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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You’re “Small”, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of “Loser Lovers”............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The “NO Pump Chump” ....................................................................................... 14 3) The “Robot” .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The “Follower”....................................................................................................... 15 5) The “Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29 Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You’re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67 Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn’t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. divorce. FOR ONCE. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. was begging to have sex with you??. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don’t know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. Let’s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. and it’s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. 54 percent of married men weren’t aware that their wives were cheating. let’s talk about relationships and sex for a second. The facts don’t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. Awful! 1|Page . Also. and that’s from the National Center for Health Statistics. and it’s all because you are having terrible sex. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage.Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I’m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that’s going to completely change you and your lover’s sex life forever.

was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. She was blunt. what car you drive. I’m not even a millionaire.The Cheat-proof. My lowest point though. or if you take out the trash. Real-life. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. Luckily. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. I'm not a celebrity. no matter how much I liked her. Who Am I. as I’ve tried to keep my life private. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. unappreciative people? A guys doesn’t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn’t care! Inevitably my relationships. and not know where her lips have been. Women won’t tell you this. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. I’m not an athlete. I stopped blaming every girl that wasn’t satisfied and started doing something about it. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don’t they love you? Or are they just nasty. As you keep reading you’ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. would come crashing to a passionless halt. The first time I had sex I was 22. she will be yours for life. and blurted out that it was because I wasn’t man enough and 2|Page . I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women.

I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. When I did get back in the game. I still have my day job as a business consultant. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. I read hundreds of books.couldn’t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. EVERY TIME. Once you "get it”—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. Now. In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. Remember that infomercial with the guy “Bob” who couldn’t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. what happened was that through my own experimentation.

or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. she doesn’t even have the temptation. Most 4|Page . They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. because as a man. better looks. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. and better sexual skills than you. When you are satisfied you don’t crave more. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. girlfriend.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her. I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work.

I haven’t always been good in bed or good with women. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. it’s funny. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. turn off your email and phone. . “Come to Brazil. He was like. I was a complete loser. and let’s get started! I’m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist.. I didn’t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. Please don’t laugh. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn’t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. In fact. One woman told me that I didn’t satisfy her like a “real man” (that sucked). I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. had never kissed a girl. Actually.. laugh all you want. so take a deep breath. You’ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I’m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. I’m not proud of this. anyone can have sex in Brazil!” So I scrapped together some cash.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy.guys don’t know what I’m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. 5|Page . and he knew this..

Meanwhile. Once I was naked. While I’m fumbling with the loose condom she’s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there.God. “Calm. So THIS was it! Haha. we couldn’t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room.. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex.” anything to distract myself. Algebra. Please don’t.. It felt so good. calm. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . In the hotel room. I’m thinking in my head ‘Please don’t touch me yet. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement.” I’m thinking. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. Math. Somehow she liked me.. I finally made it into the promise land. but what did she know. I was really only a poor college student. I’m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes. the most I’d ever gone out. her tits are great!” As I sat down on the bed awkwardly.ARGH! . I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times...

the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. And they weren’t having sex slowly. . they were going fast and aggressively. And for a long time I was in denial. said something in Portuguese.. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was.just kept pumping away. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. It wasn’t that they were so huge. even though it definitely played a part in my mind. but I had no idea what to do about it. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. 7|Page . and feeling like a small.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though. pathetic little boy.. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. and pushed me off of her. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast. They had complete control of pleasing these women. I’d watch online porn and I’d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. They could do those moves and there was no fear of “losing it”. making the girls scream with pleasure. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. I just want you to know how bad I was. but it was that they’d last forever.

I’d do 8|Page . instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. struggling with this issue! So it’s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. seminars. I couldn’t get hard at all. I was like. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. And the second time I had sex. So either way. I had absolutely no control over when I came. So to try and turn my sex life around. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy.pal?!” It sounds comical. 16. I remember that. I got to the point where even though I couldn’t last very long. and I was at 23. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. cumming immediately. but when you wait longer. I started reading every single book that I could about sex.I didn’t know how these guys could do it. I would kiss her for a while. I’m going to take all the stuff that I’ve learned from all these books. That’s what happened my first time. “What is wrong with you. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. After three years of wild experimentation. It wasn’t one of those things you were born with. I had to learn how to do it. I would massage her breasts and I’d squeeze her ass. videos. and I figured I’d do trial and error until something works. “Yeah. their first time was at 16. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. The first times I’d had sex I got really hard and couldn’t last.” But for them. but I’m guessing that you know what I’m talking about because all my guy friends say. 17 years old like a normal guy.

