Getting Back Together


How To Win Back Trust?
By Natalie Arton

Trust is a confidence in someone’s good qualities, above all fairness, honor and truth. It is based on your ability to show these qualities over time in different situations. Trust can be lost in a second (being caught lying) or through the long period of time (failure to stick to your word on multiple occasions). As you can see trust is easy to lose but extremely difficult to win back, because it is a base of any relationship. However, there are a few things you must know if you are wondering how to win back trust of the person that you care about. First of all, if you have betrayed someone’s trust you must be the first one to tell it to that person. Don’t wait until the truth comes up. In this case you will be accused in lying in addition to whatever you have done wrong. Do not make excuses for your actions and do not argue with the person accusing you. It will only make him/her angrier. Admit your mistakes with dignity and clarity. Rather than blaming everyone and everything for your misfortune, accept a full responsibility for your actions. Learn form your mistakes and try to change your behavior. Of course, we are all humans, entitled to make

mistakes, but we also must learn from them and try to avoid them in the future. You have to realize that the person, whose trust you’ve once betrayed, has no reason to believe you again. Your only way to convince him or her that you have changed is to prove it with your actions. For example, if you ex asks you to join him/her for lunch at 1 p.m., do not be late! Make it your priority to be there exactly at 1 p.m. and not a minute later. At first it will probably be hard to win back the trust of the person that you let down, but don’t give up so easily. Even if you hear something like, “I will never forgive you for what you did”, do not be discouraged. Usually these are the words spoken in the heat of the moment and, therefore, they do not correspond with reality. In this case your best course of action would be to leave and come back in a week or so once the person calm down and has enough time to rethink his/her decision not to see you again. I won’t lie to you. Winning back trust is probably one of the hardest tasks you will have to face, but if that person is really important to you, you must do everything in your power to make things right with him/her.

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