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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35
3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79
Also. was begging to have sex with you??. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. Awful! 1|Page . and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. divorce. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. FOR ONCE. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually.
and not know where her lips have been.The Cheat-proof. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. Real-life. I'm not a celebrity. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. I’m not even a millionaire. She was blunt. Luckily. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. The first time I had sex I was 22. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. Who Am I. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. no matter how much I liked her. what car you drive. or if you take out the trash. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . Women won’t tell you this. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. My lowest point though. I’m not an athlete. would come crashing to a passionless halt. she will be yours for life. as I’ve tried to keep my life private.
Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. I read hundreds of books. I still have my day job as a business consultant. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . When I did get back in the game. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. what happened was that through my own experimentation.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. Now. EVERY TIME.
she doesn’t even have the temptation. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. because as a man. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. girlfriend. and better sexual skills than you. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. Most 4|Page . If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. better looks.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now.
had never kissed a girl. I’m not proud of this.. turn off your email and phone. . laugh all you want. I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. He was like. Actually. and he knew this. “Come to Brazil. it’s funny. I was a complete loser.. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). so take a deep breath.. In fact. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash. Please don’t laugh. 5|Page .
I finally made it into the promise land. In the hotel room. I met this girl who barely spoke English.. Algebra.ARGH! . I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. It felt so good.. Math. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. “Calm. the most I’d ever gone out.” I’m thinking. but what did she know. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. calm..Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. Somehow she liked me. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American.. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room.God.. Meanwhile. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . Once I was naked. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. So THIS was it! Haha. Please don’t.” anything to distract myself. I was really only a poor college student.
. It wasn’t that they were so huge. and feeling like a small. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. but I had no idea what to do about it. making the girls scream with pleasure. And they weren’t having sex slowly. and pushed me off of her. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. 7|Page . It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. They had complete control of pleasing these women. And for a long time I was in denial.just kept pumping away. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on.. said something in Portuguese. but it was that they’d last forever.. they were going fast and aggressively. pathetic little boy. beating it frantically trying to get hard again.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them.
I remember that. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. seminars. I was like.” But for them. After three years of wild experimentation. And the second time I had sex.pal?!” It sounds comical. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. I’d do 8|Page . I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. videos. and I was at 23. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. So either way.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. 16. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. their first time was at 16. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. cumming immediately. I had to learn how to do it. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. That’s what happened my first time. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. I couldn’t get hard at all. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. but when you wait longer. I would kiss her for a while. I had absolutely no control over when I came. So to try and turn my sex life around. 17 years old like a normal guy. “What is wrong with you. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. “Yeah.
I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. learning where her trigger spots were. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. 50 minutes — even an hour. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. “Oh goddd. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . So I moved on and started dating other girls. Finally. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women.. regardless of the girl I ended up with. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought.all sorts of other stuff. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. Most importantly though. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them.
phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.” I’d try and show them how special they were. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears.. Or they’d be like “Oh. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. practically tearing my clothes off. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. I need a hug. I was having sex whenever I wanted. . I had to do 10 | P a g e . But I now had something that most other guys don’t have. something that seemed to work with every girl.Even If You’re “Small”. These girls started to love it. let’s go out for a fancy dinner.. every time. I bought you a necklace. But something started to happen. Sure. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. “Hey.was ready to meet the challenge. Here. they’d take the necklace. or Have A Small Bank Account. but they didn’t seem satisfied. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. It was getting out of hand.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me.
” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. she will want you more and more. If she only knew! More importantly. “A man is only as faithful as his options. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. more and more. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women.something with this power I had developed. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. And if you can’t give a woman good sex. How to give women the best sex of their life. You’re here because of sex. who have given up and faced rejection. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. she’s not going to treat you well. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. It’s what we think about all day long. It changed who I am. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. Chris Rock once joked. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. you’re going to have to last. humiliation. No more not feeling like a man. and she’s going to be looking for other options. she’s not going to want to have children with you. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e .
You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method. You don’t need to have sex with 5. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. really easy for you. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. just make sure it stays between us. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. problems I used to have. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. 12 | P a g e . last as long as you want. These problems you’re having. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing.
13 | P a g e . so really think carefully. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. Women are the same way. full-body orgasms. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. So to get started. We will address that in a moment. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep.
