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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

FOR ONCE. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. Also. Awful! 1|Page . Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. was begging to have sex with you??. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. divorce. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages.

The first time I had sex I was 22. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. She was blunt. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I'm not a celebrity. Who Am I. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. Real-life. I’m not an athlete. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. what car you drive. I’m not even a millionaire. no matter how much I liked her. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. or if you take out the trash.The Cheat-proof. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. Women won’t tell you this. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. and not know where her lips have been. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. My lowest point though. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. she will be yours for life. Luckily. would come crashing to a passionless halt.

I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I still have my day job as a business consultant. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. When I did get back in the game. EVERY TIME. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I read hundreds of books. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Now. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. what happened was that through my own experimentation. watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on.

Most 4|Page . filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. and better sexual skills than you.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. better looks. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. she doesn’t even have the temptation. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. because as a man. girlfriend. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book.

I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist.. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. turn off your email and phone. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. In fact. . I’m not proud of this.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. Actually. so take a deep breath. and he knew this. had never kissed a girl. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. “Come to Brazil. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I was a complete loser. He was like. laugh all you want. Please don’t laugh. 5|Page .. it’s funny.. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier.

In the hotel room. Algebra. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page .” anything to distract myself. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. but what did she know. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. Once I was naked. “Calm. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I met this girl who barely spoke English. It felt so good. So THIS was it! Haha.. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed.ARGH! . I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement.” I’m thinking. the most I’d ever gone out. Somehow she liked me..God. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I finally made it into the promise land. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. Please don’t. Meanwhile. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. Math. I was really only a poor college student. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. calm.. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times...

the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”.. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. And they weren’t having sex slowly. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. but I had no idea what to do about it. . I just want you to know how bad I was. It wasn’t that they were so huge. They had complete control of pleasing these women. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. said something in Portuguese. they were going fast and aggressively. and pushed me off of her. but it was that they’d last forever.. 7|Page . It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. and feeling like a small. pathetic little boy.just kept pumping away. And for a long time I was in denial. making the girls scream with pleasure. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed.

The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. And the second time I had sex. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. “What is wrong with you. 17 years old like a normal guy. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass.” But for them. I had to learn how to do it. seminars. I remember that. I couldn’t get hard at all. After three years of wild experimentation. I had absolutely no control over when I came. I was like. So either way. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. So to try and turn my sex life around. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. and I was at 23. I would kiss her for a while. their first time was at 16. I’d do 8|Page . and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. “Yeah. That’s what happened my first time. but when you wait longer. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. cumming immediately.pal?!” It sounds comical. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. videos. 16.

50 minutes — even an hour. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. Most importantly though. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. regardless of the girl I ended up with. learning where her trigger spots were. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance.all sorts of other stuff. So I moved on and started dating other girls. Finally. “Oh goddd. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex.. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice.

they’d take the necklace.Even If You’re “Small”. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. But something started to happen. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. every time. . getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me. Sure. Or they’d be like “Oh. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. These girls started to love it. “Hey. but they didn’t seem satisfied. practically tearing my clothes off. something that seemed to work with every girl. Here. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. It was getting out of hand. I was having sex whenever I wanted.. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny.was ready to meet the challenge. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. I had to do 10 | P a g e ..” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I need a hug. I bought you a necklace.” I’d try and show them how special they were. or Have A Small Bank Account.

You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . It’s what we think about all day long. It changed who I am. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. How to give women the best sex of their life. she’s not going to treat you well. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. she will want you more and more. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. No more not feeling like a man. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. you’re going to have to last. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. Chris Rock once joked. “A man is only as faithful as his options. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts.something with this power I had developed. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. more and more. she’s not going to want to have children with you. who have given up and faced rejection. If she only knew! More importantly. You’re here because of sex. and she’s going to be looking for other options.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. humiliation.

really easy for you. These problems you’re having. just make sure it stays between us. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. last as long as you want. 12 | P a g e . problems I used to have. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. You don’t need to have sex with 5.

You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. Women are the same way. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. full-body orgasms. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. so really think carefully. We will address that in a moment. So to get started. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. 13 | P a g e .Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around.

And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. they can’t get hard. the limper you become! But don't worry. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. They are thinking of “Touch this. in the bedroom and outside it. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. now touch that. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 14 | P a g e . 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless.