We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought.all sorts of other stuff. that’s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. 50 minutes — even an hour. So I moved on and started dating other girls. when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. I’m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!” It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say “hands-on” field study. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. “oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!” But now we’re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. “Oh goddd. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. Finally. Most importantly though. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . but I didn’t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. I’d last so long that sometimes she’d even moan. No question I was the best sex that she’s ever had! For me though. learning where her trigger spots were. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn’t that hot (I hope she isn’t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex. regardless of the girl I ended up with.. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over.

I had to do 10 | P a g e . I need a hug. I bought you a necklace.” I’d try and show them how special they were. “Hey.” which would be a code-word for let’s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I’m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. But something started to happen. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. But I now had something that most other guys don’t have.Even If You’re “Small”. Sure. I was having sex whenever I wanted. They wouldn’t be interested in dinner. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better.” which was always a code word for hugging me and then they’d start grabbing me and rubbing me.was ready to meet the challenge. they’d take the necklace. something that seemed to work with every girl. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we’d had sex a few times I’d be like.. practically tearing my clothes off. but they didn’t seem satisfied. It was getting out of hand. I’d hear “I want to take a nap. getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. or Have A Small Bank Account. Or they’d be like “Oh. These girls started to love it.. let’s go out for a fancy dinner. They’d literally say “I LOVE having getting it on with you!” I almost couldn’t believe my eyes and ears. Here. . every time. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend.

and you will get the sex you’ve always wanted. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. You’re here because of sex. Chris Rock once joked. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. No more not feeling like a man. humiliation.” Well that’s definitely true — but the same goes for women. you’re going to have to last. “A man is only as faithful as his options.something with this power I had developed. more and more. You don’t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . she’s not going to want to have children with you. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had. I don’t want guys feeling this pain. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. If she only knew! More importantly. she will want you more and more. It’s what I’m thinking about at this café I’m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. who have given up and faced rejection. and she’s going to be looking for other options. she’s not going to treat you well. How to give women the best sex of their life. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or “busting” too quick. It’s what we think about all day long. No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. It changed who I am. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. And if you can’t give a woman good sex.

last as long as you want. just make sure it stays between us. 12 | P a g e . You don’t need to have sex with 5. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you’re doing. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. you’ll know the psychology in what’s actually going on during sex. You’re going to be able to have unlimited stamina.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you’re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. really easy for you. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. to where she’s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. problems I used to have. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don’t want that for you. These problems you’re having. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. is that you’re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. When you’re actually experienced and you’ve studied my method.

If you’re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. so don’t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don’t last the required time to give women deep. We will address that in a moment. You can’t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. “Is this ever me?” Be honest with yourself. 13 | P a g e . So to get started. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of “loser lovers” that all women secretly HATE. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. so really think carefully.Chapter 2 The Six Types of “Loser Lovers” Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. Women are the same way. This affects nearly EVERY guy I’ve ever worked with. full-body orgasms.

now touch that. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. 3) The “Robot” The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. the limper you become! But don't worry. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. they can’t get hard. in the bedroom and outside it. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. keep a straight face”…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel. They are thinking of “Touch this.2) The “NO Pump Chump” The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. 14 | P a g e .

Show her how much you want her. not confident and slightly feminine. it’s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don’t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. The sex will be less exciting and she won’t think you’re a real man. They want you to be in charge. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. at some times the emotional. Show her you know what you want. It doesn’t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. Obviously. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. “Does this feel ok?” Once or twice is good.4) The “Follower” Guys who don’t show they are in charge look weaker.

almost every woman said “doggy-style. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn’t feel good about doing it. crazy shit. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. 16 | P a g e . he thinks he is this guru and he’s doing all sorts of weird. 6) The “Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru.. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex. she’ll be sexually pleased.” They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. they’re not based on feelings.. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on. They’re always trying to do something weird because they think they’re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don’t really know anything. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks “What is this guy doing?” He’s trying so hard. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they’re all based on the physical.interaction.

To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face.. But fortunately. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e ..So if you think that you’re any of these. this is what comes out. Of course. and everyone is one of them at times — I’ve been all of them — you’ve really got to examine what you’re doing wrong and then we’ll adjust to the right way of doing things.

