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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. FOR ONCE. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. Also. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. Awful! 1|Page . 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. divorce. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. was begging to have sex with you??. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming.
Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. and not know where her lips have been. no matter how much I liked her. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife.The Cheat-proof. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. would come crashing to a passionless halt. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. or if you take out the trash. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. I'm not a celebrity. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. Luckily. Who Am I. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. Women won’t tell you this. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. The first time I had sex I was 22. Real-life. My lowest point though. she will be yours for life. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . She was blunt. I’m not an athlete. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. what car you drive. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. I’m not even a millionaire.
I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I read hundreds of books. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. Now. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. When I did get back in the game. what happened was that through my own experimentation. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . I could get hard and last 45 minutes. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. I still have my day job as a business consultant. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. EVERY TIME.
better looks. girlfriend. she doesn’t even have the temptation. because as a man. and better sexual skills than you. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. Most 4|Page . what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book.
Please don’t laugh. laugh all you want. had never kissed a girl. Actually. “Come to Brazil. He was like. In fact. I’m not proud of this. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. so take a deep breath.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. 5|Page . . and he knew this. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. turn off your email and phone.. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me.. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at.. it’s funny. I was a complete loser. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist.
Algebra. Math. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . but what did she know. “Calm. Somehow she liked me. I was really only a poor college student. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes.” I’m thinking. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. Please don’t... the most I’d ever gone out. In the hotel room.. It felt so good.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there.God. Meanwhile. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I finally made it into the promise land. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. Once I was naked. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.ARGH! .” anything to distract myself. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. So THIS was it! Haha. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. calm.. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.
beating it frantically trying to get hard again. 7|Page . It wasn’t that they were so huge. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. And they weren’t having sex slowly. they were going fast and aggressively. but I had no idea what to do about it. I just want you to know how bad I was. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. but it was that they’d last forever. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. and feeling like a small. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. and pushed me off of her.. And for a long time I was in denial.just kept pumping away. said something in Portuguese. pathetic little boy. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.. They had complete control of pleasing these women. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. making the girls scream with pleasure. .
seminars.” But for them. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. “Yeah. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long.pal?!” It sounds comical. So to try and turn my sex life around. I remember that. I’d do 8|Page . The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. 16. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. cumming immediately. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. I was like. but when you wait longer. and I was at 23. So either way. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. I would kiss her for a while. videos. their first time was at 16. That’s what happened my first time. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. After three years of wild experimentation. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I couldn’t get hard at all. 17 years old like a normal guy. I had to learn how to do it. “What is wrong with you. And the second time I had sex.
“Oh goddd. 50 minutes — even an hour. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her.all sorts of other stuff. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. Most importantly though. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. Finally.. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. learning where her trigger spots were. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. regardless of the girl I ended up with. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. So I moved on and started dating other girls. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40.
I was having sex whenever I wanted.Even If You’re “Small”. .” I’d try and show them how special they were. I need a hug. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. something that seemed to work with every girl. Here. It was getting out of hand. I had to do 10 | P a g e . let’s go out for a fancy dinner. But something started to happen. I bought you a necklace. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. or Have A Small Bank Account. every time. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. Or they’d be like “Oh. they’d take the necklace. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. “Hey.. practically tearing my clothes off. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me.was ready to meet the challenge. Sure. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. These girls started to love it.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. but they didn’t seem satisfied..
No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. who have given up and faced rejection. more and more. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. “A man is only as faithful as his options. she’s not going to want to have children with you. If she only knew! More importantly. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. It’s what we think about all day long. No more not feeling like a man.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. You’re here because of sex. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. How to give women the best sex of their life. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . Chris Rock once joked.something with this power I had developed. and she’s going to be looking for other options. she’s not going to treat you well. humiliation. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. you’re going to have to last. she will want you more and more. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. It changed who I am. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted.
These problems you’re having. 12 | P a g e . just make sure it stays between us. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. problems I used to have. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. You don’t need to have sex with 5. last as long as you want. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. really easy for you.
“Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. Women are the same way. full-body orgasms. So to get started. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. We will address that in a moment. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. 13 | P a g e . The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. so really think carefully. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep.
now touch that. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. in the bedroom and outside it. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. the limper you become! But don't worry. they can’t get hard. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. They are thinking of “Touch this. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. 14 | P a g e .2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes.