They are thinking of “Touch this. 14 | P a g e . Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. the limper you become! But don't worry. now touch that. in the bedroom and outside it. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. they can’t get hard. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her.
at some times the emotional. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. Show her you know what you want. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. They want you to be in charge. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e .4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Obviously. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Show her how much you want her. not confident and slightly feminine. romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that.
he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. she’ll be sexually pleased. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way.. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. crazy shit. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it.interaction. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard.. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. almost every woman said “doggy-style. 16 | P a g e . and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. they’re not based on feelings. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman.
and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed.So if you think that you’re any of these.. But fortunately. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e . Of course. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends.. this is what comes out. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.
or even social status. just not with me. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. It was so painful to admit that to myself. had a headache. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. or always trying to hold his hand. or was stressed and not in the mood. looks. There is no nagging. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. or kissing him. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. because I couldn’t satisfy her. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. 18 | P a g e . She is sitting on his lap. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. Then. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. charm. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. but I had to face the truth. looking back on it.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different.
you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). most women do not have sex just to “have sex. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. Unlike many men. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. that is the same thing. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. The more that she initiates sex. Take note however. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e .” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. so in this case.Sign #1 . When a woman is initiating sex with you. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex.
chances are that she is initiating sex.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.she wants to have sex right now or that night. the sex won’t happen. and don’t try and skip that step.” “I need a massage. They will say things like. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive.” or “Lets watch a movie.” If you are hearing things like this. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . “Let’s take a nap. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e .” “I need a hug. Just stay calm.
“I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.” “She tells me that I watch too much TV.” “She says that I don’t make enough money.”
When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her
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The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:
Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.
Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!
Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you
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anything. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember.” 25 | P a g e . NO ONE IS A NATURAL. learning a language. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help. And no matter how good you think you are. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. but they are not.” I’d think. No matter how bad you are. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car.CAN improve your sexual skills. Any skill in life is learned. you can still get better. women need sex — then hey. they WILL improve. you had to learn. That’s basically “experienced-based learning.” That’s not true. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. Any skill that’s worth knowing. programming a computer. I used to think. you’re not where you need to be.
The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. take care of it. I guarantee it.” So it’s okay to get help. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. Really think about that. realize you’re going to get it handled. and then boom. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. and that you’ll love too. you’ve got to embrace it. 26 | P a g e . When you’ve got an issue in your life. You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. you will. It is one of my favorites. There is a saying that I love. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. It is possible. Because you’re forced to fix it.
If you think that you need sex. the better off you’ll be. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex.” Yeah. This is everywhere.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual. women need sex more than men. the stuff that you look at. with their picture. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to.” Or. but think of women. like. but she doesn’t like sex. 27 | P a g e . you do. I need sex. instinctual level. “Hey. to be child-bearers. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. Their main goal in life is to have children. and you’re. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. I’m a guy. Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. again. These are normal.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. Look at YM. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. The sooner you realize this. real women. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex." She doesn’t get horny. So. Look at all these women magazines. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic.
and other products to look good. You ever look at a man’s underwear. “There it is. They want to look desirable.“That’s trash. but society represses it. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. these pants. make-up.” Women spend hours. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures. and the examples of this are everywhere.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). They have all this sexual desire. And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. 28 | P a g e . and hopefully you’ve internalized this. buying underwear. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. let’s move on to the next mindset. It’s my underwear.
Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . with proper education. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. It’s not your fault. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW.
and she's not in the moment at all. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. because you want her not thinking anything. and she's not thinking about anything. To start. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. This is a bad thing. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. then at the end of this chapter. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. Women are feelers. 30 | P a g e .E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. If her eyes are open. Often. I'll run through all four. "Oh. but feeling.A.Chapter 5 The P. Don't Think. It's not just you being in the moment. it's HER being in the moment.V. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much.. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed.
Of course you want her to have a good time. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. Nothing about.. 31 | P a g e . or you get soft. or having sex with a woman for the first time.And more specifically. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance.. and you're no longer good at all. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. It's a big problem. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. It's game over. and you lose your presence and your authority. or about different aspects of your sexuality. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. you won't have to worry about that any longer... because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. because all of a sudden. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over.
and I will grab him here. That is PRESENCE. 32 | P a g e .Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. and the wind is this variable. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. He's not thinking. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. and what's going on. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. There'll be a learning curve." Think of just pure instinct. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. But. anything. you're thinking about it at the start. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. Just like anything else. Always instinct. in the beginning. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. You're just primal. You want to just be going by instinct. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. It does it out of a primal instinct. while you're learning this stuff. So. Just going right after it. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. when you learn a language.
