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i. ii. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. About The Author Introduction Dream With A Deadline What You Focus On Expands Look Where You Want To Go In The Presence Of Fear Faith Is A Verb Act As If You Will Succeed Brilliant At The Basics Myth About Risk Law of Attraction Develop A Powerful Belief System Personal Development Lifestyle Born To Connect And Communicate

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“Jon Jones is a powerful resource and a sincere friend to the Las Vegas Community.” Coach John Robinson, UNLV Athletic Director

i. About the Author

The fact that Jon Jones is a world-class speaker, trainer, and peak performance coach is no accident. Jon is a fanatic and relentless student of personal and professional development. Awarded a full athletic scholarship at the University of Nevada Las Vegas, Jon earned a bachelors degree in Communication. Later, he went to graduate school in the Art of Organizational Management at the University of Phoenix . At age of 26, Jon was selected to be one of six corporate trainers to work and mentor with world famous success expert Anthony Robbins. Two years later Jon started his own corporate training and personal coaching firm based in Southern California. Jon has returned to Las Vegas Nevada where he serves the explosive convention market and impact the nation’s fastest growing city. Jon is a preferred expert by the Las Vegas Community and endorsed by organizations like the American Society for Training and Development, Las Vegas Convention and Visitors Authority, Las Vegas Chamber of Commerce, The University of Phoenix (Nevada Campus), The Las Vegas Executive Speakers Bureau, and The University of Nevada Las Vegas (UNLV). Today, Jon has personally coached over one hundred advanced professionals and has presented to over a thousand businesses and organizations across the country on the topics of leadership, change, communication, sales and marketing, and peak performance. He commands fees in excess of $1,500 per hour as a public speaker and as a personal coach regularly charges fees of $2,000 or more. His programs offer ambitious and advanced professionals a fresh and sincere approach to continuous learning. In addition to being a powerful teacher and motivator Jon prides himself on being a cutting edge educator, innovator, author, and strategist. Jon is distinguished in his field because of his extensive knowledge, his diverse resume of experience, and his unique ability to combine the forces of inspiration and education. Through Jon Jones International (JJI) [www.jonjones.info] Jon’s vision is to be the ultimate source of motivation, focus, and strategy for ambitious professionals nationally and in Las Vegas. Under Jon’s leadership JJI promotes and provides world-class seminars, corporate training programs, brand consulting, personal coaching, multimedia resources, and community participation.

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ii. Introduction:
Congratulations! You are about to experience a powerful journey into the field of peak performance and personal development. In this course you will be exposed to profound ideas and dynamic strategies that will focus your mind and motivate your spirit. In this course you will not find a cup of “Chicken Soup For The Soul,” but you will find a protein shake for your heart and mind. The mission of this book is to unleash your potential, and to help you turn your dreams into reality. “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life that he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” Henry David Thoreau

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Today, your dreams are under attack! In fact, the principles and values that allow an ambitious person like you to pursue a dream are now being threatened by evil and terror. Most of all, your dreams are threatened by the fear that evil and terror hopes to achieve. Now let me ask you a few questions. How will you now set out to live the rest of your life? Will you take careful baby steps towards the future and seek a life of security and comfort? Or, will you take “Power Steps” towards the future and seek a life of prosperity and impact? You will find that the challenges you face are directly propor-

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tionate to the greatness of your dream. The best among us realize that the value of a dream lies not in the achievement of the dream, but in the challenges and obstacles you must face along the way. Do you have enough faith and courage to knowingly attract great challenges and obstacles into your life?

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1. Dream With A Deadline
Years ago I attended a special success training class with a small group of very ambitious and young professionals. Our instructor was a powerful and wise man who had a unique ability to push people’s buttons. He told us that the key to success was turning ideas into actions. He said, “Successful people have dreams with a deadline.” He explained that dreams and goals without specific deadlines are just preferences, and that human beings do not get what they prefer. In fact, “Human beings don’t even get what they want, but they always get what they have to have.” Most people don’t have

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deadlines because they live in a place called “no-mans-land.” This is a place where you aren’t totally happy or satisfied with where you are, but at the same time you aren’t unhappy enough to do anything about it. The right dream with a deadline can take you out of no-mans-land and get you moving towards your true potential. Our success teacher then told us to dream big. He said,

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“Challenge yourself to reach beyond your comfort zone. The only way to find out what you are really capable of doing is to get irrational. I don’t mean act like a nutcase. I mean expect more from yourself than anyone else could ever expect from you.” During the lecture I raised my hand and asked, “I was told on several occasions that goals should be realistic.” The teacher replied, “It’s important to have “realistic” and measurable objectives. I suggest we call those game plans. Game plans are specific short-term goals and objectives that we need to reach in order to achieve our ultimate goals, dreams, or
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visions. You will find that the people who take consistent action, make progress, and achieve new milestones are the people who have a magnificent dream. They have an image of a compelling future that drives them to succeed every day.” Suddenly, the teacher paused and said, “Jon, let me ask you as question. What is the potential of a human being?”

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“Unlimited!” I replied.

