Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Phil Christian
TBD
Kaye Little
Michelle Griffin
psachair@aisb.hu
Kayelittle25@gmail.com
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jean@delaroullou.com
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kreinicke@gppi.net
The PSA is a parent-run forum and functions as a support system for parents, and as
an advocate for a positive school culture and community spirit. The PSA Board
represents the parent community, and also supports the School Administration
and/or School Board by acting in an advisory capacity when appropriate. All
parents of AISB students are members of the PSA.
The PSA sponsors various events designed to provide information, promotes twoway communication between the school and the parent community, introduces
parents to how the school operates, and helps maintain quality education.
For more information about the PSAs functions and responsibilities, policies and
procedures, and election procedures, please refer to the PSA by-laws which are
posted on the AISB website on the parent portal (www.aisb.hu). A copy can also be
obtained upon request from the PSA Chair or PSA Secretary.
The School Director and the Community Liaison Officer sit on the PSA Board as nonvoting members. The monthly board meeting date and times are listed on the
parent portal of the AISB website. Minutes of the monthly board meetings are also
posted on the parent portal of the AISB website.
PSA Division Meetings:
Each Division holds monthly meetings chaired by the PSA Representatives who sit
on the PSA Board. All division parents are encouraged to attend to learn what is
happening in their division and to bring their questions, concerns and suggestions.
PSA Division Meetings are open to all parents. Some division meetings are
scheduled throughout the year at special times often coordinated with other events.
Please check the School Activities Calendar, the divisional PSA bulletin boards or the
PSA section of the Parent Portal for the schedule of those meetings.
Individual Action/Interest Groups: All parents, teachers, and students are
members of the PSA and are represented at the Division Parent Meetings:
1. Room Parents: Each classroom in Elementary School is represented by a
Room Parent. Room Parents help teachers organize special activities for the
class, such as holiday parties and field trips, by communicating and soliciting
volunteers from among the classroom parents. Room Parents and Parent
Contacts may also work with teachers in the classroom as needed. Room
Parents help classmates and parents get to know each other. Room Parents
keep their classroom parents up-to-date on all-school activities and concerns.
COMMUNICATION AT AISB
The AISB Administration, Faculty, School Board and PSA Board all endorse the
system of Direct Communications as the most effective way for parents to handle a
concern about his or her childs academic program or other concerns related to
their school experience. Direct Communications means that the parent should
first approach the person most closely connected to resolve the concern.
Academic Issues:
First contact your (homeroom) teacher and then your division principal.
With most academic issues, the parents first contact should be with the teacher.
Contact can be made at Parent-Teacher Conferences, or by letter, e-mail, telephone
or a scheduled meeting.
If the parent and the teacher cannot agree upon a resolution, or if the agreed-upon
actions are not carried out, or prove to be ineffective, parents are then welcome to
bring the issue to the attention of the Principal. If an effective solution is not found,
the parent should then bring his or her concern to the Director.
This process not only provides the most direct route to resolving the problem, it
also strengthens the relationship between the parent and teacher. Often,
problems turn out to be a simple miscommunication.
Parents are encouraged to be honest and constructive with teachers when bringing
up concerns. If a parent is uncomfortable with consulting a teacher for any reason,
they are encouraged to contact the division counselor for advice in how to approach
the problem. The counselors are both teachers and student advocates, so they can
often offer very useful insight to both parent and teacher.
Suggestions for Parents
Here are a few ideas that will enhance productive discussions between parents and
teachers:
1.
2.
Focus your message on your own child and the impact on him/her. Avoid
generalizations such as all the kids feel
Report only your own direct observations (Jimmy does no homework,
or Sally has cried for three nights straight over her math homework).
Avoid spreading rumors or reporting hearsay as fact.
3.
Focus, at least initially, on the problem rather than the solution you have
already decided upon. Generating a conversation about the nature of the
problem you have observed gives you and the teacher a chance to explore
what is wrong, and to share perspectives and identify the best solution.
Whenever possible, use specific incidents to illustrate your concern. Joey wrote his
essay in 15 minutes and he earned an A is a clearer illustration of Joey not being
challenged than saying Joey is bored with English.
