. I continue my assault. My aching pussy has to have you now. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. You roll me underneath you. I cry out. I begin to nibble at your thighs. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. running my tongue along your side. they’re so different from mine. as you fuck me. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. nearing the verge of my climax.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. A flush has 45 | P a g e . but not touching them. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. and you moan. lapping up a drop of precum. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh.hard. and slam into me. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. You slap my ass . I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I cry out your name. You grab my wrist and suck harder. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I pinch your nipples. breathing on your balls and shaft. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I inhale deeply near your navel. I run my fingernails down your back. down to your pelvic bone.

I collapse onto our oversized sofa. but you refuse to let me go. You pull back and look in my eyes. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. I get on all fours for you. You lap at me slowly. It builds and I beg you to finish. I have never felt so safe. bruising my tender skin. “Fuck me…now.” I take a sharp breath in. but you keep that same pace. my pussy throbbing with excitement. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. You are so strong. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. I touch my clit as you slam into me. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. pulling me against you. almost scream your name. I shudder my completion. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. never changing pace or pressure. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You grab my hips and pound harder. “Tell me that you want me. You start to orgasm. “Roll over. 46 | P a g e . You wrap your arms around me. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. trying to catch my breath. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted.” you say roughly. I whimper again. The orgasm is different this time. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. causing me to moan. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I can feel my juices running down my legs. begging you to make me cum. yet I’m excited.” I feel so wanton.

You make me feel safe and loved and protected. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. It is a winding highway someplace rural. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. You can never seem to get enough.” This is what I fantasize about . “I love you”. Really badly. but not before hearing you say softly.. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. You cater to my whims. Mind numbing. But when I saw the ad for fantasies.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. I thought.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. probably western North Carolina. I close my eyes and drift off too.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. what the hell. can’t think. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. I have to pee. 47 | P a g e .

come out with your hands in the air. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. And he is pointing a gun at me. I manage “I’m in here. I must keep driving. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. He is coming after me. number 15. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. At least I hope it is. 48 | P a g e . I think I turn off the car but who really knows. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. Oh my word. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. My room. Thank god. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. Such relief. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. This is so weird. there are the lights. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. And oh shit.

His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. “How about you put that weapon away. looking at him. Higher still. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. look at my privates. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. Don’t shoot me. The cop can’t help but look at me. he hasn’t said anything to me. Since he has seen me. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. He exhales again. 49 | P a g e . It is awkward in heated kind of way. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.“I had to pee. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. He is totally hot. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips.

My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. “Too fast. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. He spreads my legs with his knee. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I have to touch him. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. This next transition is a blur. Brushing his cheek against my chest. grunts and moves in quickly. I arch my back and press my chest against him. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one.I try speaking. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. His 50 | P a g e . He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine.

I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I know I am beautiful. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. My thighs are at his eye level. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. I love it. He looks up with need and reverence.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. He is so strong and I know he is hard. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles.

tongue over his lips. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. This gets me so excited for more. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. more. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. Don’t stop.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. 52 | P a g e . His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. I am so wet and hot. “More. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I still want to be fucked. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.” I moan and then release. It is so perfect.

The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop.” he moans. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. He fills me completely. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I feel like a conqueror. panting and trying to catch his breathe. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. I feel triumphant. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I relish him being worn out. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . This is when we both come together. My ass is barely on the counter. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him.

and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.

your problem is entirely psychological.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. which basically means the harder you try. the limper you will get. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. but not during sex.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. not a physical problem. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.

Clear your mind other than the numbers. This exhale is 2.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. and trust me when I say. “10-Count Breathing”. 56 | P a g e .... and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. nothing about life or any topic. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. This breath is 1. (5 cycles of 2).  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed.2. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it..

More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. You’ll be glad you did. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. Sounds crazy. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. And trust me. which allows you to relax more and get hard. then it will help your erections. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. 3. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down.

Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. and pull-ups. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. These include the dead lift. you learn to control your breathing as well.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. For further details. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. dumbbell press.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . squat. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. yoga is what I recommend .

Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. Don’t fight your arousal. put it at a number.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. Instead. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. When you don’t have presence. no erection. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . It’s just going to take a little bit of work. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. Here’s how: Step 1. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it.

When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).5 and when it turns into number 9. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Again. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie..You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. harder stroking. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Step 2. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.5. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. give us a call if you need help with this. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5 to number 9. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6.

Step 4. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Step 3. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. See demonstration in the DVD. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. 61 | P a g e . Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. or kiss her body. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Instead eat her out.

Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.A. 62 | P a g e . Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. model. full body orgasms. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training.V. women are capable of many different types. exercise. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm.E. She will. Also. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.

 Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e .  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. side of back. Don’t do anything else just leave it there.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. mouth. Kiss her neck. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. inner thighs.

continuous orgasmic state.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. repeated cumming etc. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. she was from Austria. I was dating this girl Renee. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. authority. smart 64 | P a g e . Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. and emotion. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. variety. I know this sounds ridiculous. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. a really sexy. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined.

a.accountant. gifts. Over time with her though. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. and panties with my name on them. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough.v. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. with no physiological hang-ups.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.

she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. kisses. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually.

plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. In short. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. so get in as much as you can. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Online porn these days is cheap.. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. the girls are beautiful. and the sites have TONS of videos. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good..

" This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. and maker her come. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. stamina. it will raise your testosterone. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. It’s not hiding as much as you think. or exercises don’t waste your time. Even if it does work at all. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Unless your penis is under 2. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery.5 inches hard it does not matter. 68 | P a g e . Just get naked. pumps. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted.

If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Remember. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Let’s do a quick run through. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . But if you feel that you really need it. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Remember though. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills.

Dick size is NOT the problem. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. If you’re thinking of getting one. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. It’s a waste of your time and money. Relax and Enjoy .give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. It hurt. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. It May Just Be in Your Head Look.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. don’t.

if you want to do something to do it. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. Something that you have to work on. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. what position you are in. Shy. If you want to say something say it. whether she is coming. the evidence is overwhelming. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques.. Conservative. Don’t think about ANYTHING.. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Sassy. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. 71 | P a g e . Be a total primal instinct driven animal. not just think about theoretically.50% of the time. that’s fine. Classy. if you want to last 2 minutes. Just FUCK her. These are psychological principles.

but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e .

if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms.. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. boring stuff. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me.

There are numerous types of birth control. It works really well — as long as she takes it. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. Pre-cum contains sperm. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. Sperm lead to children. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. 74 | P a g e . If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge).) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.

Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Guys take responsibility. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. the Shot. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. There chance of pregnancy is too high. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. The Patch. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. 75 | P a g e . The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. You can experiment with it. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. However. I would not recommend it. Again. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. The Ring. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy.

comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. but I know people who have had. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. If you’re going to do this be sure.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. I’ve never had one. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Some STDs are very serious. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. My friend Mike. it’s a very effective. Don’t get it. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY.

not guess. or condoms ruin sex. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. I’m not going to list every STD here. and still always you to enjoy sex.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. you should be fine. Often guys will say something like. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. bring it up casually but firmly.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. doesn’t grip you too tight. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Despite it being a serious subject. Just get tested to be sure.

(Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom.condomdepot. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. For overall experience. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out.com.in your head. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. 78 | P a g e . What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. You can use Astroglide. Let’s review how to put on a condom.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.

Sticking with the classics like. Have a few” go-to” moves. 1. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes.Don't Wait." so again stick to the basics. "baby that feels so good. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. If you are having relatively tame sex. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. you 79 | P a g e . make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. in 2 or 3 basic positions. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2." To avoid this. and focus on your breathing. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable.

Focus on foreplay. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. 4. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. You don’t have to go crazy. 5. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Be able to give her an orgasm. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex.

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It’s being a real man. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. Bobby Bradshaw www. LLC 82 | P a g e .After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. living life on your own terms.com 2009.IncredibleSexNow. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. ISN Education. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. it’s so much more than that.

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