He responded by saying, “You are

right about that. But let me ask you this. If the potential of a human being is unlimited, then how is it possible to set a goal or dream that is unrealistic?” Then he continued, “Jon, let me ask you another question. What would you do if you knew you could not fail?” I thought for a moment and then answered, “I would become a multi-millionaire, a highly sought after speaker and expert, and a best selling author.” Our teacher became even more intense and responded by saying, “I think you should achieve every single one of those goals and accept nothing less. But let me tell you why. It’s not about the money and power. You should seek to achieve those

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ambitious goals because of the person you have to become in order to achieve them.” How often do people really think about the person they are becoming? Let me ask you something. Who do you have to become to achieve your goals? You see there’s a problem with setting easy goals and seeking to live a humble lifestyle. The problem with mediocrity is that you don’t have to become very much to achieve it. You don’t have to challenge yourself or grow in faith to achieve small goals. You don’t have to seek wisdom, knowledge, and new experiences. You don’t have to put forth your best effort, you don’t have to care or love as deeply, and you don’t have to maximize your god-given talents if you only seek to achieve mediocrity. I know that you started reading this book because you have a desire to achieve and become more as a person. I also know that your desire is not an accident. It’s also no accident that

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you and I have connected through this course. Right now is the perfect time to set the tone for the rest of your life. Right now is your chance to dedicate your life to a dream worth achieving: your dream. Let go of what everyone else is doing. Let mediocrity go once and for all. Set goals that cannot be achieved as you are today. Set goals that will require you to become more. Create a dream with a deadline that will drive

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you to unleash your potential. “It is your privilege – nay, your duty, to aim high in life.” Napolean Hill

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2. What You Focus On Expands
Inspired by a wealthy industrial businessman named Andrew Carnegie, a young student named Napolean Hill set out to study and understand the essence of human achievement. The goal of his work was to answer the following questions. Why are some people changing the world while others are barely surviving? How can a poor man with nothing travel to a foreign nation and create an empire? How can the so very few lead the masses? What philosophies, characteristics, beliefs, and behavior do the most successful people in the world have in common? And how can a person born in a world of opportunity find nothing but poverty and depression? Napolean Hill spent twenty years studying the most successful and influential people in the world. When he concluded his research he was asked if there was a single principle that mattered most. He explained that when people achieve great success, mediocrity, or failure it is no accident. His research concluded that human beings subconsciously move in the direction of their most dominant thoughts. In other words, what we focus on most expands into our reality. Millions of people throughout the world experience a life of sickness, poverty, and depression because that is what they choose to think about. Can you guess what healthy, happy, and successful people think about? The fact is all human beings are successful in as far as their ability to achieve their dominant thoughts. The challenge is that most people do not consciously seek to develop and direct their thoughts. Instead,
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they spend their days seeking urgent emotional needs and responding to the events around them. Napolean Hill said that successful people have a “definite chief aim.” A definite chief aim is a well-defined mission that allows a person to compound their thoughts and energy into one positive direction. What would happen if you were to take a magnifying glass and move it around in circles between the

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hot sun and a piece of paper? Nothing, except you might get dizzy. But what would happen if we took the same magnifying glass and held it perfectly still between the suns hot rays and a piece of paper? Within seconds the magnifying glass would concentrate the suns energy and burn a whole through the paper. Just like a magnifying glass, when you focus your thoughts and energy in one direction you not only unleash your potential, but you also activate and employ other forces and resources around you. Are you ready for a mental challenge? Remember, this course is not about hope. This course is about turning your dreams

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into reality. In the previous section we talked about creating a dream with a deadline. Now you must transform your mere dream into a definite chief aim. You must consciously decide to focus on your dream, and turn your dream into a dominant thought. A sustained dominant thought has no choice but to become reality.

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3. Look Where You Want To Go In The Presence Of Fear
We have established that when you focus on a thought or destination you are magnetically pulled in its direction. You must realize that this magnetic force is invisible, subtle, and always working. At any moment in time your focus is either building your future, and taking you where you want to go, or it is destroying your future and preventing you from reaching your destiny. power to fail. Here’s the point. This is serious business. Understand that this law gives us the power to succeed and the

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Have you noticed that people have a tendency to focus on their fears? Can you see the problem here? What happens when people focus on their fears? If you were walking on a tight rope that stretched across a deep canyon, then you better not look where? Down! If you look down that’s where you will end up. Remember, what we focus on expands. You will find that Peak Performers in every area of life understand that obstacles, dangers, and fears have no real power until we activate their power with our attention and focus. Most people can recall the “unbelievable” Bible story about how Jesus walked on water. Did you know that his disciple Peter was walking on water too? He was walking on water right next to Jesus until he looked down and remembered his limitations. Here’s my favorite part. Jesus doesn’t go up to Peter afterward and say, “Peter, who do you think you are? You aren’t the Son of God. You can’t be like me and do the amazing things that I can do.” Instead, Jesus says something

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like this, “That’s what you get when you focus on fear instead of me. Why such little faith? When will you people learn?” One of the greatest spiritual and physical challenges in life is to look where you want to go in the presence of fear. A few years ago in Las Vegas an airplane was preparing to

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land when suddenly the pilot discovered that his landing gear was completely destroyed. He was flying a medium size jet with about forty-five passengers. He spent the next hour flying in circles over the airport burning off as much fuel as possible. A high-speed collision between concrete and metal is not a good place for jet fuel. Imagine a pilot preparing to land a plane on its body without landing gear. Imagine having fortyfive lives in your hands. Imagine the anticipation before the actual landing. In the end, the plane landed perfectly. The pilot’s perfectly smooth and gentle approach saved precious lives. After this amazing event the reporters asked the pilot how he executed the landing with such bravery and skill. And

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the hero replied, “I put everything out of my mind except the perfect landing.” Pilots do not practice landing a plane without landing gear, yet the pilot executed perfectly. Human beings are already designed for excellence. The key to success is not getting yourself to do remarkable things. The key to success is clearing your runway. Define your destiny, remove the imaginary obstacles, and look where you want to go in the presence of fear.

