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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. Also. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. divorce. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. was begging to have sex with you??. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. Awful! 1|Page . FOR ONCE. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs.

once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. no matter how much I liked her. I’m not an athlete. or if you take out the trash. She was blunt. and not know where her lips have been. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it.The Cheat-proof. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. would come crashing to a passionless halt. what car you drive. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . Who Am I. I’m not even a millionaire. I'm not a celebrity. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Women won’t tell you this. Luckily. My lowest point though. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. she will be yours for life. Real-life. The first time I had sex I was 22. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms.

EVERY TIME. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. what happened was that through my own experimentation. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . I still have my day job as a business consultant. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I read hundreds of books. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Now. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. When I did get back in the game. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years.

I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. and better sexual skills than you. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. better looks. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. because as a man. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. she doesn’t even have the temptation. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. girlfriend. Most 4|Page .

I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me.. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. it’s funny. Actually. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). so take a deep breath. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I’m not proud of this. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. Please don’t laugh. . laugh all you want. I was a complete loser. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. “Come to Brazil.. In fact. had never kissed a girl. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier.. He was like. turn off your email and phone. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. and he knew this.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. 5|Page . I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist.

I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. Please don’t. but what did she know. the most I’d ever gone out.” anything to distract myself.ARGH! . I finally made it into the promise land.” I’m thinking.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. So THIS was it! Haha. Math. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. Algebra. It felt so good. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me.. Somehow she liked me. I met this girl who barely spoke English.. I was really only a poor college student. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room.. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. calm. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.God. Meanwhile. Once I was naked. In the hotel room... I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. “Calm.

They had complete control of pleasing these women. said something in Portuguese. 7|Page . and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. and pushed me off of her. And for a long time I was in denial. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. they were going fast and aggressively. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing.. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. but I had no idea what to do about it. and feeling like a small. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. And they weren’t having sex slowly. but it was that they’d last forever. It wasn’t that they were so huge. making the girls scream with pleasure. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. . My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.just kept pumping away.. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. pathetic little boy.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.

their first time was at 16. I would kiss her for a while. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I couldn’t get hard at all. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. “What is wrong with you. So either way. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I had absolutely no control over when I came. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I remember that. seminars. I’d do 8|Page . That’s what happened my first time. cumming immediately. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. And the second time I had sex. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. videos. I was like. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. and I was at 23.pal?!” It sounds comical. I had to learn how to do it. 17 years old like a normal guy. So to try and turn my sex life around. After three years of wild experimentation. but when you wait longer. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. 16. “Yeah. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works.” But for them.

Most importantly though.all sorts of other stuff. 50 minutes — even an hour. “Oh goddd. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. Finally.. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. learning where her trigger spots were. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. So I moved on and started dating other girls. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. regardless of the girl I ended up with. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought.

. But something started to happen.Even If You’re “Small”. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. It was getting out of hand. Here. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. “Hey. they’d take the necklace. practically tearing my clothes off. but they didn’t seem satisfied. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. I need a hug. . let’s go out for a fancy dinner. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. These girls started to love it.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. every time. something that seemed to work with every girl.” I’d try and show them how special they were. Or they’d be like “Oh. or Have A Small Bank Account. I had to do 10 | P a g e . I bought you a necklace.. Sure. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I was having sex whenever I wanted.was ready to meet the challenge. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have.

How to give women the best sex of their life. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. If she only knew! More importantly. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. and she’s going to be looking for other options.something with this power I had developed. she’s not going to treat you well. more and more. she will want you more and more. who have given up and faced rejection. she’s not going to want to have children with you. “A man is only as faithful as his options. You’re here because of sex. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. Chris Rock once joked.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. It’s what we think about all day long. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. humiliation. you’re going to have to last. It changed who I am. No more not feeling like a man. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e .

these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. 12 | P a g e . These problems you’re having. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. really easy for you. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. problems I used to have. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. just make sure it stays between us. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. You don’t need to have sex with 5. last as long as you want.

Women are the same way. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. We will address that in a moment. So to get started. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. 13 | P a g e . So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. so really think carefully.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. full-body orgasms. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds.

we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. they can’t get hard. now touch that. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. They are thinking of “Touch this. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. in the bedroom and outside it. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. the limper you become! But don't worry. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. 14 | P a g e .2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes.

but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. They want you to be in charge. at some times the emotional. Obviously. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Show her you know what you want. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e .4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. Show her how much you want her. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. not confident and slightly feminine.