Obviously. Show her how much you want her.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. at some times the emotional. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. They want you to be in charge. not confident and slightly feminine. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Show her you know what you want. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man.

I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. they’re not based on feelings.. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical. he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. crazy shit.interaction. almost every woman said “doggy-style.. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. 16 | P a g e . Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. she’ll be sexually pleased.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman.

but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. this is what comes out. But fortunately. Of course.So if you think that you’re any of these. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things..

but I had to face the truth. or was stressed and not in the mood. had a headache. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. 18 | P a g e . There is no nagging. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. looks. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. just not with me. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. because I couldn’t satisfy her. or kissing him. or always trying to hold his hand. It was so painful to admit that to myself. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. looking back on it. charm. Then. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. She is sitting on his lap. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. or even social status. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different.

Sign #1 . so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. The more that she initiates sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. that is the same thing. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. so in this case. Take note however. Unlike many men.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons.

In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. They will say things like. the sex won’t happen. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 .” “I need a hug. chances are that she is initiating sex.” If you are hearing things like this.” “I need a massage. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” or “Lets watch a movie. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.she wants to have sex right now or that night. and don’t try and skip that step. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. “Let’s take a nap. Just stay calm.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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Any skill that’s worth knowing. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. I used to think. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.” I’d think. anything. programming a computer. Any skill in life is learned. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). but they are not. And no matter how good you think you are. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. learning a language. you’re not where you need to be. women need sex — then hey.” 25 | P a g e .CAN improve your sexual skills. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. they WILL improve. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. No matter how bad you are. you had to learn.” That’s not true. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. you can still get better.

take care of it. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. realize you’re going to get it handled. you will. Really think about that. When you’ve got an issue in your life.” So it’s okay to get help. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. It is one of my favorites. and then boom. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. 26 | P a g e . and that you’ll love too. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. I guarantee it. It is possible. Because you’re forced to fix it. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. you’ve got to embrace it. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. There is a saying that I love.

So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. instinctual level. Look at all these women magazines. Look at YM. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. women need sex more than men. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. the better off you’ll be.” Yeah. I’m a guy. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. real women. The sooner you realize this. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. “Hey. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed.” Or. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. and you’re.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. This is everywhere. I need sex. 27 | P a g e . These are normal. again. So. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. but she doesn’t like sex. to be child-bearers. like. but think of women. Their main goal in life is to have children. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. you do. the stuff that you look at. with their picture." She doesn’t get horny.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. If you think that you need sex.

“There it is. make-up.“That’s trash. let’s move on to the next mindset. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. 28 | P a g e . Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. They have all this sexual desire. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. but society represses it. They want to look desirable.and other products to look good. buying underwear. and the examples of this are everywhere. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. It’s my underwear. You ever look at a man’s underwear. these pants.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them).” Women spend hours.

Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. with proper education.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . It’s not your fault. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way.

E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed.V. "Oh. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. and she's not in the moment at all. and she's not thinking about anything. Don't Think. because you want her not thinking anything. it's HER being in the moment. Often. This is a bad thing. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. then at the end of this chapter. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. I'll run through all four. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything.Chapter 5 The P.A.. 30 | P a g e . If her eyes are open. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. To start. but feeling. It's not just you being in the moment. Women are feelers. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on.

and you lose your presence and your authority. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. Nothing about.. Of course you want her to have a good time. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. you won't have to worry about that any longer. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft.. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. because all of a sudden. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. 31 | P a g e . and you're no longer good at all. or you get soft. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. or about different aspects of your sexuality. It's a big problem. or having sex with a woman for the first time.. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed.. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. It's game over.And more specifically.

That is PRESENCE. when you learn a language. You're just primal. Just like anything else. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. But." Think of just pure instinct. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. in the beginning. and the wind is this variable. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. anything. You want to just be going by instinct. and what's going on. So. It does it out of a primal instinct. 32 | P a g e . and I will grab him here. There'll be a learning curve. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. Always instinct. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. while you're learning this stuff. you're thinking about it at the start. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. Just going right after it. He's not thinking.

a woman wants a man. "I'm in charge. to be led by the male.2. I'm the boss here. You need to show that you're in charge. you've gotta show that you're in charge. you'll begin to naturally think. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. going to follow the lead of the man. By having that mindset of leader. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. more dominant. and the woman is. It's much more attractive for women. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . That's how it's been since the caveman days. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. I'm gonna do what I like. So. whether it's during sex or during a date. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. but you need to be authoritative. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. they would be with one! No." You wanna show that you're in charge. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. Don’t ask to do doggy style. If they did. You should always treat women with respect.