Then. what’s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. 18 | P a g e . If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. looks. It was so painful to admit that to myself. had a headache. or always trying to hold his hand. It’s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. There is no nagging. charm. I remember when I was a poor lover I’d always want to see my girlfriend. or was stressed and not in the mood. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. Think about when you’re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or kissing him. because I couldn’t satisfy her. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. just not with me.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. She is sitting on his lap. Now let’s get into the visible signs that you’re going to see when you’re sexually satisfying her. but I had to face the truth. I’d be a very rich man today! In reality. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. looking back on it. or even social status. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn’t important enough or was acting needy.

Sign #1 . You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys. that is the same thing. When a woman is initiating sex with you. The more that she initiates sex. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). the more she is sexually fulfilled by you. Unlike many men. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. Take note however. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons.She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. most women do not have sex just to “have sex. if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. so in this case.” They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions.

She doesn’t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. They will say things like.she wants to have sex right now or that night. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can’t “get” her to have sex. chances are that she is initiating sex. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug. Just stay calm.” or “Lets watch a movie.” “I need a massage. the sex won’t happen.She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom. “Let’s take a nap.” If you are hearing things like this. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don’t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. and don’t try and skip that step.” “I need a hug.

 “I’ m always getting nagged to do chores.”  “She tells me that I watch too much TV.”  “She says that I don’t make enough money.”

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple OrgasmsStrong Feeling of Attraction towards you Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I’m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind “set” on. If you’ve been “set” on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that’s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you’re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I’ve seen incredible change in myself, and I’ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn’t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn’t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there’s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don’t see it because you don’t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don’t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won’t see the change unless you believe it. If you’re thinking “This isn’t going to
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work” then it won’t! But if you keep doing what you’ve always been doing, you’re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can’t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they’ll be good in bed, but she won’t orgasm. Guys — if you’re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, “Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.” I was like, “Mike, if that’s what’s happening I’m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you’re so good with, and they really like you. I can’t help you.” I felt like there must’ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he goes, “Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.” So, “Well, Michael, I don’t really think that’s the case. How many girls has that happened with?” He goes, “It’s happened with 37.” “So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you’re telling me that 37 girls that you’ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?” I’m like, “That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don’t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.” To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he’d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you’re doing isn’t working. If you think you’re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program’s not for you. You’ve got to realize that you

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” That’s not true. anything.CAN improve your sexual skills. you can still get better. women need sex — then hey. you had to learn. Here’s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed  Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). And no matter how good you think you are. but they are not. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural. You didn’t wake up and know how to drive a car. you’re not where you need to be. You didn’t wake up and know how to play guitar. Any skill in life is learned. learning a language. I used to think. Any skill that’s worth knowing. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn’t Make Me Less of a Man It’s ok to get help.” I’d think. No matter how bad you are. If your girl isn’t trying to have sex with you all the time.” 25 | P a g e . they WILL improve. “I’m not a cool guy because I got help. programming a computer. “If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I’m a loser. That’s basically “experienced-based learning. and she’s not addicted to having sex with you — remember.

You’ll be GREAT and blow past even the best “naturals” and “experiencebased learners. you’ve got to embrace it. There is a saying that I love. Learning the material from guys who say they’re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. When you’ve got an issue in your life. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good. take care of it. The guys who really “GET” female “The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good” sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. Really think about that. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don’t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. 26 | P a g e . I guarantee it. you will. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. It is one of my favorites. It is possible. and that you’ll love too. Guys that aren’t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. Because you’re forced to fix it. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. realize you’re going to get it handled.” So it’s okay to get help. and then boom.

Women give up if they can’t be sexually satisfied. So. Their main goal in life is to have children." She doesn’t get horny. I’m a guy. “Hey. the stuff that you look at. 27 | P a g e . you do. but she doesn’t like sex. but think of women. That’s something that’s really got to be addressed. The sooner you realize this. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. real women. to be child-bearers.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say “My girlfriend’s not that sexual.” Or. women need sex more than men. instinctual level. with their picture.” That’s because you’re not satisfying her sexually. and they move on and pretend it doesn’t matter. again. These are normal. Look at all these women magazines. “She likes to cuddle and she’s very romantic. like.” Yeah. cheating and then there’s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren’t man enough to satisfy her. And they’re telling you exactly how much they need sex. This is everywhere. If they can’t have sex and good sex at that. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys. If you think that you need sex. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. I’m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. I need sex. Look at YM. the better off you’ll be. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. and you’re. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal.