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4. Faith Is A Verb
When we consciously remove our attention from fear and then focus on our definite chief aim we are only temporarily sustaining fear’s power. Our goal is not to manage fear. Our goal is to kill it. There is only one weapon capable of killing fear once and for all. Through faith alone can you rid your self and others from the grips of fear. Like a soldier caught in the middle of a battlefield and unable to fire his weapon, most people are stranded helplessly by the same fears over and over again because they do not under-

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stand how faith works. Faith is not hoping. Faith is not waiting. Faith requires action. Faith is a verb. You will find “leaps of faith,” “acts of faith,” and “great works of faith,” but you will not find “sitting around full of faith.” Faith is not a mystical power that you have. The fact is you do not HAVE faith: you DO faith. Right now think of a person who is known to have changed the world through faith. How did this person make an impact? Did this person stay in bed, meditate in faith, and send God over to perform miracles? I don’t think so. People who change the world through faith take massive action and go right through fear. They act with confident expectations because they believe in a power much greater than their opposition. They understand that faith is not about employing God. Faith is about letting God employ you. The question is, will you accept the job and get to work?

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I want you to know that it’s ok if you have some lingering doubts. Faith is not the total absence of fear and doubt. In fact, faith requires doubt. Think about it. Faith is not about knowing exactly what’s going to happen. Faith is about not knowing, having doubts, feeling the presence of fear, and then taking action anyway.

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5. Act As If You Will Succeed
Can you remember a time in your life when you were faced with a new and challenging opportunity? Perhaps you were making a decision about a relationship, starting a new career or business, changing your environment, or trying a new approach to life. Did you know exactly what to expect? Did you know what kind of return you would get? Let me ask you this. Have you noticed that these uncertain moments are My former happening more and more often these days?

employer Anthony Robbins once told me that “in the new millennium the quality of your life is in direct proportion to the

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level of uncertainty you can live with.” Can you stay the course in today’s chaotic and competitive world? Can you stay focused on your dream? Can you step out in faith and take action in the face of fear? Successful people sustain their faith by visualizing and acting as if they will succeed. Just like everyone else, they don’t know for sure if they will succeed or not, but unlike everyone else, they act as if they are going to succeed. By consciously generating this state of mind they find themselves taking action, defeating fear, and bringing certainty to an uncertain world. Think about all the great achievers, leaders, and heroes who acted as if they were going to succeed. They don’t just get pumped up and motivated. They use this mindset to get focused, to tap into their potential, and to influence others. Do you remember the movie “Apollo 13?” The famous words from NASA’s star pilot, Jim Lovell played by actor, Tom

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Hanks, marked the beginning of an amazing rescue mission. “Houston, we have a problem.” If you ever find yourself starting to feel a tad overwhelmed by life’s challenges, then think about the Apollo 13. Imagine 250,000 miles from earth a team of astronauts found themselves stranded in outer space with no oxygen, no navigation technology, and hardly enough power to burn a piece of toast. How on earth did these men make it

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home safely? There were many scientific reasons, but it all started with one man’s faith and certainty. Mission Control’s Flight Director, Gene Kranz played by actor, Ed Harris decided that his men don’t die in outer space. More importantly, Gene Kranz acted as if the Apollo team was coming home: period! “Failure is not an option.” Ed Harris, “Apollo 13” The best engineers, scientist, and pilots in the nation were coming to Gene Kranz with one incredible problem after another. They were really trying to tell their leader that his men were probably going to die. Fortunately, Gene was in

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charge and they weren’t. He refused to consider failure. He explained to his brilliant staff that a problem only has one purpose, to lead you to the solution. His faith inspired the best of the best to rise up to the occasion, to unleash their potential, and to turn a potential tragedy into NASA’s “finest hour.” Expecting success is only the first step. Once your mission has been defined then you must act as if your success is undeniable. Great leaders realize that success is a one-way ticket. Unfortunately, most of us have been sold round-trip tickets just in case things don’t work out. If you believe that you are on this earth to achieve security, then I guess you should always have a plan B. On the other hand, if you believe that life is about pursuing dreams and growing in faith, then now is the time to go for it and act as if you cannot fail. Get rid of plan B once and for all and never look back. You will find that as long as you have something to fall back on, that’s exactly what you will do.

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Did you know that actor and comedian Jim Carey was unknown and broke when he wrote himself a post-dated check for a million dollars. He acted as if he was going to be a star before he ever became one. He would look at his million-dollar check and ask himself, “If this check is going to be cashed in one year, then what do I have to do today?” How many

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auditions do I have to perform? How passionate and ambitious do I have to be? How many hours do I have to spend practicing in front of the mirror transforming my face and body into outrageous characters? Jim Carey didn’t get a lucky break. He took action and tapped into his potential. How about a man named Mohamed Ali? Did he act as if he was the greatest before he became “The Greatest?” How about the courageous Fireman in New York City who kept searching day and night for survivors? These men understood that their duty was not to predict the possibility of a rescue. Their duty was to act as if lives will be saved today. Together, as a team of brothers they searched for days as if lives were at stake, but they

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only found friends and fellow citizens who were dead. The massive effort was still worth it wasn’t it? How about another man of great faith named Christopher Reeve? Christopher may not walk on his own two legs yet, but he walks in faith every day. Here is a man who is putting everything on the line. Now let me ask you a hypothetical question. What if Christopher continues to put forth all his energy and faith, and for the rest of his life he keeps striving, but he lives the remainder of his life as a quadriplegic and never walks again. Would his effort now still be worth it? Of course it’s worth it! It’s worth it because life is not about walking, achieving, or winning. Life is also not about playing it safe or protecting your self from failure. Life is about being your best right now, weilding the power of faith for the purpose of good and love, and making a difference with what you have. So what about you? If other people should exercise faith, face fear head on, and pursue incredible dreams and goals, then

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why not you? If you knew that you were designed and destined for greatness, then how would you set out to live the rest of your life? If you knew that your dream was undeniable, then what would you do today?

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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves…who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us: it’s in everyone…and as we let our own light shine…we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear…our presence automatically liberates others.

