Buddha never even mentions the word ‘love’.

He was so
afraid that for twenty years continuously he did not allow
women to be initiated into his commune – because women
are impossible. It is impossible for a woman not to be the
heart. It is very easy for the man not to be the heart. The
woman is the heart and the man is the head. Man is a desert
and woman is a garden. Mind is a desert and heart is a
garden. Don’t live only into the desert of the mind; go also
into the garden of the heart.

The searching mind distracts you from reality. The
searching mind is always looking into the future; it is never
here-now. The searching mind cannot be silent; the
searching mind cannot be at ease. The asking mind is the
mind of a beggar. Mind is a desert, it never has enough.