Show her you know what you want. Obviously. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. They want you to be in charge. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. not confident and slightly feminine. Show her how much you want her. at some times the emotional. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e .4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that.
or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way.interaction. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. she’ll be sexually pleased.. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. crazy shit. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. they’re not based on feelings.. almost every woman said “doggy-style. 16 | P a g e .
. this is what comes out. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. But fortunately. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. Of course. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e .. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.So if you think that you’re any of these.
It was so painful to admit that to myself. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. or was stressed and not in the mood. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. because I couldn’t satisfy her. charm. but I had to face the truth.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. or always trying to hold his hand. 18 | P a g e . It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. just not with me. or even social status. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. Then. She is sitting on his lap. or kissing him. There is no nagging. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. looking back on it. had a headache. looks. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend.
You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. that is the same thing. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e .” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well.Sign #1 . if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. so in this case.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Take note however. The more that she initiates sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you. Unlike many men.
chances are that she is initiating sex. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. the sex won’t happen. They will say things like.she wants to have sex right now or that night. “Let’s take a nap.” “I need a hug. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . and don’t try and skip that step.” If you are hearing things like this. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.” “I need a massage. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .” or “Lets watch a movie.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. Just stay calm. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural.” That’s not true. programming a computer. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). they WILL improve. anything. No matter how bad you are. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. Any skill that’s worth knowing. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. you can still get better. I used to think. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. Any skill in life is learned. women need sex — then hey.” 25 | P a g e . but they are not. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser.CAN improve your sexual skills. And no matter how good you think you are. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. you had to learn.” I’d think. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. you’re not where you need to be. learning a language.
Because you’re forced to fix it. realize you’re going to get it handled. It is possible. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. There is a saying that I love. and that you’ll love too. and then boom. It is one of my favorites. you will. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. I guarantee it. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings.” So it’s okay to get help. 26 | P a g e . take care of it. Really think about that. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. When you’ve got an issue in your life. you’ve got to embrace it.
This is everywhere.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. instinctual level." She doesn’t get horny. Their main goal in life is to have children. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. again. to be child-bearers. the better off you’ll be. but she doesn’t like sex. real women. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men.” Yeah. with their picture. I’m a guy. you do. I need sex.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually.” Or. The sooner you realize this. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. the stuff that you look at. These are normal. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. So. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. like. and you’re. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. women need sex more than men. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. 27 | P a g e . “Hey. but think of women. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. If you think that you need sex. Look at all these women magazines. Look at YM. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter.
but society represses it.” Women spend hours. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). and hopefully you’ve internalized this. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. these pants. buying underwear. “There it is. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. and the examples of this are everywhere. It’s my underwear.“That’s trash. They want to look desirable. 28 | P a g e . They have all this sexual desire. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. You ever look at a man’s underwear.and other products to look good. let’s move on to the next mindset. make-up.
society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. It’s not your fault. with proper education.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled .NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job.
we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. then at the end of this chapter. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. To start. If her eyes are open.A.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. but feeling. and she's not thinking about anything. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. 30 | P a g e . Don't Think..Chapter 5 The P. it's HER being in the moment.V. "Oh. Often. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. I'll run through all four. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. Women are feelers. and she's not in the moment at all. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. because you want her not thinking anything. This is a bad thing. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. It's not just you being in the moment.
. or about different aspects of your sexuality. and you lose your presence and your authority. It's game over. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. Nothing about.. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over.. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. 31 | P a g e .. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. and you're no longer good at all. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. because all of a sudden. or you get soft. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. It's a big problem. Of course you want her to have a good time.And more specifically. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. you won't have to worry about that any longer. or having sex with a woman for the first time.
and the wind is this variable.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. Always instinct. There'll be a learning curve. while you're learning this stuff. when you learn a language. anything. So. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. and I will grab him here. you're thinking about it at the start. and what's going on. But. Just going right after it. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Just like anything else. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. He's not thinking." Think of just pure instinct. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. That is PRESENCE. in the beginning. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. You want to just be going by instinct. You're just primal. It does it out of a primal instinct. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. 32 | P a g e .
This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. but you need to be authoritative. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. to be led by the male. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. whether it's during sex or during a date. So. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . I'm gonna do what I like." You wanna show that you're in charge. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. more dominant. a woman wants a man. going to follow the lead of the man. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. and the woman is. I'm the boss here. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. It's much more attractive for women. Don’t ask to do doggy style. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. You should always treat women with respect. they would be with one! No. you'll begin to naturally think.2. If they did. "I'm in charge. That's how it's been since the caveman days. By having that mindset of leader. you've gotta show that you're in charge. You need to show that you're in charge.