If you are still wary of speaking directly to the teacher about your concern, we
encourage you to contact the division counselor for advice in how to approach the
problem. Another suggestion would be to talk to your childs favorite teacher about
strategies you might consider. That person will probably not be able to solve the
problem, but may be able to help by offering good advice about how to approach the
teacher, or if necessary, the Principal.
If a parent feels that they have made a good-faith effort to resolve an issue and are
not satisfied with the answers or the results they have received, they are then
advised to consult the PSA Board.
Issues Related to School Culture
Issues relating to the school environment, such as discipline, behavior, and codes of
conduct, are more difficult to resolve through the Direct Communication system
because these types of issues affect a wide range of children in different ways and it
is often difficult for families to gauge just how their child is personally affected. This
does not discount, however, the fact that the school culture has a direct effect on
student focus, productivity, character, and mental health and must be addressed.
Suggestions for Parents
It is the role of the PSA to provide positive guidance to parents, not only to help new
parents settle in and become involved and informed about how AISB operates, but
also to assist parents who may have questions or concerns about their childs
experience at AISB.
Is It About:
Go To:
Students:
Your child
More children
Class level
Grade level
Division level
More divisions or school wide level
Initiative for parents on a division level
Initiative for parents school wide
Something else
Academic issues:
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Health-related:
1. School nurses:
Sue Spencer or Aranka Barlay
+36-26-556-079
2. Exceptional situations:
also the Principal
Financial:
Transport:
School culture:
Cafeteria:
All other:
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TEENS IN BUDAPEST
The Parent School Association (PSA), with the help of Administration and students,
decided to publish this section to address the issue of teens in Budapest. To be
independently mobile is the desire of many teens. While parents cope with their
teen's desire for independence, questions concerning safety, social issues, alcohol,
and drugs take center stage.
Budapest is generally considered to be a relatively safe city by many expatriates.
However, violent incidents involving teens do occur. As foreigners and perhaps not
reading local papers and watching local TV, we may have a false sense of security
that Budapest citizens do not. We advise you to stay in close contact with your local
embassy for the latest information on health and safety in Hungary.
Our teens generally exercise good judgment. They travel in groups and look out for
each other. However, knowledge of the laws in Hungary, along with clear family
expectations and responsibilities, are necessary for peace of mind to exist for all.
The ultimate decision regarding behavior and curfew remains with the family. We
intend to inform parents and teens of present Hungarian laws and practices. We
hope this serves as a guide for family discussion and clarifies concerns that may
exist. Please notice that the information is made by the PSA as a guideline for you.
The PSA cannot be held responsible for your actions and the following
consequences.
Teens Out and About
Teens new to Budapest might like to know what some of their peers are up to.
Budapest Malls are a popular place to meet up with friends. Mammut Shopping Mall
is popular for movies, cafs, bowling and pool. MOM Park also has movies and many
cafs. On the Pest side, Westend City Center is also a favorite for movies and cafs.
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An evening out can cost between 4,000-10,000 ft. Curfew times for students vary.
Most students seem not to go out during the school week.
Many students use public transportation. The buses, trams and metro are reliable
and fast. Authorities checking for valid tickets on public transportation regularly
stop students. A fine has to be paid directly by those who try traveling without a
ticket, with an invalid ticket, pass or travel card. For the most up to date schedules
and fees on public transportation check their web site at http://bkv.hu/en/
Taxis are best when returning late in the evening; however late-night bus service is
now available to most locations. City Taxi is the choice for most students. (Phone
+36-1-211-1111). Always call a taxi for your own safety.
Budapest is for the most part, a comparatively safe city. As with any city, students
should be aware of their surroundings, watch out for their money, and don't do
anything you wouldn't do at home. In particular, many parents feel it is more
important than ever to stay in groups and not travel home alone at night. Common
requests from parents include a call or SMS when on the way home and to never
pick up a taxi from the street always call for one. Students need to be aware that
Szell Kalman tr (Moszkva tr) and other large transportation stations, while
generally fine during the day and early evening hours, are far less pleasant and safe
past 9 or 10 p.m. (21:00 / 22:00).
Teens and Drinking
Officially, it is against the law for any bar or club to sell alcoholic drinks to teens
under the age of 18. Although I.Ds are rarely checked, it is illegal to sell alcohol to
minors. Both the club and the student can be punished for underage drinking.