Marianne Williamson, “A Course In Miracles”

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6. “Brilliant At The Basics”
In a competitive world like today you’ll find that desire alone is not enough. I don’t have to tell you that life is a dynamic and challenging game. And just like in any game, a burning desire to win is a powerful advantage, but its worthless if you don’t know the fundamentals and rules of the game. Imagine a baseball player stepping up to the plate and not knowing the rules of the game. Let’s say he didn’t know that the pitcher was obligated to throw strikes. Let’s say he believed that as a hitter his job was to swing and hit every pitch. Would you agree that regardless of his talent and desire his chances of success are not very good? Peak performers in any field are often described as being “great students of the game.” When you become a great student of any game you develop the ability to anticipate opportunities within the rules. The

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great Wayne Gretzky was asked to explain why he dominated the game of hockey for an entire decade. He replied, “Most hockey players skate to the puck. I always skate to where the puck is going.” The “Great Ones” understand that winning is a systematic process. Champions don’t have faith in luck. They have faith

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in the fundamentals. Furthermore, champions realize that perfecting fundamentals will produce consistent results. The only difference between Tiger Woods’ golf game and my golf game is that Tiger has mastered the fundamentals of golf and I haven’t. That’s what fundamentals can do. You’ll also find that unsuccessful people and teams are always talking about winning, while successful people and teams are always talking about the causes of winning. Losers say things like, “We are willing to do whatever it takes to have a winning season this year.” Winners, on the other hand, say things like, “We are going to do what we do best. We will continue to

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work on “our game,” and if we pull together as a team like we always do, then we know we will be hard to stop.” Winners already identify themselves as winners. They already expect success, and therefore, instead of trying to prove to the world and themselves that they can win, they just get to work on perfecting their game. When you work hard on your game and seek to master the fundamentals of success you are making an investment. People don’t invest in something unless they believe it has potential. People invest in themselves through study and hard work because they believe they are worth it. If you bought a world class race horse with a champion bloodline what would you do with it? Would you leave him out in a grassy field and keep him as a lovable pet? I don’t think so. You would go find a professional staff of trainers, doctors, and riders and you would work every single day at developing this horse’s potential. And if someone came up to you and asked, “Why are you

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putting so much money and energy into this horse?”

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would say, “This isn’t your ordinary horse! This horse has nothing but championship blood running through his veins. This horse was born to win.” So what about you? Are you born to win? If you are born to win, then you have some work to do don’t you?

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When you work hard at the fundamentals of success you are making a statement to the world. You are saying, “Look out world here I come.” “Champions are brilliant at the basics.” Coach, John Wooden

If you are serious about unleashing your potential, then make a new commitment right now to master the fundamentals in your field. Here are a few ideas to ponder as you take your performance to the next level.

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Develop the skill of modeling. What do the very best performers in your industry have in common? Get specific and look beneath the surface. Don’t just model behavior. Model their thoughts, strategies, philosophies, beliefs, and attitudes. Remember, a wise man learns from his experiences, but an even wiser man learns from the experiences of others. Measure your improvement. When we measure progress our rate of improvement accelerates. What we focus on expands, and measurement is a process that helps us to focus our attention on critical areas of improvement. Practice. How many business professionals actually practice? Not many. Let me ask you a question. How important is confidence in your field? Guess where confidence comes from? Confidence comes from deserving, and deserving comes from practicing your butt off. Record yourself on audio or videotape. Guess how many professionals videotape their work for the purpose of critical evaluation? Not many. Guess how many world-class athletes videotape their performances? Every single one of them.

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Become a teacher or coach. You don’t have to become a master first before you can teach others. In fact, you become a master by teaching. Teaching and coaching is a great way to own fundamentals. You should be able to deliver a seminar on the fundamentals of success in your field. Think about how much more valuable you are to society if you could not only perform at a level of excellence, but you could also coach others to do the same.

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7. The Myth About Risk
Legendary financial expert Peter Lynch was interviewed the other day about the decline in our nation’s economy. The journalist conducting the interview was gearing up for a gloom and doom response when he asked Peter Lynch what people should do with their personal stock in this time of decline and uncertainty. explained… “For the last sixty years investing in the stock market has been a great way to generate wealth. And during the last sixty years the stock market has gone up and down. While stocks go up and down there is really only one way to lose money…and that’s by buying stock when they’re high and selling them when they drop. Today, many stocks have dropped significantly. Ironically, people don’t know what to do. If you want my advice, then I’ll have to stick with buying low and selling high. The key to investing is to follow solid principles not current events. “ Peter Lynch This interview got me thinking about “RISK.” We have all heard that successful people, especially entrepreneurs and investors, are willing to take risks. However, when I was listening to Peter Lynch he did not strike me as a “risk taker.” I started to think…perhaps successful people don’t take risks at all. Maybe they just define a risk differently than most people. Ask Peter Lynch if investing in the stock market is a risk and he’ll tell you that NOT investing in the stock market is a risk. Here’s the key. Successful people don’t throw caution to the
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Without hesitation or emotion Peter Lynch

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wind. They simply have goals that are worth action. These goals are so important to them that they actually go out and study. They discover fundamentals and role models, form a plan, and take action. Meanwhile everyone else looks at them and says, “Wow, that’s a gutsy move.” “Risk must be evaluated not by the fear it generates in you or the

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probability of your success, but by the value of the goal.” John C. Maxwell “Decide whether or not the goal is worth the risk involved. If it is, stop worrying.” Amelia Earhart The ability to understand and manage “risk” in your life is critical to your ultimate success and fulfillment. How do successful people manage risk?