"I'm in charge. but you need to be authoritative. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. So. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . to be led by the male. more dominant. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. Don’t ask to do doggy style. whether it's during sex or during a date. It's much more attractive for women. going to follow the lead of the man. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. You should always treat women with respect. If they did. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. You need to show that you're in charge. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. you'll begin to naturally think.2. I'm gonna do what I like. they would be with one! No. a woman wants a man. By having that mindset of leader. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. I'm the boss here. and the woman is. That's how it's been since the caveman days." You wanna show that you're in charge. you've gotta show that you're in charge.
Now. Try saying things like.. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. And by all means. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. but as you see how well she responds to it. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. slowly take it to the next level. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. That's authoritative. Push her down into the bed. If you're in missionary position. and then ramp it up from there. Get it? 34 | P a g e . like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. That's very authoritative.. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. pin her arms behind her head.
.. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL.What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man... move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience... And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. “Your ass is mine right now” etc. If this excites her. 35 | P a g e . Start with things like. which is something all women want to hear. “These are my lips to kiss”.. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. powerful man. “You are ALL MINE right now”.
E. And while physical variety is nice.A. like in public. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. system is VARIETY. Different positions definitely help. You're doing her doggie-style. that Casanova. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY.3. and you have different interactions in these different positions. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. Something like out of a romance novel. It's not solely about different positions. or sneaking off somewhere. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . because different positions give her different emotions. If you do different positions. You're slapping her ass. Then. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. saying "Baby. I love you so much. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy.V." That's one kind of a lover. and you say different things. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. I love being inside you.
positions themselves aren't really that different. So. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. Y eah. that's not very spontaneous. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. It's not gonna have emotion. You can talk emotionally. So. And I just touched upon it. It's gonna seem monotonous. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. You can fuck her. Try to have various times where you have sex. it's not gonna have that variety. You can talk dirty. if you can. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. But. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. If it's planned. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. repeatedly. In the missionary position you can make love to her.variety. 37 | P a g e . another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. Being Spontaneous So. but positions aren't as important. You want to be having sex at different times. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. on Friday night.
Keep things fresh. and she's going to be madly in love with you. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. There are lots of different fantasies. If you can't be emotional yourself. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. and in the morning when you wake up. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. she's not going to feel emotion. be a different kind of lover. So in summary. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. when you're 38 | P a g e . Do it in the shower. So. And again. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. 4. be spontaneous. You want as much spontaneity as possible. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. Change the feelings that she has. because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. (In a moment.
And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. or outside. It's because in the beginning. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. you need to be emotional. So. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem.” you want to say it with passion. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. and in the beginning the sex is really good. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. you need to be. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. after the initial emotions have dipped. if you're not with a girl that you like. either inside the bedroom. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. make sure that you really mean it. So. there's so much emotion for both of you. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. The stronger the emotions. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be." If you're saying “I love you. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. So now. The Stronger the Emotions. or they'll get a girlfriend. even sexually or in any manner. Your bodies are new.telling her things. Then that emotion dips over a time. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. you should be pretty emotional. If it's your wife. They’ll get married. because you married her. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. You're madly in love. 39 | P a g e . And then the sex peters out.
Feelings of being loved. and she really wants you inside of you. and then kind of push her away. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. and 40 | P a g e . anticipation. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. until finally she can't take it anymore. all that teasing creates anticipation. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. If you're not talking in bed. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. And the way that you can do that. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. If you're teasing a girl. Emotions are best shown through words. Different emotions. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. teasing. Feelings of just being fucked. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion.And you want to do that in bed. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. Play hard to get. Just keep going with the foreplay. I just keep kissing. excitement. Anticipation creates excitement So.
Kind of ease it in there." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. otherwise it sounds a little weird.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. 41 | P a g e . "I love you so much.here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. I miss you so much. "Oh. you need to start now. Romantic talk means things like. But romantic talk is. baby.
A.A. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e .A.V.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is.E.E system its unbelievable. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.V. Look for all the elements of P.VE. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. This stuff is so close to the P. anonymous. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. As usual. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. Pay close attention when you are reading these.
Just lie back and let me pleasure you. darling. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . and before I can stop you. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. you fill the room with your sexual presence. “Here are the rules: I touch you. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. “Not yet. I lean into your strength and warmth. kissing you softly. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric.” I whisper in your ear.” is all that you can utter. You help me remove them. and appraise your amazing body. still in my 4 inch heels. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. I set my briefcase on the counter. “Baby.” My hands trail down your abdomen. pulling me against you. revealing a tight. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. sucking on your bottom lip. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. I step back. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. satin camisole. as I grind my hips against you. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. Wrapping my arms around your neck.physically big. I straddle your lap. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. You pull my suit coat off.