Students can be taken to a police station and parents may be held responsible and
have to pay a fine. In addition, the teen may have to go to court and face some form
of sentencing. Teens need to be 18 in order to buy liquor in a package store. Again,
ID may not be checked, but if asked, it is against the law and the shopkeeper will be
fined. The alcohol will be confiscated.
Teens and Drugs
It is illegal to buy, sell and use drugs of what is considered the "recreational" variety,
as well as the harder drugs. That is to say, cannabis, hash, and xTc, are all illegal.
These are the three drugs that are most available to students. If a teen is caught
using any of these drugs there is a possibility of jail time. If the teen is a foreigner,
there is the potential for the entire family to be asked to leave Hungary. The
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consequences for drug use and/or selling, if caught, are more severe in Hungary
than they are in neighboring European countries.
Driving Under the Influence
In Hungary there is ZERO TOLERANCE for driving under any state of drug or alcohol
use. If you are caught driving under the influence of alcohol or drugs, your license
will be revoked.
Teens and Driving
Once you are 16, you may begin lessons to obtain an international driving license
here in Budapest. There are several options for English language Driving Schools.
The course consists of three parts: Theoretical, Driving Practice and Examinations.
In the Theoretical Course you learn about Highway Code, First Aid and Technical
Knowledge (how a car works). There is a formal exam on these areas.
Driving Practice consists of 29 lessons of 50 minutes each of driving on the road
before you can take the one hour exam. You can take extra lessons if you feel you
need them. The driving exam consists of 2 parts: vehicle handling and driving test
in traffic.
Traveling Teens and Visas
Many AISB students travel to other countries during the school year through sports,
clubs or music organizations. It is important to check with your embassy to see if a
visa is needed and check with the embassy of the country to visit to find out all the
steps to take. Check with the school group (e.g. Athletic Director) to see what may
be done to expedite the process. Sometimes the process can take a long time, often
3-4 weeks.
Parental Responsibility
Parenting a teen at home is difficult enough. Parenting a teen abroad is even more
complicated. There is always a fine line between allowing your teen to become
independent while developing their sense of responsibility. Independence is
important, but so is the need for involvement in family activities and routines. In
Budapest, it is quite easy to act independent and more grown-up, with the easy
access to public transportation, clubs and alcohol.
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Healthy teenagers can learn how to adapt to changing circumstances. They can take
responsibility for the consequences of their actions and decisions. Responsibility
must accompany independence. All too often teenagers grab the independence and
push away the responsibility. This is a balancing act that requires many years of
fine-tuning. The role of parents at this stage should be compared to a manager who
needs to step in if the teen makes decisions that put his/her life at risk (i.e.
substance abuse or other life-threatening behavior).
During these years, our children should develop a complete understanding of the
immediate and long-term effects of alcohol and drugs. It is ultimately the parents'
job to make sure their children have the needed information. Family values, rules,
and agreements with teens become the guiding principal. Open communication is
imperative.
Emotional Health
In addition to the normal transitions of adolescent development, moving to or living
abroad during the teen years may present additional emotional challenges.
Culture Shock. Culture shock is the initial reaction your child will have to his/her
new and uncertain environment. Keep an open mind toward Budapest and its
values. While you may feel it is important to adhere steadfastly to your own value
system as a source of strength and security, your teenager may find it easier to
adapt if there is more flexibility. Identify several core values that you want to
maintain, while at the same time allow your teen to experience the richness of
international living.
Stress. We all experience different degrees of pressure. In addition to the abovementioned social pressures, academic pressure may cause anxiety. If you see signs
that your child is struggling academically, contact the appropriate teachers, and/or
principal.
Depression. Besides allowing for a grieving period for the loss of the previous life
and friends when we move to Budapest, we should work hard at stimulating our
children to help them overcome feelings of alienation and rootlessness. Early
symptoms of depression can include feelings of anxiety, panic or fear. The following
are some other signs of depression: negative or anti-social behavior, wanting to
leave home, restlessness, sulkiness, aggression, unwillingness to cooperate in family
projects, withdrawal from social activities, hiding out in one's room, school
difficulties, poor grades, difficulty getting along with teachers and peers, inattention
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Funzine frequently offers you nice tips on how to spend your weekend. Also,
look for the Budapest Sun (http://www.budapestsun.hu) or Out and About
and other special magazines available for you at the school reception area
detailing upcoming events.