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They are on a mission. They don’t take random risks for the thrill of it. They take risks that are power steps towards ultimate goals. People do not lack courage and motivation…they just have insignificant goals. They embrace failure. Successful people understand that failure does not mean stop. They understand that failure is a requirement for success. Someone once asked Thomas Edison how he becomes such a great inventor. He replied, “I was willing to fail.”

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“While one person hesitates because he feels inferior, the other is busy making mistakes and becoming superior.” Henry Link “You will miss 100% of the shots you never take.” Wayne Gretzky

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They are long-term thinkers. Short-term comfort and security is not as important as reaching their potential in the long-term. They think about why they are on this planet. Their life’s purpose and long-term vision drives their decisions not their desire for instant pleasure and security. They really don’t take “risks.” Successful people define a risk as not pursuing their dream. And this is a risk they are not willing to take.

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8. The Law of Attraction
Believe it or not, the world is designed to make sense. A polar bear is as white as snow because life and nature required him to do so. As a human being you have the ability to evolve, not only to meet the demands of survival from one generation to the next, but also to attract the rewards you want right now. The Law of Attraction states that everything you have right now in your life and everything you will have in the future will be magnetically attracted into your life based on the person you are now and will become. In other words, you must align

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your self with what you want. In order for a polar bear to be a successful hunter in the North Pole he had to turn white, grow long sharp claws, and become a great swimmer. In order for Tiger Woods to become the world’s greatest golfer he had to study the game as a child, train his muscles to move with discipline and grace, and maintain a focused and competitive attitude. What about you? In order for you to achieve and attract the results you want, then what adaptations and changes do you need to make? Here is a simple and powerful mental exercise that you can use to unleash the Law of Attraction and shrink the gap between you and your dreams. First, do some brainstorming. Make a long and detailed list of all the things you want to do, achieve, experience, and create in

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your life. Think about relationships, activities, rewards, and your complete environment. Imagine the life of your dreams and then describe it in detail. Secondly, look at the life that you have described, and then ask your self, “What changes do I have to make in order to attract these things into my life?” If you continue as you are today

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will you attract the life you want? “Don’t wish things were easier. Wish you were better.” Jim Rohn

Understanding and employing the Law of Attraction creates a proactive lifestyle. Rather than chasing down goals and responding to random events you can focus your mind and energy towards developing your most precious resource…you. Success is more than getting what you want. Success is also about contributing. When you imagine the life of your dreams

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how are you contributing to the world around you? How do you want to improve the world? How do you know that you are the right man or woman for the job? Why should God hire you to do the job that you are asking for?

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9. Belief Systems
Years ago I knew an ambitious college student who set out to become a professional football player. He wasn’t motivated by money or fame, nor was he motivated by the love of competition. Instead, he was driven by the idea of becoming a motivational speaker. You see, when he was growing up he spent his summers at football and basketball camps. And during these camps he met professional athletes who were invited to talk to the young campers. He loved these inspiring talks, the real stories they told, and the simple and powerful advice they gave. These professional athletes were

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giant men, and they made a great and lasting impression. They were his heroes. Like his heroes, he decided to become a professional athlete so that one day he would be invited to speak. He wanted nothing more than to be an inspiration and a role model just like the men who spoke to him at camp. When he finished his college career his dream of becoming a great speaker and role model was destroyed. He was a good college player, but he wasn’t good enough to play professionally. Because he wasn’t rich or famous, he believed that he didn’t deserve to speak to people about success and about achieving dreams. I can tell you that the man in this story was never going to live his dream unless he changed his attitude and his beliefs. I can tell you this, because this story is about me. I used to believe that in order to be a speaker and success coach I had to be rich and famous. And guess what? In my own reality I was right. At the time I didn’t deserve to be motivating others. Not because of my status,

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but because of the ridiculous and limiting beliefs that I allowed to shape my attitude and prevent me from taking action. Rather than pursuing my dream head-on I hoped for a miracle and waited for something to change. Have you ever found your self waiting and hoping for things to change? It doesn’t work does it?

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Fortunately, my ambition, curiosity, and open mind directed me to the field of personal development. Through books, tapes, and seminars I learned that the only thing stopping me from achieving my dream was myself. What about you? Do you have some changes you want to make? “You must become the change you seek to make in the world.” Ghandi I’m here to remind you as a coach and friend that things will change for the better only when you change for the better. The best teachers, experts, and role models agree that real and

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lasting change starts from within. Changing from the inside out means changing your belief system. Changing a belief doesn’t have to be a complex psychological process. However, it does require some intense thinking, soul searching, and honesty. Dr. Phillip McGraw is a psychologist, a best selling author, and a favorite guest on the Oprah Winfrey show. The core philosophy and principle behind his great advice is personal accountability. According to Dr. Phil your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions are your responsibility. ple who don’t take responsibility for their actions, Peoexperi-

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ences, and results are bound to become victims. It’s really quite simple. Your life is your fault! If you really want to make some changes, then you must “get real.” “Getting real” is about looking at your life through a fresh and objective pair of eyes. Most of all, it’s about being brutally honest with yourself, digging deep, and discovering the beliefs that are driving your decisions and actions.
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“Thinking is the hardest work known to mankind which is why so few engage in it.” Henry Ford When you honestly evaluate your belief system you will find that you have some beliefs that make you very effective, and you will also find some beliefs that are preventing you from unleashing your potential and getting the results that you

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want. The first and most critical step in developing a more powerful belief system is awareness. Now let’s define the different types of beliefs that are either building or destroying your dreams. First, we have what I call “macro-beliefs.” Macro-beliefs are broad and general ideas that you accept to be true. They are general beliefs that you have about the way the world works. These beliefs form your personal philosophy and general outlook on life. For example: What do you believe about all people? What do you believe about wealth and our economy? What do you believe about life, love, marriage, success,

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and death? What do you believe about human beings and their relationship with God? The answers to these questions reveal a person’s macro-beliefs, and more importantly, reveal how a person will view the world and respond to every day life. On September 11, 2001 an unfathomable tragedy taught us all that personal challenges and local issues are insignificant details compared to the impact of conflicting global beliefs. Take some time to ponder your beliefs. The fact is people who can clearly define their beliefs and values lead those who cannot. The greatest people, teams, companies, organizations, and nations are those whose philosophy equals their actions. In order for your life to reflect your beliefs you must first clearly define what they are. The second type of belief is called an “identity belief.” These are beliefs that you have about the most important person in

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your life: you. In order to define your identity beliefs all you have to do is complete the following statement. I am _______. How would you fill in the blank and describe your identity? Who are you?

