Soul Mate Dreams

By Ariadne Green, author of Divine Complement, 2006 "I saw my former lover (male) all dressed in black holding red roses and he said a part of me will always belongs to you."-anonymous dreamer. Why do I keep dreaming about my old flame? Am I missing him or what?
Recurring dreams starring ex-lovers or about a relationship you thought was long over, such as a marriage that ended badly, can be haunting and perplexing. Just when you think you have buried the relationship and have finally let go, a dream unearths the bones from the burial, resurrects the lover and you may find yourself back in the throws of the passionate love affair you so cherished before. The possible dream scenarios are many, from cuddling in bed to fighting like you always did over next to nothing. Dreams like these seem to reconcile a deep sense of loss, sort out the bad residual feelings and somehow make right what went wrong. For a man or a woman who is married to someone else and with children in the next room, a dream of reconciliation with someone from their past may be at best unsettling. One may naturally wonder if they are secretly so dissatisfied with their present

is it that they are in bondage to the dream lover and helplessly subject to their desires? Most may not consider their dream mate is really their soulmate. desires and personal needs. Although not all dream lovers are soul mates or as I prefer to call them Divine Complements. pursuits and desires for reconciliation. . twin souls are forever bound at a dimension of spirit in much the same way that we are connected to God.a promise that is spirit driven. Or. personal ideals. a large number are. such as thoughts. From these dreams one becomes cognoscente that there is a spiritual purpose to the relationship that goes beyond conscious attitudes. an aspect of the oversoul linking twin souls together through a code of light and harmony. Divine Complements or twin souls are mysteriously linked through a heart bond. A signature exists within an invisible heart matrix. The purpose is a divine one. The collaboration at the otherworldly dimensions is realized in dreams as the consciousness of one collides with the consciousness of their twin to share intimate details about their lives. Divine Complements collaborate and interact in the psychic realms even when a relationship in real life is deemed impossible. Therefore. pointing to a mysterious soul-to-soul connection that lingers beyond the duration of an ordinary commitment. This bond is of a divine nature and higher order than emotional bonds or psychic connections and represents a sacred and spiritual covenant. promises to others.relationship that they are looking for a higher volume of love with someone from their past.

abandoned. The well laid out promises they made for this incarnation in their soul contract. Longing and Pining Dreams The emotional connection we feel for our Divine Complement is a bond of human love. buried. may fall to irreconcilable differences or a poverty of love. Twin souls part without having had the opportunity to reconcile the past. This love can be preserved. this commitment has origins are before the fall. they drift apart only to reunite once in a while in the dreamscape to share in the joy of their continued communion at the heart. Too many times however the soul and spirit driven connection is not enough to outweigh the problems associated with conflicting personalities. respected and prized or it can be trampled on.Called the Stellar Promise. This signature at the heart has lasted for eons and drives twin souls together to fulfill their life purpose together lifetime after lifetime. such as making up for their mistakes in past lives. If and when they meet again the spiritual chemistry between them is hopefully enough to ignite their hearts to recognize the deep bond as greater than any romantic ideal. and even destroyed . when both were birth out of a creative miracle of God's intention of comparable partnership. When all goes as planned twin souls become intimate and commit to a lasting partnership or friendship. Falling from grace.

The emotional bond with our Divine Complement is doubled in strength because of an even stronger soul and spirit connection. they drown their creativity making it hard to fulfill the more independent goals they have for their life including maybe finding someone else. Those who hang on too long tend to recreate the pain of their loss by revisiting the memories of the relationship over and over again. finances recover. Full of guilt. Prolonged emotional attachment. They may daydream about the good times and ponder unanswerable questions about what went wrong. They just can't accept its over. Our human condition is appreciated for its ability to bond deeply with another human being. however. one that is impossible to dissolve completely because soul mates share a room in each other's hearts forever. Life may go on. anger. It seems that they are set adrift on an endless sea of restless waves until the heart gives way to acceptance and forgiveness. growing old together and fulfilling their children's future side by side. Some may never be able to let go completely. they should arrive at some level of understanding that even a twin soul relationship can end abruptly and without closure. but the subconscious clings. can cause one to pine for their twin for years. At some point. Some will dream of reunion even when their soul mate has buried the friendship and danced on its grave.by our carelessness. Even more heart wrenching is the evaporation of the dreams and hopes for the future. In this case. Nothing in their life seems to have the same magic and they have little passion for what does. and grief. a dream where .