It’s my underwear. “There it is. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. You ever look at a man’s underwear. compared to women’s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. and the examples of this are everywhere. 28 | P a g e . And You Don’t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures. buying underwear.and other products to look good. They have all this sexual desire. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. “Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt. do I look fat in this?” It’s because they’re sexual creatures.” Women spend hours. make-up.” What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them).“That’s trash. these pants. let’s move on to the next mindset. They want to look desirable. and hopefully you’ve internalized this. but society represses it.

NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren’t up to par. with proper education. It’s not your fault. it’s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all. The reason that you’re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled . Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don’t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job.

and she's not thinking about anything. It's not just you being in the moment. I'll run through all four. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is…. 30 | P a g e . we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1.. If her eyes are open. but feeling. and she staring at you or looking around the room like.Chapter 5 The P. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. To start. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. "Oh. Women are feelers. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on.A. then at the end of this chapter. This is a bad thing.V. Often. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. Don't Think. and she's not in the moment at all. because you want her not thinking anything.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. it's HER being in the moment.

"Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. because all of a sudden. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions.And more specifically. and you're no longer good at all. or you get soft. Nothing about... you've lost all aspect of being good in bed. “Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. you won't have to worry about that any longer. It's a big problem. or about different aspects of your sexuality. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. You lose every feeling of being in the moment. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. It's game over. and you lose your presence and your authority. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. or having sex with a woman for the first time.. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. Of course you want her to have a good time. But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. 31 | P a g e . is to keep thinking to yourself over and over..

"What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. Just like anything else. That is PRESENCE. you're thinking about it at the start. when you learn a language. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. Just going right after it. 32 | P a g e . in the beginning. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve. and I will grab him here. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. Always instinct." Think of just pure instinct. He's not thinking. There'll be a learning curve. So. and the wind is this variable. and what's going on. You're just primal. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. You want to just be going by instinct. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. But. while you're learning this stuff. anything. It does it out of a primal instinct.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don’t want to be thinking. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river.

AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY.2. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. Don’t ask to do doggy style. and the woman is. "I'm in charge. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . I'm gonna do what I like. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you’re the boss of the interaction. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. you'll begin to naturally think. Here’s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. going to follow the lead of the man. they would be with one! No. That's how it's been since the caveman days. By having that mindset of leader. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. You should always treat women with respect. to be led by the male. I'm the boss here. a woman wants a man. If they did. It's much more attractive for women. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. you've gotta show that you're in charge. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. You need to show that you're in charge. whether it's during sex or during a date. So." You wanna show that you're in charge. more dominant. but you need to be authoritative.

slowly take it to the next level. That's very authoritative. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. Push her down into the bed. and then ramp it up from there. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). "You look so fucking hot right now” or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard” And just saying things that are dirty.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY. after you've started gently and she is warmed up.. Get it? 34 | P a g e . or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?” Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her. That's authoritative. Now. pin her arms behind her head. but as you see how well she responds to it. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first.. If you're in missionary position. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. And by all means. Try saying things like.

. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. powerful man. “You are ALL MINE right now”... “Your ass is mine right now” etc. which is something all women want to hear. If this excites her... “These are my lips to kiss”. which is a very MASCULINE characteristic..What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong. move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. Start with things like.. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience. 35 | P a g e .

This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . Different positions definitely help. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P.E. You're slapping her ass. It's not solely about different positions. saying "Baby. I love you so much. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet. and you say different things. because different positions give her different emotions.3.A. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. If you do different positions. that Casanova. I love being inside you. like in public. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. And while physical variety is nice. system is VARIETY. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn’t be. Something like out of a romance novel. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. You're doing her doggie-style. and you have different interactions in these different positions.V. or sneaking off somewhere. Then. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY." That's one kind of a lover. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole’ “bedroom sex”… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy.