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“Figure out who you are and do it on purpose.” Dolly Parton One of the most powerful forces in human psychology is the innate desire for the human mind to act consistently with its identity. In other words, you are compelled to be you. Therefore, we must ask the following questions. What do you believe about your personality? What do you believe are your strengths? What do you believe about your future? What do you believe about your ability to make money, your ability to contribute to the world, or your ability to give and receive love? What makes you unique?

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Let me ask you another great question. What do you expect from your self? You will find that whatever you expect from yourself is directly related to who you believe yourself to be. Would you agree that when Tiger Woods sets out to play a golf tournament that he expects to win? And wouldn’t you agree that Tiger also identifies himself to be the best golfer in the world today? I want you to understand and think about the fact that the human mind is not only creative and powerful it is also brilliantly designed to follow directions. Just like a computer your brain will only execute the programs that you load. The question is what identity beliefs have you loaded into your powerful mind? The third type of belief is called a “limiting belief.” A limiting belief is a belief that prevents you from taking positive actions and realizing your potential. Typically these beliefs come in the form of excuses. Instead of “getting real” and

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facing our own inadequacies we humans would rather create an excuse. Excuses are a great way of denying accountability and justifying our lack of commitment and faith. I know this doesn’t apply to you, but maybe you can use some of this knowledge to understand and help others who have limiting beliefs and excuses.

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Can you think of a change or result that you have been trying to accomplish, but you haven’t been able to get the job done? Well, what’s stopping you? What do you tell yourself are the reasons for your failure? Is it because you don’t have the time? Is it because you don’t have enough help, support, resources, money, or talent? Maybe its because you don’t have enough experience, or maybe you don’t have the right contacts. Whatever excuse you come up with is a limiting belief. Let me give you a warning. The smarter you are the more creative and persuasive you will be at justifying your excuses. Perhaps you have noticed that there are people half as smart as you, and they are getting the results that you

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want. Regardless of how unique and challenging you think your situation may be, you must force yourself to focus on the following fact. Someone in this world is getting the results that you want. If you were to look hard enough you could find someone who is not only getting the results that you want, but who has also overcome greater obstacles than you have ever seen. How can you have a valid excuse for business and financial failure when people from foreign nations have come to this country with no money, no contacts, unable to speak our language and have built fortunes in less than a decade? Did you know that a foreigner coming to the United States with nothing is more likely to become a millionaire than a middle class American citizen? How can we explain that? It’s really quite simple. Most Americans adopt the excuses and beliefs shared by their peers, while immigrants come to this country believing that this is a nation where dreams come true.

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Somehow in our culture we have learned to associate intelligence with the ability to identify every possible obstacle and problem. Meanwhile, optimistic people who are perceived to have less intelligence like former President, Ronald Reagan and current President, George Bush choose not to dwell on problems. Instead, they maintain a positive attitude. While

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other more “intelligent” and articulate people are busy analyzing why something can’t be done these optimists are busy seizing the day. They believe in opportunity, they believe in themselves, and they believe in destiny. These are the people whose lives change the world. They are not the fortunate, the lucky, or the intelligent planners and strategist. They are the people who believe. “Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance.” Bruce Barton

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Remember to check your beliefs. Realize that we are always forming new beliefs and strengthening current beliefs. The question for you to ask is whether or not these beliefs are limiting you or empowering you.

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10. Personal Development Lifestyle
How competitive is your industry or environment right now? Do you think your industry will continue to become more and more competitive in the future? Let me ask you a few more questions. What are you doing right now to become more valuable? What are you doing now so that five years into the future you are prepared to compete with the major players in your field? Remember, at any moment in time you are either building your future, or you are destroying your future. Unfortunately,

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people seem to think that by showing up and maintaining a good effort that they are “building” their future. If the world is getting faster, stronger, smarter, and more saturated with competition, then a great way to fail is to maintain your current level of knowledge, skill, resources, and performance. Peak Performers are always evolving. They understand that long-term success requires continuous change, improvement, and development. More importantly, they understand that the competitive edge requires a commitment of time, energy, and money into the discipline of learning and personal development. Peak Performers also understand that personal development is not an event. They know that attending one convention or seminar per year is not enough. They know that going to the training classes provided by their company is not enough. Let’s face it. How can you have an advantage if you do what everyone else is doing?

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Would you agree that the people who make exercise a part of their lifestyle are healthier and getting better results than those who make exercise a special occasion? Well, the same is true in terms of mental health. Successful people adopt what I call a Personal Development Lifestyle. Here are 5 practices that will build your future and take you far beyond your competition.

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I. Read books. The average person is watching 7 hours of TV per day. The average person reads less than one book per year. Every book that is purchased off the shelf will have a 10% chance of being read past the first chapter. Someone once said, “Success has much to do with the books you read and the people you meet.” I would like to add the fact that the books you read determine the people you will get to meet. II. Listen to audio recordings. Everyone is “SO BUSY” today. That’s no excuse! Everyone also spends a lot of time driving in a car. I don’t think people realize how

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much you can learn in just one week by playing tapes and CD’s in your car. There’s only one way to find out.