Happy Exploring!!!
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Mndy, Ivn:
Mricz, Zsigmond:
rkeny, Istvn:
Santa, Ferenc:
Poetry
Weres, Sndor:
On the Balcony
Seven Pennies and Other Stories
One Minute Stories
God in the Wagon. Short Stories
Give or Take A Day, Contemporary Hungarian Short
Stories
The Kiss, Twentieth Century Hungarian Short Stories
Nothings Lost. 25 Short Stories
Eternal Moment
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OTHER SERVICES
Pets
Boarding and Training Bernadette +36 309 543 761
Taxi Service:
City Taxi +36 1 211 1111 http://www.citytaxi.hu
1191 Budapest, Attila t. 49-53
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SECURITY REMINDERS
Courtesy of: The Security Handbook, American Embassy of Budapest.
The following is from information prepared and issued by past PSA, and is
excerpted from the Security Handbook, American Embassy of Budapest, with
additions from NAWA members.
With crime ever increasing in Budapest, the following security precautions can help
you and your dependents reduce your risk and exposure to becoming a victim to
crime.
Common-sense home security tips:
o Keep all doors routinely locked whether away or at home.
o Use shutters on doors and windows (if your residence is equipped
with them).
o Use exterior home lighting at night. When away, make your residence
look occupied: use a timer to turn lights on and off at varying times.
o When away, leave a contact number and a set of keys with a friend or
a friendly neighbor. Have them check your home periodically.
o Never open the door to a stranger or unexpected messenger; instruct
your children and hired help to observe the same precautions.
o Resist giving housekeepers, gardeners or other hired help keys; if you
must, give them one. If you dismiss a hired help, get all keys back first.
Consider changing the locks.
o Clearly instruct your hired help that, besides them, no one is to enter
your residence without your permission. Make sure they know how
to reach you should a problem arise.
o Keep your inventory of personal property updated. Include photos
and serial numbers when appropriate. Keep a copy at your office or
other accessible, safe place.
o Post important and emergency telephone numbers near (all) your
phone(s).
o If you have an alarm system, USE IT at night and every time you leave
your home. Read the fine print of your personal insurance policy; you
may only be covered if the alarm was in use!
Common-sense personal security tips:
o Instruct children never to open doors to strangers or to give out
family information to a stranger over the telephone.
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o Know where to reach your children at all times, and they should know
how to reach you.
o Instruct children never to approach or get into cars with strangers.
o In the event of a problem, make sure your children know they should
go to a friends house or at least contact a friend. This should be predetermined.
o Keep all passports and official documents current; make a copy of all
documents and keep them in a safe place away from the originals.
Pick-pocketing, purse snatching and other types of theft are a rising problem.
Be especially careful in tourist areas, Metro, train and bus stations.
o Avoid carrying large sums of money.
o Dont exchange currency on the street: it is illegal and you could be
arrested.
o Have a car alarm installed in your vehicle; Hungarian insurance
companies now require them in most cases.
o Car break-ins and auto theft has become a serious problem. Park in
well-lighted areas if possible. Dont leave valuables or anything that
gives your name and address or might otherwise attract attention, in
parked cars.
o If you have a garage, use it and keep both vehicle and garage locked.
Take all your valuables in the house with you when going to bed for
the night, even if your car is in a garage. This includes car keys,
laptop, purse, mobile phones, etc.
o Make sure you keep your spare car keys in a safe place. If your car is
stolen, you need both sets of keys in order to claim loss from any
insurance company.
o Vary times and mode of transportation to and from your regular
destinations, dont be predictable
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sexually assaulted, do not bath or wash your clothes until a doctor has
had a chance to conduct a physical examination.