So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. they’re not based on feelings.. crazy shit. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.interaction. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. 16 | P a g e . she’ll be sexually pleased.. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. almost every woman said “doggy-style.

But fortunately. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . this is what comes out. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed.. Of course.So if you think that you’re any of these. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends.

Sexually attraction far outweighs money. because I couldn’t satisfy her. just not with me. or always trying to hold his hand. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. She is sitting on his lap. looks. There is no nagging. It was so painful to admit that to myself. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. or was stressed and not in the mood. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. had a headache. charm. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. or even social status. but I had to face the truth. looking back on it. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. Then. 18 | P a g e . Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. or kissing him. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend.

you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Take note however.Sign #1 . Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . The more that she initiates sex. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. When a woman is initiating sex with you. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Unlike many men.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. that is the same thing. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. so in this case. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this).She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.

and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. “Let’s take a nap. and don’t try and skip that step. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .” If you are hearing things like this. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. chances are that she is initiating sex. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” “I need a hug. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. Just stay calm.” or “Lets watch a movie. the sex won’t happen.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.” “I need a massage. They will say things like.she wants to have sex right now or that night.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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programming a computer. Any skill in life is learned. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). NO ONE IS A NATURAL.” That’s not true. I used to think. No matter how bad you are. but they are not. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. women need sex — then hey. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. learning a language. you can still get better. anything. you had to learn. they WILL improve. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.” 25 | P a g e .CAN improve your sexual skills. you’re not where you need to be. And no matter how good you think you are.” I’d think. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. Any skill that’s worth knowing. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help.

It is possible. It is one of my favorites. There is a saying that I love. you’ve got to embrace it. realize you’re going to get it handled.” So it’s okay to get help. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. you will. take care of it. Because you’re forced to fix it. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. and then boom. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. When you’ve got an issue in your life. 26 | P a g e . I guarantee it. and that you’ll love too. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. Really think about that. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with.

” Yeah. to be child-bearers. again. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. I need sex. instinctual level. This is everywhere. If you think that you need sex. Look at all these women magazines. the better off you’ll be. These are normal. with their picture.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. Their main goal in life is to have children. the stuff that you look at. you do. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. but think of women.” Or. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. women need sex more than men. So. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. but she doesn’t like sex. Look at YM. 27 | P a g e . “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. “Hey. I’m a guy." She doesn’t get horny. real women.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. The sooner you realize this. and you’re. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. like.

And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. They have all this sexual desire. and hopefully you’ve internalized this.” Women spend hours. and the examples of this are everywhere. let’s move on to the next mindset. make-up. buying underwear. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “There it is. 28 | P a g e . do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). You ever look at a man’s underwear.“That’s trash. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. these pants.and other products to look good. It’s my underwear. but society represses it. They want to look desirable.

your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e .Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . It’s not your fault. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. with proper education. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.

PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. and she's not in the moment at all.V. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. 30 | P a g e . and she staring at you or looking around the room like. To start. then at the end of this chapter. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. because you want her not thinking anything.Chapter 5 The P. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. This is a bad thing.. Don't Think. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. If her eyes are open. Often. It's not just you being in the moment. "Oh. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. Women are feelers. it's HER being in the moment. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE.A. I'll run through all four. and she's not thinking about anything. but feeling.

Of course you want her to have a good time. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed.. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. or having sex with a woman for the first time. It's a big problem. or you get soft. or about different aspects of your sexuality. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. because all of a sudden. Nothing about. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder.And more specifically. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes.. You lose every feeling of being in the moment.. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. and you lose your presence and your authority. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. and you're no longer good at all. you won't have to worry about that any longer. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft.. 31 | P a g e . "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. It's game over. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis.

"What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. There'll be a learning curve. Just going right after it." Think of just pure instinct. You're just primal. in the beginning. Always instinct. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. and the wind is this variable. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. So. That is PRESENCE. and I will grab him here. while you're learning this stuff. You want to just be going by instinct. But. He's not thinking. you're thinking about it at the start. Just like anything else. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. when you learn a language. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. It does it out of a primal instinct. 32 | P a g e . Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. anything. and what's going on. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift.

You should always treat women with respect." You wanna show that you're in charge. and the woman is. So. You need to show that you're in charge. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. It's much more attractive for women. more dominant. I'm the boss here. That's how it's been since the caveman days. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. If they did. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. you'll begin to naturally think. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. I'm gonna do what I like. but you need to be authoritative. to be led by the male. you've gotta show that you're in charge. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive.2. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. going to follow the lead of the man. "I'm in charge. whether it's during sex or during a date. By having that mindset of leader. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. a woman wants a man. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Don’t ask to do doggy style. they would be with one! No.