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III. Live seminars and conferences. Books and tapes are awesome, but they don’t have the power of live and interactive learning. If you find yourself saying, “I’ve already taken all the courses, read all the books, and attended every seminar.” First, realize that recognizing and understanding profound knowledge is not the same as mastering it. Hey, how many free throws has Michael Jordan made in his career? Do you think he still practices shooting free throws? To be honest, I’ve never seen Michael Jordan practice free throws, but I’m willing to bet that he does, and he takes it very seriously. Remember, repetition is the key to mastery. Don’t stop now. If you think you know it all, then now is the time to keep going. If you keep going you can start master-

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ing your knowledge and reap extraordinary rewards. IV. Get a mentor, coach, or study buddy. What does it say about a person who has a drinking buddy but not a study buddy? Do you have intellectually stimulating friends? If you don’t, then you probably aren’t doing the things on this list? You’ll find that the only people who are capable of sharing good ideas are the people

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who are reading books, attending educational meetings, listening to tapes, and hanging out with others who do the same.

“Small minds talk about people. Average minds talk about events. And great minds talk about ideas.” Eleanor Roosevelt V. Record your favorite ideas into a journal. Journal writing will help you stay focused on capturing good

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ideas. Writing notes in a nice journal is just different than taking notes on worksheets and pads. Just like with anything in life, the more you put into it the more you get out of it.

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11. Born to Connect and Communicate
When I first enrolled into college my academic counselor told me “Jon, don’t worry about your major. You don’t have to decide right now. Take several classes and see what programs appeal to you.” One week later I came storming back into her office and said, “I’m ready to declare my major right now! I’m going to major in Communications.” My counselor replied, “What happened to you? Let me guess. You met a special young lady who’s majoring in Communications.” I said, “Yes, my English professor introduced me to her last week.” I didn’t actually meet her, but my professor gave me one of her essays.

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Her name was Helen Keller. Helen Keller blew my mind back then and still does today. She taught me that communication is much more than a subject in school, much more than language, and much more than a skill. Communication is life. Communication is our chance to interpret and express life. When human beings are robbed of their senses, robbed of their freedom, and robbed of their life all they want is another chance to communicate. Imagine being born into this world completely deaf and completely blind. Imagine knowing only silence and darkness. How would you learn to understand life? How would you dream? How could you ever express anything other than immediate pain and pleasure? How could you give your brain the information, senses, and references to grow? How could you perceive that you were different than others? How could you exceed the existence of an animal and discover your identity as man? And now imagine a girl born deaf and blind

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learning to communicate in the following manner: “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” Helen Keller

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You have been born to connect and communicate. You have been born to tell a story that is your life. Helen Keller defeated the depths of darkness and the emptiness of silence in order to meet a world she did not know. She reached out in faith and achieved the impossible. Her story is a reminder that “life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” Communication is more than a means to navigate through life. Communication is the process that allows human beings to bond with friends, understand ideas, give meaning to life, worship our creator, and fight for good. Most of all, communication is the means by which love is given and received. Helen

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Keller was unstoppable in her quest to communicate because her capacity and desire to love was far greater than her fears and physical limitations. “The quality of your life is equal to the quality of your communication.” Anthony Robbins If you want to improve your life, then you must improve your communication. For the practical purpose of becoming a better communicator I suggest we view communication as a result. Effective communication is a result that we want to achieve. Communication is not something that we do to others. You must realize that we are always communicating. Have you ever heard someone say something like, “We need to communicate more?” The fact is you cannot communicate more. And despite the Warden’s famous speech in the movie, “Cool Hand Luke,” you cannot “fail to communicate.” The truth is, you are

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always communicating. Let me give you an example. Let’s say a family was sitting around their dinner table enjoying a feast and a special celebration. In the meantime, one of the family members decides to stay in their private room and watch television. Wouldn’t you agree that the television watcher in our scenario has communicated plenty? His actions delivered a strong message and feedback can be expected. Taking

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responsibility for your communication means taking responsibility for everything you do or say. It also means taking The responsibility for everything you do NOT do or say. communicating. In order to communicate more powerfully and more effectively you must consciously develop the fundamentals and causes of effective communication. The following ideas will help you communicate more effectively and unleash your potential.

moment you wake up in the morning is the moment you start

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First of all, communicate with a purpose. Often times after I give a talk or a seminar someone will come up to me and say that they share my passion for speaking, and they usually ask me for some advice on how to get started as a professional speaker. I always tell them that if you have a message that’s important enough to you, then you will find a way to deliver it effectively and powerfully. Toast Master is a great organization, but they are not the reason why Martin Luther King moved a nation with his words. When a man or women is driven by a great purpose they tend to be the most powerful communicators on the planet. Always remember that who you are will always be more important than anything you will ever say. When you communicate a message for the purpose of persuasion always know your outcome. In a chaotic world like today clarity is power. You will also find that people who know what they want have the ability to ask for it. If you aren’t

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going to ask for what you want, then don’t even bother showing up. One of my favorite speakers and mentors is a man named Jim Rohn. Jim explained that some people are very smart and very hard workers, but their problem is they are poor askers. They go to the ocean with a teaspoon while others with less ability go to the ocean with a barrel. Guess who walks away with more? Don’t be a poor asker. Be specific and

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bold.

“Ask and you shall receive” Jesus Christ

The quality and power of your communication is determined by the way you live your every day life. I want to share a formula for life that will help you to focus on living a focused and harmonious lifestyle. While studying the most successful people, companies, organizations, and countries I found that they all execute a simple three-step process. 1. Define your values and mission clearly.