-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. That's authoritative. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. Now.. Push her down into the bed. And by all means. If you're in missionary position. Try saying things like. That's very authoritative. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. Get it? 34 | P a g e . but as you see how well she responds to it. and then ramp it up from there. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). pin her arms behind her head. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. slowly take it to the next level. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk..
powerful man.... If this excites her. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience... And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. Start with things like. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. “These are my lips to kiss”. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. “You are ALL MINE right now”. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.. which is something all women want to hear...What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. 35 | P a g e .
Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be.E. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings.3. Something like out of a romance novel. saying "Baby. like in public. and you have different interactions in these different positions. system is VARIETY. or sneaking off somewhere. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. that Casanova.A. Different positions definitely help. You're doing her doggie-style. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. I love you so much. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. If you do different positions. because different positions give her different emotions. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY." That's one kind of a lover. It's not solely about different positions.V. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. Then. And while physical variety is nice. I love being inside you. and you say different things. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . You're slapping her ass.
because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Being Spontaneous So. So. It's gonna seem monotonous. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. And I just touched upon it. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. positions themselves aren't really that different. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. It's not gonna have emotion. but positions aren't as important. on Friday night. If it's planned. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. Try to have various times where you have sex. 37 | P a g e . You can fuck her. Y eah. it's not gonna have that variety.variety. repeatedly. that's not very spontaneous. But. You can talk dirty. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You can talk emotionally. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. So. You want to be having sex at different times. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. if you can. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY.
(In a moment. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. be spontaneous. So. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. So in summary. If you can't be emotional yourself. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. 4. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. Do it in the shower. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. And again. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. be a different kind of lover. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. and in the morning when you wake up. You want as much spontaneity as possible. when you're 38 | P a g e . Keep things fresh. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. and she's going to be madly in love with you.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. There are lots of different fantasies. Change the feelings that she has. she's not going to feel emotion.
Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. you need to be. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. if you're not with a girl that you like. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. So now. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. It's because in the beginning. The stronger the emotions. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. So. They’ll get married. you should be pretty emotional. either inside the bedroom. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. Your bodies are new. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. You're madly in love. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels.” you want to say it with passion. The Stronger the Emotions. and in the beginning the sex is really good. So.telling her things. because you married her. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. even sexually or in any manner. after the initial emotions have dipped. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. And then the sex peters out. 39 | P a g e . Then that emotion dips over a time. there's so much emotion for both of you. make sure that you really mean it. If it's your wife." If you're saying “I love you. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. or outside. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. you need to be emotional. or they'll get a girlfriend.
there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Just keep going with the foreplay. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Feelings of being loved. Anticipation creates excitement So. Different emotions. And the way that you can do that. Play hard to get.And you want to do that in bed. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. and then kind of push her away. all that teasing creates anticipation. excitement. Feelings of just being fucked. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. If you're teasing a girl. If you're not talking in bed. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. teasing. Emotions are best shown through words. I just keep kissing. and 40 | P a g e . and she really wants you inside of you. anticipation. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. until finally she can't take it anymore. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation.
" If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. 41 | P a g e . But romantic talk is. baby. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. you need to start now. "I love you so much. otherwise it sounds a little weird.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. I miss you so much. Kind of ease it in there. Romantic talk means things like. "Oh.
Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.E. anonymous. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.A. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. This stuff is so close to the P. Pay close attention when you are reading these.V.A.VE.V. Look for all the elements of P. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.A.E system its unbelievable. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. As usual.
Got it?” 43 | P a g e . “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. still in my 4 inch heels. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. Wrapping my arms around your neck. sucking on your bottom lip. pulling me against you. I straddle your lap. I lean into your strength and warmth. and appraise your amazing body.” is all that you can utter.” My hands trail down your abdomen. I set my briefcase on the counter. and before I can stop you. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. “Here are the rules: I touch you. You pull my suit coat off. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I step back.” I whisper in your ear. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. satin camisole. kissing you softly.physically big. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. you fill the room with your sexual presence. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. You help me remove them. “Not yet. as I grind my hips against you. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. revealing a tight. “Baby. darling.