I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). after you've started gently and she is warmed up. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. Get it? 34 | P a g e . pin her arms behind her head. And by all means. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. Try saying things like. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. That's authoritative. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. slowly take it to the next level. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. That's very authoritative. If you're in missionary position. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her.. but as you see how well she responds to it. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. and then ramp it up from there. Push her down into the bed. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty.. Now.

Start with things like..What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong.. “You are ALL MINE right now”.. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU.. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.. powerful man. which is something all women want to hear.... “These are my lips to kiss”. 35 | P a g e . “Your ass is mine right now” etc. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. If this excites her.

I love you so much. If you do different positions." That's one kind of a lover. because different positions give her different emotions. You're slapping her ass. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. saying "Baby. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . I love being inside you.V. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. system is VARIETY. It's not solely about different positions. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. Different positions definitely help. or sneaking off somewhere. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. And while physical variety is nice. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. and you have different interactions in these different positions.E. that Casanova. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. Something like out of a romance novel.3. like in public. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. You're doing her doggie-style. and you say different things. Then. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.A.

The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. You can talk dirty. if you can. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. It's not gonna have emotion. repeatedly. but positions aren't as important. In the missionary position you can make love to her. Being Spontaneous So. You can fuck her. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. So. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. You want to be having sex at different times. So. on Friday night. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. it's not gonna have that variety. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. 37 | P a g e . There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. But. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. And I just touched upon it. Y eah. Try to have various times where you have sex. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day.variety. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. that's not very spontaneous. It's gonna seem monotonous. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. If it's planned. You can talk emotionally. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. positions themselves aren't really that different.

and it’s a very enjoyable thing. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. So. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. And again. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. and in the morning when you wake up. (In a moment. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. There are lots of different fantasies. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. If you can't be emotional yourself. Keep things fresh. You want as much spontaneity as possible. be a different kind of lover. be spontaneous. she's not going to feel emotion. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. So in summary. Do it in the shower. when you're 38 | P a g e . Change the feelings that she has. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. and she's going to be madly in love with you. 4.

The stronger the emotions. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. Then that emotion dips over a time.” you want to say it with passion. So. because you married her. So. and in the beginning the sex is really good. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. 39 | P a g e . either inside the bedroom. or they'll get a girlfriend.telling her things. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. So now. And then the sex peters out. They’ll get married. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. It's because in the beginning. you should be pretty emotional. you need to be emotional. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. You're madly in love." If you're saying “I love you. or outside. there's so much emotion for both of you. even sexually or in any manner. Your bodies are new. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. if you're not with a girl that you like. make sure that you really mean it. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. you need to be. If it's your wife. after the initial emotions have dipped. The Stronger the Emotions.

Anticipation creates excitement So. excitement. I just keep kissing. and then kind of push her away. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. teasing. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. If you're not talking in bed. Feelings of just being fucked.And you want to do that in bed. anticipation. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Different emotions. and 40 | P a g e . If you're teasing a girl. And the way that you can do that. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. all that teasing creates anticipation. and she really wants you inside of you. Play hard to get. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. Feelings of being loved. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. until finally she can't take it anymore. Just keep going with the foreplay. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Emotions are best shown through words.

Romantic talk means things like. baby. otherwise it sounds a little weird. I miss you so much.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. Kind of ease it in there. "I love you so much. you need to start now. 41 | P a g e .here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. But romantic talk is. "Oh. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby.

offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true.A. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.VE. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. anonymous. Pay close attention when you are reading these.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .E system its unbelievable. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.A. Look for all the elements of P.E. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.A. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. This stuff is so close to the P. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. As usual. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.V.V.