. Try saying things like. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. Push her down into the bed. If you're in missionary position. Now. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. That's very authoritative. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. and then ramp it up from there. And by all means. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. Get it? 34 | P a g e . "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. but as you see how well she responds to it. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. That's authoritative. pin her arms behind her head. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. If she seems to REALLY get off on it.. slowly take it to the next level.

the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man. Start with things like. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic. which is something all women want to hear.... 35 | P a g e . The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. “You are ALL MINE right now”.. “Your ass is mine right now” etc.. If this excites her. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. powerful man. “These are my lips to kiss”. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong....

Different positions definitely help.V.A. saying "Baby. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. You're doing her doggie-style. I love being inside you. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. because different positions give her different emotions. and you have different interactions in these different positions. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. that Casanova.3. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. like in public. or sneaking off somewhere. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. You're slapping her ass. And while physical variety is nice.E. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. I love you so much. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. It's not solely about different positions. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . If you do different positions. Something like out of a romance novel. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. system is VARIETY. and you say different things. Then. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P." That's one kind of a lover.

So. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. it's not gonna have that variety. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. Being Spontaneous So. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. And I just touched upon it. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. But. but positions aren't as important. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You can talk emotionally. on Friday night. So. It's not gonna have emotion. It's gonna seem monotonous. If it's planned. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. Try to have various times where you have sex. that's not very spontaneous. You can talk dirty.variety. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. repeatedly. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. 37 | P a g e . You can fuck her. You want to be having sex at different times. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. if you can. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Y eah. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. positions themselves aren't really that different.

Change the feelings that she has. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. If you can't be emotional yourself. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. when you're 38 | P a g e . you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. be spontaneous. So in summary. You want as much spontaneity as possible. (In a moment. and she's going to be madly in love with you. There are lots of different fantasies. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. Do it in the shower. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. and in the morning when you wake up. And again. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. she's not going to feel emotion. 4. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. and it’s a very enjoyable thing.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. Keep things fresh. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. be a different kind of lover. So.

" If you're saying “I love you. because you married her. 39 | P a g e . Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. either inside the bedroom. Your bodies are new. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels.telling her things. or outside. after the initial emotions have dipped. you should be pretty emotional. They’ll get married. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. So. The Stronger the Emotions. or they'll get a girlfriend. and in the beginning the sex is really good. If it's your wife.” you want to say it with passion. make sure that you really mean it. And then the sex peters out. if you're not with a girl that you like. So. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. you need to be emotional. It's because in the beginning. even sexually or in any manner. You're madly in love. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. The stronger the emotions. there's so much emotion for both of you. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. you need to be. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. Then that emotion dips over a time. So now.

there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. I just keep kissing. Feelings of being loved. Different emotions. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. and she really wants you inside of you. Anticipation creates excitement So. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. Feelings of just being fucked. excitement. anticipation. And the way that you can do that. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. Just keep going with the foreplay. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. and 40 | P a g e .And you want to do that in bed. until finally she can't take it anymore. teasing. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. all that teasing creates anticipation. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. If you're teasing a girl. If you're not talking in bed. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. Emotions are best shown through words. Play hard to get. and then kind of push her away.

Romantic talk means things like. otherwise it sounds a little weird. Kind of ease it in there. "I love you so much. baby. But romantic talk is." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. "Oh.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. you need to start now. 41 | P a g e . I miss you so much.

Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. Look for all the elements of P.V.E. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. Pay close attention when you are reading these. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.A.V.A. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women.A. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .E system its unbelievable. As usual. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. anonymous. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity.VE. This stuff is so close to the P.

coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. still in my 4 inch heels. I step back.” is all that you can utter. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. sucking on your bottom lip. and appraise your amazing body. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. You help me remove them. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . pulling me against you. darling. “Baby. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. I lean into your strength and warmth. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. I feel your hands slide up over my hips.” My hands trail down your abdomen. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. I straddle your lap. Wrapping my arms around your neck. “Not yet.physically big. you fill the room with your sexual presence. and before I can stop you. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you.” I whisper in your ear. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. revealing a tight. satin camisole. kissing you softly. You pull my suit coat off. “Here are the rules: I touch you. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. I set my briefcase on the counter. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. as I grind my hips against you.

” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. “I’ve got something that will help”.” I manage to get out between pants. and kiss me breathless. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. I can see the skepticism on your face. I can’t get enough of your different textures. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. gently at first. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. but tonight is about control. I’ve never taken control like this. where are you?” “I’m here. “Baby. 44 | P a g e . and is driving you wild. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me.You swallow hard and nod your head. Just try to relax. so I continue with my lesson. I’m trying to drink you all in. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. If at any point it gets to be too much. You grab me around my waist. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. baby. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. You hear it hit the floor. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. I pull the camisole off too. My touch is light and tentative. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I grab your left hand. “Don’t worry.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. “You’re a naughty boy. and plant a kiss in your palm. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. then with a bit more strength. just say yellow. it looks like it might explode.

and you moan. then the other. I continue my assault. as you fuck me. riding you. but not touching them. running my tongue along your side. I pinch your nipples. loudly. causing your abdomen to quiver. You roll me underneath you.hard. as our movements become frantic. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I cry out your name. You slap my ass . You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. lapping up a drop of precum. I cry out. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I inhale deeply near your navel. I cannot take another second. nearing the verge of my climax. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. down to your pelvic bone. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. The sting of your broken skin excites you. breathing on your balls and shaft. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I run my fingernails down your back. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. You grab my wrist and suck harder. My aching pussy has to have you now. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I am yours now. first one cheek. they’re so different from mine. You squirm a little and cry out my name. and slam into me.

” I take a sharp breath in. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. It builds and I beg you to finish. I can feel my juices running down my legs.” I feel so wanton. causing me to moan. yet I’m excited. The orgasm is different this time. almost scream your name. You wrap your arms around me. pulling me against you. “Roll over. “Tell me that you want me. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. trying to catch my breath. You grab my hips and pound harder. 46 | P a g e .spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. I touch my clit as you slam into me. I get on all fours for you. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies.” you say roughly. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. I shudder my completion. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. You pull back and look in my eyes. bruising my tender skin. “Fuck me…now. I have never felt so safe. but you refuse to let me go. but you keep that same pace. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You lap at me slowly. You are so strong. never changing pace or pressure. my pussy throbbing with excitement. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. You start to orgasm. I whimper again. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. begging you to make me cum. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. I collapse onto our oversized sofa.

can’t think.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer.. Really badly. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. I thought. I close my eyes and drift off too. “I love you”. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. It is a winding highway someplace rural. Mind numbing. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. 47 | P a g e . You can never seem to get enough.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day.” This is what I fantasize about . but not before hearing you say softly. what the hell. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy.. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. You cater to my whims. probably western North Carolina. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. I have to pee.

And oh shit. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. come out with your hands in the air. I manage “I’m in here. He is coming after me. My room. And he is pointing a gun at me. 48 | P a g e . I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. At least I hope it is.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. This is so weird. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. Thank god. Such relief. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. there are the lights. Oh my word.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I must keep driving. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. number 15.

Since he has seen me. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. looking at him. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. “How about you put that weapon away. he hasn’t said anything to me. look at my privates. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. It is awkward in heated kind of way.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. He exhales again. The cop can’t help but look at me. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. Don’t shoot me. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. He is totally hot. 49 | P a g e .“I had to pee. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. Higher still. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.

I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. Brushing his cheek against my chest. His 50 | P a g e . I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I have to touch him. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh.I try speaking. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. This next transition is a blur. He spreads my legs with his knee. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. grunts and moves in quickly. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. “Too fast. I arch my back and press my chest against him. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other.

I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. My thighs are at his eye level. He is so strong and I know he is hard. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He looks up with need and reverence. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. I love it. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I know I am beautiful.

He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. more.” I moan and then release. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. 52 | P a g e . I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I am so wet and hot.tongue over his lips. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. “More. This gets me so excited for more. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. It is so perfect. I still want to be fucked. Don’t stop. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. My orgasm comes fast and hard. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly.

I feel triumphant. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. I feel like a conqueror. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He fills me completely. I relish him being worn out. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. panting and trying to catch his breathe.” he moans. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. My ass is barely on the counter. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. This is when we both come together.“Oh Jesus in heaven. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me.

let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. 54 | P a g e .

) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. not a physical problem.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. which basically means the harder you try. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e . the limper you will get. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. your problem is entirely psychological. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. but not during sex. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response.

and trust me when I say. 56 | P a g e . Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. Clear your mind other than the numbers. This breath is 1. “10-Count Breathing”. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air...  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. This exhale is 2. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. nothing about life or any topic.. (5 cycles of 2). this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10.2..

then it will help your erections. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. which allows you to relax more and get hard. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . You’ll be glad you did. Sounds crazy. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. 3. And trust me.

yoga is what I recommend . as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. These include the dead lift. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. For further details.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . dumbbell press. and pull-ups. squat. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. you learn to control your breathing as well.

Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . Here’s how: Step 1. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. Don’t fight your arousal. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. When you don’t have presence. no erection. put it at a number. Instead. your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10.

5 to number 9. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. Step 2. give us a call if you need help with this. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Again. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . harder stroking. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style).You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5.. We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.

or kiss her body. Instead eat her out. Step 3. 61 | P a g e . Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Step 4. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem.

Also. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. exercise. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. model. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. She will. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. 62 | P a g e . Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm.V.E. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. full body orgasms.A. women are capable of many different types.

Kiss her neck. inner thighs.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . side of back. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. mouth. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.

and emotion. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. I know this sounds ridiculous. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. continuous orgasmic state. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. variety. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. I was dating this girl Renee. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. authority. repeated cumming etc. smart 64 | P a g e . she was from Austria. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. a really sexy.

I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. Over time with her though. with no physiological hang-ups. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.a. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p.accountant. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. gifts.v. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . and panties with my name on them.

.. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . kisses. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts.

In short. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good.. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm.. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. so get in as much as you can. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. Online porn these days is cheap. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice. and the sites have TONS of videos. the girls are beautiful.

68 | P a g e . Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. It’s not hiding as much as you think. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. or exercises don’t waste your time. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. it will raise your testosterone." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. pumps. Even if it does work at all. stamina. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. Unless your penis is under 2.5 inches hard it does not matter. Just get naked. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. and maker her come.

But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Remember though.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Remember. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Let’s do a quick run through. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. But if you feel that you really need it.

It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. It’s a waste of your time and money. don’t. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. It hurt. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion. Relax and Enjoy . Dick size is NOT the problem.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. If you’re thinking of getting one.

Conservative. that’s fine. 71 | P a g e . ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. not just think about theoretically. Sassy. whether she is coming.50% of the time. if you want to last 2 minutes.. Don’t think about ANYTHING.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. Just FUCK her. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. Something that you have to work on. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied.. These are psychological principles. if you want to do something to do it. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. If you want to say something say it. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. the evidence is overwhelming. Shy. what position you are in. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. Classy. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. boring stuff. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e .Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms.

If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. Sperm lead to children. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. Pre-cum contains sperm.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. It works really well — as long as she takes it. 74 | P a g e . It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome.There are numerous types of birth control. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time.

It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. You can experiment with it. 75 | P a g e . I would not recommend it. Again. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Guys take responsibility. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. However. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. The Patch. The Ring. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. the Shot. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom.

It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. My friend Mike. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. I’ve never had one. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. it’s a very effective. but I know people who have had. Some STDs are very serious. If you’re going to do this be sure. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Don’t get it. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend.

What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. Often guys will say something like. bring it up casually but firmly. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. or condoms ruin sex.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. and still always you to enjoy sex. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. Despite it being a serious subject. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. not guess. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. doesn’t grip you too tight. you should be fine.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. I’m not going to list every STD here. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. Just get tested to be sure.

Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. For overall experience. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms.condomdepot. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. Read about his issue under trouble shooting.in your head. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. You can use Astroglide.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Let’s review how to put on a condom. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review.com. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. 78 | P a g e . They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable.

but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. you 79 | P a g e . You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. Be able to last at least 10 minutes." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations." To avoid this. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!)." so again stick to the basics. "baby that feels so good. 1. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. If you are having relatively tame sex. Have a few” go-to” moves. in 2 or 3 basic positions. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Sticking with the classics like. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. and focus on your breathing. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do.Don't Wait.

If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. 4. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Focus on foreplay. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . 5. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Be able to give her an orgasm. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. You don’t have to go crazy. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay.

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com 2009. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. LLC 82 | P a g e . Bobby Bradshaw www. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. ISN Education. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success.IncredibleSexNow. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. it’s so much more than that. It’s being a real man. living life on your own terms.

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