The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. You hear it hit the floor. it looks like it might explode. and is driving you wild. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. then with a bit more strength. 44 | P a g e . paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. gently at first. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. but tonight is about control. You grab me around my waist.” I manage to get out between pants. just say yellow. I’ve never taken control like this.You swallow hard and nod your head. where are you?” “I’m here. “Baby.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. If at any point it gets to be too much. I can’t get enough of your different textures. so I continue with my lesson. I’m trying to drink you all in. I pull the camisole off too. Just try to relax. and plant a kiss in your palm. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. “Don’t worry. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. baby. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. “You’re a naughty boy. I can see the skepticism on your face. and kiss me breathless. “I’ve got something that will help”. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. I grab your left hand.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. My touch is light and tentative. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you.
You grab my wrist and suck harder. and you moan. I cry out your name. The sting of your broken skin excites you. I cry out. first one cheek. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. You squirm a little and cry out my name. nearing the verge of my climax. I continue my assault. I am yours now. I pinch your nipples. down to your pelvic bone. then the other. A flush has 45 | P a g e . as you fuck me. loudly.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. lapping up a drop of precum. but not touching them.hard. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. breathing on your balls and shaft. I run my fingernails down your back. You roll me underneath you. riding you. I inhale deeply near your navel. running my tongue along your side. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. as our movements become frantic. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. You slap my ass . My aching pussy has to have you now. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. causing your abdomen to quiver. and slam into me. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. they’re so different from mine. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I cannot take another second.
causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. begging you to make me cum. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You are so strong. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. You start to orgasm. You pull back and look in my eyes.” you say roughly. but you keep that same pace. “Fuck me…now. almost scream your name. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. You grab my hips and pound harder. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. causing me to moan. “Tell me that you want me.” I feel so wanton.” I take a sharp breath in. I touch my clit as you slam into me. “Roll over. You wrap your arms around me. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. I whimper again. I have never felt so safe. The orgasm is different this time. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. yet I’m excited. pulling me against you.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I get on all fours for you. but you refuse to let me go. never changing pace or pressure. my pussy throbbing with excitement. trying to catch my breath. bruising my tender skin. 46 | P a g e . I can feel my juices running down my legs. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. I shudder my completion. You lap at me slowly. It builds and I beg you to finish. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air.
but not before hearing you say softly. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. I thought.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. “I love you”. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. Mind numbing. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. Really badly. can’t think. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. 47 | P a g e . I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. You cater to my whims. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. I have to pee.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. It is a winding highway someplace rural.. You can never seem to get enough.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. probably western North Carolina.” This is what I fantasize about . I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that. I close my eyes and drift off too.. what the hell.
I must keep driving. 48 | P a g e . I keep my foot nailed to the petal. Oh my word. And oh shit. I manage “I’m in here. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. Thank god. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. number 15. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. At least I hope it is. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. come out with your hands in the air. This is so weird. He is coming after me.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. My room. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. there are the lights.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. Such relief. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. And he is pointing a gun at me.
As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. He exhales again. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. looking at him. Higher still. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. “How about you put that weapon away. He is totally hot. The cop can’t help but look at me. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes.“I had to pee. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. 49 | P a g e . Since he has seen me. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. Don’t shoot me. he hasn’t said anything to me.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. It is awkward in heated kind of way. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. look at my privates.
probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. This next transition is a blur. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. grunts and moves in quickly. His 50 | P a g e . “Too fast. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain.I try speaking. Brushing his cheek against my chest. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He spreads my legs with his knee. I have to touch him. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I arch my back and press my chest against him.
He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. He looks up with need and reverence. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. I know I am beautiful. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. My thighs are at his eye level. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I love it. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink.
“More. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. more. Don’t stop. It is so perfect. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. 52 | P a g e . maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm.” I moan and then release. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I still want to be fucked. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot.tongue over his lips.) But I am not done with this fantasy. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. This gets me so excited for more. My orgasm comes fast and hard. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I am so wet and hot. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck.
I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm.“Oh Jesus in heaven. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. This is when we both come together. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. My ass is barely on the counter. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. I relish him being worn out. I feel triumphant. I feel like a conqueror. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He fills me completely. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. panting and trying to catch his breathe.” he moans.
So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. 54 | P a g e .
the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. not a physical problem. which basically means the harder you try. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. but not during sex.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. your problem is entirely psychological. the limper you will get. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1.
“10-Count Breathing”. 56 | P a g e .. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called.. (5 cycles of 2).2. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes.. and trust me when I say. This exhale is 2. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. nothing about life or any topic. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes.. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. This breath is 1. Clear your mind other than the numbers. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in.