If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. if you can. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. Being Spontaneous So. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has. But. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. It's gonna seem monotonous. that's not very spontaneous. Y eah. but positions aren't as important. Why? It’s because you can have massive variety within one position. In the missionary position you can make love to her. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. If it's planned.variety. So. repeatedly. it's not gonna have that variety. You can talk emotionally. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. Try to have various times where you have sex. You can talk dirty. 37 | P a g e . Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. positions themselves aren't really that different. It's not gonna have emotion. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. And I just touched upon it. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. So. on Friday night. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. You can fuck her. You want to be having sex at different times. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day.

the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. when you make her feel a variety of emotions. Here’s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. and she's going to be madly in love with you. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. So. Change the feelings that she has. you’re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. You want as much spontaneity as possible. and in the morning when you wake up. 4. Keep things fresh. And again. when you're 38 | P a g e . she's not going to feel emotion. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. Do it in the shower. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn’t get boring. because you can make her feel a wide range of're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF. So in summary. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. If you can't be emotional yourself. and it’s a very enjoyable thing. be a different kind of lover. (In a moment. be spontaneous. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. There are lots of different fantasies.

or they'll get a girlfriend.telling her things. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. The Stronger the Emotions. So. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. because you married her. And then the sex peters out. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. If it's your wife. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. if you're not with a girl that you like. or outside. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. They’ll get married. and in the beginning the sex is really good. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. So now. So. You're madly in love. either inside the bedroom. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. The stronger the emotions. even sexually or in any manner. there's so much emotion for both of you. after the initial emotions have dipped. make sure that you really mean it. you need to be." If you're saying “I love you.” you want to say it with passion. you should be pretty emotional. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. Your bodies are new. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. 39 | P a g e . Then that emotion dips over a time. you need to be emotional. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. It's because in the beginning.

If you're not talking in bed. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. all that teasing creates anticipation. Just keep going with the foreplay. excitement. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. anticipation. If you're teasing a girl. teasing. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. and then kind of push her away. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. Different emotions. What you don’t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times.And you want to do that in bed. I just keep kissing. Anticipation creates excitement So. Emotions are best shown through words. Feelings of being loved. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. Play hard to get. until finally she can't take it anymore. Once you learn what to say you’ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. and she really wants you inside of you. Feelings of just being fucked. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you. and 40 | P a g e . And the way that you can do that.

baby." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. "Oh. But romantic talk are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. 41 | P a g e . otherwise it sounds a little weird. you need to start now. I miss you so much. Kind of ease it in there. Romantic talk means things like. "I love you so much.” “How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk.

A.V. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies.VE. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . anonymous. Pay close attention when you are reading these. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers. This stuff is so close to the P.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P. So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies. system really is! Of course I couldn’t ask women I know because they wouldn’t tell the truth… as they wouldn’t want me to think differently of them.V.E. Look for all the elements of P.A.A.E system its unbelievable. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex. As usual.

You pull my suit coat off. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. still in my 4 inch heels. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. “I want to learn every part of your body tonight. darling. satin camisole.” My hands trail down your abdomen. kissing you softly. pulling me against you. “Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?” I murmur. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. I step back.physically big. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. and appraise your amazing body. You help me remove them. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. as I grind my hips against you. you fill the room with your sexual presence. Got it?” 43 | P a g e . I lean into your strength and warmth. “Here are the rules: I touch you.” is all that you can utter. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. I set my briefcase on the counter. “Baby. “Not yet. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you.” I whisper in your ear. sucking on your bottom lip. and before I can stop you. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. Just lie back and let me pleasure you. Wrapping my arms around your neck. I straddle your lap. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. revealing a tight. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver.

and kiss me breathless. It’s driving you wild that you cannot see me. “You’re a naughty boy. and is driving you wild. I’m trying to drink you all in.You swallow hard and nod your head. “I’ve got something that will help”.” I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. then with a bit more strength.” I manage to get out between pants. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. but tonight is about control. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. “Don’t worry.” Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. My touch is light and tentative. I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. If at any point it gets to be too much. I can see the skepticism on your face. so I continue with my lesson. “Baby. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry. I grab your left hand. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. I pull the camisole off too. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. it looks like it might explode. Just try to relax. I’ve never taken control like this. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. gently at first. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. just say yellow. where are you?” “I’m here. You hear it hit the floor. I can’t get enough of your different textures. baby. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf. 44 | P a g e . and plant a kiss in your palm. nor do you know what I’m going to do next. You grab me around my waist.