“Baby. I’ve never taken control like this.You swallow hard and nod your head. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. then with a bit more strength. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. I grab your left hand. so I continue with my lesson. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. You hear it hit the floor. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I can see the skepticism on your face. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I’m trying to drink you all in. 44 | P a g e . I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I pull the camisole off too. where are you?” “I’m here.” I manage to get out between pants. just say yellow. “You’re a naughty boy. baby. and is driving you wild. and kiss me breathless. and plant a kiss in your palm. My touch is light and tentative. gently at first. You grab me around my waist. Just try to relax. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. “I’ve got something that will help”. but tonight is about control. I can’t get enough of your different textures. “Don’t worry. it looks like it might explode. If at any point it gets to be too much.
lapping up a drop of precum. I continue my assault. You grab my wrist and suck harder. I cry out. and slam into me. I am yours now. You slap my ass . You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I inhale deeply near your navel. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. causing your abdomen to quiver. nearing the verge of my climax. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. as our movements become frantic. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. they’re so different from mine. running my tongue along your side. You roll me underneath you. down to your pelvic bone. I cannot take another second. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. riding you. and you moan. The sting of your broken skin excites you.hard. breathing on your balls and shaft. I pinch your nipples. as you fuck me. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I cry out your name. loudly. I run my fingernails down your back. A flush has 45 | P a g e . My aching pussy has to have you now. then the other. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. first one cheek. but not touching them. I begin to nibble at your thighs.
“Fuck me…now. yet I’m excited. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted.” you say roughly. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You start to orgasm. 46 | P a g e . almost scream your name. I touch my clit as you slam into me. I have never felt so safe. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. trying to catch my breath. “Roll over. I shudder my completion.” I take a sharp breath in. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. my pussy throbbing with excitement. You grab my hips and pound harder. You pull back and look in my eyes. “Tell me that you want me. You lap at me slowly. You are so strong. bruising my tender skin. but you keep that same pace. but you refuse to let me go. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. begging you to make me cum. pulling me against you. You wrap your arms around me. The orgasm is different this time.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. never changing pace or pressure. I whimper again. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. It builds and I beg you to finish. I get on all fours for you.” I feel so wanton. causing me to moan. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa.
From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do. Mind numbing. what the hell.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. You cater to my whims. It is a winding highway someplace rural. You can never seem to get enough. “I love you”. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. Really badly.. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. but not before hearing you say softly.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed.. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day.” This is what I fantasize about . probably western North Carolina. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods. 47 | P a g e . I thought. You make me feel safe and loved and protected.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. can’t think. I have to pee. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. I close my eyes and drift off too. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.
He is coming after me.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. Thank god. come out with your hands in the air. is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. This is so weird. At least I hope it is. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. there are the lights. I must keep driving.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. And oh shit. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. 48 | P a g e . I manage “I’m in here. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down. Oh my word. number 15. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. Such relief. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. And he is pointing a gun at me. My room.
My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. The cop can’t help but look at me. look at my privates. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. It is awkward in heated kind of way. “How about you put that weapon away. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look.“I had to pee. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. he hasn’t said anything to me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. looking at him. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. He is totally hot. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. Higher still. He exhales again. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. Don’t shoot me. Since he has seen me. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. 49 | P a g e . My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his.
I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. “Too fast. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. This next transition is a blur. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. He spreads my legs with his knee. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. His 50 | P a g e . I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. grunts and moves in quickly. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him.I try speaking. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I arch my back and press my chest against him. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I have to touch him. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes.
I love it. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. He looks up with need and reverence. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. My thighs are at his eye level. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I know I am beautiful. He is so strong and I know he is hard. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly.
more. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm.) But I am not done with this fantasy. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. This gets me so excited for more. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. I still want to be fucked. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand.” I moan and then release. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. “More. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I am so wet and hot. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. It is so perfect. 52 | P a g e . My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. My orgasm comes fast and hard. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip.tongue over his lips. Don’t stop.
And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. This is when we both come together.“Oh Jesus in heaven. I feel like a conqueror. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. My ass is barely on the counter. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop.” he moans. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. panting and trying to catch his breathe. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He fills me completely. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I feel triumphant. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I relish him being worn out. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me.
So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. and what to do about them. let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. 54 | P a g e .
How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. which basically means the harder you try. your problem is entirely psychological. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. not a physical problem.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. but not during sex. the limper you will get. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor.