If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. And trust me. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. You’ll be glad you did. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. then it will help your erections. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. which allows you to relax more and get hard.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. 3. Sounds crazy. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.
look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. you learn to control your breathing as well. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. dumbbell press. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. For further details. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e .Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. These include the dead lift. squat. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. yoga is what I recommend . -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. and pull-ups.
I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. no erection. Instead. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Don’t fight your arousal. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. Here’s how: Step 1. put it at a number. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. When you don’t have presence. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. It’s just going to take a little bit of work.
harder stroking. Step 2.. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. give us a call if you need help with this. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9.5.5 to number 9. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. Again.
Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Instead eat her out. or kiss her body. Step 3. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Step 4. 61 | P a g e . In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. See demonstration in the DVD.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4.
She will. full body orgasms. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. model. 62 | P a g e . How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.V.A. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. exercise. Also.E. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. women are capable of many different types.
Don’t do anything else just leave it there. side of back. mouth. Kiss her neck. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. inner thighs.
variety. and emotion. she was from Austria. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. I know this sounds ridiculous. authority. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. continuous orgasmic state.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. a really sexy. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. repeated cumming etc. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. smart 64 | P a g e . However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. I was dating this girl Renee.
v. and panties with my name on them. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough.accountant. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. gifts. Over time with her though. with no physiological hang-ups.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.a.
you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. kisses.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.
Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. and the sites have TONS of videos. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. Online porn these days is cheap. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. so get in as much as you can.. In short.. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. the girls are beautiful. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex.
or exercises don’t waste your time. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. and you’ll be able to move better in bed.5 inches hard it does not matter. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. it will raise your testosterone. Just get naked. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. and maker her come. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. stamina. Unless your penis is under 2. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. It’s not hiding as much as you think. pumps." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. 68 | P a g e . Even if it does work at all.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back.
use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. But if you feel that you really need it.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Let’s do a quick run through. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Remember though. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Remember.
It hurt. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Relax and Enjoy . don’t. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. If you’re thinking of getting one. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. Dick size is NOT the problem. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e .It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. It’s a waste of your time and money. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help.
I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Classy. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. what position you are in. whether she is coming. if you want to last 2 minutes. Conservative. Just FUCK her. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. If you want to say something say it. Shy. not just think about theoretically. 71 | P a g e . ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course.. These are psychological principles. Something that you have to work on.. that’s fine. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. Don’t think about ANYTHING. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different.50% of the time. Sassy. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. if you want to do something to do it. the evidence is overwhelming.
but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e .
because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know..Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. boring stuff.
It works really well — as long as she takes it. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle.There are numerous types of birth control. Sperm lead to children. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. Pre-cum contains sperm. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. 74 | P a g e . If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy.
I would not recommend it. the Shot. The Patch. Guys take responsibility. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. The Ring.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. You can experiment with it. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. 75 | P a g e . Again. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. However. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp.
it’s a very effective. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Don’t get it. My friend Mike. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e .IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. but I know people who have had. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. I’ve never had one. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. If you’re going to do this be sure. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. Some STDs are very serious.
or condoms ruin sex. and still always you to enjoy sex. I’m not going to list every STD here. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. bring it up casually but firmly. It’s all 77 | P a g e . What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. “I can’t get hard with a condom on.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. doesn’t grip you too tight. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. Despite it being a serious subject. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. not guess. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. Just get tested to be sure. Often guys will say something like. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. that is completely STD free as are you yourself.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. you should be fine. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Always ask a woman about her sexual history.
What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. For overall experience.in your head.com. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. I highly do recommend that Durex Love.condomdepot. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. 78 | P a g e . Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. You can use Astroglide. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Let’s review how to put on a condom.
1. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. Sticking with the classics like. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. If you are having relatively tame sex. in 2 or 3 basic positions. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. you 79 | P a g e . in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system.Don't Wait. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. and focus on your breathing. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Have a few” go-to” moves." so again stick to the basics. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. "baby that feels so good. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once." To avoid this. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2.
Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. 5. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Be able to give her an orgasm. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . You don’t have to go crazy. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Focus on foreplay.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. 4. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”.
You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. living life on your own terms.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. Bobby Bradshaw www.IncredibleSexNow. it’s so much more than that.com 2009. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. It’s being a real man. ISN Education. LLC 82 | P a g e .
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