You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. kissing you softly. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time.” My hands trail down your abdomen. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver.” I whisper in your ear. Wrapping my arms around your neck. satin camisole.physically big. “Baby. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. I step back. and before I can stop you. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers.” is all that you can utter. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I set my briefcase on the counter. still in my 4 inch heels. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. I straddle your lap. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. “Here are the rules: I touch you. “Not yet. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I lean into your strength and warmth. darling. You pull my suit coat off. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. sucking on your bottom lip. pulling me against you. You help me remove them. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. you fill the room with your sexual presence. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. revealing a tight. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. and appraise your amazing body. as I grind my hips against you. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material.

but tonight is about control. I pull the camisole off too. where are you?” “I’m here. I grab your left hand. baby. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. and is driving you wild. I’ve never taken control like this. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. 44 | P a g e .” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes.” I manage to get out between pants. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. “You’re a naughty boy. “Baby. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. just say yellow. If at any point it gets to be too much. then with a bit more strength.You swallow hard and nod your head. I can see the skepticism on your face. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. so I continue with my lesson. gently at first. “Don’t worry. My touch is light and tentative. You grab me around my waist. and kiss me breathless. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. Just try to relax. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I’m trying to drink you all in. it looks like it might explode. You hear it hit the floor. “I’ve got something that will help”. and plant a kiss in your palm.

A flush has 45 | P a g e . I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I pinch your nipples. You grab my wrist and suck harder. but not touching them. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. they’re so different from mine. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. first one cheek. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. as you fuck me. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. My aching pussy has to have you now. and you moan. then the other. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. The sting of your broken skin excites you. I cry out your name. nearing the verge of my climax. breathing on your balls and shaft. riding you. down to your pelvic bone. I continue my assault. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I cannot take another second. I cry out. as our movements become frantic. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep.hard. You slap my ass . You roll me underneath you. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. and slam into me. loudly. causing your abdomen to quiver. I begin to nibble at your thighs. lapping up a drop of precum. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I run my fingernails down your back. I am yours now. I inhale deeply near your navel. running my tongue along your side.

“Roll over. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. but you keep that same pace. The orgasm is different this time. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. begging you to make me cum. but you refuse to let me go. trying to catch my breath. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. 46 | P a g e . I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I shudder my completion. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. You start to orgasm. It builds and I beg you to finish. “Tell me that you want me. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. I have never felt so safe. You lap at me slowly. almost scream your name.” I feel so wanton. “Fuck me…now. yet I’m excited. my pussy throbbing with excitement. You wrap your arms around me. pulling me against you. I collapse onto our oversized sofa.” you say roughly. causing me to moan. I get on all fours for you. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. I whimper again. You are so strong. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You pull back and look in my eyes.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. You grab my hips and pound harder.” I take a sharp breath in. I can feel my juices running down my legs. I touch my clit as you slam into me. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. bruising my tender skin. never changing pace or pressure.

Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. I thought. You can never seem to get enough. I have to pee. what the hell.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. but not before hearing you say softly. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. “I love you”. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. Mind numbing.” This is what I fantasize about . You cater to my whims.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO.. I close my eyes and drift off too. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. 47 | P a g e . It is a winding highway someplace rural. can’t think.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. Really badly. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. probably western North Carolina.. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. I feel like a goddess every time we make love.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.

I manage “I’m in here. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. Oh my word. there are the lights. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. He is coming after me. I must keep driving. come out with your hands in the air. And he is pointing a gun at me.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. number 15. Thank god. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. And oh shit. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. At least I hope it is. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. This is so weird. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. My room. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. 48 | P a g e . Such relief.

Since he has seen me. “How about you put that weapon away. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. Don’t shoot me.“I had to pee. look at my privates. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. He is totally hot. He exhales again. 49 | P a g e . looking at him. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. Higher still. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. It is awkward in heated kind of way. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. The cop can’t help but look at me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. he hasn’t said anything to me. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day.

Brushing his cheek against my chest. His 50 | P a g e . He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I arch my back and press my chest against him. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. grunts and moves in quickly. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths.I try speaking. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. “Too fast. This next transition is a blur. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. He spreads my legs with his knee. I have to touch him. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other.

He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. I know I am beautiful. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. He looks up with need and reverence. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. My thighs are at his eye level. I love it.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles.

” I moan and then release. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. Don’t stop. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. I still want to be fucked. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real.tongue over his lips. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. “More. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. This gets me so excited for more. I am so wet and hot. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. 52 | P a g e . I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly.) But I am not done with this fantasy. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. It is so perfect. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. more. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing.

I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. panting and trying to catch his breathe. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor.“Oh Jesus in heaven. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready.” he moans. This is when we both come together. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He fills me completely. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I feel like a conqueror. My ass is barely on the counter. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. I feel triumphant. I relish him being worn out.

54 | P a g e . and what to do about them.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.

the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the limper you will get.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. but not during sex. not a physical problem. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. your problem is entirely psychological.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. which basically means the harder you try.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .

 Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10.. This breath is 1.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. 56 | P a g e . Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. “10-Count Breathing”..2. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. This exhale is 2. and trust me when I say. (5 cycles of 2). Clear your mind other than the numbers. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes... nothing about life or any topic. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called.

as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . 3. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. Sounds crazy. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. which allows you to relax more and get hard. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. And trust me. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. You’ll be glad you did. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. then it will help your erections.

Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e .Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. For further details. squat. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. yoga is what I recommend . look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. These include the dead lift. dumbbell press. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. and pull-ups. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. you learn to control your breathing as well.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training.

Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. Here’s how: Step 1. Don’t fight your arousal. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. Instead. put it at a number. When you don’t have presence. no erection. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation.

Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. give us a call if you need help with this. Again. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting..5 and when it turns into number 9. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. harder stroking.5. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.5 to number 9. Step 2. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.

Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Step 3.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. or kiss her body. Step 4. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. 61 | P a g e . Instead eat her out. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem.

How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. model. 62 | P a g e . They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. She will.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. exercise. women are capable of many different types. Also.A.E. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. full body orgasms. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.V.

mouth. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Kiss her neck.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. inner thighs.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. side of back.

” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. she was from Austria. smart 64 | P a g e . It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. and emotion.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. repeated cumming etc. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. authority. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I was dating this girl Renee. continuous orgasmic state. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. I know this sounds ridiculous. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. variety. a really sexy.

let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p. and panties with my name on them. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.v. gifts. Over time with her though.a. with no physiological hang-ups.accountant.

she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. kisses. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts.. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e .How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.

so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women.. the girls are beautiful. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. and the sites have TONS of videos. so get in as much as you can.. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. In short. Online porn these days is cheap.

Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. and maker her come. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. 68 | P a g e . it will raise your testosterone. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Unless your penis is under 2. Even if it does work at all. stamina. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. It’s not hiding as much as you think. pumps. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Just get naked. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. or exercises don’t waste your time." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body.5 inches hard it does not matter. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it.

Remember though. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e .turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Let’s do a quick run through. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Remember. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. But if you feel that you really need it. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills.

if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. If you’re thinking of getting one.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. don’t. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . It hurt. Dick size is NOT the problem. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Relax and Enjoy . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. It’s a waste of your time and money. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.

I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. Sassy.50% of the time. 71 | P a g e . not just think about theoretically. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. whether she is coming. Classy. These are psychological principles. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex.. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. that’s fine. if you want to last 2 minutes. if you want to do something to do it. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Just FUCK her.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. Something that you have to work on. the evidence is overwhelming. Conservative.. If you want to say something say it. what position you are in. Shy.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

boring stuff.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent.. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know.

It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. 74 | P a g e .) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate.There are numerous types of birth control. Sperm lead to children. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. Pre-cum contains sperm. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. It works really well — as long as she takes it. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy.

Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. However. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. 75 | P a g e . The Ring. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. The Patch. Guys take responsibility. You can experiment with it. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. the Shot. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. I would not recommend it. Again. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex.

AIDS is still a life threatening disease. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. it’s a very effective. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. If you’re going to do this be sure. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. Some STDs are very serious. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. Don’t get it. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. but I know people who have had. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. I’ve never had one. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. My friend Mike.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time.

It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. doesn’t grip you too tight. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. bring it up casually but firmly. or condoms ruin sex. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. and still always you to enjoy sex. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. I’m not going to list every STD here. not guess. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. Despite it being a serious subject. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. Often guys will say something like. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. you should be fine. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. Just get tested to be sure.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. It’s all 77 | P a g e .

Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Let’s review how to put on a condom. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online.com. For overall experience.in your head. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. You can use Astroglide. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. 78 | P a g e . While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.condomdepot. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break.

This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Sticking with the classics like." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations." To avoid this. Have a few” go-to” moves. and focus on your breathing. If you are having relatively tame sex. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. "baby that feels so good. in 2 or 3 basic positions. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. you 79 | P a g e . Be able to last at least 10 minutes. 1. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system." so again stick to the basics. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!).Don't Wait. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2.

Be able to give her an orgasm.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Focus on foreplay. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. 4. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. 5. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. You don’t have to go crazy. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have.

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Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. living life on your own terms. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. ISN Education. LLC 82 | P a g e .com 2009. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. It’s being a real man. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Bobby Bradshaw www. it’s so much more than that.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom.IncredibleSexNow.

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