(5 cycles of 2). This breath is 1.. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. and trust me when I say.. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. This exhale is 2. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. “10-Count Breathing”. nothing about life or any topic.. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. 56 | P a g e . and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it.2.. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. Clear your mind other than the numbers.
If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. You’ll be glad you did. Sounds crazy. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. which allows you to relax more and get hard. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. then it will help your erections. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. 3. And trust me. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed.
Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. dumbbell press. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. For further details. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. you learn to control your breathing as well.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. yoga is what I recommend . -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. These include the dead lift. squat. and pull-ups.
Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. put it at a number. your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to. Instead. Here’s how: Step 1. Don’t fight your arousal. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. When you don’t have presence. no erection. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early.
We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play.5.. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD. harder stroking.5 to number 9. The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). Again. Step 2. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. give us a call if you need help with this.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9.
Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem. Instead eat her out. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Step 3. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. 61 | P a g e . or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. or kiss her body. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. Step 4. See demonstration in the DVD.
62 | P a g e . You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. full body orgasms. women are capable of many different types. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. model. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm.V. exercise. Also. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come.E. This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.A. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. She will. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple.
Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . side of back. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her neck. Don’t do anything else just leave it there. inner thighs. mouth. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.
she was from Austria. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. authority. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. smart 64 | P a g e . However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. repeated cumming etc. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. a really sexy. continuous orgasmic state. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. I know this sounds ridiculous. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. variety. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms. and emotion. I was dating this girl Renee.
and panties with my name on them. Over time with her though. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl. with no physiological hang-ups. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now.accountant.v.a. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. gifts. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .
It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. kisses.. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all.
That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. and the sites have TONS of videos. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. the girls are beautiful. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women.. so get in as much as you can.. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. Online porn these days is cheap. In short.
Unless your penis is under 2. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. and maker her come." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Just get naked. it will raise your testosterone. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. Even if it does work at all. or exercises don’t waste your time. pumps. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills.5 inches hard it does not matter. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. It’s not hiding as much as you think. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. 68 | P a g e . stamina.
Let’s do a quick run through. Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. But if you feel that you really need it. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Remember though. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Remember. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you.
Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. It’s a waste of your time and money. It hurt. If you’re thinking of getting one.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. Dick size is NOT the problem.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Relax and Enjoy . If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. don’t. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.
Classy. Sassy. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. whether she is coming. if you want to last 2 minutes. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys.. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Shy.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. If you want to say something say it.50% of the time. what position you are in. not just think about theoretically. Something that you have to work on. Just FUCK her. the evidence is overwhelming. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. if you want to do something to do it.. 71 | P a g e . Be a total primal instinct driven animal. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. that’s fine. Conservative. These are psychological principles.
72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover.
Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). but I want to make sure you are SAFE. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. boring stuff. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend.. Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me.
It works really well — as long as she takes it. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time.There are numerous types of birth control. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free. Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Sperm lead to children. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Pre-cum contains sperm. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. 74 | P a g e . if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control.
Again. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. I would not recommend it. However.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Guys take responsibility. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. You can experiment with it. the Shot. The Patch. The Ring. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. There chance of pregnancy is too high. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. 75 | P a g e . Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm.
If you’re going to do this be sure. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. I’ve never had one. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . My friend Mike. it’s a very effective. Some STDs are very serious. Don’t get it. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. but I know people who have had. If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive.
that is completely STD free as are you yourself. not guess. Just get tested to be sure. It’s all 77 | P a g e . Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. I’m not going to list every STD here.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. and still always you to enjoy sex. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. Despite it being a serious subject. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. bring it up casually but firmly. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. you should be fine. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. Often guys will say something like. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. or condoms ruin sex. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. doesn’t grip you too tight.
You can use Astroglide. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out.in your head. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Let’s review how to put on a condom.com. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. 78 | P a g e .) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break.condomdepot. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. For overall experience. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love.
in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Sticking with the classics like. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. Let’s go through and talk about where to start. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. in 2 or 3 basic positions. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. If you are having relatively tame sex. 1. you 79 | P a g e . If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. and focus on your breathing. "baby that feels so good." so again stick to the basics. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration.Don't Wait. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl." To avoid this. Have a few” go-to” moves.
Focus on foreplay. Be able to give her an orgasm. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. You don’t have to go crazy.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. 4. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. 5. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e .
Bobby Bradshaw www.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. ISN Education. it’s so much more than that.IncredibleSexNow. living life on your own terms. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get.com 2009. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. LLC 82 | P a g e . Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. It’s being a real man.
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