they are reunited again may merely be the result of an unconscious desire to reconcile the loss. at night he's the leading man in most of her dreams. The 'dream reunion' will fill each with a strong sense of wellbeing and even joy. In such a case. The dreams' scenarios though always different. Although she insisted she seldom thinks about him during the day. The Soul Mourns For others. It seems to temporarily satisfy a deep subconscious need for continued love. pointed to a continuing desire to reconcile feelings of guilt and responsibility about the distance now between . a dreamer may find their "twin" showing up in their dreams expressing love and devotion. The karma weighs heavy on the soul and a solution is sought. especially at times when they may need a helping hand. The soul itself appears to have a lot at stake in keeping old promises alive. Soul contracts that were laid to fulfill the promises for the incarnation that could not be completed because there was not sufficient time. may necessitate the soul stay connected in the ethers. It is as if the dream arrives with a magical elixir to mend the broken heart. It is pure wish fulfillment. I ran into a woman recently who when I told her I was a dream expert disclosed that she was plagued by dreams about her ex-husband. one that will fulfill the Stellar Promise as well as the promises for the life. A "reconciling dream" attempts to reconcile the losses even when there is no point to a real reconciliation. the bond and yearning may not be as conscious a choice.

When psychic connections persist they are experienced as anywhere from being tuned in from time to time to sharing an overcrowded psychic space and feeling overrun with unwanted emotions. Intuitively. has suffered a loss or is in the midst of a personal crisis. her soul was committed to advance his soul through a soulful communion of nighttime communications. . They may even to well up suddenly with unexplainable emotions never suspecting they are picking up on their soul mates mood through psychic channels. For those remaining loyal and steadfast to their soul contracts. In her case. their willingness to see their Divine Compliment through tough times may add to their own suffering. I could see that they were Divine Complements who still had a great deal of karma to clear up for a past life as well as a great deal of continued love housed in their hearts for each other. She was nurturing him in the only way she could-. They will unconsciously run to the rescue taking on the karma of their soul mate. Psychic bonds between intimate partners can present challenges after two have separated. They may wake up feeling exhausted and unable to figure out a reason for their restless sleep. It is not unusual for soul mates to sense when the other is in danger.them. These psychic experiences constitute a strong psychic bond that is undeniable and that can be difficult shake.at a distance. A dream may even spell out the details of their soul mate's crisis offering an open window view of their personal dilemmas. not realizing how overburdened by their soul mate's problems they are.

but she felt it was time to let him go especially because she was now happily married to someone else. making their way into their dreams at night for a chance to communicate. She was blaming herself for her shortcomings. She was revisiting the relationship. who was very much alive. soothing some of the sense of loss and instilling faith in an afterlife. Admittedly. The dream was revealing unconscious shame and feelings of guilt surrounding the end of their relationship. However. In the dream.The Death of a Spiritual Spouse A soul mate who has left the earthly plane may revisit their spiritual spouse for quite some time. She mentioned that in truth his family had always embraced her as one of the family. her soul mate's tragic death had left a vacuum in her heart. The dream that stood out was one in which she was in a house with her sweetheart. his family was accusing her of not treating him with the love and respect he deserved and she was defending against their allegations. A young women who was anxious to uncover why her old high school and college sweetheart was the character in so many dreams. shared her dream with me. The shear fact that he died suddenly and at such a young age was . not all such dreams are actual visitations. despite the fact that she couldn't consciously admit any wrongdoing. These dreams are remarkable otherworldly communications and often touch the heart of the dreamer like nothing else can. therefore it was hard to imagine that they were actually harboring any anger or casting any real blame on her.

. It did. The dream illuminated their destiny and coaxed him enough to make a move to make his dream come true. He told me that shortly after the dream he heard from her cousin that she had divorced recently and he couldn't resist ringing her up and asking her out.enough cast a level of shame on her. I ran into a man recently who said that he reconnected with his Divine Complement. Second Chance Dreams Some dreams may hold a secret promise of fulfillment and signal it's time to reunite for a second chance. someone he dated in college. If the dream reoccurs it may be worthwhile to consider that it may be paving the way for a second chance. Discerning whether a dream offers any hope for a second chance or whether it is pure wish fulfillment is difficult. "Second chance dreams" come as signs that the door is open for a future reunion and that perhaps a phone call can smooth the way for a new beginning. after he had a dream that told him that he would marry her. Her unconscious just couldn't let go of the fact that she would never be able to see him again and make up for any times when she fell short of her commitment to love.