The sting of your broken skin excites you. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. My aching pussy has to have you now. I cry out your name. I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. lapping up a drop of precum. I am yours now. nearing the verge of my climax. breathing on your balls and shaft. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. and you moan.hard. You slap my ass . A flush has 45 | P a g e . I inhale deeply near your navel. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. You roll me underneath you. first one cheek. I begin to nibble at your thighs. and slam into me. then the other. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. I pinch your nipples. as you fuck me. loudly. I cannot take another second. causing your abdomen to quiver. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. riding you. You squirm a little and cry out my name. but not touching them. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. as our movements become frantic.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. down to your pelvic bone. running my tongue along your side. I run my fingernails down your back. I cry out. You grab my wrist and suck harder. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. they’re so different from mine. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. I continue my assault.

You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. “Tell me that you want me. You pull back and look in my eyes. You start to orgasm. You wrap your arms around me. begging you to make me cum. “Fuck me…now. almost scream your name. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. My breasts are bouncing back and forth.” you say roughly. I can feel my juices running down my legs. I have never felt so safe. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. You lap at me slowly. I whimper again. I get on all fours for you.” I feel so wanton. I shudder my completion. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. The orgasm is different this time. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. but you keep that same pace. You grab my hips and pound harder. Your five o’clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. “Roll over. yet I’m excited. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa.” I take a sharp breath in. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. pulling me against you. It builds and I beg you to finish.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I’m whimpering now. 46 | P a g e . and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. You are so strong. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. trying to catch my breath. but you refuse to let me go. bruising my tender skin. causing me to moan. my pussy throbbing with excitement. I touch my clit as you slam into me. never changing pace or pressure.

but not before hearing you say softly. what the hell. “I love you”. I thought. It is a winding highway someplace rural. This would be a lot of fun if I didn’t have to pee. You can never seem to get enough. There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. I close my eyes and drift off too.” I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. But when I saw the ad for fantasies.” “What is that?” “You worship my body in your own way. From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn’t something I thought I could ever do.. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you’re getting sleepy. I have to pee. can’t think. 47 | P a g e . I feel like a goddess every time we make love. “I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day. You cater to my whims. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. I smile – that’s the first time you’ve said that.. Mind numbing. Really badly.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO.” This is what I fantasize about . probably western North Carolina. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.“What brought that on?” you whisper lazily into my ear.

is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot.” Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. come out with your hands in the air. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. I must keep driving. This is so weird.” As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. I manage “I’m in here. number 15. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. And oh shit. Thank god. Such relief. Then I hear the door slam open and “Police. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. My room. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up. Oh my word. He is coming after me. And he is pointing a gun at me. 48 | P a g e . there are the lights. At least I hope it is. “Oh shit!” I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can’t slow down.

I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. Higher still. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don’t come every day.” I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best “I am so innocent” look. looking at him. 49 | P a g e . He is totally hot. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. Since he has seen me. Don’t shoot me. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. It is awkward in heated kind of way. The cop can’t help but look at me. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips.” I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. look at my privates. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. he hasn’t said anything to me. He exhales again.“I had to pee. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest. “How about you put that weapon away.

I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I arch my back and press my chest against him. Brushing his cheek against my chest. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. This next transition is a blur. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. His 50 | P a g e . He spreads my legs with his knee. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other’s mouths. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. probably? I was going really fast” Then I add “Am I under arrest?” looking up with big wide eyes. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. “Too fast. grunts and moves in quickly.I try speaking. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth. I have to touch him. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain.

He looks up with need and reverence. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. The cop doesn’t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I know I am beautiful. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth. The thought of “what the fuck am I doing” comes into my head but leaves just as quickly. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don’t say stop. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. I love it. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. My thighs are at his eye level. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. He is so strong and I know he is hard. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e .

I still want to be fucked. I am so wet and hot. I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. 52 | P a g e . maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot.) But I am not done with this fantasy. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. My orgasm comes fast and hard.” I moan and then release. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. more. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. This gets me so excited for more. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. “More.tongue over his lips. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. Don’t stop. It is so perfect. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face.

I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn’t stop him.” he moans. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don’t want to stop. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. I feel like a conqueror. This is when we both come together. He fills me completely. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. And when he lifts his head I smile and say “Does this mean I won’t get a ticket?” Wild stuff. I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. I relish him being worn out. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. I feel triumphant. panting and trying to catch his breathe. My ass is barely on the counter.“Oh Jesus in heaven. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor.

let’s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed. 54 | P a g e . and what to do about them.So now that we’ve covered how to arouse a woman’s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure.

Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating. but not during sex.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. not a physical problem. (If you can’t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. here’s how to get hard when you’re with a woman: 1. the limper you will get. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. Let’s address some of the major ones quickly. your problem is entirely psychological. which basically means the harder you try. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I’ve seen that guys usually don’t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn.

This exhale is 2.2. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. 10-Count Breathing  Sit in a comfortable position  Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. nothing about life or any topic... Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. 56 | P a g e . After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes. This breath is 1. Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.. and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. and trust me when I say.  Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in  Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. (5 cycles of 2).. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it.  Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. Clear your mind other than the numbers. “10-Count Breathing”.

Sounds crazy. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . which allows you to relax more and get hard. In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. then it will help your erections. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. You’ll be glad you did. but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It’s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. And trust me. 3. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. To start you can do ANY exercise… it’s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection.

Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. These include the dead lift. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can’t please a woman. you learn to control your breathing as well. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. dumbbell press. For further details. and pull-ups. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster. You don’t have to ever fight or get injured. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. yoga is what I recommend . squat. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let’s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. I’ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training. which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e .

The scale should be roughly like this:  Not aroused at all. thinking of maybe masturbating  Aroused. put it at a number. It’s just going to take a little bit of work. Here’s how: Step 1. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . your mowing the lawn  Could get aroused. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can’t last. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex. your relationship won’t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. no erection. Don’t fight your arousal. When you don’t have presence. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come  Highly aroused but not going to come yet  About to come. Instead. couldn’t stop cumming if I wanted to.

The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it’s done right doesn’t make you come. Most guys “go over the edge” and are about to come with faster thrusting. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Again. It’s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD..5 and when it turns into number 9. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.5. Step 2.5 to number 9. Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. give us a call if you need help with this. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). harder stroking.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . We’re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6.

Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Instead eat her out. 61 | P a g e . Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. Step 4. Step 3. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. or kiss her body. See demonstration in the DVD. or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. its excess of arousal you don’t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Because lack of arousal isn’t your problem.

This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a “physical” orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions.E.If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. exercise. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P.This is the “go-to” orgasm when you’re improving your sexual skills. model. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Also. women are capable of many different types. 62 | P a g e . full body orgasms. They have many more “pleasure centers” and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger.V.A. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won’t come. Let’s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. She will.

Don’t do anything else just leave it there. inner thighs.  Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . mouth.  Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up  Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot  Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don’t be afraid to apply some pressure  Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. Kiss her neck. Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. side of back.  While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure.

I know this sounds ridiculous. variety. authority. I was dating this girl Renee. and emotion. she was from Austria. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women “Overwhelming Orgasms.” I have seen others use words like “full body orgasm”. smart 64 | P a g e . (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. I didn’t believe it until I saw it in my own life. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an “overwhelming orgasm” they don’t know how many times they came. a really sexy. It’s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. continuous orgasmic state. A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. When you start giving women “overwhelming orgasms” you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. However the term “overwhelming orgasm” most accurately describes what is going. repeated cumming etc.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex.

I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with “overwhelming orgasms” After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal Over time with her though. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. with no physiological hang-ups. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. Giving Women Orgasms Ladder  Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don’t’ push the sex.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e .a. and panties with my name on them.v. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. let her want it from you  Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me  Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her  Physical stimulation orgasm  Orgasm through sex  Add in all elements of p. gifts.

. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.. she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. It’s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover!  Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot  After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . Here are some tips to follow:  Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom  Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex. kisses.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually. she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. etc)  Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom  Never try and trade anything for sex  Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You’re Inexperienced First off.

it’s ok to watch a little bit of porn. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. but mix up your “selflove” sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren’t having enough sex. Online porn these days is cheap. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. and the sites have TONS of videos. Watch too much porn and you’ll find you cum too fast or can’t get hard when you actually have sex. so get in as much as you can.. That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations. In short. Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time  Enjoy your practice.. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e . and don’t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. the girls are beautiful.

If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Unless your penis is under 2. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body.5 inches hard it does not matter. Just get naked. and maker her come. or exercises don’t waste your time. You don’t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. Even if it does work at all. and you’ll be able to move better in bed. Don’t discuss what you look like and don’t make any attempt to hide it. 68 | P a g e . It’s not hiding as much as you think. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. it will raise your testosterone. stamina. the woman that you are with is even more self conscious." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Women don’t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. pumps. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small.