o Report the incident to your Embassy. To replace a stolen passport
contact your Embassy during normal working hours. If the embassy is
closed, there will be a duty officer who should be able to help in the
meantime. The duty officer can put you in touch with the appropriate
person or help you reach them. While the Embassies can assist, they
cannot take any steps in lieu of the police. The victim can make an
official complaint, which the Embassy can forward to the Ministry of
Foreign Affairs Consular Section for action. The Embassies also have a
list of lawyers available should you need legal advice or assistance.
o Be proactive! Keep emergency numbers handy. Keep a photocopy of
your passport and visa and other crucial documents. Keep the
numbers and phone numbers for your credit cards in a separate place
so you can cancel them if theyre stolen. Stay alert when youre on the
street. Keep the name and phone number of a friend or colleague who
speaks both Hungarian and English handy in case youre ever in the
need of a friendly, reliable interpreter.
Please discuss these issues with your family and review these
suggestions from time to time!
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EMERGENCY NUMBERS
Hungarian European Emergency Number (any language)
Ambulance (public)
Fire Dept.
Police
104
105
107
General Inquiries
Domestic Inquiries
International Inquiries
Auto Club Help Number
Tourist Police (24 hrs)
197
198
199
188
06-1-438-8080
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06-26-556-079
06-26-556-031
Disclaimer
The information provided in this guide is meant only to provide you with names and
addresses of physicians and health care facilities. It in no way serves as a validation
of their credentials or their competency. You should carefully seek references
whenever using medical services in Hungary.
The following information has graciously been reprinted from the American
Embassy Medical Guide. We thank them for their permission to reprint this
material.
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daytime hours when the system is run frequently. It is recommended that you allow
your tap to run freely for 2-3 minutes before drawing water for drinking purposes.
Considerations should be given to children age 6 months to 6 years to have their
blood lead levels checked.
Fluoride and Oral Health
The tap water is deficient in fluoride, so parents should obtain a suitable fluoride
preparation to give to their children to prevent cavities. Daily fluoride supplements
are recommended for children from two weeks of age until 14 years of age. The
daily use of fluoridated toothpaste and dental floss has been shown to prevent
dental caries and gum disease in adult populations. Remember to visit your dentist
on home leave or while on R&R!
Traffic Accidents/Seat Belt Use/Mobile Phones
Motor vehicle accidents are one of the highest causes of death in people overseas. In
many overseas locations, including Budapest, emergency medical care is not readily
available or is even non-existent. Wearing a seat belt is a must! Seat belts and child
safety seats provide the single greatest margin of safety in an accident.
It is prohibited to hold your mobile phone in your hand while driving.
Child Seat
Effective January 1, 2002 the following laws were introduced:
All children under the age of 12 or less than 150 cm tall must be in the back
seat of the car and wearing a seat belt.
All children under the age of 1 are required to be in a rear-facing car seat.
All children under the age of 8 are required to be in a car seat/booster seat
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ADDRESS
Frankel Le t. 22
III
IV
VI
VII
IX
X
XI
XII
XIII
XIV
Szentendrei t 2/a
Pozsonyi u. 19
Terz krt. 41
Rikczi t 39
lloi t. 121
Liget tr 3
Kosztolnyi Dezso tr 11
Alkots U. 1/b
Gyongyosi Stny 1
Bosnyk U. 1/a
Ors vezr tere
Jkai Mr u. 2-4
Pesti ut. 170/a
Thkly t. 3-5
Ady Endre u. 1
Aruhaz ter 8
Kaldor Adolf u. 3-7
XVI
XVII
XVIII
XXI
XXII
PHONE
(+36-1)212 4311/
(+36-1)212 4406
(+36-1)388 6528
(+36-1)379 3008
(+36-1)311 4439
(+36-1)314 3694
(+36-1)215 3800
(+36-1)260 1687
(+36-1)466 6494
(+36-1)355 4691
(+36-1)329 8401
(+36-1)383 0391
(+36-1)252 999
(+36-1)407 5632
(+36-1)257 3871
(+36-1)290 3047
(+36-1)283 0110
(+36-1)278 0608
(+36-1)226 0126
(+36-1)333 5079
00(1800)222 1222
(+36-1)224 9090
(+36-1)392 0500
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HEALTH INFORMATION
This is important information to have with you at all times. This is a sample of a
form that you should take with you when you visit a doctor in Hungary. The
answers to the questions on this form you should have translated into Hungarian
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