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2. Communicate your values and mission effectively. 3. Live your values and mission consistently. Think about the steps in this formula and think about the people you admire most. I believe you will find that the people who are most worthy of our respect, admiration, and love are those who live life consistently with honesty and integrity. They are people who know who they are. They are people who mean what they say. And they are people whose actions mirror their words. Imagine if we lived in a world where people strived to execute this simple and profound formula. As you think about our three-step formula for success you will notice that step two and step three are the steps that take your life to a level of power, influence, and rewards. Unfortunately, most people cannot execute these simple steps because they have never thought about step number one. Before you can communicate and live

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your mission you must first define it. Let me ask you a question. What is your mission in life? Can you state your life’s purpose with clarity? “Are you a wandering generality or a meaningful specific?” Zig Ziglar

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This course is loaded with tools and questions that will help you to execute this awesome formula for success. Now is the time to get serious. Now is the time to start taking power steps towards the future with clarity, purpose, and faith. Remember, that the purpose of success is to become more, because the more we become the more we can give and contribute to others. Let me ask you a question. When you imagine the life of your dreams does your vision include relationships? Have you ever heard of someone who achieved extraordinary success, but found them selves alone at the top? These are sad stories aren’t they? Do you ever wonder how

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this happens? I know I do. There are lots of complicated answers and social and psychological excuses, but it seems to me that it’s just easy to get caught up these days. It’s easy to take the important things for granted. When we loose track of our values and priorities we eventually loose track of the ones we love. Have you noticed that the best way to loose something is to invest your energy somewhere else? I believe that we get lost and start moving in the wrong direction because we have been sold on some bad philosophies along the way. Have you ever stopped yourself from doing something that you knew you would regret later? You probably stopped and questioned your philosophy. In other words, you stopped and asked yourself, “What the heck am I doing? This is not like me. This is not what life is all about.” These are great moments. In these moments we are reintroduced to our spirit. I want you to know that your spirit is accessible to you at all times. You don’t have to access the universe through meditation and achieve higher levels of being. All you have to do is focus on

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doing the right thing and you will find your spirit. I believe you will find your spirit when you are on the path of giving. This sounds simple, but how often in our modern world are we driven by the opportunity to give rather than to receive? Which statement are you more likely to hear? “I’m looking for a spouse who is funny, sexy, confident, secure, and

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who loves me for who I am.” Or “I’m looking for a spouse who loves life as much as I do, someone that I can love and support for the rest of my life.” The fact is we live in what I call a “wish list society.” We are always listing and focusing on what we want, and very seldom do we focus on our capacity to give. How many times have you heard someone say, “He/She doesn’t meet my needs anymore?” Unfortunately, we now believe that the purpose of a relationship is to fulfill our needs. Today, people think that the purpose of everything is to meet our needs. Our parents are supposed to meet our needs. Our schools are supposed to meet our needs. Our employer is supposed to meet our needs. And whatever needs

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these people don’t meet the government is supposed to take care of it. The fact is we have become a selfish group. How can we get the most with the least amount of effort? This has become our focus. Pretty soon we start to think that’s what life is all about. Why can’t we change this attitude? Why are we afraid to

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commit ourselves to selfless giving? Why do we feel rejected when we give and don’t get back? Obviously, if we become upset because we don’t get in return, then the whole purpose of our giving was just to get. If you set out to dedicate your life to giving and contributing to others, do you think you would end up in the poor house? Quite the contrary, when you make your life about giving, the getting takes care of itself. Mother Theresa dedicated her entire life to serving others. Now let me give you an imaginary scenario. Let’s say that something would have happened to

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Mother Theresa, and she suddenly became desperate for personal and financial help, do you think she would have had any trouble finding a few helping hands or hearts? I don’t think so. Givers are the wealthiest people in this life and the next.

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“Ask not what your country can do for you, One of the reasons why people are not but what you can do for your country.” John F. Kennedy generous givers in our society is because they don’t know how. They’ve been sold that giving in a relationship is about making sacrifices and buying gifts. Giving is also about being generous with your energy and attention. Take a day and concentrate on giving someone your undivided attention. Ask them thoughtful and genuine questions. Listen with love. Empathize with their story. And see what happens. Notice that when we are trying to save a relationship or makeup for lost time this is exactly what we do.

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Unfortunately, this is not our mindset most of the time. Again, we find ourselves following a path of destruction when we know better. The truth is you don’t need me to tell you what to do to improve the quality of your life. Wouldn’t you agree that you already know what to do? The problem is we don’t always do what we know. So what does it take? How do we break these patterns and replace them with conscious and powerful living? A friend of mine once told me that whenever he finds himself procrastinating or neglecting his priorities he stops himself and takes some time alone to think. He said that he imagines his life five, ten, and then twenty years into the future as if he continues on his current and destructive path. He told me that in order to be successful you have to become emotionally associated to the future. The challenge in life is that we think today isn’t the most important day of our life. We tend to think that the future is some mystical place far away. But the fact is, your future is being created right now.

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Take a good and honest look into the future. I’m not asking you to dream. I'm asking you to face reality right now and project yourself into the future based on your current beliefs, communication, and actions. If you keep doing what you are doing where will you be in ten years? Twenty years? Sometimes this can be a painful process, but the alternative is much worse…regret.

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“Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows.” Michael Landon

In “A Christmas Carroll” by Charles Dickens, the crotchety Ebenezer Scrooge woke up one Christmas morning a changed man. And so can you! You can change the course of your life right now. And that’s not even the exciting part. The exciting part is that as you change into an even better man or woman

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than you are now you will inspire others to do the same. I want you to know that our time together in this brief course was no accident. I have spent years dreaming about ambitious and sincere people like you all over the world reading my books, sharing great ideas, and becoming a little bit wiser and stronger because of it. I look forward to learning about your success and the great lessons along the way.

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