If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Remember. But if you feel that you really need it. But in order to give proper guidance I’ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Cialis: I’ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Most guys don’t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it’s a mental thing. Let’s do a quick run through. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. From my own experience and guys that I’ve talked to Cialis doesn’t 69 | P a g e . Viagra: I’ve taken Viagra to see how it feels. Remember though. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills.

If a guy can’t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. It’s a waste of your time and money. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I’m never using it again. It hurt. don’t. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . Relax and Enjoy . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. she’s starting to have some orgasms and you don’t want to ruin it. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don’t need these drugs anymore. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you’re starting to get better in bed. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you’ve just had sex. If you’re thinking of getting one. Dick size is NOT the problem.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.

I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff. Conservative. if you want to do something to do it. 71 | P a g e . Just FUCK her.. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. If you want to say something say it. not just think about theoretically. Classy. the evidence is overwhelming. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you.. These are psychological principles. Shy. what position you are in. That is why at the end I’ve created the “implementation” mini course. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys.50% of the time. that’s fine. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Don’t think about ANYTHING. Sassy. if you want to last 2 minutes. Something that you have to work on. The other half of the times don’t worry about how long you’re lasting. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN’T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. whether she is coming.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. 72 | P a g e . but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women.

boring stuff.Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don’t know how to initiate sex For me. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis.if you are doing more things together it won’t see incongruent. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn’t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. It’s like I always wanted it and she didn’t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful). Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms. but I want to make sure you are SAFE. Sex will occur! The “Not Fun” But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know..

I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. Let’s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD’s and are great birth control. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). It works really well — as long as she takes it. If you are using the “Pull-Out” Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn’t break then you will prevent pregnancy. It’s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. Sperm lead to children.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and “pull out” your penis before you ejaculate.There are numerous types of birth control. 74 | P a g e . Sometime women will “skip” a dose if they really want a child or in today’s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. Pre-cum contains sperm. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. if you’re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options.

Here is what you need to know about spermicide. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. However. However it hasn’t done as well as many thought it would. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. the Shot. There chance of pregnancy is too high. You can experiment with it. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it’s like having sex with a plastic tarp. The Ring. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. they’re better for the absent-minded than the pill. I would not recommend it. Guys take responsibility. It’s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. 75 | P a g e . unless you have a major aversion to condoms. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Again. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. The Patch. I’d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear.

The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine. changing your mind later on doesn’t mean it will go well and it’s expensive. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . If you’re worried she’ll forget or it’s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn’t been tested for STD’s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. If you’re going to do this be sure. Let’s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. but I know people who have had.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. Some STDs are very serious. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn’t too bad. Don’t get it. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. it’s a very effective. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. My friend Mike. I’ve never had one. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. Let’s dive into what’s important to know and then move on. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested.

Often guys will say something like. This is important! It’s your life we’re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. Obviously sex is much better with no condom (“raw”) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. bring it up casually but firmly. Just get tested to be sure. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor.” If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures. you should be fine. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. or condoms ruin sex. Despite it being a serious subject. not guess. I’m not going to list every STD here.a woman that for some reason you didn’t ask about her sexual past. You can also get what’s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Always ask a woman about her sexual history. and still always you to enjoy sex. “I can’t get hard with a condom on. It’s all 77 | P a g e . doesn’t grip you too tight.

Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex your head. For overall experience. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at If you’re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable.) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. You can use Astroglide. 78 | P a g e . Read about his issue under trouble shooting. They aren’t as durable and more likely to break. I highly do recommend that Durex Love.condomdepot. Let’s review how to put on a condom. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online.

Let’s go through and talk about where to start. If you are having relatively tame sex. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. Have a few” go-to” moves. Implement What You’ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don’t be worried about implementing everything at once. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations.Don't Wait. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!)." To avoid this. 1. Sticking with the classics like." so again stick to the basics. You’ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. If you can’t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. in 2 or 3 basic positions. and focus on your breathing. Be able to last at least 10 minutes. you 79 | P a g e . "baby that feels so good. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent." and "you want some more of this??” should cover you in most situations.

Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it’s a “quickie”. You don’t have to go crazy. Focus on foreplay. 4. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. If you can’t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. Be able to give her an orgasm. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. 5. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer.


it’s so much more than that. LLC 82 | P a g e . Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. It’s being a real man.After-thoughts: I’m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get. Bobby Bradshaw www. ISN 2009. This isn’t just about giving a woman orgasms. living life on your own terms.IncredibleSexNow. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet. Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell.

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